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Speaker 2: It's about a crazy story. It's it's not about love. Uh,

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Speaker 2: it's not about love. It's just about a roommate.

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Speaker 3: All right, that's maybe that's that's what we need.

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Speaker 1: My roommate moved her annoying boyfriend, and she felt like

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Speaker 1: So I've been living in New York City since early

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she love bombs you for two months. Yeah, right

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Speaker 1: Even though I knew legally I'm on the lease. So

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Speaker 4: Time for okop re lam My bff boned my boyfriend.

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Speaker 4: Now she's pregnant. I want to do something unforgivable, but

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Speaker 1: I think the Mom's inc hoots with everyone. I think

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Speaker 4: What's what's happening here? Like, who's the who's the who's

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna be like the opposite way, play hill advocate

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Speaker 5: and say it's op.

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Speaker 1: Let's be right. That's true to very with all these twists,

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Speaker 1: it could be, it could be at a thing, it

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Speaker 1: uh to put you on your on your toes. I

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Speaker 4: The tea is always always piping hot.

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Speaker 1: I'm always piping hot and burning my face.

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Speaker 4: That's right. But we have to welcome our incredible guests

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Speaker 4: back again. The first return guest in OKOP history, Macie,

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Speaker 4: Welcome back to the podcast.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for having me. I actually do have tea

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Speaker 5: right here, so I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: Wow, and this is hot.

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Speaker 5: It's actually pretty hot.

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Speaker 4: That's right. Shall we dive into it, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Please, let's do it to be scalded.

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Speaker 5: Can someone who's a fan of this please go through

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Speaker 1: Oh, Sam's out of context, absolutely ruined. Yeah, ruined. It's bad.

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Speaker 4: Sam is super ruined, Sam Sam. Sam. Sam is done

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Speaker 4: for so many, so many lobster dipping dipping clips. Actually, no,

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Speaker 4: I think that would make the people love you more.

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Speaker 4: You know, it makes you you're you're the every day man.

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Speaker 1: You know, you know, everyone has their kink is being

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Speaker 4: Sam? I'm the one doing it for you. I you know,

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Speaker 1: You are the one boiling me alive. This is the

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Speaker 5: And I'm the one in the corner just watching and

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Speaker 4: Which, by the way, we just recently launched our Patreon.

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Speaker 4: be our first our first exclusive. Sam boils John like

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Speaker 4: a dirty little lobster a.

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Speaker 1: Million dollars on Patreon.

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Speaker 5: And we'll do it, film it naked, but have it

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Speaker 5: from here up and just say the whole time. Oh guys,

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Speaker 5: we're naked.

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Speaker 1: That's the one nudess podcast right exactly down right now.

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Speaker 5: Random side note, but did you guys see the guy

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Speaker 5: on Did you guys see that TikTok is going like

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Speaker 5: Hold? On. I sent it to my friends and I

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Speaker 4: On la now the classic, don't watch this video whatever

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Speaker 1: A few days ago, I just uploaded the full tatorial

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Speaker 5: This is how hairy my butt is right now. Oh

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Speaker 5: my god, that's the start of the video. It is wild.

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Speaker 5: You see it, You're like, oh my gosh.

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Speaker 4: He just shows his straight up ass hair being ripped out.

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Speaker 5: No, so he's doing it with nair so chemically burns

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Speaker 4: But oh my god, it's.

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Speaker 5: Not twenty three million videos and every video it was like, wow,

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Speaker 5: we jumped right into this. Wow, he's not he's not

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Speaker 4: Oh wow, Sam, All this time we thought we had

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Speaker 5: I mean that you probably made that guy like, where

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Speaker 5: where is that?

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Speaker 1: Where I where's the butt? I don't see the butt.

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Speaker 5: You don't see it in that TikTok.

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Speaker 4: I used this on my butt.

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Speaker 3: A few days ago, I just go with the full

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Speaker 4: What a hook.

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Speaker 5: Right now.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, See Sam does this. Sam does this

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Speaker 5: I walked into this not knowing that was gonna happen.

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Speaker 1: Is this allowed? Is that? Is that allowed on YouTube?

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Speaker 5: It's under the guise of education.

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Speaker 4: Not educational butthole hair burning? Wow, isn't it?

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Speaker 5: Wowy John? Did you get a chance to see?

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Speaker 4: Did I get a chance. I'm not giving myself the chance.

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Speaker 4: See Sam loves torturing himself.

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Speaker 1: Said this to Christian is.

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Speaker 4: Alright, I'll join the trauma train. Okay, actually, let's do this.

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Speaker 4: Let's do this. I'm going to save this juicy tidbit

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Speaker 4: no pun intended till the very end, and we're gonna

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Speaker 4: scar myself after the final story. By the way, fittingly,

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Speaker 4: the theme of these stories is betrayal, so this is yeah. Yeah, basically,

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Speaker 4: Macy came on here just to just to burn our eyeballs. Okay,

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Speaker 4: all right, are you guys ready to read this story?

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Speaker 4: The story seems lame now, Oh my god, Okay, let's

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Speaker 4: get into it. So when I was eighteen and in

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Speaker 4: now we're here. It's twenty twenty three.

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Speaker 1: Like, the only track that I'm saying is the Heroin

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Speaker 1: They'll go go. It's rough, it's dropped.

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Speaker 5: How badly do you mess up your life at eighteen

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Speaker 5: that you're like, whole life messed up? Realistically, most people

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Speaker 4: I guess that's true, and your whole life. I guess like,

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Speaker 4: blow up my enemy's house, like why not? But now

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Speaker 4: You know, you never know the t the tea on

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Speaker 4: these stories, You really never know. I lived with my

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Speaker 4: spent most of my days hanging out with my best

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Speaker 5: Kyle, I already don't like him.

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Speaker 4: Ooh that that is such a good catch.

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Speaker 1: Any Kyle already drinking monster and having a backwards hat, Like, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I hope we'll be friends.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I already see where the stories go. I already

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Speaker 5: can see the stories going a good route. And Amanda

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Speaker 5: the people you've surrounded yourself with.

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Speaker 1: They both mail the Kyle's in the audience. We don't.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, shout out Kyle, we hate you.

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Speaker 1: Uh Kyle's and Steve's Steve's except Steve Jobs Nah.

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Speaker 4: Fuck him, we hate him too. I think Amanda and

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Speaker 4: Kyle met reaching for the same monster. Can I feel

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah, and they touched they touched like fingers on

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Speaker 1: the can and they looked at each other and they're like,

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Speaker 1: is this meant to be?

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Speaker 5: They're tattooed on rings.

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Speaker 4: Touched, Yeah, their skull and bone rings. Freaking the electricity, the.

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Speaker 1: Spark led to the boning.

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Speaker 4: Oh god. Both Ashley and Kyle's parents were best friends

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Speaker 4: with my parents, so I've known both of them since

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Speaker 4: we were in diapers. It goes deep. We spent holidays together, birthdays.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, oh yeah, oh yeah, and to the brim

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Speaker 6: it's exactly with that stinky doochie delicious, and.

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Speaker 4: We visit each other all the time as we lived

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Speaker 4: And I've been dating Kyle for the last three years.

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Speaker 4: I believed he would be the love of my life

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Speaker 4: and the one I would eventually marry.

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Speaker 5: She's eighteen.

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Speaker 4: Yes, come on, we've all known. We've all known, We've

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Speaker 1: Uh oh, I think we got some after story tea

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Speaker 1: that we gotta we gotta spill it, Macie.

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Speaker 5: Then oh, maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Maybe we have we have an expert in the building.

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Speaker 4: We at least we at least are able to dissect

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Speaker 4: the psyche of Yeah, you know exactly. Now. We were

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Speaker 4: I think I should note that my sister twenty female,

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Speaker 1: Wow, so you got like lucky points a familial connection

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Speaker 5: I know somebody who is the family like that, and

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Speaker 1: Because now you still have to hang out because you

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 4: Also, I'm like, it's my it's it's if it's like

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Speaker 4: Little it's yeah, exactly, like they haven't type. Yeah, that's true. Wow,

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Speaker 4: that would be to be fair.

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Speaker 5: My sister and I look nothing.

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Speaker 1: Unnatural sisters do look alike, and they're identical twins. And

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Speaker 4: In this family, everyone's got to marry into it. Also,

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Speaker 1: They both keep popping out kids both families, so you

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Speaker 4: To make it strong. Wow, Sam, generations to come, Sam,

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Speaker 4: beautiful family. It's a beautiful family and it's Game of Thrones. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's a okay with Sam.

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Speaker 5: And totally stereotyping here, But if this takes place in

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Speaker 1: Utah really Oh like Mormon Utah?

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Speaker 4: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? You get married very young. A lot of the

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Speaker 5: like not to mention just like kind of families. Well,

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Speaker 5: I don't want to be say incestuous, because that's a

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Speaker 5: like like it's not weird if like if your sister

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Speaker 4: Yeah, marrying wrong, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah.

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Speaker 1: It's very very very close entangled, maybe too close for

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Speaker 1: oh entangled.

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Speaker 4: Oh goodness, grazios, that's a.

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Speaker 5: Good way to word it. Yeah, it's like the families

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Speaker 4: This is why we have Macy for for the deeper

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Speaker 4: insights all psye contacts high school.

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Speaker 5: Was Mormon, and he wanted my sister to get with

443
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Speaker 5: his brother.

444
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Speaker 1: So it was like, oh, wow, so you have intimate understanding.

445
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Speaker 5: I do, I do, I do? And I thought I

446
00:22:09,920 --> 00:22:12,760
Speaker 5: was going to marry that guy from dating him from

447
00:22:12,800 --> 00:22:16,880
Speaker 5: like sixteen to like eight to like seven, fifteen to seventeen.

448
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Speaker 1: Did the h the sister brother thing ever happened?

449
00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no.

450
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Speaker 4: Quite a request. Wow, okay, well we have we have

451
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 4: we have the deepest insights here, y'all. This is this

452
00:22:28,880 --> 00:22:29,679
Speaker 4: is what we do for you.

453
00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 5: This is the story for me.

454
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Speaker 4: Yeah, we unintentionally found the pactory, went in, di sected

455
00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 4: your whole background, made a whole big profile, acted as

456
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Speaker 4: you to just get all of this information out.

457
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 5: You guys just knew my situation, you knew my dating history.

458
00:22:46,560 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. We ardward your life to learn every little,

459
00:22:50,200 --> 00:22:56,320
Speaker 4: every little tidbit makes sense. Well, okay, interesting exactly, it's

460
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Speaker 4: it's it gets content right, and that's actually journalism right here,

461
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,879
Speaker 4: investigator of journalist. So that's exactly what we are in

462
00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,439
Speaker 4: this show. Well, this is going to help for the

463
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 4: full dissection of of what happens throughout the story. One day,

464
00:23:09,359 --> 00:23:11,640
Speaker 4: at the beginning of the school year, I noticed Ashley

465
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:16,360
Speaker 4: was being very melancholic and detached. After a while of prodding,

466
00:23:16,720 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 4: she told me that she was pregnant. Oh wow, high school.

467
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Speaker 1: That probably would not be a good look for if

468
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Speaker 1: this was FA Yeah.

469
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Speaker 5: Yeah, maybe not. I mean, because they're they're still a

470
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Speaker 5: lot of Mormons kind of will I mean, I don't

471
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Speaker 5: want to say a lot, but there are a subject

472
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Speaker 5: of Mormon teines that will do everything but.

473
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Speaker 4: Sticking it in pure soaking. You know, they over soaked.

474
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Speaker 5: Yeah so maybe not.

475
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:57,159
Speaker 4: It's the sad case of over soaking. But well, you

476
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Speaker 4: know what, maybe maybe we'll get more context clues here.

477
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Speaker 5: I just learned about flash pregnancies. Apparently that's the thing.

478
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Speaker 4: Is this also a Mormon thing?

479
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 5: No, So what it happens is if a guy were

480
00:24:07,680 --> 00:24:12,040
Speaker 5: to on the outside, uh, and it's not cleaned up properly, it.

481
00:24:12,119 --> 00:24:15,080
Speaker 4: Can I see situation.

482
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 5: It's a very very rare thing to happen.

483
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Speaker 1: But it can't happen like a like a beached whale

484
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Speaker 1: trying to swim back into the ocean.

485
00:24:23,400 --> 00:24:27,359
Speaker 5: And make it back in. It does happen.

486
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Speaker 1: Dang makes those Michael roads away from the cave.

487
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 5: Yeah, at that point, you couldn't even like that child

488
00:24:35,400 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 5: just has to happen at that point.

489
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, you can't, Like that's Michael helps.

490
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Speaker 1: Bro just freaking swimming his heart out.

491
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Speaker 4: I'm throwing that baby in the water. Immediately. I'm like,

492
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Speaker 4: all right, go Gore and daddy a gold medal because

493
00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 4: he basically already did that song.

494
00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,240
Speaker 5: That song I'm a Survivor is just playing in the background.

495
00:24:57,480 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 5: I'm gonna give up that.

496
00:25:00,640 --> 00:25:04,840
Speaker 4: I'm gonna give my daddy a medal. That's it. Apparently

497
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,240
Speaker 4: babies learn to swim if you throw. I would never

498
00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 4: throw my baby at a pool.

499
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Speaker 1: I love fucking babies and pools.

500
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 4: It's your favorite pastime.

501
00:25:13,920 --> 00:25:16,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I told you about my summer Judo flipping

502
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:18,040
Speaker 1: down syndrome kids.

503
00:25:19,119 --> 00:25:23,720
Speaker 4: Yes, which, now you have to give Macy some context.

504
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:25,000
Speaker 1: No other context, no other context.

505
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 5: Okay, but I am throwing kids in the pool team throwing.

506
00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:33,120
Speaker 5: Graham and I have talked about this and we're like, yeah,

507
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,000
Speaker 5: with kids, because we have a pool in the backyard.

508
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:36,960
Speaker 5: We're like, we're absolutely teaching them how to float.

509
00:25:38,200 --> 00:25:40,960
Speaker 4: Oh for sure, you have to yeah, bye by throwing

510
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 4: like it's the baby it's the baby bird method basically,

511
00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:47,600
Speaker 4: like teach them how to fly, okay, all right, respect it.

512
00:25:47,840 --> 00:25:50,399
Speaker 5: Well, you train them for like ten minutes out of times,

513
00:25:50,400 --> 00:25:52,639
Speaker 5: because they can get really fatigued really easy, so you

514
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,440
Speaker 5: just kind of keep training them to be able to

515
00:25:54,480 --> 00:25:57,640
Speaker 5: flip themselves over and float that way. If they did

516
00:25:57,720 --> 00:26:00,159
Speaker 5: fall in, it's not like they're like sinking down to

517
00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 5: the bottom or like breathing and choking on water.

518
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my baby do it per hour, just

519
00:26:05,840 --> 00:26:10,240
Speaker 1: really trained for the really really that's true.

520
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Speaker 4: You know it's harder record, Gregor, that's gonna be your

521
00:26:16,720 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 4: child's name.

522
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:23,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, Gregor with a d oh god records.

523
00:26:22,720 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 4: That if that kid survives the pool, he's gonna get

524
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:27,040
Speaker 4: just bulded mercilessly.

525
00:26:27,520 --> 00:26:30,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, he will. But it'll build character, you know, right,

526
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: you your child can be like all massive dude. Yeah,

527
00:26:34,720 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'll have a lot of character.

528
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,679
Speaker 4: That's true. Yeah. Wow, Well, shout out to Sam's parenting.

529
00:26:39,760 --> 00:26:42,240
Speaker 4: Shout out to Sam and Macy's parenting styles. Guys. Let's

530
00:26:42,280 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 4: let's let's give it up for them.

531
00:26:44,680 --> 00:26:46,560
Speaker 5: Greg here.

532
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:52,440
Speaker 4: But I wasn't loving together her first respectively. You know

533
00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 4: what I'm saying.

534
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 5: Luckily, it's it's a right there no matter what the

535
00:26:57,520 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 5: gender is.

536
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Speaker 4: Greg's record, Yeah, by Greg ad the fast.

537
00:27:05,000 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: Wow, the first records in my past, the first self.

538
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,400
Speaker 4: At least you've met a Gregor.

539
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:15,159
Speaker 1: Probably probably I have a neighbor that's Greg Gregord.

540
00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,320
Speaker 4: Okay, so we just revealed the pregnancy. I was very

541
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 4: surprised because I didn't know that she and her boyfriend

542
00:27:22,280 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 4: had broken up a while ago, and I didn't know

543
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:28,359
Speaker 4: she had anyone else like that in her life.

544
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 1: I asked her, no one else that was close enough

545
00:27:32,560 --> 00:27:36,120
Speaker 1: to know a little bit of warmth in the night.

546
00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 5: We were just about Kyle, and I guess Ashley, not Amanda,

547
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,520
Speaker 5: just Kyle. You know, Kyles.

548
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,520
Speaker 4: It's always Kyle's like, my god.

549
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: The first one. Just go for one that's related to it.

550
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,200
Speaker 1: It it's yeah, keyword.

551
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 4: You're you're embodying the Kyle energy so perfectly right now, Sam, Oh.

552
00:27:59,480 --> 00:28:01,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, huge Kyle energy right here.

553
00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 4: I asked her who the father was, and she didn't

554
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,400
Speaker 4: want to talk about it, but in a way implied

555
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:12,240
Speaker 4: that the ex was the father. She was absolutely distraught. Yeah,

556
00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,040
Speaker 4: so maybe some fallse trails being laid. We'll see.

557
00:28:15,480 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 5: I can see though, where you would kind of, as

558
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,720
Speaker 5: the best friend, be like, okay, I believe that because

559
00:28:19,760 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 5: maybe she's a little ashamed that she was still doing

560
00:28:21,840 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 5: stuff with him after he broke up, you know, like

561
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Speaker 5: you wouldn't want to believe that Kyle is involved.

562
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Speaker 1: Well, maybe she broke up like a month ago and

563
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:32,840
Speaker 1: just mad out she was pregnant like now or something,

564
00:28:33,200 --> 00:28:33,920
Speaker 1: and she's.

565
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 4: Not yeah, not sure, I mean, very very probably exactly

566
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 4: what happened. She was absolutely distraught, so I dropped the

567
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 4: topic and just sold her. I was with her when

568
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,960
Speaker 4: she told her family, and while her parents were disappointed,

569
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 4: they promised to support her in whatever she decides. They

570
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,200
Speaker 4: tried to make her share the dad's name, but she

571
00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,720
Speaker 4: refused and made me promise to stay quiet. They didn't

572
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:00,719
Speaker 4: know that she had a boyfriend at one point, So

573
00:29:01,040 --> 00:29:03,400
Speaker 4: I don't know. I'm still leaning a little Utah, I

574
00:29:03,400 --> 00:29:06,200
Speaker 4: feel like your theory is still holding up Macy somewhat.

575
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:08,880
Speaker 5: I don't feel like that's much of a you have it,

576
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 5: you know, whatever you decide to do kind of place.

577
00:29:11,360 --> 00:29:13,920
Speaker 5: But they could also mean like if you chose to

578
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 5: give it up for adoption or.

579
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:18,520
Speaker 1: Wait, can you can you give me the can you

580
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: give me the whole rundown? So wait is op is

581
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:27,320
Speaker 1: a woman who had a boyfriend for another family and

582
00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 1: then Ope's brother.

583
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 4: Or sister, Opie's best friend suddenly gets pregnant.

584
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:39,800
Speaker 1: Best friend suddenly gets pregnant, and then op, Kyle, and

585
00:29:39,880 --> 00:29:41,480
Speaker 1: best friend are all hanging out together.

586
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,600
Speaker 4: Yeah they're they're like the Three Musketeers.

587
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, okay, and then Ope's best friend was

588
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 1: dating a guy and they broke up a while ago,

589
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 1: and now Opie's best friend is pregnant. Just so I'm

590
00:29:54,760 --> 00:29:56,920
Speaker 1: clear that that's the Okay, that's a run.

591
00:29:57,000 --> 00:29:59,080
Speaker 4: That's where we're atting, And we we have a hint

592
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 4: that the ex as the father, but we have zero confirmation.

593
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 1: Thus far right right right, And it would make sense

594
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,440
Speaker 1: right because they were probably doing doing nasty, nasty things

595
00:30:09,440 --> 00:30:10,680
Speaker 1: behind and closed doors.

596
00:30:11,000 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 4: Maybe I was there for her for the next nine months.

597
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:20,040
Speaker 4: I went with her for an ultrasound, doctor's appointments. I

598
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 4: was there for her when she got bullied in school

599
00:30:22,560 --> 00:30:24,680
Speaker 4: for being pregnant. That is awful.

600
00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, I was going to say that most likely happened

601
00:30:27,560 --> 00:30:30,040
Speaker 5: because she said at the start of the school year,

602
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,640
Speaker 5: she said, so she would have gone year pregnant all.

603
00:30:33,680 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: The worst you know anyone who's pregnant at your school.

604
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 5: I didn't know anyone, like personally, if that makes sense,

605
00:30:41,200 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 5: But I knew of people.

606
00:30:43,240 --> 00:30:43,720
Speaker 4: Yeah.

607
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 5: I ruined with cross country girls. We were very tame,

608
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:50,400
Speaker 5: I mean girls, but.

609
00:30:50,360 --> 00:30:54,040
Speaker 1: Like liter earlier, we also hung out together. I went

610
00:30:54,080 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: to an all boys school, so not many pregnancies, sure,

611
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:04,120
Speaker 1: at least on their end. I saw, no, none of

612
00:31:04,120 --> 00:31:05,840
Speaker 1: my friends that were pregnant there.

613
00:31:06,000 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 4: Fair enough, fair enough. I even helped her set up

614
00:31:10,680 --> 00:31:12,760
Speaker 4: the nursery. I was there for her when she was

615
00:31:12,800 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 4: sick or just fell down. I helped her a baby shower,

616
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 4: went shopping with her, and even took some parenting classes

617
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 4: with her.

618
00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:24,719
Speaker 1: To take a hammer's about to fall, like, there's something

619
00:31:24,840 --> 00:31:26,800
Speaker 1: about that happen right now?

620
00:31:27,440 --> 00:31:30,240
Speaker 5: Yeah, your Kyle was brought up for a reason.

621
00:31:30,800 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 4: Oh god, Oh my gosh. We chose names together, and

622
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 4: she even asked me to be with her in the

623
00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:45,080
Speaker 4: delivery room. I noticed that, Yeah, it's getting it's getting there.

624
00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:46,560
Speaker 5: This hurts.

625
00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,240
Speaker 1: Well, they're like best friends, it makes sense.

626
00:31:50,040 --> 00:31:53,320
Speaker 4: But oh man, right. I noticed that the pregnancy was

627
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,440
Speaker 4: really taking a toll on her emotionally and physically, and

628
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 4: I tried to support her in every way possible. She

629
00:31:59,520 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 4: was my best friend, always there for me, and I.

630
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:04,680
Speaker 1: Loved her.

631
00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:07,800
Speaker 5: The past tense too.

632
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:10,520
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh wow, I didn't even catch that.

633
00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 5: I'm going to catch all the linguistic things and there

634
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:14,720
Speaker 5: it's kind of my thing.

635
00:32:15,600 --> 00:32:20,960
Speaker 1: Wow wow, yes, yeah, I'm ready. When's the hammer drop?

636
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:24,960
Speaker 4: It's building, it's building. Some two weeks before her due date,

637
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,520
Speaker 4: I went into the mall to run some errands for her,

638
00:32:27,640 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 4: and I ran into her ex. Although I promised never

639
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 4: to contact her, the knowledge of my friend's emotional state

640
00:32:36,960 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 4: sent me into a fit of anger, and I confronted

641
00:32:40,600 --> 00:32:41,640
Speaker 4: him as.

642
00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 5: A good friend should.

643
00:32:44,000 --> 00:32:47,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, honestly, OPI deserves friend of the Millennium war.

644
00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: Wait wait so wait wait wait, but like, does does

645
00:32:51,600 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: the friend or does the ex know about Opie's friends pregnancy?

646
00:32:57,960 --> 00:32:59,400
Speaker 4: We have no idea, so.

647
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:02,320
Speaker 5: We don't know. But I think the friends assuming that

648
00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,400
Speaker 5: he must have some kind of inkling or at least

649
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,520
Speaker 5: know that they had sex around that time, and obviously

650
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:09,160
Speaker 5: I mean their social media, he would see that she's pregnant,

651
00:33:09,240 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 5: so like he would have to be like.

652
00:33:12,440 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 1: Ohp is is thinking like I can't believe this ax,

653
00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,840
Speaker 1: like is not helping at all and just is like

654
00:33:19,040 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 1: completely out of the picture.

655
00:33:21,120 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 4: Essentially, basically, yeah, So I gave him a piece of

656
00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,880
Speaker 4: my mind. I told him what a piece of shit

657
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 4: he was, as she should, Oh shit, tell him you

658
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:37,160
Speaker 4: are shit.

659
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:42,520
Speaker 5: I know I've done that before, as she should, that's right,

660
00:33:42,520 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 5: Not for specifically this scenario. My friend was dating this

661
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:48,720
Speaker 5: guy for like over a year and then he ghosted her,

662
00:33:48,800 --> 00:33:51,080
Speaker 5: and I like was like, I called one of our

663
00:33:51,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 5: mutuals and was like, give me his number, and I

664
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 5: called him and he was like hello. I'm like, this

665
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 5: is Masie. What the fuck? And he was like and

666
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:00,000
Speaker 5: I'm like, you don't do that. And she's an amazing

667
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 5: dull of a person, your piece of shit, you owe

668
00:34:02,360 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 5: her more, and she was like again, as a good

669
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 5: friend should he did. He actually ended up reaching out

670
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 5: back out to her and like mending everything over. They

671
00:34:12,280 --> 00:34:14,000
Speaker 5: they were part of the same friend group, so it's

672
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 5: gonna be really weird, and she think her would have

673
00:34:17,200 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 5: stepped out of the situation and not make it weird

674
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 5: for everybody else. And I was like, she's not getting

675
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,320
Speaker 5: isolated from her friends by this asshole.

676
00:34:23,400 --> 00:34:24,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, go see here.

677
00:34:24,600 --> 00:34:30,479
Speaker 5: So yeah, she thanked me afterwards too, Like she thanked

678
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 5: me afterwards and things were like a little weird for

679
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 5: a while because I definitely broke her trust a little,

680
00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,480
Speaker 5: but like I saw her recently and she was like,

681
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:38,839
Speaker 5: thank you so much for doing that. I did not

682
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 5: have the voice.

683
00:34:40,680 --> 00:34:44,239
Speaker 4: Went to oh yeah, oh yeah, yes you and o P.

684
00:34:44,680 --> 00:34:47,120
Speaker 4: I thought you and you would be good friends actually

685
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 4: like this, having each other's backs through thick and thin high.

686
00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:58,040
Speaker 5: School boyfriends of multiple years cheating. I got that.

687
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 4: Oh goodness, oh man. I told him what a piece

688
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 4: of shit he was for leaving his ex pregnant and

689
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:10,920
Speaker 4: alone and not caring for his unborn child. Come on,

690
00:35:11,840 --> 00:35:16,160
Speaker 4: come on. He was shocked, and he said he had

691
00:35:16,200 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 4: no idea what I was talking about.

692
00:35:19,719 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: Is that just the cover? Is that just the cover?

693
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe I'm starting to believe that he may actually

694
00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 1: have no idea what they're talking about.

695
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 4: Yes, Yes, Ashley never told him about the pregnancy, and

696
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,760
Speaker 4: when I told him that she was nine months pregnant

697
00:35:40,760 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 4: at the time, he said that it was not possible

698
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 4: for him to be the father, as they broke up

699
00:35:46,760 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 4: over a year ago and had no relations since then.

700
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: Shit, oh shit.

701
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,520
Speaker 4: God, this is the biggest hammer drop build up we've

702
00:36:00,520 --> 00:36:01,000
Speaker 4: ever seen.

703
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:01,319
Speaker 2: God.

704
00:36:02,120 --> 00:36:04,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, that means that they broke up at least three

705
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 5: months before she got pregnant.

706
00:36:06,080 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, which you know, according to my man, broke up

707
00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:16,320
Speaker 1: over a year ago. That would be burned.

708
00:36:16,640 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 4: Yes, oh man. I was confused, but apologized for yelling

709
00:36:24,080 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 4: at him in the middle of the mall. After that,

710
00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:31,920
Speaker 4: he became snarky, said some nasty stuff and mentioned that

711
00:36:32,600 --> 00:36:36,719
Speaker 4: maybe I should ask Ashley's friend Kyle if he's the

712
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:42,920
Speaker 4: daddy aka her boo oh shit, yeo.

713
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 1: Shit, appropriately the hot the.

714
00:36:47,000 --> 00:36:50,840
Speaker 4: Hot tea ladies and gentlemen, it's about to be spilt.

715
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,919
Speaker 4: I didn't really think about his words in any way.

716
00:36:54,320 --> 00:36:57,879
Speaker 4: Kyle and Ashley have been friends their entire lives, and

717
00:36:57,920 --> 00:37:00,880
Speaker 4: we were always very close.

718
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:07,120
Speaker 1: You were very close, bro. It's it's sus It's sus man,

719
00:37:07,320 --> 00:37:08,319
Speaker 1: it's sus.

720
00:37:08,360 --> 00:37:10,040
Speaker 5: I'm going to bat for op and I'm going to

721
00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:12,880
Speaker 5: say that if if the guy was upset and just yelling,

722
00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,760
Speaker 5: she could have assumed he was just trying to be hurtful,

723
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 5: knowing that that was her boyfriend, like that the that

724
00:37:17,880 --> 00:37:20,200
Speaker 5: the best friend's ex could have just been trying to

725
00:37:20,239 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 5: be hurtful in the middle of them all because he right, right, okay,

726
00:37:24,719 --> 00:37:26,960
Speaker 5: they're just friends. He obviously was just trying to make

727
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 5: a dig at me because you know.

728
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:31,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that's true.

729
00:37:31,840 --> 00:37:34,520
Speaker 1: Like it's probably that maybe she's been suspicious or maybe

730
00:37:34,520 --> 00:37:36,360
Speaker 1: now like she's just like, oh wait, maybe I should

731
00:37:36,400 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: be suspicious.

732
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:38,280
Speaker 5: Should plant a seed?

733
00:37:39,360 --> 00:37:41,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, oh a seed has been planted, let me tell

734
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 4: you that much. Oh boy, the oven pun in the

735
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 4: oven not burnt this one is ready to go. This

736
00:37:54,120 --> 00:37:59,120
Speaker 4: seed is growing, but Kyle and Ashley never showed any

737
00:37:59,200 --> 00:38:03,040
Speaker 4: sign of being anything more. That evening, my younger sister,

738
00:38:03,120 --> 00:38:06,239
Speaker 4: fourteen female, and I were preparing to have a movie night.

739
00:38:06,760 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 4: I began ranting to her about confronting Ashley's ex and

740
00:38:10,120 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 4: his words. My sister, who is usually very outspoken, got

741
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:18,040
Speaker 4: really quiet and didn't really respond to anything. I was saying,

742
00:38:18,800 --> 00:38:25,640
Speaker 4: does everyone know that would be bro No, your fourteen

743
00:38:25,680 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 4: year old sister.

744
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:29,839
Speaker 5: If your fourteen year old sister knew and didn't tell you,

745
00:38:30,080 --> 00:38:32,799
Speaker 5: I would say, you also got portrayed by her. I

746
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:35,560
Speaker 5: would I would go to that for my sister. Are

747
00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,200
Speaker 5: you kidding me? If I saw her boyfriend with another

748
00:38:38,600 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 5: girl or I was suspicious, I'd be the tatum this

749
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 5: is going on?

750
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 4: And also she's helping her the whole time, you know,

751
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 4: and like the sister sees that obviously, so wow, Yeah.

752
00:38:50,680 --> 00:38:53,760
Speaker 5: No action is no action? Is still a decision?

753
00:38:54,239 --> 00:38:58,279
Speaker 4: Yeah, guilt biomission. After a while, she excused herself and

754
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 4: went to the bathroom. I just I had to go

755
00:39:00,719 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 4: and get some snacks and went downstairs to the kitchen,

756
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:07,879
Speaker 4: and I heard younger sister berating my mother Now, this

757
00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:10,080
Speaker 4: part of my memory is really fuzzy, as I was

758
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:13,760
Speaker 4: dealing with lots of emotions. My sister told my mom

759
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:17,520
Speaker 4: about me running into Ashley's ex and his words, and

760
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:21,240
Speaker 4: told my mom that she no longer wanted to hide

761
00:39:21,280 --> 00:39:27,880
Speaker 4: from me the fact that Kyle was Ashley's baby's father.

762
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 3: The mom bro.

763
00:39:31,280 --> 00:39:35,280
Speaker 5: The mom knew your mom would protect your best friend

764
00:39:35,280 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 5: over you. Are you kidding me?

765
00:39:38,120 --> 00:39:39,880
Speaker 1: What did I say at the beginning of the story,

766
00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 1: The mom is the puppet til I've called that, I

767
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:50,919
Speaker 1: fucking called crap. Oh my god, what a dick mom.

768
00:39:51,040 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 4: By the way, Wow, I don't talk to.

769
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:58,320
Speaker 5: My mom again. Yeah, this is you could never trust

770
00:39:58,360 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 5: your mom again?

771
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:05,719
Speaker 4: W and why why? Like what reason could you possibly have.

772
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:09,000
Speaker 5: It's not like you're the other sister. Yeah, it's not

773
00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,399
Speaker 5: like it was the other sister. And it's like, yes,

774
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:14,080
Speaker 5: like if it was the other sister, and she's like,

775
00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:15,920
Speaker 5: you too need to work it out, and I'm not

776
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 5: going to get involved, but you're gonna have to tell

777
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,319
Speaker 5: her by this date, I can see where you would

778
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:21,000
Speaker 5: stay out of that as.

779
00:40:21,120 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 4: It's a different scenario.

780
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, for sure, neither of the other two are her children,

781
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:30,359
Speaker 5: and she protected them over her own children, and even

782
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:33,200
Speaker 5: if she thought she was protecting her daughter, does she

783
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 5: have like any ability to see in the future. I

784
00:40:36,040 --> 00:40:38,160
Speaker 5: can see we're in You know, an eighteen year old

785
00:40:38,280 --> 00:40:41,319
Speaker 5: high schooler would think I could hide this forever. We're

786
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,920
Speaker 5: talking about somebody who at least has to be fourteen

787
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,839
Speaker 5: years older than all of them, So somebody who has

788
00:40:45,920 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 5: to be at least in their mid thirties. Yeah, I

789
00:40:49,040 --> 00:40:50,960
Speaker 5: mean probably, so it's like forties.

790
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,840
Speaker 1: There's like just consequences to all of this, to not

791
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: to to like people certain people not knowing about the

792
00:41:00,080 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: pregnancy and not knowing who's the father like these like

793
00:41:02,880 --> 00:41:07,640
Speaker 1: this is like real world repercussions. So like the mother

794
00:41:07,880 --> 00:41:11,600
Speaker 1: keeping like did the mother make it so that the

795
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:16,399
Speaker 1: actual father doesn't really know that? Or the the guy

796
00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,360
Speaker 1: that thought he was like like the ex does the

797
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:23,479
Speaker 1: ex know? Did the mom how the ex?

798
00:41:24,280 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 5: How did the fourteen year old daughter no better than

799
00:41:28,600 --> 00:41:32,719
Speaker 5: the mom on what was morally right in this situation? Fact,

800
00:41:32,880 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 5: because from the way that they're that they're talking and

801
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:37,360
Speaker 5: saying I can't hide this anymore, makes it sound like

802
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 5: that's not the first discussion.

803
00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, well, it sounds like the mom was saying though

804
00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:43,760
Speaker 1: you have to keep this secret.

805
00:41:44,320 --> 00:41:46,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh yeah, no, for sure, But it sounds like

806
00:41:46,480 --> 00:41:48,959
Speaker 5: the daughter might have said the fourteen year old sister

807
00:41:49,200 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 5: might have said at some point, I can't keep hiding this.

808
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,280
Speaker 5: I can't keep hiding you know. I don't feel comforting.

809
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,319
Speaker 5: I don't feel comfortable because you it's it's a big

810
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:57,800
Speaker 5: step to go from like I'm hiding this, like I

811
00:41:57,960 --> 00:41:58,520
Speaker 5: can't do this.

812
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:00,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

813
00:42:00,640 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 5: I feel like most people wet off little warning signs

814
00:42:03,040 --> 00:42:04,920
Speaker 5: ahead of time of like I don't know how I

815
00:42:05,000 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 5: feel about this, I don't know whatever.

816
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:07,319
Speaker 1: Mm hm.

817
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,520
Speaker 5: So I'm like, how how how does the fourteen year

818
00:42:10,520 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 5: old sister know better than the mom, a grown ass woman.

819
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 4: With five children. And in the midst of all this too,

820
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:23,840
Speaker 4: there the parents, it seems pretty clearly, are aware that

821
00:42:23,920 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 4: they are both talking about getting married to one another.

822
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 4: So she's setting up her daughter to get married to

823
00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:33,120
Speaker 4: a guy who had a child with another woman and

824
00:42:33,160 --> 00:42:34,239
Speaker 4: didn't say anything.

825
00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:34,920
Speaker 1: In all of this.

826
00:42:35,160 --> 00:42:38,239
Speaker 5: I mean, she's setting up her daughter to get married

827
00:42:38,280 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 5: to a guy who cheated on her yeah, with.

828
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,160
Speaker 4: Her best friend, with her best friend and said nothing

829
00:42:43,360 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 4: and yeah, and is not five like all of the things.

830
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:49,560
Speaker 1: I wouldn't follow her daughter to be married to that,

831
00:42:49,719 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: or maybe she's like maybe she wants her daughter to

832
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:55,960
Speaker 1: marry into the family, Like oh, it's like it's like

833
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 1: I pray not like that would king. It's like a

834
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:02,320
Speaker 1: king kind of send off Game of Throne style, or

835
00:43:02,400 --> 00:43:06,920
Speaker 1: it's just marriage for monetary gain and power.

836
00:43:07,120 --> 00:43:08,719
Speaker 5: I was going to say, like, what if the other

837
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:11,000
Speaker 5: family has money and that's why she's like, Oh, yeah,

838
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:12,560
Speaker 5: I'm gonna hook you up with Kyle.

839
00:43:13,360 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 4: Oh God, please, I pray not. It's already been this

840
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 4: insane thus far. I don't know if I can handle that,

841
00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:26,000
Speaker 4: but so only one way to find out. I was shocked,

842
00:43:26,960 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 4: absolutely shocked. I stumbled into the kitchen and demanded an explanation.

843
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 4: Both my mom and my sister became white as a

844
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 4: sheet when they saw me, and my sister started crying

845
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:43,479
Speaker 4: her eyes out. My sister explained to me some things

846
00:43:43,520 --> 00:43:46,360
Speaker 4: I also learned from people later that appeared. During the

847
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,800
Speaker 4: end of the summer break, Kyle and Ashley attended the

848
00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 4: same house party, got drunk and slept together. Ashley got

849
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 4: pregnant and told Kyle that they were both ashamed and

850
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:59,880
Speaker 4: afraid of telling me.

851
00:44:00,440 --> 00:44:04,520
Speaker 1: Dang that step once. It sounds like one time day.

852
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 4: What did?

853
00:44:05,840 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 5: What did?

854
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:07,200
Speaker 1: What did?

855
00:44:07,280 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 4: All the old old heads always say.

856
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:11,439
Speaker 1: We were growing up all it takes time.

857
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:14,719
Speaker 5: Wait, so this also means that Kyle's known this whole

858
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 5: time and it has been pretending so this. You're one

859
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,640
Speaker 5: of you guys, said Sam. You said earlier. There's a

860
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 5: chance that Kyle just doesn't know. He hasn't mentioned anything.

861
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,840
Speaker 5: I mean, like you could do the basic math, but

862
00:44:26,000 --> 00:44:29,359
Speaker 5: like Kyle for sure knows at this point.

863
00:44:29,480 --> 00:44:33,960
Speaker 4: Now now we've confirmed it. All I wanted was to

864
00:44:34,080 --> 00:44:36,759
Speaker 4: lay in my bed or cuddle in my bed with

865
00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,719
Speaker 4: my mom and cry all of my feelings out.

866
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:43,080
Speaker 5: Why do you want to see your mom after this? Yeah?

867
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 4: I don't.

868
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 1: It's like a dick.

869
00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:49,680
Speaker 4: Maybe she's so distraught, she's like any form of I

870
00:44:49,880 --> 00:44:53,600
Speaker 4: don't even know hard to say. My mom received a

871
00:44:53,680 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 4: call from Ashley's mom. Ashley was having the baby. She's

872
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 4: in labor. Now, wow, God, what insane timing. She came

873
00:45:04,239 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 4: to my room and told me that she and dad

874
00:45:07,200 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 4: were going to the hospital.

875
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:13,759
Speaker 5: It's not your either of your kids. Why are you going?

876
00:45:14,640 --> 00:45:15,720
Speaker 4: What the fuck?

877
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:18,240
Speaker 1: I was all those.

878
00:45:18,160 --> 00:45:21,040
Speaker 5: Families so close like that, Like, is it like they're

879
00:45:21,080 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 5: so close.

880
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,800
Speaker 1: But it's like like, well, they're probably going over to

881
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,040
Speaker 1: their events and such, and they're like doing maybe like

882
00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:28,960
Speaker 1: Thanksgivings and Christmas.

883
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, they said. I think the line was all

884
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:37,279
Speaker 4: of our parents were friends, so when we were like

885
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 4: born in diapers, we started hanging out together. So like

886
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,759
Speaker 4: the parents' friendship kind of like preceded all of this.

887
00:45:45,200 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, that makes sense. I have a male friend who

888
00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:49,880
Speaker 5: is very close in age to me, and it's kind

889
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 5: of the same situation to where I like it probably

890
00:45:52,560 --> 00:45:56,440
Speaker 5: if I had a kid, his mom would come.

891
00:45:56,680 --> 00:45:59,359
Speaker 4: So I guess it doesn't make sense. That's so wild

892
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 4: though that they like it seems like the parents were

893
00:46:02,000 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 4: literally like grooming because they were all friends with each other.

894
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 4: Oh god, yeah, it just makes no sense, but they

895
00:46:09,280 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 4: it seems like they wanted one of the pairings to

896
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:18,240
Speaker 4: get together. Yeah, like they were preparing all their kids

897
00:46:18,320 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 4: to potentially It's like they were atting their kids so weird,

898
00:46:23,200 --> 00:46:27,160
Speaker 4: Like I'm sorry, yeah, yeah, what was the.

899
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 5: Goal beyond here is like to have like a weird

900
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:31,600
Speaker 5: threatfle situation.

901
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:35,760
Speaker 4: Literally like why are the parents why are oh PE's

902
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:40,000
Speaker 4: parents still like protecting Kyle and Ashley? Like it just

903
00:46:40,200 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 4: like it makes so little sense. I was perplexed, so

904
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 4: are we, and asked her to stay with me. She

905
00:46:50,200 --> 00:46:52,839
Speaker 4: said that Ashley's parents need all the support that they

906
00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:55,680
Speaker 4: can get and we will discuss everything later. What about

907
00:46:55,719 --> 00:46:59,440
Speaker 4: your damn daughter? Can she not get all the support

908
00:46:59,520 --> 00:47:03,279
Speaker 4: she can get? Excuse me, excuse me.

909
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,480
Speaker 5: I just want to know where she's going to go,

910
00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:07,720
Speaker 5: Like if she's actually going to still go and support

911
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 5: Ashley during the in and tell her afterwards, or if

912
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,960
Speaker 5: she's just gonna say show Both reactions would be fair.

913
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 5: If she's like, you know what, We've been best friends

914
00:47:15,560 --> 00:47:17,279
Speaker 5: for years. I'm pissed at her and I'm done after this.

915
00:47:17,360 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 5: But I promised her this, so I'm going to go

916
00:47:18,880 --> 00:47:21,320
Speaker 5: through with it. Yes, I need to put myself aside

917
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,440
Speaker 5: right now she's having a baby, but as much. But

918
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 5: she also very easily could be like fuck fuck her.

919
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,400
Speaker 5: I'm never seeing her again and not show up, and

920
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:31,120
Speaker 5: I think she should be justified the situation.

921
00:47:31,640 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 4: I don't know when, but my sadness turned into rage

922
00:47:34,480 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 4: the kind I had never experienced before, and in a

923
00:47:37,719 --> 00:47:41,240
Speaker 4: fit of emotions and feelings of betrayal, I started packing

924
00:47:41,320 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 4: my bags and I decided to leave my home so

925
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 4: she's just leaving her parents.

926
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 5: Wow. Yeah, Because I mean, at this point, you got

927
00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:52,759
Speaker 5: to assume if the if the mom knew, then the

928
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,719
Speaker 5: dad probably knew as well. I think the only person

929
00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 5: in the family not to blame that we've heard about

930
00:47:57,960 --> 00:47:59,640
Speaker 5: that kind of would know about the situations the fourteen

931
00:47:59,719 --> 00:48:01,399
Speaker 5: year old, because it's a fourteen year old, and you're

932
00:48:01,400 --> 00:48:05,080
Speaker 5: gonna default to what your mom says. But clearly she

933
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 5: wasn't comfortable.

934
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:07,080
Speaker 1: Wow.

935
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 4: God, yeah, this is all kinds of fucked. I left,

936
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,960
Speaker 4: I took a train, and I left My parents. Siblings,

937
00:48:17,040 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 4: Kyle and Ashley, all trial to contact me. My mom

938
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 4: was sending me a panicked voicemail demanding me to come back.

939
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:27,080
Speaker 4: They also reported me as a missing person. But I

940
00:48:27,200 --> 00:48:29,960
Speaker 4: don't think it went anywhere. As I was eighteen, I

941
00:48:30,120 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 4: finished school and got married. Fifteen years passed away from

942
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:38,160
Speaker 4: my family, and I found out from some friends that

943
00:48:38,320 --> 00:48:41,279
Speaker 4: my parents were struggling to keep their house and both

944
00:48:41,360 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 4: my brothers lost their jobs and struggled to keep up

945
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 4: with the cost.

946
00:48:45,000 --> 00:48:47,600
Speaker 1: Me and my now coming all the way into the future,

947
00:48:47,719 --> 00:48:50,560
Speaker 1: now like this is this is covering like a whole

948
00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 1: person's life fifteen years late, literally and now everyone's screwed.

949
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:54,959
Speaker 4: It's a movie.

950
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,440
Speaker 5: It also makes sense why the ex didn't know about

951
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,720
Speaker 5: the pregnancy, because if they didn't go to the same school,

952
00:49:00,280 --> 00:49:03,359
Speaker 5: would have no clue. Yea, I was saying with social media, like, yeah,

953
00:49:03,440 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 5: of course you would say that your exes preagant or

954
00:49:05,320 --> 00:49:07,600
Speaker 5: it takes a mutual friends seeing your exes perkant. Yeah

955
00:49:07,880 --> 00:49:08,759
Speaker 5: on Instagram, so that.

956
00:49:08,840 --> 00:49:10,480
Speaker 1: Makes sense true.

957
00:49:11,800 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 4: Me and my husband agreed to help them pay as

958
00:49:14,160 --> 00:49:16,000
Speaker 4: in help out her brothers who just lost their jobs.

959
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,560
Speaker 4: So I flew back to my home state. I saw

960
00:49:18,640 --> 00:49:22,320
Speaker 4: my family for the first time in fifteen years. I

961
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 4: had so many emotions, regrets, pains from the past, feelings

962
00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:30,040
Speaker 4: of betrayal. My parents were, I think, relieved to see me.

963
00:49:30,600 --> 00:49:33,160
Speaker 4: It was such a weird day. We had a lengthy

964
00:49:33,200 --> 00:49:35,640
Speaker 4: conversation and agreed to try and have some sort of

965
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,960
Speaker 4: cordial relationship. But that's why my mom started insisting that

966
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:43,120
Speaker 4: I have a sit down conversation with Kyle and Ashley.

967
00:49:43,440 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 4: I told her that she is choosing them over me again.

968
00:49:48,000 --> 00:49:51,040
Speaker 4: She cried and yelled at me that I am selfish

969
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 4: and that she just wants her family back. My mom

970
00:49:54,400 --> 00:49:57,920
Speaker 4: and Kyle's mom kept calling me. And when I say that,

971
00:49:58,120 --> 00:50:02,600
Speaker 4: I mean a hundred plus day and messages every twenty

972
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:08,080
Speaker 4: minutes to pester me. I I was afraid to block her,

973
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 4: so I spoke to my father. I don't know what

974
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,440
Speaker 4: happened to them afterwards. He doesn't speak much about it.

975
00:50:14,960 --> 00:50:18,320
Speaker 4: Her calls slowly ceased, and something else must have happened,

976
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,719
Speaker 4: because in August my dad filed for a divorce.

977
00:50:23,600 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: Oh wow, this whole family is falling apart.

978
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 5: Ooh it's insane. Feels like a Telen novella A little bit.

979
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean the yeah, just the level of all

980
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:36,680
Speaker 4: of these things happening, the way at which. God, this

981
00:50:36,840 --> 00:50:39,080
Speaker 4: is definitely one of our craziest stories we've ever read

982
00:50:39,120 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 4: out of like literally a thousand. My God, my mom

983
00:50:43,920 --> 00:50:47,840
Speaker 4: is devastated. In August, her calls became insane, and apparently

984
00:50:48,080 --> 00:50:50,719
Speaker 4: not just with me. I've changed my number since then,

985
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:53,040
Speaker 4: and as of February, she has not been able to

986
00:50:53,120 --> 00:50:55,600
Speaker 4: reach me. I don't want to have anything to do

987
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 4: with her anymore, nor do I want her near my kids.

988
00:50:58,760 --> 00:51:01,960
Speaker 4: As for Kyle and Ashley, I got a letter apparently

989
00:51:02,120 --> 00:51:04,919
Speaker 4: written by Ashley. I've not opened it, and I really

990
00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,480
Speaker 4: don't know if I want to. I feel like I've

991
00:51:07,600 --> 00:51:09,799
Speaker 4: moved on from them. But on the other hand, I'm

992
00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:12,200
Speaker 4: curious as to what she has to say after so

993
00:51:12,840 --> 00:51:17,880
Speaker 4: many years. However, that in itself could bring back bad Oh.

994
00:51:18,520 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: I would definitely let curiosity get the best of me there,

995
00:51:21,640 --> 00:51:23,480
Speaker 1: Like I would have to open the letter. I don't

996
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: think I could just like, yeah, not even look at it,

997
00:51:26,280 --> 00:51:29,719
Speaker 1: maybe don't respond, but yeah, I would definitely look at it.

998
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:35,640
Speaker 4: Wow, I mean so many things here. I guess I'm curious.

999
00:51:35,640 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 4: I guess I guess boiling it down to the most

1000
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:42,000
Speaker 4: quintessential question for me, I would love to hear everyone

1001
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:47,359
Speaker 4: who's watching on their take. But Macie are our resident expert, Yeah,

1002
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:48,840
Speaker 4: what would you do at this point?

1003
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:51,600
Speaker 1: And also it's like like a lot of people will

1004
00:51:51,640 --> 00:51:55,560
Speaker 1: go like like they'll ask Reddit, like should I go

1005
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:59,080
Speaker 1: no contact with my family because of this? And I'm wondering, like,

1006
00:51:59,160 --> 00:52:01,040
Speaker 1: do you think this is a yeah contact situation?

1007
00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:04,839
Speaker 5: I think it's no contact with certain individuals. I think

1008
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 5: the only one that's really redeemable is the fourteen year

1009
00:52:09,800 --> 00:52:13,080
Speaker 5: old sister, because I think it's fair a fourteen you're

1010
00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:15,120
Speaker 5: going to follow your mom's lead. But it seems like

1011
00:52:15,200 --> 00:52:17,440
Speaker 5: she was really pushing back. She found out because the

1012
00:52:17,480 --> 00:52:21,120
Speaker 5: sister was pushing back because this is your sister was uncomfortable.

1013
00:52:22,960 --> 00:52:25,279
Speaker 5: So I feel like, out of everybody, the fourteen year old,

1014
00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 5: you got to give more of a chance. You gotta

1015
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 5: think also too, like fourteen year old is there it's

1016
00:52:30,000 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 5: not a fully formed adult.

1017
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1018
00:52:32,760 --> 00:52:35,400
Speaker 5: The mom the oldest sister was twenty, So assuming that

1019
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 5: she got pregnant as soon as you could get like

1020
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 5: pregnant at like fourteen, the mom had to have been

1021
00:52:39,960 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 5: at least thirty four plus. That is a fully grown

1022
00:52:44,680 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 5: person with a fully developed brain. Yeah, and like plenty

1023
00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,680
Speaker 5: of life experience beyond that, because like I think for women,

1024
00:52:51,800 --> 00:52:54,280
Speaker 5: our brains fully developed at twenty one and for minutes

1025
00:52:54,320 --> 00:53:00,520
Speaker 5: like twenty five or something like that. Seven Yeah, anyways,

1026
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 5: but like even beyond that, you kind of spend your

1027
00:53:02,640 --> 00:53:05,520
Speaker 5: later twenties being a little dumb and you're still kind

1028
00:53:05,560 --> 00:53:08,360
Speaker 5: of learning things, Like like I've seen it. I've just

1029
00:53:08,400 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 5: seen some people who take time with that area. You know,

1030
00:53:12,560 --> 00:53:14,840
Speaker 5: like you might have the smarts that thing through a situation,

1031
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 5: but you don't have any life experience to really be

1032
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:22,239
Speaker 5: able to weigh your options a little heavier. This mom

1033
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 5: had both those things, she had a fully developed brain.

1034
00:53:26,719 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 5: I'm assuming she had to have gone through stuff in

1035
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 5: her life, Like I think that's unforgivable. I would be

1036
00:53:32,800 --> 00:53:36,840
Speaker 5: done too well. I'm very much a not like a

1037
00:53:38,000 --> 00:53:38,839
Speaker 5: burn it type person.

1038
00:53:38,880 --> 00:53:41,320
Speaker 1: I would say no contact with the mom. Also, it

1039
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:44,160
Speaker 1: seems like she's just going crazy right now and everyone's

1040
00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 1: trying to get away from her.

1041
00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:49,319
Speaker 5: So I'd be curious to see why the dad divorced after,

1042
00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:51,160
Speaker 5: because it seems like when she reached back out and

1043
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:53,720
Speaker 5: she explained things, the dad kind of filed for divorce

1044
00:53:53,760 --> 00:53:56,360
Speaker 5: pretty quickly after. So I'd be open to talking to

1045
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,239
Speaker 5: dad and finding out if the dad didn't know what

1046
00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:00,399
Speaker 5: was going on, I would say, yeah, you're fine being

1047
00:54:00,480 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 5: contact with your dad, like dad didn't know what was

1048
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:08,640
Speaker 5: happening the whole time, then yeah, talk, but like everybody else,

1049
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:12,560
Speaker 5: and like, you know, not really for sure. I would

1050
00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,239
Speaker 5: open that letter, though I would never reach back out

1051
00:54:15,320 --> 00:54:17,239
Speaker 5: to them. I think that would be the worst kind

1052
00:54:17,280 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 5: of kind of torture too. I may don't want to

1053
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 5: say they torture, but like payback for Ashley and Kyle

1054
00:54:23,360 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 5: is if they sent you this letter and they pour

1055
00:54:26,040 --> 00:54:27,799
Speaker 5: out their hearts and it's a huge apology and they

1056
00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,480
Speaker 5: just get nothing back. Like that would be like, you know,

1057
00:54:31,600 --> 00:54:34,719
Speaker 5: it'd be just I mean, you've ruined, You've ruined where

1058
00:54:34,719 --> 00:54:37,399
Speaker 5: her life is going. Grant it might have turned out better,

1059
00:54:37,480 --> 00:54:39,640
Speaker 5: but like it doesn't matter if her life could have

1060
00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:41,120
Speaker 5: turned out better and she could have matter her husband

1061
00:54:41,120 --> 00:54:42,120
Speaker 5: regardless of that pain.

1062
00:54:42,920 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: Mm hmm, yeah, agreed, agreed, But I mean I want

1063
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:49,440
Speaker 1: to hear what every one of the comments has to say. So, uh,

1064
00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:52,719
Speaker 1: this is a doozy, This is a long while. Yeah, wow,

1065
00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:56,840
Speaker 1: I wonder how how long this edit will be. But

1066
00:54:57,200 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 1: put your answers at the comments below. What do you

1067
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,120
Speaker 1: think she'd peach you do that they go now contact?

1068
00:55:01,200 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: And like which family members should ope go no contact with.

1069
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:10,800
Speaker 1: We love hearing from you, especially our public subscribers, and

1070
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,839
Speaker 1: we're gonna read some comments from some public subscribers right now.

1071
00:55:15,000 --> 00:55:18,120
Speaker 1: So on the video, he's cheating on me with his coworker.

1072
00:55:18,480 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: Basically the coworker steals husband of Ope Thrones. Odd World

1073
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,760
Speaker 1: says a wife is toxic and doesn't let the husband

1074
00:55:25,880 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 1: be friends with women, which sometimes can be a toxic trait,

1075
00:55:29,239 --> 00:55:33,480
Speaker 1: and subscriber twins Sister said, if he is cheating he

1076
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: is the worst heater ever that he was. Well, we

1077
00:55:36,800 --> 00:55:39,359
Speaker 1: love your comments. If you want to have us read

1078
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:41,759
Speaker 1: your comments, make sure to public subscribe and comment below

1079
00:55:41,840 --> 00:55:43,360
Speaker 1: and we'll see him. I don't know what to do.

1080
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 1: My best friend tried to kiss me, so I puck

1081
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: it up. Now she's pissed and I think my friendship

1082
00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 1: is over? Am I the a hole?

1083
00:55:51,520 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 4: You try to kiss me? How are you going to

1084
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 4: be mad at me?

1085
00:55:54,239 --> 00:55:54,399
Speaker 5: Yeah?

1086
00:55:55,320 --> 00:55:57,760
Speaker 1: I'm just I'm just using the only defense I know how.

1087
00:55:57,760 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 4: This that's right?

1088
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:04,439
Speaker 5: How dare you try to kiss me when I kiss you? Yeah? Eh?

1089
00:56:04,960 --> 00:56:06,239
Speaker 1: How dare you kiss me back?

1090
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 4: Rerid it logic.

1091
00:56:09,160 --> 00:56:11,239
Speaker 1: So I'm a twenty four year old man and my

1092
00:56:11,360 --> 00:56:14,160
Speaker 1: friend Jess is a twenty two year old woman. We've

1093
00:56:14,200 --> 00:56:16,160
Speaker 1: known each other for about three years, since we met

1094
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 1: in a class. We've always been platonic, and to be

1095
00:56:18,800 --> 00:56:21,520
Speaker 1: completely honest, I'm not the type of guy to go

1096
00:56:21,680 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: for it. Come on, o peeb a, go get it right,

1097
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 1: you know, spit some game, riz up some riz. Yesterday,

1098
00:56:28,800 --> 00:56:31,080
Speaker 1: Jess was supposed to move. I was going to drive

1099
00:56:31,160 --> 00:56:33,160
Speaker 1: my truck over to her place, help her load up

1100
00:56:33,200 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 1: her stuff, and get her out of her apartment. Her

1101
00:56:35,920 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 1: situation with her roommates has become highly unstable due to

1102
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: the unreconcilable differences, so she was in a rush to

1103
00:56:44,640 --> 00:56:47,280
Speaker 1: leave the day before yesterday. As a way of thanking

1104
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:50,160
Speaker 1: me in a advance, Jess ordered pizza for the two

1105
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: of us. Maybe a little candle very nice. Maybe some

1106
00:56:53,000 --> 00:56:56,479
Speaker 1: rose petals, yeah, hey, borrow chocolate. Maybe a massage. Maybe

1107
00:56:56,560 --> 00:56:59,120
Speaker 1: she drew at nice warm bath while you ate that pizza.

1108
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:01,920
Speaker 5: Got the night cheese.

1109
00:57:02,200 --> 00:57:05,319
Speaker 1: Here's yeah, lady in the tramp that she.

1110
00:57:05,480 --> 00:57:10,240
Speaker 5: Is like nice, nice little sexy polls.

1111
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:13,200
Speaker 1: It doesn't have you whip yourselves with that cheese.

1112
00:57:15,960 --> 00:57:17,520
Speaker 4: Maybe maybe oh.

1113
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:24,560
Speaker 1: You know, I don't know. I'm saying, hey, pineapple pizza

1114
00:57:24,600 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 1: and accomplices two things at once. That's a little little, uh,

1115
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:29,560
Speaker 1: a little night time prep.

1116
00:57:30,920 --> 00:57:32,080
Speaker 5: So uh.

1117
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:36,640
Speaker 1: We were sitting there watching a movie on my couch,

1118
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,680
Speaker 1: being plotonic friends as usual. Suddenly she inched a little

1119
00:57:40,720 --> 00:57:45,400
Speaker 1: closer to me. Then she got a little closer. All

1120
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:49,640
Speaker 1: I could do was think about how it was finally happening.

1121
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:52,720
Speaker 1: OPI has been saving it all in. He's about to

1122
00:57:53,160 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 1: to if she inches one more closer, one more inch

1123
00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:00,640
Speaker 1: closer is about the bus. Yeah, he's got it's got it.

1124
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:04,280
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, oh no. That that always worries me though,

1125
00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:07,200
Speaker 5: And you were like, guys, are like, it's finally happening.

1126
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,440
Speaker 5: I'm like, so were you helping her move because you

1127
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 5: wanted something to happen.

1128
00:58:13,160 --> 00:58:17,080
Speaker 4: I moved all these for you, Jessica, Come.

1129
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:21,080
Speaker 3: On this move You know.

1130
00:58:23,480 --> 00:58:25,960
Speaker 5: You're wanting to move out of your crazy apartment and

1131
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 5: I'm wanting to move. Move on over here.

1132
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 1: God all right. So she squeezed up really close next

1133
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:40,840
Speaker 1: to me and looked up at my face. I'm not

1134
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,360
Speaker 1: the most confident guy, so all I could say was, hey,

1135
00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:50,040
Speaker 1: if anyone seen Spider Man, to what she responded, Hi.

1136
00:58:51,640 --> 00:58:56,479
Speaker 1: Then she asked if I wanted to do something, Still

1137
00:58:56,560 --> 00:58:59,880
Speaker 1: trying to keep room for plausible deniabil come on if so,

1138
00:59:00,160 --> 00:59:01,680
Speaker 1: ask you if someone it's just close to you on

1139
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,240
Speaker 1: the couch when you're watching a movie, and asked if

1140
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 1: you want to do something. It sounds sounds like she's

1141
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: she's leading the witness.

1142
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:13,920
Speaker 5: The subtleties in the beginning for a relationship. Yeah, get

1143
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:16,360
Speaker 5: it into your relationship. You look at the person, you're like,

1144
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:18,520
Speaker 5: you want to have sex? And like, okay, sure.

1145
00:59:22,560 --> 00:59:27,000
Speaker 1: I asked what something was and she said, yeah, oh,

1146
00:59:27,680 --> 00:59:33,440
Speaker 1: you know something, still trying to keep room for plausibil diability.

1147
00:59:33,600 --> 00:59:35,600
Speaker 1: I decided I didn't know what something was, and she

1148
00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:39,760
Speaker 1: kept staring and nodding, and I thought I just take

1149
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:43,440
Speaker 1: my chances. I asked if I could kiss her. He asked,

1150
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:45,920
Speaker 1: big mistake, Just lean in.

1151
00:59:46,040 --> 00:59:48,920
Speaker 5: Do the lean in one of those you got to

1152
00:59:48,960 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 5: do that like Edward Colon, like this kind of era

1153
00:59:52,320 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 5: of stuff. You're like, hey, I want to kiss you,

1154
00:59:54,240 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 5: and you just leap it there. You don't ask, you

1155
00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,560
Speaker 5: just say I really want to kiss you know, like

1156
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 5: that's really yeah.

1157
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I think I spin on my cameras.

1158
01:00:05,400 --> 01:00:08,560
Speaker 1: She immediately stood up, walked to the other end of

1159
01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:11,720
Speaker 1: the room, and sat down on the armchair. Then she

1160
01:00:11,880 --> 01:00:15,520
Speaker 1: took out her phone. I immediately apologized, and she said

1161
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,800
Speaker 1: that I should just forget it. A few minutes of

1162
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:22,680
Speaker 1: incredibly awkward silence passed, and then she said, I guess Kim,

1163
01:00:23,160 --> 01:00:26,160
Speaker 1: her best friend, was right. I asked what Kim was

1164
01:00:26,240 --> 01:00:29,320
Speaker 1: right about, and she explained that for several years, Kim

1165
01:00:29,400 --> 01:00:32,560
Speaker 1: has repeatedly, again and again said that I was only

1166
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 1: trying to get in her pants. Apparently, Kim put her

1167
01:00:35,840 --> 01:00:38,160
Speaker 1: up to testing me oh, come.

1168
01:00:38,040 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 5: On, Yeah, that doesn't feel necessarily fair because like now

1169
01:00:43,480 --> 01:00:45,240
Speaker 5: now with the context of that, I'm like, it doesn't

1170
01:00:45,240 --> 01:00:48,560
Speaker 5: seem like he's being you know, the stereotypical nice guy

1171
01:00:48,800 --> 01:00:50,880
Speaker 5: like it was you know, you know, excuting it.

1172
01:00:51,040 --> 01:00:52,840
Speaker 1: She was making a move on him, and he was

1173
01:00:52,920 --> 01:00:54,520
Speaker 1: like she was making a move, and he was.

1174
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:56,800
Speaker 5: Like, well I'm into you, so yeah, But it wasn't

1175
01:00:56,960 --> 01:00:59,440
Speaker 5: like he was doing the whole which I've dealt with

1176
01:00:59,520 --> 01:01:04,120
Speaker 5: this where it's like, you know, you go to your

1177
01:01:04,200 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 5: sister's game once with them, and he had former teammates

1178
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,240
Speaker 5: that were also playing that same day, and you bought

1179
01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:15,160
Speaker 5: your own Chipotle before you even showed up, and all

1180
01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:17,000
Speaker 5: of a sudden, when you end up in a relationship

1181
01:01:17,040 --> 01:01:19,120
Speaker 5: three months later, they're sending you a crazy text, so like,

1182
01:01:19,160 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 5: but I did so much for you and you're like

1183
01:01:20,840 --> 01:01:25,880
Speaker 5: what wow, and like you didn't even buy this and

1184
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:29,240
Speaker 5: think I didn't even think it was a date, Like

1185
01:01:29,320 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 5: you wanted to see the other. We both had friends

1186
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:34,440
Speaker 5: that were playing at this one. It was a it

1187
01:01:34,560 --> 01:01:36,080
Speaker 5: was a cross country meet and I'm like, we both

1188
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 5: had friends that were running that day. I didn't think

1189
01:01:38,280 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 5: it was a date. The date with yeah, like a

1190
01:01:43,920 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 5: date where we're running round between different spots at a

1191
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:51,920
Speaker 5: cross country meet to cheer on our friends. Oh god, right,

1192
01:01:52,520 --> 01:01:54,240
Speaker 5: but it's not like it was like that where he

1193
01:01:54,480 --> 01:01:57,280
Speaker 5: like flipped out. Later, it was literally like she was

1194
01:01:57,320 --> 01:01:59,000
Speaker 5: making moves and he was reciprocating.

1195
01:01:59,360 --> 01:02:02,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that feels super unfair, but there is a little

1196
01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: bit more to the story. So I felt horrible. I

1197
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:08,320
Speaker 1: immediately apologized to Jess again and said that while I

1198
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:11,320
Speaker 1: found her attractive, I do nothing to hurt her friendship,

1199
01:02:11,520 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: and then apologized yet again. Jess accepted it while crying

1200
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:17,040
Speaker 1: a bit. Then I told her she had nothing to

1201
01:02:17,120 --> 01:02:19,560
Speaker 1: worry about. After just went home. I got to thinking

1202
01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:22,920
Speaker 1: that it was incredibly mean spirited that she would do

1203
01:02:23,000 --> 01:02:26,040
Speaker 1: that to me. I apologized, but that juvenile high school

1204
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:28,160
Speaker 1: prank just started to strike me the wrong way. I

1205
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 1: talked to my sister, who I can talk to about anything,

1206
01:02:31,200 --> 01:02:34,360
Speaker 1: who reinforced that it was disgusting behavior. Then she asked

1207
01:02:34,400 --> 01:02:37,360
Speaker 1: for Jess's address, which I declined to give her. So

1208
01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: the sister's going to back one of Macie the next

1209
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:44,320
Speaker 1: morning instead of meeting up with Jess at the promised time.

1210
01:02:44,920 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 1: I just didn't I had taken the day off work,

1211
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: but I went in any way because I wanted to

1212
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,000
Speaker 1: get my mind off what happened. Jess was blowing up

1213
01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,360
Speaker 1: my phone all day, and then I got a couple

1214
01:02:55,440 --> 01:02:57,600
Speaker 1: texts from a number I didn't recognize, which I imagined

1215
01:02:57,680 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 1: was Kim. Finally, Jess called me a laking creep, and

1216
01:03:02,160 --> 01:03:04,080
Speaker 1: that was the end. I'm really mixed on this. I

1217
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:07,680
Speaker 1: feel kind of bad, but not so bad so the hole.

1218
01:03:07,840 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 5: It's hard because with context, you don't know if he

1219
01:03:10,120 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 5: was like making subtle moves before and was trying to

1220
01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:15,000
Speaker 5: test the waters and that's why, you.

1221
01:03:15,080 --> 01:03:16,840
Speaker 1: Know, like she was like, no, I think it's a

1222
01:03:17,000 --> 01:03:18,280
Speaker 1: subtles like this is not.

1223
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:21,520
Speaker 5: Just like if he was like subtly like I don't

1224
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:23,840
Speaker 5: want to say, giving her his jacket, or trying to

1225
01:03:23,920 --> 01:03:26,920
Speaker 5: hold her hand, or like purposely trying to get her

1226
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:29,840
Speaker 5: to like his house alone, or kind of making like

1227
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 5: little subtle comments like testing the waters, you know, where

1228
01:03:33,240 --> 01:03:35,600
Speaker 5: she was like maybe like oh this is uncomfortable, but

1229
01:03:35,680 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 5: we're just friends, so we don't have that context. But regardless,

1230
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:41,120
Speaker 5: that was such a mean spirited thing to do. He

1231
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:43,720
Speaker 5: she should have asked. If she'd asked and was like,

1232
01:03:43,760 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 5: oh gosh, I feel really creeped out by that. I

1233
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:47,920
Speaker 5: thought you were just helping me because we were friends

1234
01:03:48,320 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 5: would have been a different thing.

1235
01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, Like why do this whole.

1236
01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:56,080
Speaker 5: Like I feel like if she yeah, no, like absolutely not.

1237
01:03:56,440 --> 01:03:58,200
Speaker 5: I also just think guys would be more likely to

1238
01:03:58,280 --> 01:04:00,440
Speaker 5: jump on it, jump on like, oh, I think this

1239
01:04:00,560 --> 01:04:02,320
Speaker 5: girl's attractive and she wants to sleep with me even

1240
01:04:02,320 --> 01:04:03,560
Speaker 5: if there's no feelings involved.

1241
01:04:04,880 --> 01:04:07,520
Speaker 1: What do you think is like in terms of not

1242
01:04:07,600 --> 01:04:11,440
Speaker 1: every setting up the boundaries of platonic friendships, like what

1243
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:13,560
Speaker 1: do you like? What are the like, what are the

1244
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 1: platonic friendship boundaries you draw?

1245
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:20,600
Speaker 5: I don't I think certain. Gosh, it's this is you're

1246
01:04:20,640 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 5: asking like the wrong You're asking like the wrong person

1247
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:25,080
Speaker 5: because everybody's like, oh my god, And I'm like, but

1248
01:04:25,200 --> 01:04:28,960
Speaker 5: everybody understands. I don't know, like because like Jack is

1249
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 5: one of my close male friends. But it's like a

1250
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,400
Speaker 5: weird thing to say because he also lived with Graham

1251
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 5: and I so like for me, like if he's like

1252
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,120
Speaker 5: walking around his pajamas shirtless, to me, it's not weird

1253
01:04:40,200 --> 01:04:42,960
Speaker 5: because we lived in the same house, you know, and

1254
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,640
Speaker 5: we lived together for over a year. So like, I

1255
01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:47,520
Speaker 5: feel like I'm like a weird person ask because like

1256
01:04:47,680 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 5: my boundaries of jack is, like, what would I be

1257
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:53,240
Speaker 5: okay with the platonic roommate doing more than like platonic friend,

1258
01:04:53,240 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 5: if that makes sense. I think some of the things,

1259
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:59,320
Speaker 5: just like not doing things that you would find affectionate

1260
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:02,400
Speaker 5: from a partner should not be done if you want

1261
01:05:02,640 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 5: a relationship to be platonic. So like if you found

1262
01:05:05,360 --> 01:05:10,160
Speaker 5: it affectionate that you know your significant others giving you

1263
01:05:10,200 --> 01:05:13,360
Speaker 5: their jacket because you're cold probably shouldn't be done if

1264
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 5: that's not something you find affectionating, Like you're out with

1265
01:05:15,960 --> 01:05:18,640
Speaker 5: your girlfriends and like when I'm cold, you just give

1266
01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 5: them your jack and like it's a normal action for you.

1267
01:05:20,760 --> 01:05:22,920
Speaker 5: So it's like hard something like that line kind of

1268
01:05:23,000 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 5: varies for everybody. But I think if she wanted to

1269
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 5: get a gauge if he was into her or not,

1270
01:05:29,000 --> 01:05:31,320
Speaker 5: then like she should have just asked.

1271
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:35,720
Speaker 1: That was like incredibly just say no.

1272
01:05:36,400 --> 01:05:38,600
Speaker 5: He could have said. He could have said no. Yeah,

1273
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:41,440
Speaker 5: I mean, but at least like you, you don't you

1274
01:05:41,520 --> 01:05:44,160
Speaker 5: don't pull it to levels of playing mean spirited pranks.

1275
01:05:44,640 --> 01:05:47,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree, I agree. I think I think you

1276
01:05:47,280 --> 01:05:48,160
Speaker 1: have to be mature.

1277
01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:52,560
Speaker 5: I mean, we're talking about adults act like an adult.

1278
01:05:52,720 --> 01:05:55,680
Speaker 5: You're acting like a seven year old, you know. I

1279
01:05:55,760 --> 01:05:58,320
Speaker 5: don't really feel like there he's the asshole for flaking.

1280
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:02,080
Speaker 5: I think that was incredibly meanspirited that it never should

1281
01:06:02,080 --> 01:06:04,400
Speaker 5: have been gone about that way. I get where she

1282
01:06:04,440 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 5: would have felt uncomfortable and if there was things that

1283
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:09,080
Speaker 5: had happened the past and made her think like, gosh,

1284
01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:11,160
Speaker 5: this is kind of making me uncomfortable, or this is

1285
01:06:11,200 --> 01:06:13,560
Speaker 5: something I feel like should be done in a relationship.

1286
01:06:14,200 --> 01:06:16,520
Speaker 5: I could see where she'd be upset, But like the

1287
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:19,240
Speaker 5: whole way she went about that makes her an asshole. Yeah,

1288
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:23,120
Speaker 5: Like from the context we have, there was nothing before

1289
01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 5: that he did that implied that he was into her.

1290
01:06:26,080 --> 01:06:27,560
Speaker 5: I feel like there had to have been something for

1291
01:06:27,840 --> 01:06:29,440
Speaker 5: her friend Kim to kind of pick up on it.

1292
01:06:29,920 --> 01:06:31,360
Speaker 1: But I could have just been like, oh, this guy,

1293
01:06:31,480 --> 01:06:32,400
Speaker 1: like they're hanging out.

1294
01:06:32,280 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 5: All the time and that, yeah, exactly. So it also

1295
01:06:34,840 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 5: could be that so judging we don't have the context

1296
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:40,200
Speaker 5: of like every interaction that they've had, Like for sure

1297
01:06:40,440 --> 01:06:43,840
Speaker 5: she's an asshole, I don't And from the context we have,

1298
01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 5: I would say he's not an asshole, And I think

1299
01:06:45,840 --> 01:06:48,800
Speaker 5: absolutely unflaking it does mess.

1300
01:06:48,680 --> 01:06:52,200
Speaker 1: Me up a little bit. I feel like the flaking

1301
01:06:52,320 --> 01:06:54,520
Speaker 1: is a little bit of an a whole move a

1302
01:06:54,640 --> 01:06:58,000
Speaker 1: little bit, but I think you should just say, Okay, yeah,

1303
01:06:58,400 --> 01:06:59,640
Speaker 1: you could want to be done with her, but he

1304
01:06:59,680 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: should be like, hey, yeah, I didn't think what you

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Speaker 1: did was cool. I need a little space.

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Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, yeah, he should have. But I don't really

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Speaker 5: like I feel like it was a jerk move, but

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Speaker 5: I don't think it's enough to be an asshole move.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he's never an asshole.

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Speaker 4: Who our beautiful subscribers.

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Speaker 5: I thought you were gonna say that, Kevin.

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Speaker 4: Guys, Kevin can still get it, but our beautiful subscribers

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Speaker 4: are always never the ahole. And we want to read

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Speaker 4: a few comments from all you amazing people out there.

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Speaker 4: These come from the video I married my step bro

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Speaker 4: blew a two hundred k college fund and stole my

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Speaker 4: dead mother's jewelry A weekly recap. First comment comes from

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Speaker 4: public subscriber Diva six one four eight. Hi, I'm in

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Speaker 4: the state of Wisconsin and I know this as a

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Speaker 4: child of divorce and my mother passed away when I

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Speaker 4: was seventeen. At the age of eighteen, child support stops,

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Speaker 4: so OP shouldn't have to page child support. He's technically

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Speaker 4: already an adult. As for what OPI did for the

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Speaker 4: autistic girl, I applaud her. She is an amazing woman. Diva.

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Speaker 4: Thank you for your thoughts and comments there.

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Speaker 1: Next one us the secrets exactly all the legal secrets,

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Speaker 1: legal loopholes. Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Next one comes from public subscriber LPN student one some

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Speaker 4: places as long as they are full time students. It

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Speaker 4: continues till twenty one years old talking about the child

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Speaker 4: support interesting and then final comment from logan Matt seven

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Speaker 4: nine one two. Some judges lock in a set amount

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Speaker 4: not based on income at all. Talking about child support.

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Speaker 4: Op probably agreed and pushed for it since she never

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Speaker 4: thought she'd be on the opposite end. Well, guys, we

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Speaker 4: are always on the opposite end of your wonderful comments

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Speaker 4: and we love reading them. So publicly subscribe, drop a

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Speaker 4: comment and we just might read it on the next one.

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Speaker 1: Say soon,