1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:03,840 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter and listen. 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: If you need advice and relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:11,039 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: dot com. We could be reading your letter live on 5 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:17,439 Speaker 1: the air, just like we're going to read this one right. 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:18,280 Speaker 2: Here, right now. 7 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:19,279 Speaker 1: Who knows it could be you? 8 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:21,440 Speaker 3: Oh forgot? 9 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,239 Speaker 1: He ain't here, Ladies and Jelemy's time for the strawberry. 10 00:00:24,320 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 4: Let her put your hands together for my girl, Shirley Strawberry. 11 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: All right, subject, thank you, junior. Subject. I'm tired of 12 00:00:33,920 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: sneaking around with her. Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty seven 13 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 1: year old single man, and I would love to stop 14 00:00:39,800 --> 00:00:42,559 Speaker 1: sneaking around with the love of my life. I've been 15 00:00:42,600 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: friends with my secret lover for twenty years, and our 16 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:49,600 Speaker 1: parents are best friends. Our families did everything together for 17 00:00:49,680 --> 00:00:53,400 Speaker 1: over twenty years, but they have no idea about our 18 00:00:53,440 --> 00:00:56,480 Speaker 1: secret romance. She and I have been best friends since 19 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:00,160 Speaker 1: we were seven. By the time we turned thirteen, she 20 00:01:00,280 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 1: was blossoming into a woman and I liked it. She 21 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:07,520 Speaker 1: was curious about my body and I enjoyed caressing hers. 22 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:10,960 Speaker 1: When she let me on her seventeenth birthday, she told 23 00:01:10,959 --> 00:01:13,520 Speaker 1: me she was ready to have sex and she wanted 24 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 1: me to be her first. That was the moment I 25 00:01:17,040 --> 00:01:20,120 Speaker 1: had been waiting for, so we both had sex for 26 00:01:20,160 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: the first time. I fell in love with her by 27 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:26,840 Speaker 1: the time I was eighteen. We continue to secretly have 28 00:01:27,000 --> 00:01:30,720 Speaker 1: sex throughout college, and now that we're grown, she still 29 00:01:30,840 --> 00:01:34,080 Speaker 1: likes to sneak around with me. I've dated other girls, 30 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:38,240 Speaker 1: but no other woman compares to her. I have asked 31 00:01:38,240 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: her to be my girlfriend so many times, but she 32 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: is afraid of what her parents will think. She's been 33 00:01:43,800 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 1: dating a guy for almost two years and we still 34 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: have sex often. But we still have sex often. She's 35 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: told me that she's not had sex with him, and 36 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: I believed her until recently, when she told me that 37 00:01:55,840 --> 00:02:00,360 Speaker 1: he's talking about marriage. My heart started beating fast and 38 00:02:00,360 --> 00:02:03,200 Speaker 1: and poured out all of my feelings to her and 39 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,880 Speaker 1: said I wanted to be with her and marry her. 40 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,760 Speaker 1: She said we could never be together because although we 41 00:02:09,840 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: are not blood relatives, our families are linked so closely 42 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: it's like we're related. I yelled at her that I 43 00:02:17,120 --> 00:02:21,200 Speaker 1: don't make love to my relatives. Why won't she give 44 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 1: us a chance? I don't want to lose her for good, 45 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:28,280 Speaker 1: So what should I do? Wow, you don't want to 46 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 1: lose her for good? Well, she's gone. I mean you've 47 00:02:32,919 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 1: already lost her. She never wanted you for anything more 48 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:41,360 Speaker 1: than a side piece anyway. Everything was always in secret. Okay, 49 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: she's never given you any reason to think otherwise. All 50 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:46,399 Speaker 1: you have to do is listen to her and read 51 00:02:46,440 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 1: between her lines. You are her side piece, her jump off, 52 00:02:50,240 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 1: her plaything, and that's it. I mean, there are clues 53 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:57,840 Speaker 1: throughout the letter. You say. Now that we're grown, she 54 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:00,359 Speaker 1: still likes to sneak around with you. Yes, she wants 55 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:02,640 Speaker 1: to keep you a secret. She won't date you because 56 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,320 Speaker 1: she's afraid of what her parents might think. Really, but 57 00:03:05,400 --> 00:03:11,200 Speaker 1: she's grown. You just said you guys are grown. You've 58 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:13,960 Speaker 1: told her you want to be with her and you 59 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,480 Speaker 1: want to marry her. Still nothing from her. Nothing. She's 60 00:03:17,520 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: thinking about marrying some other guy. She said, you guys 61 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: could never be together because your relatives. Excuse after excuse 62 00:03:26,560 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 1: after excuse with this one. She knows you're not related, 63 00:03:30,680 --> 00:03:33,399 Speaker 1: but she's using that so she can keep things as 64 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,400 Speaker 1: they are, so you can be her little secret. Okay, 65 00:03:39,240 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 1: you know, she just wants you for sex. I hope 66 00:03:41,800 --> 00:03:44,720 Speaker 1: you know that. And because you're in love with her, 67 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:47,320 Speaker 1: you just keep giving her what you want, what she 68 00:03:47,400 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 1: wants whenever she wants it, which means she gets to 69 00:03:51,040 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: have you and her fiance. She gets her cake and 70 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: she can eat it too. Who is this woman? I mean, 71 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,560 Speaker 1: what is this old one on you? She has? You 72 00:04:01,640 --> 00:04:03,600 Speaker 1: got to move on from her, you do. I know 73 00:04:03,640 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: you've dated other women, but you can't stop comparing them 74 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:09,240 Speaker 1: to her. You got to stop that. That's the way 75 00:04:09,280 --> 00:04:11,360 Speaker 1: you move on. I mean you got to step back 76 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:14,200 Speaker 1: and take a look at what's really what's really going 77 00:04:14,240 --> 00:04:17,119 Speaker 1: on here. I just say, wake up, stay woke. After 78 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 1: you wake up from this dream you're in about her, 79 00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:25,240 Speaker 1: then maybe hopefully you'll stop being her little you know, secret, 80 00:04:25,360 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: her little guinea pig, her little plaything, and you can 81 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:29,240 Speaker 1: move on from there. 82 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 4: Steve one hundred percent completely disagree. Hell boy, come on now, 83 00:04:41,600 --> 00:04:45,680 Speaker 4: this opportunity pimp, don't uh uh. Let me walk you 84 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:50,120 Speaker 4: through this thing. I'm tired of sneaking around with her. 85 00:04:51,680 --> 00:04:54,559 Speaker 4: Twenty seven year old single man, you want to stop 86 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 4: sneaking around with the. 87 00:04:55,680 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 3: Love of your life? Boy? 88 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,080 Speaker 4: Come on, do you know how any women are dying 89 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,880 Speaker 4: to hear that. That's why I know we got a 90 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 4: chance here. I've been friends with my secret love for 91 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 4: over twenty years. I didn't know what the hell was 92 00:05:10,680 --> 00:05:14,320 Speaker 4: going on here. Seven were best friends, our family did 93 00:05:14,360 --> 00:05:16,679 Speaker 4: everything together for twenty years, but they had no idea 94 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 4: about our secret romance. Now this wasn't. Let her take 95 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:23,279 Speaker 4: a little bit of a delusional turn. She and I 96 00:05:23,320 --> 00:05:26,320 Speaker 4: have been best friends since we were seven. By the 97 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:30,480 Speaker 4: time we turned thirteen, she was blossoming into a woman. 98 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:35,719 Speaker 3: Dog dog dog. 99 00:05:35,800 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 1: No, she wasn't atty dollars. 100 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 3: Doggie. No, she wasn't Sulie. You was flat Chester. 101 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 1: Okay, keep with. 102 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 2: Thirteen. 103 00:05:48,640 --> 00:05:53,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, drink at Monica over there shaking her head. This 104 00:05:53,279 --> 00:05:58,080 Speaker 4: line healthy. She say that by the time and she 105 00:05:58,320 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 4: was time third to thirteen, and she was blossoming into 106 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:03,120 Speaker 4: the woman. And I like it, dog know she wouldn't. 107 00:06:03,520 --> 00:06:05,920 Speaker 4: She was curied about my body and I enjoyed Carress 108 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 4: and Herris and were on seventeenth birthday. 109 00:06:08,520 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 3: She was ready to have sex. She wanted me to 110 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: be her first. 111 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:12,840 Speaker 5: He will. 112 00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 4: That was the moment I had been waiting for my dude. 113 00:06:18,640 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 4: So we both had sex for the first time. I 114 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 4: fell in love with her by the time I was eighteen. 115 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:28,520 Speaker 4: We secretly had sex throughout college, and now we've grown, 116 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:30,479 Speaker 4: she still likes to sneak around with me. 117 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:33,560 Speaker 3: I've dated other girls, but no other woman come passed 118 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,600 Speaker 3: to her. I've asked her to. 119 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 4: Be my girlfriend many times, but she's afraid of what 120 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:40,760 Speaker 4: her parents would think. When we come back, wen't wait 121 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:41,440 Speaker 4: for to get down. 122 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:44,720 Speaker 1: We'll have part two of Steve's response to the Strawberry 123 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: Letter coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour, 124 00:06:47,520 --> 00:06:50,520 Speaker 1: subject I'm tired of sneaking around with her. We'll get 125 00:06:50,560 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. 126 00:06:52,560 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 2: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. 127 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,840 Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter. 128 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:00,760 Speaker 1: We totally disagree. One. 129 00:07:00,960 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 4: Yeah, a little dude been in completely friends with this 130 00:07:03,800 --> 00:07:07,839 Speaker 4: girl since they was seven. They twenty seven, now turned thirteen. 131 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 4: She started developing into a woman. I tried to tell 132 00:07:10,320 --> 00:07:12,600 Speaker 4: this boy in this letter she wasn't a woman at thirteen. 133 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 4: Y'all got to seventeen, y'all had sex for the first 134 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,640 Speaker 4: time for the both of y'all. You fell in love 135 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 4: with her about eighteen, y'all had sex all throughout college 136 00:07:22,920 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 4: secretly without your parents. 137 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 3: Though. 138 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 4: I don't know how cool these damn parents he is 139 00:07:28,720 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 4: why they wouldn't be. 140 00:07:29,560 --> 00:07:32,080 Speaker 3: All right with their babies linking up together. 141 00:07:32,640 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 4: I don't know what this damn relationship is y'all parents got, 142 00:07:37,080 --> 00:07:41,000 Speaker 4: but it's too big. In this letter, y'all had sex 143 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,240 Speaker 4: for the first time. This was the moment I've been 144 00:07:44,280 --> 00:07:44,960 Speaker 4: waiting for. 145 00:07:45,600 --> 00:07:46,840 Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it is. 146 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,680 Speaker 4: So. We both had sex for the first time. I 147 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 4: fell in love with her by the time I was eighteen. 148 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 4: We had sex throughout college, and now we've grown. She 149 00:07:56,560 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 4: still likes to sneak around with me. Of other girls, 150 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:04,440 Speaker 4: here we go, but no other woman compares to her, 151 00:08:05,640 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 4: nohing compass to you. Oh man, that was the jam boy. 152 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:17,320 Speaker 4: See they got songs about this. 153 00:08:20,440 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: M h. 154 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 3: I just need to get to the course. 155 00:08:29,320 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 4: Boom boom, got money, you've ben go. 156 00:08:41,679 --> 00:08:45,080 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but nother another. 157 00:08:49,480 --> 00:09:00,119 Speaker 5: Here we go, Sha, nothing compass to you? 158 00:09:00,400 --> 00:09:08,000 Speaker 4: Nothing who even whoay even whoabyn. 159 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:10,120 Speaker 1: It's been so lonely. 160 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 4: Thank you so much for that day. You know, I 161 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,680 Speaker 4: just wanted to drop that in there, because back in 162 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,560 Speaker 4: the day we wrote songs about situations, and this boy. 163 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 3: Says, nothing coming pass nothing coming passed. 164 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 2: To you. 165 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:35,800 Speaker 3: That boy met this man. I just wanted to drop 166 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 3: that in the middle of the letter. 167 00:09:37,880 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 4: Anyway, Man, I've asked her to be my girlfriend so 168 00:09:41,720 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 4: many times, but she's afraid of what her parents would think. 169 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 4: She's been dating a guy for two years, but we 170 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 4: still have sex often. 171 00:09:48,520 --> 00:09:50,800 Speaker 3: She told me she ain't having sex with him. I 172 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 3: believed her to. Recently, when she told me he's talking about. 173 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:58,360 Speaker 4: Marriage, he would go. My heart started beating fast. I panicked. 174 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 4: I poured all my feeling to her, and I said 175 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 4: I wanted to be with her. I want to marry her. 176 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 4: She said we could never be together because although we 177 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 4: are not blood relatives, our families are linked together so 178 00:10:09,800 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 4: closely it's like we related. I yelled at her, I 179 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 4: don't make love to my relatives. Why won't she give 180 00:10:17,800 --> 00:10:20,480 Speaker 4: us a chance. I don't want to lose her for good? 181 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 4: So what should I do? And we got to go 182 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:25,880 Speaker 4: to wall? Baby, We got to fight, young homie. You 183 00:10:26,000 --> 00:10:28,840 Speaker 4: twenty seven, listen to somebody that's been to wall before. 184 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,480 Speaker 4: You got to fight for this love of your life. 185 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 4: You can't let this punk ass dude win. 186 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:37,480 Speaker 3: Who is he? And I said it right, You can't 187 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 3: let this punk ass do win? Who is he? 188 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:41,960 Speaker 5: Nah? 189 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 3: Yes, she do, Shirley, she just got this thing with 190 00:10:45,080 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 3: this family. 191 00:10:45,720 --> 00:10:48,520 Speaker 4: She won't him. She just don't know how to explain it. 192 00:10:48,960 --> 00:10:51,520 Speaker 4: All this sneaking around and now she didn't have this 193 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,920 Speaker 4: boyfriend for two years, but she's still been sneaking around 194 00:10:55,000 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 4: with the secret lover. She can't explain it because she 195 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 4: in love with this boy. She don't just love what 196 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:04,280 Speaker 4: he do. Side but the side piece gotta turn up though, see, 197 00:11:04,320 --> 00:11:07,000 Speaker 4: because all through the relationships she still got to get 198 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 4: the side piece. It's because the side piece is really 199 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:12,439 Speaker 4: the main course. He ain't a side dish. He the 200 00:11:12,559 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 4: folk piece. Now, see, Charlie, he ain't the cold Slaw. 201 00:11:15,920 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 4: He the folk piece. This dude is the cold Slaw. 202 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 4: But the Coldslaugh bem gone public. So now she's trying 203 00:11:23,360 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 4: to turn cold Slaugh and mashed potatoes into a damn entree. 204 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:28,960 Speaker 4: And it ain't fit to work because I ain't gonna 205 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,920 Speaker 4: let it go down like that, got, Homie, because we 206 00:11:30,960 --> 00:11:32,400 Speaker 4: got to get up here and go to walk. 207 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 3: We had work. We fin to put it in work. 208 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:36,200 Speaker 3: You let me explain something to you. 209 00:11:36,280 --> 00:11:36,520 Speaker 4: Dog. 210 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 3: She ain't. 211 00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:47,440 Speaker 4: Gonna get away. This is your shot. Homie, and see, 212 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:51,840 Speaker 4: listen to me. We got to erase what the parents think. 213 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:57,400 Speaker 4: You still in the game. Compare yourself to him. This 214 00:11:57,440 --> 00:11:59,319 Speaker 4: is when it's time, this time to get the mud out. 215 00:11:59,360 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 4: Now it's mud slanging time. Who is he and what 216 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,120 Speaker 4: is he to you? 217 00:12:07,200 --> 00:12:08,839 Speaker 3: My friend? 218 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:10,040 Speaker 1: You want to hear that? 219 00:12:10,160 --> 00:12:15,960 Speaker 4: Now their pointed do tag. They keep trying to tell 220 00:12:16,120 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 4: me that I ought to not let you just walk 221 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:31,080 Speaker 4: on me. Tell yes, you don't know what I know? 222 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 4: Shirlt Hey, you don't understand, shirty, We come back. I'm 223 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:36,800 Speaker 4: gonna finish up with this letter. Come on, Bill, take 224 00:12:36,880 --> 00:12:38,800 Speaker 4: us out now we. 225 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 2: Ain't Yes, we do. You're listening Morning show? 226 00:12:46,320 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: All right, here we are part three of the Strawberry Letter. 227 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:57,920 Speaker 1: Disagree there a pointed do, Tam. I'm tired of sneaking 228 00:12:57,960 --> 00:12:58,920 Speaker 1: around with her. 229 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:02,520 Speaker 4: Well, see, Shirley, this is the love of his life 230 00:13:03,920 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 4: and it's time for her to understand what they really have. See, 231 00:13:07,440 --> 00:13:09,520 Speaker 4: she don't even know it's the love of her life 232 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:12,560 Speaker 4: because they're so busy trying to keep it a secret. 233 00:13:12,960 --> 00:13:15,199 Speaker 3: And then Mamma, then well when you're gonna get somebody 234 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 3: now she has showed. 235 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 4: Them this boyfriend for two years now, how you gonna 236 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 4: come back and tell her it's always been your friend. 237 00:13:21,320 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 4: That's the problem she got. She done got herself in 238 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:26,280 Speaker 4: the spider web. But since we're in the spider web, 239 00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:29,200 Speaker 4: that's gonna get all tangled up, because now you got 240 00:13:29,200 --> 00:13:32,520 Speaker 4: to start slinging mud. It's mud slinging time now, homie. 241 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:35,760 Speaker 4: You got to start comparing yourself to him? Who is 242 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:40,400 Speaker 4: he and what is he to you? 243 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,199 Speaker 2: What he could get enough all these women out here, 244 00:13:43,920 --> 00:13:44,600 Speaker 2: the one he. 245 00:13:44,600 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 3: Won't, No, no, the one he won't is the love 246 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 3: of his life. Shirley. 247 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:50,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, you don't always get, but you can fight for 248 00:13:50,960 --> 00:13:54,240 Speaker 4: it though. Compare yourself to her. He can't love you 249 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 4: like I do. He can't treat you the way I 250 00:13:59,000 --> 00:14:01,479 Speaker 4: can treat you. 251 00:14:00,120 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: Why he can't? 252 00:14:02,160 --> 00:14:09,000 Speaker 4: Won't you the way I want you a moment? Brain't 253 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:14,360 Speaker 4: No damn you don't bringin' no nineties world in the 254 00:14:14,480 --> 00:14:18,439 Speaker 4: meat ju bring in no damn jagget as, No damn 255 00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 4: jagget as. 256 00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,400 Speaker 1: He can't love you like I love you. 257 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 3: That ain't what that is. 258 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:29,720 Speaker 4: He can't protect you like I'll protect you. I have 259 00:14:29,920 --> 00:14:32,479 Speaker 4: loved you since. 260 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:34,160 Speaker 3: The moment I saw you. 261 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:37,200 Speaker 4: You have been the love of my life since the 262 00:14:37,280 --> 00:14:39,120 Speaker 4: moment we touched one another. 263 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:44,000 Speaker 3: I can't live without you. I don't breathe without you. 264 00:14:44,800 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 4: I want you more than I won't a I love 265 00:14:48,480 --> 00:14:52,080 Speaker 4: you more than I love myself. Dave, and a lot 266 00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:55,720 Speaker 4: of women can walk away from this sun. I'm telling you. 267 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,080 Speaker 4: But now what you're gonna have to do is you're 268 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:01,840 Speaker 4: gonna have to take your love for her public. Oh lord, 269 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:08,000 Speaker 4: public affirmation is about time to come. If she don't end, 270 00:15:08,520 --> 00:15:11,560 Speaker 4: then we go for the break. I'll go public with 271 00:15:11,680 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 4: my love for her. I'll go online and say I'm sorry, 272 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:19,440 Speaker 4: and I just tell her in front of the world. 273 00:15:20,560 --> 00:15:23,000 Speaker 3: It may end it, but this is your shot. 274 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:25,760 Speaker 4: But do not let the love of your life get 275 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:27,880 Speaker 4: away just because she's dating this punk ass boy. 276 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:34,040 Speaker 1: All Right, Steve, that ends, I hope Part three of 277 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:35,320 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry Letter. 278 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:39,120 Speaker 2: Okay, you're listening Morning show