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Speaker 1: Good. All right, break it down.

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Speaker 2: If you ever have feelings that you just won'ts ay

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Speaker 3: M but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do

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Speaker 2: Stop you feel things. This is feeling things with Amy

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Speaker 2: and Cat.

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Speaker 4: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy, I'm Cat

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Speaker 4: and out of the gate. We got the feeling of

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Speaker 4: the day. Yeah, and I'm smiling as I say this

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Speaker 4: feels weird. The feeling of the day, which I've sort

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Speaker 4: of gotten over, is anger, because you're I woke up angry.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, what kind of anger?

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Speaker 4: I don't know what? Like are there different types of anger?

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Speaker 4: I mean, I guess I know that there's different feelings

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Speaker 4: involved in that, but like anger is the one I'm

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Speaker 4: touching on. Like it's like a spectrum, Like, yeah, what

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Speaker 4: level of anger? Okay, let's do it like salsa? Like

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Speaker 4: am I mild salsa? Or am I medium?

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Speaker 3: I'm hot? Okay?

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Speaker 4: It's like what would mild be.

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Speaker 3: Like frustrated, annoyed?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I'm not so, I'm for sure mild.

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's medium? Mad, upset, pissed off?

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Speaker 4: definitely medium Okay, so so far Okay, now hot hot salsa.

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Speaker 1: That would be like enraged or I mean, there could

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Speaker 4: I don't feel like I'm raging furious. I'm furious. I'm

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Speaker 4: like so frustrated and makes me furious. I'm perplexed. You know,

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Speaker 4: we're just like feeling I'm confused and that leads to anger,

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Speaker 4: Like I'm just frustrated?

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Speaker 3: Am I?

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Speaker 4: All of these salas A my mild medium hot, which

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Speaker 4: would mean I'm hot?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you you're you have a you have a

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Speaker 1: mild feeling, but to the hot level.

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Speaker 3: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: So it's like like.

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Speaker 3: On the spectrum of frustrated euro up here. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I just woke up with this. I couldn't shake it.

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Speaker 4: So I busted out a coping tool, which would be journaling,

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Speaker 4: and I journaled for twelve minutes.

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Speaker 3: Did you time it?

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Speaker 4: Because I started journaling it and then twelve minutes later

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Speaker 4: was like, oh wow, I just wrote for twelve straight minutes.

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Speaker 3: Were you like scribbling?

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Speaker 4: I tried to write as fast as possible because that's

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Speaker 4: just very That's what's therapeutic for me, especially if I'm

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Speaker 4: It'd be actually be interesting now that I've gone the

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Speaker 3: Now, Wow, you don't think.

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Speaker 4: I think that there's sentences where I'd be like, huh,

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Speaker 4: didn't like waking up with that feeling. And then I

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Speaker 4: sent you a text after at some point in the morning.

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Speaker 4: I know that I texted you and you replied with this,

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Speaker 4: You can do this. They suck. That's how I read it.

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Speaker 4: You can do it. Is that a movie quote?

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Speaker 1: Yes, isn't that from water Boy?

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Speaker 3: You can do this.

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Speaker 4: You can do this. They suck. You're a beautiful sunflower

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Speaker 4: It was helpful because it just helps me understand the

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Speaker 1: And I think because anger is a justice emotion and

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Speaker 1: You're like this, I deserve to be treated better depending

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Speaker 4: My inner alarm was going off, like saying hot, hot,

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Speaker 3: Salsa is my anger.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and then you'll be like maybe the remedies you

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Speaker 4: buy hot, by the way, I always buy mild or medium.

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Speaker 3: I like mild. I don't like spice.

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Speaker 1: I don't get people who really like spicy food. But

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Speaker 1: It's like almost a little bit of like self harmy.

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Speaker 4: Do you know you may not know this about me,

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Speaker 3: Wasn't it like you to eat the pep?

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Speaker 4: No, I think I'm a champ, and I went back

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Speaker 4: At least we know that I wasn't hottest shot in

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Speaker 1: This is my question to that, Why are they making that?

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Speaker 1: Because that means nobody can drink that and enjoy it.

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Speaker 1: Like why, I just don't get that, like I'm novelty. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And the most like a little different than.

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Speaker 4: Well, I know. It just made me think of bottling

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Speaker 1: Do you want to pass gas and a bottle and

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Speaker 1: start selling them in bulk? Is there a market for that?

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Speaker 4: I don't want to think about that, Like that's why.

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Speaker 3: I mean, first, that's an easy one. I know. Yes,

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Speaker 3: are we missing out on an opportunity one hundred percent?

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Speaker 3: Because we could probably.

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Speaker 4: Or like air from wherever or my or my baths

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Speaker 4: like Sidney Sweeney just soap out of her bath water.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why why don't we Well, I don't know anybody's

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Speaker 4: But feeling things merch coming soon, people.

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Speaker 3: Sell my bath water.

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Speaker 3: I don't like sitting in dirty water, but.

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Speaker 3: What? And it was like.

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00:20:21,040 --> 00:20:26,119
Speaker 4: Prepared to He's prepared to wait? Which ironically or coincidentally,

445
00:20:26,440 --> 00:20:32,840
Speaker 4: whichever word fits you pick At the Writer's Round, one

446
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,840
Speaker 4: of the songwriters wrote that song Waiting on a Woman.

447
00:20:38,359 --> 00:20:40,679
Speaker 4: Now I can't sing what it is, but he's like,

448
00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 4: wait not. I think Brad Paisley ended up singing it,

449
00:20:45,040 --> 00:20:48,480
Speaker 4: but this is the songwriter, wait, waiting on a Woman?

450
00:20:49,040 --> 00:20:51,800
Speaker 4: I can't You don't not familiar? Yes, I believe Brad

451
00:20:51,800 --> 00:20:52,320
Speaker 4: did record.

452
00:20:52,440 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 3: Is that ironic or coincidence?

453
00:20:54,200 --> 00:20:56,440
Speaker 4: That's why I said both, And you pick.

454
00:20:56,840 --> 00:21:01,960
Speaker 3: Ironic it's ironic? Isn't it a coincidence? Ironic?

455
00:21:02,119 --> 00:21:05,959
Speaker 4: Is it's ray on your wedding day? Is that ironic

456
00:21:06,040 --> 00:21:08,560
Speaker 4: though it's a free ride when you've already paid.

457
00:21:09,000 --> 00:21:11,119
Speaker 3: It's good advice that you.

458
00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,520
Speaker 4: Just didn't to take, and who would have thought it?

459
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 4: Figures it's I never knew the traffic jim when you're

460
00:21:20,160 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 4: already late.

461
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,280
Speaker 3: That's not ironic.

462
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:27,800
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, we have When Varble and Don Samson wrote

463
00:21:27,800 --> 00:21:31,960
Speaker 4: this for Brad Paisley, and When and Dawn were both there,

464
00:21:32,040 --> 00:21:34,520
Speaker 4: so both of the songwriters are there and they sang

465
00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 4: it and it was funny because my boyfriend are sitting

466
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 4: there and this is whole song about waiting on a woman.

467
00:21:40,040 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 4: But it takes you through a timeline where he's like

468
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:45,040
Speaker 4: waiting to meet a woman, and then when he meets her,

469
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,520
Speaker 4: he's waiting on her to always be ready. But then

470
00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:50,159
Speaker 4: he passes away first and he's in heaven waiting on

471
00:21:50,359 --> 00:21:53,359
Speaker 4: his woman. But he this is where he's fine waiting.

472
00:21:53,400 --> 00:21:55,400
Speaker 4: He'll find a bench because he doesn't want her to

473
00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:59,320
Speaker 4: leave her life on earth to come. So he's fine

474
00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,639
Speaker 4: with waiting because he got used to waiting on a woman.

475
00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,440
Speaker 4: But anyway, the fact that he sang that song on

476
00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:09,080
Speaker 4: an evening that my boyfriend.

477
00:22:09,040 --> 00:22:11,880
Speaker 3: Didn't have to wait on that's ironic. So then okay,

478
00:22:11,880 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 3: that's ironic.

479
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:17,120
Speaker 4: Okay, yeah, so it's like then singing a song about

480
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:20,960
Speaker 4: waiting on a woman on the night that your boyfriend

481
00:22:21,000 --> 00:22:21,560
Speaker 4: didn't have.

482
00:22:21,560 --> 00:22:24,560
Speaker 1: To wait on a woman, and if he did have

483
00:22:24,600 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 1: to wait on you, it would be a coincidence because

484
00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 1: he didn't have to wait.

485
00:22:28,320 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 3: Then it's ironic.

486
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:32,760
Speaker 4: There, Okay, right, I don't Okay, now it's like too much.

487
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,560
Speaker 4: But I use the Atlantis song a lot when I'm

488
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Speaker 4: trying to figure out ironic.

489
00:22:36,720 --> 00:22:39,800
Speaker 1: I like, but I don't think her stuff is really ironic. Well,

490
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:41,639
Speaker 1: then why she put it in the song just because

491
00:22:41,720 --> 00:22:44,160
Speaker 1: she wanted to make a song. I feel like she's

492
00:22:44,280 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 1: so very she's smart, like she would make it work anyway.

493
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:51,200
Speaker 1: I nudged him during that song and I was like,

494
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: you don't have to wait.

495
00:22:52,440 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 4: On me today, you don't have to wait on me today,

496
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:13,479
Speaker 4: and other things since then. I just maybe because I

497
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:16,199
Speaker 4: celebrated it and I want to not break my streak.

498
00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 4: I'm trying to stay the course and just get more

499
00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,760
Speaker 4: places with ease. And I don't know there's something about it,

500
00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 4: because I don't know if it's just ADHD people or

501
00:23:29,800 --> 00:23:31,680
Speaker 4: other people may have this too, Like the whole time

502
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:36,040
Speaker 4: blindness thing, but like there's things that just are difficult

503
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 4: for me, and that's sometimes organizing what order in which

504
00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:42,040
Speaker 4: I need to do things. Yeah, so here we are.

505
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:48,399
Speaker 4: I have a list of borderline impossible things for ADHD brains,

506
00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:50,200
Speaker 4: so I thought we could go over it because that'd

507
00:23:50,240 --> 00:23:51,600
Speaker 4: be like, that's one of them.

508
00:23:51,720 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: Yeah. And I think also even if you don't have ADHD,

509
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:57,440
Speaker 1: this is helpful because sometimes when people hear this, they're like, wait,

510
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 1: that's hard for you. So it helps you have a

511
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,960
Speaker 1: little bit or compassion and empathy for somebody who's struggling

512
00:24:02,960 --> 00:24:05,399
Speaker 1: to do something that seems kind of like a mundane task.

513
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it's not like we're trying to do it

514
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,960
Speaker 4: on purpose. But I do have awareness of it. And

515
00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:14,640
Speaker 4: so that's where it's tricky, which you've said before, sort

516
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:15,600
Speaker 4: of like therapy is.

517
00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,639
Speaker 3: The awareness is the booby trap of therapy. Yeah, the

518
00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 3: booby trap.

519
00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 4: It's all a booby trap because then what you're aware,

520
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,760
Speaker 4: it's like, Okay, well I can continue to live life

521
00:24:24,800 --> 00:24:27,280
Speaker 4: this way, or I can try to do something about it. Yeah,

522
00:24:27,320 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 4: which I'm I'm personally not medicated, but for other people

523
00:24:30,960 --> 00:24:34,160
Speaker 4: they may want to medicate. But I do neuro feedback,

524
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:36,679
Speaker 4: which has been helping my brain. I go on and

525
00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:38,879
Speaker 4: off with that, and I've even bounced around to a

526
00:24:38,920 --> 00:24:41,239
Speaker 4: couple of different places and I try to figure out

527
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 4: what works for me, and I started taking well, I

528
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:48,600
Speaker 4: do like lions Maine and my coffee and some other

529
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:55,399
Speaker 4: mushrooms like cordyceps. Okay, like not harooms type shrew me

530
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:59,720
Speaker 4: type things, more of the adaptogens. Okay, let me know. Okay,

531
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:05,080
Speaker 4: if this resonates for your ADHD rain car maintenance, yes, Like.

532
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:08,160
Speaker 3: I just can't change my oil so much.

533
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:12,000
Speaker 4: So well, like physically you mean, just go get it changed,

534
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:15,360
Speaker 4: or you you can't actually change it yourself because of both, Well,

535
00:25:15,359 --> 00:25:16,720
Speaker 4: but I don't want to change it myself.

536
00:25:16,840 --> 00:25:18,240
Speaker 3: Well, I'm both.

537
00:25:18,400 --> 00:25:21,600
Speaker 1: I have such a hard time when I get a

538
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:23,399
Speaker 1: little bit panics when I see the car engine light

539
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,480
Speaker 1: so much so. I think I've told the story on

540
00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:27,920
Speaker 1: the podcast where I waited too long and my car

541
00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,520
Speaker 1: broke down in the middle of a very busy intersection.

542
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,440
Speaker 3: I had to get my car towed, no oil left.

543
00:25:33,560 --> 00:25:36,679
Speaker 4: Interesting though, but I think this is because I have

544
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:40,840
Speaker 4: ADHD with like not really a lot of anxiety. I

545
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,760
Speaker 4: think you have ADHD with a lot of a lot

546
00:25:43,760 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 4: of anxiety. Like when we travel together, you want to

547
00:25:46,880 --> 00:25:48,720
Speaker 4: get to the airport two hours early. I want to

548
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 4: get there twenty minutes before boarding, like especially if I'm

549
00:25:53,119 --> 00:25:55,880
Speaker 4: not checking a bag and I have TSSA free and

550
00:25:56,000 --> 00:25:58,520
Speaker 4: you you like freak out over that, but like it's

551
00:25:58,520 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 4: a owt you do.

552
00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:03,879
Speaker 3: I react normally to somebody, Okay.

553
00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:05,040
Speaker 4: Now you're like hyper ventilating.

554
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:08,199
Speaker 1: Okay, but you lived too much on the edge, Like

555
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 1: why would you put yourself in that situation? And remember

556
00:26:11,000 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 1: when we were in New York, literally our flight was

557
00:26:13,800 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: leaving in an hour and we hadn't even left the apartment,

558
00:26:16,359 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 1: and I was trying to be so cool, and I

559
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: think in the it was finally the uber that.

560
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm god of freaking out over here, like.

561
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: Shaky, yeah, because why would you not just get there

562
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:29,080
Speaker 1: early so you could make sure.

563
00:26:29,280 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 4: I know, but that's part of my growth. And now

564
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:33,760
Speaker 4: I will meet you halfway. And I think knew me

565
00:26:34,640 --> 00:26:38,040
Speaker 4: the last week or so would be able to get

566
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 4: to the airport early, because why wouldn't I want to

567
00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,840
Speaker 4: do that with ease. But my point back to the

568
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:43,959
Speaker 4: check engine light or something in the car, is like

569
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 4: you get nervous with it, like I'm like, ugh, who cares,

570
00:26:48,240 --> 00:26:50,400
Speaker 4: there's a light on? Like we'll figure that out later.

571
00:26:50,600 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 4: But it just seems a little overwhell. It's like I

572
00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,480
Speaker 4: don't want to deal with it, so I just I'm like, Okay,

573
00:26:56,760 --> 00:26:58,720
Speaker 4: i'll do it later today. And then that turns into

574
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,160
Speaker 4: later tomorrow, which turns into.

575
00:27:00,119 --> 00:27:03,480
Speaker 1: You to minimize it, where I'm just like I avoid it.

576
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:07,800
Speaker 4: Yeah, I minimize avoid it, and you anxiously avoid it

577
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 4: or something.

578
00:27:09,119 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: I don't know.

579
00:27:09,640 --> 00:27:13,080
Speaker 4: It's different though, like his energy is different, but same,

580
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:18,439
Speaker 4: different but the same. What about returning things, because like

581
00:27:18,800 --> 00:27:21,120
Speaker 4: I often.

582
00:27:21,560 --> 00:27:24,080
Speaker 1: You know that I hadn't returned things from Amazon for

583
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,080
Speaker 1: about like five years. It was a recent thing that

584
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,200
Speaker 1: I realized how easy it was to return things from Amazon.

585
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:29,880
Speaker 4: Wait, you returned something to the Amazon?

586
00:27:30,200 --> 00:27:31,280
Speaker 3: No, I didn't. I have.

587
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,439
Speaker 1: I used to have a box in my closet with

588
00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,800
Speaker 1: things that needed to be returned that I didn't return.

589
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:38,479
Speaker 3: It was like a joke from all my friends.

590
00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 1: They're like, you'll never return this if you buy it

591
00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:42,600
Speaker 1: off of Amazon, and I didn't.

592
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,080
Speaker 3: I didn't realize it was so easy. Okay, it felt

593
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:46,600
Speaker 3: like a lot.

594
00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,240
Speaker 4: So I guess what I'm asking for Cody on is

595
00:27:49,280 --> 00:27:52,200
Speaker 4: did you decide to return things from five years ago

596
00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 4: or you just started returning?

597
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 3: I just started. I think I gave most of that

598
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,800
Speaker 3: stuff to Goodwill. I think I sold some of it

599
00:27:57,840 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 3: on Facebook marketplace.

600
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 4: Good for you. Yeah, I think just returning stuff, like

601
00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:07,200
Speaker 4: especially from impulse purchases, can be very returning your aff

602
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 4: to them all. Yeah. Like I bought a new collared

603
00:28:10,480 --> 00:28:13,920
Speaker 4: workout shirt from Target for pickleball. I needed a caller

604
00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:17,640
Speaker 4: shirt for where I was playing, and it was way

605
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,960
Speaker 4: too tight. And I keep saying, I'm gonna go to Target,

606
00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:21,520
Speaker 4: I'm gonna go to Target. I'm gonna do Target, and

607
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:24,600
Speaker 4: guess what, I still have it and it's too tight,

608
00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:25,639
Speaker 4: Like I'm not gonna be able to wear it, and

609
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:28,480
Speaker 4: I don't. I don't think I'll miss a window. But oftentimes,

610
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 4: depending on where you got it from, you miss the

611
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 4: window and then we accept defeat. Getting gas before the

612
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:35,399
Speaker 4: tank is empty.

613
00:28:36,280 --> 00:28:40,120
Speaker 1: Okay, this is interesting again. If my gas light is on,

614
00:28:40,960 --> 00:28:44,240
Speaker 1: I get anxious, Like there's some people that drive their

615
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 1: car till zero.

616
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 3: Could never be me.

617
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:49,640
Speaker 4: See, that's weird. That is total me. So have you

618
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 4: ever run out of gas? I haven't in forever. No,

619
00:28:53,520 --> 00:28:56,520
Speaker 4: I always to make it. But my car says now

620
00:28:56,720 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 4: it goes from to like towards empty, and then it'll

621
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 4: say please refuse like a little written note. And then

622
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,520
Speaker 4: when it gets to the note changes from please refuel

623
00:29:06,560 --> 00:29:08,160
Speaker 4: to refuel immediately.

624
00:29:08,360 --> 00:29:09,600
Speaker 3: That's when you do it. I do it.

625
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 1: But you didn't answer my question. Have you ever run

626
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 1: out of gas? Yes, okay, you've got to avoid it.

627
00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:15,600
Speaker 4: But it's been a long time. I just know I

628
00:29:15,600 --> 00:29:16,920
Speaker 4: said it's been a long time.

629
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:20,239
Speaker 3: That's then but no, so no or something like that.

630
00:29:20,280 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 4: Okay, well, that's just filler words. I realize sometimes I

631
00:29:23,280 --> 00:29:26,480
Speaker 4: say butt and it doesn't even make sense, Like if

632
00:29:26,480 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 4: I hear myself back and I'll be talking, like even

633
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:30,400
Speaker 4: during some of our episodes, like if I have to

634
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:32,960
Speaker 4: listen to something and I hear it back, I'm like,

635
00:29:32,960 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 4: why did I just say butt?

636
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 3: Right there?

637
00:29:34,520 --> 00:29:37,280
Speaker 4: I say, so, that was probably me just saying but

638
00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:41,280
Speaker 4: but anyway, but so but but but is a filler

639
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:41,760
Speaker 4: word for me.

640
00:29:41,880 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so you haven't have gas, but now your car

641
00:29:44,240 --> 00:29:47,920
Speaker 1: helps you. But here's the here's the thing. What if

642
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 1: refill immediately happens while you're not close to a gas station.

643
00:29:53,120 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 4: I get yeah, I get that. I'm trying to be

644
00:29:54,880 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 4: better at it. I mean, my son, he freaks out

645
00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 4: about the gas tank. And even last night we were

646
00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 4: driving and he was like, how much guess do you have?

647
00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 4: And I said I have half a tank and he

648
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 4: was like, dad fills up around half a tank. And

649
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 4: I was like, isn't that nice? Isn't your dad so prepared?

650
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,920
Speaker 4: I mean, a lot of the tank a wild well,

651
00:30:15,040 --> 00:30:17,400
Speaker 4: a lot of people won't. They'll go between half a

652
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,600
Speaker 4: quarter of a tank and they are definitely getting gas.

653
00:30:20,080 --> 00:30:21,920
Speaker 4: I have never been that way.

654
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:23,760
Speaker 1: You know, what I really feel like a win is

655
00:30:23,760 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 1: is when you fill up your gas. Like if I

656
00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: have to fill up my tank out, I be like,

657
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do it in the morning. When you actually

658
00:30:29,920 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: do it for your morning self so and then you're

659
00:30:32,080 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: not rushed to work.

660
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 3: That feels like I climbed a mountain. M h. I

661
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,080
Speaker 3: feel so proud of myself.

662
00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,520
Speaker 4: I got gas the other day and I got so

663
00:30:39,600 --> 00:30:41,200
Speaker 4: bored doing it. I didn't fill all the way up.

664
00:30:41,280 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 4: I think I got to half a tank.

665
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 3: You're like, this place is lame. I'm out of here,

666
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:48,360
Speaker 3: I know.

667
00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 4: I was like, why I drove off and it only

668
00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 4: was it half a tank, and I was like, why

669
00:30:53,720 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 4: am I this way?

670
00:30:54,920 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 3: All of those people go and fill up that half.

671
00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 3: You only filled up because.

672
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:03,880
Speaker 4: I was over it. And I was like, what what

673
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 4: is wrong with me? Because now I'm gonna have to

674
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:10,560
Speaker 4: come back even sooner and you're to come do this again.

675
00:31:11,680 --> 00:31:17,080
Speaker 4: It's stupid, Like I do not be like me.

676
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 3: Stati didn't have good vibes.

677
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 4: I don't know, just don't be like me. Although I

678
00:31:21,920 --> 00:31:26,200
Speaker 4: am a working Morgan progress maybe I'll maybe with just

679
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 4: like now I'm gonna be ready when my boyfriend's coming

680
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 4: to pick me up. I'm gonna turn over a new

681
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:35,840
Speaker 4: leaf and like start filling up it three quarters of

682
00:31:35,840 --> 00:31:36,160
Speaker 4: a tank.

683
00:31:37,080 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 3: Imagine that too much? Then you're doing it like every other.

684
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:43,520
Speaker 4: Day, okay, okay, grocery shopping with a plan. I always

685
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:46,800
Speaker 4: have like a list in my head and I'm like, okay, yeah,

686
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:51,400
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure I have basil, but we're definitely out

687
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 4: of paprika, and so I'll buy paprika and not get basil,

688
00:31:55,360 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 4: and then I'll get home and I have the opposite.

689
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 4: It's like literally the opposite, or like you know, when

690
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,959
Speaker 4: you're doing something and you have to like tell it

691
00:32:03,960 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 4: to yourself. Like I was making cupcakes the other day

692
00:32:07,560 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 4: and I was like, third a cup of oil, third

693
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 4: a couple of Oh.

694
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:12,040
Speaker 3: My god, third a cup of oil.

695
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 4: And then I go and I'm like, third a cup

696
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:15,800
Speaker 4: of oil, and I know it's a third a couple

697
00:32:15,800 --> 00:32:18,040
Speaker 4: of oil, but I have to check the box a

698
00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:19,920
Speaker 4: million times. But then of course I don't check the

699
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,440
Speaker 4: box for the full instructions because it's like mix all

700
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,320
Speaker 4: the wet and then add it to the dry, but

701
00:32:24,400 --> 00:32:26,320
Speaker 4: I just throw it all in at the same time.

702
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 4: And I was like, why did they want me to

703
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,600
Speaker 4: do like separate.

704
00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:30,720
Speaker 3: Overly check this one thing?

705
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,280
Speaker 1: But then you totally disregard Yes, exactly speaking, I literally

706
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:37,479
Speaker 1: have to read the recipe seventeen times, but like you

707
00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: know that you know, but then at the same time

708
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:40,880
Speaker 1: you're like, did I make that up? Or like did

709
00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: I am? I seeing it backwards? Like is it correct?

710
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:44,080
Speaker 1: What would it be?

711
00:32:44,120 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 3: Like I always wanted to have a photographic memory.

712
00:32:46,400 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, amazing, we would rule the world, the world.

713
00:32:50,920 --> 00:32:53,800
Speaker 1: The world would be so induvsive, Oh my gosh, people

714
00:32:53,840 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 1: would be in all of us.

715
00:32:56,040 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 4: Instead, I'm like digging the box out of the trash

716
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,160
Speaker 4: because I threw it away thinking I remember exactly what

717
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 4: I need, and I'm like, okay, better go get those

718
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:07,360
Speaker 4: instructions out of the trash can again, and then I'm

719
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:11,120
Speaker 4: reading them and I'm like, why am I this way?

720
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:13,760
Speaker 3: Literally like three eggs? Three eggs? Three eggs? Like I

721
00:33:13,800 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 3: got it.

722
00:33:14,120 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: You throw it away and then you're like how many eggs?

723
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:17,479
Speaker 1: I think it was three, but like I can't be

724
00:33:17,600 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: so sure. It might be two, but like that would

725
00:33:19,320 --> 00:33:19,600
Speaker 1: be creazy.

726
00:33:19,600 --> 00:33:22,200
Speaker 4: And then did I put three? Ten? Thank god, there's

727
00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 4: three little yellow things floating in there are I wouldn't.

728
00:33:24,560 --> 00:33:27,440
Speaker 1: Know the amount of times I'm like did I put

729
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:28,320
Speaker 1: the baking soda in?

730
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 3: Or did I not put it in?

731
00:33:29,520 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: Like I'm not sure, and so I try to go

732
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:33,719
Speaker 1: in an order of the ingredients, but sometimes you get

733
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: ahead of yourself.

734
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 4: Did I take my medication or did I not? Should

735
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:40,840
Speaker 4: I double up or go out more harmful to like

736
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,160
Speaker 4: not take it or have too much?

737
00:33:43,240 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 1: And then I told myself so many times, just get

738
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 1: one of those pill boxes.

739
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: Then you'll always know if you've taken it or not.

740
00:33:48,840 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: And I'm like, okay, I'm gonna do that, and then

741
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:53,040
Speaker 1: I'll like say I'll do it later, and then later

742
00:33:53,080 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: it never comes, and then I tell myself I'm gonna

743
00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:54,959
Speaker 1: do it.

744
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 4: You know what, I think that pill boxes are like

745
00:33:57,880 --> 00:34:00,080
Speaker 4: journals for ADHD people. You know how a lot of

746
00:34:00,160 --> 00:34:04,640
Speaker 4: HD ADHD people have lots of journals. Yeah, like I

747
00:34:04,680 --> 00:34:07,320
Speaker 4: need a new journal. I need a new planner for this,

748
00:34:07,400 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 4: I need a new I have so many different pill

749
00:34:09,840 --> 00:34:12,399
Speaker 4: box type containers. Yeah, because I have one.

750
00:34:12,760 --> 00:34:15,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, because I've never bought one.

751
00:34:15,400 --> 00:34:17,440
Speaker 1: Oh really, I keep telling myself I'm gonna buy one,

752
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,080
Speaker 1: so then I don't forget if I'm taking my medication

753
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: or not, or my vitamins or anything, and then I.

754
00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:25,920
Speaker 4: I never do it. Come up to my Amazon shop

755
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 4: in my bathroom. Why didn't you return them because I

756
00:34:29,320 --> 00:34:32,319
Speaker 4: wanted hard? No, you just wanted I wanted them all,

757
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:34,560
Speaker 4: just like I want all my journals. Did you see

758
00:34:34,560 --> 00:34:35,560
Speaker 4: that super cute journal?

759
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:39,000
Speaker 1: Your emotional support pill boxes? That's why I have so

760
00:34:39,040 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 1: many water bottles.

761
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:42,479
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not that way with water bottles, just because

762
00:34:42,520 --> 00:34:44,839
Speaker 4: I don't really like drinking water, But so you.

763
00:34:44,800 --> 00:34:47,600
Speaker 3: Should get water bottles. Maybe that's what I'll get you

764
00:34:47,640 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 3: for Christmas.

765
00:34:48,320 --> 00:34:50,839
Speaker 4: Yeah, do you see the super cute journal? I head

766
00:34:50,880 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 4: out there at the five minute journal with flowers. It's

767
00:34:54,120 --> 00:34:56,600
Speaker 4: really cute. Yeah, it makes me want us to make

768
00:34:56,640 --> 00:34:59,640
Speaker 4: a journal one day. Maybe we will for Christmas, maybe

769
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 4: we will TBD so grocery shopping with a plan that's

770
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:06,439
Speaker 4: hard for people, day AHD filling out any paperwork when I'm.

771
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:09,040
Speaker 1: Talking about this, but the paperwork because I need to

772
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: change my name. But I'm like, it sounds like so

773
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:11,200
Speaker 1: much work.

774
00:35:11,480 --> 00:35:13,000
Speaker 4: I think I'm getting to the point where maybe I

775
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,799
Speaker 4: could do it, like I have to adult and do it,

776
00:35:14,840 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 4: but I also have help at times. Shandon's in the room,

777
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:20,400
Speaker 4: so I feel like I need to acknowledge it. And

778
00:35:20,440 --> 00:35:22,920
Speaker 4: she definitely helps make a lot of my paperwork, so

779
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 4: I feel like she's like, I know how you get

780
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,279
Speaker 4: it done.

781
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:29,719
Speaker 3: You're like, I don't have a problem with that, And.

782
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 4: I'm actually pulled out everything. My kids are doing great,

783
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: medical school forms, insurance.

784
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: I just got an urgent message that if I didn't

785
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,680
Speaker 1: feel something now, something would beat.

786
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 4: I didn't just text it on our you don't have

787
00:35:42,239 --> 00:35:43,759
Speaker 4: to give me credit ever, haha.

788
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 3: Okay. But also for her to be like, oh, it's

789
00:35:45,520 --> 00:35:46,319
Speaker 3: no problem for me.

790
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 4: I know I can't act like that, like I know that.

791
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,799
Speaker 4: I know that that's and I also see that as

792
00:35:51,840 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 4: like a gift, and I also know that I can't

793
00:35:53,560 --> 00:35:55,840
Speaker 4: always rely on that, Like I need to have agency

794
00:35:55,880 --> 00:35:58,400
Speaker 4: over my life and I need to do things.

795
00:35:58,480 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 3: That's you saying, Okay, this is hard for me. I

796
00:36:00,680 --> 00:36:01,560
Speaker 3: need help in this area.

797
00:36:01,680 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 4: So you ask me, and I'm to a place where

798
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:06,440
Speaker 4: in my life I have been able to have that.

799
00:36:06,520 --> 00:36:09,120
Speaker 4: I didn't always have that, and I justly didn't do

800
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 4: things like paperwork. It's like, Oh, I finally, how did

801
00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:21,440
Speaker 4: you know you've made it well? Making appointments? Oh my gosh.

802
00:36:21,480 --> 00:36:23,759
Speaker 4: I've been trying to make myself be in charge of

803
00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,360
Speaker 4: this part of my life of like calling and doing things.

804
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:29,480
Speaker 3: And are you calling or are you doing it online? That's

805
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:30,200
Speaker 3: a game changer.

806
00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 4: I'm texting or calling.

807
00:36:33,239 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 1: If I have to call to make an appointment, probably

808
00:36:37,440 --> 00:36:38,080
Speaker 1: not gonna happen.

809
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:39,320
Speaker 4: I guess it's mostly by text.

810
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,040
Speaker 1: If I can do it online, I think I'm good.

811
00:36:42,120 --> 00:36:44,759
Speaker 1: But if I there's some places you go online, you

812
00:36:44,760 --> 00:36:46,840
Speaker 1: send a message and then they call you to make the appointment,

813
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:48,120
Speaker 1: I'm out.

814
00:36:48,239 --> 00:36:50,360
Speaker 4: Yeah. Yeah, especially if you call me back at a

815
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:51,960
Speaker 4: time where I don't know. I'm in that mode. Where

816
00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:53,719
Speaker 4: I can't. Like, there's some things where I can like

817
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 4: check on my text messages and I'm like good. And

818
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,440
Speaker 4: there's other times texts come in and I'm like, I

819
00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:58,799
Speaker 4: don't know what to do. I'm just not even gonna

820
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:00,359
Speaker 4: open it. And it's like if someone that I want

821
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:02,120
Speaker 4: to hear from and that I really enjoy and I

822
00:37:02,200 --> 00:37:04,080
Speaker 4: like them, but I'm like, I don't know. I physically

823
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 4: I cannot open this text right now, and I'm like,

824
00:37:08,120 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 4: what the what the what the what the what the

825
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:16,520
Speaker 4: It's so stupid. I don't like being this way mailing stuff. Yeah,

826
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:20,400
Speaker 4: birthday cars, that's why Kat becoming one of my nearest

827
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:23,040
Speaker 4: Sindira's closest friends ever. And you're having ADHD. It's like

828
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,640
Speaker 4: I finally met someone that I've never felt more seen

829
00:37:25,880 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 4: and the same with on.

830
00:37:28,000 --> 00:37:31,480
Speaker 1: Which is just because I forget your birthday.

831
00:37:31,560 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, because but you also know what it feels like.

832
00:37:34,200 --> 00:37:36,960
Speaker 4: It feels horrible, like as the person that just.

833
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 1: Goes on it's so sweet. I'm like, I only know

834
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:41,520
Speaker 1: that you're saying this. It's because I've gotten your birthday

835
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:42,200
Speaker 1: wrong every time.

836
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:44,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like I met my match and your birthday.

837
00:37:44,640 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: Is still on the wrong day in my calendar right now, Yeah,

838
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:49,560
Speaker 1: that's myself I was going to change.

839
00:37:49,560 --> 00:37:52,239
Speaker 4: I think it's also more fun too that like every year,

840
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,160
Speaker 4: I'm going to look forward to seeing if it's you

841
00:37:54,200 --> 00:37:58,160
Speaker 4: know that you get my birthday right, But I have

842
00:37:58,680 --> 00:38:00,959
Speaker 4: empathy for people if they get it, like, of course

843
00:38:01,000 --> 00:38:03,680
Speaker 4: do I want my birthday to be celebrated, like we

844
00:38:03,719 --> 00:38:06,240
Speaker 4: all we do want to be remembered, and it feels good.

845
00:38:06,840 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 4: And also if someone were to forget and be like,

846
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:13,919
Speaker 4: oh shoot, I am like, you know what been there?

847
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 4: It's okay because I know when I've done that, it

848
00:38:16,560 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 4: wasn't on purpose. However, one of the things that I

849
00:38:18,760 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 4: did have to implement was a calendar and I have

850
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 4: to utilize that more and I have it written down

851
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 4: and I have the reminders and then you know, if

852
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:29,600
Speaker 4: you text someone. The thing is, it's tricky on an iPhone.

853
00:38:29,600 --> 00:38:32,320
Speaker 4: If you text someone on the wrong day their birthday,

854
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:35,400
Speaker 4: iPhone will be like is this this person's birthday? And

855
00:38:35,440 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 4: then they want to save it for you is that day?

856
00:38:37,640 --> 00:38:39,279
Speaker 4: So if you think that that's it and you click

857
00:38:39,400 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 4: save that it'll save it for you.

858
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 3: I mean, then you're screwed. Manually put your birthday in

859
00:38:43,120 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 3: the wrong day.

860
00:38:44,040 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 4: Okay, it's okay, I forgive you.

861
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,560
Speaker 1: But that is nice that there's not pressure because if

862
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: you forget something or something like that happens, there's not

863
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:56,839
Speaker 1: pressure for you to do everything perfectly because I'm like, oh, same.

864
00:38:57,160 --> 00:38:59,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, but we don't just it's not like you do.

865
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,920
Speaker 4: You're not just gonna be like, oh, I'm gonna keep

866
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:07,400
Speaker 4: living this way although every year, but you show up

867
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,880
Speaker 4: in other ways, like really awesome other ways, Like I

868
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:13,560
Speaker 4: think everyone has their gifts and strengths, and I just think.

869
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:15,960
Speaker 1: Well, I'm always earlier on your birthday, so it's not

870
00:39:16,000 --> 00:39:17,120
Speaker 1: like I forget your birthday.

871
00:39:17,560 --> 00:39:18,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, so just.

872
00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:22,120
Speaker 3: Gifts and strength, thank you.

873
00:39:22,120 --> 00:39:25,840
Speaker 4: Thank you, so returns, birthday cars, important documents, mailing stuff,

874
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,600
Speaker 4: getting them into an actual mailbox. It feels harder than

875
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:32,279
Speaker 4: you would think, harder than it should, quite honestly. And

876
00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:35,879
Speaker 4: then canceling subscriptions we don't use, like.

877
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:39,800
Speaker 3: That one is geared towards you. Yeah, how's your face? Fitness?

878
00:39:40,120 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 3: Oh I cancel, canceled, cancel.

879
00:39:41,719 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 4: I haven't even been doing it.

880
00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 3: You're not even doing exercises.

881
00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 4: I mean sometimes I open up my limps, but.

882
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 3: Occasionally I'm like.

883
00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,759
Speaker 1: See, maybe that's like your hyperfixation is like I hyper

884
00:39:52,800 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 1: fixate on all these different hobbies. You hyper fixate on

885
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:57,719
Speaker 1: all these different like things, like.

886
00:39:58,080 --> 00:40:02,200
Speaker 4: Really fitness as a hobby. It was, it was very

887
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:02,960
Speaker 4: time continued.

888
00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,080
Speaker 3: It's not a hobby. Why what do you do for fun?

889
00:40:08,160 --> 00:40:15,279
Speaker 4: I was yearning about Posta and the this muscle, I was,

890
00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:19,799
Speaker 4: it's anatomy. It's not a hobby. I'm sorry Faceditness is

891
00:40:19,840 --> 00:40:22,680
Speaker 4: not a hobby. It is jumping on a mini tramplate.

892
00:40:23,680 --> 00:40:24,680
Speaker 3: If you like to tramp.

893
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 4: I love to walk with my weight to best.

894
00:40:26,719 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 3: That's a hobby.

895
00:40:27,480 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 6: Is walking standing on my vibrating plate? Is that a hobby?

896
00:40:42,520 --> 00:40:44,439
Speaker 6: Is walking standing on my vibrating clate?

897
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:49,560
Speaker 4: What is that a hobby? What my vibrating clate? You

898
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:53,239
Speaker 4: know the plates that you stand on. Wait, you don't

899
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 4: know about a vibrating plate. First of all, what a

900
00:40:56,840 --> 00:41:01,040
Speaker 4: vibrating fight. It's like a ron thing.

901
00:41:01,200 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 3: And why you never told me about that? Hiding this

902
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 3: from me?

903
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:09,800
Speaker 4: You stand on it and it's shaking your whole body,

904
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 4: it's opening up your lengths.

905
00:41:11,920 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: I've never heard of this. It reminds me of my

906
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,839
Speaker 1: great grandma had this exercise machine. No, it was like

907
00:41:18,920 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 1: a little wooden square on a swivel, and you stood

908
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,120
Speaker 1: on it and you went like this. It's called the

909
00:41:24,120 --> 00:41:26,680
Speaker 1: twisty turvy. And that was how they worked out. Is

910
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,840
Speaker 1: they just stood on their twisty turfy. Oh they did this.

911
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 3: Your gret grandma didn't have.

912
00:41:31,400 --> 00:41:34,120
Speaker 4: One of those. I saw My grandma did not. She

913
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:39,960
Speaker 4: bold and sat in her recliner smoked cigarettes. Okay, was

914
00:41:39,960 --> 00:41:42,040
Speaker 4: her activity. I took this from my great grandma's house.

915
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:43,960
Speaker 4: I'm pretty sure when she passed away, and I think

916
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,560
Speaker 4: my mom still has it. If you would like to

917
00:41:45,600 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 4: borrow it.

918
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 3: That could be a hobby. I twist.

919
00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 4: Yeah. I guess my hobbies maybe different than here.

920
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:53,879
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to hate on your hobbies. I don't

921
00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:56,000
Speaker 1: think that's a hobby. I think that's just something that.

922
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 4: You do spend time doing.

923
00:41:58,080 --> 00:42:01,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, the hobby to like, what's the definition of an

924
00:42:01,600 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 1: interest that brings you like joy and that you I mean,

925
00:42:04,400 --> 00:42:05,160
Speaker 1: I guess that would fit.

926
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:08,400
Speaker 4: Okay, I'll give you that. The vibrating plate isn't a hobby,

927
00:42:08,520 --> 00:42:09,960
Speaker 4: but face fitness might be.

928
00:42:10,840 --> 00:42:13,279
Speaker 1: Okay, And you know, I shouldn't have reacted that way

929
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:14,800
Speaker 1: because if that really is.

930
00:42:14,640 --> 00:42:17,239
Speaker 4: What if I was like, what's your hobby? Skincare.

931
00:42:19,280 --> 00:42:20,960
Speaker 3: I just like, how much time can you spend?

932
00:42:21,360 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 4: Skincare is not but like face fitness would fall like,

933
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 4: but some people might be really into like testing out

934
00:42:26,800 --> 00:42:29,160
Speaker 4: different types of skincare and figuring out what works for

935
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 4: them and then telling their friends and make up a

936
00:42:32,280 --> 00:42:35,080
Speaker 4: hobby like you're how to do your eyes a fun

937
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,120
Speaker 4: way or makeup?

938
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're right, I'm being a little judge. So if

939
00:42:39,040 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 1: you have facebitness to be your hobby.

940
00:42:40,840 --> 00:42:42,200
Speaker 4: That, well it's not anymore. I quit.

941
00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:44,960
Speaker 1: Okay, So what's your next hobby going to be? Can't

942
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:51,160
Speaker 1: be vibrating plate. Let's see, I really love cleaning.

943
00:42:52,200 --> 00:42:54,560
Speaker 4: I love it. I've been really getting if I've been

944
00:42:54,680 --> 00:42:56,799
Speaker 4: on my laundry gain like you would not.

945
00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 3: Believe, like laundry is your new hobby.

946
00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 4: Well, I've always loved laundry, but I am at peak

947
00:43:04,200 --> 00:43:08,400
Speaker 4: laundry level where I rarely have.

948
00:43:08,800 --> 00:43:09,319
Speaker 3: Anything to do.

949
00:43:09,400 --> 00:43:12,400
Speaker 4: A dirty item come to my house, no like, and

950
00:43:12,600 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 4: I'm I'm trying to make sure my kids are on it.

951
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 4: And I'm like, if we've got laundry, we're getting done now.

952
00:43:18,160 --> 00:43:22,440
Speaker 4: It's it probably doesn't make sense water wise. Are you

953
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 4: like doing special things with the laundry? Or you just

954
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:26,399
Speaker 4: like like to no, I'm just like on it. It's

955
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,279
Speaker 4: like if if it's if it's in the wash and

956
00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,880
Speaker 4: it's in the dryer, and then I'm gonna put it away. Okay,

957
00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:33,520
Speaker 4: Like I'm I'm not doing this thing where I have

958
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:36,840
Speaker 4: piles everywhere because I part of my ADHD at times

959
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,960
Speaker 4: is to create piles. And now I still have certain piles,

960
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,960
Speaker 4: but my laundry is good. I'm pretty sure I have

961
00:43:45,040 --> 00:43:46,880
Speaker 4: a load in the dryer right now, and when we

962
00:43:46,920 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 4: get done, I'm gonna go put it away. And I'm

963
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:50,160
Speaker 4: gonna put it away.

964
00:43:50,280 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 3: Okay. Well, i have a doffe and I'm.

965
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,880
Speaker 4: Not even going on vacation for like two more weeks,

966
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,719
Speaker 4: and I've already started organizing on a rack what I'm

967
00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:00,000
Speaker 4: gonna pack? Who am I?

968
00:44:00,160 --> 00:44:01,880
Speaker 3: Okay, but that's not a hobby.

969
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:06,760
Speaker 4: Well, but this is just norly I'm packing last minute.

970
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,359
Speaker 4: But I'm telling you, like, I don't know if it's

971
00:44:08,360 --> 00:44:11,239
Speaker 4: my neural feedback or if it's just like my awareness

972
00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:12,440
Speaker 4: and I'm trying to be more intentional.

973
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: Are you excited about your vacation? Maybe can I tell

974
00:44:15,960 --> 00:44:18,359
Speaker 1: you the definition of hobby? This might help us narrow

975
00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:21,440
Speaker 1: down what your next hobby is going to be an

976
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: activity done regularly in one's leisure time for pleasure. Hobbies

977
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 1: are not pursued with intention of making a profit. So

978
00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: that's why I'm not selling my jewelry. I'm just giving

979
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 1: it away, right. However, is this done in your leisure

980
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,960
Speaker 1: time for pleasure? Is is laundry done in your leisure

981
00:44:41,960 --> 00:44:43,319
Speaker 1: time for pleasure? Yeah?

982
00:44:43,320 --> 00:44:47,400
Speaker 3: I mean like I was like, and if that is

983
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:48,719
Speaker 3: satisfying to you.

984
00:44:48,800 --> 00:44:49,600
Speaker 4: It was satisfying.

985
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 3: Put it away. You have a certain like detergent that

986
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:53,520
Speaker 3: you love.

987
00:44:53,800 --> 00:45:00,799
Speaker 4: That's unscented, freeing clear because my dermatologists, I had that rash. Remember, Yeah,

988
00:45:00,880 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 4: I'm brad that rash. I can't even use scented detergent.

989
00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:07,000
Speaker 4: I can't even use fabric softener anymore. I use vinegar,

990
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 4: and I can't even use dryer sheets. I use wool

991
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 4: balls and I put a drop of vanilla essential oil

992
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 4: on the balls.

993
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:16,400
Speaker 3: Does it work yeah?

994
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,600
Speaker 4: Okay, but it's it's taken me a minute to get

995
00:45:19,680 --> 00:45:22,240
Speaker 4: used to and then the balls they get lost.

996
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,720
Speaker 3: Okay. So are you satisfied with your hobby life?

997
00:45:25,400 --> 00:45:25,560
Speaker 4: No?

998
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:28,480
Speaker 3: Okay, So let's we'll brainstorm a something for you to try.

999
00:45:28,560 --> 00:45:30,680
Speaker 4: Okay, i'd be. I want our listeners to email us

1000
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:34,840
Speaker 4: their hobbies. Oh yeah, okay, great ideas like I'd like

1001
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:39,359
Speaker 4: to horseback ride, but it's expensive hobby. Well, it's harder

1002
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 4: than you would think. I've been trying to find a

1003
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,720
Speaker 4: place for my kids to go because they did equine

1004
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,879
Speaker 4: therapy and I thought, oh, they would really enjoy doing that,

1005
00:45:47,080 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 4: and it's hard to track down a place with a

1006
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,680
Speaker 4: horse to go ride. So you're right, it's not easy.

1007
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:53,880
Speaker 4: But I think if we could figure it out, I

1008
00:45:53,920 --> 00:45:59,879
Speaker 4: would want to ride horses, but not like competitively, just therapeutically.

1009
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 3: Have you seen those hobby horse things from Denay?

1010
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:04,319
Speaker 4: Oh?

1011
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,880
Speaker 3: No, but no, maybe day.

1012
00:46:06,920 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 4: Hey she's got this character is Judy hobby horsing?

1013
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 3: Judy does she jump around on a horse on a stick? Yes? Okay,

1014
00:46:17,760 --> 00:46:18,719
Speaker 3: that's a thing they have.

1015
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:22,480
Speaker 1: I don't know what you're talking about, but hobby horsing

1016
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:26,279
Speaker 1: is a real hobby that people now do, and it's

1017
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: they have like horse competitions.

1018
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 3: But you're just running around on the horse stick.

1019
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 4: Okay, that's not me.

1020
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 3: I'm not doing that. That would be easier than going

1021
00:46:33,080 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 3: to find a horse. I'm not doing that.

1022
00:46:35,360 --> 00:46:37,440
Speaker 1: Okay, So send in a hobby, so then you can

1023
00:46:37,480 --> 00:46:38,960
Speaker 1: pick one that you're definitely going to do.

1024
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 4: Yeah, y'all can email us your hobbies. Hey, they're at

1025
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 4: Feeling Things podcast dot com. And speaking of emails, we

1026
00:46:45,840 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 4: have an email at the day. This is just a

1027
00:46:48,320 --> 00:46:51,480
Speaker 4: very simple direct question that I thought we could address

1028
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 4: because you know, other people might be in this situation.

1029
00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 3: Maybe not.

1030
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,799
Speaker 4: It's kind of unique, but she said, Hey, hoping y'all

1031
00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 4: can help a girl out recently matched with a man

1032
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,080
Speaker 4: on a dating app. The thing is, we both have

1033
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,920
Speaker 4: kids in a mutual activity and have never spoken. So

1034
00:47:08,080 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 4: I've been talking to him but he doesn't seem to

1035
00:47:10,600 --> 00:47:13,920
Speaker 4: recognize me in real life. Do I tell him or

1036
00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 4: play dumb until we hopefully have a date? Thank you,

1037
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:17,640
Speaker 4: smiley face.

1038
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 1: Okay, So I'm curious what you would do. So this

1039
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: is somebody who mets him in a dating app. It

1040
00:47:23,600 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 1: sounds like her child is maybe on like the same

1041
00:47:26,760 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 1: soccer team as this person's child.

1042
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 3: What would you do?

1043
00:47:30,239 --> 00:47:33,280
Speaker 4: Well, I'm like, why hasn't he put two and two together?

1044
00:47:33,480 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 4: I would be like, do my pictures look like me?

1045
00:47:37,239 --> 00:47:40,400
Speaker 1: Or maybe it's just that, like there is a bigger

1046
00:47:40,440 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 1: thing than a soccer team, Like, let's say they both

1047
00:47:42,880 --> 00:47:45,600
Speaker 1: go to the same gym, like gymnastics gym, that could

1048
00:47:45,600 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: be therebe hundreds of people there, So.

1049
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:52,120
Speaker 4: I guess I would probably say something in the app

1050
00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 4: if we've been messaging, I'd be like, hey, do you

1051
00:47:55,640 --> 00:47:58,520
Speaker 4: have a kid that plays soccer?

1052
00:47:59,040 --> 00:47:59,480
Speaker 3: Sports?

1053
00:47:59,480 --> 00:48:01,800
Speaker 4: Basketball? And then I mean.

1054
00:48:01,719 --> 00:48:07,239
Speaker 1: Like, I think that's an easy point of conversation and opener, right.

1055
00:48:07,280 --> 00:48:10,040
Speaker 4: Like, hey, random, but I think it's weird. We've been

1056
00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,360
Speaker 4: chatting on here and you definitely saw me at the

1057
00:48:12,360 --> 00:48:14,280
Speaker 4: basketball game this weekend and didn't say anything.

1058
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:15,600
Speaker 3: That's awkward to me.

1059
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:17,160
Speaker 4: Okay, so what's she supposed to do?

1060
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,239
Speaker 3: That's what No. I'm saying, like, it's awkward to then

1061
00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:22,560
Speaker 3: see them and act like you don't know them.

1062
00:48:22,600 --> 00:48:24,759
Speaker 1: You know, I'm glad we read this because I think

1063
00:48:24,840 --> 00:48:27,400
Speaker 1: this can bring a lot of something that's bringing her anxiety.

1064
00:48:27,480 --> 00:48:28,719
Speaker 3: I don't think it's that big of a deal.

1065
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:31,560
Speaker 1: I think you'd say, hey, I think our kids are

1066
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 1: on the same rowing team or something like that, or

1067
00:48:35,920 --> 00:48:36,560
Speaker 1: go to the same.

1068
00:48:36,520 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 4: Art class, or now I think our kids are the

1069
00:48:39,840 --> 00:48:44,960
Speaker 4: same hobby horse club. Are you at hobby horse thing

1070
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,480
Speaker 4: the other day?

1071
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:48,839
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1072
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:49,520
Speaker 3: But I don't.

1073
00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:52,040
Speaker 4: I mean, I guess don't play dumb, although don't remember

1074
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:55,440
Speaker 4: remember my boyfriend he had seen me. This is a

1075
00:48:55,480 --> 00:48:58,640
Speaker 4: little bit different, but it's like, why didn't you say

1076
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,040
Speaker 4: that you had ever met me before? Because because I

1077
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:04,200
Speaker 4: didn't recognize him, But he met me at Whole Foods,

1078
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:08,080
Speaker 4: like over a year before we ever went out, and

1079
00:49:08,120 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 4: on our first date, he never brought that up, and

1080
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 4: I didn't recognize him. I didn't remember meeting him at

1081
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,880
Speaker 4: Whole Foods, so I brought up like it's weird, Like

1082
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 4: he didn't tell me till the second day, and then

1083
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, wait a second, well, okay, now I remember

1084
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,400
Speaker 4: us meeting at Whole Foods. Why didn't you say that

1085
00:49:26,440 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 4: on the first date. And this is one of the

1086
00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 4: things like he's heard on the podcast that he's like,

1087
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,400
Speaker 4: I need to clarify some stuff and stand up for

1088
00:49:32,440 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 4: myself because on our first date, if I had said

1089
00:49:35,600 --> 00:49:38,560
Speaker 4: that to you, you might have been like, what, No,

1090
00:49:38,760 --> 00:49:39,400
Speaker 4: this is weird.

1091
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:42,799
Speaker 3: Would you have thought it was weird? Maybe? Oh?

1092
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:46,120
Speaker 4: But then by the second date, I was already liking him.

1093
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,720
Speaker 4: So he's like I waited till I knew like, okay,

1094
00:49:49,719 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 4: I think she's into me, so safe I better.

1095
00:49:51,760 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 3: Tell you now. So it doesn't feel like he's like

1096
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:54,040
Speaker 3: a stalker.

1097
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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, because he came up to me like yeah,

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Speaker 4: because what he said to me at Whole Foods is like, hey,

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Speaker 4: my kids and I listen every day. You'll do great

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Speaker 4: job with the show. Okay.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Well, then if we're out on our first date and

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Speaker 4: then he brings that up, I'd be like, oh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think your situation is a little different, just

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Speaker 1: because it could come off that way. This is like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's just bring it up because he either doesn't know

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Speaker 1: or he doesn't know what to do either. Yeah. What

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Speaker 1: if he's thinking the same thing and he's like, I'm

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00:50:19,360 --> 00:50:20,920
Speaker 1: glad you said something. I didn't know if I should

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Speaker 1: say something or not.

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Speaker 4: Okay, So so that answers that. Yeah, so say something,

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Speaker 4: say it in the app.

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Speaker 1: And if he thinks that's so weird that he's like, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm never speaking to you again, he's weird, Like, that's

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Speaker 1: not a reason to not reply, right, Like you've dodged

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Speaker 1: a bullet.

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Speaker 4: If that's the case, screw him, kidding, not yet, No,

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Speaker 4: not like that, like that okay, and we'll wrap with

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Speaker 4: a we did an email the date, so we'll do

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Speaker 4: a voicemail of the day. This is from Shannon in Colorado.

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Speaker 4: She is talking about it Talks episode from a while

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00:51:03,080 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 4: back where one of our listeners had had a supervisor

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Speaker 4: say that she shouldn't do a certain part of her

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Speaker 4: job because she's a woman, and this is her thoughts

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Speaker 4: on that, because this has happened to her as well.

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Speaker 4: Here is the voicemail.

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Speaker 5: Hi, Amy and Kat. My name is Shannon. I am

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Speaker 5: from Colorado and I was just listening to the podcast

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Speaker 5: in regards to the young lady who had a supervisor

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Speaker 5: saying things about her and that she should not be

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00:51:32,080 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 5: doing work because she's a woman. I have had this

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Speaker 5: situation happen as well, and I think I have come

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Speaker 5: out of it by just asking the gentleman, so can

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Speaker 5: you please elaborate on that and explain to me what

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Speaker 5: part of my job you feel like I can do.

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Speaker 5: So then that maybe he is thinking that your job

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Speaker 5: consists of something else, or again, maybe he was joking,

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Speaker 5: or maybe you know, if to assume what men's brains

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00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 5: are thinking, and so I like it better just to

1140
00:52:07,600 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 5: come out and say, can you explain what you mean

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00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,960
Speaker 5: by that? And then that leaves it all in on

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00:52:13,080 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 5: their plate to explain how they were thinking or what

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00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:21,440
Speaker 5: their process was during that time. Thanks have a great week, So.

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Speaker 3: There you go.

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00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:26,319
Speaker 4: That is from Shannon, and I like that. Just that

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00:52:26,360 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 4: can apply to if a man is saying that about

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00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 4: you being a woman, or just any time you need

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00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:36,440
Speaker 4: clarity around something, to just pause and ask that simple

1149
00:52:36,600 --> 00:52:37,160
Speaker 4: question like.

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00:52:37,120 --> 00:52:38,600
Speaker 3: Could you elaborate?

1151
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:43,520
Speaker 4: Elaborate? Can you further explain what you mean by X,

1152
00:52:43,600 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 4: y Z whatever they asked you? And then yes, it's

1153
00:52:47,400 --> 00:52:49,759
Speaker 4: the balls in their court and they have an opportunity

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Speaker 4: to explain themselves.

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Speaker 1: I like her curiosity how she was like, it's really

1156
00:52:54,800 --> 00:52:57,799
Speaker 1: hard to assume what men's brains are thinking, so she

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00:52:57,880 --> 00:52:59,760
Speaker 1: really is asking versus making assumptions.

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Speaker 3: So thank you.

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Speaker 4: Love that advice. Thank you Shannon, and y'all can call

1160
00:53:04,880 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 4: and leave us voicemails anytime. Eight seven seven, two oh seven,

1161
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:16,040
Speaker 4: two oh seven seven, So voicemails, emails. We're attainable, reachable.

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Speaker 1: Reachable, We're attainable. I guess we're both. Is that ironic

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Speaker 1: or a coincidence?

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Speaker 3: You pick?

1165
00:53:23,320 --> 00:53:25,239
Speaker 4: Okay, we have you had the day that you need

1166
00:53:25,280 --> 00:53:30,919
Speaker 4: to have? Follow us on Instagram Feeling Things podcast, right, Yeah,

1167
00:53:31,600 --> 00:53:35,600
Speaker 4: a fir change shit at Feeling Things podcast. Yes, yeah,

1168
00:53:35,680 --> 00:53:37,439
Speaker 4: it just felt weird. You know sometimes when you say

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Speaker 4: something and it feels weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

1171
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Speaker 4: At Feeling Things podcast, Also on YouTube and TikTok. We're everywhere.

1172
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Speaker 3: See a Facebook. Oh Facebook too. Wow, Look at us,

1173
00:53:49,320 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 3: Look at us all grown up?

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Speaker 4: Okay, bye bye