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Speaker 3: Well, Kaylin Banks love lady found our podcast this way.

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Speaker 2: Your brand new episode starts.

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Speaker 4: Right now, Second Date Up Date. It's broken Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the morning. And when you turn thirty years old and

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Speaker 4: you're still single, some people handle it just fine, yeah,

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Speaker 4: but others not so much. They start looking around wondering,

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Speaker 4: why am I the only single person at the bar

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Speaker 5: You're not?

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Speaker 2: You just feel that way, No, I am.

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Speaker 4: Everybody else is making out except me.

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Speaker 5: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: That doesn't mean they're together with anyone.

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Speaker 4: Oh, my friends are getting married now and they're having kids.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I should start thinking about adopting my seventh cat

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Speaker 2: Bob Seven's lucky.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but it's easy. You can get self conscious and

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Speaker 4: down about it, or you can be proactive and do something.

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Speaker 4: And apparently that's what our listener, Angela has decided to

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Speaker 4: do when she turned thirty recently, and she said, I

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Speaker 4: got to switch up my dating tactics, so let's learn

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Speaker 4: about it. Angela, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 1: Hi Guysay thirty Angela.

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Speaker 5: Birthday. Oh my gosh, thank you.

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Speaker 2: You're not You're not what I get it.

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Speaker 4: So you said in your email that you switched up

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Speaker 4: your dating tactics at thirty. What did you do?

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Speaker 5: So? I've been single for way too long and I

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Speaker 5: all right, I'm obviously not going to be on like

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Speaker 5: came up with thirty for thirty dating.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thirty for thirty datings.

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Speaker 5: That means I have vowed to go out on thirty

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Speaker 4: Okay, thirty dates while you're thirty years old.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's like the thirty before thirty bucket list that's trending.

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Speaker 2: This is thirty guys.

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Speaker 5: Well okay, yeah, it's been rough. I mean I've had

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Speaker 5: to like speed it up. I'm on nineteeen, like I

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Speaker 1: I feel like you should have some fine print in

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so I'm assuming that we're calling one per two

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Speaker 4: because just because this is so interesting, your situation is

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Speaker 4: highlights and low lights from your thirty for thirty experience.

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Speaker 5: Okay, four was a nightmare. Okay, he took me excellent

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Speaker 5: he was kind of just sulking, like, yeah, four was

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Speaker 5: And she was only supposed to stay for like thirty

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Speaker 1: Oh she hold his hand?

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Speaker 2: Did tell me it was being a good boy?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? Absolutely? Her and I still talk.

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, out of the last eighteen dates, you got

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Speaker 6: These dudes know that you are on a challenge or

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Speaker 4: So that's a really good question.

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Speaker 5: So like when I first started, I was telling them

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Speaker 4: It'd be a good litmus test to see how the

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know how chill they'd be about it, Jeff.

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Speaker 2: They don't really want to be considered a number.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, unless you're a ten out of ten.

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Speaker 5: Dinner was like really good, like it was he a

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Speaker 5: I thought he would be calling. And I don't really

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Speaker 4: Okay, well hold on here, you skipped really fast. So

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Speaker 5: I hope I'm or next week?

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Speaker 4: Okay, you want to meet this mom? That's good.

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Speaker 2: Did anything weird happen on your date with Damon or awkward?

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Speaker 6: Well, you know, that's a nice salsa.

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Speaker 5: He got a kiss out of it, and I want

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Speaker 1: Do you think there's any chance he could have found

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Speaker 2: Like are you posting about it on your TikTok Alexis

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Speaker 5: But I don't ever give my I never give my

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Speaker 4: But that's what I was going to say.

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Speaker 3: Have you heard you the latest one and it was

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Speaker 2: I would have that upset.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that's a couple of men, right, thank you.

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Speaker 4: So how long has it been since you and Damon

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Speaker 5: Oh my god, it's been like a week and a

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Speaker 2: Okay, like you've texted, you've called, or I.

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Speaker 5: Don't really double text, but I did text, or I

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Speaker 4: I don't do anymore.

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Speaker 6: That's the problem is some people don't get that hand

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Speaker 1: Yes, what if he's doing a thirty for thirty and

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Speaker 1: he's only on number seventeen.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's why that would be the pit.

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Speaker 5: Wait's true here, Like that's not even it?

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Speaker 4: Do double dates?

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Speaker 4: get some answers on your thirty for thirty second date

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Speaker 4: update thirty dates with thirty men on your thirtieth birthday.

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Speaker 2: Your thirtieth year.

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Speaker 4: We got that doesn't sound as sexy.

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Speaker 2: You can't do it all in one.

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Speaker 4: Day, Okay, but they get it. You understand. We're doing

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Speaker 4: Welcome back to a special second Date Update thirty for

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Speaker 4: thirty edition. And what is thirty for thirty? Yes, it's

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Speaker 4: a little dating challenge our listener Angela gave herself when

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Speaker 4: she turned thirty years old, where she decided, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because she wants to be in a relationship. Like,

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Speaker 1: the goal is not to just do this, but it's

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and also a little brag too.

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Speaker 4: The thing is she hasn't even reached thirty guys yet.

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Speaker 4: try and make that happen. Now, Angela, do you have

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Speaker 4: We just go by number nineteen. Yeah, yeah, it's really

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Speaker 4: it's your business, Angela. If you want to bring it

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Speaker 5: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey, is this Damon?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: It is?

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Speaker 5: Who's this? Hey?

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Speaker 6: Man?

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Speaker 4: This is a radio show actually called Brooke and Jeffrey

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Speaker 4: in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like we caught you. You're busy right now or something.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's not that I'm busy, I just don't

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Speaker 7: I don't know why the radio stations calling me.

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Speaker 4: Oh, that's funny, because we know you. At least we've heard, well,

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Speaker 4: not in a creepy way, in a good way. We've

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Speaker 4: heard a lot about you. I don't think that's how

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Speaker 4: I said it, but we've heard glowing reviews about you

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Speaker 4: from one of our friends, a listener to our show,

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Speaker 4: a woman named Angela.

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Speaker 7: Oh, the girl I went out with that, Angela.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because what we're doing here, it's called the second

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Speaker 4: Date Update, and we're just trying to help out Angela.

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Speaker 4: She feels like after your hangout, you've been blowing her

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I've been. I've been blowing off a lot, like

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Speaker 7: I don't want to hang out with her no more.

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Speaker 4: Well that's really interesting to hear, because when we delved

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Speaker 7: Well I feel more taken advantage of than.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel violated in my pocket.

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Speaker 2: She said that you paid for dinner. Is that what

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I paid two hundred dollars.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she said two hundred dollars, but she made it

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Speaker 7: That's totally not true. I mean I was actually kind

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Speaker 2: Videos, videos of what she's like an influencer.

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Speaker 4: Like on the date she was recording videos, she was

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Speaker 7: That's why she ordered two hundred dollars. It wasn't that

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Speaker 7: we were caught up having a great time.

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: No, oh wait, she like ordered one of everything on

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Speaker 2: Like did she even talk to you?

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Speaker 7: No, she told me to kind of be quiet, So.

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Speaker 4: I don't now I understand a little bit more. Why

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Speaker 2: Yeah, well but you kissed. I thought she's told us

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Speaker 7: I mean, hell, yeah, I'm not gonna turn it down.

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Speaker 2: Everybody suffered through the least.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you deserve a review on how your kiss was

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Speaker 7: God, why why okay, okay.

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Speaker 4: Angel are you there, I'm here.

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Speaker 2: Oh you sound embarrassed.

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Speaker 4: Don't be embarrassed, you, I'm upset. Why didn't you tell

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Speaker 5: Was a food review, That's what he's just assuming.

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Speaker 7: Hi you hey, yeah, whatever. You're kind of faking the

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Speaker 3: It was just like you were.

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Speaker 7: Order the most expensive dish to take one bite and

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Speaker 5: No, oh my gosh, Like I know, I had my

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Speaker 5: I had an untrust.

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Speaker 7: Wait, slow down, you had all of that alone yourself,

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Speaker 7: and I remember it because I was the cameraman. Remember

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Speaker 7: you told me this fall.

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Speaker 5: No, Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I I feel

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Speaker 5: really happy about that part. To tell you wasn't a

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Speaker 4: You got to explain why were you making him film

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Speaker 5: It wasn't for a freevie like honestly, I like you.

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Speaker 5: And the reason why you're on the show today is

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Speaker 5: I wanted to do a video for Instagram and you're

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Speaker 5: number nineteen. Okay, damn, that's what's going on. You're number nineteen,

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Speaker 5: and I don't want to go in the twentieth though

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Speaker 5: I don't like I'm trying to tell you I like you.

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Speaker 5: I don't want to go on the twentieth. I like

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Speaker 5: you a lot. And that's what the video was about.

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Speaker 5: It wasn't like trying to ord up a bunch of food.

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Speaker 5: It was just doing my own little silly thirty for thirty.

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Speaker 5: That's it.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So what happened to the other eighteen dudes, the other.

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Speaker 5: Eighteen or wherever they are. I didn't go out on

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Speaker 5: the second date with them. I didn't like them. I

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Speaker 4: So none of it was actually about reviewing the food.

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Speaker 4: It was just kind of full content to talk about

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Speaker 4: the dates.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, if that's the case, why wasn't I in the

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Speaker 5: Because I repaid your privacy, Like I wasn't going to

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Speaker 5: put you on blacks like that?

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Speaker 4: Actually, yea, I am curious, Angela. Did the other eighteen

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Speaker 4: dudes all have to pay for your meals too? And

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Speaker 4: film you eating? Also? Great question?

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Speaker 5: So the thing is that you'll have to right making anybody.

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Speaker 4: Strongly suggested that they do.

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Speaker 1: I guess, Oh my god, I mean, David, where are

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Speaker 7: I mean, I don't like being a part of somebody's

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Speaker 5: So it's not games, it's goals, it's goals and objectives.

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Speaker 7: I'm numbered nineteen, like you got ten to fifteen more

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Speaker 5: On, I don't have anybody else to go. I want

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's that's the point. This may have all started

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Speaker 4: interesting way to meet people, but once she met you, Damon,

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Speaker 4: she decided I'm out. I'm fully committed to Damon if

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Speaker 4: he's willing to give me another chance.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, And she.

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Speaker 1: Didn't even want to tell you about it because she

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Speaker 1: knew that it probably wouldn't feel good, you know, like that, like.

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Speaker 2: It'd be weird.

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Speaker 4: In fact, she rated you a nineteen out of nineteen,

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Speaker 4: which is the highest rating you can have. Yeah, up

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Speaker 5: You know, if we went out again, it would be

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Speaker 5: I mean that was literally just some social stuff, Damen,

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Speaker 5: Like it's not anything like that. Like I'm just doing

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Speaker 5: it all right enough.

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Speaker 2: I like it. Damon's taking charge.

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Speaker 7: What do you need to say if we go out again,

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Speaker 7: no phone? How about this we go out again, you

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Speaker 7: spend it two hundred on me?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Wow, there's a challenge for you.

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Speaker 4: I like that too.

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Speaker 7: That's a challenge. How about you and your challenge on that?

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Speaker 4: Okay, So it's a yes. From Damon. Now it's up

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Speaker 4: to Angela. Will you accept his terms and conditions?

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Speaker 5: No? I don't like his energy.

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Speaker 4: What what you gotta be, kidneys?

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Speaker 2: We worked so hard for you, you better pay for

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Speaker 5: No, I'm not. I gotta first of all, like just sload.

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Speaker 5: I didn't make you pay for anything, but this whole

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Speaker 5: added that energy is not going to work for me.

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Speaker 5: Like you say, Okay, why don't we make it like,

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Speaker 5: be a little more polite about it? Like he's been little.

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Speaker 5: I don't do. I didn't know you was gangsta.

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Speaker 2: That was ridiculous.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Man, you know he's not in your challenge. That's all

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Speaker 2: he's doing it.

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Speaker 3: No, he's not.

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Speaker 5: It's my challenge. Find your own challenge.

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Speaker 7: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Time is running out on this segment, so damon, any

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Speaker 4: last words before we let you go?

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Speaker 7: Wow, don't let the gameplay.

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Speaker 5: You played a game?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well he got played.

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Speaker 2: Bro, says the guy that's out two hundred bucks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, rook, Jeffrey in the morning. Oh imagine Brook, one

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Speaker 4: day you end up going sixty for sixty sixty dudes

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Speaker 4: in your sixties.

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Speaker 2: No, dude, I do not want to enter the dating

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Speaker 2: game again.

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Speaker 6: That's true.

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Speaker 4: It does go up and get older, challenge gets older.

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Speaker 2: Dude, She said, no, I know what is now.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, there's a reason she's been on nineteen and.

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Speaker 6: Her intentions were a little shady.

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Speaker 1: At the end, I thought it was like so cool.

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Speaker 1: He was like matching her energy. He's yeah, you know,

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Speaker 4: And the take gave too much, took too little, whatever

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Speaker 4: it was. But looks like angelus to move on to

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Speaker 4: I just told you, Okay, I hope whoever that guy

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Speaker 4: is has a good job in steady hands, because clearly

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Speaker 4: dinner's not going to be cheap and he's going to

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Speaker 2: You know what, I don't even want to follow her

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Speaker 2: on socials.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't have to remember right, right, right choice, that's right.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's what modern chivalry is. It's not about opening

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Speaker 4: doors and pulling out chairs anymore. It's holding their cameras

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Speaker 4: and choosing to pay the bill. Yeah, I'm just going

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Speaker 4: to ask that on the next date.

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Speaker 6: Excuse me, but do you think I could use your

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Speaker 4: What a gentleman. Yes, the dating world's weird, and that's

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Speaker 4: why we're here to help. If you ever need it,

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Speaker 4: reach out to the show. We'll call that person who's

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Speaker 4: not calling you back. And go check out all of

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Speaker 4: our second date updates. They're online where you get your podcasts.

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Speaker 4: Ebrook and Jeffrey