1 00:00:01,600 --> 00:00:03,360 Speaker 1: Good. So you only follow pretty people? 2 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:05,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, like I only like to see pretty stuff on 3 00:00:05,640 --> 00:00:08,600 Speaker 2: my timeline, ugly people on my timeline. Like it, like 4 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: it triggers like oh God, not again, Like wow, so 5 00:00:13,640 --> 00:00:15,000 Speaker 2: I not you again? 6 00:00:15,480 --> 00:00:18,640 Speaker 1: The Frend Show is on. I got a hot take 7 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,279 Speaker 1: for and I've said it before, I got a hot take. 8 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 3: Honestly, you're in a public restroom. Let's Jesus take the 9 00:00:23,040 --> 00:00:26,720 Speaker 3: wheels together. You can, you can cover, you can cover 10 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 3: all the toilet seat you want, But then you touch 11 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:32,560 Speaker 3: the stall, you touched, the door, you touched, the sink, 12 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:36,199 Speaker 3: you touched, you touched. Honestly, there's there really is no 13 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: avoiding of all the places on my body. They're gonna 14 00:00:38,440 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 3: get nasty. It may as well be my booty because 15 00:00:41,400 --> 00:00:42,640 Speaker 3: I'm not touching my booty. 16 00:00:42,880 --> 00:00:46,400 Speaker 2: You put your raw clapus on that toilet. 17 00:00:46,560 --> 00:00:47,199 Speaker 1: I do, I do? 18 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,519 Speaker 3: You know, hotel room? And if we're in a situation 19 00:00:51,560 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 3: where I'm in public and I'm having to do that, 20 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:55,240 Speaker 3: and you know, I try and avoid that at all costs. 21 00:00:55,480 --> 00:00:57,320 Speaker 3: You know, if there's any chance of that happening, I 22 00:00:57,360 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 3: cancel my plans. I try and I'll plant out my 23 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: own whole day based on making sure that I don't 24 00:01:02,480 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 3: have to do. There's not a situation like that on 25 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 3: the go. I really don't like public rests rhythroms at all. 26 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 4: I don't either. 27 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: I don't even like to breathe in them. I just don't. 28 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:11,319 Speaker 1: I don't. 29 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:12,960 Speaker 3: But then then I'll go get on an airplane and 30 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 3: sit down and you know, just PLoP down. Here we go, 31 00:01:15,920 --> 00:01:18,200 Speaker 3: because you know what, I've lost control at that point. 32 00:01:18,560 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 3: I've lost control of the germs, like they're everywhere. There's 33 00:01:21,240 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 3: nothing you can do. And I feel the same way 34 00:01:23,160 --> 00:01:26,080 Speaker 3: about a public restroom, like, honestly, the bottom of my 35 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:29,319 Speaker 3: booty is I'm never going to touch that goes right 36 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:30,280 Speaker 3: back in my pants. 37 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:33,880 Speaker 5: Never been left waiting by the phone. 38 00:01:35,080 --> 00:01:37,560 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Hey, Mitch, good morning, Welcome to 39 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,720 Speaker 1: the show. How are you. I'm doing, good man. 40 00:01:39,920 --> 00:01:42,759 Speaker 5: Just have a little issue, Yeah, yeah. 41 00:01:42,800 --> 00:01:44,679 Speaker 3: So Giselle is a woman that you met at bar. 42 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 3: So you guys met out in the wild, you met 43 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 3: in public, which I think you would think that would 44 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 3: make a big difference, right, You would think it would 45 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:54,919 Speaker 3: make a difference that you know that you meet someone 46 00:01:55,040 --> 00:01:57,040 Speaker 3: out actually, so you like you kind of get a 47 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 3: vibe for the chemistry and stuff because it can be 48 00:01:58,960 --> 00:02:00,240 Speaker 3: hard to do on the apps you don't know who 49 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 3: you're dealing with. 50 00:02:00,960 --> 00:02:03,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, one hundred percent. I prefer I prefer to like 51 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 5: connecting real time, you know. 52 00:02:05,480 --> 00:02:06,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, So what happened? Where are we at? 53 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:07,120 Speaker 6: So? 54 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:10,760 Speaker 5: Yeah, like we met at a bar and you know, uh, 55 00:02:11,320 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 5: just like off the jump, I thought she was cute. 56 00:02:13,480 --> 00:02:16,119 Speaker 5: We I felt like we hit it off. Exchange numbers 57 00:02:16,440 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 5: and you know, we're flirty on text, like the vibes 58 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:22,280 Speaker 5: are good. We even started planning like like our first date, 59 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:26,279 Speaker 5: but uh, you know, it just kind of completely disappeared 60 00:02:26,480 --> 00:02:29,440 Speaker 5: and there's like with no rhyme or reason. There wasn't 61 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 5: like a follow up. So I just feel like, you know, 62 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:33,399 Speaker 5: I could tell if like I can vibe if it's 63 00:02:33,440 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 5: if it's not working. 64 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:35,079 Speaker 1: You know what I mean. 65 00:02:35,120 --> 00:02:36,760 Speaker 5: But it just felt like it was cool and then 66 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:37,600 Speaker 5: it just stopped. 67 00:02:37,960 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just kind of confused. 68 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 3: Let's do this. We're gonna call Giselle. You'll be on 69 00:02:41,680 --> 00:02:43,360 Speaker 3: the phone at the same time. We're gonna ask some 70 00:02:43,480 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 3: questions on your behalf. At some point you're welcome to 71 00:02:45,960 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 3: jump in on a call, and the hope is that 72 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,320 Speaker 3: we can figure out you know why you've never heard 73 00:02:50,320 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 3: from her again after what you thought was a successful date. 74 00:02:53,200 --> 00:02:55,200 Speaker 3: Hopefully we can come up with something, you know, a 75 00:02:55,240 --> 00:02:57,600 Speaker 3: good response. He's been busy or not feeling well or 76 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 3: something came up, and then we'll set you guys up 77 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 3: on another date that we paid for us. 78 00:03:00,880 --> 00:03:01,239 Speaker 1: How good? 79 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:06,400 Speaker 3: Yeah, Hey, Mitch, let's call this woman Gazelle. You guys 80 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 3: met at the bar. You thought she was cute. You 81 00:03:08,919 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 3: guys exchanged numbers, and you started planning your your first date, 82 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 3: I guess, But then you've reached out to her since then, 83 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 3: trying to you know, you met in person, right, so 84 00:03:17,680 --> 00:03:19,480 Speaker 3: now you're trying to plan the date you talked about 85 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 3: and she gave you her numbers. So these are all 86 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 3: good signs, except she's not responded to you since then, 87 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 3: and you want to know what's going on. 88 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:27,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, all right. 89 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:35,600 Speaker 3: Let's call Let's call Jazelle. Now, good luck, Mitch. Hi, 90 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 3: is this Gazelle? Hijazel? 91 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fredam calling from the Fred's Show. 92 00:03:41,080 --> 00:03:42,000 Speaker 1: The whole crew is here. 93 00:03:42,000 --> 00:03:44,000 Speaker 3: It's the Morning radio show, and I have to tell 94 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:45,720 Speaker 3: you that we are on the radio right now and 95 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:47,720 Speaker 3: I would need your permission to continue with the call? 96 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:49,160 Speaker 1: Is that okay? If we chat for a little. 97 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 3: Biteah, okay, let's see. Yes, So we're calling on behalf 98 00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 3: of a guy named Mitch. I guess you guys met 99 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:00,080 Speaker 3: out at a bar recently, exchange numbers, talked about going 100 00:03:59,960 --> 00:04:00,520 Speaker 3: on a date. 101 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:01,080 Speaker 1: Do you remember her? 102 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 7: Him? 103 00:04:03,200 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: Him, Mich is a the guy. 104 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 3: Sorry, I guess I thought that was implied, but anyway, 105 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 3: you remember the guy? 106 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: Yes? All right? 107 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:11,680 Speaker 3: So what happened? Because he, I mean, he said he 108 00:04:11,720 --> 00:04:13,640 Speaker 3: went up to you. You guys chatted in person, you 109 00:04:13,840 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 3: changed numbers, talked about a date. I mean, you knew 110 00:04:15,960 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 3: what you were dealing with. I guess you probably didn't 111 00:04:18,080 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 3: have to give him your number or agree to a date. 112 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:21,440 Speaker 3: But then you've disappeared. So what's going on? 113 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:24,800 Speaker 6: Sorry? This is so really weird. 114 00:04:25,520 --> 00:04:28,280 Speaker 1: No, it's weird. No, it's definitely weird, no doubt about that. 115 00:04:28,880 --> 00:04:30,080 Speaker 6: Right, Mitch. 116 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 7: So well, whatever, I recently got out of him, four year. 117 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 4: Relationship and like it was bad. 118 00:04:38,680 --> 00:04:41,159 Speaker 6: My ex cheated on me. It was awful. 119 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 7: The breakup spent along a lot of hard work for 120 00:04:43,680 --> 00:04:46,960 Speaker 7: me to get through. Okay, I met Mitch and yeah, 121 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,760 Speaker 7: he was really cute and I thought we had a connection. 122 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: But like on the night that we went. 123 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:55,400 Speaker 7: Out, I I don't know, I started kind of like 124 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:56,120 Speaker 7: piecing some. 125 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:59,479 Speaker 6: Things together throughout the night, things started kind of clicking. 126 00:04:59,640 --> 00:05:03,320 Speaker 7: Okay, I realized how small this world is. 127 00:05:03,680 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 8: Mitch. 128 00:05:04,360 --> 00:05:05,960 Speaker 6: It turns out is. 129 00:05:06,200 --> 00:05:11,480 Speaker 7: The ex boyfriend of the girl that my boyfriend cheated 130 00:05:11,520 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 7: on you with. 131 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:17,159 Speaker 3: Okay, Mitch is the ex boyfriend of a woman who 132 00:05:17,320 --> 00:05:21,600 Speaker 3: your ex boyfriend cheated on. Okay, I'm just going clear here. 133 00:05:21,640 --> 00:05:24,120 Speaker 3: So you were cheated on by Mitch's ex girlfriend. What 134 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 3: wasn't I have to do with him? 135 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: Though? 136 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 7: Well, like the connection, the situation, Like, it's been really 137 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 7: hard for me to get through. I don't know how 138 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 7: you would feel. But if your wife cheated on you 139 00:05:35,160 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 7: and then you started dating, it's just so complicated. 140 00:05:39,040 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: I can't even like, do you understand me? 141 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 6: You get it like you're in a long relationship with 142 00:05:42,920 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 6: the one and then they cheat. 143 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,040 Speaker 1: On you, and then you go on a date with. 144 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:49,920 Speaker 7: The person that that person was in a relationship with, 145 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,919 Speaker 7: Like that connection is not okay in my world. 146 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. 147 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 3: I mean, you both couldn't you commiserate over both being 148 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:56,720 Speaker 3: cheated on? I mean, I've heard of this happening By 149 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 3: the way, I've heard of you know, it does seem 150 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:01,279 Speaker 3: a little strange, but I've heard about people's exes getting together. 151 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:03,720 Speaker 8: Well, we don't have to Mitch was cheated on by 152 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:07,599 Speaker 8: the girlfriend. Maybe they had already broken up, right, I 153 00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:08,200 Speaker 8: guess we don't know. 154 00:06:08,279 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 7: I don't know for sure, but I'm pretty bother them 155 00:06:10,880 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 7: either way. It's too close to halt. 156 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, it's have too many feelings about the situation to 157 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:19,480 Speaker 6: go on a date with somebody that is remotely connected. 158 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 7: To the woman that helps my boyfriend cheat on me. 159 00:06:21,720 --> 00:06:22,919 Speaker 4: I get that. Let me. 160 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:25,160 Speaker 1: Mitch is here. I forgot to mention the mitches here. 161 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: I'm very forgetful. I apologize. Mitch. Did you did you 162 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:31,400 Speaker 1: put that together? Did you? I guess I'm assuming you didn't. 163 00:06:31,839 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 3: And and and by the way, were you cheated on 164 00:06:33,640 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 3: when you were active in a relationship with this woman 165 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 3: the other woman? 166 00:06:37,040 --> 00:06:43,680 Speaker 5: Well, hey, Jelle, I had no idea. So wait, No, 167 00:06:43,880 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 5: me and Allison weren't together. But wait, went like, I mean, 168 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 5: that's still weird, like Allison, right, Like you're cheated with Allison? 169 00:06:52,120 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, Well, I guess I don't know why he's 170 00:06:55,920 --> 00:06:58,280 Speaker 3: being penalized for. That's my thing. Why are we taking 171 00:06:58,279 --> 00:06:59,599 Speaker 3: this out on him? He didn't do anything. 172 00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:03,280 Speaker 6: It's not that it has anything to do with Mitch. 173 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 7: It has everything to do with the hoe bag and 174 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 7: the ex and looking. 175 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 6: At the situation, it's too close to home. 176 00:07:10,720 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 7: This is a huge city and that's the. 177 00:07:12,640 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 6: Person I went on a date with. Are you kidding me? 178 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 4: Yeah? 179 00:07:19,120 --> 00:07:20,320 Speaker 5: That kind I was kind of fair. 180 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 1: I mean, you could have told me that. 181 00:07:22,400 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 5: I understand. 182 00:07:23,480 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 8: You know, you're like, how's that for? 183 00:07:26,520 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 1: How do you bring that up on. 184 00:07:27,440 --> 00:07:30,480 Speaker 6: A first date? Like, Hey, I know we've been talking for. 185 00:07:30,480 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 1: Like an hour, but I'm pretty sure. 186 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 6: The last person you banked banged my last person I bang? 187 00:07:36,040 --> 00:07:38,840 Speaker 8: Just like that, Is it a good. 188 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 4: Time to date it? 189 00:07:39,360 --> 00:07:41,600 Speaker 8: You're still so hurt by it? I wonder like I'm 190 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:42,600 Speaker 8: saying that, No, it's. 191 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 6: Not, which is why I stopped talking to this person. 192 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 6: I'm clearly not ready to be in a relationship. 193 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:48,920 Speaker 1: So that's fair. That's fair. 194 00:07:50,800 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 3: In a perfect world, you have that conversation with him, 195 00:07:52,880 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 3: and I understand you're not obligated to do that, but 196 00:07:55,080 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 3: I suppose you could have maybe and I'm not criticizing you, 197 00:07:57,480 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 3: but you could have maybe not given him your number 198 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,480 Speaker 3: or or released Yeah, this. 199 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 7: Is a soft thrash in my world, like, yeah, let 200 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 7: me just do I know. 201 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 6: I'm gonna deal with it personally, you know, Yeah. 202 00:08:09,240 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 3: I get that, and I guess the communication here was 203 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:13,440 Speaker 3: was broken down. But that is a very small world, 204 00:08:13,560 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 3: I will say. And I think, you know, flex would 205 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 3: be for you two to hook up and then, you know, 206 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 3: maybe send some pictures accidentally, you know, it'd be a 207 00:08:21,600 --> 00:08:23,560 Speaker 3: little little ketty about it. 208 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:24,680 Speaker 6: It's that crossed my mind. 209 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 7: I was thinking about all the ways we could revenge. 210 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 6: But man, I'm trying to be a better person. 211 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: Why right, what exactly what good does that do? All right? 212 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:36,480 Speaker 3: Because, by the way, you were wrong, so I think, 213 00:08:36,520 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 3: you know, and this wouldn't be wrong. You were wronged 214 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,480 Speaker 3: by being cheated on. This wouldn't be wrong, and it 215 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 3: would be pretty good, you know, pretty sweet revenge. However, 216 00:08:46,240 --> 00:08:48,720 Speaker 3: I assume you're not interested in going out with him now. 217 00:08:48,880 --> 00:08:49,840 Speaker 3: If we pay for it. 218 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 7: Mitch, I think we could be friends and definitely plan retaliation. 219 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:56,959 Speaker 7: But yeah, I'm sorry if it hurts you in any way. 220 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,439 Speaker 7: I'm just not ready for gating. 221 00:08:59,160 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 1: Thank you. 222 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:03,840 Speaker 9: Okay, Yeah, I don't want to if someone's not emotionally available, 223 00:09:03,840 --> 00:09:06,520 Speaker 9: I don't want to you know, invention that either yeah, 224 00:09:06,760 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 9: I understand, I guess just you know, it's okay. We 225 00:09:10,120 --> 00:09:12,079 Speaker 9: stay in touch and you know, if you want to 226 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:12,720 Speaker 9: talk about it or. 227 00:09:12,720 --> 00:09:13,440 Speaker 6: Whatever, I'm here for you. 228 00:09:13,559 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 3: We have a great budget for this because we very 229 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 3: rarely hooked people up. So if you guys want to 230 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 3: go on a friend date and plan retaliation and hit 231 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 3: us up, we'll pay for it. But thank you both 232 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 3: for your time. Best of luck to both of you. 233 00:09:24,240 --> 00:09:26,440 Speaker 3: It's the Fread Show. Good morning, thanks for having us 234 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,840 Speaker 3: on the radio, on the iHeart app live and anytime 235 00:09:28,880 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 3: search for The Fred Show on demand. 236 00:09:30,240 --> 00:09:31,800 Speaker 1: It's one of my favorite shirts. One of you guys 237 00:09:31,840 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: gave it to me. I think it was Klem. 238 00:09:33,160 --> 00:09:36,199 Speaker 3: It says a Blockbuster and the question that you had 239 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:40,599 Speaker 3: for Belahmine was bel Hemine welcome. 240 00:09:40,280 --> 00:09:45,679 Speaker 4: Get in here, Hey Fred? Scared you have your phone? 241 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: We can just text you right yeah? Anyway, okay, okay, sorry, No, 242 00:09:49,720 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: you don't have to be sorry. What what what is this? 243 00:09:52,840 --> 00:09:53,439 Speaker 4: What did I do? 244 00:09:53,559 --> 00:09:55,640 Speaker 1: What is No? I'm asking you what my shirt? 245 00:09:55,679 --> 00:09:55,719 Speaker 6: What? 246 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 4: What is that? That's Blockbuster? 247 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: Yeah? And how old are you? And do you know 248 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:01,360 Speaker 1: what this is? 249 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 4: Yes? 250 00:10:01,880 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 8: I know Blockbuster. 251 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 4: I don't think you would you know what this is? 252 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 4: Have you been to one? Yeah? When, well, when's the 253 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 4: last time you. 254 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:14,000 Speaker 1: Do you know what this is? Because Paulina was very 255 00:10:14,040 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: worried that you didn't know what my shirt said, I 256 00:10:16,080 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: just did. 257 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 10: Yeahxel, No, I know what that is. I just I 258 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,080 Speaker 10: told Kat the other day I didn't know the difference 259 00:10:21,120 --> 00:10:22,840 Speaker 10: between Jared what was that? 260 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:26,160 Speaker 4: What was that guy's name? Jared Leno? And Jared Leto 261 00:10:26,360 --> 00:10:28,439 Speaker 4: and and j Leto? 262 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:33,400 Speaker 1: And I was really, you don't know the difference between 263 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:35,960 Speaker 1: Jared Leto and Jay Leno? 264 00:10:36,280 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 7: Yeah? 265 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 4: I was so confused me neither girl? 266 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,320 Speaker 1: I mean good, it's not just wildly different people though. 267 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:45,760 Speaker 10: Yeah, I also don't know the difference between Christina Aguilera 268 00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,240 Speaker 10: and what and oh god, what's. 269 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 4: That girls name? Ged Stefani? But come next to each other? 270 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,320 Speaker 4: I don't know which ones which girl? 271 00:10:52,440 --> 00:10:54,720 Speaker 2: Now you lost me the Jared j Lenel think, Okay, 272 00:10:54,720 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 2: I can see that because similar. 273 00:10:56,440 --> 00:11:00,800 Speaker 3: How wait, how could you see that difference Jared Leto. 274 00:11:00,679 --> 00:11:03,880 Speaker 8: And j l like you put them together in side 275 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 8: by side. 276 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 2: Yes, but if like Kaylin did an entertainment report and 277 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:08,520 Speaker 2: brought it up, I might confuse at you the. 278 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 6: Right. 279 00:11:10,960 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 4: The names are just too similar. Yeah, but not quite so. 280 00:11:13,600 --> 00:11:15,840 Speaker 8: Fani and Christineaguil, Jared. 281 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,160 Speaker 1: And j are not the same name at all, JA 282 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: and J No, I get it anyway. 283 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,680 Speaker 3: So probably didn't think that you knew what what this 284 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,040 Speaker 3: shirt meant, and I just I was curious. I was hoping, 285 00:11:27,360 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 3: I mean, at twenty seventh that you knew when Blackbuster was. 286 00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:32,360 Speaker 3: But there's probably some someone was stenying now, maybe some 287 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:34,360 Speaker 3: young kid who has no idea. 288 00:11:34,679 --> 00:11:36,880 Speaker 4: No, we all know what we've been informed. 289 00:11:37,080 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: Have you ever been to one? You have? So you've 290 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: rented I assuming DVD? 291 00:11:41,600 --> 00:11:44,079 Speaker 8: Well I never did, but because I was too little. 292 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:46,959 Speaker 3: But my mom, oh, I see, so you accompanied somebody 293 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 3: inside a Blockbuster. 294 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:49,360 Speaker 4: It's like a library. 295 00:11:50,360 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 1: It sort of was like a library, right, it was. 296 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: It's kidding. 297 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you can check them out. That's that's kind 298 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 4: of good. Yeah. 299 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 300 00:11:57,600 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 4: Do you ever think a v H v HS? 301 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 6: Yeah? 302 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:01,439 Speaker 4: I had a lot. 303 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 10: Okay, yeah, because my sister, oh, her sister's millennial. 304 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:08,440 Speaker 4: Yeah, i'd like to speak with her three thirty two. 305 00:12:08,600 --> 00:12:09,120 Speaker 4: I don't remember. 306 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 3: Okay, So, and I always get these wrong, but I'm 307 00:12:12,160 --> 00:12:15,680 Speaker 3: I'm gen X slash millennial. But more I mean, like 308 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,240 Speaker 3: on the cost. I guess most of you are millennials 309 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:22,400 Speaker 3: and your gen z. Okay, I'm ninety eight, so this 310 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,640 Speaker 3: is the list. I'm twenty one. I know Blackbuster. Someone texted, well, 311 00:12:25,640 --> 00:12:27,599 Speaker 3: that's good. I'm twenty three. I used to go to 312 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 3: a Blockbuster. Okay, good, thank god, Okay, we buil that formed. 313 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:33,400 Speaker 1: Well, I do it. Paulina was worried about it. Whether 314 00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:34,560 Speaker 1: that you knew, because one did. 315 00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:37,080 Speaker 8: Like the Netflix era start right, like what age group? 316 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:41,199 Speaker 3: I would think it would be hers use it probably. 317 00:12:41,320 --> 00:12:43,680 Speaker 3: I think the DVDs in the mail were like late 318 00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:45,680 Speaker 3: made to late two thousands. 319 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:46,520 Speaker 4: Right, I think so. Yeah. 320 00:12:46,520 --> 00:12:50,000 Speaker 10: I remember when Netflix only did DVDs and you would 321 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:51,120 Speaker 10: get a mailed to your house. 322 00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,439 Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, good times. 323 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:54,640 Speaker 1: Yeah times. 324 00:12:54,720 --> 00:12:56,440 Speaker 3: But that was your version of Blackbuster. And I was 325 00:12:56,440 --> 00:12:59,360 Speaker 3: talking to someone the other day. Fifty million bucks, I believe, 326 00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:02,199 Speaker 3: was the number Netflix offered to sell to Blockbuster for 327 00:13:02,360 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 3: five zero fifty million dollars and now they're worth like 328 00:13:06,559 --> 00:13:07,320 Speaker 3: fifty billion. 329 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: Wow, let me see it again up the other day. 330 00:13:12,400 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 3: No excuse me, five hundred and sixteen billion dollars. So 331 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:20,200 Speaker 3: Blockbuster could have bought Netflix for five zero fifty million, 332 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 3: and instead they said no, why would we do that? Well, 333 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:28,760 Speaker 3: Blockbuster will need you now. Blockbuster's gone and they're worth 334 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:30,520 Speaker 3: five hundred and sixteen billion dollars. 335 00:13:31,679 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 4: One Blockbuster left. 336 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 3: In vand Oregon. Yeah. Yeah, there was a whole documentary 337 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 3: about him. How they like, I don't know how they 338 00:13:38,840 --> 00:13:39,120 Speaker 3: do it. 339 00:13:39,160 --> 00:13:39,480 Speaker 1: I don't know. 340 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,320 Speaker 3: I don't know where they're getting all the DVDs from. I 341 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:43,679 Speaker 3: don't know ry someone's basement. Yeah, I don't know how 342 00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 3: it's all working. 343 00:13:44,559 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 4: Don't sell DVDs, you guys, it's like target. 344 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,480 Speaker 3: Well okay, but how do you play it? I mean, 345 00:13:49,840 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 3: like I just actually donated a bunch of DVDs because well, 346 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 3: I guess everyone that's true, you don't. 347 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:03,199 Speaker 1: I always he's a huge gamer, but he's a switch 348 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:05,400 Speaker 1: to guy now, you know, more of a switch to 349 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: switch one or no, certainly not, certainly not. 350 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:11,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I'm scared I haven't sent you three 351 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:14,439 Speaker 3: already because you know you're on the cutting edges as 352 00:14:14,440 --> 00:14:20,760 Speaker 3: a gaming influencer, right well yeah, the gay yeah, the game, 353 00:14:21,360 --> 00:14:22,600 Speaker 3: the game board for sure. 354 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:26,200 Speaker 4: You get that. Lock that down, right, I know a. 355 00:14:26,200 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 11: Podcast you're gaming jam okay, so on this eight five 356 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,840 Speaker 11: five five one three five, and you can call him 357 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 11: text the same number. 358 00:14:38,560 --> 00:14:42,320 Speaker 1: But well stay here, because so these are the things, 359 00:14:42,480 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 1: well you you are your gen x why why why? 360 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,000 Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't know. 361 00:14:50,240 --> 00:14:51,920 Speaker 3: I don't know what all those things are. And then 362 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:55,320 Speaker 3: you guys just keep saying letters and now I'm really confused. Okay, 363 00:14:55,720 --> 00:14:58,640 Speaker 3: So these are things that basically that our parents would 364 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 3: have most of our parents would have a us to do. 365 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 3: And I just want to get your reaction to like 366 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 3: how this would have gone in your house. Then again, 367 00:15:04,800 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 3: your parents are a little while. Your parents are are 368 00:15:07,320 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 3: a little I mean, I've talked to your moms. She's 369 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,080 Speaker 3: a little while. Apparently your dad's trite and believes that 370 00:15:11,120 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 3: he needs airtime now too to speak about his mayoral duties, 371 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:16,240 Speaker 3: which is not happening because I can't. I can't provide 372 00:15:16,280 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 3: equal time to your whole family, Nor can I provide 373 00:15:18,640 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 3: equal time to the entire you know, political uh uh, 374 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,640 Speaker 3: you know the landscape of California. There are actual election 375 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:28,880 Speaker 3: laws against this. His competitor would have to get equal airtime. 376 00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 4: I don't know's it doesn't have a competitor. 377 00:15:31,440 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 3: Well, he wouldn't add, you know. Yeah, so he ran unopposed, 378 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:38,480 Speaker 3: So he did he's gain to him, why opinion and 379 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:39,760 Speaker 3: why is he writing about it? 380 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:42,200 Speaker 8: He's just jealous that my mom is on air. 381 00:15:42,360 --> 00:15:43,080 Speaker 4: He's just jealous. 382 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,080 Speaker 3: I'm sure your dad's a lovely man. But if he 383 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:48,280 Speaker 3: ran unopposed, I mean that's he volunteered basically. 384 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 1: Those campaign dollars. 385 00:15:50,320 --> 00:15:52,320 Speaker 3: If no one ran against him, he didn't really win 386 00:15:52,440 --> 00:15:56,440 Speaker 3: or lose. He just sort of is Okay. Anyway, here's 387 00:15:56,480 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 3: my question. I want to know from the people at 388 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:00,280 Speaker 3: home and the people in the room, and then you, 389 00:16:00,600 --> 00:16:04,520 Speaker 3: as the youngest member, how this would have gone on 390 00:16:04,560 --> 00:16:07,240 Speaker 3: in your house. For example, Okay, were you allowed to 391 00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 3: just well you kind of grew up in it. Did 392 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,960 Speaker 3: you always grow up in kind of a smaller town. Yeah, 393 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 3: maybe maybe this doesn't apply as much to you. But 394 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 3: were you allowed to just roam the neighborhood? 395 00:16:16,760 --> 00:16:17,360 Speaker 4: Oh? 396 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 10: It depends, my It depends how old I was, if 397 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 10: I was in trouble, like you know, like grounded. When 398 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:30,200 Speaker 10: you were old enough and not in trouble, could you roam? Yeah, 399 00:16:30,320 --> 00:16:32,480 Speaker 10: for the most part, But like my mom would want 400 00:16:32,520 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 10: to know where. 401 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 3: Well, I'm not talking about the time where you were 402 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:36,720 Speaker 3: grounded or sleeping fellow, I mean, like, were you allowed 403 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,840 Speaker 3: I'm wondering if you were allowed on a time when 404 00:16:40,840 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 3: you were conscious, ungrounded, not in jail, right when the 405 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:48,320 Speaker 3: weather was nice, you know, when the most parts and 406 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 3: people weren't protesting, were you. 407 00:16:49,880 --> 00:16:53,200 Speaker 12: Able to within the neighborhood. Yeah, okay, you could in 408 00:16:53,240 --> 00:16:56,680 Speaker 12: my neighborhood. I'm a different reality, Like that doesn't seem 409 00:16:56,720 --> 00:16:59,880 Speaker 12: real having you guys are having a conversation. I'm having 410 00:16:59,920 --> 00:17:03,360 Speaker 12: a conversation. She's having a conversation. It's not the same conversation. 411 00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 1: Okay. 412 00:17:04,400 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 3: So because because like as kids, like when I was young, 413 00:17:07,800 --> 00:17:10,280 Speaker 3: it was and it was just you know, ride your bike, go, 414 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:14,679 Speaker 3: just go, And there was no way really for us 415 00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 3: to get you know, there were no cell phones. Maybe 416 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:19,639 Speaker 3: a pager, but I didn't have one really. I mean, 417 00:17:19,680 --> 00:17:21,320 Speaker 3: there was really no way to know where we were, 418 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:23,359 Speaker 3: what we were doing. I mean they were payphones, but 419 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,920 Speaker 3: we didn't really use those. And it was like, hey, 420 00:17:25,960 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 3: go at you know, nine am or whatever, and just 421 00:17:28,080 --> 00:17:29,920 Speaker 3: come back before it gets dark, which in Arizona in 422 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,040 Speaker 3: the summer is like ten o'clock at night. And I'm 423 00:17:32,080 --> 00:17:34,480 Speaker 3: not saying my parents didn't care, but they did. There 424 00:17:34,520 --> 00:17:36,080 Speaker 3: was nothing was happening. 425 00:17:35,920 --> 00:17:38,320 Speaker 10: See, that was that's where we differ. I had to 426 00:17:38,359 --> 00:17:40,399 Speaker 10: have a cell phone, so I wasn't allowed to roam. 427 00:17:41,080 --> 00:17:43,800 Speaker 10: You weren't really roaming, So I wasn't really roaming. I 428 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:46,399 Speaker 10: mean like it felt like I was, but not really. 429 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:46,960 Speaker 1: Okay. 430 00:17:47,160 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 3: Were you allowed to go to someone's house whose parents 431 00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:52,480 Speaker 3: your parents didn't know? 432 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:53,520 Speaker 4: Uh? 433 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:56,520 Speaker 1: Yes, Okay, so you could do that? Yes, because I 434 00:17:56,520 --> 00:17:59,160 Speaker 1: guess that's the thing, and that's that didn't happen. Mean, 435 00:17:59,160 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 1: my wife was all kinds of people's houses and parties 436 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:03,960 Speaker 1: and stuff, and my parents didn't ask where I was or. 437 00:18:04,560 --> 00:18:06,840 Speaker 3: Or who the people. They didn't interview the parents ahead 438 00:18:06,840 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 3: of time. They didn't call over there and see what 439 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 3: was going on. They weren't They weren't logged into the 440 00:18:11,240 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 3: live stream, you know, on YouTube or whatever to see. Okay, 441 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,600 Speaker 3: So you were allowed to go to people's home so 442 00:18:16,680 --> 00:18:17,520 Speaker 3: your parents didn't know. 443 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:21,520 Speaker 10: My parents were like, thank god, Okay, were you. 444 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 3: Allowed or slash When you're given the opportunity to go 445 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 3: hang out in the mall all day? 446 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:29,080 Speaker 1: Was that even a thing you could do? Yes? 447 00:18:29,840 --> 00:18:31,720 Speaker 3: Because that was something when we were like before we 448 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:34,399 Speaker 3: could drive, that was what like three or four dudes 449 00:18:34,400 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 3: in the weekend we get dropped off of the mall, 450 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 3: and then three or four girls had dropped off of 451 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:40,560 Speaker 3: the mall and it was essentially a date, but it 452 00:18:40,640 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 3: wasn't a date. And we would we didn't have any money, 453 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:45,760 Speaker 3: so we could maybe eat, maybe we had money to eat, 454 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:48,080 Speaker 3: you know, but like, yeah, we would just walk around 455 00:18:48,080 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 3: in circles in the mall. And you know, it was 456 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 3: like a little flirty walk. I dabbled kind of thing. Okay, 457 00:18:53,400 --> 00:18:56,040 Speaker 3: so you were able to do well. Here there are 458 00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:58,679 Speaker 3: people going up right now who don't even probably know 459 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,160 Speaker 3: there are a town for them. There is all right, 460 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,479 Speaker 3: or there's nothing there to do, so like you wouldn't 461 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 3: walk around them all okay. And by the way, this 462 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,200 Speaker 3: is a list that was made by a website. It's 463 00:19:11,200 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 3: eleven things that parents of gen X kids did that 464 00:19:14,480 --> 00:19:16,360 Speaker 3: would be considered a neglect today. 465 00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 4: My parents neglected me. 466 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: I guess. So were you expected to cook your own food? 467 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,480 Speaker 1: Apparently now you don't have to cook your own food? 468 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,679 Speaker 1: Did you dangerous or something? 469 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:28,199 Speaker 10: I always cooked with my parents because my parents are chefs, 470 00:19:28,280 --> 00:19:31,160 Speaker 10: so I like they wanted me to learn how to cook. 471 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:32,119 Speaker 4: Okay, that was a big thing. 472 00:19:32,320 --> 00:19:33,840 Speaker 3: Like if you wanted to make something and you were 473 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 3: eight years old or ten, and they weren't there. Maybe 474 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,040 Speaker 3: that wasn't even a thing either, But I mean, were 475 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,480 Speaker 3: you allowed to, you know, tear on the stove and 476 00:19:41,520 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 3: cook an egg or something if you wanted to? 477 00:19:44,680 --> 00:19:46,399 Speaker 4: I would. The thing is I was really. 478 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:47,560 Speaker 8: Lucky because I grew up with a house with a 479 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:49,119 Speaker 8: lot of food, so I never really had that. 480 00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:50,040 Speaker 1: You never had to cook it. 481 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:53,000 Speaker 10: Okay, well I did, but like not like I never 482 00:19:53,040 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 10: cooked eggs by myself or anything. 483 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,800 Speaker 4: Bus I'm the youngest, so my sister was always home. 484 00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 4: I was never really alone. 485 00:19:58,080 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 1: You hit people serving on you, serving you? 486 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 4: Okay? 487 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:03,240 Speaker 3: Are your nieces and nephews who are much younger, are 488 00:20:03,240 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 3: they allowed to do any of this stuff? 489 00:20:04,359 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: Like can they go roam the neighborhood? 490 00:20:06,400 --> 00:20:09,040 Speaker 2: And they can go to the park, But there's cell 491 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:11,320 Speaker 2: phones with locations on them, so that doesn't really count. 492 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:14,800 Speaker 2: They're not allowed to cook. Everybody gets door dash or 493 00:20:14,880 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 2: uber eats. 494 00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,480 Speaker 3: Now, okay, so that's okay, So don't turn the stove 495 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:20,720 Speaker 3: on that because you might burn the house down or whatever. 496 00:20:20,920 --> 00:20:23,440 Speaker 2: I know, I was crying up pork chops at teams. 497 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:25,440 Speaker 2: You know, you're making spaghetti, oh. 498 00:20:25,440 --> 00:20:27,919 Speaker 3: Yeah, noodles, rice and you had to make rice, and 499 00:20:27,920 --> 00:20:31,080 Speaker 3: you had to make eggs. Oh oh yeah, and you 500 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:33,120 Speaker 3: had to make mac and cheese. Oh yeah, No, there 501 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,600 Speaker 3: was no. It was an order of peacha every time 502 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 3: you're hungry. No, no, interesting. I didn't touch a stove 503 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 3: till I was definitely in my twenties. We talked about 504 00:20:42,600 --> 00:20:45,120 Speaker 3: this yesterday, making babies cry it out. I guess that's 505 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 3: not a thing that people do anymore. It's just let 506 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 3: the baby cry out. Because Nauline was talking about how 507 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 3: little baby Gigi, you know, gets mad and stuff and 508 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:54,439 Speaker 3: like hits and whatever at one year old, which is 509 00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:57,080 Speaker 3: you know, and tells her mom to f off and 510 00:20:57,200 --> 00:20:59,000 Speaker 3: you know, leave and stuff like that. That's crazy and 511 00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:03,000 Speaker 3: one's angston that kid already. But you know, the thing 512 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,560 Speaker 3: was you just let them have the outburst and just 513 00:21:05,600 --> 00:21:07,560 Speaker 3: let them do it. But I do think that like 514 00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:08,960 Speaker 3: in this day and age, you know, people would be 515 00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,040 Speaker 3: annoyed or they would actually think you were not doing 516 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 3: your job if your kid freaks out in the store 517 00:21:13,560 --> 00:21:15,200 Speaker 3: and you just let them freak out and walk around 518 00:21:15,280 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 3: like that. 519 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,840 Speaker 1: Right, yeah, I mean that's what you're supposed to do. 520 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 3: I thought as a parent, But I don't know that 521 00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,479 Speaker 3: people wouldn't call CPS on you. Now if you were 522 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 3: walking around you know, the jewel or the Walgreens or whatever, 523 00:21:25,520 --> 00:21:27,639 Speaker 3: and your kid was just screaming because you just weren't 524 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:28,879 Speaker 3: going to deal with the fact that you were going 525 00:21:28,920 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 3: to buy them the popsicles or the toy or whatever. 526 00:21:31,240 --> 00:21:33,919 Speaker 3: The cops show up for that like abuse now or something. 527 00:21:36,080 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 3: Letting kids figure things out themselves. Ignoring school bullies now, 528 00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:43,199 Speaker 3: this is a more controversial topic because bullying has gotten 529 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:46,600 Speaker 3: far more sophisticated now. I mean, it's the same spirit 530 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:49,800 Speaker 3: of idiots saying mean things to other people because they're 531 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 3: projecting that they're actually the loser, which is the thing 532 00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:54,399 Speaker 3: that your parents always tell you when you're growing up, 533 00:21:54,440 --> 00:21:56,560 Speaker 3: Like when the kid's making fun of you and saying 534 00:21:56,560 --> 00:21:59,440 Speaker 3: mean things about you, it's like, well, this person actually 535 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 3: very instqut about themselves, and they make that you know, 536 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 3: it's a terrible quality that someone people to make themselves 537 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,520 Speaker 3: feel better by putting you down and so, and you're 538 00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 3: going to grow up to be really successful and great, 539 00:22:09,280 --> 00:22:11,679 Speaker 3: so don't worry about them, you know. That's that's the 540 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:14,280 Speaker 3: advice I got about bullies. But my parents weren't calling 541 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:16,879 Speaker 3: to school saying, don't bully my kid. My parents weren't 542 00:22:16,880 --> 00:22:19,199 Speaker 3: calling the parents, but my parents were like, this is 543 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:21,879 Speaker 3: part of life and people are always going to be 544 00:22:21,960 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 3: a holes And that's true to this day. And I'm 545 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,160 Speaker 3: forty four years old and there are still people who 546 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 3: get off on other people's failures and me so like, 547 00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:31,800 Speaker 3: if you're not equipped for that, then I don't know 548 00:22:31,800 --> 00:22:33,280 Speaker 3: how well you're going to do in the real world. 549 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:36,359 Speaker 3: But I I will admit you know it's it's gotten 550 00:22:36,480 --> 00:22:40,840 Speaker 3: far more dramatic, far more drastic. The accessibility with technology 551 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:43,879 Speaker 3: and social media and the ways that people are bullying 552 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:47,400 Speaker 3: are far vaster than they were. But as it pertains 553 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:49,760 Speaker 3: to just kids being mean to kids, I don't know 554 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:51,840 Speaker 3: how much of their that there is anymore. How did 555 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:53,360 Speaker 3: your parents deal with you being bullied? 556 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:57,200 Speaker 4: Well, my dad's Italian, so children. 557 00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:01,360 Speaker 1: Rps of that. And there's a big hole in your backyard. 558 00:23:01,520 --> 00:23:08,520 Speaker 10: So he said, put me on the ratio, there lay 559 00:23:09,240 --> 00:23:11,440 Speaker 10: cards outside, So I put your. 560 00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,119 Speaker 1: Hair and I let her speak freely. She doesn't even 561 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:14,640 Speaker 1: know my name. 562 00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,160 Speaker 4: I know, Jeff. No. 563 00:23:17,440 --> 00:23:20,480 Speaker 8: My dad my mom would give very opposite advice. 564 00:23:20,840 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 4: My dad's like, let me know who they are. I 565 00:23:23,880 --> 00:23:24,960 Speaker 4: want to talk to them. 566 00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 10: I was like, he's like very confrontational, and my mom's 567 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 10: just like who cares, just like blow it off their losers. 568 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 10: And so I would never really listen to my dad 569 00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:37,320 Speaker 10: in that sense. I mean, like a couple of times 570 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 10: I did, and I probably shouldn't have, but I tried 571 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:42,080 Speaker 10: to stick with what my mom said because it felt 572 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 10: a little. 573 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:46,119 Speaker 4: More ration when you egged the car. Oh, yeah, that 574 00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,360 Speaker 4: is true. Maybe I am like my dad. I did. 575 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 4: I Okay, it sounds like your. 576 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:53,040 Speaker 3: Dad would actually kill people with his bare hands, and 577 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 3: you egged the car, so you're. 578 00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:55,440 Speaker 1: Not like you're going to a car. 579 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:57,000 Speaker 4: I threw poop at the people's car. 580 00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,879 Speaker 3: Here's my Oh I thought I thought you were going 581 00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:02,680 Speaker 3: to say your poop. 582 00:24:02,680 --> 00:24:06,080 Speaker 1: I was worried about in this segment is you're not 583 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:07,240 Speaker 1: the person to talk to you? Okay? 584 00:24:07,960 --> 00:24:09,240 Speaker 4: Are you a bully? No? 585 00:24:09,560 --> 00:24:12,360 Speaker 10: Somebody eggs my house and I didn't even know who 586 00:24:12,359 --> 00:24:14,200 Speaker 10: they were, and so I retaliated with dog poop. 587 00:24:14,280 --> 00:24:14,960 Speaker 1: That's what it's giving. 588 00:24:15,200 --> 00:24:18,159 Speaker 3: Okay, So your parents basically raise you like you were 589 00:24:18,200 --> 00:24:20,199 Speaker 3: one of us, So this is not you're not the 590 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:20,960 Speaker 3: person to talk. 591 00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:22,880 Speaker 4: To but so sorry, and like the. 592 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:24,919 Speaker 3: Bullying thing I know, I'd look like and someone's going 593 00:24:24,960 --> 00:24:27,199 Speaker 3: to text up here and go, oh, the you know, 594 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:29,520 Speaker 3: terrible example of this. And then yes, of course there 595 00:24:29,520 --> 00:24:31,639 Speaker 3: are extreme examples, and there are ways that people are 596 00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:34,000 Speaker 3: bullying now that they couldn't bully a stend. But I 597 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:37,840 Speaker 3: do say that there's something too kids being mean to kids, 598 00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 3: and you've got to teach your kids how to manage 599 00:24:40,760 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 3: that because it's not going to go away in adulthood. 600 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:46,080 Speaker 1: And so like if you take your kid out of school, 601 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:46,560 Speaker 1: or if. 602 00:24:46,480 --> 00:24:48,199 Speaker 3: You I don't know a lot of different things that 603 00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:51,479 Speaker 3: I've heard of people do or homeschool your kid simply 604 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,400 Speaker 3: because you don't want to expose them to certain things 605 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:57,200 Speaker 3: that are mean. I understand that that sort of desire, 606 00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:00,800 Speaker 3: But like what happens then when it's time for your 607 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:02,119 Speaker 3: kid to go out and get a job and be 608 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:03,680 Speaker 3: in the real world and someone's mean to them and 609 00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 3: they don't know what you how to cope with that 610 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:07,240 Speaker 3: or what to do because it's going to happen because 611 00:25:07,280 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 3: people are mean. 612 00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 8: Oh yes, my dad taught me how to punch mine. 613 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:11,000 Speaker 4: Is that bad? 614 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:12,800 Speaker 1: No? 615 00:25:13,080 --> 00:25:15,240 Speaker 3: But the rule in our house was don't hit unless 616 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,240 Speaker 3: you have men hit. If you get hit, then you 617 00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:19,919 Speaker 3: can hit. That was my thing, yes, and that's different for. 618 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:22,479 Speaker 8: What I got first on the butt with a stick. 619 00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:23,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, when we were. 620 00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 8: In kindergarten, and so my dad taught me how to 621 00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:26,800 Speaker 8: throw a punch kindergarten. 622 00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:27,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, throw a punch. 623 00:25:27,880 --> 00:25:29,560 Speaker 8: And so the next day he said, there he is, 624 00:25:29,600 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 8: and I punched him. 625 00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,480 Speaker 3: I mean, if boy, I guess if a man hits 626 00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,600 Speaker 3: a woman the Italian you can do what you gotta 627 00:25:35,640 --> 00:25:36,280 Speaker 3: do a. 628 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:37,960 Speaker 4: Man, it's a woman. He was a little boy, He's 629 00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 4: really fine, that's what. 630 00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:40,080 Speaker 1: Well, that's what I just said. 631 00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:42,000 Speaker 8: Though, I just said, you hit a welt on my butt. 632 00:25:42,280 --> 00:25:43,720 Speaker 1: So she was little and it was just she was 633 00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:44,200 Speaker 1: a child. 634 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,320 Speaker 3: But like if a man hits a woman, then you know, 635 00:25:46,359 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 3: a woman can retell you in whatever way she pleases, 636 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,440 Speaker 3: except you know, poop. 637 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:52,520 Speaker 1: There too. 638 00:25:52,680 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 3: Hey, Jose, Jose, Okay, why do we call Jose? Like, 639 00:26:00,160 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 3: why do we call the radio station and then we 640 00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 3: don't say anything? 641 00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:05,120 Speaker 1: Maybe put him on hold and then pick him back 642 00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:09,240 Speaker 1: up one more time, Jose, because like I hear that 643 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:14,760 Speaker 1: there's like a phone on. Okay, Well that was fun, thanks, Jose. 644 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:16,399 Speaker 1: I agree with you. 645 00:26:16,400 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 3: That was what insightful one insightful feedback there and honestly, 646 00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:23,240 Speaker 3: the middle, the middle part of that call touched me 647 00:26:23,280 --> 00:26:25,320 Speaker 3: the most. I think where he really got into his 648 00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:26,040 Speaker 3: childhood and. 649 00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 8: Talked about it was like when he was talking, time 650 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:29,360 Speaker 8: had no meaning. 651 00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 4: He could have gone on forever. 652 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 3: It was for me, it was poetic, like the guy 653 00:26:34,960 --> 00:26:37,639 Speaker 3: is the true orator. Like a lot of people say that, 654 00:26:37,720 --> 00:26:40,920 Speaker 3: like like uh, Barack Obama can speak, and Martin Luther came. 655 00:26:40,920 --> 00:26:43,240 Speaker 3: But when Jose talks to me, it's like I'm the 656 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 3: only person in the room. I'm a different person, you 657 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:48,359 Speaker 3: know what I mean, Kiki A true speaker. Yeah, he 658 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 3: was great, a true orator. 659 00:26:50,000 --> 00:26:50,640 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 660 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,199 Speaker 3: Yeah, I was. I was totally just locked in on 661 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:58,919 Speaker 3: everything he had to say. I feel like, Jose, know, 662 00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,240 Speaker 3: your mic is very much and you can speak. 663 00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 1: What an incredible speech. 664 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:08,080 Speaker 3: Okay, Well anyway, I was just I was wondering if 665 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:09,840 Speaker 3: any of this related to you, because because you do 666 00:27:10,119 --> 00:27:12,879 Speaker 3: represent that generation, but I think your parents made it 667 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 3: such that none of that represents you. 668 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:17,320 Speaker 1: No, it's okay, it's okay. 669 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:19,760 Speaker 3: You can go now and the Paly they can come 670 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:21,760 Speaker 3: back have a nice day, because that's that's where we're 671 00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:25,280 Speaker 3: at now, is with this, we have to switch people physically, 672 00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 3: switch human beings so that we have enough people to 673 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:33,240 Speaker 3: do the jobs rather and the doors. No, we don't 674 00:27:33,280 --> 00:27:34,320 Speaker 3: really follow directions.