1 00:00:05,880 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace, a wildly popular and beautiful 2 00:00:16,440 --> 00:00:22,160 Speaker 1: Seattle podcast. Her and her ex Google engineer husband murdered 3 00:00:22,720 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: and they're one point six million dollar home. But why 4 00:00:28,320 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: I mean, Nancy Grace, this is Crime Stories. Thanks for 5 00:00:31,080 --> 00:00:33,320 Speaker 1: being with us here at Fox Nation in series x 6 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: M one eleven. First of all, take a listen to 7 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,559 Speaker 1: our friends at ABC. Police say this man, thirty eight 8 00:00:39,600 --> 00:00:43,920 Speaker 1: year old Ramine Hoda Karamzi, stalked, shot, and killed podcaster 9 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 1: Zori Sadegi and her husband Active Paus situation. A neighbor 10 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: says their security camera caught the commotion overnight. There was 11 00:00:56,480 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: blood curdling. Investigators say Hodo karam res I listened to 12 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,360 Speaker 1: Sadegi's live podcast for people who speak Farsi looking for 13 00:01:04,520 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: jobs in the tech industry, and befriended her through a 14 00:01:07,319 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: chat app. They communicated, but things quickly escalated. In the 15 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: first homicide in the city of Redmond since twenty twenty one, 16 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: a crazed stalker obsessed with the woman killed her and 17 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 1: her husband before turning the gun on himself. This is 18 00:01:21,120 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 1: the absolute worst outcome, you know, for a stalking case. 19 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:28,840 Speaker 1: Police Chief Darryl Lowe says, this man thirty eight year 20 00:01:28,840 --> 00:01:31,840 Speaker 1: old Romaine from Texas is the suspect. He came to 21 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:36,000 Speaker 1: the neighborhood and this red truck Tuesday overnight. The suspect 22 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:40,640 Speaker 1: broke into the home via bedroom window, that bedroom being 23 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:44,319 Speaker 1: the mother's. She did encounter the suspect. She was aware 24 00:01:44,440 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 1: of what was occurring, and she knew or realized that 25 00:01:48,320 --> 00:01:50,400 Speaker 1: she needed to get out and get help, police say. 26 00:01:50,440 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 1: The mother of the wife ran for her life to 27 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:55,919 Speaker 1: a neighbor's house to call nine one one. When officers arrived, 28 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: the mother and neighbor led them to the home. As 29 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:01,360 Speaker 1: officers approached the front of the home, a meal later 30 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 1: identified as the husband of the victim was seen in 31 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: a doorway. How did this whole thing unfold in a 32 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:13,320 Speaker 1: happy marriage and a wonderful podcast as it were? How 33 00:02:13,560 --> 00:02:16,520 Speaker 1: did this guy get to them? With me an all 34 00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: star panel to make sense of what we know right now? 35 00:02:19,240 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: But first I'm want to go to Isabel Vincent, investigative 36 00:02:22,400 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 1: reporter for The New York Post and author of Overture 37 00:02:26,320 --> 00:02:31,400 Speaker 1: of Hope, Two Sisters, Daring plan that saved Opera's Jewish 38 00:02:31,720 --> 00:02:37,400 Speaker 1: stars from the third Reich okay wow to that. You 39 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:41,440 Speaker 1: can find her at Isabel Vincent dot com. Isabel, thank 40 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:44,639 Speaker 1: you so much for being with us. Now I understand 41 00:02:45,400 --> 00:02:53,200 Speaker 1: that the victim, this gorgeous young woman is Zori, somehow 42 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 1: met the killer in a podcast. I've also heard it 43 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: described as a chat room. Which one was it? Do 44 00:03:02,680 --> 00:03:05,720 Speaker 1: you know us about? Well, from from everything that I 45 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: that I could see, it was a chat room. She 46 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:14,000 Speaker 1: met him. They developed a kind of online friendship that 47 00:03:15,000 --> 00:03:21,000 Speaker 1: started to turn very dark when he kept calling her um. 48 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: He started to call her husband UM. And we're talking 49 00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: like at one point he called her the suspect called 50 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: her a hundred times a day UM. And you know, 51 00:03:32,520 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: one of the things I want to stress is that 52 00:03:34,800 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: this woman today he she had just had back surgery 53 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: and she was practically immobile. UM. So from November of 54 00:03:45,640 --> 00:03:49,800 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two, we see that she contacted the police 55 00:03:49,840 --> 00:03:53,320 Speaker 1: because she started to get really concerned about this and 56 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:57,920 Speaker 1: then at you know, at a at one point, the 57 00:03:58,080 --> 00:04:01,360 Speaker 1: trucker shows up at her home with some flowers. Oh 58 00:04:01,480 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: my goodness. You know, hold on, Isabel, Guys, you're hearing 59 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: the voice of Isabel Vincent. I'm sure you know her well. 60 00:04:08,960 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 1: Investigative reporter for the New York Posts and author of 61 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:17,280 Speaker 1: an incredible book with me. Renounced psychologist out of Manhattan, 62 00:04:17,520 --> 00:04:21,120 Speaker 1: Karen Stark an expert in this field. You can find 63 00:04:21,160 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: her at Karen Stark dot com. That's Karen with a 64 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:29,800 Speaker 1: See Karen. How is it that people become attached seemingly 65 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 1: over the internet. This is she's a well known podcaster. 66 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:37,840 Speaker 1: But they're in a chatman was where they first met. 67 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:42,560 Speaker 1: How does that intimacy bond build up, or at least 68 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: on the part of one of them. It is kind 69 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:48,960 Speaker 1: of delusional, Nancy, the one person stock in person, the 70 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 1: one on the internet. It begins to imagine that there's 71 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:58,279 Speaker 1: more to the relationship than is actually happening. So suppose 72 00:04:58,400 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: you and I close friends, right, and we're talking to 73 00:05:02,160 --> 00:05:04,640 Speaker 1: each other, and then all of a sudden, I decide 74 00:05:04,720 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: that I'm your best friend. You could do without me. 75 00:05:08,080 --> 00:05:10,560 Speaker 1: I've got to be with you all the time. And 76 00:05:11,200 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 1: it's a real attempt to control and be dependent on 77 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:18,360 Speaker 1: the other person. Well, we're hearing Isabel Vinca describe how 78 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: they meet the chat room, and he identifies this podcaster 79 00:05:22,880 --> 00:05:28,680 Speaker 1: and he becomes obsessed with her. With every case, when 80 00:05:28,680 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: you're trying to establish what happened you first look at 81 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:37,160 Speaker 1: your victim. Who is your victim? Is your victim a prostitute? 82 00:05:37,520 --> 00:05:39,839 Speaker 1: Is that how she met the killer? Is your victim? 83 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:45,039 Speaker 1: An addict? Is the killer? Her supplier is your victim? 84 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: A dope dealer? Is she supplying dope? Is your victim 85 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:52,359 Speaker 1: involved in any nefarious activity? You look at that first, 86 00:05:52,440 --> 00:05:57,800 Speaker 1: and believe me, this woman was examined every which way. 87 00:05:58,160 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: Take a listen to our friend Dave matt a crime 88 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 1: online dot com. Zora Sadeggi and her husband Mohammed Nasai, 89 00:06:05,760 --> 00:06:08,720 Speaker 1: we're active on social media. They posted about their love 90 00:06:08,760 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 1: of science fiction. They posted about progressive politics and human 91 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:15,160 Speaker 1: rights in Iran. They posted about their love of technology. 92 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:19,720 Speaker 1: Both Sadeggi and Nasare were software engineers. Nasri blogged about 93 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,680 Speaker 1: his efforts to get a job at Google in twenty seventeen. 94 00:06:22,880 --> 00:06:25,359 Speaker 1: He did, and he worked there for five years before 95 00:06:25,440 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: going to Amazon. Sadegi worked at Promontory Mortgage path until 96 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: it closed doors late last year. While Sadegi has been 97 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 1: looking for a new job, she was also a podcaster 98 00:06:34,800 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: of sorts, curating a chat room on the app Clubhouse 99 00:06:38,120 --> 00:06:41,640 Speaker 1: for Farsi speaking individuals who like Sadegi. We're trying to 100 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:44,200 Speaker 1: find jobs in the tech world. To say the couple 101 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: was successful would be accurate. Married since twenty eleven, they 102 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: bought a one point six million dollar home in Redmond, Washington, 103 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 1: famous for being the site of Microsoft's headquarters. You know 104 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 1: when it's come like that, Isabel Vincent joining us from 105 00:06:56,839 --> 00:07:00,200 Speaker 1: the New York Post. They sound like a perfect cup. Well, 106 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 1: I mean, I know, believe me, I know Isabel from 107 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:08,080 Speaker 1: trying so many homicides. When you look at people on 108 00:07:08,160 --> 00:07:12,760 Speaker 1: the outside, it looks like a Hallmark movie, but it's 109 00:07:12,800 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: not always that way. I mean, look at her. She 110 00:07:15,680 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: looks like a model, the beautiful brown eyes, the perfect brows, 111 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: her hair's back and as my daughter calls it, a 112 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: messy bun, perfect teeth. I mean, she's gorgeous. The husband 113 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:34,960 Speaker 1: also handsome, and these beautiful futures in front of them. 114 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,960 Speaker 1: You know who it's reminding me of Isabel. It's reminding 115 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:41,680 Speaker 1: me of Scott Peterson, because I said at the trial 116 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:47,600 Speaker 1: every day and many people Isabel, not me, but many 117 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:51,160 Speaker 1: people thought Scott Peterson is so handsome. He's got a 118 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: college degree, he's got this beautiful, perfect smile, he's a 119 00:07:56,200 --> 00:08:01,880 Speaker 1: golf phenom. He's got this beautiful wife home. Okay, I'll 120 00:08:01,880 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 1: admit I looked in the windows of the home. It 121 00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:11,360 Speaker 1: looked like a dollhouse, Isabelle. It was beautifully decorated, Lacy 122 00:08:11,440 --> 00:08:14,880 Speaker 1: Peter Peterson had done this beautiful job on it. They're 123 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:20,080 Speaker 1: expecting their first child, a baby boy, loving and laws 124 00:08:20,160 --> 00:08:23,960 Speaker 1: and parents. I mean, it was perfect, right, and then 125 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,680 Speaker 1: pop sat the picture of Amber Fry, who I've spoken 126 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:32,559 Speaker 1: to many times, A lovely young woman, beautiful mistress. She 127 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: had no idea he was married. So what I'm saying 128 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:39,600 Speaker 1: is they look great, and they had this awesome up 129 00:08:39,640 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: and coming career happening to them, and at one point 130 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: six million dollar home. I mean, you think what could 131 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:49,920 Speaker 1: go wrong? I Am I missing something, as Sabell. Is 132 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,439 Speaker 1: there something darker, nefarious going on in their lives that 133 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:54,559 Speaker 1: we don't know about? No, I think they were the 134 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:58,640 Speaker 1: successful couple. I mean, looking back at public records, they bought. 135 00:08:58,760 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 1: They bought their home in April of twenty twenty one. 136 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:08,400 Speaker 1: The home's beautiful. It has two fireplaces, it has a bar, 137 00:09:08,640 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: beautiful deck, several bedrooms in a very posh neighborhood. And 138 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 1: they it looks like they have been in the United 139 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:22,120 Speaker 1: States since about twenty and fifteen. That's the earliest letter 140 00:09:22,400 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 1: there Isabelle. I know you're an incredible investigative reporter and 141 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:28,720 Speaker 1: now author, but I need a shrink quickly. Karen Stark, 142 00:09:29,559 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: do you remember I don't know if it's still in 143 00:09:31,720 --> 00:09:34,000 Speaker 1: the air, maybe and rerun somewhere, Jackie. Maybe you were 144 00:09:34,040 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 1: sitting though the Martha Stewart Show, a program that would 145 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,559 Speaker 1: come on in the afternoons. Had to be a really 146 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,000 Speaker 1: long time ago, because I would watch it when I 147 00:09:43,040 --> 00:09:47,959 Speaker 1: was trying cases. And this is why Karen start. She 148 00:09:48,160 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: had some kind of oh was at Turkey Hill or 149 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 1: Turkey Farm or something like that where she had a 150 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:54,599 Speaker 1: Please look it up, I need to remember. Anyway, it 151 00:09:54,760 --> 00:09:58,199 Speaker 1: was beautiful and she's perfect, and she would make all 152 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:02,319 Speaker 1: these you know, special dishes and decorating tips, and I 153 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:06,800 Speaker 1: would be sitting there surrounded by homicide trial files, and 154 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,040 Speaker 1: for thirty minutes, I would just be lost in this world. Okay, 155 00:10:10,480 --> 00:10:13,480 Speaker 1: same thing happens when I go on Zillah. Okay, I 156 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:16,439 Speaker 1: look and all these times I think, wow, that'd be 157 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:18,920 Speaker 1: a great backyard for the twins, or this or that 158 00:10:19,080 --> 00:10:21,120 Speaker 1: I could just see us all gathered around this table 159 00:10:21,280 --> 00:10:24,199 Speaker 1: or that that den looks so great with the huge 160 00:10:24,559 --> 00:10:28,600 Speaker 1: screaming TV. Do you hear Isabel Vincent describing their home? 161 00:10:28,720 --> 00:10:31,880 Speaker 1: I do, yeah, and I'm thinking, wow, that sounds great, 162 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:38,480 Speaker 1: and you know, it's just shattered by this crazy person. 163 00:10:38,760 --> 00:10:41,199 Speaker 1: And I'm staying crazy in the lay sense, not the 164 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:44,439 Speaker 1: legal sense that comes and ruins their life. Did you 165 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,280 Speaker 1: hear what she said? Nothing the fairy, They're just minding 166 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:50,880 Speaker 1: their business. Isabel Vincent actually just scared me because it's like, 167 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:54,760 Speaker 1: no matter what you do right, you can still be 168 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,959 Speaker 1: a victim. People have Oh wait, I think I hear 169 00:10:58,080 --> 00:11:02,000 Speaker 1: someone jumping in its sky to be either doctor Jensen, 170 00:11:02,440 --> 00:11:05,800 Speaker 1: Lee Newbecker, Paul's like or Matthew Mangino. Who is it. 171 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: I'm betting on Mangino. Well, it wasn't mean Nancy, But 172 00:11:09,160 --> 00:11:11,800 Speaker 1: I would like to say that, you know, oftentimes when 173 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:17,200 Speaker 1: we look at victims, we look for a connection somehow, 174 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 1: you know, something that they did that that may have 175 00:11:21,960 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: put them in a situation where they were in peril. 176 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: But it appears in this case that there is nothing 177 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,920 Speaker 1: that these um, this young couple did to put themselves 178 00:11:31,960 --> 00:11:36,480 Speaker 1: in peril. Uh you have I was crazy? I disagree? 179 00:11:36,720 --> 00:11:40,120 Speaker 1: This is Lee Becker Jampan guys with me is Lee 180 00:11:40,360 --> 00:11:45,199 Speaker 1: new Beecker, president of Enigma Forensics. That sounds impressed. I 181 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: can't really tell what that means, but I like Enigma 182 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:52,400 Speaker 1: and I like forensics. He's at Enigma Forensics dot com. Lee, 183 00:11:52,800 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: go ahead, Well, if you're going to be online, once 184 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:59,160 Speaker 1: you put your personal cellphone number out there, you open 185 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 1: yourself to master VELAs called me. Well, just let me 186 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:10,080 Speaker 1: finish here. In the chat rooms, people commonly share things 187 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: you can find. If you have your personal phone number 188 00:12:12,320 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 1: out online, you can quickly locate where someone loves it. 189 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: Nanswer your assistant that I spoke with. I showed her 190 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,040 Speaker 1: a picture of her home. I showed her a limited 191 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:24,720 Speaker 1: amount of how you can be stocked. Well, wait a minute, 192 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:28,839 Speaker 1: who are we talking about? All right? Booker, Okay, per 193 00:12:29,240 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: quit looking Rachel up online? Right there, I was demonstrating 194 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:35,959 Speaker 1: to her that she should get a Burner phone or 195 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,880 Speaker 1: a Google phone number to add a buffer. Hey, question 196 00:12:38,960 --> 00:12:41,959 Speaker 1: to you, Lee new Becker, Lee, You're absolutely right. I 197 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:45,200 Speaker 1: assume you've read Don't Be a Victim by Myself, which 198 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:47,839 Speaker 1: talks about online dating and what you should and should 199 00:12:47,880 --> 00:12:50,599 Speaker 1: not do. The same goes for everybody. So question do 200 00:12:50,679 --> 00:12:53,520 Speaker 1: you and I want you to answer this once and 201 00:12:53,640 --> 00:12:59,120 Speaker 1: for all. Can unadjore as B track through a cell phone? Yes, yes, 202 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:01,360 Speaker 1: A lot of people think it's got to be a landline. 203 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:05,920 Speaker 1: That's absolutely not true. You're absolutely right. You can quickly 204 00:13:06,000 --> 00:13:09,200 Speaker 1: see a Facebook all your friends and family, and people 205 00:13:09,240 --> 00:13:11,880 Speaker 1: can blackmail and extort you. So you really got to 206 00:13:11,880 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 1: be careful with your number. That's how I find people. Yes, 207 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 1: it is. I tend to agree. You know. The reality 208 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:24,560 Speaker 1: is the algorithm that are out there today are always 209 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,080 Speaker 1: looking to connect data points. They take a phone number 210 00:13:27,120 --> 00:13:29,160 Speaker 1: with an address and they put it together. And I 211 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 1: can tell you, in the ten years of directly mitigating 212 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: stalking suspects from killing women that they're threatening to kill 213 00:13:37,520 --> 00:13:41,400 Speaker 1: every single time that suspect had information that the victim 214 00:13:41,480 --> 00:13:44,000 Speaker 1: did not think that they had and as a matter 215 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 1: of fact, swore that they didn't have access to but 216 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:50,680 Speaker 1: they did. Right. That's how journalists track people all the time, 217 00:13:50,760 --> 00:13:53,120 Speaker 1: as looking through the friends, you know, That's how I 218 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,760 Speaker 1: do it, looking through friends and comments on Facebook and 219 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:59,000 Speaker 1: all social media. I mean, people don't think that that's 220 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,719 Speaker 1: you can act actually trace a whole life through that, 221 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 1: and I end up doing that every day. Yeah, so 222 00:14:05,160 --> 00:14:07,559 Speaker 1: you're hearing the voice of the vestigative reporter from the 223 00:14:07,559 --> 00:14:11,000 Speaker 1: New York Post Isabel Vincent, and she's absolutely right. I 224 00:14:11,080 --> 00:14:14,480 Speaker 1: want to get back to who are the victims in 225 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:17,600 Speaker 1: this case? Take another Listen to Dave matt from crime 226 00:14:17,640 --> 00:14:20,640 Speaker 1: online dot Com. Sadegi's chat room on Clubhouse opened her 227 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: life to many new contacts. One of those was Trucker 228 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: Ramine Codor ram Razahi. He began taking part in the 229 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:30,000 Speaker 1: online chat room in late twenty twenty one. The truckers 230 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,560 Speaker 1: started emailing Sadegi and messaging her to talk about the podcast. 231 00:14:34,000 --> 00:14:36,720 Speaker 1: It wasn't long until the new friendship took a bad turn. 232 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: Todor ram Razahi escalated his contact to the point where 233 00:14:40,520 --> 00:14:43,680 Speaker 1: Sadegi became uncomfortable with the content of the messages and 234 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: how often. Once he reportedly called Sadegi over one hundred 235 00:14:47,760 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: times in a single day. Sadegi tried to cut off contact. 236 00:14:51,600 --> 00:14:55,400 Speaker 1: She blocked him on WhatsApp, Telegram, Instagram, and on her 237 00:14:55,480 --> 00:14:59,840 Speaker 1: phone Calls application, but he began to start contacting Nazari. 238 00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: There are also reports that he would show up at 239 00:15:03,200 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 1: the couple's home unannounced with gifts. Sadeggi filed for a 240 00:15:07,000 --> 00:15:10,640 Speaker 1: restraining order. Karen starts psychologists joining us out of Manhattan. Karen, 241 00:15:10,960 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 1: when you, for instance, like she did, blocked him on asta, Facebook, Twitter, 242 00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 1: does that enrage the person or does that help? Well? 243 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:23,720 Speaker 1: And then you want to do it, but it does 244 00:15:23,880 --> 00:15:28,360 Speaker 1: enrage the person because he already is feeling rejected. He 245 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:32,800 Speaker 1: decided that he had a close relationship with her and 246 00:15:33,000 --> 00:15:37,240 Speaker 1: so in their friendship, all of a sudden she's rejecting him. 247 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,720 Speaker 1: And look at this Nancy. He's able to get in 248 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: touch with her husband who is and making an attempt 249 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: to be kind to this guy and explain that she's 250 00:15:47,760 --> 00:15:51,240 Speaker 1: allowed to reject him. But he's turned this into he's 251 00:15:51,280 --> 00:15:54,200 Speaker 1: in love with her and she does not want him? 252 00:15:54,280 --> 00:15:56,600 Speaker 1: And what did he do wrong? Okay, only go to 253 00:15:56,880 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: Isabel Vincent. What is clubhouse? What is that clubhouse? It's 254 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:08,400 Speaker 1: like an online chat room where people get together and exchange, 255 00:16:08,880 --> 00:16:11,680 Speaker 1: you know, all sorts of information. So this is a 256 00:16:11,760 --> 00:16:13,720 Speaker 1: form of a chat room. And can I tell you something. 257 00:16:13,800 --> 00:16:16,360 Speaker 1: I'm all for chat rooms. I was in a chat 258 00:16:16,480 --> 00:16:19,080 Speaker 1: room when I had the twins and I was trying 259 00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: to find out tips for how to feed them, how 260 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,560 Speaker 1: to get them on the same sleeping schedule. It was very, 261 00:16:24,680 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: very helpful and to make some actually lifelong friends in there. 262 00:16:28,040 --> 00:16:34,760 Speaker 1: But it's very Matthew Mangino, former prosecutor and author of 263 00:16:34,800 --> 00:16:39,360 Speaker 1: The Executioner's Toll. Listen to this the crimes, arrest, Trials, Appeals, 264 00:16:39,400 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 1: and Last Meals and final Words of forty six people 265 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: in the US. I read it just because I wanted 266 00:16:45,520 --> 00:16:48,960 Speaker 1: to find out about the last meals that said. I 267 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: didn't listen to the last words, man, Gina, because I neither. 268 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: Probably all lies anyway, like I didn't do it that 269 00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: kind of thing. I mean, Gino, these chat rooms. While 270 00:16:58,040 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: I have been in chat rooms and asleep before, I 271 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: have had so many cases linked back to chat rooms, Jackie. 272 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 1: Can't we even count, just off the top of our heads, 273 00:17:10,119 --> 00:17:13,640 Speaker 1: how many people were identified and stop through chat rooms. 274 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, No, especially young girls. But because those 275 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:19,919 Speaker 1: are the ones we typically cover because they're so easy 276 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:26,240 Speaker 1: to victimize. But Matthew, chat rooms they're like the devil spawn. Well, right, 277 00:17:26,280 --> 00:17:29,240 Speaker 1: I mean, there's there's no question that there are predators 278 00:17:29,480 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: in chats, people who are trying to uh, you know, 279 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:37,399 Speaker 1: make some connection with people because they have some uh 280 00:17:37,680 --> 00:17:41,680 Speaker 1: you know, criminal intent they have some idea that they 281 00:17:41,920 --> 00:17:45,320 Speaker 1: that they want to take advantage of, whether it's young 282 00:17:45,440 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 1: people or vulnerable people or just generally people who are 283 00:17:48,359 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: on the internet. But but you know, the thing that 284 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:54,719 Speaker 1: concerns me is, certainly you need to be careful. But um, 285 00:17:55,040 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 1: you know, just because someone has a digital footprint, just 286 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:01,960 Speaker 1: because somebody has their name out there and is in 287 00:18:02,080 --> 00:18:07,880 Speaker 1: a chat room, you know, overseeing some conversation or has 288 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:13,040 Speaker 1: a podcast in which they express certain views, doesn't mean 289 00:18:13,119 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: that that person necessarily, you know, should be fearful that 290 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:21,399 Speaker 1: they're going that there's some predator out there who's going 291 00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,159 Speaker 1: to come after them, or that they shouldn't have that 292 00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:29,399 Speaker 1: digital footprint, they shouldn't be involved on the internet because 293 00:18:29,720 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: they could become a VIC. But you know what, you 294 00:18:31,880 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 1: know what, Matthew Mangino, you are reminding me of something 295 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:37,879 Speaker 1: my husband does, and now my son's doing it. I 296 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,640 Speaker 1: immediately called him on it. For instance, I'll say, could 297 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:45,040 Speaker 1: you speed up? You're joving like a grandma. Okay, you're 298 00:18:45,080 --> 00:18:47,280 Speaker 1: going nineteen miles an hour. I can see that on 299 00:18:47,400 --> 00:18:49,920 Speaker 1: my ways. Speed up And he goes, well, do you 300 00:18:50,000 --> 00:18:51,920 Speaker 1: want me to run those people down in the crosswalk? 301 00:18:52,680 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 1: Isn't there a happy medium? Can you go faster than 302 00:18:55,400 --> 00:18:57,880 Speaker 1: nineteen miles an hour and not run over the people 303 00:18:57,880 --> 00:19:01,280 Speaker 1: on this side and this crosswalk? So Paul Zy with 304 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:07,360 Speaker 1: me former police commander Albuquerque star of their domestic violences 305 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:12,080 Speaker 1: stalking unit and order of stop him from killing them? 306 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:15,399 Speaker 1: You can find them at stop Him from Killing Them 307 00:19:15,480 --> 00:19:18,119 Speaker 1: dot Com. Paul Zike, there's got to be a happy 308 00:19:18,240 --> 00:19:21,280 Speaker 1: medium when you're in a chat ring, you know there 309 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,600 Speaker 1: there is. And the thing I have to disagree with 310 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:28,159 Speaker 1: Matthew is that you know, you have to realize what 311 00:19:28,440 --> 00:19:32,320 Speaker 1: society is and who's out there. Yeah, I heard him 312 00:19:32,359 --> 00:19:34,600 Speaker 1: say that, Paul Zie, you shouldn't be afraid of everybody 313 00:19:34,640 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 1: to chat ram. Why not go ahead? I'm telling you 314 00:19:37,800 --> 00:19:40,679 Speaker 1: right now that you know what's happened with the Internet 315 00:19:40,720 --> 00:19:43,360 Speaker 1: and social media and you name it is connected everyone 316 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:47,000 Speaker 1: to everyone, and not everyone is of sound mind, not 317 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 1: everyone you know, has even common sense. And in this case, 318 00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: the obsession, the unbelievable, relenting obsession in some of the 319 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:02,080 Speaker 1: statements that were made directly to the husband were extreme 320 00:20:02,160 --> 00:20:04,800 Speaker 1: red flags and you got to be ready for that 321 00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:19,680 Speaker 1: if you're going to put yourself out there. Time stories 322 00:20:19,720 --> 00:20:25,040 Speaker 1: with Nancy Grace. I want to go to Lee Newbecker, 323 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:29,680 Speaker 1: President Enigma Forensics. Lee, as all of my co workers, 324 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: friends and family know, the after one phone call. On 325 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:35,480 Speaker 1: the second call, I'm like, what did you not tell 326 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 1: me the first time? What? Don't look at me like that, Jackie, 327 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,520 Speaker 1: Because by the second phone call, I'm like what because 328 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:44,919 Speaker 1: I assume there's but this woman's getting hundreds and hundreds 329 00:20:45,359 --> 00:20:51,080 Speaker 1: a brage of calls and emails and texts every day. Amazing. 330 00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:53,720 Speaker 1: Now I was looking for a little more from you, 331 00:20:53,960 --> 00:20:56,840 Speaker 1: like how to not let that happen? Yeah, well, certainly, 332 00:20:57,160 --> 00:21:00,480 Speaker 1: Like like I recommended all your staff they should be 333 00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 1: using buffer phone numbers when they're calling your prospective guests 334 00:21:05,080 --> 00:21:06,879 Speaker 1: on the phone. Because oh, and you know what, I'm 335 00:21:06,920 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 1: glad you said that buffer phone. There's actually an app 336 00:21:09,480 --> 00:21:12,520 Speaker 1: is they're not leaning Backer, where you can keep your 337 00:21:12,560 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 1: same phone. You don't have to run out and get 338 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:17,639 Speaker 1: a burner phone, but you can have another phone number 339 00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: on your phone and use that for people you don't 340 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:25,440 Speaker 1: want to have your phone number and your regular phone 341 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,400 Speaker 1: number for everybody else. Isn't that true? Yeah? Yeah, there's 342 00:21:28,400 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 1: an app called Burner that's available on both the iPhone 343 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:35,280 Speaker 1: and the Android phone platform. That's the name of the 344 00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:39,080 Speaker 1: app Burner, and it's a subscription of a year. But 345 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:42,480 Speaker 1: I'm sure you'll want to pay for that twenty dollars 346 00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,520 Speaker 1: or so for the app for your steps, just to 347 00:21:44,640 --> 00:21:47,080 Speaker 1: protect them because that number, when you look it up 348 00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:50,600 Speaker 1: the Burner numbers, I can't find anything off the Burner phone. 349 00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,600 Speaker 1: But once you use your real cell phone, then people 350 00:21:53,760 --> 00:21:56,239 Speaker 1: can servail you. And you don't want people knowing who 351 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: your kids are. And I mean, Nancy, you're a high 352 00:22:00,000 --> 00:22:02,480 Speaker 1: a file person. If someone wants to stop you, they're 353 00:22:02,480 --> 00:22:05,080 Speaker 1: going to stop your family. You know, your family has 354 00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:09,840 Speaker 1: to be careful too with their online footprint using pseudo 355 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 1: names for Facebook. You know, if you're going to use 356 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,639 Speaker 1: your real cell phone number on Facebook, just know that 357 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:18,679 Speaker 1: if anyone gets a number, they can quickly they can 358 00:22:18,760 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 1: see more data about you because Facebook assumes that they're 359 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:25,160 Speaker 1: trusted if they have your phone number in their contact let. Yeah, 360 00:22:25,200 --> 00:22:28,000 Speaker 1: and that's what Isabel Vincent was just telling us. Author 361 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,399 Speaker 1: an investigative reporter in New York Posts that's actually finds 362 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:32,639 Speaker 1: people when they don't want to be found. How she 363 00:22:32,760 --> 00:22:36,320 Speaker 1: finds out about them. Doctor Jeffrey Jenson and joining me. 364 00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,760 Speaker 1: Professor Forensic Pathology, Director of Autopsy and Forensic Services, University 365 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 1: of Michigan Medical School and medical former medical examiner, Milwaukee County, Wisconsin. 366 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,720 Speaker 1: Doctor jess Let's bring it all home. We're talking about 367 00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:52,080 Speaker 1: meeting people in chat rooms and hiding your phone numbers. 368 00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:56,359 Speaker 1: How did these two victims die? Well, it sounds like 369 00:22:56,520 --> 00:23:03,280 Speaker 1: it was a gunshot. Wounds that were that were inflicted. 370 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:09,480 Speaker 1: Even it sounds like the the the husband was seen 371 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:12,680 Speaker 1: in front of the house. And I guess my question 372 00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,480 Speaker 1: is is where is law enforcement during this period of 373 00:23:15,520 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: time where this poor woman's being stalked? I can answer that, 374 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:23,960 Speaker 1: Doctor Jeffrey Jenson. Romaming to circle back to Jensen on 375 00:23:24,040 --> 00:23:27,359 Speaker 1: the cod cause of death and what they endured. Let's 376 00:23:27,400 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 1: answer doctor Jeffrey Jensen's very astute question. Take a listen 377 00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:38,560 Speaker 1: now to Kanya Whitworth, GMA. Police say that Romine could 378 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:42,639 Speaker 1: a ram Razahi met Zori Sadegi under false pretenses on 379 00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:47,320 Speaker 1: the popular streaming for him Clubhouse. Sadegi initially befriending the 380 00:23:47,440 --> 00:23:50,120 Speaker 1: suspect thinking he was looking for a tech job, even 381 00:23:50,280 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: meeting him in person, but eventually he became fixated. His 382 00:23:54,520 --> 00:23:59,200 Speaker 1: actions and activity escalated such that the victim became concerned 383 00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:03,000 Speaker 1: for her safety numerous times throughout twenty twenty two. By 384 00:24:03,080 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: December she reported him to police, and earlier this month 385 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: she applied for a protection order. Oh my goodness, thanking 386 00:24:10,640 --> 00:24:14,840 Speaker 1: she was helping him pursue a tech job. They mate 387 00:24:14,960 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 1: in this chat ram on Clubhouse. She actually met him 388 00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:23,160 Speaker 1: for lunch to launch her coffee to talk to him 389 00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 1: at his request about finding a job in the tech world. 390 00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 1: Now take a listen to our friends at k I 391 00:24:31,400 --> 00:24:34,359 Speaker 1: R seven. The suspect had been stalking Zoe Rae for 392 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:37,720 Speaker 1: more than a year, so as I understand it. In 393 00:24:37,880 --> 00:24:40,879 Speaker 1: one of the reports, she reported over one hundred contacts 394 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:44,000 Speaker 1: in a single day. Zoe Ray is a software engineer 395 00:24:44,080 --> 00:24:46,879 Speaker 1: who ran a live podcast style chat account on the 396 00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,399 Speaker 1: platform Clubhouse. Police say that's where the suspect, who is 397 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:53,800 Speaker 1: from Texas, met her and developed into a stalking situation 398 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: that rapidly escalated. The couple got a protection order against 399 00:24:57,600 --> 00:25:01,119 Speaker 1: the suspect, thirty eight year old Ramine To karam Rosari. 400 00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 1: Court documents show pages and pages of instances of the 401 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:08,160 Speaker 1: suspect contacting Zore and her family and friends, even coming 402 00:25:08,200 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 1: to their home there were instances where the individual did 403 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,920 Speaker 1: show up at the location previously bearing gifts. How far 404 00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:20,199 Speaker 1: did he have to travel to Isabel Vincent INVSTI get 405 00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,959 Speaker 1: a reporter New York Post and author How far did 406 00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 1: he have to travel to get to her? Well, he 407 00:25:25,200 --> 00:25:32,960 Speaker 1: was living in Houston and so so quite far. And 408 00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:35,639 Speaker 1: one of the things that hasn't been mentioned is that 409 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: that order of protection was not served on him because 410 00:25:39,640 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 1: the police said that, well, he's a trumper. It's hard 411 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:45,600 Speaker 1: to pin him down. So that was one of the 412 00:25:46,400 --> 00:25:49,840 Speaker 1: problems in this case. And when you are you get 413 00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:55,439 Speaker 1: a protective order PO TPO in one state. Here they 414 00:25:55,560 --> 00:26:01,639 Speaker 1: are in Redmond and he is in Texas. You have 415 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:06,400 Speaker 1: to get cooperation of Texas authorities or wherever the suspect 416 00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:09,720 Speaker 1: is living. And for them, unless they know any better, 417 00:26:09,760 --> 00:26:12,800 Speaker 1: it's not a priority Lee and it's total be us. 418 00:26:13,320 --> 00:26:16,119 Speaker 1: They can't find a trucker, they all have all come trackers. 419 00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: All law enforcement he has to do is go to 420 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 1: their employer and seeing where the imperiod exactly. It's just 421 00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:25,800 Speaker 1: that simple. But from state to state, for instance, a 422 00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: Redman needed to communicate to Houston how important this was, 423 00:26:30,040 --> 00:26:33,679 Speaker 1: and then they needed help because hey, look, cobs are 424 00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,720 Speaker 1: trying to track down murderers and rapists and child moles 425 00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:39,919 Speaker 1: molesters and armed robberies, and they get to notice, how 426 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:43,000 Speaker 1: here's a TPO find the guy and serve him. That's 427 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,840 Speaker 1: like way out on the list, who's jumping in go ahead? 428 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,840 Speaker 1: One thing? Also his background, I mean I get a 429 00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:57,119 Speaker 1: quick background track to him and his former way a 430 00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:02,920 Speaker 1: woman named Neda misbahi Um. She stued him for divorce 431 00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:07,000 Speaker 1: in January twenty eighteen. There were children in I wonder why, 432 00:27:07,320 --> 00:27:12,080 Speaker 1: and there were allegations of domestic abuse. So here's like 433 00:27:12,200 --> 00:27:15,640 Speaker 1: a profile that you know, maybe the police didn't take seriously. 434 00:27:15,720 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. Hey, Karen Starr, you know who this 435 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 1: is reminding me of. I know you're going to remember 436 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:26,240 Speaker 1: this woman Lisa no Act, the astronaut, the female astronaut. 437 00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 1: So she has an affair with her love object who 438 00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: actually had later gets a girlfriend. She travels all the 439 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 1: way across the country wearing adult diapers so she doesn't 440 00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,719 Speaker 1: have to slow down. Her name is foreverlink with adult diapers, 441 00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:49,120 Speaker 1: so she can't attack the girlfriend like her love I'm 442 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 1: just gonna go, oh, well she's dead now I'll be 443 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,120 Speaker 1: with you it didn't work out that way at all. 444 00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:57,320 Speaker 1: But someone so obsessed they're willing to drive thousands of 445 00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:00,640 Speaker 1: miles to get to you. Go hey, Karen start Well, 446 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:04,000 Speaker 1: it's not logical, manthing, because they're not thinking sanely the 447 00:28:04,119 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 1: way that they would be. They're actually believing that there's 448 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 1: more happening, that there's more closeness and intimacy than actually exists. 449 00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:17,840 Speaker 1: And unfortunately in this case, no one took it seriously enough. 450 00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:21,000 Speaker 1: Well wait a minute, they did go to court to 451 00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:25,120 Speaker 1: get that protection order, and that takes them doing Yet 452 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: then it wasn't delivered. Guys. Listen to dd Son, the 453 00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:34,040 Speaker 1: victim shares her fears, saying messages to me have been 454 00:28:34,080 --> 00:28:36,919 Speaker 1: the cause of anxiety and insomnia for me. They include 455 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:39,160 Speaker 1: him crying and begging for me to pick up him, 456 00:28:39,240 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 1: threatening to burn himself, and the tree in front of 457 00:28:41,520 --> 00:28:44,920 Speaker 1: my house. She also says, mister Koto Karamasari has bursts 458 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 1: of anger and is completely delusional. These illusions make me 459 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:50,520 Speaker 1: fear for my life and the lives of my loved ones, 460 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:54,400 Speaker 1: and there's more. Listen to Gma the order, detailing a 461 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:59,560 Speaker 1: pattern of disturbing behavior, including calling Sadegi a hundred times 462 00:28:59,640 --> 00:29:02,360 Speaker 1: in a single day, crying and begging to speak to her, 463 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,520 Speaker 1: showing up unannounced at a convention she attended in Colorado, 464 00:29:06,760 --> 00:29:10,200 Speaker 1: even threatening to burn himself and the tree in front 465 00:29:10,240 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: of Sadegi's house. The software developer calling the alleged stoker delusional, 466 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,360 Speaker 1: writing he won't let me go, and the only thing 467 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:19,560 Speaker 1: that will make all of this stop is if he 468 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:24,400 Speaker 1: killed himself or died. Now on our friend, Frank Thompson 469 00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:31,880 Speaker 1: describes voicemails left, even hiring a jazz band to play 470 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:37,880 Speaker 1: outside the victims home. Listen. The petition for a protection 471 00:29:38,040 --> 00:29:41,400 Speaker 1: order filed on March third, says Romine would leave the 472 00:29:41,520 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: woman voicemails more than ten times a week, sending gifts 473 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,920 Speaker 1: and flowers to her home, even saying he hired a 474 00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,360 Speaker 1: jazz band to play outside her house for two hours 475 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 1: but then called it off. The documents said the suspect 476 00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 1: would also leave her husband twenty messages a day. He 477 00:29:56,320 --> 00:29:59,840 Speaker 1: even found her friend's addresses and phone numbers without their permission. 478 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,000 Speaker 1: You know what, everybody on this panel is correct. This 479 00:30:03,280 --> 00:30:07,040 Speaker 1: was of the highest priority, but according to authorities, they 480 00:30:07,080 --> 00:30:10,360 Speaker 1: couldn't quote pin him down. Take a listen to Fox 481 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:13,600 Speaker 1: thirteen Chief Low says, it was challenging serving the order 482 00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 1: to Romine because he was a long haul truck driver, 483 00:30:16,520 --> 00:30:19,840 Speaker 1: always traveling the country for work. It was difficult to 484 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,600 Speaker 1: i'll say, pin him down to a location. It wasn't 485 00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:24,960 Speaker 1: as though he was local and we had a local 486 00:30:25,000 --> 00:30:28,400 Speaker 1: address to where we could either do surveillance or find him, 487 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:30,560 Speaker 1: serve the protective order, et cetera. He was in a 488 00:30:30,640 --> 00:30:34,120 Speaker 1: different state, traveled across the country as part of his employment, 489 00:30:34,160 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: so that was the biggest challenge. Prime Stories with Nancy 490 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: Grace chief Low says, it was challenging serving the order 491 00:30:59,880 --> 00:31:01,800 Speaker 1: to who I mean, because he was a long haul 492 00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:05,280 Speaker 1: truck driver, always traveling the country for work. It was 493 00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:08,280 Speaker 1: difficult to i'll say, paying him down to a location. 494 00:31:08,400 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 1: It wasn't as though he was local and we had 495 00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:13,960 Speaker 1: a local address to where we could either do surveillance 496 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:16,840 Speaker 1: or find him, serve the etc. He was in a 497 00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 1: different state, traveled across the country as part of his employment, 498 00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: so that was the biggest challenge. I believe our someone 499 00:31:24,040 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: say bass which I agree, was that, Yeah, this is 500 00:31:27,000 --> 00:31:30,760 Speaker 1: Lee Newt from Forensics and I want to comment on something. 501 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,760 Speaker 1: We live in one of the most surveiled environments better. 502 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,480 Speaker 1: You boot your laptop to take the picture of your face. 503 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: It does better facial recognition. There's the ability out there, 504 00:31:41,880 --> 00:31:44,120 Speaker 1: the n and stay could find it. Why aren't we 505 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,720 Speaker 1: using the means here? If we're going to be surveiled, 506 00:31:47,080 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: let's at least stop the crying. Is this Paul or Matthew? 507 00:31:50,480 --> 00:31:52,720 Speaker 1: It's Faul, go ahead. So this is why I wrote 508 00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:56,600 Speaker 1: the book. You know, law enforcement is reactionary at its 509 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,040 Speaker 1: very core. You call, we come, we fixed, we leave. 510 00:31:59,720 --> 00:32:05,360 Speaker 1: The reality is stalking offenders. They fit into a category 511 00:32:05,720 --> 00:32:10,600 Speaker 1: of very violent individuals that we don't understand. One this 512 00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:15,400 Speaker 1: happened over a full year. Two it started consensually. Three 513 00:32:15,880 --> 00:32:20,080 Speaker 1: it started to ratchet into an area of obsession, focused 514 00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,320 Speaker 1: aggression and threats to kill. Now, you threatened to kill 515 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,600 Speaker 1: himself first, and so that's the only way it would stop. 516 00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:29,280 Speaker 1: When you start hearing threats to kill. And it's in 517 00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,440 Speaker 1: and around stalking cases. There's been many studies that say 518 00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: ninety percent of the time when a woman is murdered, 519 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: it's the man who's stalking her. And I wrote the 520 00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:42,520 Speaker 1: book to help cops, prosecutors, judges and everyone understand these 521 00:32:42,600 --> 00:32:45,520 Speaker 1: people mean what they say. Doctor Jeffrey Jenson with me 522 00:32:47,200 --> 00:32:53,120 Speaker 1: autopsy and forensic expert, Doctor Jensen, I know that you 523 00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:59,320 Speaker 1: have conducted many, many thousands of autopsies, and typically homicide 524 00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:07,080 Speaker 1: victims are women, minorities, and children. Many of the women, 525 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: I would say, the vast majority of women are killed 526 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 1: by someone already in their lives. It's not like an 527 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:18,600 Speaker 1: attack or ambushes them on the sidewalk. Yes, that does happen. 528 00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 1: The typical domestic killing is the person close to the individual. 529 00:33:26,120 --> 00:33:30,200 Speaker 1: Many times there's um what I would describe as overkill, 530 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: some demonstration of you know, facial and head trauma that 531 00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,680 Speaker 1: the individuals are actually trying to trying to destroy the image. 532 00:33:40,320 --> 00:33:43,920 Speaker 1: I guess that being said, what kind and with all 533 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:49,040 Speaker 1: the threats, what kind of of actions did this family 534 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:53,360 Speaker 1: take to protect themselves? Well, another great question by doctor 535 00:33:53,440 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: Jeffrey Jensen. Take listen, I are cut ten. The police 536 00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:59,080 Speaker 1: chief says they were trying to track down the suspect 537 00:33:59,320 --> 00:34:02,560 Speaker 1: to serve ast warrant and that protection order. Today, this 538 00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,560 Speaker 1: vehicle was towed from the neighborhood. Police believe it's what 539 00:34:05,640 --> 00:34:09,560 Speaker 1: the suspect was driving. Last this is the absolute worst outcome. 540 00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:12,520 Speaker 1: The suspect was a trucker, and police say that made 541 00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:15,880 Speaker 1: it difficult to pinpoint his location. The chief says the 542 00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,880 Speaker 1: detectives had been working with the couple to tighten security 543 00:34:18,920 --> 00:34:21,840 Speaker 1: at this home, like doing things like adding cameras, and 544 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,840 Speaker 1: say that they did everything right, trying to protect themselves 545 00:34:25,040 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: and more from Cairo. Listen, that suspect, we are told, 546 00:34:28,360 --> 00:34:31,040 Speaker 1: broken to the couple's home through a bedroom window. You 547 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:33,240 Speaker 1: can see this is still a very active scene crime 548 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:35,480 Speaker 1: scene tape as well as police still here. That is 549 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,680 Speaker 1: the home we were talking about. I'm told the victim's 550 00:34:37,719 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 1: mom managed to escape to a neighbor's house to call 551 00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:42,640 Speaker 1: nine one one, but police believe the couple was shot 552 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:47,440 Speaker 1: by that suspect. This is victim every detective, every police 553 00:34:47,520 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: chief's worst nightmare. The murder victims are Redman residents, thirty 554 00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:54,319 Speaker 1: three year old Zobra Sadeghi and her husband, thirty five 555 00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:58,680 Speaker 1: year old Mohammed Mulada Nasari. It's shocking. It just seems unrea, 556 00:34:58,840 --> 00:35:02,000 Speaker 1: that's something like this good happening in our neighbor. Matthew 557 00:35:02,040 --> 00:35:07,320 Speaker 1: Mangino with me for more. Felony prosecutor now author, Matthew Mangino. 558 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:12,719 Speaker 1: It seems to me the couple did everything right. Well, 559 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:14,640 Speaker 1: they did what they needed to do, and that was 560 00:35:14,760 --> 00:35:19,000 Speaker 1: to seek a protective order. But you know, Nancy, there's 561 00:35:19,040 --> 00:35:23,080 Speaker 1: nothing magical about a protective order. You know, certainly it 562 00:35:23,239 --> 00:35:28,160 Speaker 1: gives the authorities some leverage if this suspect would come 563 00:35:28,200 --> 00:35:31,320 Speaker 1: around their home. But if you're if you're a crazed, 564 00:35:31,440 --> 00:35:36,920 Speaker 1: obsessed individual, you're going to defy that protective order, whether 565 00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:39,960 Speaker 1: you know it's there or you don't. And I'm really 566 00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:43,759 Speaker 1: concerned that was there enough done in terms of law 567 00:35:43,920 --> 00:35:49,399 Speaker 1: enforcement getting an arrest warrant, getting that warned out where 568 00:35:49,960 --> 00:35:53,720 Speaker 1: authorities in other states, whether it's Texas where he resided, 569 00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,760 Speaker 1: or other places, are looking for him as someone who's 570 00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:02,600 Speaker 1: been charged with the crime. Active orders a civil order, 571 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:06,560 Speaker 1: certainly it's a great concern, but it doesn't have the 572 00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:10,600 Speaker 1: same effect necessarily on law enforcement as an active warrant 573 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:14,000 Speaker 1: for somebody's arrest. Well, I'm curious why he wasn't charged 574 00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:19,440 Speaker 1: with stalking, the felony of stalking. Isabel Vincent joining me 575 00:36:19,600 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 1: from the New York Post and you can read her book, 576 00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:28,200 Speaker 1: Overture of Hope. Isabel. I'm curious why he wasn't charged 577 00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,560 Speaker 1: with the felony of stalking with a grand jury. That 578 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:35,200 Speaker 1: takes about literally five minutes, and then there would have 579 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 1: been a warrant for his arrest. And we know what 580 00:36:37,640 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 1: vehicle is driving. You know, I can't answer that, but 581 00:36:40,600 --> 00:36:42,680 Speaker 1: you know, if you read her, you know, if you 582 00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:45,120 Speaker 1: read some of the things today he said. And again 583 00:36:45,200 --> 00:36:49,160 Speaker 1: I stress that she's much more of a vulnerable victim 584 00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:53,239 Speaker 1: here because she's recovering from back surgery. She can barely move. 585 00:36:53,719 --> 00:36:56,200 Speaker 1: And she says at one point, I haven't been able 586 00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:58,919 Speaker 1: to open the curtains in my bedroom out of fear 587 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:02,120 Speaker 1: of him being side watching me. I mean, how much 588 00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:04,840 Speaker 1: more do you need than not, um, you know, for 589 00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:09,080 Speaker 1: the for the police to take more action. We should 590 00:37:09,120 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 1: have been paying that phone, Nancy, and knowing where he 591 00:37:12,400 --> 00:37:15,800 Speaker 1: is from the pings on his cell phone. In addition 592 00:37:15,880 --> 00:37:19,160 Speaker 1: to that, something you see systemically throughout the nation, we're 593 00:37:19,200 --> 00:37:21,759 Speaker 1: not doing surveillance like we need to be. If you're 594 00:37:21,840 --> 00:37:23,839 Speaker 1: not in front of that house, is that red truck 595 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:26,319 Speaker 1: pulls up to do what he's going to do, You're 596 00:37:26,440 --> 00:37:30,839 Speaker 1: you're out of the game. And surveillance on the home 597 00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: would certainly have had the best opportunity to stop this individual, 598 00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:37,560 Speaker 1: and the ping would give you an idea when he 599 00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:39,960 Speaker 1: was starting to close distance, we didn't do it. You know, 600 00:37:40,160 --> 00:37:45,240 Speaker 1: I read that quote he threatened to end her marriage, 601 00:37:45,719 --> 00:37:49,960 Speaker 1: isabel Vincent. I assume that is to suspect threatened to 602 00:37:50,200 --> 00:37:55,680 Speaker 1: end the victim's marriage. Yes, and he actually he said 603 00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 1: to her, you know, I'm you know, i am My 604 00:37:58,480 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: other marriage ended because of domestic abuse. I'm a violent person, 605 00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:06,440 Speaker 1: like he told her all of these things. U And 606 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:11,640 Speaker 1: you know again, where was the where was the alarm 607 00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,319 Speaker 1: on the part of the authorities. And maybe one one 608 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,640 Speaker 1: of the other things they could have done is hired 609 00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,239 Speaker 1: private security. I don't know, I'm just putting it out there, 610 00:38:20,440 --> 00:38:25,600 Speaker 1: Doctor Jeffrey Jenson. What did these victims experience as they died. 611 00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:34,440 Speaker 1: You've heard Isabelle describing uh, the female victim, Zori's back surgery, 612 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 1: she could totally even move when she was murdered. Well, 613 00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,880 Speaker 1: I would imagine there was just a feeling of total 614 00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:47,520 Speaker 1: um surrender, panic and just a impending horror of their 615 00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:53,680 Speaker 1: impending deaths and um, you know, without personal protection or 616 00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:57,560 Speaker 1: some other knowledge that there was help on the way, 617 00:38:58,680 --> 00:39:03,880 Speaker 1: they would have just had a total feeling of loss 618 00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:07,759 Speaker 1: and the inability to protect themselves. The thought that this 619 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:14,040 Speaker 1: could have been stopped if a formal stalking felony had 620 00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:16,600 Speaker 1: been lodged against him, and then he would have been 621 00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:21,439 Speaker 1: out on a warrant, not a TPO temporary protective order 622 00:39:22,520 --> 00:39:25,480 Speaker 1: could have, would have should have. There's nothing we can 623 00:39:25,560 --> 00:39:30,279 Speaker 1: do now. The victims are dead. He's dead, took his 624 00:39:30,400 --> 00:39:34,000 Speaker 1: own life, so there will be no justice. All we 625 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:38,360 Speaker 1: can do is think about how we can protect other 626 00:39:38,920 --> 00:39:44,399 Speaker 1: people from this happening to them. Nancy Grace Kind story 627 00:39:44,440 --> 00:39:46,160 Speaker 1: signing off Goodbye, f