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Speaker 1: Jebels Second date update Today, a dude name Adam is

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Speaker 1: on the phone for a second date update and his

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Speaker 1: email said it was one of the worst but also

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Speaker 1: one of the best dates of my life. So I'm

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Speaker 1: really interested to hear what happened. Hey, Adam, what's up?

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Speaker 1: How are you? Hey? Guys, how's it going. I take

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Speaker 1: it the good outweighs the bad since you're on the

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Speaker 1: phone with us trying to get a second date update.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like one of those dates that

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Speaker 1: kind of like you didn't think would go too great,

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Speaker 1: but then it just don't go great, but also went gray.

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Speaker 1: We totally know it. No clue what you're talking about.

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Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us the girl you want to Holliday?

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Speaker 1: What's her name? Marcy? Marcy? All right? And how did

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Speaker 1: you meet Marcy? We met at a bakery. That's kind

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Speaker 1: of cute. Were you guys both buying bread at the

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Speaker 1: same time and you reach for the same loaves and

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Speaker 1: your hands touched No, I had to put a little

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Speaker 1: more effort into it. But I was just there, you know,

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Speaker 1: I sort of just struck up a conversation and was like, Hey,

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Speaker 1: is that is that cake for me? Because it's my birthday?

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Speaker 1: Was it actually your birthday? Or is that just like

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Speaker 1: not even quote a fabulous, fabulous pickup line I would

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Speaker 1: have worked on me, it obviously worked on her. So

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Speaker 1: it was like one of my stronger pickup lines. Um,

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Speaker 1: She was like, well, it's my friend's birthday, so she'd

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Speaker 1: just wanted your number. Oh that smooth man. Yeah, so

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Speaker 1: she was happy to oblige that. What do you guys

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Speaker 1: into it? Oh? It was great, Like we were super friendly.

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Speaker 1: She didn't usually call a bunch of times, right, So

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Speaker 1: then you automatically think it's an emergency. I would, oh, yeah, absolutely,

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Speaker 1: it's not the kind of news you want to get

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Speaker 1: and needless to say, kind of threw me off my game.

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Speaker 1: rooking jubile in the morning. Nothing really out of the

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Speaker 1: And Adam is on the phone, that's the issue that

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Speaker 1: it out. Here we go, cool? Hello, Hi, can I

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Speaker 1: speak to Marcy please? This is she? Hey Marcy? How

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Speaker 1: are you? This is Jewbil from the radio show Brook

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, okay, how did you

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Speaker 1: and you guys went out on a date the other day.

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Speaker 1: Oh gosh. And we do a segment on our show

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Speaker 1: that's called the second Date Update. It's where if you

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Speaker 1: are you serious? No? This all joke print calls? Oh god,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I just I don't know what to say.

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