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<v Speaker 1>Jebels Second date update Today, a dude name Adam is

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone for a second date update and his

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<v Speaker 1>email said it was one of the worst but also

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<v Speaker 1>one of the best dates of my life. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really interested to hear what happened. Hey, Adam, what's up?

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going. I take

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<v Speaker 1>it the good outweighs the bad since you're on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us trying to get a second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's like one of those dates that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like you didn't think would go too great,

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<v Speaker 1>but then it just don't go great, but also went gray.

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<v Speaker 1>We totally know it. No clue what you're talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>Why don't you tell us the girl you want to Holliday?

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Marcy? Marcy? All right? And how did

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Marcy? We met at a bakery. That's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of cute. Were you guys both buying bread at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time and you reach for the same loaves and

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<v Speaker 1>your hands touched No, I had to put a little

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<v Speaker 1>more effort into it. But I was just there, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>getting coffee and stuff. But she was picking up a

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<v Speaker 1>cake and I thought she was kind of cute, so

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<v Speaker 1>I sort of just struck up a conversation and was like, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>is that is that cake for me? Because it's my birthday?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it actually your birthday? Or is that just like

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<v Speaker 1>not even quote a fabulous, fabulous pickup line I would

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<v Speaker 1>have worked on me, it obviously worked on her. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was like one of my stronger pickup lines. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>that sounds strong. Did you actually ripped the cake from

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<v Speaker 1>her hands and say it was your birthday? And yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>She was like, well, it's my friend's birthday, so she'd

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<v Speaker 1>be kind of mad if I gave away a piece

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<v Speaker 1>of her cake. So I was like, well, really I

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<v Speaker 1>just wanted your number. Oh that smooth man. Yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>she was happy to oblige that. What do you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do when you actually went out? We just went off

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<v Speaker 1>to a bar to you know, have some drinks and

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<v Speaker 1>kind of talk and stuff. What was your mood going

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<v Speaker 1>into it? Oh? It was great, Like we were super friendly.

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<v Speaker 1>That was the bad part. You're like, oh, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>want to be there at all. Yeah, Well, the bad

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<v Speaker 1>part was probably like twenty thirty minutes into it or

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<v Speaker 1>really like vibing, and I keep getting a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>calls from my mom, which is not like really normal.

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<v Speaker 1>She didn't usually call a bunch of times, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>then you automatically think it's an emergency. I would, oh, yeah, absolutely,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was. I mean, my grandfather had died. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>it's not the kind of news you want to get

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<v Speaker 1>in the middle of a date. I guess it depends

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<v Speaker 1>on your relationship with your grandfather, but I would think

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<v Speaker 1>it would be a bad thing. Yeah. Yeah, he's like

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<v Speaker 1>that guy was an a hole. That's fabulous. So so

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<v Speaker 1>I guessing you didn't like the news. No, news wasn't great,

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<v Speaker 1>and needless to say, kind of threw me off my game.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean actually one point, like I was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>I was crying, and so she offered to stay with

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<v Speaker 1>me for a little while and then actually came back

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<v Speaker 1>to my place. That's a great way to get some

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<v Speaker 1>pity sex. It was a great way. Yeah, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Heaven's got a wingman and his name is Grandpa. Now,

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<v Speaker 1>actually we ended up having a little makeout session by

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<v Speaker 1>the end of the night. I think it was unrelated.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope it was unrelated. Hopefully the death of your

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<v Speaker 1>grand i didn't turn her on. Yeah, so you guys

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<v Speaker 1>actually went back to your place and made out. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we went back to my place and did all that,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you know, after a while, she was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>well I gotta I gotta get going. Um it was

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<v Speaker 1>getting pretty late. Said, that's like the worst date and

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<v Speaker 1>the best date because it sounds like a really lovely

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<v Speaker 1>interaction with another person. Well, yeah, it was. It was

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<v Speaker 1>very personal and I feel like we connected, but like

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<v Speaker 1>she's kind of been ghosted me a little since then.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to text her and they'll take like a

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<v Speaker 1>while for a text back, like a few days, and

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<v Speaker 1>it'll sort of just be like a one word thing

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<v Speaker 1>or or nothing at all. Okay, so you definitely think

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<v Speaker 1>she's baowing you off. Yeah, any reason that you can

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<v Speaker 1>think of why I. I guess I might be like

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<v Speaker 1>an ugly crier. Yeah, but does anyone ever think that

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<v Speaker 1>they're a pretty crier unless you're like in a Hollywood movie,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it just doesn't happen in real life. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>like my cry is like pretty ugly. All just not.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just a mess. I mean, and I kind of

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<v Speaker 1>but a sort of chokes up like this really good,

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's bad, it's it. That was a weird way

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<v Speaker 1>to describe your cry. All right, So you think maybe

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<v Speaker 1>she was turned off by your ugly crying. It has

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<v Speaker 1>to be otherwise, like we really hit it off. Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you want to go out with somebody who isn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back because you were ryan in not an

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<v Speaker 1>attractive way. I guess because your grandfather died like that

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<v Speaker 1>is shallow. If that's the case, well I don't I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if that's the reason. I just that's

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<v Speaker 1>the only thing I could think of. Okay, well we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song and then come back and call her

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. Okay, okay, thank you

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<v Speaker 1>rooking jubile in the morning. Nothing really out of the

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<v Speaker 1>ordinary in today's second date update. I mean, we've all

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<v Speaker 1>been on dates where somebody's died, right, Sometimes it's on

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<v Speaker 1>the way home from the date. But whatever it happens.

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<v Speaker 1>And Adam is on the phone, that's the issue that

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<v Speaker 1>he's kind of dealing with. He went out with a

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<v Speaker 1>girl named Marcy. They had a good time, but In

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of his date, he got a phone call

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<v Speaker 1>that his grandpa had passed away. Obviously he was sad

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<v Speaker 1>about that, but Marcy ended up hanging out with him

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<v Speaker 1>for a little while longer. They even went back to

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<v Speaker 1>his place and made out. And now she's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>blowing him off and he doesn't know why. The only

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<v Speaker 1>excuse he can think of is maybe he's an ugly crier. Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>are you ready to call Marcy and see why she

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<v Speaker 1>not wanting to go out with you again? Yeah? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty anxious to find out. And I forgot to ask

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean, you're thinking, like maybe it's the ugly

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<v Speaker 1>crying thing. But you guys made out after that, right, Yeah? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>And you didn't cry again after your makeout or you did? No, no,

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<v Speaker 1>not during either. Okay, I was gonna say during would

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<v Speaker 1>be even worse thing. All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar

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<v Speaker 1>phone number right now and see if we can figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Here we go, cool? Hello, Hi, can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Marcy please? This is she? Hey Marcy? How

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<v Speaker 1>are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, how did you

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<v Speaker 1>get my number? I have everybody's number on speed dial

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<v Speaker 1>all the time. I got your number because at call

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<v Speaker 1>or something. No, no, it isn't um Okay. One of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners actually emailed us and asked if we could

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<v Speaker 1>get in touch with you. Okay. His name is Adam,

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<v Speaker 1>and you guys went out on a date the other day.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh gosh. And we do a segment on our show

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<v Speaker 1>that's called the second Date Update. It's where if you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date with somebody and then end

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<v Speaker 1>up blowing them off after, they can email us to

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<v Speaker 1>get you on the phone and ask why. So. Adam

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us, told us a little bit about your date

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<v Speaker 1>and also is confused why it seems like you don't

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<v Speaker 1>want to go out with him again. Oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>are you serious? No? This all joke print calls? Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I just I don't know what to say.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel bad. He said a lot of nice things

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<v Speaker 1>about you and about your guys's date. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you guys really had a connection. I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of thought the whole night was a little weird.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I can understand that. I mean, he told us

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<v Speaker 1>about the date and how he got a call in

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<v Speaker 1>the middle of it that his grandpa had died. That

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<v Speaker 1>would make things weird. I would think, yeah, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so bad. It did sort of put a

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<v Speaker 1>damper on everything. Was that The part where things got

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<v Speaker 1>a little weird was when he got upset and cried

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<v Speaker 1>about his grandfather passing. No, it wasn't. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>hate to say it, but I kind of knew pretty

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<v Speaker 1>early on into the night that I just wasn't really

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<v Speaker 1>feeling it with him. And I can't really explain it, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it was anything that he actually did

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<v Speaker 1>or said. He said, you guys made out like I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like he obviously did not interpret. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>know I shouldn't have done that. I really shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>done that better. That was gonna be my question, if

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<v Speaker 1>you weren't feeling him, why make out with the dude? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was pretty much gearing up in my head

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<v Speaker 1>how to tell him that, you know, I'm not really

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<v Speaker 1>feeling it. And I was literally like about to do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And then he gets this call and he gets a

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<v Speaker 1>call from his mom, and I'm not I'm just sort

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<v Speaker 1>of sitting there and I can really see that something

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<v Speaker 1>she's telling him really bad news. He starts crying find

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<v Speaker 1>out that his grandfather passed away, And at that moment,

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<v Speaker 1>I couldn't tell him that I wasn't into him, because

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<v Speaker 1>that would be a tough situation to be and to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, I'm gonna tell this guy that I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like him, oh now his grand I was literally about

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him because I'm not that type of girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I really am not that type of girl to try

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<v Speaker 1>to lead someone on, and I really knew from the

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<v Speaker 1>get go I just wasn't feeling it. I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to tell him he gets his call, and all of

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<v Speaker 1>a sudden, then I was just sort of like, oh, gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to be nice, Marcy. You do understand that

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<v Speaker 1>being nice and then going back to somebody's place and

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<v Speaker 1>making out with him are really two different things. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know your definition of nice, you know, But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to make his night any worse than

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<v Speaker 1>what it was, so I just went with it. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what didn't you like about him? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>telling you, like, I can't really explain it. I just

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't feeling it. Yeah, I mean, we all go out

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<v Speaker 1>with people where, for whatever reason, you just don't really

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<v Speaker 1>like him, even it's not that they're unattractive necessarily, just

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<v Speaker 1>like they Yeah, I don't know. I think in the

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<v Speaker 1>very beginning, it was just the conversation fell a little flat,

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<v Speaker 1>and I didn't feel that spart I didn't feel that yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, we get, we get all that, But

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<v Speaker 1>why make out with him? I can't even Willie he

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<v Speaker 1>told you about that. I mean, it's duable of me,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was sort of out of pity. So basically

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<v Speaker 1>when he leaned in to kiss me, I just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>stop him. I would get I would, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>it's easy to be judgy about that. But in the

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<v Speaker 1>same vein, I feel like everyone in this room has

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<v Speaker 1>made out with somebody that they weren't actually that into before.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I've done it for years in some relationships, for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know guys like as much as I knew that,

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<v Speaker 1>I really shouldn't be doing this and it's so out

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<v Speaker 1>of character for me, and I was not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>take advantage of him in any way. But at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, I just witnessed this guy that I hardly

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<v Speaker 1>know get told that a very close family of a

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<v Speaker 1>member of his passed away. I just didn't have it

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<v Speaker 1>in me to not please him a little bit. Wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>there any moment like there was a one moment where

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<v Speaker 1>you were like, oh maybe I was wrong, maybe I

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<v Speaker 1>could do this, maybe I could be into him. No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all. I was looking for hope there, Mercy. Well, Marcy,

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<v Speaker 1>I do want to let you know that Adam is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the other line listening and wants to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. No, are you serious? Oh what mor can

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<v Speaker 1>you guys do it to me? Adam? Oh? Gosh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>summer hey, Oh oh my gosh. So I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing was at a pity. I mean, I

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<v Speaker 1>I just didn't want to hurt your feelings. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know I would already you would already even hurt enough

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<v Speaker 1>that night, and I just really felt so bad. As

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<v Speaker 1>hard as it was, he was hard for me too,

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<v Speaker 1>because I was stuck in this like rock and a

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<v Speaker 1>hard place, you know. I mean, uh, like we had

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<v Speaker 1>we got pizza together after like that that was just

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<v Speaker 1>at a pity because a pity pizza. I mean, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know what more I can say. Did

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<v Speaker 1>you give me like clear signs that you weren't interested?

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<v Speaker 1>It seemed like you've made it out with me because

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<v Speaker 1>you because a pity I mean pretty much. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just being honest with you. Now, I know you were

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<v Speaker 1>called the radio ta. I don't know what more. I

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<v Speaker 1>just I mean, you used a lot of tongue for

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<v Speaker 1>a pity kiss. Okay, yeah, I mean, you know, Marcia,

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<v Speaker 1>pity kiss has a certain amount of tongue. Were you

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<v Speaker 1>going overboard on the tongue with your It was not

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<v Speaker 1>a non committal makeout session, you know. Like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt really bad. I because I had to do

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<v Speaker 1>something to like make your night a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 1>And I don't know what else I can say. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean you are a very talented actress then, because

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<v Speaker 1>you you know, this performance and what you did the

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<v Speaker 1>other night, Like it's I can't tell what's real and

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<v Speaker 1>what's not anymore, honestly. I mean what's real is that

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<v Speaker 1>I think you should just try to move on. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>just because I did that, I really I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>it means that I have to go out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>It would just a second one would be another pity.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like two dates basically. Yeah, and I now

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<v Speaker 1>we've gotten into deep, you know what I mean. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's I mean, I can't believe you would do that

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<v Speaker 1>if that happened to you and one of your relatives died,

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<v Speaker 1>I would do the respectable thing and just walk away

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<v Speaker 1>get out of there. Okay, Okay, yeah, guys like I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really this is getting to me too. I tried

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<v Speaker 1>to be nice. I really did. I'm really sorry. Okay, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be sorry just yet, because I do have to

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<v Speaker 1>ask you if you'd like to go on another date

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<v Speaker 1>with Adam. We will pay for it. Would you like

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<v Speaker 1>to want a second date? No? Okay, I thought that

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<v Speaker 1>was coming. Adam's like. I didn't even want you to

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<v Speaker 1>ask that question anymore, because Marcy, you are real piece

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<v Speaker 1>of work. Just like leading a guy on like that

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<v Speaker 1>looks seriously. Okay, this is taking me back so much.

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<v Speaker 1>I was literally just trying to be nice to you.

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<v Speaker 1>I was trying to support you. I mean, is there

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<v Speaker 1>anybody here that can back me up on this? Am

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<v Speaker 1>I crazy or something? I was just trying to be nice. No,

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<v Speaker 1>they're not going to back you up. That's not well

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<v Speaker 1>either way. Adam, you didn't get your second day, and

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<v Speaker 1>Alicia know why now, and Marcy thank you for taking

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<v Speaker 1>the time to talk to us about it. Appreciate it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>now I feel a hundred thousand times worse. Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>I want I want both you guys to think about this.

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<v Speaker 1>That night, when you guys are making out, Adam's grandpa

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<v Speaker 1>was watching you think about that. In the morning, text

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<v Speaker 1>in A seven eight five nine two said I probably

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<v Speaker 1>would have done the same thing. Talking about today's second

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<v Speaker 1>date update if you missed it, this dude, Adam wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to call a girl named Marcy that he went out with.

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<v Speaker 1>When they were out, he found out that his grandpa

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<v Speaker 1>had actually died, and he was very upset. But she

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<v Speaker 1>was there for him and they went back to his

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<v Speaker 1>place and they even made out. But when we got

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<v Speaker 1>her on the phone, she admitted that she was never

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<v Speaker 1>really into Adam. She only stayed with him that night

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<v Speaker 1>and made out with him out of pity. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she was about ready to tell him that she wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>into him, and then he went to go like then

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<v Speaker 1>then he got the call that his grandpa died, and

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<v Speaker 1>then she was like damn. It kind of blew everything too.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say, I think the most important text that

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<v Speaker 1>I agree with that we've gotten several is he did

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<v Speaker 1>sound exactly like Seth Rogan, Yeah, that's the most important.

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<v Speaker 1>It was bugging me. I'm like, who does he not unlock? Anyway?

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was anyway, they are not going to go

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<v Speaker 1>out again. If you want to do a second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>just email the show and we will call the person

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<v Speaker 1>who didn't call you back. Young Jeffrey's Song of the

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<v Speaker 1>Week is coming up in just a few minutes at

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<v Speaker 1>eight ten, move at ninety two point five.