1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,080 Speaker 1: Second date of to day. When you're picking a restaurant 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 1: for a first date, what criteria do you tend to 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:12,520 Speaker 1: look for? Depends on the date? No fluorescent lighting? Yeah, 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:14,280 Speaker 1: I mean, are you looking for a place with a 5 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 1: nice atmosphere in a romantic setting? Do you look for 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: a spot that does live music and entertainment? Do you 7 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: look for someplace that has a dollar menu and toys 8 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:28,480 Speaker 1: with the meeting? Depends on the person. I saw two 9 00:00:28,520 --> 00:00:30,520 Speaker 1: seven year olds in big wheels pulling through the drive 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:34,800 Speaker 1: through the other day. Hopefully go out again. But it's 11 00:00:34,800 --> 00:00:38,080 Speaker 1: different for everybody. And one of our listeners, Matthew, sent 12 00:00:38,159 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 1: us an email asking for help, and in it he 13 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:44,279 Speaker 1: said he has a very unique and genius way of 14 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: choosing where to take his dates. So I'm excited to 15 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,640 Speaker 1: hear it, maybe learn something useful. Matthew, Welcome to the show, 16 00:00:51,760 --> 00:00:54,680 Speaker 1: my friend. Hey guys, thanks for having me. Yeah, we'll 17 00:00:54,720 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: get to your date strategy in just a second, but first, 18 00:00:57,120 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: tell us about who we're going to be calling today 19 00:00:59,160 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: and where'd you meet her. We're calling Julia and we 20 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:07,720 Speaker 1: met on the dating app Hinge. Okay, I'm not familiar 21 00:01:07,760 --> 00:01:10,640 Speaker 1: with that one. My favorite one that's your favorite. You 22 00:01:10,640 --> 00:01:13,080 Speaker 1: like it more than bumble? Okay. You can see the 23 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 1: most personality in people, It's not just pictures. Okay, how 24 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,479 Speaker 1: do you put your personality onto a dating and you 25 00:01:19,520 --> 00:01:24,120 Speaker 1: like personality? Well, I could see if they're boring. Okay, Matthew, 26 00:01:24,160 --> 00:01:26,240 Speaker 1: what do you think? Why do you like Hinge? Yeah? 27 00:01:26,240 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: Now I agree with her. That's the reason I like 28 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 1: it is because it makes you answer questions about yourself. 29 00:01:30,600 --> 00:01:32,120 Speaker 1: So you can kind of tell a lot more about 30 00:01:32,120 --> 00:01:34,400 Speaker 1: a person, I think than some of the other apps. Okay, 31 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:37,040 Speaker 1: and what could you tell about Julia? Well, one fun 32 00:01:37,160 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: thing is that they make you do three truths and 33 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: a lie. And I knew her lie right away. It 34 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: said her favorite animal was a peacock, which is nonsense. 35 00:01:47,440 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: That's nobody's favorite animal. I don't know. They're beautiful, Yeah 36 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:55,280 Speaker 1: they are beautiful, but name one person you know that's 37 00:01:55,280 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 1: their favorite animal. I don't think I question people enough 38 00:01:57,880 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: on that one. I'm not skeptical when I asked somebody, 39 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: what's your favorite animal? And the salla liar? You were right, 40 00:02:08,080 --> 00:02:11,360 Speaker 1: though Julia's Julia hates peacocks or something. It's not that 41 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:13,560 Speaker 1: she hates him, but that was her life. It was 42 00:02:13,600 --> 00:02:16,680 Speaker 1: not her favorite animal. I mean, that's a good start 43 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:18,840 Speaker 1: to your relationship if you're already able to call her 44 00:02:18,880 --> 00:02:21,520 Speaker 1: on her bs exactly. I mean, obviously you guys started 45 00:02:21,520 --> 00:02:23,320 Speaker 1: off with a good connection. What did you guys end 46 00:02:23,400 --> 00:02:25,959 Speaker 1: up doing for your date? We met at a restaurant, 47 00:02:25,960 --> 00:02:30,120 Speaker 1: at Greek restaurant to have dinner. And how did you 48 00:02:30,200 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 1: choose that place? Because you said you have a unique 49 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:36,920 Speaker 1: way of choosing. Yes, I do have a unique way 50 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: of picking a restaurant, and sadly, I think maybe this 51 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:44,920 Speaker 1: was my downfall with her. One thing I do is 52 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 1: I wait until the restaurant has experienced like a problem 53 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 1: like a public fluid, born illness or something. No, just 54 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 1: hear me out. Hear me out, Okay, I wait because 55 00:02:57,560 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: then afterward, One, the lines are always shorter for a reason. 56 00:03:02,840 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 1: Yeah right right. But two, the kitchen is going to 57 00:03:06,080 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: be immaculate and on their best behavior because they just 58 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:14,079 Speaker 1: got in trouble because you hope. But that's why restaurants 59 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 1: get shut down all the time. They get war and 60 00:03:18,560 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: then they don't follow up on the warnings, and then 61 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: they get shut down by the health department. Well, yeah, 62 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,840 Speaker 1: I don't go when they are shut down. Though, I 63 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: wait until they're cleared and reopened, and then I go, oh, yeah, 64 00:03:29,240 --> 00:03:31,919 Speaker 1: you see it, but you said it maybe your downfall. 65 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 1: Please tell me this didn't backfire for Juliet. Is there 66 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: like a big f on the front door before you 67 00:03:36,520 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: walked in from the health depart Now they had a 68 00:03:39,440 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: passing grade, which I thought was good honorable. Oh passing grade. 69 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 1: This place is not good enough. Wait, what happened? What 70 00:03:47,360 --> 00:03:51,240 Speaker 1: went wrong? Well, they brought out our entrees and then 71 00:03:51,480 --> 00:03:53,440 Speaker 1: it came up like, how did I pick this place? 72 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: Because we were having a nice time? So you told her? 73 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 1: I did? I told her, Yeah, I won't get a 74 00:03:59,320 --> 00:04:01,520 Speaker 1: restaurant that had like mice run on the food line 75 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:05,560 Speaker 1: and we didn't even get shut down to get shut down. Yeah, 76 00:04:05,640 --> 00:04:07,119 Speaker 1: did you want to know the name of that restaurant 77 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:11,560 Speaker 1: just in case the second day? Yeah, you can get 78 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:15,480 Speaker 1: that to me off the AIRNIS write it down for you. 79 00:04:16,880 --> 00:04:18,880 Speaker 1: That's a lot of information to give Julia on a 80 00:04:18,960 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: first date. You know, not only is she now scared 81 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 1: to eat the food? Had you already eaten at that 82 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,919 Speaker 1: point or had you not? We were in mid meal 83 00:04:27,240 --> 00:04:29,880 Speaker 1: when it came up, and I should have thought twice 84 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: about it. It just kind of happened naturally. Yeah, did 85 00:04:33,440 --> 00:04:40,520 Speaker 1: she stop eating? She did flow down pretty hard, yes, okay, 86 00:04:41,200 --> 00:04:43,240 Speaker 1: oh man, And then I'd just be sitting there scared, like, 87 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 1: am I going to get food? Boys, you start thinking 88 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 1: and it's not that you're cheap, because it's like the 89 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:51,279 Speaker 1: same price. Well no, actually, I mean, to be fair, 90 00:04:51,320 --> 00:04:55,000 Speaker 1: they had slashed the prices a little bit to get 91 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:59,600 Speaker 1: people in the door. Were you able to get the 92 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:03,039 Speaker 1: date back on track after revealing that to her? I 93 00:05:03,080 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 1: mean we changed the subject and I thought we had 94 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:07,719 Speaker 1: a good time. But at the end of the night, 95 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:09,560 Speaker 1: she got into her uber and she kind of wept 96 00:05:09,600 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: in a hurry. Yeah. I mean you could see where 97 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 1: that'd be a red flag. I mean, you obviously know that. 98 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 1: Maybe you shouldn't have brought that up on the first date. 99 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:19,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess so. But we did have immaculate 100 00:05:19,720 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 1: and exceptional service. We had like three waiters at our 101 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:24,960 Speaker 1: table basically the whole time. There was nothing else for 102 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,000 Speaker 1: them to do. They had nothing to do. Yeah, no 103 00:05:28,040 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: one else was there. There may be a reason, Yeah, 104 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:34,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. It could be something else. So that's 105 00:05:34,839 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: what I was calling you, guys. I was hoping we 106 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:38,599 Speaker 1: could find it out and maybe you guys could help 107 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: me get an answer from her. I feel like this 108 00:05:40,800 --> 00:05:44,040 Speaker 1: is more of a health and welfare check. Yeah, who knows. 109 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: She may have gotten something and that's why she left. 110 00:05:46,920 --> 00:05:48,280 Speaker 1: Are you guys going to be shocked? And we call 111 00:05:48,320 --> 00:05:50,640 Speaker 1: her and she's like, oh, I loved the chief discounted 112 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 1: Greek food. That wasn't it at all. I'm going to 113 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: be shocked. We'll find out. Let's play a song, we'll 114 00:05:54,960 --> 00:05:57,080 Speaker 1: come back, We'll call Julia for you, and we'll try 115 00:05:57,120 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: and get your second date update. All right, great, thank 116 00:05:59,080 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 1: you so much. Good. Hold on, if you go to 117 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: a restaurant and you see a little sign up in 118 00:06:06,760 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: the window giving it a D rating, remember that D 119 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:16,640 Speaker 1: stands for Date Worthy Boys Diploma too. That's right, you're 120 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 1: going to pass. At least it does for one of 121 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: our listeners, Matthew. He recently went up with a woman 122 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:23,440 Speaker 1: named Julia and took her out for dinner, and in 123 00:06:23,480 --> 00:06:25,919 Speaker 1: the middle of the meal, he told her about his 124 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: unique method for choosing where to eat. He purposely seeks 125 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: out places that have been shut down recently for health violations, 126 00:06:34,600 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 1: because when they reopen, they have no weight time. The 127 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: chefs in the kitchen are on their best behavior, and 128 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: the food is sometimes even offered at a discount. Yeah, 129 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:49,320 Speaker 1: after sharing all that information with Julia, she kind of 130 00:06:49,360 --> 00:06:53,560 Speaker 1: lost her appetite and ended up leaving shortly afterwards. So 131 00:06:53,600 --> 00:06:56,400 Speaker 1: now he's reached out to us asking for help. And 132 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 1: I'm wondering, Matthew, did you ask our morning chauffeur help 133 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: because we have a D safety rating and we just reopened. Well, 134 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:07,160 Speaker 1: you guys did say that D stands for diploma but 135 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: also for delicious. Right, Okay, there we go. But you know, 136 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 1: I actually think that this could work out for you 137 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,960 Speaker 1: because we are her security blanket, because we will give 138 00:07:17,000 --> 00:07:19,920 Speaker 1: you guys a date at a restaurant that has a 139 00:07:19,960 --> 00:07:22,760 Speaker 1: good rating with the health department at the end of this. 140 00:07:22,880 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 1: You can't say no to that. Oh I thought you 141 00:07:24,760 --> 00:07:26,480 Speaker 1: guys were giving gift cards and I could use it 142 00:07:26,480 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 1: at any place that I wanted to. No, man, definitely 143 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:34,000 Speaker 1: not for you. Stop going to ye I'm sure we 144 00:07:34,000 --> 00:07:35,880 Speaker 1: can find a spot that was recently shut down and 145 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:40,559 Speaker 1: get you if you really want to help our Look, guys, 146 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,360 Speaker 1: it's just it's just a mild case of giardia. It's fine, Yeah, 147 00:07:44,400 --> 00:07:46,800 Speaker 1: all right, so you're ready to do this. Matthew about 148 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,600 Speaker 1: to dial Julia's phone number. Sounds great, let's go. Okay, 149 00:07:49,720 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 1: let's do it. Hello. Hi, I'm looking for Julia. Yeah, 150 00:08:01,320 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: this is she? All right? All right, good, nice and healthy. 151 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: My name's Jeffrey. I'm calling from the radio show Brooke 152 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning. How are you doing today? Oh? Um, well, 153 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 1: you know I'm good. But you said your radio station show. Yeah, 154 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 1: well we are the station. Let's be honest. I like 155 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: that confidence, Jeffrey. Yeah. But we do a segment on 156 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 1: our show called the Second Date Update. Have you ever 157 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: heard of that before? You know? I now that I 158 00:08:33,520 --> 00:08:35,560 Speaker 1: think of it, I have a friend I think who 159 00:08:35,559 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: likes those segments. Um. So somebody emailed us after they 160 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 1: went out with you. His name's Matthew. Uh, yeah, I 161 00:08:44,440 --> 00:08:50,000 Speaker 1: know who he is. Okay, what was that? Well, Matthew 162 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,160 Speaker 1: told us a little bit about your date together, and 163 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 1: he admits that he may have made a couple mistakes 164 00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:58,200 Speaker 1: just about the possible samonilla that you may have gotten 165 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: from the restaurant. I mean, what Brooks talking about is 166 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,839 Speaker 1: that he shared with us his strategy for choosing a restaurant, 167 00:09:04,960 --> 00:09:06,800 Speaker 1: and he said, he told you about it during the 168 00:09:06,880 --> 00:09:08,800 Speaker 1: date too, where he's trying to pick out places that 169 00:09:08,800 --> 00:09:12,439 Speaker 1: have recently been shut down for health violations. Oh yeah, yeah, 170 00:09:12,520 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: he told me about that. And you know, the thing 171 00:09:14,440 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 1: about it was the timing he picked to tell me. 172 00:09:16,440 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: It was like when our entrees came out and we 173 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: were in the middle of eating on food. If later, 174 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:28,440 Speaker 1: I think, I think he just felt connected to you, though, 175 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: and he wanted to share and be one hundred percent 176 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,400 Speaker 1: honest with you, and you have a nice moment, Jeff. 177 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: Not everything he's shared. I mean, he knows that it 178 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,400 Speaker 1: was a mistake. That's the thing, Julie. He knows he 179 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,280 Speaker 1: shouldn't have told you. He feels like that he does 180 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: this often and it's a very safe practice according to him. 181 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,400 Speaker 1: I mean, do you really think it was a mistake, 182 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,160 Speaker 1: because I got the feeling that this was not going 183 00:09:50,200 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 1: to be the last time he did that. It might 184 00:09:54,200 --> 00:09:56,040 Speaker 1: be the last time he does it if you end 185 00:09:56,120 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 1: up together. Oh no, I don't think so. I mean, 186 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: you can appreciate a man. You can appreciate a man 187 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 1: who's good with money. He thinks these things through. He 188 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 1: has a plan, like it may not be the best 189 00:10:09,080 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 1: plan but at least he has a plan. Yeah. I 190 00:10:12,760 --> 00:10:16,000 Speaker 1: mean he's alive, he's healthy. No, but he doesn't drink 191 00:10:16,000 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 1: at these places. When he said that, in the middle 192 00:10:18,559 --> 00:10:20,720 Speaker 1: of the meal, when our entres came out, it all 193 00:10:20,840 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: made sense, like it all clicked because before when we 194 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: sat down, he brought out his own silverware, and he 195 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:30,160 Speaker 1: brought out his own little juice box and a travel 196 00:10:30,240 --> 00:10:32,760 Speaker 1: cup and I was like yes, And I was like, 197 00:10:32,840 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: what is all of this? And every time I asked 198 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: about this weird stuff that he was bringing that he 199 00:10:39,559 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: didn't bring any for me, he was like, Oh, it's 200 00:10:42,840 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: just this thing I do. Don't worry about it. That's 201 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 1: why he brought his own set of silverware and didn't 202 00:10:51,480 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: have anything for you. No. And then the entrees came 203 00:10:55,800 --> 00:10:58,120 Speaker 1: out and he was like, oh, the food is really good, 204 00:10:58,160 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 1: don't you think And I was like, yeah, I guess 205 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: it's okay, it's fine. And that's what he told me 206 00:11:02,640 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: how he picked the restaurant. Oh my gosh, that's weird man. 207 00:11:08,840 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: So was there anything redeeming about him or was that 208 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: just too much? No? It got worse. At the end 209 00:11:14,920 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: of the meal when we were wrapping things up. He says, 210 00:11:17,720 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 1: you know, I really liked this place. I want to 211 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,839 Speaker 1: keep the cross down. And he holds out this fake 212 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:27,120 Speaker 1: plastic cockroach from his jack hip pocket and he says, 213 00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: will you go into the kitchen and slip it into 214 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:32,640 Speaker 1: some of the food without the cook noticing and take 215 00:11:32,720 --> 00:11:39,160 Speaker 1: a picture. Oh my gosh, it's got to be something. 216 00:11:39,200 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 1: They're trying to have a little bit of fun. What 217 00:11:40,679 --> 00:11:42,400 Speaker 1: are you gonna do just walk into the back of 218 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:45,200 Speaker 1: a kitchen at a restaurant? Look the other way, please, 219 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:47,040 Speaker 1: I gotta slip this in and get a picture of 220 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:54,160 Speaker 1: it behind you. You think he was being serious? Yeah, 221 00:11:54,240 --> 00:11:56,559 Speaker 1: I think he was serious because he went on to say, 222 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,400 Speaker 1: you know, I'll destruct the chef and tell him it 223 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: was an amazing meal while you do it. I just 224 00:12:02,880 --> 00:12:04,599 Speaker 1: can't get over the fact if someone would have the 225 00:12:04,640 --> 00:12:10,960 Speaker 1: audacity to just walk into a restaurant kitchen, just maybe 226 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:13,040 Speaker 1: all those restaurants that have been shut down over the 227 00:12:13,120 --> 00:12:18,320 Speaker 1: years was because of Matthew, seriously just leaving these plants around. 228 00:12:19,480 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: Oh my god, man, I need to know whether or 229 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 1: not he was being serious, And Julia, we have a 230 00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:26,640 Speaker 1: way to find out, because I need to let you 231 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: know Matthew's on the other line. Listening. He wants to 232 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:33,600 Speaker 1: talk to you. Oh my god, no, cockroach boy? You there, 233 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 1: I'm here. What's going on? Well, if you want to 234 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:40,120 Speaker 1: keep the lines down and the prices down, it couldn't 235 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:46,800 Speaker 1: hurt to snaff a quick photo. Hurt. Okay, I'm just joking. 236 00:12:46,840 --> 00:12:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm not serious. I'm joke with her. I'm 237 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: joking with you, Funny. Your timing needs some work because 238 00:12:53,600 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: I am not able to get a read on you. 239 00:12:55,520 --> 00:12:57,160 Speaker 1: What are you doing just walking around with a fake 240 00:12:57,200 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: cockroach in your coat? Ready for the joe ook at 241 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: all times? No, it's in my jacket all right. And 242 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:08,400 Speaker 1: I don't understand why you bring silverware for yourself but 243 00:13:08,480 --> 00:13:10,959 Speaker 1: you don't bring it for her. Well, I told her 244 00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:15,120 Speaker 1: I was quirky. I particularly like that silverware. It's more 245 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:18,520 Speaker 1: contoured to fit my hand. I will say, A good 246 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: fork in the hand feels so nice. I mean, Julia, Julia. 247 00:13:22,040 --> 00:13:25,959 Speaker 1: Wait wait, I'm not joking, Julian. Things taste better when 248 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: they're off of certain material. Do you agree with that? 249 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:32,280 Speaker 1: I'm not you seriously don't think it was because the 250 00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: place got shut down and that's why he wanted to 251 00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: bring his own capella. You You're not gonna get sick 252 00:13:39,440 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: from the utensils. You're gonna get sick from the food. 253 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 1: I mean, everybody knows that. Don't trust Brooks. She brings 254 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 1: in like old cabbage and crawfish salad. Nothing's saying. I 255 00:13:47,960 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: get what he's saying, and I don't think that's a 256 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:52,920 Speaker 1: reason to hate on him, Julia. You know what, even 257 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: if it was a joke, like I don't want that 258 00:13:55,160 --> 00:13:56,840 Speaker 1: to be a first date, I felt like I was 259 00:13:56,920 --> 00:14:00,600 Speaker 1: being punked if he wasn't being serious. Yeah, I agree, Matthew, 260 00:14:00,640 --> 00:14:02,679 Speaker 1: I think you've really put yourself in a hole here. 261 00:14:02,880 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: You need to talk to Julia and try and dig 262 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:08,240 Speaker 1: yourself out. All right, Well, I'm really sorry. I didn't 263 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:10,320 Speaker 1: mean to like ruin our first date. I thought, other 264 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: than the cockroach bit, we had a pretty nice time, true. 265 00:14:16,280 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: I mean it was a weird date, and I mean 266 00:14:19,040 --> 00:14:22,800 Speaker 1: he's an okay conversationalist, he's got a funny sense of humor. 267 00:14:22,840 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: But it was just too weird. Yeah. Yeah, but weird 268 00:14:25,560 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: isn't always bad. I'm just saying weird can be good. Like, 269 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,680 Speaker 1: if you give weird another chance, maybe weird grows on you. 270 00:14:33,000 --> 00:14:34,320 Speaker 1: I mean, as long as you go out on a 271 00:14:34,400 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 1: date with somebody and they're not sniffing their fingers. That's 272 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:42,520 Speaker 1: a good thing. I agree with Jeffrey on that one. 273 00:14:42,640 --> 00:14:47,840 Speaker 1: That's right. What else do you guys need for me? 274 00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,840 Speaker 1: At this point? I need to ask you something, Julia, 275 00:14:51,840 --> 00:14:53,920 Speaker 1: and that's would you be willing to go out on 276 00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:56,680 Speaker 1: one more date with Matthew. We will pay for it, 277 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:58,920 Speaker 1: and we'll make sure that it's out of place that 278 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: has at least a B rating or higher, and will 279 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:06,320 Speaker 1: make sure they have nice silverwear for you. Honestly, I 280 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,560 Speaker 1: think because of everything he did, you guys should just 281 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: give me the gift card so I don't have to 282 00:15:10,680 --> 00:15:12,960 Speaker 1: watch him bring his own silverwear and everything. You know, 283 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:16,960 Speaker 1: you just you just haven't had the right spoon. Once 284 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:20,240 Speaker 1: you have the right spoon, you'll understand what Matthew's talking 285 00:15:20,280 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 1: about getting old. Tell you something. I had the sweetest 286 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 1: knife in my hand. So Matthew, man, I'm sorry it 287 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,720 Speaker 1: sounds like she's not interested in seeing you again. I 288 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:43,480 Speaker 1: could bring you silverware. No, I don't think it matters. 289 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:47,080 Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the morning,