1 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Have I ever been left waiting by the phone? It's 2 00:00:06,680 --> 00:00:09,239 Speaker 1: the Fred Show. Hey, Sanna, good morning, Welcome to the show. 3 00:00:09,280 --> 00:00:12,799 Speaker 1: How are you I'm doing dead? How are y'all doing doing? Okay, 4 00:00:13,000 --> 00:00:15,720 Speaker 1: what's going on with is doing? Rob? On waiting by 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 1: the phone? Tell us how you met? About any dates 6 00:00:18,239 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 1: you've been on? And then what's happening now? 7 00:00:20,720 --> 00:00:21,000 Speaker 2: Sure? 8 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:26,599 Speaker 3: So I met Rob on the dating apps, and you know, 9 00:00:26,680 --> 00:00:29,960 Speaker 3: I thought he was super cute and y'all, I was 10 00:00:30,000 --> 00:00:34,440 Speaker 3: excited that we matched, and so we we talked for 11 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:38,159 Speaker 3: a bit and then he finally asked me to go 12 00:00:38,200 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 3: out for dreams and he didn't have any suggestions on 13 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: a police so you know, I had a spot in mind, 14 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,919 Speaker 3: and so anyway, I just thought we were having a 15 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 3: great time. And towards the end of the night, I 16 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,880 Speaker 3: went to the bathroom and when I came back out, 17 00:00:56,680 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 3: he was gone, okay, like gon like he wasn't like 18 00:01:00,960 --> 00:01:03,560 Speaker 3: he literally like left okay. 19 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: So you don't make get through a whole date. I mean, 20 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,280 Speaker 1: this wasn't like you went on a date and said, oh, 21 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:09,320 Speaker 1: you know the whole thing. I want to see you again. 22 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: I'm going to ask you out again. And then he 23 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:14,920 Speaker 1: ghosted like this dude ditched you on the first day. 24 00:01:14,959 --> 00:01:22,279 Speaker 3: What like he ghosted in person, like in irm. Yeah, 25 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,840 Speaker 3: so I try to text and call, but he didn't answer, 26 00:01:26,319 --> 00:01:30,200 Speaker 3: and I'm like completely left in the dark. 27 00:01:30,520 --> 00:01:32,440 Speaker 1: So he didn't leave and then send you a note 28 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,800 Speaker 1: about it. He didn't text you later and say hey, 29 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:37,280 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I had to go, you know, pooh or something. 30 00:01:37,280 --> 00:01:38,680 Speaker 1: I don't know what he had to do like this. 31 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,399 Speaker 1: This dude didn't have any kind of like bodily emergency 32 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,200 Speaker 1: or otherwise. He just left and he's just missing. 33 00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:46,840 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's cricket because. 34 00:01:46,560 --> 00:01:48,400 Speaker 1: We've heard it before over the years on waiting where 35 00:01:48,400 --> 00:01:50,320 Speaker 1: people have you know, various things happen and it's like 36 00:01:50,360 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: I can't do this here, or you know, like it's 37 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:54,560 Speaker 1: this is not a good situation and they got to go. 38 00:01:54,680 --> 00:01:57,480 Speaker 1: But then at least they say like something or we 39 00:01:57,520 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: call him and they say, oh my gosh, I'm so 40 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 1: embarrassed with this is what happened. But in this case, 41 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: I mean, this dude just he just bailed. So let's go. Yeah, no, no, 42 00:02:07,360 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: and that at all I could. So let's play a song. 43 00:02:09,200 --> 00:02:11,800 Speaker 1: We'll come back in two minutes. I'm going to uh, 44 00:02:12,000 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 1: we're gonna call Rob. You'll be on the phone. We're 45 00:02:14,360 --> 00:02:17,200 Speaker 1: gonna ask these questions for you, and you know, hopefully 46 00:02:17,200 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: we can figure out what's going on, straighten it out, 47 00:02:19,320 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: set you guys up on another date and pay for that. 48 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: All right, I'd be great, Thank you. Let's find out 49 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:26,600 Speaker 1: what's up? Part two of Waiting by the phone after 50 00:02:26,680 --> 00:02:28,640 Speaker 1: ho this year. Well, by the way, we'll be at 51 00:02:28,639 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: our Heheart Radio Music Festival two weeks away. Jason, we 52 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:34,320 Speaker 1: got a trip right nine to ten. Nod your head yet, yes, 53 00:02:35,200 --> 00:02:37,359 Speaker 1: make it happen. If we don't, we do now nine 54 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,440 Speaker 1: to ten and Part two of Waiting by the phone 55 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: at two minutes. Fred Show, Oh shere the Fred Show. 56 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:42,679 Speaker 4: He is on. 57 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:44,440 Speaker 1: Good morning, Thanks for having us on the radio and 58 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: the iHeart app anytime. Search for The Fred Show on demand. Hey, Shannon, 59 00:02:49,000 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: let's call this dude Rob. You met on the apps. 60 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 1: You went on a date, you thought the date was 61 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:55,079 Speaker 1: going well, you went to the bathroom, he came back. 62 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:58,919 Speaker 1: This dude's gone and no word from him at all. No, Hey, 63 00:02:58,960 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: I had to go home. Hey, I forgot to take 64 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,400 Speaker 1: my medicine. Hey, my cat is hungry. I don't know 65 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:09,079 Speaker 1: it like nothing is just missing correct. Well, let's see 66 00:03:09,080 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: if we can get him on the phone and figure 67 00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,080 Speaker 1: out what's going on. Good luck, Shannon, Thank you. 68 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 2: Hi. 69 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: This is Rob. Yeah, Hey Rob, good morning man. My 70 00:03:22,800 --> 00:03:24,520 Speaker 1: name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the 71 00:03:24,520 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: Morning radio Show. I do have to tell you that 72 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:27,920 Speaker 1: we are on the radio right now. I would need 73 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:29,840 Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the call. Can we chat 74 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:30,519 Speaker 1: for just a second? 75 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:31,800 Speaker 3: Uh? 76 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:34,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, Well, thank you very much for calling on behalf 77 00:03:34,560 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 1: of a woman who says she met you on the 78 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,000 Speaker 1: dating apps and you went on a date recently. Her 79 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:41,360 Speaker 1: name is Shannon. Do you remember Shannon? 80 00:03:41,440 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 2: I hope, Yeah, I remember Shannon. 81 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:46,920 Speaker 1: Okay, So what happened? Because she called us and said 82 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 1: that she enjoyed meeting you, and I guess was having 83 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 1: a good time on the date. I went to the bathroom, 84 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,960 Speaker 1: she said, she came back and you were gone, and 85 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,040 Speaker 1: you didn't text her and tell her why you didn't 86 00:03:58,040 --> 00:03:59,920 Speaker 1: tell anyone? You didn't tell the survey don't even know. 87 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,000 Speaker 1: You didn't say if there was an emergency, and you 88 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: haven't reached out a responded since why did you leave 89 00:04:04,400 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 1: the day so abruptly? 90 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:10,320 Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay, I mean Shannah was Shannon was dope. Char 91 00:04:10,520 --> 00:04:14,240 Speaker 2: was cool. We met online, Uh, gonna go get drinks. 92 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:15,880 Speaker 2: Didn't really know where to go, so I let her 93 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,680 Speaker 2: take the place. Thank the Lord, I let her take 94 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:24,080 Speaker 2: that place because we get there and everything's going fine, 95 00:04:24,120 --> 00:04:27,000 Speaker 2: Like everything's going fine up until this point, but as 96 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,520 Speaker 2: soon as we get hit there, I didn't know if 97 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,880 Speaker 2: I was crazy or what, but there was some weird, 98 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,839 Speaker 2: weird ass tension between her and the partender and she 99 00:04:36,960 --> 00:04:41,839 Speaker 2: was getting like really weirdly touchy and flirty that I didn't. 100 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. 101 00:04:42,400 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 2: There was something in a time that I was like, 102 00:04:43,600 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 2: I don't I don't trust this. I don't really know 103 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:46,760 Speaker 2: what this is. So she got to go to the 104 00:04:46,800 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 2: bathroom and I just caid. So I went up to 105 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:53,520 Speaker 2: the bartender. I was like, hey, Vanda, man, like, what's up? 106 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:56,200 Speaker 2: What's going on? Truly, I got no I got no 107 00:04:56,279 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 2: stake in the game right now. And he lat it out. 108 00:04:59,600 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 5: There that him and Shannon that that to X, Shannon 109 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 5: to X and way she was trying to make her jealous. 110 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: So she invites me. She says, I will pick the place. 111 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:15,000 Speaker 1: You go to this place. She picks the place where 112 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:18,240 Speaker 1: her ex boyfriend works and has to serve you drinks, 113 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,160 Speaker 1: and so basically you're just a pawn in this whole thing. 114 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: Not to say she didn't like you or find you attractive, 115 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:24,360 Speaker 1: but I mean, I suppose you could be complimented that 116 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: she believes that your presence would make him jealous. But 117 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: essentially that's why she picked the place, not because they 118 00:05:30,360 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: had like the best margarita. It's because this dude is 119 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:37,120 Speaker 1: working there and she wanted to upset him. Yep, I 120 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: like that. Eaither let me bring Shannon in. I forgot 121 00:05:39,120 --> 00:05:41,080 Speaker 1: to mention that Shannon is here? Shannon, what are you doing? 122 00:05:41,920 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: Why would you do that? 123 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 4: Yeah? 124 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 3: Okay, Well, first of all, my ex is not the 125 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 3: reason I picked that bar, Like, oh, I had no 126 00:05:50,680 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 3: idea he's work there. 127 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: Okay, well they have. They have the best taping style 128 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:59,320 Speaker 1: pizza there. Some people call it just pizza. But why well, 129 00:05:59,360 --> 00:06:01,240 Speaker 1: then why would you picked up You could pick up 130 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:04,560 Speaker 1: thousand other places. You don't have to pick a place 131 00:06:04,560 --> 00:06:05,440 Speaker 1: where your ex works. 132 00:06:06,080 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. 133 00:06:06,400 --> 00:06:08,880 Speaker 1: I just love I love that spot. 134 00:06:09,080 --> 00:06:11,479 Speaker 3: It's literally one of my favorite places. And I haven't 135 00:06:11,520 --> 00:06:15,840 Speaker 3: been there in a while, and so I didn't realize 136 00:06:15,839 --> 00:06:18,120 Speaker 3: like he was still going to be there, like bartending 137 00:06:18,320 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 3: and look you know, Rob, I didn't tell you what 138 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,400 Speaker 3: was going on because I didn't want to make you 139 00:06:23,440 --> 00:06:24,040 Speaker 3: feel weird. 140 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: You know, like, I, what do you think happened to 141 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:29,159 Speaker 1: your actually like drafted to the war or something like 142 00:06:29,160 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 1: where do you think he wins? Like, I mean that's 143 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 1: when he was What are the odds? What are the odds? 144 00:06:35,120 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 1: I mean, I just I think that you could have 145 00:06:36,839 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: picked any other place. 146 00:06:38,839 --> 00:06:42,159 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I guess I was like taking a rest, 147 00:06:42,320 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 3: but I it had been a while, and I know 148 00:06:45,400 --> 00:06:47,480 Speaker 3: that he kind of like bounced around out a lot 149 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 3: of bars, So you know, I. 150 00:06:49,839 --> 00:06:52,239 Speaker 1: Just figured that. So you're saying it was an ounce. 151 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 1: You're saying that it wasn't on purpose. You're saying that 152 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 1: it just still happened that he would maybe he was 153 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:58,480 Speaker 1: going to be there, maybe he wasn't, but you weren't 154 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: thinking about it that way. That's your Yeah. 155 00:07:01,520 --> 00:07:03,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, And I was trying to mediate a very like 156 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 3: awkward situation. 157 00:07:05,279 --> 00:07:07,280 Speaker 1: That you created by taking a new date to a 158 00:07:07,320 --> 00:07:09,320 Speaker 1: place where your ex works. But Kiki's got a look 159 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:11,440 Speaker 1: on her face. I mean you always have a look 160 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:13,440 Speaker 1: on your face like something smells during he's waiting by 161 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:15,160 Speaker 1: the phone, give her another shot. 162 00:07:15,560 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 4: It was a small misstep. 163 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:19,160 Speaker 1: You're excusing me. 164 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, she did not mean to do that. She didn't 165 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:23,440 Speaker 4: know her ex was still going to be in the 166 00:07:23,440 --> 00:07:28,200 Speaker 4: same place she left him. It's not her fucking what. Yeah, 167 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,920 Speaker 4: you look on your face once because at first I 168 00:07:31,000 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 4: was like, girl, this is a wild move, this is petty. 169 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,720 Speaker 4: You were trying to be funny. But she's she explained that, 170 00:07:35,800 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 4: she said it was a little accident. 171 00:07:37,640 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 1: This was not an accident, So why not leave? Why 172 00:07:39,800 --> 00:07:41,280 Speaker 1: not go to find a different place? When you find 173 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 1: out that he's working there? Yeah, they walk in there like, well, 174 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:45,520 Speaker 1: this would be weird for the new guy, So like, 175 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:47,960 Speaker 1: let's go somewhere else, because I, oh, my gosh, you 176 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 1: slipped my mind that I used to sleep with works here. 177 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:55,200 Speaker 1: It's gainfully employed by this establishment. We can't even go 178 00:07:55,320 --> 00:07:58,119 Speaker 1: next door, right, it's just inconvenience. 179 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 3: Dream we had we had you know, we were in 180 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,800 Speaker 3: the middle of drinking and like, you. 181 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 2: Know, we already had we put in our order. 182 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:09,560 Speaker 3: Like I it would have made a scene, and I 183 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 3: just wasn't trying. 184 00:08:10,320 --> 00:08:11,040 Speaker 2: To make a scene. 185 00:08:11,880 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: So he was just making up that. 186 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 4: You guys were like making eyes at each other and 187 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:16,640 Speaker 4: you were more touchy with him. 188 00:08:16,680 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: Every time you took a glance. He was observing that 189 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 1: before he knew the story, right, so he got was 190 00:08:23,840 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 1: going on that. He wanted to say something. 191 00:08:26,840 --> 00:08:29,920 Speaker 3: But what I Okay, Like, maybe there were eyes because 192 00:08:29,960 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 3: we recognized each other obviously, but I wasn't touchy. He's 193 00:08:33,679 --> 00:08:36,840 Speaker 3: behind a bar, He's like observing drinks would be touchy. 194 00:08:37,120 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 1: My question was I couldn't reach over the. 195 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:40,240 Speaker 2: Bar like that. 196 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:42,720 Speaker 1: That doesn't make sense touch with the date. Right after 197 00:08:42,920 --> 00:08:45,480 Speaker 1: after you went to the bathroom, you come back, dude's gone. 198 00:08:45,880 --> 00:08:47,720 Speaker 1: Did you stay at the bar with your ex boyfriend? 199 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 2: Ah? 200 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:52,079 Speaker 3: No, I just said good to see you when I left. 201 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:57,640 Speaker 1: See. I'm a little bit mixed though, because I feel 202 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:00,600 Speaker 1: like I wouldn't like it either. But I don't think 203 00:09:00,840 --> 00:09:02,600 Speaker 1: and Rob, I'm not saying you did anything wrong because 204 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:04,480 Speaker 1: you're probably like I don't want any part of this mess. 205 00:09:04,520 --> 00:09:07,320 Speaker 1: But at the same time, I might be like cool 206 00:09:07,559 --> 00:09:10,480 Speaker 1: and then some ass back down and then just you know, 207 00:09:10,760 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: I mean, clearly I was a ploy, so I would 208 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:16,000 Speaker 1: like start making out with her or something, I start 209 00:09:16,000 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 1: trying to make the guy jealousy. No, I mean there's 210 00:09:18,320 --> 00:09:19,760 Speaker 1: two ways to look at it. You can get up 211 00:09:19,800 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 1: and storm out, which is what he's head, which I mean, 212 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 1: you know, hey, look, trust me, you don't necessarily want 213 00:09:26,440 --> 00:09:28,560 Speaker 1: to meddle in someone's effort to make someone else jealous, 214 00:09:28,600 --> 00:09:30,920 Speaker 1: because that means there's still feelings in communication or whatever. 215 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: That part I get. The other part of me is like, 216 00:09:33,920 --> 00:09:35,760 Speaker 1: what's that thing he'd never let you do? Because now 217 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:37,720 Speaker 1: I want to do it? Fredie sliding on the wall, 218 00:09:38,559 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 1: you know, I mean, I might just up a little 219 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: bit and start to try and make this guy jealous. 220 00:09:44,920 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: Am I get in on the game a little bit? 221 00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess there's two ways of looking at it. 222 00:09:48,200 --> 00:09:50,080 Speaker 1: I don't and Rob you just weren't having it. You 223 00:09:50,080 --> 00:09:51,280 Speaker 1: were like, I just don't want any part of this. 224 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 5: No, it's it's just not for me in sure to 225 00:09:55,600 --> 00:09:56,520 Speaker 5: go the other way. 226 00:09:56,880 --> 00:09:59,200 Speaker 2: I don't know, man, It's like I've dated the situation 227 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:01,840 Speaker 2: before into old I need to keep doing that. 228 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, I probably would have left too, But there's another 229 00:10:04,679 --> 00:10:06,400 Speaker 1: way of looking at it. You could flex. I guess 230 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: as well, But it doesn't matter. That's Shannon. You've got 231 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: to be more thoughtful than that. If you're saying it 232 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,240 Speaker 1: was an accident, you got to be more thoughtful than that. 233 00:10:13,480 --> 00:10:16,440 Speaker 1: But uh, okay, but here's look at me, like with 234 00:10:16,480 --> 00:10:20,440 Speaker 1: all these flip side devil's advocate arms, I guess you 235 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 1: also could reclaim your spot. But if it was his 236 00:10:23,280 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: spot because he worked there and then you hung out 237 00:10:25,400 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: there because of him, then it was never your spot 238 00:10:27,480 --> 00:10:29,199 Speaker 1: to begin with, and you should probably let the ex 239 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:31,360 Speaker 1: have his piece. So the more I work through this, 240 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:32,880 Speaker 1: the more I think there's really no reason to be 241 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:36,880 Speaker 1: taking dates there, right. Work it through. I'm working it through. Yeah, 242 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:41,760 Speaker 1: I'm working it through. I'm thinking out loud. I'm thinking, Okay, Jaron, 243 00:10:42,960 --> 00:10:45,480 Speaker 1: look here, I loved her till she was seventeen. Okay 244 00:10:45,520 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: a minute, all right, Look, so Ron, you're not interested, 245 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,120 Speaker 1: I mean, let's say we'll go to a different place. 246 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:53,160 Speaker 1: We'll pick up spot where her none of her ex's work. 247 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 1: How about that, and we'll pay for it. 248 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 2: I appreciate it, but I'm gonna still back down and 249 00:10:57,760 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 2: say no, I'm sorry. 250 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,840 Speaker 1: My gut tells me there's still something going on. There's 251 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,040 Speaker 1: still some medaling going on here, Shannon. Do you harbor 252 00:11:04,080 --> 00:11:05,280 Speaker 1: feelings for this man still? 253 00:11:05,760 --> 00:11:11,920 Speaker 3: I mean, even after this traumatizing event, yes, I. 254 00:11:12,720 --> 00:11:14,920 Speaker 1: For him. I mean I met your ex. Do you 255 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,640 Speaker 1: want tender. Yeah, do you have still have feelings for 256 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:18,080 Speaker 1: your ax? 257 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:24,000 Speaker 2: Oh for my ex? No? No, I really just like I'm. 258 00:11:23,880 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 3: Trying to move on, and like it was so stupid. 259 00:11:27,040 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 3: It honestly was so dumb. Like I feel so good, 260 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:34,680 Speaker 3: I'm sorry that I suggested going there, and like I'm 261 00:11:34,720 --> 00:11:36,120 Speaker 3: never going there again. 262 00:11:36,920 --> 00:11:39,640 Speaker 1: Until the next day, right with a good looking I 263 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 1: don't know, until he works again. 264 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:43,719 Speaker 4: Right. 265 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 1: The wind part is it was like Chili, there's a 266 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:50,880 Speaker 1: bunch of locations they could have gone to one. They 267 00:11:50,880 --> 00:11:52,440 Speaker 1: had to go to that, right, can't pass on that 268 00:11:52,480 --> 00:11:56,280 Speaker 1: presidential marquita. I mean, I know they take a different 269 00:11:56,280 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: when you know, man, he really does something sweet and sour. 270 00:12:00,679 --> 00:12:04,000 Speaker 1: I'll tell you what. It's different. It's different. It's different. 271 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:06,760 Speaker 1: All right, guys, Look, it's not gonna work out. Rob, 272 00:12:06,800 --> 00:12:08,959 Speaker 1: thanks for answering. Good luck to you, Shannon, good luck 273 00:12:08,960 --> 00:12:09,560 Speaker 1: to you as well.