1 00:00:02,040 --> 00:00:05,760 Speaker 1: Episode number two. I had to do it. I had 2 00:00:05,800 --> 00:00:08,559 Speaker 1: to talk about a topic that is near and dear 3 00:00:08,600 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: to my heart, one that I argue with often, one 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: that sits doesn't sit wow with me, I will say. 5 00:00:16,040 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: And the topic is a mix between a few things. 6 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:24,760 Speaker 1: It's a mix between capitalism, cancel culture, and corporate greed. 7 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: That's what we'll talk about today, and I do want 8 00:00:27,520 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: to let you guys know this is what you guys 9 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,680 Speaker 1: will be getting. At the top of every episode moving forward, 10 00:00:33,040 --> 00:00:36,520 Speaker 1: you will hear my thoughts on the topic, followed by 11 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 1: my guests, who will then share their thoughts on what 12 00:00:39,240 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: the hell I just said, because guess what. 13 00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:44,920 Speaker 2: You can't handle the bullshit? 14 00:00:46,080 --> 00:00:52,040 Speaker 1: Bear with me here for this episode, because listen, I 15 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:56,440 Speaker 1: stand for something, I promise I do. But I'm just 16 00:00:56,520 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: not gonna sit here and get in a tizzy over 17 00:00:59,800 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: what these corporations are doing. And I've had enough of 18 00:01:02,920 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: the idea that we need to align ourselves with any 19 00:01:04,920 --> 00:01:07,880 Speaker 1: corporate views to show that we stand for something. I'm 20 00:01:08,000 --> 00:01:11,199 Speaker 1: just not buying it. I'm pro Palestine and i still 21 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: drink Starbucks, sure do, and I'm not gonna apologize for it. 22 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:16,600 Speaker 1: The idea that we have to live in a life 23 00:01:16,640 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: of perfect alignment with some corporate ideal that every purchase 24 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:23,760 Speaker 1: has to be some political statement is ridiculous to me. 25 00:01:24,200 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 1: I mean, do you believe that corporations are perfect? Because 26 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:27,959 Speaker 1: I don't. 27 00:01:28,319 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: They're not. 28 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,319 Speaker 1: Also, who represents me, They're here to sell me a coffee. 29 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: Why should I change the way I live because of 30 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:38,520 Speaker 1: the countless corporate decisions that I have zero control over it. 31 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,000 Speaker 1: It doesn't make me any less of a person or 32 00:01:41,120 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: less of an activist. It just means I'm choosing my battles, 33 00:01:44,319 --> 00:01:46,920 Speaker 1: and honestly, I don't think it's fair to expect me 34 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,800 Speaker 1: to fight every battle all the time. Like take Away Fair, 35 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 1: people lost their minds when the whole thing about the 36 00:01:54,320 --> 00:01:56,880 Speaker 1: kids and the cabinets came out. I ain't gonna hold 37 00:01:56,960 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: you everything in this studio right here. Wait and guess what. 38 00:02:02,560 --> 00:02:05,760 Speaker 1: I didn't also like being a villain for not jumping 39 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:11,320 Speaker 1: into boycotting every which thing that we're doing. I'm sorry, Tarja, 40 00:02:11,560 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: I'm still getting my things over a hun now. Listen. 41 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:17,840 Speaker 1: I do think that in the world that we live in, 42 00:02:18,120 --> 00:02:20,639 Speaker 1: there's so much going on. There's a lot of things 43 00:02:20,720 --> 00:02:23,400 Speaker 1: stacked up against each other, and I just don't believe 44 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 1: in letting every emotional uproar dictate my every move. I'm 45 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,359 Speaker 1: not going to let every corporate decision make me feel 46 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:33,520 Speaker 1: like I'm betraying my values. Don't even get me started 47 00:02:33,560 --> 00:02:35,720 Speaker 1: on the whole H and M Coolest Monkey in the 48 00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:38,320 Speaker 1: Jungle shirt. That was a messed up moment, for sure, 49 00:02:38,320 --> 00:02:40,280 Speaker 1: But what the hell was I supposed to do? Get 50 00:02:40,360 --> 00:02:42,519 Speaker 1: rid of my whole wardrobe? Okay, not saying that my 51 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: whole wardrobe is from H and M, just saying that's 52 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,840 Speaker 1: not the deal that I'm gonna die on. There's a 53 00:02:46,880 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: ton of ugliness in the world, and I can't possibly 54 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: spend my energy trying to hold every corporation accountable for 55 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 1: their mistakes, because let's be very clear, these corporations are 56 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 1: just ran by human beings, and humans suck. I know 57 00:03:02,440 --> 00:03:05,000 Speaker 1: some people would argue that my choice not to boycott 58 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:08,240 Speaker 1: certain things means I'm not doing enough, but the truth 59 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 1: is we all have to make different changes in the 60 00:03:11,080 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 1: way that we move about, and the corporate battle is 61 00:03:13,520 --> 00:03:15,680 Speaker 1: just not mine. It's not the one that I'm going 62 00:03:15,720 --> 00:03:18,160 Speaker 1: to fight in the trenches every single time for, and 63 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:20,560 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be guilt tripped into a moral 64 00:03:20,600 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 1: high ground because of an emotional reaction to something a 65 00:03:24,040 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: company did. We have enough to stress about in this world, 66 00:03:27,120 --> 00:03:29,680 Speaker 1: and I'm doing what I can where I can, and 67 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: I choose not to let corporations dictate my every move. 68 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:36,160 Speaker 1: I don't think that makes me a bad person. I'm human, 69 00:03:36,600 --> 00:03:40,840 Speaker 1: just like everyone else. Right. Yes, I'm smiling and holding 70 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: up a hello around my head, y'all. I have joined 71 00:03:46,320 --> 00:03:47,960 Speaker 1: by who should be my co host, but it is 72 00:03:48,120 --> 00:03:52,000 Speaker 1: because she's a very busy woman, and to neet here 73 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,840 Speaker 1: from around the way curls and to interject on anything 74 00:03:55,880 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: throughout the episode. Y'all know, I got my boys over 75 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:00,000 Speaker 1: there on the mics. We got a King and Jason 76 00:04:00,040 --> 00:04:04,800 Speaker 1: and Rodriguez. Now they will be fact checking, thank god, 77 00:04:05,840 --> 00:04:07,640 Speaker 1: but also Anthelina, I have opinions you. 78 00:04:07,680 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 3: Just stated though, so check. 79 00:04:09,600 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 1: Antonette has also brought her laptop. Oh so, y'all, she 80 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,760 Speaker 1: has come prepared. But why I'm really excited to have 81 00:04:16,800 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 1: this conversation is because this is a pure example of 82 00:04:21,640 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: how people can be friends that come from different backgrounds 83 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,839 Speaker 1: and have different points of view and they can respectfully disagree. 84 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:33,520 Speaker 1: So I wanted to kind of start with the fact 85 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:37,200 Speaker 1: that this is my really dear friend. And she did 86 00:04:37,240 --> 00:04:40,080 Speaker 1: tell me to stop drinks. You get Starbucks, And I said, 87 00:04:40,080 --> 00:04:48,360 Speaker 1: but pistachio is back. And though I have loved listening 88 00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,800 Speaker 1: to her around the way curls and listening to you 89 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: talk about the passion that you hold with what's happening 90 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,640 Speaker 1: with Hamas and Israel and Gaza, and how you are 91 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:05,799 Speaker 1: very pro free Palestine. When it came out that Starbucks 92 00:05:05,960 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: was supporting Israel, you were clear that you would not 93 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:12,240 Speaker 1: then purchase anything from Starbucks. 94 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:15,719 Speaker 4: Well, Starbucks came out and if I remember, they came 95 00:05:15,760 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 4: out against their union. 96 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,919 Speaker 1: The union who supported who supported free Palestine. 97 00:05:20,480 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 4: Free Palestine, so they kind of had took issue with that, 98 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,240 Speaker 4: and they came out first and foremost that were in 99 00:05:27,279 --> 00:05:32,520 Speaker 4: the forefront. A lot of these companies, right are backing Israel. 100 00:05:32,320 --> 00:05:32,880 Speaker 1: Like a lot. 101 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,240 Speaker 3: Like let's be a lot of them. 102 00:05:35,320 --> 00:05:39,919 Speaker 4: I think that the larger conversation, the more general conversation, 103 00:05:40,120 --> 00:05:43,839 Speaker 4: is about our money, and money is power, especially in 104 00:05:43,880 --> 00:05:45,159 Speaker 4: this capitalist society. 105 00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:49,640 Speaker 3: So being intentional as intentional as. 106 00:05:49,520 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 4: You can within a very corrupt society, where like it's 107 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 4: difficult not this phone is a problem, right, it's very wise. 108 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 4: Why is the let me finish my thought though, this 109 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,279 Speaker 4: phone is a problem just because we know that these 110 00:06:05,320 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 4: batteries are mine. 111 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:07,400 Speaker 3: People are dying for this. 112 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:14,440 Speaker 4: There's always feeling like something, whatever you're consuming, is harming 113 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:18,679 Speaker 4: someone else. And I want to say that capitalism specifically 114 00:06:20,360 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 4: creates that kind of environment for the consumer, is that 115 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:27,600 Speaker 4: it's very difficult to consume anything these days without it 116 00:06:27,640 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 4: being harmful to someone else due to exploitation, et cetera, 117 00:06:30,720 --> 00:06:35,039 Speaker 4: et cetera. And first and foremost, the people that are 118 00:06:35,080 --> 00:06:39,760 Speaker 4: exploited the most are usually people that are black, Brown, 119 00:06:39,839 --> 00:06:46,000 Speaker 4: Indigenous children, children, the folks that like are marginalized, and 120 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,960 Speaker 4: so if you care about those communities, it's very difficult. 121 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 3: I find it. I'll speak for myself. 122 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 4: I find it to be very difficult to be a consumer, 123 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 4: and to be a consumer that is trying to be 124 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,120 Speaker 4: intention about where I put my money. One, I want 125 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:05,159 Speaker 4: to keep my money within the Black community. That money 126 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:10,720 Speaker 4: leaves our community, they think within six hours, which is wild, okay, 127 00:07:10,760 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 4: So I want to be very intentional about uplifting that 128 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:17,080 Speaker 4: community and trying to purchase from black and brown folks. 129 00:07:17,400 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 4: In addition to that, Starbucks don't need my money, Like 130 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 4: I don't like the fact, and this is me. I 131 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 4: don't like that stance that they took. I think I 132 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:34,080 Speaker 4: think the larger conversation or the larger movement around the 133 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:38,200 Speaker 4: Starbucks like boycott Starbucks was to so people could see 134 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 4: how a boycott like that actually does. 135 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 3: Haven't made it im pted their money, and so they pick. 136 00:07:45,840 --> 00:07:49,240 Speaker 4: You can't do it everywhere, right, but sometimes you try 137 00:07:49,280 --> 00:07:51,880 Speaker 4: to pick one of the big bad wolves to make 138 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:56,760 Speaker 4: an example out of. And that's kind of where Starbucks 139 00:07:56,800 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 4: fell into. 140 00:07:57,200 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: I think though, that's a bit of where I mean, 141 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: And I think I bring this conversation into kind of 142 00:08:05,040 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: you believe in the idea of world peace and that happening. 143 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: I don't or like the idea that we don't believe 144 00:08:11,400 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 1: we'll ever get there as long as we uphold these values. 145 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: As long as we uphold these values, this is but 146 00:08:17,080 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: this is my problem. I feel like that having that 147 00:08:20,640 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: idea and being so staunch on us being able to 148 00:08:24,600 --> 00:08:28,520 Speaker 1: make that difference, I feel like is a fallacy, is 149 00:08:28,680 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: a fantasy, doesn't really like I feel like it. We 150 00:08:31,960 --> 00:08:33,920 Speaker 1: already have to figure out how we're gonna pay our bills, 151 00:08:34,440 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: how we're gonna pay our rents. Some people raise their children, 152 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 1: some people maintain their relationship friendships. This idea that now 153 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 1: I have to fight for the better cause and not 154 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:47,240 Speaker 1: spend on something that I actually enjoy, or now I 155 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: have to divert where I spend my money because this 156 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: person doesn't align with my values. To me, sounds like 157 00:08:52,080 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: I'm making it harder on my life for a system 158 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: that will not change the fact that we know it'll 159 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:58,600 Speaker 1: probably never happen. 160 00:08:58,800 --> 00:09:01,160 Speaker 4: I want to be clear. Yeah, yes, when I say 161 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:04,679 Speaker 4: it will probably never happens, and this is no dis you. 162 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: It's because of me. No, Because when I have. 163 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 4: Conversations like this, because you use the word we, right, 164 00:09:10,800 --> 00:09:14,240 Speaker 4: who is the we? Because right now it sounds very individualistic. 165 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 4: Your approach is like, if I have to think about 166 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,440 Speaker 4: everybody else, then I'm going to be inconvenience. And there's 167 00:09:20,480 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 4: privilege in that we all have it. I have it 168 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,959 Speaker 4: as well. So when I have these conversations with folks 169 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 4: who are not focused on the true we, which is 170 00:09:28,760 --> 00:09:32,839 Speaker 4: the community and the marginalized group of people, right, the 171 00:09:32,920 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 4: real we, not just we, the people that I fuck 172 00:09:35,760 --> 00:09:38,360 Speaker 4: with in my inner circle who matter to me, who 173 00:09:38,400 --> 00:09:41,040 Speaker 4: I see value in. I'm thinking about the we of 174 00:09:41,080 --> 00:09:43,480 Speaker 4: the people who I don't know, but I know are 175 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 4: valuable and deserve my support. And yes, so I think 176 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 4: that is when I start to say I don't believe 177 00:09:52,400 --> 00:09:54,600 Speaker 4: it'll happen. I hope it will happen, and I will 178 00:09:54,600 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 4: absolutely contribute as much as possible to it happening. I'm 179 00:09:58,040 --> 00:10:01,560 Speaker 4: not going to hinder it just because I don't believe 180 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,960 Speaker 4: that certain CEOs right are ever going. 181 00:10:04,920 --> 00:10:06,280 Speaker 3: To say, oh, yeah, you know what. 182 00:10:06,920 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 4: I think that all of the employees should have, you know, 183 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 4: some sort of stock in our company, and you know, 184 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 4: we should pay them real livable wages, and you know, 185 00:10:15,840 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 4: provide resources to certain communities that were impacting that we're marginalizing. No, 186 00:10:19,920 --> 00:10:23,040 Speaker 4: I don't think that that's going to happen without the we, 187 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 4: the marginalized group of people, actually coming together and deciding 188 00:10:28,360 --> 00:10:30,440 Speaker 4: that we're going to think about the WII. It's just 189 00:10:30,520 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 4: like the Montgomery boycotts. Yes, ride the bus boycott. That 190 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:39,040 Speaker 4: was wildly and like that was that was you know, 191 00:10:39,040 --> 00:10:41,200 Speaker 4: people don't realize how revolutionary that was. 192 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 3: And how wildly inconvenient it was for folks like you're 193 00:10:45,240 --> 00:10:48,080 Speaker 3: telling folks who need to get to work, who need 194 00:10:48,120 --> 00:10:50,560 Speaker 3: to pick up children, who need to live their lives. 195 00:10:50,800 --> 00:10:54,120 Speaker 3: You can't take the bus. We're going to organize together 196 00:10:54,400 --> 00:10:58,640 Speaker 3: the WI, the community and figure out ways to ensure 197 00:10:58,760 --> 00:11:00,000 Speaker 3: that everybody gets their knee. 198 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:02,280 Speaker 4: It's met It's not going to be easy, it's not 199 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:04,440 Speaker 4: going to be pretty, but we're going to make a difference. 200 00:11:04,480 --> 00:11:07,199 Speaker 1: I just had this conversation and it was that we 201 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: haven't seen anything really be revolutionized since like the sixties, 202 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:16,360 Speaker 1: and so even you saying that in mentioning individualism, I 203 00:11:16,400 --> 00:11:20,079 Speaker 1: feel like that is the reality. Though I don't think 204 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:23,640 Speaker 1: that there's a lot of this community or enough of 205 00:11:23,679 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: a weed to make a difference today. And I say 206 00:11:26,600 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: that even in terms of yes, there was an inconvenience 207 00:11:29,320 --> 00:11:32,079 Speaker 1: right with the Montgomery boycott and people not doing buses. 208 00:11:32,280 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: Look what just happened with the NFL. Niggas wouldn't take 209 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: a knee because they said, well, I got a family 210 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:40,280 Speaker 1: to feed. When we see what happened, even in BLM 211 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 1: and where we're at with really doing justice and change, 212 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 1: I have an episode coming up where we talk about 213 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: accountability and the justice system. In reality, people really don't 214 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:53,880 Speaker 1: care like what happens unless it straight impacts them, or 215 00:11:53,920 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 1: they don't care about seeing justice unless they're seeking justice 216 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: for themselves. They don't really care about other people getting 217 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:03,120 Speaker 1: just So when I say we, the we I'm talking 218 00:12:03,120 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: about is actually the humans and the people on this 219 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: globe now, and how we see people in other countries 220 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,720 Speaker 1: acting people here, I don't think there's a big enough 221 00:12:11,760 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 1: weed to see a difference, because I do think that 222 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 1: we have gotten so far away from actually seeing change 223 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: or seeing that it's possible. Let's be very clear the 224 00:12:20,400 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: fact that people are like y'all got it to our 225 00:12:22,920 --> 00:12:26,240 Speaker 1: own community because Kamala wasn't voted into the presidency and 226 00:12:26,280 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 1: now we have another fucking four years with Trump because 227 00:12:29,040 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: we didn't even come together to vote a black woman 228 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,280 Speaker 1: into place. I see people like, oh yeah, but black 229 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: people then, don't specifically the black men I'm seeing our 230 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:39,440 Speaker 1: own women say well, black men didn't want to do it. 231 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:41,560 Speaker 1: So when y'all want us to cry about y'all with 232 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 1: police brutality, don't ask for my tears. And so when 233 00:12:45,600 --> 00:12:49,360 Speaker 1: I think of this bigger cause, I've seen so many 234 00:12:49,360 --> 00:12:52,400 Speaker 1: ways in which we're divided and which were individuals within 235 00:12:52,440 --> 00:12:55,880 Speaker 1: our own country, I'll be like, girl, dadd say, I'm cute, 236 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,160 Speaker 1: y'all should see me and Antonette will be out and 237 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,400 Speaker 1: she's so passionate. I love it because it sounds really good. 238 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 1: And then I'm like thinking of the reality and the 239 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 1: community and the type of place we actually live in, 240 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,720 Speaker 1: and I'm like, bruh, I just want to make sure 241 00:13:11,800 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 1: my lights stay on. I finally got a passport. I 242 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 1: want to travel. My time on this light on this 243 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 1: planet is not guarantee you. I don't know how many 244 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,240 Speaker 1: years I'm going to live, and so for me as 245 00:13:25,280 --> 00:13:28,440 Speaker 1: a very probably selfish being who's not even having kids, 246 00:13:28,559 --> 00:13:30,880 Speaker 1: so maybe I'm not thinking of the world I'm leaving behind. 247 00:13:31,240 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 1: I just want to enjoy my life because there's so 248 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:36,760 Speaker 1: much bullshit that I already have to exist in. Bruh, 249 00:13:36,760 --> 00:13:39,599 Speaker 1: I ain't thinking about not drinking a coffee. I like, 250 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:41,920 Speaker 1: because this nigga is supporting some shit I don't agree with. 251 00:13:42,880 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 3: I think that your feelings are valid. 252 00:13:46,640 --> 00:13:47,080 Speaker 1: I love that. 253 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:49,199 Speaker 3: This is why. Look, I do I think that your 254 00:13:49,200 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 3: feelings are valid. I'm not going to sit here and 255 00:13:51,320 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 3: say you're wrong for feelings. 256 00:13:52,640 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: Like, oh, I don't think you're wrong either. 257 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:55,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think your feelings are completely valid. 258 00:13:55,920 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 4: I think the way that I have chosen to go 259 00:13:59,080 --> 00:14:02,400 Speaker 4: through things is to There's so much that you said there, 260 00:14:02,400 --> 00:14:04,560 Speaker 4: and there was a really important point that you touched 261 00:14:04,559 --> 00:14:07,319 Speaker 4: on where you talked about how people how we're divided 262 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:11,480 Speaker 4: so often, and that is by design as well. Okay, 263 00:14:11,520 --> 00:14:14,840 Speaker 4: so to be very clear, there is misinformation, like just 264 00:14:14,880 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 4: specifically black men did vote for Kamalin. 265 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:18,800 Speaker 1: No, they want to make. 266 00:14:18,679 --> 00:14:21,240 Speaker 4: They did by the fact that the narrative narrative that 267 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 4: they didn't. 268 00:14:21,920 --> 00:14:24,240 Speaker 3: So to further divide, and that's by design. 269 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 4: Why to prevent folks from coming together to actually make 270 00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 4: a change. 271 00:14:28,400 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 3: I just want to say that in. 272 00:14:29,400 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 4: Twenty twenty, one point one percent of the population owned 273 00:14:33,560 --> 00:14:36,120 Speaker 4: forty five point eight percent. 274 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:37,240 Speaker 1: Of the global wealth. 275 00:14:37,520 --> 00:14:40,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, one point one percent, and you're sitting. 276 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,640 Speaker 1: Here here are getting a billionaire talk. 277 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 3: But listen to me. 278 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 4: We're getting it, yes, because that's a part, that's a 279 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:49,120 Speaker 4: deep part of it's not just billionaire. It's like it's 280 00:14:49,200 --> 00:14:52,440 Speaker 4: beyond what we can even wrap our heads around. But 281 00:14:53,440 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 4: one point one percent of the population owning almost half 282 00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 4: of the wealth, hoarding those resources. 283 00:15:00,440 --> 00:15:03,640 Speaker 3: They are organized, they are a community. 284 00:15:03,520 --> 00:15:07,960 Speaker 4: They're very clear, and they're very like, we got our type. 285 00:15:08,240 --> 00:15:09,680 Speaker 3: Group and y'all ain't in it. 286 00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 4: We're the ones that are being positioned against one another. 287 00:15:16,320 --> 00:15:18,680 Speaker 4: We are the ones that are fighting. We are the 288 00:15:18,720 --> 00:15:22,320 Speaker 4: ones that cannot get ourselves organized, and that will continue 289 00:15:22,320 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 4: on this this hamster hamster wheel, continue in this rat 290 00:15:26,480 --> 00:15:29,560 Speaker 4: race that is very real, which is why your feelings 291 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:32,040 Speaker 4: are very real, the rat race of I gotta pay 292 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,880 Speaker 4: my bills, Like, the reality is I got. 293 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 3: Fucking stuff to do for me. 294 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,400 Speaker 4: I have chosen that once my bills are paid, right, 295 00:15:43,120 --> 00:15:45,800 Speaker 4: once I have my basic needs are meant, there is 296 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 4: a certain amount of money that I have that I 297 00:15:49,360 --> 00:15:53,040 Speaker 4: will that will be used for joy, will be used 298 00:15:53,040 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 4: for me to just enjoy myself. Okay, there's another amount 299 00:15:55,880 --> 00:15:59,760 Speaker 4: of money that goes to other things. Right, I have 300 00:16:00,400 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 4: pledge that every single day after these fires, I'm going 301 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:06,920 Speaker 4: to I am going to donate to somebody's GoFundMe daily 302 00:16:07,280 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 4: because if I can go by lunch, then I can 303 00:16:10,600 --> 00:16:14,160 Speaker 4: make lunch instead and then donate to somebody to help 304 00:16:14,240 --> 00:16:16,400 Speaker 4: them which doesn't have a fucking home. 305 00:16:17,240 --> 00:16:18,760 Speaker 1: So can I can? I? 306 00:16:18,480 --> 00:16:20,800 Speaker 3: But I'm talking about me. 307 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:26,920 Speaker 1: I get that. So here is this pessimist, skeptimist whatever 308 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: skeptimist is crazy? Brook that up like that? What's what? 309 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 1: What's what? 310 00:16:36,560 --> 00:16:44,600 Speaker 5: Were you skeptic, skeptic skeptic, we can we can build 311 00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 5: a selectively ignorant. 312 00:16:49,400 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 1: Skepticist. 313 00:16:50,520 --> 00:16:52,120 Speaker 3: That's the namest. 314 00:16:52,280 --> 00:16:55,200 Speaker 1: So and this is where and I don't think it's 315 00:16:55,240 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 1: a it's an agenda. But to me, even hearing you 316 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: say that, my mind immediately went to, well, how do 317 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: you know it's real? How do you know the money 318 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:10,120 Speaker 1: going to the right place? And that's because even during BLM, 319 00:17:10,440 --> 00:17:14,400 Speaker 1: we saw the leaders that were supposed to be helping 320 00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:17,000 Speaker 1: a lot of black people either get out of jail, 321 00:17:17,359 --> 00:17:19,040 Speaker 1: like there was a lot of work that they were 322 00:17:19,040 --> 00:17:21,119 Speaker 1: supposed to be doing, and they want to spent that 323 00:17:21,160 --> 00:17:24,080 Speaker 1: shit on mansions and Lamborghini's and stuff like that. Right 324 00:17:24,720 --> 00:17:28,200 Speaker 1: then when GoFundMe came out, we've seen a lot of 325 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:32,440 Speaker 1: people create stories that weren't real for those things. So 326 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:37,040 Speaker 1: it's so hard for me because again, I know we 327 00:17:37,160 --> 00:17:40,800 Speaker 1: like to think that people are good people. I'm overly 328 00:17:40,880 --> 00:17:44,439 Speaker 1: aware that people suck as well. And so when it 329 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:50,560 Speaker 1: comes to even charity, now I'm a little like, I 330 00:17:50,600 --> 00:17:52,919 Speaker 1: don't want to say stingy, but where is it going? 331 00:17:53,400 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 1: Even when we talk about the un housed, because I 332 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:59,840 Speaker 1: know we can't use the other word, but even when 333 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 1: we talk about. 334 00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,320 Speaker 3: This, you know why we can we should use the 335 00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:03,439 Speaker 3: other word. Why then? 336 00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: To me, I'm not going to hold you. 337 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:06,000 Speaker 3: They're trying to put the. 338 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:09,120 Speaker 1: Oner on the system of individual that is. 339 00:18:09,080 --> 00:18:12,280 Speaker 4: Not housing them, because we have enough space to the 340 00:18:12,320 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 4: word makes sense. 341 00:18:13,600 --> 00:18:15,320 Speaker 1: They're less of a home, there's no home. 342 00:18:15,320 --> 00:18:16,440 Speaker 3: It's hard less of a home. 343 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,920 Speaker 1: They don't have a home. They're homeless, right. 344 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:24,199 Speaker 3: They're not. Can I pitch something reallyick? So I know 345 00:18:24,280 --> 00:18:25,440 Speaker 3: this is a corporate cancel culture. 346 00:18:25,440 --> 00:18:26,639 Speaker 5: I was gonna wait to say this at the end, 347 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:28,520 Speaker 5: but it sounds like the conversation is going this way. 348 00:18:29,080 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 5: What if we're talking about conscious consumerism right and following yes, 349 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:37,679 Speaker 5: because I think I think a big challenge to your 350 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:42,240 Speaker 5: point with your stats, with who controls the percentage, who 351 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:45,320 Speaker 5: controls the wealth? Because historically, when we were talking about protests, 352 00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 5: and we're talking about some of the ones that you're 353 00:18:46,720 --> 00:18:50,080 Speaker 5: referring to in the sixties, there's the matter of the 354 00:18:50,119 --> 00:18:55,080 Speaker 5: collective's inconvenience versus like the big bad right, and so 355 00:18:55,200 --> 00:18:57,879 Speaker 5: now because of the concentration of wealth, I don't know 356 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:00,399 Speaker 5: if are inconvenience and what we're willing to do is 357 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:04,000 Speaker 5: powerful enough to go against these corporations, right, and so 358 00:19:04,320 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 5: let me let me. 359 00:19:05,040 --> 00:19:06,919 Speaker 1: Roll with this. 360 00:19:07,080 --> 00:19:09,240 Speaker 5: So so I think that's I think that's kind of 361 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 5: like a baseline of what's happening because I think Starbucks 362 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 5: can just afford to wait it out, right, And so 363 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:15,639 Speaker 5: right now, I feel like when I'm hearing from you 364 00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 5: two is different uses of individualism, right, Whereas Antoinette is 365 00:19:21,840 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 5: she's going to use her own individual conscious decision making 366 00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:28,440 Speaker 5: to contribute. 367 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:28,960 Speaker 6: To these gofundmes. 368 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:31,600 Speaker 5: Right, So if the group won't come together, I'm still. 369 00:19:31,400 --> 00:19:32,760 Speaker 1: Going to come together with my dollars. 370 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:33,680 Speaker 6: This is what she's saying. 371 00:19:33,520 --> 00:19:38,440 Speaker 5: Right where you're saying me as an individual, I don't 372 00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:41,919 Speaker 5: even trust you, say, I think that that's my problem. 373 00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 1: It's a lack of trust and the fact that I 374 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:47,399 Speaker 1: actually live in reality. I think a lot of people 375 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,639 Speaker 1: want to believe that if they do a little bit, 376 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:52,320 Speaker 1: that they're going to make this big change. 377 00:19:52,840 --> 00:19:55,720 Speaker 5: But then the trust, right, And because we're we're we're 378 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:57,879 Speaker 5: again we're talking about the inconvenience and the convenience of it, 379 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 5: all right, And so she consumer I'm not just inconvenience, 380 00:20:01,720 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 5: I know, but what I'm saying is like for you, right, 381 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 5: there's an inconvenience to you too. And I'm using convenience 382 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,840 Speaker 5: as a tool more like, right, like you're gonna make 383 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 5: your own lunch. Right, there's an inconvenience to it takes 384 00:20:11,280 --> 00:20:12,920 Speaker 5: more time to do that, Right, It takes more time 385 00:20:12,960 --> 00:20:15,480 Speaker 5: to do that, But you're doing that will unlock dollars 386 00:20:15,480 --> 00:20:18,120 Speaker 5: to then I can put this towards this GoFundMe every day. Right, 387 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 5: there's there's a there's a change that you're doing to 388 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 5: your life that I'm blanket statement calling inconvenience, whereas man, 389 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:26,600 Speaker 5: I'm not just say it's. 390 00:20:26,480 --> 00:20:27,840 Speaker 3: A state of being for me. 391 00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:31,919 Speaker 4: That's what I don't look at capitalism as just capitalism. 392 00:20:32,040 --> 00:20:35,200 Speaker 4: I look at capitalism as it's not just a system. 393 00:20:35,640 --> 00:20:38,080 Speaker 4: It has turned into a state of being for us. 394 00:20:38,119 --> 00:20:45,320 Speaker 4: This constant consumerism, this this individualistic, this unidealistic approach to life, 395 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 4: is a state of being that we are living in 396 00:20:49,359 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 4: that the system has created for us. This reality you 397 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:55,639 Speaker 4: talk about is reality because of the system. So what 398 00:20:55,760 --> 00:20:59,200 Speaker 4: I'm saying is we have to break this that state 399 00:20:59,240 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 4: of being and we have to imagine something else being 400 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:07,600 Speaker 4: possible for us. We have to imagine that our community. 401 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:08,080 Speaker 3: Will uphold us. 402 00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:10,600 Speaker 4: The only way that I can imagine that is to 403 00:21:10,680 --> 00:21:13,400 Speaker 4: create that reality for myself, and I will do it. 404 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,199 Speaker 4: And if I get burned, I get fucking burned. But 405 00:21:16,320 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 4: the majority of people out there, I feel like that 406 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 4: I have impacted in a positive. 407 00:21:23,080 --> 00:21:27,520 Speaker 3: Way that they're they're real and they need help and 408 00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 3: they needed help. 409 00:21:28,480 --> 00:21:31,240 Speaker 4: And it's interesting because a lot of my friendships here 410 00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:33,120 Speaker 4: in New York has started. 411 00:21:32,720 --> 00:21:34,840 Speaker 3: With me lending money. 412 00:21:34,960 --> 00:21:37,640 Speaker 4: For sure, it's been you're down, I got this save, 413 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:39,560 Speaker 4: I got you, and then like, yo, you don't. 414 00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 3: We're not even that close. It doesn't matter. I got you. 415 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:44,719 Speaker 3: Please pay me back by the and we make these 416 00:21:44,840 --> 00:21:47,360 Speaker 3: arrangements if you can whatever this way of being. 417 00:21:47,359 --> 00:21:49,240 Speaker 1: Do you know what you just sounded. 418 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,320 Speaker 3: Like to me? Is it gonna piss me off? 419 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:52,320 Speaker 6: All right? 420 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,000 Speaker 1: My pis a few people off. It sounds like the 421 00:21:56,320 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: idea behind religion. You said hope, you said you needed 422 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:01,520 Speaker 1: something to believe in. 423 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,320 Speaker 3: No, I think religion is a means to control people. 424 00:22:04,680 --> 00:22:08,320 Speaker 1: I don't want to capitalistic way. Sure. However, I think 425 00:22:08,359 --> 00:22:10,879 Speaker 1: people lean into religion because they need the hope that 426 00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:13,360 Speaker 1: they will end up in a better place after life. 427 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:16,640 Speaker 1: I think that they need the belief that someone will 428 00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:20,160 Speaker 1: answer their prayers when all things are bad, let me pray, 429 00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 1: let me get like. 430 00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:22,840 Speaker 4: So when I say, here's the opposite of that for me, 431 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 4: because I'm actually doing what I've said I'm going to 432 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,800 Speaker 4: do it. I'm not hoping in praying that I'm actually 433 00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:30,680 Speaker 4: being the person that allows me to sleep better at. 434 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:33,000 Speaker 1: So that but that's that's where I drew the comparison. 435 00:22:33,280 --> 00:22:35,440 Speaker 1: It's why people go to church on Sundays, It's why 436 00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:37,920 Speaker 1: they pray. It's because they believe that if I tie that, 437 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:40,720 Speaker 1: if I do these things, then what then I'm going 438 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: to end up in the better place after life. So 439 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,239 Speaker 1: when I'm hearing you talk and you're saying I have 440 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,439 Speaker 1: hope that this will make change or that with what 441 00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:52,320 Speaker 1: I'm doing it will create a better world maybe in 442 00:22:52,320 --> 00:22:54,520 Speaker 1: the future, say that, Yeah, you just said that that 443 00:22:54,600 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: you you said hope and you believe I'm. 444 00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:59,320 Speaker 4: Saying that we Okay, let me clarify. I'm saying we 445 00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 4: collective need to have that. I am doing that because 446 00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:06,600 Speaker 4: that is what I need to do in order to 447 00:23:06,760 --> 00:23:09,639 Speaker 4: be able to function in this world. I won't be 448 00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:12,439 Speaker 4: able to sleep at night purpose right, I won't be 449 00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,440 Speaker 4: able to sleep at night knowing that I was like, yo, 450 00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:19,560 Speaker 4: free fileastyme fuck them, and I'm drinking the starbus because 451 00:23:19,560 --> 00:23:23,080 Speaker 4: I really like Chi t latte from whatever like that 452 00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:29,320 Speaker 4: would that would personally bother me deeply. And so that's 453 00:23:29,359 --> 00:23:31,880 Speaker 4: where I'm like, I'm not saying it's for everybody else, 454 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 4: but what I'm saying is collectively, we have to imagine 455 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,320 Speaker 4: something else being of reality for us. 456 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 3: But we can't because capitalism. While I have so many 457 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:45,800 Speaker 3: issues with it, it is extremely. 458 00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 4: Effective, extremely effective because it has created this reality for 459 00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:51,720 Speaker 4: all of us that we live in. 460 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,360 Speaker 1: Okay, well let's get into the hook, okay of it all. 461 00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:59,280 Speaker 1: And this is where we get into corporations. And I 462 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:01,800 Speaker 1: sit here and try to goals into your statement. Look, 463 00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:03,960 Speaker 1: she's like, no, you can't be right. 464 00:24:06,200 --> 00:24:10,400 Speaker 3: I had the laptop to center myself because I really 465 00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:11,200 Speaker 3: don't want to be right. 466 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,840 Speaker 4: When you said what you said, I said, your feelings 467 00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 4: are completely so it's not even all. 468 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:20,479 Speaker 1: Right and wrong. I think it's it's me. And because 469 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 1: I love you so much, I do want to maybe 470 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:26,600 Speaker 1: find myself agreeing with you when I can't, like I 471 00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,720 Speaker 1: want same, Like when we sat at the dinner table 472 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 1: and I had a completely different take on so many things, 473 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,840 Speaker 1: I was just like, Damn, I really respect and like 474 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:42,080 Speaker 1: all these women I'm sitting with, yet I highly disagree 475 00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 1: with all of them, and I'm standing in my bullshit. 476 00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:47,960 Speaker 1: And then it even made me think of and and 477 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:49,679 Speaker 1: this is where maybe I want to ask you and 478 00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:53,040 Speaker 1: maybe even the listeners. Before I left New York, we 479 00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:58,080 Speaker 1: went and had dinner at a pretty expensive restaurant, right, 480 00:24:58,920 --> 00:25:01,960 Speaker 1: and so they came to our things into go boxes. 481 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:04,480 Speaker 1: And I waited for them to put it into go 482 00:25:04,520 --> 00:25:06,399 Speaker 1: boxes because when you go to nights of restaurants and 483 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 1: you spend the money, they supposed to put things into 484 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: go boxes. And Toinette, did they motherfucking job? She said, no, no, no, no, no, 485 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,080 Speaker 1: just bring the boxes. I got it. I'll do it. 486 00:25:16,520 --> 00:25:19,440 Speaker 1: And me and my friendly to her and was like, mister, 487 00:25:19,480 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 1: you know how much as mill costs. This is a 488 00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:23,879 Speaker 1: part of the service that we get. And she was like, 489 00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 1: and I almost got mad. And I think there was 490 00:25:27,600 --> 00:25:33,600 Speaker 1: a conversation of like, is it because you haven't experienced 491 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: it a lot? Like and I think that maybe that's 492 00:25:36,040 --> 00:25:38,159 Speaker 1: where I'm at. I think I felt that way growing 493 00:25:38,280 --> 00:25:42,240 Speaker 1: up Section eight food stamps. I didn't have the luxuries 494 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,920 Speaker 1: that I have now, But now that I've experienced it, 495 00:25:45,440 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: I love that this is what I'm paying for. And 496 00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:51,080 Speaker 1: so when you started doing that, I like, I think 497 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:52,920 Speaker 1: we had a difference of opinion. You were like, bro, 498 00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 1: his job is already hard. I can do this and 499 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: make his job easier. And on the other end, we're like, bitch, 500 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,080 Speaker 1: we just paid for this service. That's why they at 501 00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:03,640 Speaker 1: the text of the food. Let them pack our foods. 502 00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:08,800 Speaker 1: Is there then a connection between caring more when maybe 503 00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:11,760 Speaker 1: the luxury isn't as reachable. 504 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,720 Speaker 3: Not reachable, I don't know. 505 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,600 Speaker 1: I said, you'll always be poor. 506 00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:26,000 Speaker 6: Well, okay, in the episode it's Mandy a closeted all. 507 00:26:26,000 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: Right, Mac, maybe because you liked reachable. 508 00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,399 Speaker 6: You know, it's crazy. 509 00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:42,160 Speaker 1: It's really hard for you with words. And I did 510 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:43,800 Speaker 1: not just call one of my best friends. 511 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 6: It's okay, it's very elegant. 512 00:26:47,920 --> 00:26:50,680 Speaker 1: No, no, no, that's why I was still talking about I. 513 00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 3: Said the same coming up from you. I understood it. 514 00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:53,320 Speaker 3: Bagging with you. 515 00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:55,720 Speaker 4: You know what you mean when you yes, I am 516 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:58,880 Speaker 4: not somebody that goes to a whole lot of fancy dinners. 517 00:26:59,359 --> 00:27:03,680 Speaker 1: I couldn't do any more. You couldn't go, you don't. 518 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:04,760 Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure you got here. 519 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:06,120 Speaker 1: They need to go fu me, y'all. 520 00:27:07,160 --> 00:27:08,440 Speaker 6: That's a character and that's just. 521 00:27:08,400 --> 00:27:11,960 Speaker 3: How it comes to being a server. 522 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:14,920 Speaker 4: I was a server for years. I know how hard 523 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,960 Speaker 4: that job is, and I know how underpaid those people are, 524 00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:21,160 Speaker 4: and I was also just. 525 00:27:21,200 --> 00:27:22,000 Speaker 3: Able to do it. 526 00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:23,520 Speaker 1: You gave me the box. 527 00:27:23,600 --> 00:27:25,600 Speaker 3: It ain't that much shit to put in this box, 528 00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 3: so let me just put it in the box. 529 00:27:27,119 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 4: So to me, I'm like, why I gotta wait for 530 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,159 Speaker 4: you to do this, for you to take it back there, like, 531 00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,080 Speaker 4: just give me the box, we'll see. 532 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:35,160 Speaker 1: It, toget it. You talk about the pay, I'm like, 533 00:27:35,640 --> 00:27:38,760 Speaker 1: well they didn't text broccoli shouldn't have been twenty dollars. 534 00:27:39,040 --> 00:27:42,000 Speaker 1: So because I'm I remember this dinner, where do we go? 535 00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 1: The type place where we sat at the bar. 536 00:27:45,080 --> 00:27:48,200 Speaker 6: Oh, when she put the boxes together, did you ask 537 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 6: for the box? 538 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 1: That's how I said. 539 00:27:52,080 --> 00:27:54,160 Speaker 3: I didn't even remember to to go. 540 00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:55,439 Speaker 1: I had it all up. 541 00:27:57,200 --> 00:27:58,120 Speaker 3: She packed it all up. 542 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:02,040 Speaker 1: We saw heavy, we saw walking down the street. I said, 543 00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:03,040 Speaker 1: bitchuaite even got off. 544 00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:04,440 Speaker 3: I had mine. 545 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 1: It's like, well no. 546 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:10,800 Speaker 3: But that that has nothing. I don't. Maybe that's deeply 547 00:28:10,800 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 3: connected to me not feeling worthy for it and. 548 00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 4: I'll, i'll, i will deaf, I will sit with that, 549 00:28:18,080 --> 00:28:20,600 Speaker 4: and I will explore that. But in that moment, truly, 550 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:23,399 Speaker 4: I think a big part of it is that I 551 00:28:23,520 --> 00:28:26,880 Speaker 4: really identify with working class people because I have. 552 00:28:26,960 --> 00:28:30,320 Speaker 3: Been that for so long and I am. 553 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,840 Speaker 4: If I'm able to do something, I don't need you 554 00:28:32,880 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 4: to do it, just because you know, society tells us 555 00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,520 Speaker 4: that the higher you know, the value systems mean you 556 00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 4: need to do that, you need to wait on me. 557 00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:45,040 Speaker 3: You're already in a position of like servitude. It's just like, 558 00:28:45,160 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 3: fuck it. I can pack my own food. 559 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: And I think for me, there's a there's a lack 560 00:28:50,920 --> 00:28:57,840 Speaker 1: of survivors remorse on my end. I busted my ass. Yes, 561 00:28:58,040 --> 00:29:00,000 Speaker 1: I've spread my ass. 562 00:28:59,600 --> 00:29:07,800 Speaker 4: Which is why I understand your well, because we had 563 00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:12,600 Speaker 4: these conversations right where I have said to you, a 564 00:29:12,600 --> 00:29:16,080 Speaker 4: lot of what you say that you feel within corporate 565 00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:20,760 Speaker 4: America does not translate to your personal relationships at all. 566 00:29:21,560 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 3: Where's it? 567 00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:22,400 Speaker 6: Where's it? 568 00:29:23,200 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 4: Mandy is one of the most giving, one of the 569 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:31,080 Speaker 4: like She is not this person that's hoarding resources in 570 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:35,200 Speaker 4: any way with the people that she loves. My challenge, 571 00:29:35,440 --> 00:29:39,640 Speaker 4: my challenge to you is to is to expand that 572 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:41,880 Speaker 4: and if that, if you can't, then I get that 573 00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 4: because you're also somebody who has not received that type 574 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 4: of treatment from the community, right, you had to get 575 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:49,880 Speaker 4: it the hard way. 576 00:29:49,960 --> 00:29:51,360 Speaker 3: And that's why I say. 577 00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:56,840 Speaker 4: Your your your feelings are completely valid, and I know 578 00:29:57,040 --> 00:30:00,400 Speaker 4: why you feel that way. My my other challenge to 579 00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 4: you is, just because it was that hard for you, 580 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:07,400 Speaker 4: doesn't mean that we should encourage it to be that 581 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 4: hard for others, or that we should create those obstacles 582 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:13,320 Speaker 4: for others. Just because I hear a lot of people 583 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,880 Speaker 4: it's like the student loans, right, the forgiveness. I paid 584 00:30:16,880 --> 00:30:19,960 Speaker 4: my student loans off the fucking hard way, waiting them 585 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 4: tables dead ass. 586 00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:23,800 Speaker 1: And I have the money to pay it off. And 587 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,480 Speaker 1: I said, and I hope my money. 588 00:30:26,840 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 4: Immediately was I hope that everybody gets their student loans forgiven. 589 00:30:31,040 --> 00:30:33,000 Speaker 4: And there's a lot of people who are like, no, 590 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:35,040 Speaker 4: I paid mine off, they should have to pay theirs 591 00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,680 Speaker 4: off too. I would never feel like that, because why 592 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,000 Speaker 4: would I want them? Why would I want their journey 593 00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:43,480 Speaker 4: to be as hard as mine fucking was. If it 594 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:45,600 Speaker 4: could be better for you, then it's better for the 595 00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:51,000 Speaker 4: fucking community. And so what I'm challenging even the listeners, 596 00:30:51,160 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 4: the viewers, is to like think outside of just you. 597 00:30:55,400 --> 00:30:58,800 Speaker 3: Like that's hard. It's so fucking so hard, especially when 598 00:30:58,840 --> 00:30:59,600 Speaker 3: you've been burned. 599 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:02,640 Speaker 4: I be honest, I grew up with you know a 600 00:31:02,640 --> 00:31:06,640 Speaker 4: lot of support, like emotional support, and you I'm sure 601 00:31:06,840 --> 00:31:10,200 Speaker 4: you right, you talked about that, so you you are 602 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 4: coming at it from a survival mode where it is 603 00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:16,520 Speaker 4: individual because it was just you for so fucking long. 604 00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 4: I've had a community around me. I've been blessed to 605 00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:22,720 Speaker 4: have a community around me. So I see the value 606 00:31:22,760 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 4: in it, and I'm willing to invest in it in 607 00:31:24,480 --> 00:31:27,560 Speaker 4: a different way. I don't know that you've seen the 608 00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:28,840 Speaker 4: value in these communities. 609 00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,360 Speaker 1: I mean even my family growing up, single parent household, 610 00:31:32,640 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: my mom being the mom and dad working multiple jobs, 611 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 1: me having to work since I was fourteen fifteen, And 612 00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:42,560 Speaker 1: I mean I remember even that this is gonna be, 613 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,040 Speaker 1: this is gonna sound awful, but this is how I know. 614 00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 1: I've had this mindset for so long. I remember working 615 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: at Quizno's first job. 616 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,520 Speaker 3: They used to have good sandwiches. When they first came out. 617 00:31:52,400 --> 00:32:00,360 Speaker 1: Their sandwiches shit on somewhat okayse was good no no, no, no, yeah, 618 00:32:01,040 --> 00:32:08,360 Speaker 1: God good actually smart that carbon hit. But I remember 619 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:15,160 Speaker 1: I was fifteen when I had that job. My cousin 620 00:32:15,240 --> 00:32:18,840 Speaker 1: was the manager, but I started at six seventy five. 621 00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: You got a quarter raise when you learned all the sandwiches. 622 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:25,440 Speaker 1: My heart, so baby, I went in and was like, 623 00:32:25,480 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 1: I'm gonna learn these sandwiches. I'm gonna know the soups, 624 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: the ones you put in the balls. I'm gonna learn everything. 625 00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:31,440 Speaker 3: And how old were you? 626 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,720 Speaker 1: Fifteen? So this is ninth grade summer, summer going into 627 00:32:36,800 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: ninth grade, or so I was fourteen? I was fourteen. 628 00:32:40,760 --> 00:32:43,080 Speaker 1: I was fifteen because as soon as I could work 629 00:32:43,080 --> 00:32:44,720 Speaker 1: at the mall, bitch I left it went to demo. 630 00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 1: I wanted my discount on the koujie. Anyways, so I'm 631 00:32:48,840 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 1: fifteen years old and I'm in work and I'm like, 632 00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,360 Speaker 1: I'm showing up early, I'm staying late if they need 633 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 1: to all these things. I learned the sandwiches in like 634 00:32:58,840 --> 00:33:01,320 Speaker 1: two weeks. So by the time I get my check, 635 00:33:02,160 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: my second check, I'm at seven dollars an hour. I 636 00:33:05,960 --> 00:33:10,280 Speaker 1: feel so proud, I said, bitch did that. There's another 637 00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,120 Speaker 1: guy that works there who's been there longer than me. 638 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:18,080 Speaker 1: He is probably thirty five, has two kids and lives 639 00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:21,880 Speaker 1: with his people. And I remember even just the way 640 00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,440 Speaker 1: he talked down on me. I'll never forget because even 641 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,840 Speaker 1: in that moment, he felt like he was superior of me. 642 00:33:29,640 --> 00:33:32,800 Speaker 1: I couldn't help but be like, fuck, nigga, you at Quiznos. 643 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,600 Speaker 1: You work in the same job as a fifteen year old. 644 00:33:34,800 --> 00:33:38,080 Speaker 1: You gotta do this. But even the fact that you 645 00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:41,240 Speaker 1: have so much more responsibility in the same setting where 646 00:33:41,240 --> 00:33:43,480 Speaker 1: I even know more than you, you gonna talk down 647 00:33:43,520 --> 00:33:46,920 Speaker 1: on me, even in terms of how I've had to 648 00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,920 Speaker 1: work harder in places where people older than me or 649 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,760 Speaker 1: that had more than me didn't respect me. That's where 650 00:33:54,800 --> 00:33:58,080 Speaker 1: when we talk about community, we have the same goals 651 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: when you're behind the line making sound, which so we 652 00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:03,320 Speaker 1: could talk about even as a black community, we have 653 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:05,960 Speaker 1: the same goals. We want more for us, some of reparations, 654 00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: some don't. Whatever. In every job I've had, whether we're 655 00:34:09,600 --> 00:34:12,080 Speaker 1: supposed to be a team or not, it's never felt 656 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:15,399 Speaker 1: like that I could take this even to ey. This 657 00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:18,680 Speaker 1: man that sat behind me would show up to work 658 00:34:18,800 --> 00:34:25,399 Speaker 1: late all the time. I would show up early. Guess 659 00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:28,440 Speaker 1: we got a worse review than him because I wasn't 660 00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,919 Speaker 1: sleeping under the desk for work and doing all these things. 661 00:34:30,960 --> 00:34:35,879 Speaker 1: Though he left early, came late, he could for religious reasons. 662 00:34:35,920 --> 00:34:39,480 Speaker 1: The fact that again we have the same goal. This 663 00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:43,399 Speaker 1: man is being rated whatever he's being rated, and as 664 00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:46,400 Speaker 1: a black woman on the same team with the same goal, 665 00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,719 Speaker 1: I'm being torn down because I'm not showing up a 666 00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:52,799 Speaker 1: certain way. Again, I say all have to say, from 667 00:34:52,880 --> 00:34:56,960 Speaker 1: quiznos to corporate, in every facet of life, in every 668 00:34:56,960 --> 00:35:00,480 Speaker 1: way possible, shape or form, I don't feel like community 669 00:35:00,520 --> 00:35:04,360 Speaker 1: is a word that really exists. Teamwork doesn't exist. But 670 00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:07,480 Speaker 1: y'all just ended a podcast because partnership don't even really 671 00:35:07,520 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 1: motherfucking exists. That I have never seen that. 672 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:14,400 Speaker 4: Okay, there's a couple of things there, and this is 673 00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:19,879 Speaker 4: and I appreciate, I definitely I feel you, okay. And 674 00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:28,680 Speaker 4: some of what you're talking about is directly related to 675 00:35:29,040 --> 00:35:34,239 Speaker 4: capitalism directly right. I wrote this down before I came 676 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:37,680 Speaker 4: in here, and it was the capitalism. My issues with 677 00:35:37,719 --> 00:35:40,160 Speaker 4: it is that it's an unfair distribution of wealth and 678 00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:45,440 Speaker 4: power most often determined by race and gender. Capitalism and 679 00:35:45,480 --> 00:35:49,040 Speaker 4: white supremacy and patriarchally are deeply intertwined. 680 00:35:50,080 --> 00:35:51,440 Speaker 3: The accumulation of wealth. 681 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,520 Speaker 4: It's often, if not always, on the backs of black 682 00:35:54,600 --> 00:35:58,880 Speaker 4: and brown and indigenous people through various forms of economic 683 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,560 Speaker 4: and cultural ex exploitation, in. 684 00:36:01,480 --> 00:36:06,200 Speaker 3: Addition to inhumane treatment of workers. Upholding whiteness. 685 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:11,279 Speaker 4: You're talking to me about spaces right where people are 686 00:36:11,320 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 4: benefiting more than for whatever reason. Right capitalism allows for that, 687 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:21,680 Speaker 4: It creates that reality. It helps make these rules. You're 688 00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:24,920 Speaker 4: talking about being frustrated being a fourteen fifteen year old 689 00:36:25,040 --> 00:36:27,719 Speaker 4: having to learn all of this stuff, having to work mode, 690 00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:32,120 Speaker 4: and you shouldn't have to do that. So what I'm 691 00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:35,799 Speaker 4: saying is we have to envision something else for ourselves. 692 00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,960 Speaker 4: We have to say this isn't the fuck it, or 693 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 4: we just have to lay down and say this is it, and. 694 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,160 Speaker 3: Then it's just Survival of the Fittest. 695 00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:50,239 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you. I like Hunger Games, uh, 696 00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:52,960 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie one of my favorite films. 697 00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:55,640 Speaker 4: But this is where I just called bullshit now because 698 00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:57,520 Speaker 4: you're not like that. 699 00:36:57,800 --> 00:37:01,040 Speaker 1: I'm not like it conservative in terms of right, like 700 00:37:01,640 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 1: when Survival of the Fittest and you've made fun of 701 00:37:04,680 --> 00:37:08,360 Speaker 1: me because I've come from where I've come from and 702 00:37:08,760 --> 00:37:12,560 Speaker 1: been able to get what I've wanted. I've spoken into existing, 703 00:37:12,600 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 1: I've stayed up late, I've figured out how to do it. 704 00:37:15,239 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: I am that and I don't want to mag this out. 705 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,440 Speaker 1: Get yourself up from the bootstraps, like pick yourself up 706 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:23,239 Speaker 1: from the bootstraps and don't make But but. 707 00:37:23,239 --> 00:37:26,480 Speaker 4: You just said just a couple of seconds minutes ago 708 00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 4: that if you agree that, like with the student loan thing, 709 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:35,320 Speaker 4: if people can have their student loans forgiven. 710 00:37:35,000 --> 00:37:37,959 Speaker 1: Then it's forgiven. Yes, I'm talking about though in terms, 711 00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:38,560 Speaker 1: but that's. 712 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:39,719 Speaker 3: Not pull yourself up by the boots. 713 00:37:39,920 --> 00:37:42,359 Speaker 1: No no, no, that's that's forgiveness through something else. No, no, no, no, 714 00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,320 Speaker 1: I want them to have their forgiven. I'm talking about. 715 00:37:46,040 --> 00:37:47,320 Speaker 3: Those it's the same concept. 716 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,600 Speaker 1: I don't think it's the same concept. You think it's 717 00:37:49,640 --> 00:37:51,920 Speaker 1: the same concept because you paid your loans off and 718 00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: you there's a difference there. To me, what I'm saying 719 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:58,080 Speaker 1: is Sally may not get hurt. Don for me, whether 720 00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,960 Speaker 1: niggas get their shit forgiven or not, I guess I 721 00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:04,479 Speaker 1: don't think of the bigger picture. If that makes sense 722 00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:08,719 Speaker 1: to me. That is draining. It's exhausting, and sometimes when 723 00:38:08,719 --> 00:38:11,439 Speaker 1: I hear you speak with the passion because you care 724 00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:16,759 Speaker 1: so much, it doesn't sound fun to care about I 725 00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:18,880 Speaker 1: don't want the people, and I know that sounds crazy, 726 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:22,400 Speaker 1: it sounds exhausting to me, and I get it. But 727 00:38:22,920 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 1: to sit here and want to see change that we 728 00:38:25,960 --> 00:38:30,120 Speaker 1: also know may never be a reality, I do think 729 00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:33,359 Speaker 1: that it's just easier, and this is going to sound 730 00:38:33,360 --> 00:38:36,240 Speaker 1: also awful. I think it's easier to actually care about 731 00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,200 Speaker 1: my life and my life only and not about what 732 00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:41,080 Speaker 1: everyone else has to do with it, because I've dealt 733 00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:43,400 Speaker 1: with a lot of bullshit myself, and I would never 734 00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,160 Speaker 1: want to put that on people, which is why, even 735 00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:46,520 Speaker 1: when I went friends, I know you and I talk 736 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,680 Speaker 1: sometimes I don't want to tell you all the things 737 00:38:48,680 --> 00:38:52,920 Speaker 1: that I'm actually drowning in, because, bro, I just life 738 00:38:52,960 --> 00:38:54,880 Speaker 1: is better than me talking about the things that I 739 00:38:54,920 --> 00:38:55,719 Speaker 1: can't control. 740 00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:57,840 Speaker 4: I think if I was in a place in my 741 00:38:57,920 --> 00:39:01,520 Speaker 4: life where I didn't have the capacity. 742 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:03,359 Speaker 3: To feel the way that I feel. 743 00:39:03,239 --> 00:39:07,640 Speaker 4: That I probably wouldn't be able to be as intentional 744 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:10,480 Speaker 4: and operates as I try to do. 745 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:11,560 Speaker 3: I fail often. 746 00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,359 Speaker 4: I think I've done a lot of work to let 747 00:39:15,400 --> 00:39:18,480 Speaker 4: go of the stuff that I'm still holding on. 748 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:20,400 Speaker 1: To go ahead and call me out bitch, bitch, go 749 00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,400 Speaker 1: to therapy. You still holding on to it? 750 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:25,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've tried to let go of a lot of 751 00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:28,920 Speaker 4: that pain and create a new narrative for myself. I 752 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:31,400 Speaker 4: think you and I are similar in this narrative that 753 00:39:31,680 --> 00:39:36,080 Speaker 4: I'm alone and people are They're not going to follow through. 754 00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:40,080 Speaker 4: I can only really rely on me. And I realized 755 00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:42,799 Speaker 4: I had someone tell me that, Like, is that a 756 00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,640 Speaker 4: true narrative? Does that? 757 00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:46,279 Speaker 6: Sure? 758 00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,759 Speaker 4: That exists in your workspace and this and that, But 759 00:39:48,800 --> 00:39:51,880 Speaker 4: when it comes to community, Antonette, you have a community, 760 00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:55,880 Speaker 4: a real one. You've had the same friends since you 761 00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,120 Speaker 4: since fourteen. You have two loving parents, you have a 762 00:39:59,160 --> 00:40:01,759 Speaker 4: wonderful sister, you have a wonderful brother in law, you 763 00:40:01,760 --> 00:40:04,600 Speaker 4: have a partner. Now you're actually not alone. Are you 764 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:06,160 Speaker 4: getting all of the thing? 765 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:06,640 Speaker 1: Well? 766 00:40:06,719 --> 00:40:09,680 Speaker 3: Are okay? But are you getting all of your needs 767 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:11,160 Speaker 3: met in those relationships? 768 00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,719 Speaker 4: Not all of them. But you have a community, and 769 00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,799 Speaker 4: you have a community where you can talk to them 770 00:40:16,200 --> 00:40:21,120 Speaker 4: and work on expanding your relationship, deepening your relationship so 771 00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:22,560 Speaker 4: your needs are more met. 772 00:40:22,719 --> 00:40:25,440 Speaker 1: I think that's my thing. I got community with friends, 773 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 1: love y'all down. That's the community you've born, and that's 774 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,439 Speaker 1: the place where I feel safe right right. But even 775 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,360 Speaker 1: though Amazon just got rid of DEI I love my 776 00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,480 Speaker 1: Amazon Prime and the easiness, like the easiness of it, 777 00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:43,279 Speaker 1: the convenience of it. And so where my community is 778 00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:45,319 Speaker 1: within my friends, and I want to make sure my 779 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,799 Speaker 1: friends got it. However I can help my friends. That's 780 00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,000 Speaker 1: what I pour into. All the other things that you 781 00:40:50,040 --> 00:40:52,719 Speaker 1: care about, well, everything else. 782 00:40:53,320 --> 00:40:53,839 Speaker 3: It's too much. 783 00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:55,320 Speaker 1: I don't have the capacity. 784 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,359 Speaker 4: Listen, it's too much. And I've told myself it's too much. 785 00:40:57,400 --> 00:41:00,279 Speaker 4: I have told myself, Antnette, you need to pick three 786 00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,080 Speaker 4: things that you care a whole lot about. 787 00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 1: Can we do that? What is it? I'm still thinking 788 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,520 Speaker 1: about what are the three things you really care about? 789 00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 1: Because Crystal does this often to me and when we 790 00:41:10,520 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: when we have even the conversation, she's like, what do 791 00:41:14,160 --> 00:41:14,799 Speaker 1: you stand for? 792 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:15,880 Speaker 3: Yeah? 793 00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,400 Speaker 1: And I think that that's the question that has always 794 00:41:18,400 --> 00:41:20,200 Speaker 1: asked when I go off on these tangents and where 795 00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:24,720 Speaker 1: I think, do you stand for anything? And I think 796 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:28,719 Speaker 1: when I have to think of what I stand for 797 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:33,000 Speaker 1: or in ways I feel like I would make change, 798 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:36,279 Speaker 1: it's only one thing, and it's crazy because the bitch 799 00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,680 Speaker 1: don't want kids. But it's reproductive rights. That's it. I 800 00:41:38,719 --> 00:41:40,480 Speaker 1: want women to be able to make the decisions that 801 00:41:40,480 --> 00:41:42,680 Speaker 1: they want for their own body when it comes to 802 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:47,319 Speaker 1: sex and health. That's it. Other than that like which 803 00:41:47,360 --> 00:41:50,319 Speaker 1: is why and y'all will hear jokes coming into the 804 00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:51,239 Speaker 1: season of. 805 00:41:51,400 --> 00:41:52,799 Speaker 3: You want women to have equal pay? 806 00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,800 Speaker 1: I want. I want all the rights for all the women. 807 00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 3: So there's a plethora of things for you to cheers. 808 00:41:59,520 --> 00:41:59,960 Speaker 1: The thing. 809 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 3: I also don't like all women. 810 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: Some of them holes get on my nerves. But when 811 00:42:05,040 --> 00:42:06,960 Speaker 1: I think of the only thing I stand on that 812 00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:09,239 Speaker 1: will make me vote blue. 813 00:42:09,800 --> 00:42:17,880 Speaker 7: Mm hm, is I gotta do this when that Florida 814 00:42:17,920 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 7: just none of my don't because I still understand and 815 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:21,760 Speaker 7: to stay to Florida, and I voted for Kamala. 816 00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:25,359 Speaker 1: But I think that that is where when we talk 817 00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,799 Speaker 1: about money and I care about it, I will pay 818 00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:30,440 Speaker 1: whatever I need to pay in taxes and everything to 819 00:42:30,520 --> 00:42:32,800 Speaker 1: make sure women still have the rights for their bodies, 820 00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:35,480 Speaker 1: which is why I didn't vote red. However, I agree 821 00:42:35,520 --> 00:42:37,200 Speaker 1: with some of that ship over there too. You know 822 00:42:37,280 --> 00:42:40,200 Speaker 1: I make I'm purple. You know, I think that's the color. 823 00:42:40,360 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 4: You don't need to be a I don't want to 824 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:44,200 Speaker 4: hear screaming I'm a democrat. 825 00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:48,120 Speaker 1: No, no, we're not doing that. We're not liberal conservative? 826 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,040 Speaker 6: Is that what it isnt can can try to read you? 827 00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:58,799 Speaker 1: No, no, no, fiscally conservative, socially liberal. Thank you. That's what 828 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:02,160 Speaker 1: I learned about myself. But yeah, I don't know. I'm 829 00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:07,640 Speaker 1: I'm I'm in this space where again finding what works 830 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,880 Speaker 1: for me, what my moral grouning is. Even dating you 831 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:13,759 Speaker 1: already know I'll be like, think I'm not monogamous. That's 832 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:15,399 Speaker 1: what I'm leaning into. And I like to be honest, 833 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 1: But niggas lie what am I doing here? Like I 834 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,719 Speaker 1: think in every which way I want to make a difference, 835 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,560 Speaker 1: even going to horrible decisions and thinking we can empower 836 00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:27,360 Speaker 1: and you know, empower the word or and see a 837 00:43:27,400 --> 00:43:29,080 Speaker 1: difference in life, and that not happening. 838 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,200 Speaker 4: I don't think you've done that for individuals, but here 839 00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:36,680 Speaker 4: we go individuals, but not enough people to see change 840 00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:38,680 Speaker 4: or to me make a difference. 841 00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:42,120 Speaker 1: Word. Yes, I believe I've made a difference in thousands 842 00:43:42,160 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 1: of women's lives. That is my legacy. That's what I leave. However, 843 00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:49,040 Speaker 1: I don't see it making. 844 00:43:48,719 --> 00:43:52,600 Speaker 4: As where that consumerism that that like Amazon, I want 845 00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,359 Speaker 4: my package tomorrow, like I want my change tomorrow too. 846 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:57,280 Speaker 3: I don't have. 847 00:43:57,200 --> 00:43:59,440 Speaker 4: Any patients like it needs to be down now now. 848 00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:01,680 Speaker 4: And sometimes you put stuff out in the world and 849 00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:05,000 Speaker 4: you gotta hope that it catches on. And I think 850 00:44:05,200 --> 00:44:09,000 Speaker 4: the years from now, people will look back on horrible 851 00:44:09,040 --> 00:44:13,600 Speaker 4: and it will be quite important for a lot of folks. 852 00:44:14,000 --> 00:44:17,960 Speaker 4: Yea horrible itself that half these dollies wouldn't have. 853 00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:18,799 Speaker 1: A podcast if it was. 854 00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:24,200 Speaker 4: Shot out to them, because there's space for everybody, right. 855 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:29,080 Speaker 3: But to be very clear, okay, you you have created 856 00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:32,880 Speaker 3: space where people can now sustain themselves and their families 857 00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:37,640 Speaker 3: because you created a lane. So that's not nothing. It 858 00:44:37,719 --> 00:44:40,840 Speaker 3: might not be on this global scale that we wanted 859 00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:42,640 Speaker 3: to be yet, but it is something. 860 00:44:43,360 --> 00:44:48,000 Speaker 4: I think maybe the more love you feel, the more 861 00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,680 Speaker 4: love you're going to be able to give. The less 862 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:53,839 Speaker 4: harm you feel, the less harmful we will be. I'll 863 00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:59,640 Speaker 4: include myself in that you have not been treated kindly 864 00:45:00,280 --> 00:45:03,799 Speaker 4: in a lot of spaces. I completely understand why you're like, 865 00:45:03,960 --> 00:45:06,719 Speaker 4: I have to take care of me. What I'm my 866 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,800 Speaker 4: hope for you is is that you experience something else 867 00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:13,799 Speaker 4: so that the we gets incorporated a little more. Yeah, 868 00:45:14,000 --> 00:45:16,600 Speaker 4: And I think it's possible. Not everybody's going to be 869 00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,440 Speaker 4: in the same place, but I'm still going to be 870 00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 4: Fuck Starbucks. I'm not I'm not supporting you. You know, 871 00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:25,759 Speaker 4: like I have to do better at recognizing that I 872 00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,640 Speaker 4: can't save the world, but I also have to pick 873 00:45:29,719 --> 00:45:30,920 Speaker 4: my three fucking things. 874 00:45:31,000 --> 00:45:32,799 Speaker 3: It's like, these are the three things I hear about. 875 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:34,399 Speaker 1: You said you haven't pickted three things yet. 876 00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,919 Speaker 3: No, I what I'm insane and I can't narrow it down. 877 00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,799 Speaker 1: I want to shake the table a little bit, I know, 878 00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:42,759 Speaker 1: just just a little bit, just a little bit, just 879 00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,880 Speaker 1: a little bit. This is where we mix things up 880 00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,319 Speaker 1: and kind of see things from a different angle. And 881 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:51,840 Speaker 1: because you do, I would say, pride yourself in making 882 00:45:51,880 --> 00:45:55,239 Speaker 1: the efforts I do. Want to know, what. 883 00:45:55,280 --> 00:45:57,560 Speaker 3: Are you about to do you look up. 884 00:45:58,800 --> 00:46:01,920 Speaker 1: Every company or corporation that you consume. 885 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:05,200 Speaker 4: No, no, no, I would drive myself crazy because I'd 886 00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,800 Speaker 4: be heartbroken every two seconds because everything is fucking harmful. 887 00:46:10,520 --> 00:46:14,160 Speaker 1: This okay, so this is kind of I get. 888 00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:15,239 Speaker 3: It, kind of capitalism. 889 00:46:16,680 --> 00:46:20,320 Speaker 1: It's so crazy because you just said everything. I just said, oh. 890 00:46:21,760 --> 00:46:25,920 Speaker 3: Well everything, No, no, no, everything is harmful. Not everything. I 891 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:26,840 Speaker 3: shouldn't say everything. 892 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,320 Speaker 4: There are definitely small businesses and things that you could support, YadA, YadA, YadA. 893 00:46:31,400 --> 00:46:35,120 Speaker 3: Absolutely. When I say everything, I mean the. 894 00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:38,319 Speaker 4: Apples, everything almost getting some love now because they're not 895 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:42,560 Speaker 4: getting ready of their DEI they were just like, we're 896 00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,799 Speaker 4: gonna we're not gonna get crucified on social media. 897 00:46:44,800 --> 00:46:45,680 Speaker 3: It's gonna look good for us. 898 00:46:45,719 --> 00:46:51,200 Speaker 4: Fine, they still donated to Trump's inauguration fund, all of them, 899 00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:52,320 Speaker 4: they all. 900 00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,319 Speaker 3: They all kissed the ring they got to. 901 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,400 Speaker 1: I mean, it's one of those where like, so the 902 00:46:57,440 --> 00:46:59,080 Speaker 1: other day I went and I had some s car 903 00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:04,480 Speaker 1: got right, that ship, that's my ship? So what why'd 904 00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:04,920 Speaker 1: you look over? 905 00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:14,719 Speaker 8: Guve? 906 00:47:16,480 --> 00:47:19,279 Speaker 1: And I posted it on the Instagram and somebody wrote 907 00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: me it was like, you really shouldn't be in that 908 00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:23,719 Speaker 1: there's like parasites or some ship. And I was like, 909 00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,759 Speaker 1: you shouldn't go outside and breathe. There's fucking ship in 910 00:47:27,800 --> 00:47:29,960 Speaker 1: the air. And so I think that. 911 00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:32,600 Speaker 3: That inundated with information, and I think that. 912 00:47:32,280 --> 00:47:37,840 Speaker 1: That's like my issue with the idea of aligning capitalism 913 00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,640 Speaker 1: with the thing with the day to day life. Everything 914 00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:45,759 Speaker 1: is harmful. Our foods are ship. When we walk out, 915 00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:48,440 Speaker 1: we're breathing in air and fire fumes down if here 916 00:47:48,440 --> 00:47:52,480 Speaker 1: in fucking California, nothing is safe for us. So I 917 00:47:52,480 --> 00:47:56,560 Speaker 1: think this idea that nothing is safe for us community 918 00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:59,680 Speaker 1: wants to be a real community. That makes me want 919 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:04,360 Speaker 1: to be sele actively ignorant and not. It's too much 920 00:48:04,800 --> 00:48:08,920 Speaker 1: between Twitter, between the documentaries and I'll be honest with you. 921 00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,319 Speaker 1: You know what else gets me fucking AI and the 922 00:48:11,480 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 1: goddamn onion pages. Bro, someone got me the other day. 923 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:17,560 Speaker 1: It said that they was they was like getting rid 924 00:48:17,600 --> 00:48:22,959 Speaker 1: of uncrustables. Bit it ruined my day and don't right. 925 00:48:22,960 --> 00:48:25,879 Speaker 3: I don't look at me, look at the out line. 926 00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:35,640 Speaker 1: I'm like this date because y'all wanted to act like 927 00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:36,360 Speaker 1: I was. 928 00:48:37,080 --> 00:48:39,520 Speaker 4: Trump says he what did he say he was doing 929 00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:43,840 Speaker 4: when he started talking? He starts riffing literally Trump, he 930 00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:46,960 Speaker 4: was saying that he's actually brilliant. Think he's crazy, but 931 00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:50,480 Speaker 4: he's like, y'all don't understands. 932 00:48:50,600 --> 00:48:53,600 Speaker 1: What immediately happened was y'all brought up where I was 933 00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,240 Speaker 1: not relatable with the s cargo, So I said, actually, 934 00:48:56,280 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 1: I really was heard about my crustibles. 935 00:48:58,239 --> 00:49:00,440 Speaker 3: I want to know the idity. 936 00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:03,120 Speaker 1: I see everybody. Duality is a thing I did want 937 00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,280 Speaker 1: to ask you then, on the same thing of shaking 938 00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,479 Speaker 1: the table when you keep bringing up community you brought 939 00:49:08,520 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: up the Montgomery boycott. I brought up the NFL shit 940 00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:17,000 Speaker 1: that didn't really play out. Mind you, Kaepernick trying to 941 00:49:17,000 --> 00:49:20,640 Speaker 1: get back in the league. Crazy, But do you believe 942 00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,640 Speaker 1: organizing is dead at all? You don't believe organizing is down, 943 00:49:25,080 --> 00:49:27,520 Speaker 1: So you believe it's still possible to make waves? 944 00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,920 Speaker 3: Absolutely in organizing. Absolutely. 945 00:49:31,239 --> 00:49:33,719 Speaker 4: I think we would be foolish to think that organizing 946 00:49:33,800 --> 00:49:37,840 Speaker 4: is not currently happening. And I mean it's happening honestly 947 00:49:37,880 --> 00:49:38,400 Speaker 4: on a lot. 948 00:49:38,239 --> 00:49:40,560 Speaker 3: Of local levels. There's a lot of organizing. 949 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,520 Speaker 4: One for instance, I mean they got played, but in Philly, 950 00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:49,560 Speaker 4: like there was mass mass organizations because they wanted to 951 00:49:49,640 --> 00:49:53,880 Speaker 4: move the arena. The Sixers Arena got into Chinatown and 952 00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:58,040 Speaker 4: displace all of those people. People were going crazy about 953 00:49:58,040 --> 00:50:01,560 Speaker 4: this and also create a crazy gridlock for downtown for 954 00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:05,480 Speaker 4: all kinds of stuff. The mayor pushed it through, city 955 00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:07,879 Speaker 4: Hall approved it. All of a sudden, it didn't go through. 956 00:50:08,080 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 4: I don't know if that's because of the organizers, but 957 00:50:10,520 --> 00:50:13,760 Speaker 4: I do know that city Hall and the mayor got played. 958 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:17,400 Speaker 4: But I know that people definitely organize against that, and 959 00:50:17,440 --> 00:50:20,000 Speaker 4: they're the stadium staying where it is. You have the 960 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:23,279 Speaker 4: working Families Party, which is very grassroots. We're actually going 961 00:50:23,320 --> 00:50:26,279 Speaker 4: to have him on a podcast. You have people out 962 00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,080 Speaker 4: here that are doing a lot of stuff on the 963 00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:32,560 Speaker 4: local level. We just don't consume that it's not sexy. 964 00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,160 Speaker 4: It doesn't get the likes, and so we don't see it. 965 00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,640 Speaker 4: So we're because we don't see it in our ignorant minds, 966 00:50:38,640 --> 00:50:39,600 Speaker 4: We're like, it's not happening. 967 00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,640 Speaker 3: Nobody's doing it. We have no black leaders. It's not true. 968 00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:42,960 Speaker 1: I know. 969 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:49,920 Speaker 7: Research voices that need to shut the fuck out. 970 00:50:48,239 --> 00:50:53,640 Speaker 8: From that give Scott says that the revolution won't be televised, right, 971 00:50:53,920 --> 00:50:56,439 Speaker 8: So think about that concept. The people that's doing the work, 972 00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:58,120 Speaker 8: they're not doing it for cloud. They're not doing it. 973 00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:01,560 Speaker 8: You've seen they did going to the representative. They holding 974 00:51:01,560 --> 00:51:03,680 Speaker 8: feet the fire. And I think now where we as 975 00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,040 Speaker 8: a culture you pull up the phone earlier, we're so 976 00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,239 Speaker 8: entrapped byest thing. We always look for what's behind it 977 00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:13,040 Speaker 8: for approval for these things. Community is not sexy. Community 978 00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:16,160 Speaker 8: is not you know, you gotta do the community shit. 979 00:51:16,239 --> 00:51:18,320 Speaker 8: And it started just to jump on what you said before. 980 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:22,360 Speaker 8: Community starts with your ecosystem, the strongs, the five people, 981 00:51:22,400 --> 00:51:24,600 Speaker 8: the six seven people, they're going to have their old 982 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 8: micro ecosystems, and that's the community. 983 00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:28,960 Speaker 6: You just don't need to see it in real time. 984 00:51:29,040 --> 00:51:31,200 Speaker 4: Community is I got to come up to New York 985 00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:35,759 Speaker 4: and record for a week. I need your apartment is free, 986 00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:36,600 Speaker 4: I need a place to stay. 987 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:40,080 Speaker 3: Boom, you got it. That's community. 988 00:51:40,000 --> 00:51:42,640 Speaker 1: They got community. It's just all the other niggas. 989 00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:43,000 Speaker 8: I don't know. 990 00:51:43,800 --> 00:51:46,719 Speaker 6: They're not part of the ecosystem. 991 00:51:46,880 --> 00:51:49,799 Speaker 1: I know, I mean, and I value my ecosystem. I think. 992 00:51:50,080 --> 00:51:52,799 Speaker 1: I think that's where when when we were having these 993 00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:57,120 Speaker 1: broad topics, I just like to look at things logically 994 00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:00,840 Speaker 1: and so where even where we began. You want to 995 00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:03,560 Speaker 1: create this reality for yourself because it makes you feel better. 996 00:52:04,160 --> 00:52:06,440 Speaker 1: I have a way where I can't. 997 00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:08,279 Speaker 3: Capitalism is real. 998 00:52:08,520 --> 00:52:08,680 Speaker 5: You know. 999 00:52:08,800 --> 00:52:10,440 Speaker 4: I'm never going to sit here and say that I 1000 00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,560 Speaker 4: do not live in a capitalist society, in a world 1001 00:52:13,600 --> 00:52:17,920 Speaker 4: where my labor will be exploited. That is the basis 1002 00:52:17,960 --> 00:52:19,920 Speaker 4: of capitalism. If you do some labor, I'm going to 1003 00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:23,920 Speaker 4: pay you, not what its value is. I'm gonna pay 1004 00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,480 Speaker 4: you less than that so that I can profit from 1005 00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:27,320 Speaker 4: your labor. 1006 00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,160 Speaker 3: Okay, I live in that world. 1007 00:52:29,600 --> 00:52:33,000 Speaker 4: What I'm saying is my contribution to this world is 1008 00:52:33,040 --> 00:52:35,360 Speaker 4: going to be me doing everything I can to be 1009 00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,919 Speaker 4: as least harmful to those marginalized community. And I'm going 1010 00:52:39,000 --> 00:52:42,239 Speaker 4: to hope and pray and try to imagine something else 1011 00:52:42,280 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 4: and put myself in spaces. 1012 00:52:44,000 --> 00:52:45,799 Speaker 3: Where hopefully we're working towards that. 1013 00:52:46,280 --> 00:52:48,440 Speaker 4: And I'm not going to shut up about it because 1014 00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:53,120 Speaker 4: there's like everybody is a capitalist because we are looking 1015 00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 4: at I hate this, We're looking at black capitalism and 1016 00:52:56,520 --> 00:52:58,840 Speaker 4: thinking that that's the fucking goal and it's not. 1017 00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:03,640 Speaker 3: That's just fucking harmful. I love Beyonce, I love Jay, 1018 00:53:03,960 --> 00:53:04,880 Speaker 3: I love Rihanna. 1019 00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:10,240 Speaker 4: Y'all are fucking harmful and not you personally, you as people, 1020 00:53:10,560 --> 00:53:14,560 Speaker 4: but your existence as billionaires Oprah all y'all, whether you 1021 00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,160 Speaker 4: give back or not or like, it's harmful. 1022 00:53:17,280 --> 00:53:20,880 Speaker 1: So they're a mass of wealth. They're harmatic. But let 1023 00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:23,239 Speaker 1: me finish the Minissance concert. 1024 00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:24,160 Speaker 3: Secret that. 1025 00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:28,560 Speaker 4: Yes, and I'm saying I say I fail all the time. 1026 00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:31,279 Speaker 4: I'm not somebody that like, Yeah, I like Beyonce and 1027 00:53:31,320 --> 00:53:32,240 Speaker 4: I want to see the show. 1028 00:53:32,520 --> 00:53:33,400 Speaker 3: So yes, I'm. 1029 00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:36,920 Speaker 4: Contributing to her mass wealth and that's something that fucks 1030 00:53:36,960 --> 00:53:37,319 Speaker 4: me up. 1031 00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:38,640 Speaker 3: It's it fucks me up. 1032 00:53:40,360 --> 00:53:44,799 Speaker 4: Also, they're harmful, not they they're not actively trying to 1033 00:53:44,840 --> 00:53:46,719 Speaker 4: be harmful. I personally don't believe there's any way to 1034 00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:50,960 Speaker 4: become a billionaire without exploiting people. You just can't fucking 1035 00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,799 Speaker 4: do it. Cut it out, but. 1036 00:53:54,320 --> 00:53:57,880 Speaker 1: You just can't do it. Do this because. 1037 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:03,960 Speaker 4: To know them being hungry, them being the models is 1038 00:54:04,000 --> 00:54:10,200 Speaker 4: harmful because that creates that individualistic outlook for folks where 1039 00:54:10,200 --> 00:54:12,319 Speaker 4: it's like I got to get to that and I'm 1040 00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:15,960 Speaker 4: stopping on anybody that's in my way. Fuck community, It's 1041 00:54:16,000 --> 00:54:18,160 Speaker 4: about me, and I'm trying to get to where they're at. 1042 00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:19,040 Speaker 1: She has to behive. 1043 00:54:19,160 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 3: She's built community, you know what I mean. 1044 00:54:22,600 --> 00:54:25,440 Speaker 4: So that that is where that type of thinking is like. 1045 00:54:25,600 --> 00:54:27,839 Speaker 4: And honestly, we don't have to. And what I'm saying 1046 00:54:27,880 --> 00:54:31,160 Speaker 4: is I'm not encouraging people to be fucking poor. There's enough, 1047 00:54:31,560 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 4: There is enough out here for folks to have their 1048 00:54:34,160 --> 00:54:37,920 Speaker 4: needs met hans. Nobody needs to be poor, nobody needs 1049 00:54:37,920 --> 00:54:42,200 Speaker 4: to be unhoused, nobody needs to be suffering and. 1050 00:54:42,120 --> 00:54:43,000 Speaker 3: To go without. 1051 00:54:43,560 --> 00:54:46,759 Speaker 4: I'm saying, because people have it won't allow us to 1052 00:54:46,800 --> 00:54:49,640 Speaker 4: live in any kind of way where we're actually like 1053 00:54:50,160 --> 00:54:55,560 Speaker 4: enjoying this earth and actually actually providing resources for other people. 1054 00:54:55,600 --> 00:54:58,520 Speaker 4: We don't understand that until there's a disaster, When there's 1055 00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:00,480 Speaker 4: a disaster and Fema comes and we're all. 1056 00:55:00,480 --> 00:55:03,480 Speaker 1: Social even for that, and we're socialized for a week 1057 00:55:03,480 --> 00:55:03,879 Speaker 1: and a half. 1058 00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,279 Speaker 3: No, I said, socialist like people get it. 1059 00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,360 Speaker 1: But I think though that that's the thing when I 1060 00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:10,520 Speaker 1: look back in even all the history books and things 1061 00:55:10,520 --> 00:55:13,239 Speaker 1: like this, this classic system, this idea that there's the 1062 00:55:13,280 --> 00:55:16,920 Speaker 1: haves and the have nots is what makes this world 1063 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:19,319 Speaker 1: like is how we're able to exist. That's how the 1064 00:55:19,320 --> 00:55:23,320 Speaker 1: world is always to see. And that's where this idea 1065 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,839 Speaker 1: of a utopia where everyone can be on the same 1066 00:55:26,840 --> 00:55:28,959 Speaker 1: playing field and everything can be equal. 1067 00:55:29,080 --> 00:55:31,399 Speaker 3: To me as long as to me it's a sci 1068 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:32,239 Speaker 3: fi film, you know. 1069 00:55:32,440 --> 00:55:35,759 Speaker 1: No, Like, I don't think it's it's a reality that 1070 00:55:35,840 --> 00:55:37,880 Speaker 1: can ever exist. I think whenever we get to the 1071 00:55:37,880 --> 00:55:40,200 Speaker 1: other planet, they got a classic system too. 1072 00:55:40,360 --> 00:55:41,520 Speaker 3: I just feel, like Mandy do. 1073 00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:46,440 Speaker 4: There's been so many cases where I put myself and 1074 00:55:46,640 --> 00:55:49,279 Speaker 4: because I'm reading this here flush again and I put 1075 00:55:49,320 --> 00:55:53,000 Speaker 4: myself and she talks about people being enslaved, right, the 1076 00:55:53,120 --> 00:55:57,960 Speaker 4: enslaved people. I try to imagine myself being an enslaved 1077 00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:05,160 Speaker 4: person and trying to organize within that cohort of enslaved 1078 00:56:05,239 --> 00:56:10,000 Speaker 4: people right, trying to find space to love, right, to 1079 00:56:10,200 --> 00:56:14,200 Speaker 4: have babies, to have marriages, to figure out ways to 1080 00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:19,080 Speaker 4: actually get free, to create language, to still worship God, 1081 00:56:19,320 --> 00:56:21,279 Speaker 4: trying to make space for that. And I'm like, Yo, 1082 00:56:21,400 --> 00:56:24,680 Speaker 4: if they could imagine that and there was that possibility 1083 00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:29,680 Speaker 4: for them, we we have to do better. But to me, 1084 00:56:29,920 --> 00:56:35,360 Speaker 4: the root of that imagination was the community and the 1085 00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:39,840 Speaker 4: people who were about individuals we hear about and we 1086 00:56:39,920 --> 00:56:45,040 Speaker 4: called them, what Uncle Tom's house, negros, you sold out, 1087 00:56:45,120 --> 00:56:47,120 Speaker 4: You ain't sure, you weren't here. 1088 00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:52,320 Speaker 3: For the people. So I think about that often and I'm. 1089 00:56:52,200 --> 00:57:00,520 Speaker 4: Like, what what kind of strength, bitch? 1090 00:57:00,960 --> 00:57:01,040 Speaker 1: What? 1091 00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:01,720 Speaker 3: Seriously? 1092 00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,200 Speaker 4: But what what was in them that enabled them to 1093 00:57:04,960 --> 00:57:06,360 Speaker 4: imagine freedom? 1094 00:57:06,560 --> 00:57:07,640 Speaker 1: Yeah? 1095 00:57:08,520 --> 00:57:11,319 Speaker 3: Are you kidding? Like I can't imagine that. 1096 00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,200 Speaker 4: I can't imagine being in that position and being like, yo, 1097 00:57:14,480 --> 00:57:15,880 Speaker 4: there has to be something else. 1098 00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:18,600 Speaker 3: Let's collectively figure that out. And they fucking did. 1099 00:57:18,720 --> 00:57:19,240 Speaker 1: They did it. 1100 00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:22,840 Speaker 4: Yeah, So that's kind of why I'm like, there's no 1101 00:57:22,960 --> 00:57:27,000 Speaker 4: way that this ship is not actually possible. We just 1102 00:57:27,080 --> 00:57:31,120 Speaker 4: have to be a collective because we outnumber these motherfuckers. 1103 00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:34,720 Speaker 4: It's one point one percent this horn. 1104 00:57:36,160 --> 00:57:39,280 Speaker 1: Because people now we don't know, but they were able 1105 00:57:39,320 --> 00:57:40,200 Speaker 1: to still make. 1106 00:57:41,760 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 4: Come on, now, you had Amazon people delivering packages in 1107 00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:47,280 Speaker 4: the middle of those Palisades fires. 1108 00:57:47,400 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm glad they delivered mine in a snowstorm. 1109 00:57:49,720 --> 00:57:50,080 Speaker 6: I was. 1110 00:57:50,440 --> 00:57:54,320 Speaker 3: That's crazy, That's what I'm saying, Like, that's the topic stuff. 1111 00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:57,360 Speaker 3: That's be like seeing that. That's one of the things 1112 00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:58,720 Speaker 3: that I'm like, I can't funk with you. 1113 00:57:58,960 --> 00:57:59,920 Speaker 1: Not with the fire, but the. 1114 00:58:00,120 --> 00:58:02,000 Speaker 3: Subscription canceled, Like I'm not. 1115 00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,640 Speaker 4: Doing it, Like that's you, yeah, subscribe people at risk, 1116 00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:08,760 Speaker 4: Like I'm good, I'll figure out another way to get it. 1117 00:58:09,120 --> 00:58:11,200 Speaker 4: I will plan ahead to get my ship when I 1118 00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:12,800 Speaker 4: need it, and I don't need it overnight. 1119 00:58:13,760 --> 00:58:16,960 Speaker 3: It's just crazy. I'm like, really, we will. These people 1120 00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:20,640 Speaker 3: are It's just crazy. I can't deal with it. It's like these. 1121 00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:24,160 Speaker 4: People are literally having all kinds of issues in these warehouses. 1122 00:58:24,400 --> 00:58:27,680 Speaker 3: They're being like, it's absurd the type. 1123 00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:33,200 Speaker 4: Of inhumane treatment that these Amazon's workers experience all based 1124 00:58:33,200 --> 00:58:35,920 Speaker 4: off of us consuming When is it the fuck enough? 1125 00:58:36,400 --> 00:58:37,640 Speaker 3: When do you have enough? 1126 00:58:37,840 --> 00:58:38,960 Speaker 4: Like I'm just don't. 1127 00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:41,960 Speaker 6: Choices right too. 1128 00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:44,120 Speaker 5: It's like when you talk about community, like those Amazon 1129 00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,960 Speaker 5: jobs used to be like union jobs, or they used 1130 00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:49,200 Speaker 5: to be or they used to be like look, that 1131 00:58:49,320 --> 00:58:53,479 Speaker 5: job forty years ago was like a fact, a warehouse job. 1132 00:58:53,560 --> 00:58:55,960 Speaker 5: You either unionized or you had a pension. And you 1133 00:58:56,040 --> 00:58:59,400 Speaker 5: can see, you know, see executives make decisions now like 1134 00:58:59,440 --> 00:59:01,600 Speaker 5: you know, instead of pension, will do four one ca. 1135 00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:04,160 Speaker 5: So now it's on you. Yeah, like yougur, you got 1136 00:59:04,160 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 5: to figure out we're not going to think about a 1137 00:59:05,920 --> 00:59:08,160 Speaker 5: community safety net for it, Like it's on you. 1138 00:59:08,240 --> 00:59:10,120 Speaker 3: And so so I can pocket that money. 1139 00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:13,720 Speaker 4: Yeah, I can continue to hoard resources to become richer 1140 00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,720 Speaker 4: and richer and richer, and you can't take none of 1141 00:59:16,720 --> 00:59:17,680 Speaker 4: that shit, which. 1142 00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:19,560 Speaker 1: I think it's just also difficult because when we think 1143 00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,840 Speaker 1: of and this will be my last thing, because it 1144 00:59:21,960 --> 00:59:25,640 Speaker 1: just immediately made me think of yes, us having the 1145 00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:28,360 Speaker 1: iPhone gang and also shaming the niggas with green bubbles. 1146 00:59:28,440 --> 00:59:30,840 Speaker 1: But for people who don't have the money to spend 1147 00:59:30,960 --> 00:59:35,320 Speaker 1: on luxury, we all know that it's kids making our 1148 00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:40,439 Speaker 1: shean clothes as women, and even the fact that we 1149 00:59:41,160 --> 00:59:44,960 Speaker 1: as as workers and working class that don't have a 1150 00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:47,280 Speaker 1: lot of money also don't want to see those T 1151 00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:50,440 Speaker 1: shirts go from two dollars to twenty dollars. We like 1152 00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:53,360 Speaker 1: that those clothes are affordable to us. 1153 00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:56,040 Speaker 3: And there's some people need them to be affordable. 1154 00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:57,560 Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. And so even to think 1155 00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:01,600 Speaker 1: of the moral compass of it all, where I wouldn't 1156 01:00:01,600 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 1: shame those people that keep buying she In because the 1157 01:00:04,560 --> 01:00:07,720 Speaker 1: prices are low, even after finding out, so they're going 1158 01:00:07,760 --> 01:00:10,640 Speaker 1: to be selectively ignorant to liking the prices but knowing 1159 01:00:10,680 --> 01:00:13,200 Speaker 1: that they're being made at the hands of children that 1160 01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:13,760 Speaker 1: are making fit. 1161 01:00:14,520 --> 01:00:17,560 Speaker 4: This is about shame. None of this freedom does not 1162 01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,560 Speaker 4: start with shame. None of this is about that. What 1163 01:00:20,640 --> 01:00:26,479 Speaker 4: it is about is folks who have means, intentionally time 1164 01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:29,760 Speaker 4: to do the least amount of harm possible. If you 1165 01:00:29,840 --> 01:00:33,320 Speaker 4: are someone that can only afford she In, then you 1166 01:00:33,440 --> 01:00:35,480 Speaker 4: have to do what you have to do. And I 1167 01:00:35,640 --> 01:00:38,919 Speaker 4: understand that there are other alternatives. Though, right you want 1168 01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:41,520 Speaker 4: she In because it's cute, fine, I hear you. There's 1169 01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:44,880 Speaker 4: also thrift stores. There's also other ways to get clothing 1170 01:00:44,920 --> 01:00:47,040 Speaker 4: on your back. You're still making a choice. But I'm 1171 01:00:47,040 --> 01:00:51,400 Speaker 4: not shaming anybody for that. I understand that that is 1172 01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:54,560 Speaker 4: the reality. That is what capitalism do you see what 1173 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:59,600 Speaker 4: I'm saying. It creates this reality, this way of being 1174 01:00:59,760 --> 01:01:02,920 Speaker 4: for all of us, and it is unsustainable. 1175 01:01:03,360 --> 01:01:06,040 Speaker 3: We're seeing that when. 1176 01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:09,200 Speaker 4: It when it comes to there is a class war 1177 01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,000 Speaker 4: brewing in this country. 1178 01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:12,760 Speaker 6: We just saw it with Luigi. 1179 01:01:13,240 --> 01:01:15,720 Speaker 3: There is a class war happens. 1180 01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:18,040 Speaker 4: We just saw it with the fires, where people were 1181 01:01:18,040 --> 01:01:24,520 Speaker 4: like them, they got money, crazy mad people. I don't 1182 01:01:24,520 --> 01:01:28,760 Speaker 4: have time, Okay, but I don't know what the hell 1183 01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:39,240 Speaker 4: happened with Luigi. But the response to Luigi, you're right, okay, yeah, 1184 01:01:41,360 --> 01:01:43,000 Speaker 4: and this will wrap it up. 1185 01:01:43,840 --> 01:01:47,919 Speaker 1: Well. We talk about community, when we talk about individualism, 1186 01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:49,800 Speaker 1: when we talk about the haves and the have nots. 1187 01:01:50,400 --> 01:01:53,200 Speaker 1: It's exactly what I'm seeing with the lack of empathy 1188 01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:58,600 Speaker 1: to the millionaires who lost their homes in comparison to 1189 01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,760 Speaker 1: the rest of the community. The fact that these are 1190 01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:06,200 Speaker 1: still families with kids that still have to work to 1191 01:02:06,280 --> 01:02:11,000 Speaker 1: have accumulated whatever what they have. Looking online and seeing 1192 01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:14,400 Speaker 1: how many people do not give a fuck about the 1193 01:02:14,560 --> 01:02:17,600 Speaker 1: loss of a roof and a home and all the 1194 01:02:17,640 --> 01:02:20,400 Speaker 1: memories because this person has more money than you. 1195 01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:23,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's you dehumanize them, And. 1196 01:02:23,960 --> 01:02:26,800 Speaker 1: That's where we're at. I think at the end of 1197 01:02:26,840 --> 01:02:30,800 Speaker 1: the day, that's where I'm like, the way we have 1198 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:35,720 Speaker 1: our ability to comprehend things or come up with our 1199 01:02:35,760 --> 01:02:39,040 Speaker 1: own opinions or come up with the ideas of what 1200 01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:41,240 Speaker 1: can exist if we do just a little bit of 1201 01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,240 Speaker 1: the research and see how it's been done in the history. 1202 01:02:44,000 --> 01:02:47,720 Speaker 1: We completely like that as a society. 1203 01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,720 Speaker 4: I think these people have been harmed by a lot 1204 01:02:50,800 --> 01:02:53,680 Speaker 4: of the people who are responding like that have been 1205 01:02:53,720 --> 01:02:57,000 Speaker 4: harmed by this system, and they're not recognizing the fact 1206 01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:58,320 Speaker 4: that it's capitalism, not. 1207 01:02:58,400 --> 01:03:00,520 Speaker 1: These not these individuals visuals. 1208 01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 4: Right, there is something to be said about someone who 1209 01:03:03,880 --> 01:03:06,960 Speaker 4: loses a home who will be able to rebuild, and 1210 01:03:07,040 --> 01:03:10,480 Speaker 4: someone who loses a home and that was everything that 1211 01:03:10,520 --> 01:03:13,479 Speaker 4: they've ever had in life rut into that they still 1212 01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,080 Speaker 4: have to make mortgage payments on the burned home, which 1213 01:03:16,120 --> 01:03:17,320 Speaker 4: is crazy capitalism. 1214 01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:22,160 Speaker 1: Yea, the sky insurance, the fire shit. 1215 01:03:22,360 --> 01:03:24,800 Speaker 3: This is when I'm talking about capitalism where I have 1216 01:03:24,840 --> 01:03:28,160 Speaker 3: a real issue. You are exploiting these people. 1217 01:03:28,200 --> 01:03:32,320 Speaker 4: You are exploiting people who are in need, dire need, 1218 01:03:32,680 --> 01:03:36,640 Speaker 4: who just had their lives like the fucking carpet ripped 1219 01:03:36,640 --> 01:03:40,880 Speaker 4: from out under them, and you see opportunity for profit. 1220 01:03:41,520 --> 01:03:44,919 Speaker 4: Shame on that. That's where the shame lies. So it's 1221 01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:49,200 Speaker 4: less about the person that's making thirty thousand dollars getting 1222 01:03:49,200 --> 01:03:54,200 Speaker 4: an Amazon package. It's the structural system of profitability over 1223 01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:55,720 Speaker 4: everything and anything else. 1224 01:03:56,040 --> 01:03:58,760 Speaker 1: I agree, So we gonna end it with the now 1225 01:03:58,800 --> 01:04:03,480 Speaker 1: what so we agree? No? No, no, no, I agree? Where 1226 01:04:03,480 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: do we disagree? 1227 01:04:04,560 --> 01:04:04,600 Speaker 6: What? 1228 01:04:04,800 --> 01:04:06,640 Speaker 1: What your sound like? 1229 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:07,320 Speaker 3: Y'all agree? 1230 01:04:07,520 --> 01:04:10,280 Speaker 1: We just just don't because you don't care for each other. 1231 01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:11,560 Speaker 6: It's like. 1232 01:04:13,640 --> 01:04:17,120 Speaker 1: Conversation with your disagree so politely. 1233 01:04:17,320 --> 01:04:21,040 Speaker 8: But but but that's inverbal the actions agree with each other. 1234 01:04:21,280 --> 01:04:25,439 Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, because the way operates is the what I'm 1235 01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,880 Speaker 4: talking about that and that's why with her, But nigga, 1236 01:04:28,960 --> 01:04:30,760 Speaker 4: I got an Amazon order right now. 1237 01:04:31,320 --> 01:04:34,840 Speaker 1: I'm waiting all you feel me? What don't see that? 1238 01:04:35,480 --> 01:04:35,880 Speaker 3: You just look. 1239 01:04:36,040 --> 01:04:38,240 Speaker 4: I have to pay my battles and I'm learning that 1240 01:04:38,320 --> 01:04:39,800 Speaker 4: and I have to be less judgmental. 1241 01:04:40,800 --> 01:04:44,880 Speaker 6: Recording time? How much? And Palestine reached that ceasefire agreement? 1242 01:04:44,960 --> 01:04:47,400 Speaker 3: They yeah, who went back on. 1243 01:04:48,880 --> 01:04:49,760 Speaker 6: No more? 1244 01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:54,160 Speaker 4: Yaady went back on it in mamas, Yeah, he said, yeah. 1245 01:04:54,200 --> 01:04:58,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. This morning, I said, you gotta be kidding. 1246 01:04:58,400 --> 01:04:59,000 Speaker 6: We won't put that. 1247 01:05:00,640 --> 01:05:01,920 Speaker 3: Today. That happened, all right. 1248 01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,560 Speaker 1: Well, I always have a question for the audience, and 1249 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:07,000 Speaker 1: so I want to leave you guys with this question. 1250 01:05:07,520 --> 01:05:11,400 Speaker 1: After our conversation, has your mind changed? Are you making 1251 01:05:11,440 --> 01:05:14,440 Speaker 1: decisions with your dollars to help the community or your 1252 01:05:14,520 --> 01:05:17,880 Speaker 1: dollars for yourself. I don't like that because that wasn't 1253 01:05:17,880 --> 01:05:23,480 Speaker 1: really I was on the flock you started. But also 1254 01:05:23,920 --> 01:05:29,560 Speaker 1: give me I don't like that. Is that really what 1255 01:05:29,600 --> 01:05:29,959 Speaker 1: I said? 1256 01:05:30,240 --> 01:05:32,560 Speaker 3: All this conversations enough you said a lot more. 1257 01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:39,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, no for yours No, no, no, no no, it's already over. Anyways, 1258 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:40,800 Speaker 1: I want you all to share your answers and the 1259 01:05:40,840 --> 01:05:43,360 Speaker 1: comments over on our social media page. You guys can 1260 01:05:43,400 --> 01:05:46,400 Speaker 1: get that in the description of this episode, and especially 1261 01:05:46,640 --> 01:05:51,240 Speaker 1: over on our Patreon page. There's the discord. And I 1262 01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:56,520 Speaker 1: am going to encourage this type of discourse where we 1263 01:05:56,600 --> 01:06:01,360 Speaker 1: can find a way to agree to disagree with respect. 1264 01:06:01,440 --> 01:06:03,280 Speaker 1: God damn it, because that's what we just We just 1265 01:06:03,280 --> 01:06:06,520 Speaker 1: did a masterclass day because y'all we are real friends 1266 01:06:06,920 --> 01:06:10,560 Speaker 1: and clearly she's like bitch Starbucks, Amazon could suck my 1267 01:06:10,640 --> 01:06:15,800 Speaker 1: dick from the back. Crazy. Anyways, where can our audience 1268 01:06:15,880 --> 01:06:19,440 Speaker 1: listen to you? Because now with this not y'allhoo. 1269 01:06:19,480 --> 01:06:22,959 Speaker 3: Y'all more fun than this, though my podcast is fun 1270 01:06:23,040 --> 01:06:25,200 Speaker 3: y'all too. I'm talking about ship over here. 1271 01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:27,680 Speaker 4: I'm all serious, Like, you have to think about community. 1272 01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:31,160 Speaker 4: We're not just like tenfoil hell all the time. 1273 01:06:31,200 --> 01:06:33,080 Speaker 1: But ye'ah know, y'all have to tune in when she 1274 01:06:33,200 --> 01:06:35,840 Speaker 1: decides to do shrooms on airs shrews. 1275 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:39,200 Speaker 4: Sorry, Edible actually had a crash our episode for our 1276 01:06:39,200 --> 01:06:40,919 Speaker 4: four hundredth episode, no. 1277 01:06:40,880 --> 01:06:45,120 Speaker 1: Outline, I had no outline. 1278 01:06:45,160 --> 01:06:46,520 Speaker 3: I was like, fuck it, let's do it. 1279 01:06:46,960 --> 01:06:48,440 Speaker 1: And how'd you feel about that? 1280 01:06:48,480 --> 01:06:52,200 Speaker 3: It was wonderful. We I cackled that it was an hour. 1281 01:06:53,360 --> 01:06:55,080 Speaker 3: We made it to an hour. We did it. 1282 01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:55,920 Speaker 1: Wow. 1283 01:06:56,320 --> 01:06:57,800 Speaker 3: I know what is the show? 1284 01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:01,280 Speaker 4: The show is Around the Way Curls. We are a 1285 01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:05,960 Speaker 4: dynamic duo. I'll talk about all things duality. But Mondays 1286 01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:10,919 Speaker 4: we drop episodes related to politics, pop culture. On Thursdays 1287 01:07:10,960 --> 01:07:16,120 Speaker 4: it's more meteor episode, evergreen topic, more Ralph matters. 1288 01:07:15,760 --> 01:07:20,120 Speaker 1: Of the heart, you drop that passion but. 1289 01:07:20,880 --> 01:07:23,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, twice a week. Around the Way Curls everywhere. 1290 01:07:23,240 --> 01:07:25,880 Speaker 1: You get your podcasts all right, and as always, you 1291 01:07:25,920 --> 01:07:27,760 Speaker 1: could hate it or you could love it. Either way. 1292 01:07:27,840 --> 01:07:31,360 Speaker 1: Are you choosing to be selectively ignorant? Are you choosing 1293 01:07:31,520 --> 01:07:35,640 Speaker 1: to get educated? See you motherfuckers next week. 1294 01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:37,360 Speaker 3: Congratulations you. 1295 01:07:39,880 --> 01:07:42,920 Speaker 6: Cargo for the community. 1296 01:07:45,000 --> 01:07:47,320 Speaker 2: Thanks for tuning in the selective ignorance of Mandy B. 1297 01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:50,480 Speaker 2: Selective Ignorance. It's executive produced to Buy Mandy B. And 1298 01:07:50,520 --> 01:07:53,880 Speaker 2: it's a Full Court Media studio production with lead producers 1299 01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,480 Speaker 2: Jason Rodriguez. 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