WEBVTT - All Things Jenn with Starr Skylar! 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:04.720 Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. I'm Joe 0:00:04.800 --> 0:00:08.319 and I'm Serena and we are here with Star from 0:00:08.440 --> 0:00:13.800 Joey season. She's also good friends with Jen on a 0:00:13.800 --> 0:00:16.680 scale of one through ten. Star on a scale of 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:21.120 one through ten, ten being your best friend in the world. 0:00:21.400 --> 0:00:24.160 Where is Jen on that scale? Realistically? 0:00:24.280 --> 0:00:27.000 Yeah, this is just my favorite question he's been putting 0:00:27.000 --> 0:00:29.720 everyone in the Yeah, he's been asking people like what 0:00:29.720 --> 0:00:33.240 they think about us and our friendship. Like I kind 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:35.200 of like it, though, I feel like, Okay, I asked 0:00:35.200 --> 0:00:39.320 you to be like honest and realistic. Be honest, honest. 0:00:39.600 --> 0:00:42.560 You did just meet this person on Joey's season. 0:00:42.680 --> 0:00:44.320 Yeah, you've only known her for like six months. So 0:00:44.320 --> 0:00:47.360 if you say A ten, like I have a question. 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:50.240 Yeah, that's a red flag. That's a that's a red 0:00:50.240 --> 0:00:51.400 flag in the friends world. 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:52.839 It's a red flag. Okay. 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:55.800 So no, I feel like I do hold my friendships 0:00:55.840 --> 0:00:57.880 like very close to me. So the people who I 0:00:57.960 --> 0:01:01.400 say like are A ten have been there through everything. 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.039 But I can say that like Jen and I shared 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:06.600 this unique experience together that I feel like bonded us 0:01:06.640 --> 0:01:09.200 a little bit differently and we were able to kind 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:11.759 of like build that friendship after because we do live 0:01:11.800 --> 0:01:13.800 so close to each other, so she is pretty. 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:14.039 High up there. 0:01:14.080 --> 0:01:16.720 I would say ten, being like my best friend in 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:19.160 the world. I would say Jen's up there with like 0:01:19.200 --> 0:01:19.720 a Sephane eight. 0:01:20.280 --> 0:01:28.600 Okay, okay, yeah, I think that's that's that's fair. Well, 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:32.720 because you're in Florida and she's in Miami, right, what 0:01:32.800 --> 0:01:33.720 part of Florida are you in? 0:01:34.040 --> 0:01:35.840 I live in Delray Beach, so I'm only like an 0:01:35.880 --> 0:01:36.800 hour away from her. 0:01:38.120 --> 0:01:39.360 Is that where you're from? Florida? 0:01:39.480 --> 0:01:41.240 Yeah, I'm from West Palm so I just moved a 0:01:41.280 --> 0:01:42.080 little bit more so. 0:01:43.120 --> 0:01:46.920 And you are currently in Martha's Vineyard? You said, I 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:48.840 am what are you doing over there? 0:01:49.600 --> 0:01:52.559 I grew up coming here every summer, so every summer 0:01:52.600 --> 0:01:54.360 I do a little girls trip and I bring all 0:01:54.400 --> 0:01:56.840 my friends here too. She was invited, but Jen couldn't 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:58.320 make it because she's doing a lot of press right. 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:02.440 Now, but she was. I did some here and for 0:02:02.520 --> 0:02:04.680 two weeks I think. 0:02:04.080 --> 0:02:05.800 Nice, What do you you have like a family house 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:06.240 out there? 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:06.920 Mm hmm? 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:13.200 What is what is like the popular food in Martha's Vineyard? 0:02:13.320 --> 0:02:14.520 If I was going to go there, what do I 0:02:14.560 --> 0:02:15.000 have to get? 0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:16.959 I think lobster holes. 0:02:16.960 --> 0:02:18.639 Lobster roles. Yeah, that makes sense. 0:02:19.000 --> 0:02:20.800 We love it makes sense. 0:02:21.000 --> 0:02:23.679 Nice. Yeah, I wish we were by some type of 0:02:24.080 --> 0:02:26.120 it's a it's a lake, right, Martha Vaneer. 0:02:25.880 --> 0:02:27.880 Is a lake the islands. It's the ocean? 0:02:28.400 --> 0:02:29.600 Ocean? Okay, what ocean? 0:02:30.639 --> 0:02:32.760 That's not such a mean question. I can't believe you 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:37.040 just asked her that. You could have said. You could 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:39.200 have said any ocean, and Joe would have believed because 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:41.600 he doesn't know the answer either, and neither do I. 0:02:41.600 --> 0:02:42.440 I know my ocean? 0:02:42.720 --> 0:02:43.839 Really what ocean is? 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:44.000 You? 0:02:44.040 --> 0:02:44.200 Did? 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.040 You thought it was a lake surrounding Martha's vie. You're 0:02:47.040 --> 0:02:51.080 gonna tell me you know what ocean it is? 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.800 Okay? Movie? Movie gone, Moving on Star? How did you 0:02:55.840 --> 0:02:57.040 get on Joey season? 0:02:57.360 --> 0:02:57.560 So? 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:03.200 I actually my friend dominated me this season before, and 0:03:03.440 --> 0:03:05.240 I had got a phone call that season, but I 0:03:05.280 --> 0:03:07.760 had just started my job, and I was like, I 0:03:07.760 --> 0:03:09.079 don't know, Like I just don't know if like I'm 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:10.720 in that place right now. I just moved back home 0:03:10.760 --> 0:03:12.760 from school and I started my new job, and I. 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.040 Was like, I don't know. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:18.160 And then the next summer, I was like literally the 0:03:18.160 --> 0:03:20.560 most single I've ever been in my entire life, and 0:03:20.760 --> 0:03:23.960 my same friend nominated me again and I got the call. 0:03:24.000 --> 0:03:25.839 In that time, I was like, you know, there's something 0:03:25.880 --> 0:03:28.400 I really want to do, and I did and that 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:28.720 was that. 0:03:29.200 --> 0:03:33.280 Who was who was the Bachelor before Joey Zach Lacross? Okay, 0:03:33.320 --> 0:03:34.720 how do you think you would have? Do you think 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:37.800 you would have went further on Zach's season? Is he 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:40.360 who is more your type? 0:03:40.360 --> 0:03:40.960 My type? 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:46.960 I would say, Joey. I feel well, okay, physically, Joey. 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:50.240 Watching this season of Zach's I feel like I might 0:03:50.280 --> 0:03:53.080 have meshed more with him, but I feel like you 0:03:53.120 --> 0:03:55.800 honestly can't tell until like you're actually with the person 0:03:55.840 --> 0:03:57.160 and like see what the connection is. 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:58.560 So I'm not sure. 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:02.800 I feel like I agree that, yeah, very true. Would 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:04.600 you ever do Paradise if? 0:04:04.920 --> 0:04:05.200 Yeah? 0:04:05.280 --> 0:04:07.520 I definitely that was something I really wanted to do, 0:04:07.600 --> 0:04:10.320 But I did just get into a relationship, so I 0:04:10.400 --> 0:04:11.880 think it's off the tables. 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:12.760 Now, did you? 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:14.480 Wow? 0:04:14.600 --> 0:04:15.960 Congratulations? How did you guys? 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:18.280 Me? It was actually really interesting. So him and I 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:20.880 went to the same college, but I really didn't know him, 0:04:20.960 --> 0:04:23.200 and he happened to be friends with a lot of 0:04:23.240 --> 0:04:26.760 my friends boyfriends and fiances and I don't really know 0:04:26.800 --> 0:04:29.720 how we didn't cross paths, but we just didn't. And 0:04:29.960 --> 0:04:33.960 he happened to be at my friend's birthday because he's 0:04:34.000 --> 0:04:36.440 friends with her boyfriend. And then we kind of just 0:04:36.520 --> 0:04:38.560 met and hit it off and we went on a 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:40.920 date and it was kept hanging out since then. 0:04:41.760 --> 0:04:44.719 He's actually on the trip now. 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:49.960 Yesterday marked two months sixty days. 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:55.160 Okay, okay, that's that's that's pretty. 0:04:55.279 --> 0:05:00.400 I mean, we got engaged for so serious, w super 0:05:00.440 --> 0:05:01.280 serious for us. 0:05:01.400 --> 0:05:03.600 It's definitely something I was interested before there, Like I 0:05:03.960 --> 0:05:06.000 truly do believe in like the whole process and all 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.080 of that, and I had so much fun that I 0:05:08.080 --> 0:05:11.400 would do it again, but not right now. 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:14.640 You're someone that we didn't really see a whole lot 0:05:14.680 --> 0:05:16.000 of you on Joey season. 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:19.040 Yeah. No, if you listened to our podcast, there was 0:05:19.040 --> 0:05:20.760 like episodes whe were like where the heck is you? 0:05:21.279 --> 0:05:24.440 Like she shows up at the Rose ceremony, But there 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:27.880 you were. I know we were looking for you. 0:05:28.200 --> 0:05:28.560 Well you were. 0:05:28.680 --> 0:05:31.280 You were somebody who I think a lot of people 0:05:31.680 --> 0:05:34.080 and us we were like, why why are we not 0:05:34.200 --> 0:05:38.400 seeing more of her? So yeah, I don't know. Why 0:05:38.600 --> 0:05:41.520 do you think was there a connection between you and Joey. 0:05:42.120 --> 0:05:44.680 You know, from my end, I really did think that 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.400 we had a lot of fun and we had good conversations. 0:05:47.480 --> 0:05:49.880 There were a lot of things, as you guys both 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:52.960 know you were on the show, like not everything gets shown. 0:05:54.000 --> 0:05:56.839 I from my end definitely feel like there was something there, 0:05:56.960 --> 0:05:59.920 and I was kind of bummed because I did want 0:06:00.040 --> 0:06:01.479 to be able to see it back and be like, 0:06:01.800 --> 0:06:04.599 maybe like what I was thinking like wasn't actually the case. 0:06:04.640 --> 0:06:06.200 And I obviously didn't really get to see that. 0:06:07.520 --> 0:06:08.880 But at the same time, like I don't know, I 0:06:08.960 --> 0:06:11.240 kind of like went in and I was like, if 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.080 this is how I'm supposed to meet my person, and 0:06:13.080 --> 0:06:14.680 this is what's supposed to happen, this is going to 0:06:14.720 --> 0:06:17.919 be absolutely amazing. But if not, it's just an experience 0:06:17.960 --> 0:06:20.080 and that's what it was, and I'm fine with that. 0:06:20.120 --> 0:06:23.200 But I can't answer, like why the things I did 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:25.520 weren't on there. I'm not the camera man with it. 0:06:25.760 --> 0:06:28.760 Well, you're probably, honestly, you probably yeah, Like I feel 0:06:28.800 --> 0:06:32.520 like that's how I would have handled it too if 0:06:32.560 --> 0:06:36.080 I was on the show, because I do think there 0:06:36.120 --> 0:06:39.039 are people that kind of fall into like this this 0:06:39.360 --> 0:06:42.719 mid group of like you're cool with the lead, but 0:06:42.760 --> 0:06:45.560 there's not really like a super strong connection. But then 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:48.240 you're also you're also not the type of personality that's 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:49.760 going to go start drama exactly. 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:51.720 And that was the other big thing too, is like 0:06:52.200 --> 0:06:54.240 I do have my opinions and I'm not afraid to 0:06:54.240 --> 0:06:56.280 say like what I want to say, but there were 0:06:56.320 --> 0:06:58.640 a lot of things happening that I really had nothing 0:06:58.680 --> 0:07:00.440 to do with me. So I was like, you can 0:07:00.800 --> 0:07:03.040 have me like I don't know, like I could say something, 0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:05.200 but it's not going to be what I actually think 0:07:05.200 --> 0:07:07.400 because I wasn't there. I'm not that person. I'm not 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:09.680 really affected by it. Kind of was just like having 0:07:09.680 --> 0:07:11.200 a really good time, and that was that. 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:11.720 Yeah. 0:07:11.760 --> 0:07:15.440 When I when I got invited to the Mental Wall 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:18.600 on my season, uh and I was, I was. I 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.040 went home night once. I wasn't even there, and I 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:23.400 remember like just they were talking to me like, oh, yeah, 0:07:23.440 --> 0:07:26.000 you know, speak up if you have an opinion. I 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:29.239 was like, I don't have an opinion, So I literally 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:31.680 I was not there. So anything that comes out of 0:07:31.720 --> 0:07:33.520 my mouth is going to be bullshits. I'm probably just 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:37.320 not gonna say. But I kind of had the luxury 0:07:37.360 --> 0:07:38.880 of already doing paradise. 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:42.160 So they're like, okay, exactly, Yeah, it's not saying you 0:07:42.280 --> 0:07:46.080 like just sit there and like cute. Yeah, how did 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:49.720 your parents land on the name Star? And why why 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:51.200 is there two rs at the end of it? I 0:07:51.200 --> 0:07:53.720 know that's off topic, but I keep seeing Star with 0:07:53.800 --> 0:07:54.400 two rs. 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:57.440 Honestly, I don't really have like the best answer for 0:07:57.520 --> 0:08:00.320 the two rs because I'm I don't know, but I 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:02.440 think they wanted to do something a little bit different. 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:02.920 My last name. 0:08:03.000 --> 0:08:06.000 Oh, so Star is not short for anything? No, so ok, 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:06.800 I wasn't sure. 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:08.760 You think it would be short for I don't know, 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:09.120 but I. 0:08:09.080 --> 0:08:14.040 Thought maybe the two rs like lead into starfish. I 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.640 thought the two urs might be like strina, I don't know, 0:08:17.720 --> 0:08:24.040 like lead into something. Have you have you heard this 0:08:24.160 --> 0:08:28.280 trend of people saying like names of things that if 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.920 it wasn't what it is, it would be a really 0:08:30.920 --> 0:08:31.440 pretty name. 0:08:31.480 --> 0:08:31.720 Do you know what? 0:08:31.760 --> 0:08:33.480 I to talking about a technical where people are like, 0:08:34.000 --> 0:08:38.480 prescription could be like if it didn't mean like when 0:08:38.480 --> 0:08:43.240 it already meant Yeah, prescription, prescription, it's just the first 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:44.040 thing that came to buy that I. 0:08:44.040 --> 0:08:45.600 Don't Prescription does sound nice? 0:08:46.240 --> 0:08:48.360 Does it? Well, we won't be dam marriage child that so, 0:08:51.600 --> 0:08:52.960 but they just wanted something unique. 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.200 Yeah, my last name is Skyler, So I think they 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:56.880 wanted something that kind of flowed with it. 0:08:57.559 --> 0:09:00.200 They originally were on Sunshine. 0:08:59.720 --> 0:09:01.880 And I'm I'm really glad that they didn't do that 0:09:02.040 --> 0:09:04.840 to me, but I think it was too long and 0:09:05.040 --> 0:09:05.400 I don't know. 0:09:05.440 --> 0:09:07.160 They decided Star and that was. 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:18.880 That Star Skyler is cute. So you on the show, 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.880 we know that you're friends with Jen. Who else did 0:09:21.880 --> 0:09:22.920 you kind of click with? 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:23.199 Yeah? 0:09:23.280 --> 0:09:24.920 Did you guys have a group? Was there a group? 0:09:25.160 --> 0:09:28.720 I feel like in the beginning, because you're going on 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:30.800 different group dates and like you're kind of hanging out 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:32.120 in the house too, you kind. 0:09:31.920 --> 0:09:35.720 Of like start like what does that word? Like? Meshing 0:09:35.760 --> 0:09:36.760 with like the same people. 0:09:37.160 --> 0:09:39.079 But I was kind of jumping around a little bit, 0:09:39.200 --> 0:09:41.560 so like I was hanging out with Jen a lot. 0:09:41.600 --> 0:09:44.320 We got really close on the paintball date that we did. 0:09:44.679 --> 0:09:46.360 That's when I kind of was like, oh, like I 0:09:46.360 --> 0:09:48.120 think this girl's like very similar to me. I want 0:09:48.160 --> 0:09:50.960 to start hanging out with her day one. I was 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:54.079 always really cool with Edwina. She's one of my favorite people. 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.880 We talk a lot. The sisters. 0:09:56.920 --> 0:09:59.520 I love Taylor I love. I was kind of like, 0:10:00.000 --> 0:10:01.160 I feel like friendly with everyone. 0:10:01.160 --> 0:10:04.679 I talked to Kelsey a lot, both Kelsey's, but yeah, 0:10:04.720 --> 0:10:06.760 Jen was who I was kind of like vibing with 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:09.600 towards the time when I when I did end up leaving. 0:10:10.800 --> 0:10:12.680 What do you think it was that like made you 0:10:12.679 --> 0:10:13.240 guys click? 0:10:13.600 --> 0:10:15.560 It was easy at first because we both live in 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:18.040 the same place, so things were like kind of relatable 0:10:18.760 --> 0:10:19.320 to each other. 0:10:19.360 --> 0:10:22.440 But we have very similar personalities. I feel like like 0:10:22.520 --> 0:10:24.240 we meshed really well. 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.600 We've had I feel like, in the house, like you 0:10:26.720 --> 0:10:30.000 end up talking about literally everything because there's not much 0:10:30.000 --> 0:10:32.080 else to do when you're not interviewing or whatever, you 0:10:32.120 --> 0:10:35.080 just start talking. So we've had very similar like stories 0:10:35.080 --> 0:10:37.839 and situations, especially with like past relationships and things. 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:39.360 So I think we bonded in that way. 0:10:40.440 --> 0:10:43.360 And then it was just really easy after we were 0:10:43.360 --> 0:10:45.559 both home to like actually see each other outside of 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:47.000 the show too, because we live so close. 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:51.280 I'm going to ask this question. I don't want to 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:53.560 insult your current boyfriend, and if you don't want tourgue, 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:58.320 you don't have to setting this up perfectly only because 0:10:59.000 --> 0:11:01.800 you were somewhere that we was going to go on 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.440 Paradise if they were to have one. Were there any 0:11:04.440 --> 0:11:06.679 guys in vetination that you were interested in? 0:11:09.360 --> 0:11:11.240 I don't know if you would have asked me before 0:11:11.280 --> 0:11:14.680 I watched the last season of Paradise, I probably could 0:11:14.720 --> 0:11:17.400 have like pinpointed some, But then I watched this one 0:11:17.400 --> 0:11:19.960 and I was like, I didn't know that any of 0:11:19.960 --> 0:11:23.480 them were like my vibe, So fill that off the 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:24.880 top of my head, and I would have been super 0:11:24.920 --> 0:11:27.080 open to. Like, like I said before, I'm kind of 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:30.600 like really all about the actual connection. I could learn 0:11:30.640 --> 0:11:33.760 to like somebody, even if they weren't my initial like 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:35.480 what I wanted or my type whatever. 0:11:36.880 --> 0:11:40.480 So then, for Jen, when her cast got announced, obviously 0:11:40.520 --> 0:11:43.079 you weren't looking for yourself but looking through the cast 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:46.319 for her. Obviously we know that she was the show 0:11:46.440 --> 0:11:49.920 was already rapped at that point, But were you kind 0:11:49.960 --> 0:11:52.360 of picking and making your guesses on Ooh, I feel 0:11:52.400 --> 0:11:54.360 like you liked this guy or I feel like this 0:11:54.440 --> 0:11:56.920 guy is your type. Was there who were kind of 0:11:56.920 --> 0:11:59.200 like your standouts from when the cast got. 0:11:59.040 --> 0:12:01.640 Oh, I need to see like them in front of me. 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:04.840 Okay, I'm gonna look really fast, because there was definitely 0:12:04.880 --> 0:12:07.080 a couple where I was like, I feel like she 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:10.680 might like that one. And we were talking after about 0:12:10.679 --> 0:12:12.160 it too, and I was like, I really want to 0:12:12.200 --> 0:12:13.840 like watch, so I don't want to know too much, 0:12:14.160 --> 0:12:17.000 but I I want to tell you, like what I thought. 0:12:17.559 --> 0:12:19.920 Yeah, pull them up. I'm curious to hear your thoughts. 0:12:20.360 --> 0:12:23.800 Okay, right off the bat, because he's like the first 0:12:23.840 --> 0:12:25.040 one or the second one. 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:31.400 I thought that Austin might be her vibe. Okay, this one, Brian, 0:12:31.960 --> 0:12:32.480 I was. 0:12:33.400 --> 0:12:36.240 Like putting up there just because location. He lives pretty 0:12:36.240 --> 0:12:38.240 close to her and so I was like, that might 0:12:38.280 --> 0:12:39.080 make things easy. 0:12:39.800 --> 0:12:43.600 Brian, Oh, yeah, he's in he's in Florida. 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:48.000 Personally, I liked Grant. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:53.839 I don't know if then yeah, I like. 0:12:53.800 --> 0:12:55.440 You're like he's my type. I don't know if he's 0:12:55.520 --> 0:12:56.320 Jens type. 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.319 Yeah. Oh, and then I think, hold on, I'm scrolling 0:12:59.360 --> 0:12:59.760 a little bit. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:02.839 John two was another one who caught my eye because 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:05.680 he lives pretty close to and he seems like somebody 0:13:05.720 --> 0:13:06.560 she might be interested in. 0:13:06.559 --> 0:13:10.800 It's okay. Yeah, when you when you guys were filming 0:13:10.840 --> 0:13:14.360 in when you guys were filming Joey's season, was there 0:13:15.760 --> 0:13:19.160 a girl maybe it was even yourself who you guys 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:21.840 thought who the house may have thought like, oh, this 0:13:21.920 --> 0:13:24.959 person could be the next lead. Who was that? 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.320 I don't know, because for me it was it was 0:13:30.360 --> 0:13:32.600 hard because I was there pretty much in the beginning, 0:13:32.640 --> 0:13:34.320 so everyone, I feel like we were all on like 0:13:34.720 --> 0:13:37.080 the same playing field as far as like how we 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:39.080 looked at each other in the house at that time, 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:44.880 you know, watching it back, we obviously have like the 0:13:44.880 --> 0:13:47.960 big personalities like I could see Maria, I could see 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:52.280 Jen Jenna and I talked about it a lot coming off. 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:57.160 The show too. I'm trying to think of like, honestly, 0:13:57.200 --> 0:13:59.319 I would love to see like Lauren. She would be 0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:02.680 pretty interered Laura in the house. 0:14:02.800 --> 0:14:05.680 I feel like there was nobody like I wasn't really 0:14:05.720 --> 0:14:07.920 thinking about that at that time, so this was more 0:14:08.000 --> 0:14:09.400 like my thoughts after the fact. 0:14:09.840 --> 0:14:10.080 Yeah. 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:12.199 Yeah, And I feel like it's different now. Like we 0:14:12.200 --> 0:14:16.920 were watching Caylen Bristow's Lauren would be so good, don't 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:20.720 even get me started. But Caitlyn Bristow's Night One where 0:14:20.720 --> 0:14:23.440 it was between her and this other girl, Brit And 0:14:23.560 --> 0:14:27.120 at that time she was saying, you know, everyone on 0:14:27.160 --> 0:14:28.800 the cast really thought it was gonna be Brit because 0:14:28.800 --> 0:14:31.800 she really fit like this mold of what the Bacheorette 0:14:31.880 --> 0:14:33.880 usually was, but I feel like in the last few 0:14:33.960 --> 0:14:37.600 years it's deterred from that in a good way of 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:41.040 like there's every Bacheorette that we've seen is very different 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:44.400 from one another, so I feel like it becomes harder 0:14:44.400 --> 0:14:46.320 to predict who it's gonna be. 0:14:46.960 --> 0:14:49.360 Yeah, it was funny because like when we came back, 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:51.920 obviously at that point, like we weren't going to be 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.600 with Joey. We were back home, and so Gunn was like, 0:14:54.800 --> 0:14:56.320 I kind of like don't want this to be over, 0:14:56.440 --> 0:14:59.160 Like what if it was me? And then I was like, 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.240 I feel like, you know, you got a shot, and 0:15:01.280 --> 0:15:03.240 we would talk about it and it wasn't like this, 0:15:03.880 --> 0:15:06.040 like it was just something that would come up. And 0:15:06.120 --> 0:15:08.520 so when you know, I found out that it really 0:15:08.640 --> 0:15:10.240 was her, I was like, I feel like we kind 0:15:10.240 --> 0:15:12.760 of like spoke this into existence, and like I think 0:15:12.760 --> 0:15:14.400 that she's going to be an awesome leap, Like she 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:16.640 has so much energy and she has. 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.720 Like I feel like pieces of like what we said, 0:15:19.760 --> 0:15:20.080 like was. 0:15:20.000 --> 0:15:22.680 That original mold that is now forming into like what 0:15:22.760 --> 0:15:25.080 the newer seasons are like. And I feel like she's 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:28.520 going to bring a lot to the table and she's gonna. 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:29.760 What are some of Jen's qualities that you feel like 0:15:29.760 --> 0:15:34.320 you're gonna really shine through and make her a strong batcherette. 0:15:34.800 --> 0:15:37.080 She I think like the main thing is like she 0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.800 knows how to have fun and she's funny and she's 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:43.520 not like I feel like no conversation that we're gonna 0:15:43.520 --> 0:15:46.080 watch is gonna be boring. Like she can have a 0:15:46.120 --> 0:15:48.880 deep talk where she can get super personal and deep 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:50.720 and she cares about those things, and she can also 0:15:50.800 --> 0:15:53.240 switch up and have you know, your really lighthearted fun 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:57.280 talk and in all moments like it's a good conversation. 0:15:57.360 --> 0:15:59.480 Like I've never like we have sleepovers all the time. 0:15:59.520 --> 0:16:02.560 I've never once like slept over and been like he 0:16:02.680 --> 0:16:05.640 was kind of boring, Like we always just have fun. 0:16:05.680 --> 0:16:07.200 And I think that that's what she's going to bring 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:08.960 and I feel like she's going to be able to 0:16:09.000 --> 0:16:11.240 bring that out from all of the different personalities of 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:11.600 the men. 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:16.480 What would you tell her to be careful for something 0:16:16.520 --> 0:16:19.040 that you think she would because she says she's come 0:16:19.040 --> 0:16:21.280 out and say that she falls for like toxic men, 0:16:22.560 --> 0:16:24.240 So like what advice would you give her? 0:16:26.280 --> 0:16:30.760 I think like honestly to go with her gut, and 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:33.560 if her gut is telling her that toxic guy. 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:37.120 Go the other way, because I feel like, well, so 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:37.800 are you telling her? 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.840 Are you telling her to fade her gut because she 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:43.480 may not know the guy's toxic, and if her gut. 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:46.760 Is exactly So we've talked a lot about is like 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:50.720 I feel like because I've I've had similar situations too, 0:16:50.840 --> 0:16:52.640 and I feel like we resort to that because that's 0:16:52.640 --> 0:16:54.960 what we know. And so it's like, if your gut 0:16:55.040 --> 0:16:56.680 is telling you that because that's what you're used to, 0:16:57.360 --> 0:16:58.200 let's go the other way. 0:16:58.240 --> 0:16:59.840 But if it's because you know, like in your heart, 0:16:59.880 --> 0:17:00.280 you really. 0:17:00.200 --> 0:17:02.360 Do feel this way about this person, then like trust 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:04.720 it because right better than anyone else. 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:07.480 I feel like that's really good advice, Like analyze if 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:10.560 you like this person because it feels familiar, or if 0:17:11.160 --> 0:17:13.119 you just they have a really good heart, because if 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:16.480 you're just like, ooh, something feels right, it might just 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:18.879 be like, oh, this actually just feels familiar, like it 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:21.360 just feels like what I'm used to exactly. 0:17:21.480 --> 0:17:23.840 But that's easier said than done, especially when you don't 0:17:23.840 --> 0:17:25.400 have your friends to go back and talk. 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:26.399 To you exactly. 0:17:26.440 --> 0:17:30.840 It's true too, that's like that's like gambling when you're like, Okay, 0:17:29.880 --> 0:17:35.399 I always bet on, I always bet the sucker bets, 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:37.280