1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,520 Speaker 1: Welcome to Had of Money. I'm Joel and I am Matt. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Today we're talking organizing your Money for twenty twenty four 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 1: with Elena Fingal. Yeah. So, how do you feel when 4 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:33,960 Speaker 1: I say the Container store, Because if you've never then before. 5 00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,760 Speaker 2: It's pretty self explanatory, right, Like, it's simply a retailer 6 00:00:36,800 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 2: that's dedicated to the organization of everything from Christmas decorations, 7 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 2: the tools in the. 8 00:00:41,920 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: Garage to your shoes in the closet. 9 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:46,800 Speaker 2: The last I checked, they didn't have anything specific to 10 00:00:46,920 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: organize your personal finances. And that's why we're lucky enough 11 00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 2: to be joined by the woman behind the Organized Money, 12 00:00:53,320 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 2: Elena Fingal. The Organized Money, it's an incredible resource. It's 13 00:00:57,040 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 2: a site, a blog. Alena creates a ton of videos 14 00:01:00,200 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 2: on YouTube, where she has nearly two hundred thousand subscribers, 15 00:01:04,080 --> 00:01:06,080 Speaker 2: and her goal is to help folks to build wealth 16 00:01:06,120 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 2: by helping them to organize their money. And as a 17 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 2: certified financial coach an author, Elena is on a mission 18 00:01:12,840 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 2: to help folks find financial peace by utilizing the different 19 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 2: systems that work for them. And you know, regardless of 20 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,880 Speaker 2: the thought of getting organized, if that lights you up, 21 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,680 Speaker 2: maybe you're more of a type a personality, or maybe 22 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:26,480 Speaker 2: you're feeling a little nervous right now, maybe you're more 23 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:27,240 Speaker 2: of a of. 24 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: A free spirit. 25 00:01:28,360 --> 00:01:31,759 Speaker 2: Regardless, having some sense of organization is so important when 26 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,639 Speaker 2: it comes to building wealth, and that's why we're pumped 27 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,760 Speaker 2: to be talking with Elena. Thank you so much for 28 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 2: joining us today on the podcast. 29 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:39,399 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to 30 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 3: be here. 31 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:41,400 Speaker 1: Matt look to me, by the way, when he said 32 00:01:41,400 --> 00:01:43,600 Speaker 1: free spirits a little nervous, Yeah, my armpits are a 33 00:01:43,600 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: little sweaty, Elena, The organization not my strong suit. Matt's 34 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: it is. We'll get into that, but all right, for 35 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:52,200 Speaker 1: our first question for everyone who comes on the podcast, 36 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 1: Matt and I we like to suplurgat on craft beer 37 00:01:54,520 --> 00:01:57,120 Speaker 1: is something that we spend some would say too much 38 00:01:57,120 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 1: money on while we're still being wise, we're saving and 39 00:01:59,640 --> 00:02:02,120 Speaker 1: investing for our future. What's that for you? Like? What 40 00:02:02,400 --> 00:02:03,920 Speaker 1: what do you like to suplore John while you're still 41 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:04,880 Speaker 1: being smart with your money. 42 00:02:05,120 --> 00:02:07,880 Speaker 4: My favorite thing thats blurgeon. If you've ever been on 43 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 4: my channel, it is planners. So I love all things stationary. 44 00:02:12,800 --> 00:02:16,880 Speaker 4: I love planners, I love notebooks, I love pins, and 45 00:02:16,960 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 4: I will go all out on the type of planner 46 00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 4: that I want for the years. 47 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:24,799 Speaker 3: So it is definitely my favorite thing. 48 00:02:25,080 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: Okay, So have you always been like super organized when 49 00:02:28,040 --> 00:02:31,639 Speaker 2: it comes to yourself and your life or specifically to 50 00:02:31,680 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 2: feel free to apply that to money? Have you always 51 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 2: been organized with money or was there some sort of 52 00:02:36,000 --> 00:02:36,800 Speaker 2: turning point for you? 53 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:40,320 Speaker 4: So I can say I've had an on and off 54 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:45,720 Speaker 4: love hate relationship with my organization journey, probably my entire life. 55 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 4: So my mom is my huge inspiration and she's extremely organized. 56 00:02:51,440 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 4: Has been my entire life, and so I took it 57 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,040 Speaker 4: for granted when I was younger and I got my 58 00:02:57,240 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 4: She gave me my first planner when I was like 59 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 4: ten years old, and I tossed it aside and I 60 00:03:01,560 --> 00:03:03,160 Speaker 4: was like, I'm not doing this. I don't want to 61 00:03:03,200 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 4: clean my room. I have this organized chaos thing going on. 62 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:11,360 Speaker 4: And so it was like that probably until I was 63 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,200 Speaker 4: pregnant with my first child. When me and my husband 64 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 4: got married, we definitely were yellow type of people where 65 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:20,800 Speaker 4: you only live once, We're going to have fun paycheck 66 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 4: to paycheck, and then I got pregnant, and once I 67 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:27,880 Speaker 4: got pregnant with our first child, it started. It just 68 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 4: hit me like a ton of bricks that we're going 69 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:32,600 Speaker 4: to have this entire life that we're completely responsible for. 70 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 4: And I don't have any money, I don't have anything saved. 71 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 4: I need to make sure that I am ready to 72 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,400 Speaker 4: take on this life that is coming into the world. 73 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:43,120 Speaker 4: And then that's when I started to take my money 74 00:03:43,320 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 4: organization way more seriously because I wanted to be more 75 00:03:46,840 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 4: prepared for her. 76 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:51,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, having a kid, expanding your family, that'll be the 77 00:03:51,200 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 1: kick in the pans that a lot of people need 78 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 1: to make some significant changes to their life, to their lifestyle, right. 79 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 1: I mean I think that is that causes some people 80 00:03:58,320 --> 00:04:00,360 Speaker 1: to give up drinking. Not Matt and I, of course 81 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:03,040 Speaker 1: we're still thinking of beer. But it really moderates. Yeah, 82 00:04:03,600 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm still moderation, right, But that is a big life 83 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:10,840 Speaker 1: stage that causes people to make significant changes. And so 84 00:04:11,040 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: instead of like, oh, I know it's under that pile 85 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:14,720 Speaker 1: of shirts over there, it's like, no, no, the pile of 86 00:04:14,720 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: shirts is coming off the floor. I got to actually 87 00:04:16,640 --> 00:04:19,640 Speaker 1: have everything kind of easily accessible. How big of a 88 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 1: hurdle in your opinion, Elena, is a lack of organization 89 00:04:23,400 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: when it comes to people making progress Meg with their 90 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: money is organization or a lack thereof, like hindering people significantly. 91 00:04:31,200 --> 00:04:31,960 Speaker 3: I believe it. 92 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 4: Is, and I ultimately started this company because and I 93 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,559 Speaker 4: called it the organized money. For a very specific time 94 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,359 Speaker 4: in my life, I remember when I started trying to 95 00:04:42,760 --> 00:04:43,719 Speaker 4: start to budget. 96 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:46,000 Speaker 3: That's how I started. I said, you know what, let. 97 00:04:45,960 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 4: Me just create a budget and I'm going to use 98 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:51,400 Speaker 4: that for this particular week. Well, I created a budget 99 00:04:51,440 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 4: on Sunday, and I felt like I had all of 100 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 4: the pieces in place. And then Monday, I went to 101 00:04:57,279 --> 00:05:00,800 Speaker 4: work and I realized I forgot my lunch. And it 102 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 4: was like the snowball effect of anything that could go wrong. 103 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 3: Did go wrong, and so it was raining that day. 104 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 3: I had to buy an umbrella. 105 00:05:08,680 --> 00:05:10,599 Speaker 4: I left my lunch, so I had to buy lunch. 106 00:05:10,960 --> 00:05:14,720 Speaker 4: I forgot different things, and so I wasn't doing all 107 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:16,960 Speaker 4: of the things that I needed to do, and my 108 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:21,120 Speaker 4: budget was basically broken or busted by Wednesday of that 109 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:21,760 Speaker 4: same week. 110 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 1: Wow, and what I realized, Hey, that's real life, man. 111 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,720 Speaker 1: A lot of people face that they're trying to get 112 00:05:26,800 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 1: on the horse and then the horse bucks them off. 113 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:30,840 Speaker 3: Proceive exactly. 114 00:05:30,960 --> 00:05:35,040 Speaker 4: And so that's when I realized how much my life 115 00:05:35,240 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 4: organization or how much planning or just thinking about my. 116 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:42,279 Speaker 3: Week ahead of time would affect my money. 117 00:05:42,640 --> 00:05:45,000 Speaker 4: Anytime I did not think about my week and I 118 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:47,200 Speaker 4: did not look at how many events I had this 119 00:05:47,240 --> 00:05:49,599 Speaker 4: week that's possibly going to cost me money, or what 120 00:05:49,720 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 4: do I have to do that's possibly going to cost 121 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 4: me money, and how would that affect my budget overall? 122 00:05:55,040 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 4: Anytime I did not do that ahead of time, I 123 00:05:57,720 --> 00:06:00,680 Speaker 4: always broke my budget. But anytime I did kind of 124 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:04,080 Speaker 4: think ahead and think about my money and think about 125 00:06:04,120 --> 00:06:06,640 Speaker 4: all of the other things that was surrounding it, I 126 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 4: did better with my money. So I realized the more 127 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:14,520 Speaker 4: organized I was, the better I did overall with saving, 128 00:06:14,920 --> 00:06:18,719 Speaker 4: making anything that required had to do with my money. 129 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,280 Speaker 3: The more organized I was, it all improved. 130 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: So is that something you still do? Is it like, Hey, 131 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:26,480 Speaker 1: on my calendar, Thursday night looks like there's this fiesta 132 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 1: with friends whatever I mean it's or Saturday, I'm going 133 00:06:29,240 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: to this cute artsy thing with my mom or something, 134 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:35,400 Speaker 1: and I'll probably pick up a couple things there. Is it? Literally? 135 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: Are you like putting price tags on the events on 136 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: your calendar? How's that? What does that look like in practice? 137 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:40,920 Speaker 3: Yes? That's exactly what I'm doing. 138 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:43,400 Speaker 4: I will look, i will say, oh, I'm going to 139 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:44,799 Speaker 4: a restaurant with my friends. 140 00:06:45,000 --> 00:06:45,680 Speaker 3: Where are we going. 141 00:06:45,720 --> 00:06:48,560 Speaker 4: We're going to this Mexican restaurant. Let me glance over 142 00:06:48,600 --> 00:06:52,120 Speaker 4: the menu really quick, and I'll say, ooh, I might 143 00:06:52,160 --> 00:06:55,520 Speaker 4: want to appetizer in this. And I'll estimate how much 144 00:06:55,680 --> 00:06:58,080 Speaker 4: that event is going to cost me, and I'll say, okay, well, 145 00:06:58,279 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 4: when I get paid on Friday, to make sure I 146 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 4: take out fifty extra dollars or seventy five extra dollars 147 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:06,240 Speaker 4: and put it aside for that time that I'm going 148 00:07:06,279 --> 00:07:09,240 Speaker 4: to be with my friends at this Mexican restaurant. And 149 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 4: doing that one little extra step where I'm comparing the 150 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 4: events and how much extra money I have leftover, has 151 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 4: helped me tremendously. I think that we ultimately have our bills. 152 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 4: We know what our bills are going to be. Yeah, 153 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 4: the bills are going to come out, they're on auto draft, 154 00:07:27,160 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 4: it's pretty much standard. But those extra expenses, those are 155 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:34,680 Speaker 4: the kicker. Those are the ones that really throw us 156 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 4: off track. So that extra step of just planning those 157 00:07:38,360 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 4: ultimately helped me. 158 00:07:39,560 --> 00:07:43,520 Speaker 2: With everything else, keeps you from completely derailing your budget. Yeah, 159 00:07:43,560 --> 00:07:45,000 Speaker 2: I mean that's the first thing you mentioned, is that 160 00:07:45,400 --> 00:07:47,840 Speaker 2: do you think that that is the most core aspect 161 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,480 Speaker 2: of how it is that you budget that you plan 162 00:07:50,640 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 2: is literally looking to the calendar. Is it kind of 163 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: forecasting what some of those expenses are going to be? 164 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,800 Speaker 2: I would love to hear some of your your top 165 00:07:57,800 --> 00:07:59,200 Speaker 2: planning tips for folks out there. 166 00:07:59,280 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 4: Yes, so it's called a money meeting. Me and my 167 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 4: husband will do it every single Sunday. We get paid weekly, 168 00:08:07,320 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 4: so this is something that we just kind of incorporated. 169 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 4: But I always recommend that you do it before your 170 00:08:13,000 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 4: payday hits, like before the direct deposit it hits your account. 171 00:08:16,480 --> 00:08:18,800 Speaker 4: You want to sit down and have a money meeting, 172 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 4: money date, whatever you want to call it. And this 173 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:23,880 Speaker 4: is a time where you look at the bills that 174 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 4: you have to pay for that payday, and you also 175 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:30,440 Speaker 4: think about what events or anything else that's going to 176 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 4: cost you money. If your child has something that's coming 177 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 4: up for school, is it a fundraiser that you may 178 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:39,440 Speaker 4: have to pay for. Thinking through all of your events 179 00:08:39,440 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 4: that are coming up for the week or anything that 180 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:45,360 Speaker 4: you have to do, and associating it with your money 181 00:08:45,480 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 4: along with thinking about your bills, ultimately will help you 182 00:08:49,679 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 4: overall with your budget, because, like I said, it's not 183 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:57,599 Speaker 4: usually the bills, it's usually those variable expenses. It's entertainment, 184 00:08:57,760 --> 00:09:00,480 Speaker 4: it's food, it's restaurants, it's all of those things. 185 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: Are pretty much the same every month. 186 00:09:03,080 --> 00:09:06,079 Speaker 2: Yet particularly Yeah, okay, so you say you say that 187 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,480 Speaker 2: y'all get paid weekly. So for folks who are like, 188 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:11,560 Speaker 2: that's not something I've ever had for the most part, 189 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:14,280 Speaker 2: I mean, I've been an entrepreneur over fifteen years, but 190 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 2: even when I did have a W two job for 191 00:09:16,840 --> 00:09:19,040 Speaker 2: like a couple of years right out of college, is 192 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 2: every two weeks. And so for those folks, do you 193 00:09:21,400 --> 00:09:23,480 Speaker 2: think looking ahead to the next two weeks that makes 194 00:09:23,480 --> 00:09:25,160 Speaker 2: a lot of sense? Or for those maybe who are 195 00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 2: looking at a variable income where maybe they're getting the 196 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:31,400 Speaker 2: bulk of their money once a month, do you recommend 197 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 2: for those folks to look thirty days in advance. 198 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:37,080 Speaker 4: Yeah, So initially, when you're starting off this process, I 199 00:09:37,240 --> 00:09:41,079 Speaker 4: always recommend that you check in more often than when 200 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:45,080 Speaker 4: you get adjusted to the system. So maybe if you 201 00:09:45,120 --> 00:09:47,920 Speaker 4: are getting paid every two weeks, I would still say, 202 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,560 Speaker 4: let's just have a moment where we think about the 203 00:09:50,679 --> 00:09:53,160 Speaker 4: very next week, just to do a check in just 204 00:09:53,200 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 4: to make sure that we are still on track with 205 00:09:55,360 --> 00:09:57,880 Speaker 4: the money that we have left over and the event 206 00:09:58,200 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 4: or all of the bills that are coming up. If 207 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 4: you have a variable income, then you may need to 208 00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:07,400 Speaker 4: check in even more depending on how often you are 209 00:10:07,440 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 4: getting paid, how much you're getting paid, how far off 210 00:10:10,880 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 4: is it from what you thought you were going to 211 00:10:13,040 --> 00:10:15,120 Speaker 4: get for that particular payday. 212 00:10:15,320 --> 00:10:16,360 Speaker 3: All of that matters. 213 00:10:16,760 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 4: But the more you do it and the more you 214 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,960 Speaker 4: kind of set it into a routine. Now you don't 215 00:10:21,960 --> 00:10:24,360 Speaker 4: have to be obsessive about it, but I like to 216 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:27,800 Speaker 4: think of it at least every week where I would 217 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:30,680 Speaker 4: just look ahead and lightly think about what do I 218 00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 4: have coming up? How can I estimate how much this 219 00:10:33,600 --> 00:10:36,080 Speaker 4: is going to cost me? And can I put it 220 00:10:36,160 --> 00:10:39,400 Speaker 4: aside some type of way so that I don't blow 221 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:43,560 Speaker 4: my budget? And that process, that routine becomes a part 222 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:46,640 Speaker 4: of your system and it ultimately helps you to do 223 00:10:46,760 --> 00:10:47,959 Speaker 4: way better with your money. 224 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 1: So we're getting close to the time of year where 225 00:10:49,840 --> 00:10:54,080 Speaker 1: people start to make goals, right, and that is a 226 00:10:54,120 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: time honored tradition in the United States where come January first, 227 00:10:58,120 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 1: something something like three quarters of Americans they're going to 228 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:03,559 Speaker 1: make a goal or multiple goals, and they're going to 229 00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:07,400 Speaker 1: hope that they accomplish them. But the dire reality is 230 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 1: that so many people miss out on that goal, right, Like, 231 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: the vast majority of people who make a goal of 232 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:15,440 Speaker 1: January first, they don't actually accomplish it. And there's this 233 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,760 Speaker 1: amazing quote from James Cleary says, we don't rise to 234 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 1: the level of our goals. We fall to the level 235 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 1: of our systems. And so that's why we wanted to 236 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,480 Speaker 1: have you on. It seems like the way we've organized 237 00:11:23,520 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: things like is going to have a bigger impact than 238 00:11:26,640 --> 00:11:29,480 Speaker 1: goal setting come January first. Do you think organization is 239 00:11:29,600 --> 00:11:31,559 Speaker 1: kind of the key to people actually sticking to things 240 00:11:31,600 --> 00:11:34,400 Speaker 1: to be able to accomplish those bigger financial hopes and 241 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 1: dreams that they have. 242 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 4: Yes, And ultimately, I think when we're looking at organization, 243 00:11:39,080 --> 00:11:42,840 Speaker 4: we are really looking about thinking about our systems, because 244 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 4: that is what we're putting into place. We are thinking 245 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 4: through our routines and our systems and the things that 246 00:11:49,240 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 4: we can do on a day to day basis that 247 00:11:51,600 --> 00:11:54,360 Speaker 4: can help us to achieve the things that we want 248 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:56,960 Speaker 4: to achieve when it comes to our goals. 249 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:59,520 Speaker 3: I believe that the biggest issue that. 250 00:11:59,400 --> 00:12:02,439 Speaker 4: We have is that we will create a really really 251 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:06,240 Speaker 4: big goal and no system around that goal. So we'll 252 00:12:06,320 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 4: say I want to save ten thousand dollars, but that's 253 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:14,040 Speaker 4: kind of where it ends. And so instead of saying, Okay, 254 00:12:14,160 --> 00:12:16,720 Speaker 4: I want to save ten thousand dollars, how much do 255 00:12:16,760 --> 00:12:18,520 Speaker 4: I need to save for the month, how much do 256 00:12:18,559 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 4: I need to save for the week? How am I 257 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 4: going to save this for the week? Do I have 258 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,679 Speaker 4: the extra money in my budget to save that amount? 259 00:12:25,720 --> 00:12:27,600 Speaker 4: And if not, am I going to try and make 260 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 4: more or cut back in order to hit that number? 261 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:34,960 Speaker 4: And we don't usually break it down, and so the 262 00:12:35,080 --> 00:12:39,200 Speaker 4: goal just seems so incredibly out of reach. But that's 263 00:12:39,240 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 4: because we don't have a system or a way of 264 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,600 Speaker 4: breaking it down to a small number that we can 265 00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 4: actually incorporate into our budget or incorporate into our routine 266 00:12:48,960 --> 00:12:52,480 Speaker 4: transfer this amount to your savings every single payday to 267 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:56,000 Speaker 4: make it easy for us to actually achieve that goal. 268 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 2: It's important to have those those bite sized goals that 269 00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:01,600 Speaker 2: you can achieve. So good's keep kind of talking about 270 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 2: some of these practical tips, Elena, because I'm still thinking 271 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 2: about your weekly money meeting that you have and you're 272 00:13:07,640 --> 00:13:10,760 Speaker 2: talking about how you're splurging on all the different planners 273 00:13:10,760 --> 00:13:12,800 Speaker 2: out there and make sure you've got the latest and 274 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 2: the greatest technology. Just kidding, there's no technology and a planner, 275 00:13:17,280 --> 00:13:18,000 Speaker 2: But I'm curious. 276 00:13:18,080 --> 00:13:19,760 Speaker 1: It's analog. Yeah, it's analog. 277 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 2: And obviously you like to take pen to paper, and 278 00:13:22,440 --> 00:13:25,160 Speaker 2: so do you think that that's more helpful for folks 279 00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,120 Speaker 2: when it comes to setting some of those different financial goals. Obviously, 280 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:31,240 Speaker 2: when it comes to planning out your week in your time, 281 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 2: that's a part of how you're able to implement that too, 282 00:13:33,400 --> 00:13:35,640 Speaker 2: But do you think that there's power there when it 283 00:13:35,679 --> 00:13:38,439 Speaker 2: comes to the ability to either rein in or spending 284 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:40,880 Speaker 2: or to maybe achieve some of these smaller, bite sized 285 00:13:40,920 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 2: goals as well. 286 00:13:41,679 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, I believe that the biggest thing that you have 287 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:49,720 Speaker 4: to know is your money personality and how that associates 288 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:53,400 Speaker 4: with your systems. So if you've never heard of the 289 00:13:53,440 --> 00:13:57,640 Speaker 4: money Personalities, it's a book by Beth and Scott Palmer, 290 00:13:57,760 --> 00:14:01,320 Speaker 4: and they wrote it's called the Five Money Personalities, and 291 00:14:01,360 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 4: it's the spender, the saverer, the flyer, the risk taker, 292 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 4: and the security seeker. And based on your money personality. 293 00:14:09,760 --> 00:14:12,400 Speaker 4: For instance, I am a security seeker, which means that 294 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:16,440 Speaker 4: I like to plan. Planning is a part of the 295 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 4: security seeker security. So we like to know exactly where 296 00:14:20,480 --> 00:14:23,920 Speaker 4: our money is going. We basically are type a's who 297 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 4: like to have our money plan to the penny. And 298 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 4: so since I know that that is my money personality, 299 00:14:29,680 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 4: then ultimately I'm going to love an analog system. I'm 300 00:14:32,680 --> 00:14:35,840 Speaker 4: going to love a planner. However, you may be a 301 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 4: spender who actually don't want to write every single thing down. 302 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 4: You are not of type A and technology. You may 303 00:14:44,160 --> 00:14:47,000 Speaker 4: need an app that you can quickly look at and 304 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,920 Speaker 4: be able to move your money around. Or you could 305 00:14:49,960 --> 00:14:52,720 Speaker 4: be a saver who likes a little bit of both, 306 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:56,520 Speaker 4: where you need an analog system and you also want 307 00:14:57,320 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 4: some type of technology around your money. But you need 308 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 4: need to know first how does your mind or how 309 00:15:02,680 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 4: does your brain like to see this information. When we 310 00:15:06,040 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 4: are building systems, we sometimes we take a cookie cutter 311 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 4: approach and say, oh, if this works for this person, 312 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,120 Speaker 4: then it should work. 313 00:15:13,920 --> 00:15:16,880 Speaker 3: For me as well. But that's not the best approach. 314 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:19,280 Speaker 4: The best approach is to think about how do you 315 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:21,640 Speaker 4: like to see things on a normal basis, How does 316 00:15:21,720 --> 00:15:25,360 Speaker 4: your mind love to incorporate, do you like to write 317 00:15:25,360 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 4: down or do you like to type? And knowing those 318 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:32,920 Speaker 4: little things about yourself applies to almost every area of 319 00:15:32,960 --> 00:15:36,360 Speaker 4: your life, including your money and you If you know 320 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:38,800 Speaker 4: how to do an analog system on a day to 321 00:15:38,840 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 4: day basis with planning your life, then you will want 322 00:15:42,200 --> 00:15:44,440 Speaker 4: to do the exact same thing with your money. So 323 00:15:44,600 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 4: knowing your personality is first, and then you can start 324 00:15:47,600 --> 00:15:51,480 Speaker 4: to apply the systems that you want. Maybe it's a planner, 325 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 4: maybe it's technology. Maybe you like to have just separate 326 00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 4: bank accounts for one for spending, one for bills. That 327 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:00,720 Speaker 4: way you know, if the money's in spending, it's all yours, 328 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 4: and if it's in bills, you know you just have 329 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:03,800 Speaker 4: to pay a bill. 330 00:16:04,040 --> 00:16:06,560 Speaker 3: But your system is based on you. 331 00:16:06,680 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 1: Yeah. I really appreciate you saying that, because I think 332 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 1: a lot of people they find something that works for 333 00:16:11,120 --> 00:16:13,560 Speaker 1: them and then they preach that gospel to everyone and 334 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 1: they say the planner the act. Like in Matt he's 335 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: all about Excel spreadsheets, but he also doesn't make it 336 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:20,480 Speaker 1: sound like that's the only way to do it, right. 337 00:16:20,520 --> 00:16:22,520 Speaker 1: I readily admit that it's not for everybody. Yeah, for 338 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 1: some people whine ab or copilot, Like, whatever it is, 339 00:16:25,360 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: whatever system is going to help you. I think that's 340 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: really impant because everybody thinks about things differently. Some people 341 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: are like tether to their phone, and so that app 342 00:16:33,640 --> 00:16:36,040 Speaker 1: is gonna save the day, save their baking when it 343 00:16:36,040 --> 00:16:38,080 Speaker 1: comes to making progress with their finances. For some folks, 344 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 1: the cash envelopes like that's the holy grail and you 345 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,720 Speaker 1: must do that. But yeah, which I'm actually curious to 346 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 1: hear your take on that, Like you are a fan 347 00:16:44,560 --> 00:16:47,040 Speaker 1: of the cash envelope system, and it's not the most 348 00:16:47,120 --> 00:16:50,600 Speaker 1: optimized from a reward standpoint, and it's also maybe not 349 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:53,800 Speaker 1: the easiest kind of in our modern society where you 350 00:16:53,840 --> 00:16:55,880 Speaker 1: can tap to pay and just breeze right on out. 351 00:16:56,120 --> 00:16:58,400 Speaker 1: But is that the best way, in your opinion to 352 00:16:58,400 --> 00:17:01,160 Speaker 1: help people stick to a budget using kind of divving 353 00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:03,040 Speaker 1: out those that cash at the beginning of the month 354 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:05,760 Speaker 1: and then like not spending when anymore once it's gone. 355 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 4: I think it ultimately does depend I will say for me, 356 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:14,280 Speaker 4: I will use it for certain scenarios. I will say 357 00:17:14,280 --> 00:17:17,760 Speaker 4: that I am probably a dual person. 358 00:17:17,840 --> 00:17:18,920 Speaker 3: I share a lot. 359 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,440 Speaker 4: Of my analog techniques. I talk a little bit about 360 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:23,360 Speaker 4: the tech side of the different things that I do, 361 00:17:23,880 --> 00:17:27,639 Speaker 4: but I am in favor. If you are a super 362 00:17:27,680 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 4: responsible person and you pay your credit cards in full 363 00:17:30,960 --> 00:17:33,840 Speaker 4: every single month, then I would say use your credit 364 00:17:33,920 --> 00:17:38,480 Speaker 4: card because you can get really amazing rewards by using 365 00:17:38,520 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 4: your credit card on a consistent basis, paying it off 366 00:17:41,480 --> 00:17:44,680 Speaker 4: and being able to take advantage of the points. However, 367 00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:48,120 Speaker 4: if you know that you are just beginning your money journey, 368 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 4: or you are not at the place where you are 369 00:17:51,880 --> 00:17:55,280 Speaker 4: able to trust yourself enough to pay off your credit 370 00:17:55,320 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 4: card every single month, and you are just working into 371 00:17:58,760 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 4: your system and just get adjusted, I would highly suggest 372 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 4: that you use cash envelopes. And the reason why is 373 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:10,800 Speaker 4: because we have to walk before we run, and sometimes 374 00:18:10,840 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 4: we get excited about the rewards and all of the things, 375 00:18:14,840 --> 00:18:17,760 Speaker 4: and you'll have someone in your ear saying that, oh no, 376 00:18:17,840 --> 00:18:19,720 Speaker 4: this is a better system, and you get to fly 377 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:21,600 Speaker 4: for free, or you get hotels, or you get this 378 00:18:21,760 --> 00:18:23,480 Speaker 4: or you get that, and then you just end up 379 00:18:23,520 --> 00:18:26,600 Speaker 4: getting yourself in a bunch of financial trouble because you 380 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:29,200 Speaker 4: are trying to run before you walk. 381 00:18:29,440 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 3: You will get there, but for. 382 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:34,520 Speaker 4: Now, take the steps to build out your system and 383 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,720 Speaker 4: to make sure that you understand the process that you 384 00:18:37,800 --> 00:18:39,840 Speaker 4: have your system in place that you can pay off 385 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:43,360 Speaker 4: this credit card every single month, and then you can 386 00:18:43,440 --> 00:18:47,159 Speaker 4: graduate to using your credit card. But I think that 387 00:18:47,520 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 4: when we look at systems sometimes we feel like we 388 00:18:49,720 --> 00:18:51,119 Speaker 4: got to choose and we got to stick to that 389 00:18:51,160 --> 00:18:53,880 Speaker 4: one forever as well, and I am not a fan 390 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:57,200 Speaker 4: of that. I also I believe that you can do 391 00:18:57,440 --> 00:18:59,560 Speaker 4: different things in different seasons of your life. 392 00:18:59,640 --> 00:19:01,080 Speaker 3: You can do different things. 393 00:19:00,840 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 4: When you feel more comfortable with different things in your life, 394 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:07,199 Speaker 4: and you don't have to stick with that one system 395 00:19:07,240 --> 00:19:08,080 Speaker 4: forever and ever. 396 00:19:08,280 --> 00:19:08,760 Speaker 1: That makes sense. 397 00:19:08,800 --> 00:19:12,480 Speaker 2: It's not necessarily like it can be about changing seasons, 398 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,399 Speaker 2: like different stages of life. But it also has to 399 00:19:14,400 --> 00:19:16,480 Speaker 2: do with, like you said, being able to walk before 400 00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:18,399 Speaker 2: you run, and as you mature, when it comes to 401 00:19:18,480 --> 00:19:20,919 Speaker 2: your ability to handle your money, well, then maybe it 402 00:19:20,960 --> 00:19:23,040 Speaker 2: makes sense to then up the ante a little bit 403 00:19:23,040 --> 00:19:24,760 Speaker 2: to some of those more advanced ways that you can 404 00:19:24,800 --> 00:19:27,359 Speaker 2: optimize your spending. But something that stood up to me 405 00:19:27,400 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 2: about the cash envelopes as well as something else that 406 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:32,880 Speaker 2: you said, which was maybe having a separate spending account 407 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:35,120 Speaker 2: that way, you know, once all the money is gone 408 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:37,920 Speaker 2: out of that account, okay, uh, we're not gonna go 409 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:41,520 Speaker 2: out to eat anymore, because maybe for someone listening, they're thinking. 410 00:19:41,400 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's wild card. 411 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:45,960 Speaker 2: Every single month, that's where I blow my budget. Or 412 00:19:45,960 --> 00:19:48,040 Speaker 2: maybe for somebody else that's grocery or a lot of Americans, 413 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: it is the eating out. 414 00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: It's eating out. 415 00:19:49,720 --> 00:19:51,800 Speaker 2: In both of those cases, I think the ability to 416 00:19:51,840 --> 00:19:54,320 Speaker 2: set limits is what's so key there. And when it's 417 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,680 Speaker 2: the cash envelope, Okay, at some point the cash is 418 00:19:56,680 --> 00:19:58,800 Speaker 2: going to run out, or maybe when it comes to 419 00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:00,720 Speaker 2: the spending account, maye that means, all. 420 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: Right, well that balance. 421 00:20:02,280 --> 00:20:04,000 Speaker 2: I've only got like nine bucks left, So guess what, 422 00:20:04,000 --> 00:20:05,800 Speaker 2: I'm not going to go out. Let's just roll that 423 00:20:05,840 --> 00:20:07,920 Speaker 2: into next month and then you know, I'll be able 424 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,000 Speaker 2: to go out a little bit more. But I think, 425 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:15,280 Speaker 2: like you said, figuring out yourself, knowing yourself, that's so 426 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 2: key to the success that we're going to talk more 427 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,360 Speaker 2: about sort of the mindset and the psychology behind how 428 00:20:20,400 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 2: it is that we think about our money here later 429 00:20:22,600 --> 00:20:23,360 Speaker 2: on in the episode. 430 00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 1: But I guess I want to know, like when it 431 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: comes to. 432 00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 2: Your budget, like when you do completely blow it out 433 00:20:29,680 --> 00:20:33,200 Speaker 2: of the water, how do you respond to that, Like 434 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,239 Speaker 2: how do you rebound? Because like it's said, you know 435 00:20:36,280 --> 00:20:38,359 Speaker 2: that we make plans and God laughs. 436 00:20:38,480 --> 00:20:38,680 Speaker 4: Yeah. 437 00:20:38,920 --> 00:20:41,879 Speaker 2: So for you as a type a hyper planner, like, 438 00:20:41,920 --> 00:20:44,480 Speaker 2: how do you roll with the punches when things don't 439 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:45,399 Speaker 2: go quite as planned? 440 00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 441 00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:49,240 Speaker 4: I've definitely had seasons of my life where my budget 442 00:20:49,440 --> 00:20:53,159 Speaker 4: just was not working at all, and I do something 443 00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:56,600 Speaker 4: that I call a budget reset where I am and 444 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:59,639 Speaker 4: I have an entire video on my YouTube channel showing 445 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:04,280 Speaker 4: the priss where basically I will just start over. I said, 446 00:21:04,280 --> 00:21:07,520 Speaker 4: do you know what, this entire month just didn't happen. 447 00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:10,800 Speaker 4: Let's just look forward instead of trying to look back. 448 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 4: And a lot of times I will assess where we 449 00:21:14,280 --> 00:21:19,680 Speaker 4: went wrong, and usually I can pinpoint it to something 450 00:21:19,680 --> 00:21:23,040 Speaker 4: that I planned poorly or something that just didn't go 451 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 4: as planned. I remember one week, me and my husband 452 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 4: had planned on cooking a lot, but we both are entrepreneurs, 453 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 4: we both have we can have really busy times, and 454 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:40,120 Speaker 4: so we underestimated the amount of work that we had 455 00:21:40,119 --> 00:21:42,800 Speaker 4: to do that week. So all of the cooking that 456 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 4: was supposed to happen that week, none of it happened. 457 00:21:45,240 --> 00:21:47,600 Speaker 4: We ended up eating out the entire week. 458 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,399 Speaker 1: And that's why no one else listening knows what that 459 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:52,840 Speaker 1: feels like, Elena, you're alone in this here alone, so 460 00:21:52,960 --> 00:21:54,800 Speaker 1: we such an unrelatable. 461 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,440 Speaker 4: We blew our budget out of the water, because if 462 00:21:58,440 --> 00:22:01,639 Speaker 4: you've eaten out multiple times in a week when you 463 00:22:01,680 --> 00:22:05,639 Speaker 4: had planned on eating groceries or cooking, then you know 464 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,520 Speaker 4: how crazy your budget can really be blown by just 465 00:22:10,000 --> 00:22:12,439 Speaker 4: eating out four or five days a week. And so 466 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:16,040 Speaker 4: that's what happened, and I was like, well, we just 467 00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:19,480 Speaker 4: we basically planned that poorly. That didn't happen the way 468 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,560 Speaker 4: that we thought we should. 469 00:22:20,600 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 3: We probably need. 470 00:22:21,920 --> 00:22:25,840 Speaker 4: To have a little extra splurge fund or little money 471 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:28,919 Speaker 4: set aside for when random things like this happen. And 472 00:22:28,960 --> 00:22:31,440 Speaker 4: so that's how we kind of say we would fix 473 00:22:31,480 --> 00:22:34,840 Speaker 4: it in the future. But when things like that happen, 474 00:22:35,400 --> 00:22:39,160 Speaker 4: we basically take it in stride. I try and see 475 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:42,320 Speaker 4: if there's anything that I could have done better, but 476 00:22:42,400 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 4: I ultimately give myself a lot of grace and I 477 00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:48,159 Speaker 4: know that things life is going to happen. Yes, you 478 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:52,680 Speaker 4: could plan the most beautiful budget there is, but if 479 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,680 Speaker 4: it gets blown out of the water, then that is okay. 480 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:57,920 Speaker 4: And I think that that's what happens with a lot 481 00:22:57,960 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 4: of us. We will blow our budget more one two times, 482 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 4: and then we give up on budgeting because we feel like, oh, 483 00:23:04,240 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 4: if I couldn't do this this one or two times, 484 00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 4: then it must. 485 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 3: Not be for me. But you just may be in 486 00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:11,639 Speaker 3: a season. 487 00:23:11,280 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 4: Of your life where it's just harder to plan, and 488 00:23:14,640 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 4: so you just continue to stick with it, stick at it, 489 00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,240 Speaker 4: just keep trying and keep tweaking your system until you 490 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 4: find what works for you. I had a season of 491 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:27,040 Speaker 4: my life and that's why I mentioned having the bill 492 00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:29,800 Speaker 4: versus the spending account. I had a season of my 493 00:23:29,840 --> 00:23:32,800 Speaker 4: life where I couldn't track any of my expenses. I 494 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:34,800 Speaker 4: didn't have time to track. I didn't have time for 495 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,280 Speaker 4: cash envelopes, I didn't have time to go to the ATM. 496 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:39,520 Speaker 4: I just didn't have time for any of it. My 497 00:23:39,640 --> 00:23:42,280 Speaker 4: kids were small, I needed to run around. I was 498 00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,080 Speaker 4: on the go, and so I didn't want to use 499 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:48,359 Speaker 4: a credit card because I didn't trust myself enough to 500 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:49,600 Speaker 4: just have a credit card. 501 00:23:49,680 --> 00:23:52,200 Speaker 3: So I just said, Okay, how much money do we have. 502 00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,280 Speaker 4: I'm gonna put this in the amount for bills, and 503 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,800 Speaker 4: I'm putting the rest of this for spending, and whatever 504 00:23:56,880 --> 00:24:00,199 Speaker 4: I spend, it's been and when it's gone, it's gone. 505 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,600 Speaker 4: And that worked for me for a couple of years 506 00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:05,720 Speaker 4: until my kids got a little bit older. 507 00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,160 Speaker 3: So you just have to. 508 00:24:07,240 --> 00:24:10,680 Speaker 4: Know what season you're in and try different things out. 509 00:24:10,680 --> 00:24:13,680 Speaker 4: But ultimately, if you blow your budget, see if there's 510 00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:15,880 Speaker 4: something that you can do to tweak it and give 511 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:18,359 Speaker 4: yourself a lot of grace and just keep it. 512 00:24:18,760 --> 00:24:21,120 Speaker 1: Yeah. No, that's good advice. I think tweaking and iterating 513 00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,000 Speaker 1: is so much better than chunking it out and trying 514 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: to start over and always trying to kind of implement 515 00:24:26,920 --> 00:24:29,920 Speaker 1: a wholesale new plan that can also they give me 516 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:32,119 Speaker 1: demoralizing and how often can you actually do that right? 517 00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 1: And so the tweaking is crucial to that as you're 518 00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:37,399 Speaker 1: kind of figuring things out. So that's good advice. We 519 00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,720 Speaker 1: have more to get to with you, Lena. We specifically 520 00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,640 Speaker 1: want to talk about kind of the mindset behind how 521 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:44,399 Speaker 1: we make some of these changes. We'll get some questions 522 00:24:44,480 --> 00:24:45,800 Speaker 1: on that with you right after this. 523 00:24:53,960 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 2: Oh right, we're back and again we're talking about how 524 00:24:56,040 --> 00:24:58,399 Speaker 2: you can organize your money for twenty twenty four with 525 00:24:58,480 --> 00:24:59,919 Speaker 2: Elena Fingel and Elena. 526 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,359 Speaker 1: I've heard you say that it's not necessarily. 527 00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,600 Speaker 2: The math or the budgeting or like the technical details, 528 00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 2: right it's not that the bills are usually the issue, 529 00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:11,400 Speaker 2: but it's the behavior that's the issue. Do you think 530 00:25:11,400 --> 00:25:14,000 Speaker 2: that being more organized can help to combat some of 531 00:25:14,040 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 2: the emotional difficulties that we deal with pretty regularly on 532 00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:19,399 Speaker 2: the money front. 533 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:19,800 Speaker 3: Yes. 534 00:25:20,000 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 4: So there are two sides of money. The math of money, 535 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:25,639 Speaker 4: which is about twenty percent of it, but the mind 536 00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,439 Speaker 4: of money is the emotional side, and that's about eighty 537 00:25:29,520 --> 00:25:32,480 Speaker 4: percent of what we're dealing with. And that's why when 538 00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:36,080 Speaker 4: I was talking earlier about your money personality, Knowing your 539 00:25:36,160 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 4: money history, what house you grew up in, and how 540 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:43,600 Speaker 4: your parents talked about money all affects how we see money. 541 00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 4: Money is a resource, it's a tool, it's something that 542 00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:51,439 Speaker 4: we use, but ultimately a lot of people put a 543 00:25:51,520 --> 00:25:54,560 Speaker 4: certain value to it and it is the way that 544 00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 4: we think about it that ultimately affects how it comes 545 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:02,000 Speaker 4: to us and how it leaves our hands. And so 546 00:26:02,280 --> 00:26:05,480 Speaker 4: I talk a lot about the money psychology side, like 547 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:09,520 Speaker 4: knowing yourself, knowing how you like to spend money, knowing 548 00:26:09,560 --> 00:26:12,280 Speaker 4: what your splurge is, and what's your favorite thing to 549 00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 4: spend money on, and what you probably could live without. 550 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:19,320 Speaker 4: Because I believe social media makes us believe that we 551 00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:23,200 Speaker 4: want it all, but in reality, most of us do 552 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 4: not want it all. Most of us have a favorite 553 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 4: thing that we ultimately love and we can live without 554 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 4: the rest and once we know that, we have tapped 555 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:34,679 Speaker 4: into our superpower when it comes to our money, because 556 00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:39,080 Speaker 4: you can spend create Like I give myself permission to 557 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:40,200 Speaker 4: spend on stationary. 558 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:42,000 Speaker 3: I have a season where I'm. 559 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,880 Speaker 4: Just like, I'm going to get all the stationary because 560 00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:47,120 Speaker 4: I love the stationary, but I will cut back on 561 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 4: other shopping items. I might cut back at restaurants, I 562 00:26:50,680 --> 00:26:54,240 Speaker 4: might cut back on other things that doesn't bring me 563 00:26:54,320 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 4: as much joy as stationary does. 564 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, and I mean, I think it sounds nice or 565 00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:02,639 Speaker 1: it seems nice as we imagine to have like Elon 566 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: Musk levels of wealth, But most of us in reality 567 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 1: wouldn't trade places for his life versus ours, just because 568 00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:12,159 Speaker 1: probably not how intense and difficult it towns. If you 569 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,159 Speaker 1: read the latest biography, well, part and part of like 570 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:16,879 Speaker 1: what you're talking about too, is knowing yourself and what 571 00:27:16,960 --> 00:27:20,400 Speaker 1: makes you happy. It seems like like often we're mimicking 572 00:27:20,680 --> 00:27:23,879 Speaker 1: the people around us and how they spend, assuming that 573 00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,119 Speaker 1: that's just the way it's done. The way that we 574 00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:31,479 Speaker 1: should go about spending. How do you think about like 575 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:33,320 Speaker 1: and how do you help people come to grips with 576 00:27:33,840 --> 00:27:36,679 Speaker 1: their own particular way of relating to money. How do 577 00:27:36,680 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 1: they get to know themselves a little more deeply and 578 00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:41,800 Speaker 1: how does that then impact what it looks like how 579 00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 1: they interact with their own money. 580 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 4: So, ultimately, I'm asking people to define their definition of wealth. 581 00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 3: What is your definition of wealth? How do you like 582 00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:52,880 Speaker 3: to spend your time. 583 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:59,159 Speaker 4: And if because time usually will tell us more about 584 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:01,680 Speaker 4: how you like to spend your money then the money itself. 585 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 4: If we talk about money in the terms of money, 586 00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,919 Speaker 4: most people will say, well, I want to travel, I 587 00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,199 Speaker 4: want to eat out, I want to go shopping, I 588 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 4: want to do all of this entertainment things, and they 589 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:15,119 Speaker 4: just list all of the things that they have seen 590 00:28:15,240 --> 00:28:18,600 Speaker 4: other people do. They may talk about cars and houses 591 00:28:18,960 --> 00:28:23,119 Speaker 4: just because that is what they see. But when we 592 00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:26,800 Speaker 4: change it to time, usually people will start to talk 593 00:28:26,800 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 4: about the people that they want to spend time with 594 00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:31,679 Speaker 4: if they didn't have to work all the time, and 595 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:35,280 Speaker 4: they will talk about how they the hobbies that they 596 00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:38,760 Speaker 4: enjoy or the things that they love to do. Because 597 00:28:39,000 --> 00:28:42,240 Speaker 4: when we are thinking about time, we know how limited 598 00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:46,560 Speaker 4: that resource is, and we feel like, oh, well, if 599 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 4: I had all the time in the world, this is 600 00:28:48,280 --> 00:28:51,840 Speaker 4: what I would do, And usually that is an indication 601 00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:56,800 Speaker 4: of how we would really enjoy spending our money. Now, 602 00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,240 Speaker 4: for some people it is certain things. It could be well, 603 00:29:01,520 --> 00:29:03,920 Speaker 4: I do like the cars, but then I would go 604 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:06,000 Speaker 4: deeper and say, well, how do you like to spend 605 00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,240 Speaker 4: time with your cars? And usually they'll say, well, I 606 00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:10,120 Speaker 4: like to take the family out for a drive, or 607 00:29:10,160 --> 00:29:11,440 Speaker 4: I like to do and. 608 00:29:11,400 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 3: Take road trips. 609 00:29:12,320 --> 00:29:16,000 Speaker 4: And this is usually there is something else that is 610 00:29:16,160 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 4: tied to the value of the thing that we think 611 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 4: the money is going to bring us, and that is 612 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 4: our true definition of wealth. And once we know that thing, 613 00:29:27,200 --> 00:29:31,160 Speaker 4: then we can ultimately get there another way, and we 614 00:29:31,320 --> 00:29:35,040 Speaker 4: can stop spending our money on impulsive things that we 615 00:29:35,120 --> 00:29:38,920 Speaker 4: really don't want and focus all of our attention on 616 00:29:39,000 --> 00:29:40,320 Speaker 4: the things that we do want. 617 00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,240 Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, it's then are are you then talking 618 00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: about buying back your time with the money you've been 619 00:29:45,360 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: able to save? Is is that kind of one of 620 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: the goals where you're pushing people towards? 621 00:29:49,120 --> 00:29:49,360 Speaker 3: Yes? 622 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:54,240 Speaker 4: Yes, So like for me with for instance, ultimately I said, 623 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 4: oh I want to be an entrepreneur because I want 624 00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:57,200 Speaker 4: to work for myself. 625 00:29:57,480 --> 00:29:58,920 Speaker 3: And I was like, well, is it. 626 00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,000 Speaker 4: Just because I want to work for my Well, no, 627 00:30:01,240 --> 00:30:02,840 Speaker 4: I really love being home. 628 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:04,240 Speaker 3: Why do I like being home? 629 00:30:04,320 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 4: Because I liked to be home with my kids and 630 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,320 Speaker 4: I wanted to be home with my kids when they 631 00:30:09,320 --> 00:30:14,200 Speaker 4: were younger. And previously, I was an auditor. So I 632 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:17,280 Speaker 4: worked as an auditor for about eight years. But anybody 633 00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:20,560 Speaker 4: who's ever been an accountant, specifically an auditor, you know 634 00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:23,640 Speaker 4: that we travel a lot. So I used to have 635 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,960 Speaker 4: a week home and a week off, so that means 636 00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:29,960 Speaker 4: I was here at my house for a week, and 637 00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,360 Speaker 4: then I would be gone for a week, and for 638 00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,760 Speaker 4: for like four months out of the year. That's how 639 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 4: I lived, all the way from January through April because 640 00:30:38,440 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 4: it was tax season. 641 00:30:39,840 --> 00:30:41,120 Speaker 3: That's how I would go. 642 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:44,760 Speaker 4: And it was okay until my child was born and 643 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 4: she had her first cold and I was in Puerto 644 00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 4: Rico and I couldn't do anything about it, and I 645 00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,000 Speaker 4: was just so incredibly upset, and I came home and 646 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:55,200 Speaker 4: I told my husband I have to quit. I just 647 00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:58,320 Speaker 4: have to quit. And it did not matter that I 648 00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,000 Speaker 4: was making six figures. It did not matter that we 649 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:04,400 Speaker 4: were going to be taking a huge pay cut. 650 00:31:04,880 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 3: None of it mattered. 651 00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:09,640 Speaker 4: I wanted to be home because I value that time 652 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:13,680 Speaker 4: with her more than anything else. So I cut back 653 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 4: everything drastically. We cut our expenses, We did everything that 654 00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:21,720 Speaker 4: we could so that I could quit. And I think 655 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 4: that when we think of money in terms of that, 656 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,000 Speaker 4: in times of the things that we truly truly want 657 00:31:28,040 --> 00:31:30,000 Speaker 4: to do, how we want to spend our time, we 658 00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:33,120 Speaker 4: buy our time back, and we are willing to sacrifice 659 00:31:33,240 --> 00:31:36,440 Speaker 4: a bunch of things to get that time back in 660 00:31:36,640 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 4: order to be able to do what we. 661 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,000 Speaker 3: Really want to do. 662 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm sure your husband was saying, I know 663 00:31:41,040 --> 00:31:43,680 Speaker 2: you're an auditor, but have you looked at our financials. 664 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,400 Speaker 1: When you quit? Yeah, exactly, but later just made him 665 00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,480 Speaker 1: get two jobs. It's like you're going to work twice 666 00:31:50,880 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 1: twice as much now. 667 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:54,080 Speaker 2: But I do think that there are some folks who 668 00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:56,480 Speaker 2: are like, no, truly, I'm just really into cars, right, 669 00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:58,680 Speaker 2: Like they might be into the gear or the technology, 670 00:31:58,720 --> 00:32:01,800 Speaker 2: but regardless, if you're into the stuff right like for 671 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:04,840 Speaker 2: us as craft beer, or if you are looking for 672 00:32:05,320 --> 00:32:08,240 Speaker 2: the more intangible things like whether it's experiences or like 673 00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 2: you're saying, whether it's to get your time back, how 674 00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:14,000 Speaker 2: do you decide and figure out how much is going 675 00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:16,760 Speaker 2: to be enough of whatever it is that you are 676 00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 2: seeking after again, whether it's time, whether it's things. Because 677 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:22,520 Speaker 2: I think it could be difficult to say, well, it's 678 00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:24,440 Speaker 2: nice to be able to be home with my daughter 679 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:26,640 Speaker 2: when she has a cold, but what if I'm able 680 00:32:26,680 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 2: to be home even more time, or even beyond that, 681 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,080 Speaker 2: what if I'm home full time? I think it can 682 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,960 Speaker 2: be difficult to kind of maybe put your finger on 683 00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 2: where it is that's gonna resonate the most with you. 684 00:32:38,400 --> 00:32:39,800 Speaker 1: How do you recommend for folks to do that. 685 00:32:40,040 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 3: So ultimately with me? 686 00:32:41,800 --> 00:32:45,120 Speaker 4: I know when I was doing this process initially, when 687 00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:49,760 Speaker 4: I wanted to take time, I just wanted to be with. 688 00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,160 Speaker 3: Her when she was younger. And then I had my 689 00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:54,920 Speaker 3: second kid, and I was like, oh, it's just about them. 690 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 4: Then they went to school, right, they get older and 691 00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,000 Speaker 4: they went off to school, and I was like, okay, 692 00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:02,160 Speaker 4: so now what am I going to go back? 693 00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:08,719 Speaker 3: And I realized, no, I really enjoy having my time 694 00:33:09,160 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 3: to be able to do what I want to do. 695 00:33:11,280 --> 00:33:13,840 Speaker 4: And so then I started to tie it to a hobby, 696 00:33:13,920 --> 00:33:16,320 Speaker 4: which is also another thing. You could have a hobby 697 00:33:16,640 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 4: of collecting cars or in my case, collecting planners and 698 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,520 Speaker 4: stationary and that is your thing, right like, you just 699 00:33:23,680 --> 00:33:26,640 Speaker 4: love this, And if that's the case, then that's okay. 700 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:31,640 Speaker 4: I think that ultimately we have to decide for me, 701 00:33:31,840 --> 00:33:35,720 Speaker 4: it's not the okay, having one planner is enough, or 702 00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:39,400 Speaker 4: having ten planners it's enough. It's the process of planning 703 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:43,080 Speaker 4: that I truly enjoy. And I think I decide that 704 00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:47,239 Speaker 4: what is enough for me is when my level of 705 00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 4: happiness hasn't. 706 00:33:48,640 --> 00:33:52,320 Speaker 3: Increased by the amount of planners that I have. 707 00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:55,280 Speaker 4: So if I have two planners and I'm super happy 708 00:33:55,480 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 4: and then that third one doesn't bring me even more 709 00:33:58,600 --> 00:34:01,400 Speaker 4: joy than that, maybe my definition of enough. 710 00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:04,240 Speaker 3: However, for you, it could change. 711 00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:06,320 Speaker 4: You may say, no, I want all the cars that 712 00:34:06,360 --> 00:34:11,480 Speaker 4: I could possibly have at all times. And we ultimately 713 00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:16,600 Speaker 4: have a personal definition of what is enough for us 714 00:34:16,760 --> 00:34:20,319 Speaker 4: or what ultimately makes us happy. And I think that 715 00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:24,080 Speaker 4: usually it comes when we start to compare it to 716 00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 4: something else. 717 00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:26,880 Speaker 3: If it's going to take. 718 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:31,480 Speaker 4: More money, more time, more resources, that's usually how you 719 00:34:31,520 --> 00:34:35,239 Speaker 4: will define enough. If I know that planning and ten 720 00:34:35,320 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 4: planners is going to take way too much of my time. 721 00:34:38,520 --> 00:34:42,000 Speaker 4: Usually that's too many for me. And then I'll say, okay, 722 00:34:42,440 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 4: what is enough? Maybe enough is two and that's the 723 00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,759 Speaker 4: time resource and that's the effort that I can put 724 00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:52,160 Speaker 4: into those two. So I have defined that as enough. 725 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 4: I think that the challenging part is is that we 726 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:59,960 Speaker 4: don't question ourselves enough with that, with that big question 727 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,960 Speaker 4: and of what is enough money for you? At what 728 00:35:03,120 --> 00:35:05,799 Speaker 4: point do you feel like, you know what? I could 729 00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:09,280 Speaker 4: be happy here if I lived here for the restaurant, 730 00:35:09,400 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 4: this would make me happy. Having this amount of time 731 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,560 Speaker 4: would make me happy. Spending this with my family would 732 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:18,120 Speaker 4: make me happy. And being able to define that for 733 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 4: yourself means that you ultimately really know yourself. 734 00:35:22,239 --> 00:35:23,200 Speaker 3: You know your money. 735 00:35:23,520 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 4: You know that I am at a state of happiness 736 00:35:27,880 --> 00:35:31,960 Speaker 4: that having more or less is maybe less might decrease it, 737 00:35:32,040 --> 00:35:34,480 Speaker 4: but having more is not going to increase it. 738 00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, talk to me about debt for a second, because 739 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 1: like you're just saying, well, you may give the car example. 740 00:35:40,520 --> 00:35:42,800 Speaker 1: In that case, a lot of folks if they were 741 00:35:43,040 --> 00:35:45,319 Speaker 1: to say well I need more cars or nicer cars 742 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:46,640 Speaker 1: or something, that a lot of them would have to 743 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,600 Speaker 1: go into debt for that. And there are a lot 744 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,160 Speaker 1: of our listeners right now who are thinking, Okay, one 745 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:54,839 Speaker 1: of my goals for the new year is to get 746 00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,360 Speaker 1: rid of some of the debt that I'm in, hopefully 747 00:35:57,400 --> 00:35:59,399 Speaker 1: if it's credit card debt or homemkeer, relign of credit 748 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,360 Speaker 1: or personal So there are some of the worst kinds 749 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:04,840 Speaker 1: right now. What organizational tools do those folks need to 750 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,440 Speaker 1: have at their disposal in order to create and actually 751 00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:09,320 Speaker 1: stick to a debt payoff plan in your opinion? 752 00:36:09,440 --> 00:36:11,320 Speaker 4: So the first thing you have to decide is which 753 00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:15,720 Speaker 4: plan are you going to do? I love to ask 754 00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:18,680 Speaker 4: people who tell me I want to get out of debt. 755 00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:21,040 Speaker 4: The first question I usually ask is, well, how much 756 00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 4: debt do you have? And so many people cannot answer 757 00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 4: that question, and so the first thing you have to 758 00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:30,520 Speaker 4: know is, Okay, we need to gather it all up, 759 00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,480 Speaker 4: organize it, and see how much we have. I love 760 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:36,520 Speaker 4: to break it down by consumer debt because usually those 761 00:36:36,600 --> 00:36:40,359 Speaker 4: are your high interest rate types of debt, and so 762 00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:43,120 Speaker 4: you want to know, Okay, what do I have that's 763 00:36:43,160 --> 00:36:43,920 Speaker 4: consumer debt? 764 00:36:44,080 --> 00:36:47,120 Speaker 3: What is higher interest rate? What's my lower interest rate? 765 00:36:47,200 --> 00:36:50,440 Speaker 4: What is costing you the most money every single month 766 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:53,640 Speaker 4: that I am not paying this off? Once you add 767 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,879 Speaker 4: up all of your debt and see how much that 768 00:36:57,040 --> 00:36:59,120 Speaker 4: is costing you on a monthly basis. 769 00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 3: Usually that will. 770 00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:03,280 Speaker 4: Encourage you to pay it off because if you see 771 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:06,560 Speaker 4: you are paying out one thousand and fifteen hundred dollars 772 00:37:07,000 --> 00:37:11,040 Speaker 4: in minimum fees every single month just because you have 773 00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:14,239 Speaker 4: this amount of debt, usually it will encourage you. And 774 00:37:14,280 --> 00:37:16,880 Speaker 4: then after you know your full amount, now you have 775 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,920 Speaker 4: to decide on your plan. And once again, your plan 776 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:24,800 Speaker 4: ultimately goes back to your personality. If you need small wins, 777 00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,200 Speaker 4: you need to win quickly. I always recommend the debt 778 00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:31,480 Speaker 4: snowball method because you pay off the lowest amount and 779 00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:34,640 Speaker 4: that gives you momentum to keep going. However, if you're 780 00:37:34,719 --> 00:37:37,600 Speaker 4: like I want to pay the least amount of interest 781 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:40,480 Speaker 4: over time, I don't need the small wins, then I 782 00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:44,040 Speaker 4: would say your highest interest rate first, because you're going 783 00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,279 Speaker 4: to save more money over time. But ultimately you need 784 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:52,080 Speaker 4: to know how much money you are, how much money 785 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 4: you owe, and how much money. What's your strategy going 786 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 4: to be to pay it off? Are you going to 787 00:37:57,680 --> 00:38:00,279 Speaker 4: use that snowball? Are you going to use you know, 788 00:38:00,400 --> 00:38:04,120 Speaker 4: the interest rate? Highest interest rate first? And how much 789 00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:06,919 Speaker 4: money do you have left in your budget to where 790 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,919 Speaker 4: you can attack this debt. Do you have to find 791 00:38:09,920 --> 00:38:12,040 Speaker 4: a way to make more money? Can you cut back 792 00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,480 Speaker 4: on something in order to start paying this off? But 793 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:20,279 Speaker 4: ultimately those three numbers. Knowing your total number, knowing your 794 00:38:20,320 --> 00:38:23,520 Speaker 4: process or your plan, and knowing how much money you 795 00:38:23,600 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 4: have to pay it off will help you develop a 796 00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,680 Speaker 4: good system for paying it off in a certain amount 797 00:38:30,719 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 4: of time. And how much time do you want or 798 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,239 Speaker 4: give yourself before you actually pay this off. All of 799 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:40,920 Speaker 4: it matters, but giving yourself grace in order to figure 800 00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 4: all of this out is the best thing if you 801 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:45,640 Speaker 4: are in a rush to pay it off. I always 802 00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:48,839 Speaker 4: ask why is there an ultimate bigger goal of why 803 00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:50,799 Speaker 4: you want to pay this off in six months? Or 804 00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 4: is it just because you've seen that's what other people do. 805 00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:58,920 Speaker 4: Because sometimes we will get attached to an idea and 806 00:38:59,280 --> 00:39:03,080 Speaker 4: it's not a good logical idea for us to take on, 807 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:06,680 Speaker 4: or it's just too challenging of an idea. I remember 808 00:39:06,719 --> 00:39:08,680 Speaker 4: when I first was paying off that I paid off 809 00:39:08,680 --> 00:39:12,080 Speaker 4: twenty five thousand dollars of credit card debt and I 810 00:39:12,280 --> 00:39:14,480 Speaker 4: wanted to pay it off in six months. 811 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:17,040 Speaker 3: Why six months, I don't know. I saw it on Instagram. 812 00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:18,040 Speaker 3: Someone else did it. 813 00:39:18,080 --> 00:39:20,800 Speaker 4: I just said it, that looks like a good idea, 814 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:24,160 Speaker 4: why not? And it took me about two years, and 815 00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,960 Speaker 4: I was just so disappointed. I was so incredibly disappointed. 816 00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:30,320 Speaker 4: And ultimately I had a friend who was like, wait, 817 00:39:30,360 --> 00:39:32,239 Speaker 4: why are you disappointed? I'm like, cause it took me 818 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,560 Speaker 4: too long, and she was like, long compared, Oh, like, 819 00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:38,480 Speaker 4: the fact that you did it is so amazing, what 820 00:39:38,560 --> 00:39:40,719 Speaker 4: are you comparing this to? And I was like, yeah, 821 00:39:40,760 --> 00:39:43,400 Speaker 4: what am I comparing this to? I was comparing it 822 00:39:43,400 --> 00:39:46,640 Speaker 4: to what I had saw, but I wasn't given myself 823 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,880 Speaker 4: credit for the fact that I actually did it. 824 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,879 Speaker 3: So progress is progress. I would say that I love that. 825 00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:53,440 Speaker 2: That's so important to keep in mind because some of 826 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:56,560 Speaker 2: the stories and we share obviously we talk about this 827 00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:59,160 Speaker 2: all the time, but it is good to hear other folks' 828 00:39:59,239 --> 00:40:01,200 Speaker 2: stories how it is that they went about paying down debt, 829 00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,399 Speaker 2: the different strategies they employed, whether or not they took 830 00:40:03,440 --> 00:40:07,160 Speaker 2: on more jobs, of increase their income, or whether they're 831 00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:09,360 Speaker 2: reducing their spending, you know, all of the different nuances. 832 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:13,839 Speaker 2: But hopefully we just are encouraged by that, not necessarily thinking, oh, 833 00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:15,960 Speaker 2: we have to emulate this, because like you said it 834 00:40:16,000 --> 00:40:18,120 Speaker 2: may not be sustainable, and so much of this like 835 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:19,879 Speaker 2: comes back to what it is that you're talking about, 836 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:22,920 Speaker 2: which is that it comes down to us as individuals 837 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,640 Speaker 2: and what we know is going to work for us. Elena, 838 00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:29,200 Speaker 2: We've got more questions for you, more money organizational questions 839 00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,520 Speaker 2: for you here that we'll get to right after this. 840 00:40:39,320 --> 00:40:41,240 Speaker 1: All right, we're back. We're still talking with Elena Fingal. 841 00:40:41,280 --> 00:40:43,600 Speaker 1: We're talking about organizing your money for twenty twenty four. 842 00:40:43,880 --> 00:40:46,719 Speaker 1: And Elena, it's interesting we're talking about organizing your money. 843 00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,560 Speaker 1: You've had a lot of great information. I specifically, I 844 00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:52,799 Speaker 1: love how we're talking about how systems are going to 845 00:40:52,880 --> 00:40:56,000 Speaker 1: trump your goals. Essentially that if you've made a goal 846 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:57,480 Speaker 1: and you don't have the system to back it up, 847 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,440 Speaker 1: the chances of success are low. But like you talked 848 00:41:00,440 --> 00:41:02,719 Speaker 1: about so many other things on the organizational front too. 849 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:05,480 Speaker 1: On your YouTube channel, you have a video about organizing 850 00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,200 Speaker 1: your email inbox. I canve use some help on that 851 00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:12,320 Speaker 1: front personally, but like organization seems to spread to every 852 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,400 Speaker 1: area of your life. Talk to me about like what 853 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,040 Speaker 1: else you're organizing and how you think about organization and 854 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 1: how it goes even past just finances. For you. 855 00:41:20,560 --> 00:41:22,920 Speaker 4: Yeah, So when it came down to my inbox, the 856 00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:27,640 Speaker 4: big push behind that particular video was I was getting 857 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,160 Speaker 4: a lot of emails from a lot of sales. 858 00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:32,480 Speaker 3: It was marketing emails. 859 00:41:32,480 --> 00:41:35,000 Speaker 4: They were marketing emails because you know at the end, 860 00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 4: when you're checking out of almost any store, they will 861 00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 4: ask you your email address and I would give it 862 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:43,560 Speaker 4: to them. And then I kept getting bombarded with all 863 00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:46,160 Speaker 4: of these sales, with all of these beautiful planners, and 864 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 4: so I was buying them because I'm a stationary at 865 00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:54,080 Speaker 4: I have a problem. I have a problem, and I 866 00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:58,600 Speaker 4: cannot stop looking at them. So what ultimately I decided 867 00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 4: to do was to create a separate email account that 868 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:05,360 Speaker 4: would be specifically for these promotional emails that I was 869 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:09,040 Speaker 4: getting on a consistent basis. So I would have a 870 00:42:09,080 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 4: separate box that was specifically organized for that, and it 871 00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:18,239 Speaker 4: helped me to stop myself from the impulse shopping. And 872 00:42:18,280 --> 00:42:20,279 Speaker 4: that's a lot of the techniques that I will do 873 00:42:20,880 --> 00:42:24,480 Speaker 4: is I create a lot of strategies to help my 874 00:42:25,480 --> 00:42:29,160 Speaker 4: personality because I can't change who I am, but ultimately 875 00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:33,279 Speaker 4: I can make it easier for myself to navigate my 876 00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,200 Speaker 4: life and my money through systems that I have put 877 00:42:36,239 --> 00:42:38,080 Speaker 4: into place. A couple of the things that I will 878 00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:41,520 Speaker 4: do is I will add things to my Amazon card, 879 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,560 Speaker 4: but I won't purchase my Amazon card until the end 880 00:42:44,640 --> 00:42:46,799 Speaker 4: of the week. And the reason why I do that 881 00:42:46,960 --> 00:42:49,560 Speaker 4: is because I'll be adding things all week, and then 882 00:42:49,760 --> 00:42:52,120 Speaker 4: when it gets to Friday, I'm like, I don't even 883 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:54,319 Speaker 4: want half of this stuff, and so I'll delete it 884 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,759 Speaker 4: out of my card before I actually purchase it. Now, 885 00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:00,440 Speaker 4: some of it I actually do want, I'll get it, 886 00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,000 Speaker 4: but most of the times there's a lot of things 887 00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:05,800 Speaker 4: in there that I don't want. I don't allow myself 888 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 4: to late night scroll. When I'm late night scrolling on TikTok, 889 00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,520 Speaker 4: I'm going to buy a bunch of things. 890 00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:11,799 Speaker 3: Right. 891 00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:16,120 Speaker 1: It's just, especially now, is a bastion of consumer shopping. 892 00:43:16,160 --> 00:43:18,959 Speaker 3: Now it's so and it's so overwhelming. 893 00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 4: Now I feel like a couple of years ago it 894 00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,400 Speaker 4: was not like that at all. Now it is so 895 00:43:23,600 --> 00:43:26,680 Speaker 4: much shopping, and so I almost have to look at it, 896 00:43:26,719 --> 00:43:28,600 Speaker 4: like in the Amazon app, like I have to look 897 00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:31,279 Speaker 4: at it, like, Okay, I can't go on here late 898 00:43:31,320 --> 00:43:31,680 Speaker 4: at night. 899 00:43:31,719 --> 00:43:33,480 Speaker 1: I set a shopping app now, you know. 900 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 3: And I can't go on when i'm bored. 901 00:43:37,080 --> 00:43:40,080 Speaker 4: Sometimes, when I'm really bored and I'm scrolling, I will 902 00:43:40,239 --> 00:43:41,919 Speaker 4: just buy stuff just to buy things. 903 00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:43,319 Speaker 1: It's like going to the grocery store when you're. 904 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,279 Speaker 3: Hungry, exactly. It's the same thing. 905 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:49,839 Speaker 4: I will limit myself because of the personality that I 906 00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:53,360 Speaker 4: know that I have, and I feel like when you 907 00:43:53,640 --> 00:43:59,000 Speaker 4: know your personality and you know how your mind starts 908 00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:01,200 Speaker 4: to work when it comes to money, you can start 909 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:05,440 Speaker 4: to plan your life, your systems, your strategies around that. 910 00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 4: So I will plan out my week every single Sunday. 911 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,360 Speaker 4: I will talk to my husband to make sure that 912 00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,719 Speaker 4: we have a mail plan and we're thinking things through. 913 00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:16,160 Speaker 4: I'll talk to my kids and see what they have 914 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:20,120 Speaker 4: coming up. I'll think about my events. I will set 915 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:22,359 Speaker 4: systems around what I'm going to buy and what I'm 916 00:44:22,360 --> 00:44:25,399 Speaker 4: not going to buy, and even if that is too 917 00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:29,000 Speaker 4: tight a for you, just the simple strategy of saying, Okay, 918 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 4: let me put this money in my bill account and 919 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 4: this money and my spending account every single week to 920 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:38,080 Speaker 4: make sure that I don't go overboard. But having those 921 00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,839 Speaker 4: things in place where you're thinking about your money in 922 00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 4: multiple situations, not when it just comes to your budget. 923 00:44:44,680 --> 00:44:47,080 Speaker 4: When it comes to your inbox. If you find yourself 924 00:44:47,120 --> 00:44:50,080 Speaker 4: spending a lot of money out of emails that you're getting, 925 00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:52,440 Speaker 4: how can you build a system around that. If you 926 00:44:52,480 --> 00:44:55,520 Speaker 4: find yourself building spending money every time you go to 927 00:44:55,560 --> 00:44:58,440 Speaker 4: the mall or anytime you're in target, how can we 928 00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 4: limit how many times we're in the mom in target? 929 00:45:01,600 --> 00:45:05,479 Speaker 4: Those simple strategies that we put in place can help 930 00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:07,120 Speaker 4: us ultimately with our money. 931 00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:07,520 Speaker 1: I love it. 932 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:09,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, what I hear you saying is that you've implemented 933 00:45:09,680 --> 00:45:12,800 Speaker 2: rules in order to modify your behavior, and you're also 934 00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,799 Speaker 2: partitioning some of the different aspects of your life. Whether 935 00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,879 Speaker 2: it's your email right, so you've kind of partitioned it there, 936 00:45:18,920 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 2: whether it's your money, you've kind of curtained off certain 937 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:24,600 Speaker 2: amounts of money. I got to know, I've been obsessed 938 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 2: with time management before, and you've talked about like your planner, 939 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:31,239 Speaker 2: your calendar planner. But how is it that you are 940 00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,120 Speaker 2: managing and being more efficient with your time? Are you 941 00:45:35,360 --> 00:45:38,279 Speaker 2: organizing your days and just essentially listing out the things 942 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,080 Speaker 2: that you're going to do and essentially sticking to that? 943 00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:42,760 Speaker 1: Is it that simple? 944 00:45:42,840 --> 00:45:46,960 Speaker 4: And I'm huge on time blocking, so so bigue on 945 00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:50,720 Speaker 4: time blocking. So I plan my day by the hour. 946 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:53,760 Speaker 4: And I know that probably really type A for most people, 947 00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,399 Speaker 4: but it works so well for me, where I will 948 00:45:57,480 --> 00:46:00,839 Speaker 4: time block different things that I need to do at 949 00:46:00,880 --> 00:46:06,080 Speaker 4: a certain time. I was huge into productivity systems about 950 00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 4: a couple of years ago, so I would watch all 951 00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,439 Speaker 4: of those videos and that's why probably I'm so into 952 00:46:11,480 --> 00:46:15,320 Speaker 4: stationary and love all the planners. But once I found 953 00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:19,319 Speaker 4: the hourly planner, it became everything to me. I would 954 00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,279 Speaker 4: use my planner in order to plan my day. I'll 955 00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:24,200 Speaker 4: think about the money that I have to spend and 956 00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:27,680 Speaker 4: I'll write it next to that particular event, and I 957 00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,920 Speaker 4: used that in order to stay on top of everything. 958 00:46:31,000 --> 00:46:34,160 Speaker 4: I'll rework my day. If my time is off track. 959 00:46:34,560 --> 00:46:38,839 Speaker 4: But ultimately I am using my planner for every area. 960 00:46:38,600 --> 00:46:39,320 Speaker 3: Of my life. 961 00:46:39,560 --> 00:46:41,640 Speaker 4: Anything that I need to do, it's in that planner. 962 00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,000 Speaker 4: And if it's not in that planner, I have forgotten. 963 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,800 Speaker 1: I mean, I remember getting a pomp pilot or something 964 00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 1: back in the day when I was in like early 965 00:46:51,600 --> 00:46:55,240 Speaker 1: high school, and it's like what you were saying earlier, 966 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:56,680 Speaker 1: you have to find the right thing that works for you. 967 00:46:56,760 --> 00:47:00,680 Speaker 1: That didn't work for me. A Google calendar for anybody, Yeah, yeah, 968 00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,480 Speaker 1: I guess I was like the most disorganized person on 969 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:05,560 Speaker 1: the history of planet Earth. And then I feel like, 970 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:08,080 Speaker 1: now I've got a system that works for me, and 971 00:47:08,440 --> 00:47:12,080 Speaker 1: a disorganized guy can at least still get by talk 972 00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,160 Speaker 1: to me for a second. Learned about money challenges. You're 973 00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,239 Speaker 1: a fan of those, and specifically as like we're about 974 00:47:17,280 --> 00:47:20,839 Speaker 1: to crust into a new year, there's something about gamifying 975 00:47:20,840 --> 00:47:22,680 Speaker 1: your finances that can make it fun and they can 976 00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:26,080 Speaker 1: provide the right incentives. Why money challenges? And maybe do 977 00:47:26,120 --> 00:47:30,200 Speaker 1: you have a couple suggestions to help people as they're like, Okay, cool, 978 00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:32,680 Speaker 1: I really want to make significant progress in the first 979 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:35,799 Speaker 1: three to six months of twenty twenty four. Are there 980 00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:37,680 Speaker 1: any money challenges that can help folks get there? 981 00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:41,799 Speaker 3: So I am. I love saving challenges. I feel like. 982 00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:48,399 Speaker 4: Anytime you do any type of savings challenge, it ultimately 983 00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:52,040 Speaker 4: provides this type of game that you want to win. 984 00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,440 Speaker 4: And I'm sure it's all psychology where it's just all 985 00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:58,880 Speaker 4: in my mind. But for some reason, having a Bengal 986 00:47:59,000 --> 00:48:02,239 Speaker 4: savings chart anytime, I just I want to fulfill it. 987 00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:03,960 Speaker 3: I want to beat the challenge. 988 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:07,480 Speaker 4: So I do this every single November where I do 989 00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:11,879 Speaker 4: a thirty day challenge, and the entire chart is one 990 00:48:11,880 --> 00:48:16,680 Speaker 4: thousand dollars and basically the numbers are anywhere from zero 991 00:48:16,880 --> 00:48:19,799 Speaker 4: to sixty dollars. I think is the highest amount on there. 992 00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:24,080 Speaker 4: And I will just every single day, I'll see can 993 00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,520 Speaker 4: I move money to savings? Can I save money? And 994 00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,960 Speaker 4: I will highlight it and move that money over. And 995 00:48:29,040 --> 00:48:32,560 Speaker 4: the reason why I love that process so much is 996 00:48:32,840 --> 00:48:36,319 Speaker 4: I always set a specific goal, and I always tell 997 00:48:36,360 --> 00:48:39,359 Speaker 4: people if you're saving money, you should be saving it 998 00:48:39,400 --> 00:48:41,640 Speaker 4: for a reason. Don't save it just to save it, 999 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:44,839 Speaker 4: because usually that takes all the fun out of it. 1000 00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,640 Speaker 4: It helps you to have a reason or why are 1001 00:48:47,680 --> 00:48:50,080 Speaker 4: you saving this? Even if it's just I need it 1002 00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 4: for my emergency fund, that's perfect great. 1003 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,919 Speaker 3: I just want to have a reason. Yes, we as 1004 00:48:55,000 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 3: you want to have that. 1005 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,440 Speaker 1: We always Atlanta, we talk about how the basic emergency 1006 00:48:58,440 --> 00:49:01,160 Speaker 1: fund should be twenty four hundred sixty seven dollars. It's 1007 00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:02,840 Speaker 1: not just because Matt and I made up that number. 1008 00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 1: It is hyper specific. That's something that economists found out 1009 00:49:06,160 --> 00:49:08,440 Speaker 1: a few years ago, like, hey, this is an amount 1010 00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,480 Speaker 1: that will help most people cover any emergency that pops up. 1011 00:49:11,719 --> 00:49:13,560 Speaker 1: But I love the specificity of it, and I think 1012 00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:16,160 Speaker 1: you're right. The more specific you can get, the more 1013 00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:18,960 Speaker 1: likely you are to keep working towards achieving that goal. 1014 00:49:18,960 --> 00:49:20,520 Speaker 1: If you're like I just kind of want to have 1015 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,800 Speaker 1: ten grand or something like that, the more specific you 1016 00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:25,279 Speaker 1: can get it makes it more tangible, more real. 1017 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:29,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, And like, even with us, I think our number 1018 00:49:29,600 --> 00:49:33,520 Speaker 4: for short term emergencies was three thousand. I think whoever 1019 00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:36,040 Speaker 4: came up with that number is it's absolutely dead on 1020 00:49:36,600 --> 00:49:40,400 Speaker 4: anytime we had an emergency in our house. I remember 1021 00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:43,640 Speaker 4: our kitchen flooded. It was insane, our kitchen flooded, the 1022 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,080 Speaker 4: refrigerator went out at one point in time. But it 1023 00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:50,840 Speaker 4: always came around to like two thousand dollars every single time, 1024 00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:54,719 Speaker 4: And I said, okay, well we always need to have 1025 00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:59,680 Speaker 4: three thousand dollars set aside. And knowing that, knowing that, oh, 1026 00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:03,080 Speaker 4: that's the number, every time I have some type of 1027 00:50:03,120 --> 00:50:05,880 Speaker 4: savings challenge in front of me, then I was like, oh, 1028 00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:07,840 Speaker 4: I just need to save this three thousand. If I 1029 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:11,520 Speaker 4: save three thousand, then we're good. And then I would say, oh, 1030 00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,960 Speaker 4: I need to save one thousand dollars because we're about 1031 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,240 Speaker 4: to travel, or I need to save two hundred or 1032 00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:20,360 Speaker 4: five hundred dollars for this for a spa trip that 1033 00:50:20,400 --> 00:50:23,080 Speaker 4: I want to do, or you know, just thinking of 1034 00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,400 Speaker 4: the little things that you want to do and assigning 1035 00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:28,360 Speaker 4: a specific goal to it and then creating this type 1036 00:50:28,640 --> 00:50:32,239 Speaker 4: of challenge around it helps you to stay encouraged and 1037 00:50:32,320 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 4: motivated to actually go after that goal. If you just 1038 00:50:36,120 --> 00:50:38,439 Speaker 4: say I want to save twenty thousand dollars and there's 1039 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:41,720 Speaker 4: no reason to do so, even if it's your top 1040 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 4: priority at the beginning of the year, you want to say, why, 1041 00:50:45,160 --> 00:50:47,279 Speaker 4: why do you need that money? What will you do 1042 00:50:47,400 --> 00:50:50,440 Speaker 4: when you have that money? Because when you can define 1043 00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:54,160 Speaker 4: what you will do, you're ultimately more likely to actually 1044 00:50:54,200 --> 00:50:57,840 Speaker 4: do it, and the challenges will help you to achieve 1045 00:50:57,880 --> 00:50:59,200 Speaker 4: the things that you want to achieve. 1046 00:50:59,280 --> 00:51:03,400 Speaker 2: It's all about breaking those large goals into practical, bite sized, 1047 00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:06,680 Speaker 2: smaller goals that are actually achievable that are going to 1048 00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,240 Speaker 2: allow you to move that needle in a massive way. Elena, 1049 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,680 Speaker 2: thank you so much for talking to us about your superpower, 1050 00:51:13,320 --> 00:51:16,279 Speaker 2: which is organizing. But where is it that folks can 1051 00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:18,600 Speaker 2: learn more about you or they can look at the 1052 00:51:19,880 --> 00:51:22,719 Speaker 2: organized money planner actually that you've got up there on 1053 00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 2: I believe ets, is that right? 1054 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:25,319 Speaker 3: Yeah? So, I am. 1055 00:51:25,560 --> 00:51:27,560 Speaker 4: Of course, I have a TikTok shop as well, but 1056 00:51:27,680 --> 00:51:29,400 Speaker 4: it's TikTok Etsy. 1057 00:51:30,480 --> 00:51:31,799 Speaker 3: Also on Instagram. 1058 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:34,200 Speaker 4: But anywhere you want to find me, you can find 1059 00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:38,040 Speaker 4: me on YouTube, the Organized Money, Instagram, the Organized Money TikTok. 1060 00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:42,080 Speaker 4: I do a bunch of videos around life and money organization. 1061 00:51:42,360 --> 00:51:45,160 Speaker 4: If you're interested in seeing how I love to plan 1062 00:51:45,280 --> 00:51:48,400 Speaker 4: my life. I have a bunch of videos on YouTube 1063 00:51:48,560 --> 00:51:52,239 Speaker 4: because I am a planner, babe. I love planners, and 1064 00:51:52,880 --> 00:51:54,919 Speaker 4: so I talk about them a lot. I talk about 1065 00:51:54,960 --> 00:51:56,960 Speaker 4: how they can help you. I talk about how you 1066 00:51:56,960 --> 00:52:00,279 Speaker 4: can use them ultimately to organize your life or in 1067 00:52:00,480 --> 00:52:03,160 Speaker 4: aid of your digital system. It's not that you get 1068 00:52:03,160 --> 00:52:05,839 Speaker 4: away from your digital system, but you were more likely 1069 00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 4: to remember forty percent of what you write down. So 1070 00:52:08,760 --> 00:52:12,120 Speaker 4: writing down your goals is super important, and so my 1071 00:52:12,680 --> 00:52:15,759 Speaker 4: platform is all about teaching you how to get there 1072 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 4: and how to do the things that you want through 1073 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:20,640 Speaker 4: life and money organization. 1074 00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:23,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, Elena, you rock. We love what you're up to. 1075 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:25,000 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us today on the podcast. 1076 00:52:25,040 --> 00:52:26,759 Speaker 3: Thank you for having me all. 1077 00:52:26,760 --> 00:52:28,560 Speaker 1: Right, matt, Elena's got a new fan in me. I 1078 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:32,080 Speaker 1: love what she's up to. Same approach. Yeah, also her 1079 00:52:32,120 --> 00:52:36,399 Speaker 1: column presence for sure, as she fielded questions, Now we're 1080 00:52:36,760 --> 00:52:40,120 Speaker 1: kind of goofballs, and she was just straight as a 1081 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,960 Speaker 1: narrow just talking a lot of sense and bringing a 1082 00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:45,680 Speaker 1: lot of good information, and truly like what she does. 1083 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:47,839 Speaker 1: The way she talks about money. There's so many other 1084 00:52:47,880 --> 00:52:49,359 Speaker 1: people talking about it in that way. So I really 1085 00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:52,560 Speaker 1: appreach like her organism, appreciate her organizational approach to money. 1086 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:54,319 Speaker 1: What was your big takeaway from this comma though? 1087 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,080 Speaker 2: So she had so many great things, Like I feel 1088 00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:59,640 Speaker 2: like the overarching theme of this episode is just going 1089 00:52:59,719 --> 00:53:02,000 Speaker 2: to be that if you have goals without systems in 1090 00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:04,080 Speaker 2: place to achieve those goals, they're gonna be goals that 1091 00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:07,319 Speaker 2: are gonna be unmet. Yeah, you're not gonna reach those 1092 00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:11,000 Speaker 2: actual goals. But when it comes to my specific takeaway, 1093 00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,239 Speaker 2: I was thinking, Okay, this is kind of funny because 1094 00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,319 Speaker 2: this gets this gets really personal. I was thinking for 1095 00:53:17,440 --> 00:53:19,160 Speaker 2: that I was gonna get Kate for Christmas, like an 1096 00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:23,680 Speaker 2: organizational digital kind of calendar list thing where it's got 1097 00:53:23,719 --> 00:53:25,920 Speaker 2: like all the information for a family for the week, 1098 00:53:26,320 --> 00:53:29,680 Speaker 2: basically like a digital planner. And they make e ink 1099 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:32,000 Speaker 2: versions of these, but sometimes they can be kind of pricey. 1100 00:53:32,480 --> 00:53:34,240 Speaker 1: But I guess just talking. 1101 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,240 Speaker 2: With Elena and hearing her love and her passion for 1102 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:41,000 Speaker 2: physical paper planners help me to realize that that's what 1103 00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:44,480 Speaker 2: my wife does, That's what Kate does. And she's voiced 1104 00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:46,560 Speaker 2: this in one form or the other as far as 1105 00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,520 Speaker 2: she likes her system. But I think I guess hearing 1106 00:53:49,640 --> 00:53:51,799 Speaker 2: Elena talk about, hey, no, you got to stick with 1107 00:53:51,840 --> 00:53:54,920 Speaker 2: what works for you has helped me to realize, Okay, 1108 00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:57,480 Speaker 2: maybe instead of getting some sort of new fancy technology 1109 00:53:57,480 --> 00:53:59,239 Speaker 2: thing that Matt's gonna love and that I think is 1110 00:53:59,239 --> 00:54:02,759 Speaker 2: gonna change revolutionize the efficiency of her family, like giving 1111 00:54:02,760 --> 00:54:05,719 Speaker 2: her a gift that you want basically, instead, I think 1112 00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:07,120 Speaker 2: I just need to get her another planner for twenty 1113 00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 2: twenty four. 1114 00:54:08,000 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 1: So she's like, thanks, honey, exactly. 1115 00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,960 Speaker 2: But the big takeaway underneath that little anecdote is stick 1116 00:54:14,000 --> 00:54:16,200 Speaker 2: with the different systems that you know are going to 1117 00:54:16,280 --> 00:54:18,680 Speaker 2: work for you. And some of it is going to 1118 00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:20,640 Speaker 2: be through introspection, but some of it's just going to 1119 00:54:20,680 --> 00:54:23,080 Speaker 2: be through trial and error. Look back and think about 1120 00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,719 Speaker 2: times where things have worked for you, like when have 1121 00:54:25,719 --> 00:54:28,120 Speaker 2: you gotten a head, when have you reached your goals? Well, 1122 00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,200 Speaker 2: look at those specific strategies, but Yeah, that's my big takeaway. 1123 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:33,680 Speaker 2: Don't try to force a round peg into a square hole, 1124 00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:36,120 Speaker 2: that kind of thing. So I have a bunch of takeaways, 1125 00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:37,759 Speaker 2: but I'm only going to offer one because that's how 1126 00:54:37,800 --> 00:54:39,600 Speaker 2: we do this thing. When she said we don't question 1127 00:54:39,680 --> 00:54:42,040 Speaker 2: ourselves enough, I thought that was like spot on. 1128 00:54:42,200 --> 00:54:44,799 Speaker 1: When it comes to knowing what's enough. Yeah, exactly, And 1129 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,960 Speaker 1: I think that's so true. Like that it makes me 1130 00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,920 Speaker 1: think of our Money Mission Statement planner that we should 1131 00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:51,760 Speaker 1: link to in the show notes for this episode, because 1132 00:54:51,760 --> 00:54:53,720 Speaker 1: I think it starts to help you ask the questions 1133 00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:55,360 Speaker 1: of yourself to figure out what it is that you 1134 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:59,160 Speaker 1: really want so you can organize your goals around your personality. 1135 00:54:59,160 --> 00:55:01,279 Speaker 1: And she talked about that at in this episode too, 1136 00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:03,520 Speaker 1: that it's not a one size fits all approach. But 1137 00:55:03,560 --> 00:55:05,960 Speaker 1: I think the more we question our motives, the more 1138 00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:09,200 Speaker 1: it's going to reveal kind of the underlying desires and 1139 00:55:09,440 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 1: the underlying orientation of our lives, what it is that 1140 00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,040 Speaker 1: we actually want out of this life, and how money 1141 00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:16,880 Speaker 1: fits into that. So oftentimes it feels like more money 1142 00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:18,560 Speaker 1: is a solution because then we can buy this, this, 1143 00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,799 Speaker 1: and that. But the truth is, why don't we want this? This? 1144 00:55:20,960 --> 00:55:23,279 Speaker 1: Or that, and sometimes it's like a house of cards 1145 00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,560 Speaker 1: that collapses and we're like, oh, what I was really 1146 00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:28,360 Speaker 1: wanting was something so much more basic, so much more affordable. 1147 00:55:28,400 --> 00:55:30,279 Speaker 2: In fact, turns out there's a corner I could have 1148 00:55:30,280 --> 00:55:32,000 Speaker 2: cut that would have allowed me to go directly to 1149 00:55:32,080 --> 00:55:34,400 Speaker 2: that thing. Yeah, rather than this roundabout path that involved 1150 00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:35,640 Speaker 2: a lot of expensive purchases. 1151 00:55:35,680 --> 00:55:37,840 Speaker 1: Yes, that we're completely onlesss. It makes me think of 1152 00:55:37,840 --> 00:55:40,640 Speaker 1: the fisherman story that almost everybody knows, right or oh 1153 00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:43,040 Speaker 1: you can a businessman, Yeah, keep out into your empire 1154 00:55:43,080 --> 00:55:45,399 Speaker 1: and then finally you get to retire and just fish 1155 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,000 Speaker 1: with your friends. He's like, I already do that, right, 1156 00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,959 Speaker 1: I do? So, Yeah, I guess just maybe question yourself 1157 00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,800 Speaker 1: a little more. We'll link to that money mission statement 1158 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:52,399 Speaker 1: that Matt and I crean. 1159 00:55:52,520 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 2: This is such a years ago. But yeah, a great 1160 00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:55,400 Speaker 2: time of year to do that too. I mean a 1161 00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:57,440 Speaker 2: lot of folks have a bit more time off. Is 1162 00:55:57,600 --> 00:56:00,879 Speaker 2: the ability to be a little more in respective with 1163 00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,640 Speaker 2: another year of life experience under your belt. I think 1164 00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,719 Speaker 2: is a great time to think through, all right, what 1165 00:56:05,800 --> 00:56:07,680 Speaker 2: is it that is important to me? How can I 1166 00:56:07,760 --> 00:56:08,600 Speaker 2: most directly. 1167 00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: Achieve this one? Especially when she said money is what 1168 00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:14,040 Speaker 1: twenty percent math and eighty percent like emotion in head 1169 00:56:14,600 --> 00:56:16,319 Speaker 1: and I think that that's spot on. So if you 1170 00:56:16,360 --> 00:56:18,960 Speaker 1: can kind of get that eighty percent, be kind of 1171 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:21,160 Speaker 1: more intentional about that, it's going to impact that twenty 1172 00:56:21,160 --> 00:56:22,640 Speaker 1: percent in a big way. That's right, man. 1173 00:56:22,640 --> 00:56:24,680 Speaker 2: All right, let's quickly get back to our beer, which 1174 00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:27,920 Speaker 2: was a phenomenal one. This is called Missile Toad. It's 1175 00:56:27,960 --> 00:56:32,160 Speaker 2: a triple IPA by Evergreen Brewing Company, and this one 1176 00:56:32,239 --> 00:56:35,320 Speaker 2: was donated to the show by Rihanna, and so Rihanna, 1177 00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:38,720 Speaker 2: thank you so much for donating this amazingly delicious beer. 1178 00:56:39,280 --> 00:56:41,319 Speaker 1: I've shared my thoughts on it. Yeah, it was so good. 1179 00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:43,759 Speaker 1: And this was a juice bomb. Holy cow, there's so 1180 00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:45,920 Speaker 1: much flavor, you know, into this thing. You know when 1181 00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,319 Speaker 1: you go to like a basketball game and they've got 1182 00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,799 Speaker 1: the T shirt cannon things. This was like that cannon. 1183 00:56:50,880 --> 00:56:52,799 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah. It's like they could put like tons 1184 00:56:52,800 --> 00:56:54,080 Speaker 1: of hops in that and then like put it right 1185 00:56:54,080 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 1: in my mouth. That's that's what I was getting from 1186 00:56:56,719 --> 00:56:58,800 Speaker 1: this one at close range in the best way possible, 1187 00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:03,160 Speaker 1: because I love hops. Is like tropical, tropical potency, and 1188 00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,120 Speaker 1: then this soft finish actually at the end too. It 1189 00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:06,200 Speaker 1: was just a lovely beer. 1190 00:57:06,239 --> 00:57:08,360 Speaker 2: Initially I thought it might be too sweet, because the 1191 00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:11,640 Speaker 2: first sip I took was just full on flavor assault. 1192 00:57:11,960 --> 00:57:13,839 Speaker 2: But like you said that, there are nuances and it's 1193 00:57:13,840 --> 00:57:16,680 Speaker 2: felt like there's almost like these muscadine like flavors, like 1194 00:57:16,720 --> 00:57:19,480 Speaker 2: a wild gaming this almost. 1195 00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:22,480 Speaker 1: To some of the sweeter taste, like vening. That's what 1196 00:57:22,520 --> 00:57:24,160 Speaker 1: I think of when you say gaming this, I mean 1197 00:57:24,240 --> 00:57:26,400 Speaker 1: just like with a canvas, like every artist brings something 1198 00:57:26,400 --> 00:57:28,240 Speaker 1: different brewer, same thing with hops, man, I mean, like 1199 00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:31,080 Speaker 1: you can get it's amazing IPAs that are just loaded 1200 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:32,680 Speaker 1: up with hops and they don't taste good. This one 1201 00:57:32,880 --> 00:57:35,240 Speaker 1: loaded up with hops, but it tastes awesome. So it's yeah, 1202 00:57:35,280 --> 00:57:37,800 Speaker 1: thanks Nanna, we really appreciate it. And Matt, like we said, 1203 00:57:37,800 --> 00:57:39,600 Speaker 1: we'll link to that money mission statement in the show 1204 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,840 Speaker 1: notes that you can you can check out and work 1205 00:57:41,880 --> 00:57:43,920 Speaker 1: on at your own pace. We think it'll be helpful 1206 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:46,919 Speaker 1: as you're kind of thinking through organization and goals for 1207 00:57:47,040 --> 00:57:49,120 Speaker 1: the new year, and guess what, you're gonna be head 1208 00:57:49,120 --> 00:57:51,840 Speaker 1: of the pack because you're starting eleven days earlier. Yeah, 1209 00:57:51,880 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 1: all right, that's gonna do it for this one though. 1210 00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:54,200 Speaker 1: Matt until next time. 1211 00:57:54,440 --> 00:58:03,280 Speaker 2: Best friends out, best friends out the