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Speaker 1: Two Teas in a Pod with Teddy Meloncamp and Tambra Jedge. Hi, guys,

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Speaker 1: welcome to this week's Two Teas in a Pod with myself,

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Speaker 1: Teddy Meloncamp and Tamra Judge, and we're answering all of

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Speaker 1: your hard hitting questions. We said nothing's off limits, and

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Speaker 1: it is not. Well, you know what. I love the

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Speaker 1: fact that you put this little joy thing behind you

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Speaker 1: just so frestive. I love speaking joy when we're about

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Speaker 1: to um. You know, Oh there's a tree as you

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Speaker 1: know what, Which leads us to the positive, joyous question

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Speaker 1: from our listeners, which is the first one they've asked,

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Speaker 1: which is, tam who do you think the biggest Diva

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Speaker 1: housewife is? Okay, I'm gonna go out of limb hair

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Speaker 1: and say Nani Nanie Leaks. Yeah, okay, So I was

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Speaker 1: basing it more on in who I think currently is

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Speaker 1: And I'm sorry, I've got to say Heather Debrow right now,

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Speaker 1: because if you think that you can stop production in

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Speaker 1: the middle of an episode or while you're filming, that's

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Speaker 1: diva behavior. That's very very Bravo Bravo Bravo. Yeah, yeah, um,

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Speaker 1: you noticed they didn't stop production. They didn't, but they didn't.

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Speaker 1: She tried, but they did not have it. They did

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Speaker 1: allow them to like go dark for a little bit

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Speaker 1: and then come back. It gave them enough time, her

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Speaker 1: enough time to go upstairs prep Terry on what's going on.

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Speaker 1: Let's come up with a plan, and then we'll go

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Speaker 1: downstairs and continue. Okay, hardest part about not being able

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Speaker 1: to break the fourth wall mm hmm. I feel like

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Speaker 1: it is broken all the time, but it's just a

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Speaker 1: matter of them not showing it. I think now they

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Speaker 1: show up more than ever. But back in the day

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Speaker 1: when I started, they never broke the fourth wall. Um,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to explain storyline because a lot of stuff

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Speaker 1: happen outside of filming. A lot of the girls, like

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Speaker 1: we would get on and text each other, and then

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Speaker 1: it's hard to make sense of it when you film. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I would say the same thing. So the season that

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Speaker 1: I got like hammered, you know, with the text messages.

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Speaker 1: So I had shown those on camera already, but the

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Speaker 1: problem was the entire text exchange was breaking the fourth wall,

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Speaker 1: right because we were saying, well, can this happen on camera?

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Speaker 1: Can this happen here? If you do this, I'll do this.

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Speaker 1: I talked to Lisa. She said, so it was all

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Speaker 1: so much scheming, and I think it's getting more and

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Speaker 1: more like that that they have to break the fourth

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Speaker 1: wall to make sense of certain scenes. And yeah, so

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Speaker 1: I think that's that can be very annoying, which leads

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Speaker 1: me to the biggest pet peeve during filming. My biggest

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Speaker 1: pet peeve is if when you're filming, if somebody breaks

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Speaker 1: the fourth wall on purpose to stop the filming. That's

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Speaker 1: one of my top ten. Um let's see, there's so

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Speaker 1: many um I think sitting in a scene and one

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Speaker 1: of the housewives is talking about something that does not

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Speaker 1: pertain will never show, talking about their neighbors, brothers, sister

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Speaker 1: that did, just like, shut up, just get to the point.

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Speaker 1: We can get this scene done really quick if you

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Speaker 1: just stay focused. Because that's the thing, especially like when

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Speaker 1: people people were talking about their favorite television show. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: they will never show that. And it's ten PM and

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Speaker 1: I'm tired, So let's get to the ship that everybody

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Speaker 1: wants to hear exactly exactly. So biggest pet peeve. All right,

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Speaker 1: do they provide cars for you when you go to

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Speaker 1: the events to the show. So I know every housewife

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Speaker 1: is different every city. For Beverly Hills definitely, because they

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Speaker 1: want us drinking and which means we have to be

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Speaker 1: in cars, right and we have the same production company

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Speaker 1: so exactly the same. Would either of us go back

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Speaker 1: on the show, I'm not opposed to it, but you know,

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Speaker 1: there's got to be a lot of talking involved, and

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Speaker 1: it's great to make a lot of money to go

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Speaker 1: out to lunch. Yeah, I mean, I mean I think

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Speaker 1: we I love a lot of the girls, and there's

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Speaker 1: I would never say never can I say that? Right now?

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Speaker 1: I feel pretty happy that one of my jobs is,

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Speaker 1: you know, to be able to watch TV and talk

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Speaker 1: about it with you and write really after exactly repercussions,

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Speaker 1: I'm not I would say I'm not dying to go back.

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Speaker 1: I'm not like, oh my god, I want to go

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Speaker 1: Especially especially with all that's going on right now. I

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Speaker 1: think it's a tough time. Yeah, with cancel culture and

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Speaker 1: it's a lot to think about, especially when when you're

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Speaker 1: on those shows, you're supposed to say things wrong. That's

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Speaker 1: what used to make them a show. So if you're

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Speaker 1: to and it just gets really, really messy. Yeah. Um,

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Speaker 1: biggest regret from the show, I don't really have regrets. Um.

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Speaker 1: that kind of like I wish I was strong enough

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Speaker 1: to say like, no, this isn't right, you shouldn't be

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Speaker 1: doing this, But I didn't. We were friends off scene

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Speaker 1: and and then I don't know, it didn't work out

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Speaker 1: well for me and her. For me, it involves the

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Speaker 1: John Blizzard Li Savander Pump thing. You know. I when

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Speaker 1: a more a person that has been on a long time,

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Speaker 1: and and you're kind of getting coached, and you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm not using that as an excuse. I should have

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Speaker 1: one million percent had the balls to be like no,

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Speaker 1: But I also had steak in the game. In my mind,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, I want to make a good show too.

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Speaker 1: You know, you have this weird thing, but I wish

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Speaker 1: that from the very get go, when I came clean

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Speaker 1: about it, I would have gotten John Blizzard on the phone,

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Speaker 1: had him there in front, like Lisa vannefit like, no,

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Speaker 1: entire conversation would have played out, and I wish I

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Speaker 1: would have said to direct from the beginning. I chickened out. However,

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Speaker 1: there are lots of messages going on about how I

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Speaker 1: that's really what happened. And then I would have saved

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Speaker 1: us a lot of trouble. And it is what it is.

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Speaker 1: But yeah, there's a lot of things that I said

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Speaker 1: and dind that wasn't right. Do I regret it? You know,

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Speaker 1: there's too many to name, but you kind of you

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Speaker 1: learn from them sometimes and you know you tried to

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Speaker 1: do you better at what you're doing, but it is

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Speaker 1: what it is. Sometimes you learn and then sometimes you

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Speaker 1: make a bigger mistake the next time. It's hard. It's

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Speaker 1: hard to navigate through being on reality TV no longer.

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Speaker 1: I mean one year or twelve years. It's you get

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Speaker 1: it's it's hard. I have learned to never speak in

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Speaker 1: you do this, and then they're like the flashback, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what do they have on me that they're going to flashback?

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Speaker 1: All your mind's always going yeah, well, speaking of Vicky,

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Speaker 1: how does Eddie feel now that you and Vick your

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Speaker 1: friends again? That's a complicated question. UM honestly have all

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Speaker 1: the time. So you know what, he never tells me

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Speaker 1: not to be friends with somebody or not to do something.

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Speaker 1: He doesn't understand it. He was the victim of, you know,

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Speaker 1: a big rumor that was brought on by her. I

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Speaker 1: understand reality TV in the sense like sometimes girls do

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Speaker 1: stuff to make good TV and I think that's what

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Speaker 1: and and I'm not okay with it. So he's not thrilled.

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Speaker 1: He's not thrilled, but he's not going to tell you

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Speaker 1: now right right, Which that's that's a good that's a

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Speaker 1: good sign of a good husband. Does he want to

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Speaker 1: go to dinner with her? No, He's like, that's a

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Speaker 1: hard note for me. Yeah, kids and family type question.

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Speaker 1: Most obnoxious pet peeve that our husbands do. I know

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Speaker 1: this one? What's your Well? Mine is that my husband

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Speaker 1: flosses in bed, which I think is disgusting. Really he

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Speaker 1: lost he first, he brushes his teeth first, and then

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Speaker 1: he'll bring the floss into the bed and this might

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Speaker 1: even be t m I, but he'll fall asleep sometimes flossing,

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Speaker 1: something to it. This is why you so he sleeps naked. Well,

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Speaker 1: But the point is don't floss and leave your floss

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Speaker 1: to end up. Yeah, and it's actually that night. It's

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Speaker 1: kind of gross. Um eddie. UM have a weird issue

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Speaker 1: with hearing sound like bodily sounds, eating, chewing anything, and

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Speaker 1: he eats loud. He eats loud. I'm like, your head

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Speaker 1: Um drives me crazy, like he'll know, like as soon

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Speaker 1: I won't be like this where he's like oh and

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Speaker 1: then the with the coffee and so I'm like, okay again,

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Speaker 1: I can't. I can't have a weird thing about noise too.

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Speaker 1: Drives nuts. Um. How did we meet our husbands? I

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Speaker 1: met my mutual front and then he slid in. It

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Speaker 1: of my marriage. Met him at a fitness event party

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Speaker 1: Christmas party and then he slid into my um M, well,

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Speaker 1: I don't have you call DM and Facebook, my Space,

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Speaker 1: my Space account, yes exactly, it might even have been

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Speaker 1: my Space. And he sent me a message because I

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Speaker 1: met him alone, and then he didn't know he was married,

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Speaker 1: didn't know anything. You didn't know the show. And he's like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'd really like to hook up or not hook up

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Speaker 1: and go out, and I'm like delete, delete, delete, delete

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Speaker 1: an advantished mode. That no, no, So that's how I

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Speaker 1: met him. Um. I met Edwin at a club in Hollywood.

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Speaker 1: So I was recently divorced myself. I got married, Yes,

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Speaker 1: I was, I was married. His name, I guess I

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Speaker 1: don't need to bring up his name. But anyway, nice guy.

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Speaker 1: We got married when I was younger, Um, when I

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Speaker 1: first moved out here, and you know, truthfully, was like

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Speaker 1: so I I was already missy. But then I met

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Speaker 1: was that we were best friends. But that's where it ended.

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Speaker 1: You know, long were you married? I mean I think

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