Speaker 1: Rooking jewels second day. The guy on the phone in
Speaker 1: today's second date update says he met the girl that
Speaker 1: he wants us to call at the vet's office. They're
Speaker 1: both there taking care of some business with their doggies,
Speaker 1: and that's how they met. Apparently, he walked over to
Speaker 1: her and introduced himself, just like dogs due to each other.
Speaker 1: He and then he sniffed her, and then she sniffed
Speaker 1: him in the right place. And since sparks flew at
Speaker 1: that point, Hey, Jesse, what's up? How are you good? Good?
Speaker 1: How's it going good? Is that how you met Aaron?
Speaker 1: The girl that you want us to call today? Something
Speaker 1: like that? Behind But you know, that's what I was picturing.
Speaker 1: I picture you walk up and hey, my name's Jesse.
Speaker 1: You want to go out some time? I think it
Speaker 1: would be a happier world if we could do that.
Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about the girl that you
Speaker 1: want us to call today. What's her name? Name is Aaron? Right? Aaron? Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I was taking Rocket, my dog Rocket to the vat
Speaker 1: and yeah, we just as she sat down next to me,
Speaker 1: and you know, the dogs started the conversation first with themselves,
Speaker 1: and then we went into it and I think that
Speaker 1: takes a lot of confidence to ask a person out
Speaker 1: in a setting like that. Did you use any lines
Speaker 1: on her? You know, it's funny just because I didn't.
Speaker 1: That was what was cool about it was because we
Speaker 1: just had a genuine connection. It was really really nice
Speaker 1: to like to have a good chat with someone that
Speaker 1: wasn't a lot of pressure, you know. And so um
Speaker 1: when it was they called me and they take my
Speaker 1: dog in and I just asked her if she wanted
Speaker 1: to go, you know, like a doggie date, and I
Speaker 1: wanted to. That was maybe the extent of using a
Speaker 1: line doggie play date, Yeah, like a doggie play date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: So I thought that would be cool to break the
Speaker 1: ice even further. So I think that's a great idea.
Speaker 1: If I had a pet or a kid, I would
Speaker 1: use them to get dates too. That's one of the
Speaker 1: things that they're for, right, Some guys only have dogs
Speaker 1: and kids so that girls will talk to them. Actually
Speaker 1: borrow dogs from my friends just so people will talk
Speaker 1: to me when I'm out. So, you guys agreed to
Speaker 1: go out on a doggie play date? Where did you go?
Speaker 1: Did we chatted back and forth? You know, text message
Speaker 1: or whatever, And I found a cafe that lets you
Speaker 1: take dogs in. So we met there and again like
Speaker 1: we got along great. We had a really good chat
Speaker 1: when took the dogs to a nice little park. More importantly,
Speaker 1: more importantly, how did the dogs get along? Because I
Speaker 1: know with you dog people, that's the most important thing.
Speaker 1: If your dog approves and you're okay, exactly, it's just
Speaker 1: like the parents that they approved. Yes, great, move forward.
Speaker 1: The dogs loved each other, they say, they whatever they
Speaker 1: talk about in their little doggie language, you know, but
Speaker 1: the whole thing and the and the grooming and nibbling
Speaker 1: and all that, so say something to get along goes fine.
Speaker 1: So your doggies got along, and you guys got along too.
Speaker 1: How did the date? And well that's you know, the
Speaker 1: whole crux of the matters that I walked her to
Speaker 1: her car and chatted there for a minute, and I
Speaker 1: thought it was appropriate timing. I went in to give
Speaker 1: her a kiss and and she kind of backed away
Speaker 1: a little bit and was like, oh, gotta, I gotta go,
Speaker 1: And she was sort of quick about it, and she
Speaker 1: was going to her car. I just said, can I
Speaker 1: call you again? And she said sure and got in
Speaker 1: and took off. I don't know, I fell up to
Speaker 1: that point. We had a really good connection and I
Speaker 1: don't know if that was just the dogs or not.
Speaker 1: Was it awkward when she shut down your kiss at
Speaker 1: that point? It was really Yeah, it felt really weird,
Speaker 1: Like I was. I felt like, oh damn, did I
Speaker 1: did I go into soon? I used and it was
Speaker 1: a first date, but like, did you address the fact
Speaker 1: that it was weird? Like did you go, hey, sorry
Speaker 1: about that? I was, I'd be okay to kissing. Well,
Speaker 1: I didn't want to make too big of a deal
Speaker 1: about it, so I just said I thought maybe that
Speaker 1: was okay, but maybe it's too soon or whatever, and
Speaker 1: she was like, no, no, it's I just I have
Speaker 1: to go. And was she aware the whole time that
Speaker 1: you thought this was a romantic date and really, honestly
Speaker 1: not just like dogs get together, because I know that
Speaker 1: I like to take my dog out and get it
Speaker 1: a lot of exercise and energy, and it's always nice
Speaker 1: to find someone to be able to do that with.
Speaker 1: I mean, there was an energy there that I maybe
Speaker 1: I misinterpreted it, but there was an energy there that
Speaker 1: I felt was I would say, allowed me to do
Speaker 1: the go ahead and yeah, the kid, I would say
Speaker 1: that if you went in for the kiss and she
Speaker 1: shut you down, maybe you were misinterpreting something. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know, but she did tell you to call her.
Speaker 1: She did tell you to call her, and did you. Well, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I've tried. I've called her, I think once, and
Speaker 1: sent her a couple of text messages and I just
Speaker 1: haven't her back. And I love listening to you guys,
Speaker 1: and I thought maybe this would be a cool way
Speaker 1: to figure it out. I don't know, just get a
Speaker 1: little help, because I don't want to be a you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to be a stalk or anything. So
Speaker 1: I don't, you know, I don't know. Has she replied
Speaker 1: to you at all? No, nothing, You haven't heard a
Speaker 1: word from Yeah, and you know, And like I said,
Speaker 1: I don't want to keep on, but I but I
Speaker 1: don't want to miss a good opportunity either, because she
Speaker 1: was really cool, Like she was just really nice and
Speaker 1: smart and and there's only so many women that come
Speaker 1: into the vets office. Yes, well exactly, there's there's only
Speaker 1: so many women that are nice to have their dogs
Speaker 1: at the vet. Yeah, the next time, they're all going
Speaker 1: to be eighty and then I'm gonna be alone. Some
Speaker 1: eighty year olds have some cash. Don't shut that one out, right,
Speaker 1: I said it for years. That's what I would love
Speaker 1: to find. We'll play a song, come back, call her
Speaker 1: and get your second date update. Okay, right on, Okay,
Speaker 1: hang them looking jewel in the morning, Jesse. Yes, before
Speaker 1: we make the phone call for your second date update,
Speaker 1: I do have a question for you now. The girl
Speaker 1: that he wants to call today, her name is Aaron.
Speaker 1: You guys met at the vet's office. Your dogs bonded
Speaker 1: and you went out on a little doggy date to
Speaker 1: a doggy cafe. You said, at the end of the night,
Speaker 1: she shut you down when you went to try to
Speaker 1: kiss her. Yes, during your date. Are you one of
Speaker 1: those people that makes out with your dog a lot?
Speaker 1: What do you mean with your dog? You know what
Speaker 1: I mean? There's people that sit there and like they
Speaker 1: kiss their dog on the mouth NonStop. Do you do
Speaker 1: that with your dog? I try not to, at least
Speaker 1: in front of people. You know. There might have been
Speaker 1: a couple of times where he jumped up and gave
Speaker 1: a little lick here and there. But but I but
Speaker 1: I try to keep that. But you know, what I'm
Speaker 1: talking about, right, Jesse? There are some people that act
Speaker 1: they just go to town with their dog and lick
Speaker 1: each other. Yeah, I've seen people with the food in
Speaker 1: the mouth. It just discussed her, really, And I asked
Speaker 1: the question because we've done a second date update before
Speaker 1: with a guy who met like a girl's dog and
Speaker 1: he wouldn't stop hanging out and the girl was actually
Speaker 1: jealous of how much attention he was given the dog.
Speaker 1: I just thought maybe that could be the reason she
Speaker 1: shut you down for a kiss. Yeah. I tried to
Speaker 1: keep a balance. I didn't the best to keep a balance.
Speaker 1: So you only make out with your dog in private?
Speaker 1: Got it? All right? I'll only make my dog in private,
Speaker 1: Peanut butter? And all right, I'm gonna dial her phone
Speaker 1: ver right now, see if you can get her on
Speaker 1: the phone. Okay, Hello, is Aaron there? Yeah, this is Aaron.
Speaker 1: How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel
Speaker 1: in the Morning. Oh are you doing? I'm going I'm sorry?
Speaker 1: What's going on? You recently went out on a date
Speaker 1: with a listener of our show and he wanted us
Speaker 1: to call you. But who his name is? Jesse? And
Speaker 1: now you're not calling him? Back. Yeah. So so Jesse
Speaker 1: emailed us and said that he wants to get ahold
Speaker 1: of you because he'd love to see you again. But
Speaker 1: he's wondering if he did something wrong when you guys
Speaker 1: went out. Okay, this is really weird. Weren't the right fit?
Speaker 1: You weren't the right fit. He told us a little
Speaker 1: bit about your date, and he said that you guys,
Speaker 1: you know, your dogs bonded and stuff. He also told
Speaker 1: us how he tried to kiss you at the end
Speaker 1: of it and you said no right to his face. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't think it's it's going to work out. Is
Speaker 1: there anything that you could tell me about the date
Speaker 1: that I could at least relate to him and say, hey,
Speaker 1: maybe don't do this next time you're out with a girl.
Speaker 1: I just don't think he's gonna last through my role,
Speaker 1: through your rules. Yeah, I have a role that you
Speaker 1: have to go ten dates just hanging out, no physical activity,
Speaker 1: just really getting to know each other before that stuff. Wait,
Speaker 1: you're saying you need to go on ten days before
Speaker 1: you kiss someone. Yeah, I think it's important to get
Speaker 1: to know each other. Okay, but and did you tell
Speaker 1: him this while you were on your date? I think
Speaker 1: people get weirded out, so I usually don't tell them
Speaker 1: till it was a second or third date. But here
Speaker 1: he was so eager, like already kissing me on the
Speaker 1: first date. Yeah, what a journey. You're so him wanting
Speaker 1: to kiss you on the first date just turn you off?
Speaker 1: You Why couldn't you just tell him, Hey, sorry, I
Speaker 1: don't do that on the first date. I don't do
Speaker 1: that until the eleventh date. I mean, for me, it's
Speaker 1: more energy things like he's not gonna last ten dates
Speaker 1: if you can't even like pull themselves together the first dates.
Speaker 1: Do you go on a lot of dates aeron? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have my practice in dating. Okay. And when you
Speaker 1: go out on dates with other dudes, do they try
Speaker 1: to kiss you right away and then you never call
Speaker 1: them again? See most guys say, you know, they keep
Speaker 1: their distance. We're sting each other out, getting to know
Speaker 1: each other and like an intellectual level. Okay. And then
Speaker 1: Jessie was like, all of a sudden, I'm getting ready
Speaker 1: to get in my car and his lips or my face.
Speaker 1: That's right. Everybody has their rules, right exactly. I have
Speaker 1: my standards. I'm a lady, and I deserve first tide
Speaker 1: so we can get to know each other and then
Speaker 1: we can get fill Okay, well, you have your rules,
Speaker 1: like I won't go out on a second date with
Speaker 1: someone who doesn't eats seafood. That's my rules, right, So
Speaker 1: you have the kissing rule. You don't go out someone
Speaker 1: that tries to kiss you within ten dates or someone
Speaker 1: that you feel like can't hold off for ten dates exactly.
Speaker 1: I appreciate you being honest with us. Yeah, you're welcome.
Speaker 1: And I also need to tell you that Jesse is
Speaker 1: actually on the phone listening. Yeah, Hi there, how's it going?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm on your side, Aaron. I think
Speaker 1: Jesse is just out of control. Wow, slow down. I'm
Speaker 1: kind of a little surprised, Like I'm not even sure
Speaker 1: what the first of all, what the thing? I mean
Speaker 1: that this was the first I've heard of a ten
Speaker 1: date rule of no contacts. I kind of thought we
Speaker 1: had a better connection than than that than not telling
Speaker 1: me something like that. Look, I know you're a type,
Speaker 1: and I know you're not gonna last ten dates. What
Speaker 1: do you mean my type? I didn't try to, you know,
Speaker 1: do what we were witnessing happening in that dog part,
Speaker 1: Like you know I kept it pretty clean. I guess
Speaker 1: it's just you know, is not you know, animal action. Look,
Speaker 1: I have my standards and and everybody has like and
Speaker 1: just like that's that's the way it is. Hey, Aaron,
Speaker 1: let me ask Jesse one question before you go. Okay, Jesse,
Speaker 1: can you wait ten dates to make a move on Aaron?
Speaker 1: Do you think you could wait? I mean, yeah, I
Speaker 1: think so. Look, I guess stranger things have happened. It's
Speaker 1: I mean and all honestly, like it seems a little successive.
Speaker 1: But I hear that that you know that she has
Speaker 1: things that she you know, believes that that make a
Speaker 1: good relationship. And so if you know, I understand that,
Speaker 1: I do think it's it's something that I've never heard of.
Speaker 1: I think, is you tried to kiss me after forty minutes?
Speaker 1: How am I supposed to believe that you would be
Speaker 1: able to last ten days? Okay? I mean, that's okay.
Speaker 1: The fact is I didn't know about your rules. I
Speaker 1: didn't know you didn't express your things, and so if
Speaker 1: I had known, maybe I wouldn't have done that, or
Speaker 1: I would have said, hey, I don't this isn't for
Speaker 1: me or whatever. But I didn't have that option because
Speaker 1: you didn't tell me. It's a point. I really don't
Speaker 1: think that he'd be able to control himself. Wow, I
Speaker 1: just don't know. I don't know. Look, we'll hit your rules,
Speaker 1: you know, at the beginning, and see if they meshed,
Speaker 1: and then we'll go from there. I like you. I
Speaker 1: think you're I think you're a cool girl. Aaron, would
Speaker 1: you go out with him again? Give him one more shot?
Speaker 1: I will pay for a second date. He promises he
Speaker 1: won't make a move for another nine dates. Now that
Speaker 1: you've had one, you can and maybe you guys, I
Speaker 1: think we need to start over. Okay, so start over
Speaker 1: at zero and then go out on a date and
Speaker 1: then see if he can make it ten dates without
Speaker 1: making a move on you. Would you be willing to
Speaker 1: go out with Jesse again? I don't know if I
Speaker 1: can do the tenon. You can do it. He's such
Speaker 1: a reasonable, nice guy. I mean, I really think a
Speaker 1: lot of men would just, you know, write you off
Speaker 1: immediately for expecting that. Let's try it out. I can
Speaker 1: start it one one more shot? Yeah, all right? Cool? Aaron?
Speaker 1: Is there any kind of you know, can we bargain
Speaker 1: on this? Can I get you to reduce it to
Speaker 1: eight dates before first one. Okay. I don't want to
Speaker 1: push it. I don't want to ruin Jesse's chances. Gratulations, Jesse,
Speaker 1: you got a second date, Aaron. I think that you
Speaker 1: will be happy with Jesse going out with him again.
Speaker 1: I hope that he can prove to you that he
Speaker 1: will not make a move on you for ten dates. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and if he does, I'm going to send you out
Speaker 1: on that date with some pepper sprays. You just spray
Speaker 1: right in my eyes if he tries to get a
Speaker 1: kid beautiful in the morning,