Speaker 1: Second date up dated. You know the rule of threes, right,
Speaker 1: three strikes, You're out three times a lady. I've heard
Speaker 1: that three celebrity deaths in one week. Almost all good
Speaker 1: things come in threes. Almost. It's not the third day,
Speaker 1: and today we're trying to get a third date for
Speaker 1: one of our listeners, Hannah, who spells her name with
Speaker 1: three h's and three ends in it.
Speaker 2: I think that's.
Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Three dates. You've already been on two with this person.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I don't know if that.
Speaker 1: Yeah, screw the rules. We don't care about rules on
Speaker 1: this show. We made up the rules. So yeah, tell
Speaker 1: us about the guy that you went out with. What's
Speaker 1: his name?
Speaker 2: His name is Dennis, and we met on a dating app. Okay,
Speaker 2: And like, I'm in a stage in my life where
Speaker 2: I'm just trying to date a lot of people and
Speaker 2: just see what I like and what I don't like.
Speaker 3: And so you're not really looking for like a relationship,
Speaker 3: you're just looking to figure out Yeah, I.
Speaker 2: Mean, I just got out of a long term relationship
Speaker 2: and I just want to kind of see what else
Speaker 2: is out there. But like this guy, he's the first
Speaker 2: guy out of a few people I've dated that like
Speaker 2: I've actually wanted to go out with for a third time.
Speaker 3: I heard her use few people in air quotes. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I think it's more than that, but that's fine, there's
Speaker 3: no judge.
Speaker 2: Whatever, you know, Like I just he's the first person
Speaker 2: I'm interested in.
Speaker 1: What there's something special about Dennis?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: I just thought he was fun. He was funny. Like
Speaker 2: the first date, it was just at a bar. It
Speaker 2: was like a normal meetup and I just come from
Speaker 2: a work event and I'd already been drinking, so I
Speaker 2: just ordered coffee because I didn't want to get messy.
Speaker 1: It's good you get drunk at work too. We like, okay,
Speaker 1: And what about date number two?
Speaker 2: Well, like on the second date, we like, we went
Speaker 2: out for I'm In and like the idea was okay,
Speaker 2: I think you go, well, maybe we'll go back to
Speaker 2: his place.
Speaker 3: And was that discussed before Robin?
Speaker 2: God, it was like when we go watch the movie,
Speaker 2: you know, like okay, yeah, and we went We did
Speaker 2: go to his place and we ended up watching a movie.
Speaker 2: I don't know if you guys know.
Speaker 1: The movie The Rescue sounds sad, keep going.
Speaker 2: It was the kids in like they were trapping caves
Speaker 2: in Thailand.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that was heartbreaking. Do you remember that
Speaker 3: when it was all over the news? I remember watch
Speaker 3: you don't watch, and I could tell.
Speaker 2: I mean it was like a weird second date movie.
Speaker 3: It was a weird Yeah. I bet that put you
Speaker 3: in a weird mood. I mean it's a real story too.
Speaker 1: So when you make out during this movie.
Speaker 2: Exactly, you don't.
Speaker 3: They don't have food or drinkable water.
Speaker 1: I think we found the spot.
Speaker 3: So you're saying there was no makeout session, is what
Speaker 3: I'm hearing.
Speaker 2: Him exactly what I mean? Kissed at the end before.
Speaker 1: I sorry, I missed that. You said there was a
Speaker 1: you kissed at the end. There's a kiss at the
Speaker 1: end of the movie.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen it. So you and Dennis shared a
Speaker 1: kiss at the end, yes, OKAYO. Was it sweet?
Speaker 3: I mean how it feel?
Speaker 2: I thought it was nice? Again, it was. We were
Speaker 2: in a weird place because of this.
Speaker 1: It's not what you want to hear after you had
Speaker 1: a kiss. We were in a weird place.
Speaker 3: I went to the movies once. Do you remember that
Speaker 3: Jennifer Anson movie called The Breakup with Vince Vaughan. Oh yeah,
Speaker 3: it totally ended, like a four date string I had
Speaker 3: with this guy.
Speaker 4: Yeah, it was like like about the breakup, and then
Speaker 4: you're watching You're like, we don't really call the break
Speaker 4: I know, but we don't really fit either, Like watching
Speaker 4: like this makes sense, so booky choice is very important.
Speaker 5: Okay, Okay, I'm only watching movies where people hook up.
Speaker 1: Then, yes, yeah, that it's actually not about it.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: The good news is Hannah ended that date with a kiss.
Speaker 1: At least. What's happened since then?
Speaker 2: Well, I didn't know because he seemed interested and he
Speaker 2: had like two good dates I thought, and it ended okay,
Speaker 2: But like I haven't heard from him at all, No,
Speaker 2: not really, Like he's been really unresponsive and I waited
Speaker 2: a bit and then I messaged him and I just
Speaker 2: haven't heard it back anything. And it just feels so
Speaker 2: weird because I thought we had a good time, right.
Speaker 5: Nobody asked the most important question in this whole room.
Speaker 5: How was the I know you're a.
Speaker 1: No, that's not an important question to Jose he just.
Speaker 3: Needs a new recommendation.
Speaker 1: I thought you're gonna ask. She was an ugly crier
Speaker 1: during the movie.
Speaker 2: Are prior I could keep it under control if I
Speaker 2: have to, but I could be an ugly crier.
Speaker 1: Well at least it didn't happen in the bedroom with
Speaker 1: all the tears, So I mean that's that's more of
Speaker 1: a looking too my love life. But got it. We're
Speaker 1: focused on you, Hannah. We're going to try and do
Speaker 1: the rescue on your dating life right now. Hopefully no
Speaker 1: more tears when we come back, called Dennis and try
Speaker 1: and get your second date update right after this. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: you stay strong, okay, Hannah, Okay, okay, we'll be back
Speaker 1: right after the second date update real quick. Top five
Speaker 1: sexiest documentaries about human tragedies To set the move on
Speaker 1: the first date. You're going with the eruption of POMPEII.
Speaker 1: That's pretty hot. Hot like Magma or the Great Ohio
Speaker 1: River Flood of nineteen thirty seven.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, they made a whole documentary about that one.
Speaker 1: Sir Steamy or there's always my fav the Goonies.
Speaker 2: That's not a docum?
Speaker 1: Is it a tragedy? They never made a sequel? Yes
Speaker 1: it is. It is a great movie.
Speaker 3: I don't know if it's a doc but.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I only bring it up because one of our listeners.
Speaker 1: Hannah watched The Rescue, which is a documentary about the
Speaker 1: dramatic twenty eighteen rescue of twelve kids in Thailand who
Speaker 1: got trapped in like an underwater cave. Yes.
Speaker 3: Crazy.
Speaker 1: That was their date night movie, I mean, and somehow
Speaker 1: she was able to finish off the evening with a kiss.
Speaker 3: Yes, which was positive until he didn't call her back ever.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So that's why we're going to help her out
Speaker 1: today and do our own rescue of her love life.
Speaker 1: Are you ready to do this, Hannah?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 2: I am ready.
Speaker 3: You know, I forgot to ask who made the choice
Speaker 3: to watch that documentary.
Speaker 2: I mean I think he came up over dinner and
Speaker 2: I was like, no, I haven't seen it, and he
Speaker 2: was like, oh, I've been meaning to watch it, and
Speaker 2: we just kind of fell into it.
Speaker 5: Just like added it to his list, you know, and
Speaker 5: on top of the screen, and it's like, let's just start.
Speaker 3: He needs a lesson in what he should pick for dates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the movie choice is a little bit of a
Speaker 1: question mark. Is there anything else in your mind, Hannah
Speaker 1: that could be a theory for why he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back?
Speaker 2: The only other thing I can think of is so
Speaker 2: the ramen didn't sit right with me, and nothing weird
Speaker 2: happened except my stomach kept making like really weird.
Speaker 5: Oh this is why I asked about the ram And
Speaker 5: sometimes the bron can be like if it's like a
Speaker 5: pork and chicken broth, it's very rich.
Speaker 1: Jose is going to google the restaurant and the menu
Speaker 1: to check the But while that's happening, let's call up
Speaker 1: Dennis here and see what he has to say. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: Dalla's number right now, let's do it.
Speaker 6: Hello.
Speaker 1: Hey, is this Dennis?
Speaker 6: Yes, this Dennis.
Speaker 1: What's up? Dennis? How you doing? You're on Brook and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning right now?
Speaker 6: Sorry, I'm on What a.
Speaker 1: Typical response for us there? Yep, you're we're on a
Speaker 1: radio show. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 1: I'm Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: Yep, we're all here.
Speaker 1: That's Brook.
Speaker 3: Hi Dennis, that was me.
Speaker 1: Oh oh we have cues. Yeah, girls, if you couldn't
Speaker 1: tell Dennis so welcome?
Speaker 6: How Hi, thank you?
Speaker 1: Welcome show.
Speaker 3: Have you ever listened before? Dennis?
Speaker 6: No? I don't think so.
Speaker 3: All right, well, added.
Speaker 1: On, this is your lucky day because you're on a
Speaker 1: segment we call second date update, and we're trying to
Speaker 1: help out one of our listeners that you went out
Speaker 1: with recently, actually twice. Oh apparently had a really good
Speaker 1: time with her. There was some movie watching, some kissing,
Speaker 1: but now there hasn't been a date number three. Do
Speaker 1: you know what I'm talking about, Hannah?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, Big Bread's big sig. What's going on?
Speaker 6: Wait? Does Hannah know that you're calling me?
Speaker 1: Well, this would be really awkward. She's like, no, matter
Speaker 1: what you do, don't tell him what I'm saying. We
Speaker 1: just prying other people's dating lives on our own course, Hannah.
Speaker 1: Hannah's asked us to reach out to you because she's
Speaker 1: hoping to get some answers for why there hasn't been
Speaker 1: another meet up between you two.
Speaker 6: You know, I don't know. I just feel like something
Speaker 6: is up with Hannah. I just I'm just trying to
Speaker 6: listen to my instincts and something tells me I don't
Speaker 6: trust her.
Speaker 3: Something weird, Like it's like a spidery sense thing with Hannah.
Speaker 1: Sure is it because she went in for the kiss
Speaker 1: at the end of a documentary about a human tragedy
Speaker 1: that kind of a red flag.
Speaker 6: But yeah, no, no, it wasn't that. I mean both
Speaker 6: the dates been have been good, and we've texted a
Speaker 6: lot after and when we text, her messages go green
Speaker 6: bubble like an Android or whatever.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean.
Speaker 6: I.
Speaker 3: Know, but that's dumb, that's not why not it's not that.
Speaker 6: So in person, she puts your phone down, I see
Speaker 6: it and it's an iPhone? Yeah, like what what? No,
Speaker 6: that's not what an iPhone does.
Speaker 1: Though.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I have a friend right now who I know
Speaker 3: has an iPhone. She's one of my best friends. And
Speaker 3: her text bubbles keep showing up green too, But she
Speaker 3: does I know she has a phone. I don't think
Speaker 3: she maybe what do you think, Dennis?
Speaker 1: Like you, you don't trust her? Trying to make the
Speaker 1: segment more boring. Let's break down text messaging on how things,
Speaker 1: how technology.
Speaker 3: Works, going to get Apple tech online.
Speaker 1: I could just read their message. Yeah, let's call it
Speaker 1: help support. What's the problem.
Speaker 6: Well, there's just the red flag going up for me. Either,
Speaker 6: she's sorry for this word. She's cheating. I know we've
Speaker 6: been on two dates, but you know she's cheating. He
Speaker 6: has a secretphone something. I don't know what it is,
Speaker 6: it's just something. Just doesn't trust me about that about
Speaker 6: this whole thing.
Speaker 3: Do you think she has a secret phone and that
Speaker 3: she but why wouldn't you bring the secret phone with
Speaker 3: her on the date instead of the real iPhone that's
Speaker 3: connected to her significant other on a date.
Speaker 6: I don't know. I don't know. I don't have a
Speaker 6: secret phone, so I don't know what you think.
Speaker 1: She's acting a little bit shady with this phone business,
Speaker 1: and I don't know what is shady about her other
Speaker 1: than the fact that she's been listening quietly on the
Speaker 1: other line. But she does want to talk to you, Hannah,
Speaker 1: Are you there? Hi?
Speaker 6: Yes? Hi?
Speaker 2: Hi Dennis, Hi, Hi Hannah, or I just I just
Speaker 2: have to say I wish you would ask me about
Speaker 2: it or just said something sooner, because I guess maybe
Speaker 2: it's a little sneaky, but it's I'm not cheating like
Speaker 2: something a lot well, okay, so it's something a lot
Speaker 2: of girls do. So if you're on dating apps but
Speaker 2: you don't want like a weirdo or to have your
Speaker 2: actual phone number, you can create a Google phone number
Speaker 2: just for your dating life, like on the app.
Speaker 5: Oh my god, my cousin used to have a Google phone.
Speaker 1: Number, So yeah, you have a separate number for just
Speaker 1: early on in dating that you give to guys before
Speaker 1: you like become official with them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, just feel like crazy people don't have my number,
Speaker 2: like if it goes badly, you know, Actually.
Speaker 1: Does this mean one of my best friends she doesn't
Speaker 1: trust me, Dennis, She just thought you might be crazier. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a different number.
Speaker 6: I mean that was not where I was expecting that
Speaker 6: to go.
Speaker 3: Belie. Do you believe her?
Speaker 6: I mean sure, I guess that makes sense.
Speaker 2: I mean, you know I could text you my actual number.
Speaker 1: Oh are you ready for that?
Speaker 3: In the relationship?
Speaker 6: You thought I was a weirdo when we first met
Speaker 6: and you didn't trust me.
Speaker 3: Like what Online every guy on a dating app is
Speaker 3: a weirdo and you shouldn't trust him.
Speaker 2: I mean one time I went out with a guy,
Speaker 2: like he showed up for a first date with a
Speaker 2: knife on a belt, Like, you don't know who you're
Speaker 2: going to meet.
Speaker 3: That guy was from my hometown.
Speaker 1: Yeah, just wanted to make sure that he protected you.
Speaker 3: He's probably hunting earlier in the morning, Okay.
Speaker 6: I mean I I just kind of wonder, like what
Speaker 6: other secrets are you hiding? What what else is goinging on?
Speaker 6: What you know? Are you older than what you said
Speaker 6: on the app. Seems that's not an honest thing.
Speaker 2: I don't know, Like, no, no, no, no, okay. So
Speaker 2: I've been honest about everything except one other thing.
Speaker 1: That's okay.
Speaker 2: It's not really a secret. It's just so I my
Speaker 2: family is not really from Wisconsin, and I know that
Speaker 2: I told you that.
Speaker 1: That's a weird Troy.
Speaker 6: Would I care about that? Why would you lie about that?
Speaker 2: Why is it that people be weird when I say
Speaker 2: that's where I'm from.
Speaker 1: What's weird about that? What?
Speaker 4: What?
Speaker 1: Why do people think that's weird? That's probably why that
Speaker 1: one guy brought a knife on the date.
Speaker 3: Yes, I mean I get it, Like you got to
Speaker 3: protect yourself out there, especially as a woman on a
Speaker 3: dating app, Dennis, Like she's not doing anything that is
Speaker 3: harmful to you, Like you can't take that stuff personally.
Speaker 3: She's just looking out for her best interest herself.
Speaker 1: At this point, Like she is coming clean, she's being
Speaker 1: honest with you, divulging her secrets in her family history. Yeah.
Speaker 1: With that being said, would you like to take an
Speaker 1: enormous risk and go out with Miss Detroit and will
Speaker 1: pay for enormous risks in the caves? Ye? We'll even
Speaker 1: throw in a weird documentary with tons of human casualties
Speaker 1: in it just to help bring the romance. Just when
Speaker 1: they don't get safe. We will pay for it, though, Dennis,
Speaker 1: what do you think I mean?
Speaker 6: I guess you could say that I that I am
Speaker 6: guilty sometimes of just being in my in my man world,
Speaker 6: and I perhaps don't always think about the female perspective
Speaker 6: of things and how that works. And God is so
Speaker 6: depressing that that has to be a thing that.
Speaker 1: You have to do, that depressing stuff.
Speaker 6: So I mean, in that case, you know, wow, that's smart,
Speaker 6: that's super smart, and I appreciate that, and I'm glad
Speaker 6: I'm not a she doesn't think I'm a weirdo and
Speaker 6: all that.
Speaker 1: All right, that's a lot of words. Is that a
Speaker 1: yes or no?
Speaker 6: Yes? Yes?
Speaker 1: Yes, congratulations, Handy, you got yourself a third date. Now.
Speaker 2: Yes, I'll throw.
Speaker 5: That burner phone away and get a third one.
Speaker 6: It's broken. Jeffrey in the morning,