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Speaker 1: One and only Steve Arvey got a radio show. Man

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Speaker 1: o man o man something going on real good today.

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Speaker 1: You ought to feel blessed today, the fact that God

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Speaker 1: every day you wake up, it's another chance. It's a

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Speaker 1: because he has a plan for you. You know, I

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Speaker 1: I don't have that answer, I'm not him. I'm not God.

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Speaker 1: I don't claim to be. I don't I don't understand

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Speaker 1: it all sometimes, but God has an amazing way. But

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Speaker 1: God ain't through with you yet. God has a plan

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Speaker 1: Shirley Strawberry Colin for real, Mississippi Monica. Uh, Junior better

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Speaker 1: I tell you so, my man, Let's just say this, Um, Me,

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Speaker 1: escape skille. I'm in Mexico, I'm still gonna be in Mexico,

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Speaker 1: tell yourself. I'm trying to tell that all stuff. How

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Speaker 1: And you need to watch all the Hudinity tapes. That's

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Speaker 1: ain't that's for junior. What about your nephew? That goes

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Speaker 1: Well I am. Yeah, we're gonna be that million for

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Speaker 1: what because they know you have it? Tell them what

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Speaker 1: You're listening to show right now. It's time for the

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Speaker 1: nephew to run that prank back mister regg yet, okay,

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Speaker 1: barely take a listen to mister Reggie. I'm hello. I'm

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Speaker 1: trying to reach U de beyond you doing. Man, This

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Speaker 1: you don't, Franctic ring a bell or not. I'm a

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Speaker 1: You're a friend of my mother's. Yeah, yeah, mister Reggie.

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Speaker 1: everything cool? Oh no, no, no, your mom is good.

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Speaker 1: you're getting ready to graduate. You' feeling to get your masters? Right, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm giving my MBA. Okay, First of all, let me

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Speaker 1: just say congratulations to you. I'm proud of you. Your

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Speaker 1: Not I've never seen nothing like it in my life.

420
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Speaker 1: And I had my feet up in the fol away

421
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:22,159
Speaker 1: check because I'm going, man, what the hell is going on?

422
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:26,840
Speaker 1: And my eyes is burning because I can't blink because

423
00:25:26,880 --> 00:25:31,040
Speaker 1: I can't take my eyes off there my eyes. But

424
00:25:31,280 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 1: if I ever needed visine I needed. I was mortified,

425
00:25:38,680 --> 00:25:41,920
Speaker 1: miceless across that float, climbing up on this couch over

426
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:44,359
Speaker 1: there on that boy's shoulder, then that nam and I

427
00:25:44,440 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 1: just see him brush something. There ain't no fly brushing

428
00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 1: like them. Its mosquito. We wake your ass up and

429
00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 1: help me through this. Help. So I wanted to wake

430
00:25:58,119 --> 00:26:00,880
Speaker 1: him up, man, because I needed some help to understand this.

431
00:26:01,280 --> 00:26:04,119
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, I've never seen that many mice

432
00:26:04,240 --> 00:26:07,000
Speaker 1: in my life. And I mean they just running back

433
00:26:07,040 --> 00:26:10,159
Speaker 1: and forth all on over the furniture across the TV.

434
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:14,000
Speaker 1: So about two thirty five in the morning, about three

435
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: I've been up the whole time. I ain't slept with

436
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: when I'm scared to take my foot off the shell yeah, yeah,

437
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,720
Speaker 1: the key stick in the dough. It's my boy. He

438
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:28,639
Speaker 1: coming back in. He put the key in the door

439
00:26:29,520 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: and turned the lock. He opened the door. Hey, man,

440
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:43,160
Speaker 1: what's happening? What a mouse? No, damn, you can't explain it, don't.

441
00:26:44,920 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 1: I'm looking at him, man, he say, He say, he's

442
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:51,159
Speaker 1: a love. What's happening? Man? I said, you know what

443
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:56,320
Speaker 1: the hell happened? He said, what's wrong? I said, Man,

444
00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:03,720
Speaker 1: you see hate him mouse? No, I smell you're looking

445
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: over what I said? They all up on the curtain curtains.

446
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 1: Ain't they've been running up under a mouse. No, damn,

447
00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:19,639
Speaker 1: like a dream, brother, sleep like Ain't nothing wrong about

448
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:21,840
Speaker 1: three thirty three, three o'clock in the morning. He came

449
00:27:21,880 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 1: and he said, yeah, bro, I'm hugged as here. You

450
00:27:25,000 --> 00:27:30,440
Speaker 1: want something to eat by? No, not this album, I said,

451
00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:31,920
Speaker 1: I tell you what I'm gonna do. Man, I'm gonna

452
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 1: get in my car. I got to take off. Man,

453
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: I got a head in the brass. Oh man, I

454
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 1: thought you're gonna leave a little bit late. Don't worry

455
00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: about that. I'm gonna sleep in my damn car. And

456
00:27:40,960 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: I need to get my car to the driveway because

457
00:27:42,600 --> 00:27:53,119
Speaker 1: they're probably climbing up that right. Wow, you're listening show,

458
00:27:55,240 --> 00:27:58,160
Speaker 1: but you got Carla. Okay, so listen to this, Steve.

459
00:27:59,000 --> 00:28:01,080
Speaker 1: My friends are out of us AP parents. You know,

460
00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:03,679
Speaker 1: we hang out, we do things together with our children.

461
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: So the latest discussion, you know, we have young kids,

462
00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:12,520
Speaker 1: So the latest discussion is you're an expert at this.

463
00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:20,879
Speaker 1: At what age should you teach your child how to cuss, curse,

464
00:28:21,160 --> 00:28:25,359
Speaker 1: or say bad words. Well, you shouldn't teach them. There's

465
00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:29,240
Speaker 1: no age when you should teach them bad words because

466
00:28:29,359 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 1: bad words are not necessary. It all depends on circumstance

467
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:39,400
Speaker 1: and environment. Cusin is an environmental, circumstantial thing that you

468
00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:42,640
Speaker 1: have to be able to participate in. And every circumstance

469
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,040
Speaker 1: and all environments do not require cussing. You need to

470
00:28:46,120 --> 00:28:49,520
Speaker 1: be able. So it's not a good time for the

471
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 1: situations will bring out the child when it's necessary. So

472
00:28:54,440 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: it's not for you to decide I'm gonna teach my

473
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: child cousin. I never taught any of my kids to cousin.

474
00:28:59,400 --> 00:29:02,000
Speaker 1: My father never taught me to cut. I just picked

475
00:29:02,040 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 1: it up. Okay, so you overheard it and the decision

476
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:14,000
Speaker 1: to use cussing a little bit more regularly. Was somewhere

477
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:20,120
Speaker 1: around nine. Yes, nine is when I started implementing me.

478
00:29:22,280 --> 00:29:25,840
Speaker 1: By twelve, I was you know, I wasn't. It wasn't

479
00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:29,200
Speaker 1: really farm good. It wasn't. I was just throwing it

480
00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,920
Speaker 1: out there. But I had a lot more situations, and

481
00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:35,560
Speaker 1: all I got the more useful and more timely and

482
00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 1: more situations presented themselves. So that's how I did it.

483
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,000
Speaker 1: So I don't say that there's an age that you

484
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: give a child, Okay, And here's why I'm asking this

485
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,000
Speaker 1: because I know a lot of people look uncomfortable with

486
00:29:46,120 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 1: this question. But it's a different time for these kids

487
00:29:50,360 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: and going into middle school. It's just been tough with

488
00:29:53,720 --> 00:29:55,960
Speaker 1: a group of people that we hang with with their kids.

489
00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: So they were saying they wanted to teach their children

490
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:01,320
Speaker 1: how to say blank, you be get out of my

491
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: face in a situation of bullying. So, yeah them that

492
00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think it's necessary. See you are,

493
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: here's the problem calling your little crew that y'all go

494
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:23,640
Speaker 1: to school with. Y'all suburban parents, y'all parents, y'all from

495
00:30:23,720 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: the hoods. Yeah, but y'all have become suburbanized and you

496
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 1: all are suburban parents. So now you've you've trying to

497
00:30:32,120 --> 00:30:36,880
Speaker 1: remain bullshy and you're trying to live up to your

498
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: status status in life now. But you're calling and you're

499
00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:49,200
Speaker 1: trying to know when to implement hood ism into your kids.

500
00:30:49,680 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: And your kids don't really need that, and so you've

501
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 1: got to teach them other ways. I don't recommend teaching seriously,

502
00:30:58,480 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: do not recommend teaching two kids, because I mean, it's

503
00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:05,960
Speaker 1: gonna backfire here. Yeah, you know, I mean you don't

504
00:31:06,040 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 1: teach them negative behave Now. Did I teach my children

505
00:31:09,120 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 1: take care of themselves? Yeah? But I found out I

506
00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 1: was doing it for no reason. Somebody hit you. Everybody

507
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:17,800
Speaker 1: go down there. My kids ain't down the street fighting

508
00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:20,200
Speaker 1: and then come home and you go getting all your

509
00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: brothers and go back down there. What kids. On the

510
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: matter of fact, the house too damn far away. They're

511
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: not in six Flags like China, right See. I wanted

512
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: to tell my sons that, But they went to school

513
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 1: where they ain't fighting. They ain't fighting you. They talk

514
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 1: about your own own instagrams. My daddy took me to

515
00:31:45,160 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: get mad with my kid said that was your training.

516
00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:50,600
Speaker 1: That was that My daddy took me over there because

517
00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: they weren't fighting in my neighborhood, but over there, my

518
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:56,880
Speaker 1: cousin everything every said by twelve thirty, Yeah, get my

519
00:31:56,960 --> 00:32:01,160
Speaker 1: butt tore up. You grow up. It's like you said,

520
00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:03,800
Speaker 1: how we grew up and how we're parenting and how

521
00:32:03,840 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: our children are growing up. It's it's two different worlds,

522
00:32:06,800 --> 00:32:10,320
Speaker 1: and it's and it's some parenting that just doesn't apply today,

523
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 1: and then a lot of it does. But you all

524
00:32:13,120 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 1: have removed it because of your new way. But your

525
00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:20,240
Speaker 1: kids are suburban kids. So when the bulleting goes down

526
00:32:20,360 --> 00:32:22,560
Speaker 1: at school, how do you teach them how to cuss?

527
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 1: You ain't gotta teach them how to cuss. You gotta

528
00:32:25,320 --> 00:32:28,120
Speaker 1: get the bullet out your face. You don't get the

529
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 1: bullet out your face by cussing. There's a physical activity

530
00:32:32,280 --> 00:32:35,360
Speaker 1: that can get the bullet out. Now, if you don't

531
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:39,680
Speaker 1: want to teach the physical activity, then you got to

532
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 1: go with something else. But bullets don't respond to get

533
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,920
Speaker 1: your blankety blank out my blankety blank. They don't be

534
00:32:45,920 --> 00:32:50,080
Speaker 1: cause they bullies. They don't. They wan't told you I've

535
00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 1: been to put my blankety blank in your blankety black.

536
00:32:53,040 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: Now what's your comeback? See, it's hard to outcuss some bullet.

537
00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:04,280
Speaker 1: So you gotta teach your children the other things. But

538
00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: I don't recommend teaching your children how to talk bad

539
00:33:07,440 --> 00:33:10,240
Speaker 1: to people because that doesn't work because it's just talk

540
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:14,120
Speaker 1: and eventually it once you talk bad, you had to

541
00:33:14,200 --> 00:33:17,840
Speaker 1: bag some of it up. So did your parents had

542
00:33:17,840 --> 00:33:20,720
Speaker 1: put motivation behind you behind the bulley, like if you

543
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: don't wove his I'm yeah, that was the motivation I

544
00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:31,560
Speaker 1: had again. Yeah, yeah, what you're crying for? Yeah yeah,

545
00:33:32,000 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 1: come home crying one. I'm gonna give you something to

546
00:33:35,960 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: cry about. Then I'm gonna take you down there. My

547
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:42,600
Speaker 1: brothers then took me back down the street to fight Manny.

548
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,360
Speaker 1: Me and Manny. Me and Manny got in four fights

549
00:33:45,440 --> 00:33:50,480
Speaker 1: in one day. Me and Manny was through with it. Manny,

550
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:52,840
Speaker 1: my boy manner. He didn't hitting the picture right up

551
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: there to dude with the hat on with the gold

552
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,680
Speaker 1: jackets standing that where they named in my street, my

553
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,320
Speaker 1: boy Manny. We fought full time. Once me and Manny

554
00:33:59,400 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: was through at the first part, our brothers and sisters

555
00:34:03,280 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: got involved. Ah. Then they were beefing is roswhoo. Bought

556
00:34:10,280 --> 00:34:14,160
Speaker 1: Manny back up to my house to beat me up. Wow,

557
00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:18,880
Speaker 1: big roll huh. Bought Manny up there to be whoop

558
00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 1: man ad. Now, Manny whooped me the first time. I'm

559
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 1: through you win, Manny. We friends. But since she brought

560
00:34:26,120 --> 00:34:27,880
Speaker 1: him up to my house and my daddy was on

561
00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: the porch watching, I gott to ten minute egs. All right, listen,

562
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:37,359
Speaker 1: coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

563
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right.

564
00:34:42,360 --> 00:34:45,880
Speaker 1: Happy June teenth, and Happy Father's Day to all of

565
00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 1: the dad's out there, to the ones we work with

566
00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: right here in the studio. That's Steve, Jay and Tommy Well,

567
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 1: our resident poet is here with a gift for you

568
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:58,799
Speaker 1: guys and for us all for the world. Junior, Yes

569
00:34:58,920 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 1: it is you are two poem. Yes, this is rare.

570
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,840
Speaker 1: And let me go ahead and get this. This is

571
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: what I think that when Juneteenth happened. This is what

572
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 1: I think they were thinking. And I had to get

573
00:35:11,719 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 1: in that mindset. So here we go. This one's called

574
00:35:15,440 --> 00:35:21,840
Speaker 1: June tenth. Juneteenth. June tenth, June tenth. The secret was

575
00:35:21,920 --> 00:35:26,719
Speaker 1: never told that slavery had ended two years before. Now

576
00:35:26,840 --> 00:35:29,640
Speaker 1: to me, that's kind of bowld Jude tain't Jude Tain't

577
00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:34,520
Speaker 1: Jude tenth. We're still in the field picking cotton when

578
00:35:34,560 --> 00:35:37,439
Speaker 1: they knew dwn where we was free. If you think

579
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:40,879
Speaker 1: that's kind of rotten June tenth, Jude Tain't June tenth.

580
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,440
Speaker 1: How to hell you keep a secret like that? The

581
00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:47,120
Speaker 1: only reason you could hold us down because you were

582
00:35:47,239 --> 00:35:50,600
Speaker 1: standing on our backs June tenth, June teint, June tenth.

583
00:35:51,320 --> 00:35:54,200
Speaker 1: It's the day we celebrate. But it's one thing I

584
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: know for sure. You can never get good news too late.

585
00:35:57,760 --> 00:36:02,719
Speaker 1: Joe Tain't June tenth, June tenth. The end, that's my

586
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 1: favorite part, the end. I'm clutching my pearls right and

587
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:15,799
Speaker 1: I don't even wear that was due du city. When

588
00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:17,640
Speaker 1: they was running through the city. They run through the

589
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 1: city spread and that's how I got don't listen to him?

590
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:33,960
Speaker 1: Who listen to that? I don't feel free right now? Game,

591
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 1: Thank you, Black Daddy poem. This is what I call this.

592
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,480
Speaker 1: This is father, the father. I don't want. This is

593
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 1: He's got to you, Tommy. I'm out, I'm out. Listen.

594
00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:54,640
Speaker 1: I don't want the poem. Jan boo boo. I got

595
00:36:54,719 --> 00:36:59,400
Speaker 1: a shirt, Daddy, That's exactly how I start time. Daddy,

596
00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 1: daddy that it honor you this way. Oh daddy, dadda daddy,

597
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,880
Speaker 1: I just like to say, daddy, dadda daddy. I'd like

598
00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:11,720
Speaker 1: to take this tas to send you some hartfelt words,

599
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: and some of them may rhyme. Oh daddy, dadda daddy.

600
00:37:15,640 --> 00:37:18,400
Speaker 1: You don't sound much for me. I like how you

601
00:37:18,480 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: stand up to be a man, and you taught me

602
00:37:20,320 --> 00:37:23,839
Speaker 1: the correct way to pete dadda dadda daddy. Oh father,

603
00:37:23,960 --> 00:37:27,040
Speaker 1: pops in mind. I'll forgive you for saying you were

604
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,759
Speaker 1: coming to see me. Huh, I knew damn where you

605
00:37:29,840 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: was lying. Dad, Daddy, have your father day, I give.

606
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 1: I'd like to send your card on The problem is

607
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:41,000
Speaker 1: I don't know where you live. The end, Yes, the

608
00:37:41,360 --> 00:37:55,640
Speaker 1: end day one more time. You're listening all right? Time

609
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,520
Speaker 1: now for a comedy roulette to come on? Jay, set

610
00:37:58,600 --> 00:38:00,480
Speaker 1: it up. Please let me break it down for you.

611
00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 1: We take three subjects, put those three subjects on a wheel,

612
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: spun the wheel where the wheel stops. Because we are comedians,

613
00:38:08,000 --> 00:38:14,359
Speaker 1: we can make the damn thing funny. Watches Watches all right,

614
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:18,399
Speaker 1: Here are today's categories. Number one things people say when

615
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:24,800
Speaker 1: they don't know they are on speaker phone, things your mate.

616
00:38:25,320 --> 00:38:28,040
Speaker 1: Things your mate has that you wish they would throw away.

617
00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:35,959
Speaker 1: And then how about this one. Things that a friend

618
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 1: says to embarrass you. Oh wow, those are three good ones.

619
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: Ready yet away? Throw away? Yeah? Oh no, it stopped on.

620
00:38:57,760 --> 00:39:00,719
Speaker 1: We've all been here. Things people say when they don't

621
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,880
Speaker 1: know they're on speaker phone. Let's go, here we go.

622
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:06,439
Speaker 1: Things people say when they don't know they don't speaker phone.

623
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna that whole house, thank, I ain't gonna

624
00:39:13,760 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: not the whole house. Look here, I'm gonna say this here.

625
00:39:21,440 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 1: If if Larry and them over there, I ain't coming

626
00:39:24,080 --> 00:39:26,160
Speaker 1: because you know I don't blank it blank with Larry.

627
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 1: You already know that, you know I don't. People say

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Speaker 1: when they don't know they don't speaker phone. Here's an

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Speaker 1: ass on the phone. On the phone, people say they

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Speaker 1: don't know they don't speaker phone. Yeah, I got five dollars,

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Speaker 1: but I ain't gonna let it the hush. I wish

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Speaker 1: the hell out. Hey, listen, it's uh is the Runda

633
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Speaker 1: got her big ass over that people off my couch

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Speaker 1: because she the reason why the couch uneven, not she

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Speaker 1: the main ring why honey, Hey, you're on speaker phone.

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Speaker 1: They can hear people say they don't speaking phone. Man,

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Speaker 1: I can't stay none of their ass. You won't speaker

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Speaker 1: let me pick up the people say when they don't

639
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Speaker 1: know they don't speaker phone. I went to hell, I

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Speaker 1: would go to the funeral. I didn't like it when

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Speaker 1: he was alive. Hey, baby, looking in wrong, I tell

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Speaker 1: you something. I won't let me tell you something, girl.

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Speaker 1: I want you to do what you did with the

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Speaker 1: jelly lad, that same thing. What you do say when

645
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Speaker 1: they don't know that? Come on? See things people say

646
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Speaker 1: when they don't know they don't speaker phone. It's his

647
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Speaker 1: lass mama over there. I love it. I love it

648
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Speaker 1: things people say when they don't know they don't speaking phone.

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Speaker 1: He got a brand new cop, but he misses sixteenth.

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Speaker 1: Now that don't make no damn s. You're right about that? Hey, hey,

651
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Speaker 1: why ain't over there? You don't You don't even know

652
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Speaker 1: I'm hitting his old lady. You don't even know. I

653
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Speaker 1: don't know. Dog it out, man. Thanks. People say when

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Speaker 1: they don't know they all speak of phone. Hey, hey, no,

655
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Speaker 1: you left your panties over here. Let's everybody looking at

656
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Speaker 1: the phone. Oh oh hey, miss Jacobs. All right, thank

657
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Speaker 1: you guys. That's comedy Roulette. Coming up next nephew in

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Speaker 1: the building with today's praying phone call right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, coming up at the top of

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Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: But up next, right now, Tommy is here, the nephew

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Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. What you got now? You

663
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Speaker 1: in my house? Now? My grandma used to say, as

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Speaker 1: far as you in my house, yeah, we will serve

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Speaker 1: the lord that ain't got nothing with this hire Tyler

666
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Speaker 1: is here? Is you in my house? I don't let

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Speaker 1: you have. I am the prank phone called king from

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Speaker 1: what they say? You think that stupid? Wait till February.

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Speaker 1: February seven, Febry Avi, say it with me. Call if

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Speaker 1: you my grandma said, if you make it through January,

671
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Speaker 1: let's go. You can march on through the April. You're

672
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Speaker 1: gonna remember this. If you make it through jany Avi

673
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Speaker 1: and feby Avi, you can march on through the April.

674
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Speaker 1: Baby got him? Hey, this is uh this Preston. What

675
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Speaker 1: ya where did y'all? Leader Kiat, I'm about two hours out.

676
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Speaker 1: You got th wrong on the bro call him back.

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Speaker 1: Yeah is this Troy? Yeah? This Ty? Who there? Hey?

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Speaker 1: This is this I'm Preston. Man. Listen, I'm on my

679
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Speaker 1: way to the house. I'm about two hours was out?

680
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Speaker 1: Where did y'all lead a kid at? Man? Oh? On? Way?

681
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Speaker 1: You let me get up? You on your way to what? Hell?

682
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Speaker 1: I'm on my way there? Are you? You at the house?

683
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Speaker 1: I'm at my house? Yeah? What what did you say?

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Speaker 1: Your name was? This is Preston? I uh okay, okay,

685
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Speaker 1: hold on, man, I don't understand. Okay, I'm on my

686
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Speaker 1: way to the house. What house? Does my question? What

687
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:25,839
Speaker 1: has you coming out? Okay? You are you at six

688
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Speaker 1: and Woods Drive? Yeah? That's my house? Okay, okay, I

689
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Speaker 1: don't understand that. All right, so listen. I'm I'm about

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Speaker 1: two hours out, man. I got two U haul trucks

691
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Speaker 1: were in route there. We'll be there about two hours.

692
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Speaker 1: But but I thought y'all went out of the house

693
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Speaker 1: by now. I'm I'm kind of see where the key at?

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Speaker 1: How the hot I don't know what? Hold on? Get up?

695
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Speaker 1: What you now? Hold on? What? What what did you say?

696
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Speaker 1: You you you got two U haul trucks? What what

697
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:57,600
Speaker 1: you got? What you got? Tom? Fuck was it? Was it? Now?

698
00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm moving into the house. I bought the house. You

699
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Speaker 1: you're moving in the white Okay, how you don't know?

700
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Speaker 1: I bought the house? Man? What the house you talking about?

701
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Speaker 1: You on Woollers Drive. That's I bought this house from

702
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Speaker 1: kids there? Yeah yeah, ti Ti Yeah yeah yeah, tire.

703
00:45:16,120 --> 00:45:17,960
Speaker 1: That's that's what. That's where we that's where we got

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Speaker 1: the house from. When you say you about the house, okay,

705
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:24,080
Speaker 1: wait a minute, you leased the house from kids there, right, yeah, yeah,

706
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Speaker 1: we're right right. We stood out about another year lesson

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Speaker 1: our least. We we we at this house for another year.

708
00:45:30,520 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: I mean, and we supposed to renew that. Okay, okay,

709
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Speaker 1: we got a problem. Let me let me try to Okay,

710
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Speaker 1: y we play one time. I'm let me get my

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Speaker 1: wife on them. I get my wife on the phone

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Speaker 1: on hold on a minute, okay, So now tis they'll

713
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Speaker 1: tell me that y'all supposed to be at the house

714
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Speaker 1: and I'm calling because he said y'all gonna leave the

715
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Speaker 1: key in a certain place. It's not live till that

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Speaker 1: ain't told, you know, Like I mean, let me get

717
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Speaker 1: kids there on the phone, because because how we how

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Speaker 1: do you hear he ain't. Man, we ain't hear nothing

719
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Speaker 1: about no selling, no, no house or no nothing like that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well I didn't. I didn't balk the house from Tisdale.

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Speaker 1: And I'm I'm like I said, I'm I'm two hours out.

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Speaker 1: I might get there a little quicker. How soon do

723
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Speaker 1: you think y'all gonna get the stuff? Get y'all stuff

724
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Speaker 1: out the house? Yeah? What stuff out? Want house? Y'all

725
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:20,080
Speaker 1: gonna have to get y'all stuff out the house? Get

726
00:46:20,120 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 1: what stuff? Did you a game a lot of day?

727
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 1: You think we're gonna get we? We we look like

728
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Speaker 1: I said, man, we need to get Tisdale on the

729
00:46:27,520 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: phone and get this cleared up. You a thing. I'll

730
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Speaker 1: tell you what you bring up. You haul trucks as

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Speaker 1: you want to. Y'all bet to take you back where

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Speaker 1: you come from. I tell you that after you that

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Speaker 1: ain't listen, man, listen the mistake. First of all, okay,

734
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Speaker 1: you you arguing with me about my house. That's not house. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: now see it now I'm at to see now you

736
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Speaker 1: pissing the hour. I'ma tell you. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 1: like I like, like I'm gonna tell Tisdale ain't none

738
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Speaker 1: of this ain't going down the way you think it's

739
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Speaker 1: gonna go down. You know I'm staying. We signed to

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Speaker 1: leaf being this house for a year. I mean that's

741
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Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. We're gonna be in this house

742
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:02,880
Speaker 1: for a hope. Yeah, you ain't gonna yeah, so you

743
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:06,279
Speaker 1: might get yourself own the house. I own the house.

744
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,760
Speaker 1: You got to get your stop. Man, I'm two hours

745
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:11,959
Speaker 1: out here. Man, little man, we look, let listen to me. Now, listen.

746
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Speaker 1: We haven't been in this house five years. Okay, we

747
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,319
Speaker 1: got one year nothing this house. Okay. Look, ain't gonna

748
00:47:17,320 --> 00:47:19,160
Speaker 1: be no moving end the day. We can't. I can't

749
00:47:19,160 --> 00:47:21,839
Speaker 1: move my man, I got wife, I got kids in man.

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Speaker 1: I look, I'm tem teeth. I'm teeth. It's like it's

751
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:27,440
Speaker 1: like you said, you got we gotta talk Tisdale. But

752
00:47:27,560 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 1: I'm telling you, man, you pull up today and you

753
00:47:31,000 --> 00:47:33,799
Speaker 1: haul I sweat a little. I'm gonna I'm gonna whoop

754
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Speaker 1: your until you you you you don't call me with

755
00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: all this, ain't got no notice or nothing, because what

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00:47:40,040 --> 00:47:46,839
Speaker 1: I'm saying, you ain't never talk, ain't got going at

757
00:47:46,880 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 1: one time? Agree with me. Name I'm saying okay, well

758
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 1: that swing you and kids there. But right nah, I'm

759
00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:53,440
Speaker 1: on my way to my house and you got to

760
00:47:53,480 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: get your no. No, you're on your way to my house.

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00:47:57,520 --> 00:48:01,480
Speaker 1: I can't if you if you no, you come to

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Speaker 1: my house, you're gonna get your hands the tea. Let

763
00:48:04,640 --> 00:48:06,239
Speaker 1: me let me say that is your kids, your is

764
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 1: your wife and kids there right now? They at church

765
00:48:08,719 --> 00:48:11,759
Speaker 1: where you'll need to be okay, okay, is in the room.

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Speaker 1: And what's in the garage? In the room, in the garage,

767
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 1: can you move on your what's in my garage? You're raggedy,

768
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:19,359
Speaker 1: like I just told you. You pull up to my house,

769
00:48:19,520 --> 00:48:21,480
Speaker 1: I'll get some fun that you're moving and this man

770
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 1: getting you're getting your black blue and ain't I ain't

771
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:29,400
Speaker 1: gonna say when you come make me do it? You

772
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,319
Speaker 1: come make me do it. Move out of my house today.

773
00:48:31,320 --> 00:48:33,800
Speaker 1: What's in my garde? Then? What's in your garage? You

774
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:36,040
Speaker 1: tell me that what's in yr garade? I'm allow I'm

775
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:38,280
Speaker 1: gonna allowing you to do this. Move all your stuff

776
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,799
Speaker 1: into the garage. I'm gonna allow you to get your

777
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Speaker 1: wol I'm saying what I'm saying so so I see,

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Speaker 1: I see now I see now you won't ya up

779
00:48:45,920 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 1: in front of your wife and kids. I see, so

780
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:49,800
Speaker 1: you gonna what my sho that what you're gonna do.

781
00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 1: I'll tell you what if you bring them you halls,

782
00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:54,759
Speaker 1: you bring your wife, your kids, your dogs, and you

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00:48:54,840 --> 00:48:57,759
Speaker 1: bring it about, I won't call your right in front

784
00:48:57,760 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: of It's not your house. It's not I I bought

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00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:03,840
Speaker 1: the house from. I'm telling a look, I tell you

786
00:49:03,920 --> 00:49:05,879
Speaker 1: what you need me right in the front, y'all. I'm

787
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Speaker 1: gonna be right out here standing like I'm gonna whoopill

788
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Speaker 1: into my rope and my house shoes. How about that

789
00:49:10,560 --> 00:49:12,320
Speaker 1: gonna kill me to move out my house? And I

790
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Speaker 1: tell you better you didn't because you don't need told

791
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Speaker 1: me to tell you what you mean? What you say?

792
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Speaker 1: Do you know what ese tids there told me to

793
00:49:20,280 --> 00:49:22,680
Speaker 1: tell you, see one that you're gonna tell me whatever

794
00:49:22,840 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 1: kids they're told me. But I tell you what, they

795
00:49:24,560 --> 00:49:27,120
Speaker 1: ain't moving out my house today. So I'm telling you

796
00:49:27,200 --> 00:49:29,040
Speaker 1: that right now, ain't gonna be no moving out here,

797
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 1: he said, with the kids there told you to say.

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00:49:30,680 --> 00:49:32,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you to hear what tids there told

799
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Speaker 1: me to tell you tear then told me to tell

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Speaker 1: you that this is neph you tim me from the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvard Morning Show, Troy your wife and tids there

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Speaker 1: got me the frank phone call you. So this one book,

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Speaker 1: this some this one book. I'dn't putting my pens on boots.

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Speaker 1: I'm waiting. I'm sitting right here in my living room

805
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Speaker 1: looking at the waiting for this. You wanted to pull

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Speaker 1: up because I show gonna tear fire from your boy. Man,

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Speaker 1: I can't go back to sweep now. You don't got

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Speaker 1: me fired up? Ain't try. I gotta ask you for

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I am a forty two year old

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Speaker 1: single mother and I have two teenage children that live

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Speaker 1: with me. At my age, I wanted to become a

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00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:54,719
Speaker 1: homeowner and stop renting, so I started looking for an

833
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:59,360
Speaker 1: affordable place to buy. My mom recently received a financial blessing,

834
00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: so she offered me to buy me a house. So

835
00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:05,560
Speaker 1: she offered to buy me a house. Hesitantly, I agreed.

836
00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 1: I found a small, affordable home and my mother bought it.

837
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,360
Speaker 1: I pay the mortgage, but the house is in my

838
00:52:13,520 --> 00:52:17,040
Speaker 1: mom's name, which is why I was hesitant. To go

839
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: through with the deal. I should have followed my first mind,

840
00:52:21,560 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: because since I have moved in, I have not had

841
00:52:24,400 --> 00:52:27,839
Speaker 1: any peace in my home. On several occasions, I came

842
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: home to find that my mother had put pictures on

843
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:34,440
Speaker 1: the wall, put up curtains, and bought pieces of furniture

844
00:52:34,600 --> 00:52:38,320
Speaker 1: from my house. She is a thrifty shopper, so I

845
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,080
Speaker 1: don't like any of the design choices she has made.

846
00:52:41,520 --> 00:52:44,520
Speaker 1: One day, she dropped off ten vases and told me

847
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:47,480
Speaker 1: she planned to keep fresh flowers in them and put

848
00:52:47,560 --> 00:52:50,520
Speaker 1: them throughout my house to liven it up. She comes

849
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:54,520
Speaker 1: over every other day and she stays overnight too. This

850
00:52:54,960 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 1: is unacceptable, so I had to tell her that enough

851
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 1: is enough. I asked her to please text or call

852
00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:04,520
Speaker 1: me before coming by. She made sure to remind me

853
00:53:04,760 --> 00:53:09,840
Speaker 1: that it's her house, that it's her house. She called

854
00:53:09,840 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: me an ungrateful half of day and said I was

855
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 1: trifling for not appreciating the way she's trying to help

856
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,680
Speaker 1: me to decorate the house. I haven't talked to her,

857
00:53:20,880 --> 00:53:24,320
Speaker 1: nor have I seen her in a week, so I

858
00:53:24,440 --> 00:53:26,440
Speaker 1: guess it worked. I don't want to be at odds

859
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:29,399
Speaker 1: with my mom. I'm very grateful for all she's done,

860
00:53:29,600 --> 00:53:32,359
Speaker 1: but I need her to respect my space. Am I wrong?

861
00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:36,359
Speaker 1: Please help? No, you're not wrong. You are absolutely not wrong,

862
00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:39,920
Speaker 1: especially you know, as long as you spoke to your

863
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: mom in a respectful way, and it sounds like you did.

864
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: But boy, this is really a case for going with

865
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:48,840
Speaker 1: your first mind, for going with your gut here. This

866
00:53:49,000 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 1: has got to be in the top five of that.

867
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:54,920
Speaker 1: You know, you knew it would be a problem though,

868
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:56,840
Speaker 1: which is why you said you were hesitant in the

869
00:53:56,920 --> 00:54:01,840
Speaker 1: first place. But that down payment, your mama's money, was

870
00:54:02,000 --> 00:54:04,800
Speaker 1: dangling in your face, so you went forward. The lesson

871
00:54:04,920 --> 00:54:06,879
Speaker 1: for you here is you know you should have got

872
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 1: your name on the house as well. You know, yeah,

873
00:54:09,880 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 1: your mom paid the down payment, but you could have

874
00:54:11,719 --> 00:54:15,800
Speaker 1: put your name on the deed um. Surely after portrait

875
00:54:16,080 --> 00:54:19,959
Speaker 1: you could have done like a quick claim um, you know, transaction,

876
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: or just waited until you came up with the money

877
00:54:23,880 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 1: for your own house. You could have done that because

878
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: you've been looking for a while. You could have been

879
00:54:27,560 --> 00:54:30,200
Speaker 1: a little more patient. I understand you wanted to get

880
00:54:30,239 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 1: the house so and you found oneed it was right

881
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:36,399
Speaker 1: there and your mom was there. But in the meantime, yes,

882
00:54:36,560 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: your mom is order order. Uh. When you know, when

883
00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 1: you give someone a gift, you don't hover it over them,

884
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:45,040
Speaker 1: you know, and and and invade their space like your

885
00:54:45,080 --> 00:54:48,560
Speaker 1: mom's doing. Constantly remind you that is her house. That's

886
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: not right. I mean, she's throwing it up in your

887
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 1: face every chance she gets. Furthermore, you're paying the mortgage,

888
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:57,919
Speaker 1: you are, so it's it is your house. I'm glad

889
00:54:58,000 --> 00:55:00,960
Speaker 1: she's decided to remove her herself off from the situation

890
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 1: and you could probably you know, a little later on.

891
00:55:03,880 --> 00:55:07,000
Speaker 1: Give it some time, caller and you know, make your apologies.

892
00:55:07,080 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 1: You guys, make up. She's your mom. She's not going anywhere.

893
00:55:10,160 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 1: But yeah, she's wrong to do all of this. I mean,

894
00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:15,680
Speaker 1: nice to help you, but wrong as far as this

895
00:55:15,880 --> 00:55:19,960
Speaker 1: is concerned. Steve, Well, anytime, y'all ready for me to

896
00:55:20,040 --> 00:55:23,720
Speaker 1: make the clear fine statement of this letter. Please stop

897
00:55:23,800 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 1: me in the middle of it and ask me at

898
00:55:26,280 --> 00:55:29,840
Speaker 1: any time, Steve, do you have a clear fine statement?

899
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna make it. Let's start with the letter

900
00:55:33,760 --> 00:55:38,160
Speaker 1: forty two single mama, two teenage children. You know she

901
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:40,360
Speaker 1: always thought that body and she'd be at home on

902
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 1: the most people do. That's a great goal in life.

903
00:55:42,680 --> 00:55:45,040
Speaker 1: You know, be at home on and stop written. So

904
00:55:45,200 --> 00:55:48,680
Speaker 1: you start looking for an affordable place. Your mom ran

905
00:55:48,760 --> 00:55:51,640
Speaker 1: into so a financial blessing. See now here we go,

906
00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:59,080
Speaker 1: let's start. This is a financial blessing. All your problems

907
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:07,759
Speaker 1: started with what you considered a blessing. See careful, your

908
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:14,040
Speaker 1: mama came up with a financial blessing. It's wasn't yours.

909
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: It's wasn't them kids, it's when your dad is. It's

910
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:23,040
Speaker 1: what none of your siblings. Your mama had a financial blessing.

911
00:56:23,640 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 1: So she offered to buy me a house. Hesitantly, I agreed.

912
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:34,040
Speaker 1: Why why would you hesitantly agree? But you found a small,

913
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 1: affordable home and my mother bought it. Your mama bought it.

914
00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:45,800
Speaker 1: I pay the mortgage, but the house is in my

915
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:51,080
Speaker 1: mama name. Now, if your mother was truly buying you

916
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:54,839
Speaker 1: the house, why wouldn't she just give you the down

917
00:56:55,040 --> 00:56:59,920
Speaker 1: payment and let you own the house. That is because

918
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:06,040
Speaker 1: this was never the intention. Shit just gonna let you

919
00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:11,400
Speaker 1: stay down right, which is why I was hesitant to

920
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:15,160
Speaker 1: go through the deal. I should have followed my first mind.

921
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:18,400
Speaker 1: I have not had any peace in my home. It's

922
00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,960
Speaker 1: cause it ain't choice. See, let's just gonna get to

923
00:57:22,120 --> 00:57:24,520
Speaker 1: this right. On several occasions, I came home find my

924
00:57:24,640 --> 00:57:26,600
Speaker 1: mother had put pictures on the walls and curtain and

925
00:57:26,800 --> 00:57:30,400
Speaker 1: bart places furniture in her house from my house. That's

926
00:57:30,440 --> 00:57:33,200
Speaker 1: causes her house. Hang on, Steve, we'll have part two

927
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,160
Speaker 1: of your responses anytime y'all want to clear fine statement

928
00:57:36,200 --> 00:57:38,240
Speaker 1: when we come back. Just as I'm gonna ask you,

929
00:57:39,440 --> 00:57:41,520
Speaker 1: We'll be back in twenty three after the hour with

930
00:57:41,680 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letters? Subject Am I trifling or ungrateful? Right

931
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: after this you're listening to show? All right, Steve, let's

932
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:55,280
Speaker 1: recap today's strawberry letters. The recap is simpleness. Woman over

933
00:57:55,360 --> 00:57:57,400
Speaker 1: here for the two got these kids always wanted to

934
00:57:57,520 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: own the house. So mama ran into a financial bless

935
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:06,120
Speaker 1: a gift from God hallelujah. Yeah, and her mama decided

936
00:58:06,200 --> 00:58:09,000
Speaker 1: she'd help her daughter out by buying her house. So

937
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:12,240
Speaker 1: she bought the house. She paid a mortgage, but it's

938
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 1: in her mama's name, which is why she was hesitating

939
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:16,800
Speaker 1: in the first place. Let's go over what I said.

940
00:58:16,880 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 1: I have not had any peace in my home. What

941
00:58:19,200 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: that cause? It ain't choice? On several cases, I can't

942
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:23,280
Speaker 1: home find my mother put pips on the wall and

943
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:25,880
Speaker 1: put up curtains and bought piece of furniture from my house.

944
00:58:26,160 --> 00:58:30,200
Speaker 1: Excuse me her house. She's a thrifty shopper, so I

945
00:58:30,240 --> 00:58:32,440
Speaker 1: don't like any design choices she made. One day, she

946
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,640
Speaker 1: dropped off ten vasines, told me she planned to keep

947
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:37,200
Speaker 1: fresh flowers in them and put them throughout my house

948
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:40,240
Speaker 1: to liven it up. She wonna put it in her

949
00:58:40,280 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 1: house and they ain't gonna stay live. You're gonna have

950
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:47,560
Speaker 1: a bunch of dad had flowers and she comes over.

951
00:58:47,880 --> 00:58:51,920
Speaker 1: You want it anytime you want it? What's the clarifying statement?

952
00:58:52,520 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: Can't let black people put their name on nothing? This

953
00:58:58,880 --> 00:59:03,560
Speaker 1: is what? This is a bye. You can't let black

954
00:59:03,720 --> 00:59:08,040
Speaker 1: people put their name on nothing and then try to

955
00:59:08,160 --> 00:59:11,680
Speaker 1: act like they ain't got no say something. Huh. That's

956
00:59:11,760 --> 00:59:14,640
Speaker 1: the clarifying statement. I'll give it to you anytime you

957
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: want it. Here's another one. She come over every day.

958
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:22,360
Speaker 1: She stadis overnight too, because she at her house. This

959
00:59:22,640 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 1: is unacceptable and unacceptable to who my name on you

960
00:59:27,840 --> 00:59:31,680
Speaker 1: what you don't like it? So I had to tell

961
00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:33,960
Speaker 1: that enough is enough. I ask her to please text

962
00:59:34,000 --> 00:59:36,440
Speaker 1: to call me before coming by. Why I gotta call

963
00:59:36,480 --> 00:59:41,960
Speaker 1: you to come back my house. She may show to

964
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:44,960
Speaker 1: remind me that it is her house. She got. She

965
00:59:45,120 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 1: can't a deed with them. Huh, can you make a

966
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:52,520
Speaker 1: clarifying statement. You can't let black people put their name

967
00:59:52,680 --> 00:59:59,880
Speaker 1: on nothing, lease, nothing, not the least the mortgage. They

968
01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,760
Speaker 1: can't co sign, no damn low. They can't rich you,

969
01:00:03,880 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 1: no damn car. You can't let the ass man by

970
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: you a car. They can't rind a car. They can't

971
01:00:11,800 --> 01:00:15,920
Speaker 1: get your truck to move in. You ain't packing all

972
01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:19,160
Speaker 1: that stuff in that truck. I got the card back description.

973
01:00:20,320 --> 01:00:23,200
Speaker 1: You can't get in forscription you I need to it impels.

974
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:28,880
Speaker 1: You can't do nothing. You can't put that black people

975
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:32,800
Speaker 1: put their name on nothing. I've been been around black

976
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:35,680
Speaker 1: people my whole life. I'll be six or two years

977
01:00:35,720 --> 01:00:38,240
Speaker 1: old in a minute. I've been black the whole time.

978
01:00:38,360 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 1: All my relatives is black, ever the last one of them.

979
01:00:43,160 --> 01:00:46,000
Speaker 1: You can't let them put their damn name on nothing.

980
01:00:48,080 --> 01:00:51,320
Speaker 1: She called me ungrateful. Help for that's death, the beginning.

981
01:00:54,240 --> 01:00:59,760
Speaker 1: That's old. Now is you ungrateful? Help for you? You wait,

982
01:01:00,080 --> 01:01:03,520
Speaker 1: you get to the reunion and find out what your

983
01:01:03,600 --> 01:01:09,160
Speaker 1: plans really is. You can't let black people put their

984
01:01:09,320 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: name on nothing, and you're not fitting to hear about it.

985
01:01:14,280 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 1: You can best to believe this thing, and said I

986
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: was trifling and for not appreciating the way she was

987
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 1: trying to help me decorate the house. That nobody want

988
01:01:25,160 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 1: all the old A declarations in here, because mamma, you

989
01:01:28,720 --> 01:01:32,480
Speaker 1: old got all these blue farm plates sitting up on

990
01:01:32,600 --> 01:01:35,840
Speaker 1: top of the mantel pieces. Got that bit giant wooden

991
01:01:35,880 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: spooning fuck on the wall, Yes, yes, coming in here.

992
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:43,960
Speaker 1: I'm hearing my daddy in here hamming walnut paneling up

993
01:01:44,040 --> 01:01:50,680
Speaker 1: on the wall. Mama, whom who arted this shag? Cop?

994
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: Why is it a rak in the corner? Mama? Where

995
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:59,240
Speaker 1: you get that fun? That's a TV stand, baby, but

996
01:01:59,400 --> 01:02:04,680
Speaker 1: TV for the color TV to sit he My mama

997
01:02:04,720 --> 01:02:08,040
Speaker 1: wanted a flash screen. You flash screens is the devil?

998
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,400
Speaker 1: Hows all that little stuff coming out of that flash screen?

999
01:02:14,440 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 1: They ain't nothing? But that's say you're gonna get a

1000
01:02:18,360 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 1: picture tube. It's what you need. Christians. Christians have picture too.

1001
01:02:25,440 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: I haven't talked to her, nor have I seen her

1002
01:02:27,520 --> 01:02:30,080
Speaker 1: in a week. Well, hell, that's lucky shit coming back though.

1003
01:02:31,040 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 1: You can't believe I haven't talked to her, nor seen

1004
01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:35,360
Speaker 1: her in a week. Oh she got she getting a lawyer?

1005
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,360
Speaker 1: What chi getting a lawyer? When you come over there,

1006
01:02:39,360 --> 01:02:41,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna have fiction notices and people gonna be saying

1007
01:02:41,560 --> 01:02:45,120
Speaker 1: good body, And so I guess it worked. Ain't nothing worth.

1008
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:47,919
Speaker 1: Her name is still on a damn d I don't

1009
01:02:47,920 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 1: want to be at os with my mama. I am

1010
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:51,840
Speaker 1: very grateful for all she's done, but I need her

1011
01:02:51,880 --> 01:02:53,920
Speaker 1: to respect my space and my wrong. You ain't got

1012
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: no space. I just told you you can't put people's

1013
01:02:59,560 --> 01:03:07,800
Speaker 1: name nothing. That's that's her TV, that's her room, that's

1014
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:14,480
Speaker 1: that's poach, that's our tree. Long can black people rint

1015
01:03:14,560 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 1: you a rule? If they rinch you a rule, you

1016
01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:20,360
Speaker 1: might come home and don't be no dough on it.

1017
01:03:24,200 --> 01:03:27,840
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell you another statement to pope. People

1018
01:03:27,920 --> 01:03:31,560
Speaker 1: don't share good. I just want to let you know

1019
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:34,840
Speaker 1: that because somebody have to be in charge of the

1020
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:39,800
Speaker 1: other pope person pop people don't share good. I'm just

1021
01:03:39,920 --> 01:03:42,360
Speaker 1: trying to teach y'all something that stop. All right, we

1022
01:03:42,480 --> 01:03:45,320
Speaker 1: gotta get out of here, Joe and say fitting here

1023
01:03:45,360 --> 01:03:50,440
Speaker 1: for me, cable, email us, Instagram. I don't even like

1024
01:03:50,600 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 1: spokes center. I just want a regular package. You're listening show,

1025
01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:01,200
Speaker 1: all right? Come on, Steve introduced Jay as he murders

1026
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:06,400
Speaker 1: an a man who has caused me to lose most

1027
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:11,080
Speaker 1: celebrity friends in a short time. He's been here murdering

1028
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:14,919
Speaker 1: the hits. Jay Brown, First of all, you're not gonna

1029
01:04:14,960 --> 01:04:17,240
Speaker 1: lose any friends today, You're not. This is a great one,

1030
01:04:17,800 --> 01:04:20,800
Speaker 1: all right. The day's hit. This very very dead to me.

1031
01:04:21,960 --> 01:04:25,520
Speaker 1: Check it out a summer school and this time. Man,

1032
01:04:25,520 --> 01:04:30,920
Speaker 1: it ain't easy, ain't It's something what you can do

1033
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:37,280
Speaker 1: when you try. You only wishes. My only wishes is

1034
01:04:37,320 --> 01:04:39,200
Speaker 1: you're not singing that song. Come on, I mean it's

1035
01:04:39,200 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 1: about people going to summers. Don't give a hell who

1036
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:44,840
Speaker 1: it is about. Okay, man, but that's not how we

1037
01:04:45,000 --> 01:04:46,960
Speaker 1: murder hits. Baby, you know we do it. You know

1038
01:04:47,080 --> 01:04:56,040
Speaker 1: how what you got? What you got? Check this out? Okay?

1039
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:02,680
Speaker 1: That me. I'm a school and the gay chickers out

1040
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: summer school in sum much time. You messed up, no

1041
01:05:09,240 --> 01:05:14,120
Speaker 1: sense in crime and you a school dumb ass getting

1042
01:05:14,160 --> 01:05:17,080
Speaker 1: your learned on while other kids aren't having some fun.

1043
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:20,400
Speaker 1: You've builded every class, including your arm tree. Yours that

1044
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:24,000
Speaker 1: Classtown now taking history a little bit out of control.

1045
01:05:24,080 --> 01:05:26,520
Speaker 1: You had your chance, and what about to rule. You're broke.

1046
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:29,760
Speaker 1: I'm come on, man, and no more hitting, no chicks,

1047
01:05:30,040 --> 01:05:32,480
Speaker 1: and no more hanging with friends who say hit this.

1048
01:05:33,160 --> 01:05:35,920
Speaker 1: You're focusing heart need to pass a Mom and dad

1049
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:40,200
Speaker 1: gonna get in that ass. Normal watching TV wasteing time.

1050
01:05:40,280 --> 01:05:43,400
Speaker 1: Summer school ain't cool because his white toyshoue summer times.

1051
01:05:43,440 --> 01:05:48,200
Speaker 1: Summer school in summer time because his white joyshoue summer

1052
01:05:48,240 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 1: time you messed up. No sense in crime summer school

1053
01:05:54,400 --> 01:05:58,520
Speaker 1: and summer much time. This is white toutiue summer time.

1054
01:05:58,640 --> 01:06:17,840
Speaker 1: You messed up, no sense. You didn't lose any friends

1055
01:06:17,880 --> 01:06:22,240
Speaker 1: on that junior You didn't lose any friends on that one.

1056
01:06:23,560 --> 01:06:31,800
Speaker 1: But next week you're listening to show. All right, guys,

1057
01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:34,240
Speaker 1: here's a question for you. Is it possible to be

1058
01:06:34,440 --> 01:06:39,560
Speaker 1: too tired to go to sleep? Uh, It's perfectly possible

1059
01:06:40,080 --> 01:06:42,920
Speaker 1: to feel tired and at the same time have trouble

1060
01:06:43,040 --> 01:06:46,520
Speaker 1: dozing off. Certain life stresses and health problems can leave

1061
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: us feeling exhausted, but at the same time make it

1062
01:06:49,600 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 1: difficult to relax and go to sleep. Also, missing out

1063
01:06:53,160 --> 01:06:56,720
Speaker 1: on sleep can disrupt our natural rhythms. Which can make

1064
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: us feel wide awake when we usually be sleeping. So

1065
01:07:00,680 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: here's the question. Have you ever been too tired to sleep?

1066
01:07:03,920 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 1: I've heard people say that before. I'm just I'm I

1067
01:07:06,200 --> 01:07:08,800
Speaker 1: was so tired I couldn't even sleep. What do you

1068
01:07:08,880 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 1: think cause that? Well, I know for a fact you

1069
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 1: can be tired and not be sleepy. And then sometimes, man,

1070
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:21,600
Speaker 1: you can. You I've done myself like that many times.

1071
01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:25,280
Speaker 1: I just pushed myself to the edge and then it's

1072
01:07:25,320 --> 01:07:28,520
Speaker 1: so much adrenaline that it takes a while for the

1073
01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:32,280
Speaker 1: adrenaline to go because you've just been exerting yourself. Yeah, yeah,

1074
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:34,760
Speaker 1: you know, and then that adrenaline is flowing and you're

1075
01:07:34,880 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: up in your hype because man, it's sometimes, like Tommy

1076
01:07:39,480 --> 01:07:41,560
Speaker 1: Junior tell you, after the show is kind of hard.

1077
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,240
Speaker 1: It's kind of hard to go to see you still

1078
01:07:43,280 --> 01:07:47,280
Speaker 1: excite it. Yeah, you're tired, Yeah, just yeah done? A

1079
01:07:47,360 --> 01:07:55,800
Speaker 1: show is running. Yeah, So what do you do in

1080
01:07:55,960 --> 01:07:57,800
Speaker 1: that case when you know you have to get some rest?

1081
01:07:57,920 --> 01:08:00,440
Speaker 1: I passed his bags all missed this flight? What I did?

1082
01:08:01,480 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 1: And you sleep on the plane? Yeah, I try to

1083
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:07,400
Speaker 1: get sleep on the plane. Love sleeping on the plane. Yeah. Yeah,

1084
01:08:08,120 --> 01:08:12,320
Speaker 1: But Steve when you're not too tired and you're getting

1085
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:15,840
Speaker 1: and you look forward to that sleep, And how do

1086
01:08:15,920 --> 01:08:20,559
Speaker 1: you sleep? You know you're about tom I'm I'm talking

1087
01:08:20,560 --> 01:08:24,240
Speaker 1: about when I know I'm sleeping, like you know, like

1088
01:08:24,439 --> 01:08:28,559
Speaker 1: I'll be talking to somebody and be looking dead at

1089
01:08:28,600 --> 01:08:33,240
Speaker 1: their ass, but don't but don't be listening, right, but

1090
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:37,720
Speaker 1: be rocking back and forth just a little bit, you know,

1091
01:08:37,840 --> 01:08:41,040
Speaker 1: but not side to side, back and forth like closer

1092
01:08:41,080 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 1: to him, fall away, close to him, fall away, and

1093
01:08:44,040 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 1: just be rocking like that, so it don't look because

1094
01:08:46,640 --> 01:08:48,439
Speaker 1: you don't want to rock side to side because that

1095
01:08:48,520 --> 01:08:51,600
Speaker 1: throw people off. But when you rock towards them, that

1096
01:08:51,800 --> 01:08:55,360
Speaker 1: just lures them in. And they be just talking and

1097
01:08:55,520 --> 01:08:57,960
Speaker 1: I don't be hearing nothing. They say, I've shut my

1098
01:08:58,080 --> 01:09:03,760
Speaker 1: eyes completely. While somebody was talking at Lady one time

1099
01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:05,640
Speaker 1: at this meeting. She was talking and I was just

1100
01:09:05,720 --> 01:09:08,360
Speaker 1: looking at how rocking I fell asleep. She said, are

1101
01:09:08,360 --> 01:09:14,920
Speaker 1: you okay? I'm fine? You right? What's wrong with you? See?

1102
01:09:15,160 --> 01:09:17,840
Speaker 1: I really think you hold the record of getting on

1103
01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 1: the plane and falling asleep the fastest. Yeah. Yeah, but

1104
01:09:27,240 --> 01:09:29,439
Speaker 1: I go to sleep on the plane and the heartbeat,

1105
01:09:29,439 --> 01:09:34,840
Speaker 1: I don't guess you will, Oh, no no no no no,

1106
01:09:34,920 --> 01:09:41,120
Speaker 1: no no no, said the Entertainer's boy KB KP KB

1107
01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:45,800
Speaker 1: KB snor we on plane one time, king to him.

1108
01:09:46,800 --> 01:09:50,320
Speaker 1: KB was snoring so loud. The white dude next to

1109
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:58,479
Speaker 1: him said, hey, are you serious? Are you really serious?

1110
01:10:00,479 --> 01:10:02,760
Speaker 1: So k KB saying, hey, man, my bad, but I

1111
01:10:02,840 --> 01:10:06,880
Speaker 1: do snore. So Kaby went back in again. Now we

1112
01:10:07,040 --> 01:10:10,800
Speaker 1: crossed the aisle, KB snowing so loud. We on the

1113
01:10:10,880 --> 01:10:13,559
Speaker 1: other side of the aisle me and said, just holly.

1114
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:24,080
Speaker 1: The white dude said, oh my god, for crying out loud, mister,

1115
01:10:25,120 --> 01:10:30,599
Speaker 1: can you please set up KB? Tell me? KB said, hey, man,

1116
01:10:31,320 --> 01:10:33,479
Speaker 1: I just told you I snore, so listen to this

1117
01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:36,760
Speaker 1: right here. If you wake me up one more time,

1118
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:41,360
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna believe what else I do a loud too,

1119
01:10:43,720 --> 01:10:47,320
Speaker 1: because my ass whipping skills is just as loud as

1120
01:10:47,400 --> 01:10:51,600
Speaker 1: my soul source. So Kaby went back over there, and

1121
01:10:52,080 --> 01:10:57,880
Speaker 1: ten minutes later k be with ripping them in again.

1122
01:10:58,200 --> 01:11:01,479
Speaker 1: That dude got up out of class and went back

1123
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:07,640
Speaker 1: in coach and said, ann, wows all right, coming up

1124
01:11:08,320 --> 01:11:10,800
Speaker 1: more of today's trending stories on the Steve Harvey Morning

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01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:13,679
Speaker 1: Show at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll be right back.

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01:11:14,200 --> 01:11:20,880
Speaker 1: You're listening to Harvey Morning Show. Candles, Candles, candles. Let's

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01:11:20,960 --> 01:11:24,160
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Speaker 1: candle today. All right, guys, it's time for a round

1133
01:11:39,240 --> 01:11:43,040
Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather make love on

1134
01:11:43,160 --> 01:11:45,840
Speaker 1: the beach or would you rather make love and a

1135
01:11:45,880 --> 01:11:49,719
Speaker 1: hot tub? What's your preference? What's your water preference? Hot?

1136
01:11:50,840 --> 01:11:59,880
Speaker 1: Hot tub? Gets too hot you, Kate and Joey, thank you.

1137
01:12:00,400 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: I can't get that same hot all this damn noise?

1138
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:12,240
Speaker 1: What's wrong in here? On this Am I doing something?

1139
01:12:12,840 --> 01:12:16,439
Speaker 1: Is it just this tub that's noisy? It's hot in here?

1140
01:12:16,479 --> 01:12:23,519
Speaker 1: I'm already hot here. Let me hear you. That beach

1141
01:12:24,560 --> 01:12:28,120
Speaker 1: the big ass need a big ass blanket though. Okay,

1142
01:12:28,280 --> 01:12:34,559
Speaker 1: you can't just be on that sand That ain't gonna sand. Okay,

1143
01:12:35,520 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 1: you're listening show, all right. Happy June teenth and Happy

1144
01:12:41,600 --> 01:12:43,920
Speaker 1: Father's Day to all of the dads out there. To

1145
01:12:44,000 --> 01:12:46,120
Speaker 1: the ones we work with right here in the studio.

1146
01:12:46,920 --> 01:12:51,040
Speaker 1: That's Steve Jay and Tommy Well, our resident poet is

1147
01:12:51,080 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 1: here with a gift for you guys and for us

1148
01:12:53,600 --> 01:12:56,400
Speaker 1: all for the world. Junior, Yes it is you are

1149
01:12:56,479 --> 01:13:00,760
Speaker 1: two poems. Yes, it's a rare d for each acknowledge. Man,

1150
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:02,560
Speaker 1: Let me go ahead and get this. This is what

1151
01:13:02,760 --> 01:13:05,760
Speaker 1: I think that when June teenth happened. This is what

1152
01:13:05,880 --> 01:13:08,160
Speaker 1: I think they were thinking. And I had to get

1153
01:13:08,200 --> 01:13:11,679
Speaker 1: in that mindset. So here we go. This one's called

1154
01:13:11,800 --> 01:13:17,920
Speaker 1: June teenth. June teenth, June tenth, June teenth. The secret

1155
01:13:18,040 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 1: was never told that slavery had ended two years before.

1156
01:13:22,760 --> 01:13:25,439
Speaker 1: Now to me, that's kind of bowl. June tain't, Jude

1157
01:13:25,479 --> 01:13:29,759
Speaker 1: tain't Jude tenth. We're still in the field picking cotton

1158
01:13:30,400 --> 01:13:33,080
Speaker 1: when they knew dad where we was free. If you

1159
01:13:33,200 --> 01:13:36,800
Speaker 1: think that's kind of rotten, June tint, Jude tain't June tenth.

1160
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:40,280
Speaker 1: How to hell you keep a secret like that? The

1161
01:13:40,439 --> 01:13:42,920
Speaker 1: only reason you could hold us down because you were

1162
01:13:43,000 --> 01:13:46,320
Speaker 1: standing on our backs. June tenth, June tain't June tenth.

1163
01:13:47,040 --> 01:13:49,840
Speaker 1: It's the day we celebrate. But it's one thing I

1164
01:13:50,040 --> 01:13:53,080
Speaker 1: know for sure. You can never get good news too late.

1165
01:13:53,360 --> 01:13:58,240
Speaker 1: Jue tain't June tenth, June tenth, the end, that's my

1166
01:13:58,479 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 1: favorite part. The I'm clutching my curl right and I

1167
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:11,840
Speaker 1: don't even wear that was du city thing was running

1168
01:14:11,840 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 1: through the city. Was run through the city spread and

1169
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:23,559
Speaker 1: that's how I got. Don't listen to him. Who listen

1170
01:14:23,640 --> 01:14:32,360
Speaker 1: to that? I don't feel free right now? Thank you, daddy.

1171
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:34,200
Speaker 1: Part This is what I call this. This is far.

1172
01:14:37,040 --> 01:14:39,840
Speaker 1: I don't want this is he's gotten to you, Tommy,

1173
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 1: I'm out, I'm out listen. I don't want to point

1174
01:14:47,400 --> 01:14:52,320
Speaker 1: boo boo. I got the shirt. Watch daddy. That's exactly

1175
01:14:52,360 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: how I start time. Daddy, daddy, Daddy, honor you this way,

1176
01:14:57,960 --> 01:15:01,759
Speaker 1: Oh daddy, dadda daddy. I just like to say, daddy,

1177
01:15:01,840 --> 01:15:04,639
Speaker 1: daddy daddy, I'd like to take this time to send

1178
01:15:04,720 --> 01:15:08,519
Speaker 1: you some heartfelt words. You know some of them may rhyme. Oh, daddy,

1179
01:15:08,560 --> 01:15:12,120
Speaker 1: dadda daddy. You don't sound much for me. I like

1180
01:15:12,240 --> 01:15:13,760
Speaker 1: how you stand up to be a man, and you

1181
01:15:13,840 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 1: taught me the correct way to pet Daddy, Daddy, Daddy,

1182
01:15:17,280 --> 01:15:20,639
Speaker 1: Oh father pops in mind. I forgive you for saying

1183
01:15:20,720 --> 01:15:23,320
Speaker 1: you were coming to see me. Huh. I knew damn

1184
01:15:23,320 --> 01:15:27,479
Speaker 1: where you was lying da daddy, Happy father Day, I

1185
01:15:27,680 --> 01:15:30,439
Speaker 1: give I'd like to send you a card on the

1186
01:15:30,560 --> 01:15:34,400
Speaker 1: problem is I don't know where you live. The end, Yes,

1187
01:15:34,640 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: the end, Daddy, one more time. You're listening, all right, Steve.

1188
01:15:48,400 --> 01:15:51,040
Speaker 1: Here we are, guys, with the last break of the

1189
01:15:51,200 --> 01:15:54,679
Speaker 1: day on this Monday. Yes, it is no more break?

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01:15:55,000 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 1: Say it bright Jay? No, No, I mean I said

1191
01:15:57,280 --> 01:15:59,600
Speaker 1: it once, but I met people. Aware's gonna be another break? No,

1192
01:15:59,680 --> 01:16:02,360
Speaker 1: there be no more damn breaks. Okay, just the last

1193
01:16:02,439 --> 01:16:10,439
Speaker 1: damn number one. It's been a good Monday though, it

1194
01:16:10,600 --> 01:16:15,080
Speaker 1: really has. Yeah, it's great. It has great to be. Yes,

1195
01:16:15,400 --> 01:16:18,799
Speaker 1: welcome back, welcome back. You know you know what, Shirley,

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01:16:18,840 --> 01:16:21,320
Speaker 1: you know what I thought about though, what I looked

1197
01:16:21,360 --> 01:16:22,920
Speaker 1: at the whole show. I missed you guys, but I

1198
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:25,479
Speaker 1: thought about something. What do you know? Steve is the

1199
01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:28,599
Speaker 1: Moses and sick people? What do you mean he leading

1200
01:16:28,640 --> 01:16:33,400
Speaker 1: a bunch of sick people y'all to you know, looking

1201
01:16:33,439 --> 01:16:35,559
Speaker 1: everybody but the only show got a problem. It ain't

1202
01:16:35,600 --> 01:16:37,720
Speaker 1: just me and Jay. Everybody got a problem with y'all.

1203
01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:41,920
Speaker 1: He leave, He leaves people as he needs people with

1204
01:16:42,080 --> 01:16:46,720
Speaker 1: short He leaves bipolar people, Carlo Jay diabetic. I got sick.

1205
01:16:46,840 --> 01:16:48,640
Speaker 1: He needs a bunch of sick people. Is what do

1206
01:16:48,680 --> 01:16:58,679
Speaker 1: you do? Big eyes is not a guy? Yeah yeah,

1207
01:16:58,720 --> 01:17:02,400
Speaker 1: just the beginning of something that I do not have

1208
01:17:03,800 --> 01:17:06,439
Speaker 1: is out that far due to some type of pressure.

1209
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:10,360
Speaker 1: Early have you always had him open that winde? My

1210
01:17:10,560 --> 01:17:13,400
Speaker 1: eyes have been big since I came from the womb.

1211
01:17:13,479 --> 01:17:18,120
Speaker 1: Okay am I right? Am? I right? Shut up, Junior,

1212
01:17:19,479 --> 01:17:22,240
Speaker 1: all of those people to show sick you the only

1213
01:17:22,320 --> 01:17:26,679
Speaker 1: healthy person we got. Oh no, that's not true. Problem

1214
01:17:26,920 --> 01:17:32,640
Speaker 1: his mind has gone, Junior, Solf, the better to see you,

1215
01:17:32,760 --> 01:17:40,719
Speaker 1: my dad. The other day, I was talking about finding

1216
01:17:41,280 --> 01:17:46,800
Speaker 1: the motivation to never give up, because it's such an

1217
01:17:46,840 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 1: important thing, man, just the fact that you don't quit,

1218
01:17:51,400 --> 01:17:53,759
Speaker 1: that you don't give up on your visions, your dreams,

1219
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:57,160
Speaker 1: your goals, your aspiration, and you have to find the

1220
01:17:57,280 --> 01:18:02,200
Speaker 1: motivation to do it. But you also have to remember

1221
01:18:03,439 --> 01:18:06,560
Speaker 1: that doing good is the right thing to do. And

1222
01:18:06,720 --> 01:18:09,080
Speaker 1: a lot of times, I know, man, you get tired

1223
01:18:09,120 --> 01:18:11,559
Speaker 1: of doing good because it seems like it's no payoff.

1224
01:18:12,040 --> 01:18:17,800
Speaker 1: There's a scripture I was reading the other day, Galatians

1225
01:18:17,840 --> 01:18:23,479
Speaker 1: six nine, and it was saying for us to not

1226
01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:27,679
Speaker 1: become weary in doing good, for at the proper time,

1227
01:18:28,479 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 1: we will reap a harvest if we don't give up.

1228
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:38,040
Speaker 1: And that's such an important thing, man, because sometimes it's

1229
01:18:38,160 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 1: hard to keep doing the right thing, especially when you're

1230
01:18:42,280 --> 01:18:46,840
Speaker 1: being done wrong. It's hard to keep doing the right

1231
01:18:47,080 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: thing and you don't see the payoff right after you

1232
01:18:52,520 --> 01:18:56,760
Speaker 1: do the right thing. It's hard to do the right

1233
01:18:57,000 --> 01:19:00,960
Speaker 1: thing when everybody else seems to be getting away with

1234
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:05,120
Speaker 1: something wrong. So it makes it hard to continue to

1235
01:19:05,200 --> 01:19:08,080
Speaker 1: do the right thing. But you have to have the

1236
01:19:08,240 --> 01:19:11,040
Speaker 1: faith that you're doing the right thing, and you can't

1237
01:19:11,160 --> 01:19:15,280
Speaker 1: become weary in doing good, because, like the Bible says,

1238
01:19:15,439 --> 01:19:18,720
Speaker 1: at the proper time, you're gonna reap a harvest if

1239
01:19:18,760 --> 01:19:22,519
Speaker 1: you don't give up. Do you understand how true that

1240
01:19:22,680 --> 01:19:26,640
Speaker 1: statement is. That's a promise of God that if you

1241
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:32,000
Speaker 1: don't get tired and stop doing what's good, that eventually

1242
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:36,680
Speaker 1: you're going to reap a harvest by just not giving up.

1243
01:19:37,840 --> 01:19:41,160
Speaker 1: That is a benefit to doing what's good. That is

1244
01:19:41,240 --> 01:19:45,439
Speaker 1: a reward for doing things that's good. You have no

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Speaker 1: idea how many seeds you're planning when you do something good.

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Speaker 1: You have to you don't even know where they're gonna

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Speaker 1: crop up, pop up where you're gonna harvest them later.

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Speaker 1: It may not be even in the same field you

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Speaker 1: plan it. I was somewhere one day and I was

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Speaker 1: going down the street and a girl had a flat tied,

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Speaker 1: young girl, and I just thought of one of my daughters. Man,

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Speaker 1: so I stopped. I just happened to be driving that day.

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Speaker 1: It was years ago in LA and I stopped and

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Speaker 1: I helped this little girl. And she was on side

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Speaker 1: of the road just crying. She had a flat tie.

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Speaker 1: She didn't know what to do, and so I still there,

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Speaker 1: made a phone call, got told truck to come. She

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Speaker 1: didn't have the money. I kind of somehow got it

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Speaker 1: too tire station. I bought the new ties for boom,

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Speaker 1: fixed her up. She went home. She called her father.

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Speaker 1: She said, Steve Harvey bought me tirees for my car.

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Speaker 1: I ain't think none. The brother thanked me. Years later,

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Speaker 1: I was on the golf course, years later. I'm talking

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Speaker 1: about like five six years ago, and this happened like early,

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Speaker 1: like in two thousand, so probably around twenty fifteen, sixteen

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Speaker 1: something like that. I'm playing golf and this guy comes up,

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Speaker 1: Tim and he tells me the story about this girl

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Speaker 1: and it was his daughter, and he just told me

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Speaker 1: about it, and he hugged me. He said, man, I

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Speaker 1: wanted to thank y'all talk to you on the phone.

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Speaker 1: But man, we finally meet Miles, hoping I'll see you

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Speaker 1: at this tournament. And so he hugged me, and you know,

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Speaker 1: didn't think none of it. Next thing, you know, come

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Speaker 1: to find out he worked for a high level company.

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Speaker 1: The company calls me and the company wants me to

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Speaker 1: do a deal with him. I signed and did to

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Speaker 1: deal with the company. It was all because one day

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Speaker 1: I stopped and I helped the girl that I just

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Speaker 1: saw in distress because I just thought, man, this could

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Speaker 1: be one of my daughters on the side of his role.

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Speaker 1: And she told her father, and her father did a

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Speaker 1: deal with me that turned out to be a very

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Speaker 1: very beneficial deal. You can't ever get tired of doing

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Speaker 1: what's right, because in due time you will reap a

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Speaker 1: harvest if you never give up. That's a promise from God.

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Speaker 1: Keep doing the right thing, y'all. You will benefit from it.

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Speaker 1: Those are my closing remarks. That's it. That's a wrapper

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