WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 30 for 30

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Brig and Jeffrey and we've got a brand

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<v Speaker 3>Well, Kaylin Banks love lady found our podcast this way.

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<v Speaker 3>My husband introduced me to your podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>On our honeymoon.

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<v Speaker 3>We listen to hours and hours well in the car

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<v Speaker 2>Oh they're still married six months later. Di grats. I

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<v Speaker 2>love it. I love it.

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<v Speaker 1>Well.

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<v Speaker 2>Your brand new episode starts.

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<v Speaker 4>Right now, Second Date Up Date. It's broken Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning. And when you turn thirty years old and

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<v Speaker 4>you're still single, some people handle it just fine, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but others not so much. They start looking around wondering,

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<v Speaker 4>why am I the only single person at the bar

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<v Speaker 4>right now?

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<v Speaker 5>You're not?

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<v Speaker 2>You just feel that way, No, I am.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody else is making out except me.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 2>That doesn't mean they're together with anyone.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, my friends are getting married now and they're having kids.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe I should start thinking about adopting my seventh cat

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<v Speaker 4>just to keep the other six company. You know, I

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<v Speaker 4>want to be a good cat.

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<v Speaker 2>Bob Seven's lucky.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, but it's easy. You can get self conscious and

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<v Speaker 4>down about it, or you can be proactive and do something.

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<v Speaker 4>And apparently that's what our listener, Angela has decided to

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<v Speaker 4>do when she turned thirty recently, and she said, I

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<v Speaker 4>got to switch up my dating tactics, so let's learn

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<v Speaker 4>about it. Angela, Welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Hi Guysay thirty Angela.

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<v Speaker 5>Birthday. Oh my gosh, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not You're not what I get it.

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<v Speaker 4>So you said in your email that you switched up

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<v Speaker 4>your dating tactics at thirty. What did you do?

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<v Speaker 5>So? I've been single for way too long and I

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<v Speaker 5>was like, okay, let me try something different. So I thought,

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<v Speaker 5>all right, I'm obviously not going to be on like

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<v Speaker 5>the four best thirty people in the world, so why

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<v Speaker 5>don't I do my own version of that? And I

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<v Speaker 5>came up with thirty for thirty dating.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, thirty for thirty datings.

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<v Speaker 5>That means I have vowed to go out on thirty

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<v Speaker 5>dates before the end of the year.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, thirty dates while you're thirty years old.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it's like the thirty before thirty bucket list that's trending.

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<v Speaker 2>This is thirty guys.

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<v Speaker 5>Well okay, yeah, it's been rough. I mean I've had

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<v Speaker 5>to like speed it up. I'm on nineteeen, like I

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<v Speaker 5>completed nineteen. But the thing is that I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>if I want to go in twenty because I really

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<v Speaker 5>like thinteen.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, good.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like you should have some fine print in

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<v Speaker 1>this that if any of the numbers turn out awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't have to continue, because that's the whole point.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, so I'm assuming that we're calling one per two

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<v Speaker 4>guy here, But before we get to that real quick,

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<v Speaker 4>because just because this is so interesting, your situation is

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<v Speaker 4>so unique, could you tell us like some of the

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<v Speaker 4>highlights and low lights from your thirty for thirty experience.

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<v Speaker 5>Okay, four was a nightmare. Okay, he took me excellent

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<v Speaker 5>and I beat him, and like the rest of the date,

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<v Speaker 5>he was kind of just sulking, like, yeah, four was

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<v Speaker 5>a nightmare. Twelve brought his mom.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, all you need to say.

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<v Speaker 5>And she was only supposed to stay for like thirty

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<v Speaker 5>seconds and she ended up seeing the whole date.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she hold his hand?

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<v Speaker 2>Did tell me it was being a good boy?

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<v Speaker 6>You like to?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah? Absolutely? Her and I still talk.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh okay, out of the last eighteen dates, you got

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<v Speaker 4>a mom out of it? Hey, yeah, what.

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<v Speaker 5>Can I say?

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<v Speaker 6>These dudes know that you are on a challenge or

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<v Speaker 6>do you just go on the dates naturally?

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<v Speaker 4>So that's a really good question.

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<v Speaker 5>So like when I first started, I was telling them

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<v Speaker 5>like trying to be all transparent, wait one two episode

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<v Speaker 5>and then they acted all weird and everything was just

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<v Speaker 5>weird about the date, and so like breeing on, I

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<v Speaker 5>haven't said anything about whatever was.

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<v Speaker 4>It'd be a good litmus test to see how the

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<v Speaker 4>guys are about it. If they're chill.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know how chill they'd be about it, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't really want to be considered a number.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, unless you're a ten out of ten.

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<v Speaker 1>But that's what That's what date nineteen was. Does he

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<v Speaker 1>get a name or do we just call him nineteen?

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<v Speaker 5>Nineteen is a nineteen out of nineteen? His name is Damon?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh wow, and he gave him a nineteen rating out

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<v Speaker 4>of a nineteen.

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<v Speaker 5>Dinner was like really good, like it was he a

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<v Speaker 5>genuine guy? Like he just has a really nice smile,

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<v Speaker 5>no pressure, We went for a while. We kids feel

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<v Speaker 5>like a really nice kiss. It was super cute and

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<v Speaker 5>I thought he would be calling. And I don't really

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<v Speaker 5>want to go on to twenty, like I really want

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<v Speaker 5>to go out with him again. And if I'm asking

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<v Speaker 5>you guys, can you please help?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, well hold on here, you skipped really fast. So

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<v Speaker 4>what's the deal with Damon's mom?

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<v Speaker 5>I hope I'm or next week?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you want to meet this mom? That's good.

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<v Speaker 2>Did anything weird happen on your date with Damon or awkward?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I mean he get on a Mexican place, he paid,

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<v Speaker 5>and I mean all was well, yeah, he was fine.

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<v Speaker 5>I think like maybe almost two hundred bucks, Like it

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<v Speaker 5>didn't really make everything was chill.

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<v Speaker 6>Well, you know, that's a nice salsa.

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<v Speaker 5>He got a kiss out of it, and I want

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<v Speaker 5>to see him again.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you think there's any chance he could have found

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<v Speaker 1>out about the thirty for thirty?

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<v Speaker 2>Like are you posting about it on your TikTok Alexis

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<v Speaker 2>said that some of these are trending.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, I am posting about it on my Insta.

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<v Speaker 5>But I don't ever give my I never give my

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<v Speaker 5>socials out to anybody. I just start dating, right. I

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<v Speaker 5>don't know how he would find out about that, because

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<v Speaker 5>it's like not my name on my Insta.

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<v Speaker 4>But that's what I was going to say.

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<v Speaker 3>Have you heard you the latest one and it was

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<v Speaker 3>a good date?

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<v Speaker 2>I would have that upset.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, that's a couple of men, right, thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>So how long has it been since you and Damon

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<v Speaker 4>hung out?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh my god, it's been like a week and a

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<v Speaker 5>half and I haven't heard from him.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, like you've texted, you've called, or I.

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<v Speaker 5>Don't really double text, but I did text, or I

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<v Speaker 5>did do a call, and like that's plenty, right yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't do anymore.

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<v Speaker 6>That's the problem is some people don't get that hand

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<v Speaker 6>and then they keep going. What you need to do

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<v Speaker 6>is have a radio station call.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, what if he's doing a thirty for thirty and

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<v Speaker 1>he's only on number seventeen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's why that would be the pit.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait's true here, Like that's not even it?

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<v Speaker 4>Do double dates?

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<v Speaker 5>Side?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Well, we'll try to figure out what's going on

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<v Speaker 4>with Damon when we come back. Call him and hopefully

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<v Speaker 4>get some answers on your thirty for thirty second date

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<v Speaker 4>update thirty dates with thirty men on your thirtieth birthday.

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<v Speaker 2>Your thirtieth year.

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<v Speaker 4>We got that doesn't sound as sexy.

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<v Speaker 2>You can't do it all in one.

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<v Speaker 4>Day, Okay, but they get it. You understand. We're doing

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<v Speaker 4>second date update right after this sold on second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>Welcome back to a special second Date Update thirty for

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<v Speaker 4>thirty edition. And what is thirty for thirty? Yes, it's

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<v Speaker 4>a little dating challenge our listener Angela gave herself when

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<v Speaker 4>she turned thirty years old, where she decided, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 4>go out on thirty dates with thirty different men before

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<v Speaker 4>she turns thirty one.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because she wants to be in a relationship. Like,

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<v Speaker 1>the goal is not to just do this, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>also to find someone.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and also a little brag too.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>The thing is she hasn't even reached thirty guys yet.

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<v Speaker 4>She stopped at nineteen after she met Damon, A who

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<v Speaker 4>has turned out to be everything she was looking for.

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<v Speaker 4>In fact, she sounds fully ready to go all in

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<v Speaker 4>on him if she could just get him to answer

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<v Speaker 4>her damn calls. Yes, So we're gonna step in and

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<v Speaker 4>try and make that happen. Now, Angela, do you have

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<v Speaker 4>a guy number two twenty lined up just in case,

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<v Speaker 4>because we might need to put a little pressure on

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<v Speaker 4>Damon with a little Hey. If you don't, somebody else will.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. I don't have a twenty.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't, okay? Okay, you really are committed to this guy?

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<v Speaker 5>I am?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay. Well, if I think we're on agreement though that

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<v Speaker 4>if we get him on the phone, we're not bringing

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<v Speaker 4>up the thirty for thirty challenge to him unless he

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<v Speaker 4>already knows.

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<v Speaker 2>About it, right, unless he saw her Instagram.

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<v Speaker 4>We just go by number nineteen. Yeah, yeah, it's really

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<v Speaker 4>it's your business, Angela. If you want to bring it

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<v Speaker 4>up to him, that's your decision. We're not going to

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<v Speaker 4>say anything. But let's just call his number. We'll see

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<v Speaker 4>if he picks up, and here we go.

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<v Speaker 5>Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, is this Damon?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>It is?

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<v Speaker 5>Who's this? Hey?

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<v Speaker 6>Man?

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<v Speaker 4>This is a radio show actually called Brooke and Jeffrey

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<v Speaker 4>in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 6>Hey, good morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Sounds like we caught you. You're busy right now or something.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's not that I'm busy, I just don't

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<v Speaker 7>I don't know why the radio stations calling me.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, that's funny, because we know you. At least we've heard, well,

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<v Speaker 4>not in a creepy way, in a good way. We've

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<v Speaker 4>heard a lot about you. I don't think that's how

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<v Speaker 4>I said it, but we've heard glowing reviews about you

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<v Speaker 4>from one of our friends, a listener to our show,

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<v Speaker 4>a woman named Angela.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh, the girl I went out with that, Angela.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because what we're doing here, it's called the second

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<v Speaker 4>Date Update, and we're just trying to help out Angela.

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<v Speaker 4>She feels like after your hangout, you've been blowing her

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<v Speaker 4>off a little bit.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I've been. I've been blowing off a lot, like

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<v Speaker 7>I don't want to hang out with her no more.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, okay, all right.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds like something wrong.

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<v Speaker 4>Well that's really interesting to hear, because when we delved

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<v Speaker 4>into your date, she couldn't figure out anything that went

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<v Speaker 4>wrong that night.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it sounds great. Sounds like from the way you're talking,

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<v Speaker 2>it should be obvious.

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<v Speaker 7>Well I feel more taken advantage of than.

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<v Speaker 4>And not in a good way, like the bad way.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I feel violated in my pocket.

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<v Speaker 4>Hocket.

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<v Speaker 2>She said that you paid for dinner. Is that what

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<v Speaker 2>you mean?

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I paid two hundred dollars.

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<v Speaker 5>She didn't tell y'all that.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, she said two hundred dollars, but she made it

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<v Speaker 4>seem like that was totally agreeable and that you were

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<v Speaker 4>happy to offer that.

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<v Speaker 7>That's totally not true. I mean I was actually kind

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<v Speaker 7>of corked into it. Yeah, Like she does videos, she records.

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<v Speaker 2>Videos, videos of what she's like an influencer.

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<v Speaker 4>Like on the date she was recording videos, she was

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<v Speaker 4>doing full reviews.

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<v Speaker 7>That's why she ordered two hundred dollars. It wasn't that

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<v Speaker 7>we were caught up having a great time.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>No, oh wait, she like ordered one of everything on

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<v Speaker 1>the menu so she could try it.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, and I mean it's like the whole menu and

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<v Speaker 7>not the happy hour with menu.

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<v Speaker 2>It was my god. And then I mean the weird

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<v Speaker 2>part is you're at dinner and then they're on their phone. Yeah, according, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>Like did she even talk to you?

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<v Speaker 7>No, she told me to kind of be quiet, So.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't now I understand a little bit more. Why

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<v Speaker 4>you feel like you were used.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well but you kissed. I thought she's told us

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<v Speaker 2>that you had a great kiss.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, hell, yeah, I'm not gonna turn it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Everybody suffered through the least.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, you deserve a review on how your kiss was

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<v Speaker 4>because video. In fact, we might be able to give

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<v Speaker 4>it to you right now, since Angela has been on

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<v Speaker 4>the other line listening, wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>God, why why okay, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>Angel are you there, I'm here.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you sound embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 4>Don't be embarrassed, you, I'm upset. Why didn't you tell

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<v Speaker 4>us that this was for a food review.

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<v Speaker 5>Was a food review, That's what he's just assuming.

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<v Speaker 4>But hi, Damon, Damon, Damon talked to Angela here?

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<v Speaker 7>Hi you hey, yeah, whatever. You're kind of faking the

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<v Speaker 7>funk right now. You know that you had your phone

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<v Speaker 7>out the whole time. We really didn't connect on anything,

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<v Speaker 7>and you didn't even eat all the food.

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<v Speaker 3>It was just like you were.

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<v Speaker 7>Order the most expensive dish to take one bite and

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<v Speaker 7>move on to the next dish.

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<v Speaker 5>No, oh my gosh, Like I know, I had my

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<v Speaker 5>phone out, but it wasn't a fee. And honestly, Dan,

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<v Speaker 5>we had like it was two hundred dollars. You had

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<v Speaker 5>an appetizer. I had an appetizer. You had an entree.

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<v Speaker 5>I had an untrust.

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<v Speaker 7>Wait, slow down, you had all of that alone yourself,

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<v Speaker 7>and I remember it because I was the cameraman. Remember

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<v Speaker 7>you told me this fall.

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<v Speaker 5>No, Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I I feel

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<v Speaker 5>really happy about that part. To tell you wasn't a

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<v Speaker 5>food review, Angela.

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<v Speaker 4>You got to explain why were you making him film

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<v Speaker 4>you while eating the food.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't for a freevie like honestly, I like you.

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<v Speaker 5>And the reason why you're on the show today is

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<v Speaker 5>because I turned thirty as you know, earlier this year,

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<v Speaker 5>and I just made a personal goal to go out

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<v Speaker 5>on thirty dates for my thirtieth year of life, and

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<v Speaker 5>I wanted to do a video for Instagram and you're

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<v Speaker 5>number nineteen. Okay, damn, that's what's going on. You're number nineteen,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't want to go in the twentieth though

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<v Speaker 5>I don't like I'm trying to tell you I like you.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't want to go on the twentieth. I like

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<v Speaker 5>you a lot. And that's what the video was about.

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<v Speaker 5>It wasn't like trying to ord up a bunch of food.

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<v Speaker 5>It was just doing my own little silly thirty for thirty.

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<v Speaker 5>That's it.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, So what happened to the other eighteen dudes, the other.

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<v Speaker 5>Eighteen or wherever they are. I didn't go out on

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<v Speaker 5>the second date with them. I didn't like them. I

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't interested. And now this is where it stops.

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<v Speaker 4>So none of it was actually about reviewing the food.

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<v Speaker 4>It was just kind of full content to talk about

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<v Speaker 4>the dates.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, if that's the case, why wasn't I in the

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<v Speaker 7>video at all? I was just filming eating.

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<v Speaker 5>Because I repaid your privacy, Like I wasn't going to

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<v Speaker 5>put you on blacks like that?

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<v Speaker 4>Actually, yea, I am curious, Angela. Did the other eighteen

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<v Speaker 4>dudes all have to pay for your meals too? And

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<v Speaker 4>film you eating? Also? Great question?

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<v Speaker 5>So the thing is that you'll have to right making anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>Strongly suggested that they do.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess, Oh my god, I mean, David, where are

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<v Speaker 1>you at knowing that this was all part of a challenge.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, I don't like being a part of somebody's

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<v Speaker 7>elaborate game that they're trying to have to like boost

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<v Speaker 7>their own self esteem, because you have not game.

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<v Speaker 5>So it's not games, it's goals, it's goals and objectives.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm numbered nineteen, like you got ten to fifteen more

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<v Speaker 7>people to go, Like, come.

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<v Speaker 5>On, I don't have anybody else to go. I want

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<v Speaker 5>to stop with you.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's that's the point. This may have all started

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<v Speaker 4>out as like a fun experiment for her, like an

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<v Speaker 4>interesting way to meet people, but once she met you, Damon,

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<v Speaker 4>she decided I'm out. I'm fully committed to Damon if

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<v Speaker 4>he's willing to give me another chance.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, And she.

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<v Speaker 1>Didn't even want to tell you about it because she

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<v Speaker 1>knew that it probably wouldn't feel good, you know, like that, like.

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<v Speaker 2>It'd be weird.

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<v Speaker 4>In fact, she rated you a nineteen out of nineteen,

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<v Speaker 4>which is the highest rating you can have. Yeah, up

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<v Speaker 4>to twenty.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, if we went out again, it would be

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<v Speaker 5>like no phone, Like I wouldn't do any of it.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean that was literally just some social stuff, Damen,

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<v Speaker 5>Like it's not anything like that. Like I'm just doing

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<v Speaker 5>it all right enough.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it. Damon's taking charge.

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<v Speaker 7>What do you need to say if we go out again,

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<v Speaker 7>no phone? How about this we go out again, you

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<v Speaker 7>spend it two hundred on me?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Wow, there's a challenge for you.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that too.

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<v Speaker 7>That's a challenge. How about you and your challenge on that?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So it's a yes. From Damon. Now it's up

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<v Speaker 4>to Angela. Will you accept his terms and conditions?

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<v Speaker 5>No? I don't like his energy.

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<v Speaker 4>What what you gotta be, kidneys?

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<v Speaker 2>We worked so hard for you, you better pay for

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<v Speaker 2>that date.

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<v Speaker 5>No, I'm not. I gotta first of all, like just sload.

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<v Speaker 5>I didn't make you pay for anything, but this whole

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<v Speaker 5>added that energy is not going to work for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Like you say, Okay, why don't we make it like,

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<v Speaker 5>be a little more polite about it? Like he's been little.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't do. I didn't know you was gangsta.

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<v Speaker 2>That was ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 5>Wow.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, you know he's not in your challenge. That's all

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<v Speaker 2>he's doing it.

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<v Speaker 3>No, he's not.

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<v Speaker 5>It's my challenge. Find your own challenge.

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<v Speaker 7>Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>Time is running out on this segment, so damon, any

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<v Speaker 4>last words before we let you go?

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<v Speaker 7>Wow, don't let the gameplay.

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<v Speaker 5>You played a game?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Well he got played.

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<v Speaker 2>Bro, says the guy that's out two hundred bucks.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, rook, Jeffrey in the morning. Oh imagine Brook, one

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<v Speaker 4>day you end up going sixty for sixty sixty dudes

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<v Speaker 4>in your sixties.

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<v Speaker 2>No, dude, I do not want to enter the dating

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<v Speaker 2>game again.

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<v Speaker 6>That's true.

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<v Speaker 4>It does go up and get older, challenge gets older.

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<v Speaker 2>Dude, She said, no, I know what is now.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, there's a reason she's been on nineteen and.

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<v Speaker 6>Her intentions were a little shady.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end, I thought it was like so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>He was like matching her energy. He's yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>you want a person that will push back a little bit,

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<v Speaker 1>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>And the take gave too much, took too little, whatever

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<v Speaker 4>it was. But looks like angelus to move on to

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<v Speaker 4>guy number twenty in her thirty for thirty quest. And

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<v Speaker 4>I just told you, Okay, I hope whoever that guy

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<v Speaker 4>is has a good job in steady hands, because clearly

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<v Speaker 4>dinner's not going to be cheap and he's going to

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<v Speaker 4>have to hold the camera the entire night.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what, I don't even want to follow her

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<v Speaker 2>on socials.

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<v Speaker 3>He doesn't have to remember right, right, right choice, that's right.

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<v Speaker 4>Maybe that's what modern chivalry is. It's not about opening

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<v Speaker 4>doors and pulling out chairs anymore. It's holding their cameras

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<v Speaker 4>and choosing to pay the bill. Yeah, I'm just going

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<v Speaker 4>to ask that on the next date.

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<v Speaker 6>Excuse me, but do you think I could use your

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<v Speaker 6>phone and take a picture of you?

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<v Speaker 4>What a gentleman. Yes, the dating world's weird, and that's

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<v Speaker 4>why we're here to help. If you ever need it,

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<v Speaker 4>reach out to the show. We'll call that person who's

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<v Speaker 4>not calling you back. And go check out all of

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<v Speaker 4>our second date updates. They're online where you get your podcasts.

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<v Speaker 4>Ebrook and Jeffrey