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Speaker 1: your girl Jury and the Cold.

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Speaker 2: And you are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 1: Where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts.

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Speaker 2: So we gonna kick this year off right, y'all with

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Speaker 1: So we wanted to, you know, start the new year on.

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Speaker 3: Yes, they do not be liking the guest episodes. I

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Speaker 2: I'll be having a good time. So we're in a

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Speaker 2: new year. So what you went up to, girl?

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Speaker 3: You know, just preparing for the new year. I feel like,

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Speaker 2: I like that, you know, this is my first opportunity

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Speaker 3: So do you think that when this happens, do you

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Speaker 2: People are green? Because I feel like it's the latter.

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Speaker 3: Oleo sancrum, which is when it's translated, it's sugar oil.

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Speaker 1: Because hey, them honey chicken crispers, they be buzzing.

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Speaker 1: So, I think it wasn't that good. It wasn't that good.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I have a good recipe for that. So.

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Speaker 3: I never told you nothing. I get real crafty with

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Speaker 1: I see. I wish I could. I mean I wish

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Speaker 2: I know you could have interned it with somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Or because it's not that many options. It depends on

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Speaker 1: It's a loon.

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Speaker 2: It's a life you think about yourself at twenty seven

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Speaker 1: Right, And that's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: And I think a lot of the time the younger

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Speaker 1: This, but for me, that's all it be with the women.

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Speaker 3: I just think it's solely be like all this nigga

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Speaker 1: So this is the day and age we're living in.

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Speaker 2: Like everybody wants to have that guy that you know,

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Speaker 2: We all want that men, right, And a lot of

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Speaker 2: ain't no problem with it. If you having your way,

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Speaker 1: But let me tell you something.

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Speaker 1: If you are thirty three, thirty four.

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Speaker 1: You are not the girl you think you are.

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Speaker 2: Because, yeah, if you're thirty, if I'm sorry, if you're dating,

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Speaker 2: I see thirty four year old women who date men

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Speaker 2: Dreya said, you, a man is gonna date a younger

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Speaker 2: want out of the man, Yeah, you hosy to stay

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Speaker 1: Bitch.

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Speaker 2: You holdesby literally at the college game scouting, and I

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Speaker 1: I've seen, I've seen the conversations. Now I know what's

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Speaker 1: going on. Y'all. Can't put it past Auntie. It's real, Sack,

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Speaker 1: It's real. It's a real weird.

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Speaker 2: It's real weird out here. Like I feel like, like

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Speaker 2: I said, if you are hanging out with a nigga

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Speaker 1: Is okay? Disney Channel is a street No. No, we

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Speaker 3: We're not talking about people that are still in high school.

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Speaker 3: If you're dating someoney, if you're in your thirties and

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Speaker 2: These people be eight these people be eighteen. They met

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Speaker 2: But this ain't something that just happened and popped out,

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: It'd be so many young niggas DM.

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Speaker 1: I think sometimes it just happened.

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Speaker 3: But then when the person tell them how old they are,

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Speaker 3: It's not nothing I could do. Ye man, I know

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Speaker 1: Know how to do laundry.

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Speaker 3: Like I think men already mature at a slower rate

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Speaker 1: A senior, what the fuck do we have in common?

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Speaker 1: I mean, what are we gonna talk about? Bro? Think

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like, what are we gonna talk about? The maturity

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna lie. I didn't really learn how to

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Speaker 2: But that's my dad and my mom always did my

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Speaker 2: who haven't made But I bet you if something happens

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Speaker 1: Hey, you know what I'll do. I'll have to do

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Speaker 2: That's what I mean, Like little stuff like that when

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Speaker 2: like somebody who can run, run shit, who got things

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Speaker 2: going on. I don't want to be with the twenty

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be with any I don't even

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Speaker 1: date thirty year old man.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm older than you. I'm thirty four. I

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Speaker 2: don't even listen. The lowest all go is two years

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Speaker 1: That's it. Two years, that is it.

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Speaker 2: I can't do it because every time if I talked

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I ply ever dated. I've only ever dated somebody

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Speaker 1: I remember one time, Remember I gave that boy my number. Yes,

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Speaker 4: Like.

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Speaker 3: So it was this guy like he played football or whatever,

438
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Speaker 3: and he was trying to talk to me. We was

439
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Speaker 3: at some even I can't remember what event we were in,

440
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Speaker 3: but we was at something together doing some shit for

441
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Speaker 3: poor minds, and like he was trying to talk to me.

442
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Speaker 1: He wanted my number. I gave him my number.

443
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Speaker 3: He taught me how old he was, because this had

444
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Speaker 3: to be this before I turned thirty.

445
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Speaker 1: Yeah, so I was either like I think I was

446
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Speaker 1: like twenty eight.

447
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I was like twenty eight because this

448
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Speaker 3: is pre pandemic because I turned twenty nine er and

449
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Speaker 3: a few me, so I was like twenty eight, so

450
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Speaker 3: he had to be maybe like sweeny three or twenty

451
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Speaker 3: four still, And.

452
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Speaker 1: I gave him my number, y'all.

453
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Speaker 3: And when I tell y'all, after like four or five

454
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Speaker 3: days of texting this nigger, I was like, uh uh,

455
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Speaker 3: this ain't gonna work.

456
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Speaker 1: He's still fucking imature, y'all.

457
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Speaker 3: He was getting so mad at me because I didn't

458
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Speaker 3: answer the phone every time he called me, or I

459
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Speaker 3: didn't text him back every single time he texted me,

460
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Speaker 3: Like five minutes later, he was like, you playing on

461
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Speaker 3: my top, Nigga, I'm busy.

462
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Speaker 1: He was like on something like you know who I am?

463
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Speaker 3: Yeah, And he felt like, oh, you know who I am?

464
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Speaker 3: You should be like texting me back with the quickness.

465
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Speaker 3: And it's like, I'm not even not texting you back purposely,

466
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Speaker 3: like I'm busy, I have shit going on, But the

467
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Speaker 3: fact that you're like low key trying to go off

468
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Speaker 3: on me and charge me up about these sit we

469
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Speaker 3: not on the same level mentally. I feel like men

470
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Speaker 3: who are mentally on your level just not about to

471
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Speaker 3: trip on you about those type of things. They know

472
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Speaker 3: that you got shit going on. And I think it's

473
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Speaker 3: also very obvious too when somebody is interested in you.

474
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Speaker 3: So it was kind of also one of them situations

475
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Speaker 3: like nigga read the room that dip because if I

476
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Speaker 3: really because if I really wanted to talk to you,

477
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Speaker 3: you definitely wouldn't be having to text me about me

478
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Speaker 3: not taxing you bag. I think when people want to

479
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Speaker 3: talk to you, you don't have to say nothing to them.

480
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Speaker 3: They gonna respond with the quickness. You don't have to

481
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Speaker 3: like be like, oh you forgot to takes me bag,

482
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Speaker 3: not time out of ten at forget he needed his

483
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Speaker 3: bo ba. But yeah, it just wasn't for me. And

484
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Speaker 3: that was literally the only time in my life that

485
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Speaker 3: I ever like gave someone way younger than me my

486
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Speaker 3: number and it did not go anywhere because I was

487
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Speaker 3: just like, I can't do it. I don't so I

488
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Speaker 3: definitely don't see. And he was only like five, he

489
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Speaker 3: was only like five years four or five years younger

490
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Speaker 3: than me. I really do not see how y'all be

491
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Speaker 3: talking to niggas that be ten years, eleven years, twelve years,

492
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Speaker 3: fifteen years younger than y'all. And I think for the

493
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Speaker 3: male side, like when they date younger women, I think

494
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Speaker 3: it's like you said.

495
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Speaker 1: They feel like it gotta be your money play what

496
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Speaker 1: you talking about? For the women? Yes, oh it's not, y'all,

497
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Speaker 1: it is. I'm sorry, that's gonna even to the next topic.

498
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Speaker 3: Or you know, sometimes like because cougars have been the

499
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Speaker 3: thing for a long time, and sometimes it's also a

500
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Speaker 3: manipulation thing too, because sometimes older women just be wanting

501
00:22:09,600 --> 00:22:12,480
Speaker 3: younger men because they know again, same thing with how

502
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Speaker 3: men feel about women not being on a certain level

503
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Speaker 3: mentally and knowing that take and manipulates them and control

504
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Speaker 3: the situation.

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Speaker 1: I think that women do that too sometimes. Well, I

506
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Speaker 1: think the thing. I don't look at it as a

507
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Speaker 1: control thing.

508
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Speaker 2: I always looked at cougar's being horny, like they look

509
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Speaker 2: for younger men because they like their sex drive is

510
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Speaker 2: so high. That's how cougars were brought to me. Like,

511
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Speaker 2: I never watched Sex in the City, but I remember

512
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Speaker 2: seeing a scene with like Samantha was dating a younger

513
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Speaker 2: man one time, and it was like, you know, it

514
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Speaker 2: was like because of her sex drive. So when I

515
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Speaker 2: was first introduced to like cougar's being a thing, it

516
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:49,320
Speaker 2: was always because they want to have sex and men

517
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Speaker 2: their age couldn't have sex with them like they wanted to,

518
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Speaker 2: because we all know the older women get, the higher

519
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Speaker 2: sex drive is. So when I think of cougars, I

520
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Speaker 2: never think of it as a situation that she's taking seriously.

521
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Speaker 2: Like for example, I know you don't watch Real Housewives

522
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Speaker 2: of Potomac, but there's a character on there, g Zell,

523
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Speaker 2: and she's dating a guy that's like twenty years younger

524
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Speaker 2: than her. But she's like, Oh, we're just having fun.

525
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Speaker 2: We're just having fun. And when she says it, I'm

526
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Speaker 2: just like, it's just sounds like she's just trying to

527
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Speaker 2: get her rocks off.

528
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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

529
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Speaker 2: She's trying to get that little sang thing rub, you

530
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Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. So when I think of the

531
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Speaker 2: word cougar, I always just think of it as like

532
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Speaker 2: you just trying to get that that long strong and

533
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Speaker 2: it's time to get the friction on it.

534
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Speaker 3: I mean, I think it's a little bit of both

535
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Speaker 3: though let me play Devil's Advocate a little bit. I

536
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Speaker 3: think it's a little bit of both parties using each other. However, though,

537
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Speaker 3: I just feel like as the elder in the situation.

538
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Speaker 1: The elder is crazy.

539
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Speaker 3: This as the senior older, your senior citizen.

540
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Speaker 1: You well, I'm not talking about that so much.

541
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Speaker 3: I'm talking about like people our age, who we dating,

542
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Speaker 3: like the twenty something.

543
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm an elder.

544
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Speaker 3: Yes, it's like as the elder, I think it'd be

545
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Speaker 3: sometimes both people are trying to use each other, Like

546
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Speaker 3: I think sometimes like young niggas they be wanting like that.

547
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Speaker 5: Season bad beat they do though, and then sometimes with

548
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Speaker 5: the sometimes with the girls, I think they just be

549
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Speaker 5: wanting a nigga who gonna like pay their way and

550
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Speaker 5: like pay the plane.

551
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Speaker 3: And you know what I mean, bottom things and do

552
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,560
Speaker 3: what they need to do and take them on trips

553
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,960
Speaker 3: and all this shit. But like I said, these are

554
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Speaker 3: like twenty two, twenty three, twenty four to twenty five

555
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Speaker 3: year old people as the elder as the person in

556
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Speaker 3: their thirties. Bach you know better, you ain't better, So

557
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Speaker 3: you're really the one that's in the wrong.

558
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Speaker 2: It's so crazy cause when I think about how many

559
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Speaker 2: like it's always athletes, so that sliding my dms, and

560
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:41,960
Speaker 2: they're always so young, and I know a lot of

561
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Speaker 2: women would have a field day like in my DMS,

562
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Speaker 2: Like girl, you crazy. I'm like, this is a child

563
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Speaker 2: to me, Like this is a little kid to me,

564
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Speaker 2: Like I have a cousin. I be thinking about my

565
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Speaker 2: little cousin. Whenever they started, I'm like, okay, no, but

566
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Speaker 2: I got somebody for you.

567
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Speaker 1: What you what, Auntie? Is way too much for you?

568
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Speaker 1: Love boy? Yeah, I be feeling like that too.

569
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Speaker 3: When like young dudes be up in my DMS, it

570
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Speaker 3: just be like I'm not interested.

571
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Speaker 1: BOOKI I know.

572
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Speaker 2: I'll be like, oh, that's cute, Like I'm a grown

573
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Speaker 2: ass woman.

574
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Speaker 1: When you tell them, are you too young? I ain't

575
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Speaker 1: young and I got money. I don't care about how much.

576
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Speaker 1: And you know they don't even say that. They be

577
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Speaker 1: like that don't mean nothing. I'm mature. I can handle it.

578
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Speaker 2: I'll be like, Okay, that's why you can't, because a

579
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Speaker 2: real nick ain't.

580
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Speaker 1: You're gonna explain itself.

581
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Speaker 3: I just hate when people like people think that just

582
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Speaker 3: because they twenty one, they grown. Just because you of age,

583
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Speaker 3: do not mean that you're grown. It do not mean

584
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Speaker 3: that you're mature. You're just old enough to drink now,

585
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Speaker 3: you old enough to get into the club, You old

586
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Speaker 3: enough to do adult things. But that doesn't mean that

587
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Speaker 3: your mind is really operating on an adult level. Because

588
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Speaker 3: just two years ago you was in high school. Three

589
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Speaker 3: years ago, you was in high school.

590
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Speaker 2: I'll tell you this, twenty one, you cannot do nothing

591
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Speaker 2: for me.

592
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Speaker 1: So that kind of goes into the next topic of.

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Speaker 2: We're gonna talk on the women's side. So do you

623
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Speaker 2: feel like there's not enough men for us all to

624
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Speaker 2: get married?

625
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Speaker 5: Like?

626
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Speaker 2: Are some women delusional for feeling like, Okay, my fairy

627
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Speaker 2: tale is on the way, it's coming, Like, do you

628
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Speaker 2: feel like everybody's gonna get married?

629
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Speaker 3: No, I don't, because it's night, gonna happy, and realistically speaking,

630
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Speaker 3: it's not enough niggas on the planning. I think there is,

631
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Speaker 3: though it's nice a no population wise, like, if you

632
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Speaker 3: really look it up, the world is more populated with

633
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Speaker 3: women in me.

634
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Speaker 2: Really, I never knew that. I never knew that they

635
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 2: look over here. I know it's bad in Atlanta. Ratio

636
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Speaker 2: of women two men are we saying in the world,

637
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Speaker 2: in the world cred Oh, No, it's about the same.

638
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Speaker 2: It says approximately one hundred and one males to one

639
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 2: hundred females. That was a twenty twenty estimate. It says,

640
00:28:24,560 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 2: more precisely out of a thousand people. Five hundred and

641
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Speaker 2: four are men and four hundred and ninety six are women.

642
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Speaker 1: That's what it says. Oh, it's like a little bit

643
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Speaker 1: list women. Yeah, so it's about the same. It's about

644
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Speaker 1: the same for the world, for the world, world, for

645
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Speaker 1: the world, but in America for sure. Yeah, no, you

646
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Speaker 1: don't think so, you wont looking up. Okay, we gonna say, child,

647
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: because I'm getting nervous. Why are you getting nervous? Because

648
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Speaker 1: I want to get married.

649
00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 3: I want to get I mean, I don't feel like

650
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Speaker 3: that necessarily means you won't get married. I just think

651
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Speaker 3: that a lot of people don't want to get married,

652
00:28:58,600 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 3: not gonna get married.

653
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Speaker 2: In the US, it's ninety seven miles for every one

654
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Speaker 2: hundred females.

655
00:29:04,760 --> 00:29:08,080
Speaker 1: So it's a little bit more women. Yeah, it's a

656
00:29:08,080 --> 00:29:09,400
Speaker 1: little bit more women. Here.

657
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:11,920
Speaker 2: Well this was in let me look at the year. Yeah,

658
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:14,080
Speaker 2: this was in twenty twenty three. That was in twenty

659
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: twenty three. So this is what I have to say

660
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 2: about that. I honestly feel like the only reason people

661
00:29:22,120 --> 00:29:25,680
Speaker 2: won't get married because I believe there is somebody for everybody.

662
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: I truly believe that. But then why people die? It

663
00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 1: ain't ever be married you know why.

664
00:29:29,800 --> 00:29:32,720
Speaker 2: It's because people get stuck in their ways. People get

665
00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,680
Speaker 2: stuck in the worries I hate. I'm not name driving

666
00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 2: or saying anything, but I saw a clip the other

667
00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,960
Speaker 2: day with Shannon Sharp and Kirk Franklin talking right too, and.

668
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: It just shocked me.

669
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:47,960
Speaker 2: Because Shannon Sharp is an attractive man. He makes money,

670
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 2: he's very successful, he's very intelligent. But I just could

671
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,600
Speaker 2: not believe that he was still arguing and going back

672
00:29:56,600 --> 00:30:00,320
Speaker 2: with somebody about fifty to fifty on dates. I'm not

673
00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 2: saying like that's why he's singing, because I don't know

674
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:05,160
Speaker 2: him personally, but I honestly feel like a lot of times,

675
00:30:05,840 --> 00:30:07,719
Speaker 2: if somebody is singing and I don't know if he's

676
00:30:07,720 --> 00:30:09,400
Speaker 2: single or not, I would just use that for example,

677
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 2: because I know a lot of people like that that

678
00:30:11,960 --> 00:30:14,120
Speaker 2: are kind of like stuck in their ways. And I

679
00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 2: think the main thing about relationships that relationships are about compromise,

680
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 2: and I think that a lot of people, the older

681
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 2: they get, they kind of get stuck in their ways.

682
00:30:22,480 --> 00:30:23,880
Speaker 2: You know, they always say you can't teach you old

683
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:27,480
Speaker 2: dog new tricks, but I believe, like you know, if

684
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: you want companionship and you want somebody there, you know

685
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,200
Speaker 2: you're gonna have to bend a little one too.

686
00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:35,080
Speaker 1: There's no such thing as a perfect couple.

687
00:30:35,240 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 3: I think you can't teach or know it all new tricks.

688
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 3: I don't even think you have nothing to do with age.

689
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:41,960
Speaker 3: I just because I feel like it's plenty of people who,

690
00:30:42,320 --> 00:30:45,440
Speaker 3: like old people, were once young people, and they were

691
00:30:45,480 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 3: stubborn and didn't want to do better and didn't want

692
00:30:48,400 --> 00:30:51,080
Speaker 3: to grow when they were young. So I don't think

693
00:30:51,120 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 3: he has anything to do with like necessarily your age,

694
00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:56,560
Speaker 3: because I just think some people just think that they

695
00:30:56,600 --> 00:30:59,000
Speaker 3: know everything and they haven't figured out. But I definitely

696
00:30:59,040 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 3: don't think everybody's gonna get married, because I look at

697
00:31:01,680 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 3: older people, like older generations. It's plenty of people in

698
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:08,520
Speaker 3: my mom's age group. It's plenty of people in like

699
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 3: I have uns and stuff that are in their fifties

700
00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 3: and sixties.

701
00:31:11,120 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 1: They have not ever been married or anything yet either.

702
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 3: And it's not to say that it couldn't still happen,

703
00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 3: but it hadn't happened. And so I feel like if

704
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 3: that's the case for the older generations, and I feel

705
00:31:22,960 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 3: like they had more more of a chance to get married.

706
00:31:26,200 --> 00:31:28,520
Speaker 1: Than we do. In our generation. I feel like our

707
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:30,120
Speaker 1: generation is just completely fucked.

708
00:31:30,720 --> 00:31:32,880
Speaker 3: Everybody feel like they got so many options, And I

709
00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:35,040
Speaker 3: think that that's the problem too, why a lot of

710
00:31:35,080 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 3: people are not gonna get married because everybody always think, oh,

711
00:31:37,160 --> 00:31:37,560
Speaker 3: I could do.

712
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 1: Better, I could find better.

713
00:31:38,920 --> 00:31:41,560
Speaker 3: But sometimes and a lot of the time, you can, like,

714
00:31:41,560 --> 00:31:43,440
Speaker 3: if you know a nigga ain't shit, yeah, stop fucking

715
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:46,240
Speaker 3: with a nigga. It's certain red flags you stoopid to

716
00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:47,880
Speaker 3: keep fucking with anything, and you should leave him the

717
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:49,880
Speaker 3: fuck alone, And same thing vice versa, because I'm not

718
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:53,560
Speaker 3: gonna just make these a woman only thing. Men too,

719
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 3: Like it's certain situations that you're in dealing with women,

720
00:31:56,440 --> 00:31:57,920
Speaker 3: you know you need to leave at be shalon. You

721
00:31:57,960 --> 00:31:59,920
Speaker 3: know she's not white material. You know she's not gonna

722
00:31:59,960 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 3: be a good mother in X, Y and Z, whatever

723
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:05,440
Speaker 3: the case may be. But I also just feel like

724
00:32:06,120 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 3: everybody think they got so many options that they just

725
00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 3: be so ready to leave a person alone and leave

726
00:32:10,760 --> 00:32:13,120
Speaker 3: a situation alone, And it could be off the smallest thing.

727
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:16,040
Speaker 3: Because social media has made us feel like, well, I'm

728
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 3: gotta deal with each sheet. I can go find else,

729
00:32:18,240 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 3: I can go find sheit elsewhere, or you're looking up

730
00:32:21,080 --> 00:32:24,480
Speaker 3: to other couples because they look good online, but you

731
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 3: don't know all of the strife and all of the

732
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,800
Speaker 3: bullshit that they doing we off camera.

733
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: And that's why y'all be shocked when couples go through

734
00:32:30,760 --> 00:32:31,400
Speaker 2: a public breakup.

735
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: You'll be like, oh my god, that's why they look

736
00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 1: so happy.

737
00:32:34,680 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 2: Let me go back to that point you were making,

738
00:32:36,080 --> 00:32:37,520
Speaker 2: because I found another statistic.

739
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:38,200
Speaker 1: Okay, because I.

740
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:39,719
Speaker 2: Don't want the women to think we're getting on them,

741
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,360
Speaker 2: because I honestly, I am not surprised by this. It

742
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,640
Speaker 2: says twenty eight percent. This is in twenty twenty three,

743
00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 2: twenty eight percent of forty year old men have never

744
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:52,959
Speaker 2: been married versus the twenty two percent of women who

745
00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: have never been married.

746
00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: Because I always see a fact that you said forty

747
00:32:56,520 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: eight percent.

748
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I said twenty eight percent of men of

749
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 2: men versus twenty two percent of women. Okay, so more

750
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 2: men are unmarried than women are. And I know that because,

751
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,960
Speaker 2: like I said, I feel like it's always kind of

752
00:33:09,960 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 2: the men being like women, like we.

753
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:14,720
Speaker 1: We are natural nurturers, lovers.

754
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:18,640
Speaker 2: So I find I meet more women who are willing

755
00:33:18,680 --> 00:33:20,640
Speaker 2: to kind of like bend their rules a little.

756
00:33:20,440 --> 00:33:21,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.

757
00:33:21,400 --> 00:33:25,000
Speaker 2: So most of the time they'll tell you in nursing homes,

758
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 2: most of the time it's men there like that. The

759
00:33:27,920 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: men are kind of like dying old and they don't

760
00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 2: have anybody around them to take care of them. The women,

761
00:33:33,160 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 2: if they're in there, they have family that's coming to

762
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 2: see them, their spouse has passed away. But most of

763
00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:40,720
Speaker 2: the time when you when I hear the stories and

764
00:33:40,760 --> 00:33:42,280
Speaker 2: things like that. That's why I was like, let me

765
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 2: look up this statistic. Because although we feel like, okay,

766
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 2: you know, women, we gotta do this and do that

767
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:51,920
Speaker 2: so we can get a husband, these men y'all need

768
00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:53,400
Speaker 2: to do X y Z so y'all can make sure

769
00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 2: y'all get a wife, because it's y'all that are ending

770
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:00,400
Speaker 2: up alone and by y'allself, it's not us. So it's

771
00:34:00,440 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 2: really like the men have to do better.

772
00:34:02,800 --> 00:34:05,640
Speaker 1: Statistically speaking, bitch.

773
00:34:05,480 --> 00:34:07,880
Speaker 3: I think everybody needs to do better. I think it's

774
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:11,040
Speaker 3: on both sides. I think men and women need to

775
00:34:11,040 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 3: do better. Like I just think our generation is fucked

776
00:34:14,600 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 3: up when it comes to like marriage and even just

777
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:21,520
Speaker 3: marriage partnership, all of this shit and even just valuing

778
00:34:21,800 --> 00:34:24,759
Speaker 3: being a partner to somebody everybody just thinks that they

779
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 3: have so many options and they think that I got

780
00:34:27,480 --> 00:34:28,719
Speaker 3: forever to find it.

781
00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:31,080
Speaker 1: In reality, that's just not the case.

782
00:34:31,200 --> 00:34:33,480
Speaker 3: Like, yeah, I think everybody wants to be optimistic and

783
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:34,359
Speaker 3: feel like I'm gonna be.

784
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 1: The one to find my soulmate. But you know, blessed.

785
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:43,080
Speaker 3: Right, But I'm find because I feel like even a

786
00:34:43,080 --> 00:34:45,560
Speaker 3: lot of people that are married, they aren't necessarily with

787
00:34:45,640 --> 00:34:47,879
Speaker 3: their soul mate. They with somebody where it was like, okay,

788
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:53,480
Speaker 3: it word, you good enough, you check off enough of

789
00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 3: the boxes, and he looking at her like, okay, you

790
00:34:56,000 --> 00:34:57,160
Speaker 3: check off enough of the boxes.

791
00:34:57,239 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: Let's do it.

792
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 3: Because this kind of goes back to what just talking

793
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 3: about the other week when I was saying, I think

794
00:35:02,560 --> 00:35:05,799
Speaker 3: that people, some people just want to be married just

795
00:35:05,840 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 3: for the idea of partnership.

796
00:35:07,360 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: It doesn't even have nothing to do with being in love.

797
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:11,120
Speaker 1: M m mmmm.

798
00:35:11,440 --> 00:35:14,600
Speaker 2: And I think that's that's kind of what holds me

799
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 2: back a lot.

800
00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,319
Speaker 1: And I know that that's what holds you back.

801
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:19,479
Speaker 2: To what I feel like every time we date people,

802
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 2: they always like want to be in a relationship with us.

803
00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: They always want to and I feel like it be

804
00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 2: something in me, like I need that spark. I need

805
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:30,440
Speaker 2: love like I crave partnership. I've never heard that about myself,

806
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:33,799
Speaker 2: Like I love love, I love romance, but I'm not

807
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 2: gonna just just be with anybody just because they like

808
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: me or because they feel like they love me. You

809
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,920
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, Like I need to feel like

810
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 2: I'm with my soulmate. I need that feeling like I

811
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 2: have to have that. So that's crazy that you said that,

812
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,359
Speaker 2: because I seen a TikTok the other day and this

813
00:35:51,440 --> 00:35:55,360
Speaker 2: girl was like basically telling a story about like how

814
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:57,800
Speaker 2: her best her best friend was getting married, which I

815
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 2: think is weird when y'all share people's stories and it'd

816
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,239
Speaker 2: be all a tea. But anyways, she was basically saying,

817
00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 2: her best friend is getting married, so she was like

818
00:36:05,600 --> 00:36:08,000
Speaker 2: getting her back together to go stay the night at

819
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 2: a hotel. She was taking her friend's phone so her

820
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:14,160
Speaker 2: at fiance they were getting married next week, so her

821
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:17,319
Speaker 2: fiance couldn't see her location because she was going hook

822
00:36:17,360 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 2: up with like the love of her life for the

823
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,040
Speaker 2: last time. But it was like he was always like

824
00:36:22,239 --> 00:36:24,600
Speaker 2: never ready and never this, but she was like that

825
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 2: was the love of her life, but she had this

826
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 2: guy over here who loved her a.

827
00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 1: X Y Z and I'm just like, that is horrible.

828
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: That is horrible for him, horrible for her.

829
00:36:34,760 --> 00:36:36,320
Speaker 2: Because it's like you got to spend the rest of

830
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:39,399
Speaker 2: your life being like what if, or wishing that this

831
00:36:39,480 --> 00:36:42,239
Speaker 2: man was that man. He probably did in love with you,

832
00:36:42,320 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 2: he don't even know you in love with somebody else,

833
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:46,680
Speaker 2: but you want to get married so bad you're like, Okay,

834
00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 2: I just have to go ahead and go do it.

835
00:36:49,239 --> 00:36:49,799
Speaker 1: I don't know.

836
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,280
Speaker 3: I just feel like, bitch, I'm just a stiff ass

837
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 3: beach number one naturally, and I'm just like very fickle.

838
00:36:57,360 --> 00:37:00,319
Speaker 3: I feel like that'd be my problem with relationship, Like

839
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:03,240
Speaker 3: literally I would like you one day and then tomorrow

840
00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,160
Speaker 3: I'd be like, I'm cool on these niggas, like I

841
00:37:05,200 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 3: don't like him no more. My feelings for people really

842
00:37:08,000 --> 00:37:10,680
Speaker 3: be that fleeting a lot of the time, and so

843
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:13,759
Speaker 3: I just feel like one of the bigger problems with

844
00:37:14,040 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 3: our generation again is that people want to emulate and

845
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:18,840
Speaker 3: be like what they see online.

846
00:37:19,320 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 1: If you a lover, be a lover.

847
00:37:21,520 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 3: Stop let in the world and stop letting podcasts, stop

848
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,000
Speaker 3: letting people make you feel like you need to be

849
00:37:27,040 --> 00:37:28,880
Speaker 3: a hard ass beach and you need to be stiff

850
00:37:28,920 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 3: on niggas. If you a lover or be a lover,

851
00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:33,440
Speaker 3: don't let and that's not to say let people walk

852
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 3: over you, but just be you, be yourself. Like when

853
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:39,200
Speaker 3: all the shit that I talk about on this show

854
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:41,200
Speaker 3: and saying how I have been over the years and

855
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,959
Speaker 3: how I move, I really moved that way because that's

856
00:37:44,040 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 3: just me.

857
00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:45,920
Speaker 1: That's just really how I am.

858
00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 3: If anything, it's been hard for me to step into

859
00:37:48,680 --> 00:37:51,600
Speaker 3: like a vulnerable space and really being like.

860
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:55,399
Speaker 1: Open to love for.

861
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 3: The most part, because I just I don't know, it's

862
00:37:57,719 --> 00:37:59,960
Speaker 3: easier for me to not deal with emotions. But that's

863
00:38:00,200 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 3: who I am, and those are things that I also

864
00:38:02,000 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 3: have to figure out and have figured out over the

865
00:38:04,080 --> 00:38:07,080
Speaker 3: years where that stems from, because a lot of the time,

866
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:09,719
Speaker 3: when you have those type of things going on with you,

867
00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 3: it's a deeper, rooty issue, so you have to figure

868
00:38:12,840 --> 00:38:16,239
Speaker 3: out where it stems from. But that's just that just

869
00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:18,680
Speaker 3: have been who I am. It's not that I'm like, oh,

870
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 3: I don't want to fall in love fuck these niggas

871
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:23,480
Speaker 3: because that shit is cool, Like no, because the shit

872
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:26,080
Speaker 3: really not cool. It's cool right now until you seventy

873
00:38:26,160 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 3: and you by yourself and that's fine because you always

874
00:38:29,239 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 3: feel like you could do better and find better options.

875
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 1: I am a lover girl. Down love me down. I

876
00:38:34,800 --> 00:38:37,000
Speaker 1: love love. I love to be in love. I love

877
00:38:37,040 --> 00:38:40,480
Speaker 1: to feel tell me huggy, I want to be lovers

878
00:38:40,480 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 1: and friends with my niggas.

879
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:43,640
Speaker 2: I like to make sweets. We love under the blue

880
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:46,160
Speaker 2: corn moon babit. I love everything about love, and you

881
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:48,560
Speaker 2: know what, that's something that I realize about myself that

882
00:38:48,600 --> 00:38:51,279
Speaker 2: I embraced. I love that about myself. But there's all

883
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 2: there's always like two sides of things, Cuz I know

884
00:38:54,400 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 2: I fall quick. I know I start and then it's

885
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,440
Speaker 2: like when it turns out not to be what I

886
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 2: thought it was, I'll be like, fuck, you know what

887
00:39:01,480 --> 00:39:01,920
Speaker 2: I'm saying.

888
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:05,960
Speaker 3: But I think like my my heart got a fucking scent,

889
00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 3: a pee booze, and.

890
00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:08,439
Speaker 1: A barber around in hell.

891
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely falling quick for sit like like fall in

892
00:39:13,120 --> 00:39:15,760
Speaker 3: love with a nigga. It's because you have really shown

893
00:39:15,800 --> 00:39:18,160
Speaker 3: me that you somebody work truth me. I feel like

894
00:39:18,200 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 3: that's why I'm in the situation I'm in right now,

895
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:23,880
Speaker 3: because it takes somebody to really come into my life

896
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 3: and like make me have.

897
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,400
Speaker 1: To let my guard down, like he's not gonna have

898
00:39:27,480 --> 00:39:27,839
Speaker 1: me eating.

899
00:39:27,880 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 3: And it's not to say I'm trying to give you

900
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 3: a hard time on purpose, because I'm not.

901
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:35,239
Speaker 1: But you definitely got to put out all this out.

902
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, And I'll say this, I think for people in general,

903
00:39:41,239 --> 00:39:44,880
Speaker 2: finding love is a journey. And I think that's the

904
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,000
Speaker 2: issue with everybody. They don't want to go on the

905
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 2: journey because like me, being like a lover girl, like

906
00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:52,879
Speaker 2: I be knowing the difference between like being in love

907
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,959
Speaker 2: with somebody or having love for somebody because I meet people,

908
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:57,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, man, I really fuck with this person, but

909
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,120
Speaker 2: I know I like I I love them. You, Oh,

910
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 2: they're a part of my daily routine, but I know

911
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 2: I'm not in love with them because love is a journey,

912
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 2: and I know when I'm really in it with somebody,

913
00:40:08,400 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 2: because you have to wake up and choose this person,

914
00:40:11,480 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 2: Like you have to wake up and be like, Okay,

915
00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:17,920
Speaker 2: I am so mad, but my love for them trump's

916
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:22,240
Speaker 2: the madness. Your love for somebody has to really trump

917
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 2: whatever else that you're feeling because you can't.

918
00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 1: Just quit it. It's something that you can't quit.

919
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,239
Speaker 2: It's not an on and off switch, you know what

920
00:40:29,280 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 2: I'm saying, and I think I can honestly say I've

921
00:40:32,360 --> 00:40:36,840
Speaker 2: been like in in love. I can honestly say like

922
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:40,319
Speaker 2: one time. So after like really going through that experience

923
00:40:40,440 --> 00:40:42,360
Speaker 2: and going through the ups and down, so I was like, Okay,

924
00:40:42,400 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 2: so this is what this is what love is, and

925
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,240
Speaker 2: that shit is hard, but it's.

926
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 1: Worth it, you know what I'm saying.

927
00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 2: And I know that it's gonna be somebody who's even

928
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,400
Speaker 2: better for me, you know what I'm saying. So I

929
00:40:53,440 --> 00:40:57,120
Speaker 2: think the work is what scares people too. Nobody wants

930
00:40:57,160 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 2: to work for nothing. They look at the Instagram couples,

931
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 2: they look at the TikTok couples, and they all all

932
00:41:01,640 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 2: they see.

933
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: Is them doing their little dances and going on their trips.

934
00:41:04,880 --> 00:41:07,520
Speaker 2: Bitch, you don't even realize they was arguing all the

935
00:41:07,560 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 2: way damn to the goddamn airport.

936
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 1: They weren't even sitting there with each other on the

937
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,319
Speaker 1: fucking airplane, you know what I'm saying. You don't see that.

938
00:41:14,360 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: They don't see the trials and the tribulations that it

939
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,560
Speaker 2: takes to really be in a relationship, you know what

940
00:41:21,600 --> 00:41:26,080
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So I think that getting back to the topic,

941
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,200
Speaker 2: I think that do.

942
00:41:28,160 --> 00:41:30,439
Speaker 1: I believe that everybody will get married. No?

943
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:35,200
Speaker 2: Do I think that they can, Yes, but you have

944
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:37,480
Speaker 2: to be willing to do the work, and people don't

945
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:37,960
Speaker 2: want to do the.

946
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 1: Work that a relationship requires.

947
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,080
Speaker 2: That's how I feel everybody would be married if they

948
00:41:44,080 --> 00:41:46,919
Speaker 2: would be willing to do the work and willing to

949
00:41:46,960 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 2: stop talk. You have to talk, you have to communicate,

950
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:52,399
Speaker 2: use your words, like I.

951
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:55,279
Speaker 3: Mean, I don't even think I don't agree with that,

952
00:41:55,360 --> 00:41:59,440
Speaker 3: only because it's also people who don't want to get married.

953
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:02,360
Speaker 1: Well, that's true, let me talk to get married.

954
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:04,959
Speaker 3: So that's another reason why everybody ain't gonna never be married,

955
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:07,000
Speaker 3: because it's a lot of people who don't even want that.

956
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, well we're speaking on the people who do

957
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: want to get married, not necessarily.

958
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:12,840
Speaker 3: We was just talking about people not getting married, like

959
00:42:12,920 --> 00:42:14,040
Speaker 3: everybody not getting married.

960
00:42:14,120 --> 00:42:15,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I mean, I guess I don't count the

961
00:42:15,960 --> 00:42:17,600
Speaker 2: people who don't want to get married, because while we

962
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: have them in a conversation, like because that's another reason

963
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 2: why everybody might not get married, because it's a lot

964
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 2: of people that don't want to. So then if it's

965
00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:29,400
Speaker 2: a lot of people that don't want to, then do

966
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 2: you think it's a lot as you know what I mean,

967
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 2: Like it's those people.

968
00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:34,719
Speaker 3: You can't count them. It's like you can only count

969
00:42:34,760 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 3: the people that.

970
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 1: Want to get married.

971
00:42:36,520 --> 00:42:38,839
Speaker 2: But that would also go into like do you think

972
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:40,839
Speaker 2: the ratio of people who don't want to get married

973
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:43,279
Speaker 2: is even with men and women or do you think

974
00:42:43,320 --> 00:42:45,040
Speaker 2: it's like more women who don't want to get married

975
00:42:45,120 --> 00:42:46,440
Speaker 2: or more men who don't want to get married.

976
00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:49,600
Speaker 3: I think it's more men that don't want to get married.

977
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 3: And this is my opinion. I think it's more men

978
00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:54,799
Speaker 3: that don't want to get married. But I think now

979
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:59,520
Speaker 3: in our generation, those numbers are not necessarily equal, but

980
00:42:59,560 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 3: like the the woman's side of it is rising. Oh,

981
00:43:02,760 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 3: because I think because I think a lot of women

982
00:43:04,840 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 3: these days don't want to get married. I think back

983
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,200
Speaker 3: in the day, women had to get married for financial stability,

984
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 3: for status, for all of these things that they couldn't

985
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: do on their own. You had to have a man,

986
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 3: you had to be in a relationship. I even talked

987
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:21,040
Speaker 3: about this before, like with my mom. My mom is older,

988
00:43:21,160 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 3: she's in her seventies, and when she first moved out

989
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:28,799
Speaker 3: of her parents' house and got her first apartment, she

990
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,560
Speaker 3: couldn't even get furniture back then without having a man

991
00:43:32,800 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 3: to sign for it or not having a husband. So

992
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,440
Speaker 3: my grandfather literally had to like go down to the

993
00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:40,879
Speaker 3: furniture place with her to sign and help her get

994
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:41,600
Speaker 3: her furniture.

995
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:42,280
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

996
00:43:42,360 --> 00:43:44,799
Speaker 3: So back in the day, women literally needed a man

997
00:43:44,920 --> 00:43:47,040
Speaker 3: for everything, which is part of the reason why I

998
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 3: feel like the numbers for marriage were so high back then,

999
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:52,399
Speaker 3: because as a woman, could you really succeed without having

1000
00:43:52,400 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 3: a husband nine times out of ten? No, But that

1001
00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:56,839
Speaker 3: goes into why it was so much abuse and all

1002
00:43:56,880 --> 00:43:58,799
Speaker 3: type of other sheep in the home that women still

1003
00:43:58,800 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 3: put up with outside babies, all of these bullshie. But

1004
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 3: our grandmothers and great grandmothers put up with the sheet

1005
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:06,680
Speaker 3: because they needed the niggas.

1006
00:44:06,719 --> 00:44:07,400
Speaker 1: It was so crazy.

1007
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 3: Women don't need niggas no more, like they don't necessarily

1008
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,399
Speaker 3: meet a nigga no more. So I think it's way

1009
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,160
Speaker 3: more women who don't want to get married. But I

1010
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:18,040
Speaker 3: still feel like it's more men because men just because honestly,

1011
00:44:18,080 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 3: men could do what they want on It's.

1012
00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 2: So crazy because they used to have families living across

1013
00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 2: the street from each other, like a man would have

1014
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 2: a family right here, and a family right, like that

1015
00:44:28,239 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 2: is so that that's just mine.

1016
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was crazy. It's like y'all have a older

1017
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: woman on the show. It's like an older unmarried woman

1018
00:44:36,600 --> 00:44:38,360
Speaker 1: or like somebody that went through it, Like that's what

1019
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:39,279
Speaker 1: we need to talk.

1020
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah so so yeah, so I feel like these days

1021
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 3: it's definitely a lot of women that don't want to

1022
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:45,719
Speaker 3: get married. But like I said, I definitely think it's

1023
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:47,279
Speaker 3: more men because at the end of the day, men

1024
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 3: could just always Unfortunately, that's just how society is, especially

1025
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 3: here in America.

1026
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,879
Speaker 1: Like men can literally just do whatever they want. You're

1027
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:55,000
Speaker 1: right though, but they can.

1028
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 2: They look at a man like if you see an

1029
00:44:57,239 --> 00:44:59,920
Speaker 2: older man that's single, he's a bachelor. Yeah, you know,

1030
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:02,759
Speaker 2: he's he's oh, he's got his money, he's probably And

1031
00:45:02,800 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 2: you see an older woman.

1032
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:07,359
Speaker 1: That she all lonely beach? Ooh something, what's wrong with her?

1033
00:45:07,560 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: She lonely? It's always something bad? So harsh words. What

1034
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, what they say what I see online?

1035
00:45:15,560 --> 00:45:18,960
Speaker 1: Like she an old lonely beach. What's wrong? Word m M.

1036
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,080
Speaker 2: That's why Justin Bieber made that song. He was saying

1037
00:45:22,080 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 2: he was gonna make one less lonely.

1038
00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:28,120
Speaker 1: Girl and yeah, long story short, everybody believer, that's why

1039
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,360
Speaker 1: she smacked her lips.

1040
00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 2: The believers know, y'all remember when he did that on

1041
00:45:33,040 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 2: that video and he was like, it's gonna be one

1042
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:35,560
Speaker 2: less lonely.

1043
00:45:36,880 --> 00:45:41,400
Speaker 1: Justin. I will never forgive you for that. He was wilidh. Anyways,

1044
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:45,680
Speaker 1: what the fuck do you talk about? You?

1045
00:45:46,360 --> 00:45:49,080
Speaker 3: Long story short all, y'all ain't getting married. And Lexi

1046
00:45:49,160 --> 00:45:50,920
Speaker 3: keeps trying to soften the blow for y'all, ass, but

1047
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 3: it is what it is.

1048
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:53,800
Speaker 1: Everybody ain't getting married.

1049
00:45:54,360 --> 00:45:56,640
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1050
00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:58,640
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1052
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1053
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1055
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1075
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Speaker 1: Bow a bow.

1076
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: I wanted to talk about this today because I had

1077
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: posted a picture and somebody commented on it and it

1078
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:23,360
Speaker 2: was really y'all know me, I'm a very vulgar, open,

1079
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,839
Speaker 2: wild girl, but it really disturbed me to the core.

1080
00:47:27,960 --> 00:47:34,240
Speaker 1: All he said was forwards till the room stank.

1081
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,959
Speaker 2: And I said, to the room stank with a question mark,

1082
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:44,800
Speaker 2: and he repeated hisself. He said, till the room stink.

1083
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Speaker 2: So it intrigued me, and I wanted I read, Yes,

1084
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 2: it intrigued because I see people say that all the time,

1085
00:47:54,120 --> 00:47:56,920
Speaker 2: and I want to know what does that mean?

1086
00:47:57,120 --> 00:47:58,880
Speaker 1: What does it mean to the intrigue?

1087
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:04,080
Speaker 2: It's crazy, like I was, like, I'm curious, it's intriguing.

1088
00:48:04,160 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: I want to know. I want to know. I want

1089
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:09,480
Speaker 1: to know.

1090
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,959
Speaker 3: I don't want to do nothing to the room sting.

1091
00:48:12,560 --> 00:48:15,560
Speaker 3: If the room starts thinking, then something is wrong, something

1092
00:48:15,640 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 3: wrong right, something wrong, or I ain't never been right.

1093
00:48:19,719 --> 00:48:22,760
Speaker 1: But okay, so this is what because it shouldn't be thinking.

1094
00:48:23,040 --> 00:48:27,000
Speaker 1: This is the conclusion that I came to. Though. Sometimes

1095
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:33,160
Speaker 1: when you have sex with a condom, maybe it got

1096
00:48:33,160 --> 00:48:35,040
Speaker 1: a little dry, you know it. Maybe the smell of

1097
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:35,760
Speaker 1: burnt rubble.

1098
00:48:37,480 --> 00:48:41,560
Speaker 3: No, I used the condom in alone time, sot something burning.

1099
00:48:41,640 --> 00:48:42,480
Speaker 1: It ain't the rubble.

1100
00:48:42,560 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 2: But that's why I don't know, Like I don't know,

1101
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:47,160
Speaker 2: like what does that mean to the room stank?

1102
00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:48,239
Speaker 1: Like where did that come from?

1103
00:48:48,239 --> 00:48:50,160
Speaker 3: I don't I don't know what it means either, because

1104
00:48:50,200 --> 00:48:51,960
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie, like I don't want to do

1105
00:48:52,040 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 3: nothing to where the rooms I don't either. I have

1106
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 3: never had sex in a room stain either.

1107
00:48:57,600 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 2: But I see people say this constantly. They use that

1108
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:02,680
Speaker 2: as a they'd be like, oh, I want to do

1109
00:49:02,760 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 2: it to the room sink.

1110
00:49:05,120 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 1: How does that? How did that even come about? Maybe

1111
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:13,919
Speaker 1: they booty cheeks clapping the nigga? Why that is work?

1112
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: Win be funky?

1113
00:49:15,200 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 3: Maybe like is he hitting and then it starts sweating?

1114
00:49:25,040 --> 00:49:26,359
Speaker 3: Maybe he ain't white.

1115
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:28,280
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just trying to think of some scenario.

1116
00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:31,040
Speaker 1: That's a good scenario. Maybe he ain't white. Good and

1117
00:49:31,719 --> 00:49:38,760
Speaker 1: that's clapping. It's illuminating. Now we're getting somewhere, so one

1118
00:49:39,200 --> 00:49:43,440
Speaker 1: could be the niggas work wind from. So I still

1119
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:46,200
Speaker 1: think when the condom is dry, your pussy dry, it's

1120
00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:50,640
Speaker 1: smelling like a tire or rubber, is it? But is

1121
00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:53,440
Speaker 1: it high? It may be a little hard, it may

1122
00:49:53,440 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 1: be a little hot. I do feel like I personally

1123
00:49:56,080 --> 00:49:57,239
Speaker 1: don't like to do it with the fan.

1124
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:03,680
Speaker 2: Why because I don't no not airing it out.

1125
00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:07,759
Speaker 3: I feel like it'd be too cold. Like I like

1126
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,240
Speaker 3: to I like to have sex and it be like humid.

1127
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 1: That's what your pussy be doing like that, that's what

1128
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:19,360
Speaker 1: your pussy be doing what it's called.

1129
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:24,840
Speaker 3: No, bitch, I just don't like having sex with the

1130
00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,040
Speaker 3: fan on because I feel like, I like, I don't

1131
00:50:27,120 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 3: want it to be cold when I'm having sex. Like

1132
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:31,399
Speaker 3: who likes a cold room when they're having sexy? Maybe

1133
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 3: that's why niggas be staying to the rooms thing, because

1134
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 3: maybe because obviously thought none of us like a room

1135
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:36,760
Speaker 3: that's cold.

1136
00:50:36,800 --> 00:50:40,399
Speaker 1: Maybe niggas be musty. Oh that's a good one. That's

1137
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:46,320
Speaker 1: a good one. Maybe they both musty. Maybe they both musty.

1138
00:50:48,200 --> 00:50:51,160
Speaker 1: Maybe they both musty. You got a good scenario? You

1139
00:50:51,200 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: ever think that, y'all? Rule said that on that song?

1140
00:50:53,440 --> 00:50:57,359
Speaker 1: It was just me did y'all will say? What if

1141
00:50:57,400 --> 00:51:02,120
Speaker 1: you put it on man? You're musty? I know he

1142
00:51:02,200 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 1: said must be, Like now I know he's No.

1143
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 2: I never thought I thought he said musty?

1144
00:51:07,680 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 1: If why would he want you to put it on

1145
00:51:09,640 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: him if you're musty?

1146
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 3: Because he was saying, to the room, put it on me,

1147
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:19,600
Speaker 3: you musty. Okay, So you have some pretty good scenarios.

1148
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 1: Or maybe I got some scenarios.

1149
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:26,479
Speaker 2: Maybe I mean, and we all know that maybe a breath,

1150
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 2: oh funky breath. No, no, because when I think of

1151
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 2: doing it to the rooms, think you not. You don't

1152
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:34,400
Speaker 2: have to do it to the room stank because your

1153
00:51:34,440 --> 00:51:35,600
Speaker 2: breath already stunk.

1154
00:51:35,320 --> 00:51:37,719
Speaker 1: When you walk in, and breath don't linger. Yeah, breath

1155
00:51:37,719 --> 00:51:40,799
Speaker 1: don't linger. So we won't count that one way.

1156
00:51:40,920 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 2: But obviously maybe her vagina doesn't smell fresh.

1157
00:51:45,120 --> 00:51:47,280
Speaker 1: I got what if he got athletes?

1158
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 3: Oh, y'all know, y'all like some athletes, So maybe y'all

1159
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 3: were doing it, and like, you know, it's like a

1160
00:51:56,600 --> 00:51:57,920
Speaker 3: random sex copade.

1161
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 2: And you know, y'all on like the the tabletop in

1162
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 2: the kitchen. So he's still fully dressed. You know, you

1163
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 2: just lifted up your skirt, y'all, get no quickie in.

1164
00:52:05,640 --> 00:52:07,279
Speaker 2: But then it starts getting real good, and then he

1165
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:11,640
Speaker 2: takes his clothes off, and he takes them socks off,

1166
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,279
Speaker 2: and then to the room stank with the athlete's foot.

1167
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:17,719
Speaker 1: Like how the cartoons used to be remembered that.

1168
00:52:23,400 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 2: But when I think of to the room stank, I'm

1169
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:28,160
Speaker 2: thinking about genitals, like the genitals doing something odd.

1170
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:30,120
Speaker 1: I'm thinking of like the.

1171
00:52:30,120 --> 00:52:33,880
Speaker 2: Twerk wind that was a good one, or maybe or

1172
00:52:33,960 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 2: maybe to the room stink. Maybe he was busting it

1173
00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,719
Speaker 2: up so hard you fought it.

1174
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,439
Speaker 1: You fought it during sex one's all to the room

1175
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: state bitch and drag. Remember he was like, oh my pissy.

1176
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:48,040
Speaker 3: I did say that I for it, but I also

1177
00:52:48,160 --> 00:52:50,480
Speaker 3: said he did not know that it wasn't my pie,

1178
00:52:50,719 --> 00:52:54,720
Speaker 3: but because it didn't sinking, so it wasn't a good example. However,

1179
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 3: sometimes though, when y'all be fucking, y'all had just finished

1180
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,120
Speaker 3: eating beans, so it probably does things you no.

1181
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:03,480
Speaker 1: I know, I ain't never thought it's gonna lie.

1182
00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 3: And this is thide Barber bean fart is different.

1183
00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 1: You know what, I think. My stomach is so used.

1184
00:53:09,000 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 1: Really I did I have When people be like you eat.

1185
00:53:12,040 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 2: So many beans, I know, I'm like, no, they really don't.

1186
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:15,080
Speaker 2: I got a stomach.

1187
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 3: I cannot eat beans. If I know I'm about to

1188
00:53:17,920 --> 00:53:20,880
Speaker 3: hang with me, I can't. Or I gotta have some beano.

1189
00:53:22,080 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: Girl, for real. You ain't never took no goddamn beano.

1190
00:53:26,440 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 3: I have any work anyway. Mama used to have me.

1191
00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:31,600
Speaker 3: So that's how I found out it.

1192
00:53:31,680 --> 00:53:36,280
Speaker 1: Really don't be putting, Barbara beers. Don't be putting about

1193
00:53:36,320 --> 00:53:56,800
Speaker 1: that be no gas so be no, yes, okay to

1194
00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:59,640
Speaker 1: the room staking The could be a fart, though there

1195
00:53:59,680 --> 00:54:00,440
Speaker 1: was a good point.

1196
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:02,120
Speaker 2: So so that's what we're gonna come to the conclusion

1197
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:04,399
Speaker 2: till the room staying is either his twerk when it's

1198
00:54:04,440 --> 00:54:08,400
Speaker 2: funky athlete's foot, they're both musty.

1199
00:54:09,080 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 1: It's too hot in the room, Yo, cushie could be musty.

1200
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:15,560
Speaker 1: Your kushi could sink. Or he beat it up till

1201
00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: one of y'all faughted.

1202
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 3: One of y'all parted is crazy because why did he fart?

1203
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,959
Speaker 1: Can? I ask? Don't want a girl party?

1204
00:54:23,960 --> 00:54:26,480
Speaker 3: Because sometimes you be in a compromising position, like if

1205
00:54:26,560 --> 00:54:28,799
Speaker 3: y'all booty tweed up in the air, it's harder to

1206
00:54:28,840 --> 00:54:29,680
Speaker 3: clinch yr cheese.

1207
00:54:29,800 --> 00:54:32,080
Speaker 1: I know why, But I asked the me. It's something.

1208
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 2: Have y'all ever busted nothing and farted?

1209
00:54:39,160 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 1: Hey? Because sometimes you gotta squeeze that house you might

1210
00:54:43,680 --> 00:54:47,160
Speaker 1: bust enough. You farted and busted a name?

1211
00:54:47,320 --> 00:54:49,480
Speaker 2: No, I said, I said for the men, I've never

1212
00:54:49,560 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 2: farted during sex.

1213
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:51,160
Speaker 1: I haven't.

1214
00:54:51,239 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 3: I'm talking about period. Have you ever farted while busted

1215
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,839
Speaker 3: a name? That would be a solo egg?

1216
00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 1: I'm so hacked.

1217
00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:06,880
Speaker 3: It's crazy, yeah, because I know how you get it

1218
00:55:09,760 --> 00:55:13,640
Speaker 3: when I'm never sitting on the bed, ever, he shouldn't

1219
00:55:13,960 --> 00:55:15,000
Speaker 3: I just sit on the couch.

1220
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 1: Thank you safe either. Okay.

1221
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,239
Speaker 2: So, y'all, we haven't done this in a well, let's

1222
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:22,439
Speaker 2: let us know what y'all think.

1223
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:24,799
Speaker 1: Till the rooms think means okay.

1224
00:55:24,880 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, but something is wrong. That's all I'm

1225
00:55:27,040 --> 00:55:29,359
Speaker 3: gonna say. It's something wrong. The room should not say.

1226
00:55:29,719 --> 00:55:30,640
Speaker 1: I agree. Okay.

1227
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:34,480
Speaker 2: So now before we get into the next topic, we

1228
00:55:34,560 --> 00:55:36,360
Speaker 2: haven't done this in a long time. I wanted to

1229
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 2: break some lyrics down today because I was listening to

1230
00:55:38,520 --> 00:55:39,239
Speaker 2: this song the other day and.

1231
00:55:39,239 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: I was quite quite disturbed. I haven't listened to this

1232
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:47,880
Speaker 1: song in a very long time, but when I listened

1233
00:55:47,880 --> 00:55:50,520
Speaker 1: to it the other day, I was like, what is

1234
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:51,040
Speaker 1: going on?

1235
00:55:52,040 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 2: So we're gonna break down these lyrics real quick. Twenty

1236
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,560
Speaker 2: one questions by fifty cent. Do you remember this song?

1237
00:55:59,600 --> 00:56:02,319
Speaker 2: How are you when the song came out?

1238
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:07,000
Speaker 3: Probably like eleving being I was in middle I was

1239
00:56:07,040 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 3: either in elementary.

1240
00:56:07,800 --> 00:56:10,440
Speaker 1: School school and you liked the song? Right? See what

1241
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: it came out? Did you like the song? Yeah? I

1242
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:15,319
Speaker 1: liked it. It was a good song. Nate Dog was

1243
00:56:15,320 --> 00:56:19,800
Speaker 1: in it. Cool Yeah, Nate dogged Okay.

1244
00:56:19,880 --> 00:56:23,960
Speaker 2: So the first thing fifty cent says, if I fell

1245
00:56:23,960 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 2: off tomorrow, would you still love me, Well, that's not bad.

1246
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: I mean tomorrow is just.

1247
00:56:29,040 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 2: A day away. What did any say? We're only a

1248
00:56:31,120 --> 00:56:33,360
Speaker 2: day away, A day away I can do. If you

1249
00:56:33,360 --> 00:56:35,160
Speaker 2: fell off tomorrow, I probably still love you.

1250
00:56:35,200 --> 00:56:37,399
Speaker 3: About how you fall off in one day, that's a lie.

1251
00:56:37,640 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 3: You've been feel off, you was being falling off. I

1252
00:56:40,040 --> 00:56:41,200
Speaker 3: mean I'm not telling me.

1253
00:56:41,360 --> 00:56:42,360
Speaker 1: I mean something can happen.

1254
00:56:42,400 --> 00:56:44,719
Speaker 2: He could say something and get canceled, or he could

1255
00:56:44,760 --> 00:56:48,680
Speaker 2: get fired and lose everything. Like things can happen, A

1256
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:50,920
Speaker 2: lot can happen in twenty four hours, So that one

1257
00:56:50,960 --> 00:56:52,879
Speaker 2: wasn't bad. If I fell off tomorrow, Would you still

1258
00:56:52,920 --> 00:56:56,640
Speaker 2: love me? Drea says no, I say yes. Second question,

1259
00:56:57,160 --> 00:57:00,160
Speaker 2: if I didn't smell so good, would you still will

1260
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:00,600
Speaker 2: hug me?

1261
00:57:00,640 --> 00:57:04,880
Speaker 3: So you don't fall off and you must? And because

1262
00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:08,520
Speaker 3: why do you think? But niggas was really rapping this

1263
00:57:08,640 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 3: in the club. If I didn't smell so good, would

1264
00:57:10,760 --> 00:57:11,680
Speaker 3: you still hug me?

1265
00:57:12,360 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 1: Now I had not.

1266
00:57:13,200 --> 00:57:15,200
Speaker 2: In two thousand and three, so I was twelve. Yeah,

1267
00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:19,200
Speaker 2: so that I was fourteen. So unless you like just

1268
00:57:19,240 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: got done working out. But if you just like walking

1269
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,400
Speaker 2: around in the store and you stink, I don't like that,

1270
00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 2: cause why are you If I got locked up and

1271
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 2: sentenced to a quarter century.

1272
00:57:29,800 --> 00:57:31,600
Speaker 1: A quarter century.

1273
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 3: Absolutely count on you to be there and to support

1274
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:38,760
Speaker 3: me mentally. Absolutely not when the judge take you away,

1275
00:57:38,840 --> 00:57:43,480
Speaker 3: take away my loyalty too. They both gone, your freedom

1276
00:57:43,520 --> 00:57:44,320
Speaker 3: and my loyalty.

1277
00:57:44,440 --> 00:57:47,360
Speaker 1: Because how long is a century? One hundred years?

1278
00:57:47,440 --> 00:57:47,560
Speaker 2: Yes?

1279
00:57:49,400 --> 00:57:52,520
Speaker 1: Years, bro? And why did you say century? That makes

1280
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:55,840
Speaker 1: it sound worse like just say twenty five years?

1281
00:57:56,240 --> 00:58:00,200
Speaker 2: A quarter century is wild? No to ask somebody to

1282
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:03,960
Speaker 2: hold you down. Okay, could you love.

1283
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,520
Speaker 3: Me in a Bentley? Because you love me on a bus?

1284
00:58:08,200 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 3: That's a big, drastic change, though. Why we couldn't go

1285
00:58:11,680 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 3: from could you love me in a Bentley? So could

1286
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:17,440
Speaker 3: you love me in a Honda a bus from the

1287
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 3: Bentley to the bus is insane?

1288
00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 2: Hey but wait, I didn't get to the good one,

1289
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 2: he said. I'm asking questions to find out how you

1290
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:28,640
Speaker 2: feel inside. If I ain't rapped because I flipped burgers

1291
00:58:28,640 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 2: at Burger King, would you be ashamed to tell your

1292
00:58:31,240 --> 00:58:32,400
Speaker 2: friends that you feeling me?

1293
00:58:33,640 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: Yes, hold ad nigga, Yes, nobody care about them.

1294
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:41,640
Speaker 2: Flame broil grilled burger's, God damn it.

1295
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 3: Maybe not backed me though, because like no, nah, you know,

1296
00:58:46,440 --> 00:58:50,240
Speaker 3: maybe not baked and burger King was bake me like

1297
00:58:50,280 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 3: a nigga with a burger king job could have made it.

1298
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,800
Speaker 3: I'm saying, not lit, but he could have made it.

1299
00:58:57,000 --> 00:58:58,520
Speaker 3: He could have made it. He could have had him

1300
00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:02,200
Speaker 3: a bad one needs that. No, absolutely nice.

1301
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:05,680
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't agree with you on that. We'll agree

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Speaker 1: to disagree. So you disagreed.

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Speaker 3: So when you were sixteen, you in the dated the

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00:59:08,960 --> 00:59:10,160
Speaker 3: nigga that worked at burger King.

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Speaker 1: I'm okay, but we're talking about adults. Fifty cent was

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Speaker 1: an adult when.

1307
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Speaker 3: This came out, and I'm thinking about where I was at.

1308
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:20,520
Speaker 2: No, we're talking about being a grown adult, because fifty

1309
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:21,960
Speaker 2: cent was an adult when he wrote this.

1310
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 1: And you were torturing these women because why would you

1311
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 1: be asking a woman all.

1312
00:59:25,560 --> 00:59:28,480
Speaker 2: These questions as a grown man, because he probably used

1313
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 2: to maybe he used to work. Fifty se ain't never

1314
00:59:31,240 --> 00:59:34,040
Speaker 2: worked at no damn burger King, and that'd be the problem.

1315
00:59:34,600 --> 00:59:36,520
Speaker 2: These men with all these this money and all this

1316
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:38,160
Speaker 2: and that they want to ask you to do things

1317
00:59:38,160 --> 00:59:42,080
Speaker 2: that you don't even require, Like you don't, you don't

1318
00:59:42,120 --> 00:59:43,040
Speaker 2: need to ask these questions.

1319
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Speaker 1: You're fifty cent.

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00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 2: And also, before we move on, I love you like

1321
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:51,120
Speaker 2: a fat kid love.

1322
00:59:51,040 --> 00:59:54,560
Speaker 1: Cake is not a bar that shit was asked.

1323
00:59:55,440 --> 00:59:57,960
Speaker 3: That was asked saying it was asked when you used

1324
00:59:57,960 --> 01:00:00,800
Speaker 3: to be in a mirror, SENI these Christ, That's why

1325
01:00:00,800 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 3: I'm talking about it.

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01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: I love you like a fat kid loves cake does

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01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:04,880
Speaker 1: not go hard.

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01:00:04,880 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 3: But nah, niggas really used to be saying crazy shit

1329
01:00:07,480 --> 01:00:08,000
Speaker 3: on the song.

1330
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:10,080
Speaker 1: We used to be in a week but night in

1331
01:00:10,120 --> 01:00:11,680
Speaker 1: the club. We wasn't in the club. We used to

1332
01:00:11,680 --> 01:00:14,640
Speaker 1: be really like with our EarPods, like I love you

1333
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:16,840
Speaker 1: like a fat killed look cake. You know my style.

1334
01:00:16,920 --> 01:00:18,600
Speaker 1: I say anything to make you smam.

1335
01:00:20,600 --> 01:00:22,320
Speaker 2: My boyfriend wrapped that to me one time, and I

1336
01:00:22,360 --> 01:00:28,080
Speaker 2: was like, I was also fourteen. He was wrapping into

1337
01:00:28,080 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 2: a grown ass woman and she.

1338
01:00:29,160 --> 01:00:33,480
Speaker 1: Was like, I don't think so. You're forty, bitch. Remember

1339
01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:37,320
Speaker 1: Megan Good was in this video looking cute, and Megan

1340
01:00:37,320 --> 01:00:39,680
Speaker 1: Good still answers twenty one questions if you want to

1341
01:00:39,800 --> 01:00:49,040
Speaker 1: get real? All right, bro, I'm sorry, I guess we're

1342
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,840
Speaker 1: never gonna have you on this. Oh it was just

1343
01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,479
Speaker 1: I love you, bro, all right. So now it's time

1344
01:00:55,800 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 1: to get into the bop at a bow Bow Bow

1345
01:01:03,040 --> 01:01:03,600
Speaker 1: Bow Bow.

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01:01:04,400 --> 01:01:07,560
Speaker 2: Okay, y'all, My bop of the week. This week, I

1347
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,640
Speaker 2: have ran this song in the ground. I just I'm

1348
01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:12,640
Speaker 2: an R and B girl to the heart, and I

1349
01:01:12,720 --> 01:01:16,400
Speaker 2: just feel like her pen game is just unmatched. I

1350
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 2: feel like when I think about women who are great

1351
01:01:20,240 --> 01:01:22,480
Speaker 2: R and B writers, this is somebody I'll always bring

1352
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 2: up in conversation. Money Long has a song called Made

1353
01:01:26,160 --> 01:01:29,840
Speaker 2: for Me, and it is so good. It is so so, so,

1354
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 2: so so good. So if y'all don't know who money

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01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:34,240
Speaker 2: Long is, she had the song hours for out, hours

1356
01:01:34,240 --> 01:01:37,680
Speaker 2: and hours and then the time machine. She's just really dope.

1357
01:01:37,760 --> 01:01:40,120
Speaker 2: She's been in the game for a very very long time.

1358
01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:42,360
Speaker 2: And when I tell you this is a beautiful song,

1359
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,280
Speaker 2: it kind of goes into what we were talking about

1360
01:01:44,280 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 2: earlier about just like not giving up on love and

1361
01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,040
Speaker 2: you know, being there, like you were made for me,

1362
01:01:49,240 --> 01:01:52,320
Speaker 2: like body to body, skin the skin, like the.

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01:01:52,440 --> 01:01:58,440
Speaker 1: Body with the drink down Ace Hound, need to make

1364
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:03,360
Speaker 1: a comeback. Don't get me the best. If you happen

1365
01:02:03,440 --> 01:02:05,600
Speaker 1: to see this, if you ever happened to see these,

1366
01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 1: you know what he did. I'm gonna tell you we

1367
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:10,960
Speaker 1: can get him on the show. Though you ain't need

1368
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:14,600
Speaker 1: to come on the show. Cash Flow, I need it

1369
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:20,160
Speaker 1: on time I'm talking bank roud, my money, my money.

1370
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Speaker 2: That is the best song ever made. That song that was.

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01:02:26,800 --> 01:02:27,480
Speaker 1: I know you.

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01:02:32,400 --> 01:02:36,320
Speaker 3: Lex Flos really not lying. That's really her favorite.

1373
01:02:35,840 --> 01:02:39,960
Speaker 1: Song if you cut that going crazy? Okay, what's your

1374
01:02:40,000 --> 01:02:43,000
Speaker 1: BP of the week? Drew NICKI min Can we talk

1375
01:02:43,040 --> 01:02:43,400
Speaker 1: about it?

1376
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:48,880
Speaker 3: Let's check, let's check where the barbs?

1377
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:53,200
Speaker 1: Are you a barb again? I've never stopped. She'd be

1378
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 1: making me mad sometimes, like me and Nikki? Are you

1379
01:02:55,960 --> 01:02:57,640
Speaker 1: in my head? Okay?

1380
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:02,640
Speaker 3: I love this album, y'all. Like Nikki did what the

1381
01:03:02,680 --> 01:03:05,200
Speaker 3: fuck she needed to do, Like most of the songs

1382
01:03:05,240 --> 01:03:06,040
Speaker 3: on the album were.

1383
01:03:05,920 --> 01:03:11,560
Speaker 1: Good hills on yeah, she ate. I love the album, y'all.

1384
01:03:11,680 --> 01:03:15,480
Speaker 1: R and B is my song. It was my song,

1385
01:03:15,640 --> 01:03:19,880
Speaker 1: you know what song because remember Young Golf had Army

1386
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,720
Speaker 1: Rich Nigga bitch. R and B is my song, y'all.

1387
01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:25,520
Speaker 1: I love that song.

1388
01:03:25,560 --> 01:03:27,320
Speaker 3: And the fact that she have Lil Wayne on it

1389
01:03:27,360 --> 01:03:29,680
Speaker 3: is just an added bonus because I don't give a

1390
01:03:29,680 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 3: fuck when nobody ever say about Little Tune Chi.

1391
01:03:33,040 --> 01:03:37,280
Speaker 1: You cannot talk to me about ever. You can't.

1392
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 6: That's his name, call him. It's crazy. You can't say

1393
01:03:46,440 --> 01:03:50,760
Speaker 6: nothing to me ever about Lil Wayne. Like still the

1394
01:03:50,880 --> 01:03:55,240
Speaker 6: best rapper ever and jay Z Top two top two.

1395
01:03:55,960 --> 01:03:57,160
Speaker 1: So the fact that.

1396
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 3: She has three, Oh, I gotta get back to you,

1397
01:04:01,880 --> 01:04:02,880
Speaker 3: nick I don't know.

1398
01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:08,360
Speaker 1: She she ain't no bar Nikki. I tested. I thought

1399
01:04:08,400 --> 01:04:10,160
Speaker 1: she was asking me about men though, because we were

1400
01:04:10,160 --> 01:04:10,880
Speaker 1: talking about men.

1401
01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:13,800
Speaker 3: No, we were talking about rappers. Okay, well that's fine.

1402
01:04:13,880 --> 01:04:15,919
Speaker 3: Like NICKI could be in my top five. Nicki would

1403
01:04:15,920 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 3: be in my top five. Drake would be in my

1404
01:04:17,880 --> 01:04:19,840
Speaker 3: top five two though, to be fair.

1405
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:21,440
Speaker 1: And then.

1406
01:04:23,160 --> 01:04:28,400
Speaker 3: Ye see the thing about Kanye though, I wouldn't necessarily

1407
01:04:28,400 --> 01:04:31,400
Speaker 3: put Kanye in my top five rappers only because to me,

1408
01:04:31,520 --> 01:04:33,400
Speaker 3: Kanye is a rapper and producer.

1409
01:04:33,720 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 1: Okay, he in a.

1410
01:04:35,240 --> 01:04:38,160
Speaker 3: Whole different He in a whole different category. He in

1411
01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:41,000
Speaker 3: a whole different bad You can't even insult him and

1412
01:04:41,040 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 3: call him just the rappers.

1413
01:04:42,280 --> 01:04:43,040
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair.

1414
01:04:43,120 --> 01:04:46,000
Speaker 3: I wouldn't even put him over there. But Kanye is

1415
01:04:46,000 --> 01:04:47,440
Speaker 3: definitely up there for sure.

1416
01:04:48,680 --> 01:04:49,120
Speaker 1: I don't know.

1417
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:53,560
Speaker 3: This is probably gonna shock people, but like what probably

1418
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:55,120
Speaker 3: not if you've been listening to the show for a while.

1419
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:57,320
Speaker 3: But Ja cole Wild probably be in my top five two. Yeah,

1420
01:04:57,560 --> 01:05:00,000
Speaker 3: I mean this is what y'all have to realize.

1421
01:05:00,000 --> 01:05:03,280
Speaker 2: I love anybody that can stay relevant in the music

1422
01:05:03,320 --> 01:05:04,720
Speaker 2: game for over ten years.

1423
01:05:04,760 --> 01:05:05,400
Speaker 1: It's special.

1424
01:05:06,160 --> 01:05:08,800
Speaker 2: So when you talk about like the greats, you have

1425
01:05:08,880 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 2: to talk about j Co, you have to talk about you.

1426
01:05:10,600 --> 01:05:14,920
Speaker 1: Know, Kendrick Lamar, like yeah, certain people. So that's like

1427
01:05:15,880 --> 01:05:17,320
Speaker 1: that was a good that was a good top fab.

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01:05:17,520 --> 01:05:19,479
Speaker 3: And I would definitely put Nikki up there just because

1429
01:05:19,480 --> 01:05:20,840
Speaker 3: I feel like you need to have one woman.

1430
01:05:21,080 --> 01:05:23,720
Speaker 2: I mean, but you know what's crazy. I don't even

1431
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 2: look at it like, well, yeah, well, but I agree

1432
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:27,480
Speaker 2: with you when I'm saying it's not even like a

1433
01:05:27,520 --> 01:05:30,360
Speaker 2: woman thing. It's not even a woman thing, Like she

1434
01:05:30,480 --> 01:05:34,000
Speaker 2: is literally out wrapping your phase that are men like her.

1435
01:05:34,040 --> 01:05:36,480
Speaker 2: Bars have just always been there, and that's one thing

1436
01:05:36,480 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 2: we can't deny. Whether you like her, hate her, whatever

1437
01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:42,560
Speaker 2: you have to feel, you just can't deny talent. And

1438
01:05:42,720 --> 01:05:47,200
Speaker 2: her pen game has always been very furious. Okay, So

1439
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 2: shout out to the pink Print two. Are you gonna

1440
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:49,720
Speaker 2: go to her concert?

1441
01:05:50,320 --> 01:05:56,840
Speaker 1: Dug a pig? That was some country and shit to say.

1442
01:05:57,040 --> 01:06:01,480
Speaker 3: Now I'm a country ass beach because easy asked me,

1443
01:06:01,560 --> 01:06:03,560
Speaker 3: am I gonna go to meee show? I mean, you

1444
01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:06,400
Speaker 3: already know the isswer. I don't win one thing about me.

1445
01:06:06,440 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 3: I've been in my concert oh you love a concert

1446
01:06:09,680 --> 01:06:12,480
Speaker 3: every concert this year, the only concert that I did

1447
01:06:12,480 --> 01:06:14,600
Speaker 3: not go to this year, which I am so upset

1448
01:06:14,640 --> 01:06:16,800
Speaker 3: with myself and not going these Usher's residency.

1449
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 1: But I'm not.

1450
01:06:18,000 --> 01:06:20,440
Speaker 3: Beating myself for next year, so I mean, and I'm

1451
01:06:20,480 --> 01:06:22,840
Speaker 3: also not beating myself up so much because when I

1452
01:06:22,880 --> 01:06:26,480
Speaker 3: went to Lovers and Franciscible in May with my best friend,

1453
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,920
Speaker 3: we ended up seeing him there and we was backstaging.

1454
01:06:30,320 --> 01:06:33,360
Speaker 1: So you know, Joe to Ce has a residency next

1455
01:06:33,480 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 1: year going. I'm absolutely going.

1456
01:06:37,800 --> 01:06:41,720
Speaker 2: And let me tell y'all something right now, if Casey

1457
01:06:41,760 --> 01:06:45,600
Speaker 2: and Jojo get on that stage and perform life, do

1458
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:49,320
Speaker 2: you know y'all will see me getting arrested. I will

1459
01:06:49,320 --> 01:06:51,600
Speaker 2: have a mugshot floating around and I don't even care.

1460
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:55,080
Speaker 3: Well, that's all right because I already got some footage

1461
01:06:55,080 --> 01:06:57,360
Speaker 3: with me in a brawl, in almost in the middle

1462
01:06:57,400 --> 01:06:59,800
Speaker 3: of a brawl, floating around right now, So I guess

1463
01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:00,880
Speaker 3: it's gonna be part two.

1464
01:07:01,600 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 1: I don't know I'm gonna be and I'm gonna be

1465
01:07:03,760 --> 01:07:04,520
Speaker 1: on stage with y'all.

1466
01:07:04,720 --> 01:07:09,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, you wanna be like Jamie Fox. Do you remember

1467
01:07:09,240 --> 01:07:12,320
Speaker 3: the episode of Jamie Fox was performed. They had hired

1468
01:07:12,360 --> 01:07:14,200
Speaker 3: him to go on tour with him and be they back,

1469
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:17,840
Speaker 3: that's gonna be me, and he ended up going to

1470
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:18,760
Speaker 3: the front and start.

1471
01:07:18,600 --> 01:07:21,880
Speaker 1: Seeing I'm gonna get Martin. I don't know, but I'm at.

1472
01:07:22,360 --> 01:07:24,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get front row tickets and if they perform,

1473
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 2: I'm literally gonna beg the bodyguards. Please, I will just

1474
01:07:28,600 --> 01:07:30,920
Speaker 2: sit in the corner. Just let me, just let me

1475
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:31,480
Speaker 2: join in.

1476
01:07:32,480 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 1: Let me. Oh my god, I'm gonna lose my mind.

1477
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 2: So Casey and Jojo, if y'all see this before y'all

1478
01:07:38,000 --> 01:07:39,560
Speaker 2: go on tour, somebody send this to them.

1479
01:07:39,840 --> 01:07:46,480
Speaker 1: Y'all please perform life. I'm begging somebody give me life.

1480
01:07:48,320 --> 01:07:51,360
Speaker 3: If y'all ever want to see Lexi's live rendition of

1481
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:55,160
Speaker 3: life because she's not going on tour with a c

1482
01:07:55,360 --> 01:08:01,960
Speaker 3: and Jojo, it's on Tea Paine Channel our episode it is.

1483
01:08:02,120 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 1: You performed so hard out there night and I'm gonna

1484
01:08:04,560 --> 01:08:07,560
Speaker 1: do it again. He was so pain, was so shocked

1485
01:08:08,360 --> 01:08:11,240
Speaker 1: you wanted to do life? Was like, that's so random.

1486
01:08:11,920 --> 01:08:15,720
Speaker 1: He enjoyed it. It was good. He had a ball.

1487
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:21,439
Speaker 1: The girl is good. He just shook. Okay, we go.

1488
01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 2: Okay as usual, y'all, make sure y'all write and to

1489
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:30,879
Speaker 2: get advice from us, email us at ask poor Minds

1490
01:08:30,920 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 2: at gmail dot com. If you're a Patreon member, make

1491
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:36,280
Speaker 2: sure you put that in the subject line. And I

1492
01:08:36,280 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 2: know we always say this, but this year we have

1493
01:08:38,240 --> 01:08:41,760
Speaker 2: totally revamped our Patreon. We actually have somebody running it

1494
01:08:41,800 --> 01:08:43,320
Speaker 2: for us now, so it's not just us trying to

1495
01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:46,080
Speaker 2: do it, y'all. This Patreon content is about to be

1496
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:48,640
Speaker 2: so good. Y'all gonna absolutely love it. So y'all make

1497
01:08:48,640 --> 01:08:51,479
Speaker 2: sure y'all subscribe to our patreon at patreon dot com,

1498
01:08:51,600 --> 01:08:57,080
Speaker 2: backslash poor minds, and we're gonna get into the questions today.

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Speaker 1: Yes, send a show question, send a show Testemony was

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01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:04,240
Speaker 1: all at Go ahead, little drev Question number one.

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01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:07,240
Speaker 3: Hi, y'all new to the pot, but have laughed out

1502
01:09:07,240 --> 01:09:09,720
Speaker 3: loud by myself while driving around New York for work.

1503
01:09:10,160 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 3: Love your friendship. I'm wondering how you feel about white

1504
01:09:13,200 --> 01:09:17,040
Speaker 3: women dating black men. I'm white, my last ex is mixed,

1505
01:09:17,240 --> 01:09:20,280
Speaker 3: and I've been into black men lately. Now, don't get it, Twisty.

1506
01:09:20,320 --> 01:09:22,960
Speaker 3: It's not always me going for them. Most cases has

1507
01:09:22,960 --> 01:09:25,320
Speaker 3: been the men contacting me on the apps. So I

1508
01:09:25,400 --> 01:09:28,680
Speaker 3: know attraction is mutual, which is different than a fetish,

1509
01:09:28,920 --> 01:09:30,880
Speaker 3: but I know how it could be perceived to others,

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01:09:30,880 --> 01:09:34,760
Speaker 3: So please break it all down, thank you. Okay, I

1511
01:09:34,800 --> 01:09:37,840
Speaker 3: don't give a fuck. I feel like love who you love.

1512
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:40,360
Speaker 3: Like I am not one of those black women who

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01:09:40,400 --> 01:09:43,599
Speaker 3: have a problem with black men dating outside of they raise.

1514
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:48,000
Speaker 1: I truly do not give a fuck. Like I said, it's.

1515
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:50,400
Speaker 3: More of a men problem in the world, which is

1516
01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:53,639
Speaker 3: why people not getting married. It's not necessarily a race problem, right,

1517
01:09:54,920 --> 01:09:57,920
Speaker 3: Hey you hate that, Yeah, so don't.

1518
01:09:58,120 --> 01:09:58,720
Speaker 1: I don't care.

1519
01:09:58,760 --> 01:10:00,280
Speaker 3: And I feel like the men and the black me

1520
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:02,360
Speaker 3: and that only one to day white women them, not

1521
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:03,719
Speaker 3: the niggas for me, no way.

1522
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:05,839
Speaker 1: So why would I. I'm not your type, So why would.

1523
01:10:05,640 --> 01:10:08,040
Speaker 3: I be outraged by the fact that you don't want

1524
01:10:08,080 --> 01:10:08,439
Speaker 3: to date me.

1525
01:10:08,520 --> 01:10:09,280
Speaker 1: I'm not your type.

1526
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:11,240
Speaker 3: I'm not who you're going for, and I would prefer

1527
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:13,519
Speaker 3: you todate what you like then to settle with me

1528
01:10:13,680 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 3: and be unhappy.

1529
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:16,800
Speaker 1: I do not want to date somebody who I'm not

1530
01:10:16,840 --> 01:10:17,639
Speaker 1: their typical type.

1531
01:10:17,760 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, that is the biggest thing. So I don't think

1532
01:10:20,160 --> 01:10:22,080
Speaker 2: it's a problem. The only time we.

1533
01:10:22,040 --> 01:10:24,479
Speaker 3: Know, y'all go after y'all that they go after y'all.

1534
01:10:24,520 --> 01:10:25,519
Speaker 3: They been going after y'all.

1535
01:10:25,600 --> 01:10:25,760
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1536
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:27,559
Speaker 2: And the only time I have a problem with it

1537
01:10:27,600 --> 01:10:30,760
Speaker 2: is when, like, and this is for every race, if

1538
01:10:30,760 --> 01:10:32,880
Speaker 2: you date outside your race and you feel the need

1539
01:10:32,920 --> 01:10:35,560
Speaker 2: to bash your race, Like if you don't want to

1540
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:40,240
Speaker 2: date you know, Asian women, Hispanic women, Black women, that's fine,

1541
01:10:40,280 --> 01:10:43,000
Speaker 2: but don't bash them in the process. If that's what

1542
01:10:43,040 --> 01:10:43,360
Speaker 2: you like.

1543
01:10:43,439 --> 01:10:43,759
Speaker 1: Cool.

1544
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:46,240
Speaker 2: So I don't think I mean, it's twenty twenty three.

1545
01:10:46,640 --> 01:10:48,639
Speaker 2: I don't think we should have a problem with interracial dating.

1546
01:10:48,720 --> 01:10:51,559
Speaker 2: It's it's literally not that serious love where you love.

1547
01:10:52,000 --> 01:10:54,759
Speaker 2: I think it's more important that we bring back real

1548
01:10:54,800 --> 01:10:58,719
Speaker 2: love and value in relationships versus caring about people's skin color.

1549
01:10:58,800 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 2: And they go for black women, Like, if you want

1550
01:11:00,880 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 2: to date a white man, they one he might can

1551
01:11:03,280 --> 01:11:03,920
Speaker 2: love you better.

1552
01:11:04,200 --> 01:11:07,719
Speaker 1: I'm gonna love you better. This is hard to see.

1553
01:11:08,760 --> 01:11:10,600
Speaker 1: I want to make sure I go about this in

1554
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:13,479
Speaker 1: the right way because literally, you're a busy a lot,

1555
01:11:13,720 --> 01:11:17,679
Speaker 1: and I know you don't feel appreciated and whatnot. I'd

1556
01:11:17,680 --> 01:11:19,360
Speaker 1: like to tell you that your heir looks fly.

1557
01:11:20,280 --> 01:11:23,920
Speaker 3: It's slow and still in your eyes, just talk real

1558
01:11:24,000 --> 01:11:24,799
Speaker 3: fil and sleep.

1559
01:11:25,320 --> 01:11:27,320
Speaker 1: Every other sitness is you make me sick.

1560
01:11:27,439 --> 01:11:32,000
Speaker 3: That's hell.

1561
01:11:32,040 --> 01:11:38,160
Speaker 1: How a song go the baby smell the song love you,

1562
01:11:41,080 --> 01:11:47,400
Speaker 1: I'm gonna we already saying it, and your friends sit

1563
01:11:47,760 --> 01:11:51,240
Speaker 1: too when you think there's nothing else I can, dude,

1564
01:11:52,840 --> 01:11:55,840
Speaker 1: I'm gonna love you. That is my song. That's one

1565
01:11:55,880 --> 01:11:58,400
Speaker 1: of my I can't believe we never sung there for Cary.

1566
01:11:58,800 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 1: I think we probably have. Probably we did. Like this,

1567
01:12:01,920 --> 01:12:08,040
Speaker 1: So this is this YouTube for teen years, bitch, old

1568
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:08,599
Speaker 1: ass show.

1569
01:12:11,280 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 3: Basket all, don't do that because the first two years

1570
01:12:14,479 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 3: it was win.

1571
01:12:15,240 --> 01:12:21,080
Speaker 1: Nowt babe, it's twenty twenty four. Hey, being poor minds

1572
01:12:21,080 --> 01:12:24,760
Speaker 1: for five years? Question number two, Hey, Dre and Lex.

1573
01:12:24,800 --> 01:12:26,280
Speaker 2: I started listening to the show when I was a

1574
01:12:26,320 --> 01:12:29,000
Speaker 2: freshman in college and I'm about to graduate in spring.

1575
01:12:29,320 --> 01:12:34,360
Speaker 1: Old ass Show. I just said that I love that

1576
01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 1: I've gotten to witness he graduated early. Goddamnir.

1577
01:12:39,360 --> 01:12:42,040
Speaker 2: I love that I've gotten to witness y'all's growth along

1578
01:12:42,080 --> 01:12:42,760
Speaker 2: with my own.

1579
01:12:43,120 --> 01:12:45,280
Speaker 1: The professionalism is through the roof.

1580
01:12:45,080 --> 01:12:47,880
Speaker 2: And I admire how y'all, how you all are able

1581
01:12:47,920 --> 01:12:50,800
Speaker 2: to make guests comfortable and put out great episodes a

1582
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:53,639
Speaker 2: week after week. This is really my comfort show. It's

1583
01:12:53,680 --> 01:12:57,160
Speaker 2: inspired me to explore the production side of podcasting to

1584
01:12:57,240 --> 01:13:01,000
Speaker 2: help amplify other talented voices doing what you're doing.

1585
01:13:01,160 --> 01:13:04,320
Speaker 1: Love y'all a loyal listener. Oh that was sweet.

1586
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:08,520
Speaker 2: I love when they write test the professionalism.

1587
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:13,000
Speaker 3: I was laughing when she said that in my head

1588
01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:16,719
Speaker 3: because the Lord, no, no, I feel like.

1589
01:13:16,800 --> 01:13:19,080
Speaker 1: We do a great job.

1590
01:13:19,120 --> 01:13:21,679
Speaker 2: When people come sit on this couch and they first

1591
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:24,680
Speaker 2: sit down with us, they do not be knowing what

1592
01:13:24,720 --> 01:13:27,000
Speaker 2: to expect. It's a lot of people that have actually

1593
01:13:27,400 --> 01:13:29,280
Speaker 2: told people that they don't want to come sit out

1594
01:13:29,320 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 2: on the couch because I like, what am I going

1595
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:33,840
Speaker 2: to talk about them with? And every single guest that

1596
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 2: we have ever had sit on this couch leaves the show,

1597
01:13:36,680 --> 01:13:40,880
Speaker 2: loving us down and fucking with us. The professionalism hunt

1598
01:13:41,120 --> 01:13:43,599
Speaker 2: because you know how many podcasts I watch and I'll

1599
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:47,760
Speaker 2: be like, this is so uncomfortable. The whole episode be uncomfortable.

1600
01:13:48,000 --> 01:13:50,440
Speaker 2: We have never had ancomfortable.

1601
01:13:50,040 --> 01:14:00,120
Speaker 1: Episode with the guests.

1602
01:14:04,479 --> 01:14:13,160
Speaker 3: Judy scream anyway, But I get what she was saying.

1603
01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:14,560
Speaker 3: I think we do a great job because if you

1604
01:14:14,600 --> 01:14:17,519
Speaker 3: watch times at the end of the song, like.

1605
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 1: The phone was over, Yeah yeah, bro Okay. So anyway,

1606
01:14:33,840 --> 01:14:34,840
Speaker 1: I just wanted.

1607
01:14:34,520 --> 01:14:38,560
Speaker 2: To clap ourselves on the back because that's something that

1608
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:42,400
Speaker 2: we're doing this year. We are going to lean into

1609
01:14:42,439 --> 01:14:45,080
Speaker 2: our strengths and not focus on our weaknesses. And I

1610
01:14:45,080 --> 01:14:47,240
Speaker 2: think that's something that we do very well as we

1611
01:14:47,240 --> 01:14:50,719
Speaker 2: make people feel comfortable. Because when you watch an episode,

1612
01:14:50,800 --> 01:14:54,639
Speaker 2: sometimes guests will sit down like New New for example,

1613
01:14:54,680 --> 01:14:56,320
Speaker 2: and try like when they first sat down, they were

1614
01:14:56,400 --> 01:14:58,320
Speaker 2: kind of like, but as the episode goes on, like

1615
01:14:58,320 --> 01:15:00,240
Speaker 2: you see them getting more comfortable, and I think that's

1616
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:04,280
Speaker 2: something that you can't you can't duplicate that, you can't

1617
01:15:04,280 --> 01:15:07,000
Speaker 2: fake that. And I think that we are really good

1618
01:15:07,000 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 2: in this space and this year, I'm really and I

1619
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:12,080
Speaker 2: want y'all to help us. The listeners too, Like make

1620
01:15:12,120 --> 01:15:14,639
Speaker 2: sure if you're watching this, you've never seen the episode, whatever,

1621
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:17,360
Speaker 2: make sure y'all subscribe, Send this to your friends, send

1622
01:15:17,360 --> 01:15:20,760
Speaker 2: it like we really like I'm focused on getting poor

1623
01:15:20,800 --> 01:15:23,599
Speaker 2: minds to the next level because I feel like it's

1624
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:26,439
Speaker 2: just it is a movement and we have come so far,

1625
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:28,280
Speaker 2: and that's how I want to start this new year

1626
01:15:28,320 --> 01:15:29,800
Speaker 2: off with a great episode.

1627
01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:35,800
Speaker 1: And I feel like we're so complex, Like we're very

1628
01:15:35,840 --> 01:15:37,599
Speaker 1: complex women. We are, and.

1629
01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,120
Speaker 2: I think that a lot of times, like with the

1630
01:15:41,160 --> 01:15:43,679
Speaker 2: clips and things that people see, they only see one side,

1631
01:15:44,240 --> 01:15:46,880
Speaker 2: and I'm excited for where the year.

1632
01:15:46,760 --> 01:15:47,880
Speaker 1: Is going to take us. So this is like the

1633
01:15:47,920 --> 01:15:50,559
Speaker 1: perfect letter, you know, to bring in the new year.

1634
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:53,439
Speaker 3: It was, it was I'm excited too. I'm excited for

1635
01:15:53,479 --> 01:15:56,640
Speaker 3: twenty twenty four. We got so much going on, we

1636
01:15:56,680 --> 01:15:58,439
Speaker 3: got so much in story, and I'm just all so

1637
01:15:58,479 --> 01:16:00,400
Speaker 3: excited for like the things that's gonna happen, and we

1638
01:16:00,439 --> 01:16:02,400
Speaker 3: don't even know this, you know.

1639
01:16:03,400 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 2: I had a conversation with you. I had a conversation

1640
01:16:05,280 --> 01:16:08,680
Speaker 2: with my best friend because like the last quarter of

1641
01:16:08,720 --> 01:16:11,000
Speaker 2: twenty twenty three was very fucking hard for me.

1642
01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:14,840
Speaker 1: It was so weird. I ain't gonna lie that last quarter, Yeah,

1643
01:16:14,880 --> 01:16:17,920
Speaker 1: I had. I had lost a couple of friends. It

1644
01:16:18,040 --> 01:16:20,800
Speaker 1: was so weird to me. No, like we stopped being

1645
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:23,240
Speaker 1: friends because of weird people just been doing weird shit

1646
01:16:23,320 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: to me lately. They just died to you, they died

1647
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:28,360
Speaker 1: to me. You know. I got out of a situation.

1648
01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:34,120
Speaker 2: It was just a lot of weird shit, and I

1649
01:16:34,240 --> 01:16:37,200
Speaker 2: just felt like usually when God gives me signs, I

1650
01:16:37,280 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 2: kind of be like, Okay, maybe it's not maybe, And

1651
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:43,280
Speaker 2: I just try to keep people around our situations that

1652
01:16:43,439 --> 01:16:46,960
Speaker 2: need to be dead. And this year. I'm listening and

1653
01:16:47,000 --> 01:16:50,160
Speaker 2: I'm paying attention because I don't know what it is, y'all.

1654
01:16:50,880 --> 01:16:51,960
Speaker 1: Something big is.

1655
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:53,800
Speaker 2: Gonna happen in twenty twenty four for us, and I

1656
01:16:53,800 --> 01:16:56,040
Speaker 2: feel it. And I've never felt that before. I've never

1657
01:16:56,080 --> 01:16:58,439
Speaker 2: been that person that's been like, oh, this is my year,

1658
01:16:58,479 --> 01:17:01,400
Speaker 2: whole ass niggas. Yeah, I'm on tak y'all, finn to see.

1659
01:17:01,600 --> 01:17:04,599
Speaker 2: I've never been that person. But I really have a

1660
01:17:04,640 --> 01:17:07,160
Speaker 2: great feeling about this year. I don't know what it is,

1661
01:17:07,280 --> 01:17:11,639
Speaker 2: but everything that God is like clearing out of my life,

1662
01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:14,000
Speaker 2: I'm been like, Okay, I'm gonna let it go. I'm

1663
01:17:14,040 --> 01:17:16,519
Speaker 2: letting everything go just to make space for whatever he's

1664
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:18,080
Speaker 2: trying to bring in. I don't know what it is,

1665
01:17:18,160 --> 01:17:22,200
Speaker 2: but I'm excited and I'm just willing to embrace it

1666
01:17:22,240 --> 01:17:24,840
Speaker 2: with open arms. And I'm just excited about everything that's

1667
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:26,160
Speaker 2: going on in my life right now. I got on

1668
01:17:26,160 --> 01:17:28,639
Speaker 2: the other side. I had like a little week two

1669
01:17:28,680 --> 01:17:31,400
Speaker 2: week depression thing. I made it out on the other

1670
01:17:31,439 --> 01:17:34,920
Speaker 2: side again. So that's something to celebrate, you know. So

1671
01:17:35,080 --> 01:17:36,519
Speaker 2: we here and we happy.

1672
01:17:36,720 --> 01:17:39,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, you just gotta let go and let God. A

1673
01:17:39,920 --> 01:17:42,080
Speaker 3: lot of the time, it's like it's cliche as that sounds.

1674
01:17:42,120 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 3: Sometimes you just got to trust that He's always a

1675
01:17:44,880 --> 01:17:47,400
Speaker 3: bigger purpose for why the things that's going on in

1676
01:17:47,479 --> 01:17:49,559
Speaker 3: your life that you don't understand is going out.

1677
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:53,400
Speaker 1: You just gotta trust his plan, God's plan.

1678
01:17:54,640 --> 01:18:05,320
Speaker 3: So, speaking of being professional though, and I always wanted

1679
01:18:05,360 --> 01:18:08,000
Speaker 3: to have my own cosmetics line, and I feel like

1680
01:18:08,040 --> 01:18:11,040
Speaker 3: I procrastinated a while on doing it, and then I

1681
01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:12,640
Speaker 3: finally was just like bucket.

1682
01:18:18,520 --> 01:18:21,759
Speaker 1: Shout out to music beauty, but doing this thing beauty

1683
01:18:21,760 --> 01:18:22,760
Speaker 1: now a year.

1684
01:18:24,000 --> 01:18:27,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, So I got my first award.

1685
01:18:27,960 --> 01:18:29,360
Speaker 1: Thanks, oh oh my god.

1686
01:18:30,120 --> 01:18:32,800
Speaker 3: First of all, I would to thank God. I thank

1687
01:18:32,880 --> 01:18:36,760
Speaker 3: my mama because without this, it wouldn't be possible. Without them,

1688
01:18:36,800 --> 01:18:40,360
Speaker 3: it wouldn't be possible for me. I thank you alike

1689
01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:45,720
Speaker 3: from Poor Minds, but this is about music. So I

1690
01:18:45,840 --> 01:18:48,840
Speaker 3: got my first awar yall from eighty five South. They

1691
01:18:48,880 --> 01:18:51,240
Speaker 3: always do like an award show every year. Lex and

1692
01:18:51,240 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 3: I actually won an award the past we want this year,

1693
01:18:54,960 --> 01:18:56,920
Speaker 3: I mean, but the two years before that we won

1694
01:18:57,000 --> 01:18:59,160
Speaker 3: an award, but this year I wont went.

1695
01:19:00,120 --> 01:19:01,000
Speaker 1: We still kind of want one.

1696
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:03,559
Speaker 3: You know, you said it wasn't for me, Okay, you

1697
01:19:03,560 --> 01:19:08,320
Speaker 3: can have some, yes, Okay. So I got the Award

1698
01:19:08,400 --> 01:19:11,920
Speaker 3: for the Most of You Black Market episode for and

1699
01:19:12,040 --> 01:19:14,559
Speaker 3: it was awarded to me and Muse Beauty for the

1700
01:19:14,600 --> 01:19:15,759
Speaker 3: twenty twenty.

1701
01:19:15,520 --> 01:19:17,559
Speaker 1: Three TRU Award period. Ain't that up?

1702
01:19:17,840 --> 01:19:20,760
Speaker 3: Like this is our first award, you know, first of

1703
01:19:20,880 --> 01:19:24,120
Speaker 3: many accolades to come. Don't play music, Beauty and and

1704
01:19:24,400 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 3: you know what, I like that because I don't like

1705
01:19:27,120 --> 01:19:30,719
Speaker 3: how people be trying to play play play with people.

1706
01:19:31,000 --> 01:19:35,439
Speaker 1: But numbers, No, I feel like numbers. Bitch the numbers.

1707
01:19:35,439 --> 01:19:37,479
Speaker 1: The numbers don't lie. Oh are you shocked that I

1708
01:19:37,520 --> 01:19:40,680
Speaker 1: got the most beauty? I'm no, I'm gone. That's what

1709
01:19:40,720 --> 01:19:43,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying. I wasn't shocked at all. No, I'm just

1710
01:19:45,040 --> 01:19:46,880
Speaker 1: love y'all. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Don't play.

1711
01:19:47,000 --> 01:19:48,600
Speaker 3: They do be trying to playing on top, but they be.

1712
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:51,240
Speaker 3: But see, this is the thing about people. Numbers don't lie.

1713
01:19:51,400 --> 01:19:53,679
Speaker 3: I don't care what people say online and stuff because

1714
01:19:53,720 --> 01:19:55,960
Speaker 3: I see what they be watching. A lot of people

1715
01:19:56,000 --> 01:19:57,960
Speaker 3: be watching, but they don't say anything.

1716
01:19:58,520 --> 01:20:01,200
Speaker 1: Check the numbers. But you still but you're still watching

1717
01:20:01,280 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 1: though you're still tuning me in. So there's that. Yeah,

1718
01:20:04,720 --> 01:20:06,559
Speaker 1: So we're gonna start this new year on a positive note.

1719
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:07,720
Speaker 1: Thank y'all. So much for tuning in.

1720
01:20:07,800 --> 01:20:11,280
Speaker 2: Make sure y'all like subscribe, comment all that good stuff

1721
01:20:11,360 --> 01:20:12,639
Speaker 2: and we'll see y'all next week.

1722
01:20:13,080 --> 01:20:20,400
Speaker 1: Y'all, you don't know what you do to me.

1723
01:20:21,320 --> 01:20:22,400
Speaker 3: Tweet me and you.

1724
01:20:22,880 --> 01:20:24,280
Speaker 1: I feel like chemistry.

1725
01:20:25,320 --> 01:20:29,320
Speaker 3: Won't Let no one come in take your place, because

1726
01:20:29,320 --> 01:20:33,519
Speaker 3: I love you give it can't be replace see no

1727
01:20:33,640 --> 01:20:34,520
Speaker 3: one else.

1728
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:37,839
Speaker 1: Let me like you do. That's why I don't mind

1729
01:20:38,040 --> 01:20:41,160
Speaker 1: to spend my life with you. I want to please

1730
01:20:41,240 --> 01:20:44,719
Speaker 1: you in any way I can. I want to share

1731
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:50,519
Speaker 1: my world. Don't you understand your love is a one

1732
01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:55,000
Speaker 1: and a million. It goes on and on and on.

1733
01:20:56,040 --> 01:21:02,800
Speaker 1: You give me a really good and laugh all day long.

1734
01:21:03,720 --> 01:21:08,439
Speaker 1: Your love is a one and a million. It goes

1735
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:10,400
Speaker 1: on and on and on.

1736
01:21:11,479 --> 01:21:18,200
Speaker 4: You give me a really good feeling all day long.

1737
01:21:18,720 --> 01:21:23,000
Speaker 1: Turn me inside out, make my heart speak. Need no

1738
01:21:23,000 --> 01:21:27,040
Speaker 1: one else Your all I need personality.

1739
01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:34,639
Speaker 3: Thing you do makes me love everything you, Your style,

1740
01:21:35,760 --> 01:21:38,240
Speaker 3: your style, it's so fly.

1741
01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:42,680
Speaker 1: I can't deny. I gotta question on you, and that

1742
01:21:42,800 --> 01:21:45,880
Speaker 1: is true indeed, and I'm digging you.

1743
01:21:45,880 --> 01:21:51,000
Speaker 4: You make me believe your love is a one and

1744
01:21:51,040 --> 01:21:56,400
Speaker 4: a million. It goes on and on and on. You

1745
01:21:56,560 --> 01:21:59,720
Speaker 4: give me a really good feeling.

1746
01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:02,840
Speaker 1: All day long.

1747
01:22:03,800 --> 01:22:08,479
Speaker 4: Your love is alone and a million it goes on

1748
01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:10,320
Speaker 4: and on and on.

1749
01:22:11,360 --> 01:22:19,600
Speaker 1: You give me a really good feeling all day long. Oh,

1750
01:22:19,960 --> 01:22:27,480
Speaker 1: give you anything you won't from me, anything you want, anything,

1751
01:22:27,080 --> 01:22:41,479
Speaker 1: anything gets out the damn oh good one. That was

1752
01:22:41,520 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 1: a good song.