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Speaker 1: that point, Hey, Jesse, what's up? How are you good? Good?

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Speaker 1: How's it going good? Is that how you met Aaron?

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Speaker 1: I picture you walk up and hey, my name's Jesse.

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Speaker 1: You want to go out some time? I think it

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Speaker 1: would be a happier world if we could do that.

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Speaker 1: Tell us a little bit about the girl that you

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Speaker 1: want us to call today. What's her name? Name is Aaron? Right? Aaron? Yeah? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I was taking Rocket, my dog Rocket to the vat

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Speaker 1: So I thought that would be cool to break the

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Speaker 1: Did we chatted back and forth? You know, text message

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Speaker 1: when took the dogs to a nice little park. More importantly,

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Speaker 1: If your dog approves and you're okay, exactly, it's just

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Speaker 1: She did tell you to call her, and did you. Well, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: eighty year olds have some cash. Don't shut that one out, right,

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Speaker 1: I said it for years. That's what I would love

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Speaker 1: hang them looking jewel in the morning, Jesse. Yes, before

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Speaker 1: You guys met at the vet's office. Your dogs bonded

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Speaker 1: I just thought maybe that could be the reason she

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Speaker 1: So you only make out with your dog in private?

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Speaker 1: Got it? All right? I'll only make my dog in private,

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. Oh are you doing? I'm going I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: you're saying you need to go on ten days before

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Speaker 1: Do you go on a lot of dates aeron? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I have my practice in dating. Okay. And when you

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Speaker 1: go out on dates with other dudes, do they try

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Speaker 1: their distance. We're sting each other out, getting to know

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Speaker 1: Jessie was like, all of a sudden, I'm getting ready

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Speaker 1: That's right. Everybody has their rules, right exactly. I have

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you being honest with us. Yeah, you're welcome.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm on your side, Aaron. I think

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Speaker 1: Jesse is just out of control. Wow, slow down. I'm

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