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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels Second Dat Up Date. Today's second Date Update

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Speaker 1: is brought to you by the Bare Minimum. If more

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Speaker 1: dudes would learn to do just the bare minimum, their

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Speaker 1: dates would go a lot better, you think, so, yes,

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Speaker 1: I do, and proof of that is Stephen, who's on

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Speaker 1: the phone right now. He learned that lesson the hard way.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Stephen? How are you guys? Good? You're kicking

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Speaker 1: yourself for not doing the bare minimum, aren't you? Uh well, yeah,

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Speaker 1: hindsight twenty twenty, but I guess so. Yeah, women actually

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Speaker 1: like it when guys put in a little leffert. That's

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Speaker 1: what I thought too, until I went out with Aaron. Okay,

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Speaker 1: so that's her name, Aaron. Yeah, I met Aaron online

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Speaker 1: and learned that lesson quick. Okay, what did you do

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Speaker 1: for her? Though? Backfired so badly. Well, I know I'm

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Speaker 1: not the greatest dater, like that's just I'm not very

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Speaker 1: good at it. Okay, but you know, I wanted to

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Speaker 1: be a little extra creative. So I picked up Aaron

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Speaker 1: at her house, and you know, she's beautiful. I thought

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Speaker 1: she was great, and I told her that I had

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Speaker 1: a surprise for her. Okay, Oh, I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: see that's the thing. You want something special, But when

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Speaker 1: you say surprise and internet date together, it usually is

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Speaker 1: going to send up some red flags for women. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I kind of thought that maybe, But you know, I

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Speaker 1: thought it'd be fun just something different, set of just

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Speaker 1: the same old date, just nothing really fun. So I

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Speaker 1: went to the store right before the date on the

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Speaker 1: way there, and I thought it'd be funny if I

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Speaker 1: just picked up like four random things and then said like,

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Speaker 1: let's just try to incorporate these four things, these random

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Speaker 1: things into our date somehow. Like like he had like

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Speaker 1: a I don't know, a deck of cards and ken

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Speaker 1: cup and you're just like, let's see how we can

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Speaker 1: get it all work into a date. Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: kind of. But I did get a few other different things.

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Speaker 1: So what were the things you got, because I'm on

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Speaker 1: your side right now. Well, I got a pair of sandals,

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Speaker 1: and then I picked up like a big red mug

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Speaker 1: Bax Bleach, And then I had a toy car that

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Speaker 1: was like the four thing. I guess, how are you

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Speaker 1: going to work those into a date? That was going

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Speaker 1: to be the fun part, all right. Bleach would have

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Speaker 1: scared me right away exactly. I thought he was going

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Speaker 1: to follow it up with, like duct tape and a

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Speaker 1: shovel are the other two things I thought. Thinking about

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Speaker 1: it now, I guess the bleach is kind of weird. Huh, yeah,

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Speaker 1: really weird. Yeah, I thought it was fun. I was like, well,

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Speaker 1: if these things are so different from each other, how

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Speaker 1: are they all going to be able to incorporate. I

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Speaker 1: thought it'd be a fun idea. And what was her

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Speaker 1: reaction to all these things? Well, as soon as she

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Speaker 1: saw that, she said no right away. She's like, no,

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Speaker 1: I don't want to do that, and she's very clear

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Speaker 1: that doesn't sound like something I want to do. So

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, what do you want to do?

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Speaker 1: I kind of froze up. I had nothing in my

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Speaker 1: mind that would work as a backup plan. So let

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Speaker 1: me get this straight. You could make a date work

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Speaker 1: with bleach, a red mug, sandals, and I can't remember

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Speaker 1: what the other thing was, and you can't make a

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Speaker 1: date work with just like, hey, let's go somewhere. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I don't know, Yeah, I guess not. I

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Speaker 1: mind that this was going to be this adventured date,

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Speaker 1: but it wasn't. And It wasn't going to be that way, guys,

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Speaker 1: actually do She just said, like, let's just go to

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Speaker 1: a bar and drink, we'll talk, And that's what I mean,

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Speaker 1: the bare minimum. Yeah, Stephen, Yeah, Well I wish I

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Speaker 1: would have want that route anyways, but I didn't. Were

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Speaker 1: you able to recover from the bottle of bleach? The

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Speaker 1: thing was, it was tough. You know. We got to

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Speaker 1: really recovered from it. You know, we just never got

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Speaker 1: in a groove at all. Really. I was just in

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Speaker 1: just how I fumbled the ball, you know, right away,

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Speaker 1: in some valiant effort. It sounded like, I mean, if

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Speaker 1: I just I really don't think she had any fun

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Speaker 1: with me. All right, Well that could have happened. So

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Speaker 1: if you can get a do over. Yeah, I did

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Speaker 1: try for second date, So I did send her flowers

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Speaker 1: the next day. That's nice, and I just said thanks

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Speaker 1: date would be a lot easier and much better. And

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Speaker 1: did you hear anything back from the flowers. I didn't

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Speaker 1: hear anything for two days, and then she did text,

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Speaker 1: and she told me that she was really thankful for

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Speaker 1: the flowers, but it took her two days to write you. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was like a day I think the flowers get delivered,

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Speaker 1: and then the next like two days after that or

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Speaker 1: a day after that. And then I replied back to

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Speaker 1: her asking you if she wanted to go on that

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Speaker 1: second date. And then I haven't heard anything from her since.

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Speaker 1: So are you sure you just don't want to chalk

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Speaker 1: this up to a bad experience and find another girl online?

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Speaker 1: You know, I thought about that, but I really think

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Speaker 1: about her quite a bit, and I think she's great,

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Speaker 1: and I think that honestly. That first date and it

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Speaker 1: was so awkward and bad right off the door, I'm

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Speaker 1: hoping that maybe the second date would just kind of

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Speaker 1: smooth things over and I'll be a little bit more

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Speaker 1: confident in making better choices. I guess making a lot easier.

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Speaker 1: All right, well, we'll play a song, come back, call

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Speaker 1: her and see if we can get you a second

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Speaker 1: date where you can try to do better. All right, great,

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Speaker 1: that's all I want to thank Brooking Jubil in the

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Speaker 1: morning up dates. You know what they always say, when

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Speaker 1: life gets you down, you lay there and make excuses

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Speaker 1: until somebody feels bad for you and tries to help

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Speaker 1: you out. Yeah, I've heard that that's the old saying

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Speaker 1: catchy too. And Stephen is on the phone right now

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Speaker 1: and he got knocked down by love. In the second

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Speaker 1: date update, today, he went out with a girl named Aaron.

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Speaker 1: He actually had some fun plans to do, like a

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Speaker 1: weird date kind of thing. I don't really want to

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Speaker 1: go into the whole recap of it, but he made

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Speaker 1: plans for what he thought was a fun date. Then

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Speaker 1: after the date, he sent her some flowers and all

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Speaker 1: and see if Steven can get some redemption. Stephen, you're ready,

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Speaker 1: I am, Yeah, okay, And I don't want you to

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Speaker 1: I mean, if this doesn't work out, you are a thoughtful,

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Speaker 1: carrying seems like very gentle human beings and you should

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Speaker 1: stick with that. Oh thanks for that. Yeah, but I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know I'm not the best data and I kind

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Speaker 1: of screw up things a lot. So all right, I

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Speaker 1: phone of her right now? Okay, you're ready, yep, all right,

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Speaker 1: here we go. Hello, how can I speak to Aaron? Please?

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Speaker 1: This is Aaron, who says, Hey, Aaron, this is Jewil

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Speaker 1: from brook and Jewil in the Morning. What Jewbil from

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning radio show. Sorry, I'm

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Speaker 1: not familiar. No you're not. I don't think so good.

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Speaker 1: We're off to a great start. So we do a

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Speaker 1: segment on our show that's called the second Date Update.

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Speaker 1: And we recently got an email from one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners about you. Oh, okay, who his name is? Stephen? Oh,

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Speaker 1: he emails your guys. Yep, he emailed us. Told us

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Speaker 1: a little bit about your date and said that he

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Speaker 1: really liked you, but now you're not getting back to him,

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Speaker 1: so he thought maybe we could find out what went wrong. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I mean Steven, he's a nice guy, Like I thought

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Speaker 1: he was cool. You sound so positive about Stephen. He's

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Speaker 1: really sweet, probably the nicest guy I've ever been out

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Speaker 1: with on a date. The only thing is he's a

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Speaker 1: just I think he's a little bit too down on himself. Well,

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Speaker 1: we talked to him, and he doesn't sound like the

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Speaker 1: him down instantly and were like, no, I want to

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Speaker 1: to just get back to normal, So that's why I thought,

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Speaker 1: let's go to a bar. Wait, so you weren't freaked

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Speaker 1: I mean, I didn't think about the bleach much because

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Speaker 1: I was, like I said, hungover. But I just thought it,

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Speaker 1: Yeah it does. He said. That's the part that really

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Speaker 1: you didn't like. Oh. Yeah, he made that very clear.

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Speaker 1: I mean he apologized the entire night, and I kept

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Speaker 1: whole date. Whoa okay, And did that just kind of

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Speaker 1: get annoying to you? Well? I felt like I kind

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Speaker 1: of had to pick him up, like, no, it's okay,

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Speaker 1: the most attractive things about a person can be confidence. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it was just I couldn't even get to know him

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Speaker 1: because he was getting himself up. I'm a terrible person.

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Speaker 1: I actually visually picture him punching himself in the face

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Speaker 1: when you say that, I mean, yeah, I think he

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Speaker 1: of bad because I felt like I was doing that

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Speaker 1: to him. Now, you guys are just both on the

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Speaker 1: like I clocked it at twenty minutes before I checked

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Speaker 1: on him. That's not confidence. That's like a I don't know,

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Speaker 1: lactose intolerance or something. Oh no, none. I went to

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Speaker 1: check on him because I was concerned, just wondering what

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Speaker 1: waiting for it to be empty. He told you that

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Speaker 1: he can't he can't use a yurtl when other people

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Speaker 1: I'm here, Hi erin, Sorry, sorry about this. You don't

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