WEBVTT - This is Me 0:00:00.000 --> 0:00:03.640 All right, guys, big big day. Here's to Ay Jonas podcast. Yes, 0:00:04.240 --> 0:00:09.560 because tomorrow we will be premiering on Disney Plus and 0:00:09.680 --> 0:00:14.840 Hulu and we're going to have the cast of camp 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:22.360 Rock three odd to usher in this next generation of Campers. 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:25.640 Got on more and Joe has gone nonverbal and will 0:00:25.680 --> 0:00:29.240 only be using his Shane Gray for crying out loud. Yes, 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:33.280 it's almost been a year since we were on set filming. 0:00:34.000 --> 0:00:36.239 I know, it's crazy how fast it all moves. It 0:00:36.280 --> 0:00:38.680 moves very quickly, and it was almost eighteen years ago 0:00:38.760 --> 0:00:41.519 when we started this whole pretty nuts. Nineteen I think 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:46.400 nineteen actually, Kevin nineteen years. My favorite Camp Rock memory 0:00:46.400 --> 0:00:50.760 from back in the day had to be when we 0:00:52.240 --> 0:00:54.520 got to set. I think it was, you know, seven 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:56.400 or eight in the morning, and we just hear this 0:01:00.520 --> 0:01:03.720 and I'm like, what is happening? Because it wasn't scripted 0:01:04.520 --> 0:01:07.559 that iconic moment with the stomp clap thing. It wasn't 0:01:07.680 --> 0:01:09.959 there was like we should do this, this is what happened? 0:01:10.040 --> 0:01:13.640 What is this? And we basically refused to do the thing, and. 0:01:13.600 --> 0:01:16.679 So drumstick, which ended up making it kind of iconic. 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:18.959 Yeah, I don't think I'm in it. Oh, I'm in it. Yeah, 0:01:18.959 --> 0:01:20.399 I'm in it. You're in it for sure. 0:01:20.480 --> 0:01:21.400 You're leading the charge. 0:01:21.400 --> 0:01:22.960 You're actually the lead of the movie, Joe. I don't 0:01:22.959 --> 0:01:23.440 know if you know that. 0:01:23.560 --> 0:01:24.360 Yeah, you you were. 0:01:24.400 --> 0:01:26.080 I just wanted to hear you were number one on 0:01:26.120 --> 0:01:28.240 the call seet. I just wanted to hear you say no, 0:01:28.280 --> 0:01:30.479 I was number two. Number two, Timmy is number one. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:35.440 You were Jimmy's movie, Stammy's, Mitchie's movie. My most memorable. 0:01:35.520 --> 0:01:37.160 I mean, there's many memories, but something that comes to 0:01:37.200 --> 0:01:40.679 mind is I had to jump in a freezing lake 0:01:42.040 --> 0:01:45.720 even though it's summertime. You were was so, you know, 0:01:46.000 --> 0:01:51.400 actually drumping a freezing lake. But then also there I 0:01:51.440 --> 0:01:54.560 don't know why I became a theme there, Uncle or 0:01:54.560 --> 0:01:57.040 my uncle in the Brown Uncle Brown, he wakes me 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.640 up with he wakes me up cold water and he yeah, 0:02:00.680 --> 0:02:02.760 and he decided to get the coldest water. Ironically, we 0:02:02.760 --> 0:02:04.400 didn't need to do the cold we didn't actually need it. 0:02:04.640 --> 0:02:06.000 Needed cold water and. 0:02:05.960 --> 0:02:08.799 Freezing film as well. We may or may not throw 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:09.440 you in water. 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:10.400 Oh yeah, that's right. 0:02:10.520 --> 0:02:12.560 Yeah, there's a theme going on here. 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:15.080 There is a theme. But you know, I think it 0:02:15.120 --> 0:02:19.200 was my first introduction of what people in the acting 0:02:19.200 --> 0:02:22.600 community loved to call crafty and that's where there's a 0:02:22.639 --> 0:02:26.880 collection of delicious snacks. Shadow Marisa, my shadow who does 0:02:26.880 --> 0:02:29.120 our hair and makeup as she and I love Reese's 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:33.000 pieces and I would go and just devour as many pieces. 0:02:33.040 --> 0:02:35.640 And I remember there was one night where we were 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:38.040 filming I think it was camp Rock two. It was 0:02:38.080 --> 0:02:42.080 the final jam against camp Star and it was our first, 0:02:42.240 --> 0:02:44.240 really one of our first experiences of shooting at nights, 0:02:45.240 --> 0:02:48.400 and I just remember me Nick and me, Nick and 0:02:48.400 --> 0:02:53.560 DEMI like having just this is probably before we drink coffee. 0:02:54.040 --> 0:02:58.280 It was just sugar, lots of sugar. What about what 0:02:58.320 --> 0:03:00.680 about it to stay awake through the night. 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:02.840 Yeah, they poured. 0:03:02.560 --> 0:03:05.080 Water on me that night and because I guess I 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:07.240 came from the lake and you could see how cold 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:11.040 it was, because it was just like seeing off my body. Yes, 0:03:11.080 --> 0:03:14.080 I do remember this, the things we do, so many memories. 0:03:14.080 --> 0:03:16.200 We're gonna hear about even more memories with the new 0:03:16.560 --> 0:03:19.959 Campers Carock three casts. We have an incredible group. I 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:23.240 love it stars of the movie that'll be joining us 0:03:23.280 --> 0:03:27.079 as well as you know, some some good stories that 0:03:27.160 --> 0:03:29.160 will share the o G cast too, and some of 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:32.040 the og cast. One other really exciting thing that we 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:35.400 have going on tomorrow is this incredible partnership with Hyundai, 0:03:35.560 --> 0:03:39.360 Yes Hope on Wheels, where we're actually going to have 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:43.960 three amazing guests who are warriors. Uh and and Hundai's 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:48.960 an incredible job donating a portion up from every purchase 0:03:49.280 --> 0:03:53.440 to this incredible three hundred million dollars raised that supports researchers, doctors, 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:57.160 families and children living with cancer. What a great organize 0:03:57.200 --> 0:03:59.400 and battling cancer and so the beautiful thing they're doing 0:03:59.440 --> 0:04:01.160 a huge to have them with us and to get 0:04:01.160 --> 0:04:03.800 to spotlight those guests and of course camp our three casts. 0:04:04.040 --> 0:04:05.520 That's right, It's gonna be a blast. 0:04:05.680 --> 0:04:07.760 So make sure to check out the Hey Jonas podcast 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:12.600 Wherever you podcast podcast and watch us on Disney pleasant. 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:25.800 H It's time for voicemails. 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:29.720 Oh you guys started without me. I'm giving myself insing. 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:30.880 I apologize. 0:04:31.040 --> 0:04:35.080 I'll just one second. This episode sponsored by Type one diabetes, 0:04:36.560 --> 0:04:41.120 by the disease. Well, this episode brought to you by 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:44.480 an autoimmune awareness is an awareness episode. This is an 0:04:44.480 --> 0:04:48.280 awareness episode. Let's get into voicemails, shall we, Hey, this 0:04:48.360 --> 0:04:49.640 is any from Chicago. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:53.560 I've had three ankle surgeries in the span of two years, 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.120 and since recovery, I've been trying to go back to 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:58.440 the gym. I'm sure to go back to the gym 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:01.280 after being out for a while, just self conscious about it. 0:05:01.880 --> 0:05:04.520 But I was wondering, what's the most embarrassing gym moment 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:07.479 you guys have ever had, hoping maybe it'll make me 0:05:07.480 --> 0:05:09.120 feel a little bit better about myself. 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:12.000 Well, happy that you're hopefully feeling better enough to go 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:13.760 to the gym, so that means you're feeling kind of better. 0:05:13.800 --> 0:05:17.320 So three surgeries is a lot kind of curious what happened, 0:05:17.360 --> 0:05:19.520 but yeah, I want to know. She's not a voicemail. 0:05:19.600 --> 0:05:21.479 So it also sounded like she was on the phone 0:05:21.560 --> 0:05:24.080 underneath the sheet, like in her bed, telling him the story. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:26.680 That did sound the or she's in the gym building 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:30.520 up the confidence. Maybe, well, the most embarrassing thing that's 0:05:30.520 --> 0:05:34.520 happened at the gym, Jim, it's a very specific place 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:38.760 for an embarrassing story. Yeah, I've eaten shit on the treadmill, 0:05:39.000 --> 0:05:41.880 you know, like really classic you know, Oh yeah, I 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:45.839 full fall down like flip out, oh yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:48.080 and you just that's when you Wow, what a loser. 0:05:48.200 --> 0:05:50.240 You have to make the choice of either getting back 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:53.680 on the treadmill or walking away and never going back 0:05:53.680 --> 0:05:54.440 to that gym again. 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:55.560 So which one did you do? 0:05:56.080 --> 0:05:56.240 Well? 0:05:56.279 --> 0:05:58.400 Of course I got back in my car and I 0:05:58.480 --> 0:06:01.960 never went back because that's the right thing to do. 0:06:02.960 --> 0:06:04.520 I've got one. I kind of agree with you on 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.000 that one. I was in Hawaii and I was shooting 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:11.359 the first Jumanji Nice and Kevin Heart invited me to 0:06:11.360 --> 0:06:12.880 come work out with him and his trainer and his 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:18.240 two boys that are with him his purpose team. And 0:06:18.279 --> 0:06:20.880 he's like, We're gonna get up at six am or whatever. 0:06:20.960 --> 0:06:23.640 It was five am before we go to work, and 0:06:23.720 --> 0:06:25.800 I was like, all right, and I'm thinking to myself, 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:29.080 you know, I'm at the time, I'm twenty two, twenty three, 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:32.840 you got this. You know, Kevin's ten to fifteen years 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:35.159 older than me, I think, and so I should be 0:06:35.160 --> 0:06:37.840 able to like handle myself in the gym with Kevin 0:06:37.880 --> 0:06:41.280 and his guys. And the first thing they do is 0:06:41.279 --> 0:06:43.640 they're like, all right, twelve minutes sprint on the treadmill. 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:45.640 And I'm like, all right, And so it's started to sprint. 0:06:45.640 --> 0:06:48.320 About seven minutes in, I'm like this is like really 0:06:48.320 --> 0:06:51.080 intense fall out sprint, and I'm thinking, all right, the 0:06:51.200 --> 0:06:53.160 rest of the workout is going to be chill because 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:54.400 we just got the heart rate up and now it's 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.680 gonna like lift whatever. Then they're like, all right, we're 0:06:56.680 --> 0:06:59.320 gonna swing on these things to like jump to the 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:02.080 next you know. Handlebart like what is happening? And they're 0:07:02.080 --> 0:07:04.600 doing chin up says they do it. This was the 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:07.680 most intense workout I've ever done. Oh about halfway through, 0:07:07.760 --> 0:07:09.760 he's like, you good because he could see that I 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:11.400 was like about to throw up, and I was like, yeah, 0:07:11.440 --> 0:07:13.560 I'm totally fine. And then I think he saw like 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:15.480 blood in the water and was like, let's go even harder. 0:07:15.880 --> 0:07:16.960 So then it got more intense. 0:07:17.400 --> 0:07:18.800 He was trying to point. 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:19.880 Yeah, he was trying to be. 0:07:19.800 --> 0:07:21.600 Like like this young kid, I'm going to show him 0:07:21.600 --> 0:07:22.000 what's going on. 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:24.880 And he did. He he broke me did you throw out? 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:27.920 I got back to the hotel when I threw up. Oh, 0:07:28.400 --> 0:07:29.840 it took everything. I had to be like I'm not 0:07:29.880 --> 0:07:32.560 throwing up in front of Vin Hart. Wow. And then 0:07:32.720 --> 0:07:34.520 uh yeah, I'd never worked out with him again. 0:07:35.480 --> 0:07:35.920 I wouldn't. 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:39.040 I definitely worked out hard with a new trainer one 0:07:39.080 --> 0:07:42.480 time and absolutely puked mid workout. I was just like, Nope, 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:46.040 too much, too much, and that was that. Never worked 0:07:46.040 --> 0:07:48.000 out with him again. Yeah, well, shout out Kevin Hart. 0:07:48.040 --> 0:07:51.160 He's a beast. He's like next level fit. Okay, let's 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:52.560 hear another one, shall we? 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:56.559 Hey guys, my name's Amanda, and I have a question, 0:07:56.680 --> 0:07:58.400 I guess for all of you. So I have a 0:07:58.440 --> 0:07:59.360 guy friend. 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:02.040 Who we'd where this is going going. 0:08:01.880 --> 0:08:03.800 With each other. We both have expressed that we like 0:08:03.840 --> 0:08:06.320 each other, but he knows that I'm a Christian and 0:08:06.360 --> 0:08:08.960 he does not have a faith. He's not a religious person, 0:08:09.480 --> 0:08:11.320 and so he doesn't think that we should date because 0:08:11.320 --> 0:08:13.880 we might not be compatible long term. But we're pretty 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.800 compatible and pretty much every other way. So I guess 0:08:16.840 --> 0:08:18.840 I would just ask for any advice or input that 0:08:18.840 --> 0:08:21.680 you guys might have from your own experiences there, or 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.360 just what you would recommend for someone in that situation, thinks. 0:08:24.520 --> 0:08:26.040 So I think I missed it. Does she say that 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:29.560 he is not in religious or she's not religious? And 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.160 he's the one who saying we may not be compatible, 0:08:31.200 --> 0:08:36.000 which I would think for becosed, Yeah, sure, that's really interesting. Well, 0:08:36.000 --> 0:08:37.760 I mean he might just be like, I don't. I 0:08:38.840 --> 0:08:43.280 don't see myself changing the way I feel about Christianity, 0:08:43.360 --> 0:08:45.520 and so I hope that doesn't totally bother you down 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.240 the road, because that might be important for her. But 0:08:47.280 --> 0:08:49.880 it sounds like she's like, I'm down, He's not down 0:08:49.920 --> 0:08:52.400 because of it kind of feels like he's pointing the 0:08:52.440 --> 0:08:55.160 finger saying it's you, not me. A little bit of 0:08:55.160 --> 0:08:58.319 that kind of feels like maybe there's just a conversation 0:08:58.400 --> 0:09:01.080 that should happen to say, hey, is it is it 0:09:01.080 --> 0:09:03.080 important to you that the person that you date is 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:07.000 a person that that practices the same religion as you? 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:10.480 And the answer is for for her. For Amanda, she says, 0:09:10.559 --> 0:09:13.959 it doesn't matter to me, then then he should be like, 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:16.160 all right, cool, then we connect and every other way. Yeah, 0:09:16.160 --> 0:09:19.160 as long as your expectation is not that I have 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.360 to practice in the same way he might not want 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.200 to go with her to church on Sundays, and as 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:24.560 long as she's cool with that, I mean I think 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:28.480 everything's just will this become a yeah, you need to 0:09:28.480 --> 0:09:32.000 have this conversation because the next step is then people 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:33.599 have resentment because oh I thought I was going to 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:36.040 change him or change her, like that's not gonna be changing. 0:09:36.040 --> 0:09:39.880 People can't be changing. People can't do that unchangeable. Well, 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:41.840 I think there's you know what to do. He's gotta 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.000 be like, yo, they don't bother me if if you're 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:46.040 not going to be Christian with me, but if that's 0:09:46.040 --> 0:09:48.480 something you decide one day, so be it totally. Okay. 0:09:48.480 --> 0:09:50.079 Next one, that was I think we get that was 0:09:50.320 --> 0:09:51.240 solid advice there. 0:09:51.440 --> 0:09:52.520 Hey, this is Chelsea. 0:09:52.800 --> 0:09:55.200 I am a pediatric nurse and I take care of 0:09:55.280 --> 0:09:59.000 kiddo's recently dragging those with type one diabetes. I've heard 0:09:59.040 --> 0:10:01.440 over the year is a little next journey, but was 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:04.400 wondering if there were any tips or education you received 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.880 in the beginning or even later on that was a 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:09.800 game changer that I to pass on my patients, also 0:10:09.960 --> 0:10:13.240 teaching their siblings with what's going on. A lot of 0:10:13.280 --> 0:10:16.840 kiddos have never heard of diabetes. So Kevin, Joe, are 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:19.200 there anything that helps you guys understand more of what 0:10:19.320 --> 0:10:22.760 was going on? Any tips or tricks You're appreciated, thinks. 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:25.679 Okay, my advice for you, Chelsea, By the way, thank 0:10:25.720 --> 0:10:28.640 you for being what you do. Go out what you do. 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:31.320 It's incredible. It's not advice that the thing I learned 0:10:31.520 --> 0:10:35.720 about ten years into my diagnosis. I was diagnosed at thirteen, 0:10:35.840 --> 0:10:40.680 so through my teens in my early twenties, I took 0:10:40.800 --> 0:10:42.720 great pride in doing it all on my own and 0:10:42.880 --> 0:10:45.520 just kind of dealing with it and not letting it 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:47.560 slow me down or affect my day to day life. 0:10:48.040 --> 0:10:52.200 Part of that was also because I did feel this 0:10:52.360 --> 0:10:56.920 enormous burden of what has become sort of meme culture, 0:10:56.960 --> 0:11:00.560 which is unfortunate. And I'm not saying that it's woe 0:11:00.679 --> 0:11:02.600 is me, because that's not the position that I'm taking, 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:06.120 but just that I'm aware of the fact that some 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:09.200 people who are not as educated, not as informed on 0:11:10.440 --> 0:11:15.360 type one diabetes think that it is not a serious condition. 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:20.559 To be clear, if treated with insulin management, with glucose 0:11:20.760 --> 0:11:24.840 readings either on a meter, a fingerprick meter, or a CGM. 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.640 If you don't have those tools and you're not taking 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:30.920 care of your type one diabetes, it's categorized as an autoimmune, 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:32.400 which means that at any point in time, it can 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:35.960 become a very serious and potentially fatal disease. As I 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:37.800 was learning how to deal with it, taking all this 0:11:38.040 --> 0:11:41.880 on myself to be independent, I was also kind of 0:11:41.920 --> 0:11:44.880 dealing with this thing that was really discouraging that there 0:11:44.880 --> 0:11:47.880 was a dismissal of this thing, which also makes it frankly, 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:54.160 very difficult to raise money for programs to create access 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:57.560 and affordability to create better life programs for young people 0:11:57.600 --> 0:11:59.960 living with diabetes who want to learn, because people don't 0:12:00.040 --> 0:12:03.880 think it's serious. And if it's properly managed, it isn't 0:12:04.040 --> 0:12:05.800 that serious. It's not going to become fatal. But if 0:12:05.800 --> 0:12:07.839 it's not, if there are places in the world that 0:12:07.880 --> 0:12:10.439 don't have that access, it can be fatal. It can 0:12:10.480 --> 0:12:15.440 be a really really tough thing. So all that to 0:12:15.480 --> 0:12:18.440 be said, what I learned was that I have to 0:12:19.080 --> 0:12:21.320 take it on myself, be as responsible as I can be, 0:12:21.640 --> 0:12:23.280 but not get discouraged when there's going to be a 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:25.200 day where my glucose is higher than I'd like it 0:12:25.200 --> 0:12:27.480 to be. That's just a part of living with it. 0:12:27.640 --> 0:12:30.120 As your body changes, as you get older, certain things 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:33.560 that never affect your glucose are suddenly going to And 0:12:33.960 --> 0:12:36.360 there's a long list of things that have done that 0:12:36.400 --> 0:12:38.199 for me as I've gotten older. So I had to 0:12:38.240 --> 0:12:40.680 start to rely on my community, my friends, my family, 0:12:41.080 --> 0:12:44.400 my wife to support me in my journey and take 0:12:44.440 --> 0:12:46.400 some of that pressure off, because if I try to 0:12:46.400 --> 0:12:48.360 do it all myself, it's going to have a greater 0:12:48.920 --> 0:12:51.719 mental and emotional impact than I ever realized when I 0:12:51.800 --> 0:12:55.400 was young, and it's going to just make the day 0:12:55.440 --> 0:12:57.240 and day out process of living with a disease that 0:12:57.320 --> 0:13:00.880 much harder. So if there's any sort of summary in there, 0:13:00.880 --> 0:13:03.640 it would be to say, for your young patients, encourage 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:06.000 them to lean on their their their friends, their family, 0:13:06.040 --> 0:13:09.200 their circle of trust, because that's what will help them 0:13:09.320 --> 0:13:12.200 through those tough moments where there's the emotional hurdle and 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:14.920 also the physical which is completely out of your control. 0:13:15.200 --> 0:13:18.400 Well said, great, Now tell us what your advice would be. Guys. 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:21.240 You know, I kind of wrote that for kit Nick 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:26.000 to read, so it kind of covers it. I will 0:13:26.040 --> 0:13:28.760 say that we did something recently where we had a 0:13:29.160 --> 0:13:34.080 person come in that was a doctor and somebody that 0:13:34.280 --> 0:13:39.280 also has Type one and they walked us through pretty 0:13:39.360 --> 0:13:44.480 much everything about diabetes in Layman's terms for us, and 0:13:44.559 --> 0:13:47.880 also showed us different devices, then showed us certain pens 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:51.200 glucose pens and how to use them in case of emergency, 0:13:51.200 --> 0:13:52.840 and what are the signs and how to speak to 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.240 somebody that has diabetes and communicate and when to check 0:13:55.280 --> 0:13:57.160 in with them their blood sugar is low when it's 0:13:57.160 --> 0:13:59.240 a pro what they all ever get? Correct me if 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.600 I'm wrong, Nick, this is what we learned. This is 0:14:01.640 --> 0:14:05.720 my test, and they how to kind of have that 0:14:05.760 --> 0:14:08.680 conversation of checking in with your friend what is their 0:14:08.920 --> 0:14:11.199 low number, to the point where they feel like, hey, 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.400 you can check in on me if it's at a 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:15.480 certain number, like I'm fine, I'll handle it. But if 0:14:15.480 --> 0:14:18.120 it goes lower, just I got I need help. But 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:20.800 it was really educational. It was really great and yeah, 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:23.200 so and I think it was cool because we obviously 0:14:23.240 --> 0:14:27.480 have been around you, Nick, now for how many years 0:14:27.520 --> 0:14:31.800 is it actually November will be twenty one years? Wow, 0:14:32.120 --> 0:14:35.280 twenty one years. We have been, you know, beside you 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:39.400 while you've been dealing with this disease. And it's still 0:14:39.720 --> 0:14:42.520 great to be re educated and have a tune up 0:14:42.680 --> 0:14:44.760 on our education to make sure that we're prepared. And 0:14:45.200 --> 0:14:46.960 I was trying to give you props earlier because I 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:48.480 was just saying the amount of things you have to 0:14:48.480 --> 0:14:50.720 deal with on a daily basis. I think something that she, 0:14:51.640 --> 0:14:55.200 the incredible person that we were working with, mentioned was like, 0:14:55.680 --> 0:14:59.880 every step you take, Nick is taking infinite number more 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.120 steps every time that they do anything in their day, 0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:06.400 Like it's twenty to thirty more decisions every day with 0:15:06.480 --> 0:15:08.920 every single decision. And I think that really rang true 0:15:08.960 --> 0:15:11.040 to me. I was like, Wow, not even thinking, Okay, 0:15:11.080 --> 0:15:13.680 I'm gonna eat this, I'm going to work out on 0:15:13.720 --> 0:15:15.400 stage and when it goes first swim, I'm going to 0:15:15.480 --> 0:15:18.920 do whatever it may be. Those quick little decisions you 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:22.200 make in your daily life are so much more compounded 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.640 having Type one diabetes, and I think that really stayed 0:15:24.680 --> 0:15:24.880 with me. 0:15:25.200 --> 0:15:28.560 Nice to move on, Hi, I want to know if 0:15:28.640 --> 0:15:32.480 you have any recommendation for our friend that is having 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:38.680 enoffer with merriment. I know it's very horrible to say 0:15:38.720 --> 0:15:42.080 it like that, but well, the situation she just got divorced, 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:49.240 so i've been her first thing to do was having 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:52.680 enough with this man. She's probably in a great time, 0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:56.440 But I don't know. I don't think it's a good idea. 0:15:57.080 --> 0:16:00.400 Could you tell me something, any recommendation. 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:07.160 You recommendation stop, But it's just I'm confused. I think 0:16:07.200 --> 0:16:10.520 she knows this friend very very well, almost like the 0:16:10.560 --> 0:16:13.920 back of her hand. Well she was perhaps she might 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:17.200 be this person. Well, I was trying to be subtle. 0:16:20.040 --> 0:16:23.880 Ath I so sorry. I just want to back it 0:16:23.960 --> 0:16:27.680 up here. Her friend is having an affair with a 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:30.360 married man. With a married man, she just got a 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:33.440 friend that she her friend just got divorced, and then 0:16:33.520 --> 0:16:36.920 now she's having an affair. Now she's having a quote 0:16:37.000 --> 0:16:43.280 great time. Well, well, any advice? I mean, I think 0:16:43.320 --> 0:16:45.080 we can't give her advice. She's going to make up 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:48.160 her own mind about the situation. But I think your 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:51.160 advice to her and being her friend is probably I 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:53.800 don't know, you need to have. You should probably not 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:55.960 do this. You should probably just sit her down and 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:58.960 be like, hey, I care about you. This affects way 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:01.160 more people than just you, and you might need to 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:03.240 realize that. Also, the married man has a ton of 0:17:03.280 --> 0:17:06.840 responsibility in this. Let's not overlook that. Yeah, but yeah, yeah, 0:17:06.840 --> 0:17:09.760 absolutely of course. But I think she's not friends with 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:13.200 that guy. She's friends with her friend, who's the one 0:17:13.240 --> 0:17:15.760 that's the home wrecker in the situation. Sure, I think 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:20.760 I think if she's asking advice for her friend, then 0:17:22.280 --> 0:17:27.640 then I think, you know, she clearly has a dilemma 0:17:27.720 --> 0:17:32.040 of conscience, right, like a there's an understanding that this 0:17:32.240 --> 0:17:38.240 is inherently not something that they should be doing right, 0:17:38.640 --> 0:17:41.439 which is why they are asking for advice on what 0:17:41.520 --> 0:17:44.199 to do without judgment, Because I'm not judging anybody. That 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:46.440 sets the stage for the conversation, which is that they 0:17:46.600 --> 0:17:52.679 know morally they feel conflicted. Okay, I'm being very careful 0:17:52.680 --> 0:17:54.280 how I navigate this because I don't want to step 0:17:54.280 --> 0:17:56.960 in any any poop here. Now that we know that 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.840 they feel morally conflicted, I would say to the friend, 0:18:00.960 --> 0:18:04.440 you should listen to that and to your point, shoe, 0:18:04.440 --> 0:18:06.640 it is your decision to make. No one can influence 0:18:07.280 --> 0:18:09.480 you to a point or make you feel so bad 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:13.119 that you make a decision and change the outcome. But 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:16.120 listen to that inner voice that's saying, hey, if you're 0:18:16.119 --> 0:18:19.080 feeling conflicted, there's something there to listen to. Yeah. And 0:18:19.119 --> 0:18:22.320 then in addition to that, I would say, she is 0:18:22.320 --> 0:18:27.480 not the only one who has engaged in this thing 0:18:27.560 --> 0:18:31.840 which is potentially problematic. The man has responsibility too. He 0:18:32.000 --> 0:18:37.479 is the married party, she has divorced. There's a responsibility there. Yeah, 0:18:37.560 --> 0:18:40.280 where's judge, Judy, let's get her in here. Yeah, give 0:18:40.359 --> 0:18:43.359 us a judgment. Yeah, I think that's it seems like 0:18:43.440 --> 0:18:47.879 something I think if you feel it, and you should 0:18:47.920 --> 0:18:50.760 probably talk about it. Amen, it's great advice. Joe, you 0:18:50.760 --> 0:18:53.320 got anything, keV, you kind of covered it. It's kind 0:18:53.359 --> 0:18:56.560 of there's not much left to do. There no thoughts, 0:18:57.000 --> 0:19:01.960 not one sure it's at this point she's I was 0:19:02.000 --> 0:19:04.560 trying to not be as coy as you, Nick, But yes, 0:19:04.600 --> 0:19:07.600 if it is in fact something she's dealing with, then 0:19:08.119 --> 0:19:10.640 I think she, like you said, Nick, there is definitely 0:19:10.680 --> 0:19:14.960 already a conflict and she needs to either make that 0:19:15.400 --> 0:19:18.080 resolved or have a conversation about where the future lies 0:19:18.119 --> 0:19:21.320 for the future decisions, because the decisions so far are 0:19:21.359 --> 0:19:24.720 not ones that she feels probably one hundred percent with. 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:28.240 And this is her friend that she's not excited about. 0:19:28.400 --> 0:19:29.959 But we could be wrong. It could be a friend. 0:19:30.040 --> 0:19:32.760 And if it is a friend, I think, be a friend. 0:19:32.840 --> 0:19:35.640 But tell them the real how you feel, because sometimes 0:19:36.040 --> 0:19:39.000 they just need to hear the truth. Yes, facts, men, 0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:42.160 So listen to more. We have one more, sure, one 0:19:42.160 --> 0:19:43.320 more one of us. 0:19:43.560 --> 0:19:47.520 I have been with my boyfriend for five years and we've. 0:19:47.320 --> 0:19:50.920 Lived together for three and. 0:19:50.880 --> 0:19:53.200 I don't know how to tell him that I'm ready 0:19:53.240 --> 0:19:54.119 for the next step. 0:19:54.680 --> 0:19:57.280 Oh but I don't think that he's ready anyway. 0:19:57.359 --> 0:19:59.240 I just don't know how much longer. 0:19:59.000 --> 0:20:01.760 I should wait, and I don't know what. 0:20:01.800 --> 0:20:04.400 To do because we're both happy and I do love him, 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:07.159 but you know, I just need us to be on 0:20:07.200 --> 0:20:11.160 the same path. So I'm hoping that you guys can 0:20:11.200 --> 0:20:12.280 hopefully help me out. 0:20:12.440 --> 0:20:14.760 And yeah, I love you all. 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:18.360 Okay. My name is Emily, by the way, bye. 0:20:18.280 --> 0:20:19.000