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Speaker 1: a good morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show. Well, nothing changes about that. Nothing changes

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Speaker 1: about that. Man. I was just so getting ready to

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Speaker 1: I was just having a reflective moment of just how

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Speaker 1: really good God has been to me. And here's a

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Speaker 1: mercy just keeps me anyway. So many of us are

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Speaker 1: You know, I've heard my wife say this to my

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Speaker 1: So many of us are born, and so many of

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Speaker 1: in exceptional is accept you. Ever you ever done this?

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Speaker 1: why have you saying that in your life? If you

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Speaker 1: So why you want to be like everybody else? Why

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Speaker 1: How many? How many excuses you need? I'm an excuse? What? What? What? What? You?

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Speaker 1: you keep on living. You want to keep living in

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Speaker 1: This is a new day. Were in a new year.

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Speaker 1: This is a time for gratitude, attitude, and altitude. Ladies

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Speaker 1: and gentlemen, This Steve hard morning. Sure anybody playing with y'all.

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Speaker 1: Y'all need to get your mind right, man, wrap your

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Speaker 1: and start taking some focus on what's right, because there

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Speaker 1: I don't care how bad it appears, you better believe

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Speaker 1: Strawberry caller for real Mouth of the South, the legend

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Speaker 1: that is Nephew Tommy and yours truly. Good morning, everybody,

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Speaker 1: It's Friday, though, It's Fridday. Freedom Friday, boy, remember boy,

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Speaker 1: Classic Radio Freedom, Oh my god, Freed Classic Radio Man,

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Speaker 1: Freedom Friday. For those of you that weren't aware of

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Speaker 1: it Freedom Friday. I would play anything I wanted to play.

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Speaker 1: so many place in my life and to this song.

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Speaker 1: I remember. I used to stand in that mirror. Man,

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Speaker 1: this show gonna be long A's hell. And you're way, Steve,

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Speaker 1: You're on your way, You're you're right, You're You're gonna

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Speaker 1: be something one day. I'm trying Shirley all right, coming

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Speaker 1: from the nephew as he runs that brank back. Right

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Speaker 1: after this, you're listening to show it is time now

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Speaker 1: This was all them people that's got them. Christmas life

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Speaker 1: still up and it's time to take them down. This right,

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Speaker 1: is what what's January's six? You passed it? Okay, I'm

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Speaker 1: willow Been Yeah, okay, what are you calling? Man? What's up? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Rings ain't custom made day asses in k jeweler, day

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Speaker 1: The wedding day is not the man's dream. All the

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Speaker 1: man dreams of is the chick of his dreams. We

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Speaker 1: don't dream of our wedding day. And if we can

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Speaker 1: get the chick without the wedding day, bam, he got

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Speaker 1: what he don't. All right, Clo, thank you. Coming up

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Speaker 1: at the top of the hour entertainment news right after

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Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, So, Temmy, you have

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Speaker 1: some big, big news we hear, or should I say,

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Speaker 1: Tommy Miles, host of Ready to Love on Own, you

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Speaker 1: have a big premiere tonight. Tell us about it, tell

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Speaker 1: us about it. We can't. It's tonight. We are back

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Speaker 1: in Miami. It is Ready to Love. I am your

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Speaker 1: host throughout the season. This is actually number eight. Now,

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Speaker 1: this is number eight, two in Atlanta, two in Houston,

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Speaker 1: two in DC, and now this is the second one

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Speaker 1: in Miami. This is number eight. I'm excited tonight on

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Speaker 1: the Own network. You do not want to miss it.

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Speaker 1: That's nine eight nine pm Eastern eighth Central on Own.

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Speaker 1: And let me say this about this season. Okay, the

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Speaker 1: night is going to be a night you do not

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Speaker 1: want missing. I promise you, ladies, y'all gonna be hitting

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Speaker 1: me up over the weekend. You ain't even waiting Monday.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna hit me up over the weekend saying, oh mg,

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Speaker 1: this was the best episode ever, best that ever. I

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Speaker 1: promise you, hands down, this one is the best episode ever.

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Speaker 1: Also during this season, your boy, I am reaching my

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Speaker 1: one hundredth episode this season. So what you got to

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Speaker 1: give it up for? You? Boy? Oh my god, the

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Speaker 1: one hundred is on the way, baby, one hundred season

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Speaker 1: A Ready to Love is happening in this season, so

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Speaker 1: make sure y'all tune in tonight. Ready to Love is

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Speaker 1: on fire up. But I promise you tonight is the

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Speaker 1: best episode ever. Yeah, we'll look for our Texas and

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Speaker 1: phone calls this weekend because religiously, yes, y'all gonna call.

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Speaker 1: Y'all gonna do it like we used to doing the

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Speaker 1: old days and putting in emergency call in you're gonna

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Speaker 1: break up the busy busy signal? Why by Mama on

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Speaker 1: the phone. Yes, all right. So amid the Good Morning

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Speaker 1: America scandal involving the extramarital affair of anchors TJ Holmes

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Speaker 1: and Amy Robock. TJ holmes wife Merrily Fibig, has broken

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Speaker 1: her silence and revealed that she is disappointed by TJ's

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Speaker 1: quote lack of discretion. Marily's attorney released a statement to

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Speaker 1: the Daily Mail stating that she is working with TJ's

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Speaker 1: attorney to move their divorce forward privately, expeditiously, and as

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Speaker 1: amicably as possible, and Mary Lee continues to be disappointed

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Speaker 1: by TJ's lack of discretion, respect and sensitivity toward her

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Speaker 1: and their daughter. Last week, TJ filed for a divorce

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Speaker 1: in New York court. Both Amy and TJ claimed they

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Speaker 1: did inform their spouses that things were over b four

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Speaker 1: they started up a romantic relationship with each other. Stop laughing,

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Speaker 1: there you go, so wow, what does she still TJ? Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: now let me ask the questions. So they're not divorced yet, No,

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Speaker 1: they're not. No, he just filed. Yeah, he listened to me.

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Speaker 1: I don't know him like that. You know, when things

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Speaker 1: went bad for me at the Miss Universe pageant, he

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Speaker 1: was one of the ones who was gloating and laughing

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Speaker 1: and just your boy and just drank of me. How

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Speaker 1: could you I've ever seen? Okay, well and listening, let

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Speaker 1: me give you a piece of advice. Okay, you're soon

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Speaker 1: to be ex wife is going to win everything. Oh

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Speaker 1: my god, she's a lawyer, fun attorney. Yeah yeah, this aiable,

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Speaker 1: this word amicable. They should take that out of them

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Speaker 1: all divorce friendly. Nice, don't. I don't know where that's at.

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Speaker 1: First of all, Man publicly humiliated her. She ain't ben

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Speaker 1: to go way quietly, dog, That's all I can said.

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Speaker 1: Just buckle up, hang on, hang in there. Man, You've

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Speaker 1: been to receive so many emotions and files and judiciary

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Speaker 1: complaints and partitions, and well it doesn't seem like it

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Speaker 1: matters much because he and Amy seem like they're in love.

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Speaker 1: I mean, you know, well, let me explain something to you.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead to get back to work real soon, because

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Speaker 1: that love love coast who work. Moving on to Todd

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Speaker 1: Chris Lee. Todd Chrisley is shut down claims he's gay

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Speaker 1: and that he had a passionate affair with his former

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Speaker 1: business associate Mark Braddock. Um Braddock claimed their affair, they're

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Speaker 1: alleged affair, I should say, lasted for a year and

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Speaker 1: After it ended, he and Todd continued a friendship. Todd

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Speaker 1: is due to report to a Florida prison soon to

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Speaker 1: start serving his twelve year sentence, but he felt a

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Speaker 1: need to put an end to these allegations. First appearing

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Speaker 1: on his Crisly Confessions podcast with his son Chase, Todd stated, quote,

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Speaker 1: what insulted me the most is that, out of all

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Speaker 1: these fifty four years, for me to finally be accused

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Speaker 1: of being with a man, it would be someone who

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Speaker 1: looks like Mark Braddock. Okay. Todd took aim at Braddock's appearance,

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Speaker 1: calling him a quote toad and someone that looks like

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Speaker 1: a thumb. So he's mad that the guy wasn't cute

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Speaker 1: that they accused him of being with You look at

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Speaker 1: I thought, yeah, he looks like a thumb. But anyway,

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Speaker 1: so there you have it. Todd is not gay. Oh

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Speaker 1: he's married. Yeah, absolutely, But he wanted to clear that

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Speaker 1: up because it's out there. Yeah, don't that up about

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Speaker 1: to him? Yeah? To him, it does, Yeah, right exactly, Carla. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you pretty much got to get this statement out from

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Speaker 1: going in and you don't want to go in with

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Speaker 1: that room of swirling. Oh I don't know, man, when

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Speaker 1: you're getting that, I don't care, Todd. Yeah, this most

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Speaker 1: a lot of times that they volunteer, so yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not a pleasant Prison is not a pleasant experience. But

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Speaker 1: he's yeah, prison, they're saying, it's yeah, damn is jail.

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Speaker 1: We'll all right, but you can't go nowhere. Moving on,

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. Uh, Steve,

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Speaker 1: there's the cutest video trending of an eight year old

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Speaker 1: little girl that believes that you are sitting across from

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Speaker 1: her having breakfast, and it's gone viral. We'll talk about

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Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening, all right, So, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you have one of the most recognizable faces in the world.

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Speaker 1: We know that, and kids love you just as much

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Speaker 1: as adults do. But have you seen this viral video

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Speaker 1: of the cute little girl. She's at breakfast with her

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Speaker 1: older sister. She's sitting in the booth just staring, i mean,

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Speaker 1: eyes locked on this man, convinced that it is you,

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. When her sister assures her that it is

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Speaker 1: not you, the little girl gets on her phone and

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Speaker 1: google's pictures of you for herself. The look on her

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Speaker 1: little face said that she didn't care what anybody said

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00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:35,040
Speaker 1: that man across from her was Steve Harvey. She just

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Speaker 1: knew it was you, Steve. Her name is Balaya and

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Speaker 1: she's eight years old. She lives in South Carolina and

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Speaker 1: her older sister, Kate Joe Lee posted the video on Instagram.

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Speaker 1: The man that looks like you, Steve in the video

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Speaker 1: was Harold Edwards. So there you girl like Harold girl? Right?

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Speaker 1: You love a name you love? Yes, I saw a video.

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00:36:59,239 --> 00:37:06,440
Speaker 1: I thought it was me, the cutest little girl. That

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Speaker 1: The only thing, the only way I knew it wasn't

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Speaker 1: me was I've never had My sister bought me one

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Speaker 1: of them sweaters for Christmas one year with the diamonds

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Speaker 1: on it, and it kind of bad taste in my

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00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:26,919
Speaker 1: mouth about that pattern ever since. Other than that thought

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00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: it was me, it scull cap on, you thought it

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Speaker 1: was you? Hey, Yeah, I've been sitting at the Whapperhouse

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00:37:33,640 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 1: with a skull cap on before when I was home

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00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 1: and I looked, trust me, I've been sitting there before.

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Speaker 1: It was funny video, man. Yeah, you know what, that's

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Speaker 1: a question, dude. Does it surprise you, Steve that so

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Speaker 1: many kids know who you are and love you so much?

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Speaker 1: Does that surprise because she was sure lesson of it.

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Speaker 1: All is because kids know me, adults know me, and grandparents. Yeah,

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00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:07,839
Speaker 1: all generations. My base and longevity that's been in. That's

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Speaker 1: been an unplanned piece of grace from God because there's

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Speaker 1: no way I could map that out. I would have

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Speaker 1: known what to do to have that type of notoriety.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's it's a lot of pain come with fame,

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Speaker 1: but you know it is what it is. It's a

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Speaker 1: lot of benefits too. It does no benefits to fame.

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Speaker 1: Shot that baby out, Steve, give us some love, you know,

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Speaker 1: to the baby. I don't know, my girl, keep on

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00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: believing what you see because I damn show thought it

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Speaker 1: was me myself to the baby. Quay. All right, we're

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Speaker 1: moving on. Coming up in thirty four minutes after the hour,

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Speaker 1: Roscoe's here first time for the new year. Right after this,

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Speaker 1: you're listening Morning show. Okay, So, ladies and gentlemen, for

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Speaker 1: the first time this year's twenty twenty three. Roscoe is here.

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Speaker 1: He dropped by to stay Hi. You're rob on Rob.

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Speaker 1: Happy New Years, your Roscoe, havey new year year, New year? Call,

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Speaker 1: thank you, Happy New year. Roscoe. Have you have new

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Speaker 1: Year's Eve, she say Happy New Years. It was a

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00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:45,919
Speaker 1: little Toby. What's up? Roscoe? Man? My god, we're going

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Speaker 1: on with your We're going on havey New Year, but

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Speaker 1: we're going on with you. Well, Roscoe, I wanted to

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00:39:50,600 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: ask you. Have you heard about this gospel song that

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Speaker 1: um Diane Warwick and Dolly Partner set to release. Um

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Speaker 1: Dian announced it earlier this week on The Tamarin Hall Show.

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Speaker 1: And the song is called It's a gospel song. Like

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Speaker 1: I said, the gospel song is called Peace Like a River.

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Speaker 1: Dolly Parton wrote it down. Warwick is eighty two, in

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Speaker 1: case you didn't know that, Dolly Parton is seventy six.

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Speaker 1: So I think that's really sweet that they're teaming up.

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Speaker 1: What do you think about like a river? Yo? Peace

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Speaker 1: like a ribble? Yes, that's the name of it. Gospel.

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Speaker 1: Who who they wrote that? Well? It says here that

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Speaker 1: Dolly Parton wrote it. What's the does? How muchself? I

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Speaker 1: got to write? Everybody won't take critics? So what do

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Speaker 1: you let me? What are you saying? Let me get

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Speaker 1: this clear? What are you saying? Roscoe? Girl? I wrote

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Speaker 1: that song? Uh, piece like a River? I wrote that

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Speaker 1: So I wrote that song years ago. They ain't no

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Speaker 1: new song. They didn't peace like a ribble. What your

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Speaker 1: name of the song is? People down at the ribble? Oh?

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Speaker 1: Oh couse, Let me ask yourself, because when the soul

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Speaker 1: that was out down by the riverside, who you think

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Speaker 1: they were talking about? They were talking about people, people,

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Speaker 1: people down by the riverside. Then she gonna get her

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Speaker 1: hands on the hole and come tell about this piece

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Speaker 1: of the river. Okay, Well do you even know? I

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00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:26,440
Speaker 1: know Dolly, I know Dolly Mama, I know Dolly first husband.

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Speaker 1: What were their names? I know, I know Dolly, grandmama Molly.

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00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 1: Uh huh, some question. She the one that made the

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Speaker 1: flag that bench it ross took the credit for soling.

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Speaker 1: She needs a fact you don't know nothing about at all.

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00:41:47,600 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 1: And dion wal she just jumped on it because she

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00:41:50,440 --> 00:41:57,319
Speaker 1: saw it coming. Hello, the whole psychic thing there? What

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00:41:57,320 --> 00:41:59,080
Speaker 1: what called what you got here? Before? I got a

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00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 1: couple of questions. So you wrote this song? When you

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Speaker 1: write a song, how there's another artist of a legend

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Speaker 1: like Dolly Parton get her hands on some music that

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Speaker 1: you got it from a grandmama Molly. Aren't you listening,

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Speaker 1: Carla Man? What is we on? So you wrote the

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00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 1: song that long ago? Is that on the radio? And

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Speaker 1: I missed all. There's so many lives trying to keep

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00:42:30,320 --> 00:42:34,399
Speaker 1: up with people on the radio that don't listen. What

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Speaker 1: is you? What is your radio? If it ain't listening? Well,

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Speaker 1: I mean you may come. You may run into a

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Speaker 1: little trouble by the river side, down by the river.

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Speaker 1: Now that was about people. So I rewrote it people

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Speaker 1: down by the river, okay, And then she got her

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Speaker 1: hands on it and said, Michael River. But I don't

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Speaker 1: know if you've ever been never been standing on the

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Speaker 1: Mississippi before. Do We didn't look peaceful to you. Get

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Speaker 1: your right out of there if you call in the

630
00:43:09,120 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: Mississippi River river the bridge. Oh yeah, Rosco. So you

631
00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:17,040
Speaker 1: know it's new. It's gonna be a lot of old

632
00:43:17,040 --> 00:43:20,080
Speaker 1: people going bad. I wish well and everything I do,

633
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:23,040
Speaker 1: I hope people proper. I don't wish no bad on nobody.

634
00:43:23,080 --> 00:43:27,799
Speaker 1: You know. Dollars your fine, you know. Yeah, But on

635
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:30,120
Speaker 1: this one, Roscoe, you may be back in court with

636
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 1: your multimillion dollar lawsuit or was it billion dollars? No problem,

637
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:39,479
Speaker 1: I got working now you're not doing your lounge thing anymore. Oh, wow.

638
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but that's coming. Go. I go when I

639
00:43:41,520 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 1: want to go, like sometimes I do Tuesday night, sometimes

640
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 1: I do week Then I switch lounges. I do lounge.

641
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:51,560
Speaker 1: But I'm gonna be down me and you don't like

642
00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be next weekend. I'm gonna just a poppy

643
00:43:54,160 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: in and I do guess a piss. We gotta go, guys,

644
00:43:56,680 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 1: Thank you. Roscoe. Coming up next to the the Nephew

645
00:44:00,680 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: and the frank phone Call for today. Right you're listening

646
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:10,440
Speaker 1: to Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at about four minutes

647
00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,480
Speaker 1: after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today, and

648
00:44:13,520 --> 00:44:18,279
Speaker 1: the subject is my cousin owns the car wash. My

649
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,279
Speaker 1: cousin owns the car wash. We'll get into that in

650
00:44:21,360 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: just a few because right now it is time for

651
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: the Nephew and today's prank phone call. Nephew. What you

652
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 1: got for us? Oh well, Shirley Dustin. Right here is

653
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: called delivering your truck. Delivering your truck, all right, delimbering

654
00:44:40,520 --> 00:44:43,960
Speaker 1: your truck, cat dog. If you hold all minds clear,

655
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:50,160
Speaker 1: let's go ye. Hello, Hello, is this uh, let's see

656
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 1: what I got here on my paperwork? Is this the

657
00:44:52,280 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: Wilkins resident this is Welkin. I'm trying to come by

658
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,400
Speaker 1: and drop the vehicle on for you guys. I'm her

659
00:45:00,520 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 1: you must have the wrong number. Well I got is uh.

660
00:45:03,600 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 1: I've already loaded up the vehicle. Evidently it just got

661
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,319
Speaker 1: in here to the dealership this morning. I just put

662
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:11,680
Speaker 1: it on the truck. I should be at you guys place,

663
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:15,640
Speaker 1: probably somewhere around one one thirty or somebody gonna be there, Sir,

664
00:45:15,800 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 1: I think you have the wrong address. We didn't. We

665
00:45:18,080 --> 00:45:20,120
Speaker 1: don't have a vehicle or we an order of vehicle,

666
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 1: so I think you might have gotten the paperwork mixed

667
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,959
Speaker 1: up or something. No, I don't have any paperwork mixed

668
00:45:25,040 --> 00:45:28,800
Speaker 1: up here. This is Wilkins right, Well, this is missus Wilkins.

669
00:45:28,920 --> 00:45:31,680
Speaker 1: I mean that's my husband. Right. Let me look at

670
00:45:31,719 --> 00:45:34,040
Speaker 1: my notes on here. I gotta let's see. I got

671
00:45:34,200 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 1: a GL five fifty SCV Mercedes bends black on black.

672
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,080
Speaker 1: Got that on the truck. We didn't. We didn't. We

673
00:45:43,080 --> 00:45:45,440
Speaker 1: didn't wear a car. He didn't. We didn't order a car.

674
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:48,040
Speaker 1: So I don't think Wait, let me what address are

675
00:45:48,040 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 1: you delivering it too? Let's see here, I got some

676
00:45:51,400 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 1: notes here says this is a special delivery please put

677
00:45:56,160 --> 00:46:01,600
Speaker 1: bowl on top of it. It's a Christmas and we're

678
00:46:01,680 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 1: going to West timber Lake, West Timberlake. No, that's that's

679
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: that's not our address. And you sure it's for a

680
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:16,040
Speaker 1: delivery for Wilkins. Well, let's say in purchased by mister Wilkins.

681
00:46:16,440 --> 00:46:20,640
Speaker 1: Oh here would go going to Uh Sandra, going to

682
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 1: who Sandra? Are you there? So? Uh? Sandra is his

683
00:46:25,760 --> 00:46:29,640
Speaker 1: ex wife? I am his current wife. So you're telling

684
00:46:29,640 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 1: me that he orders a car for her a Christmas. Uh?

685
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,560
Speaker 1: This car here is from what I understand man, looking

686
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:41,000
Speaker 1: at the Uh, I'm supposed to deliver the actual title

687
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:43,720
Speaker 1: and everything. This thing's been paid in full. He bought

688
00:46:43,760 --> 00:46:47,000
Speaker 1: her a car? Are you saying there's no Sandra there? Man?

689
00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:49,279
Speaker 1: What are you telling me? I am telling you that

690
00:46:49,640 --> 00:46:52,360
Speaker 1: it sounds to me as if he bought a car

691
00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: for his ex wife. That's how I said. And you said,

692
00:46:55,239 --> 00:46:58,880
Speaker 1: this is Sandra, Sandra? What's that address? Aim address? One

693
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 1: more time? Okay, wait wait wait wait wait wait wait

694
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 1: a minute. I'll tell you what. Let me try to

695
00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:07,200
Speaker 1: call this other number. What's the mister hell phone number?

696
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: I'll do that now, don't call any other that what

697
00:47:09,600 --> 00:47:12,000
Speaker 1: I need you to do is bring the car to

698
00:47:12,239 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: my house. I'm gonna fix this. He bought her a car.

699
00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 1: You bring the car to my house and I'm gonna

700
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: handle it from here. Well, ma'am, i'm supposed to take

701
00:47:20,239 --> 00:47:22,320
Speaker 1: this over to off for timber Lake. I'm supposed to

702
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 1: take it out there and I'll for timber Late. You're

703
00:47:23,960 --> 00:47:25,759
Speaker 1: gonna bring that to my house and we're gonna do

704
00:47:25,840 --> 00:47:28,000
Speaker 1: here with it. White Here. I'm gonna get Charles on

705
00:47:28,000 --> 00:47:29,759
Speaker 1: the phone. We're gonna get Sarge up here, and we're

706
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,680
Speaker 1: gonna handle it White Now, So you bring the phone

707
00:47:32,719 --> 00:47:35,520
Speaker 1: over here. What's your name. I'm Perkins, ma'am. I'm just here.

708
00:47:35,600 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm just the guy to drive the truck. I'll deliver

709
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: these vehicles all day long. Then you're gonna go ahead

710
00:47:41,680 --> 00:47:43,759
Speaker 1: and deliver it right over here. Bring it over to

711
00:47:43,920 --> 00:47:46,920
Speaker 1: my house. Now, I'm gonna call her, get her over here.

712
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get him and we're gonna see white a hell.

713
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 1: He doesn't about her car, Okay, Well, I mean I

714
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:54,319
Speaker 1: don't mean any arm as any possibility that maybe she

715
00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: just she deserves it and he wanted to give it

716
00:47:56,480 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: to is because she's the ex wife you missed the

717
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,120
Speaker 1: point that I said, I'm his current wife. If he's

718
00:48:03,160 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: gonna be buying any type of car, the car should

719
00:48:05,480 --> 00:48:08,319
Speaker 1: have been for me. It shouldn't be for her. I'm

720
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:11,439
Speaker 1: the one cooking, cleaning iron and all this kind of stuff,

721
00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: and he gonna buy hard Okay, wait, wait, wait a minute,

722
00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 1: I mean what time won't you'll be here with the

723
00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 1: car I got, ma'am deandres, I guy, I'm supposed to

724
00:48:22,200 --> 00:48:24,920
Speaker 1: let delivered off West timber Lake. I'm not supposed to

725
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,560
Speaker 1: come nowhere else. That's to West Timberlake. You're gonna bring

726
00:48:27,560 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 1: it to my house. That's what you're gonna do. You're

727
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,439
Speaker 1: gonna bring that car. It's it's hard. You're gonna bring

728
00:48:32,440 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: it to my house. And that's where it's gonna be

729
00:48:34,400 --> 00:48:38,200
Speaker 1: delivered to. I'm gonna fix that, you know what, ma'am.

730
00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:40,879
Speaker 1: I want to pretty much stay out of this thing.

731
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:42,520
Speaker 1: All I want to do is deliver this thing off

732
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:44,520
Speaker 1: timber Lake. I think I think I was created a

733
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 1: problem that probably wasn't even gonna be a problem. You

734
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:49,200
Speaker 1: already up, like I just I need to know a

735
00:48:49,200 --> 00:48:51,080
Speaker 1: couple of things. Wait, when did he buy his car?

736
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:54,480
Speaker 1: He told me? When that's what he told me when

737
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 1: did hebody car? This car was purchased about but right

738
00:48:58,080 --> 00:49:00,200
Speaker 1: out a month ago, but it just got delivered then

739
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 1: last night. Also is a special order car. Okay, okay,

740
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:09,120
Speaker 1: well I mean five fifty. It's the biggest shuv they got, okay,

741
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: I hus okay h huh. Now wait when he came

742
00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:13,040
Speaker 1: in that you did you see him when he came

743
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 1: in about a car with him? Which somebody was he

744
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:16,960
Speaker 1: with him? Ma'am? I don't. I don't work inside the

745
00:49:17,080 --> 00:49:19,480
Speaker 1: inside the dealership, man, I just drive the cars and

746
00:49:19,880 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: deliver them. Well, how much is how much is a car?

747
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:25,800
Speaker 1: How much was a car? Uh? Look here says ninety

748
00:49:26,760 --> 00:49:29,760
Speaker 1: ninety eight right right at right at ninety nine thousand

749
00:49:29,760 --> 00:49:32,479
Speaker 1: dollars ninety eight cash because you said it was paid

750
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: in full. I don't know how have you charged, dude

751
00:49:35,320 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 1: or whatever, but it says paid him, but you said

752
00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,319
Speaker 1: it was paid in for So you mean to kill

753
00:49:40,400 --> 00:49:43,839
Speaker 1: me this fool that bought a car for his ex

754
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:46,560
Speaker 1: wife and paid in full him's ninety thousand? How was that?

755
00:49:46,640 --> 00:49:49,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I really want you to try to explain

756
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:51,000
Speaker 1: that to me. Is that what you're saying? Man? I mean,

757
00:49:51,000 --> 00:49:53,320
Speaker 1: you you asking me to explain some stuff that seems

758
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 1: like he needs to be explaining to your car. You

759
00:49:57,520 --> 00:49:59,959
Speaker 1: have to have information that I need you. I'm trying

760
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 1: the figure some out right here because here its home,

761
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:08,040
Speaker 1: its own and popping up in here. Okay, uh now

762
00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 1: what's this right here? This is a got a personalized

763
00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:14,839
Speaker 1: license plate? What what? What's you say? What's you say?

764
00:50:15,000 --> 00:50:17,839
Speaker 1: There's a personalized license plate here? I guess they'll put

765
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,800
Speaker 1: those on when I get there there inside the vehicle

766
00:50:19,960 --> 00:50:22,600
Speaker 1: personalized licensease late, so you have to like special order

767
00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 1: those right. It's got love X on here. What you say,

768
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:31,040
Speaker 1: h l u v X so a love X or

769
00:50:31,280 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 1: love you know what? Cann me get myself together? This

770
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:38,040
Speaker 1: is how people get the killed. I'm gonna get a

771
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,880
Speaker 1: taste dealing with this. You know what? Bringing part of

772
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,359
Speaker 1: my house, that's what you do. You bring the car

773
00:50:44,440 --> 00:50:47,319
Speaker 1: over here, you understand. Bring I'm supposed to take this

774
00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:51,319
Speaker 1: to t to timber Lake for timber Lake drive. Take

775
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 1: the car to bring it to my house. Right now.

776
00:50:54,440 --> 00:50:56,840
Speaker 1: Anybody gonna be driving a new car, it's gonna be me.

777
00:50:56,960 --> 00:50:59,520
Speaker 1: I can't believe that bought that cat? Do you have

778
00:50:59,640 --> 00:51:04,800
Speaker 1: my dress? I got um for Apple Forest that's my address.

779
00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 1: You bring that over here, and you bring it here

780
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,120
Speaker 1: right now. I need to be your next delivery because

781
00:51:10,120 --> 00:51:12,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get on this song and I'm gonna figure

782
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 1: out what's going all over here. I can't believe he

783
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,960
Speaker 1: both gets supper as flow down here and I got

784
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:20,799
Speaker 1: one more note on here today? What what? What? What?

785
00:51:22,000 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: It says Vernetta. Yes, I'm okay, it says Vernetta. This

786
00:51:28,480 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 1: is nephew Tommy. You've just been praying by your husband,

787
00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: Will gets banana. This is nephew Tommy, baby for the

788
00:51:38,960 --> 00:51:42,080
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Martin's your your husband got me to pray,

789
00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:49,720
Speaker 1: was about to get killed. It was gonna be Oh

790
00:51:49,719 --> 00:51:52,799
Speaker 1: my god, I'm gonna need me a drink. I'm gonna

791
00:51:52,840 --> 00:51:56,960
Speaker 1: need me a drink. I gotta ask you one more thing, baby,

792
00:51:56,960 --> 00:51:59,960
Speaker 1: what is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio

793
00:51:59,800 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 1: show in the land, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well,

794
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:07,200
Speaker 1: I thought this was over. I was gonna take that over.

795
00:52:09,920 --> 00:52:12,320
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about. That's what I'm talking about.

796
00:52:12,400 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 1: Baby deliveries ain't really that Yeah. I love her though

797
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:22,400
Speaker 1: she was not having it. Wait a minute, there's a

798
00:52:22,600 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: special tag on this Yer over Love, I Love, I can.

799
00:52:45,640 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna give me a drink. You're gonna need a drink.

800
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:52,280
Speaker 1: Come catch the food Sunday Night. Sunday Night, January the fifteenth,

801
00:52:52,280 --> 00:52:56,239
Speaker 1: in Streeport, Louisiana at the Municipal Auditorium. The Nephew will

802
00:52:56,280 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 1: be in time. That is Date Night, Comedy Show, Date Night,

803
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:03,439
Speaker 1: Come Show with Nephew, Tommy and Friends, Freeport, Louisiana. Take

804
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:06,359
Speaker 1: us available at all Ticketmaster outlets and you can get

805
00:53:06,400 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: them at the box office Date Night. If you don't

806
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:10,640
Speaker 1: have a date, come on out you might find a date.

807
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,880
Speaker 1: Have some fun. MLK Weekend Sunday Night, January fifteenth, The

808
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: Nephew will be in town, Freeport, Louisian. Thank you Nephew.

809
00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,400
Speaker 1: Coming up next Strawberry Letters subject my cousin owns the

810
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:26,719
Speaker 1: car wash. We'll get into it right after this. You're

811
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:31,320
Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Well, it is

812
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need

813
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, please submit

814
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: your Strawberry Letter to Steve VARVEFM dot com and we

815
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:44,759
Speaker 1: could be reading your letter live on the air, just

816
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:47,400
Speaker 1: like we're going to read this one right here, right now,

817
00:53:47,800 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 1: and you never know it could be yours. So write us,

818
00:53:52,520 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 1: write us, buckle up and hold on tight. We got

819
00:53:54,600 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: it for you here. It is so strawberry letter. Thank you, nephew. Subject.

820
00:53:58,239 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: My cousin owns the car wash. Dear Stephen Shirley. I'm

821
00:54:02,320 --> 00:54:05,479
Speaker 1: a twenty nine year old hopeless romantic and I got

822
00:54:05,520 --> 00:54:08,760
Speaker 1: married too quickly to a man that I barely knew.

823
00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: Now all of my family is in my business, and

824
00:54:12,280 --> 00:54:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm so disappointed in myself. I met a man that's

825
00:54:15,680 --> 00:54:19,080
Speaker 1: from another city, and after we dated for a few months,

826
00:54:19,360 --> 00:54:22,760
Speaker 1: he came to visit me and never left. He quickly

827
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:25,759
Speaker 1: got a great job and he got settled in. He

828
00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,759
Speaker 1: has a friend in town, so he's usually hanging out

829
00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,399
Speaker 1: with him or he's at work. I never suspected he

830
00:54:32,480 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 1: was cheating on me until three days ago when I

831
00:54:35,640 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: found out that he's had sex in his car. My

832
00:54:39,880 --> 00:54:44,080
Speaker 1: cousin owns a car wash and he specializes in wheels

833
00:54:44,120 --> 00:54:48,400
Speaker 1: and detailing leather seats. My husband's escalate is his pride

834
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:52,239
Speaker 1: and joy, so he gets it washed often. I did

835
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:55,040
Speaker 1: not know he was going all the way across town

836
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,120
Speaker 1: to get his car washed until I got a call

837
00:54:57,200 --> 00:55:00,200
Speaker 1: from my cousin's wife. She said, my husband as out

838
00:55:00,280 --> 00:55:02,600
Speaker 1: his truck to the car wash a few times and

839
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:06,920
Speaker 1: he's always got interesting stains and pieces of weave all

840
00:55:07,000 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 1: over the truck. My cousin figured out that it's my

841
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 1: husband after he saw a business card in the truck. See,

842
00:55:14,480 --> 00:55:17,600
Speaker 1: my cousin wasn't invited to my wedding because he is

843
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:20,760
Speaker 1: on the ghetto side of my family, so he didn't

844
00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,800
Speaker 1: know my husband. I just hate that. Before my cousin's

845
00:55:23,840 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: wife called me, she called my mom and told her

846
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:29,400
Speaker 1: that my husband has been having sex in his truck

847
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:33,200
Speaker 1: and getting it cleaned. Afterwards, I asked my husband about

848
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,680
Speaker 1: the rumor, and he threatened to fight my cousin and

849
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:40,719
Speaker 1: out him as a liar and a bad businessman. I

850
00:55:40,880 --> 00:55:43,840
Speaker 1: assured him that my cousin is not the one to

851
00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:47,920
Speaker 1: be played with like that. If my husband is not cheating,

852
00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 1: why would he be so upset. I don't see my

853
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 1: cousin hating on my husband for no reason. Since my

854
00:55:54,160 --> 00:55:59,600
Speaker 1: family knows can my marriage survive this? Well, you really

855
00:55:59,640 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 1: don't have much of a marriage to survive anything. You know.

856
00:56:04,480 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 1: You guys don't even spend a lot of time together.

857
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:09,200
Speaker 1: You said he's over at his friend's house or he's

858
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,880
Speaker 1: over at work. It sounds like your man is cheating

859
00:56:12,880 --> 00:56:15,879
Speaker 1: and everyone knows it. Your family is messy, and you

860
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,719
Speaker 1: are right. Your cousin's wife didn't have to blast the

861
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:22,000
Speaker 1: business to your mom. But you said yourself that you

862
00:56:22,080 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 1: barely know this man. I mean you barely knew him

863
00:56:24,520 --> 00:56:27,640
Speaker 1: when you married him. He's probably doing what he normally

864
00:56:27,719 --> 00:56:31,239
Speaker 1: did when he was single in that other town, but

865
00:56:31,320 --> 00:56:33,440
Speaker 1: you didn't know him then, so you don't have anything

866
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 1: to compare his behavior too. And when you asked him

867
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: about it, he didn't deny it. He didn't say absolutely not, no,

868
00:56:40,920 --> 00:56:42,719
Speaker 1: he didn't blah blah blah blah blah. He didn't even

869
00:56:42,760 --> 00:56:45,439
Speaker 1: try to lie. He just didn't deny it and said

870
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 1: he was going to give your cousin a beat down.

871
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:51,560
Speaker 1: It looks like your husband is cheating. Not if he's cheating,

872
00:56:51,600 --> 00:56:55,560
Speaker 1: like you wrote in a letter, Steve, that's what you

873
00:56:55,640 --> 00:56:58,719
Speaker 1: need to wrap your mind around. Your marriage is in

874
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:00,880
Speaker 1: trouble and I don't see how are you going to

875
00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:03,400
Speaker 1: get past this one. Let's see what kind of lies

876
00:57:03,520 --> 00:57:06,360
Speaker 1: we can come up with for this one, Steve, Well,

877
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:08,640
Speaker 1: I don't think it's really got to be no lies,

878
00:57:08,840 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 1: because if obviously analyze this letter properly. I mean, let's

879
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:19,080
Speaker 1: go through this circumedy. Times has this circumstance. See what

880
00:57:19,560 --> 00:57:23,960
Speaker 1: we were dealing with circumstance. Okay, watch watch how we

881
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:29,800
Speaker 1: do this. This woman says that I'm a twenty nine

882
00:57:29,880 --> 00:57:33,000
Speaker 1: year old hopeless romantic. I got married too quickly to

883
00:57:33,080 --> 00:57:36,600
Speaker 1: a man that I barely knew. Now I don't know

884
00:57:36,640 --> 00:57:39,959
Speaker 1: if this is the definition of a hopeless romantic. This

885
00:57:40,040 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: is not what this is. I think this is called crazy.

886
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:46,440
Speaker 1: This may just be crazy, might not have nothing to

887
00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:49,320
Speaker 1: do with you being a hopeless romantic at all, because

888
00:57:49,320 --> 00:57:52,480
Speaker 1: you married a man you didn't hardly know what all

889
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:55,920
Speaker 1: what they gotta do with it? And I'm so disappointed

890
00:57:55,960 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: in myself. Now, all your families in your business you say,

891
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:02,000
Speaker 1: you say you met this man from another city y'all

892
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:07,160
Speaker 1: dated a few months, came to visit me and never left.

893
00:58:07,280 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 1: That didn't sound strange. That doesn't seem strange to you.

894
00:58:10,520 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: How can a man come from another city visit you

895
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: and never go back? What? What where he worked? Where

896
00:58:21,120 --> 00:58:26,040
Speaker 1: where he lived? Where his house? What's what's this least payment?

897
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:30,440
Speaker 1: What what's he ain't got no least no way. What

898
00:58:31,800 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 1: how you just go visit and then don't go back.

899
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 1: That's not being a hopeless romantic. Something's wrong with this.

900
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:47,520
Speaker 1: He quickly got a great job, okay, settled in, He

901
00:58:47,640 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 1: got a friend in town. He usually hanging out with him,

902
00:58:51,000 --> 00:58:54,120
Speaker 1: or he's at work. Then the lady said, I never

903
00:58:54,160 --> 00:58:56,479
Speaker 1: suspected he was cheating on me into three days ago.

904
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,800
Speaker 1: Now here's what this whole letter is about. My cousin

905
00:58:58,960 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 1: owns the car while and then I don't know why

906
00:59:03,760 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 1: she threw this in here. He specializes in wheels and

907
00:59:09,000 --> 00:59:16,960
Speaker 1: detail and leather seats, So I got car washed. Everybody

908
00:59:16,960 --> 00:59:21,120
Speaker 1: got a car wash, wiping seats and doing wheels. Everybody

909
00:59:21,160 --> 00:59:28,400
Speaker 1: with a car wash anyway, Um, my husband escalated is

910
00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: his pride and joy, so he gets it washed often.

911
00:59:32,040 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: Here's another precarious line. I did not know where he

912
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:37,600
Speaker 1: was going all the way across town to get his

913
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:44,240
Speaker 1: car washed. What what what difference do that make where

914
00:59:44,240 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 1: he get his car washing? What? Maybe it's because it's

915
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:54,880
Speaker 1: a great car wash. Remember, your cousin specialized as in wheels.

916
00:59:55,200 --> 00:59:59,000
Speaker 1: He went over there for a specialty. And all of

917
00:59:59,040 --> 01:00:01,480
Speaker 1: this was going good. Until you got a call from

918
01:00:01,520 --> 01:00:04,960
Speaker 1: your cousin's wife. When we come back, I will tell

919
01:00:05,040 --> 01:00:09,440
Speaker 1: you what's wrong with this whole letter, all right, Steve?

920
01:00:09,800 --> 01:00:12,800
Speaker 1: All right, hang on for part two of Steve's response,

921
01:00:12,840 --> 01:00:15,600
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's

922
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:20,040
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter, subject my cousin owns the car wash. We'll

923
01:00:20,040 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 1: get back into it right after this you're listening to,

924
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's Strawberry letter,

925
01:00:28,760 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 1: the subject my cousin owns the car wash before I

926
01:00:32,960 --> 01:00:35,960
Speaker 1: do this letter. I've noticed a trend in Shirley and

927
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:40,720
Speaker 1: Eye's responses to these letters. If a man is accused

928
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: of cheating, if a man has circumstantial evidence about cheating,

929
01:00:47,120 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: then my partner in crime, who we are supposed to

930
01:00:51,280 --> 01:00:56,000
Speaker 1: give our own opinions and separate, looks at this ninety

931
01:00:56,080 --> 01:00:59,080
Speaker 1: eight percent of the time, gonna ride his ass to

932
01:00:59,160 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 1: the police station, didn't lock his ass up for cheat, absolutely,

933
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:06,200
Speaker 1: and in this letter there was no difference. But I

934
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:10,040
Speaker 1: have several problems with this letter, all right. So after

935
01:01:10,080 --> 01:01:13,120
Speaker 1: she calls herself a romantic, hopeless romantic, meets this guy

936
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:15,880
Speaker 1: she barely knews, got him, leaves town, one time comes

937
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:18,400
Speaker 1: to visit her and never goes back. That's odd. He

938
01:01:18,400 --> 01:01:22,320
Speaker 1: gets a job quickly settles in. She's embarrassed by this

939
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,880
Speaker 1: because now she met her, she'd married a man she

940
01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 1: hardly knew in the family, all up in the business,

941
01:01:27,320 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 1: and so everything is going right, and she had no

942
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,120
Speaker 1: suspicions of him cheating into three days ago when he

943
01:01:33,160 --> 01:01:36,560
Speaker 1: took his car to a car wash there specializes in

944
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:40,200
Speaker 1: wheels and leather seats. Okay, we got that right. Now,

945
01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:44,440
Speaker 1: she gets a call from her cousin's wife. Now this

946
01:01:44,520 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 1: is where the letter takes a turn. She said that

947
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:49,680
Speaker 1: my husband bought his truck to the car wash a

948
01:01:49,720 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 1: few times, and he's always got interesting stains and pieces

949
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:58,280
Speaker 1: of weave all over the truck. This is what your

950
01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:02,240
Speaker 1: cousin's wife says it you've never seen the weave in

951
01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: the truck, and you've never seen any stains. Okay, that's

952
01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:09,760
Speaker 1: just a fact. So we're going based on what your

953
01:02:09,880 --> 01:02:14,240
Speaker 1: cousin's wife told you. Now listen to this. My cousin

954
01:02:14,360 --> 01:02:17,800
Speaker 1: figured out that it's my husband's after he saw a

955
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:21,640
Speaker 1: business card in the truck. Now, and then here we go. See,

956
01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:25,840
Speaker 1: my cousin wasn't invited to my wedding because he's on

957
01:02:25,880 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 1: the ghetto side of my family, so he didn't know

958
01:02:29,920 --> 01:02:34,560
Speaker 1: my husband. This is very important information. She didn't invite

959
01:02:34,640 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: that side of the family because they ghetto. Okay, then

960
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:41,800
Speaker 1: she says, I just hate that before my cousin's wife

961
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:46,360
Speaker 1: called me, she called my mom and told her that

962
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: my husband has been having sex in his truck and

963
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:54,400
Speaker 1: getting it cleaned afterwards. Okay, how she know that? Yeah?

964
01:02:54,440 --> 01:03:01,560
Speaker 1: I mean really that the wife ain't never seen you

965
01:03:01,720 --> 01:03:04,160
Speaker 1: just said they get on you and invite him to

966
01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:06,920
Speaker 1: the wedding. Now I'm gonna show you something else in

967
01:03:06,960 --> 01:03:10,080
Speaker 1: here that gets a little crazy because they didn't come

968
01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:12,520
Speaker 1: from to the wedding. They didn't get listen to this.

969
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 1: I asked my husband about the rumor, and he threatened

970
01:03:15,920 --> 01:03:17,920
Speaker 1: to fight my cousin and out of him as a

971
01:03:17,960 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 1: liar and a bad businessman, as he should. I assured

972
01:03:22,880 --> 01:03:25,200
Speaker 1: him that my cousin is not the one to be

973
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 1: played with like that. Now this is good information because

974
01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: you just said you didn't invite your husband to the

975
01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:41,360
Speaker 1: wedding because he get on cousin Huay and so now

976
01:03:41,640 --> 01:03:43,920
Speaker 1: this is a fair warning if you go over there

977
01:03:43,920 --> 01:03:46,080
Speaker 1: and fight to do that on the car washing go

978
01:03:46,240 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 1: get your ass. Whoop. That's that's what this is about.

979
01:03:49,720 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: As whoop. But now she's saying, if he didn't cheat,

980
01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:57,200
Speaker 1: wise he's doing this. But I assured him that my

981
01:03:57,320 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 1: cousin is not the one to be played with. Why

982
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:03,640
Speaker 1: how would he be so upset. I don't see my

983
01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,640
Speaker 1: husband hating. I don't see my cousin hating on my

984
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: husband for no reason since my family knows? Can my

985
01:04:10,480 --> 01:04:17,000
Speaker 1: marriage survive this? Now? I think you know that your

986
01:04:17,080 --> 01:04:22,520
Speaker 1: family on that side is messy. I know that. And

987
01:04:22,680 --> 01:04:27,160
Speaker 1: this woman has speculated that they had some stains and

988
01:04:27,400 --> 01:04:32,280
Speaker 1: weave in the truck that you've never seen. And now

989
01:04:32,400 --> 01:04:35,040
Speaker 1: you ain't invite us to the wedding, so you must

990
01:04:35,080 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 1: thank you all that in the bag of chips. So

991
01:04:37,600 --> 01:04:40,160
Speaker 1: now let me show you that you ain't all that.

992
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 1: And I'm gonna tell your mama he was having sex

993
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:47,680
Speaker 1: in the truck. How you know that what stains? But see,

994
01:04:48,000 --> 01:04:50,080
Speaker 1: just because she didn't see it, does that mean that

995
01:04:50,120 --> 01:04:53,200
Speaker 1: it didn't happen? But so then you're gonna en your

996
01:04:53,240 --> 01:05:03,000
Speaker 1: marriage based on that she has what stains? Surely the

997
01:05:03,040 --> 01:05:06,439
Speaker 1: stains that the cousin saw in the back seat. What

998
01:05:07,840 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 1: sets Yes, she didn't specify. She didn't specified because she

999
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:22,120
Speaker 1: MESSI yeah, but see hold up though, let me ask

1000
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:26,400
Speaker 1: you something. So does the cousin's wife work at the

1001
01:05:27,640 --> 01:05:31,720
Speaker 1: car wash? Well it sounds like she does. Yeah, so

1002
01:05:31,760 --> 01:05:34,360
Speaker 1: if she ain't washing cars, how she knows what's seeing

1003
01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:40,200
Speaker 1: the car? No doubt if he owned the cause car wash,

1004
01:05:40,480 --> 01:05:43,560
Speaker 1: that his wife is out there washing cars. I doubt

1005
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:49,880
Speaker 1: that this reeks o hate for not being invited to

1006
01:05:49,920 --> 01:05:53,880
Speaker 1: the wedding. Give don't see y'all ruining your Well, look,

1007
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 1: you married the man too soon. The man might be cheating,

1008
01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:59,720
Speaker 1: but you're gonna end it on this speculation. You should

1009
01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:02,200
Speaker 1: have did it on something that you knew and not

1010
01:06:02,400 --> 01:06:05,080
Speaker 1: on hearsay. And if you take if you took this

1011
01:06:05,200 --> 01:06:08,160
Speaker 1: to court, you would lose. I just want to tell

1012
01:06:08,200 --> 01:06:12,919
Speaker 1: you that because you have no evidence. You ain't seen

1013
01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:14,920
Speaker 1: no pictures of him, you ain't went through his phone,

1014
01:06:14,960 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: you ain't got no text messages. You're getting a DNA

1015
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:21,040
Speaker 1: report off of forensic science here for that. Ain't even

1016
01:06:21,080 --> 01:06:26,240
Speaker 1: a forensic scientist, all right, might not be cheating at all, Sorry, Shirley,

1017
01:06:26,640 --> 01:06:29,520
Speaker 1: and he might be. Sorry, Steve, leave us your comments

1018
01:06:29,600 --> 01:06:32,840
Speaker 1: on Today's Letter on Instagram and Steve Harvey FM and

1019
01:06:32,920 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Now. Coming

1020
01:06:36,760 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: up next, we have an update on the status of

1021
01:06:38,800 --> 01:06:43,640
Speaker 1: Buffalo Bill's Damar Hamlin's recovery. Right after this you're listening

1022
01:06:43,960 --> 01:06:49,480
Speaker 1: to show, all right, so, Steve, as you mentioned earlier

1023
01:06:49,520 --> 01:06:51,720
Speaker 1: in the show, Junior is still out. He should be

1024
01:06:51,720 --> 01:06:55,960
Speaker 1: back hopefully next week. And moving on to sports. Now,

1025
01:06:56,000 --> 01:06:59,480
Speaker 1: we've all heard that the great news about Damar Hamlin,

1026
01:06:59,760 --> 01:07:02,680
Speaker 1: the Buffalo Bill's safety that collapsed on the field in

1027
01:07:02,800 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: Monday's game. There's been remarkable improvement in DeMar's condition and

1028
01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:12,240
Speaker 1: doctors are now saying that DeMar's neurological function is intact.

1029
01:07:12,480 --> 01:07:16,280
Speaker 1: That is great news. Yesterday DeMar was interacting with family

1030
01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:19,040
Speaker 1: and loved ones through written messages, and one of his

1031
01:07:19,160 --> 01:07:22,200
Speaker 1: first messages after he woke up and the intensive care

1032
01:07:22,320 --> 01:07:25,400
Speaker 1: unit was to ask in writing if the Bills won

1033
01:07:25,560 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 1: Monday's Bills Bengals game. That was a game in which

1034
01:07:29,880 --> 01:07:32,600
Speaker 1: he went into cardiac arrest, of course, and the doctor

1035
01:07:32,640 --> 01:07:36,120
Speaker 1: answered him the answer is yes, DeMar, you won the

1036
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 1: game of life. I love that, love it, love it. Yes. Yeah.

1037
01:07:45,200 --> 01:07:48,400
Speaker 1: Doctors have also emphasized that DeMar has a ways to

1038
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:51,600
Speaker 1: go and he will need to start breathing on his own,

1039
01:07:51,680 --> 01:07:55,560
Speaker 1: but taking him off a ventilator will be a cautious

1040
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:59,680
Speaker 1: and gradual process. Doctor stated that tests are still underway

1041
01:07:59,720 --> 01:08:03,360
Speaker 1: and to determine what caused the medical emergency, and that

1042
01:08:03,480 --> 01:08:06,760
Speaker 1: there are no definitive answers at this time. We will

1043
01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:11,919
Speaker 1: definitely keep praying for Damer's full recovery. Of course, after

1044
01:08:11,960 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 1: that him, you're not gonna play again. I'm done with

1045
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:19,360
Speaker 1: that football. No, we were nothing do this, no more. No.

1046
01:08:19,720 --> 01:08:21,160
Speaker 1: A matter of fact, we run it up in the

1047
01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:26,000
Speaker 1: nothing else exactly. But do you guys think that he's

1048
01:08:26,040 --> 01:08:28,800
Speaker 1: through that the desire for him to want to play

1049
01:08:28,800 --> 01:08:33,599
Speaker 1: for Yeast strong? But I'm working down at the Bingo

1050
01:08:33,760 --> 01:08:42,519
Speaker 1: parlor and his go fund me went up above what

1051
01:08:42,760 --> 01:08:46,599
Speaker 1: six seven million because I know he did start some

1052
01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,640
Speaker 1: kind of charity over the Christmas break for toys, and

1053
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 1: people started donating for that too. So okay, right there,

1054
01:08:54,800 --> 01:08:58,840
Speaker 1: I have my own tortore, my own torch. Though you're

1055
01:08:58,880 --> 01:09:00,760
Speaker 1: not going back out on that. I'm not playing, I'm

1056
01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,320
Speaker 1: not getting back on that field. You're opening up your

1057
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:07,479
Speaker 1: own toy store and Steve's playing bingo. Okay, yeah, I'm

1058
01:09:07,520 --> 01:09:12,120
Speaker 1: doing it right. Safest jobs I've ever seen before. What's

1059
01:09:12,160 --> 01:09:14,519
Speaker 1: another one? Oh, let me see if I don't work

1060
01:09:14,560 --> 01:09:19,320
Speaker 1: down at the bingo hall. He's twenty four. But you're

1061
01:09:19,320 --> 01:09:23,120
Speaker 1: talking like an old man. Ain't nothing old people can

1062
01:09:23,200 --> 01:09:31,120
Speaker 1: do with me. I'm still quick as hey. Also put

1063
01:09:31,120 --> 01:09:36,720
Speaker 1: a band together. We're gonna do something. I'm gonna be

1064
01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:43,000
Speaker 1: an usher at a very very small church right there.

1065
01:09:44,520 --> 01:09:46,720
Speaker 1: All right, you can see it from here. All right,

1066
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:48,800
Speaker 1: thank you, guys. Coming up at the top of the hour.

1067
01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,679
Speaker 1: Here's a question. Where do you hide to get away

1068
01:09:52,800 --> 01:09:57,400
Speaker 1: from your family? Tommy, you're going first, right after this.

1069
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:05,920
Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, guys. So, according to a new

1070
01:10:06,080 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 1: one Pole survey, about half of Americans hide out when

1071
01:10:11,240 --> 01:10:14,679
Speaker 1: they need to find peace and quiet and privacy. Where

1072
01:10:14,720 --> 01:10:17,560
Speaker 1: did they hide out from other family members? In their household?

1073
01:10:18,080 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: In the bathroom? In the bathrooms. But you gotta keep

1074
01:10:25,520 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 1: the light out though you can't turn that light on.

1075
01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: You're just in the room. But you at peace. You

1076
01:10:31,520 --> 01:10:33,040
Speaker 1: don't need to see nothing in that no way. What

1077
01:10:33,120 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: you need to see are you? Are you with your

1078
01:10:36,920 --> 01:10:38,840
Speaker 1: phone in there? You take you got your phone in there.

1079
01:10:38,960 --> 01:10:40,720
Speaker 1: You gotta take your phone. You gotta take you something

1080
01:10:40,720 --> 01:10:43,680
Speaker 1: to drink, A couple of snacks, you know, and if

1081
01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:46,639
Speaker 1: you gotta. If you like a bowld ice cream, that's good.

1082
01:10:47,360 --> 01:10:49,439
Speaker 1: You might sit on right down because it's gonna go

1083
01:10:49,479 --> 01:10:52,799
Speaker 1: straight through you anyway. It's gonna go straight through you anyway.

1084
01:10:52,880 --> 01:10:56,000
Speaker 1: Just sit there. I'm not eating in the bathroom. Sorry,

1085
01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:59,160
Speaker 1: those two do what. I don't have that aunt got

1086
01:10:59,439 --> 01:11:02,160
Speaker 1: he gotta TV in here. I ain't got there yet.

1087
01:11:02,200 --> 01:11:04,800
Speaker 1: I ain't ain't made that kind of I ain't made that.

1088
01:11:04,840 --> 01:11:07,400
Speaker 1: No way get the bad room without no TV. It's

1089
01:11:07,439 --> 01:11:16,160
Speaker 1: no way. There's no way. That's impossible. High office in

1090
01:11:16,240 --> 01:11:23,160
Speaker 1: my bad room, phones on the wall working. I tell

1091
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:25,080
Speaker 1: you one thing. I got one better than that. Because

1092
01:11:25,120 --> 01:11:27,760
Speaker 1: we always have a construction at the house. I go

1093
01:11:27,960 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 1: standing in the porter potty to get away from everybody.

1094
01:11:33,800 --> 01:11:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah I didn't actually went in there and just shut

1095
01:11:38,120 --> 01:11:41,000
Speaker 1: the do and just stood in there for fifteen minutes.

1096
01:11:42,000 --> 01:11:44,280
Speaker 1: So it's true then, people, you probably got a different

1097
01:11:44,360 --> 01:11:46,920
Speaker 1: kind of porter potty on yours. Probably different. Well they

1098
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 1: got to ken okay, let's hear that. Here we go,

1099
01:11:49,560 --> 01:11:51,840
Speaker 1: here we go, Come on, come on, let me head

1100
01:11:52,120 --> 01:11:55,120
Speaker 1: because he is not the one we use at the fifty.

1101
01:11:55,120 --> 01:11:57,360
Speaker 1: It ain't that green one. It ain't that green one.

1102
01:11:57,760 --> 01:12:01,400
Speaker 1: I'm telling them the different one ahead they have. They

1103
01:12:01,479 --> 01:12:05,120
Speaker 1: have v IP porter parties that have steps on them.

1104
01:12:05,280 --> 01:12:08,879
Speaker 1: You go up the steps. They got the stalls with doors,

1105
01:12:08,960 --> 01:12:14,320
Speaker 1: they have you know, washbo you know, sinks and all

1106
01:12:14,360 --> 01:12:18,479
Speaker 1: of that. I didn't really have a greenl where you

1107
01:12:18,600 --> 01:12:24,160
Speaker 1: just standing over some mess dust the car said was

1108
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 1: in in that commercial number when it turned over there

1109
01:12:26,360 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 1: was like that, Oh god, you remember that. Thank you

1110
01:12:31,880 --> 01:12:36,320
Speaker 1: more As an executive, you know, you go up the

1111
01:12:36,439 --> 01:12:44,240
Speaker 1: steps the bathroom for both of you guys. Where your bathroom? Yeah?

1112
01:12:44,320 --> 01:12:49,400
Speaker 1: You know, like sometimes I just drive off Steven's bathroom

1113
01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:52,800
Speaker 1: slash office. You know sometime I just get in my

1114
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:55,719
Speaker 1: car just drive off. Yeah you can let you drive.

1115
01:12:55,840 --> 01:13:01,639
Speaker 1: You still drive? Okay? Do you know what you get

1116
01:13:01,680 --> 01:13:06,560
Speaker 1: tired in here? What was you? Why? Why? Why? What

1117
01:13:06,680 --> 01:13:10,240
Speaker 1: do you want? You need? I heard you? Look, I

1118
01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 1: need you to do something. I heard answer me? Answer me?

1119
01:13:14,200 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 1: I wait what Steve? What I was calling you? I

1120
01:13:19,160 --> 01:13:22,479
Speaker 1: want to say I heard you? Like you answer the phone?

1121
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:25,000
Speaker 1: I called you on your phone? You have your phone

1122
01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:28,120
Speaker 1: with you? Why you didn't answering your phone silent on

1123
01:13:28,160 --> 01:13:30,799
Speaker 1: the radio this morning. I forgot to take it off, salad.

1124
01:13:32,600 --> 01:13:36,719
Speaker 1: I'll be seeing the phone right man. One time Marjorie

1125
01:13:36,760 --> 01:13:39,559
Speaker 1: called me. She was upstairs and I was I was

1126
01:13:39,600 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 1: in the backyard and motor court and she was standing

1127
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 1: up in the window calling me. And I didn't know

1128
01:13:46,080 --> 01:13:47,960
Speaker 1: she was in the window, and I had my phone

1129
01:13:47,960 --> 01:13:49,560
Speaker 1: in my hand. And when I saw the phone, I

1130
01:13:49,600 --> 01:13:55,920
Speaker 1: went and she saw that gesture. Yeah, So I picked

1131
01:13:55,960 --> 01:14:00,599
Speaker 1: up the phone and I went hello in the window.

1132
01:14:01,720 --> 01:14:05,960
Speaker 1: She said, I saw you before you answered that phone.

1133
01:14:06,800 --> 01:14:11,519
Speaker 1: I said, baby, it was a damn be overhill. Look

1134
01:14:11,520 --> 01:14:17,200
Speaker 1: at the lines, how they just roll off your tongue busted, busted.

1135
01:14:18,000 --> 01:14:24,799
Speaker 1: She's like, what do you won't answer me? And answering

1136
01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:30,080
Speaker 1: your text When I text you right, it says delivered.

1137
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:34,759
Speaker 1: That's what we more lithium in my battery, and Tommy,

1138
01:14:34,880 --> 01:14:37,840
Speaker 1: do not take ice cream in the bathroom anymore? All right,

1139
01:14:37,920 --> 01:14:41,200
Speaker 1: coming up? It is coming up in twenty minutes after

1140
01:14:41,240 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 1: the hour more of the Deep Harvey Morning Show, right

1141
01:14:46,080 --> 01:14:54,799
Speaker 1: after this Bluebell you're listening to show? All right, Tommy,

1142
01:14:54,880 --> 01:14:57,120
Speaker 1: you are up? What you got for us? What's that? Oh?

1143
01:14:57,200 --> 01:15:00,280
Speaker 1: Y'all better? Get ready that bore. Curtis fifty cent is back.

1144
01:15:00,360 --> 01:15:04,080
Speaker 1: That's Curtis fifty cent Jackson. The new season on the

1145
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:08,960
Speaker 1: Stars original series BMF premiers tonight on Stars and the

1146
01:15:08,960 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 1: Stars app. Now make sure you got that out. BMF

1147
01:15:11,439 --> 01:15:13,799
Speaker 1: is based on the true story of the Flintery brothers

1148
01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:18,040
Speaker 1: unconventional journey to success. Now this season, they elevate their

1149
01:15:18,080 --> 01:15:22,800
Speaker 1: game from Detroit to Atlanta and beyond, turning BMF oh

1150
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:27,080
Speaker 1: into a global empire. The universal theme of family, faith

1151
01:15:27,120 --> 01:15:30,240
Speaker 1: and loyalty are explored both at home and on the

1152
01:15:30,280 --> 01:15:33,160
Speaker 1: streets this season, as their brothers worked outsmart the government

1153
01:15:33,280 --> 01:15:37,120
Speaker 1: and expand BMF into a multi state empire. This season

1154
01:15:37,200 --> 01:15:43,599
Speaker 1: check it out. Shirley call A, Snoop, Cash Dog, Young Miami, Monique, Lilah, Anthony,

1155
01:15:43,760 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 1: Leslie Jones, among others, will be featured on the show.

1156
01:15:47,360 --> 01:15:50,439
Speaker 1: Don't miss the season premier of BMF tonight only on

1157
01:15:50,560 --> 01:15:55,360
Speaker 1: Stars and the Stars app. You get the Apple, Get

1158
01:15:55,400 --> 01:15:59,280
Speaker 1: it all in there and catch out b M if

1159
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,559
Speaker 1: I be watching this is star stutter, come on fitting

1160
01:16:04,720 --> 01:16:08,559
Speaker 1: everything fit to touch? Yeah, everything he touched, I just

1161
01:16:08,600 --> 01:16:10,960
Speaker 1: won't fit it to touch me just one time. Everything

1162
01:16:11,040 --> 01:16:14,080
Speaker 1: fit to touch turns try to get on BML. I'm

1163
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:19,960
Speaker 1: trying to get on BMLF amlff what touch WWF? I

1164
01:16:20,120 --> 01:16:25,920
Speaker 1: love We'll be watching all right, nephew. Congrats to the

1165
01:16:26,000 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 1: cast of BML. Yeah for sure. All right, we'll have

1166
01:16:29,120 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and coming up

1167
01:16:31,160 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll play around

1168
01:16:33,760 --> 01:16:38,080
Speaker 1: what would you rather? Right after this you're listening to

1169
01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:42,960
Speaker 1: morning show, It's time now for a round of would

1170
01:16:43,120 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 1: you rather? Would you rather live where it always rains?

1171
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:52,160
Speaker 1: Or would you rather live where it's always dark? Oh? God,

1172
01:16:52,560 --> 01:16:54,200
Speaker 1: I need that rain. I got to cease some light.

1173
01:16:54,360 --> 01:16:57,800
Speaker 1: Take that rain. I can't do that. You do that? Dog?

1174
01:16:58,600 --> 01:17:06,800
Speaker 1: You on sunshine? Knock coughs for so? Okay? Would you

1175
01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:09,759
Speaker 1: rather do hair and makeup? Listen to this one, guys

1176
01:17:10,280 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 1: do hair and makeup at a funeral home? Or would

1177
01:17:13,000 --> 01:17:15,880
Speaker 1: you drive a city rather drive a city bus? I'm

1178
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:18,800
Speaker 1: driving the bus? Yeah, you don't want to. I don't

1179
01:17:19,080 --> 01:17:21,080
Speaker 1: give a damn. How you look when you live in

1180
01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:32,759
Speaker 1: I know? Good? Hell? Well? Cask? And what's that sound again?

1181
01:17:32,800 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 1: I love that I'm not fitting the care how you look?

1182
01:17:37,560 --> 01:17:49,800
Speaker 1: I'm not there? So your bus driver is all good? Hell? Dead? Highbrow. Ma.

1183
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:54,439
Speaker 1: Let me family be wanting to fight me. Yeah, my

1184
01:17:54,520 --> 01:18:00,280
Speaker 1: mama lifts stick it right, I'm gonna have that wig

1185
01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:03,559
Speaker 1: go back. I know you already know you're gonna do

1186
01:18:03,600 --> 01:18:06,040
Speaker 1: it wrong. I ain't. I ain't even gonna put your

1187
01:18:06,040 --> 01:18:11,599
Speaker 1: wig on. You go. You gotta put a wig just

1188
01:18:11,840 --> 01:18:24,200
Speaker 1: like us out all the bus drivers out there. Yes, yes, anyway, yes?

1189
01:18:25,040 --> 01:18:30,160
Speaker 1: Would you rather? I got that a lot when I

1190
01:18:30,240 --> 01:18:32,160
Speaker 1: used to ride the bus. All right, listen, would you

1191
01:18:32,240 --> 01:18:35,240
Speaker 1: rather show your boss all the pictures in your phone?

1192
01:18:35,520 --> 01:18:40,120
Speaker 1: Or would you rather show your wife all the pictures

1193
01:18:40,120 --> 01:18:45,400
Speaker 1: in your phone? Boss? I got a problem because the

1194
01:18:45,520 --> 01:18:53,759
Speaker 1: same my wife. You're in trouble? All right, Quiet, nephew,

1195
01:18:53,840 --> 01:19:00,479
Speaker 1: what you got I'm showing mane, I'm my man. You

1196
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:03,920
Speaker 1: won't get in trouble for that, now, will we good?

1197
01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:08,800
Speaker 1: All right? Would you rather give up? Would you rather

1198
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:12,599
Speaker 1: give up profanity? Or would you rather give up lying?

1199
01:19:13,080 --> 01:19:18,040
Speaker 1: All right, one's gotta go. I got to lie give

1200
01:19:18,120 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 1: up profanity, and that's a big there. I don't see.

1201
01:19:31,040 --> 01:19:33,840
Speaker 1: I don't see you give it. I don't want it's

1202
01:19:34,080 --> 01:19:42,080
Speaker 1: no way, it's no weight. What is the problem you have? Lying?

1203
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:47,040
Speaker 1: It is the basis and core of marital happiness and bliss.

1204
01:19:48,520 --> 01:19:54,400
Speaker 1: If you stop lying? This is a rather days round.

1205
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:58,000
Speaker 1: Would you rather guys coming up with it is their

1206
01:19:58,120 --> 01:20:00,559
Speaker 1: last break of the day. We'll have some clothing remarks

1207
01:20:00,600 --> 01:20:03,160
Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this.

1208
01:20:03,800 --> 01:20:09,720
Speaker 1: You're listening here, We are, guys, our last break of

1209
01:20:09,760 --> 01:20:14,880
Speaker 1: the day on this Friday, as we head into the weekend. Steve,

1210
01:20:14,960 --> 01:20:17,240
Speaker 1: before we get out of here, Um, just one more

1211
01:20:17,280 --> 01:20:22,120
Speaker 1: would you rather question? Please? I'm curious? Would you rather

1212
01:20:23,120 --> 01:20:31,800
Speaker 1: live as a pastor for one month? Probably? Do that? What?

1213
01:20:32,040 --> 01:20:34,479
Speaker 1: I can't hear you? What? He'll just talk to himself

1214
01:20:34,479 --> 01:20:37,439
Speaker 1: going I know, I know he's mumbling over there. Would

1215
01:20:37,439 --> 01:20:39,880
Speaker 1: you rather live as a pastor for a month? Or

1216
01:20:39,880 --> 01:20:45,200
Speaker 1: would you rather live as a stu ripper for a month? Yes?

1217
01:20:45,640 --> 01:20:49,240
Speaker 1: Take it off? Take it off. I ain't gonna be

1218
01:20:49,280 --> 01:20:52,720
Speaker 1: able to make it as a stripple. What you know,

1219
01:20:53,360 --> 01:20:56,439
Speaker 1: it ain't what it used to be. Can you know this?

1220
01:20:56,640 --> 01:21:03,000
Speaker 1: How I'm talking about my body? Yeah, I don't get tired.

1221
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:04,479
Speaker 1: You know, I got a little stomach. You know what

1222
01:21:04,560 --> 01:21:07,280
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It ain't quite you know, Well some people

1223
01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:16,160
Speaker 1: like that. You never know. Well, now you know what,

1224
01:21:15,120 --> 01:21:21,800
Speaker 1: ye we'll get some dollars out here. I'm not gonna

1225
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:24,320
Speaker 1: be a fully closed pastor even I'm just let you

1226
01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:29,840
Speaker 1: know what past Huh. I work out bet as a

1227
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 1: pastor for a month, but it ain't gonna can't like dude,

1228
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:36,400
Speaker 1: like every Sunday do a sermon like bowing a row

1229
01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:41,439
Speaker 1: without custom? Ye, give me a title of your sermon,

1230
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:44,920
Speaker 1: h like you know, trying to ease into it. You know,

1231
01:21:45,560 --> 01:21:48,080
Speaker 1: sermons like you know what the hill was, y'all thinking

1232
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:55,160
Speaker 1: that's the title? Uh on Sunday morning church? Okay, in

1233
01:21:55,160 --> 01:22:00,760
Speaker 1: front of the hill? Bit okay, all title sermons. You know,

1234
01:22:00,760 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 1: I want to get people to church. I want people

1235
01:22:02,439 --> 01:22:06,840
Speaker 1: to come to church. Yeah, she may not be all that,

1236
01:22:08,600 --> 01:22:15,160
Speaker 1: and maybe she is. There's a little hope at the end. Yeah.

1237
01:22:15,320 --> 01:22:19,599
Speaker 1: Why your sermon titles sound like strawberry? Let us that's

1238
01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:25,840
Speaker 1: why my church gonna be full. Today's sermon Jesus on

1239
01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 1: the main line. I'm on line too. What's behind that dough?

1240
01:22:38,160 --> 01:22:44,760
Speaker 1: U piko bo? That's a sermon? Yeah, my church is

1241
01:22:44,800 --> 01:22:50,920
Speaker 1: gonna be full. Well, how you feel it's the first

1242
01:22:50,960 --> 01:22:54,519
Speaker 1: Friday of the new year, wrapping this week up? Yeah,

1243
01:22:54,600 --> 01:22:57,679
Speaker 1: you know I feel good. You know, I'm excited about

1244
01:22:57,720 --> 01:23:01,000
Speaker 1: the prospects of the new year. I'm great for last year.

1245
01:23:01,760 --> 01:23:05,439
Speaker 1: All that happened is you know, like you know, when

1246
01:23:05,479 --> 01:23:10,920
Speaker 1: I have setbacks and stuff like that, a setback is

1247
01:23:10,960 --> 01:23:14,679
Speaker 1: just to set up for a comeback. I've always known that,

1248
01:23:16,080 --> 01:23:19,639
Speaker 1: the fact that he allowed me to live through that

1249
01:23:19,720 --> 01:23:22,839
Speaker 1: year and survive at all, just like everybody else that's listening,

1250
01:23:23,360 --> 01:23:25,400
Speaker 1: you live through it, and you survived at all. As

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Speaker 1: horrific as it may have been, you survived at all. Right,

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Speaker 1: that's the good, the bad, the ugly, the indifferent. You

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Speaker 1: survived at all. That It's such a blessing man to

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Speaker 1: still be here and still be giving yet another year

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Speaker 1: another opportunity. You just gotta look at that that way, man,

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Speaker 1: I don't have any other way I can look at it.

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Speaker 1: But you know what, Steve, you know, in spite of

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Speaker 1: all of that, and that's wonderful and I feel you

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Speaker 1: and everything. But there are people out here that are struggling.

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Speaker 1: Even though you say that you know, they're dealing with

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Speaker 1: depression and stuff like that. You know, what would you say?

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Speaker 1: What would you say to them? You know? I mean,

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Speaker 1: you know, therapy is real. Therapy is real. You have

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Speaker 1: to seek help but I got news for you. There's

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Speaker 1: no greater help than prayer. Even if you go to therapy.

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Speaker 1: The therapists need prayer, and they work well together. I

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Speaker 1: like them together, and you got don't don't underestimate the

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Speaker 1: power of prayer. Yes, it's so important, y'all because it

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Speaker 1: provides you a level of hope and assurance. That's right,

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Speaker 1: that's right your life. It's based on your level of faith.

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Speaker 1: That's what the average person. Don't try to get to

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Speaker 1: sometime from on board. You are where you are because

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Speaker 1: of what you believe. You gotta believe, yes, yes, believe yes.

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Speaker 1: If you got your belief factor, you up your received factor.

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Speaker 1: One more, come on, if you up your belief factor,

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Speaker 1: you up your received factor. It's a fact. It's it's

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Speaker 1: the law of attraction. It's everything. It's a man is

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Speaker 1: as he thinking. It's the law of attraction is real.

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Speaker 1: Whether you believe it or not, accept it or not.

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Speaker 1: That's the way it works. It's the same way that

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Speaker 1: your TV remote works. If you point your remote at

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Speaker 1: your TV and you press the own button, you know

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Speaker 1: what why that TV comes on? Partly because you believe

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Speaker 1: it's gonna come home. Yeah, yeah, see this remote control

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Speaker 1: that you have in your hand is based on the

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Speaker 1: belief system. It's in the very beginning. God set it

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Speaker 1: up that way. See God could have just created the

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Speaker 1: world and lit it up, but he specifically in the

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Speaker 1: beginning said in the beginning, he said, let there be

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Speaker 1: light words. Yeah, he was showing you the power of

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Speaker 1: your words. Were said, letting that be like, and that

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Speaker 1: was life. You have to manifest your life. You have

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Speaker 1: to project and talk about your life, and you have

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Speaker 1: to remove all negativity. I just was texting somebody early

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Speaker 1: this morning about that who was going through something set.

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Speaker 1: I'm so tired all the time. This is hard. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it's hard than you're tired. But if you're gonna make

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Speaker 1: that the forefront of it, it's gonna forever be hard.

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Speaker 1: It's tired, that's right. Why don't you speak about the results?

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Speaker 1: You won't. That's what I gotta say. That's my closes

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Speaker 1: room marks that they hope you enjoy it. Y'all, stay

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Speaker 1: in faith. Gonna be a great year this year if

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Speaker 1: you expect it to be. Thank you very much, see

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Speaker 1: you tomorrow. I don't know about this year. I'm God Man,

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