Speaker 1: From Hollywood. See you, thank you for listening to us.
Speaker 1: Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest. You brought up A day
Speaker 1: in the life the video I posted somorrow. We'll get
Speaker 1: to that, all right. Well, this is what you've been
Speaker 1: asking me to do for for years, is post a
Speaker 1: video of what a day in the life. I loved it.
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it so much. I don't even know how
Speaker 1: long it was. But I could have had more. That
Speaker 1: could be serious. Can't you just be content with one
Speaker 1: day in the light because I don't know what the week,
Speaker 1: what day of the week was that I can't remember.
Speaker 1: It was such a drag to have to shoot every
Speaker 1: Oh I've done one of those Max, our old web
Speaker 1: guy made me do that like last year, and how
Speaker 1: to like brush my teeth and for my breakfast. I
Speaker 1: couldn't figure out how to shoot myself driving to work,
Speaker 1: going to bed, saying swiping the key card, this is
Speaker 1: the last day of my life. Actually all this work,
Speaker 1: you're in bed filming yourself. You're like, I was in bed.
Speaker 1: Did you see I was in bed? Yeah? I loved it.
Speaker 1: Did you see me? Did you see my good nights?
Speaker 1: Did you stay till the end for the big is
Speaker 1: it seven minutes long? It goes by fast. I got
Speaker 1: over here. Ryan really talks to the camera like it's
Speaker 1: actually kind of cute, and he's like, hell down, that's yeah,
Speaker 1: I have to come back to that scene. It. No,
Speaker 1: I haven't seen. Oh I got it was premium content.
Speaker 1: I was like, I was going to text you actually,
Speaker 1: and I said, you know what, I'm gonna wait till
Speaker 1: I see him, which is like the restraint. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to be better about personal time. Your coffee machine gives
Speaker 1: me anxiety. Why it just looks like a Starbucks. He's like,
Speaker 1: I like to roast. I like to grind my beans myself,
Speaker 1: and even though it takes longer, enjoy the ceremony. Don't
Speaker 1: sound like that, but you know what, I feel like
Speaker 1: that just really flushes you out, Pete. Are you with
Speaker 1: us on this? I'm sorry you? Hi? Hello, Yeah, this
Speaker 1: is We'll talk about it later, Pete. So your friend
Speaker 1: is proposing soon. What's going on? Yeah? Thanks? Ryan? So, um,
Speaker 1: he's supposing to his girlfriend and he was really excited
Speaker 1: to show off the ring. Um. So I looked at
Speaker 1: it and it was kind of one of those like
Speaker 1: wow moments when I saw it Uh, so it's beautiful.
Speaker 1: He told me all about it, the type of diamond,
Speaker 1: but he wouldn't stop talking about what a good deal
Speaker 1: he got on it. Um. So he's a good friend,
Speaker 1: and we had a few drinks and I kind of
Speaker 1: got the price out of him. Um, since he wouldn't
Speaker 1: stop talking about it, and based on what he said
Speaker 1: and honestly what he makes, I was expecting to hear
Speaker 1: that this was at least like a dollar ring. Um.
Speaker 1: He was excited to tell me that it was less
Speaker 1: than half that. So now I'm all for bargain hunting. Um.
Speaker 1: But kind of like major red flag went up after
Speaker 1: hearing about the details of the ring. So my girlfriend
Speaker 1: and I looked up the jeweler and we did a
Speaker 1: little homework just because while what a deal, and also
Speaker 1: I think she might be sending me some hence my
Speaker 1: way shop. But anyway, um, based on what we saw
Speaker 1: online and about the jeweler, we are sure that he
Speaker 1: got scammed. So we found reviews that people saying the
Speaker 1: guy's a scammer. Uh, people saying they got their their
Speaker 1: rings and diamonds are praised by a third party and
Speaker 1: it wasn't a real diamond, and we think based on
Speaker 1: everything you said in the price, the same things happening
Speaker 1: to him. Um so, I mean he's a little gullible sometimes,
Speaker 1: but we're we're like, sure, this is what's happening. It's
Speaker 1: not a real diamond, and it's gotta be fake. So
Speaker 1: now I'm in this scenario here, like, do I tell
Speaker 1: him I don't want to embarrass them? Yeah? You have.
Speaker 1: You gotta tell him. You can't let him. You're gonna
Speaker 1: be sound finds out later you knew and you want to.
Speaker 1: I try. I m to warn you, but I didn't
Speaker 1: want to, you know, bother you with it. You gotta
Speaker 1: tell him, not have to mean anybody getting scammed if
Speaker 1: you think they are, No, they are you more information.
Speaker 1: You gotta tell him. That's what a friend would do. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and just be honest. I was looking at this jeweler
Speaker 1: for myself for sure. Yeah, you gotta be. You gotta
Speaker 1: tell him, man, you can't hold that information because what
Speaker 1: if it really is a scam? We gotta nip that
Speaker 1: in the bud. Are you can send an anonymous email? No? Yeah, alright,
Speaker 1: so Pete, you know what to do here? Yeah, good luck.
Speaker 1: It sounds like sounds like you're next. Yeah, well I'll
Speaker 1: fingers cross, but we'll see you. Thank you so much,
Speaker 1: all right, buddy, good luck, appreciate it, right, take care
Speaker 1: alright bye. Yeah, I think you know, there's no question
Speaker 1: in my mind. You gotta tell him. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: unless he knows and he's okay with it, which is
Speaker 1: a whole other scenario. Lisa's on the line. Hi, Lisa,
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you. Good morning? How are you guys?
Speaker 1: We're doing well. How can we help you? So? Um,
Speaker 1: this is the deal. I have very much been wanting
Speaker 1: to move abroad, um recently so. Um. The only thing
Speaker 1: that's holdings the plan back is my husband is not
Speaker 1: very much on board with it. Um. So we've moved
Speaker 1: all over in the last couple of years the US.
Speaker 1: We most recently moved to North Carolina. But um, that's
Speaker 1: kind of just who we are where. We like to
Speaker 1: travel a lot and see different places. Um. So a
Speaker 1: couple of years ago, um, well more than a couple
Speaker 1: of years ago, like ten years ago, I studied abroad
Speaker 1: in London, and I it is my dream to live there. Um,
Speaker 1: but I just can't seem to convince my husband to
Speaker 1: even like entertain the idea. He won't even come with
Speaker 1: me for a visit to London. And I'm just wondering
Speaker 1: if you guys had like any idea of advice that
Speaker 1: I could used to either like butter him up or
Speaker 1: just that we start to entertain this for me. Oh, Sissy,
Speaker 1: what do you think? It's interesting you say London because
Speaker 1: my sister did this. Her husband got a job out
Speaker 1: there and they moved to England for three years. And
Speaker 1: but she was but she was on board, so it
Speaker 1: was like, you know, it was the opposite. She was
Speaker 1: ready to go. But if you, if you were to
Speaker 1: move there, I'm assuming you would have a job, and
Speaker 1: then what would he do for work or would he
Speaker 1: not have to work? Yeah, so he would work too.
Speaker 1: So we're both teachers and there is um like I
Speaker 1: think just there's just as far as what I've seen,
Speaker 1: an extra call effectation that we need to get to
Speaker 1: move there. But there it seems like there are a
Speaker 1: lot of teaching jobs at the moment there. I'm also
Speaker 1: a wedding photographer. I do get on the side, so
Speaker 1: I could really do that anywhere. Um, so we would
Speaker 1: both be working, but it doesn't seem like it would
Speaker 1: be too difficult to transition. It's a compromise. You just
Speaker 1: have to A marriage is a compromise, and you had
Speaker 1: to be like, look, this is not forever, like do
Speaker 1: this for me now these next few years, and then
Speaker 1: the next thing that you want to do, like I
Speaker 1: will support your dream or whatever you want to do.
Speaker 1: And you just And they also say it's really good
Speaker 1: to embed yourself for a while because you think about
Speaker 1: you'll learn the language too while you're there. You living
Speaker 1: there London, they speak English. But I'm saying people, what
Speaker 1: you're embedded, you learn the language, so you'll really get
Speaker 1: a good handle on it and maybe the accent and
Speaker 1: all the things English. Yeah, no, bet, I mean you'll
Speaker 1: learn there. There's some cultural things you'll learn, like you'll
Speaker 1: have brown sauce and toast and baked beans for breakfast,
Speaker 1: French fries or chips to come out of it. Things
Speaker 1: will come out of it. And uh yeah, but I
Speaker 1: actually want to embed myself somewhere to become part of
Speaker 1: the culture, to learn the language. So I look at
Speaker 1: his just just try and focus on the upside and
Speaker 1: just get there. Also, just getting there and starting things
Speaker 1: can work out. I think so too, or at least
Speaker 1: a visit and then maybe you can convince them. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I hope I will great to at least a visit.
Speaker 1: All right, well, thank you for calling. It seems like
Speaker 1: a high class problem. Seems like a good problem. That alright,
Speaker 1: thank you guys. Okay, Tata? What do they say there?
Speaker 1: Do they say Tata? Said Tata? Cheerio? They say cheerio? Right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But do they say tata when they're leaving? How do
Speaker 1: you say goodbye? If you're London English? Cheers? Cheers? I
Speaker 1: signed my emails all cheers. You sign your emails. You've
Speaker 1: never signed an email to meet you, not to you
Speaker 1: because they're one liners. But when I write an email
Speaker 1: two people outside of like the circle, I don't say
Speaker 1: warmly sinceerially say cheers. Ryan barely drink. It's cheers, but
Speaker 1: it's like it doesn't mean toast, it means chairs may
Speaker 1: for you, it's just what cheers is. You should just
Speaker 1: sign it? Yea yeah, But then I don't confused with Kanye,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh yeah, send me another email.
Speaker 1: I've known you for a hundred years and you've never
Speaker 1: signed cheers in an email. Okay, let me prove it
Speaker 1: to you right now. If I don't do you because
Speaker 1: I'm being informal. But let me call. I'll call a
Speaker 1: person who's worked in my office for twenty years and
Speaker 1: we'll blindly on Hi. Hi, so you're on with us? Hi?
Speaker 1: Everybody h so assist me? Uh doesn't know how I
Speaker 1: formally sign off my emails? Can you tell her? What
Speaker 1: I say? Well? What do I? What do I at
Speaker 1: the end of emails? Don't don't give her hints? Right?
Speaker 1: What do I really? Right? Ryan? You do? What did
Speaker 1: you say it? I can't say again? Cheers, Okay, don't
Speaker 1: do it a lot. She thinks it's weird that I
Speaker 1: sign my emails cheers, cheers. All of them are chairs.
Speaker 1: Everything's cheers. That's cheer. Cheers. Yeah, it's like cheers, good,
Speaker 1: good job, good on yours? Alright? Uh? Sorry? Christ was
Speaker 1: her first guest. I think she's I mean, it is
Speaker 1: a little out of the blue and we call on
Speaker 1: the air, I too would have been taken aback. If
Speaker 1: you guys are doing this show and you called me
Speaker 1: say hey, you're on the air, like, oh god, well,
Speaker 1: I don't know, like it's your show. Go ahead. So
Speaker 1: if I were to ask you, who has stink your feet?
Speaker 1: Men or women? What would you say, stink your stink
Speaker 1: your feet when you think about it, like I would
Speaker 1: have smellier, stinkier feet. Is that a guy or is
Speaker 1: it a girl. I don't think I can pick a
Speaker 1: gender on this. I think as you do with the
Speaker 1: type of person could be either gender. Okay, fair enough,
Speaker 1: And that's kind of the argument that happened here with
Speaker 1: Procter and Gamble. They raised a stink the other day
Speaker 1: with this social media ad claiming that women's feet smell
Speaker 1: five times worse than men's but not if you have
Speaker 1: really I I've seen women's feet before, yeah, never have
Speaker 1: they stunk. And I find that the women I know
Speaker 1: take more care of their feet than the men I know.
Speaker 1: So then one would argue, if you had to pick
Speaker 1: a side, maybe men have stink your feet, not women.
Speaker 1: So I don't believe this claim, and everybody like was
Speaker 1: up in arms. Um. They said that this advertisement was sexist. Um.
Speaker 1: But then they claimed that the reason they said this
Speaker 1: was that women generally don't wear socks, which then turns
Speaker 1: their shoes into like essentially a sauna, and that's why.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I feel like guys feet like socks
Speaker 1: or no, socks still stink. I think so, and they're growing,
Speaker 1: not just the aroma, the appearance your feet. Let me
Speaker 1: break your feet out and always your feet. Take your
Speaker 1: sock off, Take your shoe off. Don't have you know
Speaker 1: what this? Take it off. What are you wearing right now?
Speaker 1: Are you in socks and shoes? I'm we'll see I'm
Speaker 1: wearing your your sockless, aren't you. I'm sorry, I have
Speaker 1: a socklet. Okay, that's a little sole to. Your feet
Speaker 1: are awful, like look at his feet. Look like we
Speaker 1: just need to do a little pummice like us, a
Speaker 1: little just a little scrub on the heels. But they're
Speaker 1: not pretty, tubs, They're not pretty. Don't feat shame tubs. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not feat shaming tubs. I've not been with it.
Speaker 1: You literally just said they're not pretty. That's not nice.
Speaker 1: Well I'm they're not being nice for a second. Give
Speaker 1: me a break. I think you can beautify those can
Speaker 1: look out, Look out your thumb, look out your thumb.
Speaker 1: Toes as big as your middle toe. Like, you don't
Speaker 1: have descending size the big toe. He has all the
Speaker 1: same sized toes. No, don't get a pedic here together
Speaker 1: after this. I just I just got one. I just
Speaker 1: got one. You can always have it. I just I
Speaker 1: just don't have the patience to sit through. I always say, hey,
Speaker 1: can not do all the buffy stuff coming, Just go fast? Well,
Speaker 1: don't you want the massage and all this in the
Speaker 1: scrub and all that. I want to get out of
Speaker 1: there fast, Like how fast can I get in? And
Speaker 1: now why are you there? Like? Because any I want
Speaker 1: to keep my toes clean because over time, and also
Speaker 1: it's good hygienics. Right, over time it can cause problems.
Speaker 1: But I've never seen toes like that. But your girlfriend
Speaker 1: talked about it before to you. She noticed that. Isn't
Speaker 1: it funny? Everyone's feet are so different. He has the
Speaker 1: same size toe for every toe. I need to see
Speaker 1: it up close. Well, listen, I'll send him your way anytime.
Speaker 1: All right, let's get to the morning hack, and let's
Speaker 1: get to the quote of the day. Have you ever
Speaker 1: thought about which floors in a hotel are the safest?
Speaker 1: Isn't it you said you think about the height or
Speaker 1: the right the floor you're on. I enjoy a high floor.
Speaker 1: I feel like it's quieter up there, and um, usually
Speaker 1: you can have a nice view so I'm all about
Speaker 1: to agree with you. I like that too, especially if
Speaker 1: you're checking into a hotel and there's a chance to
Speaker 1: get a view you want to view. Yeah, and in
Speaker 1: this in a big city, like when I say in
Speaker 1: New York, like I enjoy a high floor there because
Speaker 1: it just you're obviously gonna have a beautiful view. But
Speaker 1: also if you're on a low floor in New York,
Speaker 1: you hear all the traffic and the horns and all.
Speaker 1: It's like so intense there. You also hear those on
Speaker 1: some high floors too. Now, a travel risk expert says,
Speaker 1: you should always stay on the bad news for you
Speaker 1: sisany third floor, why never higher than the fourth, never
Speaker 1: lower than the second. Fires, see, that is the downside
Speaker 1: of being high fires okay, fire truck ladders rarely can
Speaker 1: reach above the fourth floor, and burglars target the first floor. Burglars,
Speaker 1: they target the first floor, like theft is on the
Speaker 1: first flooring theft break in. But yeah, I just want
Speaker 1: to get that to you, Hey man, I'll run my
Speaker 1: little tushy down seventy flights the stairs if I have to, right,
Speaker 1: Just you should know what they say, all right. Today's
Speaker 1: quote when a flower doesn't bloom. You fix the environment
Speaker 1: in which it grows. You don't fix the flower. Oh
Speaker 1: aired with Ryan secrets, it's a deadline. Well disgraced R
Speaker 1: and B superstar R Kelly was sentenced to thirty years
Speaker 1: in prison for using his fame to sexually abuse Anger.
Speaker 1: Several of Kelly's accusers told a court in New York
Speaker 1: City and the singer himself that he had misled and
Speaker 1: preyed upon them. Kelly has denied any wrongdoing and he
Speaker 1: plans to appeal his conviction. We learned this week that
Speaker 1: California is sending out a new round of direct payments
Speaker 1: to about twenty three million state residents. The direct payments
Speaker 1: maybe as large as one thousand fifty dollars, depending on
Speaker 1: your income and family status. But when is the money coming?
Speaker 1: Not for a bit. The payments are set to start
Speaker 1: in late October and all payments will be issued by
Speaker 1: early next year, and most will come be a direct deposit.
Speaker 1: And we found out why Travis Barker was hospitalized on Tuesday.
Speaker 1: TMZ is reporting that he is suffering from pancreatitis and
Speaker 1: inflammation of the pancreas that can cause intense stomach pain
Speaker 1: and vomiting. His condition remains unknown. On air with Ryan Seacrest,
Speaker 1: So have you got I know you guys have seen this,
Speaker 1: Tanya sissany, but on TikTok every day, here about a
Speaker 1: new TikTok trend. But here's the thing. Some of them
Speaker 1: are great, some are really dangerous. It's hard to tell
Speaker 1: which one at least have to do with the health. Right,
Speaker 1: So there's a beta drill challenge. And what you do
Speaker 1: they do is that you take large amounts of beta
Speaker 1: drill to induce hallucinations. Something tells me maybe not on
Speaker 1: the surface level, just doesn't seem like a good idea.
Speaker 1: They say, don't do it. It's incredibly dangerous. Should TikTok
Speaker 1: be taken that down, or or it's to be some
Speaker 1: sort of way to or don't try this at home
Speaker 1: pop up or something, don't try this at home. All
Speaker 1: these these teenagers are the ones that are making these
Speaker 1: videos the first place. I know, But I don't know.
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like there should be something that filters.
Speaker 1: They're going to have to be to be right, all right,
Speaker 1: d I y teeth whitening Now there are toothpaste these
Speaker 1: days with the whitening built in. Does it work, isn't he?
Speaker 1: I think so? I mean, like the strips, the crest
Speaker 1: strips and all that stuff really doesn't work. Your teeth
Speaker 1: are very white. What do you do? I just brushed
Speaker 1: them with them m hm, crest. I think that's it. Uh.
Speaker 1: I got them. I got them bleached like way back
Speaker 1: in the day. They look very white right now? Why
Speaker 1: are you tan before? Yeah? Because I noticed on Friday,
Speaker 1: but I wasn't quite sure what Friday. I hadn't washed
Speaker 1: it off yet. Yeah, Friday, you very you. On the
Speaker 1: other hand, we're not now. Your teeth are also white.
Speaker 1: What do you do? Um? These are just naturally white?
Speaker 1: You know? Floss brush? You don't? You know what? You've
Speaker 1: got me flossing more times than I used to because
Speaker 1: you said you flost like morning at night. I flost
Speaker 1: morning night and sometimes the middle of the day. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're in my head all right. Anyway, d r y
Speaker 1: teeth whitening TikTokers are putting hydrogen peroxide directly on their teeth.
Speaker 1: Yeah no, no, how about this garlic up your nose? No,
Speaker 1: it can't be good your peroxides. No, yes, it's it's serious.
Speaker 1: It's a hard no, because in your little and you're
Speaker 1: like a little bit of hydrogen peroxide with water in
Speaker 1: your in your toothpick is good. Don't do that. I
Speaker 1: don't know about that. Maybe for the gums every once
Speaker 1: in a while, but not like on your teeth every day.
Speaker 1: Garlic up your nose, bad idea, irritates your skin, caused
Speaker 1: a bunch of mucous. It up. Not good? All right?
Speaker 1: How about this one? TikTok health TikTok trends. Actually that
Speaker 1: could be good at bad for you. Um Swallowing papius
Speaker 1: seeds TikTok, or say, gets rid of parasites and worms
Speaker 1: in your intestines. Why do you have parasites and worms?
Speaker 1: And well, if we all do, you have plenty of them.
Speaker 1: If you have sushies, they're all they're all in there.
Speaker 1: You can't see them. They said, I didn't get that far.
Speaker 1: They say, papious seeds. Uh, it won't hurt, won't hurt.
Speaker 1: No evidence it works, but it doesn't hurt. Dry scooping
Speaker 1: protein powder. You dump a scoop protein powder in your
Speaker 1: mouth before workout. I've tried. I've not tried that. I've
Speaker 1: just put too much protein powder and very little water
Speaker 1: in before and it stays drying. You cough, it chokes you.
Speaker 1: You're gonna be careful, can choke you. So they say
Speaker 1: very dangerous. They say it could be deadly. And lemon coffee.
Speaker 1: Adding lemon juice to a cup of coffeet will supposedly
Speaker 1: help you lose weight. They say it won't hurt, but
Speaker 1: it won't work. What's the point? Keep if there's something
Speaker 1: else on TikTok. You've seen hit us up here. Melissa
Speaker 1: has kiss on in Riverside. Melissa, good morning, How are you?
Speaker 1: Good morning? I'm being great At least the time of year,
Speaker 1: a lot of parents and students, kids finding out that
Speaker 1: they're accepted into colleges around southern California and the country.
Speaker 1: I believe you have some good news. Yes, I definitely
Speaker 1: have some good news. Um My daughter Vivian was accepted
Speaker 1: to twelve colleges and just in the application process must
Speaker 1: have been laborious. It was required different um you know,
Speaker 1: essays or in different information. Of course, the financial aid,
Speaker 1: but it was a lot of work and she just
Speaker 1: wanted to make sure that she had the best possibilities,
Speaker 1: you know, for her future. So, um, you know, she did.
Speaker 1: She did get accepted from here to name of u
Speaker 1: c L A incredible Yes, Berkeley accepted her. Santa Barbara
Speaker 1: Subcamano State, University of Pacific. You see, Davis, she should
Speaker 1: say no to all of them. Yes, her dream school
Speaker 1: is Santum Stanford. So she was accepted the Stanford. We
Speaker 1: found out on April fools out of all days. Oh wow,
Speaker 1: that would be so scary, Melissa. I love it. I
Speaker 1: love when a parent is proud of their kids achievement
Speaker 1: because that's good parenting and good good kidding as well.
Speaker 1: But Melissa, why did she apply to twelve? She didn't
Speaker 1: need that many backups. She is a very overachiever. So,
Speaker 1: like I said, she didn't know if all of these
Speaker 1: colleges would accept her, so she wanted the best, you know.
Speaker 1: So she did apply to UM Wesley, UM Liberal College,
Speaker 1: All women College, UM in the East Coast, and you know,
Speaker 1: she applied to HOSTA Swarthmore am Hurts and she honestly
Speaker 1: didn't think that they would accept her. And this weekend
Speaker 1: we're flying out to ham Hurts because they're flying us
Speaker 1: out for the for her need to visit their college.
Speaker 1: And Swarthmore is actually flying her out as well to
Speaker 1: visit or college, so that East Coast is giving the
Speaker 1: West Coast to run for their money, like for making
Speaker 1: her decide with steal. Yes, so you know what, I'm
Speaker 1: so proud of her. It takes a lot of work
Speaker 1: and you have to, you know, go go for it,
Speaker 1: you know, and you try to see what is best.
Speaker 1: You know, when you're even for you're looking for a job,
Speaker 1: you you don't want to focus just on once to
Speaker 1: see what they could give you as well. You know, well,
Speaker 1: very excited for you, Melissa. What's your daughter's name? My
Speaker 1: daughter is Zavian High School in Riverside, tell Vivian. We said,
Speaker 1: congratulate Las, Yeah, definitely, thank you so much. I can't wait.
Speaker 1: She wants to be a judge, to get to be
Speaker 1: a political leader and you know, uh make some changes
Speaker 1: out there. So I've always since the day she was born,
Speaker 1: says she's a genius. So I know that the girls
Speaker 1: they're on airs always talk about you know, speaking it
Speaker 1: to existence, and you know from small I told her
Speaker 1: your genius, your genius. And she's just gowing everything out
Speaker 1: of the water, is like, and everybody's supporting her here
Speaker 1: in Riverside. Um. She's gonna get uh actually recognized by
Speaker 1: the city. UM. This coming right when we fly in
Speaker 1: from um and Hurts. She'll have an award ceremony night.
Speaker 1: So I'm excited about that. So honestly, from being from
Speaker 1: an immigrant parents, coming from on Buddhas and seeing how
Speaker 1: successful you know your child could be, it's all worth it,
Speaker 1: you know. Well, I'm glad she's going to take care
Speaker 1: of you. So I must be a stay at home grandma.
Speaker 1: That's why I've always I didn't get to get their
Speaker 1: home mom. I definitely gonna say o grandma, but thank
Speaker 1: you so much you guys for her a shout out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: of course, good job. You take care of wonderfully. But
Speaker 1: I'm just thinking how disappointed my parents must have been
Speaker 1: at this process because I applied to one college. I
Speaker 1: think they're proud of you, now, Ryan, you know, I
Speaker 1: got got in, but I dropped out, So, you know,
Speaker 1: probably awkward for them at dinner when kids parents are
Speaker 1: talking about their kids college experiences. I don't think they're okay.
Speaker 1: It takes a lot of commitment to drop out. Sure, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's a good way to look at it. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: had to really commit to one path of the other.
Speaker 1: And I said, yeah, I'm putting my foot down and quitting.
Speaker 1: Yeah huh. And it worked out well, it depends what
Speaker 1: you consider worked out one or two point seven kiss
Speaker 1: FM time for Ryan's roses. So Dear Ryan and Cecity.
Speaker 1: My husband got an email from his accountant asking about riges.
Speaker 1: On his business card, his business credit card, there were
Speaker 1: local charges for a hotel, spa and dinners. I think
Speaker 1: he's using his business card to hide things from me.
Speaker 1: Tammy Island Park, Tammy, good morning. Thanks for coming on.
Speaker 1: So your your your theories. It's clear to us, so
Speaker 1: it doesn't show up on your card with him, I
Speaker 1: guess right, he's putting on the Yeah, it's on the
Speaker 1: business card. And we've just done that because this easier
Speaker 1: when tax season comes around, you know, I'll have this
Speaker 1: business expenses in one area. Could but could one not
Speaker 1: send SPA certificates to a colleague or a client as
Speaker 1: a gift. Yeah, and it could be like a write off.
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess it just seems really weird to me.
Speaker 1: He's been finances and it just it's like very odd,
Speaker 1: especially just the amount of them. It's not just like
Speaker 1: a one time thing. It's like a number of the
Speaker 1: spa treatments, and I mean, okay, I can pass that off.
Speaker 1: The thing that gets me is the hotel just down
Speaker 1: the road. Okay, that to me, But could it have
Speaker 1: been a lunch? Is there a restaurant there? And couldn't
Speaker 1: have been a lunch at that hotel? Business lunch? Well,
Speaker 1: it's like no, not the amount. The amount that's like
Speaker 1: chargeboards like a room, you know. So it's happened in
Speaker 1: like like a few times. That's why I mean it's
Speaker 1: altast I'm like looking through this and it wasn't like
Speaker 1: so crazy because I could like wrap my hand around
Speaker 1: the other charges. But the hotel, it's just my gut
Speaker 1: just can't, like I keep my heart sank, you know,
Speaker 1: it's anything all right? We're in Ryan's Roses in it.
Speaker 1: When I say and we are in it is Tammy
Speaker 1: Highland Park on the line. She thinks her husband is
Speaker 1: treating a woman or women to hotel stays, spas and
Speaker 1: dinners because he's charging these things off. Her accountant let
Speaker 1: her know on a business credit card that he keeps.
Speaker 1: Why did the accountant call you about the business card?
Speaker 1: It was actually an email that I saw because I
Speaker 1: needed to grab it like a flight. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: on his email and which we have each other's passwords.
Speaker 1: Not a big deal, and I was getting our flight
Speaker 1: confirmation for next weekend and then I thought email popped up.
Speaker 1: I didn't think much of it, so, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: just stumbled upon. You guys have been married and her. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we have four year olds other. So it's you know,
Speaker 1: we get the stakes here. So let's let's get you
Speaker 1: to say, Ryan, you my permission to call, and then
Speaker 1: your husband's name on Kiss FM. Go ahead, Ryan, you
Speaker 1: have my permission to call. We're gonna do that. Now,
Speaker 1: stay very quiet until we get him on the air,
Speaker 1: and then we tell him he's on the air. Sysney
Speaker 1: is gonna offer him some roses. We want to find
Speaker 1: out who he's thinking about. Okay, okay, sounds good, Thank you,
Speaker 1: good luck. Here we go. Hello, Hi, is this Keith?
Speaker 1: This is Keith. Hi, my name is Chloe. I'm calling
Speaker 1: from Casey's Flowers. How you doing this morning? Good? What's
Speaker 1: going on? So we service the Highland Park area, and
Speaker 1: actually what's going on is we have a promotion today.
Speaker 1: So for local residents in the area, we have a
Speaker 1: free dozen red roses that you can send to anybody
Speaker 1: that you'd like, could be a family member or loved one,
Speaker 1: or anybody that you just want to brighten up their
Speaker 1: day to day with some free flowers. They are free.
Speaker 1: I don't need anything from you, just the hopes that
Speaker 1: you come back as a returning customer. Wait, wait a second,
Speaker 1: who is this? Is this a joke? No, this is
Speaker 1: Cacis Flowers and you're saying that I want free flowers
Speaker 1: and I can send up to any one that one.
Speaker 1: It's a promotion that we do once a month. Yes, okay,
Speaker 1: so we can just start with the name of the
Speaker 1: person you want to send them to. Yeah, send them
Speaker 1: to that. Let me get the address. Okay, but before
Speaker 1: we get to the address, what would you like to
Speaker 1: put on the car since I have that part open
Speaker 1: right now? All right, the card of You give Me Butterflies?
Speaker 1: Do you know that song You Give Me Butterflies? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's kind of our song. Okay, very cute. And who's
Speaker 1: evets that like? Your girlfriend? Yeah? Great? Okay, Keith? Yeah, Keith,
Speaker 1: your voice is being broadcast on the radio, and I
Speaker 1: have your wife Tammy on the other line listening in. Whoa, whoa, wait,
Speaker 1: what's going on here? Well that's exactly it. What is
Speaker 1: going on here? You have a girlfriend named you Vett
Speaker 1: and a wife named Tammy? I don't I can you
Speaker 1: explain this to me? Like? I am in total shock
Speaker 1: right now? Like who who the best? Like? What is
Speaker 1: going on? Look? I'm not confirmed with events, denying anything. Um,
Speaker 1: maybe you shouldn't have kicked me out of the bedroom. Wait? Wait,
Speaker 1: what are you talking about? You didn't think the decision
Speaker 1: would come back to by you? What happened because our daughter? Okay,
Speaker 1: you're blaming this because our daughter has nightmares? Is that
Speaker 1: what you're doing right now? Listen? Oh my goodness, can
Speaker 1: you blame this? Like? We have a four year old?
Speaker 1: I had nightmares and you're blaming and fair on our
Speaker 1: four year old? Right now? Our daughter likes to sleep
Speaker 1: in our bed with her mommy, and she doesn't like
Speaker 1: it when daddy's in there and it's too crowded and
Speaker 1: she looks just the two of them. So I got
Speaker 1: sent to a spare room. Okay, it's a save, it's
Speaker 1: not forever, Like what are you? And that leads you
Speaker 1: to get a girlfriend and cheat on her and take
Speaker 1: her to the hotel, spa and dinners. I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I did. I'm just send their consequences to our actions.
Speaker 1: I'm not saying you did, you did or you didn't
Speaker 1: you did? Right, So you're having an affair on your
Speaker 1: wife because your daughter likes to sleep with her mom?
Speaker 1: Is that right? I tried talking to my wife who
Speaker 1: we're never gonna just want to listen to me? I
Speaker 1: mean what all of our daughter wants of guests? Look,
Speaker 1: I love my daughter, but you need some boundaries, okay,
Speaker 1: Like I I like, yeah, he brought it up before,
Speaker 1: and like we talked about it, but like I didn't
Speaker 1: think you're just gonna go chea on me because of this,
Speaker 1: Like I don't, how could you do this to your family?
Speaker 1: And what kind of example are you setting for your daughter?
Speaker 1: I'm not a good one. You rearing for ten years?
Speaker 1: Like I don't. I mean, do you want to say
Speaker 1: anything to your wife Keith about what you're doing? Unless
Speaker 1: who I'm sorry, I over and over again, but like
Speaker 1: you weren't listening. We have a four year old, Like
Speaker 1: I'm trying to be a good mom. Like I don't
Speaker 1: understand why that translated you cheating on me, Like it's
Speaker 1: throwing away like ten years of our marriage, just because
Speaker 1: like I'm trying to be a good mom and I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: like I know it's been real right now, but you
Speaker 1: cheat it on me because of this. I just started,
Speaker 1: shut me up. Look we're going, We're going into circles. Tammy.
Speaker 1: I'm very sorry that you're hearing about this information because
Speaker 1: I know it is uh tough to here and very hurtful.
Speaker 1: We are gonna let you guys go and and process.
Speaker 1: Tammy and Keith. I don't have anything to say to you.
Speaker 1: I thank you Tammy for coming on, and good luck
Speaker 1: to you, all right, good luck. So sorry, Tammy. So
Speaker 1: we just heard this, which is nuts, that Tammy's husband,
Speaker 1: Keith is having an affair because their daughter likes to
Speaker 1: sleep in the bed with mom, and Keith got sent
Speaker 1: into another room, so he decided to go out and
Speaker 1: felt unwanted and wanted to go out and have an affair.
Speaker 1: And that's what we just heard. What a coward and
Speaker 1: and how just also in tone was he in treatment
Speaker 1: to her just in a few minutes we were talking
Speaker 1: on the telephone. Yeah, I'm blaming her, blaming our their daughter,
Speaker 1: blaming their daughter for wanting to sleep in the bed
Speaker 1: with them. So he had to go sleep somewhere else.
Speaker 1: So he goes out and has an affair and is
Speaker 1: taking her to a spa at a hotel down the
Speaker 1: road and different dinners, and then he was he was
Speaker 1: resentful about it. What did he say? He was like,
Speaker 1: what did you think was going to happen or something?
Speaker 1: She's get away from that guy? I mean, I know
Speaker 1: it's so complicated, but like it's just not healthy. Vanessa,
Speaker 1: go ahead, you're arm with us. Hi, do you think
Speaker 1: that marriage is over? Yes? Ideal? Um, for sure, I
Speaker 1: think that. I mean it's really sad, Like that was
Speaker 1: just really hard to hear. I don't know, you can't
Speaker 1: stay with somebody that says there are consequences for our
Speaker 1: daughter wanting to sleep in the bed and me having
Speaker 1: to sleep in the other room. Consequences. Yeah, I know.
Speaker 1: That was like vile, yeah, violent face, I think. I mean,
Speaker 1: it sucks for her right now. But she needs to
Speaker 1: be away from that guy, right yes? Yeah, so that
Speaker 1: is like like thank god they need to get away
Speaker 1: from him. That is like so such a bad mindset.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Well, thank you, we agree with you, Vanessa,
Speaker 1: Thanks for calling. Yeah, for sure. Okay, you take care Bye,
Speaker 1: bye bye, Ryan Head, Carrie, good morning, and thank you
Speaker 1: for reaching out. So your boyfriend is going on a
Speaker 1: trip with his female best friend. Correct, so pretty much,
Speaker 1: I'm going on a family vacation. And his uh best
Speaker 1: man kept telling me like, oh, like, I'm so sad
Speaker 1: you can't come, like and telling me all this stuff.
Speaker 1: And I had no idea what she was talking about.
Speaker 1: And then I figured out that they were going to
Speaker 1: Idawaud together, and I asked, like to see what their
Speaker 1: airbnb looked like, and I saw the photos, and there's
Speaker 1: only one bet. Why he Why is your boyfriend doing this?
Speaker 1: How's he explaining this? I mean, they just they both
Speaker 1: lived with their parents, so they just wanted to get
Speaker 1: like a weekend away where they can like kind of
Speaker 1: just hang out. They don't get to do that, so weird.
Speaker 1: I feel uncomfortable, right, Harry Nor, I met you sixty
Speaker 1: two seconds ago, and I'm uncomfortable. I mean, what kind
Speaker 1: of situation is That doesn't make any sense. That's not
Speaker 1: what you'd get to do when you're in a relationship. No, no, exactly,
Speaker 1: And like she told me about it, but he forgot
Speaker 1: to tell me that they were even going. So that's
Speaker 1: really suspicious, right. I don't like it. First of all,
Speaker 1: your boyfriend is wanting to get away into one bedroom
Speaker 1: or BnB with this female companion that he's very close to,
Speaker 1: even if he thinks there's nothing ever gonna happen. I
Speaker 1: would not be comfortable with the idea of it existing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: how should I? How do I confront him? Do? I ask?
Speaker 1: I think? You say? Bro? What do you how do
Speaker 1: you think? How do you think this works? Because this
Speaker 1: does not work for me? Bro, I don't know what
Speaker 1: you think, but this does not work for me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel uncomfortable. Tell the truth. How would you feel, bro,
Speaker 1: if I went I'm saying it. I'm saying you interpreted
Speaker 1: how you wish. I'm saying it to him right now?
Speaker 1: I need to method this, okay, I would be saying, Bro,
Speaker 1: imagine carry you going off with another dude, good looking
Speaker 1: guy by the way, which you're just friends with, but
Speaker 1: you need to get away and stay in a bedroom
Speaker 1: with me. He's not be okay with that. Mhm h.
Speaker 1: Feel guilty and don't let him gaslight you put your
Speaker 1: foot down? Is okay? Is a red flag? How old
Speaker 1: are you guys? Carry? Can? I ask? Yeah? Just in
Speaker 1: party mode? And all, no, he's this is no good. Okay,
Speaker 1: so you need to hang up here and called bro
Speaker 1: and deal. Well, thank you so much. I'll call bro.
Speaker 1: Good luck, good luck, bye, thank you. This is this
Speaker 1: is a situation where he either he doesn't want to
Speaker 1: be with her or he wants something. He wants something
Speaker 1: bad to happen here. I mean, you don't. You can't
Speaker 1: justify that, right, And sometimes guys do that. Sometimes guys
Speaker 1: would rather cheat, especially in your early twenties, I feel,
Speaker 1: but they haven't fully matured yet. They want to cheat
Speaker 1: because it's the easy way out of a relationship. But
Speaker 1: this isn't even cheating. This guy is saying, I'm going
Speaker 1: on a getaway with a girl. Yeah, but this is
Speaker 1: like if she's gonna have a problem with it, He's like, well,
Speaker 1: let we shouldn't be together. I guess you can't. You
Speaker 1: can't deal with the you know me just going on
Speaker 1: a weekend. So it's like, this is him, this is
Speaker 1: he's setting the whole situation. I'm very happy that we
Speaker 1: got to carry and cart got to us because I
Speaker 1: hope she can follow through on that. On air with
Speaker 1: Ryan Seacrest, there's a story out today about a new
Speaker 1: pill that men could take for birth control. And since
Speaker 1: you've got some details on it, go ahead. And when
Speaker 1: you think about I feel like guys have two options
Speaker 1: when it comes to birth control. It's condoms or vasectomy.
Speaker 1: There's three options. But yes, okay, absentence, condom or of asectomy.
Speaker 1: Well there's four options. Use your imagination. Go on. Wow,
Speaker 1: I did not Mr Ryan John Seacrest did not think
Speaker 1: you were going to go there. So when it comes
Speaker 1: to women, I feel like we bear the burden of
Speaker 1: preventing pregnancy if I do. Don't say so myself. You know,
Speaker 1: I think we've lost that thing. What I was thinking something?
Speaker 1: Not thinking? You know what I'm thinking? Yeah, what are
Speaker 1: you thinking? I'm not saying it. I can't say it.
Speaker 1: That's why I am shocked that you are not saying it.
Speaker 1: So why do you think she doesn't think what we're Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't understand antonia. I think Sisney thinks something dips,
Speaker 1: something worse because she said Ryan's secrets. I did not imagine. Oh,
Speaker 1: now I know what you're thinking she's thinking. I don't
Speaker 1: think she's thinking that. Yeah, you're thinking that. I'm thinking that,
Speaker 1: But I wasn't thinking that. No, but what she's thinking
Speaker 1: is probably what we're thinking, but we don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so she thinks she knows what I'm thinking. But the
Speaker 1: fact that you think she thought that tells me more
Speaker 1: about what you're thinking. Let's let's stay in our lane,
Speaker 1: let's move on. When it comes to women, we've got pills,
Speaker 1: we've got patches, we've got I U d S. I
Speaker 1: feel like we take the burden of preventing pregnancy. But
Speaker 1: with men birth control options now expanding. Scientists have recently
Speaker 1: reporting non hormonal male contraceptive this ninety in percent effective
Speaker 1: in preventing pregnancy. So they tested this out on mice
Speaker 1: um and so there was you know, there was no
Speaker 1: obvious side effects. And actually when they did this with
Speaker 1: the mice, that like was basically once four weeks were up,
Speaker 1: they were it was working. So it has not been
Speaker 1: approved by the f d A yet. But get this,
Speaker 1: a number of men have already volunteered to participate in
Speaker 1: this study. Seem risky study, Like, I totally volunteer to
Speaker 1: test its efficacy. But if it doesn't work, you have
Speaker 1: a kid coming, right, But maybe maybe it's men that
Speaker 1: don't mind if they get pregnant. Maybe they're married or whatever,
Speaker 1: and I'm sure that they have to pay them. Well,
Speaker 1: I has to come down to money at this point.
Speaker 1: If you're gonna volunteer yourself for this type of study,
Speaker 1: so would you take this bill approved by the f
Speaker 1: d A. I'm just gonna say, I think it's great
Speaker 1: to have more options for everybody. Men, right, I mean,
Speaker 1: you have plenty of options. We should have more options.
Speaker 1: I think that's great. I think that everybody should not
Speaker 1: expect the female to take responsibility or have to take
Speaker 1: the pill or whatever it is that we should share that.
Speaker 1: The only thing that makes me nervous is the mice component. Like,
Speaker 1: if it's only been tested on mice, I'm not quite
Speaker 1: sure how comfortable I'm gonna feel. This is a big deal. Though.
Speaker 1: They've been trying to make this Pilson's like the seventies.
Speaker 1: So the fact that they've already gotten this far with
Speaker 1: my well, I don't know. I'm not a scientist. But
Speaker 1: what's going to change is that it's now gonna be
Speaker 1: tested on humans. Like this is major. This is a
Speaker 1: hugely mice to humans field. It's a big leap. It
Speaker 1: sounds like a leap. It just seems like a leap,
Speaker 1: I think. I think not for me. I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't want to be a part of that study, but
Speaker 1: I just think that it's nice that now if this
Speaker 1: we're still years away from this, even when they do
Speaker 1: the studies, maybe at the end of this decade, we're
Speaker 1: going to see this. Like so you think the mice
Speaker 1: families get together and the mice to have kids. Hour
Speaker 1: They're like, hey, I can't believe we participated in that
Speaker 1: study and look what happened. It is craziness. The mice people,
Speaker 1: they're regulably, you know. I think, look, if it were
Speaker 1: proven and it works, then sure. I just it's like
Speaker 1: the first time anything's ever put out and was tested
Speaker 1: on a mouse, and you're using it for that area.
Speaker 1: You just like want to make sure that the you
Speaker 1: don't even want to know about some of the other
Speaker 1: stuff that I was reading. We're like, I can't even
Speaker 1: say it, but do you know what we were thinking earlier?
Speaker 1: I know what you were saying earlier, which is why
Speaker 1: you did not say it, which is why I was shocked,
Speaker 1: or even said it did not say as bad as
Speaker 1: what Tanya thought you were thinking, not as bad air
Speaker 1: with Ryan's secrets all right, Crystal in Chicago listening to
Speaker 1: us another boyfriend call, so your boyfriend, what happened? Okay?
Speaker 1: So Ryan? Um. The other day, it finally got to
Speaker 1: me my current boyfriend's ex wife loves to call him
Speaker 1: by his full name, which you know in a relationship
Speaker 1: when you know, example, Chris versus Christopher, and it's kind
Speaker 1: of romantic when you call him Christopher. Um. Well, his
Speaker 1: ex wife likes to call him by his full name,
Speaker 1: and hence, since we've been dating, and I finally had
Speaker 1: the nerve to say something to my boyfriend and I said, hey,
Speaker 1: why does she call you by your full name? He says, well,
Speaker 1: just to me off, and I said, well, can I
Speaker 1: say something? Should I say something like that? This bothers me?
Speaker 1: I told him that it bothers that it bothered me,
Speaker 1: and he just kind of brushed it off. But I
Speaker 1: wanted to know should I say something to her? I
Speaker 1: think she wants to know she's getting to you, and
Speaker 1: by saying something, she knows she's accomplished when she tried
Speaker 1: to accomplish for you. So I don't love I don't
Speaker 1: love it. I kind of uh. I was having this
Speaker 1: conversation the other day and it was always about I
Speaker 1: think someone maybe it's about a comment someone left on
Speaker 1: our social media about how like this they're not interested
Speaker 1: in the show or something, I don't know, something it
Speaker 1: was like a negative comment and and something said done that, Bobby,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I don't even read, I don't even
Speaker 1: look at it, Like who cares? You know? So I
Speaker 1: think when you let somebody know they got to you,
Speaker 1: then they're doing what they're planning. So I almost don't
Speaker 1: want you to spend energy on it. That's really good advice,
Speaker 1: Yeah it is. But maybe I have my boyfriend say
Speaker 1: something to her, Well, then she knows she's getting to you.
Speaker 1: Why does it get to you because that was what
Speaker 1: she called them when they were together or probably and
Speaker 1: and to me, it's like no one else calls him
Speaker 1: that name, you know. But and do they have kids
Speaker 1: where she still around you? Yeah? They have kids together. Yeah, man,
Speaker 1: So I would just yeah, I would try to let
Speaker 1: it go. Just let it go, Okay, definitely don't say anything.
Speaker 1: I mean, even if you can't let it go, don't
Speaker 1: let her know it's getting to you via him or you,
Speaker 1: because she might just go away. This might just dissolve.
Speaker 1: And I feel like you're gonna feed the fire if
Speaker 1: she knows it's chipping away. So we got a tense
Speaker 1: up Neal strong here in my opinion. All right, it
Speaker 1: sounds good. Take care of you too. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much everyone, Thank you, But I mean it's just petty
Speaker 1: of the ex wife, right and just you can't pet
Speaker 1: on Air with Ryan Seacrest. We're gonna bounce out. Talk
Speaker 1: to your mom morning Friday morning. Thanks for listening so
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