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Speaker 2: Your brand new episode starts.
Speaker 4: Right now, Second Date Up Date. It's broken Jeffrey in
Speaker 4: the morning. And when you turn thirty years old and
Speaker 4: you're still single, some people handle it just fine, yeah,
Speaker 4: but others not so much. They start looking around wondering,
Speaker 4: why am I the only single person at the bar
Speaker 4: right now?
Speaker 5: You're not?
Speaker 2: You just feel that way, No, I am.
Speaker 4: Everybody else is making out except me.
Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean they're together with anyone.
Speaker 4: Oh, my friends are getting married now and they're having kids.
Speaker 4: Maybe I should start thinking about adopting my seventh cat
Speaker 4: just to keep the other six company. You know, I
Speaker 4: want to be a good cat.
Speaker 2: Bob Seven's lucky.
Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's easy. You can get self conscious and
Speaker 4: down about it, or you can be proactive and do something.
Speaker 4: And apparently that's what our listener, Angela has decided to
Speaker 4: do when she turned thirty recently, and she said, I
Speaker 4: got to switch up my dating tactics, so let's learn
Speaker 4: about it. Angela, Welcome to the show.
Speaker 1: Hi Guysay thirty Angela.
Speaker 5: Birthday. Oh my gosh, thank you.
Speaker 2: You're not You're not what I get it.
Speaker 4: So you said in your email that you switched up
Speaker 4: your dating tactics at thirty. What did you do?
Speaker 5: So? I've been single for way too long and I
Speaker 5: was like, okay, let me try something different. So I thought,
Speaker 5: all right, I'm obviously not going to be on like
Speaker 5: the four best thirty people in the world, so why
Speaker 5: don't I do my own version of that? And I
Speaker 5: came up with thirty for thirty dating.
Speaker 2: Oh, thirty for thirty datings.
Speaker 5: That means I have vowed to go out on thirty
Speaker 5: dates before the end of the year.
Speaker 4: Okay, thirty dates while you're thirty years old.
Speaker 3: Okay, it's like the thirty before thirty bucket list that's trending.
Speaker 2: This is thirty guys.
Speaker 5: Well okay, yeah, it's been rough. I mean I've had
Speaker 5: to like speed it up. I'm on nineteeen, like I
Speaker 5: completed nineteen. But the thing is that I don't know
Speaker 5: if I want to go in twenty because I really
Speaker 5: like thinteen.
Speaker 2: Okay, good.
Speaker 1: I feel like you should have some fine print in
Speaker 1: this that if any of the numbers turn out awesome,
Speaker 1: you don't have to continue, because that's the whole point.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm assuming that we're calling one per two
Speaker 4: guy here, But before we get to that real quick,
Speaker 4: because just because this is so interesting, your situation is
Speaker 4: so unique, could you tell us like some of the
Speaker 4: highlights and low lights from your thirty for thirty experience.
Speaker 5: Okay, four was a nightmare. Okay, he took me excellent
Speaker 5: and I beat him, and like the rest of the date,
Speaker 5: he was kind of just sulking, like, yeah, four was
Speaker 5: a nightmare. Twelve brought his mom.
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, all you need to say.
Speaker 5: And she was only supposed to stay for like thirty
Speaker 5: seconds and she ended up seeing the whole date.
Speaker 1: Oh she hold his hand?
Speaker 2: Did tell me it was being a good boy?
Speaker 6: You like to?
Speaker 5: Yeah? Absolutely? Her and I still talk.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, out of the last eighteen dates, you got
Speaker 4: a mom out of it? Hey, yeah, what.
Speaker 5: Can I say?
Speaker 6: These dudes know that you are on a challenge or
Speaker 6: do you just go on the dates naturally?
Speaker 4: So that's a really good question.
Speaker 5: So like when I first started, I was telling them
Speaker 5: like trying to be all transparent, wait one two episode
Speaker 5: and then they acted all weird and everything was just
Speaker 5: weird about the date, and so like breeing on, I
Speaker 5: haven't said anything about whatever was.
Speaker 4: It'd be a good litmus test to see how the
Speaker 4: guys are about it. If they're chill.
Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know how chill they'd be about it, Jeff.
Speaker 2: They don't really want to be considered a number.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, unless you're a ten out of ten.
Speaker 1: But that's what That's what date nineteen was. Does he
Speaker 1: get a name or do we just call him nineteen?
Speaker 5: Nineteen is a nineteen out of nineteen? His name is Damon?
Speaker 4: Oh wow, and he gave him a nineteen rating out
Speaker 4: of a nineteen.
Speaker 5: Dinner was like really good, like it was he a
Speaker 5: genuine guy? Like he just has a really nice smile,
Speaker 5: no pressure, We went for a while. We kids feel
Speaker 5: like a really nice kiss. It was super cute and
Speaker 5: I thought he would be calling. And I don't really
Speaker 5: want to go on to twenty, like I really want
Speaker 5: to go out with him again. And if I'm asking
Speaker 5: you guys, can you please help?
Speaker 4: Okay, well hold on here, you skipped really fast. So
Speaker 4: what's the deal with Damon's mom?
Speaker 5: I hope I'm or next week?
Speaker 4: Okay, you want to meet this mom? That's good.
Speaker 2: Did anything weird happen on your date with Damon or awkward?
Speaker 5: No? I mean he get on a Mexican place, he paid,
Speaker 5: and I mean all was well, yeah, he was fine.
Speaker 5: I think like maybe almost two hundred bucks, Like it
Speaker 5: didn't really make everything was chill.
Speaker 6: Well, you know, that's a nice salsa.
Speaker 5: He got a kiss out of it, and I want
Speaker 5: to see him again.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 1: Do you think there's any chance he could have found
Speaker 1: out about the thirty for thirty?
Speaker 2: Like are you posting about it on your TikTok Alexis
Speaker 2: said that some of these are trending.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I am posting about it on my Insta.
Speaker 5: But I don't ever give my I never give my
Speaker 5: socials out to anybody. I just start dating, right. I
Speaker 5: don't know how he would find out about that, because
Speaker 5: it's like not my name on my Insta.
Speaker 4: But that's what I was going to say.
Speaker 3: Have you heard you the latest one and it was
Speaker 3: a good date?
Speaker 2: I would have that upset.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a couple of men, right, thank you.
Speaker 4: So how long has it been since you and Damon
Speaker 4: hung out?
Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's been like a week and a
Speaker 5: half and I haven't heard from him.
Speaker 2: Okay, like you've texted, you've called, or I.
Speaker 5: Don't really double text, but I did text, or I
Speaker 5: did do a call, and like that's plenty, right yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 4: I don't do anymore.
Speaker 6: That's the problem is some people don't get that hand
Speaker 6: and then they keep going. What you need to do
Speaker 6: is have a radio station call.
Speaker 1: Yes, what if he's doing a thirty for thirty and
Speaker 1: he's only on number seventeen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why that would be the pit.
Speaker 5: Wait's true here, Like that's not even it?
Speaker 4: Do double dates?
Speaker 5: Side?
Speaker 4: Yeah, Well, we'll try to figure out what's going on
Speaker 4: with Damon when we come back. Call him and hopefully
Speaker 4: get some answers on your thirty for thirty second date
Speaker 4: update thirty dates with thirty men on your thirtieth birthday.
Speaker 2: Your thirtieth year.
Speaker 4: We got that doesn't sound as sexy.
Speaker 2: You can't do it all in one.
Speaker 4: Day, Okay, but they get it. You understand. We're doing
Speaker 4: second date update right after this sold on second Date Update.
Speaker 4: Welcome back to a special second Date Update thirty for
Speaker 4: thirty edition. And what is thirty for thirty? Yes, it's
Speaker 4: a little dating challenge our listener Angela gave herself when
Speaker 4: she turned thirty years old, where she decided, I'm gonna
Speaker 4: go out on thirty dates with thirty different men before
Speaker 4: she turns thirty one.
Speaker 1: Yeah, because she wants to be in a relationship. Like,
Speaker 1: the goal is not to just do this, but it's
Speaker 1: also to find someone.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and also a little brag too.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 4: The thing is she hasn't even reached thirty guys yet.
Speaker 4: She stopped at nineteen after she met Damon, A who
Speaker 4: has turned out to be everything she was looking for.
Speaker 4: In fact, she sounds fully ready to go all in
Speaker 4: on him if she could just get him to answer
Speaker 4: her damn calls. Yes, So we're gonna step in and
Speaker 4: try and make that happen. Now, Angela, do you have
Speaker 4: a guy number two twenty lined up just in case,
Speaker 4: because we might need to put a little pressure on
Speaker 4: Damon with a little Hey. If you don't, somebody else will.
Speaker 5: Yeah. I don't have a twenty.
Speaker 2: Don't, okay? Okay, you really are committed to this guy?
Speaker 5: I am?
Speaker 4: Okay. Well, if I think we're on agreement though that
Speaker 4: if we get him on the phone, we're not bringing
Speaker 4: up the thirty for thirty challenge to him unless he
Speaker 4: already knows.
Speaker 2: About it, right, unless he saw her Instagram.
Speaker 4: We just go by number nineteen. Yeah, yeah, it's really
Speaker 4: it's your business, Angela. If you want to bring it
Speaker 4: up to him, that's your decision. We're not going to
Speaker 4: say anything. But let's just call his number. We'll see
Speaker 4: if he picks up, and here we go.
Speaker 5: Hello.
Speaker 4: Hey, is this Damon?
Speaker 7: Yeah?
Speaker 2: It is?
Speaker 5: Who's this? Hey?
Speaker 6: Man?
Speaker 4: This is a radio show actually called Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 4: in the Morning.
Speaker 6: Hey, good morning.
Speaker 2: Sounds like we caught you. You're busy right now or something.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's not that I'm busy, I just don't
Speaker 7: I don't know why the radio stations calling me.
Speaker 4: Oh, that's funny, because we know you. At least we've heard, well,
Speaker 4: not in a creepy way, in a good way. We've
Speaker 4: heard a lot about you. I don't think that's how
Speaker 4: I said it, but we've heard glowing reviews about you
Speaker 4: from one of our friends, a listener to our show,
Speaker 4: a woman named Angela.
Speaker 7: Oh, the girl I went out with that, Angela.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because what we're doing here, it's called the second
Speaker 4: Date Update, and we're just trying to help out Angela.
Speaker 4: She feels like after your hangout, you've been blowing her
Speaker 4: off a little bit.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been. I've been blowing off a lot, like
Speaker 7: I don't want to hang out with her no more.
Speaker 4: Oh, okay, all right.
Speaker 2: That sounds like something wrong.
Speaker 4: Well that's really interesting to hear, because when we delved
Speaker 4: into your date, she couldn't figure out anything that went
Speaker 4: wrong that night.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it sounds great. Sounds like from the way you're talking,
Speaker 2: it should be obvious.
Speaker 7: Well I feel more taken advantage of than.
Speaker 4: And not in a good way, like the bad way.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel violated in my pocket.
Speaker 4: Hocket.
Speaker 2: She said that you paid for dinner. Is that what
Speaker 2: you mean?
Speaker 7: Yeah, I paid two hundred dollars.
Speaker 5: She didn't tell y'all that.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she said two hundred dollars, but she made it
Speaker 4: seem like that was totally agreeable and that you were
Speaker 4: happy to offer that.
Speaker 7: That's totally not true. I mean I was actually kind
Speaker 7: of corked into it. Yeah, Like she does videos, she records.
Speaker 2: Videos, videos of what she's like an influencer.
Speaker 4: Like on the date she was recording videos, she was
Speaker 4: doing full reviews.
Speaker 7: That's why she ordered two hundred dollars. It wasn't that
Speaker 7: we were caught up having a great time.
Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: No, oh wait, she like ordered one of everything on
Speaker 1: the menu so she could try it.
Speaker 7: Yeah, and I mean it's like the whole menu and
Speaker 7: not the happy hour with menu.
Speaker 2: It was my god. And then I mean the weird
Speaker 2: part is you're at dinner and then they're on their phone. Yeah, according, yeah,
Speaker 2: Like did she even talk to you?
Speaker 7: No, she told me to kind of be quiet, So.
Speaker 4: I don't now I understand a little bit more. Why
Speaker 4: you feel like you were used.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well but you kissed. I thought she's told us
Speaker 2: that you had a great kiss.
Speaker 7: I mean, hell, yeah, I'm not gonna turn it down.
Speaker 2: Everybody suffered through the least.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you deserve a review on how your kiss was
Speaker 4: because video. In fact, we might be able to give
Speaker 4: it to you right now, since Angela has been on
Speaker 4: the other line listening, wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 7: God, why why okay, okay.
Speaker 4: Angel are you there, I'm here.
Speaker 2: Oh you sound embarrassed.
Speaker 4: Don't be embarrassed, you, I'm upset. Why didn't you tell
Speaker 4: us that this was for a food review.
Speaker 5: Was a food review, That's what he's just assuming.
Speaker 4: But hi, Damon, Damon, Damon talked to Angela here?
Speaker 7: Hi you hey, yeah, whatever. You're kind of faking the
Speaker 7: funk right now. You know that you had your phone
Speaker 7: out the whole time. We really didn't connect on anything,
Speaker 7: and you didn't even eat all the food.
Speaker 3: It was just like you were.
Speaker 7: Order the most expensive dish to take one bite and
Speaker 7: move on to the next dish.
Speaker 5: No, oh my gosh, Like I know, I had my
Speaker 5: phone out, but it wasn't a fee. And honestly, Dan,
Speaker 5: we had like it was two hundred dollars. You had
Speaker 5: an appetizer. I had an appetizer. You had an entree.
Speaker 5: I had an untrust.
Speaker 7: Wait, slow down, you had all of that alone yourself,
Speaker 7: and I remember it because I was the cameraman. Remember
Speaker 7: you told me this fall.
Speaker 5: No, Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I I feel
Speaker 5: really happy about that part. To tell you wasn't a
Speaker 5: food review, Angela.
Speaker 4: You got to explain why were you making him film
Speaker 4: you while eating the food.
Speaker 5: It wasn't for a freevie like honestly, I like you.
Speaker 5: And the reason why you're on the show today is
Speaker 5: because I turned thirty as you know, earlier this year,
Speaker 5: and I just made a personal goal to go out
Speaker 5: on thirty dates for my thirtieth year of life, and
Speaker 5: I wanted to do a video for Instagram and you're
Speaker 5: number nineteen. Okay, damn, that's what's going on. You're number nineteen,
Speaker 5: and I don't want to go in the twentieth though
Speaker 5: I don't like I'm trying to tell you I like you.
Speaker 5: I don't want to go on the twentieth. I like
Speaker 5: you a lot. And that's what the video was about.
Speaker 5: It wasn't like trying to ord up a bunch of food.
Speaker 5: It was just doing my own little silly thirty for thirty.
Speaker 5: That's it.
Speaker 7: Okay, So what happened to the other eighteen dudes, the other.
Speaker 5: Eighteen or wherever they are. I didn't go out on
Speaker 5: the second date with them. I didn't like them. I
Speaker 5: wasn't interested. And now this is where it stops.
Speaker 4: So none of it was actually about reviewing the food.
Speaker 4: It was just kind of full content to talk about
Speaker 4: the dates.
Speaker 7: Yeah, if that's the case, why wasn't I in the
Speaker 7: video at all? I was just filming eating.
Speaker 5: Because I repaid your privacy, Like I wasn't going to
Speaker 5: put you on blacks like that?
Speaker 4: Actually, yea, I am curious, Angela. Did the other eighteen
Speaker 4: dudes all have to pay for your meals too? And
Speaker 4: film you eating? Also? Great question?
Speaker 5: So the thing is that you'll have to right making anybody.
Speaker 4: Strongly suggested that they do.
Speaker 1: I guess, Oh my god, I mean, David, where are
Speaker 1: you at knowing that this was all part of a challenge.
Speaker 7: I mean, I don't like being a part of somebody's
Speaker 7: elaborate game that they're trying to have to like boost
Speaker 7: their own self esteem, because you have not game.
Speaker 5: So it's not games, it's goals, it's goals and objectives.
Speaker 7: I'm numbered nineteen, like you got ten to fifteen more
Speaker 7: people to go, Like, come.
Speaker 5: On, I don't have anybody else to go. I want
Speaker 5: to stop with you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's the point. This may have all started
Speaker 4: out as like a fun experiment for her, like an
Speaker 4: interesting way to meet people, but once she met you, Damon,
Speaker 4: she decided I'm out. I'm fully committed to Damon if
Speaker 4: he's willing to give me another chance.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And she.
Speaker 1: Didn't even want to tell you about it because she
Speaker 1: knew that it probably wouldn't feel good, you know, like that, like.
Speaker 2: It'd be weird.
Speaker 4: In fact, she rated you a nineteen out of nineteen,
Speaker 4: which is the highest rating you can have. Yeah, up
Speaker 4: to twenty.
Speaker 5: You know, if we went out again, it would be
Speaker 5: like no phone, Like I wouldn't do any of it.
Speaker 5: I mean that was literally just some social stuff, Damen,
Speaker 5: Like it's not anything like that. Like I'm just doing
Speaker 5: it all right enough.
Speaker 2: I like it. Damon's taking charge.
Speaker 7: What do you need to say if we go out again,
Speaker 7: no phone? How about this we go out again, you
Speaker 7: spend it two hundred on me?
Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, there's a challenge for you.
Speaker 4: I like that too.
Speaker 7: That's a challenge. How about you and your challenge on that?
Speaker 4: Okay, So it's a yes. From Damon. Now it's up
Speaker 4: to Angela. Will you accept his terms and conditions?
Speaker 5: No? I don't like his energy.
Speaker 4: What what you gotta be, kidneys?
Speaker 2: We worked so hard for you, you better pay for
Speaker 2: that date.
Speaker 5: No, I'm not. I gotta first of all, like just sload.
Speaker 5: I didn't make you pay for anything, but this whole
Speaker 5: added that energy is not going to work for me.
Speaker 5: Like you say, Okay, why don't we make it like,
Speaker 5: be a little more polite about it? Like he's been little.
Speaker 5: I don't do. I didn't know you was gangsta.
Speaker 2: That was ridiculous.
Speaker 5: Wow.
Speaker 2: Man, you know he's not in your challenge. That's all
Speaker 2: he's doing it.
Speaker 3: No, he's not.
Speaker 5: It's my challenge. Find your own challenge.
Speaker 7: Wow.
Speaker 4: Time is running out on this segment, so damon, any
Speaker 4: last words before we let you go?
Speaker 7: Wow, don't let the gameplay.
Speaker 5: You played a game?
Speaker 4: Okay, Well he got played.
Speaker 2: Bro, says the guy that's out two hundred bucks.
Speaker 4: Yeah, rook, Jeffrey in the morning. Oh imagine Brook, one
Speaker 4: day you end up going sixty for sixty sixty dudes
Speaker 4: in your sixties.
Speaker 2: No, dude, I do not want to enter the dating
Speaker 2: game again.
Speaker 6: That's true.
Speaker 4: It does go up and get older, challenge gets older.
Speaker 2: Dude, She said, no, I know what is now.
Speaker 3: I'm like, there's a reason she's been on nineteen and.
Speaker 6: Her intentions were a little shady.
Speaker 1: At the end, I thought it was like so cool.
Speaker 1: He was like matching her energy. He's yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: you want a person that will push back a little bit,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 4: And the take gave too much, took too little, whatever
Speaker 4: it was. But looks like angelus to move on to
Speaker 4: guy number twenty in her thirty for thirty quest. And
Speaker 4: I just told you, Okay, I hope whoever that guy
Speaker 4: is has a good job in steady hands, because clearly
Speaker 4: dinner's not going to be cheap and he's going to
Speaker 4: have to hold the camera the entire night.
Speaker 2: You know what, I don't even want to follow her
Speaker 2: on socials.
Speaker 3: He doesn't have to remember right, right, right choice, that's right.
Speaker 4: Maybe that's what modern chivalry is. It's not about opening
Speaker 4: doors and pulling out chairs anymore. It's holding their cameras
Speaker 4: and choosing to pay the bill. Yeah, I'm just going
Speaker 4: to ask that on the next date.
Speaker 6: Excuse me, but do you think I could use your
Speaker 6: phone and take a picture of you?
Speaker 4: What a gentleman. Yes, the dating world's weird, and that's
Speaker 4: why we're here to help. If you ever need it,
Speaker 4: reach out to the show. We'll call that person who's
Speaker 4: not calling you back. And go check out all of
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