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Speaker 1: Michael Verie Show is on the air. When I started

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Speaker 1: in radio, I was pulled by a longtime radio inside,

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Speaker 1: And he said, you know, if you're wise, you will

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Speaker 1: hear people who have a lot of calls. It is

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Speaker 1: terrible radio. And Rush used to make fun of Alec

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Speaker 1: they let him do a radio show and fifteen seconds

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Speaker 1: into it he said, we have calls and it's a

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Speaker 1: running gag in our business that it was the biggest

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Speaker 1: flop ever. It was worse than Barack Obama's first pitch

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Speaker 2: It was, oh, you have it, Oh, here we go

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Speaker 2: when we come back. Oh we have some time. O great,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna Can we take some calls.

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Speaker 1: Whenever we want?

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Speaker 2: Do we have calls that are on?

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Speaker 1: There nown no calls yet, No calls yet, what numberdy

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Speaker 1: of people called to get on the air, and do

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Speaker 1: we have that number? It's right there, you know.

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Speaker 2: Do I have the call number in front of me?

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Speaker 1: Oh, I'm so sorry. That's interesting. Twelve ten at PhD.

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Speaker 2: Of course, any other questions you have, any other comments

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Speaker 2: you have, call us to the uh what else?

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Speaker 1: Call us? Please add.

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Speaker 2: If you don't call, we're going to keep reading from

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Speaker 2: the Scientology manual. You might not feel it. You might

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Speaker 2: not feel the energy. Right now, where have any calls

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Speaker 2: you get there? I him, no call, Let's read some

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Speaker 2: more about scientology. So I heard Rush say one time

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Speaker 1: So if you had a question, that's what we can't

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Speaker 1: Touch of those great quandaries, A million dollars or your

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Speaker 1: Okay revolved? Wow, Darcy, you're only Michael Berry show.

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Speaker 1: You remember what Chevy for.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for sharing that. Lucky you. The Michael Verry

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Speaker 1: Same era. In a Bronxtail, Sonny who's played by Chess Paulmonary,

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Speaker 1: Chad Knockingish reminded me of this story. He advises his

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Speaker 3: it's all right, I'm gonna lend you in my car

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Speaker 3: A fast cycle. What you listen to this kid for?

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Speaker 3: You give them my test? You give it a door test.

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Speaker 1: What's the door test?

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Speaker 1: Listen to me. You'll pull up right where she is.

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Speaker 3: That means she's your selfish broad and all you've seen

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what about all the beautiful things you just told me?

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Speaker 1: I mean, this could be one of the great ones. Bullet,

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Speaker 1: Caligero was played by Lillo Broncato Junior. I didn't know that.

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Speaker 7: Weird or what.

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Speaker 1: couldn't say he was my dednnist because I hadn't gone

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Speaker 1: there yet. So I went yesterday. It was pure on sedation.

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Speaker 1: It was a beautiful thing. I woke up from a

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Speaker 1: nap and I have the cleanest teeth you could ever imagine.

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Speaker 1: And their office is wonderful. The people are wonderful. So

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Speaker 1: truly endorse them now that fans Texas Center for Cosmetic Dentistry,

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Speaker 1: Guy Lewis in the woodness fantastic. From Michael's brain to

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Speaker 1: your ears. This is a Michael Berry Shows, a show

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Speaker 1: you know who's got a good girl? Who's Kenny Duncan

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Speaker 1: at US Coins. I haven't looked at what gold is today,

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Speaker 1: but I called him yesterday and I said, goals just

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Speaker 1: hit an all time high thirty one twenty five. What

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Speaker 1: in the hell, I don't know what it's done today,

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Speaker 1: but it is up callers whole time to be right

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Speaker 1: with you, and I will just say this, if you

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Speaker 1: are looking to buy or sell gold, we have had

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Speaker 1: the same gold sponsor who's also been a dear friend

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Speaker 1: of mine that same amount of time. Kenny Duncan Junior

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Speaker 1: loop seven one three four six four sixty eight sixty

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Speaker 1: eight seven one three four six four sixty eight sixty

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Speaker 1: eight or as always, you can email me and say, hey,

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Speaker 1: can you connect me with your in this case gold sponsor,

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Speaker 1: and I will forward you to him and he'll either

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Speaker 1: he himself or someone in his family will take care

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Speaker 1: of it. And that's how it always works the best.

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Speaker 1: People will say to me sometimes, Hey, I called so

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Speaker 1: and so I hadn't heard back from him. Okay, well

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Speaker 1: there's slammed. It's AC season and you haven't heard back

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Speaker 1: from him in three hours. Yeah, I just I don't

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Speaker 1: know if they're gonna call him back. You know, I

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Speaker 1: don't give a damn because I've told you the way

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Speaker 1: the drill works. You email me and say, hey, Michael,

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Speaker 1: can you connect me with your AC sponsor, whereupon one

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Speaker 1: I forward you to my AC sponsor, the head of

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Speaker 1: the company, the guy that owns it, the guy can

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Speaker 1: pull somebody off another project, says jump on this right now.

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Speaker 1: But you don't want to do that. You want to

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Speaker 1: go through the regular system because they got three hundred

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Speaker 1: people waiting to get a call back, and now you're

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Speaker 1: three oh one. I wish I could tell you're going

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Speaker 1: to get a call in two minutes. You're not. But

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Speaker 1: if you had emailed me, what would have happened romone

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Speaker 1: call in two minutes. Yeah, help me help you, or

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Speaker 1: actually don't help me, help you, But then don't complain

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Speaker 1: because I've told you the system. I've got the hook up.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to wait till number three oh one

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Speaker 1: for myself, and you shouldn't need to either, but if

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Speaker 1: you email me, because the person who's at number one,

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Speaker 1: two and three who called those might be liberals. So

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Speaker 1: I don't mind cutting you in front of the liberals.

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Speaker 1: I don't mind putting you because you share our values.

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Speaker 1: Seven one three, nine nine, nine, one thousand. Let's go

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Speaker 1: to Jeff the Builder. You're only Michael Berry show. How

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Speaker 1: did you know that moment that you knew Loan was

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Speaker 1: the one?

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Speaker 8: Well, first it was love at first sight, but then

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Speaker 8: I didn't get to meet her for about three or

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Speaker 8: four days. But what actually sealed it was I went

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Speaker 8: and brought her flowers at her office and watched her.

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Speaker 8: She was a branch manager, how she ran that office

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Speaker 8: like a little general and being an out of female

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Speaker 8: on it was incredible to me and opened my.

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Speaker 9: Eyes of what she was capable of. And then the

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Speaker 9: final arrow was when my dad and I went fishing

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Speaker 9: and she picked up a Roden reel for the first

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Speaker 9: time and just started smacking trout left and right. And

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Speaker 9: shortly after that where we got married and we're going

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Speaker 9: on almost twenty years now.

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Speaker 1: What is she Vietnamese?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 9: Yes, she is.

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Speaker 1: Oh see, they have a genetic predisposition to fishing. She

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Speaker 1: had an advantage that average girl wouldn't have.

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Speaker 9: I think so myself still beat me.

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Speaker 1: You know. One of my dreams Michael t in between

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Speaker 1: his in between semesters from in high school when he

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Speaker 1: was a senior, is he went on a three week

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Speaker 1: tour of five Asian nations and he got to take

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Speaker 1: the boat tour through the Vietnamese I've just obsessed over

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Speaker 1: Vietnam War and all the jungles and the rivers and

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Speaker 1: all this. And he got to go in the boat

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Speaker 1: boating villages where there are no roads. It's all it's

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Speaker 1: all about boat. And he knew how much that would

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Speaker 1: mean to me. So he that was you know, you

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Speaker 1: can't always get him to take photos of everything, but

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Speaker 1: he knew that was important and he filmed all of it.

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Speaker 1: And I have wanted to go so badly. I just

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Speaker 1: think that would be incredible.

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Speaker 9: Well, you got a crystal tour Gude, if.

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Speaker 1: You'd like one. There you got it. There, you got it.

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Speaker 1: Thanks Jeff to build her, Chris, how did you know?

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Speaker 1: That was that moment that one?

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Speaker 5: Oh?

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Speaker 7: I met her in high school and we've been married

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Speaker 7: ever since she was sitting at a table away for

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Speaker 7: me and me and my friend Chuck. We were just being,

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Speaker 7: you know, high school jerks, and we didn't find her

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Speaker 7: friend very attractive, so we were flicking paper at her

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Speaker 7: and get it stuck in her curly hair. At the

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Speaker 7: end of class, my wife walked over and basically just

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Speaker 7: kind of threw all the all the paper that we

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Speaker 7: had flicked at her friend and in my face, and

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Speaker 7: I thought, wow, that's some she got some moxie. So

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Speaker 7: the next day I sat at her table and got

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Speaker 7: to know her. And so after that class, she would

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Speaker 7: go to lunch and I would go to class. So

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Speaker 7: I skipped my class, went to her lunch, walked up

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Speaker 7: to her and her whole posse, and asked her out

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Speaker 7: on a date. And it was that first date when

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Speaker 7: when I just realized that I don't she's the one.

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Speaker 7: And it was in high school and we're still married

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Speaker 7: thirty five years later.

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Speaker 1: It's interesting how a moment like that can tell you

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Speaker 1: so much about someone. It's also interesting that all our

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Speaker 1: calls are men, men can tell you that was the

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Speaker 1: moment I knew she was the one. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I mean, we skew male. There's no doubt there's there's

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Speaker 1: a higher percentage of males and females, but not to

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Speaker 1: such an extent. Julian you're old on Michael Berry Show.

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Speaker 1: Go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Oh, I guess that's me, Julia. How are you?

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Speaker 5: God?

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Speaker 1: Hold on, hold, no, hold on? Are you Julie?

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Speaker 4: Yes, Julianne.

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Speaker 1: Okay, it was spelled on the screen. You know what.

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Speaker 1: I'm going to tour Santa Fe High School and I

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Speaker 1: want to meet every one of your teachers from mom.

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Speaker 1: It was spelled on the screen. J u L I

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Speaker 1: A N, which is either Julian in English or Julian

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Speaker 1: in Spanish. I know how to spell Julianne. I'm not ramon.

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Speaker 1: I'm making the point as to what he spelled.

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Speaker 6: I was looking for a girl.

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Speaker 1: I had to go with Julian because there weren't any

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Speaker 1: girls calling in. And Julian is now Julianne and now

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Speaker 1: you're making her phil androgynous. Did you really think that

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Speaker 1: was Juliane? I'm serious, that was not a joke. You

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Speaker 1: really in your mind that made all sense in world. Okay, Wait,

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Speaker 1: you can answer the calls, or you can watch your spell.

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Speaker 1: That's asking too much to spell Julianne. How about you

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Speaker 1: just in the future, Julie space and I don't care

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Speaker 1: if you put an E on the ant or not. Just

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Speaker 1: julian Anne. But anyway, all right, okay, just out of curiosity,

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Speaker 1: how do you think julian would be spelled j u

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Speaker 1: l I? Okay, Julianne, go ahead, sweetheart. Are you a

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Speaker 1: N N E or a n N?

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Speaker 4: It's just one word, A n N y thank you

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Speaker 4: to my mum.

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Speaker 1: Oh you're j U l I A N N right?

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Speaker 4: Mkay?

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Speaker 1: Isn't it more common with an E on the end?

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Speaker 1: Or am I wrong on that? I don't know. I'm

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Speaker 1: just guessing.

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Speaker 4: I think it's much more common with an E on

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Speaker 4: the end.

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Speaker 1: Do you have a mid.

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Speaker 4: No, I do not have a middle name. That's my name, okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: and now everybody will and a lot of people know,

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Speaker 4: well then who I am. But anyway, that I met

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Speaker 4: my husband in high school, he saw me actually singing

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Speaker 4: on top of the piano at our talent show, and

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Speaker 4: that we did not get married. And so what were

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Speaker 4: you singing?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 4: Don't it make my brown eyes slup?

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Speaker 3: Oh? My?

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Speaker 1: Well, of course he fell for you. That's that's like

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Speaker 1: opening a Loubi's next to an old folks home. You

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Speaker 1: can't do that. Give us a little bit of that

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Speaker 1: and then hold for us. Go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Oh I don't. I can't speak anymore.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you can't. Just yeah, just a little bit, just

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Speaker 1: to I don't know about now.

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Speaker 4: I'm totally bad to do when I can't. I really

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Speaker 4: can't think anymore.

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Speaker 1: You're going to regret.

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Speaker 6: You think he's listening, I'm he's not. He's at work.

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Speaker 1: What does he do.

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Speaker 4: He's in information technology. Now everyone knows it is