WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Sorry The Date Sucked

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels Second Dat Up Date. Today's second Date Update

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<v Speaker 1>is brought to you by the Bare Minimum. If more

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<v Speaker 1>dudes would learn to do just the bare minimum, their

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<v Speaker 1>dates would go a lot better, you think, so, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I do, and proof of that is Stephen, who's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now. He learned that lesson the hard way.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up, Stephen? How are you guys? Good? You're kicking

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<v Speaker 1>yourself for not doing the bare minimum, aren't you? Uh well, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>hindsight twenty twenty, but I guess so. Yeah, women actually

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<v Speaker 1>like it when guys put in a little leffert. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what I thought too, until I went out with Aaron. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's her name, Aaron. Yeah, I met Aaron online

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<v Speaker 1>and learned that lesson quick. Okay, what did you do

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<v Speaker 1>for her? Though? Backfired so badly. Well, I know I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not the greatest dater, like that's just I'm not very

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<v Speaker 1>good at it. Okay, but you know, I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>be a little extra creative. So I picked up Aaron

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<v Speaker 1>at her house, and you know, she's beautiful. I thought

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<v Speaker 1>she was great, and I told her that I had

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<v Speaker 1>a surprise for her. Okay, Oh, I don't know, I

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<v Speaker 1>see that's the thing. You want something special, But when

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<v Speaker 1>you say surprise and internet date together, it usually is

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<v Speaker 1>going to send up some red flags for women. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of thought that maybe, But you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it'd be fun just something different, set of just

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<v Speaker 1>the same old date, just nothing really fun. So I

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<v Speaker 1>went to the store right before the date on the

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<v Speaker 1>way there, and I thought it'd be funny if I

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<v Speaker 1>just picked up like four random things and then said like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just try to incorporate these four things, these random

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<v Speaker 1>things into our date somehow. Like like he had like

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<v Speaker 1>a I don't know, a deck of cards and ken

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<v Speaker 1>cup and you're just like, let's see how we can

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<v Speaker 1>get it all work into a date. Yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>kind of. But I did get a few other different things.

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<v Speaker 1>So what were the things you got, because I'm on

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<v Speaker 1>your side right now. Well, I got a pair of sandals,

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<v Speaker 1>and then I picked up like a big red mug

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<v Speaker 1>Bax Bleach, And then I had a toy car that

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<v Speaker 1>was like the four thing. I guess, how are you

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<v Speaker 1>going to work those into a date? That was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be the fun part, all right. Bleach would have

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<v Speaker 1>scared me right away exactly. I thought he was going

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<v Speaker 1>to follow it up with, like duct tape and a

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<v Speaker 1>shovel are the other two things I thought. Thinking about

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<v Speaker 1>it now, I guess the bleach is kind of weird. Huh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>really weird. Yeah, I thought it was fun. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>if these things are so different from each other, how

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<v Speaker 1>are they all going to be able to incorporate. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it'd be a fun idea. And what was her

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<v Speaker 1>reaction to all these things? Well, as soon as she

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<v Speaker 1>saw that, she said no right away. She's like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to do that, and she's very clear

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<v Speaker 1>that doesn't sound like something I want to do. So

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, what do you want to do?

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of froze up. I had nothing in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind that would work as a backup plan. So let

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<v Speaker 1>me get this straight. You could make a date work

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<v Speaker 1>with bleach, a red mug, sandals, and I can't remember

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<v Speaker 1>what the other thing was, and you can't make a

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<v Speaker 1>date work with just like, hey, let's go somewhere. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I don't know, Yeah, I guess not. I

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<v Speaker 1>just panicked. I had this kind of idea in my

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<v Speaker 1>mind that this was going to be this adventured date,

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<v Speaker 1>but it wasn't. And It wasn't going to be that way, guys,

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<v Speaker 1>actually do She just said, like, let's just go to

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<v Speaker 1>a bar and drink, we'll talk, And that's what I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>the bare minimum. Yeah, Stephen, Yeah, Well I wish I

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<v Speaker 1>would have want that route anyways, but I didn't. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you able to recover from the bottle of bleach? The

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<v Speaker 1>thing was, it was tough. You know. We got to

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<v Speaker 1>the bar and talks and I just kind of never

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<v Speaker 1>really recovered from it. You know, we just never got

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<v Speaker 1>in a groove at all. Really. I was just in

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<v Speaker 1>my head the whole time and I couldn't get out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. And I kind of was going back to

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<v Speaker 1>just how I fumbled the ball, you know, right away,

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<v Speaker 1>and I just couldn't get in the groove. It was

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<v Speaker 1>all on me. I just couldn't recover. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you're being too hard on yourself. I mean, you put

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<v Speaker 1>in some valiant effort. It sounded like, I mean, if

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<v Speaker 1>she were willing, it could have been a fun experience. Yeah, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really don't think she had any fun

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<v Speaker 1>with me. All right, Well that could have happened. So

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to get her on the phone to see

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<v Speaker 1>if you can get a do over. Yeah, I did

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<v Speaker 1>try for second date, So I did send her flowers

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<v Speaker 1>the next day. That's nice, and I just said thanks

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<v Speaker 1>for coming with me, and I'd love to take you

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<v Speaker 1>out again. And I did promise her that the second

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<v Speaker 1>date would be a lot easier and much better. And

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<v Speaker 1>did you hear anything back from the flowers. I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>hear anything for two days, and then she did text,

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<v Speaker 1>and she told me that she was really thankful for

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<v Speaker 1>the flowers, but it took her two days to write you. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like a day I think the flowers get delivered,

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<v Speaker 1>and then the next like two days after that or

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<v Speaker 1>a day after that. And then I replied back to

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<v Speaker 1>her asking you if she wanted to go on that

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<v Speaker 1>second date. And then I haven't heard anything from her since.

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<v Speaker 1>So are you sure you just don't want to chalk

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<v Speaker 1>this up to a bad experience and find another girl online?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I thought about that, but I really think

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<v Speaker 1>about her quite a bit, and I think she's great,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think that honestly. That first date and it

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<v Speaker 1>was so awkward and bad right off the door, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>hoping that maybe the second date would just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>smooth things over and I'll be a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>confident in making better choices. I guess making a lot easier.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, call

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<v Speaker 1>her and see if we can get you a second

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<v Speaker 1>date where you can try to do better. All right, great,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all I want to thank Brooking Jubil in the

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<v Speaker 1>morning up dates. You know what they always say, when

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<v Speaker 1>life gets you down, you lay there and make excuses

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<v Speaker 1>until somebody feels bad for you and tries to help

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<v Speaker 1>you out. Yeah, I've heard that that's the old saying

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<v Speaker 1>catchy too. And Stephen is on the phone right now

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<v Speaker 1>and he got knocked down by love. In the second

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<v Speaker 1>date update, today, he went out with a girl named Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>He actually had some fun plans to do, like a

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<v Speaker 1>weird date kind of thing. I don't really want to

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<v Speaker 1>go into the whole recap of it, but he made

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<v Speaker 1>plans for what he thought was a fun date. Then

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<v Speaker 1>he thought that she had a horrible time. So even

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<v Speaker 1>after the date, he sent her some flowers and all

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<v Speaker 1>he got was a text back saying thanks for the flowers,

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<v Speaker 1>and then no response. So he hasn't heard anything from

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<v Speaker 1>her sense or about to get her on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and see if Steven can get some redemption. Stephen, you're ready,

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<v Speaker 1>I am, Yeah, okay, And I don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>come out of this, Stephen feeling bad about yourself, because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if this doesn't work out, you are a thoughtful,

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<v Speaker 1>carrying seems like very gentle human beings and you should

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<v Speaker 1>stick with that. Oh thanks for that. Yeah, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm not the best data and I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of screw up things a lot. So all right, I

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<v Speaker 1>tried to give you some confidence. I'm gonna dial her

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<v Speaker 1>phone of her right now? Okay, you're ready, yep, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>here we go. Hello, how can I speak to Aaron? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Aaron, who says, Hey, Aaron, this is Jewil

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<v Speaker 1>from brook and Jewil in the Morning. What Jewbil from

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<v Speaker 1>Brook and Jewil in the Morning radio show. Sorry, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not familiar. No you're not. I don't think so good.

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<v Speaker 1>We're off to a great start. So we do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show that's called the second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 1>And we recently got an email from one of our

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<v Speaker 1>listeners about you. Oh, okay, who his name is? Stephen? Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he emails your guys. Yep, he emailed us. Told us

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit about your date and said that he

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<v Speaker 1>really liked you, but now you're not getting back to him,

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<v Speaker 1>so he thought maybe we could find out what went wrong. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean Steven, he's a nice guy, Like I thought

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<v Speaker 1>he was cool. You sound so positive about Stephen. He's

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<v Speaker 1>really sweet, probably the nicest guy I've ever been out

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<v Speaker 1>with on a date. The only thing is he's a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit down on himself. Down on himself. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I think he's a little bit too down on himself. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we talked to him, and he doesn't sound like the

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<v Speaker 1>most confident guy in the world, or even near the

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<v Speaker 1>most confident guy in the world. And he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about your date. He said that he had planned some

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fun date for you guys, and you turned

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<v Speaker 1>him down instantly and were like, no, I want to

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<v Speaker 1>go to a bar. Oh yeah, I mean I felt

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<v Speaker 1>bad about that. Normally i'd be down for that kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thing immediately, but I didn't explain. I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of hung over from the day before, so I needed

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<v Speaker 1>to just get back to normal, So that's why I thought,

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<v Speaker 1>let's go to a bar. Wait, so you weren't freaked

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<v Speaker 1>out by the bottle of bleachy head or you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think he was an idiot for even thinking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I didn't think about the bleach much because

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<v Speaker 1>I was, like I said, hungover. But I just thought it,

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<v Speaker 1>let's keep it simple because I don't feel well, Let's

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<v Speaker 1>just get to know each other. Okay, that sounds so nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah it does. He said. That's the part that really

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<v Speaker 1>threw him off because he didn't know what to do

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<v Speaker 1>with that. He said he felt kind of awkward and

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<v Speaker 1>felt bad that he had tried to plan something that

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't like. Oh. Yeah, he made that very clear.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean he apologized the entire night, and I kept

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<v Speaker 1>telling him, no, it's fine, and I even told him

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<v Speaker 1>that I kind of felt bad for turning it down

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<v Speaker 1>so abruptly, but he just couldn't let it go the

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<v Speaker 1>whole date. Whoa okay, And did that just kind of

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<v Speaker 1>get annoying to you? Well? I felt like I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of had to pick him up, like, no, it's okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's let's just move on. Yeah, and like one of

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<v Speaker 1>the most attractive things about a person can be confidence. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just I couldn't even get to know him

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<v Speaker 1>because he was getting himself up. I'm a terrible person.

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<v Speaker 1>I actually visually picture him punching himself in the face

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<v Speaker 1>when you say that, I mean, yeah, I think he

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<v Speaker 1>kind of was inside and it made me go kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bad because I felt like I was doing that

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<v Speaker 1>to him. Now, you guys are just both on the

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<v Speaker 1>state feeling horrible for him. I guess you're both feeling

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<v Speaker 1>bad for him. Yeah. I mean, no matter what I

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<v Speaker 1>said or did, I just couldn't really get him out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. I mean, he's got like zero confidence. Like

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<v Speaker 1>he went to the bathroom and he was gone so long,

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<v Speaker 1>like I clocked it at twenty minutes before I checked

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<v Speaker 1>on him. That's not confidence. That's like a I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>lactose intolerance or something. Oh no, none. I went to

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<v Speaker 1>check on him because I was concerned, just wondering what

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<v Speaker 1>was up. And he was outside the bathroom saying that

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<v Speaker 1>there were people in there and that he couldn't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>go when there was other guys around, so he was

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<v Speaker 1>waiting for it to be empty. He told you that

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<v Speaker 1>he can't he can't use a yurtl when other people

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<v Speaker 1>are around. Yeah, I mean, I guess not. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>he was just standing outside the door that whole time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, did you like offer like, I'll watch

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<v Speaker 1>the girls room so you could at least use a

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<v Speaker 1>private stall. No. Luckily, some guy came out and he

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<v Speaker 1>sprinted inside, and I did watch the door for him.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like, can you watch the door for me? And

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, sure, can you watch my door? I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta pay real bad. I could see how that might

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<v Speaker 1>be a little bit of a turnout, A little bit

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<v Speaker 1>that is a big turn off. Yeah, I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't really even know how to feel. I just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of stood outside the bathroom and watched for him, and

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<v Speaker 1>then we finished our date, and yeah, I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>know how to feel about him. All right, Well he

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<v Speaker 1>knows how to feel about you because he liked you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. I mean that's really sweet. I mean I

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<v Speaker 1>liked the idea of him as you know. Well, I

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<v Speaker 1>need to let you know a Stephen is actually on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line listening to this conversation and wants to

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you. What. Yeah, Stephen, are you there? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here, Hi erin, Sorry, sorry about this. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>need to apologize, Stephen. Yeah, you don't need to apologize, Stephen.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to worry about it. No, I should,

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<v Speaker 1>I do I really should apologize to you. I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have called the radio station made I don't know you

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<v Speaker 1>were wondering what was going on. I get it. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to apologize. I'm sorry about it. Stop apologizing, Stephen.

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<v Speaker 1>I felt bad that I turned on your idea, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>for incorporating objects into our date or whatever, like I

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<v Speaker 1>would normally be down for that. Like, I just want

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<v Speaker 1>to be clear. I felt bad, So you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to feel that. No, I'm sorry about it. I shouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>have probably done that. No, you don't have to apologize.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have to, Okay, Well, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just feel bad that I'm making you feel bad about

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<v Speaker 1>like me feeling bad. So it's like, I'm sorry. The

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<v Speaker 1>lack of confidence is kind of endearing to me. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I mean, you just have to stop apologizing.

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<v Speaker 1>You're okay. We'll move on from here, Stephen. Aaron is

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<v Speaker 1>telling you not to worry about it. Do you hear

0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:23.800
<v Speaker 1>her saying that? Yeah? I heard her. No, and I

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate that. But you know, I know the truth, and

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<v Speaker 1>it's probably more on some of the things that I've done.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't know the truth. That's the thing, like, everything

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<v Speaker 1>about you sounds really great and attractive and something that

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron would want, except for this, this piece of you.

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<v Speaker 1>It seems to overshadow everything else. Like when you were

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<v Speaker 1>talking about skiing and you made a joke about the

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<v Speaker 1>Bunny Hills and I cracked up. Do you remember that?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you're really funny and charming. Oh, thanks, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it was I'm not very good at skiing,

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<v Speaker 1>so funny to like some how I have a feeling,

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<v Speaker 1>Steven that you wouldn't think you were very good at

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<v Speaker 1>skiing anything, but you thought that was funny. Yeah, of

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<v Speaker 1>course I thought it maybe or just being nice. No, honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you're really funny. You just need to work

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<v Speaker 1>on your confidence a little bit and you'd be sexy even. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's very nice of you. Just say. There you go, Stephen,

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<v Speaker 1>look at that. Aaron thinks you could be sexy. Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go out with Stephen on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date? We will pay for it. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to get his spirits up. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I'm ready to take that step yet.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on, Yeah, I kind of figured that was probably

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<v Speaker 1>what you were thinking. So I don't blame I wasn't Stephen.

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't just trying to be nice. I just don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you can stop beating yourself up. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know if you can stop, if you can stop this

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<v Speaker 1>and just be with me. I mean, I love to

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<v Speaker 1>date a second date, Aaron. I really would, And if

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<v Speaker 1>you would, I'll work on my confidence, I guess, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can't guarantee anything, Stephen. Try it again, Try that again,

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<v Speaker 1>and then say that you guarantee it. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see if if you can do it? All right? Do

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<v Speaker 1>it all right? Cool? Okay? I really would love to

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<v Speaker 1>take you on a second date, Aaron. And you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna work on my confidence, so you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I guarantee it. WHOA, There you go, Aaron. That's a

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<v Speaker 1>Stephen guarantee. That's as good as gold. And you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>we're probably gonna have the time of our lives, probably

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<v Speaker 1>right now, Aaron, just give him one more shot. You

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<v Speaker 1>coundnot say no to that? All right? Yeah, I'll give

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<v Speaker 1>you a shot, but they'll put too much pressure on it,

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<v Speaker 1>okay to Yeah, I'm gonna play totally cool? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you're a master that Steven, so good

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<v Speaker 1>luck and all right, looking forward to it. I can wait.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so excited, broken jubil in the morning,