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Speaker 1: She has a breakfast club. Bit you who's donkey of

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Speaker 1: the day today?

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Speaker 2: Don't here to day for Wednesday, May twenty second, goes

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Speaker 2: to Marfa Boughs. Now, we live in a world where

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Speaker 2: everybody wants their flowers. Everybody wants to be celebrated, everybody

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Speaker 2: wants to be honored. And folks aren't waiting on someone

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Speaker 2: to give them their flowers. They grow on them theyself,

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Speaker 2: and in some cases they are taking them. I want

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Speaker 2: to ask you a question, Jess, how do you feel

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Speaker 2: about people giving you your flowers? Do you receive them

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Speaker 2: when they are given?

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Speaker 3: I do receive them.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I feel like I've come a long way, but

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Speaker 4: I have a lot of ways to go. We have

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Speaker 4: a long way to go. But yeah, I give I

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Speaker 4: like when people give them my flowers.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever felt like you wasn't being respected and

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Speaker 2: you wanted your flowers so much that you would take them?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely not.

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Speaker 4: No, Okay, I don't believe in taking the flowers. I

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Speaker 4: really don't believe flowers give you validation. It feels good

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Speaker 4: to be honored, but I'm not gonna have to take

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Speaker 4: nobody flowers.

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Speaker 2: Well, Marfa Boos Marpha Bowles disagrees with you. Okay, she

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Speaker 2: took her flowers. She wanted to be celebrated, so she

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Speaker 2: decided to celebrate herself. Let's go to forty eight on

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Speaker 2: your side for the report place.

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Speaker 5: The Dcam County Sheriff's Office arrested and charged Martha Bow's

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Speaker 5: with theft of property and the desecration of a grave site.

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Speaker 5: This after deputy say she was found with a large

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Speaker 5: collection of floral arrangements inside her home, and family members

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Speaker 5: of those buried here at Painter Cemetery say they caught

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Speaker 5: her in the act.

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Speaker 2: I think that's probably one of the lowest things somebody

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Speaker 2: to do.

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Speaker 5: These are clips from surveillance footage of Martha Bo's caught

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Speaker 5: in the act stealing multiple flower arrangements from graves at

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Speaker 5: Painter Cemetery in Crossville following decoration day.

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Speaker 2: Stealing flowers from a dead person's grave. Stealing flowers from

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Speaker 2: a dead person's grave is like taking all the picture

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Speaker 2: frames out of blind person's house, because it's not like

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Speaker 2: they're gonna notice unless they, Stevie want to. Stevie wanted

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Speaker 2: would notice. Let me tell you something, man, whatever is

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Speaker 2: for you will be for you. Okay, whatever you are

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Speaker 2: supposed to have, you won't have to force. I understand

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Speaker 2: if you want your flowers, but if you're gonna take them,

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Speaker 2: if you're gonna steal them, don't take them from someone else,

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Speaker 2: especially someone who's deceased. Okay, this is exactly why they say,

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Speaker 2: give me my flowers while I'm here to smell them,

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Speaker 2: because if I can smell them, that means I'm still alive,

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Speaker 2: and if I'm alive, that means they are harder to.

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Speaker 1: Take from me.

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Speaker 2: Not to mention, who were you people that just like

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Speaker 2: to play around in graveyards. I was born in the

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Speaker 2: nineteen hundreds. We didn't play around the graveyards. We went

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Speaker 2: to funerals. We went to visit and pay all respect.

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Speaker 2: Anything outside of that was guaranteed you to be the

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Speaker 2: plot of some horror movie. Okay, the thought of someone

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Speaker 2: wandering around the graveyard for no reason makes me feel

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Speaker 2: like Michael Mayer's about to pop out and show niggas.

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Speaker 2: And sometimes for people like Martha Bowles, I wish they did.

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Speaker 2: Did you ever do that just when you was playing

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Speaker 2: with them white people in Pennsylvania?

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Speaker 6: What?

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Speaker 3: First of all, I wasn't playing with no white people,

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Speaker 3: But did I do what?

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Speaker 1: Was like this play around the graveyard.

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Speaker 4: No, I did not, and none of my white friends

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Speaker 4: did that. We didn't do They weren't that weird.

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Speaker 1: That's right.

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Speaker 2: That's how I know we have officially reached the ghetto

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Speaker 2: point of no return here on earth. The dead don't

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Speaker 2: even care if you disrespect them no more. They're like, man,

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Speaker 2: take them petty ass flowers. Whatever brings your punk ass

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Speaker 2: joy on that side, because y'all needed more than I do. Hell,

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Speaker 2: the deceased may pity us because flowers are expensive.

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Speaker 1: The other's day was earlier this month.

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Speaker 2: You gotta think if you got a mother, a grandma,

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Speaker 2: or sister, a wife, aunts that can get expensive.

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Speaker 1: Before you know it, you're gonna spend seven hundred dollars

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Speaker 1: in flowers.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that lady probably walked through that grave and saw

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Speaker 2: that expensive bass floral arrangement and thought to herself, what

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Speaker 2: a waste. They can't even smell them. Let me get

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Speaker 2: those ladies. Y'all say, y'all want a man that can

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Speaker 2: get you flowers every week? Well, a dozen roses is

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Speaker 2: about one hundred dollars, so that's four hundred dollars a month.

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Speaker 2: That's almost five grand a year for something that dies

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Speaker 2: after four days, So I can understand the thought process

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Speaker 2: of someone that says, I might as well steal these

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Speaker 2: flowers because they're gonna be dead in the next thirty

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Speaker 2: six hours. Anyway, this person gonna be dead forever. They

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Speaker 2: are in a better place, and these flowers need to

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Speaker 2: be in a better place too.

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Speaker 1: Listen, I need.

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Speaker 2: You all to start treating actual dead people the way

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Speaker 2: you treat that man or.

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Speaker 1: Woman who ghosted you.

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Speaker 2: If someone ghost you, you should respect the dead and

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Speaker 2: never disturb them again. Can we please start giving actual

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Speaker 2: dead people the same energy? Please give Martha bows, the

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Speaker 2: sweet sounds, and the Hamiltons you.

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Speaker 6: Oh the day, yeah, oh the day.

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Speaker 3: I did not know that flowers were that expensive? What crazy? What?

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Speaker 3: I didn't know that.

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Speaker 1: Oral arrangements are crazy expensive. You see that floor arrangement

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Speaker 1: I got over.

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Speaker 3: That makes me feel so good because my man always

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Speaker 3: band me flowers. But I didn't know they was that.

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Speaker 1: No, hold up, before I tell you what kind of

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Speaker 1: what kind of flowers he be getting you?

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Speaker 3: Orchids?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: What does his sunflowers like?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Like make like arrangement?

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Speaker 1: They being arranged? They be innovasive stuff.

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Speaker 3: First of all, stop playing with my man, Like, no.

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Speaker 2: I'm just asking your questions because if they just came

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Speaker 2: in like plastic.

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Speaker 1: He just stopped by the store real quick before he

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Speaker 1: pulled up.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you see the flowers that come up here

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Speaker 4: for me, like, stop playing with me. Let's not even

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Speaker 4: play like it'd be like assorted and nice and different

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Speaker 4: kinds of flowers. I didn't know all that was likesive,

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Speaker 4: I seen.

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Speaker 1: Yes, the things cost money.

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Speaker 3: You said, a dozen of roses is one hundred dollars at.

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Speaker 2: Least, Jesus, you don't think so how much they cost?

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Speaker 1: That's still a lot, he said, fifty fifty. Yes, let

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Speaker 1: me the average price of a dozen roses.

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Speaker 3: That's just crazy, man.

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Speaker 2: Look, I just pulled up average price of a dozen

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Speaker 2: roses nationally. The average cost for a dozen roses is

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Speaker 2: eighty eight dollars in sixty one cents inflation.

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Speaker 1: What jesus that cost?

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Speaker 2: So you buy four or five people roses, that's over

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Speaker 2: four hundred dollars.

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Speaker 1: Damn near five hundred dollars. Man. That's why I don't

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Speaker 1: even know why brothers be having side chicks. It don't

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Speaker 1: make no sense.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, side chicks don't deserve flowers. Now, come on there.

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Speaker 1: That's true. They're like we very much we.

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Speaker 2: Donkey Today is brought to you by the law office

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Speaker 2: of Michael slam and Saft. Don't be a donkey. Pound

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Speaker 2: two fifty on your cell and say the bull. If

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Speaker 2: you've been hurting a construction accident, that's pound two five

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Speaker 2: ozh from your cell and say the bull. Wake that

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Speaker 2: ass up in the morning, Breakfast club, m hm.