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Speaker 7: Come on, you'll think, uh huh, I sure will. Good

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Speaker 7: morning everybody. You all listening to.

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Speaker 8: The voice, Come on, dig me now, one and only

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 7: Man oh Man.

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Speaker 8: Oh Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man, It's

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Speaker 8: just a constant remind of exactly how good God has

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Speaker 8: been to me over the years. And I'm thank him

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Speaker 8: for it too, because I realize every day that I

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Speaker 8: wake up that I would be nothing without him. That

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Speaker 8: everything I am, that's any good in me, I owe

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Speaker 8: to him.

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Speaker 7: Now.

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Speaker 8: Have I made some mistakes along the way, yep, bunches,

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Speaker 8: bunches and bunches. And will I continue to make mistakes

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Speaker 8: know better now.

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Speaker 7: But you're still going to make mistakes. Now.

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Speaker 8: You know, hopefully I've limited the amount of intentional erarors

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Speaker 8: But from time to time, because we're human, we're going

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Speaker 8: to make a mistake every now and then. The trick,

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Speaker 8: what it is, y'all, is not to let the devil

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Speaker 8: deceive you into thinking that once you make that mistake

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Speaker 8: that that's it. You can't do it, and you falling

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Speaker 8: trick that he uses. He makes you think that if

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Speaker 8: you keep stumbling, that you can't run the race. It

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Speaker 8: kind of reminds me of a marathon runner. From time

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Speaker 8: some people who finish the race, you know, in a

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Speaker 7: The key is they finish the race.

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Speaker 8: See, you don't get disqualified in the marathon because you stumble,

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Speaker 8: They don't take your opportunity to finish the race because

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Speaker 8: And a lot of times what the devil does is

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Speaker 8: that the road to construct, the road to success is

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Speaker 7: Not how this works. It is designed that way.

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Speaker 8: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success

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Speaker 8: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more Now,

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Speaker 8: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual.

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Speaker 8: So what I may consider to be successful, you may

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Speaker 8: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your

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Speaker 8: level of success could be tied up in community service.

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Speaker 8: mission and your purpose is so he can put you

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Speaker 8: So many times we find ourselves fighting through life because

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Speaker 8: a boy without a male role model is like an

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Speaker 8: explains the feeling of confusion, the laxadaisical attitude, the lack

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Speaker 8: have not gotten in touch with your creator to find

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Speaker 8: refer back to your makeup. Because when he created you,

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Speaker 8: he had a plan for you. When he created you,

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Speaker 8: decisions to get off of both of those. The mission

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Speaker 8: if you form the relationship.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you're listening to the Steed Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: All right, everybody, this is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 8: I haven't really decided how I was gonna start the

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Speaker 7: So the angle let me try this.

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Speaker 8: Let's start the show like it was a regular, regular

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Speaker 8: morning show. Hi, everybody, This is Steve Harvey and welcome

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Speaker 8: to the ride. Steve Harvey Morning Show. About you get

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Speaker 8: you off to a great start today. It's a brisk

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Speaker 8: morning this morning. In some parts of the country, there's

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Speaker 9: What up?

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Speaker 7: Talk to God? Yet told me what you needed? Did

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Speaker 7: you tell him you appreciate it? Now? What I did?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 8: Spend some time saying I was great for this morning?

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Speaker 8: God looking out for us.

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Speaker 7: Man. Let me tell you something, y'all.

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Speaker 8: Just because the blessing is delayed does not mean is denied.

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Speaker 8: Hang on in now, man, don't give up, y'all. There

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Speaker 8: is always hope. If you are awaking today, it is

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Speaker 8: because God ain't through with you yet. Put a smile

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Speaker 7: Come on with it.

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Speaker 8: Steve Harvey, Mornin Show, Shelly Strawberry, Colin Farrell, Mississippi, Monica

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Speaker 8: Junior better known as Killer Wan, Space and the legend

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Speaker 7: What is it today, man? You seem a little happy today?

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Speaker 11: Uh, well, you know, Walkie just brought some of my attention.

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Speaker 11: You know this holiday parties and everybody.

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Speaker 12: You know, when you get the Christmas everything, there are

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Speaker 12: a certain group of people who really don't care nothing

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Speaker 7: They just want to play space.

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Speaker 8: Yet, what Hold up, Julia, what did I just say

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Speaker 8: to make you think we was talking about Christmas?

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Speaker 12: What did epp what I'm talking about before the show on?

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Speaker 12: It just said I just thought about it. Oh, okay,

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Speaker 12: side joke. Don't nobody know nothing about it? Come on,

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Speaker 12: let's try to connect these jokes, JUNR. That's what thing

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Speaker 12: you got to work on us.

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Speaker 1: We're doing connecting.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we're doing radio because I want to. You know,

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Speaker 8: the fans listened. So before the show started, we was

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Speaker 8: talking about spades and cards.

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Speaker 7: Now go ahead, JUNI, thank you, unk I appreciate it.

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Speaker 12: Like I said, there's a certain group of people who

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Speaker 11: Certain group people don't care nothing buy Christmas.

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Speaker 12: It's some people coming over there to the house just

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Speaker 12: to play spades and dominoes.

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Speaker 7: That's it.

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Speaker 11: Just to start a fight old Christmas.

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Speaker 12: That's what they coming in there to do. Don't play

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Speaker 12: your right card with them, and see what happened. See

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Speaker 12: if the Turkey don't be on the flow, See if

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Speaker 12: Jams ain't gonna be on the.

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Speaker 11: Tape, watch the greens.

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Speaker 12: If you play out of turn and let a book slide,

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Speaker 12: and see what happened.

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Speaker 1: You already know that.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, but if you knocked that turkey on the flow. Yep,

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Speaker 8: Christmas is gonna be real different than my house.

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Speaker 7: We'll tell you that right now.

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Speaker 8: People that come over your house to play spades on

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Speaker 1: No, they don't know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 8: They just said, why are you coming through the door

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Speaker 8: I mean you know you didn't get to you ain't

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Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: And if you is here to run that prank back?

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Speaker 1: What you got for his nest?

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Speaker 7: You sent my wife and I'm almost certain is you.

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Speaker 7: I'm I'm almost certain is you? And you know what

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's got it's got real serious up in here,

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Speaker 2: cat dog. If you would you sent my wife pictures?

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Speaker 9: Now speak the trouble.

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Speaker 2: Hey man, you've been sending pictures of are your stomach

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Speaker 9: Phone?

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Speaker 7: Hey man?

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Speaker 2: Have you been sending pictures of your muscles on your

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Speaker 9: Calling me with this?

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Speaker 7: This fish right here?

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Speaker 3: Is who?

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Speaker 2: This fisher man? My name is Fisher, but they call

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Speaker 7: Phone?

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Speaker 13: Man?

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Speaker 9: I don't know dad you're talking about?

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Speaker 3: Play boy?

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Speaker 9: Don't call me with just about am I? If I

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Speaker 7: It is my business. That's my wife.

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Speaker 9: Then you say this, you boy, you must ain't got

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Speaker 13: I'm calling.

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Speaker 7: I got some business.

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Speaker 2: My business is my wife, man, And if you say it,

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna tell you right now. I want to find you.

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Speaker 2: If the same muscles that's on her phone is up

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Speaker 9: Hey man, I ain't hard to find plate boy. You

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Speaker 2: Man, ain't let me tell you no. You been disrespectful,

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Speaker 9: You've been a little calling me on the phone. Which

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Speaker 3: Here?

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Speaker 9: For I had your wife ruthering on my stomach.

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Speaker 7: Hey man, who you hey? See who you calling? Out?

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Speaker 4: Man?

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Speaker 7: What do you think you are? Hey? Hey, who you

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Speaker 9: Okay, tell us take time my phone about a picture that's.

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Speaker 7: Walk because them? If I find out them your muscle

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Speaker 7: on my what what?

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Speaker 9: Obviously you found my phone number, so I guess you

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Speaker 3: Oh boy, hey, you how about this here?

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Speaker 7: Where are you?

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Speaker 9: Let's get'm hey? Ask your wife where I'm at where

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Speaker 7: My wife is at work right now.

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Speaker 9: If you think so, how you think she got the

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Speaker 3: Boy?

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Speaker 7: Hey man, I tell you what when I find when

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Speaker 7: I find you, you.

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Speaker 9: Little answer your wife where I'm at? Yeah, that was

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Speaker 9: the new boy.

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Speaker 3: Call me just open.

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Speaker 9: Oh it's security. You must not it ripped up like me.

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Speaker 2: He man. Hey, hey, hey, I got I got muscles

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Speaker 9: I got right now to get these. Get this stomach

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Speaker 2: Hey man, let me tell you something. Man, that's all right,

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Speaker 2: that's all right. How about this here? I know who

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Speaker 9: I know who she here too.

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Speaker 2: Okay, well, that's all right, and I'll be calling her.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling her, letting her know what's going on.

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Speaker 9: Take this out. She liked my stommer too? Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 9: you like that?

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Speaker 7: No, No, I'll tell you what. I tell you what.

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Speaker 7: She don't like it. When I get to her, I'm

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Speaker 9: Say man, you don't know nothing about my wife. My

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Speaker 9: You don't know nothing about my business.

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Speaker 7: Hey man, you ain't finna be disrespectful to me. Man,

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Speaker 7: I done.

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Speaker 2: Told you once come see me on what I will see.

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Speaker 2: I already asked you once. Where are you?

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna raise up my shirt so you can see

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Speaker 7: Like, yeah, all right, okay, okay, it's just a matter

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Speaker 9: You better go chick your wife and don't be calling

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, I tell you what. I'm gonna call a Yanna.

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Speaker 2: That's that's what I'm going to call a Yana. Baby.

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Speaker 1: Say what yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and slowed you down. Now, yeah, I'm calling your wife.

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Speaker 9: Call up here. We can get it on the freeway

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Speaker 9: and then and then I call your wife and get

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, I'm gonna tell you this here right now.

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Speaker 9: What I need is tell me what if you want

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Speaker 7: I'm telling you right now, pump, where you at?

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Speaker 9: How much fuller thing?

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Speaker 13: Home?

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Speaker 7: Boy?

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Speaker 9: That's where I'm at. Now you got my wife name?

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Speaker 9: I want to know your name. They called your fish

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Speaker 9: or chicking the where they call you. You can meet

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Speaker 9: say this ain't no fick sell to me. I deal

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Speaker 9: with punk, chump.

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Speaker 2: Like you every taste okay, okay, not a problem, not

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Speaker 2: a problem.

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Speaker 7: I'll be right. How long you gonna be that?

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Speaker 9: I'm gonna be that to your pump?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Look, I want you to take my name down

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Speaker 2: so you know who you're waiting on. You got your what?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 9: You said your name was chicken or something like?

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Speaker 7: Do you have a pin?

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Speaker 9: I don't need no pink?

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Speaker 7: Okay? Do you want to know who this is?

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Speaker 9: You gonna tell me who you was home?

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Speaker 7: I ain't told you my full name, chump, I.

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Speaker 9: Don't need to know your name. You got my number

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Speaker 9: calling me about a chatto off stomach or something.

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Speaker 2: It's muscles, it's it's muscles of your stombap on my

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Speaker 9: Did you look at the pictures?

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Speaker 7: How many sit ups do you be doing?

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Speaker 9: Did you look at the other pictures?

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Speaker 7: What other? Well?

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Speaker 2: Okay, hey man, hey man, I'm not finna be playing

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Speaker 2: with you about my wife now.

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Speaker 9: I ain't playing with you. I'm playing with your why.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I'm gonna tell you something about your wife.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna tell you something about your wife that you

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Speaker 9: If I don't know it, don't nobody else know it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I know it. Me and her know it. I

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Speaker 2: just got off the phone with her. You want to

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Speaker 2: know you want me tell you what your wife told me?

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Speaker 9: Whatever, Man, say what you have to say. I'm gonna

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Speaker 9: say that's right here.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say this punk. This his nephew Tommy from

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Speaker 2: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your wife like Yanna got

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Speaker 2: me the prank phone call? Your ignorant man, How stupid

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Speaker 2: are you? Hello this nephew Tommy man from the Steve

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Speaker 2: Harby Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Your wife got me the prank phone call?

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Speaker 1: You do you?

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Speaker 7: You you are more ignorant than me?

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Speaker 9: This? Yeah, boy, God, hey trouble.

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Speaker 2: I got to ask you this man, answer this question

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Speaker 2: for me? What is what is the baddest that I mean,

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Speaker 2: the baddest radio show in the.

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Speaker 9: Leg the only one with nephew. Imagine I sell you that?

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Speaker 2: Oh man, I trail man, You be easy, man, go

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Speaker 2: light on a ya.

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Speaker 9: All right, I'm all Steve harbout say.

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Speaker 2: Let's put this out there. Don't try this at home, Okay,

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Speaker 2: don't do that. Don't be saying nobody to wife some pictures.

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Speaker 2: Don't don't don't do that. Do you go get yourself hurt,

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Speaker 2: You're gonna get yourself hurt.

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Speaker 7: And what you want to do? What you want to do,

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Speaker 7: I can call it a lao. What you want? All right?

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Speaker 1: Nev coming up next and his ask the clo on.

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Speaker 7: Right after this.

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Speaker 7: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Mike and Clearwater, Florida says, I went on a blind

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Speaker 1: day with the finest girl I have ever met. She's

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Speaker 1: on the thick side, which I love the only problem

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Speaker 1: is that she smokes cigars and I could taste it

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Speaker 1: on her breath when we kiss. She only does it

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Speaker 1: on the weekend, So should I deal with it or

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Speaker 1: move on?

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Speaker 7: Pay dag is just on the weekends and along it lant.

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Speaker 8: I mean you know that being a cigall smoker, there's

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Speaker 8: like what I mean, don't smoke for you kiss that's

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Speaker 8: a big work. Yeah, yeah, it's they got stuff for that.

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Speaker 8: But when you actually cigar placing and you lean over

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Speaker 8: a kiss, you fin to eat some cigar dog.

449
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Speaker 7: That's just all to it kissing schedule. Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

450
00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 7: you're gonna work that out.

451
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 1: Was fine for fine?

452
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Speaker 14: Fine, absolutely, yeah, we're finn to be blowing cigar smoke

453
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Speaker 14: all over each other.

454
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Speaker 7: We all smoke your cigar.

455
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Speaker 1: Yeah fine, how fine she is?

456
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Speaker 7: Yeah yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

457
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Speaker 14: It has a lot to do it Okay, So he

458
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Speaker 14: should deal with it and not move on, just stay

459
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Speaker 14: there and take it take absolutely.

460
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Speaker 7: I mean, come on, man, come on man, what a

461
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Speaker 7: model of doctor Tish.

462
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Speaker 1: And they awed him mers old school Jathleen.

463
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,200
Speaker 7: Take all her taste bus I'll.

464
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:14,359
Speaker 8: Doctor Trishna removes one layer of mouth landed.

465
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Speaker 7: All right.

466
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Speaker 1: Moving on to Felicity in Topeka, Felicity writes, I have

467
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,360
Speaker 1: been seeing a man that is twelve years my junior,

468
00:24:28,680 --> 00:24:33,080
Speaker 1: and he's handsome and muscular up top, but lacking down below.

469
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 1: He tries to overcompensate for his shortcomings and is too

470
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Speaker 1: much for me to handle. I have a schedule to

471
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Speaker 1: keep up with and kids to look after, so I

472
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Speaker 1: can't be lying around for hours with him. Is it

473
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Speaker 1: cool to tell him to hurry up? Or will he

474
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Speaker 1: be offended? Please advise.

475
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Speaker 8: It's not going to fend him if you tell him

476
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Speaker 8: to hurry up. What will offend him is you tell

477
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Speaker 8: him why he needs to hurry I know why you

478
00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 8: putting in all this extra time? Yeah, you know, you know.

479
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,920
Speaker 8: Once again, you know what I'm saying. Being on the

480
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Speaker 8: other side of this one right here, I can tell.

481
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Speaker 7: You you know what. In my life, I've been too much,

482
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Speaker 7: but I ain't never been not enough. I've been.

483
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Speaker 8: Lord, I've been O lawd, but I ain't never been Okay.

484
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,359
Speaker 8: I think I think you're gonna have to tell him

485
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Speaker 8: to hurry up. You got things to do.

486
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Speaker 1: But in a nice way.

487
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Speaker 8: Is he a really great guy? Does he treats you

488
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Speaker 8: really well? They treat the kids great? How is he

489
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 8: as a man? You can work through some of these things.

490
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,239
Speaker 8: You know some things you can do to speed up

491
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Speaker 8: the process.

492
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Speaker 7: I don't know.

493
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Speaker 1: Moving on to Carolyn and making Georgia, Carolyn says, as

494
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Speaker 1: luck would have it, I'm broke again at the wrong

495
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Speaker 1: time of the year. I was talking to my coworker

496
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Speaker 1: about my issues and he said he could help me

497
00:26:12,960 --> 00:26:16,560
Speaker 1: out if I showed him two things. The two things

498
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: are right under my chin and he wants to see them.

499
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:22,520
Speaker 1: I've never been propositioned like this, but he said he'd

500
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 1: give me two hundred dollars and that would help me

501
00:26:24,359 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 1: get my little girl that bite she wants. It is

502
00:26:26,880 --> 00:26:29,879
Speaker 1: so terrible. If I show him what if he wants

503
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:30,920
Speaker 1: to pay to see more?

504
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Speaker 7: What you what you what you think is going to

505
00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,480
Speaker 7: be leading to this?

506
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Speaker 13: Is?

507
00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 8: This is to see what you're willing to do? Now,

508
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,640
Speaker 8: if you do this for two hundred dollars, he already

509
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:43,840
Speaker 8: know he got five hundred.

510
00:26:45,720 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 7: I mean you.

511
00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,240
Speaker 8: Mark hey, though, I mean you go in there and

512
00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 8: tell your little girl we ain't getting no bike this year.

513
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:58,440
Speaker 7: You know many years. I heard that bike. Oh you working?

514
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:06,480
Speaker 8: I heard stuff like that bike? What's wrong with the

515
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,920
Speaker 8: bike you got out there? You're talking about the one

516
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:13,040
Speaker 8: you gave me from the construction site. That bike, Daddy,

517
00:27:13,520 --> 00:27:16,679
Speaker 8: that's never been new, like a new bike. Well, I

518
00:27:16,720 --> 00:27:18,400
Speaker 8: want a new car. You don't see, No, you don't

519
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:19,600
Speaker 8: see what one sitting out there, dad.

520
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: That's a lot, yeah, exactly.

521
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:26,040
Speaker 8: So every time I asked him for something, he every

522
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,080
Speaker 8: time I told my daddy I wanted something, he told

523
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 8: me something he wanted.

524
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:32,440
Speaker 7: You know, I want a new bike. I want a

525
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 7: new car.

526
00:27:33,560 --> 00:27:36,200
Speaker 8: Yeah, I want to go home. Well, hell, I want

527
00:27:36,200 --> 00:27:37,800
Speaker 8: to go home too, But now I got to go

528
00:27:37,840 --> 00:27:40,240
Speaker 8: to work. So you can eat what they got to

529
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:41,959
Speaker 8: do with what I said.

530
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,360
Speaker 1: So, Carolyn, I hope you're getting something from this, Okay.

531
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Speaker 8: I mean if you show him to him for two

532
00:27:49,920 --> 00:27:52,920
Speaker 8: hundred dollars, the next office fing to be five hundred.

533
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:53,800
Speaker 7: What you gonna do?

534
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, and they work together, so that's really not cool.

535
00:27:59,320 --> 00:28:01,880
Speaker 1: It's a yeah, really.

536
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:05,120
Speaker 7: All the way, but two hundred dollars that ain't.

537
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:11,000
Speaker 1: Not ye, yes, one hundred dollars each? Goodness, sureley?

538
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:14,080
Speaker 7: Oh you didne divided it up?

539
00:28:14,480 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 15: Yes, cool, he's horrible, all right, Misty and Rustin Louisiana says,

540
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:25,720
Speaker 15: I'm forty years old and I purchased my first home

541
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Speaker 15: for my son and I my son is fifteen years

542
00:28:28,280 --> 00:28:31,119
Speaker 15: old and refuses to do the yard work for me.

543
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,400
Speaker 1: He told me that I need to get my boyfriend

544
00:28:33,480 --> 00:28:36,640
Speaker 1: to do it, since he's always over there. I lit

545
00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:39,000
Speaker 1: into him when he spoke to me that way, and

546
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:41,160
Speaker 1: I called my father to come and talk to him.

547
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:44,440
Speaker 1: My father sided with him. I expected my son to

548
00:28:44,480 --> 00:28:48,160
Speaker 1: have pride in his home. So am I wrong to

549
00:28:48,240 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: demand that he do the yard work at this house?

550
00:28:51,480 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 8: Well, I understand what you're saying. You're exactly right and

551
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,320
Speaker 8: feeling what you're feeling. But your fifteen year old son going,

552
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:00,000
Speaker 8: so what just lazy dude doing it? Is coming up

553
00:29:00,080 --> 00:29:03,560
Speaker 8: over here sleeping with my mama. See, at fifteen, he

554
00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 8: got some feelings about that that you haven't addressed. The

555
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,760
Speaker 8: fifteen year old boy is jealous that you're in this

556
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:12,360
Speaker 8: relationship with this man, and he trying to figure out

557
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 8: what's to value him because he don't see him doing

558
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:18,840
Speaker 8: nothing except sleeping with his mama. That's the problem you have,

559
00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:23,560
Speaker 8: and them feelings ain't FITNA leave that boy, no time soon.

560
00:29:24,400 --> 00:29:27,360
Speaker 8: So the conversation you should have really is with this

561
00:29:27,520 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 8: man of yours as to what kind of example he's

562
00:29:30,520 --> 00:29:34,320
Speaker 8: setting for your son, Because all boys want to be

563
00:29:34,480 --> 00:29:36,560
Speaker 8: some type of man. It's gonna be a good man

564
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 8: or a bad man. And right now, that's the example

565
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:41,560
Speaker 8: of manhood that's been put in front of him, and

566
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:43,160
Speaker 8: he don't see much of a man.

567
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:46,280
Speaker 7: Coming out of him. I was on that talk.

568
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 8: If you went to the bad if you went to

569
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 8: the boyfriend and said I wish you'd talk to my son,

570
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 8: maybe y'all could do it together or something, it would

571
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 8: mean a lot to him and then you could finally

572
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 8: see what you're dealing with, which doesn't sound like much

573
00:29:57,960 --> 00:29:58,479
Speaker 8: or nothing.

574
00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 1: All right, good morning.

575
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Speaker 6: This is your girl, Carla Ferrell from the Steve Harvey

576
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 6: Morning Show. And my favorite Christmas memory is every year

577
00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 6: my mom and grandma would decorate the home and play

578
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:15,480
Speaker 6: the Temptations Christmas album and we went here, Donnie Hathaway

579
00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 6: my mom with jam every Christmas season. So have a

580
00:30:18,960 --> 00:30:22,640
Speaker 6: wonderful holiday season. We would have egnaw my grandmother would

581
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 6: make homemade egnaw.

582
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Speaker 1: Just wonderful, wonderful memories. But have a.

583
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Speaker 6: Wonderful holiday season From Carla Ferrell and all of us

584
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Speaker 6: here our family to yours at the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

585
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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. According to

586
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Speaker 1: new research, one in five Americans are planning on giving

587
00:30:43,200 --> 00:30:46,880
Speaker 1: someone a take the hint gift this year. A new

588
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: survey of two thousand Americans found that hit gifts are

589
00:30:50,640 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: a pretty common practice, with one in three respondents saying

590
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,080
Speaker 1: they've given at least one in the past year or

591
00:30:58,120 --> 00:31:01,200
Speaker 1: so or in the past period. And who is the

592
00:31:01,240 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: person in our life most likely to give us one

593
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 1: of these hint gifts? Well, research shows it's our own partner.

594
00:31:10,960 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 1: The most popular hint gift Americans gift is deodorant? What

595
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:18,560
Speaker 1: or cologne? Yeah?

596
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 7: Self help books?

597
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:23,440
Speaker 1: Wow?

598
00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 7: More than take a hint.

599
00:31:27,720 --> 00:31:31,640
Speaker 1: The most popular most popular gift is self help books.

600
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 1: They scored real high. Also on the list were cookbooks No,

601
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Speaker 1: I did.

602
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,560
Speaker 7: Not don't get one is yet?

603
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: Exercise equipment Carla, exercise equipment, belasen bike, I know, razors, toothpaste,

604
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: cleaning supplies, and even breath mints. Yeah, well I.

605
00:31:56,840 --> 00:31:59,440
Speaker 7: Just bought my wife's the bike.

606
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:04,000
Speaker 6: Huh okay, so she she asked for the bike, though

607
00:32:04,120 --> 00:32:06,600
Speaker 6: she wasn't offended by getting.

608
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,120
Speaker 7: It right for Christmas.

609
00:32:09,280 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 12: This wasn't for christ Oh, this is just he can't

610
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:14,440
Speaker 12: get off that even But she asked you to.

611
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:19,000
Speaker 7: Get the bike. Wait a minute, save the Peloton bike

612
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 7: for Christmas?

613
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 1: Okay, well never mind. Yeah, different incomes, different bracket is different.

614
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:32,880
Speaker 7: All right.

615
00:32:32,960 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: So Stephen and Junior and Tommy, if you guys had

616
00:32:36,600 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: to give someone to take ahead gift, who would it

617
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 1: be and what would it be?

618
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Speaker 11: As my sister getting every job application pamp it I

619
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Speaker 11: could find. Oh, it just got d She can't talk

620
00:32:47,320 --> 00:32:48,440
Speaker 11: about they can't find the world.

621
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Speaker 1: I see now, high.

622
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:52,880
Speaker 4: I think.

623
00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 7: I think we just saw the best take ahead gift.

624
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,680
Speaker 8: If I pick you up to go shopping, and I'll

625
00:32:59,720 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 8: put you in the back seat because I got another

626
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 8: fine chicken in the front, that's about a bigger kit

627
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 8: gift you can get.

628
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 7: What about you now, my auntie?

629
00:33:16,400 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: Huh is she listening?

630
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,880
Speaker 7: I don't think she lived in a nice pem box,

631
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 7: a nice term. Let this sit for at least twenty.

632
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Speaker 1: Minutes, all right, so our resident poets. Oh yeah, Junior

633
00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: in the building right now?

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00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:44,920
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, what Christmas time, baby? It is Christmas time?

635
00:33:45,760 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 12: And it's the time that a lot of people break

636
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,080
Speaker 12: it up, but they really don't know how to say

637
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,000
Speaker 12: it to the other person. So I thought we might

638
00:33:52,120 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 12: want to just.

639
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,560
Speaker 7: Staying in poem. It's the best way to do it.

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Speaker 4: Just say it in port.

641
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Speaker 11: He ain't go one right here time, he's all Christmas,

642
00:33:59,120 --> 00:34:00,640
Speaker 11: break up this holiday?

643
00:34:01,160 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: Here we go.

644
00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:04,560
Speaker 7: Mistletoe.

645
00:34:04,760 --> 00:34:09,520
Speaker 12: Mistletoe is what we want kissed become this Christmas. These

646
00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,839
Speaker 12: lips you gonna miss, and that ain't all merry Christmas.

647
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:17,880
Speaker 7: Wow, that's how you break up, right.

648
00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 6: You ain't got to.

649
00:34:19,000 --> 00:34:19,879
Speaker 7: Waste a lot of time.

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Speaker 12: You ain't got to waste a lot of time saying

651
00:34:23,280 --> 00:34:26,719
Speaker 12: just like that, mistletoe, missle toe is what we want

652
00:34:26,880 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 12: kissed become this Christmas. These lists you gonna miss, and

653
00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:38,399
Speaker 12: that ain't all merry Christmas. Let somebody do He going

654
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 12: another one?

655
00:34:38,880 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 3: Time?

656
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 11: He got another one?

657
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,480
Speaker 12: Frosty, frosty like your attitude has been But when you

658
00:34:45,520 --> 00:34:52,320
Speaker 12: try your key tonight, he won't let you win. Merry Christmas.

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00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:59,399
Speaker 7: You're getting better. It's like we got time to are

660
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 7: y'all a no, no, just say this.

661
00:35:02,239 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 12: The relationship is over because you've been messing with my weed.

662
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:07,040
Speaker 11: You even smoked.

663
00:35:06,760 --> 00:35:09,440
Speaker 7: Three branches off my Christmas tree. You got to go

664
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:14,520
Speaker 7: Merry Christmas. Smoke yea, you.

665
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:16,919
Speaker 11: Got down there and smoke three branches off the tree.

666
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,160
Speaker 1: No, we don't need I like this.

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00:35:20,480 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 7: This.

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Speaker 11: This would hit me about one thirty in the morning.

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Speaker 1: This about one third in the morning.

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Speaker 12: Paying to me, kid, is you haul may flower or

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Speaker 12: even two guys and a truck that numbers are on

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Speaker 12: the counter, and I wish you good luck Merry Christmas.

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Speaker 7: That's my favorite. Merry Christmas. Just wants you to know.

674
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Speaker 7: How about you?

675
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Speaker 11: To get it for you?

676
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Speaker 7: You hauled you.

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Speaker 12: May flower or even two guys in a truck that

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Speaker 12: numbers on the counter, and I wish you good luck

679
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:58,319
Speaker 12: Marry Christmas.

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Speaker 7: I think I might do that shirt just a break

681
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Speaker 7: up Christmas call.

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Speaker 1: I like him.

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Speaker 12: Okay, here we go, all right, twas the night before Christmas.

684
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Speaker 12: Please try to be gone because I'm getting my life

685
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 12: together and I'm moving off. Bye boo, bye, Merry Christmas.

686
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Speaker 12: I got hit with the Merry Christmas at the end,

687
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Speaker 12: Merry Christmas.

688
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Speaker 7: Yeah, tig gonna lands one I wrote?

689
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Speaker 12: Is it, said the gingerbread man to the gingerbread lady.

690
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,120
Speaker 11: This relationship is over because you've been.

691
00:36:31,080 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 12: Asked shady ho ho ho, Merry Christmas, steady. That's how

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Speaker 12: you break up words.

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Speaker 7: That's how I like it, Steve Robin Marty show Man.

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Speaker 8: Everything you're going through is God preparing you for something

695
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Speaker 8: you asked for.

696
00:36:53,600 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 7: But he gotta get you right. You got lessons you

697
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 7: got to learn.

698
00:36:56,760 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 8: It's character you have to mold, and you got to

699
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Speaker 8: go through to have stripp You got to go through

700
00:37:02,320 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 8: things to be o character because what you're asking God for,

701
00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 8: he already knows what you need in order to sustain

702
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:10,879
Speaker 8: when you get there. So you got to learn all

703
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,920
Speaker 8: the lessons. And every time you fail, quit looking at

704
00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:14,840
Speaker 8: it as a failure.

705
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Speaker 7: Steve Harby Morris, You'll comeing up right.

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Speaker 4: Up to.

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Speaker 1: It's the most wonderful and stressful time of year. From

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Speaker 1: airport trips to noisy malls. This is when your family

709
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Speaker 1: can drive you crazy. But you don't have to go

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Speaker 1: along with all that. With Prime Video, you can take

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Speaker 1: a break from the stress and family feuding. Holiday Edition.

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Speaker 1: relax and unwrap your next watch with Prime Video. It's

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Speaker 1: giving Holiday harmony. It is time now for a round

716
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Speaker 1: of would you rather? Would you rather golf all day

717
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:01,760
Speaker 1: by yourself? Or would you rather watch a romantic movie

718
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: with your wife?

719
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Speaker 7: Golfing? I'm sorry whole day?

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Speaker 11: How far is that to the pen? Because I'm not there.

721
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Speaker 11: I don't even play that much.

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Speaker 1: Wow, consensus, everybody's going golfing?

723
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Speaker 7: You need me time? Let her watch the movie?

724
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Speaker 1: Okay?

725
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Speaker 8: All right?

726
00:38:20,719 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 1: Wow you don't. I guess you didn't hear I said

727
00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:24,280
Speaker 1: romantic movie.

728
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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm not gonna sit down. Face, you can't do that.

729
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 11: Ain't nobody got face.

730
00:38:34,320 --> 00:38:36,160
Speaker 7: The notebook over golf.

731
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Speaker 8: Out there and look at that car in that driveway,

732
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Speaker 8: and go upstairs and look at that jewelry in that box.

733
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Speaker 7: Hold, all right, feels a good movie?

734
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Speaker 8: It?

735
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Speaker 1: Would you rather sleep with the phone on the dresser?

736
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,279
Speaker 1: Just come in your bedroom put your phone on the dresser,

737
00:38:53,360 --> 00:38:55,440
Speaker 1: or would you rather sleep with the phone by your bed?

738
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Speaker 1: Which one my phone is in?

739
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Speaker 7: Myra, I gotta get up like like this. Would you

740
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Speaker 7: rather my phone is in?

741
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Speaker 1: That's not an option the dresser.

742
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Speaker 2: It's on silent right, No white lady calling me.

743
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Speaker 1: Dress on a night stand in?

744
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Speaker 3: All right?

745
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Speaker 1: Would you rather start in a Christmas stage play or

746
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:46,320
Speaker 1: would you rather cook an entire Christmas dinner?

747
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Speaker 7: I'm starting a phone.

748
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Speaker 8: Yeah, I don't want either one could but I'm in

749
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Speaker 8: that kitchen that I win in that play because I

750
00:39:54,760 --> 00:39:57,080
Speaker 8: don't know when will be in the same age playing

751
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Speaker 8: Christmas Baby.

752
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Speaker 11: I was in a It's the stage play. I played

753
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Speaker 11: all three wise men by.

754
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Speaker 7: My all three.

755
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Speaker 12: We have enough people in the place. I just keep

756
00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:17,600
Speaker 12: going back out with a new gifts. I had to

757
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 12: change my roller. I gotta quick change at the church.

758
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:26,160
Speaker 7: I'm gonna cook that I'm gonna put.

759
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Speaker 1: But your last one, guys, would you rather work as

760
00:40:30,719 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 1: a bill collector or a fast food drive through window worker?

761
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: Which one?

762
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Speaker 8: Oh?

763
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Speaker 3: You the one?

764
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Speaker 8: I'm cussing people like I won't in that window?

765
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Speaker 7: Man, Come on, I want to see the people.

766
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Speaker 1: Huh, what are you gonna say when they drive up?

767
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Speaker 8: My whole world is gonna be putting the roll stuff

768
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Speaker 8: in that bank your back. You ain't got nothing but

769
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Speaker 8: condiments in it, ain't no fishd.

770
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Speaker 7: Sir.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys. That's today brown back with this mess.

772
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Speaker 1: Would you rather, Hey.

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Speaker 8: Good morning, this is your man Steve Harvey. Have a

774
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 8: happy and a safe holiday from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

775
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:22,799
Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

776
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,320
Speaker 1: to check Steve's voicemail. Eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve,

777
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Speaker 1: call him, leave a message. You might just hear your

778
00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: call on the air, ready.

779
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:31,960
Speaker 7: Steve, Yeah, all right, here to go.

780
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Speaker 1: This is from d Ray from Dallas.

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Speaker 13: Hey, Steve, this mee raise from Dallas. I was calling

782
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Speaker 13: because I got him. I got a situation. I need

783
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Speaker 13: good older man advice.

784
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Speaker 16: I got a fourteen year old son. Of course he's.

785
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Speaker 13: All into girls and sticks, and of course.

786
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Speaker 3: He already got him some.

787
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Speaker 16: But even though I've already ran everything to him, I

788
00:41:54,440 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 16: gave it to him, rowling everything even before he had sick.

789
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Speaker 3: It's still not resonating to him.

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Speaker 16: And we are young men before. But of course the

791
00:42:02,760 --> 00:42:04,720
Speaker 16: divide in the house is need.

792
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Speaker 13: Him and his mama.

793
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Speaker 16: But I get what I'm owns me and as we say,

794
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 16: man is kind of it's a tricky one. But I

795
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:15,719
Speaker 16: also started to think to myself as the advice I

796
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Speaker 16: keep getting some other men that have teenagers or acclaimed

797
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 16: it's like the world is transversing into man. It's just

798
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Speaker 16: reality and you just got to make it happen. And

799
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Speaker 16: I thought we were supposed to be raising these boys

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Speaker 16: to be better than what we do, because everybody keeps

801
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Speaker 16: telling me what.

802
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Speaker 3: Was you doing when you know you know how it is,

803
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 3: And I'm like, but.

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Speaker 16: If that's what we're supposed to stick with, and it's

805
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Speaker 16: becoming a big problem in the house.

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Speaker 13: To where you know, mommy and Daddy more Mama really

807
00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 13: want to kick him.

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Speaker 16: At the house to you know, and all that those

809
00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 16: types of stuff, And I'm just confused on it and

810
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:49,440
Speaker 16: I don't know what to do.

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Speaker 7: So I need your help.

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Speaker 16: Oh, help your boy out.

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Speaker 7: M m I got you. Man.

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Speaker 8: If you're a father currently and you have sons, this

815
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:05,880
Speaker 8: is the dilemma. This is the dilemma because you know

816
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 8: what the proving marker is for all boys, and that

817
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 8: is girls. And if you're a heterosexual man, you want

818
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:19,520
Speaker 8: your son quite naturally to gravitate that way towards him girls.

819
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Speaker 8: But here is the dilemma. Even though you know it's

820
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Speaker 8: going to happen, you don't have to push him in

821
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 8: that direction for it to happen so early, and you

822
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:36,200
Speaker 8: don't have to condone it and reward it, because that's

823
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Speaker 8: a dangerous thing to do, especially at fourteen, because this

824
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 8: boy don't even have the capability of understanding the ramifications

825
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Speaker 8: of it all and even what it means at fourteen,

826
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Speaker 8: he's just doing some reactionary stuff because.

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Speaker 7: Of all of us.

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Speaker 8: If you remember your first time with the girl, just

829
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Speaker 8: think back when the actual moment happened that the whole

830
00:43:57,320 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 8: thing was supposed to It was rather confusing.

831
00:44:00,120 --> 00:44:02,040
Speaker 7: You didn't really know what was going on.

832
00:44:02,360 --> 00:44:06,080
Speaker 8: Godo, your body was trembling all of a sudden, your

833
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 8: hair stood up on your head, and you were just

834
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 8: as confused, and you didn't know what was going on.

835
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Speaker 8: So what I decided to do was to raise my

836
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Speaker 8: sons and tell them this, look, man, this is the

837
00:44:17,560 --> 00:44:20,360
Speaker 8: life you should live as a respectful man. To be

838
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Speaker 8: respectful for young girls. Do not go out here and

839
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,319
Speaker 8: do anything you want with these girls and then lead

840
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:29,080
Speaker 8: these girls hold in the bag. You go off to college,

841
00:44:29,440 --> 00:44:31,680
Speaker 8: pursue your dreams, and this young girl sitting here with

842
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:33,919
Speaker 8: a baby trying to make it work. I said, bruh,

843
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 8: don't do that, And I've tried to talk to them

844
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Speaker 8: about that. At the same time, you know that the

845
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:43,880
Speaker 8: world we live in, they are going to partake in it.

846
00:44:43,880 --> 00:44:47,120
Speaker 8: It's no way to avoid this with your children, because

847
00:44:47,160 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 8: they got the internet, they got peer pressure, They go

848
00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,719
Speaker 8: to school every day, they spend more time away from

849
00:44:51,719 --> 00:44:53,920
Speaker 8: you than they do with you. So all you can

850
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:57,160
Speaker 8: do is hope that your teachings resonate with them while

851
00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 8: they away, and then prepare yourself for the mistake that

852
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 8: they are going to make. And they are all going

853
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:06,600
Speaker 8: to make mistakes, and you will feel horrible about it,

854
00:45:06,640 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 8: and you will think of this as if reflection on

855
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:10,520
Speaker 8: you as parenting, but it's not.

856
00:45:11,040 --> 00:45:12,920
Speaker 7: It's not reflective of you as a parent.

857
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:15,479
Speaker 8: You can teach your children the right way all you want,

858
00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 8: they gonna go out here and make a decision that

859
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,839
Speaker 8: goes counter to everything you've ever told them.

860
00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:22,839
Speaker 7: So it's a dilemma. But putting your.

861
00:45:22,719 --> 00:45:25,440
Speaker 8: Boy out the house is not the solution. And I

862
00:45:25,480 --> 00:45:27,719
Speaker 8: don't know where she coming with that. If you think

863
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:30,120
Speaker 8: putting them out your house is the solution, you sadly

864
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:33,760
Speaker 8: mistaken about that. Because this boy out here got active

865
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 8: at fourteen, you're gonna put him out? Well, what you're

866
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 8: thinking have now? So you got to talk to your

867
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 8: boy about respect. You got to get him to understand

868
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:46,239
Speaker 8: the way to treat women. And that's it. It's a

869
00:45:46,280 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 8: tough one, but you got state of course. But raise

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Speaker 8: your son is the right way, man, Tell them the

871
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Speaker 8: right thing. How to be respectful of women, you know,

872
00:45:53,040 --> 00:45:55,440
Speaker 8: because you got to remember too. You don't want nobody

873
00:45:55,440 --> 00:45:56,480
Speaker 8: doing your daughter like that?

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Speaker 1: Do you right?

875
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 7: Right? Raise your boys accordingly, and the whole protection comed.

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, great advice.

877
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Speaker 7: Steve.

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Speaker 1: Coming up next, it is the Nephew with today's prank

879
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

880
00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:22,720
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.

881
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:25,760
Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today,

882
00:46:25,800 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: and the subject is trying to get through the holidays.

883
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Speaker 1: We'll get into that in just a few find out

884
00:46:30,480 --> 00:46:33,000
Speaker 1: what that's all about. Right now, Junior's in for the

885
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,040
Speaker 1: nephew with the frank for today.

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Speaker 7: What you got now? What you got?

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Speaker 10: Yah?

888
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,840
Speaker 7: Know what? Musca mob pity running?

889
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Speaker 1: Can your best impression?

890
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Speaker 3: Nephew, I don't want to represent him, will Hello, marg

891
00:46:51,000 --> 00:46:54,959
Speaker 3: I'm trying to read muscle Marvin, get it me. What's cranking? Hey?

892
00:46:55,080 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 3: Uh you you you'd have got to do the training

893
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Speaker 3: up there at jail.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, what's trying to give one of my classes? Or something.

895
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 3: Okay, what kind of classes you got.

896
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:05,160
Speaker 13: Well, let me see, I got a roab's martial arts

897
00:47:05,160 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 13: and I got body building classes. Or it's really about

898
00:47:08,360 --> 00:47:10,440
Speaker 13: whatever you want to do.

899
00:47:10,080 --> 00:47:12,440
Speaker 3: You you teach martial arts too.

900
00:47:12,760 --> 00:47:14,960
Speaker 13: Yeah, I'm third degree black belt. Man, I've you know,

901
00:47:14,960 --> 00:47:17,240
Speaker 13: I've been doing martial arts before I started to budy

902
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:18,120
Speaker 13: building or whatever.

903
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 3: Oh oh, okay, okay, no I ain't. I ain't trying to. Okay, listen,

904
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:26,760
Speaker 3: my my my wife actually been coming to that gym

905
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:28,920
Speaker 3: for at least two or three years now.

906
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 7: Okay.

907
00:47:29,880 --> 00:47:32,920
Speaker 3: Now, the problem that I'm having, man, is that I

908
00:47:33,000 --> 00:47:34,839
Speaker 3: wanted to call and just be a man and call

909
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,800
Speaker 3: and specifically talk to you. But my wife is telling

910
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 3: me that when she comes to the gym, that Mussell

911
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:45,480
Speaker 3: Marvin is always asking her about personal training, trying to

912
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:48,480
Speaker 3: get her to pay for personal training and being one

913
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:50,600
Speaker 3: of your foot camp class World.

914
00:47:50,360 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 13: World War hold up home and a man, take this out, man.

915
00:47:52,880 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 13: I don't ask people to train them. People ask me

916
00:47:55,800 --> 00:47:58,399
Speaker 13: to train them. I got three classes in each thing

917
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,040
Speaker 13: that I do, bro, I got to many folks already.

918
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 17: Man.

919
00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,440
Speaker 13: I spend most of my time trying to get a break. Man,

920
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:05,640
Speaker 13: what is he talking about I'm asking somebody to train.

921
00:48:05,880 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 3: My wife is telling me, man, when she come up

922
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 3: to the gym, it's hard for her to work out

923
00:48:10,520 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 3: because Mussel Marvin is, you know, always hounding up, you know,

924
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,760
Speaker 3: flexing you. You're taking your shirt off. People ain't supposed

925
00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,560
Speaker 3: to be taking their shirt off in the gym. You got

926
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:22,920
Speaker 3: your your chest yo, yo, yo, just jumping from side

927
00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,520
Speaker 3: to side. You know, I don't know what all this about.

928
00:48:25,719 --> 00:48:27,279
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying. But I'm calling you as

929
00:48:27,320 --> 00:48:30,680
Speaker 3: a man to tell you this right here, this right here,

930
00:48:30,800 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 3: this right here. Fin to stop.

931
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 13: Man, Oh hold on, man, watch the way you're talking

932
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:34,560
Speaker 13: to me.

933
00:48:34,640 --> 00:48:34,960
Speaker 7: Bruh.

934
00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:38,760
Speaker 13: I've already told you man, I don't be asking nobody

935
00:48:38,840 --> 00:48:40,600
Speaker 13: to train. And as a matter of fact, man, who

936
00:48:40,719 --> 00:48:42,879
Speaker 13: is your wife? Just daying? This is gym and women

937
00:48:43,000 --> 00:48:46,040
Speaker 13: come through here every day. Bruh, bruh. I don't know who, yo,

938
00:48:46,120 --> 00:48:47,840
Speaker 13: who is your wife? Specifically?

939
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:51,359
Speaker 3: My wife is Coray Coryn all right. And I told

940
00:48:51,400 --> 00:48:55,720
Speaker 3: you earlier I'm Jason. Where the okay? And the problem

941
00:48:55,840 --> 00:48:58,839
Speaker 3: is is that you running up on my wife? Man? Hey, Now,

942
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:00,680
Speaker 3: I don't know, I don't know if you I don't

943
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,719
Speaker 3: know what the deal. Is you attracted to or what?

944
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:05,480
Speaker 3: But you keep running up on her about you know,

945
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 3: taking personal training, getting personal training from you. She don't

946
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:10,919
Speaker 3: need all that, but she can't come up that work

947
00:49:11,200 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 3: takes the gide manflexing all the time.

948
00:49:13,880 --> 00:49:17,799
Speaker 13: Man, you tripping man out and told you I don't

949
00:49:17,840 --> 00:49:20,160
Speaker 13: know who your wife is, but you're starting to run

950
00:49:20,200 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 13: me hot. Listen, man, I don't know who your wife is.

951
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:25,000
Speaker 13: I don't know. No, Corey, I don't even know you.

952
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 3: Coryn see r I in corn Man, Coryn, you.

953
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 13: Telling me, you calling me like a man. If you

954
00:49:31,520 --> 00:49:33,360
Speaker 13: want to be a man, bring up up here to

955
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,680
Speaker 13: where I'm at. Man, all you gotta do is come

956
00:49:35,760 --> 00:49:37,640
Speaker 13: up here and you could talk to me in my faith,

957
00:49:37,719 --> 00:49:40,520
Speaker 13: since you're a man. Cause only cowards talk over the phone.

958
00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:44,480
Speaker 3: Okay, you not the coward. I'm finna tell you this.

959
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 3: See a mister mussel, Marvin.

960
00:49:46,280 --> 00:49:48,520
Speaker 13: You know where I'm missing your wife's training up here.

961
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:50,719
Speaker 13: I ain't ask your wife to do nothing. Man, you

962
00:49:50,920 --> 00:49:54,200
Speaker 13: lost your mind. Hey, take the eye, brother, bruh. Watch

963
00:49:54,239 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 13: the way you handle me.

964
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:57,040
Speaker 3: No, no, you watch the way you handling me and

965
00:49:57,120 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 3: the way you running up on my wife. I tell

966
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:02,560
Speaker 3: you what Hugo, you'll go your warning musclemorrow, let my

967
00:50:02,600 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 3: wife come on one more time telling me you got

968
00:50:05,600 --> 00:50:08,520
Speaker 3: your jumping all in the mirror, got your shirt off.

969
00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,040
Speaker 3: Instead of running up on you, I'm coming up there

970
00:50:11,160 --> 00:50:13,920
Speaker 3: this jail and I'm whooping your I don't get but

971
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 3: my many muffles. You got you.

972
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,960
Speaker 13: Coming the walls. Take designed, man, I mean right now,

973
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 13: bring your tide. It's up here anyway. And anything you

974
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 13: got to do with me, we can do right now.

975
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:26,520
Speaker 13: What you got to wait till the next time for

976
00:50:26,800 --> 00:50:29,560
Speaker 13: when you can bring your legs up here your two

977
00:50:29,600 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 13: dollars five SAIDs up here right now and we can

978
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:34,279
Speaker 13: take care of this issue right now. Bruh, cause I

979
00:50:34,280 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 13: don't run from nothing. I ain't stilling number Jesus. So

980
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:39,200
Speaker 13: whatever you talking about, Tipner, snake gy it cracking man,

981
00:50:39,280 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 13: you ain't got to wait to the tomorrow for what

982
00:50:40,640 --> 00:50:41,320
Speaker 13: you can do today.

983
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:43,759
Speaker 3: I don't care nothing about your martial arts man. I

984
00:50:43,760 --> 00:50:45,759
Speaker 3: don't care nothing about no Bruce Lee. I don't care

985
00:50:45,760 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 3: nothing about none of that.

986
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:48,800
Speaker 9: I don't give it about no muscle unties.

987
00:50:49,120 --> 00:50:51,399
Speaker 3: We gonna go to the hood with this. We're gonna

988
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:54,120
Speaker 3: take it today there wherever we gotta take it, But

989
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:56,000
Speaker 3: you ain't gonna be running up on my wife. Man,

990
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:57,600
Speaker 3: bout your boy the building.

991
00:50:57,680 --> 00:51:00,320
Speaker 13: Man, I done told you for the last time that

992
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 13: I don't know who your wife is. I deal with

993
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:06,040
Speaker 13: women at all. They know this a gym. I don't

994
00:51:06,040 --> 00:51:08,320
Speaker 13: walk around here with my shirt off. I got on

995
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:09,040
Speaker 13: a T shirt.

996
00:51:09,200 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 3: So why is my wife telling me you the one

997
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,760
Speaker 3: running up on hers flexing? You with all your muscles

998
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:17,080
Speaker 3: and all this? Man, Why missa Mussell Marvin, Cause.

999
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:19,200
Speaker 13: I fletched when I finished lifting. If you would know

1000
00:51:19,239 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 13: what a muscle really look a feeling like, you would

1001
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 13: understand the process of that. But obviously says I don't

1002
00:51:24,120 --> 00:51:26,600
Speaker 13: never see your lit twenty two pounds up here. They

1003
00:51:26,600 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 13: don't know that area.

1004
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 3: Don't you telling me a musseus? I got muscles too,

1005
00:51:30,680 --> 00:51:32,839
Speaker 3: Mussele Marvin. Now I might not be in the gym

1006
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,200
Speaker 3: flexing them every day, but I got muscles too.

1007
00:51:35,360 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 13: You got muscles.

1008
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:38,240
Speaker 3: You don't know what you're dinner with. Boy, I'm benching

1009
00:51:38,280 --> 00:51:39,040
Speaker 3: one eighty five.

1010
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,319
Speaker 13: You hear me, you bent in one eighty five.

1011
00:51:41,400 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 3: I'm betting one eighty five. I got muscles too, Mister

1012
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,880
Speaker 3: Mussell Marvin, you gonna quit disrespecting me when I'm not

1013
00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,000
Speaker 3: at the gym. Run up on my wife. Man, you

1014
00:51:50,040 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 3: hear me.

1015
00:51:50,560 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 13: I disrespect people who disrespect me. You call me with

1016
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,520
Speaker 13: this land. I told you in the very virginning I

1017
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 13: didn't know who your wife was. Now you studied trying

1018
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:00,680
Speaker 13: to make me know somebody out of no bruck. I

1019
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:01,640
Speaker 13: don't have time for this.

1020
00:52:02,120 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 3: I'm on ump your slow talking. If you run up

1021
00:52:05,239 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 3: on my wife again, I'm fina go.

1022
00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:08,719
Speaker 13: Out in Pune with your ignorant because it's obvious you

1023
00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,319
Speaker 13: a cow, which you ain't, no man, because you just

1024
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:11,880
Speaker 13: took the offhae when I told you to bring your

1025
00:52:11,920 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 13: little up here and we could have figured this here,

1026
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:16,440
Speaker 13: hiding person you want to talk, fly over the phone,

1027
00:52:16,560 --> 00:52:19,160
Speaker 13: get up off here and come down here and we

1028
00:52:19,200 --> 00:52:21,040
Speaker 13: could take care of this right now. You ain't gotta

1029
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:23,280
Speaker 13: make no threats over the phone, Bruh. Bring your list

1030
00:52:23,320 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 13: up here to where I'm at. You d' what I

1031
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:27,360
Speaker 13: feel like that? I got too much of it to do.

1032
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 3: Get off the phone, say man, I got something else

1033
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 3: I need to say to you. What you listen to me?

1034
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:33,440
Speaker 13: Bruh, don't do your stuff like that. It's gonna be

1035
00:52:33,440 --> 00:52:35,520
Speaker 13: a misunderstanding and you ain't prepared to handle it.

1036
00:52:35,560 --> 00:52:37,239
Speaker 3: I got one more thing I need to say to

1037
00:52:37,280 --> 00:52:38,040
Speaker 3: you as you listening.

1038
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:40,000
Speaker 13: I'm hell yeah, I'm listening. I'm listening for you to

1039
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,600
Speaker 13: say you got your hundred eighty five pounds and no

1040
00:52:42,760 --> 00:52:44,719
Speaker 13: way down here too, so we could take care of

1041
00:52:44,760 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 13: this here.

1042
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,759
Speaker 3: Listen, nephew, Tommy from the Steve Harby Morning Show. You

1043
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,920
Speaker 3: just got pranked by your homebody. But you said, what.

1044
00:52:55,400 --> 00:52:57,879
Speaker 13: Hello, man, what did you say?

1045
00:52:59,120 --> 00:53:02,680
Speaker 3: Mussa mom? All right?

1046
00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:17,360
Speaker 18: Man, oh man, you're good, You're good, You're good, massa,

1047
00:53:17,480 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 18: marm it.

1048
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:19,359
Speaker 3: I got you. Man.

1049
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,320
Speaker 13: I'm gonna slap that damn one of these forty five

1050
00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:26,600
Speaker 13: pounds dump bells when I see this. Man, Man, y'all tripping?

1051
00:53:26,760 --> 00:53:27,200
Speaker 3: Man?

1052
00:53:29,120 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 13: Right, yeah, I'm good, man, I'm good.

1053
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:33,919
Speaker 3: I got one more thing I gotta ask you, man,

1054
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 3: what is what is the baddest I'm talking about the

1055
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:38,719
Speaker 3: baddest radio show in the land.

1056
00:53:38,840 --> 00:53:40,799
Speaker 13: Man, the Steve Harvey Morning the Show.

1057
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 10: Many boy, you the greatest? Do it?

1058
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:57,520
Speaker 12: Oh?

1059
00:53:57,600 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: So what I do?

1060
00:53:59,000 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 3: I do?

1061
00:53:59,400 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 7: Pray?

1062
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:03,600
Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you up. Next, it is my

1063
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,520
Speaker 1: Strawberry letter for today, and the subject is trying to

1064
00:54:06,520 --> 00:54:10,319
Speaker 1: get through the holidays. We'll get into that right after this.

1065
00:54:11,239 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 6: Christmas is a time for joy, and joy is most

1066
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Speaker 6: powerful when it's shared at the Salvation Army. Your twenty

1067
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Speaker 6: five dollars monthly gift helps provide warm meals, safe shelter,

1068
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Speaker 6: and Christmas hope for families right in your neighborhood this season.

1069
00:54:26,160 --> 00:54:29,960
Speaker 6: Lift spirits, including your own. Knowing you're making Christmas brighter

1070
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Speaker 6: and futures stronger. Give with joy at Salvation ARMYUSA dot

1071
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Speaker 6: org or at a Red Kettle near you that Salvation

1072
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Speaker 6: Army USA dot org.

1073
00:54:42,040 --> 00:54:43,799
Speaker 7: Is you, Steve Robin Martin show Man?

1074
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 1: Listen, man, hey man. This it's why you say God

1075
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,400
Speaker 1: did it again. He keep saying it every day, You

1076
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: keep saying it.

1077
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:51,600
Speaker 7: Over and over.

1078
00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:52,000
Speaker 8: He did.

1079
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,960
Speaker 11: He woke me up, got another opportunity.

1080
00:54:54,000 --> 00:54:55,839
Speaker 1: Well, how do you handle somebody that's about say, how

1081
00:54:55,880 --> 00:54:56,239
Speaker 1: do you know what?

1082
00:54:56,360 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 7: God?

1083
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:57,799
Speaker 1: It could be me doing this?

1084
00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 8: Okay, keep on thinking, man. You know I'm not really

1085
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 8: good at the witnessing part.

1086
00:55:04,239 --> 00:55:04,479
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1087
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:07,480
Speaker 8: I'm more of a witness through example and a witness

1088
00:55:07,520 --> 00:55:09,960
Speaker 8: through you know, you look at me and see how

1089
00:55:10,000 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 8: good God is being. But if you're defiant to that,

1090
00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:18,080
Speaker 8: I'm not really the best Christian for that because I

1091
00:55:18,120 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 8: don't have time. I just really don't have time to

1092
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:23,280
Speaker 8: address a person that thinks it's them.

1093
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 7: And not God. I really don't know.

1094
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,360
Speaker 8: Look, I'm not going to get into a debate with

1095
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 8: you about it, as I oftentimes see people do.

1096
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:33,319
Speaker 7: That's just not my strong suit because me.

1097
00:55:33,360 --> 00:55:35,880
Speaker 8: Personally, if you don't believe in God, I think you

1098
00:55:36,040 --> 00:55:41,360
Speaker 8: a fool. I think you're a complete idiotic fool. I

1099
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:45,000
Speaker 8: think you're an imbelcome. But then I'm pretty sure if

1100
00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 8: you're an atheist, you must feel the same way about

1101
00:55:48,480 --> 00:55:51,279
Speaker 8: me and other people who believe in God. How can

1102
00:55:51,320 --> 00:55:54,360
Speaker 8: you believe in this unseen power? How can you believe

1103
00:55:54,400 --> 00:55:57,120
Speaker 8: in this? I got a lot of proof. But if

1104
00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 8: you think I'm a fool, and I think you a fool,

1105
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 8: like I said on Piers Morgan that time, I just

1106
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:06,280
Speaker 8: don't think two fools ought to be standing around talking

1107
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:08,400
Speaker 8: to Steve Harby Morris.

1108
00:56:08,160 --> 00:56:13,760
Speaker 7: Show coming up right after you're.

1109
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 1: Listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for

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Speaker 1: today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, works, thanks, parenting,

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Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

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Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going

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Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you

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Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 7: It could be yours. Buckle up and hold on time.

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Speaker 7: We got it for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject trying to get through the holidays.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm in love with another man, and

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Speaker 1: I just need to make it through the holidays with

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Speaker 1: my current boyfriend so I can dump him and get

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Speaker 1: with the new guy. But I need your advice before

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Speaker 1: I let a sure thing go and move on to

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Speaker 1: a fairy tale lover. I don't want to leave my

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Speaker 1: current boyfriend just yet because he is getting my breaks

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Speaker 1: fixed on my car and he's getting me a bracelet

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Speaker 1: that I want for Christmas. I already saw it hiding

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Speaker 1: in his drawer, so I'm doing all I can to

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Speaker 1: stay faithful until the new year. My new man is

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Speaker 1: in a similar situation, but he's married. He advised me

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Speaker 1: to stay put while he lets his marriage fizzle on out.

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Speaker 1: He and his wife don't have any children, so he

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Speaker 1: can make a clean break. We've been looking at apartments together,

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Speaker 1: but I told him we might be moving too soon

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Speaker 1: by choosing to move in together. I agree that I

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Speaker 1: will put the apartment and all of the utilities in

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Speaker 1: my name until his divorce is finalized. I told my

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Speaker 1: sister about my excitement over the new guy, and she

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00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: wanted to meet him, but he said it's best to

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Speaker 1: not invite family into our messed up situation until he's

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Speaker 1: out of his marriage. My sister took that as a

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Speaker 1: bad sign that he's going to have me staying in

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Speaker 1: an apartment all by myself and he's going to come

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Speaker 1: over and have sex with me and go right back

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Speaker 1: to his wife. I don't think that's the case, because

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Speaker 1: this guy is the one that initiated everything. He pursued

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Speaker 1: me and told me I deserve to be treated like

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Speaker 1: a queen. Meanwhile, my boyfriend does not take me out anymore,

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Speaker 1: and he never wants to have sex. All he does

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Speaker 1: is ask me to be patient with him because he's

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Speaker 1: working on a master plan for us. It's been three

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Speaker 1: years and he's not even ready to live together.

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Speaker 7: Do I start with.

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Speaker 1: My prince or stay with this bump? All right? I

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Speaker 1: know we've said this before about a lot of strawberry letters.

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Speaker 1: But I think this is one of the truly dumbest

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Speaker 1: letters we've had. And I hope the men that are

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Speaker 1: listening don't think all women are like this, because we

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Speaker 1: are not. It's wrong what you're doing to your current boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: who doesn't take you out anymore, who doesn't want to

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Speaker 1: have sex with you. Maybe he knows about the man

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Speaker 1: that you have, this married man. Just say, if you

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Speaker 1: don't want your boyfriend, let him go. You ask for

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Speaker 1: advice about leaving your current boyfriend before you let a

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Speaker 1: sure thing go. And here it is. I mean, he

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Speaker 1: said he's just waiting for his marriage to fizzle out.

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Speaker 1: I mean, do you hear how stupid that sounds. There's

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Speaker 1: no end date, no nothing, no papers in the works, nothing.

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Speaker 1: Then you volunteer to put the apartment and all of

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Speaker 1: the utilities in your name. Now, why would you do that?

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Speaker 1: Why would you do that for a man who's married.

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Speaker 1: You said he pursued you and said you should.

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Speaker 7: Be treated like a queen.

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Speaker 1: Well, yes you should, we all should, but this is

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Speaker 1: not queen treatment. A queen wouldn't accept any of this mess.

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Speaker 1: There are way too many red flags here. Your sister

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Speaker 1: saw them, right, away when he said he didn't want

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Speaker 1: to meet her until he got out of his marriage.

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Speaker 1: That sounded like a cop out to her, but not

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Speaker 1: to you. You are still making excuses for him. Listen,

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Speaker 1: this married man is gonna do just That's what your

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Speaker 1: sister said. If he's that into you, then then why

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Speaker 1: not get out of his marriage then get with you,

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Speaker 1: and you should back off until he gets out of

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Speaker 1: his marriage. You're you're talking about making all these moves

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Speaker 1: and he's not available. Okay, he is not available for

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Speaker 1: you to do this right now, so don't do it.

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Speaker 9: Steve.

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Speaker 7: I'm so sickreous, I'm tired, I'm time.

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Speaker 8: I'm gonna just tell you all right now, after I

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Speaker 8: do this strawberry letter, I'm gonna go in there and

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Speaker 8: lay down, you know, because I'm tired. I don't know

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Speaker 8: what to keep telling y'all. I don't know why y'all

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Speaker 8: keep trying me. But today today, though today ain't today.

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Speaker 8: I ain't the one fault today. Let's just get into it.

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Speaker 8: I'm telling you nothing but raw, raw truth, a w truth.

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Speaker 8: I'm in love with another man, Okay. I just need

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Speaker 8: to make it through the holidays with my current boyfriend.

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Speaker 8: So I can dump him and get with the new guy. Wow,

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Speaker 8: this letter got stupid rode on it so far, because

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Speaker 8: right now we just talking about a boyfriend. This ain't

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Speaker 8: even a marriage, and I can dump him to get

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Speaker 8: the new guy. But I need your advice and hear

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Speaker 8: where I come here at before I let a sure

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Speaker 8: thing go and move on to a fairy tale level.

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Speaker 8: So we gonna let go of the sure thing to

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Speaker 8: go to the fairy tale level. But let's find out

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Speaker 8: a little bit about this show thing in this fairy

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Speaker 8: tale level.

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Speaker 7: I don't want to leave. Listen to this reason right here.

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Speaker 8: I don't want to leave my carent boyfriend just yet,

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Speaker 8: because he's getting my breaks fixed on my car and

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Speaker 8: he give me a bracelet I want for Christmas.

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Speaker 7: I'll be.

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Speaker 8: Your whole life is hanging on some breaks and a bracelet.

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Speaker 8: You done put your life on hold so you can

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Speaker 8: get some breaks and a bracelet. I'm gonna tell you

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Speaker 8: right now you ain't worth it. I'm just gonna tell

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Speaker 8: you that you're not. You are so cheap you're worth

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Speaker 8: a set of breaks and a bracelet. Girl, I already

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Speaker 8: saw it hiding in this drawer, so I'm doing all

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Speaker 8: I can to be stay faithful until the new year.

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Speaker 7: You're gonna ride it out. You're gonna stay faithful for

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Speaker 7: the Embraceleting breaks. That's all that take to be and

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Speaker 7: b break. Bracelet boyfriend break.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part of your response coming up at twenty

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Speaker 1: three minutes after the subject of today's strawberry letter trying

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Speaker 1: to get through the holidays. We'll get back into this

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Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 12: champion starts with a first glide.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is trying to get through the holidays.

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Speaker 8: This ignorant strawberry letters about a woman is trying to

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Speaker 8: get through the straw trying to get through the holidays

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Speaker 8: because she in lowd with the no the man.

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Speaker 7: But she don't want to.

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Speaker 8: Leave her boyfriend yet because she can't dump him just

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Speaker 8: yet because she need advice. But now she say, before

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Speaker 8: I let a sure thing go and move on to

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Speaker 8: a fairy tale level.

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Speaker 7: Hear why she don't want to.

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Speaker 8: Leave her current boyfriend ready because he getting my breaks

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01:04:16,800 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 8: fixed on my car and he gonna get me a

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Speaker 8: bracelet I want for Christmas? That is Hey, y'all out

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Speaker 8: there that's got real lives. How many y'all willing.

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Speaker 7: To hold your life up for a break job and

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Speaker 7: a bracelet?

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Speaker 8: How many of y'all feed delay your happiness and what

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Speaker 8: you really want over some breaks? Probably just need some

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Speaker 8: new pants at a bracelet. Already saw it hiding in

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Speaker 8: this drawer, So I'm doing all I can to stay

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Speaker 8: faithful until the new year. He was just laying in

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Speaker 8: the drawer. It wasn't it a box or nothing? Your bracelet, hot,

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Speaker 8: that's a lot of bracelet.

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Speaker 1: Drawers just laying in the drawer.

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Speaker 8: You don't see it in no velvet bar, nothing your

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Speaker 8: breathlet heart. He just got that out to pawn shopping.

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Speaker 8: When they find it. They gonna take your breaklet from you.

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Speaker 8: My new man is in a similar situation, but he married.

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Speaker 8: Mister got done, wow breaks, bracelets, break up and boyfriend

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Speaker 8: the fox bees.

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Speaker 7: Here we go.

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Speaker 8: My new man is in a similar situation, but he married.

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Speaker 8: He advised me to stay put while he lets his

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Speaker 8: marriage fizzle own out. What what does that mean?

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Speaker 7: What does that mean? I'm gonna let my marriage fizzle

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Speaker 7: own out?

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Speaker 1: Girl? This ain't a birthday counterla.

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Speaker 8: You can't just wait till your marriage fizzle out. This

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Speaker 8: ain't one of them sparkless we used to have when

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Speaker 8: we was kids. You know, you lighting, you waving around

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Speaker 8: till it's fizzle out. This is marriage. This ain't no firecracker.

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Speaker 8: This is marriage. He can't just let it fizzle out.

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Speaker 8: He got to go to court and they got something

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Speaker 8: for your little fizzle out playing.

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Speaker 7: I can tell you that right now. I'm been dying.

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Speaker 8: Now talk about you gonna let it fizzle out. They're

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Speaker 8: finna help your outside, is what they finn do? This

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Speaker 8: fen the cost?

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Speaker 7: This hain't you don't let marriage fizzle out.

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Speaker 8: He and his wife don't have any children, so he

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Speaker 8: can make a clean break. What what did you say?

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Speaker 8: You think, cause ain't no kids involved, you can make

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Speaker 8: a clean break, girl.

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Speaker 7: Bye.

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Speaker 8: We've been looking at apartments together, but I told him

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Speaker 8: we might be moving too soon by choosing to move

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Speaker 8: in together. He not moving in with you. All y'all

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01:06:48,840 --> 01:06:52,480
Speaker 8: been doing is looking at apartments. He can't move in

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Speaker 8: with you cause the marriage ain't fizzled our chet, it's

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Speaker 8: still sparkling.

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Speaker 7: Show dumb self.

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Speaker 8: I agreed that I will put the apartment in all

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Speaker 8: the utilities in my name until his divorce is finalized.

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01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:14,080
Speaker 8: They gonna stay in your name even if he do

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Speaker 8: get a divorce. Who who switch?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 8: Switched names on apartments and electric bills and all that? Girl,

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Speaker 8: I can't believe you this signat. I told my sister

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Speaker 8: about my excitement over the new guy, and she wanted

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Speaker 8: to meet me. But he said it's best not to

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01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:36,920
Speaker 8: invite family into our messed up situation. That's a true

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Speaker 8: statement until he's out of his marriage. My sister took

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Speaker 8: that as a bad sign. Your sister stupid too. She

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Speaker 8: took the fact that he didn't want to meet her

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Speaker 8: as a bad sign. You don't think the bad sign

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Speaker 8: is he married? Ain't that ain't a bad sign? Also, y'all.

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01:08:01,920 --> 01:08:04,400
Speaker 8: Y'all think the bad sign is he didn't won't meet you.

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01:08:07,520 --> 01:08:11,720
Speaker 8: The bad sign is he married and he told you

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01:08:11,840 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 8: he waiting on his marriage to fizzle out. They ain't

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Speaker 8: got no kids yet, so they're gonna make a clean break.

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Speaker 8: Let me show you how this marriage fit in a fizzle.

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Speaker 8: She fit to get pregnant because the wife don't know

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Speaker 8: nothing about this. This is him telling you that the

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Speaker 8: marriage is fizzling out. I promise you that the wife's

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Speaker 8: sitting over there thinking everything is honky doing. I promise

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Speaker 8: you that. I promise you that all men that's married

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Speaker 8: that's trying to have an affair with a woman gonna

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Speaker 8: tell him something wrong at the house. That's the opening

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Speaker 8: line because we play on the fact that you all

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Speaker 8: are nurturers by nature and y'all always want to fix something.

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Speaker 7: Let me hear him get through with this.

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Speaker 8: I don't think that it's the case because this guy's

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Speaker 8: one that initiated everything. Wait a minute, you don't think

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Speaker 8: that's the case because he initiated everything.

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Speaker 7: Curl you.

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Speaker 8: He pursued me and told me that I deserve to

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Speaker 8: be treated like a queen. Well, you're not getting treated

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Speaker 8: like a queen, though you don't see that. Meanwhile, my

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Speaker 8: boyfriend does not take me out anymore, and he never

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Speaker 8: wants to have sex. That's because he having sex somewhere else.

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Speaker 8: Y'all been together three years. All you getting is your

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Speaker 8: breaks fixed and a bracelet. You ain't getting no wed

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Speaker 8: and ring because you having sex with somebody else. Let

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Speaker 8: me tell you how stupid this is. You're in the

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Speaker 8: movie Dumb and Dumber. Your boyfriend is dumb, your married

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Speaker 8: boyfriend is dumb up, and you the hand signed.

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Speaker 1: A post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve

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Speaker 1: HARBFM on Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letter podcast on the free iHeartRadio app Free Never Sounded

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Speaker 1: So good? Downloaded Today you're listening to the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time to look into the

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Speaker 1: crazy mind of Jay Anthony Brown. Oh lord, I'm.

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Speaker 13: Glad you did that.

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Speaker 17: I'm glad you're doing that.

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Speaker 9: You are.

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Speaker 17: I know a lot of time. I have foolishness and craziness.

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Speaker 7: A lot of what you got today. Now with what's

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Speaker 7: in there today.

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Speaker 17: Something I have that's very will put put together a

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Speaker 17: little company that's called Side Piece Helper.

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Speaker 7: Now you won't for.

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Speaker 17: A side Piece, you won't be able to get in

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Speaker 17: touch with who you want to get in touch with

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Speaker 17: out on the holidays.

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Speaker 7: It's starting.

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Speaker 17: It's gonna be tough for you. But with Side Piece Helper,

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Speaker 17: I can call and get out all your frustration. They're

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Speaker 17: not gonna judge you. That's cause you call a friend,

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Speaker 17: they're gonna judge you. And I told you we're not

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Speaker 17: doing that at Side Peace Helper. Side Piece Helper is

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Speaker 17: helping side pieces get through the holidays.

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Speaker 1: They're listening, they're quiet, they.

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Speaker 17: Got good advice. Tommy knows about it. I mean you

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Speaker 17: we talked about putting together and so tell me what

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Speaker 17: what you got.

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Speaker 2: Now, Well, I mean, you know, they help us and

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Speaker 2: we are helpless, you know what I mean, And we're

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Speaker 2: gonna try to do what we can.

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Speaker 7: You get the message to your love war right, Okay,

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Speaker 7: So what.

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Speaker 19: You have to do is if you watch the movie Hair,

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Speaker 19: you go in your backyard and start saying it, and

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Speaker 19: then the people next to start singing, and soon a

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Speaker 19: lady the message we get weighed on the way to

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Speaker 19: the person that you wanted to get away.

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Speaker 17: You understand, get a message to the one love because

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Speaker 17: I know these able.

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Speaker 5: Side with everything in us.

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Speaker 7: You know, you guys.

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Speaker 1: One thing about this show.

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Speaker 17: We're always helping people. That's what this is.

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Speaker 7: Nobody out now and.

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Speaker 1: Get w this is this is ball up in a

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Speaker 1: not time.

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Speaker 7: This is time you ball up in the nine.

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Speaker 11: You didn't tell Joy about the side piece helper of

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Speaker 11: mobile app.

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Speaker 1: You didn't tell them.

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Speaker 12: Yes, go to the yeah like you need it, like

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Speaker 12: in side peace on Christmas.

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Speaker 11: You can't get it to it.

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Speaker 12: We will take a plate to her from your house

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Speaker 12: and we take the plate to her and we put

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Speaker 12: the you know, her gift transport Dad, you know whatever

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Speaker 12: it is.

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Speaker 7: You know what we got. You know what else we got.

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Speaker 7: We got side piece hamburger. Help. That's the dinner for them,

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Speaker 7: you see, that's the dinner for them to hand, you know,

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Speaker 7: because they can't have with everybody else. You see what

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Speaker 7: I'm saying.

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Speaker 17: Now you're thinking, download the app and get out of

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Speaker 17: that ball.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, you told her, how did your wife cooking?

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Speaker 13: Is?

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Speaker 7: Well?

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Speaker 12: Now she can taste it app all right?

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Speaker 1: Coming up more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this.

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Speaker 12: Everybody is your favorite play cousin, Junr. We want to

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Speaker 12: thank you for rocket with the Steve Harvey Morning Show

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Speaker 12: all year long. It is the holiday season and we

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Speaker 12: want to wish you a very merry Christmas for the

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Speaker 12: Steve Harry Morning Show and especially for your favorite play

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Speaker 12: cousin man.

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Speaker 11: I love y'all. Happy holidays.

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Speaker 4: You're listening.

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Speaker 1: Took the Steve Harvey Morning Show, all right. See this

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Speaker 1: is from Haley in Tampa. Haley says, I'm a thirty

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Speaker 1: year old teacher in my fiance's twelve year old son

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Speaker 1: transferred to my school so I can keep an eye

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Speaker 1: on him. The first time I addressed his son's grades,

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Speaker 1: the son got mad at me and told his teacher

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Speaker 1: that his dad still spends the night with his mom

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Speaker 1: sometimes because he wants her back. When I told my

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Speaker 1: fiance about that, he didn't say a word to his son.

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Speaker 1: He said, it's a cry for help and we need

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Speaker 1: to let him heal from their divorce in his own way.

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Speaker 1: Does that sound right to you?

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Speaker 7: Right there?

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Speaker 8: I'm so proud of him. I'm just man a man.

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Speaker 7: That one right there? Srey read his response, so.

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Speaker 1: She's he says, when I told my fiance about it,

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Speaker 1: he didn't say a word to his son. He said,

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Speaker 1: it's a cry for help, and we need to let

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Speaker 1: him heal from their divorce in his own way.

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Speaker 8: Yes, it's a cry for help and we need to

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Speaker 8: let him heal from this divorce in his own way.

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Speaker 7: Lord, do you know.

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Speaker 8: What he did with that lie? Let me tell you

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Speaker 8: how how great this one is. First of all, he

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Speaker 8: created a pathway by using his son's pain to allow

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Speaker 8: him to show concern and put the focus on the

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Speaker 8: boy's mental health.

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Speaker 7: Lord Hemmerton, come on.

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Speaker 8: And then at the same time never ever addressed the

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Speaker 8: accusation at hand, Lord Hemberson, Boy, let me tell you

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Speaker 8: something I ain't mentioned.

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Speaker 7: Spending the ninth won the woman back. None of that that.

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Speaker 8: Didn't even come up because the focus has been the

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Speaker 8: chows mental health, and with mental health issues being at

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Speaker 8: the forefront.

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Speaker 7: Of our society, I just want you can.

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Speaker 2: Use it to Peter, it's wrong to use it, but.

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Speaker 1: It is wrong to use it out y'all over here.

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Speaker 8: Problem inspired me because the next time what you say

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Speaker 8: anything to me, I'm goin to talk about the mental

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Speaker 8: health of our ship.

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Speaker 1: All right, I think we have time for another one.

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Speaker 1: This is from Peter Peter s f M. Peter says,

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Speaker 1: I want to I went out after work with a

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Speaker 1: group of co workers. We got lit. I told my

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Speaker 1: wife that I misplaced my keys. So I was getting

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Speaker 1: a ride home from a coworker. Uh, Jalen from a coworker, Jalen.

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Speaker 1: I was home in bed next to my wife when

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Speaker 1: my phone rang. I had to answer it, and it

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Speaker 1: was my coworker Lisa, letting me know that they found

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Speaker 1: my keys. My wife heard the whole call. She thinks

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Speaker 1: I was out cheating on her with a white lady.

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Speaker 1: I showed her my receipt and everything. She's not buying it.

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Speaker 1: What do I do?

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Speaker 7: I'll be.

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Speaker 1: What you Jalen.

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Speaker 7: The white girl called the house.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 1: This time of the night.

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Speaker 7: You got a ride, so she found a spiece. If

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Speaker 7: you don't get white called.

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Speaker 1: Out, I missed that.

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Speaker 7: You can't call my house at dinner. No more.

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Speaker 1: He had he had receiveds Steve, what receipts?

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Speaker 7: What kind of reid? Sure? What do his receipts say?

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Speaker 7: I was I wasn't with no white lady.

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Speaker 12: Yeah, he should have just brought off the mental health

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Speaker 12: of them children.

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Speaker 7: Carry over.

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Speaker 1: Refer to the letter one.

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Speaker 7: The whole phone conversation.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right, coming up at twenty minutes.

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Speaker 7: Involved in this dog right now, we will.

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Speaker 1: Have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you're right.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: These the gifts that me and really won't Okay, you

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Speaker 12: know what I said, I know what I said.

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Speaker 7: I know what I said.

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Speaker 11: He don't really matter, baby, but it do because.

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Speaker 1: Something real low key.

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Speaker 12: Let me tell you something we don't want bad gifts.

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01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:14,200
Speaker 12: Like bad gift is winter gloves. I boys don't ask

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Speaker 12: about winter glove. They don't ask about that.

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Speaker 7: Get cold. We put him in our pocket.

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Speaker 12: We put him in our pocket. Don't care about that.

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Speaker 12: There's another here's another gift that'll kill about a rope?

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Speaker 12: Our boys, rode beautiful road. We open this box up

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Speaker 12: again and see a rope. Okay, I tell you we're

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Speaker 12: not putting it out. We don't care about it.

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Speaker 7: Slips.

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Speaker 12: Excuse me, there's an exception. Well, well, I ain't experienced that.

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Speaker 12: I'm just gonna talk about what I want that.

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Speaker 11: Okay, I'm gonna look into that. I ain't there yet,

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Speaker 11: but I know the dudes I'll be dealing with.

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Speaker 1: We don't care about the roads we get.

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Speaker 8: Okay, you know, okay, won't the tearing cloth that one

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01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:07,000
Speaker 8: that looked like a tow burn your neck up, so

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Speaker 8: you put it on.

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Speaker 1: Steve, you don't want the short one.

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Speaker 20: Because I'm tall, one pocket. We don't want to show

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Speaker 20: our bullets.

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Speaker 11: That's all.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, that is true.

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Speaker 8: We won't gifts that we said dude, man, my girl,

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Speaker 8: man a man?

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01:20:30,160 --> 01:20:31,240
Speaker 7: Check what my girl got?

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01:20:31,479 --> 01:20:32,120
Speaker 1: Nice watch?

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01:20:32,720 --> 01:20:32,920
Speaker 6: Yeah?

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01:20:33,000 --> 01:20:35,679
Speaker 1: Why nice suit? All right, We'll be back with more

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01:20:35,760 --> 01:20:39,799
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after you're listening

1548
01:20:39,840 --> 01:20:47,480
Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey is Shirley Strawberry?

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01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:49,439
Speaker 1: You know who taught me my A B c's and

1550
01:20:49,439 --> 01:20:53,000
Speaker 1: what it means to be kind Sesame Street Sesame Workshop,

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01:20:53,080 --> 01:20:56,479
Speaker 1: the nonprofit behind Sesame Street. It's still doing that for

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01:20:56,640 --> 01:21:00,920
Speaker 1: kids everywhere. Elmo and Cookie Monster are out there teach kindness,

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01:21:00,920 --> 01:21:04,160
Speaker 1: empathy and joy. But they need our help to keep

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01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:07,599
Speaker 1: it going. So this holiday season, visit Sesame dot org

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01:21:07,640 --> 01:21:10,879
Speaker 1: and donate what you can. Once again, please visit Sesame

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Speaker 1: dot org this holiday season because the world needs Sesame

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01:21:14,439 --> 01:21:18,360
Speaker 1: and Sesame needs you. It is time now for a

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01:21:18,439 --> 01:21:21,080
Speaker 1: round of would you rather? Would you rather golf all

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01:21:21,160 --> 01:21:24,880
Speaker 1: day by yourself? Or would you rather watch a romantic

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01:21:24,920 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 1: movie with your wife golfing?

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01:21:28,439 --> 01:21:31,040
Speaker 11: I'm sorry, holiday, how far is that to the pens?

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01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:35,000
Speaker 7: I won't even play that much?

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01:21:35,240 --> 01:21:39,400
Speaker 1: Wow a consensus, everybody's going golfing.

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01:21:41,600 --> 01:21:42,679
Speaker 7: Let her watch the movie?

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01:21:42,960 --> 01:21:43,320
Speaker 9: Okay?

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01:21:43,479 --> 01:21:43,800
Speaker 2: All right?

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01:21:44,120 --> 01:21:45,920
Speaker 1: Wow, you know I guess you didn't hear I said

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01:21:46,600 --> 01:21:48,679
Speaker 1: romantic movie.

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01:21:49,720 --> 01:21:51,800
Speaker 7: I'm not gonna sit there and well, face, you.

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01:21:51,800 --> 01:21:52,280
Speaker 1: Can't do that.

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01:21:53,200 --> 01:22:01,280
Speaker 7: Ain't nobody got the notebook over golf? Come on out.

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01:22:01,120 --> 01:22:02,880
Speaker 8: There and look at that car in that driveway, and

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01:22:02,920 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 8: go upstairs and look at that jewelry in that bottle.

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01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:10,960
Speaker 7: Honey, Hold all right, feels a good movie? It is?

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01:22:11,520 --> 01:22:14,240
Speaker 1: Would you rather sleep with the phone on the dresser,

1576
01:22:14,520 --> 01:22:16,519
Speaker 1: just come in your bedroom, put your phone on the dresser,

1577
01:22:16,600 --> 01:22:18,639
Speaker 1: or would you rather sleep with the phone by your bed?

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01:22:18,880 --> 01:22:19,360
Speaker 1: Which one?

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01:22:20,520 --> 01:22:24,559
Speaker 7: My phone is in my draw I gotta get up

1580
01:22:25,520 --> 01:22:29,360
Speaker 7: like this. Would you rather my phone is.

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01:22:29,320 --> 01:22:34,759
Speaker 1: In That's not an option the dresser.

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01:22:47,640 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 7: It's on silent right, No white lady calling me.

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01:22:55,160 --> 01:22:57,080
Speaker 1: Dress on a night staying.

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01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:02,720
Speaker 7: In all right?

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01:23:03,240 --> 01:23:06,600
Speaker 1: Would you rather start in a Christmas stage play? Or

1586
01:23:06,640 --> 01:23:09,280
Speaker 1: would you rather cook an entire Christmas dinner?

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01:23:10,320 --> 01:23:14,400
Speaker 7: I'm starting? Oh yeah, I don't want either one. Not good.

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01:23:14,520 --> 01:23:16,960
Speaker 8: But I'm gonna in that kitchen that I went in

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01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:18,519
Speaker 8: that play because I don't know when I'm gonna be

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01:23:18,560 --> 01:23:21,599
Speaker 8: in the same age play at Christmas.

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01:23:22,080 --> 01:23:24,280
Speaker 12: Baby, I was in a Christmas stage play. I played

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01:23:24,320 --> 01:23:28,360
Speaker 12: all three wise men by my all three. We have

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01:23:28,560 --> 01:23:31,880
Speaker 12: enough people in the play. I just keep going back

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01:23:31,880 --> 01:23:35,440
Speaker 12: out with a new gift.

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01:23:40,000 --> 01:23:42,120
Speaker 11: I had to change my robe. I got a quick

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01:23:42,200 --> 01:23:43,599
Speaker 11: change at the church.

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01:23:46,160 --> 01:23:48,759
Speaker 7: That I'm gonna cook that I'm gonna.

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01:23:50,840 --> 01:23:53,400
Speaker 1: But your last one, guys, would you rather work as

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01:23:53,439 --> 01:23:57,080
Speaker 1: a bill collector or a fast food drive through window worker?

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01:23:57,200 --> 01:23:57,679
Speaker 1: Which one?

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01:23:57,720 --> 01:24:01,360
Speaker 7: Oh you're the one I'm cussing people. You got I

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01:24:01,400 --> 01:24:02,559
Speaker 7: won't in that window man?

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01:24:02,720 --> 01:24:03,040
Speaker 8: Come on.

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01:24:03,560 --> 01:24:04,639
Speaker 7: I want to see the people.

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01:24:04,720 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 1: Huh, what are you gonna say when they drive up?

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01:24:07,240 --> 01:24:08,280
Speaker 1: My whole world.

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01:24:08,160 --> 01:24:10,120
Speaker 8: Is gonna be putting the wrong stuff in that baby.

1608
01:24:14,960 --> 01:24:16,920
Speaker 8: You don't know your bag. You ain't got nothing but

1609
01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:20,960
Speaker 8: condiments in it, ain't no fish sal.

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01:24:25,200 --> 01:24:29,760
Speaker 1: Thank you guys. That's today's round with this mess. Would

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01:24:29,840 --> 01:24:32,639
Speaker 1: you rather coming up in forty nine minutes after we'll

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01:24:32,640 --> 01:24:35,639
Speaker 1: close out the show with the one and only Steve Harvey.

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01:24:35,760 --> 01:24:39,360
Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:24:43,360 --> 01:24:45,519
Speaker 7: Hey, good morning, This is your man, Steve Harvey.

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01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:49,320
Speaker 8: My favorite Christmas memory is my mom and dad, My

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01:24:49,400 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 8: mother and father.

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01:24:50,320 --> 01:24:51,439
Speaker 7: Man I missed him, SUF.

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01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:54,800
Speaker 8: Have a wonderful holiday season from yours truly right here,

1619
01:24:54,840 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 8: your boy Steve Harvey and the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:24:58,200 --> 01:25:01,040
Speaker 2: Hey, it's Tommy, and this season your home with more

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01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:05,120
Speaker 2: than decorations, filling with festive playlists, nosologic films and classic

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01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:08,880
Speaker 2: games that bring everyone together with sonos, the holidays come

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01:25:08,960 --> 01:25:11,879
Speaker 2: to light with speakers that connect throughout your home, wrapping

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01:25:11,960 --> 01:25:13,479
Speaker 2: all your guests in rich.

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01:25:13,400 --> 01:25:14,479
Speaker 7: Detailed sounds.

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01:25:14,520 --> 01:25:17,200
Speaker 2: Because the best gift doesn't sit under the tree, it

1627
01:25:17,280 --> 01:25:20,280
Speaker 2: plays in every room. Spred joy that lasts long after

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01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:23,920
Speaker 2: the season explores Sono Soundbard, speakers and more at Sonos

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Speaker 2: dot com. Once again, there's Sonos dot com.

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01:25:28,400 --> 01:25:30,240
Speaker 1: See their closing remarks are back as well.

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01:25:30,240 --> 01:25:34,320
Speaker 7: What you have for us, here we go. Here's a suggestion.

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01:25:35,479 --> 01:25:38,680
Speaker 8: Here, Here's what I came up with for today, a

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01:25:38,840 --> 01:25:42,280
Speaker 8: suggestion or something I've learned that has helped me out

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01:25:42,880 --> 01:25:49,800
Speaker 8: dramatically in accomplishing my goals and attaining my dreams. I

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01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:52,800
Speaker 8: still have things I'm after, still have goals that I've

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01:25:52,880 --> 01:25:55,840
Speaker 8: not yet met and dreams that i haven't seen come

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01:25:55,880 --> 01:25:59,080
Speaker 8: true yet. But I'm working on them and I know

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01:25:59,160 --> 01:26:02,040
Speaker 8: they will, and I know they will because I have

1639
01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:06,880
Speaker 8: mastered one technique of how to do it. I'm gonna

1640
01:26:06,880 --> 01:26:10,160
Speaker 8: share it with you right now. If you are wanting

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01:26:10,280 --> 01:26:14,200
Speaker 8: something from God, this is just for spiritual people. If

1642
01:26:14,200 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 8: you're not a spiritual person, you can go do what

1643
01:26:16,160 --> 01:26:19,000
Speaker 8: you want to do right now. Only this is for

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01:26:19,080 --> 01:26:27,360
Speaker 8: people who believe in God. When I want something for God,

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01:26:27,400 --> 01:26:30,719
Speaker 8: when I'm trying to reach a certain goal or fulfill

1646
01:26:30,760 --> 01:26:35,360
Speaker 8: a dream or attain something, I never go about it

1647
01:26:35,400 --> 01:26:38,719
Speaker 8: without his help. You know the things that I do

1648
01:26:38,760 --> 01:26:40,720
Speaker 8: that on my own, I'm just doing them you know,

1649
01:26:40,840 --> 01:26:43,720
Speaker 8: like you know, I don't know. Simple stuff, you know,

1650
01:26:43,800 --> 01:26:46,160
Speaker 8: like make sure I got water in my office so

1651
01:26:46,200 --> 01:26:47,040
Speaker 8: I can drink enough.

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01:26:47,400 --> 01:26:49,800
Speaker 7: I don't. I can do that, right.

1653
01:26:51,479 --> 01:26:55,519
Speaker 8: But let's say I have an aspiration or dream that's

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01:26:55,560 --> 01:26:58,599
Speaker 8: pretty big, as are most of mine, and as should

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01:26:58,680 --> 01:27:02,639
Speaker 8: yours be. You should dream as big as you possibly can.

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01:27:03,000 --> 01:27:07,040
Speaker 8: You should let your imagination lead you into the life

1657
01:27:07,040 --> 01:27:09,920
Speaker 8: that God has for you. Now, the way to do

1658
01:27:10,000 --> 01:27:13,599
Speaker 8: that is to first of all, ask, because the scripture

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01:27:13,640 --> 01:27:15,400
Speaker 8: says you have not because you ask not.

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01:27:16,680 --> 01:27:18,080
Speaker 7: And then you have to believe.

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01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:22,480
Speaker 8: You have to have faith that God can do anything

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01:27:22,600 --> 01:27:27,799
Speaker 8: but fail. The third thing you need is a work ethic,

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01:27:28,640 --> 01:27:32,960
Speaker 8: an unrelenting work ethic. There is a scripture that says

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01:27:33,160 --> 01:27:38,439
Speaker 8: faith without works is dead. So after you ask for

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01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:41,800
Speaker 8: this incredible dream or visional goal that you have, and

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01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:44,320
Speaker 8: you put the faith in it, the belief, you got

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01:27:44,439 --> 01:27:47,519
Speaker 8: to work because faith without works is dead.

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01:27:48,120 --> 01:27:48,759
Speaker 7: Okay, cool?

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01:27:49,400 --> 01:27:52,520
Speaker 8: Now, the best way to accomplish your dreams and gifts,

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01:27:53,160 --> 01:27:55,000
Speaker 8: First of all, you should tie it to your I

1671
01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:57,760
Speaker 8: mean your goals and gifts. Your goals and dreams, you

1672
01:27:57,840 --> 01:28:00,760
Speaker 8: have to tie it to your gift. Everything should be

1673
01:28:00,800 --> 01:28:03,560
Speaker 8: tied to your gift. Now, if you wan an airplane

1674
01:28:03,680 --> 01:28:05,400
Speaker 8: or go on special trips has nothing to do with

1675
01:28:05,439 --> 01:28:08,479
Speaker 8: your gift. But the route that you're gonna get to

1676
01:28:08,600 --> 01:28:12,479
Speaker 8: this goal and to this dream has to be tied

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01:28:12,520 --> 01:28:13,640
Speaker 8: to your gift.

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01:28:14,320 --> 01:28:14,679
Speaker 7: Okay.

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01:28:14,720 --> 01:28:18,400
Speaker 8: Now, once you do that and you ask God for

1680
01:28:18,600 --> 01:28:23,920
Speaker 8: something that's impossible, be careful who you share it with

1681
01:28:24,960 --> 01:28:29,240
Speaker 8: because sharing things from your imagination is not always in

1682
01:28:29,280 --> 01:28:34,240
Speaker 8: your best interest. Because your imagination is yours and yours alone.

1683
01:28:34,320 --> 01:28:37,280
Speaker 8: Other people can't see it, they don't see no way how.

1684
01:28:37,960 --> 01:28:40,840
Speaker 8: They just start shooting it down. But when you do

1685
01:28:41,040 --> 01:28:47,960
Speaker 8: ask God for this incredible thing, listen to me. The

1686
01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:54,000
Speaker 8: how too is none of your business. Let me repeat that.

1687
01:28:54,280 --> 01:28:58,160
Speaker 8: When you ask God for your visions, your goals, your dreams,

1688
01:28:58,200 --> 01:29:01,320
Speaker 8: your aspirations, and you believe he'll do it, and you're

1689
01:29:01,360 --> 01:29:03,800
Speaker 8: willing to work as hard as you can to accomplish it,

1690
01:29:04,600 --> 01:29:09,720
Speaker 8: that's all that's required of you. The how too is

1691
01:29:09,920 --> 01:29:13,840
Speaker 8: none of your business. Get out of the way. The

1692
01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:17,479
Speaker 8: reason there is no scripture that tells us as people

1693
01:29:18,000 --> 01:29:21,639
Speaker 8: to figure it out is because if you're asking God

1694
01:29:21,680 --> 01:29:25,000
Speaker 8: for something so big, you got to leave it up

1695
01:29:25,040 --> 01:29:28,519
Speaker 8: to him. You gotta let him handle it. The how

1696
01:29:28,600 --> 01:29:33,200
Speaker 8: to is not any of your business. The how too

1697
01:29:34,000 --> 01:29:38,360
Speaker 8: is not up to you. It's up to your faith

1698
01:29:38,439 --> 01:29:43,519
Speaker 8: and your belief in a higher power. Stop tripping on

1699
01:29:43,640 --> 01:29:48,479
Speaker 8: the how too. It ain't your business. The reason the

1700
01:29:48,600 --> 01:29:51,719
Speaker 8: how to is not up to you. I have found

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01:29:51,720 --> 01:29:55,240
Speaker 8: in my life is for this reason right here, because

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01:29:55,360 --> 01:30:00,800
Speaker 8: my ways and my understanding is not enough to get

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01:30:00,880 --> 01:30:03,760
Speaker 8: me to where I want to go, be half and

1704
01:30:03,880 --> 01:30:08,160
Speaker 8: attained to where I want to go be half n attained.

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01:30:08,479 --> 01:30:12,800
Speaker 1: My ways and my understanding is not.

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01:30:13,040 --> 01:30:17,760
Speaker 8: Enough because I'm asking God for something so huge that

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01:30:17,960 --> 01:30:21,200
Speaker 8: I don't know how to get it, but I know

1708
01:30:21,320 --> 01:30:27,040
Speaker 8: that he does. You can't even fathom his ways. You

1709
01:30:27,080 --> 01:30:30,160
Speaker 8: can quit tripping. You can save yourself a lot of time.

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01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:33,639
Speaker 8: You can't google his ways. You don't know the route

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01:30:33,640 --> 01:30:36,040
Speaker 8: he's gonna take. You don't know how he's gonna touch

1712
01:30:36,040 --> 01:30:38,599
Speaker 8: certain people's hearts along the way. You don't know how

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01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:41,599
Speaker 8: he's gonna move people into position to get you exactly

1714
01:30:41,640 --> 01:30:43,640
Speaker 8: what you need, when you need it, and how you

1715
01:30:43,720 --> 01:30:48,360
Speaker 8: need it. You have no idea what God is going

1716
01:30:48,520 --> 01:30:50,679
Speaker 8: to do and how he's going.

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01:30:50,560 --> 01:30:51,120
Speaker 7: To do it.

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01:30:51,600 --> 01:30:54,680
Speaker 8: So why trouble yourself with the how too? Because it

1719
01:30:54,720 --> 01:30:58,519
Speaker 8: ain't your business? The how too is not up to you.

1720
01:30:58,840 --> 01:31:01,160
Speaker 8: And the reason is not up to you is because

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01:31:01,160 --> 01:31:04,320
Speaker 8: when you ask for something so great that you absolutely

1722
01:31:04,360 --> 01:31:06,839
Speaker 8: have to have God's help to get it, your ways

1723
01:31:06,840 --> 01:31:10,479
Speaker 8: and understanding is not enough. You won't be able to

1724
01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:15,600
Speaker 8: accomplish it because you can't even fathom his ways. You

1725
01:31:16,000 --> 01:31:18,920
Speaker 8: have no idea how He's going to go about it.

1726
01:31:19,760 --> 01:31:25,439
Speaker 8: You're clueless. You can't move the pieces the way God can't.

1727
01:31:25,640 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 8: You can't do it man. As a matter of fact,

1728
01:31:29,080 --> 01:31:31,880
Speaker 8: if you try, you're all in the way. Now you're

1729
01:31:31,880 --> 01:31:34,719
Speaker 8: gonna mess it up. You are now blocking the blessing

1730
01:31:34,920 --> 01:31:37,880
Speaker 8: with concerning yourself with the how to. The how to

1731
01:31:38,040 --> 01:31:41,040
Speaker 8: is none of your business. You have to ask, believe,

1732
01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:44,679
Speaker 8: and be willing to work your tail off. That's how

1733
01:31:44,720 --> 01:31:49,639
Speaker 8: you accomplish it in life, and the how tools you'll.

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01:31:49,520 --> 01:31:59,479
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