1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: don't know y'all have a suit giving them like the 3 00:00:15,920 --> 00:00:26,840 Speaker 1: million bucks things in the stubs. Good listen to mother 4 00:00:27,000 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: for stay. I don't join by joining me. You gotta turn, 5 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:42,920 Speaker 1: hur you go. You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn. 6 00:01:43,120 --> 00:01:46,880 Speaker 1: You haven't got to turn them out to turn the 7 00:01:46,959 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: water to the water. Go. Come, come on your thing. 8 00:02:01,200 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: Uh huh, I shore will a good morning everybody. You 9 00:02:05,520 --> 00:02:08,040 Speaker 1: are listening to the voice? Come on dig me now, 10 00:02:08,280 --> 00:02:12,239 Speaker 1: one and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man 11 00:02:12,320 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 1: o man o man? How good is God to me? 12 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:18,400 Speaker 1: And part of the mission and the reason that I 13 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 1: have a radio show is to become a share of 14 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:26,360 Speaker 1: more and more of a share of you know. I 15 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:28,040 Speaker 1: used to hear my mother say it to me all 16 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:30,639 Speaker 1: the time. But God blesses you to become a blessing. 17 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: And I think the more you understand that about yourself, 18 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: I think the more blessings will flow your way. I 19 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:41,880 Speaker 1: think that once you understand the principle that you know. 20 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: But it's kind of tied together with some other scriptures, 21 00:02:44,760 --> 00:02:48,280 Speaker 1: and I'm not too knowledgeable about them, of course, as usual, 22 00:02:48,720 --> 00:02:51,960 Speaker 1: but I do know what I've heard you know, and 23 00:02:52,240 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: you know if you look at something simple as do 24 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:56,560 Speaker 1: unto others as you would have them do unto you, 25 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:00,799 Speaker 1: wouldn't you want somebody to help you you needed help. 26 00:03:02,120 --> 00:03:03,919 Speaker 1: I just know how to get it down there to 27 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:08,440 Speaker 1: where I've been able to understand it. If there's a 28 00:03:08,480 --> 00:03:11,920 Speaker 1: scripture similar that it says do unto others as you 29 00:03:11,919 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 1: would have them do unto you, or if that's you know, 30 00:03:17,200 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 1: in a prayer, would not you want somebody to help 31 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:27,200 Speaker 1: you if you needed help? You've heard you reap what 32 00:03:27,400 --> 00:03:32,519 Speaker 1: you sow. Do you understand that if you so discord, 33 00:03:33,120 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 1: that discord is gonna come your way. That if you hate, 34 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:41,200 Speaker 1: hate gonna come your way. If you blog nothing but 35 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: negative comments about people, your life will be filled with negativity. 36 00:03:46,440 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: If all you do is talk about people, then guess 37 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:51,360 Speaker 1: what somebody got to turn that gun around and talk 38 00:03:51,400 --> 00:03:56,839 Speaker 1: about you. See, it just stands to reasons. So what 39 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,320 Speaker 1: I've learned in my life and through all the trials 40 00:04:00,360 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 1: and tribulations that I've had, is to take those lessons 41 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: and share them with people in case you ain't heard 42 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 1: it from somebody else. See sometimes and the reason it 43 00:04:11,920 --> 00:04:15,440 Speaker 1: seems like I'm redundant at times, is what I am 44 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:19,039 Speaker 1: is because I'm always trying to find a different way 45 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:22,320 Speaker 1: to say the same thing. Because it's a funny thing. Man, 46 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: you got to hear it a certain way for it 47 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: to click with you. How many times have I heard 48 00:04:30,279 --> 00:04:34,719 Speaker 1: a saying and then I heard it a different way 49 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: that it clicked with me? You know, I've heard of 50 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,520 Speaker 1: this saying right here, Remember this now, everybody's not happy 51 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: for you. We've all heard that, right, everybody's not happy 52 00:04:47,000 --> 00:04:50,920 Speaker 1: for you. Well, that's very simple that I don't need 53 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: no explanation. That simply means of all the people you 54 00:04:55,240 --> 00:04:58,719 Speaker 1: know or do not know, when something happens to you 55 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 1: and you celebrate, everybody's not going to join in on 56 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 1: the celebration. That's all that is. But then you take 57 00:05:06,680 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: it one step further. My father used to say something 58 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: to me all the time. He says, son, everybody come 59 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,720 Speaker 1: with you, can't go with you. I didn't get that 60 00:05:13,720 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: when I was fifteen. Everybody come with you can't go 61 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: with you. He said, you're gonna lose some of these 62 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: friends you got along the way. But I don't care 63 00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,799 Speaker 1: where you get in life. No, this right here, everybody 64 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,640 Speaker 1: can't go with you. If you are constantly trying to 65 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:32,240 Speaker 1: improve yourself, you constantly have to take assessment of the 66 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:35,920 Speaker 1: people around you. Because if you are going to continue 67 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 1: to go and continue to grow, then guess what you 68 00:05:39,320 --> 00:05:41,880 Speaker 1: got to have people that's on the goal and willing 69 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 1: to grow, or else, guess what you're gonna learn the 70 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:51,240 Speaker 1: valuable lesson. You know, the late boxing promoter Butch Lewis. 71 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 1: I was talking with Butch Lewis one time, and man 72 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: with a good brother man, he say, every successful man 73 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,080 Speaker 1: is doing what I call he got rope work to do. 74 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:05,719 Speaker 1: He got rope work to do. He got to put 75 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:09,120 Speaker 1: in work on rope. And I'm sitting there listening to 76 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:11,760 Speaker 1: Butch Lewis and all the money he had made and 77 00:06:11,800 --> 00:06:13,839 Speaker 1: all the people's lives he had changed, and all of 78 00:06:13,880 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 1: the moves he was made, and his incredible skills as 79 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:20,359 Speaker 1: a negotiator on behalf of some very very wealthy people. 80 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: He was just an amazing man with no education. But 81 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:27,279 Speaker 1: he read everything. He Butch Lewis read all that, all 82 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:31,679 Speaker 1: the papers, all the periodicals. That brother knew everything. He said, 83 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 1: you got to put in rope. And I was sitting 84 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:38,040 Speaker 1: there listening. He said here's the analogy, little brother. He said, 85 00:06:38,080 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: you are on rope. There's a thick rope. You have 86 00:06:42,160 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 1: on no shirt, you have on some tattered clothes. You 87 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: have on no shoes. Your shorts is cut off just 88 00:06:49,560 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: below the knee, and they tattered, and you got dirt 89 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 1: on you and you're sweating. There's this huge, huge raw 90 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:59,880 Speaker 1: rope over your shoulder that's burn marks on all of 91 00:06:59,880 --> 00:07:04,040 Speaker 1: your shoulder. Connected to that rope is a wagon. That 92 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 1: wagon has all your weight on it, all your responsibilities, 93 00:07:09,279 --> 00:07:13,400 Speaker 1: all the people you're responsible for, all your children, your wife, 94 00:07:13,840 --> 00:07:19,440 Speaker 1: your family members, your employees, your coworkers, your friends. They 95 00:07:19,560 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: all on that wagon. Man, they're just sitting there. He's saying, 96 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:26,000 Speaker 1: what you gotta do is you gotta pull that wagon 97 00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:28,800 Speaker 1: up the heel. Now, only thing with it is, can't 98 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:33,480 Speaker 1: nobody help you pull your wagon? You pull your wagon alone. 99 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: He saying, Now, what you can do along the way 100 00:07:36,520 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 1: of pulling your wagon, as you can find yourself a 101 00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,960 Speaker 1: good wife, a good woman. He's saying that what that 102 00:07:42,080 --> 00:07:45,080 Speaker 1: woman does is she get down off the wagon. She 103 00:07:45,280 --> 00:07:47,800 Speaker 1: fan you while you pull it. She put water on 104 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: you while you pull it. She puts stuff in your 105 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: mouth while you pull it. She kicked rocks out the 106 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:55,680 Speaker 1: way while you pull it. But she but she pull 107 00:07:55,720 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: it for you. But she is equally as important as 108 00:07:58,440 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 1: you are on the pull of the rope. He said, 109 00:08:01,080 --> 00:08:03,520 Speaker 1: you hear me clearly now, young soldier. He said, NA 110 00:08:03,680 --> 00:08:06,840 Speaker 1: get this hell, he says, people on your wagon that 111 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:10,280 Speaker 1: you're responsible for. But you want the people on your 112 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:13,280 Speaker 1: wagon to help you get your wagon to the top. 113 00:08:13,520 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 1: So what you hope is that they got their foot 114 00:08:16,200 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 1: hanging over the side pushing, They got one leg over 115 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: the back, or maybe both legs over the back pushing. 116 00:08:23,120 --> 00:08:25,200 Speaker 1: They got they might have their butt on the wagon, 117 00:08:25,360 --> 00:08:28,160 Speaker 1: but they push you with both legs. They're back facing 118 00:08:28,200 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: your back, maybe some of them facing you when one 119 00:08:30,440 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: of them got left leg hanging over trying to push. 120 00:08:32,880 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: And you hope that all the people on the wagon 121 00:08:36,080 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: you pullings back there at least trying to help the 122 00:08:38,760 --> 00:08:40,920 Speaker 1: wagon get to the top of the hill. Here goes 123 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:45,439 Speaker 1: your problem. Though everybody ain't pushing, everybody ain't pull it, 124 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:48,880 Speaker 1: ain't bar everybody ain't pulling, Everybody ain't kicking rocks out 125 00:08:48,920 --> 00:08:51,520 Speaker 1: the way. You got some people on your wagon that's 126 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: just laying on the wagon drinking lemonade, looking at you, 127 00:08:56,280 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: talking about how long it's taking you to get your 128 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,120 Speaker 1: wagon up to the top, looking at you, telling my 129 00:09:01,200 --> 00:09:04,600 Speaker 1: whitest wagon, so slow. Then when you start picking up 130 00:09:04,800 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: picking up speed, they want you to pull harder, you 131 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,800 Speaker 1: to pull faster, you to pull mole. Then they want 132 00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 1: you to throw what you then earned on the way 133 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:15,280 Speaker 1: up the hill backed on the wagon so they can 134 00:09:15,360 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: have mo. But guess what, they ain't helping you get more, 135 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,560 Speaker 1: but they got a sense of entitlement that since you 136 00:09:20,760 --> 00:09:24,360 Speaker 1: got mold, they should have more. Everybody come with you 137 00:09:24,720 --> 00:09:27,960 Speaker 1: can't go with you. Sometimes you gotta kick the people 138 00:09:27,960 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: off the wagon that ain't pushing and pull it and say, 139 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:33,360 Speaker 1: hey man, I'm sorry. I thought I could do this 140 00:09:33,440 --> 00:09:35,360 Speaker 1: with you, and I thought you was going with me. 141 00:09:35,600 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: But it's clear to me you ain't nothing but dead weight. 142 00:09:38,440 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 1: And it ain't my responsibility to carry dead weight anymore. 143 00:09:42,040 --> 00:09:44,040 Speaker 1: I have carried you as long as I have to 144 00:09:44,080 --> 00:09:48,400 Speaker 1: carry you. You are no longer my responsibility. I'm responsible 145 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:51,760 Speaker 1: for my family, my wife, my children. I'm not responsible 146 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:54,079 Speaker 1: for you. You got to get off my wagon because 147 00:09:54,080 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 1: I'm a man on rope. I'm on a mission, baby, 148 00:09:56,280 --> 00:10:03,079 Speaker 1: I'm pulling you're listening Morning show, ladies and gentlemen to 149 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:09,439 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Us alive and well live h 150 00:10:10,200 --> 00:10:18,000 Speaker 1: just alive and well you know, it's just trying to 151 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 1: come out. Thank you, Thank you Lord, Thank you Lord 152 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: for today. Thank you my life, love and liberty. Come on, 153 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 1: thank you for kindness, great and mercy. Thank you for 154 00:10:46,280 --> 00:10:53,840 Speaker 1: readjuve name my speed. Thank you'll ladies and gentlemen. Surely Strawberry, 155 00:10:54,679 --> 00:11:02,680 Speaker 1: thank you call him five real. Thank you mona hey, 156 00:11:03,920 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: yia faces e k the legend. Can't all pew take 157 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: your side and excuse me for it? Door fled myself. 158 00:11:30,880 --> 00:11:41,160 Speaker 1: Come on me the junior. Yeah, let me let me 159 00:11:41,240 --> 00:11:42,640 Speaker 1: ask just up. Man. You know, we was at the 160 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: barbershop talking man Mama boy talking about one of the 161 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 1: worst dates he had met this chicken he went out 162 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: with him, but her mama came and ate thirty. So 163 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:54,920 Speaker 1: I was just asking, up, what's one of the worst 164 00:11:55,000 --> 00:11:57,120 Speaker 1: dates you've ever been on? And you knew I'm gonna 165 00:11:57,120 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: be the last time you saw her. Well, that time 166 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: that I finally got that creole girl to date me 167 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: in college, Oh love. She was fun and I'd never 168 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:12,120 Speaker 1: had creole food before she went to a creole restaurant 169 00:12:12,400 --> 00:12:19,600 Speaker 1: off campus and had all that spicy ass food, and 170 00:12:19,760 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 1: she liked spicy food, so I just went with him. 171 00:12:22,800 --> 00:12:25,840 Speaker 1: But it was cutting me, cut me up pretty bad. 172 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:29,960 Speaker 1: I felt like a box cutter was going across my stomach. 173 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,800 Speaker 1: And I went into her house and I had to 174 00:12:34,800 --> 00:12:36,600 Speaker 1: go to bathroom. I was trying to make it back 175 00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:38,640 Speaker 1: to the dorm, and she said, come on in, my mama, 176 00:12:38,760 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 1: need him. Ain't in time. Oh yeah, I couldn't pass 177 00:12:41,280 --> 00:12:42,560 Speaker 1: it up, but I knew I should have went home. 178 00:12:42,559 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: Became my mama taught me, whenever you got to go 179 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,560 Speaker 1: to bath food and sit on that toilet, you come home. 180 00:12:48,280 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: You don't need to let this go at nobody's house. 181 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:53,560 Speaker 1: And I went right an. I didn't have no matches, 182 00:12:53,720 --> 00:12:56,880 Speaker 1: couldn't keep this, couldn't keep that soft for smell in 183 00:12:56,960 --> 00:13:02,080 Speaker 1: the air, and Lord him, when I got through sitting there, 184 00:13:02,880 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 1: I had put most stuff in the bold and I 185 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,480 Speaker 1: had ever done in mind tire like wow, when I 186 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 1: flushed it, Yeah, it was not enough water in that boat. Okay, seriously, 187 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 1: that's just the beginning of the worst date. I could 188 00:13:20,960 --> 00:13:24,160 Speaker 1: tell you the whole story, but we ain't got Thank God, 189 00:13:24,200 --> 00:13:33,560 Speaker 1: Thank god, I never got better and broke up. All right, 190 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,679 Speaker 1: thank you, Junior and Steve coming up at thirty two 191 00:13:37,679 --> 00:13:39,760 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we're gonna start to show off 192 00:13:39,800 --> 00:13:42,160 Speaker 1: with the nephew and run that prank back right after this. 193 00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:46,760 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 194 00:13:46,800 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 1: it is time to start our morning off with the 195 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:52,080 Speaker 1: nephew and run that prank back. Nephew, What kind of 196 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: foolishness do you have for us today? This ride is 197 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 1: called give me my arm back of me that dog? 198 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:09,120 Speaker 1: If you would Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Philip. Yeah, 199 00:14:09,160 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: that's this is Philip. Hey, how you doing? Who is 200 00:14:11,960 --> 00:14:15,440 Speaker 1: this are you? Philip? Up? Is that who you are? Yes? 201 00:14:15,720 --> 00:14:19,720 Speaker 1: This is Philip? Okay, there is there is There is 202 00:14:19,760 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: your son, dude, dude, you know what there is? Okay, 203 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:27,240 Speaker 1: Calm down, Yes, okay, there is my son. Calm down. 204 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 1: First of all, is your son? Is he there at 205 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: the house right now? Okay? That okay, that's not the issue. 206 00:14:33,280 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 1: What the issue is? What what do you what do 207 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:39,160 Speaker 1: you need? Sir? My name is Burns okay, and I 208 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: lived two streets old from y'all. Do your son play 209 00:14:42,040 --> 00:14:45,640 Speaker 1: with a boy? Named Timm timmis. Yes, they grew up together. 210 00:14:45,680 --> 00:14:47,920 Speaker 1: They play ball together. That that's where they are now. 211 00:14:47,960 --> 00:14:51,040 Speaker 1: They playing ball right now? What they playing balling right now? 212 00:14:51,400 --> 00:14:53,960 Speaker 1: Sting up down there at the park. The play ball 213 00:14:54,000 --> 00:14:56,000 Speaker 1: and don't they always as the part. That's what I 214 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:57,720 Speaker 1: need to know. I need to know where they are. 215 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,520 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something. Hold on saying hold on, 216 00:15:00,520 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 1: I'm saying what you need to know where they are 217 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:04,720 Speaker 1: for and what you're gonna do. What is the problem 218 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 1: my dead boys there is and Pim come they they 219 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: were walking up my street today and came over here. 220 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:14,800 Speaker 1: I have a prosthetic arm. My right arm is prosthetic, 221 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:17,680 Speaker 1: and they know the hold hold hold on saying you 222 00:15:17,720 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: say you got a prosthetic arm, Yes, I do. My 223 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:24,120 Speaker 1: right arm is a prosthetic arm. And then boys came 224 00:15:24,120 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: over what they got to do with my son, Joe 225 00:15:26,240 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: Boy and that boy Pim came over here and pulled 226 00:15:29,200 --> 00:15:31,240 Speaker 1: my arm off of me and ran down the street 227 00:15:31,280 --> 00:15:34,400 Speaker 1: with it. The old saying hold on, I'm saying old, 228 00:15:34,480 --> 00:15:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying, you try to tell me that that that 229 00:15:37,320 --> 00:15:40,160 Speaker 1: you lost your arm to my son and his friend 230 00:15:40,200 --> 00:15:43,239 Speaker 1: and they ran off with your arm. They played basketball 231 00:15:43,440 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: is that what you're telling me? So I'm telling you 232 00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I didn't know nothing about no basketball. 233 00:15:48,400 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 1: They didn't came and took my prosthetic arm off of me. 234 00:15:52,200 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying. Hold I'm saying, you tell you something 235 00:15:54,560 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: that doesn't sound like what something my son would do. Okay, 236 00:15:58,280 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 1: exactly what they do, what they gonna on it all times, 237 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,400 Speaker 1: and that's not something that they would do. I'm sick 238 00:16:03,440 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: complayer talking about what they kid we will do it, 239 00:16:05,880 --> 00:16:07,920 Speaker 1: won't do. You don't know what they do when they 240 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:10,600 Speaker 1: with y'all. I'm glad you told me that, say at 241 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 1: the part, because I'm gonna go right over here to 242 00:16:12,360 --> 00:16:14,760 Speaker 1: this fark now and when I found him, I'm a woman, 243 00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 1: can't get money back. Okay, hold on, hold on, hold 244 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 1: on saying hold on, just hold everything, Okay, hold on 245 00:16:21,640 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 1: saging now because you don't say that you won't go 246 00:16:24,040 --> 00:16:27,600 Speaker 1: do something that I know you don't really mean. All right, 247 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:30,240 Speaker 1: say what I mean exactly what I'm saying. They got 248 00:16:30,280 --> 00:16:33,320 Speaker 1: my all. How you thinking feels that somebody trying to 249 00:16:33,320 --> 00:16:36,600 Speaker 1: take your arm? Sir? Okay, look, let's try to keep disrespectful, 250 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 1: all right. All Right, you say they got your arm, right, 251 00:16:39,760 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: how about this, you're going to go get my boys? Okay? 252 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:46,000 Speaker 1: First of all, I will meet you at the park, 253 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: all right, I will meet you at the park, and 254 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: we're gonna talk to talk about the situation like like, gentlemen, 255 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:53,880 Speaker 1: okayin't know, ain't don't need for me to go down 256 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: there and start messing with youngsters. Okay, all right, that's 257 00:16:56,600 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: what we're gonna do. Y're still good. They got my all. Third, 258 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:05,480 Speaker 1: with all due respect, okay, you're talking about my son, 259 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:08,639 Speaker 1: and I know what he is capable of doing and 260 00:17:08,680 --> 00:17:11,399 Speaker 1: what he's not gonna do, and he don't disrespect older 261 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: people like that, especially with somebody with it with an 262 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: impairment of disablement or whatever you got. I'm sorry about 263 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: your heart. I'm I'm on the hill. I'm I'm trying. 264 00:17:20,600 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 1: I'm an if you, of course, do you not think 265 00:17:22,640 --> 00:17:26,879 Speaker 1: taking somebody all is disrespectful? That's disrespectful to take off 266 00:17:27,000 --> 00:17:29,600 Speaker 1: the old man's all and run down the street with 267 00:17:29,840 --> 00:17:34,040 Speaker 1: sir disrespectful? But what what is not? What is not disrespectful? Also, 268 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 1: is you telling me you're gonna go up there and 269 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:40,600 Speaker 1: what my son and that's not gonna happen. Okay, that's 270 00:17:40,640 --> 00:17:43,159 Speaker 1: what I'm gonna do. I'm hung up as soon as 271 00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:45,800 Speaker 1: I get over his head off. Okay, all second, sir, 272 00:17:46,040 --> 00:17:48,760 Speaker 1: he's gonna do what to my son? I'm a son 273 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: up as soon as I get to this part and 274 00:17:51,480 --> 00:17:54,280 Speaker 1: the ain't pitment that's with it because they took my 275 00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:56,679 Speaker 1: home and they know they did. I'm gonna okay, let 276 00:17:56,760 --> 00:17:58,719 Speaker 1: let me tell you something. You don't call me up, 277 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: disrespecting me and threatening my son. Do you know what 278 00:18:01,320 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: you're talking to I'll tell you what you do. Say 279 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,560 Speaker 1: you what you comp to that part and just breathe 280 00:18:06,600 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: on my son wrong? Okay, say his name wrong? Okay, 281 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: say it, and then I'll tell you what I'm gonna do. 282 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:14,960 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take your other arm and I'm gonna beat 283 00:18:13,720 --> 00:18:16,760 Speaker 1: you here. Let me tell you something. Let me tell 284 00:18:16,760 --> 00:18:19,479 Speaker 1: you something I don't think. Don't think, okay't who who 285 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 1: who wing on because I'm there, I whoop. You ain't 286 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:24,840 Speaker 1: your son because going on, I promise you that. Okay, 287 00:18:24,880 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 1: come on, family, you ain't gonna know what to do 288 00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: with your life because you can't find your arm. You 289 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: ain't got no sense, and you over here with the 290 00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,280 Speaker 1: wrong people's family all right. You don't know. You don't 291 00:18:35,320 --> 00:18:38,280 Speaker 1: know what happened in my a. You don't know I 292 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:43,600 Speaker 1: lost my arm. Don't know what happened? You quiet? You 293 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:47,040 Speaker 1: know you know I know what happened to my arm? 294 00:18:47,240 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 1: Why is you quiet? We ask you something, mister sencident? 295 00:18:52,080 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: What the problem? You know? You know what? You don't 296 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:58,120 Speaker 1: know how I lost the arm. You don't know how 297 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,879 Speaker 1: I lost it. I don't know how you've lost your arm. 298 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:06,119 Speaker 1: I really I don't give my just I don't know 299 00:19:06,160 --> 00:19:08,280 Speaker 1: who got your arm? My son and got your arm? No, 300 00:19:08,520 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 1: you're so you do he don't. He don't have my arm. 301 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: Tommy Tommy got my arm? Who got your arm? Tell 302 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 1: me got it? Tommy Tommy got it? Tell me the 303 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:25,920 Speaker 1: one got to arm? Joe who Tommy Man? Tommy Man 304 00:19:26,359 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Man, your 305 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:33,360 Speaker 1: son Dary is fifteen year old? Got me the frank phone? 306 00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:49,960 Speaker 1: Call you? Oh yo, man, yo yo. He called you 307 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 1: and told you that don't he gonna punish me? I 308 00:19:55,840 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 1: knew he wasn't gonna do. No, you don't punishment double time. 309 00:20:00,080 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 1: I'm not? Oh man, you are y'all something else? Oh man? 310 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,800 Speaker 1: A man? I gotta ask you, man, what's the what's 311 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 1: the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show in 312 00:20:20,440 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: the lands, the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You already know that. 313 00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:30,879 Speaker 1: All you gotta do start talking about somebody's child or 314 00:20:30,920 --> 00:20:33,920 Speaker 1: what you're gonna do today child, and trust you, that's 315 00:20:34,000 --> 00:20:45,679 Speaker 1: all you need. Right are you crying? Crying before? You 316 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:50,560 Speaker 1: ain't crying? All right? Thank you? If you coming up next, 317 00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,679 Speaker 1: it is asked the Cello Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey 318 00:20:53,760 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 1: in the building. Right after this, you're listening Harvey Morning 319 00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:01,639 Speaker 1: Show coming up at the top of the hour and 320 00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:05,720 Speaker 1: trending headlines CNNs will former CNNs Chris Cuomo threw his 321 00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:09,119 Speaker 1: friend Don Lemon under the bus and he is playing 322 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:13,639 Speaker 1: no Games and other entertainment news another cancelation of a 323 00:21:13,760 --> 00:21:16,200 Speaker 1: daytime talk show. We'll talk about all of these stories 324 00:21:16,240 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, but right now it 325 00:21:18,480 --> 00:21:21,399 Speaker 1: is time to ask our Chief Love Officer, the Cello, 326 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, ready for your love questions. Kennedy and Raleigh says, 327 00:21:26,880 --> 00:21:30,000 Speaker 1: I'm twenty seven years old and both of my parents 328 00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:33,440 Speaker 1: are cheaters. I'm friends with my dad's girlfriend because we 329 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:36,240 Speaker 1: used to work together and she's only five years older 330 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,800 Speaker 1: than me. My mother found out that I'm friendly with her, 331 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 1: and she stopped talking to me. I'm stuck in the middle. 332 00:21:42,200 --> 00:21:45,879 Speaker 1: How do I make things right with my mom? Well, 333 00:21:45,920 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: you was friends with your dad is girlfriend. Now you 334 00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: say both your parents is cheating? Who your mama cheating 335 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:59,680 Speaker 1: her boyfriend? See what you need to do is introduced 336 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:05,439 Speaker 1: your daddy girlfriend to your mama boyfriend, and so we 337 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:12,399 Speaker 1: all be friends. Why can't we be friends? Yeah? I 338 00:22:12,520 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 1: like that, but you know you can't. You can't. Oh, Okay, 339 00:22:21,119 --> 00:22:23,520 Speaker 1: she started seeing her daddy and she found out about it. 340 00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:27,160 Speaker 1: She said, well, she's still my girl sleeping with my daddy, 341 00:22:27,160 --> 00:22:30,159 Speaker 1: but my mama tricking too though, She said, both my 342 00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: parents just cheatas so if we're worried about it, yeah, yeah, 343 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 1: that's a mess. All she could do this or she 344 00:22:38,040 --> 00:22:43,359 Speaker 1: could become friendly with her mother's boyfriend. And now you 345 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 1: friend your friends with both the girlfriend and the boyfriend. 346 00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,320 Speaker 1: You gotta take a lot of pressure. Yeah, and then 347 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:53,080 Speaker 1: both parents will just be mad at her. Then all 348 00:22:53,160 --> 00:22:54,680 Speaker 1: she got do and say, well, you want me to 349 00:22:54,720 --> 00:23:02,920 Speaker 1: tell another one? Oh? She blackmail her parents at Yeah? 350 00:23:02,960 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: All right, moving on to put the old ass on Facebook, 351 00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 1: oh you know, m all right. Moving on to Cassandra 352 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: and Dennison, she says, my husband and I have five children, 353 00:23:15,320 --> 00:23:17,520 Speaker 1: and it's hard for us to have quality time together. 354 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: Now he sees quality times. He sees quality time as 355 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:23,679 Speaker 1: sex and then cuddling. I want to go on a 356 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:25,800 Speaker 1: date and get all dressed up. He told me to 357 00:23:25,840 --> 00:23:28,359 Speaker 1: go out with my girlfriends, but it's not the same. 358 00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:33,000 Speaker 1: Should I be grateful for the sex and stop nagging him? No, 359 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: you have every right to want to go out with 360 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: your husband. Yeah, you know he should, He should onto that. 361 00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:44,080 Speaker 1: You know, five kids. I want to get out the house. Yeah, 362 00:23:44,920 --> 00:23:51,320 Speaker 1: get away from that dope. Nerves, bad nerves. You know, 363 00:23:51,400 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: you got live, you have five kids? You got what 364 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: is you not? What? You knock again? Knock again? Yeah? Yeah, 365 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: this is a lot too lesson you have. Yeah yeah, 366 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:07,680 Speaker 1: all right. So yeah, you're saying she has every right 367 00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:10,840 Speaker 1: to want to go on on the day. Absolutely absolutely, 368 00:24:11,320 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: and she's not knacking him, all right, and then we'll 369 00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 1: have sex when we get back. He just got yea 370 00:24:18,960 --> 00:24:21,919 Speaker 1: and cutlets let's do it before we go out. I 371 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:28,080 Speaker 1: can relax a lot better, all right, Mary Lee and 372 00:24:28,160 --> 00:24:31,439 Speaker 1: Edgewater says, I've been married for five years, and lately 373 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: I've noticed that my husband doesn't shower daily. He has 374 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,360 Speaker 1: been doing a lot of washing up. It's a blessing 375 00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:39,640 Speaker 1: that I don't smell him, but I am curious as 376 00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:41,560 Speaker 1: to why he doesn't want to have running water on 377 00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:45,880 Speaker 1: his body daily. Should I confront him or mind my business? 378 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 1: Ena just reverted back to his boyhood days. It's just 379 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,440 Speaker 1: two damn time consuming you know, going here and get 380 00:24:53,480 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 1: this bird, baffy. You don't out of here, But I'm 381 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:58,720 Speaker 1: gonna tell you right now, you gotta get in that 382 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 1: damn water. Dog. Water finds this way into places that 383 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:11,160 Speaker 1: you forget. Water goes into crevices, cracks, and I don't 384 00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 1: know if you like you real buffed in shape or not, 385 00:25:14,080 --> 00:25:19,240 Speaker 1: but either way increases. Yeah, everybody got one crease. Yeah, 386 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 1: everybody got one crease for damn show. You got to 387 00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:31,280 Speaker 1: wash that care to be more specific? Please? Yeah? Well 388 00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:34,320 Speaker 1: you ever you ever been laying down naked and you 389 00:25:34,359 --> 00:25:36,360 Speaker 1: know how you lay on your stomach and you pull 390 00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:41,000 Speaker 1: your knee up by your chest to watch TV but 391 00:25:41,160 --> 00:25:48,120 Speaker 1: you ain't washed? WHOA I bet you get your ass 392 00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:56,520 Speaker 1: im getting that shower. E if you absolutely have an 393 00:25:56,560 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: answer for everyone. Let me tell you something, because don't 394 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: act like it's people know what I'm talking about. Lay 395 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 1: on your stomach, on the bed neck and then lift 396 00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:08,280 Speaker 1: one of your knees up by your chest and lay 397 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:14,520 Speaker 1: that bottom minute about a minute if you got to 398 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:19,800 Speaker 1: wash it's coming. It takes about a minute though, because 399 00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:26,520 Speaker 1: because it's some slow moving, real heavy ass for it 400 00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:30,480 Speaker 1: like it come up cross your ass. It's kind of 401 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:35,320 Speaker 1: like dry ice come up stepp It's invisible. It's invisible, 402 00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:38,439 Speaker 1: and roll up and it stay right on your ass 403 00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,800 Speaker 1: and it comes right up on your waist and over 404 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:43,840 Speaker 1: your elbow and next thing, you know, and then when 405 00:26:43,880 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: it hits you it ain't light. It jump on your 406 00:26:47,320 --> 00:26:52,360 Speaker 1: face like you know, like that green stuff good. Just 407 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:58,840 Speaker 1: suck on your face, your ass or something. All right, 408 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:02,680 Speaker 1: all right. List in Oakland says, I'm a thirty thirty 409 00:27:02,760 --> 00:27:10,000 Speaker 1: year old FEV. That's another thing to woman, and we're 410 00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,479 Speaker 1: trying to help lives in Oakland. She's a thirty year 411 00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:15,399 Speaker 1: old divorced female trying to get back in the dating game. 412 00:27:15,760 --> 00:27:18,600 Speaker 1: She says it's hard to find a tall man. She 413 00:27:18,640 --> 00:27:21,520 Speaker 1: says she's five ten and she loves to wear her heels. 414 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:24,639 Speaker 1: Her ex six six, and that's rare to find. Do 415 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,200 Speaker 1: you think it's weird to see a woman taller than 416 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 1: her man? That's her question. No, I have him all 417 00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:34,840 Speaker 1: the time. You know, before before my nephew got married, 418 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:41,120 Speaker 1: he was dating and he didn't have no restriction. Every 419 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:49,679 Speaker 1: time I turn around, I'm going he we you know, 420 00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: just in here just dating tall women. Just you know, 421 00:27:52,359 --> 00:27:57,520 Speaker 1: everybody looked like Kansas Park. You know, you know, not 422 00:27:57,560 --> 00:28:01,640 Speaker 1: to me, but to him. And you know. But I'll 423 00:28:01,680 --> 00:28:05,320 Speaker 1: tell you one thing though, there's an advantage to short 424 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: men because if they're sleeping in the bed naked and 425 00:28:09,080 --> 00:28:11,920 Speaker 1: he put his knee up by his chest, it take 426 00:28:11,960 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: a lot longer for that funk, that dry ice on 427 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 1: roller to come across his little ass and a jump 428 00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: on his face forward getting your face because he shot 429 00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:25,840 Speaker 1: it and you will never smell it. And that's another 430 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:33,920 Speaker 1: advantage of shot asked men everything, get on them faster. Well, 431 00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:37,440 Speaker 1: you got the shower. I'll bring it back up again. 432 00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:42,160 Speaker 1: Next question, that's it. You watch March Madness, Yeah, I'm 433 00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:46,040 Speaker 1: watching March Madness. Has if you lay on your stomach 434 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:48,640 Speaker 1: naked in the bed and you're trying to look like 435 00:28:48,680 --> 00:28:51,440 Speaker 1: you marching and you raise that leg up by your 436 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 1: chest and that hot ice fun come out the crack 437 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,240 Speaker 1: of your butt and run back up down. It's on 438 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:01,760 Speaker 1: your ass again. All right, coming up at the top 439 00:29:01,760 --> 00:29:03,880 Speaker 1: of the hour, We'll have some entertainment news for you 440 00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:08,000 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. 441 00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,960 Speaker 1: All right. So former CNN anchor Chris Cuomo threw his 442 00:29:13,040 --> 00:29:17,000 Speaker 1: friends CNN anchor Don Lemon under the bus recently. This 443 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,520 Speaker 1: was in a lawsuit to get millions from CNN. Cuomo 444 00:29:20,600 --> 00:29:24,960 Speaker 1: specifically cited how, in November of twenty twenty one, Empire 445 00:29:25,000 --> 00:29:29,560 Speaker 1: actor Jesse Smallett testified that Don Lemon personally warned Jesse 446 00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: that Chicago police didn't believe his false accusations of a 447 00:29:33,720 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: hate crime. Lemon's consulting with Smallette constituted a flagrant breach 448 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:44,480 Speaker 1: of journalistic ethics. Cuomo's team wrote, intervening in the ongoing 449 00:29:44,520 --> 00:29:49,040 Speaker 1: investigation by texting Smallett was an inexcusable breach of ethics, 450 00:29:49,040 --> 00:29:53,040 Speaker 1: the filing argued, yet CNN did nothing, Lemon was not 451 00:29:53,160 --> 00:29:56,920 Speaker 1: disciplined in any way. Chris Cuomo's team went on to 452 00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: say that Cuomo had his journalistic integrity on sufiably smeared, 453 00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:05,400 Speaker 1: making it difficult, if not impossible, for Cuomo to find 454 00:30:05,400 --> 00:30:07,960 Speaker 1: a similar work in the future, and damaging him in 455 00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:11,240 Speaker 1: a mount succeeding one hundred and twenty five million dollars, 456 00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:14,840 Speaker 1: which includes not only the remaining salary ode under the agreement, 457 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: but future wages lost as a result of CNN's efforts 458 00:30:18,520 --> 00:30:23,400 Speaker 1: to destroy its reputation in violation of the agreement. Wow, 459 00:30:25,560 --> 00:30:30,760 Speaker 1: so the question becomes huh, what would you say? Well, well, 460 00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,720 Speaker 1: the question becomes just like Chris threw Don under the bus, 461 00:30:33,800 --> 00:30:36,760 Speaker 1: Chris Cuomo threw Don Lemon under So I gotta ask 462 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,920 Speaker 1: the guys if your co worker, if your friend threw 463 00:30:38,960 --> 00:30:42,720 Speaker 1: you under the bus, would you end that friendship? Because 464 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:47,040 Speaker 1: remember how at the end of Chris Cuomo's show, Don 465 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: Lemon would come on and they would talk about how 466 00:30:48,920 --> 00:30:53,280 Speaker 1: much they loved I love you love that. Yeah, yeah, 467 00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,720 Speaker 1: all of that. All that's gone. Well, you know, you 468 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 1: have to be what you are mean? What does that mean? 469 00:31:02,600 --> 00:31:08,480 Speaker 1: Break that down? Oh, the true measure of man cannot 470 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:12,160 Speaker 1: be judged in moments of comfort and convenience, but in 471 00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 1: term al and strife. Then and only then will you 472 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:21,040 Speaker 1: know the true measure of a man. So Chris Cromo 473 00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 1: was cool until we got to term al and strife. Yeah, no, 474 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: all that. Hey, brother, brother, brother, buddy, buddy, buddy, love, 475 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:34,360 Speaker 1: love love. I want my money. Yeah, lay your ass 476 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: down because I'm going to bag this bust up over you. 477 00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:42,920 Speaker 1: And we're talking one hundred twenty five million. So damn 478 00:31:42,960 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: my friendship with my brother Don. You didn't even have 479 00:31:45,280 --> 00:31:50,080 Speaker 1: to use Don as an example, right, right, because he 480 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:53,160 Speaker 1: and Anderson Cooper, Anderson Cooper comes on before him. They 481 00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:57,120 Speaker 1: don't do all of that. I love you Anderson, Oh, 482 00:31:57,160 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 1: I love you too. They never did any of that. 483 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: It was definitely friendship that yeah, between and Chris Chris 484 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: Alma and promoting each other's show. But you genuinely believe 485 00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:13,520 Speaker 1: that they were friends. At least I did too. I 486 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:18,400 Speaker 1: did too. I would well, maybe Don and uh Chris 487 00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:23,920 Speaker 1: Chris Chris can't do it because I know Don is married? 488 00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:30,480 Speaker 1: Is uh Anderson married? Chris? No, he's a father, I 489 00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:32,360 Speaker 1: don't think. Yeah, he had a little boy, but I 490 00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:35,080 Speaker 1: don't think he's married. Now, I said, you know, both 491 00:32:35,120 --> 00:32:37,000 Speaker 1: of them being married might have something to do with 492 00:32:37,040 --> 00:32:43,680 Speaker 1: that too, Oh okay, never know. So yeah, anyway, what 493 00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,120 Speaker 1: would you what would you guys do? Would you end 494 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:48,920 Speaker 1: the friendship? Would you cut it? You know? Cancel? Man 495 00:32:49,080 --> 00:32:56,360 Speaker 1: got to ask me that the grudgeholder, I know, I 496 00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:03,200 Speaker 1: bet eat pizza or nothing like that. I'm gonna walk 497 00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:09,440 Speaker 1: over and knock your monkey ass out. Dog. We supposed 498 00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: to be boys too. Yeah. Have you ever had a 499 00:33:13,240 --> 00:33:18,360 Speaker 1: friend do that though? Have you guys? Yeah? Betrayal? Yeah, yes, 500 00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:23,320 Speaker 1: we all been through. Oh yes, sir. And it wasn't 501 00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:28,120 Speaker 1: pretty because I ain't see it coming right. You never 502 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:32,280 Speaker 1: do you never. Somebody told me about it and said, man, 503 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,200 Speaker 1: you know your boy Paul did this? Paul said you 504 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:42,800 Speaker 1: did that? Paul? No, man, you got your Boyfaul? Yeah, Man, 505 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 1: show you talking about Paul? Dog got dog got man, 506 00:33:47,920 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: get up out of him. A whole week went by. 507 00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:53,560 Speaker 1: Somebody else came into and said, hey, man, sorry about 508 00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:57,000 Speaker 1: what happened between you and Paul. Do what you mean 509 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:01,880 Speaker 1: what happened between me and Paul? Yeah? Oh oh when 510 00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:07,240 Speaker 1: he when he when he told everybody? By what by 511 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:12,880 Speaker 1: what happened? Dog? You're the second person told me Paul 512 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,440 Speaker 1: told what? And you have your clueless you have no 513 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:19,200 Speaker 1: clue what's going on? Dog? I'm done? Yeah? And then 514 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:21,200 Speaker 1: I was heading over Paul's house and I went by 515 00:34:21,280 --> 00:34:23,759 Speaker 1: the house, and my brother say, hanging that, little bro, 516 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 1: you know, just just stay strong with him, man, try 517 00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,080 Speaker 1: not to do nothing to it. And that's when I 518 00:34:30,200 --> 00:34:32,959 Speaker 1: knew when my brother said that to me, I knew 519 00:34:32,960 --> 00:34:35,200 Speaker 1: he said it then, because my brother, he don't even 520 00:34:35,280 --> 00:34:39,160 Speaker 1: know nothing about no gostle. M right. And you trust 521 00:34:39,200 --> 00:34:43,120 Speaker 1: your brother for sean, yeah, your blood brother. Yeah. Before that, 522 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:48,080 Speaker 1: we got to what Paul asked him. You got out 523 00:34:48,120 --> 00:34:51,200 Speaker 1: of that Tommy, oh dog Doug, I was in college, 524 00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:56,680 Speaker 1: got on my bike, rolled over all Ashbury, didn't ask 525 00:34:56,760 --> 00:35:00,759 Speaker 1: no questions, got off the bike, let it crack, put 526 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:05,440 Speaker 1: the kickstand. We're gonna probably knocked the bike over in 527 00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:06,960 Speaker 1: the damn Wait. So let me just go on in 528 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:10,520 Speaker 1: here and get started, and we will Paul's ask could fight. 529 00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,240 Speaker 1: All right, We're coming up in twenty minutes after the hour. 530 00:35:15,640 --> 00:35:17,680 Speaker 1: Do you want to be on Judge Steve, Well, if 531 00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:22,680 Speaker 1: you do, we'll tell you how right after this. You're listening, 532 00:35:23,560 --> 00:35:28,040 Speaker 1: attention Steve Harvey Nation, Steve's hit show. Judge Steve is 533 00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:31,480 Speaker 1: looking for cases for season two. If you have an 534 00:35:31,480 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 1: issue with your sister with your friend co worker, anyone, 535 00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:37,319 Speaker 1: and you want to be on Judge Steve. You want 536 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,239 Speaker 1: Judge Steve to settle the matter, Well, all you have 537 00:35:40,320 --> 00:35:44,879 Speaker 1: to do is apply at Judge Steve Harveycasting dot Com, 538 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:49,160 Speaker 1: Judge Steve Harvey Casting dot Com, and Judge Steve will 539 00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:52,799 Speaker 1: see you in court. How simple is that? Okay, man, 540 00:35:53,719 --> 00:35:57,160 Speaker 1: these are real cases. It's not fake. So if you've 541 00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:00,160 Speaker 1: got real issues that could be dealt with in small 542 00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:06,080 Speaker 1: claims court, come on, family member, friends, relatives, co workers, neighbors. 543 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:08,400 Speaker 1: You want to take them to court. You want me 544 00:36:08,440 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 1: to make the decision for you, Go to Steve Harvey. 545 00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 1: Go to George Judge Steve Harvey Casting dot Com. That's 546 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:25,560 Speaker 1: what she said, Steve Harvey Casting dot Com. Go to 547 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:29,080 Speaker 1: George Steve Harvey Casting dot com. Yeah, that what I said. 548 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:33,839 Speaker 1: Not baby's you know, go there, even if you don't 549 00:36:33,880 --> 00:36:41,240 Speaker 1: want to. Congratulations on season two of Judge Steves. That's great, Steve. Congratulations. 550 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:46,120 Speaker 1: People are loving the show. God congrats. Yeah your role. 551 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:50,919 Speaker 1: Season release came out in January. Show numbers were so high, 552 00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:53,680 Speaker 1: number one show of the night, number one new show 553 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:58,600 Speaker 1: on ABC, number one on ABC and across all networks, 554 00:36:58,640 --> 00:37:02,879 Speaker 1: tied with CBS. The show called FBI, which has been 555 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 1: on twelve seasons, and it's in the last year we 556 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:11,200 Speaker 1: tied with them and we whooped everybody else. Look at God, 557 00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:29,000 Speaker 1: we do it nice to get up there right there, 558 00:37:30,880 --> 00:37:35,279 Speaker 1: We'll check it out. I can't do it to check 559 00:37:35,320 --> 00:37:38,120 Speaker 1: out what else God has done for Steve that it's 560 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,960 Speaker 1: Judge Steve. New episode of Judge Steve tonight Tuesday at 561 00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 1: eight p m. Seventh Central on ABC and Lose Steve. 562 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,959 Speaker 1: But you know what I think. I asked you this yesterday. 563 00:37:50,560 --> 00:37:54,600 Speaker 1: Have people in the legal community, like attorneys, like judges, 564 00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:56,680 Speaker 1: have they stepped to you about the fact that you're 565 00:37:56,760 --> 00:37:58,919 Speaker 1: not you haven't been to law school and all that. 566 00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,560 Speaker 1: Oh a woman can to me offended? Are you even 567 00:38:01,600 --> 00:38:04,600 Speaker 1: a lawyer? I said, no? Have you even taken the bar? No? 568 00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 1: And how can you call yourself a judge? I said, well, 569 00:38:08,960 --> 00:38:13,319 Speaker 1: I said, judge Steve hard How can you say that? 570 00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:16,000 Speaker 1: I said, listen to me, I said, he say, Steve 571 00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,040 Speaker 1: Harvey right soon as you can, I say, just put 572 00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 1: judge in front of it. That's how you do it. 573 00:38:20,880 --> 00:38:23,319 Speaker 1: What made you think you could be a judge? I said? 574 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:29,280 Speaker 1: It called Donald Trump with President coming up at thirty 575 00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 1: four minutes after the hour, We're gonna check Steve's voicemail 576 00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It 577 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,719 Speaker 1: is time now to check out Steve's voicemail. If you 578 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:44,120 Speaker 1: want to leave Steve a voicemail, call him eight seven 579 00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:46,760 Speaker 1: seven twenty nine. Steve, Let's go to the bone, Steve. 580 00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 1: This color is um about Africa. Good morning Steed and 581 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,280 Speaker 1: the Morning Show. I'm calling to ask Steed, what part 582 00:38:55,400 --> 00:38:58,759 Speaker 1: of Africa does you go to? Because I wanted to 583 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,120 Speaker 1: travel to Africa here and I wanted to see which 584 00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,400 Speaker 1: city country I wanted to travel to. Which one do 585 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:09,280 Speaker 1: you recommend see? Thank you. I'm Diana from New Orman. Well, 586 00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:13,200 Speaker 1: I've gone to quite a few, but I highly recommend 587 00:39:13,680 --> 00:39:17,120 Speaker 1: that you go to Ghana because you have to go 588 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:21,480 Speaker 1: to the slave castles. You have to go and see 589 00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:25,440 Speaker 1: what was done to us to enable us to get 590 00:39:25,440 --> 00:39:30,160 Speaker 1: on the ships. It was one of the most emotional, 591 00:39:30,640 --> 00:39:37,040 Speaker 1: heart wrenching things I've ever seen. Wow, And I'm telling you, man, 592 00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:43,080 Speaker 1: what they did to us as Africans, It's unthinkable. And 593 00:39:43,120 --> 00:39:46,760 Speaker 1: then they had the nerves on top of the slave 594 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:51,319 Speaker 1: castles to be on churches and cut holes in the 595 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: floor so the Africans that were enslaved, a thousand slaves 596 00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:00,480 Speaker 1: in an area that's big enough for two hundred people. 597 00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:04,720 Speaker 1: Pack a thousand people in there with no running water, 598 00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,800 Speaker 1: no bathroom facilities. So they could hear them saying about Christ, 599 00:40:09,440 --> 00:40:11,719 Speaker 1: and then they had the nerve to try to walk 600 00:40:11,800 --> 00:40:14,680 Speaker 1: me in that church upstairs. I wouldn't even go in there. 601 00:40:14,760 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 1: This ain't no church, This ain't no house of worship. 602 00:40:17,640 --> 00:40:20,080 Speaker 1: This ain't where God at. I'm not going in here. 603 00:40:20,160 --> 00:40:22,520 Speaker 1: Who y'all think y'all talking to the God I know 604 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 1: was not in that church? Oh man, it's a called 605 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:29,640 Speaker 1: So anyway, long story short, go to Ghana because it's beautiful. 606 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:34,400 Speaker 1: That people in Okera are wonderful, that they have trips 607 00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:39,440 Speaker 1: out to the castles, and it's just an amazing experience 608 00:40:39,440 --> 00:40:41,520 Speaker 1: to see where it all started from. You got to 609 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,360 Speaker 1: do that first, and then I recommend you go to 610 00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: Johannesburg so you can see what we've become. And then 611 00:40:48,160 --> 00:40:53,200 Speaker 1: Cape Town, Derby, South Africa is wonderful. I strongly suggest 612 00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:58,200 Speaker 1: going to Kenya. Kenya's beautiful. If you can go to Rwanda, 613 00:40:58,480 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 1: it's the most pristine city you've ever seen. You've never 614 00:41:02,719 --> 00:41:06,839 Speaker 1: seen a city like Rwanda. They ain't they ain't They 615 00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,920 Speaker 1: ain't a leaf on the ground over there, man. And 616 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:14,480 Speaker 1: then Botswana. Gotta see Botswana. You gotta go to Okavarna Delta. 617 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:16,319 Speaker 1: So if I went to a trip, I would do 618 00:41:16,360 --> 00:41:19,239 Speaker 1: it two way. I would go to Ghana and then 619 00:41:19,880 --> 00:41:22,439 Speaker 1: me personally, I would go to Botswanna. But you gotta 620 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:27,560 Speaker 1: want to see the cities that we've built. Johannesburg Town. Okay, 621 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,240 Speaker 1: all right, all right, Steve. We have a caller who's 622 00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,719 Speaker 1: just relocated to LA from Virginia. She's looking for love. 623 00:41:34,120 --> 00:41:37,760 Speaker 1: Good even Steve Harvey show. Um, I am a sixty 624 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:42,360 Speaker 1: year old black female. I'm a licensed nurse and I 625 00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,840 Speaker 1: have four children but never been married. I am looking 626 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:51,000 Speaker 1: for my maid. I have just moved back to LA, 627 00:41:51,239 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 1: sold my house in Virginia, moved back to LA. So 628 00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:58,520 Speaker 1: I'm starting over. But I'm only attracting forty year old Um. 629 00:41:59,280 --> 00:42:02,160 Speaker 1: Can you give me some advice? Men in their sixties 630 00:42:02,160 --> 00:42:05,279 Speaker 1: do not realize that I am in my sixties and 631 00:42:05,280 --> 00:42:08,239 Speaker 1: there's not much to work with. So can you give 632 00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:11,160 Speaker 1: me an advice to just find out where can I 633 00:42:11,200 --> 00:42:13,200 Speaker 1: go to meet the man if it's more closer to 634 00:42:13,239 --> 00:42:15,759 Speaker 1: my age and we have more in common. Okay, my 635 00:42:15,840 --> 00:42:19,920 Speaker 1: name is Carol, and thank you very much. Well, Carol. 636 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,239 Speaker 1: First of all, the reason you can't attract men in 637 00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:25,239 Speaker 1: your age group is because you look you'all, because you 638 00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,560 Speaker 1: need to kill yourself and you're fine. The second reason 639 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:31,800 Speaker 1: is you got real sexy voice, Carrol, and that's working 640 00:42:31,840 --> 00:42:37,040 Speaker 1: for you too. Because Junior wanted to highlight you and 641 00:42:37,239 --> 00:42:41,080 Speaker 1: Jesse his name. Junior alone should tell you that you 642 00:42:41,120 --> 00:42:45,799 Speaker 1: can't get on bismen within a little chat and so, 643 00:42:46,480 --> 00:42:48,839 Speaker 1: and without even seeing a picture of y'all can tell 644 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 1: you got yourself together and everything like that. I would 645 00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:56,000 Speaker 1: go on an older dating site. I would try online 646 00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: dating and make sure that you have an age record 647 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:03,360 Speaker 1: West and you should be looking for a man fifty 648 00:43:03,480 --> 00:43:07,520 Speaker 1: and up. And because a fifty year old man like 649 00:43:07,680 --> 00:43:13,440 Speaker 1: he already, it's equivalent me and age hearder than women anyway. 650 00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:15,200 Speaker 1: So if you get a fifty ye old man to 651 00:43:15,320 --> 00:43:20,480 Speaker 1: ask Mike Luke sixty SI nobody on this show, all right, 652 00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:22,960 Speaker 1: thank you if you want. If you want to leave 653 00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:26,000 Speaker 1: Steve a voicemail, call him age seven seven twenty nine. 654 00:43:26,040 --> 00:43:28,720 Speaker 1: Steve coming up next. The nephew is here with today's 655 00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: Frank phone call right after this you're listening to show 656 00:43:35,200 --> 00:43:37,359 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about 657 00:43:37,400 --> 00:43:40,120 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's my Strawberry letter for today. The 658 00:43:40,200 --> 00:43:44,839 Speaker 1: subject is my daughter is married to a hobo. We'll 659 00:43:44,880 --> 00:43:49,840 Speaker 1: get into that wall in just a few but right now, huh. 660 00:43:49,880 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 1: I was gonna say. We were talking on that last 661 00:43:52,160 --> 00:43:54,560 Speaker 1: break when we had that call. It it called in 662 00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:57,799 Speaker 1: says she was sixty years old, yes, and that she 663 00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,680 Speaker 1: was having trouble because only man we're talking to her 664 00:44:00,719 --> 00:44:02,720 Speaker 1: as forty year old, because they don't know if she's sixty. 665 00:44:02,760 --> 00:44:05,360 Speaker 1: And I complimented on her voice and the way she 666 00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,799 Speaker 1: must take care of herself. She looks you, and I 667 00:44:07,880 --> 00:44:10,120 Speaker 1: got ready to say, because we don't have that problem 668 00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,160 Speaker 1: on this show. I was telling that she could get 669 00:44:12,160 --> 00:44:15,080 Speaker 1: a fifty year old guy and then you know, he'll 670 00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 1: he'll look sixty. But we don't have on on our show. 671 00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: All these men on our show, even Tommy, who is 672 00:44:21,080 --> 00:44:23,160 Speaker 1: in his fifties, don't really look like he and his 673 00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:27,439 Speaker 1: fifties no good to serve. And you know what, Steve, 674 00:44:27,560 --> 00:44:30,560 Speaker 1: I think that's because we laugh so much. Laughter so 675 00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 1: good for soul. It keeps you young. At her I 676 00:44:32,960 --> 00:44:35,640 Speaker 1: promise you that's it. I'll do her voice Steve, you 677 00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:56,440 Speaker 1: do Joy, go ahead, helloj hey you go get your daddy, 678 00:44:56,520 --> 00:45:10,719 Speaker 1: little boy day and we have a problem. All right, 679 00:45:12,080 --> 00:45:15,520 Speaker 1: all right, come on you, all right, this is right here. 680 00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:20,320 Speaker 1: This is insurance insurance, Junior. You should get that voice insured. 681 00:45:20,440 --> 00:45:29,080 Speaker 1: This is insurance insure that thing cap down if you would, 682 00:45:30,719 --> 00:45:34,360 Speaker 1: Let's call it insurances. Joseph, How can I help you? Uh? Yeah, Joseph? 683 00:45:34,400 --> 00:45:37,320 Speaker 1: How are you doing? Man? I got you, um your number? 684 00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:39,400 Speaker 1: Uh well, so I give me your card. Told me 685 00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 1: you have an insurance coming you might be there. Help me. Absolutely, 686 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,000 Speaker 1: We'll love to help you. We'll love to help you. Okay, listen, 687 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:48,280 Speaker 1: I'm um, I'm seeking some insurance. I'm what all insurance 688 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:50,399 Speaker 1: do you guys had? What what all of you all cover? 689 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:53,120 Speaker 1: We have Automo building in Charance. You're a home insurance. 690 00:45:53,400 --> 00:45:57,479 Speaker 1: We have life insurance, fire flood. We're pretty much, uh, 691 00:45:57,680 --> 00:46:01,600 Speaker 1: we have everything exactly what happy challenge you're looking for? Okay, 692 00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:04,600 Speaker 1: we'll see. I need I have my own business, my 693 00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:08,520 Speaker 1: own company. I like that. Okay. What I what I'm want? 694 00:46:08,760 --> 00:46:11,799 Speaker 1: What I'm trying to do, man, is I'm trying to 695 00:46:11,840 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 1: make sure I have insurance for the people underneath me. Oh, okay, 696 00:46:15,640 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 1: your employees. Yeah, exactly exactly. I want to I want 697 00:46:18,920 --> 00:46:22,400 Speaker 1: my employees to be ensured. Okay, you know, like if 698 00:46:22,440 --> 00:46:24,520 Speaker 1: something happens to them, they can get they can get 699 00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:26,480 Speaker 1: workingman's comp you know what I mean. I want to 700 00:46:26,480 --> 00:46:28,799 Speaker 1: be able to accommodate them that way. Is that? And 701 00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:30,399 Speaker 1: are you able to help me while I with something 702 00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:32,759 Speaker 1: like that? Yeah? I am able to help you. I 703 00:46:32,880 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 1: just need to ask you a few questions. How many 704 00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:40,279 Speaker 1: how many employees to ask right now? I have? I 705 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:43,640 Speaker 1: got six? Well, I got four that's working full time. 706 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,480 Speaker 1: I got two that that worked predominantly on the weekends. Okay, 707 00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:50,959 Speaker 1: so I got let me think real quickly. I got 708 00:46:51,160 --> 00:46:57,239 Speaker 1: sent thelement, I got ice Jasmine, I got thunder. I'm sorry, sir, Um, 709 00:46:57,320 --> 00:47:02,960 Speaker 1: Sir Tim hand agains H Smith Okay, okay, um um 710 00:47:03,239 --> 00:47:05,799 Speaker 1: what type of fancy yea, sir? Uh? Well, I'm I'm 711 00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:07,960 Speaker 1: I'm more of a um. I'm a I'm a PC 712 00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:14,239 Speaker 1: and um I'm sorry DC. Oh personal consulting. No, no, no, no, 713 00:47:14,360 --> 00:47:16,960 Speaker 1: I'm I'm pretty close up, pretty close. That's that's that's 714 00:47:16,960 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 1: pretty close. I'm I'm I'm a pleasure consultant and and 715 00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,120 Speaker 1: what it is mean? I got, um, you know, I 716 00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:27,520 Speaker 1: got I'm sorry, did you say pleasure consulting? Right right? 717 00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:31,879 Speaker 1: What what that is? Man? Is you know I pleasurized 718 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:35,360 Speaker 1: people that want to be pleasurized, Like I have girls 719 00:47:35,440 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 1: that may dance for you. H some may come by 720 00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:43,760 Speaker 1: and uh do other things for you, p private parties, 721 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:46,320 Speaker 1: that kind of thing. Are you trying to Are you 722 00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:49,759 Speaker 1: trying to ensure strippers or call girl? Well, I mean, 723 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:51,839 Speaker 1: I mean I'm trying to ensure what I'm trying to enhoore. 724 00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,480 Speaker 1: I mean, I give all my girl ten ninety nine 725 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:55,680 Speaker 1: at the end of the year. I don't I don't 726 00:47:55,760 --> 00:47:57,640 Speaker 1: know what this is an insurance company, This is a 727 00:47:57,719 --> 00:48:03,279 Speaker 1: repertable company. We don't sure call girls stupers, Sir. I'm 728 00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: trying to ensure my product. I mean the way it 729 00:48:05,680 --> 00:48:07,600 Speaker 1: kind of me is right now, everybody got to look 730 00:48:07,600 --> 00:48:09,160 Speaker 1: out for themselves, but I got to ensure what I 731 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,520 Speaker 1: need to ensure so in case things go bad. Man, 732 00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:14,279 Speaker 1: I can bounce back on that. I understand that, sir, 733 00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,120 Speaker 1: And how I do an I mean, I'm a businessman 734 00:48:16,200 --> 00:48:19,200 Speaker 1: just like you are, sir, But we don't ensure called 735 00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,080 Speaker 1: up strippers. So so hold on, I got your car. Man, 736 00:48:22,120 --> 00:48:24,319 Speaker 1: you're trying to tell me that now you can't give 737 00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:31,640 Speaker 1: me no insurance. We can't ensure call girls are strippers. Okay, okay, okay, 738 00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: tell me what type of duties today perform? Well, I mean, 739 00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,080 Speaker 1: what do you mean what kind of doing? I mean 740 00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:38,120 Speaker 1: they think I have to on the application, I have 741 00:48:38,200 --> 00:48:41,919 Speaker 1: to put down what type of duties we're gonna put down? 742 00:48:42,200 --> 00:48:47,719 Speaker 1: Always down exiotic dance, you know, uh, and see since 743 00:48:47,760 --> 00:48:50,840 Speaker 1: they are there for people that like, uh need to 744 00:48:50,960 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 1: have some personal attention. Man, you know we just put 745 00:48:53,600 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 1: something else down, like you know, counseling. You know, he's postages. 746 00:48:58,320 --> 00:49:01,520 Speaker 1: You want to ensure costaite. I'm not saying that, man, 747 00:49:01,600 --> 00:49:04,600 Speaker 1: I'm not stop saying that. Don't say that normal. That's 748 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,279 Speaker 1: not what I'm saying. I'm saying that's what that's what 749 00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,759 Speaker 1: they are. Well, why don't you put own PC man? 750 00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:12,200 Speaker 1: Why don't you Why don't you put down pleasure consultant 751 00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:16,640 Speaker 1: for man consulting. So we don't do that here. Um, 752 00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,399 Speaker 1: I don't know how to help you, sir. We don't 753 00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:22,640 Speaker 1: do that here. You can't ensure a prostitute, then I 754 00:49:22,680 --> 00:49:24,640 Speaker 1: tell you don't say that no more. I told you 755 00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,680 Speaker 1: this right here is a PC. It's a pleasure consultant. 756 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,640 Speaker 1: That's somebody that gave me this business card and told 757 00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:30,960 Speaker 1: me that you'll be able to take care of me. 758 00:49:31,200 --> 00:49:32,960 Speaker 1: And now here you he is coming back saying you 759 00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:35,279 Speaker 1: can't see this one is starting to be some the 760 00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:38,239 Speaker 1: smitty name. Uh sir, you don't have to refrain from 761 00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:40,840 Speaker 1: using that language. No, no, no no. They're telling me 762 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:44,839 Speaker 1: that you are able to ensure me. Man, you don't 763 00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,960 Speaker 1: want coming back with some bogus right. We don't ensure 764 00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:52,919 Speaker 1: any type of ghetto mass prostitute call girls. Um, that's 765 00:49:52,960 --> 00:49:56,160 Speaker 1: some street jok that we don't do here. Hey, man, listen, 766 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:58,239 Speaker 1: I was told you can ensure me, and guess what 767 00:49:58,640 --> 00:50:01,200 Speaker 1: you go insure me? I'm gonna go back and forth. 768 00:50:01,280 --> 00:50:03,239 Speaker 1: What you dog? I'm gonna come down that to your 769 00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:05,439 Speaker 1: office and I want to I want these papers filled 770 00:50:05,480 --> 00:50:07,400 Speaker 1: out so I can sign them. So I came out 771 00:50:07,400 --> 00:50:11,640 Speaker 1: of my office. Look, man, we don't ensure no prostitutes 772 00:50:12,080 --> 00:50:15,000 Speaker 1: or no are no steppers. Okay, so we don't do that, 773 00:50:15,320 --> 00:50:18,080 Speaker 1: and and you're not gonna come down to my office 774 00:50:18,320 --> 00:50:20,920 Speaker 1: with this get on mess. We don't do that. Who 775 00:50:20,960 --> 00:50:23,359 Speaker 1: do you think you holling that? Man? You you don't 776 00:50:23,400 --> 00:50:26,200 Speaker 1: know who you with? Now, don't let this corporate over 777 00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:29,360 Speaker 1: the phone corporate voice fool you because I can get gangster. 778 00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,279 Speaker 1: Hey man, I don't know who you? Thank you. I 779 00:50:31,760 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 1: look now, we don't do that here. Hey man, look, 780 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:36,080 Speaker 1: let me tell you so, I'm on my way down there. Okay, 781 00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:40,600 Speaker 1: do not come to this office. You come to this office. 782 00:50:40,719 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 1: I'm coming to the office. You're gonna ensure my girls 783 00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,400 Speaker 1: for me? If somebody that gave me your card and 784 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,279 Speaker 1: told me you can take care of me on the low, 785 00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,239 Speaker 1: and that's what you're gonna do. Now. I need my 786 00:50:49,360 --> 00:50:51,520 Speaker 1: damn insure for my girls. Dog. That's all I'm trying 787 00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:55,000 Speaker 1: to get. Don't you bring you to man steppers with 788 00:50:55,239 --> 00:50:57,880 Speaker 1: because we don't do it and I will not. And 789 00:50:57,960 --> 00:51:00,560 Speaker 1: if you bring something, you're gonna get you. What mean? 790 00:51:00,560 --> 00:51:03,240 Speaker 1: I got one? Who are getting talking to? I'm talking 791 00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,359 Speaker 1: to you now, trying to be nice and I try 792 00:51:05,400 --> 00:51:09,759 Speaker 1: to be professional. Question, don't you ap to my office? Oh? 793 00:51:09,840 --> 00:51:14,040 Speaker 1: Gonna keep you? You ain't sending them in fland? Hey man, 794 00:51:14,040 --> 00:51:15,680 Speaker 1: I got one more things I need to say to you. 795 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,120 Speaker 1: You listening? Yes? What you got to sell to me, Joe, 796 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:22,239 Speaker 1: I do not in short perssitute. Okay, what do you 797 00:51:22,280 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 1: have to tell me? I got to tell you. This 798 00:51:24,560 --> 00:51:28,680 Speaker 1: bess is nephew Tommy from the Steve Horby Morning Show. 799 00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:35,080 Speaker 1: You just got pranked by your boy. Oh I'm kill 800 00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:49,760 Speaker 1: that boy? Ya. I can't I believe this? Who hell 801 00:51:49,920 --> 00:51:55,480 Speaker 1: y'all got me? I am one? Oh asking this here? Man? 802 00:51:55,640 --> 00:51:57,719 Speaker 1: Let me ask you this hire. What is the baddest 803 00:51:57,760 --> 00:52:01,040 Speaker 1: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land, 804 00:52:01,680 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning All right, thank you, the nephew. Really, 805 00:52:10,600 --> 00:52:13,919 Speaker 1: somebody just asked me the other day. Tommy ever gets 806 00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:19,400 Speaker 1: scared to go outside? All right? Coming up next it 807 00:52:19,560 --> 00:52:22,240 Speaker 1: is a strawberry letter, the subject my daughter is married 808 00:52:22,280 --> 00:52:24,560 Speaker 1: to a hobo. We'll get into it right after this. 809 00:52:25,239 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Time now 810 00:52:30,239 --> 00:52:35,440 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, 811 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,879 Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your strawberry letter to Steve HARVEYFM 812 00:52:38,960 --> 00:52:42,360 Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be 813 00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:44,960 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 814 00:52:45,000 --> 00:52:47,520 Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Right here, 815 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,320 Speaker 1: and you never know. Hop, hop it could be yours, 816 00:52:51,200 --> 00:52:53,239 Speaker 1: It could be yours. Muckle up and hold on tight. 817 00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:56,920 Speaker 1: We got it for you. Strawberry letter, Thank you nephew. 818 00:52:57,040 --> 00:53:01,480 Speaker 1: Subject my daughter is married to a hobo. Dear Stephen Shirley, 819 00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:04,359 Speaker 1: I'm concerned. I'm a concerned parent, and I know you're 820 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,880 Speaker 1: going to tell me to mind my business, but I 821 00:53:07,000 --> 00:53:09,520 Speaker 1: can't this time. I have a twenty nine year old 822 00:53:09,600 --> 00:53:13,120 Speaker 1: daughter that is in love with a trifling man. I 823 00:53:13,280 --> 00:53:15,799 Speaker 1: know you can't relate because you're a hard working man 824 00:53:16,000 --> 00:53:19,319 Speaker 1: like my husband. My daughter has lived a sheltered life 825 00:53:19,640 --> 00:53:23,600 Speaker 1: with her father and I giving her every opportunity available. 826 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:26,960 Speaker 1: She graduated from a prestigious school in the top of 827 00:53:27,000 --> 00:53:30,320 Speaker 1: her class, and she makes six figures. The fact that 828 00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:33,120 Speaker 1: she's in love with a hobo is puzzling to her 829 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:36,040 Speaker 1: father and I. This man won't take a nine to 830 00:53:36,160 --> 00:53:39,040 Speaker 1: five job because he doesn't want a boss. He wants 831 00:53:39,120 --> 00:53:42,759 Speaker 1: to be one. He's had several failed business ventures, and 832 00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:45,760 Speaker 1: I know my daughter is funding all of them. She's 833 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,560 Speaker 1: told us that we're old school and the new generation 834 00:53:48,680 --> 00:53:52,560 Speaker 1: of married couples believes in one another's dreams and nothing 835 00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,520 Speaker 1: is impossible. We're not that old, and we know that 836 00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:58,680 Speaker 1: money makes a world go round. I have stopped paying 837 00:53:58,760 --> 00:54:02,000 Speaker 1: her credit card bill after I saw that she charged 838 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:04,640 Speaker 1: a bunch of printing equipment on her amex so he 839 00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,400 Speaker 1: could start up a T shirt business. They live in 840 00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,320 Speaker 1: our old home, which she has done some nice upgrades in. 841 00:54:10,840 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: They drive her car, which her father got for her 842 00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:16,759 Speaker 1: as a gift after her husband totaled her other one 843 00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:19,879 Speaker 1: because he ran a red light. It's one thing after 844 00:54:20,160 --> 00:54:23,239 Speaker 1: the other, and I don't know if she's pretending to 845 00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:25,760 Speaker 1: be in love to spite us, or if she wants 846 00:54:25,840 --> 00:54:28,200 Speaker 1: out and she doesn't know how to tell us. I 847 00:54:28,320 --> 00:54:30,920 Speaker 1: want this hobo to get it together and be the 848 00:54:31,000 --> 00:54:33,800 Speaker 1: man that my daughter needs. My husband send him a 849 00:54:33,880 --> 00:54:36,520 Speaker 1: few job leads in the insurance field, and he said 850 00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:39,240 Speaker 1: he can't work from home because he's a free spirit. 851 00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,440 Speaker 1: He's not free spirited. He's a hobo. And she can 852 00:54:42,520 --> 00:54:45,839 Speaker 1: do better. Is there anything we can do to reach her? 853 00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,960 Speaker 1: This sounds like a just a case of much was 854 00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:54,520 Speaker 1: given to your daughter and nothing was required. I mean, 855 00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:57,680 Speaker 1: first of all, you gotta stop calling him a hobo. 856 00:54:58,480 --> 00:55:01,719 Speaker 1: He's a loser this and a user. And he saw 857 00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,320 Speaker 1: an opportunity and your daughter and he took it. You 858 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:06,920 Speaker 1: and your husband have done a great job with educating 859 00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:09,759 Speaker 1: your daughter and giving her the tools to make it 860 00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:12,440 Speaker 1: in this world, and she's done that. But I think 861 00:55:12,600 --> 00:55:16,000 Speaker 1: enough is enough. Now. You've got to stop giving her things. 862 00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:19,239 Speaker 1: You're still spoiling her at twenty nine. I mean, how 863 00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:22,600 Speaker 1: will her man ever step up and start providing for 864 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,440 Speaker 1: her if you guys are always there. Not that he 865 00:55:25,480 --> 00:55:27,960 Speaker 1: would do that anyway, because every time you present him 866 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:30,560 Speaker 1: with an opportunity, he has an excuse of why he 867 00:55:30,640 --> 00:55:33,120 Speaker 1: shouldn't do it or can't do it. He knows you're 868 00:55:33,120 --> 00:55:35,560 Speaker 1: going to do for her. There's no urgency for him 869 00:55:35,640 --> 00:55:38,520 Speaker 1: to do anything for her. It has nothing to do 870 00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:41,600 Speaker 1: with being old school or new school. He's just trifling 871 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:45,200 Speaker 1: and irresponsible. Like you said, we see it, she just 872 00:55:45,440 --> 00:55:47,800 Speaker 1: doesn't see it. The thing is he'll never be the 873 00:55:47,920 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: man she needs. Doesn't sound like he's built for it, 874 00:55:50,920 --> 00:55:54,040 Speaker 1: and anyway, he's not doing it now at all. So 875 00:55:54,200 --> 00:55:57,879 Speaker 1: how many failed businesses and business ventures will it take 876 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:00,319 Speaker 1: before he understands that he needs to go to work 877 00:56:00,680 --> 00:56:03,279 Speaker 1: until he can figure it out. The best thing you 878 00:56:03,360 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 1: can do right now is to try to make sure 879 00:56:05,000 --> 00:56:07,520 Speaker 1: your daughter is saving and investing at least some of 880 00:56:07,640 --> 00:56:10,480 Speaker 1: her money, so she won't give it all to this loser. 881 00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:12,680 Speaker 1: Then you got to stay out of it, you know, 882 00:56:12,840 --> 00:56:16,279 Speaker 1: and maybe somehow, someway she'll see that he's not the 883 00:56:16,400 --> 00:56:18,880 Speaker 1: man for her. He's never gonna do anything. He is 884 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:26,000 Speaker 1: the true definition of a loser, Steve. Hobo is an 885 00:56:26,040 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 1: interesting word. My daughter is married to a hobo. I 886 00:56:29,840 --> 00:56:35,560 Speaker 1: wouldn't describe him as that. He's in it. She's enabling 887 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:41,040 Speaker 1: this guy who doesn't somebody he hasn't been around, the 888 00:56:41,200 --> 00:56:43,920 Speaker 1: same thing that your daughter grew up looking at a 889 00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:46,719 Speaker 1: man and a woman worked together, and a man providing. 890 00:56:47,680 --> 00:56:51,960 Speaker 1: She didn't understand that that's what it was. She's taken 891 00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,399 Speaker 1: on this role of a nurturer and she's gonna pay 892 00:56:54,480 --> 00:56:57,840 Speaker 1: for it in the long run. Now, your parents and 893 00:56:58,040 --> 00:57:02,080 Speaker 1: your daughter twenty nine, and you know she lived a 894 00:57:02,120 --> 00:57:05,000 Speaker 1: shelter life, and her father and I given her every 895 00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:09,800 Speaker 1: opportunity available, graduated from shes school and top of a class, 896 00:57:09,920 --> 00:57:13,560 Speaker 1: she makes six figures, and that she's in love with 897 00:57:13,680 --> 00:57:17,120 Speaker 1: a hobo that won't take a nine to five because 898 00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,760 Speaker 1: he doesn't want a boss. He wants to be one. 899 00:57:20,200 --> 00:57:23,840 Speaker 1: He's had several fair business ventures, and you know your 900 00:57:23,920 --> 00:57:27,760 Speaker 1: daughter's funded him. She told us that y'all old school 901 00:57:28,600 --> 00:57:31,520 Speaker 1: and the new generation of married couples believes that want 902 00:57:31,560 --> 00:57:39,480 Speaker 1: another's dreams nothing is impossible. Well, that's true, that you 903 00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: can believe in one another's dreams, and nothing is impossible 904 00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:47,080 Speaker 1: if you're not the right person for the job. Though, 905 00:57:48,760 --> 00:57:52,800 Speaker 1: we have a problem, and it just strikes me from 906 00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:54,640 Speaker 1: the letter, and I know you and your husband have 907 00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:58,320 Speaker 1: noticed this. He doesn't seem to show up anywhere in 908 00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:03,919 Speaker 1: any way doing anything positive. So it's to carry over affect, y'all. 909 00:58:04,320 --> 00:58:06,760 Speaker 1: If you're nothing in one area of your life and 910 00:58:06,960 --> 00:58:09,160 Speaker 1: you don't work on it, you will be nothing in 911 00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:12,240 Speaker 1: other areas until finally you've mastered the art of being 912 00:58:12,360 --> 00:58:18,760 Speaker 1: nothing nowhere and everywhere. Now y'all and gave the girl 913 00:58:18,840 --> 00:58:21,479 Speaker 1: everything in her life. Gave her AMAX card. He didn't 914 00:58:21,480 --> 00:58:24,600 Speaker 1: put a bunch of printing equipment on it so he 915 00:58:24,640 --> 00:58:31,920 Speaker 1: can start a T shirt business? Boy, you're putting how 916 00:58:32,000 --> 00:58:34,480 Speaker 1: much of my American Express because you're gonna start or 917 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:39,240 Speaker 1: what a printing business? Where you live in her house? 918 00:58:39,760 --> 00:58:42,600 Speaker 1: That y'all gave her, she didn't have fixed it up 919 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:48,400 Speaker 1: here and there. And here's the funny part. Your husband 920 00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:52,040 Speaker 1: has given him several leads for insurance, y'all. He said 921 00:58:52,040 --> 00:58:54,080 Speaker 1: he can't work from home because he a free spirit. 922 00:58:54,480 --> 00:58:56,200 Speaker 1: He's not free spirit, he's the whole boy. And she 923 00:58:56,240 --> 00:58:58,480 Speaker 1: could do better. Is that anything we could do to 924 00:58:58,560 --> 00:59:01,040 Speaker 1: reach her? When I come back, I'm gonna answer that question, 925 00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,479 Speaker 1: and then we're gonna do a reenactment of me making 926 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: up excuses why I can't take a job. You know, 927 00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:11,600 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, hang on, we'll have part two of 928 00:59:11,640 --> 00:59:15,320 Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. 929 00:59:15,520 --> 00:59:18,480 Speaker 1: Today's Strawberry letter subject is my daughter is married to 930 00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:21,280 Speaker 1: a hobo. We'll get back into it right after this. 931 00:59:22,000 --> 00:59:27,120 Speaker 1: You're listening, all right, Come on, Steve, Let's recap today's 932 00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:33,840 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter. The subject my daughter is married to a hobo. Well, yeah, 933 00:59:34,120 --> 00:59:36,560 Speaker 1: you got kind of a problem. Let's go to that ludical. 934 00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:39,919 Speaker 1: She's twenty nine. She's married to a guy that won't work. 935 00:59:40,480 --> 00:59:43,840 Speaker 1: Your husband had offered to give him jobs insurance business. 936 00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:47,680 Speaker 1: He said he can't work for nobody because he's a 937 00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:51,960 Speaker 1: boss himself. Let me give you the exact words, and 938 00:59:52,040 --> 00:59:58,040 Speaker 1: he can't work for anybody because he's a free spirit. Oh, 939 00:59:59,320 --> 01:00:04,120 Speaker 1: being free costs money. Being captured costs money. You know. 940 01:00:04,360 --> 01:00:06,280 Speaker 1: She told that you all an old school and this 941 01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,880 Speaker 1: is how the new school families are doing it. Let 942 01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:10,880 Speaker 1: me just get on down here to the end of 943 01:00:10,920 --> 01:00:15,760 Speaker 1: the letter. He's not a free spirit, that he's homeborn. 944 01:00:15,920 --> 01:00:18,280 Speaker 1: She can do better. Is that anything we could do 945 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:21,440 Speaker 1: to reach her? Here's what I have to say. You 946 01:00:21,600 --> 01:00:24,800 Speaker 1: can do some things to reach her, but it'd be 947 01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:29,640 Speaker 1: a whole lot easier to reach him because he ain't 948 01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:36,600 Speaker 1: at work. Me and Tommy had a company we started 949 01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:39,400 Speaker 1: a few years ago called ride down that dot Com 950 01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:43,520 Speaker 1: and we created a website if you just wanted us 951 01:00:43,600 --> 01:00:47,280 Speaker 1: to ride down now on somebody. And this looks like 952 01:00:47,400 --> 01:00:50,440 Speaker 1: a perfect job for ride down that dot Com because 953 01:00:50,520 --> 01:00:58,360 Speaker 1: he just needed are right, she can do better? Is 954 01:00:58,400 --> 01:01:01,640 Speaker 1: there anything we can do to reach her or him? 955 01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:06,240 Speaker 1: Because you want, you want a man to make an adjustment? 956 01:01:07,360 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 1: All you got to do. He doesn't want to work 957 01:01:09,880 --> 01:01:12,840 Speaker 1: from home because he's a free spirit. And she said 958 01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:15,480 Speaker 1: he's not a free spirit, he's a hobo and she 959 01:01:15,640 --> 01:01:17,880 Speaker 1: can do better? Is there anything we could do to 960 01:01:18,000 --> 01:01:21,880 Speaker 1: reach her? Sometimes you gotta reach him and the father 961 01:01:22,040 --> 01:01:25,040 Speaker 1: needs to slide around the daughter and put some words 962 01:01:25,120 --> 01:01:28,720 Speaker 1: and some wisdom up in his head away from the daughter. Now, 963 01:01:28,760 --> 01:01:31,000 Speaker 1: when the daughter find out, she gonna be mad because 964 01:01:31,040 --> 01:01:33,320 Speaker 1: he gonna tell her because he's a little punk dude, 965 01:01:33,680 --> 01:01:35,400 Speaker 1: so he gonna tell her. But be ready for that. 966 01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:38,880 Speaker 1: But sometimes you got to help your daughter out. Look, 967 01:01:38,960 --> 01:01:42,000 Speaker 1: cause he the husband, y'all ain't in love with him. 968 01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:44,040 Speaker 1: And what's the problem that your daughter got is she 969 01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:46,960 Speaker 1: in love with so she missing a lot of stuff, 970 01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:49,720 Speaker 1: y'all looking upside his head because y'all ain't in love 971 01:01:49,800 --> 01:01:52,600 Speaker 1: with him. So you gotta ease up on him and 972 01:01:52,680 --> 01:01:56,280 Speaker 1: just put something on his head. So now that's the 973 01:01:56,360 --> 01:01:58,840 Speaker 1: answer to that. How do we reach her? You might 974 01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:01,040 Speaker 1: not be able to, but you damn sh'll reach him 975 01:02:02,360 --> 01:02:04,560 Speaker 1: and just say little stuff in his ear, like leave 976 01:02:05,080 --> 01:02:14,720 Speaker 1: or die. Horrible movie out, I see your punk ass 977 01:02:19,200 --> 01:02:23,200 Speaker 1: like he ball hited, Like walk up behind you, daddy, 978 01:02:23,920 --> 01:02:26,240 Speaker 1: and just lick his head, and when he turned around, 979 01:02:26,320 --> 01:02:34,080 Speaker 1: be staying at him with your head tilted. Yeah, head, 980 01:02:35,640 --> 01:02:41,240 Speaker 1: I'm trying to tell you how to get it started. Okay, 981 01:02:41,320 --> 01:02:45,360 Speaker 1: So that would scare him, I think so. I think 982 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 1: that would scare him. Though, when you think because his 983 01:02:47,720 --> 01:02:49,520 Speaker 1: problem is he don't want to do nothing. So ask 984 01:02:49,560 --> 01:02:51,800 Speaker 1: me any questions about going to get a job or anything. 985 01:02:51,920 --> 01:02:55,720 Speaker 1: Watch watch what he doing? Well? Have looked for anything? 986 01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:59,120 Speaker 1: Have you filled out any applications today? Oh? I feel 987 01:02:59,160 --> 01:03:05,960 Speaker 1: like applications every day? Yeah? Well, any prospects, any callbacks? Oh? No? 988 01:03:06,520 --> 01:03:12,840 Speaker 1: Anybody car? You know it's a pandemic. Most companies don't 989 01:03:12,840 --> 01:03:16,520 Speaker 1: even have somebody at the front answer phones. Well you 990 01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:19,840 Speaker 1: can work from home. I can't do that. I'm too 991 01:03:19,920 --> 01:03:22,760 Speaker 1: free spirited. Yeah, I got to be out there end 992 01:03:22,800 --> 01:03:26,400 Speaker 1: of the streets. You know, you do you know you 993 01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:28,919 Speaker 1: do not have a car. You're driving my daughter's car. 994 01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:34,640 Speaker 1: Get your own car. Oh, I'm sorry, man. We married 995 01:03:35,920 --> 01:03:39,880 Speaker 1: yea to each his own and own. It is each 996 01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:46,120 Speaker 1: He quotes scriptures that ain't even ben about since calling. 997 01:03:47,720 --> 01:03:51,760 Speaker 1: When are you going to contribute to this household? You 998 01:03:51,840 --> 01:03:54,720 Speaker 1: know that's a cool song because it can't you know 999 01:03:54,800 --> 01:04:00,560 Speaker 1: when you say we, that's what they may me think of. 1000 01:04:01,440 --> 01:04:05,200 Speaker 1: That was Jim. Did you like that song? Yeah? Leave 1001 01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:07,520 Speaker 1: in Vogue out of this. I want to know when 1002 01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:10,680 Speaker 1: you're gonna contribute to this household and not have it 1003 01:04:10,760 --> 01:04:13,920 Speaker 1: all the burden on my daughter. That's my question to you, 1004 01:04:14,680 --> 01:04:17,480 Speaker 1: Oh but see you you acted like it's a burden 1005 01:04:17,560 --> 01:04:22,440 Speaker 1: on her. It is, it's fifty fifty. Well what Hi, 1006 01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:27,880 Speaker 1: it's a burden if you got fifty Oh, he's sorry. 1007 01:04:28,800 --> 01:04:31,960 Speaker 1: Do you understand I've canceled her credit cards because she 1008 01:04:32,480 --> 01:04:35,120 Speaker 1: I noticed that she paid money to get your printing 1009 01:04:35,160 --> 01:04:41,400 Speaker 1: equipment for your You cancel who credit card her? Amax? 1010 01:04:42,120 --> 01:04:45,080 Speaker 1: What is we gonna do without the credit card? Miss? 1011 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:49,800 Speaker 1: I thought, get a job? Yeah, I think you need 1012 01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:56,600 Speaker 1: to work from home. M h man. See that's why 1013 01:04:56,640 --> 01:04:59,600 Speaker 1: a black man can't hand nothing. I got nothing to 1014 01:04:59,640 --> 01:05:06,400 Speaker 1: do with race card. I pulled a card on all 1015 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:14,120 Speaker 1: the black people. We all black, you know you know it. 1016 01:05:14,280 --> 01:05:18,560 Speaker 1: Surely don't look like you and get out of my house. 1017 01:05:18,680 --> 01:05:22,320 Speaker 1: We bought this house for her, not for you. Yeah 1018 01:05:22,520 --> 01:05:26,280 Speaker 1: right now, lady, you ain't really hurt my feelings. We see. 1019 01:05:26,800 --> 01:05:29,280 Speaker 1: Thank you. Steve. Post your comments on today's Strawberry Letter 1020 01:05:29,320 --> 01:05:32,360 Speaker 1: at Steve HARBFM on Instagram and Facebook. Check out the 1021 01:05:32,360 --> 01:05:35,800 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand and coming up to forty 1022 01:05:35,840 --> 01:05:37,960 Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour, you know what it is, 1023 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,040 Speaker 1: it's time for junior and sports talk. Right after this, 1024 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:45,560 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for 1025 01:05:45,720 --> 01:05:48,920 Speaker 1: Junior and Sports Talk Junior. What you got? You know, 1026 01:05:49,040 --> 01:05:51,760 Speaker 1: I just gotta say this, congratulations to the Cleveland Browns. 1027 01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:55,840 Speaker 1: Uh they got de Shaun Watson. And I said yesterday, 1028 01:05:55,960 --> 01:05:59,680 Speaker 1: I know, I know because I know he gonna bring 1029 01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:01,600 Speaker 1: it up up and see what he tried to do. 1030 01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,040 Speaker 1: He tried to control the native and get in ahead 1031 01:06:05,080 --> 01:06:11,640 Speaker 1: of it. Or that ain't gonna work with me. Don't 1032 01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:16,200 Speaker 1: because we don't need ragged ass Texas do it. Congratulate 1033 01:06:17,080 --> 01:06:21,640 Speaker 1: about it. I tell all of us about the Shann Watter. 1034 01:06:21,720 --> 01:06:25,600 Speaker 1: Go ahead, Okay, Lebron James became the second leader scorer 1035 01:06:25,680 --> 01:06:31,760 Speaker 1: in the NBA. Congratulates Lebron James. Yeah, man, pass car alone. 1036 01:06:31,800 --> 01:06:37,040 Speaker 1: He only trails Kareem Induljiba Hess calm alone. Yes he did. 1037 01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:43,320 Speaker 1: Harm alone is from Louisiana. The Saints is in Louisiana. Huh, 1038 01:06:43,920 --> 01:06:51,640 Speaker 1: which they wanted? The Sean watch the lost? He only clear, 1039 01:06:52,480 --> 01:07:00,480 Speaker 1: So you tell around. Oh that's hot work, baby, he 1040 01:07:00,560 --> 01:07:04,640 Speaker 1: got you do want? Man? He did, he brought he 1041 01:07:04,680 --> 01:07:07,600 Speaker 1: got two hundred and thirty million. Gary. We don't damn 1042 01:07:07,640 --> 01:07:12,640 Speaker 1: about the cases. Come on, y'all, don't care. Cases not 1043 01:07:12,800 --> 01:07:19,960 Speaker 1: the dog pound. Now, don't listen to me. Everybody in 1044 01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:29,920 Speaker 1: the dog pound got cases. Jesus fact, party percent of 1045 01:07:30,040 --> 01:07:33,400 Speaker 1: the dog pound in Cleveland is on their second strike. 1046 01:07:33,680 --> 01:07:39,720 Speaker 1: They got no moment. Don't judge men. I'm to hand 1047 01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:46,120 Speaker 1: no problem. Civil, yes, civil, Wait a minute, you cleared 1048 01:07:46,200 --> 01:07:50,000 Speaker 1: of all criminal challenges? Yeah? Oh, man, give me this 1049 01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:55,080 Speaker 1: damn probation and let's go. What can he do with 1050 01:07:55,200 --> 01:07:57,560 Speaker 1: two hundred and thirty million in Cleveland? Like? How he? 1051 01:07:57,760 --> 01:08:03,920 Speaker 1: How he gonna be balling? Nothing? Nothing held? Can you 1052 01:08:04,000 --> 01:08:07,280 Speaker 1: do it? I'm gonna tell you something, though. Man, we 1053 01:08:07,320 --> 01:08:18,360 Speaker 1: even got some fun. He got a girl, girlfriend, girlfriend, girlfriend. 1054 01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,920 Speaker 1: In the words of Boomerangs, Grandmama, I don't care how 1055 01:08:23,160 --> 01:08:26,880 Speaker 1: fine a woman is. There's a man somewhere seeking tie. 1056 01:08:27,040 --> 01:08:38,200 Speaker 1: He no buddy even rolled it out with him too. Yeah, 1057 01:08:38,400 --> 01:08:43,439 Speaker 1: any Jackson had it been all right? Junior? Thank you 1058 01:08:43,760 --> 01:08:49,360 Speaker 1: for bringing that up again a million though, I'm a 1059 01:08:49,439 --> 01:08:52,320 Speaker 1: sergeant for two hundred million. Coming up at the top 1060 01:08:52,360 --> 01:08:54,800 Speaker 1: of the hour, we'll talk about the power of forgiveness 1061 01:08:54,960 --> 01:08:59,639 Speaker 1: and jumping. Right after this, you're listening Steve Harpy Morning 1062 01:08:59,680 --> 01:09:05,400 Speaker 1: show singer and actress Kelly Rowland, along with her father 1063 01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:09,639 Speaker 1: Christopher Lovett did an interview with Hodakapi on The Today Show. 1064 01:09:10,200 --> 01:09:13,080 Speaker 1: Kelly said she went to jay Z for advice when 1065 01:09:13,160 --> 01:09:15,080 Speaker 1: she was deciding whether or not to reach out to 1066 01:09:15,200 --> 01:09:19,519 Speaker 1: her father after not seeing him for thirty years. Kelly 1067 01:09:19,600 --> 01:09:22,320 Speaker 1: was raised by her mother, Miss Doris Roland Garrison for 1068 01:09:22,439 --> 01:09:25,640 Speaker 1: most of her childhood after her dad left because he 1069 01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:29,559 Speaker 1: wasn't ready for parenthood. However, after Kelly's mother passed away 1070 01:09:30,000 --> 01:09:32,559 Speaker 1: and now that Kelly is a mother too, she felt 1071 01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:34,519 Speaker 1: like it was time to reach out to her dad. 1072 01:09:35,040 --> 01:09:38,240 Speaker 1: Kelly asked jay Z if she was ready to take 1073 01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:41,120 Speaker 1: the risk when she was deciding whether to meet her father. 1074 01:09:41,680 --> 01:09:44,479 Speaker 1: This is what jay Z told her. Jay Z said, 1075 01:09:44,760 --> 01:09:49,120 Speaker 1: love is all about risk. You gotta decide if you're 1076 01:09:49,160 --> 01:09:52,400 Speaker 1: gonna jump, you're gonna jump. Kelly said she talked to 1077 01:09:52,479 --> 01:09:55,479 Speaker 1: her husband, Tim, who was very protective of her, and 1078 01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:58,960 Speaker 1: he told her to forgive and she jumped. So, I mean, 1079 01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:01,960 Speaker 1: what a great story, right, And Steve, you talk about 1080 01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:04,960 Speaker 1: jumping and forgiveness and the power of forgiveness all the time. 1081 01:10:05,920 --> 01:10:10,760 Speaker 1: What say you, Well, you know just jay Z said 1082 01:10:10,800 --> 01:10:13,800 Speaker 1: it best. Yeah, we all know where he got there, 1083 01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:21,519 Speaker 1: from him, from him, That's where you be trying to 1084 01:10:21,560 --> 01:10:26,120 Speaker 1: get credit. That's why you try to steal credit like 1085 01:10:26,200 --> 01:10:33,560 Speaker 1: you thought of something. He's absolutely correct, you know, and 1086 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:35,920 Speaker 1: so you know she did it. I mean, you know. 1087 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:39,120 Speaker 1: And then you gotta understand what forgiveness truly is. Now 1088 01:10:39,800 --> 01:10:43,640 Speaker 1: it ain't for the other person. Forgiveness is really for you, 1089 01:10:43,920 --> 01:10:47,800 Speaker 1: So you can move on and quit driving your car 1090 01:10:48,120 --> 01:10:51,800 Speaker 1: looking in the rearview mirror. It's for you. It might 1091 01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:53,240 Speaker 1: be a helpful thing. And you know what I mean, 1092 01:10:53,320 --> 01:10:55,720 Speaker 1: why not? And if you got a child, you know, 1093 01:10:56,000 --> 01:10:57,800 Speaker 1: maybe it's what he needs. You know, there are a 1094 01:10:57,880 --> 01:10:59,800 Speaker 1: lot of men who get it right after they get 1095 01:10:59,840 --> 01:11:02,680 Speaker 1: it wrong. Sad to say, but you were in this 1096 01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:05,760 Speaker 1: life when it was wrong. But you can also be 1097 01:11:05,840 --> 01:11:08,400 Speaker 1: in his life when he get it right too. A 1098 01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:12,479 Speaker 1: lot of people make mistakes when they're young. Man. You 1099 01:11:12,560 --> 01:11:17,519 Speaker 1: got to give people some grace and mercy, right, that's 1100 01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:22,280 Speaker 1: how you get your experience making mistakes, learning from those mistakes. 1101 01:11:22,400 --> 01:11:27,400 Speaker 1: You know, I should be what happened? Let's say what now? Oh, 1102 01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:31,800 Speaker 1: it's just back. I had regrets too far inside voice again. 1103 01:11:32,439 --> 01:11:35,160 Speaker 1: Now I ain't always come out. I just didn't want 1104 01:11:35,200 --> 01:11:38,760 Speaker 1: to say it out loud like that. But you know, 1105 01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:43,000 Speaker 1: there is a difference you do inside and outside the voice. Yeah, 1106 01:11:44,240 --> 01:11:47,280 Speaker 1: And I don't really know how to whisper. You don't, 1107 01:11:47,840 --> 01:11:54,439 Speaker 1: don't you don't, I really don't. You mean, ain't nobody 1108 01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:59,680 Speaker 1: gonna hear he's good as you? Well? Why would I 1109 01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:08,400 Speaker 1: wait whistles? Exactly? But I love that. I love that 1110 01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,840 Speaker 1: I saw her dad. They were she was crying on TV. 1111 01:12:12,000 --> 01:12:14,280 Speaker 1: Kelly was crying and her dad and he said he 1112 01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:16,160 Speaker 1: used to hurt him because people would come up to him. 1113 01:12:16,160 --> 01:12:18,240 Speaker 1: And so I saw your daughter. I saw her on 1114 01:12:18,360 --> 01:12:21,960 Speaker 1: TV and he couldn't see her. So, like you said, Steve, 1115 01:12:22,080 --> 01:12:25,160 Speaker 1: that that power of forgiveness that was for Kelly, because 1116 01:12:25,240 --> 01:12:27,840 Speaker 1: Kelly was dealing with the pain too, you know. Yeah. 1117 01:12:28,520 --> 01:12:31,000 Speaker 1: And the good thing is now he gets to see 1118 01:12:31,040 --> 01:12:34,760 Speaker 1: his grandson, his kid, his grandkids, you know. Yeah. Yeah, 1119 01:12:34,920 --> 01:12:39,200 Speaker 1: she has two boys. Yeah, she got a good husband too. Man. 1120 01:12:39,280 --> 01:12:44,240 Speaker 1: That's a solid ass dude. Would you say Kelly's husband 1121 01:12:44,360 --> 01:12:50,000 Speaker 1: solid ass dude? Him? Yeah, he said he's very protective 1122 01:12:50,040 --> 01:12:52,200 Speaker 1: of her and he's the one that told her to 1123 01:12:52,320 --> 01:12:57,600 Speaker 1: forgive ultimately, So get off, m tell me what you 1124 01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:11,280 Speaker 1: think about that. You're awfully quiet. You I've forgiven? Tell 1125 01:13:11,360 --> 01:13:15,200 Speaker 1: me that stole Christmas. You can move his aster Easter. 1126 01:13:21,720 --> 01:13:25,360 Speaker 1: That's what Tommy. You have forgiven me better. I have forgiven, 1127 01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:31,360 Speaker 1: but I will leave you alone, though you really pretend 1128 01:13:31,600 --> 01:13:36,000 Speaker 1: with I will forgive and leave you alone. I will, 1129 01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:40,040 Speaker 1: all right, all right, we'll have more of the Steve 1130 01:13:40,120 --> 01:13:42,599 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show coming up at twenty minutes after the hour. 1131 01:13:42,800 --> 01:13:46,760 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1132 01:13:48,840 --> 01:13:52,080 Speaker 1: All right, Carla is here with music news coming in 1133 01:13:52,280 --> 01:13:57,320 Speaker 1: hot Carla. Let's all right, thank you, Charlotte Girl. Major 1134 01:13:57,560 --> 01:14:01,519 Speaker 1: Awards show Alert. The I Heart Radio Awards are tonight, 1135 01:14:02,120 --> 01:14:07,439 Speaker 1: hosted by L L. Coo j as Hard as Anybody, 1136 01:14:08,960 --> 01:14:13,080 Speaker 1: That's it. Nephew ll el is hosting tonight. Performance include 1137 01:14:13,240 --> 01:14:19,160 Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, Jenny from the Blocks, Stallion, The Hotties, Hot Girl, 1138 01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:23,599 Speaker 1: Summers Going Down, John Legend All Tonight eight seventh Central 1139 01:14:23,720 --> 01:14:28,800 Speaker 1: on Fox. Also nominated for Best Lyrics Leave the Door 1140 01:14:29,160 --> 01:14:33,840 Speaker 1: Open Anderson Pack, Bruno, Mars Silk Sonic. You know we 1141 01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:43,479 Speaker 1: love love Steve. We love that song open Open. You 1142 01:14:43,600 --> 01:14:46,000 Speaker 1: know what you don't call I'm so glad you like 1143 01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:51,759 Speaker 1: your souse. As another hit I wrote, I'm Roscoe Wallah 1144 01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:55,360 Speaker 1: Roscoe wait a minute you telling me you wrote leave 1145 01:14:55,439 --> 01:15:00,400 Speaker 1: the door open order. How are we going do when 1146 01:15:00,439 --> 01:15:06,800 Speaker 1: you can't clothe it through? I'm a leader, doe, oh 1147 01:15:07,439 --> 01:15:13,960 Speaker 1: boys singing, I'm gonna leave, I'm gonna leave. I'm gonna 1148 01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:21,800 Speaker 1: lead a whole do wide. Don't might catch your frangle 1149 01:15:22,280 --> 01:15:28,320 Speaker 1: in the doe. Coming up at thirty three minutes after, 1150 01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:31,160 Speaker 1: we'll do a round of would you rather? Right after this, 1151 01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:36,160 Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show time out for would 1152 01:15:36,320 --> 01:15:39,400 Speaker 1: you rather? Would you rather give up your cell phone 1153 01:15:39,479 --> 01:15:41,879 Speaker 1: for a month or would you rather give up bathing 1154 01:15:42,040 --> 01:15:48,200 Speaker 1: for a month? Hello, babe, I'm Benna put together some 1155 01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:51,639 Speaker 1: funky deals. I can't make no money because I just phone. 1156 01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:55,280 Speaker 1: I'm gone. I'm gonna just carr my laptop. I see 1157 01:15:55,400 --> 01:16:00,880 Speaker 1: my son FaceTime on his computing everything. I because let 1158 01:16:00,920 --> 01:16:03,840 Speaker 1: me explain something to you. If you're laying in the 1159 01:16:03,960 --> 01:16:11,200 Speaker 1: bed naked and you raise your knee up by your chests, 1160 01:16:13,400 --> 01:16:18,920 Speaker 1: that dry ice cloud comes out your crack yesses up 1161 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:23,000 Speaker 1: over the hump of your booty and slides along your 1162 01:16:23,040 --> 01:16:27,160 Speaker 1: waist time roll up over your elbow and come down 1163 01:16:27,760 --> 01:16:32,600 Speaker 1: behind your shoulders. It look like dry ice steppings invisible, 1164 01:16:32,680 --> 01:16:36,120 Speaker 1: but that white dry ice smoke, and then it come 1165 01:16:36,160 --> 01:16:38,920 Speaker 1: around your face and it just lock on your face. 1166 01:16:39,240 --> 01:16:44,599 Speaker 1: You can't get it off. I'd rather not, so you're 1167 01:16:44,680 --> 01:16:48,240 Speaker 1: going to bathe I got to man. Ain't no way 1168 01:16:48,280 --> 01:16:55,840 Speaker 1: in the world that that dog that third day, then 1169 01:16:55,920 --> 01:17:03,120 Speaker 1: you got twenty seventh boat. Yeah, yeah, you might not 1170 01:17:03,240 --> 01:17:05,559 Speaker 1: even have to raise your leg back to two weeks. 1171 01:17:07,320 --> 01:17:11,960 Speaker 1: You need to stop walking. If you walking in flies 1172 01:17:12,120 --> 01:17:19,400 Speaker 1: just buzzing round, your just following you, just buzzing. You're 1173 01:17:19,439 --> 01:17:26,479 Speaker 1: looking like pig peeing on Charlotte Brown. All right? Would 1174 01:17:26,560 --> 01:17:30,760 Speaker 1: you rather never age physically? Never age physically, or would 1175 01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:34,680 Speaker 1: you rather never age mentally? I could stay right here. 1176 01:17:34,680 --> 01:17:36,560 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, right here. I got enough to make it. 1177 01:17:36,680 --> 01:17:38,720 Speaker 1: Only if I think like this at one hundred, I'll 1178 01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:45,479 Speaker 1: be cool. Yeah, so physically whole, physically, stay right here. Yeah. 1179 01:17:45,479 --> 01:17:47,920 Speaker 1: Would you rather never think about this on the show? 1180 01:17:48,040 --> 01:17:50,320 Speaker 1: You know, you know, you know we're pretty good. Look 1181 01:17:50,360 --> 01:17:54,120 Speaker 1: at morning show when you look at you know, Yes, 1182 01:17:54,560 --> 01:17:59,040 Speaker 1: Tommy and Junior can still run. Yeah. I can trot 1183 01:17:59,240 --> 01:18:08,000 Speaker 1: for distances. We were probably mobile. M trot for shot distances. 1184 01:18:08,439 --> 01:18:11,719 Speaker 1: If I do an outburst, it's got to be about 1185 01:18:11,920 --> 01:18:16,599 Speaker 1: four five steps. I gotta shut it. Down. I immediately 1186 01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:18,800 Speaker 1: got to pull up because I have heard about to 1187 01:18:18,880 --> 01:18:23,120 Speaker 1: come right after that. Don't hurt nothing, don't pull anything. 1188 01:18:23,280 --> 01:18:26,720 Speaker 1: Um and Junior, what about you? Would you rather never 1189 01:18:26,840 --> 01:18:31,040 Speaker 1: age physically or mentally? No? Mentally, I want to be mentally. Physically, 1190 01:18:31,360 --> 01:18:33,360 Speaker 1: it ain't working for me. Now I'm just in there. 1191 01:18:33,920 --> 01:18:36,400 Speaker 1: I'm ending him, but it ain't. Ain't nothing happening in there, 1192 01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:43,720 Speaker 1: Tommy quickly physically okay, okay, all right, well thank you. 1193 01:18:43,800 --> 01:18:46,280 Speaker 1: That's our round developing physically. Well, he's been done. The 1194 01:18:49,040 --> 01:18:51,200 Speaker 1: plow me back with our last break of the day 1195 01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:56,120 Speaker 1: and clothing from nine minutes after. Right after you're listening 1196 01:18:56,400 --> 01:19:00,360 Speaker 1: to show. All right, guys, here we are, last break 1197 01:19:00,400 --> 01:19:03,559 Speaker 1: up the day. What a day on this Tuesday. It's 1198 01:19:03,600 --> 01:19:07,600 Speaker 1: been fun. Yeah, good time. Learn a lot, learned a 1199 01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:14,400 Speaker 1: lot today, didn't we Yeah, on your stomach up, bring 1200 01:19:14,479 --> 01:19:21,640 Speaker 1: it up too much. You ain't washed you if you 1201 01:19:21,840 --> 01:19:24,759 Speaker 1: neck it and raise your knee up by your chest 1202 01:19:24,880 --> 01:19:31,280 Speaker 1: while you on your stomach. Imagine invisible white cloud or 1203 01:19:31,479 --> 01:19:38,080 Speaker 1: dry coming out your crack, rolling up over your booty 1204 01:19:38,200 --> 01:19:41,599 Speaker 1: and coming down your entire body, and it go behind 1205 01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:43,720 Speaker 1: you and come over your shoulder so you can't see 1206 01:19:44,720 --> 01:19:50,479 Speaker 1: and it latches on to your ass, spider Man. Like 1207 01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:55,080 Speaker 1: Spider Man, just we don't want to hear this anymore. 1208 01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:59,760 Speaker 1: To take a shower every day, wash some soap, and 1209 01:20:04,160 --> 01:20:06,479 Speaker 1: several things you've got to be leary of from you 1210 01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:10,160 Speaker 1: out here in this world. Like what like people always 1211 01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:12,479 Speaker 1: want me to do clothing, mar Come on, Steve, give 1212 01:20:12,560 --> 01:20:16,200 Speaker 1: us something, and you know I try to, but you 1213 01:20:16,320 --> 01:20:18,640 Speaker 1: know what, some days I just want to go. You 1214 01:20:18,760 --> 01:20:23,280 Speaker 1: know what, what if you don't care that you ain't successful, 1215 01:20:25,080 --> 01:20:29,160 Speaker 1: I don't either. I don't. Man, Well, wait a minute, 1216 01:20:29,640 --> 01:20:34,839 Speaker 1: and if you if you don't want to take this advice, 1217 01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:39,280 Speaker 1: why am I continually giving? But so many people love 1218 01:20:39,360 --> 01:20:42,840 Speaker 1: your clothing? I know, and I believe that surely. Yeah, 1219 01:20:43,520 --> 01:20:48,160 Speaker 1: But for the few that don't that dropped little negative 1220 01:20:48,240 --> 01:20:51,879 Speaker 1: comments in the comments section. He thinks he knows everything. 1221 01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:54,519 Speaker 1: Why he always trying to be serious? We come to 1222 01:20:54,680 --> 01:20:59,120 Speaker 1: him for jokes When I'm moting jokes. What's wrong with 1223 01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:02,800 Speaker 1: you too? I'm being who they said I was in 1224 01:21:02,880 --> 01:21:09,240 Speaker 1: the twelfth grade difficult. So if you have decided and 1225 01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:12,479 Speaker 1: made the conscious decision in your life not to be 1226 01:21:12,600 --> 01:21:15,280 Speaker 1: a damn thing, I want you to know that from 1227 01:21:15,360 --> 01:21:26,720 Speaker 1: now on I'm gonna support you everything. No forgiveness right now, 1228 01:21:27,760 --> 01:21:31,120 Speaker 1: listen to me. Listen to me. If you don't want 1229 01:21:31,160 --> 01:21:35,840 Speaker 1: it for yourself, I can't want it for you, right Okay, 1230 01:21:35,920 --> 01:21:40,599 Speaker 1: I'm wasting my energy. You know. You know how old 1231 01:21:40,640 --> 01:21:43,040 Speaker 1: people say, you can lead a horse to the water, 1232 01:21:43,360 --> 01:21:46,960 Speaker 1: but you can't make him drink That's right, I'm telling you. 1233 01:21:47,400 --> 01:21:49,200 Speaker 1: If you ever see you not from the country, you 1234 01:21:49,240 --> 01:21:51,439 Speaker 1: don't know how true that is. If you take a 1235 01:21:51,520 --> 01:21:53,800 Speaker 1: water a horse all the way down to the water trough, 1236 01:21:54,720 --> 01:21:57,160 Speaker 1: you cannot make a horse drink water. That's not a 1237 01:21:57,280 --> 01:21:59,360 Speaker 1: command you can give him. He don't even know what 1238 01:21:59,400 --> 01:22:02,040 Speaker 1: you're talking about. And it's nothing you could do. And 1239 01:22:02,160 --> 01:22:04,559 Speaker 1: I found that a lot of people is like leading 1240 01:22:04,600 --> 01:22:07,400 Speaker 1: a horse down to water. You can lead them down there, 1241 01:22:07,439 --> 01:22:09,120 Speaker 1: but if they don't want nothing, Man, what you're doing 1242 01:22:09,920 --> 01:22:12,519 Speaker 1: dr sand has taught me one of the most valuable 1243 01:22:12,640 --> 01:22:18,000 Speaker 1: lessons in my life. He say, man, quit throwing life 1244 01:22:18,200 --> 01:22:23,840 Speaker 1: rafts to people swimming away from the boat. That's I've 1245 01:22:23,920 --> 01:22:26,840 Speaker 1: seen you do it too many time, he say, man, 1246 01:22:27,160 --> 01:22:29,559 Speaker 1: stop it. Man. Do you know how much that helped 1247 01:22:29,560 --> 01:22:32,479 Speaker 1: me in my in my walk? Yeah, And so my 1248 01:22:32,560 --> 01:22:35,680 Speaker 1: closing remarks today, I normally try to be encouraging, but 1249 01:22:35,760 --> 01:22:39,120 Speaker 1: I just wanted y'all to know that don't want nothing, 1250 01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:46,680 Speaker 1: that Steve Harvest supports you not want nothing. And the 1251 01:22:46,840 --> 01:22:50,720 Speaker 1: way I choose to do it is to pay just 1252 01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:53,519 Speaker 1: play this out from now on, because all the rest 1253 01:22:53,560 --> 01:22:56,720 Speaker 1: of my closing remarks ain't going to be uplifting, motivational. 1254 01:22:57,280 --> 01:23:00,760 Speaker 1: People looking for something all my back. That's what it's about, 1255 01:23:00,880 --> 01:23:04,040 Speaker 1: because that's what God made me fall. But the human 1256 01:23:04,200 --> 01:23:07,200 Speaker 1: side of me just wanted to have this one little 1257 01:23:07,320 --> 01:23:09,640 Speaker 1: break in the action and let you know that. For 1258 01:23:09,760 --> 01:23:14,520 Speaker 1: the remainder of twenty twenty two, as I encourage, uplift, inspire, 1259 01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:17,640 Speaker 1: and try to motivate people to greatness, for those of 1260 01:23:17,720 --> 01:23:20,040 Speaker 1: you to do, drop stuff in the comments section like 1261 01:23:20,320 --> 01:23:23,120 Speaker 1: he thinks he knows everything. We just come for the jokes. 1262 01:23:23,200 --> 01:23:25,439 Speaker 1: We don't want to hear all that I'm an atheist. 1263 01:23:26,280 --> 01:23:33,920 Speaker 1: This is for you are no longer do I give 1264 01:23:33,960 --> 01:23:41,120 Speaker 1: a damn damn all, man. I promise you I don't, man, 1265 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:43,840 Speaker 1: And then you know I'm working on my Christianity level. 1266 01:23:44,200 --> 01:23:49,799 Speaker 1: But right now, well you know, surely praying for your enemies, 1267 01:23:50,160 --> 01:23:53,200 Speaker 1: I've done it a couple of times, yes, and loving 1268 01:23:53,280 --> 01:23:55,479 Speaker 1: them treating them as you want to be treated all. 1269 01:23:56,120 --> 01:23:58,439 Speaker 1: I did it a couple of times. Surely be honest 1270 01:23:58,479 --> 01:24:03,679 Speaker 1: with may me a little sick? Why are we praying 1271 01:24:03,760 --> 01:24:07,120 Speaker 1: for any of it? Now? You know this one here 1272 01:24:07,360 --> 01:24:10,599 Speaker 1: is gonna be with it just made me a little sick, Siller, 1273 01:24:12,280 --> 01:24:16,599 Speaker 1: I couldn't finish the prayer. I had to come out. Yes, um, 1274 01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:19,200 Speaker 1: can we just can I just assign a couple of 1275 01:24:19,360 --> 01:24:24,479 Speaker 1: names to this closing for me? Yes? No, no, no, no, oldis. 1276 01:24:24,600 --> 01:24:29,680 Speaker 1: If you're listening, please hit this advice James, James, I 1277 01:24:29,760 --> 01:24:33,560 Speaker 1: got one for you. Yeah, my cousin Carl. Yeah, you 1278 01:24:33,640 --> 01:24:36,559 Speaker 1: know you ain't been nothing since we was kids. Yeah, 1279 01:24:37,240 --> 01:24:39,679 Speaker 1: he ain't been nothing since we was kids. Why would 1280 01:24:39,680 --> 01:24:44,080 Speaker 1: he suddenly want to be something? He's sixty seven, Thank you. 1281 01:24:44,600 --> 01:24:49,320 Speaker 1: I just want no, no, no, he ain't ever wanted 1282 01:24:49,360 --> 01:24:50,960 Speaker 1: to be nothing and done done a hell of a 1283 01:24:51,080 --> 01:24:56,960 Speaker 1: job of it. Praying for cousin Carl, Carlin want to 1284 01:24:57,080 --> 01:25:00,400 Speaker 1: be nothing? We're gonna we're gonna take it to the 1285 01:25:00,479 --> 01:25:05,719 Speaker 1: alten pray. I have other things while I'm I'm answering 1286 01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:08,519 Speaker 1: God for a whole lot of show. Call you is 1287 01:25:08,640 --> 01:25:16,040 Speaker 1: off the prayer list. Work clothing remarks ever, thank you. 1288 01:25:16,400 --> 01:25:19,280 Speaker 1: Y'all have a great thing, man, God willing, We'll see 1289 01:25:19,320 --> 01:25:21,960 Speaker 1: y'all the mall. Man, we'll have a great clothing remark 1290 01:25:22,080 --> 01:25:23,720 Speaker 1: for you. Just wanted to get that out of my 1291 01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:43,680 Speaker 1: chick call you playing off the prayer list. For all 1292 01:25:43,720 --> 01:25:47,440 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void we're prohibited. 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