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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl?

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Speaker 3: Lex P and his Sugarl Dre and the call and

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Speaker 3: you are tuned in to another episode of poor.

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Speaker 2: Mind, where a drunk mind speaks sober thoughts. What's up, girl?

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Speaker 2: What's up? Growl?

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Speaker 3: I literally rolled out of bed. Do you remember these outfits?

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Speaker 2: No? You don't remember these? Somewhere from prime time?

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Speaker 3: This is Our had one of those. Yes, I remember,

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Speaker 3: we had the great short sematch. I just, oh, I mean,

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Speaker 3: maybe maybe I just had a morning this morning.

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Speaker 2: I just I've been going through it. Wow, what's wrong?

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Speaker 3: Well, first of all, I had a lot going on

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Speaker 3: this weekend. Rapper Bay came to see me. We had fun.

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Speaker 3: We had a good weekend. And then Saturday, bitch me

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Speaker 3: and you went out. Yeah, and I just got really

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Speaker 3: really fucked up. You did, but you was you was

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Speaker 3: you know, getting lip fast. Yeah, you was doing it fast.

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Speaker 2: You know. I'm a little sea. I'm a little more

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Speaker 2: season then you.

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Speaker 3: I feel like when it comes to drinking tequila, so,

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Speaker 3: and that's what we was drinking, because you're more of

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Speaker 3: like a vodka girl you be drinking. I'm a little

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Speaker 3: more season when it comes to drinking tequila. So I

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Speaker 3: know you gotta you know, you gotta start slow. You

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Speaker 3: gonna start slow because it's gonna catch up on you.

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Speaker 2: Y'all. Lex was like, every ten minutes, come on.

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Speaker 4: Let's take another shot.

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Speaker 2: Come on, drink, let's take another shot. I don't drink,

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Speaker 2: get more shots.

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Speaker 3: And every time she brought me a shot, I was

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Speaker 3: just thinking in my heall okay, And you see I

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Speaker 3: was sipping mind.

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Speaker 2: Slow because y'all already know.

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Speaker 1: I knew it was time.

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Speaker 3: For me to go because we were bowling. So I

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Speaker 3: knew it was time for me to go. When I

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Speaker 3: was up there and I started wobbling.

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Speaker 2: You was wilding, bro.

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Speaker 3: So then I called, I called my uber. I go outside.

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Speaker 3: Away from my uber.

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Speaker 2: I just throw all the but and so I'm like,

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Speaker 2: I could tell she like a little lead.

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Speaker 3: So when she was like, oh, I'm about to go,

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Speaker 3: I'm like, okay, I'm gonna just go with you.

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Speaker 2: So I come outside and it's through in the fucking

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Speaker 2: bushie and.

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Speaker 4: On the side. But then it was.

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Speaker 3: But then it was so funny because when I walked outside,

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Speaker 3: she was to play it off. Brobably was. But it

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Speaker 3: was funny because you could tell you had threw up

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Speaker 3: because I think you had like.

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Speaker 2: A little because we had a slice of pizza. It

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Speaker 2: was a little pepperoni on my shind. I was struggling,

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Speaker 2: bro y'all. It so funny.

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Speaker 3: It didn't stop there, y'all. So I get my uber.

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Speaker 3: He keeps trying to talk, you know. He was, yeah,

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Speaker 3: like he was trying to talk, like have conversation. I'm

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Speaker 3: in the back seat dying. I'm like, I have to

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Speaker 3: throw up, like stay up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So at that point, like I had threw up in

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Speaker 3: my mouth and I had to hold it.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's the worst one. You gotta do that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. So I'm just like I had to do that

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Speaker 3: on a flight before I was dying. So then I

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Speaker 3: get to the crib, I'm just dead. At this point,

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Speaker 3: Rapper Bay in the bed.

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Speaker 2: He like, you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, nigga, Now I'm dying, he said.

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Speaker 2: The next morning, he said, you were living on talking.

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Speaker 3: He was like, damn, I'm like, should I go, you know,

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Speaker 3: check on her and make sure she's straight.

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Speaker 2: And he was like, you know how he saved my name?

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Speaker 2: He said, sure you go.

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Speaker 3: I don't know how I made it home, but I

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Speaker 3: made it home safely. I just got too lexed with

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Speaker 3: soap I haven't seen you there liveing in a while.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, since that's why I don't drink.

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Speaker 2: Right going out, I went somewhere else. I know, I

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Speaker 2: don't see. I don't even know.

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Speaker 3: I don't remember nothing from that night, like I remember

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Speaker 3: bits and pieces, but it was like everything was just

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Speaker 3: a blur. Noah. After I went to the second place, though,

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Speaker 3: I said, see, this is why I don't be outside.

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Speaker 2: Old Tea, good night. Hang. It wouldn't get out. It

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Speaker 2: was fun.

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Speaker 3: We actually had went to this place called a Zool,

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Speaker 3: which is where Kiki and Medina had their host then

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Speaker 3: when they had that host, Yeah, so I guess it

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Speaker 3: turns into an after hours like late at night. So

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Speaker 3: we had went to a Zool and they had ordered

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Speaker 3: some more bottles of Cosamegos, Like they ordered like six

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Speaker 3: bottles of cosamigos, and it was like, come on, Drea,

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Speaker 3: take some more shots, and I'm like okay. So I

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Speaker 3: took like three more shots, and then I was really lead.

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Speaker 2: I noticed, and then I ordered some wings and I

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Speaker 2: took my as home. Yeah you lasted longer than me.

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Speaker 1: I was there for maybe maybe forty five minutes.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you were there for like forty five minutes.

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Speaker 3: So then I stayed like another hour at the b

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Speaker 3: ally Loft and then we went to a zool and

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Speaker 3: I got home probably at like four or something.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I was done. I was cooked by midnight.

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Speaker 3: I got home work impacked in that beach too, That's

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Speaker 3: what I said, alhw, it's time for me to go.

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Speaker 2: We talking about it was so many people in there.

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Speaker 2: It's like it was like wall to wall. You couldn't

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Speaker 2: even in a section. I was like, keep coming from war.

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Speaker 2: So it was insane up in there. So I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's go home.

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Speaker 3: That was like you leaving already already. It's in the morning,

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Speaker 3: you leaving already.

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Speaker 2: Hell yeah, I'm leaving.

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Speaker 3: I woke up the next morning and I was just like,

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Speaker 3: you know how you got to make sure.

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Speaker 2: I was like, are you mad at me? I had

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Speaker 2: to ask him and I was like, are you mad

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Speaker 2: at me? He was like oh yeah. He was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: you're just fucking drugs, just drug because you were doing

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Speaker 2: the same thing to me.

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Speaker 3: So, Dre, I'm so sorry, don't be mad at me.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, legs, I'm not mad at you.

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Speaker 3: I just felt so bad because I was like, what

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Speaker 3: am I doing because honestly, I had an axis that morning.

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Speaker 1: And then we were drinking at the crib.

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Speaker 3: Before you know, like I remember, I brought you a

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Speaker 3: the house. It was me Rappa bating his homeway. Let

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Speaker 3: me tell you what this nigga saying, beach Rappa bank.

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Speaker 3: So we were having a conversation and we were just

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Speaker 3: like basically talking about like like if we have a

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Speaker 3: type and shit like that. He was like, man, I

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Speaker 3: don't like skinny girls. I don't I don't like that.

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Speaker 3: I can't do that. My girl got to be at.

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Speaker 2: Least ten or fifteen pounds overweight. I said. I said,

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Speaker 2: excuse me, excuse me.

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Speaker 3: He was like, what, Well, maybe he didn't mean it

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Speaker 3: like that, because you now technically you overweight.

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Speaker 2: If you like a little over the be you're with

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Speaker 2: your b and.

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Speaker 5: My I mean, I know it's a little overweight, but

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Speaker 5: I don't think we all a little overweight. I mean

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Speaker 5: we think, yeah, I think if you think everything when

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Speaker 5: you're overweight. Because in order for me to I think,

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Speaker 5: be the size I'm supposed to be, to not be overweight,

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Speaker 5: I need to be like one twenty five.

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Speaker 2: Who the hell about to be one twenty five? Definitely not.

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Speaker 2: I think I'm supposed to.

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Speaker 3: Be like I be out here looking like a querky.

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Speaker 3: I think you're supposed to be like one sixty, Like

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Speaker 3: that's how much? No I think so, no way, what

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Speaker 3: sixty or one sixty five.

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Speaker 2: In that area? But you're kind of tall though, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: That's what I'm saying. That's how I think. That's what

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Speaker 3: the area I'm supposed to be. But aither way, I

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Speaker 3: was like, excuse you, I'm a thick stallion, A think queen.

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Speaker 2: What's up?

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Speaker 4: Y'all?

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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex p And it's sugarl Dray and

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Speaker 2: the cold and.

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Speaker 3: It's time to make an announcement. It's another time we're overdue.

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Speaker 3: Second show, second live show?

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Speaker 2: Is the second show though? Or is it the third show?

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Speaker 2: Because you know we had two shows.

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Speaker 3: We did have two shows, and well, let me tell

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Speaker 3: y'all right now, we're not doing two shows on one night,

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Speaker 3: So y'all better get y'all tickets right now because one

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Speaker 3: sell out.

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Speaker 2: We're done.

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Speaker 3: On Wednesday, March sixteenth, we're gonna be in Charlotte for

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Speaker 3: our second live show. I'm super excited because we got

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Speaker 3: the girl. The poor crew was in Charlotte. I'm excited too.

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Speaker 3: So yes, we're gonna be at the Comedy Zone and Charlie.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be huge, it's gonna be amazing. I hope

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Speaker 3: you'll already. Y'all need to get y'all tickets and because

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Speaker 3: y'all know the v IP gonna sell out, please so

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Speaker 3: super close. I'm excited. I haven't been to Charlotte. That's

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Speaker 3: one thing that's good about it. I've never been in that.

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Speaker 3: So Charlotte, come turn up with us. Second live show

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Speaker 3: we outside. I'll see y'all March sixteenth. Get your tickets

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Speaker 3: right now. Come party with.

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Speaker 2: The girls period.

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Speaker 1: So but yeah, that's all my weekend was. I had

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Speaker 1: a good time. It was good to see him.

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Speaker 3: We turned up. We had a good time. Mister Cabos dead.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna rp be love.

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Speaker 2: It is that what they say at funerals. We are

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Speaker 2: gathered here today. They said they if they say that wedding,

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Speaker 2: shut up. We're praying. I think they say that it

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Speaker 2: was all right, dearly departed. We are gathered head to

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Speaker 2: the play to bury another nigga. Another one bites the dust.

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Speaker 2: It was a good time though. It was fun. While elastic,

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Speaker 2: it was fun. He just weird, Yeah, start moving all weird.

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Speaker 2: It was all some weird time. But you know we're

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Speaker 2: gonna send him off in grace. Yeah, a funeral.

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Speaker 3: Had the funeral this morning. It was a beautiful service.

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Speaker 3: Who did the body? Who did the body?

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Speaker 2: Beautiful bro? I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I had to cut a few niggas off though, too.

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Speaker 3: Yeahs you know, honestly, I feel like this year, whenever

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Speaker 3: I'm like kind of done with somebody, I'm having a funeral,

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Speaker 3: like you're dead, it's over, goodbye, like.

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Speaker 2: Your your dad.

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Speaker 3: Funerals they not that important. Well not like I'm just

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Speaker 3: saying like you're dead to me. Like I'm not doing

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Speaker 3: the back and forth thing with anybody anymore. Like I'm

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Speaker 3: not really trying to be into second chances this year.

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Speaker 3: Like I feel like when somebody shows me who they are, I.

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Speaker 2: Need to believe them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I'm not doing

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Speaker 3: the back and forth. So I had a funeral this morning,

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Speaker 3: beautiful service. The body looked amazing. I was sad to

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Speaker 3: see him go.

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Speaker 2: Or Ip missed the cobo.

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Speaker 3: Yeah by nigga, all right, well, how was your weekend?

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Speaker 2: I was just talking about me being drunk the whole time.

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Speaker 3: And I'd be like bach, because the bitch is focused.

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Speaker 3: Like, it's cool, but you know, for me, it's like

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Speaker 2: You be outside a little bit. I'll be outside a

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it was fun. I had a fun weekend. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think February is gonna be a good money.

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Speaker 3: I pray I have a better February because I just

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Speaker 2: Is it me or the like? January seems so long.

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Speaker 3: Last January is so long. I'm excited to pay my

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Speaker 2: To pay that bit. I'm ready for this. Help to

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Speaker 2: I'm ready. I'm I'm definitely ready for it this month.

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Speaker 3: So the first time we're gonna talk about today is

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Speaker 1: So I feel like when you fall out with somebody.

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Speaker 3: And you start going around telling all their business, running

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Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, Like I can honestly say,

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I've just never been a person to do that type

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Speaker 3: You're that Yeah, you literally are so or relevant to me,

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Speaker 3: So I'm not even going to it's no reason for

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Speaker 3: I literally forgot you exist. Sorry, right, I think it's

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Speaker 3: just I think people that do that, those are people

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Speaker 3: who secretly, like, nine times out of ten, you probably

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Speaker 3: and so you low, he got some animosity still inside

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Speaker 3: they don't fuck with you. No, I definitely feel like

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Speaker 3: in situations like that, it's not mutual, because I think

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Speaker 3: I think y'all both might realize, you know, this isn't

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Speaker 3: working out, or maybe we're all growing each other, or

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Speaker 3: maybe one part, maybe y'all both have done things to

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Speaker 3: it could be numerous different factors, but sometimes it's mutual.

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Speaker 2: But then sometimes I think it's always.

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Speaker 3: then the other ones still do right. And I honestly

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Speaker 3: feel like if you had to eliminate me from your life,

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Speaker 3: means do that, Like, I don't want to be in

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Speaker 3: I'm toxic, I'm negative. Like, if you feel like I

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Speaker 3: But for me, I feel like, whenever I'm friends with somebody,

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Speaker 3: what I mean? Like, cause I don't what am I

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Speaker 3: if I am going around talking shit about you and

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Speaker 3: letting everybody know your business, why wouldn't I think that

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Speaker 3: the situations that we have been in, we didn't do

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Speaker 2: I felt like after we broke up, I just.

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Speaker 3: Feel like he was out here in these Atlanta streets

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Speaker 3: just slandering my good name.

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Speaker 2: He was, I know he was.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I just feel like in situations like that,

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Speaker 3: to what's the use in you know, talking down on

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Speaker 3: people are doing the same shit, But what's the use

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Speaker 3: because I feel like that makes you know better?

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Speaker 2: Like now y'all on the same level.

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Speaker 3: In the way I look at it is bach, I'm

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Speaker 3: better than you, see all right, I'm just saying, but

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Speaker 3: just being honest, like I'm better than you. I'm I'm

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Speaker 3: a better person, right, Okay, okay, and better I mean, bitch,

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Speaker 3: I mean what I said, I'm saying I want to

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Speaker 3: I said it right first time.

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Speaker 2: But I'm also a better person.

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Speaker 6: Right.

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Speaker 3: So it's just like, why am I gonna go around

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Speaker 3: to me, that's the best revenge that you can get

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Speaker 3: on people like that that you used to be cool with,

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Speaker 3: I think we've always said this, like we've had conversations

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: So for me, it's like if you cut me out

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Speaker 3: by any mean like I'm happy for you. So it's

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Speaker 3: crazy that people can give out that type of energy

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Speaker 7: You got that kind of energy for me, because I don't.

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Speaker 2: Have that energy for you. I'm happy for you.

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Speaker 3: Everybody that used to be in my life and if

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Speaker 3: from me because I'm doing good. Yeah, but everybody don't

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Speaker 1: But that's a nasty way.

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Speaker 3: It is a nasty way of thinking. But unfortunately it's

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Speaker 3: want to see you doing well when y'all not cool anymore,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean, They want to shit on you.

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Speaker 2: They want to stunt on you.

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Speaker 3: They want to be the one that's doing good, and

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Speaker 3: start doing good and then they're not doing that good anymore,

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Speaker 3: and y'all and not friends, they really gonna be hating,

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Speaker 3: right because then sometimes I feel like they be having

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Speaker 3: that Damn I wish I wouldn't have fucked up my

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Speaker 3: damn look at her now, like I could have been

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Speaker 3: just feel like I think that's just weird energy to

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Speaker 2: Have such bad feelings?

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Speaker 3: And to be talking about somebody that we're not in

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Speaker 2: Man, that shit be crazy as hell.

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Speaker 3: M I just had a conversation with somebody this weekend

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Speaker 3: this past shit about somebody that I used to be

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Speaker 2: It is wild as.

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Speaker 3: Fun, cause it's literally like me and Jordan was on

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Speaker 3: He was like, in May, it'll be like five years

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Speaker 3: wild that this person still be talking shit, like be

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Speaker 3: having your name and name off. And then it's like,

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Speaker 3: what do they even be saying, because like you didn't

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Speaker 3: And yeah, I mean apparently this person was like trying

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but it's just like that's mad weird.

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Speaker 3: Like, first of all, I think that's so strange when

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Speaker 3: It's not when there's no benefit of being friends with

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Speaker 3: you because they're not a joy to be around and

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Speaker 3: you look dusty.

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Speaker 2: I'm just playing, I'm just saying, but no, I'm really

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Speaker 3: But no, I'm just saying, like to me, at least

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Speaker 3: be a joy.

438
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Speaker 2: To be around. I mean, why would I pick a

439
00:19:23,640 --> 00:19:25,359
Speaker 2: side and pick your side? And all you do is

440
00:19:25,400 --> 00:19:26,520
Speaker 2: talk shit about people?

441
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:29,119
Speaker 3: Because I'm pretty sure you're not the only one that

442
00:19:29,160 --> 00:19:32,119
Speaker 3: she talks about, because I feel like there's been a

443
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Speaker 3: lot of people she probably fell out with.

444
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Speaker 1: Because that's a pattern. That's what I'm saying.

445
00:19:35,680 --> 00:19:38,640
Speaker 3: You're showing your character after you fall out with someone

446
00:19:38,880 --> 00:19:42,359
Speaker 3: when you continuously talk shit about them, like you're gonna

447
00:19:42,400 --> 00:19:43,760
Speaker 3: do that to everybody.

448
00:19:43,320 --> 00:19:44,160
Speaker 2: You fall out with.

449
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:47,199
Speaker 3: Because I feel like when I date somebody, or if

450
00:19:47,240 --> 00:19:49,960
Speaker 3: I become friends with somebody and we're becoming friends and

451
00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:52,280
Speaker 3: you talk about people that you used to be cool with.

452
00:19:52,520 --> 00:19:54,920
Speaker 3: That's a red flag to me. I don't want to

453
00:19:54,960 --> 00:19:57,600
Speaker 3: hear the gossip about your ex. Like it was a

454
00:19:57,680 --> 00:19:59,600
Speaker 3: red flax to me when I was remember the guy

455
00:19:59,760 --> 00:20:01,119
Speaker 3: was just talking about when I said, I felt like.

456
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Speaker 2: He was slaying on my name in these streets.

457
00:20:03,040 --> 00:20:06,119
Speaker 3: Literally on our second or third date, he was telling

458
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Speaker 3: me a story about like how his ex got mad

459
00:20:10,440 --> 00:20:14,080
Speaker 3: at him because he she asked him to buy her

460
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Speaker 3: a new TV. And he was like making a big

461
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Speaker 3: deal out of it, like, bitch, you ain't about to

462
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,080
Speaker 3: use me bro it's a twelve inch Panasonic.

463
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Speaker 2: What are you mad at me? Like? What are you

464
00:20:24,200 --> 00:20:26,040
Speaker 2: mad for? It's not that serious.

465
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Speaker 3: And he was really going off about his ex asking

466
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Speaker 3: him for a TV.

467
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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't really feel like they's talking down.

468
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,280
Speaker 3: But it is because the way he was saying it though,

469
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Speaker 3: because he was like was calling her brother. No, he

470
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:39,760
Speaker 3: was saying like she was a bitch, she was calling

471
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Speaker 3: her broke. He was just like, why are you asking

472
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Speaker 3: me for a TV? And you tripping on me cause

473
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Speaker 3: I won't get you a TV? Like he was going

474
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Speaker 3: in You remember how his temper was.

475
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Speaker 1: Wait, I don't even know who he's old LEXI.

476
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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I was trying to make sure I'm like

477
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Speaker 3: I think about the right person.

478
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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, like you remember.

479
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Speaker 3: How his temper was, so he's the way he was

480
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Speaker 3: acting In my hand, I'm thinking, like, broh, TVs are

481
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,240
Speaker 3: not that expensive anymore, Like why are you making that?

482
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Speaker 1: He's like, it's not that, it's about the principle, and

483
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Speaker 1: I was.

484
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Speaker 2: Just like, what's the feeling with somebody? I don't know?

485
00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,119
Speaker 2: Why can't you ask him about you? A TV girl?

486
00:21:13,240 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 2: It's you whole?

487
00:21:17,240 --> 00:21:20,040
Speaker 3: But yeah, I think I definitely think it's strange and

488
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,359
Speaker 3: I feel like it's mad. People who like probably be

489
00:21:22,440 --> 00:21:24,840
Speaker 3: talking about me, but I don't be talking about none

490
00:21:24,840 --> 00:21:28,240
Speaker 3: of y'all right. I just feel like I don't like

491
00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:30,760
Speaker 3: because I just don't care. It's like if I wanted

492
00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:32,960
Speaker 3: to still be your friends. And that's I think that's

493
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Speaker 3: the thing about me why I don't talk about people

494
00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:37,639
Speaker 3: when I'm not friends with them anymore to other people,

495
00:21:37,920 --> 00:21:41,080
Speaker 3: because whether it was somebody I was dating, whether it

496
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Speaker 3: was somebody that I used to be friends with nine

497
00:21:43,320 --> 00:21:45,000
Speaker 3: times out of teen and we not cool, or we

498
00:21:45,040 --> 00:21:47,160
Speaker 3: don't fuck around no more. If it's a nigga because

499
00:21:47,240 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 3: I didn't want to fuck with you no more and

500
00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,680
Speaker 3: I didn't want to be in your life no more.

501
00:21:50,760 --> 00:21:53,159
Speaker 3: So I'm cool with that. I'm mad, peaceful with my decisions.

502
00:21:53,320 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 3: So why am I gonna go around talking about you?

503
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Speaker 2: Right?

504
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Speaker 3: I just feel like, but you're mad and you feel

505
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:00,879
Speaker 3: some type of way because you didn't have the last

506
00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,160
Speaker 3: word or you didn't have to say so over whether

507
00:22:03,320 --> 00:22:06,040
Speaker 3: or not the relationship with the relationship was gonna continue.

508
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:09,120
Speaker 3: And I think, like I said, you gotta watch which

509
00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:12,080
Speaker 3: type of energy that you put me in air, like

510
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:14,240
Speaker 3: if you continuously put out that type of energy, And

511
00:22:14,520 --> 00:22:18,040
Speaker 3: at this point, like, life is hard. Life is fucking

512
00:22:18,080 --> 00:22:20,240
Speaker 3: hard for everybody. I don't care how much money you make,

513
00:22:20,320 --> 00:22:22,600
Speaker 3: I don't care what you do for a living. Life

514
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:25,239
Speaker 3: is hard for everybody. Nobody has an easy life. So

515
00:22:25,960 --> 00:22:28,880
Speaker 3: on top of life being hard and we all trying

516
00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 3: to figure this shit out, you want to spend your

517
00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:33,560
Speaker 3: free time when you're out in the club or when

518
00:22:33,600 --> 00:22:36,160
Speaker 3: you're having dinner with people supposed to be drinking, turn

519
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,480
Speaker 3: up and have a good time to gossip and talk

520
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 3: bad about people that.

521
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 2: Don't even think about you.

522
00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:44,320
Speaker 3: That's when you have to really look within and be like, Okay,

523
00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,080
Speaker 3: what's going on with me? Because why am I still

524
00:22:46,200 --> 00:22:48,400
Speaker 3: hard bring onto these feelings? That's why I do feel

525
00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,639
Speaker 3: like sometimes people really need to go to therapy and

526
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:52,800
Speaker 3: you need to talk this out with someone, because why

527
00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 3: after five years are you still holding on to that hurt?

528
00:22:57,200 --> 00:22:59,480
Speaker 2: Like y'all was friends, but god damn bitch, y'all wasn't

529
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:01,880
Speaker 2: friends like that. You wouldn't even friends that long, That's

530
00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

531
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Speaker 3: So that's why I just feel like that whole situation

532
00:23:04,760 --> 00:23:08,080
Speaker 3: really was in very fucking weird, like calm down.

533
00:23:08,000 --> 00:23:10,359
Speaker 2: Like I mean, but I just feel like people be weird.

534
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:13,840
Speaker 3: Those people be weird, those and that's really just all

535
00:23:13,880 --> 00:23:16,679
Speaker 3: there is to say about it, Like hoes be weird,

536
00:23:17,040 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 3: these niggas be weird, They be feeling some type of

537
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:22,040
Speaker 3: way about you, and you didn't even do nothing to them.

538
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:24,840
Speaker 1: And that's why we're gonna continue to have funerals for y'all.

539
00:23:25,640 --> 00:23:26,119
Speaker 2: I said that.

540
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 3: I told you I'm not having no funeral for them

541
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:31,000
Speaker 3: because they're not even an imparting to take that time out.

542
00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:34,040
Speaker 3: I agree, I agree, But like I said, your character

543
00:23:34,119 --> 00:23:36,840
Speaker 3: after you fall out with someone says a lot says

544
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 3: a lot about who you are as a person, because

545
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 3: to me, if we fall out, it ain't no beef,

546
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 3: it ain't no bad blood. Let's just move on with

547
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,239
Speaker 3: our lives because your name is literally never gonna come

548
00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:48,600
Speaker 3: out of my mouth. Maybe I might have a conversation

549
00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,200
Speaker 3: with Dre or something like in the beginning, whenever it's

550
00:23:51,240 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 3: like it freshly happened, but like months.

551
00:23:54,840 --> 00:23:56,720
Speaker 2: Down the road, like I'm over it once, I'm over,

552
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:57,200
Speaker 2: and I'm over.

553
00:23:57,280 --> 00:23:59,159
Speaker 3: I mean, I feel like that's normal though, that's what

554
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 3: everybody does. Like, if you have a falling out with somebody,

555
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,920
Speaker 3: you're gonna vent to your friends, or you're gonna vent

556
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:07,000
Speaker 3: to your family and to people that you're close to

557
00:24:07,040 --> 00:24:09,600
Speaker 3: about the situation. But to me, that's not messy. That's

558
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 3: not you talking shit about the person you just been into,

559
00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:14,760
Speaker 3: the people that you feel like you could trust. Now

560
00:24:14,760 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 3: when you're going around like you out and about and

561
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:20,920
Speaker 3: you having conversations with associates, people that you don't even

562
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 3: normally fuck with and talk to, and you're talking shit

563
00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 3: about that person, well yeah, that's being gossipy, that's being messy,

564
00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 3: and that's being bitter because you don't even normally fuck

565
00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:31,520
Speaker 3: with these people are talking to them, So why you

566
00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:33,879
Speaker 3: why when you are around them a few times that

567
00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,359
Speaker 3: you are my name and your mouth?

568
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:36,840
Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

569
00:24:36,880 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 3: You ain't got nothing better to talk about. You ain't

570
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 3: got no better subject matter. No, they don't.

571
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:43,360
Speaker 2: And that's why I said, And that's probably why I'm

572
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:44,240
Speaker 2: not your friend no more.

573
00:24:44,359 --> 00:24:47,080
Speaker 3: Y'all need to look within cause I'm sorry, and like

574
00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 3: you say this all the time, exactely kind of said

575
00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 3: our people. If you change friends, yeah a lot. I

576
00:24:53,119 --> 00:24:55,000
Speaker 3: saw it out people like that. I do because you're

577
00:24:55,080 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 3: the problem. Yeah, you can keep friendships if you cannot

578
00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:02,360
Speaker 3: keep long lasting friendship or personally, in my opinion too,

579
00:25:02,440 --> 00:25:04,760
Speaker 3: I feel like if you a person and you doing

580
00:25:04,840 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 3: certain shit and you're making good money or you know,

581
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:10,560
Speaker 3: just say you live a certain way and then everybody

582
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 3: everybody that you cool, we ain't living as good as

583
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 3: you outside out this shit too, because I feel like

584
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 3: you purposely be wanting to keep people around you that's

585
00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:19,959
Speaker 3: not doing it.

586
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I feel like.

587
00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,040
Speaker 3: You purposely be wanting to keep people around you who

588
00:25:23,040 --> 00:25:24,480
Speaker 3: are not doing as good as you because you want

589
00:25:24,480 --> 00:25:25,160
Speaker 3: to be the friend.

590
00:25:25,080 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 2: Their guy everything.

591
00:25:27,840 --> 00:25:34,040
Speaker 3: And that's also we can talk about that when, like say,

592
00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,480
Speaker 3: people they're they're cool.

593
00:25:36,280 --> 00:25:38,880
Speaker 2: With you when you beneath them, but whenever.

594
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:41,040
Speaker 3: You start, you know, making a little noise for yourself,

595
00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:42,520
Speaker 3: then they don't want to fuck with you no more.

596
00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 1: People definitely do that too, because that's definitely happened to me.

597
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I mean.

598
00:25:47,320 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 3: People definitely be having ulterior motives. I feel like when

599
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 3: it comes to friendships, and I feel like a lot

600
00:25:52,480 --> 00:25:54,919
Speaker 3: of people do keep people around them because they make them.

601
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:58,239
Speaker 2: Feel like superior. Yeah, it makes them feel like they

602
00:25:58,320 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: the shitting you like down here.

603
00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:02,800
Speaker 3: And so then when you start, like you said, when

604
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:05,240
Speaker 3: you start rising and you start getting your shit together

605
00:26:05,280 --> 00:26:07,040
Speaker 3: and now y'all kind of on the same level, or

606
00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 3: you might surpass them even.

607
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,520
Speaker 2: Days just I'm sorry, Burt my tongue, honey.

608
00:26:13,600 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 3: Or you might even surpass them, you know what I mean,

609
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,000
Speaker 3: Their true colors will start coming out because they were

610
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 3: so supportive of you and oh you my besty.

611
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 2: I'll fuck with you, I love you.

612
00:26:23,040 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 3: It's gonna be okay until you make it, you know,

613
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:28,080
Speaker 3: and the once you make it, the whole narratives be changing.

614
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 3: So so I need everybody to look at your character

615
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 3: and look at how you act whenever you fall out

616
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,639
Speaker 3: with somebody, because that's also a part of growth and

617
00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 3: becoming a better person, because I think we all used

618
00:26:38,800 --> 00:26:41,040
Speaker 3: to be that person at one point, whether it was

619
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Speaker 3: when we were super young. We've all made mistakes, but

620
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:47,840
Speaker 3: it's all about accountability. We are we are taking accountability

621
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Speaker 3: this year and doing better.

622
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Speaker 2: I agree.

623
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Speaker 3: What's up, Y'all's your girl XP and it's your girls

624
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641
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Speaker 3: baby girl, I'll be finishing my line so fast. That's like, yah,

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Speaker 3: you finished your liquor fast all the time, Exhibit A.

643
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Speaker 2: Well, we just talked about earlier. I need to work

644
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Speaker 2: on myself. Okay. So for the next topic.

645
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Speaker 3: This is actually a topic that one of our listeners

646
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Speaker 3: sent to me on Twitter m and she said she

647
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Speaker 3: actually sent me a list of topics and I'm so

648
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Speaker 3: sorry girl because I should.

649
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 2: Have shopped you out. But yeah, I know, I'm sorry.

650
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:25,879
Speaker 3: I forgot to put her name down, But she actually

651
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Speaker 3: sent me a list of topics on Twitter and she

652
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Speaker 3: was like, I would love for you and Lex to

653
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Speaker 3: talk about these topics. And I kind of read the

654
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Speaker 3: them and this was one that I thought would be

655
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Speaker 3: a good topic to talk about on the show.

656
00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:35,760
Speaker 2: So I wanted to talk about the.

657
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,400
Speaker 3: Biggest bag you ever fumbled? What do you think the

658
00:28:38,440 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 3: biggest bag you ever fumbled?

659
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:39,880
Speaker 5: This?

660
00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:41,840
Speaker 3: Or do you even think that you could? Like, do

661
00:28:41,920 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 3: you even really feel like you fumbled the bag? Because

662
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 3: I personally don't I think that I have fumbled some

663
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:54,320
Speaker 3: situations and maybe my life would have turned out.

664
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 2: Differently, good, differently or just differently. I don't know, because

665
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,040
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know I fumbled it.

666
00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:01,840
Speaker 3: Why do you feel like, okay, So give me an

667
00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:05,160
Speaker 3: example of like, actually too okay, it's actually too So

668
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:07,959
Speaker 3: when I think about the second, I'm like, why did

669
00:29:08,000 --> 00:29:08,360
Speaker 3: I do that?

670
00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 2: So the first one, I was dealing with a guy.

671
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,160
Speaker 3: It was my first BBB, the one that got me

672
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 3: my car, that will help me get my car. This

673
00:29:18,520 --> 00:29:20,160
Speaker 3: was back back in the gap when I was still

674
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 3: working at Dreams, and he was like, move to La

675
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:24,960
Speaker 3: with me. You don't gotta work, you don't gotta go

676
00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:27,280
Speaker 3: to school, Like we just gonna figure this shit out

677
00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 3: and we're gonna get it popping now. At the time,

678
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:33,560
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm still like that. I don't want

679
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,800
Speaker 3: to be I want to be taken care of, but

680
00:29:35,840 --> 00:29:39,000
Speaker 3: not like that. I still want to have my own job,

681
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:41,880
Speaker 3: doing my own thing, bringing in my own money. He

682
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 3: was very like, once a housewife wants to get you pregnant,

683
00:29:46,200 --> 00:29:49,000
Speaker 3: you need to be at home cooking and cleaning and baby.

684
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:51,880
Speaker 3: Y'all know how I feel about that now? Yeah, because bitch.

685
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 3: I'm not missed clean, right, I'm not Jemima. This is

686
00:29:56,360 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 3: not going down like that. So but I do I

687
00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:04,400
Speaker 3: feel like even though I turned that down, I possibly

688
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,960
Speaker 3: could have finessed that in a way that would have

689
00:30:06,960 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 3: benefited me more in the end. I definitely could have

690
00:30:10,240 --> 00:30:14,040
Speaker 3: finessed the situation a little bit. So sometimes I do

691
00:30:14,080 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 3: look at it like damn. Like, but when you say

692
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,880
Speaker 3: finished it, do you like you feel like you could

693
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:20,880
Speaker 3: have did some things that would have helped you, like

694
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:23,120
Speaker 3: to where right now you would be further along.

695
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:24,760
Speaker 2: No, not further along.

696
00:30:24,520 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: But I could have I think we I could have

697
00:30:26,720 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: got to a point.

698
00:30:27,400 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 3: To where I could have convinced him that like to

699
00:30:30,280 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 3: invest in me to do the things I want to do, right, Yeah, Like, well,

700
00:30:35,320 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 3: I mean, I.

701
00:30:36,240 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 2: Don't want to downplay what I'm doing now.

702
00:30:38,640 --> 00:30:41,440
Speaker 3: I mean, but I'm just saying but okay, but it's like, okay,

703
00:30:41,440 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: you're doing this now, but like you're talking about him

704
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,320
Speaker 3: investing and you are doing whatever. So it's like you

705
00:30:45,320 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 3: still could have been doing this, but then you would

706
00:30:46,920 --> 00:30:49,840
Speaker 3: have had some other shitting emotions. Yeah, yeah, possibly, yeah,

707
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 3: So yeah, sometimes I look at it like, damn, I

708
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 3: probably should have just and if it didn't work out,

709
00:30:53,960 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 3: I could have just came back home and went back

710
00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,080
Speaker 3: to school. You know, I was just looking at it

711
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,040
Speaker 3: like I have already because when I graduated college, I

712
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 3: mean when I graduated high school, I didn't go straight

713
00:31:01,800 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 3: to college.

714
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 2: I took a year off.

715
00:31:03,440 --> 00:31:05,000
Speaker 3: It was like a year and a half, two years off,

716
00:31:05,120 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 3: So I already felt like I was behind. Yeah, so

717
00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,440
Speaker 3: I felt like, no, I'm back in school.

718
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:11,200
Speaker 2: I have to finish.

719
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,160
Speaker 3: I have to do this, cause I when I was

720
00:31:13,160 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 3: in my early twenties, I used to I kept putting

721
00:31:15,080 --> 00:31:17,920
Speaker 3: myself like on a time stamp, like, oh, I have

722
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:19,680
Speaker 3: to finish this by twenty three. I have to do

723
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 3: this by twenty four. So him wanted me to go

724
00:31:22,440 --> 00:31:24,520
Speaker 3: to LA with him and have kids. That just wasn't

725
00:31:24,520 --> 00:31:26,960
Speaker 3: in the plan. Like, I mean, bitch, the Waite House

726
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 3: is moving out. Bitch, they be straight out of college.

727
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,320
Speaker 2: Finting them and BD being getting pregnant. That wasn't really

728
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,360
Speaker 2: they wasn't really doing that. I mean, is different, definitely different.

729
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:38,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's the it's the people that people are looking

730
00:31:38,800 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 3: up to these days, so they make this making really

731
00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 3: young girls feel like they should have babys already so

732
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:46,400
Speaker 3: there was another bag I fumbled. I felt like I

733
00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:51,080
Speaker 3: kind of fumbled. I had an opportunity when I was like,

734
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 3: I want to say maybe I was like twenty two

735
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:55,560
Speaker 3: or twenty three. I had an opportunity to be on

736
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:57,480
Speaker 3: a reality show that like it was like a really

737
00:31:57,480 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 3: popping reality show at the time. And they had called

738
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 3: me for like a last minute interview, like I had

739
00:32:02,760 --> 00:32:05,240
Speaker 3: gone through like two rounds of interviews and they had

740
00:32:05,240 --> 00:32:06,760
Speaker 3: called me, and I was like, oh, I'm at work.

741
00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: I was like, can we reschedule? And they were kind

742
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,959
Speaker 3: of like, well, can you, like where do you work at?

743
00:32:10,960 --> 00:32:12,360
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I work at This is when I

744
00:32:12,400 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 3: was working at TGI Friday, y'all. So I was working

745
00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:16,840
Speaker 3: at Fridays and I was like, I was so loyal

746
00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 3: so much.

747
00:32:17,400 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 2: I was like, I cannot leave. Can we please reschedule

748
00:32:19,720 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: for tomorrow? Bitch. I did not leave work because I

749
00:32:22,200 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: was scared I was gonna lose my job.

750
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 3: Because I kept thinking like if I but you know me,

751
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 3: I'm so badid I know?

752
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:31,760
Speaker 2: That? Was like I want to be like by loser,

753
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,200
Speaker 2: get your Potata skiins and get the fuck out of here.

754
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:39,240
Speaker 2: That's what I should have said. But I was just

755
00:32:39,280 --> 00:32:42,040
Speaker 2: so scared because I'm like, I.

756
00:32:41,960 --> 00:32:44,800
Speaker 3: Don't get picked and I lose my fucking job, Like

757
00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 3: and I needed my I need this money. Yeah, but

758
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,200
Speaker 3: I mean you could have got more set. And I

759
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:51,280
Speaker 3: think that's the thing about me. That's how I always

760
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:54,040
Speaker 3: look at stuff, Like it's like, yeah, you probably needed

761
00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 3: that money, and you from your paycheck or whatever. But

762
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,480
Speaker 3: it's like if you would have got the opportunity to

763
00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 3: be on the show, that you would have probably made

764
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 3: more money. I know, it's like it's worse something. So

765
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 3: I guess in my mind things be worth messing out on. Okay,

766
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:08,320
Speaker 3: I'm missing out on like two hundred dollars right now,

767
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 3: but then I might end up making two thousand.

768
00:33:10,840 --> 00:33:12,640
Speaker 2: But you know that I'm not. I wasn't.

769
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 3: I really was never a risk taker until I met you.

770
00:33:16,120 --> 00:33:19,640
Speaker 3: Like to like junk y'all take the risks now.

771
00:33:19,840 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 2: I mean, like fucking I ain't coming to record the day. No,

772
00:33:23,440 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 2: you are dishes, you know. She I'm saying, if it

773
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 2: didn't happen like that exactly, I'm gonna say, Ryan rescheduled

774
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:33,880
Speaker 2: that ship right now. I got somewhere to go. Erry.

775
00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 3: I mean, but that's how you gotta meet because sometimes

776
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:38,040
Speaker 3: I'm one of these don't come more than one, right,

777
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:40,400
Speaker 3: And I see that now, like back back then, I

778
00:33:40,480 --> 00:33:42,840
Speaker 3: was not I was not missing class.

779
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,640
Speaker 2: I was not missing work. That's wild class all.

780
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:49,560
Speaker 3: I mean like my first year, well, actually my first

781
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 3: year of college, I was wild and I used to

782
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:55,400
Speaker 3: do a lot, and I actually like ended up like

783
00:33:55,440 --> 00:33:57,400
Speaker 3: plunking out of school my first year of college.

784
00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 2: All right, I piped down, pipe down.

785
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 3: The most freshmen knew that though I said, I didn't

786
00:34:01,920 --> 00:34:04,440
Speaker 3: flunk out, but I felt too that my mom wasn't.

787
00:34:04,440 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 2: It was supermad.

788
00:34:05,200 --> 00:34:07,080
Speaker 3: It was super bad my first year of college because

789
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 3: I was already behind.

790
00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,759
Speaker 2: Like I said, so my first year, my mom was like,

791
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 2: what the fuck are you out there doing? But bitch,

792
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 2: I grew up at Orange, so you was wildly. I

793
00:34:15,520 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: came to Houston. I was like, it's black.

794
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 3: People, yeah, and they got money.

795
00:34:20,560 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 2: I had a good time. I was having a good time.

796
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:26,239
Speaker 3: So it was like after that first year and I

797
00:34:26,280 --> 00:34:28,440
Speaker 3: was like, really fucking up. I got so worried. I'm like,

798
00:34:28,480 --> 00:34:30,680
Speaker 3: what am I gonna do with my life? So I

799
00:34:30,719 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 3: was like I have to finish school. I have to sow.

800
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,920
Speaker 2: At one point, I became like a super student. I

801
00:34:36,000 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 2: was all.

802
00:34:36,560 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: I was work, school, work, school, Like, don't interrupt me.

803
00:34:40,120 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 3: I had a man, I had a boyfriend. I was

804
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,279
Speaker 3: holding my man down like babe. It was given the

805
00:34:45,320 --> 00:34:49,720
Speaker 3: finest of wifey materials. Okay, I don't know what happened

806
00:34:49,719 --> 00:34:52,759
Speaker 3: along the way, but I'm saying like I used to

807
00:34:52,960 --> 00:34:54,359
Speaker 3: like I wasn't a risk taker.

808
00:34:54,440 --> 00:34:56,239
Speaker 2: I still wasn't a risk taker. Even when I moved

809
00:34:56,239 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 2: out here.

810
00:34:56,960 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 1: You had convinced me to move out here.

811
00:34:58,680 --> 00:35:00,239
Speaker 3: Like, but that was still I mean, you got to

812
00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 3: look at you. Gotta give yourself a little curty though.

813
00:35:02,120 --> 00:35:05,400
Speaker 3: I mean, moving you that's a risk, I know. But

814
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:09,759
Speaker 3: so you convinced me, like, come on, lext, you ain't

815
00:35:09,840 --> 00:35:12,680
Speaker 3: doing shit dish come out here. I know, but I

816
00:35:12,760 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 3: was still like, but I gotta go to work.

817
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,560
Speaker 2: And I was like, you could work out here, and

818
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:18,040
Speaker 2: you did.

819
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:18,839
Speaker 8: I did.

820
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:19,319
Speaker 2: I did.

821
00:35:19,360 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 3: But I'm telling you, like, if it wouldn't have been you,

822
00:35:21,560 --> 00:35:23,400
Speaker 3: nobody else could have convinced me to move out here.

823
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:25,560
Speaker 3: So y'all, yeah, those are the bags. I feel like

824
00:35:25,640 --> 00:35:27,960
Speaker 3: I fumbled, but you know, you live and you learn.

825
00:35:28,000 --> 00:35:29,880
Speaker 3: I'm happy where I'm at now in life. I couldn't

826
00:35:29,920 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 3: be more happy. With you know, where my life is,

827
00:35:31,960 --> 00:35:35,040
Speaker 3: where my career is, so everything happens.

828
00:35:34,680 --> 00:35:36,600
Speaker 2: For a reason. Yeah, that's what I was gonna say.

829
00:35:36,640 --> 00:35:38,680
Speaker 3: I feel like in life is always gonna be like

830
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 3: You're always gonna have like a road list travel like,

831
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 3: or you could have chose these pads and your life

832
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:46,279
Speaker 3: could have been completely different, because realistically speaking, like one

833
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 3: decision really just can make your whole life.

834
00:35:49,040 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 2: Yeah. So I think at.

835
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 3: The time, when I was in certain situations or I

836
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 3: had certain opportunities, I felt like in those moments that

837
00:35:57,480 --> 00:36:00,719
Speaker 3: I possibly had fumbled a bag. But now that my

838
00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:02,839
Speaker 3: life is the way that it is and what I'm doing,

839
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 3: I have like no regrets.

840
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:05,439
Speaker 2: I feel like I chose the right.

841
00:36:05,719 --> 00:36:08,279
Speaker 3: Was there like a certain one, a certain situation that

842
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 3: you like sticks. It's crazy because I feel like me

843
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:16,279
Speaker 3: and you both have similar situations. I feel like one

844
00:36:16,280 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 3: of the situations was with a man, you know what

845
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 3: I mean that I was dating who definitely wanted things

846
00:36:22,280 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 3: to move at a way faster, faster pace than I

847
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,359
Speaker 3: wanted things to move. And I also at the time

848
00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:32,000
Speaker 3: had the opportunity to be on TV, you know, so

849
00:36:32,080 --> 00:36:35,120
Speaker 3: then I was kind of like juggling the two us

850
00:36:36,440 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 3: except for me, it.

851
00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:38,800
Speaker 2: Was both at the same time.

852
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:40,839
Speaker 3: It was the same, so I feel like I was

853
00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:44,040
Speaker 3: like juggling those two opportunities. And then also at that

854
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:47,120
Speaker 3: same time, me and you decided to start the YouTube channel,

855
00:36:47,160 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 3: So it was like three different things that I had

856
00:36:49,640 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 3: going on at one time. And then with the situation

857
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:54,360
Speaker 3: with me being on TV too, it was like another

858
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:58,319
Speaker 3: guy that I had been talking to previously before I

859
00:36:58,320 --> 00:37:01,799
Speaker 3: started talking to the new guy and I didn't really

860
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,200
Speaker 3: like him no more, but I felt like I had

861
00:37:04,239 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 3: to keep being cool with him for the opportunity to

862
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 3: get on the show.

863
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,480
Speaker 2: I was definitely playing chess right.

864
00:37:12,719 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 3: And so you know, luckily now, I was so hurt

865
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:18,799
Speaker 3: and I was so upset when I ended up not

866
00:37:19,040 --> 00:37:21,520
Speaker 3: getting the opportunity to be on a show.

867
00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 2: And I remember that day we went to the mall

868
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:25,280
Speaker 2: and I picked out your off there. I had dressed

869
00:37:25,280 --> 00:37:27,719
Speaker 2: you down. Yeah we did. We did go to the

870
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:29,600
Speaker 2: mall and peak because I had an interview.

871
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:32,880
Speaker 3: But yeah, like and they picked me, and then I

872
00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:35,360
Speaker 3: signed the contracts and I was supposed to be on

873
00:37:35,400 --> 00:37:37,879
Speaker 3: the show. We were supposed to start feelm remember they'd even

874
00:37:37,880 --> 00:37:40,319
Speaker 3: called me one day and was like, let me bring

875
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:43,319
Speaker 3: this back and bring this full circle because you were

876
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:44,960
Speaker 3: supposed to do the show. But you were supposed to

877
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:46,799
Speaker 3: be do the show but the friend that I was,

878
00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:49,279
Speaker 3: and the first segment.

879
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 2: Was yes, that's why I cut the hell off. She

880
00:37:51,719 --> 00:37:53,880
Speaker 2: had been a hater. She was a big hater.

881
00:37:54,600 --> 00:38:01,239
Speaker 3: The biggest is so so oh yeah. So I was

882
00:38:01,280 --> 00:38:03,800
Speaker 3: so upset because I was supposed to They had actually

883
00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:05,719
Speaker 3: called me, it was like, hey, we need you to

884
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 3: come in and film a scene today.

885
00:38:07,520 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 2: I was excited as fuck. I'm like, oh, I'm about

886
00:38:09,480 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 2: to go film the scene. I'm about to be on

887
00:38:10,920 --> 00:38:11,360
Speaker 2: this show.

888
00:38:11,640 --> 00:38:13,439
Speaker 3: I'm about to get paid because then remember I signed

889
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 3: a contract and something how much I was gonna get

890
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,360
Speaker 3: paid per episode. So I was just so excited. Then

891
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 3: I ended up calling me like a few hours later

892
00:38:19,040 --> 00:38:20,880
Speaker 3: and was like, oh, sorry, actually we don't need you

893
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 3: to film. And I was just so upset because yeah,

894
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:28,920
Speaker 3: we were like the hood. Yeah, because I think to

895
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 3: the way both of us were looking at it, because

896
00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 3: like I said, at the time, we had just started

897
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:34,759
Speaker 3: recording Poor Minds, and so we were both kind of

898
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:36,560
Speaker 3: looking at it like, oh, if I get on the show,

899
00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:41,120
Speaker 3: it'll kind of help catapult the YouTube channel and stuff

900
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 3: like that, and so I was just devastated. But now

901
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 3: looking back on it, I'm so glad I did not

902
00:38:46,920 --> 00:38:48,439
Speaker 3: do that show because they had Number One, that show

903
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,719
Speaker 3: corny as fucked to me any and number two the

904
00:38:51,840 --> 00:38:57,440
Speaker 3: nigga was cool. Everything when you make him laugh, everything

905
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 3: about the situation was corny, And I'm just glad it

906
00:39:00,320 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 3: didn't work out because it's like, what I have really

907
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:04,440
Speaker 3: wanted to be on national television in front of millions

908
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,000
Speaker 3: of people being associated with these people that I was

909
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:09,400
Speaker 3: about to have to be on that show. We absolutely

910
00:39:09,480 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: not And then now looking at my life, you know,

911
00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 3: and the things that I'm doing now, I did all

912
00:39:14,120 --> 00:39:16,320
Speaker 3: that stuff without having to make a mockery of myself

913
00:39:16,360 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 3: on television to get here. And a lot of the

914
00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 3: people who I was kind of in Kahout Suite, I

915
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 3: love that.

916
00:39:23,960 --> 00:39:25,480
Speaker 2: A lot of the people that I was in Kahout

917
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:26,120
Speaker 2: Sweet at the.

918
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:28,279
Speaker 3: Time that did end up doing that show, they're not

919
00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 3: even doing like more or getting more traction on social media,

920
00:39:32,239 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 3: more attention on social media than we're getting. And they

921
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:37,399
Speaker 3: were on a whole TV show, right, So I mean

922
00:39:37,440 --> 00:39:39,279
Speaker 3: I ended up I feel like it worked out for

923
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:40,960
Speaker 3: the best. And then as far as like the situation

924
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 3: I was in with the guy I was dating. I

925
00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:45,040
Speaker 3: feel like that situation worked out for the best too.

926
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:47,440
Speaker 3: I mean I wasn't ready for the things that he

927
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,760
Speaker 3: was ready for, and I just couldn't see my life

928
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:53,200
Speaker 3: right now if I had a kid, right, you know

929
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:54,560
Speaker 3: what I mean? Like, I don't know if I would

930
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:56,799
Speaker 3: have been able to accomplish all of the things that

931
00:39:56,800 --> 00:39:58,040
Speaker 3: I'm accomplishing right now.

932
00:39:58,480 --> 00:40:00,640
Speaker 2: One thing you did right, you did like me, but

933
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 2: you definitely took my advice a little bit.

934
00:40:02,880 --> 00:40:05,040
Speaker 3: I think I took your advice a little bit, But

935
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:07,359
Speaker 3: then it was also just kind of me knowing that

936
00:40:07,560 --> 00:40:09,960
Speaker 3: I was too not I don't I don't know. I'd

937
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 3: be trying to tread lightly with my words because this

938
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,239
Speaker 3: is somebody who I'm still kind of cool with and

939
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 3: still be in communication with.

940
00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 2: So it's not that I think I was too good

941
00:40:18,760 --> 00:40:21,040
Speaker 2: for the situation. People are ready.

942
00:40:22,440 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 3: But I also feel like God just have something bigger

943
00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 3: and bitter for me, Like he has a differend. Whoever

944
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:29,920
Speaker 3: I'm supposed to have a kid with, whoever I'm supposed

945
00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 3: to actually settle down with, I don't feel like I'm

946
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 3: supposed to be part of like a tribe, but women, not.

947
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:41,600
Speaker 2: A trial, not a black Indian.

948
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:47,759
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, it's a trial, and I just feel like,

949
00:40:47,800 --> 00:40:50,000
Speaker 3: you know, I wasn't supposed to be part of the

950
00:40:50,160 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 3: trial or at least or at least It's like if

951
00:40:56,680 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 3: I'm gonna have a kid with somebody, I don't know.

952
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:03,080
Speaker 2: I just feel like, you get it, get it already

953
00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 2: other ones, then I need a ring, you know what

954
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:05,839
Speaker 2: I mean?

955
00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 3: A trob is wild a trip. A trip is more

956
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 3: than like five or six people. Like when you say

957
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 3: you have a tribe, it's not like one or two.

958
00:41:14,800 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 3: A trop is like five or six people. So a

959
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:18,360
Speaker 3: trob is wild.

960
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 2: I mean, it is wild.

961
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 3: And that's why, like I said, I mean, but at

962
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:25,160
Speaker 3: the time, I definitely felt like I had fumbled it.

963
00:41:26,040 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 2: I felt like, damn, I fucked up right, But you

964
00:41:28,840 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 2: know what's good now I don't feel that way. I

965
00:41:30,880 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 2: remember in.

966
00:41:31,440 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 3: That situation with you, because like I said, I had

967
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 3: been through that.

968
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,120
Speaker 2: I had been through the same.

969
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:37,879
Speaker 3: Thing, like like I was saying, like with a guy,

970
00:41:37,920 --> 00:41:40,000
Speaker 3: he was like move out here. But it was just

971
00:41:40,120 --> 00:41:43,560
Speaker 3: like me and you, I don't know, our relationship was

972
00:41:43,600 --> 00:41:44,520
Speaker 3: already strained.

973
00:41:44,800 --> 00:41:47,799
Speaker 2: So it's like everything I felt. I think our relationship

974
00:41:47,840 --> 00:41:50,560
Speaker 2: wasn't strained. It was beginning. Now.

975
00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:52,880
Speaker 3: I'm just talking about whenever I had that conversation with you,

976
00:41:52,960 --> 00:41:55,120
Speaker 3: like please don't do this. I was like, just give

977
00:41:55,200 --> 00:41:57,759
Speaker 3: us one year. Remember, I kept saying, just give us

978
00:41:57,800 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 3: one year. If after a year nothing happened, then we

979
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 3: can just you can do whatever. I don't give nothing

980
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 3: happened after it did the first it did. But indeed,

981
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:15,000
Speaker 3: what Carlos came and sat on our floor, and that's

982
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:15,600
Speaker 3: what started.

983
00:42:15,640 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 2: It was a it was a domino effect. Bitch, gar

984
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 2: Bowis definitely came and sat on our floor. That's what

985
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying. And nobody was still listening to her but Carlo.

986
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,120
Speaker 3: But when he started listening, he was like, hold on,

987
00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 3: we got something.

988
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 4: He went back to chatting around.

989
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: He said, we might got a little something.

990
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:36,320
Speaker 3: That was like a year later. But that ye, no,

991
00:42:36,600 --> 00:42:39,320
Speaker 3: you're not listening to what I'm saying. It had already

992
00:42:39,400 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 3: been a year since you told me that him went

993
00:42:44,520 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 3: on eighty five.

994
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 2: It had been another year.

995
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:52,520
Speaker 3: Like that. Bro, my predictions be a little off, but

996
00:42:52,560 --> 00:42:56,120
Speaker 3: I'll be knowing, But I ain't see the exact date.

997
00:42:57,000 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 2: I can see you're right. I mean it. Actually it

998
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:00,560
Speaker 2: definitely ended up working and not for the better.

999
00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 3: Sometimes I just feel like I didn't fumble things because

1000
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:07,279
Speaker 3: sometimes I feel like I'm too ambitious for like relationships

1001
00:43:07,360 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 3: sometimes and I feel like it's a good thing and

1002
00:43:09,520 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 3: a bad thing, right, I mean, because I feel like

1003
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 3: it because I feel like if I wasn't so like

1004
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 3: wanting to live, like wanting to have my own career

1005
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,120
Speaker 3: and wanting to have my own things going on, I

1006
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:22,000
Speaker 3: probably would have been had settled down a long time

1007
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:23,880
Speaker 3: ago because I had I feel like I had a

1008
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:27,080
Speaker 3: few opportunities to settle down to have kids, but I

1009
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 3: was just like, I'm not ready for this because I

1010
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,759
Speaker 3: don't want to just be a nigga baby my mother.

1011
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:35,920
Speaker 3: I don't want to just be this person's girlfriend, you

1012
00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:37,439
Speaker 3: know what I mean. I wanted to create my own

1013
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:39,560
Speaker 3: lane for myself. It's like, whenever I do have a kid,

1014
00:43:39,840 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 3: I want my kids to be able to say, oh, yeah,

1015
00:43:42,080 --> 00:43:45,200
Speaker 3: this is my mom and this is my dad. And

1016
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 3: I also feel like I think things worked out how

1017
00:43:49,640 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: they were supposed to. But also when it comes to dating,

1018
00:43:52,080 --> 00:43:54,320
Speaker 3: we just have to have somebody who matches our energy,

1019
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:56,959
Speaker 3: that wants the same thing out of life. That we want,

1020
00:43:57,040 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, Like, it's kind of hard

1021
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:04,480
Speaker 3: to find like a guy who has money, honestly that

1022
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:07,239
Speaker 3: is really just like wants his girl to be doing

1023
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 3: like the same.

1024
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 1: Shit, like that power couple aesthetic that people strive for.

1025
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 2: That's very hard to find. It is because they don't

1026
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:15,279
Speaker 2: want you and.

1027
00:44:15,320 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 3: Y'all gonna be in the comments like y'all, I'm not

1028
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:20,400
Speaker 3: talking about y'all what you mean, because they always be

1029
00:44:20,400 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 3: the niggas that ain't got no money, that's trying to

1030
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 3: speak for the niggas that do got money.

1031
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,120
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it's like how you know they like, no,

1032
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:27,359
Speaker 2: that's not what we want.

1033
00:44:28,560 --> 00:44:31,839
Speaker 3: No mean no, what else straight up say that's not

1034
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:34,239
Speaker 3: what they want? Like they know is if they even

1035
00:44:34,280 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 3: be like, not only are you not going, but you

1036
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:37,560
Speaker 3: don't even be hanging with them neither.

1037
00:44:38,560 --> 00:44:39,839
Speaker 2: You know. So a lot of.

1038
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:41,840
Speaker 3: Times when you reach a certain type of man, like

1039
00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 3: a lot of times, like men that have a lot

1040
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:45,839
Speaker 3: of money, they really just rather they girl be at

1041
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 3: home taking care of them. So it's kind of hard

1042
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:50,120
Speaker 3: to find somebody that wants the same thing like they

1043
00:44:50,200 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 3: want to.

1044
00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:53,560
Speaker 2: That's our problem though. One thing about me and Lex,

1045
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 2: we be wanting.

1046
00:44:55,440 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 3: Especially outside, you don't want to do what I want

1047
00:44:59,040 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 3: to do by because I'm gonna do myself.

1048
00:45:01,800 --> 00:45:04,680
Speaker 2: Like before, I used to be like, oh no, let

1049
00:45:04,680 --> 00:45:07,240
Speaker 2: me stick around and let me cook these little eggs.

1050
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 2: You want a little egg?

1051
00:45:08,239 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 4: You want egg?

1052
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 3: I was never looking for these meek But I'm just saying,

1053
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:15,359
Speaker 3: like I used to be more like, you know, conforming.

1054
00:45:15,440 --> 00:45:18,799
Speaker 2: Now I'm just like, man, fuck that ship. I mean, yeah,

1055
00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 2: cause you don't have to conform, you know what I mean?

1056
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:22,879
Speaker 3: And like I said, I think that both of us,

1057
00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:25,360
Speaker 3: you know, we just never gonna be okay with like being.

1058
00:45:26,719 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 2: Just women just ca yeah, just.

1059
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:33,359
Speaker 3: I definitely want to be in a situation where I'm

1060
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 3: with somebody who like loves me enough to cater to

1061
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,360
Speaker 3: whatever it is that I want or that I need.

1062
00:45:38,400 --> 00:45:41,200
Speaker 3: But like, I can't just be living under your thumb

1063
00:45:41,239 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 3: and have no identity without you, right, That's not something

1064
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 3: I could ever see myself being okay with you. But

1065
00:45:48,800 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 3: unfortunately I feel like, you know, that's why we not,

1066
00:45:52,520 --> 00:45:53,839
Speaker 3: That's why we're not in relationships.

1067
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:55,240
Speaker 2: So that's why we're not going down.

1068
00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:59,799
Speaker 3: We're getting a man this year, hopefully, No, we are,

1069
00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 3: We're gonna get one.

1070
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:02,440
Speaker 2: We are getting a man this year, all right, I

1071
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 2: don't know what we're gonna find a me.

1072
00:46:03,840 --> 00:46:11,839
Speaker 3: So now we're gonna get into bow bow bow.

1073
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 1: Okay.

1074
00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,799
Speaker 3: So I wanted to talk about this today because I

1075
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:18,680
Speaker 3: feel like we talk about this a lot, and we

1076
00:46:18,719 --> 00:46:22,520
Speaker 3: talk about this all the time, getting tested, like the

1077
00:46:22,560 --> 00:46:25,320
Speaker 3: importance of getting tested. I feel like we everybody like

1078
00:46:25,360 --> 00:46:27,480
Speaker 3: talks about getting tested, but y'all don't really be out

1079
00:46:27,480 --> 00:46:28,720
Speaker 3: here getting tested.

1080
00:46:29,200 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 2: Like you should.

1081
00:46:30,719 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 3: Like to me, I feel like, depending on the type

1082
00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,440
Speaker 3: of sex you have, and like I am, honestly no,

1083
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:40,399
Speaker 3: I'm com because a lot of people it's like raw raw,

1084
00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 3: a lot of raw sex. They're having a lot of

1085
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,640
Speaker 3: raw sex. It's like it's getting very sushi in the bedroom.

1086
00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:49,879
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, It's get you know, you

1087
00:46:49,960 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 3: know you know what I'm talking about. Leg But I'm

1088
00:46:53,160 --> 00:46:57,200
Speaker 3: saying for me, I am condom queen. You might as

1089
00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 3: gonna call me late text licks because I'm protected not

1090
00:47:02,239 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 3: only by the late text but by the blood of Jesus.

1091
00:47:04,960 --> 00:47:07,760
Speaker 2: I'm not playing with y'all. I'm protected. I don't play.

1092
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:09,960
Speaker 1: I have been cond of mommy, like I have been

1093
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:10,719
Speaker 1: doing so good.

1094
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:15,000
Speaker 2: Wrap it up, wrap that ship. Up. I have I

1095
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 2: have been. I'm not playing. I'm not playing. So today

1096
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:24,400
Speaker 2: I have no word. You shouldn't. It ain't no Soshi

1097
00:47:24,400 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 2: in my bedroom.

1098
00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 3: No moor I we're talking about now in the future.

1099
00:47:32,640 --> 00:47:37,640
Speaker 3: Why you always want to bring up old ship? God damn,

1100
00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 3: I can't even grown.

1101
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:41,239
Speaker 2: But sometimes we be having these conversations.

1102
00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:46,000
Speaker 3: Old ship don't really be that old.

1103
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:48,840
Speaker 2: Not that long ago. I have not had no like all.

1104
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:57,160
Speaker 3: To you is last week, motherfucking bitch in the year.

1105
00:47:57,360 --> 00:47:59,280
Speaker 3: That's why I had raw.

1106
00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:04,680
Speaker 2: Sex this year, and today is the thirty first. Can

1107
00:48:04,719 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 2: I get up a round of applause?

1108
00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 4: Can I get some now?

1109
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:11,040
Speaker 1: You gotta start somewhere, goddamn?

1110
00:48:11,080 --> 00:48:12,720
Speaker 2: Amen? Amen?

1111
00:48:14,200 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 4: Amen.

1112
00:48:15,160 --> 00:48:19,280
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1124
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1125
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Speaker 3: So what you're gonna do is you're gonna download the

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Speaker 3: a visiper person TWENTYSNY one no man move balance. Aquart

1146
00:49:42,760 --> 00:49:44,279
Speaker 3: must have one cent in savings and interests on up

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Speaker 3: current interest terms and conditions sixty times recapculating z FBIC

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Speaker 3: average national deposit ring for sacings account of a point

1150
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Speaker 3: zero CA. Today, I wanted to talk about how to

1151
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:57,200
Speaker 3: ask your partner to get testing because I feel like

1152
00:49:57,280 --> 00:50:00,320
Speaker 3: that's conversations that you need to have, like before you

1153
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:03,560
Speaker 3: be having raw sex and doing things, because sometimes you

1154
00:50:03,680 --> 00:50:06,439
Speaker 3: might get a little scared, you might peeing it, burn

1155
00:50:06,480 --> 00:50:08,239
Speaker 3: a little bit, somebody be a little itchy down there,

1156
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:09,760
Speaker 3: and then it's like it's too late, baby.

1157
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:11,399
Speaker 2: Go get the test. But whatever it is, whatever, it's

1158
00:50:11,440 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 2: all a feminitive, is it not? Now?

1159
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 1: So y'all need to have conversations before you have the

1160
00:50:17,640 --> 00:50:18,320
Speaker 1: raw sex.

1161
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:21,280
Speaker 3: Absolutely absolutely so how do you think that they should

1162
00:50:21,320 --> 00:50:25,000
Speaker 3: go about having a conversation, Well, giving them an example,

1163
00:50:25,040 --> 00:50:28,200
Speaker 3: because we know how niggas act impromptu. It is because

1164
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:30,080
Speaker 3: you know what, I had a conversation with somebody and

1165
00:50:30,160 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, we need to go get tested,

1166
00:50:32,360 --> 00:50:35,640
Speaker 3: and not recently, and not what anybody talked about it

1167
00:50:35,640 --> 00:50:37,040
Speaker 3: on the show, because y'all can be like, I want

1168
00:50:37,040 --> 00:50:39,640
Speaker 3: to stand that she sucked with nobody, But it was

1169
00:50:39,680 --> 00:50:42,120
Speaker 3: a conversation that I had with somebody, and I'm gonna

1170
00:50:42,120 --> 00:50:44,439
Speaker 3: say how it went because you know, niggas, niggas hate

1171
00:50:44,480 --> 00:50:47,120
Speaker 3: the doctor for some reason. And I can only say

1172
00:50:47,200 --> 00:50:49,440
Speaker 3: niggas because I only they black men. So I'm not

1173
00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 3: trying to single y'all out. But what I'm saying is

1174
00:50:52,120 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 3: like I've had conversations with you know me and they

1175
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,399
Speaker 3: just be like, oh, well you got tested, right, you clean?

1176
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:00,879
Speaker 2: So I mean I'm clean, And that's not how it works.

1177
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's definitely the wrong logic to have about getting testy.

1178
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 2: Yes, so so.

1179
00:51:06,320 --> 00:51:09,520
Speaker 3: Let's do a little I'm the bad be you the

1180
00:51:09,600 --> 00:51:12,240
Speaker 3: bad bitch, and I'm trying to fuck.

1181
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 2: I'm trying to fuck some like I'm trying to fuck

1182
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:20,239
Speaker 2: to not tonight to It ain't gonna come back they quick.

1183
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 3: But what I'm saying, but you know, but you see

1184
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:23,680
Speaker 3: the type of pressure I'm putting on you like I

1185
00:51:23,680 --> 00:51:24,799
Speaker 3: ain't trying to wake no more.

1186
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 2: Bit I don't know.

1187
00:51:27,320 --> 00:51:29,399
Speaker 3: It's been about two months. I'm about you a little

1188
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:33,600
Speaker 3: or another Rolex. I didn't I DIDNET gave you some

1189
00:51:34,000 --> 00:51:35,879
Speaker 3: some bad money, some shoe money.

1190
00:51:36,000 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: Like you've been over here whiling.

1191
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:40,279
Speaker 3: You've been on your little show talking about me. What's

1192
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:44,200
Speaker 3: up with that person? That's where I'm at. That's where

1193
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:44,560
Speaker 3: I'm at.

1194
00:51:44,760 --> 00:51:49,160
Speaker 2: Okay, and now I'm fed up? Now, okay, okay. So

1195
00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:50,319
Speaker 2: you're like, you know what you got?

1196
00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:51,560
Speaker 4: You just got off the phone with me.

1197
00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:53,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, we on the phone. You just got off the

1198
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:55,160
Speaker 2: phone with me. And I'm like, yeah, Dre, it's time

1199
00:51:55,160 --> 00:51:56,360
Speaker 2: to give a get that nigga some pusty.

1200
00:51:56,440 --> 00:51:58,040
Speaker 3: But you're like, okay, but I want to go get testy.

1201
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:01,680
Speaker 3: So you calling me, well, soup table?

1202
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:03,400
Speaker 2: What's up?

1203
00:52:04,560 --> 00:52:07,600
Speaker 3: Why you got attitude? I'm just saying, what are you saying?

1204
00:52:07,800 --> 00:52:10,880
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, what's up? Could you coming through tonight?

1205
00:52:10,960 --> 00:52:13,040
Speaker 2: What's up here? I'm gonna come over, But you know,

1206
00:52:14,440 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 2: I think we can just chew. Nah, you know what

1207
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:18,520
Speaker 2: I want?

1208
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:18,759
Speaker 8: Man?

1209
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:21,320
Speaker 3: Why you keep playing with me? We don't be we

1210
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:23,920
Speaker 3: don't We done been talking and did what you want it.

1211
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:26,120
Speaker 3: I'm not what else I gotta do. I'm not even

1212
00:52:26,160 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 3: playing with you. I just feel like, you know, we

1213
00:52:28,080 --> 00:52:29,200
Speaker 3: still don't really know each.

1214
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 2: Other like that know each other. You know each other

1215
00:52:31,320 --> 00:52:33,319
Speaker 2: when I gave you my fucking credit card? What's good?

1216
00:52:34,080 --> 00:52:41,920
Speaker 2: What's good with the yams? Bro? First of all, with them,

1217
00:52:45,239 --> 00:52:46,319
Speaker 2: I need to know what's good.

1218
00:52:48,800 --> 00:52:51,359
Speaker 3: I just feel like you know. We can definitely get

1219
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 3: to that, but we need to go get tested first testing. Yes,

1220
00:52:54,920 --> 00:52:56,359
Speaker 3: we need to go get tested. Do you know your

1221
00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,040
Speaker 3: status when this is the last time you got tested?

1222
00:52:58,160 --> 00:53:00,759
Speaker 3: But how do you know that when it's the last time.

1223
00:53:00,680 --> 00:53:03,400
Speaker 2: You hint got tested like two months ago? Can you

1224
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:06,080
Speaker 2: send me the papers? You don't trust me? No, No,

1225
00:53:06,239 --> 00:53:07,160
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't know you.

1226
00:53:07,600 --> 00:53:09,680
Speaker 3: You don't know, but you know me when we was

1227
00:53:09,760 --> 00:53:13,200
Speaker 3: at Lenox, Bro, you knew me at Lenard, Okay, but

1228
00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 3: I didn't.

1229
00:53:14,960 --> 00:53:17,960
Speaker 2: Bro. I'm just saying, this is what they're gonna do.

1230
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:18,680
Speaker 2: We gotta prepare you.

1231
00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:19,240
Speaker 4: No nig.

1232
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 2: Nigga on the card Yams. I won't, especially not when

1233
00:53:25,320 --> 00:53:29,279
Speaker 2: you're trying to get No. I'm mad. I'm mad.

1234
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:33,759
Speaker 3: I'm thinking when we was at Lenux, I didn't ask

1235
00:53:33,800 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 3: you about this stuff.

1236
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,640
Speaker 2: You did that on your own. You can't be mad.

1237
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:36,960
Speaker 2: So you.

1238
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:41,800
Speaker 3: Got enough money. It's so why why are you tripping

1239
00:53:41,800 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 3: about the money that you s med enough money? Clearly

1240
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:46,279
Speaker 3: because you know who the fuck I am?

1241
00:53:46,360 --> 00:53:53,640
Speaker 2: I Runney street Son. Ever heard of you? Bitch? Fuck you? Okay? Bye?

1242
00:53:56,480 --> 00:54:00,880
Speaker 2: Damn now he ain't you no solid about how you

1243
00:54:01,040 --> 00:54:03,720
Speaker 2: talk to people? So you see how she kept applying

1244
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:04,440
Speaker 2: the pressure.

1245
00:54:05,320 --> 00:54:08,240
Speaker 3: You still don't get don't falk because a regular bitch

1246
00:54:09,440 --> 00:54:11,440
Speaker 3: victim to the bay, they would have been like, oh

1247
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 3: you know what, let me.

1248
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,240
Speaker 2: Start being mean, let me just go fuck this nigga.

1249
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:16,919
Speaker 3: No no, Because then to the part where you said,

1250
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:20,160
Speaker 3: oh I got tested two months ago, Okay, we'll send

1251
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:20,920
Speaker 3: the paperwork.

1252
00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:24,239
Speaker 2: Where's the papers? And they don't be having me that.

1253
00:54:24,320 --> 00:54:26,600
Speaker 2: That's stay thingthing like, oh I just went and got tested. Okay,

1254
00:54:26,680 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: let me see.

1255
00:54:27,920 --> 00:54:29,840
Speaker 3: Because if a nigga asked me, I could let you

1256
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:32,640
Speaker 3: see right now, all all I got to do is

1257
00:54:32,719 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 3: log into my portal and I seen to it. I said, shot,

1258
00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,400
Speaker 3: see it's squeaky, squeak, this was clean.

1259
00:54:39,480 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 2: This was squeaky. I said, I know it is. I

1260
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 2: don't play them games.

1261
00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:49,800
Speaker 3: I don't play like yes, but I feel like but honestly,

1262
00:54:49,920 --> 00:54:52,320
Speaker 3: we being funny. But that was really a good example

1263
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,480
Speaker 3: because maybe I know being a little extra of course,

1264
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:58,040
Speaker 3: but I will say like niggas, but that's how they're

1265
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,480
Speaker 3: gonna act though. They're gonna be like, no, I'm good,

1266
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:02,719
Speaker 3: I'm clean. They're gonna be like questioning you, like what's up?

1267
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 3: Like oh, and they're gonna try to act funny because

1268
00:55:05,000 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 3: like niggas do not want to get tested.

1269
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: But the most important thing is to keep saying.

1270
00:55:08,840 --> 00:55:11,640
Speaker 3: Like until you want to get tested, we're not gonna

1271
00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,320
Speaker 3: be having no raw sex or not be fucking or

1272
00:55:14,440 --> 00:55:16,640
Speaker 3: sometimes a nigga will try to even make you feel

1273
00:55:16,719 --> 00:55:19,560
Speaker 3: like something wrong with you, like you want to why.

1274
00:55:19,480 --> 00:55:22,439
Speaker 2: Are you acting like that you got something? Hmm?

1275
00:55:22,560 --> 00:55:24,480
Speaker 3: Do you got something? Because I ain't got nothing. Well

1276
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,640
Speaker 3: let's go get like if you wanting to use a cun.

1277
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,319
Speaker 3: Or sometimes they be like man, I know I'm clean,

1278
00:55:28,480 --> 00:55:29,719
Speaker 3: so what's up with you?

1279
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:30,240
Speaker 2: Nigga?

1280
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,120
Speaker 1: Excuse me listen, let me tell you something.

1281
00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 2: I'm still using this motherfucking cun. I ain't got a fool.

1282
00:55:36,160 --> 00:55:38,520
Speaker 2: That's why I said, once you gonna get that full pence,

1283
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:40,440
Speaker 2: you don't get the full panels you don't want to do,

1284
00:55:41,200 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: don't touch me. I'm like text jacks, don't fucking touch me.

1285
00:55:50,000 --> 00:55:54,200
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get you a shirt. I mean, El squared,

1286
00:55:55,239 --> 00:55:58,120
Speaker 2: don't fucking touch me nothing for real? No, you do.

1287
00:55:58,239 --> 00:55:59,640
Speaker 2: You be wanting to stay away from earbody?

1288
00:56:00,200 --> 00:56:04,560
Speaker 1: You know, a pan on you like baby, So honestly,

1289
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:05,880
Speaker 1: I feel like it's just.

1290
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:09,560
Speaker 2: Very I don't tell niggas pressure you into doing things.

1291
00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,960
Speaker 3: And same thing with men too, because I mean, honestly,

1292
00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 3: dudes that I've been cool with, dudes that I've dated

1293
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:20,040
Speaker 3: have told me crazy stories about women too, Like they'll

1294
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 3: be like, you know, they be about to put a

1295
00:56:21,800 --> 00:56:23,480
Speaker 3: condom on, or they'll put it on and the girl

1296
00:56:23,600 --> 00:56:24,520
Speaker 3: be like, take it off.

1297
00:56:25,320 --> 00:56:27,279
Speaker 2: I don't want to use it no more. I don't

1298
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 2: want to help.

1299
00:56:30,960 --> 00:56:35,120
Speaker 3: But they'll be like, you know, women do that too. Yeah,

1300
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:37,040
Speaker 3: But I mean, I feel like, you know, niggas are

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Speaker 3: gonna be like.

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Speaker 2: Word.

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00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,920
Speaker 3: But at the end of the day, don't be letting

1304
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Speaker 3: people pressure you into doing things that you're not ready

1305
00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:47,440
Speaker 3: to do. If you don't feel comfortable having sex with

1306
00:56:47,520 --> 00:56:51,040
Speaker 3: somebody without a condom, especially if you don't know their status,

1307
00:56:51,280 --> 00:56:53,160
Speaker 3: don't do it. Don't let them make you feel like

1308
00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:55,880
Speaker 3: you're crazy, or don't let them make you feel.

1309
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Speaker 2: Like, oh why oh I just got tested. Okay, let

1310
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Speaker 2: me see. I can't just take your words.

1311
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:05,839
Speaker 3: And like I said, like she said, don't back down,

1312
00:57:06,120 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 3: stay in Joe ground because you can't look at people

1313
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Speaker 3: until when they be having the package, having the package bach.

1314
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Speaker 2: And we don't want it.

1315
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Speaker 3: What's up, y'all is your girl XP and it's Sugarl

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Speaker 3: Drey and the Cold and y'all know we're gonna tell

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1318
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Speaker 2: We love us some Hello Fresh.

1319
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Speaker 3: You know, with the year is starting off, we're now

1320
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1321
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:36,480
Speaker 3: with my clean eating and working out. So Hello Freshes

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Speaker 3: been helping me out a lot. It's been making it

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1324
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Speaker 3: long trips to the grocery store and I just get

1325
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Speaker 3: my food delivered to my house pre portioned ingredients right.

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Speaker 3: you say sixty five dollars per grocery store trip versus

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Speaker 3: whenever you use Hello Fresh.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Absolutely So. I just made some Crispy Buffalo spice

1333
00:58:06,120 --> 00:58:09,240
Speaker 2: chicken the other day and that ship was so bong.

1334
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Speaker 2: It sounds good. This was good Chrispy Buffalo is. I

1335
00:58:14,160 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: love you, know, and I love spicy. I love you.

1336
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Speaker 2: Gotta mix it up.

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Speaker 2: Then give you some food job.

1342
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Speaker 3: Okay, So I want to do a movie breakdown real quick.

1343
00:58:38,040 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 3: So this movie is actually in theaters, so you have

1344
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 3: to go see it. I went and saw a movie

1345
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 3: called Clean. I haven't seen any promotions for this movie.

1346
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 3: I haven't seen any ads for it.

1347
00:58:49,680 --> 00:58:51,760
Speaker 2: Nothing. Literally, I was trying to go see the New

1348
00:58:51,800 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 2: Screen movie, but.

1349
00:58:53,960 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 3: I went to the new Ipic theaters in Colony Square,

1350
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:58,120
Speaker 3: which is really fucking nice.

1351
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 2: I highly recommend it. We I had a good time.

1352
00:59:01,440 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 3: So yeah, I when I saw a movie clean. It's

1353
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:07,120
Speaker 3: with Adrian Broner. Adrian Broner is the guy that was

1354
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:09,960
Speaker 3: in Cadillac Records with Beyonce. He's been in a lot

1355
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 3: of other good He's just a good actor, like he

1356
00:59:12,720 --> 00:59:14,400
Speaker 3: was in that movie I think with fifty cent to

1357
00:59:14,920 --> 00:59:17,200
Speaker 3: when it was like robbing people. I don't know, He's

1358
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 3: just been in a lot of movies.

1359
00:59:18,560 --> 00:59:20,400
Speaker 2: I just but anyways, so.

1360
00:59:22,080 --> 00:59:24,680
Speaker 3: I wanted to talk about this movie because it was

1361
00:59:24,840 --> 00:59:27,760
Speaker 3: just surprisingly good. Because when I saw the previews, I

1362
00:59:27,880 --> 00:59:30,040
Speaker 3: was like, Okay, it's like a little action movie and

1363
00:59:30,120 --> 00:59:30,479
Speaker 3: it has.

1364
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 2: Like a background. So I was like, let me just

1365
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:32,960
Speaker 2: go see it.

1366
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 3: But it ended up being so good and I'm not

1367
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,680
Speaker 3: gonna give away the plot twist at the end. So

1368
00:59:37,840 --> 00:59:40,720
Speaker 3: basically the movie is about a guy. He's a garbage

1369
00:59:40,760 --> 00:59:46,560
Speaker 3: man and he like takes care of this little girl

1370
00:59:46,640 --> 00:59:48,880
Speaker 3: that's in the neighborhood that he picks up garbage from

1371
00:59:49,320 --> 00:59:51,080
Speaker 3: and he just kind of has a bond with her.

1372
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:52,760
Speaker 2: He feels like he's supposed to protect her.

1373
00:59:53,360 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 3: And the good thing about the movie is like, honestly,

1374
00:59:56,320 --> 00:59:58,760
Speaker 3: the first like forty five minutes of the film, you're

1375
00:59:58,800 --> 01:00:02,440
Speaker 3: getting to know his care character. You're getting his background story,

1376
01:00:02,680 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 3: You're getting to know the little girl, like why she's

1377
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:08,920
Speaker 3: important to him. And one thing I will say is

1378
01:00:09,280 --> 01:00:12,960
Speaker 3: when you watch a show like Ozark or Gray's Anatomy,

1379
01:00:13,240 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 3: you know it's a series, so you get to know

1380
01:00:15,400 --> 01:00:18,040
Speaker 3: the characters over time and you get to grow to

1381
01:00:18,120 --> 01:00:20,640
Speaker 3: love them. But one thing that's hard in movies is

1382
01:00:20,720 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 3: to become connected to a character because essentially you only

1383
01:00:23,840 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 3: have an hour and thirty minutes to two hours. So

1384
01:00:26,920 --> 01:00:29,040
Speaker 3: I feel like the good thing about this film, which

1385
01:00:29,040 --> 01:00:34,320
Speaker 3: he did produce Adrian bro is it Brody had actually

1386
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 3: produced it. He had actually produced it, so I feel

1387
01:00:38,800 --> 01:00:40,000
Speaker 3: like he kind of knew what to do.

1388
01:00:40,040 --> 01:00:43,240
Speaker 2: With the character development. So I really like the character development.

1389
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:46,480
Speaker 3: So anyways, it comes out like the little girl that

1390
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 3: he's watching over ends up going to a party getting

1391
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 3: real fucked up, and the people at the party were

1392
01:00:51,680 --> 01:00:54,360
Speaker 3: like trying to rape her, so he busting the party,

1393
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 3: ends up beating everybody ass So it comes out that

1394
01:00:58,720 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 3: he used to be an assassin, so it's giving equalizer

1395
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:07,840
Speaker 3: John john Wick VI's and once the story, once he

1396
01:01:07,960 --> 01:01:10,400
Speaker 3: goes in the party and beats everybody up, the story

1397
01:01:10,520 --> 01:01:13,080
Speaker 3: just takes off from there, and like honestly, like the

1398
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:16,000
Speaker 3: last forty five minutes of the film, you're literally on

1399
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:17,200
Speaker 3: the edge of your seat cause.

1400
01:01:17,000 --> 01:01:18,520
Speaker 2: You're like, what the fuck is gonna happen next? Like,

1401
01:01:18,560 --> 01:01:20,400
Speaker 2: what the fuck is gonna happen next? It was a

1402
01:01:20,480 --> 01:01:21,280
Speaker 2: really good movie.

1403
01:01:21,520 --> 01:01:24,640
Speaker 3: The little girl that played because she's it's a little

1404
01:01:24,640 --> 01:01:26,360
Speaker 3: black girl on the film. She was so cute and

1405
01:01:26,440 --> 01:01:29,440
Speaker 3: she did a good job. I was just pleasantly surprised,

1406
01:01:29,480 --> 01:01:31,400
Speaker 3: and I was like, damn, why aren't they promoting.

1407
01:01:31,080 --> 01:01:32,000
Speaker 2: This movie everywhere?

1408
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the ending, it's just gonna send you for

1409
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 3: a little because y'all know they have to have And

1410
01:01:37,000 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 3: then like one of the guys he ended up beating

1411
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:41,240
Speaker 3: up at the party was like the King Pen's son,

1412
01:01:42,120 --> 01:01:43,840
Speaker 3: you know, so you know how that shit go, Like

1413
01:01:43,880 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 3: who beat up Mason? You know how they do every movie,

1414
01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 3: you know, So it just ended the plot twist. At

1415
01:01:50,880 --> 01:01:54,160
Speaker 3: the end, Robert Bay was sleep and I was like, this.

1416
01:01:55,640 --> 01:01:57,400
Speaker 2: That would have been me. I will stay following the

1417
01:01:57,440 --> 01:01:59,080
Speaker 2: sleep in the movie. Oh my god. And I'm a

1418
01:01:59,160 --> 01:01:59,800
Speaker 2: movie person.

1419
01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:01,680
Speaker 3: I hate people that fall see when the movies like

1420
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:03,760
Speaker 3: but I will say we weren't really drunk because we

1421
01:02:03,880 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 3: was an I pick and we was ordering up.

1422
01:02:05,640 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 2: Actually, let me tell you how Atlanta I pick is.

1423
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,400
Speaker 3: Somebody next to us they have ordered the bottle that

1424
01:02:11,560 --> 01:02:13,880
Speaker 3: you can order a bottle that seats a bottle.

1425
01:02:13,960 --> 01:02:15,440
Speaker 1: Maybe I was tripping because you know they do have

1426
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:16,919
Speaker 1: those glass bottles of water.

1427
01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:18,800
Speaker 2: But I don't know what it was because I was

1428
01:02:18,800 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 2: a little drunk and I couldn't see some sparkling. It

1429
01:02:20,920 --> 01:02:21,760
Speaker 2: wasn't no sparkling.

1430
01:02:21,800 --> 01:02:24,160
Speaker 3: I said, these motherfucker's got a bottle of that piece

1431
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 3: of rock, and this motherfucker that the piece it was

1432
01:02:27,240 --> 01:02:29,040
Speaker 3: going down in that bach be side.

1433
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 2: People they drink Sara but snow, we don't didd he

1434
01:02:34,720 --> 01:02:42,200
Speaker 2: we love s just in case for me, I cannot

1435
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:42,760
Speaker 2: do it.

1436
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:46,640
Speaker 3: But yes, clean, it's such a good movie. It's in theaters.

1437
01:02:46,680 --> 01:02:49,040
Speaker 3: I know it'll probably be out soon on like you know,

1438
01:02:49,200 --> 01:02:51,439
Speaker 3: Prome whatever like that. But it's a really good movie.

1439
01:02:51,520 --> 01:02:52,920
Speaker 3: So if you can go to the theaters and see it.

1440
01:02:53,200 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 3: They did a great job with character development and like

1441
01:02:57,200 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 3: you connect with somebody, and I love when you can

1442
01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:02,320
Speaker 3: connect to somebody and see their soft side. And then

1443
01:03:02,360 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 3: they ended up being like a crazy psycho person and

1444
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:07,440
Speaker 3: it was like, let me just say this. I don't

1445
01:03:07,440 --> 01:03:09,280
Speaker 3: want to give away the movie but he had like

1446
01:03:09,440 --> 01:03:12,640
Speaker 3: built this gun so like the ending scene, he had

1447
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:15,400
Speaker 3: built this big ass fucking like gun, so like when

1448
01:03:15,400 --> 01:03:17,240
Speaker 3: he would shoot people, he would say boom and just

1449
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 3: shoot them and it would blow their whole fucking head off.

1450
01:03:20,200 --> 01:03:22,880
Speaker 2: It was just crazy. It was a good fucking movie.

1451
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:25,000
Speaker 2: I was like, yes, you know, you love when the

1452
01:03:25,080 --> 01:03:27,560
Speaker 2: hero saves the day, so yes, clean, it is a

1453
01:03:27,600 --> 01:03:30,280
Speaker 2: good movie. Definitely go see it. The ending is gonna

1454
01:03:30,320 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 2: throw you for a fucking loop. What's up, y'all?

1455
01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:36,200
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1456
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:38,400
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Speaker 3: about Better Help and how much we stand by them,

1458
01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:41,520
Speaker 3: and we.

1459
01:03:41,720 --> 01:03:43,960
Speaker 2: Absolutely love it. Yeah, y'all know how much we love

1460
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Speaker 2: Better Help.

1461
01:03:45,000 --> 01:03:47,800
Speaker 3: Actually, I don't know if I said this before it,

1462
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:51,480
Speaker 3: but I actually had to change counselors recently, and so

1463
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:52,880
Speaker 3: I love my new counselor.

1464
01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 2: But the whole process was super easy, and yeah, that's yeah.

1465
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Speaker 1: You can start communicating with your counselor forty eight hours.

1466
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1467
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1468
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Speaker 1: So if you've ever had like a fear of like

1469
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1470
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Speaker 3: You do this from the comfort of your own home,

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Speaker 2: Health, all right, Since now each time they get into

1484
01:04:59,520 --> 01:05:07,680
Speaker 2: doub Hey bo, I'm annoying.

1485
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,600
Speaker 3: I'm definitely giving my man, my man, my man in

1486
01:05:10,680 --> 01:05:13,000
Speaker 3: this episode because my man.

1487
01:05:14,720 --> 01:05:17,120
Speaker 2: Put me on this song. So you know this is

1488
01:05:17,160 --> 01:05:17,520
Speaker 2: what I do.

1489
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:19,840
Speaker 3: Like me and rapper Baby do not have the same

1490
01:05:20,000 --> 01:05:21,880
Speaker 3: taste of music at all. But when I be in

1491
01:05:21,920 --> 01:05:24,400
Speaker 3: the car, why we don't because he likes to listen

1492
01:05:24,480 --> 01:05:26,640
Speaker 3: to like that real rap ship, like I've been in

1493
01:05:26,760 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 3: the hood throwing up my sick.

1494
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 2: You want to go to the wall, Nigga, that's so big.

1495
01:05:32,840 --> 01:05:34,520
Speaker 2: That's the type of ship listen to. No, he do

1496
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:43,960
Speaker 2: like here he rapped like that. He cut up the

1497
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:47,320
Speaker 2: fuck out. But he know I with music, you do,

1498
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:48,240
Speaker 2: you do, okay.

1499
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:51,120
Speaker 3: So anyway, so I'm the type of person if we

1500
01:05:51,280 --> 01:05:53,160
Speaker 3: in the car and you listen to something fire, I'm

1501
01:05:53,160 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 3: not about to ask you what it is. I'm about

1502
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 3: to get on Snapchat and precious like some ship like

1503
01:05:59,160 --> 01:06:01,880
Speaker 3: you ain't about to say you put me on That's

1504
01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 3: what I should say, am.

1505
01:06:04,520 --> 01:06:05,760
Speaker 2: And I didn't even ask him because I was like,

1506
01:06:05,800 --> 01:06:07,440
Speaker 2: damn ship kind of roaring. Cuz.

1507
01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 3: So it's a rap song, y'all know I rarely do

1508
01:06:13,480 --> 01:06:16,720
Speaker 3: rap songs, but I actually listened to this artist. His

1509
01:06:16,840 --> 01:06:19,080
Speaker 3: name is baby Face Ray. He has a song with

1510
01:06:19,160 --> 01:06:22,960
Speaker 3: Push Your Te called Dancing with the Devil and one thing.

1511
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:29,439
Speaker 3: I just love putting visuals to music, and the video

1512
01:06:29,560 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 3: that they shot to this song was just so good.

1513
01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:34,040
Speaker 1: And you know, push Your te gonna wrap his ass

1514
01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:34,800
Speaker 1: off anytime.

1515
01:06:35,440 --> 01:06:38,800
Speaker 2: So they were just it's really like that's what he

1516
01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:39,800
Speaker 2: always used to say.

1517
01:06:41,120 --> 01:06:41,520
Speaker 3: He did.

1518
01:06:42,280 --> 01:06:43,680
Speaker 2: But yes, it's a good story.

1519
01:06:44,880 --> 01:06:48,160
Speaker 3: The video is really fucking hard. It's like about him

1520
01:06:48,200 --> 01:06:51,000
Speaker 3: and a girl, like robbing somebody. It's it's a whole story.

1521
01:06:51,040 --> 01:06:52,720
Speaker 3: And you know, I feel like that's how King Vaughn

1522
01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 3: used to rap too, Like he was always telling.

1523
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,360
Speaker 2: A love king one thing about music video.

1524
01:06:58,840 --> 01:07:01,640
Speaker 3: He don't tell a story that was a rapping ass nigga.

1525
01:07:01,640 --> 01:07:03,760
Speaker 3: He don't tell the He may be lying, but he

1526
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 3: gonna tell it. I ain't say he was lying or not.

1527
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:10,000
Speaker 3: I'm just playing on your own. I'm not saying I

1528
01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:13,280
Speaker 3: don't be wanting no beef. Was he from O block?

1529
01:07:13,360 --> 01:07:14,640
Speaker 3: I want no smoke.

1530
01:07:14,800 --> 01:07:16,840
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that I want no smoke with your

1531
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:20,880
Speaker 2: Chicago nigga. I did not say nothing. All I'm saying is.

1532
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 3: Why would you say saying that he's lying when I'm

1533
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,840
Speaker 3: saying as an entertainer, like you know, if I suck

1534
01:07:27,880 --> 01:07:29,840
Speaker 3: a nigga digs, sometimes I suck a niggadig like this,

1535
01:07:30,840 --> 01:07:31,920
Speaker 3: But I be talking about.

1536
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:34,080
Speaker 2: It like I did it like that. It's just a

1537
01:07:34,120 --> 01:07:35,200
Speaker 2: part of being an entertainer.

1538
01:07:35,280 --> 01:07:36,360
Speaker 4: You got an admiral STNG.

1539
01:07:36,480 --> 01:07:38,640
Speaker 3: Why is you sucking a niggadine who you could use

1540
01:07:38,680 --> 01:07:40,240
Speaker 3: two fingers on it happen.

1541
01:07:41,200 --> 01:07:45,520
Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about that after the show. Bro, that's

1542
01:07:45,720 --> 01:07:49,160
Speaker 2: your fault. Why would you even put those it hard? Hard?

1543
01:07:50,280 --> 01:07:52,600
Speaker 2: Toms was hard? Oh my god.

1544
01:07:52,960 --> 01:07:56,160
Speaker 3: Okay, shout out to baby Face, right, push your chee

1545
01:07:56,680 --> 01:08:00,280
Speaker 3: dancing dancing with the devil. Yeah, so go ahead, okay,

1546
01:08:00,360 --> 01:08:02,520
Speaker 3: soth My about for the week is called op party.

1547
01:08:03,600 --> 01:08:06,720
Speaker 2: I hate a op party. Op party. Dog Boy g

1548
01:08:06,880 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 2: Herbo in Nardo week, I told you being growing on me.

1549
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:14,840
Speaker 2: He really has y'all be having him fucked up because

1550
01:08:14,840 --> 01:08:15,640
Speaker 2: he be sliding.

1551
01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 3: He don't rap on beat, but he's gonna slop. He

1552
01:08:18,280 --> 01:08:22,760
Speaker 3: be sliding off beat, but he'd be sliding. Yeah he do. Yes,

1553
01:08:23,000 --> 01:08:26,280
Speaker 3: I agree, he's saying some real shit. I'll be like, Okay, Herbo,

1554
01:08:26,640 --> 01:08:28,799
Speaker 3: he'll be off bat but I fun with that nigga.

1555
01:08:28,920 --> 01:08:36,679
Speaker 2: Yeah ship anyway he has from the stories he'd be telling.

1556
01:08:36,880 --> 01:08:37,760
Speaker 2: He is storyteller.

1557
01:08:38,080 --> 01:08:40,759
Speaker 3: He is he is a storytelling me this Chicago niggas,

1558
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:43,599
Speaker 3: what the fuck y'all going through?

1559
01:08:44,680 --> 01:08:47,880
Speaker 2: But that's how Kanye is gonna tell. He's gonna tell

1560
01:08:47,880 --> 01:08:48,240
Speaker 2: a story.

1561
01:08:48,280 --> 01:08:50,599
Speaker 3: But yeah, so that's my vibe. It's called op party

1562
01:08:50,800 --> 01:08:52,479
Speaker 3: and I've been talking with Nardo week too.

1563
01:08:52,800 --> 01:08:53,720
Speaker 2: I love no Week.

1564
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:55,679
Speaker 3: Okay, So you know, I was listening to his album

1565
01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:59,759
Speaker 3: and he has Yeah, he had a song with Lakillah.

1566
01:09:00,720 --> 01:09:03,400
Speaker 1: It's called Babby what You're Doing and that shit hard.

1567
01:09:03,880 --> 01:09:04,439
Speaker 2: I like Loki.

1568
01:09:04,640 --> 01:09:07,960
Speaker 3: Honestly, I didn't like Laquilla, but after I heard this verse,

1569
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:10,120
Speaker 3: I took the time out to really go listen to her.

1570
01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:11,840
Speaker 2: I'm like, Okay, she hard.

1571
01:09:11,960 --> 01:09:13,880
Speaker 3: I like her. I feel like she could rap. I

1572
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,000
Speaker 3: just feel like, no, I just feel like she hasn't

1573
01:09:16,040 --> 01:09:19,599
Speaker 3: had like a breakout. She hasn't had that single yet.

1574
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:23,479
Speaker 3: It's gonna catapult her, Like as far as like the

1575
01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:26,519
Speaker 3: rap women right now, she definitely be holding her own

1576
01:09:26,600 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 3: like she could.

1577
01:09:26,960 --> 01:09:27,280
Speaker 2: Definitely.

1578
01:09:27,960 --> 01:09:29,760
Speaker 3: I did not take the time to go listen to her,

1579
01:09:29,840 --> 01:09:31,360
Speaker 3: but yeah, I feel like a lot of times, you know,

1580
01:09:31,520 --> 01:09:33,560
Speaker 3: it was from what I saw, it was kind of

1581
01:09:33,600 --> 01:09:35,479
Speaker 3: like gimmicky to me. But when I went to go

1582
01:09:35,680 --> 01:09:37,880
Speaker 3: listen after I heard her verse on that, I was like,

1583
01:09:37,960 --> 01:09:39,960
Speaker 3: let me go listen to her, and I was like, oh, yeah.

1584
01:09:39,840 --> 01:09:42,080
Speaker 2: She hard. She just gotta get that single.

1585
01:09:42,160 --> 01:09:43,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, she just got to get a single. I mean

1586
01:09:43,840 --> 01:09:45,840
Speaker 3: that's the same way I feel like about King the Man.

1587
01:09:46,400 --> 01:09:48,840
Speaker 3: King the Man is one of the hardest female rappers

1588
01:09:48,920 --> 01:09:50,160
Speaker 3: right now period.

1589
01:09:50,439 --> 01:09:51,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, she snapping.

1590
01:09:52,160 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 3: She definitely be snapping. So I feel like that's the

1591
01:09:55,200 --> 01:09:58,559
Speaker 3: same thing for her. Like once she get that one single, ye,

1592
01:09:59,080 --> 01:10:00,439
Speaker 3: like she's gonna be out of here. That's what I

1593
01:10:00,520 --> 01:10:02,320
Speaker 3: think a lot of people just need you know what

1594
01:10:02,360 --> 01:10:04,519
Speaker 3: I mean that they sometimes some people don't never yet,

1595
01:10:04,640 --> 01:10:07,120
Speaker 3: but they just need that one single and then people

1596
01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:10,760
Speaker 3: really gonna start fucking with it. Anyways, it's not it's time.

1597
01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 3: What about who? When I get my shot, I ain't

1598
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:18,200
Speaker 3: gonna look back.

1599
01:10:18,520 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 2: You're not even a rapper. Though I'm a singer, You're

1600
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:25,160
Speaker 2: not a singer. I don't really know what is.

1601
01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:33,519
Speaker 3: Okay, So you know, here comes our favorite segment every week.

1602
01:10:33,760 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 3: We love to pour your heart out sigment, so you

1603
01:10:36,040 --> 01:10:38,680
Speaker 3: know it's always. If you have any questions, you can

1604
01:10:38,720 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 3: send them to ask Poor Minds at gmail dot com.

1605
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:45,639
Speaker 3: It's as KPO you are am I nds at gmail

1606
01:10:45,880 --> 01:10:49,200
Speaker 3: dot com and lix and I will answer your questions.

1607
01:10:49,280 --> 01:10:52,040
Speaker 3: Also sendra testimonials in if you would like to tell

1608
01:10:52,120 --> 01:10:53,240
Speaker 3: us how we helped.

1609
01:10:53,160 --> 01:10:55,679
Speaker 2: Or hindered your life. Okay.

1610
01:10:56,439 --> 01:11:01,040
Speaker 3: Question number one, Hey, ladies are absolutely love your podcast.

1611
01:11:01,160 --> 01:11:03,519
Speaker 3: My boyfriend and I have been together for six years strong.

1612
01:11:04,080 --> 01:11:06,719
Speaker 3: Just recently last year he mentioned his views on marriage

1613
01:11:06,720 --> 01:11:09,200
Speaker 3: and how he doesn't think, how he doesn't think he wants.

1614
01:11:09,040 --> 01:11:10,000
Speaker 2: To get married anymore.

1615
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,240
Speaker 3: All along, that was the plan to get married, have children,

1616
01:11:13,560 --> 01:11:16,519
Speaker 3: the all nine and now he has changed changed his views.

1617
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:19,679
Speaker 3: I'm almost thirty and I'm ready to start having kids.

1618
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:22,360
Speaker 3: My family is super religious and go so hard on

1619
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 3: this topic. I asked for a ring to solidify the relationship,

1620
01:11:26,040 --> 01:11:28,680
Speaker 3: so he brought me a ring months later, no proposal.

1621
01:11:29,240 --> 01:11:31,360
Speaker 3: He brought me a ring because that's what I asked for,

1622
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 3: with no speech.

1623
01:11:32,680 --> 01:11:34,880
Speaker 2: What should I do? I really love this man and

1624
01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:38,519
Speaker 2: he's a good man, Savannah. She did not say something.

1625
01:11:42,200 --> 01:11:44,880
Speaker 3: Say every time somebody saying he's a good man, I

1626
01:11:44,880 --> 01:11:46,320
Speaker 3: always think he's a good man.

1627
01:11:46,479 --> 01:11:48,680
Speaker 2: Savannah. Okay, I don't know.

1628
01:11:49,120 --> 01:11:49,439
Speaker 8: I don't know.

1629
01:11:49,640 --> 01:11:52,240
Speaker 3: Like you just need to be intentional on and tell

1630
01:11:52,280 --> 01:11:54,559
Speaker 3: people what you're looking for. You was like you asked

1631
01:11:54,600 --> 01:11:56,120
Speaker 3: for a ring and he gave you a ring. No,

1632
01:11:56,240 --> 01:11:58,320
Speaker 3: you should have said, I want to get married. I

1633
01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 3: want to be engaged. Words mean things, and I don't

1634
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:03,439
Speaker 3: want to be that person that's petty like, oh, you

1635
01:12:03,560 --> 01:12:07,200
Speaker 3: need to be specific, but yes, be specific with exactly

1636
01:12:07,280 --> 01:12:10,000
Speaker 3: what you want and exactly what you expect, because let

1637
01:12:10,080 --> 01:12:11,639
Speaker 3: me let me tell you something about these niggas.

1638
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,320
Speaker 2: They gonna read the fine print and be like, well, you.

1639
01:12:14,400 --> 01:12:17,920
Speaker 3: Said the ring, yeah, and I and then I also

1640
01:12:18,000 --> 01:12:21,879
Speaker 3: wouldn't have accepted the ring without a proper proposal, exactly

1641
01:12:22,120 --> 01:12:23,720
Speaker 3: like you know what I mean, you let him put

1642
01:12:23,760 --> 01:12:24,559
Speaker 3: the ring on your finger.

1643
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:26,080
Speaker 2: I'm sure you've been rocking it too.

1644
01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:33,120
Speaker 3: So like this, right, I'm sure you've been rocking a

1645
01:12:33,240 --> 01:12:35,479
Speaker 3: ring too. So at the end of the day, I

1646
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:38,000
Speaker 3: just wouldn't have even accepted it if it wasn't on

1647
01:12:38,200 --> 01:12:40,240
Speaker 3: the terms that I wanted it to be on, because

1648
01:12:40,320 --> 01:12:42,720
Speaker 3: now you're in a situation where I feel like he

1649
01:12:42,800 --> 01:12:44,519
Speaker 3: feels like, oh, I put this ring on her fingers.

1650
01:12:44,560 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 2: She said that's what she wants. We good, right, We're

1651
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:47,599
Speaker 2: good now.

1652
01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:51,240
Speaker 3: And he probably has no plans on marrying you because

1653
01:12:51,240 --> 01:12:53,800
Speaker 3: he already told you he don't really want to get married.

1654
01:12:53,880 --> 01:12:55,280
Speaker 3: But see me a bitch like men, you would have

1655
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 3: put that ring on my feet out I would have said,

1656
01:12:56,880 --> 01:13:02,439
Speaker 3: thank you, fiance, thank you, thanks fiance, shouldn't get the

1657
01:13:02,520 --> 01:13:04,639
Speaker 3: dates ready, But I feel like even if she said

1658
01:13:04,760 --> 01:13:07,200
Speaker 3: this though, they still wouldn't change the fact that technically

1659
01:13:07,240 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 3: they not engaged. If you haven't proposed, you're right, But

1660
01:13:11,920 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 3: that's why a ring on your finger is completely like

1661
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 3: a nigga can give me a ring today.

1662
01:13:16,960 --> 01:13:17,679
Speaker 2: And I wear the ring.

1663
01:13:18,160 --> 01:13:27,519
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm wearing a ring. Bro Okay, I'm wearing a ring.

1664
01:13:27,640 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 3: What did you actually propose to me?

1665
01:13:29,560 --> 01:13:29,720
Speaker 2: Though?

1666
01:13:29,920 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 3: Like, did you actually ask you? Did you actually ask

1667
01:13:35,640 --> 01:13:37,599
Speaker 3: me to be your wife? Because that's the only way

1668
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:39,160
Speaker 3: I acknowledge it this.

1669
01:13:39,240 --> 01:13:41,880
Speaker 1: So I think you need to have a conversation with

1670
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:43,599
Speaker 1: him and say what is this ring?

1671
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 2: What? What is am I just wearing a ring? So yeah,

1672
01:13:48,200 --> 01:13:49,080
Speaker 2: question number two.

1673
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:51,400
Speaker 3: Hey ladies, First, I want to say I'm such a

1674
01:13:51,520 --> 01:13:52,519
Speaker 3: huge fan of you two.

1675
01:13:52,680 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 2: I love this show so much.

1676
01:13:54,560 --> 01:13:56,559
Speaker 3: I recently had a one night staying with this guy

1677
01:13:56,640 --> 01:13:59,200
Speaker 3: I was seeing while I was working on an assignment

1678
01:13:59,280 --> 01:13:59,719
Speaker 3: in DC.

1679
01:14:00,200 --> 01:14:03,320
Speaker 2: Let's call him a rattlesnake. He has a pet snake.

1680
01:14:04,760 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 2: Two weeks later, well, I like a little rat all

1681
01:14:10,320 --> 01:14:13,840
Speaker 2: she was talking about. It could be both.

1682
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:18,599
Speaker 3: Two weeks later, my boob started feeling tender as fuck,

1683
01:14:18,880 --> 01:14:21,400
Speaker 3: and on Christmas I missed my period. I took a

1684
01:14:21,479 --> 01:14:24,960
Speaker 3: pregnancy test and the result was positive. I'm twenty eight

1685
01:14:25,040 --> 01:14:27,800
Speaker 3: and I've never been pregnant before, and honestly, I'm not

1686
01:14:27,920 --> 01:14:28,960
Speaker 3: ready to be a mom yet.

1687
01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:31,200
Speaker 1: Rattlesnake is nice, but since I.

1688
01:14:31,320 --> 01:14:32,960
Speaker 2: Left, we barely talk anymore.

1689
01:14:33,240 --> 01:14:35,400
Speaker 3: Should I tell rattle Snake that I'm pregnant and not

1690
01:14:35,560 --> 01:14:38,040
Speaker 3: keeping it or just go about my decision and keep

1691
01:14:38,080 --> 01:14:40,559
Speaker 3: it on the hush. Also, I have a guy friend

1692
01:14:40,640 --> 01:14:42,919
Speaker 3: coming up to see me next week, and my appointment

1693
01:14:43,000 --> 01:14:45,719
Speaker 3: to take care of my situation isn't until the week after.

1694
01:14:46,120 --> 01:14:48,960
Speaker 3: There's a possibility we might have sex. Is it weird

1695
01:14:49,040 --> 01:14:51,320
Speaker 3: to have sex while being pregnant with another man's baby.

1696
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:54,040
Speaker 3: I'm really trifhing out here and I need some advice.

1697
01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:54,479
Speaker 9: Girl.

1698
01:14:54,520 --> 01:14:56,720
Speaker 3: He you about to go to a cabin anyway, telling me,

1699
01:14:56,800 --> 01:14:58,559
Speaker 3: got some puzzins up there waiting on them.

1700
01:14:58,840 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 1: Tell them to say Paul my when he walk in.

1701
01:15:00,960 --> 01:15:02,600
Speaker 2: And he gonna be good. They're gonna usher him to

1702
01:15:02,640 --> 01:15:07,679
Speaker 2: be upy girl, that man you a good time. I agree.

1703
01:15:07,800 --> 01:15:10,479
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like if you not gonna

1704
01:15:10,600 --> 01:15:12,439
Speaker 2: keep the baby and you don't fuck with that.

1705
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,360
Speaker 3: Nigga like that and you're not showing it, he ain't

1706
01:15:15,439 --> 01:15:17,439
Speaker 3: like he gonna know. It ain't like he gonna know

1707
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:22,400
Speaker 3: it's a little baby in the ayah, it ain't even

1708
01:15:22,439 --> 01:15:22,960
Speaker 3: an embryo.

1709
01:15:23,200 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 2: It's just some seals.

1710
01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:26,200
Speaker 1: It's just some sales girl.

1711
01:15:26,320 --> 01:15:28,800
Speaker 3: And tell him to say poor months pe Oh you

1712
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 3: are when you walk in begon sean right way to go.

1713
01:15:32,439 --> 01:15:34,000
Speaker 3: But yeah, I just feel like if you're not that's

1714
01:15:34,080 --> 01:15:35,960
Speaker 3: good though you know you're not ready to be a mom,

1715
01:15:36,240 --> 01:15:38,000
Speaker 3: So I definitely don't think you should have a baby

1716
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:39,160
Speaker 3: if you're not ready to be a mom.

1717
01:15:39,400 --> 01:15:41,400
Speaker 2: But I feel like you should just keep leaving your life,

1718
01:15:41,600 --> 01:15:42,880
Speaker 2: Like I mean, I.

1719
01:15:42,880 --> 01:15:44,720
Speaker 3: Wouldn't miss my bicker appointment if I know I'm about

1720
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,639
Speaker 3: to get You've made the decision what you wanted to baby.

1721
01:15:48,040 --> 01:15:50,800
Speaker 3: If you want to continue to have a relationship with Rattlesnake,

1722
01:15:50,960 --> 01:15:53,559
Speaker 3: maybe you should tell him. But if you don't see

1723
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 3: things going anywhere, I just feel like you should just,

1724
01:15:56,200 --> 01:15:57,360
Speaker 3: you know, kind of do what you want to do

1725
01:15:57,400 --> 01:15:59,639
Speaker 3: because it's your body. But I feel like if you're

1726
01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:01,960
Speaker 3: gonna tendue a relationship with him, then you do need

1727
01:16:02,040 --> 01:16:05,240
Speaker 3: to disclose that information. I do feel that way, cause

1728
01:16:05,240 --> 01:16:06,840
Speaker 3: I mean, like, if you want to continue to talk

1729
01:16:06,880 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 3: to somebody, you should tell them like, hey, this is

1730
01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:11,479
Speaker 3: what's going on and let them know.

1731
01:16:11,600 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 2: But I agree, Yeah, I definitely one hundred percent agree.

1732
01:16:14,640 --> 01:16:16,240
Speaker 2: But if you don't want to talk to him, I'm

1733
01:16:16,280 --> 01:16:18,280
Speaker 2: on like, what fuck you and that baby.

1734
01:16:20,560 --> 01:16:23,320
Speaker 3: I've been a new watcher since January and I've literally

1735
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:26,880
Speaker 3: watched every show already. You guys are so pretty smart

1736
01:16:26,920 --> 01:16:29,880
Speaker 3: and motivating. I was on IG and someone offered me

1737
01:16:30,000 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 3: ten thousand dollars to link. I didn't, but he apologized

1738
01:16:33,320 --> 01:16:35,080
Speaker 3: the week later for coming at me like that and

1739
01:16:35,280 --> 01:16:37,360
Speaker 3: was like, I'm gonna send you to ten k anyways,

1740
01:16:37,479 --> 01:16:40,200
Speaker 3: because the way I came at you was wrong. Anyways,

1741
01:16:40,280 --> 01:16:43,360
Speaker 3: the ten k turned into one hundred k. Hold On

1742
01:16:43,600 --> 01:16:46,360
Speaker 3: Zell wanted so many verifications, so he was like, fuck it,

1743
01:16:46,360 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 3: I'm gonna send forty K for the hassle. He Western

1744
01:16:49,640 --> 01:16:52,920
Speaker 3: Union DD because it was easier and less verifications for me.

1745
01:16:53,360 --> 01:16:56,480
Speaker 3: I'm twenty three, I'm a nurse, I have my own condominium,

1746
01:16:56,800 --> 01:16:59,840
Speaker 3: I on Look five AUTUMNA pay for and no kids.

1747
01:17:00,280 --> 01:17:02,280
Speaker 3: I was wondering if me buying the new bands for

1748
01:17:02,360 --> 01:17:04,679
Speaker 3: about seventy K would be dumb to do with the money,

1749
01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:06,880
Speaker 3: or should I just settle for a brand new twenty

1750
01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:08,040
Speaker 3: twenty two hundred.

1751
01:17:07,840 --> 01:17:09,680
Speaker 2: Instead, which is no more than thirty five K.

1752
01:17:10,600 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 3: I don't know if I'll get that amount of money

1753
01:17:12,320 --> 01:17:15,320
Speaker 3: at once again, but then hold on, But then again,

1754
01:17:15,720 --> 01:17:18,200
Speaker 3: I work on nursing contracts that pay great for just

1755
01:17:18,360 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 3: me with no car node and low rent. It's not

1756
01:17:21,120 --> 01:17:22,680
Speaker 3: like I'm broke. But I just want to know which

1757
01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:25,000
Speaker 3: is a smarter idea because I definitely need a new car.

1758
01:17:25,160 --> 01:17:27,760
Speaker 3: Y'all houses coming, but I need the car a set

1759
01:17:27,840 --> 01:17:30,080
Speaker 3: before I be on the side of the road. If

1760
01:17:30,160 --> 01:17:33,000
Speaker 3: y'all have better suggestions, then I'm open to hearing them,

1761
01:17:33,040 --> 01:17:34,720
Speaker 3: because that's a lot of money at once for a

1762
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:36,840
Speaker 3: twenty three year old girl like me who ain't never

1763
01:17:36,960 --> 01:17:39,639
Speaker 3: had she forty k bitch ill need to be taking

1764
01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:43,920
Speaker 3: classes from you wage, right, So I just feel like

1765
01:17:44,800 --> 01:17:47,360
Speaker 3: I think it's a good idea to split up the money.

1766
01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:52,479
Speaker 3: I think you should definitely take at least like fifty

1767
01:17:52,560 --> 01:17:55,800
Speaker 3: to sixty percent and do something like as far as

1768
01:17:55,880 --> 01:17:58,960
Speaker 3: like investing something like you know, like to turn that

1769
01:17:59,040 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 3: money around. But you can't have a chunk of that

1770
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:04,400
Speaker 3: money to go get the car. Put a down payment

1771
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:06,080
Speaker 3: on the car and do what you want.

1772
01:18:06,280 --> 01:18:06,880
Speaker 2: That's what I was.

1773
01:18:06,880 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 3: Gonna say, I wouldn't do either one. I mean, I

1774
01:18:09,160 --> 01:18:10,760
Speaker 3: was like, if you want the beans, you can get

1775
01:18:10,800 --> 01:18:14,600
Speaker 3: the bends, but like, I wouldn't pay off. I was

1776
01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:18,679
Speaker 3: always told that it's that's no she but it ended

1777
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:19,840
Speaker 3: up he said he sent her.

1778
01:18:19,760 --> 01:18:24,160
Speaker 2: Forty K, kept giving her money until oh he did.

1779
01:18:24,320 --> 01:18:27,280
Speaker 3: Right, she said ten K turned into one hundred K. Right,

1780
01:18:27,360 --> 01:18:29,559
Speaker 3: but she said he was like, fucking, I'm gonna send

1781
01:18:29,600 --> 01:18:30,519
Speaker 3: forty K for the hassle.

1782
01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:34,280
Speaker 9: Oh so she got kept giving Yeah, she's ship bitch

1783
01:18:35,080 --> 01:18:36,000
Speaker 9: by yo, goddamn car.

1784
01:18:36,040 --> 01:18:38,760
Speaker 2: He's gonna get that some more with that cash. Good time.

1785
01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:41,160
Speaker 3: Wait, no, no, So what I was about to say

1786
01:18:41,280 --> 01:18:43,559
Speaker 3: is I was always told that it's a stupid idea

1787
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:46,160
Speaker 3: unless you's somebody who are like super who's super wealthy.

1788
01:18:46,520 --> 01:18:49,360
Speaker 3: It's dumbest fuck to buy a car in cash, a

1789
01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:51,439
Speaker 3: very expensive car at that, because as soon as you

1790
01:18:51,520 --> 01:18:54,040
Speaker 3: drive it off the lot, it appreciates any anything that happened.

1791
01:18:54,080 --> 01:18:56,160
Speaker 3: You also correct that beach a week after you get it.

1792
01:18:56,520 --> 01:18:59,080
Speaker 3: Now you don't fucking lost that money, you know what

1793
01:18:59,120 --> 01:19:00,679
Speaker 3: I mean. I think that's as fucked.

1794
01:19:01,080 --> 01:19:02,000
Speaker 2: I just think that you.

1795
01:19:02,000 --> 01:19:04,000
Speaker 3: Should, probably if you want to be in go put

1796
01:19:04,080 --> 01:19:05,960
Speaker 3: a little good amount of money down on your car

1797
01:19:06,560 --> 01:19:09,040
Speaker 3: and then just pay your car not. And that's what

1798
01:19:09,080 --> 01:19:12,200
Speaker 3: I would do, honestly. I wouldn't put seventy thousand dollars

1799
01:19:12,360 --> 01:19:14,000
Speaker 3: on car. I wouldn't even put it even if you

1800
01:19:14,080 --> 01:19:16,360
Speaker 3: want to get the Hunda instead. I wouldn't even pay

1801
01:19:16,439 --> 01:19:18,360
Speaker 3: thirty five thousand for the Hunter. I would put down

1802
01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:20,600
Speaker 3: a good little down payment and then just have my

1803
01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:22,280
Speaker 3: car not and then I would try to figure out

1804
01:19:22,320 --> 01:19:23,960
Speaker 3: something to do with the rest of the money as

1805
01:19:24,000 --> 01:19:26,400
Speaker 3: far as like investing it. Maybe you could try to

1806
01:19:26,439 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 3: find out about more about like crypto or some good

1807
01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:30,760
Speaker 3: stocks and stuff like that, and find a way to

1808
01:19:30,880 --> 01:19:32,600
Speaker 3: invest the money so that you could flip it and

1809
01:19:32,720 --> 01:19:33,400
Speaker 3: make more money.

1810
01:19:33,600 --> 01:19:34,120
Speaker 2: That's what I said.

1811
01:19:34,120 --> 01:19:37,880
Speaker 3: I feel like you can split it up invest a

1812
01:19:38,000 --> 01:19:39,920
Speaker 3: lot of it, but like if you want to get

1813
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:42,839
Speaker 3: the Honda, either way, I would.

1814
01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:46,280
Speaker 2: Pay pay the one I could. It would be different

1815
01:19:46,280 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 2: if you was a millionaire and you could just go

1816
01:19:48,320 --> 01:19:50,160
Speaker 2: to the lot and be like I keep him around.

1817
01:19:56,640 --> 01:19:59,920
Speaker 3: Okay, question for it, says, Hey, y'all, I'm a fairly

1818
01:20:00,080 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 3: new listener of the show, and I love the both

1819
01:20:01,800 --> 01:20:04,400
Speaker 3: of you so much. I don't really need any advice

1820
01:20:04,479 --> 01:20:06,719
Speaker 3: At the moment, my life has been going good. Going

1821
01:20:06,800 --> 01:20:10,040
Speaker 3: into the new year. I've been binge watching the show

1822
01:20:10,080 --> 01:20:12,720
Speaker 3: and I've come across some old videos. My favorite one

1823
01:20:12,840 --> 01:20:14,080
Speaker 3: is hole Bag one on one.

1824
01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,840
Speaker 2: That was a classic. Bro, we were so drunk.

1825
01:20:16,960 --> 01:20:18,479
Speaker 1: Ho Bag one on one is a classic.

1826
01:20:18,479 --> 01:20:20,240
Speaker 3: If you've never seen the whole Bag one on one video,

1827
01:20:20,320 --> 01:20:23,519
Speaker 3: please go back and watch it, because Baby, A lot

1828
01:20:23,600 --> 01:20:26,200
Speaker 3: of content creators don't want to give us our credit,

1829
01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:28,960
Speaker 3: but a lot of videos came after that of girls

1830
01:20:29,080 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 3: being like, Oh, what's in my whole band?

1831
01:20:31,320 --> 01:20:34,680
Speaker 2: So manyways, my favorite video is ho Bag one on one.

1832
01:20:34,800 --> 01:20:35,800
Speaker 2: I love that video.

1833
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:38,599
Speaker 3: But my question for y'all is do y'all ever cringe

1834
01:20:38,720 --> 01:20:42,519
Speaker 3: at those videos? Sometimes I find myself cringing at.

1835
01:20:42,479 --> 01:20:44,320
Speaker 2: Old videos of me, like why did I do that?

1836
01:20:44,800 --> 01:20:47,640
Speaker 3: All in all, hard work pays off and congratulations to

1837
01:20:47,720 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 3: you ladies.

1838
01:20:48,600 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 2: Oh I hate those videos. Yeah, I hate all of them.

1839
01:20:52,400 --> 01:20:55,559
Speaker 2: I hate until we got into the studio, we were

1840
01:20:55,560 --> 01:20:56,120
Speaker 2: with a scream.

1841
01:20:56,479 --> 01:20:59,160
Speaker 3: Everything before that, I hated it, But I keep it

1842
01:20:59,280 --> 01:21:01,559
Speaker 3: up because y'all like to go back and look at them.

1843
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:03,440
Speaker 2: If it was up to me and I'm supposed.

1844
01:21:03,080 --> 01:21:07,920
Speaker 3: To be gone, my wigs was sliding dividen was it

1845
01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:11,679
Speaker 3: was a treacherous time for your Yeah, I definitely hate

1846
01:21:11,720 --> 01:21:14,760
Speaker 3: the old videos, so we arguing, but I feel like

1847
01:21:14,880 --> 01:21:17,920
Speaker 3: it's good because y'all get to see the growth, you

1848
01:21:18,000 --> 01:21:19,679
Speaker 3: know what I mean, y'all get to see the growth.

1849
01:21:19,800 --> 01:21:22,400
Speaker 2: It's documented, it's there. The only thing that I hate,

1850
01:21:22,439 --> 01:21:24,439
Speaker 2: I don't really cringe at any of the old videos.

1851
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:27,360
Speaker 3: At the end of the day, everybody grows, everybody changes,

1852
01:21:27,400 --> 01:21:28,240
Speaker 3: everybody of ops.

1853
01:21:28,280 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 2: I feel like we said we used to say some

1854
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:32,160
Speaker 2: crazy sheet back in the day. I mean, I think

1855
01:21:32,200 --> 01:21:34,320
Speaker 2: we still kind of say crazy shit, but not as

1856
01:21:34,400 --> 01:21:36,880
Speaker 2: bad as used to. But the only thing that kind

1857
01:21:36,920 --> 01:21:39,280
Speaker 2: of just I not regret.

1858
01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,240
Speaker 3: But the only thing that kind of annoys me is

1859
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:45,360
Speaker 3: that now we're growing and we're changing and evolving and

1860
01:21:45,400 --> 01:21:47,800
Speaker 3: I think becoming more mature and stuff is women. And

1861
01:21:47,920 --> 01:21:50,120
Speaker 3: people love to bring up shit that we said two

1862
01:21:50,240 --> 01:21:53,479
Speaker 3: three years ago and then be like, oh, y'all are hypocrites. Oh,

1863
01:21:54,040 --> 01:21:57,160
Speaker 3: y'all contradicts y'allselves all the time. It's like, no, it's

1864
01:21:57,240 --> 01:22:00,599
Speaker 3: not contradicting myself. I've grown, I've changed. If I said

1865
01:22:00,640 --> 01:22:03,080
Speaker 3: that three years ago, bish, that was three years ago.

1866
01:22:03,200 --> 01:22:04,120
Speaker 2: I don't feel that way.

1867
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:06,519
Speaker 1: It don't even have to be a year ago.

1868
01:22:06,560 --> 01:22:08,240
Speaker 3: I could say something a month ago and I have

1869
01:22:08,360 --> 01:22:10,040
Speaker 3: a conversation with somebody and be like, you know what,

1870
01:22:11,240 --> 01:22:13,560
Speaker 3: it looked at it this way, and I like, you

1871
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:14,800
Speaker 3: can grow every day.

1872
01:22:15,479 --> 01:22:17,519
Speaker 1: So I do feel like that's a problem.

1873
01:22:17,640 --> 01:22:22,240
Speaker 3: Like everything our opinions, it's documented, and people be like, oh,

1874
01:22:22,360 --> 01:22:24,600
Speaker 3: well you said this, so now you saying this, and

1875
01:22:24,680 --> 01:22:27,840
Speaker 3: you be changing your mind. Because this is my mind,

1876
01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:30,280
Speaker 3: I can change it whenever I want to.

1877
01:22:30,479 --> 01:22:33,320
Speaker 1: And then a liar, so sometimes I'll be lying and

1878
01:22:33,360 --> 01:22:34,240
Speaker 1: I forget what I said.

1879
01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:37,280
Speaker 3: Nah. I definitely feel like it's certain opinions and views

1880
01:22:37,320 --> 01:22:38,640
Speaker 3: and stuff that I used to have and I no

1881
01:22:38,800 --> 01:22:41,840
Speaker 3: longer feel that way. So I feel like, now you know,

1882
01:22:42,000 --> 01:22:44,840
Speaker 3: the things that I say reflected. But that's probably the

1883
01:22:44,920 --> 01:22:48,360
Speaker 3: only thing, man, you know, I just not like, I

1884
01:22:48,400 --> 01:22:50,360
Speaker 3: don't know what wired I'm looking for because it's not regret,

1885
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:52,200
Speaker 3: but the only thing that just kind of irritates me

1886
01:22:52,280 --> 01:22:53,040
Speaker 3: about the fact.

1887
01:22:52,840 --> 01:22:55,240
Speaker 2: That our old videos are still up.

1888
01:22:55,360 --> 01:22:57,360
Speaker 3: But it was just like a trying time in life,

1889
01:22:57,400 --> 01:22:59,800
Speaker 3: like I was going through so much. But honestly, I'm

1890
01:22:59,840 --> 01:23:01,920
Speaker 3: not lit. I cringe at them holes and I hate

1891
01:23:01,920 --> 01:23:03,080
Speaker 3: to really clean.

1892
01:23:03,560 --> 01:23:04,320
Speaker 2: I cringe.

1893
01:23:04,640 --> 01:23:07,400
Speaker 3: Why the way my hair looked, the way my makeup

1894
01:23:07,520 --> 01:23:08,680
Speaker 3: looked like you could just tell a.

1895
01:23:08,720 --> 01:23:11,719
Speaker 2: Bitch was struggling. Yeah, a bit was struggler.

1896
01:23:11,760 --> 01:23:13,479
Speaker 3: I used to literally get off of work and be

1897
01:23:13,680 --> 01:23:17,720
Speaker 3: rushing to like come record, like I was going through.

1898
01:23:17,960 --> 01:23:18,960
Speaker 2: Now you are too, But.

1899
01:23:19,040 --> 01:23:21,280
Speaker 3: It's like we were both just going through a lot,

1900
01:23:21,320 --> 01:23:23,000
Speaker 3: and we were just trying to make shit happen. So

1901
01:23:23,760 --> 01:23:27,400
Speaker 3: I like the fact that everything is documented, and you know,

1902
01:23:27,479 --> 01:23:29,280
Speaker 3: we can go back and look cause like it need

1903
01:23:29,479 --> 01:23:31,400
Speaker 3: makes me cringe, only because it's like, bitch, what the

1904
01:23:31,439 --> 01:23:33,760
Speaker 3: hell was everybody else looking like three four years ago?

1905
01:23:33,880 --> 01:23:34,839
Speaker 2: Everybody was looking.

1906
01:23:36,080 --> 01:23:39,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, definitely what it is?

1907
01:23:39,320 --> 01:23:42,160
Speaker 2: You know what I mean? I will, yeah, I cringe,

1908
01:23:42,320 --> 01:23:43,840
Speaker 2: but it's there. I can't do it.

1909
01:23:43,960 --> 01:23:45,680
Speaker 1: Like everything we upload every week.

1910
01:23:45,720 --> 01:23:48,240
Speaker 3: I'm pretty sure five years from now, I'm probably gonna

1911
01:23:48,240 --> 01:23:49,800
Speaker 3: look at this video and be like, girl, you was

1912
01:23:49,880 --> 01:23:50,640
Speaker 3: talking that ship like.

1913
01:23:50,680 --> 01:23:53,160
Speaker 2: It was a big balling bitch like you was not doing.

1914
01:23:53,920 --> 01:23:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm always look back at myself like, bitch, what was

1915
01:23:56,000 --> 01:23:56,280
Speaker 2: you doing?

1916
01:23:56,320 --> 01:23:58,320
Speaker 3: If you don't look back at yourself six months from

1917
01:23:58,360 --> 01:23:59,599
Speaker 3: now and be like, bitch, what was you doing?

1918
01:23:59,640 --> 01:24:00,960
Speaker 2: But I mean, you're not growing up?

1919
01:24:01,000 --> 01:24:02,679
Speaker 3: But I mean I think that's a great thing about

1920
01:24:02,760 --> 01:24:04,120
Speaker 3: us though, too that I feel like a lot of

1921
01:24:04,160 --> 01:24:06,160
Speaker 3: people appreciate it, is the fact that we do keep

1922
01:24:06,240 --> 01:24:08,560
Speaker 3: up the old content, you know. I think it's a

1923
01:24:08,640 --> 01:24:10,640
Speaker 3: lot of people who would have deleted in A lot

1924
01:24:10,680 --> 01:24:12,519
Speaker 3: of people have a lot of people would have a

1925
01:24:12,600 --> 01:24:14,840
Speaker 3: lot of people have deleted their old country because they

1926
01:24:14,920 --> 01:24:16,479
Speaker 3: just don't want nobody to see what they used to

1927
01:24:16,520 --> 01:24:16,880
Speaker 3: be doing.

1928
01:24:17,120 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 2: Shit.

1929
01:24:17,360 --> 01:24:18,920
Speaker 3: But we just leave it up because we know y'all

1930
01:24:18,960 --> 01:24:20,800
Speaker 3: like to see it. And honestly, some of it is

1931
01:24:20,840 --> 01:24:25,360
Speaker 3: still pretty funny, pretty funny that shit was golden like

1932
01:24:26,040 --> 01:24:31,160
Speaker 3: reuse this Jokey'll ain't seen this motherfucker. All right, I'm

1933
01:24:31,200 --> 01:24:34,240
Speaker 3: ready to sing this song because it's this is how

1934
01:24:34,320 --> 01:24:35,160
Speaker 3: I feel right now.

1935
01:24:35,320 --> 01:24:37,880
Speaker 2: You know, I just about who I'm in love. You know,

1936
01:24:37,920 --> 01:24:40,040
Speaker 2: I'll be in love every three months. But my man,

1937
01:24:40,200 --> 01:24:46,200
Speaker 2: my man, my man, my man, what.

1938
01:24:48,240 --> 01:24:48,280
Speaker 6: What?

1939
01:24:49,439 --> 01:24:51,599
Speaker 3: And I'm stick beside them, bitch, I don't be when

1940
01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:55,160
Speaker 3: it comes to you and this man, I truly have

1941
01:24:55,439 --> 01:25:01,040
Speaker 3: no words when you're talking about you. Don't stick beside him.

1942
01:25:01,120 --> 01:25:02,080
Speaker 3: That's how I feel about you.

1943
01:25:02,479 --> 01:25:04,640
Speaker 2: I'm gonna stick beside it. Whatever you want to you know,

1944
01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:07,240
Speaker 2: whatever you want to do. With that's what that's what

1945
01:25:07,360 --> 01:25:09,920
Speaker 2: we own. This rock with me, Rock with me? All right?

1946
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:13,840
Speaker 1: You ready, we gotta snap. I'm about to hit this.

1947
01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:16,000
Speaker 2: You want me to snap, but I feel like it's

1948
01:25:16,040 --> 01:25:16,759
Speaker 2: not the right temper.

1949
01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:19,000
Speaker 3: It don't matter, it don't matter. I'm gonna catch that

1950
01:25:19,120 --> 01:25:20,920
Speaker 3: be though. Somehow, I'm gonna catch it.

1951
01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:31,439
Speaker 2: I'm gonna call you el herbo. I hate to hear.

1952
01:25:31,960 --> 01:25:33,120
Speaker 2: I'm gonna catch that be though.

1953
01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:51,080
Speaker 7: You baby, Yeah, baby, my whole line has change since

1954
01:25:51,120 --> 01:25:51,720
Speaker 7: you came in.

1955
01:25:52,720 --> 01:25:58,559
Speaker 9: I knew back then you were as special one. I'm

1956
01:25:58,640 --> 01:26:02,880
Speaker 9: so in love, Sony, be in love. You made my

1957
01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:04,440
Speaker 9: life complete.

1958
01:26:05,680 --> 01:26:09,400
Speaker 2: You are so sweet. No one can be that. You

1959
01:26:09,600 --> 01:26:13,800
Speaker 2: came into my life. You buy me with show up

1960
01:26:14,240 --> 01:26:14,560
Speaker 2: with you.

1961
01:26:14,760 --> 01:26:17,320
Speaker 3: I have no side, you know me.

1962
01:26:18,240 --> 01:26:24,439
Speaker 2: I'm not hoping. I'm doing things funny, but I feel

1963
01:26:24,560 --> 01:26:27,120
Speaker 2: so good. I feel so good.

1964
01:26:27,880 --> 01:26:30,680
Speaker 1: Why it takes so long for me funding you?

1965
01:26:33,880 --> 01:26:34,400
Speaker 8: It's all right.

1966
01:26:34,439 --> 01:26:35,320
Speaker 4: We're gonna get going.

1967
01:26:35,760 --> 01:26:39,360
Speaker 2: My hold on? Why sing the second? Barty? I don't know.

1968
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:43,200
Speaker 2: I can't say this story free and I'm telling you

1969
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:46,880
Speaker 2: my fiction. Surely your fast?

1970
01:26:48,720 --> 01:26:49,479
Speaker 4: Sure right here?

1971
01:26:50,200 --> 01:26:55,120
Speaker 2: Having my best I really don't know just where happy.

1972
01:26:56,800 --> 01:27:01,160
Speaker 4: My whole lid fashion since you came in.

1973
01:27:02,200 --> 01:27:08,360
Speaker 2: I knew back then you were as sure. So we

1974
01:27:08,640 --> 01:27:13,240
Speaker 2: love so they be love. Oh I hit that one.

1975
01:27:15,320 --> 01:27:22,240
Speaker 10: You made mine complease I'm in the bank. No I compete,

1976
01:27:22,800 --> 01:27:25,519
Speaker 10: glad you came into my life.

1977
01:27:26,360 --> 01:27:28,479
Speaker 2: You lie in with your luck with you.

1978
01:27:28,720 --> 01:27:30,200
Speaker 4: I have no sight.

1979
01:27:31,960 --> 01:27:37,599
Speaker 2: You didn't I love myself. I was booking. Bro, we're

1980
01:27:37,680 --> 01:27:44,600
Speaker 2: not doing every verse. You always down. Why don't you

1981
01:27:44,680 --> 01:27:48,479
Speaker 2: just go ahead and go to these words? Wow started

1982
01:27:48,560 --> 01:27:53,240
Speaker 2: off gods, bless me, girl is bless me?

1983
01:27:53,439 --> 01:27:57,680
Speaker 6: Baber al an take it to your love baby begins,

1984
01:28:00,040 --> 01:28:05,040
Speaker 6: Oh yes, sir, you you want to very very special wall.

1985
01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:07,800
Speaker 4: Get so you.

1986
01:28:11,680 --> 01:28:11,960
Speaker 6: Boy?

1987
01:28:13,960 --> 01:28:15,080
Speaker 2: Oh I thought you.

1988
01:28:17,800 --> 01:28:20,640
Speaker 3: No, you are throwing me off because how you go

1989
01:28:20,840 --> 01:28:24,479
Speaker 3: from one part to a whole nothing of the rocket house.

1990
01:28:24,720 --> 01:28:26,160
Speaker 2: That's how you don't carry your.

1991
01:28:26,080 --> 01:28:27,479
Speaker 4: Guess what you feel the moment?

1992
01:28:30,200 --> 01:28:37,200
Speaker 2: Why do you do your lip like that? Don't do that, boy,

1993
01:28:38,800 --> 01:28:39,680
Speaker 2: I do not do that. Bro.

1994
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:42,679
Speaker 4: You want it very very special wall.

1995
01:28:44,360 --> 01:28:45,120
Speaker 2: I hit that hole.

1996
01:28:47,400 --> 01:28:50,160
Speaker 4: You wanna have bever re special.

1997
01:28:49,920 --> 01:28:53,720
Speaker 2: Wall, Guinea be trying to you eat a very very special.

1998
01:28:53,800 --> 01:28:56,200
Speaker 4: You ain't special war.

1999
01:28:58,360 --> 01:28:58,759
Speaker 2: Legs.

2000
01:29:00,200 --> 01:29:02,880
Speaker 4: You want that bear and very special wall.

2001
01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:06,160
Speaker 2: That's how I'm gonna be in the studio.

2002
01:29:08,640 --> 01:29:13,479
Speaker 1: Shot that was used to be first of all, before

2003
01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:14,280
Speaker 1: we go, that used.

2004
01:29:14,120 --> 01:29:20,720
Speaker 2: To be my given his little sisters with the baby. Honestly, that.

2005
01:29:22,560 --> 01:29:25,479
Speaker 3: That Genuine baby hair hit different. We need to have

2006
01:29:25,560 --> 01:29:26,400
Speaker 3: genu Wine on the show.

2007
01:29:26,479 --> 01:29:28,400
Speaker 2: He do. He needs to come on the show because

2008
01:29:28,439 --> 01:29:29,559
Speaker 2: he had a lot of bops.

2009
01:29:30,360 --> 01:29:33,639
Speaker 3: If y'all never heard I'll do anything, I'm sorry by Genuine,

2010
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:36,080
Speaker 3: that is like the best apology song. Like if you

2011
01:29:36,120 --> 01:29:37,840
Speaker 3: need to apologize, see oh bitch, you need to pull

2012
01:29:37,960 --> 01:29:42,680
Speaker 3: up playing that song. Geney had he so anxious polled me.

2013
01:29:43,320 --> 01:29:46,240
Speaker 3: He had a lot of puncenting.

2014
01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:47,559
Speaker 4: Where you been?

2015
01:29:48,720 --> 01:29:52,320
Speaker 2: Did you get my message? Your especially telling me that

2016
01:29:52,439 --> 01:29:53,200
Speaker 2: you doing the.

2017
01:29:53,320 --> 01:29:55,200
Speaker 4: Same same thing.

2018
01:29:55,640 --> 01:30:01,479
Speaker 3: I'm thinking you're saying you're working just as soon as

2019
01:30:01,479 --> 01:30:02,920
Speaker 3: you'll shift this over.

2020
01:30:04,600 --> 01:30:07,639
Speaker 2: How been waiting because I can't sleep?

2021
01:30:08,880 --> 01:30:11,640
Speaker 4: Remini reminiscing about you.

2022
01:30:13,000 --> 01:30:23,800
Speaker 8: Ohoo bad yo, doll.

2023
01:30:24,080 --> 01:30:31,120
Speaker 2: It was that busy he was hurt for Oh you

2024
01:30:31,400 --> 01:30:35,200
Speaker 2: sound like a fucking puffy beach. Shoutt to Genuine if you.

2025
01:30:35,240 --> 01:30:37,120
Speaker 3: See this, can you come on the shower, come on

2026
01:30:37,200 --> 01:30:39,880
Speaker 3: to show you love Genuine anyway, you know.

2027
01:30:40,000 --> 01:30:41,519
Speaker 2: He was in that movie. You remember that movie.

2028
01:30:43,360 --> 01:30:47,479
Speaker 3: It was like the Black Bag Chocolate City, genu one

2029
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:48,479
Speaker 3: still got that move.

2030
01:30:48,800 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 2: He jus got the moves like Jaggery and the Beach.

2031
01:30:51,920 --> 01:30:53,479
Speaker 3: Thank y'all so much for tuning in and make sure

2032
01:30:53,520 --> 01:30:55,880
Speaker 3: y'all join our Patreon and we'll see y'all next week.

2033
01:30:55,920 --> 01:31:00,639
Speaker 2: By y'all had the mis beach it is. Nobody said

2034
01:31:00,720 --> 01:31:02,880
Speaker 2: GM was fine, he still there.

2035
01:31:03,120 --> 01:31:05,200
Speaker 3: I mean I said it was because we're talking about,

2036
01:31:05,240 --> 01:31:09,559
Speaker 3: you know, like growing up as a kid, everybody thought anyone.

2037
01:31:09,600 --> 01:31:11,439
Speaker 1: I remember singing Pony when I was younger, and my

2038
01:31:11,520 --> 01:31:12,000
Speaker 1: mom was like

2039
01:31:12,680 --> 01:31:14,679
Speaker 2: Don't say that word, and I didn't know what word

2040
01:31:14,760 --> 01:31:15,559
Speaker 2: she was talking about.