WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: He Just Won’t Last

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking jewels second day. The guy on the phone in

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<v Speaker 1>today's second date update says he met the girl that

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<v Speaker 1>he wants us to call at the vet's office. They're

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<v Speaker 1>both there taking care of some business with their doggies,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's how they met. Apparently, he walked over to

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<v Speaker 1>her and introduced himself, just like dogs due to each other.

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<v Speaker 1>He and then he sniffed her, and then she sniffed

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<v Speaker 1>him in the right place. And since sparks flew at

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<v Speaker 1>that point, Hey, Jesse, what's up? How are you good? Good?

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<v Speaker 1>How's it going good? Is that how you met Aaron?

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<v Speaker 1>The girl that you want us to call today? Something

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<v Speaker 1>like that? Behind But you know, that's what I was picturing.

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<v Speaker 1>I picture you walk up and hey, my name's Jesse.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to go out some time? I think it

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<v Speaker 1>would be a happier world if we could do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell us a little bit about the girl that you

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<v Speaker 1>want us to call today. What's her name? Name is Aaron? Right? Aaron? Yeah? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I was taking Rocket, my dog Rocket to the vat

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<v Speaker 1>and yeah, we just as she sat down next to me,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, the dogs started the conversation first with themselves,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we went into it and I think that

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<v Speaker 1>takes a lot of confidence to ask a person out

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<v Speaker 1>in a setting like that. Did you use any lines

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<v Speaker 1>on her? You know, it's funny just because I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>That was what was cool about it was because we

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<v Speaker 1>just had a genuine connection. It was really really nice

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<v Speaker 1>to like to have a good chat with someone that

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't a lot of pressure, you know. And so um

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<v Speaker 1>when it was they called me and they take my

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<v Speaker 1>dog in and I just asked her if she wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to go, you know, like a doggie date, and I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to. That was maybe the extent of using a

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<v Speaker 1>line doggie play date, Yeah, like a doggie play date. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>So I thought that would be cool to break the

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<v Speaker 1>ice even further. So I think that's a great idea.

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<v Speaker 1>If I had a pet or a kid, I would

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<v Speaker 1>use them to get dates too. That's one of the

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<v Speaker 1>things that they're for, right, Some guys only have dogs

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<v Speaker 1>and kids so that girls will talk to them. Actually

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<v Speaker 1>borrow dogs from my friends just so people will talk

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<v Speaker 1>to me when I'm out. So, you guys agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a doggie play date? Where did you go?

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<v Speaker 1>Did we chatted back and forth? You know, text message

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<v Speaker 1>or whatever, And I found a cafe that lets you

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<v Speaker 1>take dogs in. So we met there and again like

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<v Speaker 1>we got along great. We had a really good chat

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<v Speaker 1>when took the dogs to a nice little park. More importantly,

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<v Speaker 1>more importantly, how did the dogs get along? Because I

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<v Speaker 1>know with you dog people, that's the most important thing.

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<v Speaker 1>If your dog approves and you're okay, exactly, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like the parents that they approved. Yes, great, move forward.

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<v Speaker 1>The dogs loved each other, they say, they whatever they

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<v Speaker 1>talk about in their little doggie language, you know, but

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing and the and the grooming and nibbling

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<v Speaker 1>and all that, so say something to get along goes fine.

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<v Speaker 1>So your doggies got along, and you guys got along too.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the date? And well that's you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>whole crux of the matters that I walked her to

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<v Speaker 1>her car and chatted there for a minute, and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was appropriate timing. I went in to give

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<v Speaker 1>her a kiss and and she kind of backed away

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit and was like, oh, gotta, I gotta go,

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<v Speaker 1>And she was sort of quick about it, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to her car. I just said, can I

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<v Speaker 1>call you again? And she said sure and got in

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<v Speaker 1>and took off. I don't know, I fell up to

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<v Speaker 1>that point. We had a really good connection and I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if that was just the dogs or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Was it awkward when she shut down your kiss at

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<v Speaker 1>that point? It was really Yeah, it felt really weird,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I was. I felt like, oh damn, did I

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<v Speaker 1>did I go into soon? I used and it was

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<v Speaker 1>a first date, but like, did you address the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that it was weird? Like did you go, hey, sorry

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<v Speaker 1>about that? I was, I'd be okay to kissing. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want to make too big of a deal

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<v Speaker 1>about it, so I just said I thought maybe that

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<v Speaker 1>was okay, but maybe it's too soon or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was like, no, no, it's I just I have

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<v Speaker 1>to go. And was she aware the whole time that

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<v Speaker 1>you thought this was a romantic date and really, honestly

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<v Speaker 1>not just like dogs get together, because I know that

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<v Speaker 1>I like to take my dog out and get it

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of exercise and energy, and it's always nice

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<v Speaker 1>to find someone to be able to do that with.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there was an energy there that I maybe

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<v Speaker 1>I misinterpreted it, but there was an energy there that

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<v Speaker 1>I felt was I would say, allowed me to do

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<v Speaker 1>the go ahead and yeah, the kid, I would say

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<v Speaker 1>that if you went in for the kiss and she

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<v Speaker 1>shut you down, maybe you were misinterpreting something. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but she did tell you to call her.

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<v Speaker 1>She did tell you to call her, and did you. Well, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and I've tried. I've called her, I think once, and

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<v Speaker 1>sent her a couple of text messages and I just

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<v Speaker 1>haven't her back. And I love listening to you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and I thought maybe this would be a cool way

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<v Speaker 1>to figure it out. I don't know, just get a

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<v Speaker 1>little help, because I don't want to be a you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to be a stalk or anything. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't, you know, I don't know. Has she replied

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<v Speaker 1>to you at all? No, nothing, You haven't heard a

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<v Speaker 1>word from Yeah, and you know, And like I said,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to keep on, but I but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to miss a good opportunity either, because she

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<v Speaker 1>was really cool, Like she was just really nice and

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<v Speaker 1>smart and and there's only so many women that come

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<v Speaker 1>into the vets office. Yes, well exactly, there's there's only

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<v Speaker 1>so many women that are nice to have their dogs

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<v Speaker 1>at the vet. Yeah, the next time, they're all going

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<v Speaker 1>to be eighty and then I'm gonna be alone. Some

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<v Speaker 1>eighty year olds have some cash. Don't shut that one out, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I said it for years. That's what I would love

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<v Speaker 1>to find. We'll play a song, come back, call her

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second date update. Okay, right on, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hang them looking jewel in the morning, Jesse. Yes, before

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<v Speaker 1>we make the phone call for your second date update,

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<v Speaker 1>I do have a question for you now. The girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he wants to call today, her name is Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>You guys met at the vet's office. Your dogs bonded

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<v Speaker 1>and you went out on a little doggy date to

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<v Speaker 1>a doggy cafe. You said, at the end of the night,

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<v Speaker 1>she shut you down when you went to try to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her. Yes, during your date. Are you one of

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<v Speaker 1>those people that makes out with your dog a lot?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you mean with your dog? You know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? There's people that sit there and like they

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<v Speaker 1>kiss their dog on the mouth NonStop. Do you do

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<v Speaker 1>that with your dog? I try not to, at least

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<v Speaker 1>in front of people. You know. There might have been

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of times where he jumped up and gave

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<v Speaker 1>a little lick here and there. But but I but

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<v Speaker 1>I try to keep that. But you know, what I'm

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<v Speaker 1>talking about, right, Jesse? There are some people that act

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<v Speaker 1>they just go to town with their dog and lick

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<v Speaker 1>each other. Yeah, I've seen people with the food in

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<v Speaker 1>the mouth. It just discussed her, really, And I asked

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<v Speaker 1>the question because we've done a second date update before

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<v Speaker 1>with a guy who met like a girl's dog and

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<v Speaker 1>he wouldn't stop hanging out and the girl was actually

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<v Speaker 1>jealous of how much attention he was given the dog.

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<v Speaker 1>I just thought maybe that could be the reason she

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<v Speaker 1>shut you down for a kiss. Yeah. I tried to

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<v Speaker 1>keep a balance. I didn't the best to keep a balance.

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<v Speaker 1>So you only make out with your dog in private?

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<v Speaker 1>Got it? All right? I'll only make my dog in private,

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<v Speaker 1>Peanut butter? And all right, I'm gonna dial her phone

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<v Speaker 1>ver right now, see if you can get her on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. Okay, Hello, is Aaron there? Yeah, this is Aaron.

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<v Speaker 1>How are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. Oh are you doing? I'm going I'm sorry?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? You recently went out on a date

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<v Speaker 1>with a listener of our show and he wanted us

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<v Speaker 1>to call you. But who his name is? Jesse? And

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<v Speaker 1>now you're not calling him? Back. Yeah. So so Jesse

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us and said that he wants to get ahold

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<v Speaker 1>of you because he'd love to see you again. But

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<v Speaker 1>he's wondering if he did something wrong when you guys

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<v Speaker 1>went out. Okay, this is really weird. Weren't the right fit?

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<v Speaker 1>You weren't the right fit. He told us a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit about your date, and he said that you guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, your dogs bonded and stuff. He also told

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<v Speaker 1>us how he tried to kiss you at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of it and you said no right to his face. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think it's it's going to work out. Is

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<v Speaker 1>there anything that you could tell me about the date

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<v Speaker 1>that I could at least relate to him and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe don't do this next time you're out with a girl.

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<v Speaker 1>I just don't think he's gonna last through my role,

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<v Speaker 1>through your rules. Yeah, I have a role that you

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<v Speaker 1>have to go ten dates just hanging out, no physical activity,

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<v Speaker 1>just really getting to know each other before that stuff. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you're saying you need to go on ten days before

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<v Speaker 1>you kiss someone. Yeah, I think it's important to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know each other. Okay, but and did you tell

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<v Speaker 1>him this while you were on your date? I think

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<v Speaker 1>people get weirded out, so I usually don't tell them

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<v Speaker 1>till it was a second or third date. But here

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<v Speaker 1>he was so eager, like already kissing me on the

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<v Speaker 1>first date. Yeah, what a journey. You're so him wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to kiss you on the first date just turn you off?

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<v Speaker 1>You Why couldn't you just tell him, Hey, sorry, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't do that on the first date. I don't do

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<v Speaker 1>that until the eleventh date. I mean, for me, it's

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<v Speaker 1>more energy things like he's not gonna last ten dates

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<v Speaker 1>if you can't even like pull themselves together the first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you go on a lot of dates aeron? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I have my practice in dating. Okay. And when you

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<v Speaker 1>go out on dates with other dudes, do they try

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<v Speaker 1>to kiss you right away and then you never call

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<v Speaker 1>them again? See most guys say, you know, they keep

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<v Speaker 1>their distance. We're sting each other out, getting to know

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<v Speaker 1>each other and like an intellectual level. Okay. And then

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<v Speaker 1>Jessie was like, all of a sudden, I'm getting ready

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<v Speaker 1>to get in my car and his lips or my face.

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<v Speaker 1>That's right. Everybody has their rules, right exactly. I have

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<v Speaker 1>my standards. I'm a lady, and I deserve first tide

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<v Speaker 1>so we can get to know each other and then

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<v Speaker 1>we can get fill Okay, well, you have your rules,

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<v Speaker 1>like I won't go out on a second date with

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<v Speaker 1>someone who doesn't eats seafood. That's my rules, right, So

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<v Speaker 1>you have the kissing rule. You don't go out someone

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<v Speaker 1>that tries to kiss you within ten dates or someone

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<v Speaker 1>that you feel like can't hold off for ten dates exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate you being honest with us. Yeah, you're welcome.

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<v Speaker 1>And I also need to tell you that Jesse is

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<v Speaker 1>actually on the phone listening. Yeah, Hi there, how's it going?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, I'm on your side, Aaron. I think

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<v Speaker 1>Jesse is just out of control. Wow, slow down. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a little surprised, Like I'm not even sure

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<v Speaker 1>what the first of all, what the thing? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>that this was the first I've heard of a ten

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<v Speaker 1>date rule of no contacts. I kind of thought we

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<v Speaker 1>had a better connection than than that than not telling

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<v Speaker 1>me something like that. Look, I know you're a type,

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<v Speaker 1>and I know you're not gonna last ten dates. What

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<v Speaker 1>do you mean my type? I didn't try to, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>do what we were witnessing happening in that dog part,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you know I kept it pretty clean. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>it's just you know, is not you know, animal action. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>I have my standards and and everybody has like and

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<v Speaker 1>just like that's that's the way it is. Hey, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask Jesse one question before you go. Okay, Jesse,

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<v Speaker 1>can you wait ten dates to make a move on Aaron?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think you could wait? I mean, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>think so. Look, I guess stranger things have happened. It's

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<v Speaker 1>I mean and all honestly, like it seems a little successive.

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<v Speaker 1>But I hear that that you know that she has

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<v Speaker 1>things that she you know, believes that that make a

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<v Speaker 1>good relationship. And so if you know, I understand that,

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<v Speaker 1>I do think it's it's something that I've never heard of.

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<v Speaker 1>I think, is you tried to kiss me after forty minutes?

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<v Speaker 1>How am I supposed to believe that you would be

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<v Speaker 1>able to last ten days? Okay? I mean, that's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>The fact is I didn't know about your rules. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know you didn't express your things, and so if

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<v Speaker 1>I had known, maybe I wouldn't have done that, or

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<v Speaker 1>I would have said, hey, I don't this isn't for

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<v Speaker 1>me or whatever. But I didn't have that option because

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<v Speaker 1>you didn't tell me. It's a point. I really don't

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<v Speaker 1>think that he'd be able to control himself. Wow, I

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<v Speaker 1>just don't know. I don't know. Look, we'll hit your rules,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, at the beginning, and see if they meshed,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we'll go from there. I like you. I

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<v Speaker 1>think you're I think you're a cool girl. Aaron, would

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<v Speaker 1>you go out with him again? Give him one more shot?

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<v Speaker 1>I will pay for a second date. He promises he

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<v Speaker 1>won't make a move for another nine dates. Now that

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<v Speaker 1>you've had one, you can and maybe you guys, I

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<v Speaker 1>think we need to start over. Okay, so start over

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<v Speaker 1>at zero and then go out on a date and

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<v Speaker 1>then see if he can make it ten dates without

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<v Speaker 1>making a move on you. Would you be willing to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with Jesse again? I don't know if I

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<v Speaker 1>can do the tenon. You can do it. He's such

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<v Speaker 1>a reasonable, nice guy. I mean, I really think a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of men would just, you know, write you off

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<v Speaker 1>immediately for expecting that. Let's try it out. I can

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<v Speaker 1>start it one one more shot? Yeah, all right? Cool? Aaron?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there any kind of you know, can we bargain

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<v Speaker 1>on this? Can I get you to reduce it to

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<v Speaker 1>eight dates before first one. Okay. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>push it. I don't want to ruin Jesse's chances. Gratulations, Jesse,

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<v Speaker 1>you got a second date, Aaron. I think that you

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<v Speaker 1>will be happy with Jesse going out with him again.

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<v Speaker 1>I hope that he can prove to you that he

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<v Speaker 1>will not make a move on you for ten dates. Okay, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and if he does, I'm going to send you out

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<v Speaker 1>on that date with some pepper sprays. You just spray

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<v Speaker 1>right in my eyes if he tries to get a

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<v Speaker 1>kid beautiful in the morning,