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Speaker 1: talked back. We're back, Welcome to a new episode that

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Speaker 1: we talked back. It's your girl a j. It's Tam Bam, y'all,

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Speaker 1: and I want to sing for y'all today because we

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Speaker 1: got a nigga who can sing on the show. You

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Speaker 1: know that Miss Charlene woke up this morning found in

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Speaker 1: the letter that she wrote, Dick is too hard to

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Speaker 1: swat you know how you ever? Anthony Hamilton said it. Listen,

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Speaker 1: we have Anthony Hamilton, y'all, a whole life living legend,

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Speaker 1: and he is talking back with us. What's your favorite? Uh,

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Speaker 1: Anthony Hamilton's song, Tim, that's your favorite song? Absolutely? When

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Speaker 1: I saw Daddy's Little Girls and he just was in

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Speaker 1: Gabriel Union and I was playing, I was like, Oh,

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Speaker 1: I want you just to act like that about me,

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Speaker 1: and I love that song. My all time favorite Anthony

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Speaker 1: Hamilton song is off of his second album, um never

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Speaker 1: Love Again and go like never love fucking I know

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Speaker 1: I don't go like that after your broke me down.

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Speaker 1: It's high to trust the feeling you love. Yeah, Hey,

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Speaker 1: don't get what you do in my face turned up,

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Speaker 1: I could say, smell something sting, I could sing in

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Speaker 1: real life and look and look, I got allergies right now.

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Speaker 1: Must be bitch, because let Anthony do it. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: ask him to sing it. My best friend with see

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Speaker 1: if you do this show, Anthony. I know I've only

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Speaker 1: known you for about thirty minutes now, but my best

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Speaker 1: friend winning for me. Thank you? All right, y'all tune

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Speaker 1: in for Anthony Hamilton's like the head head goes whoo

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Speaker 1: whoo hey, Hey, this is we talked back. I'm Tim

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Speaker 1: Bam and this is a j and we got a

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Speaker 1: super special guest today, superstar Anthony Hamilton's with us today.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for joining us, Thank you all for having me. Man,

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Speaker 1: are you one of my favorite artists all time? Favorite? Alright,

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Speaker 1: you appreciate. So how do we address you? Are we

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Speaker 1: calling you Mr? Aquarius because I don't look you sign

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Speaker 1: up to Hamilton's what we call you today? You know

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Speaker 1: Anthony is good? It's simple, okay. Yeah, So Anthony, I

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Speaker 1: need to tell you a story. We're gonna start with

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Speaker 1: my story, all right. I met you in a club

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Speaker 1: I was like sing Sharleen to me, Anthony, and you

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Speaker 1: I started to go into this story about why I

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Speaker 1: in a fight because I wasn't next to him when

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Speaker 1: Charlene was on. We got a whole fight. If you

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Speaker 1: fight at an Anthony Hamilton's concert, you really got some problems.

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Speaker 1: Like you toxic, toxic, It's real toxic. And I even

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Speaker 1: hung on I gotta show you this because it was

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Speaker 1: like I was telling you the story about it and

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Speaker 1: he was looking at me like this because I probably

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Speaker 1: I probably wasn't caught up to your drunk that yet. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: like it's not fun. But I'm gonna stay there with

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna talk to you. I'm listening to you. You

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Speaker 1: how you was looking like. I don't hear it, but

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Speaker 1: I just want to show you this. This is me

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Speaker 1: and you in the club that night so much. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I had to send me that on I Well, I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna send it to you. Wow. Tam Bam and a

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Speaker 1: Jah so coming from where I'm from and ain't nobody worrying.

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Speaker 1: That's my two favorite albums and I still listen to

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Speaker 1: those albums like it came out yesterday. Okay, thank you?

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Speaker 1: So um, we did see your last single, not the

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Speaker 1: most recent one. You had another song come out with

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Speaker 1: last month, I mean last year, Jamika Mallory. Yeah, Mercy

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Speaker 1: that come about. Mercy was a song that it spoke

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Speaker 1: to the to the to the black man at that

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Speaker 1: about black Man m It was fitting to half of that. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know what, it really is a beautiful, powerful song

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Speaker 1: your energy. Yeah. Yeah, it just sets the tone like

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Speaker 1: and you know you don't know how to take it.

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Speaker 1: you know, now you got this new single out, you

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Speaker 1: made a fool of me. Now I feel like this

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Speaker 1: song is good because you're giving Lenny Williams energy and

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Speaker 1: And it's all right because that's but it was a

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Speaker 1: be with you for life. Now in this song. Nowhearing

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Speaker 1: You're saying you're never gonna take her back? Now, that

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Speaker 1: She didn't drag it out with no pain. No, she

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Speaker 1: but my ex is and aquaries I know about y'all.

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Speaker 1: You can't tell me nothing about an aquaries. We like

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Speaker 1: our face. We can be a little moodies, needs space

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Speaker 1: to reboot, but we're good people. We love people. When

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Speaker 1: we're out, we're out, But when I'm in, I'm in introverted.

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Speaker 1: So do you think it's a general consistent that men?

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Speaker 1: All right? So a woman will take you back a

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Speaker 1: What does it pray for me? Yeah? Somebody need to

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Speaker 1: of did wrong against you that proped me and my ship? Again? Lord,

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Speaker 1: somebody to pray for me now here you are talking

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Speaker 1: But women, I don't know, you have a higher capacity

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Speaker 1: it's devastating. It's like I want to Yeah, y'all used

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Speaker 1: This person was totally gone, no trace. So it was like,

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Speaker 1: so when is the album coming out? Album? Will be

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Speaker 1: released in h August? Working on it? Yeah, in the

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Speaker 1: more songs. So now you sign it? So so deafer

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Speaker 1: first in the album. No, I'm signed to my Music Box,

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Speaker 1: which is my label through BMG being j D. Just

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Speaker 1: And the time to work and bring out a project,

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Speaker 1: and each each um he's generation. And so now how

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Speaker 1: your your first indie album, and everybody's on ownership now,

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Speaker 1: especially since Nipsey Hustle, Nipsey hustle, um, um past and

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Speaker 1: it though? Is it worse? I don't care how much

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00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 1: I don't faid if it's time to go with Stamar.

425
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: Those are real mature answers. Those are mature answers. I

426
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: feel like, fight for your girl, bro, fighting if it's

427
00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 1: worth it, though, But if she's not fighting, if she's

428
00:27:29,160 --> 00:27:32,520
Speaker 1: fighting against you, then what chance do you have. She

429
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:35,400
Speaker 1: just wanted a little piece of prison wood and now

430
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:37,959
Speaker 1: she's back. Come on, That's all I'm just saying. But

431
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: you know she's gonna want it. He might have left

432
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,480
Speaker 1: some information out of it, like maybe he's been pressing her,

433
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:47,200
Speaker 1: like you know, what's she's like, Yeah, he just stopped

434
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 1: by that just drop something off and her hanging up. Okay, okay,

435
00:27:51,520 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 1: I get it. Certain certain hours for certain things. Then

436
00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 1: you can come in the daytime when the lights on

437
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 1: and uh, you know, or me and my me and

438
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:09,880
Speaker 1: my baby, me and my boyfriend are here. Uh, if

439
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: you want to stop by and drop it off. That's fine,

440
00:28:12,800 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: but not hang phone, don't answer when I called back.

441
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,840
Speaker 1: Oh do you get you know? You getting himed up?

442
00:28:21,440 --> 00:28:24,360
Speaker 1: And I know him on your mind, but it don't

443
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,960
Speaker 1: matter because you're still getting himmed up. And here I

444
00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: am laying here, can't sleep and I gotta go to

445
00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: work tomorrow to pay your bills. Sure so dumb, you

446
00:28:34,640 --> 00:28:38,800
Speaker 1: are really dub for real. So now it's dating and

447
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:41,560
Speaker 1: being in a relationship the same thing. Because he said

448
00:28:41,560 --> 00:28:45,280
Speaker 1: they're dating, I feel like, what's the what's the Are

449
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: you dating exclusively? If you're dating exclusive? Are you dating

450
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:54,120
Speaker 1: in the hopes of this becoming a real thing? Are

451
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,440
Speaker 1: we dating because we only want to be with each other?

452
00:28:57,080 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 1: Like dating could be a little tricky with dating that means, okay,

453
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,240
Speaker 1: we get together, we go out on date, or we

454
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:08,120
Speaker 1: have movies. Oh we you know we pol pola. Uh.

455
00:29:08,400 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: It just depends on what what what you guys? What

456
00:29:11,720 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 1: do you expect expectations? Do you think that's a conversation

457
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:17,280
Speaker 1: that needs to be had, Like should a man say

458
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:20,720
Speaker 1: I want to date you exclusively before a woman should

459
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 1: start being exclusive to him? Because I just got like

460
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 1: a dude just dropped me recently because I went out

461
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:27,680
Speaker 1: on a date with someone else and he was like,

462
00:29:27,720 --> 00:29:30,200
Speaker 1: I thought we were dating exclusively, And I was like,

463
00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:33,479
Speaker 1: you never asked me to be exclusive. I think we

464
00:29:33,520 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: know when the person expect for it to be exclusive,

465
00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:41,800
Speaker 1: But if you don't say not, not no. But sometimes

466
00:29:41,800 --> 00:29:45,120
Speaker 1: people just want to Like dating for me has been

467
00:29:45,160 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: like that, like everybody want to just let me. I

468
00:29:47,640 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: want to own it. Mm hmm, just me and you not. Yeah,

469
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:55,560
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not ready for that. Yeah you know

470
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 1: what I mean. And when I am gonna be great

471
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: at it. Um, but you can't pressure me into it.

472
00:30:00,880 --> 00:30:03,920
Speaker 1: You can't. You can't trick me into it either, right,

473
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:08,720
Speaker 1: Like like we never we all decided, Okay, we both decided,

474
00:30:10,280 --> 00:30:12,880
Speaker 1: let's go out and have drinks. You know. It's those

475
00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:17,520
Speaker 1: silent conversations like sleeping together, sleeping like we exclusively us,

476
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,560
Speaker 1: you know, spending all day every day together. How about

477
00:30:20,560 --> 00:30:25,800
Speaker 1: starting business together? All that that's that's really really I mean,

478
00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:28,280
Speaker 1: let's see you you can do all that stuff with

479
00:30:28,400 --> 00:30:31,160
Speaker 1: a man, and then when he get caught with someone else,

480
00:30:31,560 --> 00:30:35,320
Speaker 1: we will never said we were exclusive. We never and

481
00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:38,320
Speaker 1: that I've been here, I think. But on both sides,

482
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,400
Speaker 1: he needs a woman needs to you need to speak

483
00:30:41,480 --> 00:30:43,840
Speaker 1: up about what you really want and what you expect

484
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: from me, and I need to let you know what

485
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:50,080
Speaker 1: I expect from you and what I can give um

486
00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,240
Speaker 1: and and vice versa. I think that should be a

487
00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:55,920
Speaker 1: clear understanding before going into it, because it's it's nothing

488
00:30:55,960 --> 00:31:00,320
Speaker 1: like dating someone and you you know, you spend time

489
00:31:00,320 --> 00:31:03,560
Speaker 1: together dating or whatever you call it, and you get

490
00:31:03,600 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: to a place and it feels like the the prison,

491
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:16,480
Speaker 1: the seal, like, ah, I didn't I didn't know it

492
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:20,080
Speaker 1: was this, I didn't know. We never had this conversation.

493
00:31:20,360 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 1: And that could be a cop outweigh you know what

494
00:31:22,080 --> 00:31:25,560
Speaker 1: I mean? It is you know that if you if

495
00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 1: you're treating like you you here and you guys have

496
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 1: been intimate, you spending all this time and you're talking

497
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,959
Speaker 1: about you're talking a certain way. It's one conversation when

498
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,280
Speaker 1: you're laying down on that good pillar, and then it's

499
00:31:36,320 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: another one. You you know, right, you come, you come

500
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:49,480
Speaker 1: to your sensors. You're right, right, no pun intended, right. UM.

501
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,720
Speaker 1: I think it's a clear understand, clear understanding and through

502
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:57,760
Speaker 1: the conversation. Definitely, it's important because I don't want to

503
00:31:57,760 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: get to a certain level and I'm thinking that. Okay, okay,

504
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm not exclusive without dating, but you're expecting certain things

505
00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 1: from me. That's if we are um on both sides.

506
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,880
Speaker 1: That could be a little tricky. It could be I mean,

507
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: it can hurt your feelings. Mm hmm. It's a shock

508
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: to to you. Um, but you shouldn't assume just because

509
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:22,320
Speaker 1: we're being intimate and we're spending this time and all that,

510
00:32:23,200 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 1: you can't assume. You have to have that conversation or

511
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:28,400
Speaker 1: somebody's feelings gonna get hurt. Right, So, after you have

512
00:32:28,480 --> 00:32:31,080
Speaker 1: the conversation, the guy said, well, we're not exclusive. I

513
00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:33,400
Speaker 1: don't care if we've been going on trips, this and

514
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:36,760
Speaker 1: the third then you started dating somebody else, and now

515
00:32:36,760 --> 00:32:39,920
Speaker 1: it's a shock to him that you're looking for somebody

516
00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:43,040
Speaker 1: now who's going to give you what you're looking for. Well,

517
00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: that's what he deserves. I mean, I mean, if you can't,

518
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: if you can't give up what you need and then

519
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:54,640
Speaker 1: then she's gonna go find it, and vice versas, like, yeah,

520
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: you want to lose it to the better man? Yeah,

521
00:32:57,000 --> 00:33:03,320
Speaker 1: Like no, I want to want to be you want

522
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 1: now that Tony want to be exclusive? Tony just got

523
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 1: out all we've got his time and all He's made

524
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:19,480
Speaker 1: his time. So yeah, yeah, totally doing Tony that chilling

525
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:22,959
Speaker 1: all up. He want to be exclusive and Tony look

526
00:33:23,000 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: a little bit better than you. Now you want to fight,

527
00:33:27,040 --> 00:33:29,640
Speaker 1: But now you want to fight for the exclusivity. Not

528
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:36,479
Speaker 1: good to look. Before we move on to the next segment,

529
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 1: let's have a word from our sponsors. Do you have

530
00:33:43,480 --> 00:33:45,800
Speaker 1: a new single line up? You know, I'm in the

531
00:33:45,840 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: studio working. I'm in the studio right now, just working

532
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,800
Speaker 1: on finishing the album, getting the art work together. Um,

533
00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:57,360
Speaker 1: putting the final touches to the story and making sure

534
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:59,680
Speaker 1: that this bulletproof. I don't want you to be aby

535
00:33:59,720 --> 00:34:02,479
Speaker 1: skip not one song. Some of the features that I'm

536
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: gonna have, I want them to be special. I wanted

537
00:34:05,080 --> 00:34:08,280
Speaker 1: to make sense. Um. I don't want to get features

538
00:34:08,320 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 1: without it sounding like a mix tape, right. You know?

539
00:34:13,920 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: I saw on Charlene the Charlene Instagram is like, you

540
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: don't know my side of the story. Are we gonna

541
00:34:20,320 --> 00:34:23,279
Speaker 1: hear Charlene's side. Definitely gonna hear, Like, yeah, I'm about

542
00:34:23,440 --> 00:34:26,280
Speaker 1: let it all out. I'm not always I'm not always

543
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: the one. It's not always my fault. It's your fault.

544
00:34:29,920 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 1: It's always your fault. Dam bam, damn, dam bam. You

545
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 1: can just cut it out, hey, j won't you get

546
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 1: your people? She had a control half the time. I

547
00:34:40,840 --> 00:35:05,879
Speaker 1: can't control. I cant up, sweetheart. So yeah, I'm working

548
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: on finishing that. And uh, I can't wait for you

549
00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: guys to hear. We can't wait for it either. My

550
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:14,160
Speaker 1: favorite song, all time favorite is never Love Again, and

551
00:35:14,200 --> 00:35:17,120
Speaker 1: that would have been my favorite. You know what, that

552
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:19,600
Speaker 1: song was so dear to my heart, Like I didn't

553
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: even go into the booth to sing that. That's something

554
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:26,160
Speaker 1: that right on the outside of the studio where the engineers. Wow,

555
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 1: I had Mike there, so that was just I never

556
00:35:28,840 --> 00:35:31,399
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm not going in there. I need

557
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:33,640
Speaker 1: to hear this coming out the speaker as I'm singing

558
00:35:33,640 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: it comes. This is how I feel. That's a good song,

559
00:35:35,760 --> 00:35:39,240
Speaker 1: like I want to hear. Every man needs to hear that. Listen.

560
00:35:39,239 --> 00:35:44,040
Speaker 1: I sent it to my X last night because I

561
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,520
Speaker 1: was listening to it. I sent it right on to

562
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:52,759
Speaker 1: him so he can get in his feelings. You gonna

563
00:35:52,800 --> 00:36:03,160
Speaker 1: sleep like I was even so good over here. Yeah,

564
00:36:03,960 --> 00:36:07,120
Speaker 1: let's put this on your heart, right you don't get

565
00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:12,799
Speaker 1: no risk. That's that's black you. You made some of

566
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:18,000
Speaker 1: the most beautiful love music and very emotional and passionate.

567
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:23,120
Speaker 1: Are you single, are you dating someone? What is your status?

568
00:36:23,280 --> 00:36:25,799
Speaker 1: I am single. I am single. I've dated. I was

569
00:36:25,920 --> 00:36:29,399
Speaker 1: married for ten years, amazing woman. We have three, three

570
00:36:29,440 --> 00:36:33,240
Speaker 1: beautiful children, um almost nine year old and the twins

571
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:37,440
Speaker 1: about to be eleven and older. Three boys. But since then,

572
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: I've been updated. I've met some amazing women. I've dated

573
00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:43,760
Speaker 1: some amazing women. But I just wasn't ready. I wasn't

574
00:36:43,760 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 1: ready for that. I'm getting there. I think being alone, um,

575
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:53,160
Speaker 1: not only just being alone, but just my personality. I

576
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: like a lot of space. I like a lot of

577
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,120
Speaker 1: me time and a lot of it. May not need

578
00:36:59,160 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: to be with somebody or be doing anything. I just

579
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 1: like to be left alone sometimes, and I think that's

580
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:08,520
Speaker 1: good and a bad. If you get too comfortable with that,

581
00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:13,120
Speaker 1: then you'll never allow somebody in your space enough to

582
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 1: to become become comfortable with that vulnerable. Yeah. So I'm

583
00:37:18,560 --> 00:37:20,919
Speaker 1: working on me to get to that place where I'd

584
00:37:20,960 --> 00:37:23,080
Speaker 1: be like, all, you know what, I can see you

585
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:27,439
Speaker 1: more than two days back to back for a long time.

586
00:37:27,520 --> 00:37:30,120
Speaker 1: It's like I can't do it. I can't. Like I'd

587
00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, you're going home, and they could be

588
00:37:33,040 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: really good people, but I'm like, I just want to

589
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 1: be left alone relationship. I mean, I know how to cook, clean,

590
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:50,879
Speaker 1: I do laundry, so do everything so you don't see

591
00:37:50,920 --> 00:37:56,279
Speaker 1: yourself being married again or you don't. Of course I will. Yeah, yeah,

592
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna do it, do it. I'm gonna do

593
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 1: it while I'm still young and tims got I still

594
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:05,640
Speaker 1: got that good love taple. You know, look, ain't nothing

595
00:38:05,680 --> 00:38:08,319
Speaker 1: worse than you know. You want to stop sailing down

596
00:38:08,320 --> 00:38:12,080
Speaker 1: when you ain't got nothing to give, and that's usually

597
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 1: what y'all do. Though, five I'm gonna be on five click.

598
00:38:17,000 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: I'm coming to it with some fat. That's what my

599
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,760
Speaker 1: mom says. That men don't settle down to their pencil

600
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 1: doesn't write anymore. You tell your mama that you need

601
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,760
Speaker 1: to go go to TV Jake's right now and tell

602
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:30,719
Speaker 1: her what you just said. Now, my pens are gonna

603
00:38:30,760 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 1: be right when you're diet is so important to like

604
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,280
Speaker 1: died and exercise like because you're clogging up that artery.

605
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:40,440
Speaker 1: M hm. That thing is food. You know, you gotta

606
00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 1: here to make sure it work. Clean your clean, your

607
00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 1: arteries out, man clean, keep your blood pressure down, and

608
00:38:47,120 --> 00:38:51,640
Speaker 1: keep just take good. And mentally, you gotta you gotta

609
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 1: clear everything out because it ain't done worse than you're

610
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,439
Speaker 1: trying to think about some bull and then you're trying

611
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 1: to have energy to go to that thing and taking

612
00:39:01,920 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: it into Yeah, somebody gonna not get that. You're gonna

613
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,840
Speaker 1: get it all in the right place. So you have

614
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:09,800
Speaker 1: to be good to have a good, well balanced, healthy

615
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:15,040
Speaker 1: life and lifestyle and somebody who you really truly attracted to,

616
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: right yeah, right, that's so important. Like you can't make

617
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:25,920
Speaker 1: something work that there's no there's no fitting parts. Finding

618
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 1: someone attractive is the easy part. It's like liking them

619
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,799
Speaker 1: for a long and mean attractive, not just physically. I'm

620
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:36,719
Speaker 1: talking about just just everything physical that's physical like that.

621
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,480
Speaker 1: You know, eventually you get used to seeing them, So

622
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,640
Speaker 1: whether they're pretty or not, it doesn't matter because I'm

623
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,560
Speaker 1: you're used to them, but you still want to feel

624
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,239
Speaker 1: that they're a beautiful person, you know, just through and through,

625
00:39:48,960 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: and you want to always feel like, you know what,

626
00:39:52,239 --> 00:39:55,160
Speaker 1: no matter if you gain thirty pounds or lose twenty,

627
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 1: you're still my sweet tender things and tell your argument

628
00:39:59,719 --> 00:40:05,600
Speaker 1: shot up, bitch, you don't know. I don't never speak

629
00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:08,920
Speaker 1: to women like that, no matter how I just I

630
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,160
Speaker 1: just don't. I just you can't. You can't take that back. Absolutely.

631
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:16,960
Speaker 1: I mean, I've never been one of the abusive to

632
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 1: women like that. It's so crazy because I call bitches

633
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,200
Speaker 1: bitches all the time. But if I hear a man

634
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:24,720
Speaker 1: say it, I'm like, yeah, so you're setting the tone.

635
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: You let them know it's okay. No, no, it's not.

636
00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:31,840
Speaker 1: That's not okay for you to say. It's kind of

637
00:40:31,880 --> 00:40:35,880
Speaker 1: like the N word, you know, it's a similar dynamic,

638
00:40:35,960 --> 00:40:41,239
Speaker 1: like I can say it the N word and t

639
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: B word. I'm doing it. I'm doing I'm living in

640
00:40:43,800 --> 00:40:52,799
Speaker 1: my truth and that we respect that whatever. But when

641
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 1: Thomas Earl called you that o're talking to Thomas Earl,

642
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 1: I'm talking to nobody named Thomas Earle. Mama, I'm from

643
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: the country, So Mama, Thomas Earl said, can you come

644
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:08,000
Speaker 1: out and can come to the dope for a minute.

645
00:41:09,880 --> 00:41:13,279
Speaker 1: Toma zero, not there with those shoes all with a

646
00:41:13,320 --> 00:41:18,359
Speaker 1: convertible read it outfit. I come out here for you

647
00:41:18,360 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 1: your mom, owing the money or something you're gonna pay

648
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:25,840
Speaker 1: that money. He's gonna pay with that, honey. I'm in

649
00:41:25,920 --> 00:41:29,919
Speaker 1: a buying time, is earl. Now you said you're gonna

650
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:33,479
Speaker 1: get my money. Now I'm in a bad time of earl.

651
00:41:34,600 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: I need to speak to you. I need that money now,

652
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:47,640
Speaker 1: come on, now, I need things toss eally thing. Here's

653
00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:49,719
Speaker 1: the thing, all right, we're gonna get into that real quick.

654
00:41:49,760 --> 00:41:52,319
Speaker 1: I know it's off topic, but Jada tore up that

655
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: ten thousand dollar check after she already worked for it,

656
00:41:57,200 --> 00:41:59,320
Speaker 1: and I just as the worst part of that movie.

657
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:01,919
Speaker 1: It was worse. And her brother didn't killed was worse

658
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: than all that. Exactly. I would get killed when the

659
00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 1: brother got killed. I cried like this. I was like,

660
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:11,120
Speaker 1: but when she took when she ripped up that check,

661
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, man, I didn't do that, but

662
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:26,160
Speaker 1: I was the price money. Didn't do not until your man,

663
00:42:26,160 --> 00:42:30,879
Speaker 1: you paid the price for that. Oh my goodness. Well,

664
00:42:30,920 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming on and talking to you. Good.

665
00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:37,800
Speaker 1: We love having you. When the album is done, we

666
00:42:37,840 --> 00:42:41,000
Speaker 1: would love for you to come back. I'm coming back, good, good,

667
00:42:41,200 --> 00:42:44,239
Speaker 1: good good coming back. Thank you. You're gonna get a

668
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: lot of good crab leagus down there. We do blue

669
00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:51,200
Speaker 1: crabs in Charleston. The blue crab. Yeah, that's a little

670
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 1: flattened with the ball. You gotta bust the belly off

671
00:42:53,160 --> 00:42:56,960
Speaker 1: at all. Yeah. And if you can't eat crabs, you

672
00:42:56,960 --> 00:42:58,919
Speaker 1: can't pick them yourself. You gotta get the hell away

673
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 1: from the crab table. Nobody cleaning crabs. That's why I

674
00:43:04,800 --> 00:43:07,520
Speaker 1: don't mess with them, because I had a bad experience.

675
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 1: What did that call that little that little part of

676
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 1: to not supposed to that that man, man that the

677
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: boo boo tastes good? Yeah, that ship is good. Well, well,

678
00:43:37,239 --> 00:43:38,919
Speaker 1: when I'm down, I'm gonna hit you up. I want

679
00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: my blue crab. Come on, man, we can do a

680
00:43:41,080 --> 00:43:43,800
Speaker 1: crab crack on the porch. Yeah, we can do it. No,

681
00:43:43,960 --> 00:43:46,879
Speaker 1: I look forward to doing that again, y'all fun? All right,

682
00:43:51,160 --> 00:43:57,160
Speaker 1: that was fun. We should have asked him to, I know,

683
00:43:57,239 --> 00:43:59,160
Speaker 1: I about to say we didn't even ask him to thing.

684
00:43:59,360 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: He probably would charge our mother fucking as though. Yeah,

685
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:06,160
Speaker 1: I love me too. Yes, he's like at the top

686
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:10,720
Speaker 1: of my list a favorite um because such a soulful boys.

687
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 1: It's like, yes, based on the song, I feel like

688
00:44:14,280 --> 00:44:16,360
Speaker 1: there's gonna what he did say, It's gonna be a reply.

689
00:44:16,520 --> 00:44:18,800
Speaker 1: So I can't wait to hear what Charlene as is

690
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:22,200
Speaker 1: gonna say bad. Yes, so maybe how they'll put the

691
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 1: album together. Maybe it's gonna be like all a different

692
00:44:25,880 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: little heartbreaks and all this ship that went on with

693
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,759
Speaker 1: him and Charlene with that eighteen years, staying eighteen years,

694
00:44:32,800 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 1: you're gonna fall in and out of love with hell yeah,

695
00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,000
Speaker 1: hell yeah. I keep trying to tell people, man, being

696
00:44:38,040 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 1: in love is just a state of mind. If you

697
00:44:40,719 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 1: are continuously doing ship to not stay in love, you're

698
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: gonna fall out of love. It's a real thing. So

699
00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 1: every day you gotta do to keep falling. But the

700
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,080
Speaker 1: crazy part is you can fall out of love with

701
00:44:52,200 --> 00:44:55,280
Speaker 1: someone and then fall back in love with them. You can. Yeah,

702
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:57,800
Speaker 1: that sounds good. And I guess people who be married

703
00:44:57,800 --> 00:45:00,239
Speaker 1: for like fifty years, they've been in and out love

704
00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 1: a hundred times. I don't know now, because I'll talk

705
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,600
Speaker 1: to some people and maybe, like my parents ain't like

706
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:09,279
Speaker 1: each other since the nineties, they don't even sleep in

707
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:12,919
Speaker 1: the same room exactly. But maybe that's how companions should

708
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: changes when you're old, Like it's no longer very intimate,

709
00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: like physically intimate, but the intimacy is in different ways. Man,

710
00:45:20,200 --> 00:45:23,560
Speaker 1: I want to like my partner forever, because liking and

711
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:25,840
Speaker 1: loving is two different things, because you can love somebody

712
00:45:26,000 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: I like them, but you can't like someone and I

713
00:45:28,120 --> 00:45:30,080
Speaker 1: love them. So I just want to be and like

714
00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 1: what my husband when my man forever, I want to

715
00:45:34,360 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 1: be in both like him and look, I still want

716
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:40,680
Speaker 1: my own bedroom though, and bathroom. These niggas be nasty,

717
00:45:40,920 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 1: maybe have a dodo in their pants. Man, nigger have

718
00:45:43,800 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 1: a T shirt and short You're going to bathroom in

719
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:52,440
Speaker 1: the middle of the night behind and they give you

720
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:55,319
Speaker 1: want to You're gonna slip and slide. Yeah, he's gonna

721
00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 1: slip and slide some by the toilet. I just can't

722
00:45:59,120 --> 00:46:03,200
Speaker 1: take it now. My daddy is a clean man, so

723
00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:06,640
Speaker 1: I mean I like cleaning. I never had to deal

724
00:46:06,680 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 1: with that for real. Out of a man. I actually

725
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:11,640
Speaker 1: was in a relationship, but I don't remember being so

726
00:46:11,680 --> 00:46:14,200
Speaker 1: my dad wasn't there as a teenager. But when we

727
00:46:14,200 --> 00:46:16,240
Speaker 1: were kids, we weren't allowed to go in their bathroom

728
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 1: at all, so I wouldn't know it because me all

729
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 1: they draw her looking through looking for them, looking for them,

730
00:46:25,600 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: Damn pouring tapes they had My mom used to be like,

731
00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:33,840
Speaker 1: that is not how real people act. Why am I

732
00:46:33,880 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 1: acting like that now? And then I don't understand why

733
00:46:35,880 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 1: he was lying on something that's not That's not how

734
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:45,759
Speaker 1: you act, mom, That's how she acted. I really don't

735
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,560
Speaker 1: think so. And she got sleeping fat sleeping on Miss Charlene.

736
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:54,320
Speaker 1: You're sleeping on miss Charlie. You might have stopped around ninety,

737
00:46:55,040 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 1: but she was doing it. Yeah, yeah, I might have

738
00:46:58,880 --> 00:47:01,160
Speaker 1: stopped it. My mama had me like thirty one. She

739
00:47:01,280 --> 00:47:04,720
Speaker 1: probably that. Man, these niggas, don't you know? My mama

740
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:06,759
Speaker 1: told me that her mama told me I wasn't into

741
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:15,919
Speaker 1: her marriage. Damn, damn, that's the truth for your there.

742
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: You had to give it to her raw like this

743
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: that she did me. Girl. But anyway we come back. Oh,

744
00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,799
Speaker 1: I'm good. I don't but I don't know. My mama

745
00:47:24,840 --> 00:47:26,440
Speaker 1: loved me. She told me. She was sitting in a

746
00:47:26,480 --> 00:47:28,800
Speaker 1: borsher clinic though, and one day she didn't got me

747
00:47:28,800 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 1: in the kitchen. She was like, I almost aborted my baby.

748
00:47:33,120 --> 00:47:45,920
Speaker 1: You was almost Aborceana. How you married getting a bortion? Aborceana?

749
00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: Like that's what you should have named me right now?

750
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:51,640
Speaker 1: I would fight her. That's what my name was, I

751
00:47:51,640 --> 00:47:55,880
Speaker 1: would definitely be changing my damn name. Hold on, let

752
00:47:55,960 --> 00:48:05,480
Speaker 1: me google. I bet you somebody name Aborceana. Girl. Why

753
00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:07,800
Speaker 1: is that so fun? Girl? And the whole song on

754
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:12,920
Speaker 1: YouTube by somebody named destiny wit w h E t

755
00:48:13,120 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: abortion Ana, I want to play it? Released this year

756
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:32,120
Speaker 1: Destney wit I got the prey extra hard tonight for

757
00:48:32,239 --> 00:48:34,839
Speaker 1: my soul. Girl, I want to listen to that song.

758
00:48:34,880 --> 00:48:37,799
Speaker 1: I'm gonna listen to that. And like we're about to

759
00:48:38,120 --> 00:48:40,800
Speaker 1: do a little free advertising, y'all go check out destiny

760
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:46,480
Speaker 1: wits aboa released and she standing on top of the

761
00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:50,879
Speaker 1: car like this going to that bitch going to hell

762
00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: her and her damn mama, not me. My mama kept me.

763
00:48:57,560 --> 00:48:59,840
Speaker 1: You're laughing too hard, girl, A lot of us probably

764
00:48:59,880 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: was about to be aborted. You made it, man, You're

765
00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: supposed to be here. You ain't past the chi made it.

766
00:49:09,640 --> 00:49:12,640
Speaker 1: So look. If you guys enjoyed this episode, please tune

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00:49:12,680 --> 00:49:16,000
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00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:19,319
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769
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:23,239
Speaker 1: also need to check out the Black Effect dot com website.

770
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:26,120
Speaker 1: Black Effect has a new website with all of their

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00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:35,319
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00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: sure y'all send them dumb bitch stories, send them that

773
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774
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:42,120
Speaker 1: And make sure you're following us on Instagram. We gotta

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00:49:42,160 --> 00:49:45,439
Speaker 1: Twitter now too, So the Twitter is uh, we talk

776
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,200
Speaker 1: back p l D. Same as email. You know we're

777
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,799
Speaker 1: talking there too. Oh, ask a black friend. White people,

778
00:49:51,840 --> 00:49:54,520
Speaker 1: don't be scared to send in your questions for us.

779
00:49:54,560 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 1: We're here waiting for you. Call at us. Bye asssssssssssssssssssssssssssss