1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,080 Speaker 1: Beck, You're ready. I'm ready, Tan, You're ready. 2 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 2: Ready. Here we go scrubbing in with Becca tilly An 3 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:06,840 Speaker 2: iHeartRadio podcast. 4 00:00:10,360 --> 00:00:13,319 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, we are back in action. Thank you? 5 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:17,159 Speaker 3: It really. I know I say this every time, but 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,440 Speaker 3: this week is felt longer than a week because I 7 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:21,799 Speaker 3: haven't even talked to you this week. 8 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:22,560 Speaker 2: That's right. 9 00:00:23,560 --> 00:00:25,959 Speaker 3: Well, since I don't know, like Thursday or something, we 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 3: haven't talked. 11 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:31,480 Speaker 4: That's Friday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sun, that's five days. 12 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:33,239 Speaker 3: Yeah, how do you feel about it? 13 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 2: I usually talk to you all day every day. 14 00:00:36,240 --> 00:00:39,760 Speaker 3: I know. How how was it not having me awful? 15 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:44,559 Speaker 2: I did a little experiment. I like to do this. 16 00:00:44,600 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 4: I think I've done this one other time with you, 17 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,400 Speaker 4: where I feel like and I self admittedly I'm a 18 00:00:50,400 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 4: needy friend, and I like, I'm always in wanting to 19 00:00:54,360 --> 00:00:55,920 Speaker 4: hang out, and I always am like, oh, I want 20 00:00:55,920 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 4: to go, sweat, I want to go, do want to 21 00:00:57,200 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 4: you know what I mean? Throwing out the things and 22 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:01,400 Speaker 4: I go. If I don't take Beeca, I wonder how 23 00:01:01,400 --> 00:01:05,560 Speaker 4: long it's gonna be till she till she asks to 24 00:01:05,600 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 4: hang out with me. 25 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,640 Speaker 2: So day goes by, and I was like, that's weird. 26 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:09,880 Speaker 2: Din't talked about all day and I. 27 00:01:09,840 --> 00:01:12,679 Speaker 4: Was like, hmmm, let's see how Let's just see if 28 00:01:12,720 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 4: she wants to hang out with me. The whole weekend 29 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:18,759 Speaker 4: goes by, not up peep. I was like, wow, all right, yeah, 30 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:19,760 Speaker 4: point proven. 31 00:01:19,800 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 3: You're a player in the game. I created the game. 32 00:01:26,760 --> 00:01:28,800 Speaker 2: So I really don't know, like what's going on in 33 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: your life? So can you catch us all up on 34 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:31,880 Speaker 2: what's going on? 35 00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,160 Speaker 3: There's not a whole lot to catch up on. Okay, 36 00:01:34,319 --> 00:01:38,759 Speaker 3: there's been some interesting things, but okay, mostly I started 37 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 3: watching the show Dexter, and it's all I want to do. 38 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 3: I don't want to hang out with anyone. All I 39 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:48,200 Speaker 3: want to do is hang around Dexter, my sisters and Phoebe. 40 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:52,400 Speaker 3: I know it's harsh and it's but it's not like 41 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 3: I'm excluding anyone else, Like, It's just that's the mental 42 00:01:55,720 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 3: place I'm in. I feel like I'm a little bit 43 00:01:57,760 --> 00:01:59,600 Speaker 3: like Dexter minus the murdery thing. 44 00:01:59,760 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 5: Do you like Dexter or not like Dexter? Which was 45 00:02:03,160 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 5: the whole like conundrum I had the entire time. I 46 00:02:07,040 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 5: watched every episode, and I'm like, I love the murderer. 47 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 3: I love Dexter, but I think I love him because 48 00:02:13,800 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: I kind of get I'm not as like empty on 49 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,960 Speaker 3: the inside as he is, but like you know, he's not. 50 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,519 Speaker 3: He doesn't get emotional about anything, and I'm like, I relate. 51 00:02:23,240 --> 00:02:25,960 Speaker 1: To that, which is why you don't text Tanya and 52 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: try to hang out, it seems to me, And I 53 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 1: guess this is in Becka's defense, that this is kind 54 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: of how she is with everybody exactly, because nothing personal 55 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: against you guys, friends, maybe even family. 56 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:41,519 Speaker 3: Like I'm pretty good with my family, Like my sisters 57 00:02:41,560 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 3: live with me, so like they're the same. 58 00:02:43,560 --> 00:02:45,520 Speaker 1: If they didn't, would you text them and say, hey, 59 00:02:45,560 --> 00:02:46,000 Speaker 1: how are you? 60 00:02:46,560 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but I worry about them. I think of them 61 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:52,320 Speaker 3: as like I worry about them. I could see what 62 00:02:52,360 --> 00:02:54,520 Speaker 3: she was. I like, know what you did all weekend. 63 00:02:54,600 --> 00:02:57,480 Speaker 3: You had a birthday celebration, you hung out with Paulina 64 00:02:57,520 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 3: and Sophia, you had a charity walk thing. Yeah, I 65 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 3: know everything. We don't have to catch up. 66 00:03:04,840 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, because you don't know what was going on 67 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:07,640 Speaker 2: behind the scenes. 68 00:03:08,639 --> 00:03:12,760 Speaker 3: Well, but you only post exciting things on social media. 69 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 2: But high potential potential love interest. 70 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:17,560 Speaker 3: Well fill me in. This makes the podcast that much 71 00:03:17,600 --> 00:03:19,720 Speaker 3: more fun. We get to catch it up everyone feels 72 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:20,639 Speaker 3: like they're catching up with it. 73 00:03:20,760 --> 00:03:22,800 Speaker 1: This is why Ryan and Kelly don't talk before the 74 00:03:22,840 --> 00:03:24,640 Speaker 1: show so they can have it all happened live on 75 00:03:24,680 --> 00:03:25,000 Speaker 1: the air. 76 00:03:25,240 --> 00:03:28,640 Speaker 3: I love that I speaking and playing games. I was like, 77 00:03:28,680 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 3: I'm not gonna text her. We'll catch up on a 78 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:33,359 Speaker 3: podcast to day and get all out of the way there. 79 00:03:33,680 --> 00:03:37,520 Speaker 2: Get out of the way, Get it out of the way. 80 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:42,680 Speaker 3: You know what I mean. Well, Also, I downloaded Bumble 81 00:03:42,720 --> 00:03:43,880 Speaker 3: again because I got bored. 82 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 2: I'm on the league. 83 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, everyone was saying the league. I tried the league 84 00:03:48,840 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 3: like a while back, and it. 85 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: Just was like you didn't like it. 86 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 3: You get like three choices and then you're done. 87 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:54,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, you get like six a day. 88 00:03:55,520 --> 00:03:57,400 Speaker 4: This is the sad thing is it's like almost like 89 00:03:57,760 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 4: Hunger Games, where like they it's like six come every. 90 00:04:00,240 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 2: Day at like five pm or something. It's so weird. 91 00:04:05,280 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: Wait, so I downloaded Bumble. No why I swiped I 92 00:04:08,320 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 3: swiped left like probably seventy five times, did not swipe 93 00:04:13,280 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 3: right one time. I was like, I'm done with this, 94 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:15,800 Speaker 3: deleted it. 95 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 2: Oh wow, I don't. 96 00:04:19,680 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 3: I don't last along on these things. I'm very I 97 00:04:22,320 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 3: like instant sat is. What is gratification education? So then 98 00:04:26,320 --> 00:04:28,719 Speaker 3: everyone was like, try Hinge, which I tried Hande along time. 99 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 3: This is not an ad, by the way, I tried 100 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 3: Hane a long time ago, and it's like the same thing. 101 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,280 Speaker 3: So I was like, no, I'm not interested. Well then 102 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 3: a few more people said it, so I downloaded it. 103 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:41,440 Speaker 3: And it's a very detailed process, like you put your religion, 104 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,400 Speaker 3: do you drink often, do you smoke? Like all this stuff, 105 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 3: so you're kind of match with people who maybe have 106 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:49,839 Speaker 3: the same interests and kind of the important things. And 107 00:04:49,880 --> 00:04:53,039 Speaker 3: then I matched with like a bunch of guys and 108 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:56,839 Speaker 3: then I just got bored and deleted, Oh my. 109 00:04:56,400 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: God, this is an ad. You didn't have be and 110 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:01,640 Speaker 1: say that I forgot that. 111 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:05,320 Speaker 3: That's how it ended, I honestly, and this is me 112 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:08,839 Speaker 3: being very vulnerable. I feel like I really miss Robert 113 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 3: this week, and I was like, compare every guy. I 114 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 3: was like, ah, like you know, it's like that comparison thing. 115 00:05:14,440 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, so. 116 00:05:16,720 --> 00:05:20,640 Speaker 3: That's that I didn't have any like there's no I'm sad. 117 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 2: Why don't you tell me this. 118 00:05:22,720 --> 00:05:25,080 Speaker 3: Because it just like I watched Dexter and I got 119 00:05:25,120 --> 00:05:26,600 Speaker 3: over it. 120 00:05:26,600 --> 00:05:31,120 Speaker 2: It's so sad, Like essentially, it's like there's so many 121 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 2: things wrong with this. 122 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 4: What First of all, you would rather lean on a 123 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:39,520 Speaker 4: TV show than a friend. 124 00:05:39,680 --> 00:05:41,800 Speaker 3: It's not leaning on a TV show. It's like it 125 00:05:41,880 --> 00:05:45,440 Speaker 3: cleared my mind, it like distracted me. I didn't I 126 00:05:45,480 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 3: didn't feel like, oh I need to talk this out 127 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: with someone. It was just like I get that feeling 128 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,000 Speaker 3: every now and you miss me at all. Yeah, But 129 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 3: like I was kind of like, I'm not friends, so 130 00:05:56,120 --> 00:05:59,680 Speaker 3: I'm like, do your thing, Like if you want to 131 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 3: hang out, you'll text me. 132 00:06:02,320 --> 00:06:04,600 Speaker 2: Clearly, three hundred and sixty five days of the year. 133 00:06:04,640 --> 00:06:07,080 Speaker 2: That's what I'm doing. Just what I have to just 134 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 2: own up to it, I know. 135 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,920 Speaker 3: But I was gonna send out like an Instagram story 136 00:06:10,920 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 3: today and just say to all my friends, I'm not 137 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:18,159 Speaker 3: being distant or ignoring you. I'm watching Dexter and until 138 00:06:18,200 --> 00:06:21,559 Speaker 3: I'm done with all how many seasons are there? Five? 139 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: Six, eight seasons of Dexter? 140 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 4: Oh my gosh. That's yeah. 141 00:06:27,240 --> 00:06:30,400 Speaker 3: It's like you catching up on Gray's minus a few seasons. Yeah, 142 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 3: but you remember how like you just couldn't wait to 143 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:34,279 Speaker 3: go and watch and see what your friends were doing. 144 00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:37,160 Speaker 2: Of course, but I was still social with my friends. 145 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 3: Not really. You went to work and me. I feel 146 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:40,400 Speaker 3: like you went home and watch Grace. 147 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 2: I still talk to you. 148 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:44,360 Speaker 3: I'm to talk. 149 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 2: I can't with this. 150 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,160 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this, Becca, Okay, Let's say you 151 00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:51,040 Speaker 1: didn't do a podcast together and time to decide to 152 00:06:51,080 --> 00:06:53,240 Speaker 1: see how long before she heard from you? Would she 153 00:06:53,279 --> 00:06:54,159 Speaker 1: ever hear from you again? 154 00:06:54,320 --> 00:06:54,480 Speaker 3: Yes? 155 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: Or with this friendship simply whole? 156 00:06:58,400 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 3: Or I just know I was gonna see her when 157 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 3: we were going to rehash is this thing okay? And 158 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:04,039 Speaker 3: I thought it would be like it was gonna be 159 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,880 Speaker 3: a thing that we talked about the fact that I 160 00:07:05,960 --> 00:07:08,360 Speaker 3: didn't text her and she was like trying to play 161 00:07:08,400 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: games with me. 162 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: While we're on the subject, Actually, Jennifer has a question okay. 163 00:07:12,480 --> 00:07:15,560 Speaker 1: She says, first of all, hey, fam, this podcast is 164 00:07:15,600 --> 00:07:16,240 Speaker 1: hands down my. 165 00:07:16,280 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 3: Favor Oh thanks. 166 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 1: I want to tell Beca, You're not crazy when it 167 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 1: comes to guys in relationships. I'm twenty six, most of 168 00:07:22,200 --> 00:07:24,600 Speaker 1: my friends are married, and I truly have zero desire 169 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 1: to date or even get married at this point. I'm 170 00:07:27,080 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 1: open to meeting a guy one day that changes that, 171 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,040 Speaker 1: but I currently don't even care to try because I 172 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: like my single life. You are not alone in your 173 00:07:33,240 --> 00:07:37,000 Speaker 1: dating apathy. Keep doing you wo That being said, I 174 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 1: don't have a relationship question. My question is for the 175 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:42,400 Speaker 1: both of you, when and how did y'all meet? Were 176 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:45,040 Speaker 1: y'all instantly best friends or did it take some time? 177 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:46,880 Speaker 1: Xoxo Jennifer. 178 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:49,800 Speaker 3: This is a great topic. Jennifer, thank you first of 179 00:07:49,800 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 3: all for saying that. Thank you for encouraging me in 180 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:57,720 Speaker 3: my non dating adventures and my antisocial No, she didn't 181 00:07:57,760 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 3: say that, she just. 182 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:00,400 Speaker 2: Didn't have it is true, though, like there is. 183 00:08:00,480 --> 00:08:03,880 Speaker 4: I do think that everybody fits into one of each 184 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:07,160 Speaker 4: of these categories, you know, like you're either like just 185 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:10,000 Speaker 4: one helpless, romantics by heart. 186 00:08:09,960 --> 00:08:16,320 Speaker 3: Or just whatever. I do want to get married. I'm 187 00:08:16,440 --> 00:08:18,840 Speaker 3: just not in a place where I'm like desperate to 188 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 3: get there. But like I'm not someone that's like I 189 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:22,440 Speaker 3: don't want to get married, you know, I'm just kind 190 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 3: of like I'm not in a rush. Clearly, I deleted 191 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:31,480 Speaker 3: apps within. I did last on Hinge like a day longer, 192 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:33,400 Speaker 3: like it was like a day i'd match had some 193 00:08:34,080 --> 00:08:38,440 Speaker 3: riveting conversations. Wow, no they weren't. And then I just 194 00:08:38,559 --> 00:08:40,160 Speaker 3: was like, this is terrible that it's. 195 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,800 Speaker 2: Funny that was talk I did get on the league. 196 00:08:42,800 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: I think it was yesterday. 197 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:45,200 Speaker 4: I downloaded it because I was like, I'm only on 198 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 4: one dating app, let's bump up that number two. 199 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, I could not have both at the 200 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,880 Speaker 3: same time, Like one was enough trying I'd get And 201 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 3: the worst part is I turned my notifications on and 202 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:58,960 Speaker 3: I was like, this is awful. Just like I thought 203 00:08:58,960 --> 00:09:02,160 Speaker 3: I was getting like vital information. It would be like 204 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 3: I had something about Olive Garden on my profile, of course, 205 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 3: and one guy's like, I actually don't like Olive Garden, 206 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:14,120 Speaker 3: and I'm like, you're done. It's like I clearly we're 207 00:09:14,160 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 3: not interested in me because you just made the worst 208 00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:20,160 Speaker 3: mistake ever. Oh yeah, So. 209 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:20,360 Speaker 1: So how did you meet? 210 00:09:21,240 --> 00:09:25,839 Speaker 3: Oh? Actually so I met Amy and Tanya actually the 211 00:09:25,880 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 3: same night, and we were in Vegas for the iHeart 212 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,320 Speaker 3: Summer Pool party, and I was there with Robert and 213 00:09:31,360 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 3: then our other friend Zach, and I actually feel like 214 00:09:35,120 --> 00:09:37,360 Speaker 3: Robert told Amy that he was bringing a girl from 215 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 3: the Bachelor, and she was like, oh, why are you 216 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 3: even wasting your time? These girls are so lame. I 217 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 3: didn't quite say that a similar vibe. I was like, 218 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 3: who is this girl? Yeah? She was like not thrilled 219 00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 3: about about you? 220 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 4: Now? 221 00:09:50,920 --> 00:09:52,720 Speaker 5: But then I heard you were at number two, so 222 00:09:52,800 --> 00:09:56,800 Speaker 5: I was I perked up a bit. I was like, oh, 223 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 5: number two, I'm pretty good. 224 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:01,559 Speaker 2: I remember I was excited to. 225 00:10:01,559 --> 00:10:05,480 Speaker 5: Actually seventeen, I was like, uh, don't waste my time 226 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 5: with us seventeen. 227 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:08,800 Speaker 3: She saw the potential. 228 00:10:10,160 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 4: Because you were friends with a friend of mine, Crystal, 229 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:18,680 Speaker 4: and she had told me about you, right, yeah, I 230 00:10:18,679 --> 00:10:20,800 Speaker 4: mean when I met you, I was like, oh, yeah, 231 00:10:21,040 --> 00:10:22,160 Speaker 4: you're friends with Crystal. 232 00:10:22,960 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean we had a lot of mutual friends 233 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:27,839 Speaker 3: before we met, and so I like, I knew who 234 00:10:27,840 --> 00:10:32,840 Speaker 3: you were. And so when we met, Tonner wasn't the 235 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:35,360 Speaker 3: most like super warm and friendly towards me. 236 00:10:35,480 --> 00:10:40,520 Speaker 4: Actually, okay, we have come to the conclusion that I 237 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:43,679 Speaker 4: get so excited to see people that I love so 238 00:10:43,920 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 4: much that people that I don't necessarily know if they're around, 239 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 4: they feel neglected. 240 00:10:49,679 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 2: Does that make sense? 241 00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,400 Speaker 3: She was not excited to meet me. Like, let's just clear. 242 00:10:53,600 --> 00:10:55,880 Speaker 4: I think I'm so excited to see whoever it was 243 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,280 Speaker 4: at Robert and Zach maybe and I was so excited 244 00:10:58,320 --> 00:10:59,240 Speaker 4: to see them and. 245 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:02,439 Speaker 3: I had just everyone and then yeah, and like. 246 00:11:02,400 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 4: My one of my best friends had just been in 247 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,839 Speaker 4: town from Memphis with this new guy that she was dating. 248 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 2: So I was just like all these I just was like, 249 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 2: you know. 250 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 3: What I mean, I like I wish everyone. 251 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,080 Speaker 4: I was like super excited mode and like I had 252 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:17,280 Speaker 4: just gotten too vaga, you know what I mean. 253 00:11:17,280 --> 00:11:18,720 Speaker 2: Like I was just super excited and she was just 254 00:11:18,720 --> 00:11:20,320 Speaker 2: as girl. I didn't know. So I don't think I 255 00:11:20,400 --> 00:11:23,760 Speaker 2: was as warm and fuzzy to her as I am now. 256 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 3: However, time goes by, We go to the iHeart Festival 257 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:33,520 Speaker 3: in Vegas a few months later, similar feelings, not super 258 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 3: nice or not super friendly or warm. Then I moved 259 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:40,880 Speaker 3: into the same building and still just a little bit cold, 260 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:43,080 Speaker 3: not a whole lot of like warmth there. 261 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: Wow. 262 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, so maybe I'm harboring some resentment towards those beginning days. 263 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think she's being a little dramatic. 264 00:11:52,160 --> 00:11:55,840 Speaker 3: But I'm not a little bit. I'm not very dramatic. 265 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,319 Speaker 1: But so when did the thought happen between? 266 00:11:58,400 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. ACTUAL don't know either, Like when 267 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 2: was the tipping point? 268 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 3: I don't know. I mean we we literally shared a wall, 269 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 3: we were next door neighbors, so I think. 270 00:12:07,800 --> 00:12:09,160 Speaker 2: But they got to the point where like I was 271 00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:10,320 Speaker 2: seeing you every single day. 272 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, she would get mad if my door wasn't unlocked. 273 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,839 Speaker 3: I'm like, well, I don't sleep with my door unlocked. Yeah, scary, 274 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 3: and she would try to barge in and it would 275 00:12:19,800 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 3: be locked. 276 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,440 Speaker 4: This is what Becca does. Maybe, Like I think that 277 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:25,200 Speaker 4: you just maybe like you put up this like exterior 278 00:12:25,400 --> 00:12:27,960 Speaker 4: in the beginning and then like you make people like 279 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:28,800 Speaker 4: fall in love with you. 280 00:12:30,440 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 2: Sounds weird. 281 00:12:33,320 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: I was getting female. 282 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,920 Speaker 3: Goes west right now. 283 00:12:40,440 --> 00:12:42,520 Speaker 4: No, I don't know when the I don't know when 284 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:43,840 Speaker 4: that like switch happened. 285 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:45,840 Speaker 3: I don't. I really don't know either, But you know, 286 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 3: I'm really glad it did. 287 00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: No, we got really close. Yeah, but when was that 288 00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 2: turning point? 289 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 3: I mean I don't know, Like we could sit here 290 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,680 Speaker 3: all day. I don't. I can't remember. 291 00:12:57,800 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 2: I can't remember either. 292 00:12:58,840 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 4: But then I think we can't really Yeah, I think 293 00:13:00,520 --> 00:13:04,480 Speaker 4: we can't a realization that we were like really same moral, 294 00:13:04,559 --> 00:13:06,000 Speaker 4: same value as same. 295 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:08,880 Speaker 2: Different versions. 296 00:13:10,559 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're like very similar in some areas and just 297 00:13:15,040 --> 00:13:16,880 Speaker 3: could not be more different than others. 298 00:13:16,880 --> 00:13:20,480 Speaker 2: But you are a really amazing friend, and. 299 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 3: I've been struggling with that a little bit. I don't 300 00:13:22,840 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 3: feel like I'm a super great friend really, Yeah, But 301 00:13:25,960 --> 00:13:29,680 Speaker 3: I also like I am aware of it and kind 302 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 3: of just I'm like, I don't know. I look around 303 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 3: and I'm like, I have the best friends ever surrounding me, 304 00:13:36,200 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 3: but I don't feel like I'm trying to figure out 305 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 3: why I have so many good friends. 306 00:13:40,760 --> 00:13:44,440 Speaker 5: You're a really good friend when it's like desperation and need, 307 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,400 Speaker 5: you're a bad friend in like. 308 00:13:46,400 --> 00:13:48,319 Speaker 3: Hey, do you want to do something tomorrow? Oh? Yeah, 309 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 3: because I don't like live in my house and then 310 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:53,680 Speaker 3: you don't I know, I'm just I don't like to 311 00:13:53,720 --> 00:13:55,400 Speaker 3: go play. I don't know if this is just like 312 00:13:55,440 --> 00:13:58,199 Speaker 3: a season in my life where I'm like a hermit. 313 00:13:58,880 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 3: But I don't know, I don't want to go do anything. 314 00:14:02,520 --> 00:14:04,240 Speaker 3: I just am like content at home. 315 00:14:04,760 --> 00:14:05,640 Speaker 2: Your homebody. 316 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:11,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like you're a homebody, you do social things, right. 317 00:14:12,040 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: I guess my concern is that I don't think people 318 00:14:13,800 --> 00:14:16,600 Speaker 1: outgrow that homebody thing. They kind of grow into it. Yeah. 319 00:14:16,640 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 3: So I have to I'm because like my eight seasons 320 00:14:21,000 --> 00:14:23,840 Speaker 3: of Dector Dexter's done, I'm gonna have to like actually 321 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:26,400 Speaker 3: force myself to go out. I want to have a 322 00:14:26,440 --> 00:14:29,040 Speaker 3: week where I like literally make myself do something every 323 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 3: night or day. Why Because I feel like it would 324 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 3: be good for me to get out there and see 325 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:37,480 Speaker 3: things and do things, and then I can really appreciate 326 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 3: my home and you just won't like it. 327 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 5: It's like it's better to have a balance because you 328 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,920 Speaker 5: love being home. So do like two nights a week 329 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 5: out do something cool and then do the home. Then 330 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 5: then the home is more fun and the out is 331 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:49,280 Speaker 5: more fun. 332 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, but the home is always fun. 333 00:14:51,040 --> 00:14:54,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, like I enjoy Like I feel like you're really 334 00:14:54,360 --> 00:14:55,360 Speaker 4: like fun plus one. 335 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:59,560 Speaker 3: Oh things, I can fake my way through anything. 336 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,120 Speaker 1: Well before our guests the guests here, is there any 337 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: romantic news we need to know from either one of you? Tanya, 338 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:07,760 Speaker 1: I know we have a few things, but nothing good. 339 00:15:08,200 --> 00:15:10,520 Speaker 3: No, no, wait, but I want to hear O it's 340 00:15:10,840 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 3: it's always good. So remember that. 341 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,000 Speaker 4: We were talking when Teddy was here about the football 342 00:15:15,000 --> 00:15:17,520 Speaker 4: player that I was like, like, I hope he's not listening. 343 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:21,040 Speaker 4: I don't know, I'm assuming he listens. 344 00:15:21,200 --> 00:15:22,920 Speaker 2: He just went totally silent on me. 345 00:15:23,040 --> 00:15:24,160 Speaker 5: Did you try texting him? 346 00:15:24,240 --> 00:15:26,080 Speaker 2: I don't have his number. We were just communicating in 347 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:27,360 Speaker 2: the app, all right. 348 00:15:27,280 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 1: So that was nothing from him, okay, but like I 349 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:30,600 Speaker 1: wouldn't worry about that. 350 00:15:30,800 --> 00:15:33,280 Speaker 3: So the conversation is just over, Like what's I. 351 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: Gave him my number and just crickets. 352 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 5: Now can you see like a check check? Like do 353 00:15:38,520 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 5: you know if people read it? 354 00:15:39,960 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 2: No, it doesn't say that, but I mean. 355 00:15:42,160 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 5: What app? 356 00:15:42,760 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 3: Is it? 357 00:15:43,360 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 2: Raya Riyah? 358 00:15:44,440 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 3: Oh you got approved? Yeah, I'm waitlessed or nothing? Wait? 359 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 6: How did you get approved for that app? 360 00:15:50,560 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 2: I don't know. They said welcome to Raa. 361 00:15:53,120 --> 00:15:56,000 Speaker 5: No, everybody gets rejected from that thing. 362 00:15:56,000 --> 00:15:59,280 Speaker 7: Which is baffling to me because you just got in. 363 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:05,360 Speaker 7: Yeah what yeah, I've read like three D there that. 364 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:09,280 Speaker 7: Uh yeah, I guess who I matched Matthew Perry. 365 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:14,520 Speaker 3: Please, I knew it. I knew it. I freaking knew it. 366 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 1: But list but listen to her opening line to Matthew parents. 367 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 3: No, please, something bad? 368 00:16:20,360 --> 00:16:24,240 Speaker 2: I just I just said, Happy Saturday, Happy Saturday. 369 00:16:25,040 --> 00:16:27,480 Speaker 3: Do you have to go first? Does the girl have 370 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: to go? No? It's like just whoever did he respun No? 371 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 2: But then he just did unmatched. 372 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:36,320 Speaker 1: No. 373 00:16:37,200 --> 00:16:39,040 Speaker 4: I don't know if he maybe just deleted the app, 374 00:16:39,080 --> 00:16:40,920 Speaker 4: like he could have just come very well, just deleted 375 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 4: the app. 376 00:16:41,240 --> 00:16:43,120 Speaker 2: But yeah, I said happy Saturday. 377 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: Maybe rolled over his phone with this car? 378 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:49,240 Speaker 4: Maybe right, that's probably I am like the girl from 379 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 4: He's just not that into you, you know what I mean, 380 00:16:51,240 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 4: Like I give every excuse, but like, oh, he might 381 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 4: just not be into me. 382 00:16:55,040 --> 00:16:58,440 Speaker 2: I'm like, maybe he's unmatched with you. Yeah, like the 383 00:16:58,480 --> 00:16:59,480 Speaker 2: match just disappeared. 384 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:03,359 Speaker 3: I would never not have this Saturday. 385 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:05,680 Speaker 2: I would never do this in my life. 386 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 5: So you wrote happy Saturday, and he's all, yeah. 387 00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 1: The guy's on TV twenty four hours a day in 388 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:14,199 Speaker 1: every country in the world. You gotta do better than 389 00:17:14,240 --> 00:17:14,840 Speaker 1: happy Saturday. 390 00:17:15,280 --> 00:17:16,679 Speaker 2: To say, I watch you every night before I go 391 00:17:16,720 --> 00:17:16,960 Speaker 2: to them. 392 00:17:17,320 --> 00:17:20,320 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, too, happy Saturday is random? Guy, You 393 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 1: up your game? 394 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 3: Hey, how's it going now? You would have been like, 395 00:17:24,920 --> 00:17:26,480 Speaker 3: could this Saturday be? 396 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:33,640 Speaker 2: This is why I wish you would talk to. 397 00:17:33,600 --> 00:17:36,399 Speaker 3: Me last night. He's gotten so many of those that 398 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 3: would not have. I was just that was just for 399 00:17:38,320 --> 00:17:42,040 Speaker 3: my own enjoyment. That was really good. Yeah, we gotta 400 00:17:42,119 --> 00:17:45,640 Speaker 3: do better because it's so late. It's just like the 401 00:17:45,680 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 3: conversations that I wish I didn't delete the app so 402 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:51,560 Speaker 3: I could rejell some of the conversations. They're bad, just 403 00:17:51,640 --> 00:17:53,240 Speaker 3: so corny and like. 404 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 4: Because the thing is I think, like you have to try, 405 00:17:57,000 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 4: you know what I mean, Like it's like I just laughing. 406 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:03,200 Speaker 3: He said happy son Matthew Fir. 407 00:18:05,760 --> 00:18:07,920 Speaker 4: People saying, you know, like I want to, I want to, 408 00:18:08,119 --> 00:18:09,040 Speaker 4: you know, I want to. 409 00:18:10,000 --> 00:18:10,520 Speaker 2: I want to. 410 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 4: I want to be healthy healthy, and they don't, and 411 00:18:14,359 --> 00:18:16,480 Speaker 4: they sit on the couch eating you know, mashed potatoes 412 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 4: all day or whatever potatoes. But yeah, so it's like 413 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 4: if you want, if I eventually want to get married, 414 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 4: I have to try dating, and dating apps are an 415 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:27,040 Speaker 4: easy way to start the process. 416 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:29,919 Speaker 2: So it's like you gotta try, but like, man, it sucks. 417 00:18:30,440 --> 00:18:34,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I I lost interest very quick. I 418 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 3: lose interest in everything very quick. 419 00:18:38,160 --> 00:18:40,600 Speaker 4: What if they had a dating app for like dog owners? 420 00:18:41,119 --> 00:18:43,000 Speaker 4: I wonder if they have one, But I'm not. 421 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 3: I'm like obsessed with Phoebe. But I'm not like I 422 00:18:46,160 --> 00:18:50,000 Speaker 3: probably want a dog, per right, I'm like, oh my gosh, 423 00:18:50,040 --> 00:18:54,879 Speaker 3: please bring your seven dogs over so we can play. 424 00:18:55,520 --> 00:19:00,280 Speaker 3: Do oh it's not for your dogs or for the owner. 425 00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: For dog lovers. 426 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:05,680 Speaker 3: I mean, wow, I have to applaud them. I did 427 00:19:05,720 --> 00:19:06,719 Speaker 3: tender create that? 428 00:19:07,480 --> 00:19:08,960 Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. I don't think it has 429 00:19:09,000 --> 00:19:09,840 Speaker 1: anything to do with Tinder. 430 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 3: Oow, that seems like it was snatched. Can we read 431 00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,439 Speaker 3: some emails? Are we doing that? Right? 432 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: Yeah? Let me do these quickies because I think the 433 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 1: guests almost table. We have a couple of that are 434 00:19:20,040 --> 00:19:23,360 Speaker 1: kind of light and fun, like Taylor. Yesterday, my friend 435 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: brookes some heartbreaking news to me. McDreamy is five foot ten. 436 00:19:28,080 --> 00:19:30,000 Speaker 1: I love them so much. I know y'all do too, 437 00:19:30,040 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 1: So I'm wondering if guy's short or kind of short? 438 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:35,760 Speaker 1: Is that a turnoff? Forever? I love Patrick Dempsey, but 439 00:19:35,760 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 1: it hurts my heart to hear this news. I pictured 440 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:40,640 Speaker 1: myself marrying a tall guy, but five it's tall enough 441 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:44,040 Speaker 1: for Meredith. Should it be tall enough for me? You 442 00:19:44,119 --> 00:19:46,720 Speaker 1: make my week a million times better. I love listening 443 00:19:46,760 --> 00:19:49,399 Speaker 1: to y'all so much those Taylor isn't next week, that is, So, 444 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 1: how do you feel about guys that aren't that tall? 445 00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 2: You can go first. 446 00:19:54,760 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 3: I mean, I love a guy that's tall and like 447 00:19:57,440 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 3: significantly taller than me, but I'm five five, so I don't. 448 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:02,320 Speaker 3: I do wear heels a lot, but I don't feel 449 00:20:02,359 --> 00:20:04,600 Speaker 3: like it takes a lot to find a guy who's 450 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:09,199 Speaker 3: taller than me, and even when I wear heels, but 451 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:13,160 Speaker 3: I mean it's he's dreamy like I wouldn't care at all. Yeah, 452 00:20:13,240 --> 00:20:15,719 Speaker 3: I've heard he's my sister said he's tiny though, but 453 00:20:15,760 --> 00:20:18,720 Speaker 3: I think she just meant like, like, he's just tall. Yeah. 454 00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,560 Speaker 3: And the shirt that I want or want, I didn't 455 00:20:21,600 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 3: want when I bought it. I sid a lot of 456 00:20:23,520 --> 00:20:26,040 Speaker 3: money on that sign shirt, but it was a small 457 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:27,640 Speaker 3: and it was like really little. And they said that's 458 00:20:27,640 --> 00:20:29,359 Speaker 3: the shirt he wore the pictures that he took and 459 00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:31,360 Speaker 3: I was like, wow, that is a little. I don't 460 00:20:31,400 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 3: even know if I would wear it comfortably. 461 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 2: It does not, I mean, are you kidding? Are you kidding? 462 00:20:36,840 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 2: Size does not bothered. 463 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,840 Speaker 1: There's no limit. Like let's say it's Patrick Dempsey but 464 00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,640 Speaker 1: he's five three. Yeah, no, I don't care. 465 00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:43,800 Speaker 3: No, no, no, I do care. 466 00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:44,360 Speaker 1: You do care? 467 00:20:44,440 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 2: Yes, I don't. Is he breathing? Get right? 468 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: So what's your limit? What's beck? What's your limit? 469 00:20:53,840 --> 00:20:57,800 Speaker 3: I mean I guess my limit probably five tin. I 470 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 3: feel like five ten because I'm five five, So I 471 00:20:59,800 --> 00:21:02,119 Speaker 3: could wear a good five inchio which is really tall, 472 00:21:02,240 --> 00:21:04,160 Speaker 3: and be lease level. 473 00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,679 Speaker 1: Five'. Seven, no because you're gonna be taller than. 474 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:12,679 Speaker 3: Him my, parties yeah not my Not yeah, RIGHT i 475 00:21:12,680 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 3: THINK i would just Not and it's it's not it's, 476 00:21:15,119 --> 00:21:19,240 Speaker 3: unfortunate BUT i just THINK i would feel like less 477 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 3: feminine or. 478 00:21:20,119 --> 00:21:22,399 Speaker 4: Something it's, true, THOUGH i Think i'm more attracted to 479 00:21:22,480 --> 00:21:25,600 Speaker 4: like burlier, men, RIGHT i like, bigger LIKE i like. 480 00:21:26,119 --> 00:21:28,240 Speaker 3: RIGHT i don't, know, THOUGH i MEAN i THINK i 481 00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 3: think if you meet someone and you're just like into, 482 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:34,719 Speaker 3: them that stuff you kind of it's like those things go, 483 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:35,480 Speaker 3: away go. Away. 484 00:21:36,440 --> 00:21:38,720 Speaker 1: Uh this is From. MOLLY i love the short conversation 485 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,880 Speaker 1: about soulmates this past. Week i'm on the same page 486 00:21:40,920 --> 00:21:42,679 Speaker 1: with you and THAT i believe in different kinds of, 487 00:21:42,720 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: soulmates not just. Romantic i'm, wondering do you Think meredith 488 00:21:47,080 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: can have another soulmate Besides derek And. Christina you mentioned 489 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,800 Speaker 1: in real life people finding another soulmate after their spouse. 490 00:21:52,880 --> 00:21:55,280 Speaker 1: Dies would you be open minded To meredith having another 491 00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 1: real shot with someone else and, new not the, layman 492 00:21:57,720 --> 00:22:00,520 Speaker 1: short lived glimpse we got With. Nathan i've listened to 493 00:22:00,560 --> 00:22:02,439 Speaker 1: your podcast While i'm at. Work if you're ever back In, 494 00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,560 Speaker 1: nashville we'll treat you to some doctor. Peppers oh. Wow 495 00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 1: are we open To meredith finding another? 496 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:11,639 Speaker 3: Soulmate, No i'm open to real life people finding. IT 497 00:22:11,720 --> 00:22:15,000 Speaker 3: i believe in real people finding other. Soulmates. Meredith i'm, 498 00:22:15,000 --> 00:22:18,600 Speaker 3: sorry But. CHRISTINA i Guess alex is kind of like 499 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:23,800 Speaker 3: her person, too but the soulmate. Romantically, no don't see, 500 00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:24,360 Speaker 3: it don't want. 501 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:26,880 Speaker 1: It this Week's Gray's. Anatomy it's, back by the, way 502 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,760 Speaker 1: it's Back Thursday. Night it's called one eight hundred and 503 00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,240 Speaker 1: seventy nine nine seven two three. 504 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 3: Three is that the logic? Song? 505 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, no it's The National Domestic Violence. Hotline so they're 506 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:38,440 Speaker 1: kind of doing a logic thing with. 507 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:40,120 Speaker 2: A different, cause and it's gonna be About. 508 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:41,199 Speaker 3: Joe, Yeah Matthew. 509 00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,960 Speaker 1: Morrison the synopsis, Says joe finally faces her strange abuse 510 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,560 Speaker 1: of Husband Paul, stadler While Grace sloan continues to work 511 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:50,679 Speaker 1: with THE fbi after a hacker compromise at the hospital's computer. 512 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:51,920 Speaker 1: System are we? 513 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,440 Speaker 3: EXCITED i, Mean i'm Super i'm just happy it's. 514 00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:57,040 Speaker 1: Back we had With. JOEL i thought that we liked 515 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:00,560 Speaker 1: about the. Hacker, well we're still continuing With, Okay, no we. 516 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,639 Speaker 3: Didn't, oh, well we think it's, him but it wasn't 517 00:23:03,720 --> 00:23:06,560 Speaker 3: like they didn't say that it. Was we're just assuming 518 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:07,320 Speaker 3: we need. 519 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 2: To refresh from the last, time hopefully its previously in 520 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:10,679 Speaker 2: front of this. 521 00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:12,040 Speaker 1: One, yeah because we need. 522 00:23:12,040 --> 00:23:16,160 Speaker 3: That, yeah hopefully. So as we're talking About Grey's, anatomy 523 00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 3: the Beautiful Katie maloney just walked, in you know her 524 00:23:20,080 --> 00:23:24,720 Speaker 3: from vander Pump rolls like a. PLOT i. Know, Welcome thank. 525 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:27,080 Speaker 3: You you walked in in a very crucial time as 526 00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:29,760 Speaker 3: we're talking About Grey's anatomy coming. Back do you Watch Gray's? 527 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:30,800 Speaker 3: ANATOMY i, DID i. 528 00:23:30,760 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 2: Did a long time. 529 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:32,080 Speaker 3: Ago that's. 530 00:23:32,119 --> 00:23:34,840 Speaker 6: Whatever don't ask me who's dead or. 531 00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 3: ALIVE i have no. Idea everyone's. Dead there's only a 532 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 3: few people still. 533 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,640 Speaker 2: Alive nobody that you care, About, SOLA i, probably, oh maybe. 534 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:48,240 Speaker 3: One, yeah but you're on a very popular. Show you 535 00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:53,680 Speaker 3: could say. That. Yeah i'm so intrigued with just REALITY 536 00:23:53,680 --> 00:23:56,000 Speaker 3: tv in general because of my experience being On The 537 00:23:56,040 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 3: bachelor was so random and happened out of. Nowhere how 538 00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:01,639 Speaker 3: did it? Like how how did you get on the? 539 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:03,720 Speaker 3: Show what was the process? Like kind of the? 540 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:04,040 Speaker 2: Same? 541 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,960 Speaker 6: WELL i had worked AT sir for a couple of 542 00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 6: years prior BEFORE i, think even Before lisa was On, 543 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:16,679 Speaker 6: housewives Before Beverly Hills housewives was the, thing and so 544 00:24:17,600 --> 00:24:20,840 Speaker 6: just BECAUSE i was working, there that's kind of How 545 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,399 Speaker 6: but but they brought us in for a meeting and 546 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,120 Speaker 6: they wanted to talk to all of us and interview 547 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:29,159 Speaker 6: us on like who's your best, friend who do you, 548 00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:31,360 Speaker 6: hate who have you slept, with who do you fight? 549 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 6: With and of course when you, know they talked to 550 00:24:34,840 --> 00:24:36,480 Speaker 6: me and then they talked To kristen to talk To. 551 00:24:36,520 --> 00:24:38,920 Speaker 6: Starstin at that, time you, Know kristen was Dating Tom 552 00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 6: standaval And sassy was Dating. Jack so we were talking 553 00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 6: about our little trifecta of just drama and they were 554 00:24:47,080 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 6: just like salivating for. It so it was kind, of you, 555 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:51,320 Speaker 6: know right, place right. 556 00:24:51,359 --> 00:24:53,480 Speaker 3: Time but, YEAH i mean you were like The dreamcast 557 00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,399 Speaker 3: at that. POINT tv. GOALS i, know that's WHAT i 558 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,360 Speaker 3: was gonna, say, because LIKE i, remember just, recently even 559 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:01,959 Speaker 3: after the Batchel or there was this potential reality, shows 560 00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:04,679 Speaker 3: like a fashion blogger type, thing and they were, like, 561 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 3: so are there any people that you have any drama 562 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,280 Speaker 3: with or. Whatever i'm, like, no, no, no, Thought i'm the 563 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:12,000 Speaker 3: last person they. 564 00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:13,760 Speaker 6: Want, yeah that's the last thing they want to. Hear, 565 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:14,760 Speaker 6: YEAH i get along with. 566 00:25:14,800 --> 00:25:19,119 Speaker 3: EVERYONE i really like. PEOPLE i can find SOMETHING i 567 00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:21,399 Speaker 3: like about. Everyone they're, like, okay you're. Done YEAH i 568 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 3: can't want. You but you're, married just recently, married, Right. 569 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:31,560 Speaker 6: It's been a year and but did they just DID 570 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:32,080 Speaker 6: i mess this? 571 00:25:32,240 --> 00:25:34,399 Speaker 3: Up did they? AIR i. Don't i'm gonna be, honest, 572 00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:36,000 Speaker 3: LIKE i. DON'T i don't have, cable SO i only 573 00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:37,240 Speaker 3: like see glimpses of the. 574 00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,360 Speaker 2: Show year's pretty new and minimum, marriage Right. 575 00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 6: Yeah, NO i mean so so we got married In 576 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:48,600 Speaker 6: august of two thousand and. Sixteen, okay but, so, yeah 577 00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:51,560 Speaker 6: so you didn't see it until spring up Share that's 578 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:52,200 Speaker 6: WHAT i was gonna. 579 00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,480 Speaker 3: Say i'm, like that seems recent in my, mind BUT 580 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:57,119 Speaker 3: i guess in, reality you, know in filming world and, 581 00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,680 Speaker 3: stuff which comes a lot. Later, yeah he's part of 582 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 3: the show, though, Right oh, Yeah like is it a 583 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,000 Speaker 3: is it fun for the marriage dynamic or is it 584 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:08,960 Speaker 3: make it a little. 585 00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:14,119 Speaker 6: Harder given our filming schedule and how much we. Film 586 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:17,080 Speaker 6: it's nice because we spend time together and we go 587 00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:20,560 Speaker 6: on trips and so that's that's nice and it it 588 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:26,480 Speaker 6: it reflects our real. Life but the whole having to 589 00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:30,840 Speaker 6: share your relationship and share the drama and everything that 590 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,800 Speaker 6: goes with, it that that's. Difficult but, yeah we've we've 591 00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,879 Speaker 6: been on for six, years so we've kind of gotten 592 00:26:37,920 --> 00:26:41,879 Speaker 6: through the first initial you, know you kind of you 593 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 6: want to hold back a little, bit but you still 594 00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,159 Speaker 6: want to give it. Everything and now it's just, nature, 595 00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:49,320 Speaker 6: yes nature, Natural but you just. 596 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:53,640 Speaker 3: Be, like why aren't there cameras around? Anymore once it's? Done, 597 00:26:54,520 --> 00:26:57,760 Speaker 3: YEAH i. KNOW i, remember like even right after the 598 00:26:57,760 --> 00:26:59,600 Speaker 3: show finished, FILMING i was, like, wow this is AND 599 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,280 Speaker 3: i was it was two months or eight weeks and 600 00:27:02,800 --> 00:27:05,119 Speaker 3: that was, it you, know and it was kind of, like, 601 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,240 Speaker 3: wow there's no one listening to What i'm saying or 602 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:12,000 Speaker 3: a camera lurking around the. Corner but, yeah where's my? 603 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 3: Mic LIKE i have a bruise on my? Back? Okay, 604 00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,280 Speaker 3: Wait so where are you? From Originally, parks Toy Utah. 605 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,399 Speaker 3: Okay and then where's he? 606 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,880 Speaker 6: From he was born and raised In, minnesota and then 607 00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,520 Speaker 6: he had moved To florida to go to. 608 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:26,560 Speaker 3: School, okay got. 609 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:28,320 Speaker 6: It so, yeah when he moved TO, la he was In. 610 00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:31,240 Speaker 3: Florida, Okay so you went through the whole dating game 611 00:27:31,280 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 3: IN la before. Him, oh, yes we need some help 612 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,000 Speaker 3: in our. Dat, well not so much me Because i'm 613 00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:40,440 Speaker 3: Not i'm like inactive on my dating, life But tanya 614 00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 3: is dating and in the process and her last it's 615 00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:49,240 Speaker 3: just all. Bad she, SAID i just want your opinion on. 616 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:55,199 Speaker 3: This she's On riah and she matched can match With 617 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:59,960 Speaker 3: Matthew Perry chandler being from friends and she her opening 618 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,399 Speaker 3: line is Happy Okay. 619 00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:06,239 Speaker 4: Saturday it's not bad BECAUSE i use that line not 620 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,560 Speaker 4: just on, him BUT i had matched with other people. 621 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,200 Speaker 2: As, well AND i sent it to all of. Them 622 00:28:12,520 --> 00:28:12,800 Speaker 2: that's the. 623 00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,000 Speaker 6: Problem, Yeah, YEAH i feel like there's something really inauthentic 624 00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:19,960 Speaker 6: about the dating app online thing because. 625 00:28:19,840 --> 00:28:20,720 Speaker 3: We have what he'sposed to. 626 00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:22,920 Speaker 6: SAY i, know because, well everyone wants to put their 627 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:25,639 Speaker 6: best foot forward and paint themselves in the, light, right you. 628 00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:29,119 Speaker 6: KNOW i don't know honestly, NOW i haven't been single 629 00:28:29,200 --> 00:28:31,760 Speaker 6: for so long THAT i don't THINK i would have any. 630 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,879 Speaker 4: Game like everybody says to go to their page and 631 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:37,920 Speaker 4: see what their interests are and like maybe like throw 632 00:28:37,960 --> 00:28:38,520 Speaker 4: that into the. 633 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 2: Cover i'm, like that's so. Cheesy that's every guy THAT 634 00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:42,760 Speaker 2: i matched with On. 635 00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:46,200 Speaker 3: Hinge it was like every conversation started because there was 636 00:28:46,320 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 3: like they something something from my, profile. 637 00:28:48,960 --> 00:28:50,880 Speaker 1: But not in a generic. Way you look for someone 638 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:53,480 Speaker 1: that strikes, you like say she's looking through somebody's profile 639 00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 1: and Says, dexter they Love, dexter and then you text, It, 640 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:58,160 Speaker 1: oh my, Gosh i'm on season two Of dexter right, 641 00:28:58,200 --> 00:28:59,760 Speaker 1: now and now you've got a conversation going. 642 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:04,280 Speaker 3: BREAKER i guess, yeah, yeah like and they were like 643 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:07,440 Speaker 3: one guy's, LIKE i love what's not to like about endless? 644 00:29:07,440 --> 00:29:10,640 Speaker 3: Breadsticks i'm, like, wow thank? You yeah. 645 00:29:10,880 --> 00:29:13,000 Speaker 6: Wow so you guys are just trying to do my 646 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 6: research of a good. 647 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 3: ONE i love a good endless breadstick. 648 00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 2: Situation solid. 649 00:29:18,840 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 6: Nothing that is, ROMANCE i. 650 00:29:20,240 --> 00:29:21,640 Speaker 3: Know that's What i'm trying to. 651 00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:24,040 Speaker 6: Say, YEAH i don't dating out here is, Tough like, 652 00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:28,040 Speaker 6: gosh you got to kiss a lot of frogs for, 653 00:29:28,120 --> 00:29:30,000 Speaker 6: Sure but do you have do you have like the 654 00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 6: one guy or do you have like a like a roster, 655 00:29:32,880 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 6: well you, know like guys like you, know you're talking 656 00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,680 Speaker 6: to this person kind Of oh, no. 657 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:40,880 Speaker 4: It's like, yeah like it's like a negative at this, 658 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,640 Speaker 4: POINT i got no Ros. 659 00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,440 Speaker 3: Burners, interesting she Met tom eight years. Ago so when 660 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:48,240 Speaker 3: you were dating all these, guys how were? You were 661 00:29:48,280 --> 00:29:50,120 Speaker 3: you just going out and meeting? Them was that your, 662 00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,200 Speaker 3: LIKE M i, know BUT i think that's this app 663 00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:57,840 Speaker 3: thing is is a challenge because. 664 00:29:57,640 --> 00:29:59,560 Speaker 2: You're how do you do it the old fashioned? 665 00:29:59,600 --> 00:30:03,040 Speaker 6: WAY i always, say allow your friends to set you 666 00:30:03,160 --> 00:30:05,720 Speaker 6: up because they've already been kind of vetted a little, 667 00:30:05,720 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 6: bit you, know they've been, LIKE i got this. 668 00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 2: One working for. 669 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,560 Speaker 3: ME i don't. 670 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,640 Speaker 6: KNOW i JUST i feel, like as it's these apps 671 00:30:14,680 --> 00:30:18,400 Speaker 6: have made it convenient and, available BUT i think it's 672 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 6: also presented a lot more. 673 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:24,680 Speaker 3: Problems, yeah because it gives people so many. Opportunities so 674 00:30:24,760 --> 00:30:27,800 Speaker 3: if if one girl says Happy, saturday he's one of 675 00:30:27,840 --> 00:30:28,280 Speaker 3: the next. 676 00:30:28,320 --> 00:30:32,920 Speaker 6: One who, wait you haven't suggested she go on like The? 677 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:34,800 Speaker 6: Bachelor is that not a? 678 00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 3: Place? Yeah but if you own The, bachelor it's one guy. First. 679 00:30:38,480 --> 00:30:41,400 Speaker 4: Yeah And i'm SO i can't even date more than 680 00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 4: one person at a. 681 00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:42,800 Speaker 2: TIME i. 682 00:30:42,800 --> 00:30:46,120 Speaker 4: COULDN'T i really couldn't imagine one guy dating me with 683 00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,280 Speaker 4: like all these other girls around me That i'm like 684 00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:49,240 Speaker 4: talking and hanging out. 685 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:52,120 Speaker 3: With i'd be, Like, okay do you think do you 686 00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:53,840 Speaker 3: are you Into? Ari are you watching this? 687 00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:55,600 Speaker 6: SEASON i haven't started? 688 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:55,880 Speaker 1: Yet? 689 00:30:55,920 --> 00:30:58,720 Speaker 6: YEAH i think is what what season Was ari? 690 00:30:58,840 --> 00:30:59,720 Speaker 2: On was you on The? 691 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,840 Speaker 6: Emily AND i THINK i remember liking, Him but also 692 00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:08,959 Speaker 6: there's SOMETHING i can't quite touch on that maybe put 693 00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:09,720 Speaker 6: me off a little bit of. 694 00:31:09,800 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 2: HIM i don't, know you can't put your finger on. 695 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:15,640 Speaker 6: It, yeah sometimes like IF i don't like who the 696 00:31:15,640 --> 00:31:17,440 Speaker 6: Bachelor bachelor, is they don't watch. 697 00:31:17,480 --> 00:31:20,640 Speaker 3: It but that's HOW i, feel like a lot of people. 698 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,360 Speaker 3: Feel BUT i almost it's kind of bad because everyone 699 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,479 Speaker 3: that knows him is like he's so. GREAT i JUST 700 00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:31,800 Speaker 3: i like watching him. Kiss, yeah is a. LOT i, mean. 701 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,040 Speaker 3: HOPE i always think about like they always give the, 702 00:31:34,040 --> 00:31:37,800 Speaker 3: bachelor like like a breath strip to put, On like 703 00:31:37,840 --> 00:31:39,920 Speaker 3: he always has those handy because they can't choot gum 704 00:31:40,000 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 3: or have, mint so it's always like a fresh breast. 705 00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:47,560 Speaker 4: Strip speaking of fresh, breath, yea they should give him equip. 706 00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:52,280 Speaker 3: Toothbrush you have beautiful, teeth do you use? Equip? 707 00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,280 Speaker 6: No is that the one with like the rebel rubber rubber? 708 00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:57,800 Speaker 2: Bristles, NO i don't think. 709 00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:02,640 Speaker 3: One. Yeah. 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Becca and so you have 752 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 3: a lipstick? Line well it? 753 00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:13,000 Speaker 6: Yet, No, NO i haven't launched. Yet, SO i, mean 754 00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:14,960 Speaker 6: technically it is in the, works but we. Haven't we 755 00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:15,640 Speaker 6: don't have it. 756 00:34:15,760 --> 00:34:17,960 Speaker 3: Yet but, yeah what your Are are you trying to 757 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,400 Speaker 3: do something similar to Like kylie's lip? Kit are you 758 00:34:20,400 --> 00:34:22,800 Speaker 3: trying to do or is it totally different. 759 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 6: Or, No, no it's not necessarily lip. Kit it's we 760 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:31,359 Speaker 6: collaborated with this woman Named Julie hewitt who's been a 761 00:34:31,400 --> 00:34:35,040 Speaker 6: makeup artist in the industry for film all that forever 762 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:38,879 Speaker 6: and so she's had her line of makeup and her 763 00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:42,680 Speaker 6: line of lipsticks, forever and she's known as like the Lipstick, 764 00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,719 Speaker 6: Queen like she's in a textbook for having like the 765 00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:47,359 Speaker 6: perfect red. Formula oh. 766 00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 2: Wow so we. 767 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,000 Speaker 6: Were so excited that she wanted to collaborate with us 768 00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:55,120 Speaker 6: on our. Lipsticks so we're gonna have two coming, out 769 00:34:55,160 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 6: one Called, pucker one Called pouts so. 770 00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:58,360 Speaker 3: CUTE i love, it. 771 00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:01,279 Speaker 6: Yeah and one's going to be a brighter color and 772 00:35:01,280 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 6: one's a nude, okay BECAUSE i always think it's good 773 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:06,160 Speaker 6: to have both in your bag If i'm transitioning to, 774 00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:09,560 Speaker 6: tonight and it's nice to make it up and so, 775 00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:12,560 Speaker 6: yeah her lipsticks are. Fantastic she has a, massive like cult, 776 00:35:12,600 --> 00:35:15,239 Speaker 6: Following like if people are really into, me they Know. 777 00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,880 Speaker 6: Julie but, yeah we are our goal With bucker And. 778 00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 6: Pout it started as a, blog BUT i obviously, had, 779 00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:26,239 Speaker 6: like you, know bigger dreams for it to turn into a, 780 00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:28,440 Speaker 6: brand a lifestyle, brand and that's where we're. 781 00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,440 Speaker 2: Headed so it's really. Exciting, Congratulation thank you. 782 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:35,240 Speaker 3: Well thank you so much for coming in and spending 783 00:35:35,360 --> 00:35:37,719 Speaker 3: a part of your day with. Us we really appreciate. 784 00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:41,120 Speaker 3: It and when is vander Pump. Rolls is it? On, 785 00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:43,160 Speaker 3: like when's the? Airing go? 786 00:35:43,160 --> 00:35:49,480 Speaker 6: Ahead and Pitch its is On mondays at nine pm On. 787 00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:53,320 Speaker 3: Bravo there you, Go there you go the cult. Following 788 00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:57,520 Speaker 3: there you have. It thank you so, Much, katie and thank. You, 789 00:35:58,080 --> 00:35:59,240 Speaker 3: Yeah i'm excited about. 790 00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:02,879 Speaker 6: The lip line in the, Springtime i'll get. 791 00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:06,399 Speaker 3: All right things. 792 00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:12,239 Speaker 2: Again by the, way did you see the tweet that 793 00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:12,560 Speaker 2: we just? 794 00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:14,320 Speaker 3: Got, no what is it? Saying? 795 00:36:14,480 --> 00:36:19,000 Speaker 4: Uh it's From caitlin Page. Dunham she, said how did 796 00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:21,880 Speaker 4: people even know how to date before scrubbing? In like 797 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:23,000 Speaker 4: this is a serious. 798 00:36:23,160 --> 00:36:29,960 Speaker 3: Question, wow that makes me nervous that anyone's taking our. 799 00:36:29,960 --> 00:36:34,080 Speaker 3: Advice that's. Serious, NO i think it's. GOOD i LOVE i, 800 00:36:34,120 --> 00:36:37,520 Speaker 3: MEAN i really do think we give some excellent advice on. Here. 801 00:36:37,840 --> 00:36:40,520 Speaker 3: Yeah AND i think it's also LIKE i feel, like 802 00:36:40,840 --> 00:36:44,319 Speaker 3: especially you what your dating stories and the things that 803 00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:47,000 Speaker 3: you put yourself out there for and talk about on 804 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,960 Speaker 3: here is actually very relatable. 805 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: Totally except that it's a football player In Matthew, perry 806 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:53,319 Speaker 1: which is. 807 00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,520 Speaker 3: Hilarious, yeah but she still said she treated him like an. 808 00:36:56,520 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 2: Equal she, said, Sad, yeah so did the same thing 809 00:36:59,600 --> 00:36:59,959 Speaker 2: with Mister. 810 00:37:00,239 --> 00:37:02,400 Speaker 3: Foods did the football players say did you Say Happy? 811 00:37:02,400 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 2: SATURDAY i, did and he responded he did for a. 812 00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:10,799 Speaker 3: Minute short. 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Awesome it's cheaper than The Orange theory 858 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:21,600 Speaker 3: class That i'm still paying. 859 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 2: For oh my. 860 00:39:22,560 --> 00:39:26,480 Speaker 3: Gosh and there, are Like tanya, said there are over 861 00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,440 Speaker 3: six hundred different workouts ranging from cardio to weight, training, 862 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:33,000 Speaker 3: yoga low, impact and. DANCE i would love to see 863 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:35,319 Speaker 3: me doing a dance one by myself at. Home might 864 00:39:35,360 --> 00:39:36,360 Speaker 3: set up a camera just. 865 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:38,879 Speaker 2: TOO i was just gonna, say that's actually a pretty good. 866 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:42,040 Speaker 3: Video y'all have to give this a. Try right. 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Week, Tanya i'm pretty sure you're my spirit. 877 00:40:17,480 --> 00:40:20,440 Speaker 1: Animal hell. Yeah And, Becca i'm so. Jealous you can 878 00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:22,399 Speaker 1: hit Me donald's and Drink Doctor pepper's on the rag 879 00:40:22,480 --> 00:40:25,840 Speaker 1: and still look as fabulous as you. Do oh my 880 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:28,400 Speaker 1: question is if have y'all ever been in a relationship 881 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:30,080 Speaker 1: where you were with the guy for a few years 882 00:40:30,120 --> 00:40:32,000 Speaker 1: and he literally and you literally thought this was, It 883 00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:33,799 Speaker 1: he's the, one we are going to get married and 884 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:36,160 Speaker 1: he was on the same page two y'all had even 885 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,040 Speaker 1: talked about marriage and, everything and then he ends up 886 00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:41,160 Speaker 1: breaking up with you out of nowhere because he isn't 887 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:42,920 Speaker 1: sure you're the. One this happened to me with my 888 00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,720 Speaker 1: ex seven months. Ago for, Reference i'm twenty, six he's twenty. 889 00:40:46,800 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 1: Three we were together for two. YEARS i GUESS i 890 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,160 Speaker 1: just don't understand how someone goes from knowing you're the 891 00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:55,160 Speaker 1: one to not sure if you. Are is that a 892 00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,279 Speaker 1: thing or does age play a role in? This and 893 00:40:57,320 --> 00:40:59,919 Speaker 1: maybe the marriage talk freaked him? Out thanks so, Much. 894 00:41:00,160 --> 00:41:03,960 Speaker 3: ADRIANA i, Mean i've never been in a relationship for two. 895 00:41:04,000 --> 00:41:05,400 Speaker 3: Years you might take this one. 896 00:41:05,360 --> 00:41:10,640 Speaker 4: Well so let's, say, Hey, ADRIANA i know exactly how you. 897 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 4: FEEL i have been in this exact same situation where 898 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:19,759 Speaker 4: literally one day you're talking, marriage, kids, family, future and 899 00:41:19,800 --> 00:41:22,680 Speaker 4: then the next day you're crying and barfing and. 900 00:41:22,920 --> 00:41:25,480 Speaker 2: It's, over like the relationship's. Over SO i totally get. 901 00:41:25,520 --> 00:41:27,480 Speaker 3: IT i. 902 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,880 Speaker 4: DON'T i don't know how that happens BECAUSE i was 903 00:41:30,920 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 4: the one that was broken up. With BUT i think 904 00:41:32,840 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 4: that you're never going to understand. WHY i feel like 905 00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,080 Speaker 4: you're going to spend a lot of time trying to 906 00:41:38,080 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 4: figure out why it, happened how that switch, happened what 907 00:41:41,480 --> 00:41:43,239 Speaker 4: you did, wrong what he did, wrong what you could 908 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,000 Speaker 4: have done, Better like you're going to be going asking 909 00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:47,680 Speaker 4: yourself these questions for a really long. TIME i think 910 00:41:47,719 --> 00:41:50,000 Speaker 4: the sooner that you come to the conclusion that you're 911 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:51,600 Speaker 4: never going to know, why. 912 00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:53,640 Speaker 2: The better for. 913 00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:57,760 Speaker 3: YOU i have A this is different to me because 914 00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,719 Speaker 3: she's twenty six and eist twenty three and they were 915 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:01,680 Speaker 3: together for two, years which means they got together when 916 00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:03,640 Speaker 3: he was twenty, one, Right AND i feel like that's 917 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,600 Speaker 3: really young for a guy to get into a serious 918 00:42:05,600 --> 00:42:08,759 Speaker 3: relationship and then start talking about. Marriage, True and SO 919 00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,360 Speaker 3: i almost wonder if he is kind of, like oh my, 920 00:42:11,400 --> 00:42:14,479 Speaker 3: Gosh i'm so young And i've we're already talking about 921 00:42:14,480 --> 00:42:18,800 Speaker 3: marriage AND i haven't really gotten to experiencing my, Life 922 00:42:18,880 --> 00:42:21,440 Speaker 3: and Like i'm not SAYING i don't. KNOW i don't 923 00:42:21,440 --> 00:42:23,640 Speaker 3: know anything more than what we just read the. Email 924 00:42:23,680 --> 00:42:27,240 Speaker 3: but maybe that's a huge factor in. It and maybe 925 00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:30,520 Speaker 3: once he gets older and like grows up a little, 926 00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:32,200 Speaker 3: bit maybe he'll be. 927 00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:34,000 Speaker 4: READY i don't, know but here's WHAT i don't want 928 00:42:34,000 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 4: to happen To, adriana for her to. 929 00:42:35,719 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 3: Be waiting around. Totally we'll live your life and do 930 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:39,439 Speaker 3: your own thing and don't question. 931 00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:41,640 Speaker 2: Itself don't let him keep you on the. Bench, yeah 932 00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:43,840 Speaker 2: keep you on a burner like Buy. 933 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:47,080 Speaker 3: Yeah go do your thing and if, things if y'all 934 00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:50,360 Speaker 3: come back, together then let that, be but don't wait on. 935 00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 1: It Correct sheila, SAYS i have an interesting situation i'd 936 00:42:54,480 --> 00:42:57,279 Speaker 1: love your opinion. On i'm a very, optimistic true love 937 00:42:57,360 --> 00:43:00,560 Speaker 1: person And i'm twenty. SIX i should a. Gay for 938 00:43:00,600 --> 00:43:02,680 Speaker 1: three years in college he was, mutual BUT i didn't 939 00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:05,719 Speaker 1: find that part out until after GRADUATION i moved. Away 940 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:07,480 Speaker 1: we stayed in, touch went on dates WHEN i would 941 00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,000 Speaker 1: come back to. Town, finally two years after, graduation he 942 00:43:10,040 --> 00:43:12,319 Speaker 1: finally decided he was going to come visit me and 943 00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,160 Speaker 1: asked me to be his girlfriend, first with it four hours. 944 00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:18,719 Speaker 1: Away then he moved nine hours, away BUT i was. 945 00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:21,200 Speaker 1: Smitten this was my, person my other, half the guy 946 00:43:21,239 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 1: at one hundred, percent Knew i'd marry no. Questions after 947 00:43:24,719 --> 00:43:26,760 Speaker 1: about a, year the long distance thing just wasn't. Working 948 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,399 Speaker 1: we broke. Up it was the hardest Thing i've ever gone. 949 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:32,160 Speaker 1: Through fast forward a year. Later we have not spoken 950 00:43:32,239 --> 00:43:34,399 Speaker 1: or seen each other since the. Breakup, However i've been 951 00:43:34,440 --> 00:43:36,800 Speaker 1: invited to a wedding In may THAT i know he 952 00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:39,480 Speaker 1: will be at because he actually introduced me to the. 953 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:43,480 Speaker 1: COUPLE i have a plus. One i'm. Single. Now my 954 00:43:43,680 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 1: question is SHOULD i try to find a guy to 955 00:43:46,040 --> 00:43:48,399 Speaker 1: take with? Me or SHOULD i go alone and hope 956 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:51,080 Speaker 1: that he also goes alone so we fall madly back 957 00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:58,040 Speaker 1: in love yours, Ridiculously. Shila. Ps If Ben higgins is 958 00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:06,120 Speaker 1: available and, interested scrap this. Whole i'm a. Hoosier that's so. 959 00:44:06,280 --> 00:44:09,319 Speaker 3: Good that is really. Good, OH i don't. KNOW i 960 00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:13,440 Speaker 3: feel sad because, LIKE i THINK i would be thinking 961 00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,839 Speaker 3: the same way IF i were in this, Position like 962 00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:20,320 Speaker 3: DO i DO i bring a date and like maybe 963 00:44:20,320 --> 00:44:23,440 Speaker 3: it makes him, Realize, oh LIKE i wish that were? 964 00:44:23,480 --> 00:44:26,239 Speaker 3: Me or DO i go alone and hope that he 965 00:44:26,320 --> 00:44:28,359 Speaker 3: doesn't he's? Alone and what if he brings a date 966 00:44:28,400 --> 00:44:30,880 Speaker 3: and Then i'm alone at the wedding drinking by. Myself. 967 00:44:31,040 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 2: Right and she didn't say who broke up with? 968 00:44:32,920 --> 00:44:33,080 Speaker 6: Who? 969 00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:34,560 Speaker 4: Right she said to end and it was the hardest 970 00:44:34,600 --> 00:44:37,280 Speaker 4: thing of her, life, correct, right which makes me believe 971 00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:37,919 Speaker 4: he ended. 972 00:44:37,960 --> 00:44:39,560 Speaker 3: IT i kind of feel like it was mutual like, 973 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,200 Speaker 3: that she said the long distance was too. 974 00:44:41,239 --> 00:44:45,200 Speaker 2: Hard is it ever really? Mutual that's a good, question 975 00:44:45,400 --> 00:44:46,279 Speaker 2: that's a Whole. 976 00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:48,040 Speaker 3: Oh that's a. Yeah that is a good. 977 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:49,960 Speaker 1: Topic is it ever really? 978 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 4: Mutual because usually if it's the girl's, idea the guy's, 979 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,080 Speaker 4: like oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah that's. 980 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:57,360 Speaker 3: One hundred percent. MUTUAL i think there could be like seventy. 981 00:44:57,400 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 3: Percent the guys like it's just not, working and the girls, 982 00:44:59,719 --> 00:45:04,000 Speaker 3: like she's gonna fight for. It but she gets. It she's, 983 00:45:04,080 --> 00:45:04,840 Speaker 3: like all, right. 984 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:07,759 Speaker 1: Yeah the odds of it being. 985 00:45:09,920 --> 00:45:11,560 Speaker 2: Like, NEVER i don't think. 986 00:45:11,640 --> 00:45:13,200 Speaker 3: So, anyways what do you? 987 00:45:13,200 --> 00:45:15,880 Speaker 1: THINK i think she should bring a guy who's a 988 00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,640 Speaker 1: friend and in on what's going on. 989 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,400 Speaker 3: Here that's the. BEST i don't even have any follow 990 00:45:21,480 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 3: up because that's the perfect that's the best. 991 00:45:23,600 --> 00:45:28,640 Speaker 1: Answer that, way she doesn't go. Alone she should bring a. Gig, yes, 992 00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:29,800 Speaker 1: Absolutely if. 993 00:45:29,640 --> 00:45:31,759 Speaker 3: You don't have one of. Those then bring a guy 994 00:45:31,840 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 3: friend who like or like a. BROTHER i was gonna say, Cousin. 995 00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:39,760 Speaker 1: No not, brother NOT i don't think, so because you 996 00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:44,319 Speaker 1: don't you want you want plausible. Boyfriend if he if 997 00:45:44,320 --> 00:45:46,279 Speaker 1: he has someone else and he's with a, date you 998 00:45:46,320 --> 00:45:46,920 Speaker 1: want to be with a. 999 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:49,360 Speaker 3: Date in, quotes this is just like my best friend's 1000 00:45:49,400 --> 00:45:53,319 Speaker 3: wedding kind of, no not, really but like remembers she. 1001 00:45:53,320 --> 00:45:55,399 Speaker 3: Had But Julia roberts and she has the gig best 1002 00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:58,520 Speaker 3: friend oh, right right, right, yeah and she tries to 1003 00:45:58,560 --> 00:46:01,279 Speaker 3: have him to make the guy jealous that's getting. 1004 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:03,480 Speaker 2: Married but then he ends up like not marrying. 1005 00:46:03,480 --> 00:46:04,920 Speaker 3: Her, right it's all just like not. 1006 00:46:05,000 --> 00:46:08,080 Speaker 1: GOOD i think that's the plan because then if he 1007 00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,759 Speaker 1: brings a, date she has a, date if he comes, 1008 00:46:09,760 --> 00:46:11,719 Speaker 1: alone she can ditch her date because he understands and 1009 00:46:11,719 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: he's totally. 1010 00:46:12,400 --> 00:46:15,319 Speaker 3: Okay so you you get one of your good guy, 1011 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,479 Speaker 3: Friends you explain the, situation let him knowbo he's someone 1012 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,000 Speaker 3: you have fun, with so that if your ex brings a, 1013 00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,600 Speaker 3: date you're not just with some random guy that you're 1014 00:46:23,680 --> 00:46:27,239 Speaker 3: awkwardly while you're awkwardly pining over your, ex but someone 1015 00:46:27,280 --> 00:46:29,360 Speaker 3: that you actually have fun with on a regular, basis 1016 00:46:29,400 --> 00:46:32,080 Speaker 3: and he knows that if your ex is there and 1017 00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,720 Speaker 3: single and y'all hit it off, again then he understands 1018 00:46:34,760 --> 00:46:35,160 Speaker 3: when you ditch. 1019 00:46:35,239 --> 00:46:37,040 Speaker 1: Him if he brings a, date you've got somebody to 1020 00:46:37,120 --> 00:46:37,400 Speaker 1: dance with. 1021 00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:40,920 Speaker 3: Exactly there you. Go, WOW i actually feel like that was. 1022 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:44,560 Speaker 2: One of the really good Solid yeah, yeah we check. 1023 00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:48,799 Speaker 3: And And, SHEILA i THINK i Think ben's, available but 1024 00:46:49,600 --> 00:46:52,200 Speaker 3: not really sure what His we'll let him. Know we'll 1025 00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 3: let him, know by the. 1026 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:55,360 Speaker 1: Way shayla also, says you guys are seriously my. Favorites 1027 00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:57,400 Speaker 1: you inspire me so much AND i probably look like 1028 00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,560 Speaker 1: a crazy person BECAUSE i listened to you And i'm 1029 00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:00,960 Speaker 1: running AND i laughed the Whole. 1030 00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:02,799 Speaker 3: That's. 1031 00:47:02,880 --> 00:47:04,279 Speaker 2: AMAZING i like to. 1032 00:47:04,360 --> 00:47:05,080 Speaker 3: Hear thank. 1033 00:47:05,120 --> 00:47:07,080 Speaker 1: You how're we doing on? Time? Over, okay here we. 1034 00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:10,000 Speaker 1: Go how about this one from an Anonymous, OH i, 1035 00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:12,960 Speaker 1: love love love your. Podcast each week there was always 1036 00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:15,080 Speaker 1: a TOPIC i can personally relate to in some, way 1037 00:47:15,360 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: shape or. Form not to mention that you And tanya 1038 00:47:17,640 --> 00:47:21,040 Speaker 1: are so genuine and. Lovable for the past four, Years 1039 00:47:21,040 --> 00:47:22,640 Speaker 1: i've been on and off with this guy that started 1040 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:24,879 Speaker 1: off as my, neighbor developed into a really good, friend 1041 00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:28,160 Speaker 1: and turned into something that never really resembled a, relationship 1042 00:47:28,640 --> 00:47:31,359 Speaker 1: but at times felt that. Way it started with him 1043 00:47:31,400 --> 00:47:33,400 Speaker 1: dming me asking IF i would come over for dinner 1044 00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: with him and a, friend and then a friend ended 1045 00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,560 Speaker 1: up not showing up. Smooth WHEN i went, over he cooked, 1046 00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:40,560 Speaker 1: dinner we watched the. Movies we ended up talking about our, 1047 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: families along with other really personal stuff usually don't talk 1048 00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:46,239 Speaker 1: about with someone just after you've. Met shortly after, that 1049 00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:48,920 Speaker 1: we started getting more, intimate but never really established what 1050 00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,439 Speaker 1: was going. On over the course of, college he would 1051 00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:53,560 Speaker 1: start dating, SOMEONE i would start talking to some, guy 1052 00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 1: but if something ever went, wrong we would always confide 1053 00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 1: in each. Other it wasn't until three years into this 1054 00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:02,080 Speaker 1: quote relationship THAT i finally expressed THAT i felt strongly 1055 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,239 Speaker 1: for him and wanted to be with. Him we've had 1056 00:48:04,320 --> 00:48:07,560 Speaker 1: numerous conversations following that about a relationship and marriage in the, 1057 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:10,960 Speaker 1: future but no action has ever been. Taken the chemistry 1058 00:48:11,000 --> 00:48:13,520 Speaker 1: and connection we have is not Something i've experienced, before 1059 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:15,640 Speaker 1: and people have said that they always think will end up, 1060 00:48:15,680 --> 00:48:18,480 Speaker 1: together which is Why i've given the situation so many. 1061 00:48:18,600 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 1: Chances here's the ADVICE i Want becca And. Tanya when 1062 00:48:22,280 --> 00:48:25,400 Speaker 1: DO i say enough is. Enough AM i falling for stupid? 1063 00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:31,480 Speaker 1: Games or is it about being? Patient we've talked about the, future, marriage, kids, work. 1064 00:48:31,560 --> 00:48:34,239 Speaker 1: Etc it all matches, up we still fall into the 1065 00:48:34,280 --> 00:48:37,080 Speaker 1: on and off. Routine the part that's weirding me out 1066 00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,759 Speaker 1: is that if he's telling the truth when he says 1067 00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 1: that if we, date we would get, married then why 1068 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:45,960 Speaker 1: is he not making strides toward. That if he never 1069 00:48:46,000 --> 00:48:48,160 Speaker 1: would have said any of this to, ME i wouldn't 1070 00:48:48,160 --> 00:48:51,040 Speaker 1: have continued to do this on and off thing for 1071 00:48:51,120 --> 00:48:54,440 Speaker 1: the past four. YEARS i don't like, confrontation so the 1072 00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:56,719 Speaker 1: thought of having a serious conversation with him about this 1073 00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,120 Speaker 1: makes me. Nauseous i'm twenty, three he's twenty. Four FOR 1074 00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,400 Speaker 1: i know that's. YOUNG i don't like the idea of 1075 00:49:02,440 --> 00:49:05,000 Speaker 1: casually dating One i'd rather be with one person working 1076 00:49:05,000 --> 00:49:08,760 Speaker 1: toward building a life. Together. Ps i'm a Huge grays 1077 00:49:08,880 --> 00:49:11,200 Speaker 1: fan AND i work in a, hospital SO i love 1078 00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:13,040 Speaker 1: to Pretend i'm in an episode Of Grace. 1079 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:22,879 Speaker 3: Wow, RELATABLE i would, Too. Woo my advice IS i hate, 1080 00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:26,960 Speaker 3: confrontation AND i hate those conversations that need to happen 1081 00:49:26,960 --> 00:49:30,560 Speaker 3: in these. Situations but for you to have any sort 1082 00:49:30,560 --> 00:49:34,840 Speaker 3: of clarity and be able to move, on whether y'all 1083 00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,400 Speaker 3: move forward together or you move on and are finally 1084 00:49:37,440 --> 00:49:40,160 Speaker 3: able to do your own thing without constantly having him 1085 00:49:40,160 --> 00:49:42,319 Speaker 3: in the back of your. Mind you have to have 1086 00:49:42,360 --> 00:49:46,239 Speaker 3: that conversation because it sounds like it's just been a 1087 00:49:46,320 --> 00:49:50,160 Speaker 3: back and forth game for about four years, now AND 1088 00:49:50,200 --> 00:49:51,680 Speaker 3: i understand why you're tired of. 1089 00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:56,600 Speaker 4: It, YEAH i think that, subconsciously you having this relationship 1090 00:49:56,600 --> 00:50:00,120 Speaker 4: with this guy is prohibiting you from maybe falling in 1091 00:50:00,200 --> 00:50:02,520 Speaker 4: love with somebody. Else SO i do THINK i don't 1092 00:50:02,520 --> 00:50:04,120 Speaker 4: think you can have the best of both. WORLDS i 1093 00:50:04,160 --> 00:50:07,120 Speaker 4: think you either need to actually date this guy and 1094 00:50:07,200 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 4: take it to the next, level OR i think you 1095 00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 4: need to not have him in your. 1096 00:50:11,040 --> 00:50:14,520 Speaker 1: LIFE i do you expressed to, Him it, SAID i 1097 00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:17,200 Speaker 1: finally expressed THAT i felt strongly for him and wanted 1098 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:18,640 Speaker 1: to be with. Him if you can. 1099 00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:20,080 Speaker 3: Do, that you can have. 1100 00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:23,040 Speaker 1: This you can have this. Conversation that's a much bigger 1101 00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,960 Speaker 1: thing to throw out. There that's a Major, yeah this Is, 1102 00:50:26,000 --> 00:50:29,080 Speaker 1: hey what's what's? Happening because if this isn't, happening we 1103 00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:29,839 Speaker 1: need to stop doing. 1104 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:32,680 Speaker 3: This LIKE i actually feel like you have like a 1105 00:50:32,800 --> 00:50:35,240 Speaker 3: power being able to bring that. Up Like i've told 1106 00:50:35,239 --> 00:50:37,600 Speaker 3: you HOW i. Felt and this is WHERE i stand on. 1107 00:50:37,640 --> 00:50:39,400 Speaker 3: THIS i don't want to do this back and forth 1108 00:50:39,440 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 3: like you kind of. Have it should empower you to 1109 00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:43,799 Speaker 3: know that you can have that conversation and get an 1110 00:50:43,840 --> 00:50:47,840 Speaker 3: answer either. Way like whether he, says, Well i'm just not, 1111 00:50:47,920 --> 00:50:49,480 Speaker 3: READY i don't want to, date then you can know 1112 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,759 Speaker 3: Like i'm moving, ON i can't do this back and forth, 1113 00:50:51,880 --> 00:50:54,759 Speaker 3: anymore or he Says i'm with. YOU i want to 1114 00:50:54,800 --> 00:50:57,480 Speaker 3: have a. Relationship but the fact that you have the 1115 00:50:57,520 --> 00:50:59,959 Speaker 3: power to bring it up and say something should Feel 1116 00:51:00,000 --> 00:51:04,920 Speaker 3: i'll make you feel, strong, empowered am. 1117 00:51:04,960 --> 00:51:07,839 Speaker 1: Powered, yeah, yeah we need to stop wasting her time 1118 00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:11,080 Speaker 1: with these don't, wait these on and off. Things, yeah they're. 1119 00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:12,839 Speaker 3: HARD i Mean robert AND i did this on and 1120 00:51:12,880 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 3: off thing and it actually confused both of us a lot. 1121 00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,799 Speaker 3: More AND i think even, then LIKE i, SAID i 1122 00:51:17,840 --> 00:51:20,360 Speaker 3: have times WHERE i like miss him and like want his. 1123 00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:24,480 Speaker 3: COMPANY i know that the back and forth texting doesn't 1124 00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,120 Speaker 3: help either of. Us SO i have to know in 1125 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:30,319 Speaker 3: my head If i'm, Like, Okay i'm really in a 1126 00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,360 Speaker 3: place WHERE i really want to be in a relationship. 1127 00:51:32,360 --> 00:51:35,320 Speaker 3: Again until that, POINT i. CAN'T i don't really have 1128 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:37,480 Speaker 3: the right to say, anything BECAUSE i have to take 1129 00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:40,200 Speaker 3: his feelings into, consideration and you should take each other 1130 00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:42,880 Speaker 3: like you should take your feelings into consideration in his 1131 00:51:43,040 --> 00:51:45,040 Speaker 3: because y'all clearly care about each. Other. 1132 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, ALSO i think this is similar To adriana in 1133 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:49,880 Speaker 1: the sense That adriana is the guy's twenty. Three this 1134 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:52,360 Speaker 1: guy's twenty four marriage to them is so far in 1135 00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:53,520 Speaker 1: the future it's not even a. 1136 00:51:53,560 --> 00:51:56,520 Speaker 2: Reality, Right but does that a, marriage like just commit to, 1137 00:51:56,560 --> 00:51:57,080 Speaker 2: me you? 1138 00:51:57,120 --> 00:51:57,200 Speaker 1: Know? 1139 00:51:57,360 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 3: Yeah well, Yeah but, ALSO i mean she's only. THREE 1140 00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:02,440 Speaker 3: i don't know where she, lives but if she's like 1141 00:52:02,480 --> 00:52:04,239 Speaker 3: in The south or, something she might Be, like. 1142 00:52:05,920 --> 00:52:07,279 Speaker 1: But he said if you AND, i if you AND 1143 00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:09,160 Speaker 1: i did, it we definitely get. MARRIED i mean that's 1144 00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:11,400 Speaker 1: a compliment to. You but it's also him expressing his. 1145 00:52:11,480 --> 00:52:15,120 Speaker 3: Fears but it also is him like dangling you on a. Stream, 1146 00:52:15,320 --> 00:52:19,120 Speaker 3: Right it's like not, yet but like maybe it'll. Happen 1147 00:52:19,320 --> 00:52:19,680 Speaker 3: it could. 1148 00:52:19,800 --> 00:52:22,600 Speaker 4: Happen SO i DO i think having relationships like that 1149 00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:24,840 Speaker 4: in your life are. DANGEROUS i really. DO i have 1150 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,799 Speaker 4: a friend that is in the exact same, situation AND 1151 00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:30,080 Speaker 4: i think it's just you just you have blinders, on you, 1152 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:32,480 Speaker 4: know and you don't even really it's like subconscious you, think, like, 1153 00:52:32,800 --> 00:52:33,439 Speaker 4: NO i could totally. 1154 00:52:33,520 --> 00:52:36,399 Speaker 3: Date, Yeah i'm kind of, yeah oh, yeah it's Not. 1155 00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,160 Speaker 1: This is From, meredith although that's in, QUOTES i don't 1156 00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:44,520 Speaker 1: think that's her action. Already, Becca i've been a huge 1157 00:52:44,520 --> 00:52:47,359 Speaker 1: fan of yours Since christ's. Season i'm also From, louisiana 1158 00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:48,880 Speaker 1: AND i gotta say WHEN i saw you at AN 1159 00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:51,319 Speaker 1: lsu game On, INSTAGRAM i felt the way you did 1160 00:52:51,320 --> 00:52:53,680 Speaker 1: When Ellen pompeo was on your flight and you didn't 1161 00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:57,319 Speaker 1: get to speak to her. Heartbroken i'm engaged to an 1162 00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:01,799 Speaker 1: awesome man and we're getting married very. Soon, however his 1163 00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:04,600 Speaker 1: longtime ex is always around when we hang out with our. 1164 00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,000 Speaker 1: Friends we all share mutual, friends But i'm not SURE 1165 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:08,960 Speaker 1: i can continue to be around her since she continued 1166 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,960 Speaker 1: to say rude comments about our. RELATIONSHIP i trust my 1167 00:53:12,000 --> 00:53:14,040 Speaker 1: fiance one hundred. Percent that's not the. Issue we both 1168 00:53:14,040 --> 00:53:15,960 Speaker 1: feel the same. Way how do we tell the ex 1169 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:18,439 Speaker 1: to scram without losing our friends at the same? Time 1170 00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:20,680 Speaker 1: or are we just being too? Selfish love the? PODCAST 1171 00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 1: i listened. 1172 00:53:21,120 --> 00:53:27,680 Speaker 3: Religiously let's call Me meredith that. WAIT i just love 1173 00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,320 Speaker 3: the word scram is so, funny. 1174 00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:32,480 Speaker 2: AND i feel like you use the word. Scram, no 1175 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:33,600 Speaker 2: there there was. 1176 00:53:33,520 --> 00:53:37,400 Speaker 3: Like talk of scram like either on someone else's podcast 1177 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,319 Speaker 3: or on my, podcast like a long time. Ago but 1178 00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:42,959 Speaker 3: we talked about how scram sounds like like an old 1179 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:47,160 Speaker 3: person saying like you've scram test, kiss good attles. Dat 1180 00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:50,360 Speaker 3: i'm so sorry we missed each other at THE lsu, 1181 00:53:50,400 --> 00:53:55,239 Speaker 3: game but that was a very exciting. GAME i don't. 1182 00:53:55,320 --> 00:54:01,480 Speaker 3: KNOW i, mean do you tell her, that do they 1183 00:54:01,480 --> 00:54:04,040 Speaker 3: tell her, like, hey we, don't or do you just 1184 00:54:04,640 --> 00:54:07,000 Speaker 3: do you associate with, her like don't even pay her? 1185 00:54:07,000 --> 00:54:09,440 Speaker 1: Attention BUT i think she's in this group of, Friends 1186 00:54:09,480 --> 00:54:10,840 Speaker 1: like if you avoid, her you avoid the. 1187 00:54:10,880 --> 00:54:16,320 Speaker 2: Group, Right so here's the thing with their eyes, closed 1188 00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:17,600 Speaker 2: with my eyes, closed. 1189 00:54:18,080 --> 00:54:21,000 Speaker 4: With things like, this there's no conversation that you can 1190 00:54:21,040 --> 00:54:22,400 Speaker 4: have with this girl that's not going to be. 1191 00:54:22,480 --> 00:54:24,840 Speaker 2: Uncomfortable so you just can't have. 1192 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:25,440 Speaker 4: It you. 1193 00:54:25,480 --> 00:54:26,160 Speaker 2: CAN'T i. 1194 00:54:26,200 --> 00:54:28,040 Speaker 1: AGREE i think we always say that you need to be, 1195 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:28,759 Speaker 1: direct but not in this. 1196 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:30,080 Speaker 2: Situation, yeah, no you don't have the. 1197 00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,520 Speaker 4: Conversation if you're all friends and you all and you 1198 00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,960 Speaker 4: have to see her in social, settings you, Okay so 1199 00:54:36,040 --> 00:54:40,440 Speaker 4: here's what you, Do. Meredith you have a. Cocoon it's 1200 00:54:40,440 --> 00:54:43,120 Speaker 4: an invisible. Cocoon when you're around, her you zip up 1201 00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:47,000 Speaker 4: your cocoon and you, say no bad, vibes no bad, 1202 00:54:47,120 --> 00:54:49,960 Speaker 4: energy nothing is coming into this. Cocoon and you just 1203 00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:52,600 Speaker 4: wear that every time she's around and you don't let 1204 00:54:52,680 --> 00:54:54,759 Speaker 4: it affect. You and then when she's, gone you get 1205 00:54:54,800 --> 00:54:56,600 Speaker 4: out of your cocoon and you live your. Life But 1206 00:54:57,480 --> 00:54:59,719 Speaker 4: i've done this before and it really works like a force. 1207 00:54:59,760 --> 00:55:01,480 Speaker 2: Field yeah you. 1208 00:55:01,520 --> 00:55:03,320 Speaker 1: Can, yeah you're not gonna let it bother. YOU i 1209 00:55:03,360 --> 00:55:03,879 Speaker 1: think that's really. 1210 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:05,440 Speaker 4: Good you just have to not let it bother you 1211 00:55:05,560 --> 00:55:08,759 Speaker 4: because people have like you, know like you might not 1212 00:55:08,760 --> 00:55:10,840 Speaker 4: get along with your all your, coworkers you, know like 1213 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:12,319 Speaker 4: you might not all be best, friends but you have 1214 00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:14,680 Speaker 4: to work with them every. Day you just zip up 1215 00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 4: your little. Cocoon that's your happy. Place and then when 1216 00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,000 Speaker 4: you leave and you're not with her, anymore you. 1217 00:55:19,000 --> 00:55:19,920 Speaker 2: Just you're out of. 1218 00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:23,920 Speaker 3: It and, LIKE i know it's so cheesy and like, 1219 00:55:24,040 --> 00:55:26,759 Speaker 3: basic but like just kill her with, Kindness like if 1220 00:55:26,800 --> 00:55:29,040 Speaker 3: she talks to, you if she's, rude just either walk 1221 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,759 Speaker 3: away or just be friendly back and don't even let 1222 00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:33,839 Speaker 3: it bother. You, YEAH i know it's easier than, done 1223 00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:39,440 Speaker 3: but really it's like the she's clear there's some residual 1224 00:55:39,680 --> 00:55:42,399 Speaker 3: bitterness or something if she's making rude comments about the. 1225 00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,200 Speaker 2: Right or just like you know how like you can like. 1226 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:48,000 Speaker 2: Laugh she's. 1227 00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:49,359 Speaker 3: Trying never have done. 1228 00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:54,600 Speaker 1: That she's trying to drive you nuts to talk with. 1229 00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:54,960 Speaker 4: Her she. 1230 00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,239 Speaker 1: Wins, yeah she'll just Keep don't let. 1231 00:55:57,239 --> 00:55:59,360 Speaker 3: Her w, yeah don't let her When, Meredith. 1232 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:02,800 Speaker 1: SO i have a raised anatomy quiz and because you 1233 00:56:02,840 --> 00:56:04,680 Speaker 1: guys did ask me for a new, one, yeah AND 1234 00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:06,440 Speaker 1: i have. One if you want to do, IT i. 1235 00:56:06,480 --> 00:56:09,799 Speaker 1: Do because we need to do another bet like we 1236 00:56:09,840 --> 00:56:10,279 Speaker 1: did last. 1237 00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:12,960 Speaker 3: Time, YEAH i want to keep the bet the same last. 1238 00:56:12,960 --> 00:56:16,960 Speaker 1: Time tanya, won and therefore she got to text whatever 1239 00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:19,880 Speaker 1: she wanted On becca's. Phone she chose a guy Named 1240 00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:22,680 Speaker 1: davy and texted him, like, Hey i've been thinking about, 1241 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:24,719 Speaker 1: you And david was like, yeah, cool like it was 1242 00:56:24,960 --> 00:56:25,279 Speaker 1: it fell. 1243 00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:26,720 Speaker 2: Flast it's very anti. 1244 00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:30,160 Speaker 1: Climacting, yes so we're gonna do another, one, okay all, 1245 00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:33,920 Speaker 1: RIGHT i want this to be really fair Because becca 1246 00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,480 Speaker 1: Said tanya's questions were easier last. 1247 00:56:35,560 --> 00:56:40,279 Speaker 3: Time so, random BUT i listened to that, PODCAST i was, like, 1248 00:56:40,440 --> 00:56:41,960 Speaker 3: WOW i really got screwed on that. 1249 00:56:42,080 --> 00:56:46,160 Speaker 1: Quiz all, Right so the bet is whoever wins context 1250 00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:48,919 Speaker 1: whatever they want from the other person's, phone right, right, right, 1251 00:56:48,920 --> 00:56:50,759 Speaker 1: First i'm going to give you a number, question and 1252 00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:53,279 Speaker 1: whoever's closest gets to go. First that, way you can't 1253 00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:55,400 Speaker 1: accuse me of choosing questions for one person or the. 1254 00:56:55,440 --> 00:57:00,319 Speaker 1: Other how many people watched The Greatest Greatest episode Of 1255 00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:02,440 Speaker 1: All time as we know it also known as The 1256 00:57:02,440 --> 00:57:05,840 Speaker 1: Bomb squad episode in terms of? Ratings how many people 1257 00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:09,160 Speaker 1: watch that? Show how many millions of? People, OKAY i 1258 00:57:09,160 --> 00:57:09,839 Speaker 1: don't care who goes? 1259 00:57:09,880 --> 00:57:14,399 Speaker 4: FIRST i want to say four point seven, Million. 1260 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:15,240 Speaker 1: Okay four point seven. 1261 00:57:15,239 --> 00:57:17,800 Speaker 3: Million i'm going to go five point One, okay it. 1262 00:57:17,760 --> 00:57:21,560 Speaker 1: Was twenty five point four. MILLION i was going to pay. 1263 00:57:21,600 --> 00:57:24,479 Speaker 1: SEVEN i was, like, Wow becca is a lot, close 1264 00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,560 Speaker 1: and well she's close and a lot, closer but she's. 1265 00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:29,960 Speaker 1: Close So becca will go. First wait that we should have. 1266 00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,480 Speaker 2: No noon that Which i've known that BECAUSE i was, 1267 00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 2: like how many years? Ago ten years? 1268 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:37,560 Speaker 4: Ago, yeah dang, it that's when shows like really god 1269 00:57:37,880 --> 00:57:39,360 Speaker 4: like forty million viewers. 1270 00:57:39,120 --> 00:57:43,040 Speaker 3: And it was The Prime Prime that is wild. 1271 00:57:42,640 --> 00:57:44,400 Speaker 1: All, RIGHT i have too, easy two, medium too? 1272 00:57:44,400 --> 00:57:45,320 Speaker 3: Hard, okay here we. 1273 00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,240 Speaker 1: Go so that Means becca goes, first or you can. Defer, 1274 00:57:48,520 --> 00:57:49,520 Speaker 1: okay which would you? 1275 00:57:49,600 --> 00:57:50,680 Speaker 3: Like i'm going to go. 1276 00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,160 Speaker 1: First what Is meredith's mother's first? Name? 1277 00:57:53,280 --> 00:57:54,160 Speaker 3: Ellish very? 1278 00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:56,240 Speaker 1: Good that is the easy. Category, Easton COULD i get 1279 00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:59,960 Speaker 1: a ding in a? Buzz thank? You there we, Go? 1280 00:58:02,240 --> 00:58:05,720 Speaker 1: Tanya which of the original five interns was the first 1281 00:58:05,760 --> 00:58:15,000 Speaker 1: to leave the? Show, George, becca what color is the? 1282 00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:16,480 Speaker 1: Post did That derek And meredith get? 1283 00:58:16,560 --> 00:58:16,960 Speaker 3: Married on. 1284 00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,240 Speaker 1: And? Tanya which two characters died in the plane crash 1285 00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:23,000 Speaker 1: in the season eight? 1286 00:58:23,040 --> 00:58:28,200 Speaker 2: Finale which two characters Died lexi And? Sloan that's not. 1287 00:58:28,360 --> 00:58:32,040 Speaker 3: Right he didn't die in the plane. Crash the pilot 1288 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:32,720 Speaker 3: died in the plane? 1289 00:58:32,760 --> 00:58:34,240 Speaker 2: Crash, no he. Didn't the pilot didn't. 1290 00:58:34,280 --> 00:58:37,720 Speaker 3: Die, yeah the pilot. Died, yeah because two people, died 1291 00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:40,440 Speaker 3: and it Was alexi in the, pilot But. 1292 00:58:40,480 --> 00:58:41,640 Speaker 1: Sloan died from injuries. 1293 00:58:41,680 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 3: Resulting, yeah he didn't die in the plane. 1294 00:58:43,400 --> 00:58:45,880 Speaker 2: Crash which Characters i'm not going to say the. Pilot 1295 00:58:46,040 --> 00:58:46,600 Speaker 2: what was the? 1296 00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:50,680 Speaker 1: Question which two characters died in THE i should have 1297 00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,760 Speaker 1: said as a result of the plane? Crash, Right i'm 1298 00:58:53,760 --> 00:58:57,280 Speaker 1: giving you both two points so. Far everybody's. Right moving 1299 00:58:57,400 --> 00:59:01,600 Speaker 1: up to the. Medium now this Is. Rebecca what is 1300 00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:04,040 Speaker 1: the name of the bartender At Emerald City bar across 1301 00:59:04,040 --> 00:59:08,680 Speaker 1: from the, Hospital. Joe tanya would not have gotten that. 1302 00:59:08,720 --> 00:59:10,640 Speaker 1: ONE i can tell me to look on her, Face, 1303 00:59:11,800 --> 00:59:14,160 Speaker 1: tanya what is Doctor avery's specialty? 1304 00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:15,280 Speaker 3: Plastics? 1305 00:59:17,360 --> 00:59:19,800 Speaker 1: Becca who Did george cheat On cali? 1306 00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:20,800 Speaker 3: With is he. 1307 00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:25,320 Speaker 1: With whom Did george cheat On? Cally and, finally in 1308 00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:29,000 Speaker 1: the medium section For, tanya what is the name Of 1309 00:59:29,120 --> 00:59:40,840 Speaker 1: Richard weber's late wife who suffered From Alzheimer's. 1310 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:42,720 Speaker 2: Missus? Weber of? Course, uh. 1311 00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,040 Speaker 1: When this buzzer goes, Off i'm moving. On oh my, 1312 00:59:47,120 --> 00:59:47,800 Speaker 1: god what is her? 1313 00:59:47,880 --> 00:59:49,120 Speaker 2: Name i've been seeing a lot of her. 1314 00:59:49,160 --> 00:59:58,960 Speaker 1: Lately for the? Steal becca a good, okay. 1315 00:59:58,080 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 2: However had not actually incorre? 1316 01:00:00,120 --> 01:00:03,600 Speaker 3: Act, okay well, okay well then your other one now? 1317 01:00:03,760 --> 01:00:07,280 Speaker 1: Neither so then, YEAH i gotta go With. Becca Now 1318 01:00:07,840 --> 01:00:09,000 Speaker 1: Missus webber is not WHAT i. 1319 01:00:09,080 --> 01:00:10,480 Speaker 3: Was all? 1320 01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:13,400 Speaker 1: Right So becca has? Five has? 1321 01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:14,240 Speaker 3: Three this is. 1322 01:00:14,200 --> 01:00:15,440 Speaker 1: Gonna really come down to. 1323 01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,800 Speaker 2: It here is the three that many eight. 1324 01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:24,200 Speaker 1: Questions got double on? You she stole. Yours that's, rude all? 1325 01:00:24,320 --> 01:00:27,920 Speaker 1: Right what is the this is For? Becca what is 1326 01:00:27,960 --> 01:00:30,160 Speaker 1: these are the hard? Ones what is the nickname given 1327 01:00:30,160 --> 01:00:31,880 Speaker 1: To April kepner by her? Sisters? 1328 01:00:33,920 --> 01:00:37,000 Speaker 3: Oh, wait. Bunny, Oh i'm. 1329 01:00:36,960 --> 01:00:52,320 Speaker 1: Sorry for the. Steal for the, Steal. Tanya rap it all, Right, 1330 01:00:53,200 --> 01:00:58,800 Speaker 1: tanya this is an opportunity for. You which two doctors 1331 01:00:59,120 --> 01:01:03,480 Speaker 1: went to? Alcoholics? Anonymous two doctors On grey's who have 1332 01:01:03,560 --> 01:01:05,400 Speaker 1: been to? Alcoholics anonymous Doctor? 1333 01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:06,120 Speaker 2: Weber that's? 1334 01:01:06,160 --> 01:01:10,480 Speaker 3: One was It Patrick? 1335 01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 2: Dempsey who is the other? 1336 01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:12,960 Speaker 3: One? 1337 01:01:13,800 --> 01:01:16,360 Speaker 1: Yes very nice with. 1338 01:01:16,440 --> 01:01:18,280 Speaker 4: Another you know what's so hard IS i try to 1339 01:01:18,320 --> 01:01:20,280 Speaker 4: like block her out of. EVERYTHING i don't like. 1340 01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:23,320 Speaker 3: Her six To. 1341 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 1: BECCA i believe she's already clinched, this But i'll give 1342 01:01:25,720 --> 01:01:29,320 Speaker 1: you the. Last how Did meredith figure out That John 1343 01:01:29,400 --> 01:01:35,640 Speaker 1: doe was Actually? George? Easy this Is rebecca. 1344 01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:36,840 Speaker 3: The mole on his? 1345 01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:41,600 Speaker 4: Arm, nope, nope he wrote it in her writ in 1346 01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 4: her hand he wrote. 1347 01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:45,400 Speaker 2: Double oh se, right very. 1348 01:01:45,440 --> 01:01:46,160 Speaker 1: Good NOW i have? 1349 01:01:46,240 --> 01:01:46,880 Speaker 2: Five you have? 1350 01:01:47,000 --> 01:01:54,280 Speaker 1: Four, no, yeah you have? Four? Four last? Question so, yeah, 1351 01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:59,320 Speaker 1: well uh this is For tanya who Was Lexi gray's, resident. 1352 01:01:59,440 --> 01:02:01,840 Speaker 2: Who was her residence when she was an? 1353 01:02:01,840 --> 01:02:02,960 Speaker 1: Intern who was her? Residence? 1354 01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:09,720 Speaker 2: Oh uh my. Gosh and she wasn't she like a? 1355 01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:12,800 Speaker 1: Roamer she? 1356 01:02:11,760 --> 01:02:12,920 Speaker 3: Had she? 1357 01:02:13,000 --> 01:02:19,840 Speaker 2: Did was it A Christia? Yang very? 1358 01:02:19,880 --> 01:02:20,640 Speaker 4: Good very. 1359 01:02:20,720 --> 01:02:24,520 Speaker 1: Nice so we have a final. Score tanya, Five becca, 1360 01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:28,640 Speaker 1: Six And becca gets the text whatever she watch From tanya's, 1361 01:02:28,680 --> 01:02:29,800 Speaker 1: phone and we'll do it next. 1362 01:02:29,800 --> 01:02:32,800 Speaker 3: Week i'm so. EXCITED i have a whole week AND 1363 01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:35,000 Speaker 3: i get to Watch, dexter which he'll probably give me 1364 01:02:35,040 --> 01:02:40,960 Speaker 3: some dark. Ideas i'm learning a. 1365 01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,600 Speaker 2: LOT i don't like text anyone that like that's, weird something. 1366 01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:45,840 Speaker 1: Sad, Yeah i'm coming over that laying down. 1367 01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,200 Speaker 3: Plastic, Yeah i'm gonna saran. 1368 01:02:48,280 --> 01:02:52,880 Speaker 1: Wrap before we, WRAP i have to read You this email. 1369 01:02:52,600 --> 01:02:55,000 Speaker 2: From Says, weber was not LIKE i feel LIKE i 1370 01:02:55,000 --> 01:02:57,920 Speaker 2: should get that. POINT i think that is so just sudden. 1371 01:02:58,000 --> 01:02:58,560 Speaker 2: Death but it's. 1372 01:02:58,600 --> 01:03:01,000 Speaker 3: Fine, no if you got, that THEN i would you 1373 01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:04,360 Speaker 3: would and have gotten your plane crash. One so you 1374 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,120 Speaker 3: to choose whichever point you, want you still. 1375 01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:09,840 Speaker 1: Lose both are. Reaches, Yeah shendell, says my name Is 1376 01:03:09,880 --> 01:03:13,200 Speaker 1: shandell And i'm actually a nursing. Student ALTHOUGH i love the, 1377 01:03:13,200 --> 01:03:15,520 Speaker 1: PODCAST i must admit there is one thing that drives me. 1378 01:03:15,680 --> 01:03:19,120 Speaker 1: CRAZY i listen closely every week to see if you've 1379 01:03:19,200 --> 01:03:22,200 Speaker 1: changed it or. Not when you guys and now is 1380 01:03:22,240 --> 01:03:25,440 Speaker 1: the time of? Death you always SAY. Pm in, hospitals 1381 01:03:25,480 --> 01:03:28,120 Speaker 1: everyone uses the twenty four hour, clock so there's no 1382 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:30,280 Speaker 1: such thing as A pm in a Healthcare Setting. 1383 01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,000 Speaker 2: DARING i love the. 1384 01:03:32,040 --> 01:03:34,520 Speaker 1: PODCAST i hope this doesn't come across as. RUDE i 1385 01:03:34,640 --> 01:03:36,920 Speaker 1: enjoy listening and learning on ways to improve my life and. 1386 01:03:36,960 --> 01:03:39,120 Speaker 1: RELATIONSHIPS i love you, guys AND i look forward to 1387 01:03:39,160 --> 01:03:39,600 Speaker 1: many more. 1388 01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,720 Speaker 4: Podcasts, right so it's technically fifteen right? 1389 01:03:42,760 --> 01:03:48,840 Speaker 3: Now, wow fifteen fifteen fifteen fourteen, Right thank y'all so, 1390 01:03:48,960 --> 01:03:51,120 Speaker 3: much we've come to the end of the. Podcast thank 1391 01:03:51,160 --> 01:03:52,959 Speaker 3: you To Katie maloney for being. 1392 01:03:53,000 --> 01:03:54,880 Speaker 2: Here Thanks, katie and. 1393 01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:57,920 Speaker 3: Thank you to all of our. Emailers we love y'all 1394 01:03:58,000 --> 01:03:59,240 Speaker 3: so so, much. 1395 01:03:59,120 --> 01:04:01,440 Speaker 2: But like so much it actually. 1396 01:04:01,520 --> 01:04:06,280 Speaker 3: Hurt, yeah y'all make our, days giving us an opportunity 1397 01:04:06,360 --> 01:04:10,640 Speaker 3: to give advice and also keep our lives interesting because 1398 01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:13,200 Speaker 3: y'all have so much going on that we don't really 1399 01:04:13,200 --> 01:04:14,000 Speaker 3: have going on. 1400 01:04:14,040 --> 01:04:14,920 Speaker 2: And doing life with. 1401 01:04:15,040 --> 01:04:17,600 Speaker 4: Us LIKE i genuinely feel like we're in this like 1402 01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:19,600 Speaker 4: big community of. 1403 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,840 Speaker 2: FRIENDS i know that we don't even. Know it does 1404 01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:24,000 Speaker 2: feel like, that, yeah. 1405 01:04:23,840 --> 01:04:25,600 Speaker 3: But like we're getting to know because of the. Emails 1406 01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:28,560 Speaker 3: right all, Right so keep sending the. Emails you can 1407 01:04:28,560 --> 01:04:32,919 Speaker 3: send them to scrubbing in at iHeartMedia dot. Com i'm 1408 01:04:32,960 --> 01:04:35,160 Speaker 3: so excited about next week THAT i get to text 1409 01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:40,200 Speaker 3: ANYONE i want on your, Phone i'm. Not, yeah it's very. Exciting, 1410 01:04:43,000 --> 01:04:44,000 Speaker 3: YEAH i hope. 1411 01:04:43,800 --> 01:04:46,600 Speaker 4: You use this as an opportunity to really help me 1412 01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:49,480 Speaker 4: here instead of something, mean. 1413 01:04:51,720 --> 01:04:52,600 Speaker 2: Because it could really go. 1414 01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:53,840 Speaker 3: Dark we'll see my mood that. 1415 01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:58,720 Speaker 1: Day to Try Matthew perry. Again he deleted the. 1416 01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:02,320 Speaker 3: Message i'm going back. There i'll go On ryan just 1417 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:05,080 Speaker 3: like see Who i'm mat choice on, her not Since i'm. 1418 01:05:05,080 --> 01:05:09,520 Speaker 3: Waitlisted but, Anyways, yeah thank y'all so. Much we love, 1419 01:05:09,560 --> 01:05:12,959 Speaker 3: you And i'm gonna call time of death the right. Way. 1420 01:05:13,240 --> 01:05:18,520 Speaker 3: Yeah time Of death fifteen eighteen o