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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date update Today, a dude name Adam is
Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update and his
Speaker 1: email said it was one of the worst but also
Speaker 1: one of the best dates of my life. So I'm
Speaker 1: really interested to hear what happened. Hey, Adam, what's up?
Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going. I take
Speaker 1: it the good outweighs the bad since you're on the
Speaker 1: phone with us trying to get a second date update.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like one of those dates that
Speaker 1: kind of like you didn't think would go too great,
Speaker 1: but then it just don't go great, but also went gray.
Speaker 1: We totally know it. No clue what you're talking about.
Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us the girl you want to Holliday?
Speaker 1: What's her name? Marcy? Marcy? All right? And how did
Speaker 1: you meet Marcy? We met at a bakery. That's kind
Speaker 1: of cute. Were you guys both buying bread at the
Speaker 1: same time and you reach for the same loaves and
Speaker 1: your hands touched No, I had to put a little
Speaker 1: more effort into it. But I was just there, you know,
Speaker 1: getting coffee and stuff. But she was picking up a
Speaker 1: cake and I thought she was kind of cute, so
Speaker 1: I sort of just struck up a conversation and was like, Hey,
Speaker 1: is that is that cake for me? Because it's my birthday?
Speaker 1: Was it actually your birthday? Or is that just like
Speaker 1: not even quote a fabulous, fabulous pickup line I would
Speaker 1: have worked on me, it obviously worked on her. So
Speaker 1: it was like one of my stronger pickup lines. Um,
Speaker 1: that sounds strong. Did you actually ripped the cake from
Speaker 1: her hands and say it was your birthday? And yeah?
Speaker 1: She was like, well, it's my friend's birthday, so she'd
Speaker 1: be kind of mad if I gave away a piece
Speaker 1: of her cake. So I was like, well, really I
Speaker 1: just wanted your number. Oh that smooth man. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: she was happy to oblige that. What do you guys
Speaker 1: do when you actually went out? We just went off
Speaker 1: to a bar to you know, have some drinks and
Speaker 1: kind of talk and stuff. What was your mood going
Speaker 1: into it? Oh? It was great, Like we were super friendly.
Speaker 1: That was the bad part. You're like, oh, I didn't
Speaker 1: want to be there at all. Yeah, Well, the bad
Speaker 1: part was probably like twenty thirty minutes into it or
Speaker 1: really like vibing, and I keep getting a couple of
Speaker 1: calls from my mom, which is not like really normal.
Speaker 1: She didn't usually call a bunch of times, right, So
Speaker 1: then you automatically think it's an emergency. I would, oh, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: and it was. I mean, my grandfather had died. Oh
Speaker 1: it's not the kind of news you want to get
Speaker 1: in the middle of a date. I guess it depends
Speaker 1: on your relationship with your grandfather, but I would think
Speaker 1: it would be a bad thing. Yeah. Yeah, he's like
Speaker 1: that guy was an a hole. That's fabulous. So so
Speaker 1: I guessing you didn't like the news. No, news wasn't great,
Speaker 1: and needless to say, kind of threw me off my game.
Speaker 1: I mean actually one point, like I was kind of
Speaker 1: I was crying, and so she offered to stay with
Speaker 1: me for a little while and then actually came back
Speaker 1: to my place. That's a great way to get some
Speaker 1: pity sex. It was a great way. Yeah, yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: Heaven's got a wingman and his name is Grandpa. Now,
Speaker 1: actually we ended up having a little makeout session by
Speaker 1: the end of the night. I think it was unrelated.
Speaker 1: I hope it was unrelated. Hopefully the death of your
Speaker 1: grand i didn't turn her on. Yeah, so you guys
Speaker 1: actually went back to your place and made out. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we went back to my place and did all that,
Speaker 1: and then you know, after a while, she was like, Okay,
Speaker 1: well I gotta I gotta get going. Um it was
Speaker 1: getting pretty late. Said, that's like the worst date and
Speaker 1: the best date because it sounds like a really lovely
Speaker 1: interaction with another person. Well, yeah, it was. It was
Speaker 1: very personal and I feel like we connected, but like
Speaker 1: she's kind of been ghosted me a little since then.
Speaker 1: I tried to text her and they'll take like a
Speaker 1: while for a text back, like a few days, and
Speaker 1: it'll sort of just be like a one word thing
Speaker 1: or or nothing at all. Okay, so you definitely think
Speaker 1: she's baowing you off. Yeah, any reason that you can
Speaker 1: think of why I. I guess I might be like
Speaker 1: an ugly crier. Yeah, but does anyone ever think that
Speaker 1: they're a pretty crier unless you're like in a Hollywood movie,
Speaker 1: Like it just doesn't happen in real life. I mean,
Speaker 1: like my cry is like pretty ugly. All just not.
Speaker 1: It's just a mess. I mean, and I kind of
Speaker 1: but a sort of chokes up like this really good,
Speaker 1: it's it's bad, it's it. That was a weird way
Speaker 1: to describe your cry. All right, So you think maybe
Speaker 1: she was turned off by your ugly crying. It has
Speaker 1: to be otherwise, like we really hit it off. Why
Speaker 1: would you want to go out with somebody who isn't
Speaker 1: calling you back because you were ryan in not an
Speaker 1: attractive way. I guess because your grandfather died like that
Speaker 1: is shallow. If that's the case, well I don't I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know if that's the reason. I just that's
Speaker 1: the only thing I could think of. Okay, well we'll
Speaker 1: play a song and then come back and call her
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Okay, okay, thank you
Speaker 1: rooking jubile in the morning. Nothing really out of the
Speaker 1: ordinary in today's second date update. I mean, we've all
Speaker 1: been on dates where somebody's died, right, Sometimes it's on
Speaker 1: the way home from the date. But whatever it happens.
Speaker 1: And Adam is on the phone, that's the issue that
Speaker 1: he's kind of dealing with. He went out with a
Speaker 1: girl named Marcy. They had a good time, but In
Speaker 1: the middle of his date, he got a phone call
Speaker 1: that his grandpa had passed away. Obviously he was sad
Speaker 1: about that, but Marcy ended up hanging out with him
Speaker 1: for a little while longer. They even went back to
Speaker 1: his place and made out. And now she's kind of
Speaker 1: blowing him off and he doesn't know why. The only
Speaker 1: excuse he can think of is maybe he's an ugly crier. Adam,
Speaker 1: are you ready to call Marcy and see why she
Speaker 1: not wanting to go out with you again? Yeah? I'm
Speaker 1: pretty anxious to find out. And I forgot to ask
Speaker 1: because I mean, you're thinking, like maybe it's the ugly
Speaker 1: crying thing. But you guys made out after that, right, Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 1: And you didn't cry again after your makeout or you did? No, no,
Speaker 1: not during either. Okay, I was gonna say during would
Speaker 1: be even worse thing. All right, Well, I'm gonna dollar
Speaker 1: phone number right now and see if we can figure
Speaker 1: it out. Here we go, cool? Hello, Hi, can I
Speaker 1: speak to Marcy please? This is she? Hey Marcy? How
Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, how did you
Speaker 1: get my number? I have everybody's number on speed dial
Speaker 1: all the time. I got your number because at call
Speaker 1: or something. No, no, it isn't um Okay. One of
Speaker 1: our listeners actually emailed us and asked if we could
Speaker 1: get in touch with you. Okay. His name is Adam,
Speaker 1: and you guys went out on a date the other day.
Speaker 1: Oh gosh. And we do a segment on our show
Speaker 1: that's called the second Date Update. It's where if you
Speaker 1: go out on a date with somebody and then end
Speaker 1: up blowing them off after, they can email us to
Speaker 1: get you on the phone and ask why. So. Adam
Speaker 1: emailed us, told us a little bit about your date
Speaker 1: and also is confused why it seems like you don't
Speaker 1: want to go out with him again. Oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: are you serious? No? This all joke print calls? Oh god,
Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't know what to say.
Speaker 1: I feel bad. He said a lot of nice things
Speaker 1: about you and about your guys's date. It sounds like
Speaker 1: you guys really had a connection. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: just kind of thought the whole night was a little weird.
Speaker 1: Well I can understand that. I mean, he told us
Speaker 1: about the date and how he got a call in
Speaker 1: the middle of it that his grandpa had died. That
Speaker 1: would make things weird. I would think, yeah, yeah, and
Speaker 1: I feel so bad. It did sort of put a
Speaker 1: damper on everything. Was that The part where things got
Speaker 1: a little weird was when he got upset and cried
Speaker 1: about his grandfather passing. No, it wasn't. I mean, I
Speaker 1: hate to say it, but I kind of knew pretty
Speaker 1: early on into the night that I just wasn't really
Speaker 1: feeling it with him. And I can't really explain it, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't think it was anything that he actually did
Speaker 1: or said. He said, you guys made out like I
Speaker 1: feel like he obviously did not interpret. I mean, I
Speaker 1: know I shouldn't have done that. I really shouldn't have
Speaker 1: done that better. That was gonna be my question, if
Speaker 1: you weren't feeling him, why make out with the dude? Well,
Speaker 1: because I was pretty much gearing up in my head
Speaker 1: how to tell him that, you know, I'm not really
Speaker 1: feeling it. And I was literally like about to do it.
Speaker 1: And then he gets this call and he gets a
Speaker 1: call from his mom, and I'm not I'm just sort
Speaker 1: of sitting there and I can really see that something
Speaker 1: she's telling him really bad news. He starts crying find
Speaker 1: out that his grandfather passed away, And at that moment,
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell him that I wasn't into him, because
Speaker 1: that would be a tough situation to be and to
Speaker 1: be like, I'm gonna tell this guy that I don't
Speaker 1: like him, oh now his grand I was literally about
Speaker 1: to tell him because I'm not that type of girl.
Speaker 1: I really am not that type of girl to try
Speaker 1: to lead someone on, and I really knew from the
Speaker 1: get go I just wasn't feeling it. I was going
Speaker 1: to tell him he gets his call, and all of
Speaker 1: a sudden, then I was just sort of like, oh, gosh,
Speaker 1: I have to be nice, Marcy. You do understand that
Speaker 1: being nice and then going back to somebody's place and
Speaker 1: making out with him are really two different things. I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know your definition of nice, you know, But like,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to make his night any worse than
Speaker 1: what it was, so I just went with it. And
Speaker 1: I don't know what didn't you like about him? I'm
Speaker 1: telling you, like, I can't really explain it. I just
Speaker 1: wasn't feeling it. Yeah, I mean, we all go out
Speaker 1: with people where, for whatever reason, you just don't really
Speaker 1: like him, even it's not that they're unattractive necessarily, just
Speaker 1: like they Yeah, I don't know. I think in the
Speaker 1: very beginning, it was just the conversation fell a little flat,
Speaker 1: and I didn't feel that spart I didn't feel that yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, we get, we get all that, But
Speaker 1: why make out with him? I can't even Willie he
Speaker 1: told you about that. I mean, it's duable of me,
Speaker 1: but it was sort of out of pity. So basically
Speaker 1: when he leaned in to kiss me, I just didn't
Speaker 1: stop him. I would get I would, you know, like
Speaker 1: it's easy to be judgy about that. But in the
Speaker 1: same vein, I feel like everyone in this room has
Speaker 1: made out with somebody that they weren't actually that into before.
Speaker 1: Oh I've done it for years in some relationships, for sure.
Speaker 1: I don't know guys like as much as I knew that,
Speaker 1: I really shouldn't be doing this and it's so out
Speaker 1: of character for me, and I was not trying to
Speaker 1: take advantage of him in any way. But at the
Speaker 1: same time, I just witnessed this guy that I hardly
Speaker 1: know get told that a very close family of a
Speaker 1: member of his passed away. I just didn't have it
Speaker 1: in me to not please him a little bit. Wasn't
Speaker 1: there any moment like there was a one moment where
Speaker 1: you were like, oh maybe I was wrong, maybe I
Speaker 1: could do this, maybe I could be into him. No,
Speaker 1: not at all. I was looking for hope there, Mercy. Well, Marcy,
Speaker 1: I do want to let you know that Adam is
Speaker 1: actually on the other line listening and wants to talk
Speaker 1: to you. No, are you serious? Oh what mor can
Speaker 1: you guys do it to me? Adam? Oh? Gosh, yeah,
Speaker 1: summer hey, Oh oh my gosh. So I mean that
Speaker 1: the whole thing was at a pity. I mean, I
Speaker 1: I just didn't want to hurt your feelings. I don't
Speaker 1: know I would already you would already even hurt enough
Speaker 1: that night, and I just really felt so bad. As
Speaker 1: hard as it was, he was hard for me too,
Speaker 1: because I was stuck in this like rock and a
Speaker 1: hard place, you know. I mean, uh, like we had
Speaker 1: we got pizza together after like that that was just
Speaker 1: at a pity because a pity pizza. I mean, man,
Speaker 1: I don't really know what more I can say. Did
Speaker 1: you give me like clear signs that you weren't interested?
Speaker 1: It seemed like you've made it out with me because
Speaker 1: you because a pity I mean pretty much. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: just being honest with you. Now, I know you were
Speaker 1: called the radio ta. I don't know what more. I
Speaker 1: just I mean, you used a lot of tongue for
Speaker 1: a pity kiss. Okay, yeah, I mean, you know, Marcia,
Speaker 1: pity kiss has a certain amount of tongue. Were you
Speaker 1: going overboard on the tongue with your It was not
Speaker 1: a non committal makeout session, you know. Like I said,
Speaker 1: I felt really bad. I because I had to do
Speaker 1: something to like make your night a little bit better.
Speaker 1: And I don't know what else I can say. Wow,
Speaker 1: I mean you are a very talented actress then, because
Speaker 1: you you know, this performance and what you did the
Speaker 1: other night, Like it's I can't tell what's real and
Speaker 1: what's not anymore, honestly. I mean what's real is that
Speaker 1: I think you should just try to move on. Oh
Speaker 1: just because I did that, I really I don't think
Speaker 1: it means that I have to go out with him again.
Speaker 1: It would just a second one would be another pity.
Speaker 1: It was like two dates basically. Yeah, and I now
Speaker 1: we've gotten into deep, you know what I mean. It's
Speaker 1: it's I mean, I can't believe you would do that
Speaker 1: if that happened to you and one of your relatives died,
Speaker 1: I would do the respectable thing and just walk away
Speaker 1: get out of there. Okay, Okay, yeah, guys like I
Speaker 1: don't really this is getting to me too. I tried
Speaker 1: to be nice. I really did. I'm really sorry. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: don't be sorry just yet, because I do have to
Speaker 1: ask you if you'd like to go on another date
Speaker 1: with Adam. We will pay for it. Would you like
Speaker 1: to want a second date? No? Okay, I thought that
Speaker 1: was coming. Adam's like. I didn't even want you to
Speaker 1: ask that question anymore, because Marcy, you are real piece
Speaker 1: of work. Just like leading a guy on like that
Speaker 1: looks seriously. Okay, this is taking me back so much.
Speaker 1: I was literally just trying to be nice to you.
Speaker 1: I was trying to support you. I mean, is there
Speaker 1: anybody here that can back me up on this? Am
Speaker 1: I crazy or something? I was just trying to be nice. No,
Speaker 1: they're not going to back you up. That's not well
Speaker 1: either way. Adam, you didn't get your second day, and
Speaker 1: Alicia know why now, and Marcy thank you for taking
Speaker 1: the time to talk to us about it. Appreciate it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: now I feel a hundred thousand times worse. Thank you.
Speaker 1: I want I want both you guys to think about this.
Speaker 1: That night, when you guys are making out, Adam's grandpa
Speaker 1: was watching you think about that. In the morning, text
Speaker 1: in A seven eight five nine two said I probably
Speaker 1: would have done the same thing. Talking about today's second
Speaker 1: date update if you missed it, this dude, Adam wanted
Speaker 1: to call a girl named Marcy that he went out with.
Speaker 1: When they were out, he found out that his grandpa
Speaker 1: had actually died, and he was very upset. But she
Speaker 1: was there for him and they went back to his
Speaker 1: place and they even made out. But when we got
Speaker 1: her on the phone, she admitted that she was never
Speaker 1: really into Adam. She only stayed with him that night
Speaker 1: and made out with him out of pity. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was about ready to tell him that she wasn't
Speaker 1: into him, and then he went to go like then
Speaker 1: then he got the call that his grandpa died, and
Speaker 1: then she was like damn. It kind of blew everything too.
Speaker 1: I will say, I think the most important text that
Speaker 1: I agree with that we've gotten several is he did
Speaker 1: sound exactly like Seth Rogan, Yeah, that's the most important.
Speaker 1: It was bugging me. I'm like, who does he not unlock? Anyway?
Speaker 1: Maybe it was anyway, they are not going to go
Speaker 1: out again. If you want to do a second day update,
Speaker 1: just email the show and we will call the person
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