Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.
Speaker 2: So what's up. I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being
Speaker 2: here with us once once again, we end wilding and
Speaker 2: we look cute. We're a matching We have our matching
Speaker 2: shirts on and you can buy this on our website
Speaker 2: of course. Yes, we have reasonably Shady merch always yep,
Speaker 2: T shirts, hoodies, mugs, paddles, a nope books book, hello,
Speaker 2: cote bag. Yes, yeah, we we are we pimping our ride. No,
Speaker 2: we're selling our merch. We are hawking our things.
Speaker 1: Sure, yes, all the all the u Yes, get your
Speaker 1: march reasonably shady dot com. Yes, and as always, if
Speaker 1: you ever want to write into us, we love to
Speaker 1: hear from you all. Our email address is what up
Speaker 1: at reasonably shady dot com.
Speaker 2: And while we're here, oh well go ahead. We're on YouTube. Yes,
Speaker 2: that's what was gonna say. We're on YouTube and we
Speaker 2: still have our Patreon right and if you want to
Speaker 2: give a review, yes, rate review, yes, all the things
Speaker 2: and subscribe and subscribe and tell a friend and tell
Speaker 2: them to tell two friends and so on and so
Speaker 2: on all of that. Yes, and we are ten million
Speaker 2: downloads straw and count and go Dune. Okay, anyway, enough
Speaker 2: of all that. Okay, I have a shady moment. What
Speaker 2: is it? So do you ever watch the View? And
Speaker 2: it's towards the end of the show they're like, view
Speaker 2: your deal, yes okay, and they always have things that
Speaker 2: you need or know you needed, right, and it's at
Speaker 2: a discount yes, okay. So they had this.
Speaker 1: Pillow okay that I purchased, Okay, the one like so
Speaker 1: your face doesn't touch anything?
Speaker 2: No, it has a curve in it. Okay, right, so
Speaker 2: what do you mean your face doesn't touch anything? It's
Speaker 2: like so you're.
Speaker 1: So you know, like they say, like when you sleep,
Speaker 1: if you sleep with your face like on your pillow,
Speaker 1: like you're you're gonna make yourself more wrinkle.
Speaker 2: You're gonna like mess your face up. Okay.
Speaker 1: So like the pillow is it kind of like elevates
Speaker 1: your head so that you don't touch Oh really, Oh
Speaker 1: I might need to get that.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, this this is not the one I bought it, Okay.
Speaker 2: The one I bought is I think the draw was
Speaker 2: whatever it's made out of maybe it's like a foam material, okay,
Speaker 2: and it has it's like kind of moon shaped a
Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, what was the purpose, like, what was
Speaker 2: the reason for it or the benefit or the why listen,
Speaker 2: why did you my neck hurt? Okay, So I don't
Speaker 2: know why it was. It had been working fine, but
Speaker 2: now my neck hurts. So this pillow was a problem.
Speaker 2: Why did you buy it? Oh? I bought it because
Speaker 2: I just needed I just feel because they were set.
Speaker 2: They sold me. They said, you know, every now and again,
Speaker 2: you got to change your pillow. So I'm like, okay,
Speaker 2: let me change my pillow. And I did, And now
Speaker 2: I got to.
Speaker 1: Clok one of those phone. It's like memory phone, I think.
Speaker 1: So those are that's too Yeah, those hurt.
Speaker 2: I don't like those. But it's not a hard memory phone.
Speaker 2: It's like a soft memory phone. But the pillow is
Speaker 2: a problem. I gotta cook in my neck and the
Speaker 2: pillow is shady. So if I knew the brand, I
Speaker 2: would tell you, But I can't remember the brand.
Speaker 1: Okay, you got it a discount at least off at least.
Speaker 2: So I'm not mad at it. But like waking up
Speaker 2: in your neck hurts. Oh, yeah is the worst. Oh
Speaker 2: that is the worst. Yeah, that's been happening too too
Speaker 2: many days. So this pillow got to go, all right,
Speaker 2: the pillow gotta go. Yeah, no more pillow pillow out
Speaker 2: of here. Although there are.
Speaker 1: Good things that you can buy from those those little
Speaker 1: deal Oh, I get stuff from them all the time.
Speaker 2: Yeah. The GMA has good ones. Oh I've never seen them.
Speaker 2: Day show has good ones. Okay, Yeah, I'm here for the.
Speaker 1: Even if you miss it on the shows, Like you
Speaker 1: could just go on like the website, yes and go
Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, like what you can totally discount.
Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I've bought plenty thing, but the pillow. It's
Speaker 2: the problem. I used to be a big home Shopping
Speaker 2: network shopper. I could see that. I can totally see that.
Speaker 2: And then you get the ship and you're like, why
Speaker 2: did I get this? Yeah? Why did you ever buy
Speaker 2: jewelry on there? No? I feel like they always make
Speaker 2: the jewel Now I've never bought I've never bought anything
Speaker 2: from this, but anytime I've seen, like you know, scrolled
Speaker 2: and I've gone to that channel, all the jewelry looks spectacular,
Speaker 2: Like they put so many lights on that stuff. The
Speaker 2: jewelry is bling, trust and believe you got that thing
Speaker 2: in your house. It ain't blink nor blinging. Okay, it's
Speaker 2: just one blank. It's blink not bling bling. Because who
Speaker 2: used to be on there lot?
Speaker 1: Oh Mariah Carey. Yeah, I wonder if she's still on there.
Speaker 1: She had like her whole like butterfly jewelry line.
Speaker 2: Oh I can imagine that. Yeah. Yeah, speaking of Mariah Carey, Yeah,
Speaker 2: she has a new song, a new song. Have you
Speaker 2: heard it? A little bit of it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I like her a snippet and I turned Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. It don't sound like her, you don't think so.
Speaker 2: I think Mariah is catfishing us. She's catfishing in her voice,
Speaker 2: Like Mariah, that doesn't sound like you. Really, it's like
Speaker 2: give me my ball and it's more like a rap.
Speaker 2: Say oh and you just Mariah, just girl sing, exercise
Speaker 2: the vocals because you have them.
Speaker 1: Yeah.
Speaker 2: I feel like, well, okay, and we're gonna get trash
Speaker 2: because the Mariah Carey fans are ruthless. We're about to
Speaker 2: get trashed, yeah, because they're because like Beyonce fans are
Speaker 2: sick of you, so they don't even trash us anymore.
Speaker 1: But like Mariah fans are gonna come strong. I just
Speaker 1: feel like Mariah, like, we don't need new music from Mariah.
Speaker 2: No, we don't. We have enough. Yes, she has like.
Speaker 1: Great hits, great classics, and if she was to try
Speaker 1: to make new music, she would try to make it
Speaker 1: to like modern like she would and that's just like
Speaker 1: what she shouldn't do. Although I like her little dum
Speaker 1: who was it the Emancipation of Me Me?
Speaker 2: That album?
Speaker 1: That?
Speaker 2: Actually? Do you? I think you're the only one. I
Speaker 2: don't What was on that? What like you gotta shake
Speaker 2: it up?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah that was I think that's
Speaker 2: the right album? Like that album was?
Speaker 1: It was?
Speaker 2: She had a bunch of hits on that album. I
Speaker 2: think she was trying to collect some checks before November
Speaker 2: because you know, come November, it's her season. Okay, she's
Speaker 2: just trying to collect couple of jets.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, But we don't need new music
Speaker 1: from Mariah. We just need Mariah to sing her classics, hits,
Speaker 1: her ever and ever and ever. Yeah, and we don't
Speaker 1: need anything new. And we love you Mariah. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: moving on, what were we talking about?
Speaker 2: Oh? Your shady moment. Shady moment.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so this morning, I'm in the bed, you know,
Speaker 1: and finally, like, the kids are out of school, so
Speaker 1: I get to sleep in a little bit longer.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to get them to school. And I'm like,
Speaker 2: is that why you were late starting the podcast, Robin?
Speaker 2: Because you were late? That could have been my shady moment.
Speaker 1: No, that's not why I was late. I was late
Speaker 1: because one in the shower and I needed to get
Speaker 1: in the show.
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I wan let me in the house. No,
Speaker 2: I know he and he was down here in the office.
Speaker 1: I know, but but but I when he was in
Speaker 1: the shower, I needed to be in the shower, so
Speaker 1: I needed to wait for him to get out of
Speaker 1: the shower.
Speaker 2: Got it, you know, I don't y'all just going there together.
Speaker 2: He was talking on the phone in the shower, and like,
Speaker 2: why why, how how can he talk on the phone
Speaker 2: in the shower? He like, brings his phone in the shower.
Speaker 2: I understand that, but won't he get want to mess.
Speaker 1: Up your phone because it puts it on a he
Speaker 1: gets it out of the way, Okay, but still it's
Speaker 1: just he was just doing too much and so he
Speaker 1: just like messed me up.
Speaker 2: So AnyWho, okay, you're forgiving anywhere. I'm in the bed
Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, i just hear all this
Speaker 2: yelling like and I'm like, you know, I'm like, oh
Speaker 2: my god, what is happening? What is going on?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: And I'm like listening and I just hear like and
Speaker 2: then you can hear him say word.
Speaker 1: It's like Michael Jordan, Kevin Duran, Carmelo, what's happening. He's
Speaker 1: on the phone debating basketball with his friend and he's
Speaker 1: downstairs in the kitchen. I'm upstairs in my bedroom and
Speaker 1: I'm like thinking that he is there. There's like a problem.
Speaker 1: They're like, we're like, rufe, is someone broke into the house.
Speaker 1: Someone like he just got some really bad news. I
Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm like, dude, you cannot be debating
Speaker 1: basketball yelling right at the top of your lungs on
Speaker 1: the phone with your friend at seven in the morning.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, what time was?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: Seven?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Come on? Come on, one knows your sleep? What do
Speaker 2: you I'm sleep, Cory sleep hard sleep? What is one
Speaker 2: doing up? Why doesn't he sleep? Oh my god?
Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, this is crazy. And you know his
Speaker 1: voice carries, so he didn't even know he's that loud.
Speaker 1: And then it'll have the AirPod in so he's even louder.
Speaker 1: I was just like, this is nuts, nuts, I'm thinking
Speaker 1: something serious is happening.
Speaker 2: Oh okay. So I wanted to read a post that
Speaker 2: I saw that I appreciate, and it's with our beloved
Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Miami, Marisol and Alexia. And I think
Speaker 2: she's giving Alexia. Marissol's giving Alexia some advice what she
Speaker 2: does all the time. And she says, sometimes what's right
Speaker 2: for the whole ain't right for the soul. Okay, that
Speaker 2: is worse to live by. So what's but what is okay?
Speaker 2: What's right for the whole? Yeah? Meaning what like vagina?
Speaker 2: Is that like the h O L E? Not the
Speaker 2: w h O L E? Yes? Oh yes, yeah, what's
Speaker 2: right for the yeah? H it right for the soul?
Speaker 2: Oh that's funny that yes, yes, that is very true,
Speaker 2: very true. This is words to live on? Did he somebody? Yeah? So, ladies,
Speaker 2: just you know, take that to heart. So what is
Speaker 2: the what?
Speaker 1: So Alexia has divorced her husband, but they got back
Speaker 1: to get back together, Like, what's I don't know where
Speaker 1: the status is right now.
Speaker 2: And you know that what she's referring to is I
Speaker 2: do believe this is what she's referring to. I think
Speaker 2: they're getting raised to air or they are they airing now?
Speaker 2: I think they must have aired I saw, Yeah, So
Speaker 2: I think we'll find out more as a season. Okay airs, okay, Okay.
Speaker 2: Another thing I wanted to share with you. Interesting this
Speaker 2: lady says, can black people weigh in on this? Is
Speaker 2: that true? Do y'all rent out the pot? And is
Speaker 2: it because you think there's dust in the pot or
Speaker 2: the pot is dirty or you think that the first
Speaker 2: water that's coming out and touching the pot the water? Okay,
Speaker 2: it's okay. So so this is actually when I first
Speaker 2: saw this, Yeah, because this is a white lady talking
Speaker 2: and she's asking for black people to weigh in. Yes,
Speaker 2: I was like the things that white people think, you
Speaker 2: know what I mean? Like I would have never thought that,
Speaker 2: would have never been a question in my mind as
Speaker 2: to why, because because a lot of times black people
Speaker 2: we do stuff and we think everybody do it right. Right,
Speaker 2: So yeah, lady, it's both okay, but I don't really
Speaker 2: do that. I mean it depends the pot.
Speaker 1: So so if I have a pot that's been in
Speaker 1: the cabinet, yes, you like before you so like, let's
Speaker 1: say you're about to boil the egg. Yeah, you'll like
Speaker 1: put some water in it and then put some more
Speaker 1: water in it, and then put it on the stove
Speaker 1: and then put your egg in.
Speaker 2: And all that. I get, you know, I feel like
Speaker 2: it's subconscious exactly.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, I mean I'm like, I don't know that
Speaker 1: I deliberately do that, but I but now that I'm
Speaker 1: like going through what the motions in my mind are like, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what we do, rented.
Speaker 2: And just yeah, and we do that and we don't
Speaker 2: even think about it.
Speaker 1: But apparently white people don't do that, right, But how
Speaker 1: does she like, why does this white lady know that
Speaker 1: this is a black thing.
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe she got a black boyfriend. I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 2: maybe he's like, you're not gonna rint the bottle. I'm
Speaker 2: not eating that. I'm not eating that that that water
Speaker 2: got dust in it. Now mind you, the dust would
Speaker 2: have like evaporated in the cooking or whatever. But yeah,
Speaker 2: like this is what we do. Yeah, So I appreciate
Speaker 2: her asking.
Speaker 1: Yes, it is funny though, to see things that you know,
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't want to like not stereotype anyone,
Speaker 1: but ye see things that like black people do that
Speaker 1: white people don't, or that white people do and that
Speaker 1: black people don't like.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we should come up with a list, and we
Speaker 2: need to go down the list because maybe white people
Speaker 2: don't ever think that there could be your could be
Speaker 2: a little dusty, right, yes, or that my position or
Speaker 2: my issue at home now is like my kids don't
Speaker 2: wash these dishes properly, so I got to re wash
Speaker 2: it anyway. Yes, yes, so true. What is up with that?
Speaker 2: They don't care? They're going through the motions, That's what's
Speaker 2: up with that. They don't care. No, they don't. So
Speaker 2: I'm gonna wash it and put some water in it
Speaker 2: and pull it out and put some more water. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna do it, all of it. Oh Okay. I
Speaker 2: want to give a shout out to American Airlines has
Speaker 2: partnered with celebrity designer Brandon Blackwood. Do you have any
Speaker 2: brando in Blackwood? I do not, but but you know
Speaker 2: who I'm talking about. Yeah, okay, so really nice bag.
Speaker 2: He makes really nice bags. I have several of his
Speaker 2: of his bags. He reminds me because he was coming
Speaker 2: up behind Telfar, and you know, Telfar has completely exploded
Speaker 2: and he is I think he has stories now like
Speaker 2: bo and Mortar. Yeah, shout out to tel Far. But yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm really happy for Brandon Black, so partner with him
Speaker 2: to do what. Oh I'm sorry for exclusive amenity kits.
Speaker 2: So you know, if you travel, like especially if you're
Speaker 2: doing like international travel, in your in first class, they'll
Speaker 2: give you like a little kit or whatever and there
Speaker 2: and it's like little it's cute, like this one is
Speaker 2: super cute. It's like little pouch and yeah, very cute.
Speaker 2: I would I would keep that, Yes, no, totally and
Speaker 2: this and I've been on planes and sometimes the pouch
Speaker 2: is like Dior or or maz but yeah, it's this
Speaker 2: is really nice. And I think that that more black
Speaker 2: designers need to get the love. Yeah, so I'm happy
Speaker 2: he's getting some love. Okay, So this is this is
Speaker 2: for me, Robin, but through you, but for me. Okay, Okay, Equinox,
Speaker 2: which is my gym, this wise for me. We'll pay
Speaker 2: gym members six hundred thousand dollars for cancelation woes thanks
Speaker 2: to the New York US I think she states to
Speaker 2: turn yourself. Oh, this is a settlement. It's a settlement.
Speaker 2: Oh so I don't so. I saw it's a settlement
Speaker 2: in Equinox is playing out six hundred, six hundred thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: They didn't tell me where to put my link. Now,
Speaker 2: now you want to sign up for the class that's it.
Speaker 1: I'm going to Equinox like twenty years. Okay, I want
Speaker 1: my five out. I don't think you're so this is
Speaker 1: over cancelation woes. Yeah, this is for people who cancel.
Speaker 2: We got to cancel to come back. Ye shit, I
Speaker 2: don't know. Oh see now when you when you say,
Speaker 2: oh that's my gym. Yeah, let me get my fifty die.
Speaker 2: Let me get a little, my little five dollars because
Speaker 2: we know Robin. If there is a class action, Robin
Speaker 2: gonna get how money she's gonna get her One day,
Speaker 2: I'm going to hit the jackpot. What is the jackpots?
Speaker 2: They need? Seventy five dollars, two thousand dollars.
Speaker 1: One day I'm going to get a check in the
Speaker 1: mail or deposit to my account randomly, and it's gonna
Speaker 1: be for like two thousand dollars.
Speaker 2: Okay, I don't believe this, but let me know what happened.
Speaker 2: Then this is this a little post. It says, where
Speaker 2: are the world's most beautiful women? Oh? Okay, so it
Speaker 2: started with number one? Where do you think number one
Speaker 2: the most beautiful women? You've traveled? Some beautiful women? I
Speaker 2: mean it's not from traveling, but I think I'm gonna
Speaker 2: say India. Yes, beautiful women in India. Yeah, they're not
Speaker 2: on the list. Okay. So number one they're saying it's Columbia. Okay,
Speaker 2: I'm for that. Okay, Okay. Three is Greece, the Czech Republic.
Speaker 2: Iceland is in here. It was very confusing to me.
Speaker 2: Poland is number two. I can close my eyes and
Speaker 2: think of Polish people. You know, I don't think of
Speaker 2: anything beautiful. They're no shade to Poland. But Poland, Okay,
Speaker 2: I have to google Polish women. Okay. Number eight is
Speaker 2: the United States. Number number one should be the United States,
Speaker 2: Zellen Robin, the United States.
Speaker 1: But were we not doing It's having Poland be over? Okay,
Speaker 1: I just googled, and you can feel free to do
Speaker 1: it yourself. To beautiful Polish women. Okay, and no listen
Speaker 1: if anyone listening is from Poland or they're Polish.
Speaker 2: I apologize. We apologize, and if the insult, yes, y'uld
Speaker 2: not deserve that number two lit. Yes, no you don't No,
Speaker 2: no you really I mean I don't know.
Speaker 1: No, no, you don't deserve who voted who voted because
Speaker 1: this saying it, and there's no way with me and
Speaker 1: Robin living in the United States, there's no way.
Speaker 2: That number one or two. Okay, I'm just saying, oh
Speaker 2: my gosh, that's funny. Yeah, but Poland, Poland, through me,
Speaker 2: we rebuked that pole.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and the Czech Republic Iceland the hell lives in listen,
Speaker 1: Iceland is number seven?
Speaker 2: They have Are you kidding? They have?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: Their their skin tone is like it's transparent. It's okay.
Speaker 2: So we talked about this. I'm bringing this back, Okay,
Speaker 2: go ahead, Oh no, no, god, okay. So I'm bringing
Speaker 2: this back because we talked about this like years ago.
Speaker 2: I'm saying years. Have we been in this podcast for years?
Speaker 2: Four years? What? So year two of Reasonably Shady Somewhere
Speaker 2: in there, we talked about the fact that seven Up
Speaker 2: had a flavor called Shirley Temple because you know, I
Speaker 2: love Shirley Temple's right It wasn't even that long ago.
Speaker 1: We talked about this so and I tasted it and
Speaker 1: it's tasted like it wasn't good. It tasted like, let's
Speaker 1: see bad cough medicine. Oh yeah, it was that taste
Speaker 1: you know that tastes medicine.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So they're bringing it back, they say by
Speaker 2: popular demand.
Speaker 1: No, all the comments are like, y'all lying at ain't
Speaker 1: nobody said bring it back? Nobody requests, no one no
Speaker 1: requested this, and y'all bringing this ship back?
Speaker 2: So fun? You know what I'm here to tell y'all.
Speaker 2: Don't get Shirley Temple seven up.
Speaker 1: No, okay, don't get that, but yeah I did try.
Speaker 1: It was like Canada dry ginger ale they have. It's
Speaker 1: not something sweet cellular. Okay, it was so good.
Speaker 2: I was Shirley Temple is Yeah, I don't know if
Speaker 2: they call it Shirley Temple. Let me see.
Speaker 1: It was really good and it was kind of a
Speaker 1: I didn't know. It was like I purchased the sugar
Speaker 1: free one.
Speaker 2: And it was good. It didn't have like that fake
Speaker 2: sugar taste. I was really shocked. Was it Shirley Temple?
Speaker 2: That one was good? But yeah, what's yeah, I think
Speaker 2: it's Shirley Typo flavor. Mmmm, Canada Dry. So Canada Dry
Speaker 2: is ginger ale. So yeah, I could see that because
Speaker 2: that's that they already have like that gingery taste, and
Speaker 2: they could just throw some sugar at it and it'll
Speaker 2: probably be good. Yeah, it was good. I don't remember
Speaker 2: like the exact name, but it was good. If you
Speaker 2: see it, get it all right. So we got oh,
Speaker 2: we know her. So we have a little letter from
Speaker 2: Amy Cohen. Don't we know Amy? Yes, she's a tried
Speaker 2: and true Yes. So she's saying, high late, we love Amy.
Speaker 2: I think she writes into us all the time. She says,
Speaker 2: high ladies, it's your bff, Amy from Annapolis. Oh, yeah,
Speaker 2: we know Amy from Annapolis. She said I got engaged
Speaker 2: last week. She said, I'm married. I'm marrying my best friend.
Speaker 2: Do you have any dudes or don't? I should keep
Speaker 2: in mind while planning our wedding. She sent up in
Speaker 2: the picture, I know Robin has had more a more
Speaker 2: recent experience in Giselle. No shade intended shade love you lots, Amy,
Speaker 2: So Amy, Oh wait a minute, so she sent a
Speaker 2: picture of Oh, it's a puzzle of how he proposed, Yes,
Speaker 2: that's cute. So it looked like a box and I
Speaker 2: think when she opened the box she had to put
Speaker 2: the puzzle pieces together, and she did and says, well,
Speaker 2: you marry me with a heart. Very cute, very cute.
Speaker 2: That was nice.
Speaker 1: Congratulations Amy, Yes, exciting. So there is a oh no,
Speaker 1: you don't know this guy? Oh yeah you do, you know,
Speaker 1: saying Jay, you know there's.
Speaker 2: A we'll talk about it later anyway. Congratulations Amy. I
Speaker 2: think that this is amazing. And do's and don'ts and
Speaker 2: dos and dontes for marriage? Are there engaged wedding for
Speaker 2: the wedding for the wedding? Okay? Yeah, what do you
Speaker 2: what are your dos and donts? Okay? I want to
Speaker 2: try your best not to let it stress you out, okay.
Speaker 1: Because yeah, like your guests don't know that like something
Speaker 1: didn't happen right or that it went wrong, So don't
Speaker 1: stress about it being like absolutely perfect. But in planning it,
Speaker 1: you know, it's hard because everyone wants something different. You know,
Speaker 1: some people they want, I don't know what size wedding
Speaker 1: you're looking for. Some people want the huge wedding with
Speaker 1: you know, hundreds of people, and that's a fun, great experience.
Speaker 2: But you know, don't feel.
Speaker 1: Pressured to do that if that's not what's like in
Speaker 1: your heart or in your budget. Yeah, totally, because you
Speaker 1: want to enjoy your day.
Speaker 2: So when you envision what you.
Speaker 1: What would make you happy, how you would enjoy your day,
Speaker 1: just stick to that, Like, don't worry about people pleasing Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, because don't allow.
Speaker 2: Your fiance to have any say, right, Yeah, because he's
Speaker 2: gonna give on your nerves. Yes, and he doesn't know
Speaker 2: what the hell he's talking about, and it ain't about him, right,
Speaker 2: All I gotta do is put on some clothes and
Speaker 2: show up, get a haircut. That's it. It's so funny.
Speaker 1: When I was planning our weddings, both of them, like,
Speaker 1: I was always surprised that want actually had like an opinion.
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, huh, you actually you want to know
Speaker 2: about this? Like you care?
Speaker 1: I was like, I would be so surprised, like no, what,
Speaker 1: And then sometimes I'm like, but I will say sometimes
Speaker 1: he actually did have a good opinion or a good perspective,
Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, so don't listen listen to Jazelle,
Speaker 1: save yourself some stress. If your fiance wants to be involved.
Speaker 1: You know, that's a that's something you can bond over,
Speaker 1: that's something that you all can have fun doing. So
Speaker 1: don't completely shut him out.
Speaker 2: Don't make him feel like it's not about him, because
Speaker 2: it's about both of y'all. Don't let his family talk.
Speaker 2: Don't let his mama take over. Okay, Oh my god,
Speaker 2: there's so many notes.
Speaker 1: Right, so you're getting all the shady answers from Gazelle
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to give you the real one.
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't dual plan whether it's like a day away, like,
Speaker 2: do plan to do something right after? Yeah? Yeah, just
Speaker 2: the two of you. Yes, even if it's like it
Speaker 2: didn't have to cost anything, Like even if it's just
Speaker 2: you know, y'all go down the street to a local something,
Speaker 2: just do that, right, Yeah, because y'all, y'all need to
Speaker 2: debrief and y'all need to have your moment and you
Speaker 2: need to, like, you know, just start your marriage off together. Yes, yeah,
Speaker 2: I agree. Oh.
Speaker 1: One thing, so at your wedding, make sure I mean this,
Speaker 1: if this is important to you, this was very important
Speaker 1: to me. Make sure you actually take the time to
Speaker 1: sit and eat your food.
Speaker 2: Because you paid for it. That's true. You know that
Speaker 2: is true.
Speaker 1: And a lot of times at weddings the bride and
Speaker 1: the bride and groom gets all caught up with like
Speaker 1: saying hi to people or being being interrupted taking pictures,
Speaker 1: are just always doing something like for me, I was like,
Speaker 1: I am eating my food. We know, I sat at
Speaker 1: the table. Was one there he started he walked around.
Speaker 2: Okay, and Rob was like, I'm gonna get my all
Speaker 2: my food.
Speaker 1: So just make sure you eat your food, drink drink
Speaker 1: your drinks, eat your cake, all of that, like the
Speaker 1: stuff that you spent time debating on, deliberating on, like,
Speaker 1: enjoy it.
Speaker 2: True, don't I had another don't shoot? What was my
Speaker 2: don't okay you said eat the food. I can't remember,
Speaker 2: but enjoy it like it Hopefully it will only happen
Speaker 2: one time. And you know, make sure that you pay
Speaker 2: attention to yourself, don't get stressed out, have your music, yes,
Speaker 2: and just you know, live your life accordingly. Yes, and
Speaker 2: don't listen to anybody like do what you want. Oh,
Speaker 2: don't be telling all your girlfriends like like have them
Speaker 2: weighing in, like what do you think about this? What
Speaker 2: do you think about that? Like weigh in? Like how
Speaker 2: much they weigh Oh, no, weigh in on your decision
Speaker 2: making process. Yes, like no, you this is this is
Speaker 2: about you and what you want, so like their opinions
Speaker 2: really don't matter. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you're going to find that there are so
Speaker 1: many options out there, one hundred million are You're gonna
Speaker 1: be confused and.
Speaker 2: You might change.
Speaker 1: You might go back and forth. You might first say, oh,
Speaker 1: I want a country wedding, and the next you want
Speaker 1: a modern wedding, and the next you want I don't
Speaker 1: know or whatever. You want a purple theme, then you
Speaker 1: want a green theme. Like you're gonna be all over
Speaker 1: the place. So yeah, try to just really like like
Speaker 1: have a vision in your head and stick to it.
Speaker 2: Stick to it. Don't do this without a prenup because
Speaker 2: I don't care. If you have three dollars and he
Speaker 2: has fourteen cents, you're gonna get that prenup and you're
Speaker 2: gonna have him sign it. Because what George is yours,
Speaker 2: what's his is his? Or what's yourge is yours? And
Speaker 2: what's his is yours? Figure it out. Just get a
Speaker 2: clean up. Okay, yes, anyway, So enjoy it and you
Speaker 2: deserve it all all the things and I kind of
Speaker 2: want to say no, I do yeah, I do want
Speaker 2: to say, do do it? Do get married? Okay you
Speaker 2: got one? Yeah? All right?
Speaker 1: Ready, so this is funny, all right? So this is
Speaker 1: from Jenny. Hey, Jenny, Jenny Linel. She said, high ladies,
Speaker 1: before I ask my shady question, I do want to
Speaker 1: take a moment and tell you guys that I have
Speaker 1: been loving the podcast.
Speaker 2: I crack up every morning driving to work. Thank you, Jenny.
Speaker 1: You guys are hilarious. I live for the pod. Also, Gizelle,
Speaker 1: I'm loving the Love Hotel.
Speaker 2: Oh great.
Speaker 1: I don't know why Shannon was crying so much over
Speaker 1: Earle and Giselle go after while at Ashley clearly is
Speaker 1: playing and yes, girl, get Phil. He has some coins
Speaker 1: in the bank, mister double r. So then she says, okay,
Speaker 1: let me get to the serious part of this message.
Speaker 1: Since the Christlies have been released from jail and we
Speaker 1: know that they did it, should we or should I say,
Speaker 1: I write a letter to Donnie asking him to release
Speaker 1: Karen because we know she needs her weight glue. The
Speaker 1: botox might have shifted by now and she needs to
Speaker 1: come to glow thirty. No, but in all seriousness, I
Speaker 1: think it's time she's out of there.
Speaker 2: Is this too shady?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 2: A concerned fan of rhops. I'm actually feel I feel
Speaker 2: the same way. I mean, like, Karen's been in jail
Speaker 2: long enough, like she learned her lesson? Get her out
Speaker 2: of there? Does she learn it?
Speaker 1: You think? So?
Speaker 2: She's been in there for like, how long has she
Speaker 2: been in there for? Now? Was it like the end
Speaker 2: of February that she went in? Okay, it's just like
Speaker 2: three months, right, that's all for four months? Three and
Speaker 2: a half months, A long time. I just feel like
Speaker 2: I thought about it the other day. I'm like, get
Speaker 2: Caring out of jail, Like she didn't learn whatever lesson
Speaker 2: we're supposed to learn here. She't gonna do it again.
Speaker 2: Get out of jail, please, so I know, yes, so, yes,
Speaker 2: I'm with whoever this is, what's your name? I'm with Jenny, Jenny,
Speaker 2: I'm with you. Get Caring out of jail. And yes,
Speaker 2: the botox has shifted in her as well. The hair
Speaker 2: needs a cooth. That's just that'll be a sight to see. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I don't want to see it. Get Stephen and all
Speaker 2: of the people together with her first, and then I'm
Speaker 2: gonna come over there and give care some love because
Speaker 2: like whoa baby be?
Speaker 1: Okay, but by the way, the president cannot get Karen
Speaker 1: out of jail.
Speaker 2: Oh why not? Because it's all state? Yeah, okay, And
Speaker 2: did you see Katie was asking? Was like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: I should.
Speaker 1: Yes.
Speaker 2: First of all, Katie Ross, you don't know Donald Trump
Speaker 2: or anyone that knows him, right, Well, maybe you do.
Speaker 2: I don't know. She might who knows, Katie? Katie be
Speaker 2: doing the most out here. Okay, loves her attention, she does.
Speaker 2: So Katie clipped this that we just talked about you
Speaker 2: and put it on your put it on your Instagram. Honey,
Speaker 2: you're welcome. Okay. So this is from Alberta and she says,
Speaker 2: my husband has told me that he doesn't believe in
Speaker 2: happy wife, happy life. After all our time together, he
Speaker 2: says this, And now what do I do, Alberta? I
Speaker 2: need more information. I know I'm just not enough. I
Speaker 2: need more information, right, because like, is he what else
Speaker 2: is going on here? Yes? Is was he showing you
Speaker 2: that he doesn't believe in this? Is he just saying it?
Speaker 2: I need more information? Yes? Are you not being treated well? Alberta?
Speaker 2: Send us more information? In the streets. Is he in
Speaker 2: these mean streets? Okay?
Speaker 1: But let's set us up all right. So he doesn't
Speaker 1: believe in happy wife, happy life. Yeah, so that means
Speaker 1: he doesn't care in making you happy, or he doesn't.
Speaker 2: Believe that if he makes her happy, it's going to
Speaker 2: make his life better, right right? So all of it,
Speaker 2: all of it. I need more information, Like what is
Speaker 2: this man doing? We need more? Yeah, okay, we need more. Okay.
Speaker 1: So this is from Katie from Canada. She said, good morning,
Speaker 1: my friends. I haven't even finished today's episode in Sensitive Biscuits,
Speaker 1: but you had me.
Speaker 2: In tears over here and not in a good way,
Speaker 2: and I need it to let you know.
Speaker 1: Obviously, the question about if you had to lose your
Speaker 1: memories from the past or the future is just meant
Speaker 1: to be thought provoking and couldn't happen. But once I
Speaker 1: started thinking about it, I had genuine anxiety.
Speaker 2: Oh do you remember that topic?
Speaker 1: Derek Dash said in a question He was like, would
Speaker 1: you rather pretty much only have your memories from the
Speaker 1: past or only have your memories from the future?
Speaker 2: Do you remember that? Okay? I remember that? And what
Speaker 2: did we say? We said? You said like future? Like
Speaker 2: really quickly.
Speaker 1: So, she says, my mother passed away from Alzheimer's in
Speaker 1: December twenty eighteen.
Speaker 2: I was forty three.
Speaker 1: I would give anything not to lose my memories of
Speaker 1: her and the amazing woman that she was. On the
Speaker 1: flip side, I have six children aged fourteen to twenty seven.
Speaker 1: I need to see their futures, their weddings, their babies, etc.
Speaker 1: This morning, just the act of thinking of which to
Speaker 1: lose nearly did me in. I was surprised that Sheaselle
Speaker 1: said the future so quickly. What about her memories of
Speaker 1: her father? Oh, I'm getting anxiety just writing this. Also,
Speaker 1: that is a shit song. It is thank you, thank
Speaker 1: you anyway, just my perspective, so you can share in
Speaker 1: my anxiety.
Speaker 2: Lol. Lots of love.
Speaker 1: So yeah, dang, we didn't like think that deep about it.
Speaker 2: I didn't. Yeah, we just kind of like said, we
Speaker 2: said we moved.
Speaker 1: On, right, But she is right, Yes, a very tough question,
Speaker 1: and right, like do you don't if we If you
Speaker 1: lose memories of your past, you lose memories of all
Speaker 1: the people that came before you. Or if you lose
Speaker 1: memories of the future, then you don't know what, Like
Speaker 1: you don't see what your kids are up to.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how do you like that question?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 2: You ask. You can't make new memories, right, so we're
Speaker 2: just gonna act like that never happened. I know, I think.
Speaker 2: I mean, if like, if I had to pick one,
Speaker 2: I think it would still be I think. Yeah, I
Speaker 2: think the future. I just think when you're like, because
Speaker 2: how depressing would your future be if you didn't have
Speaker 2: the ability to remember it. That's that's depressing. So yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm going with the future. But that is very sad,
Speaker 2: sad question. Yeah, thank you. This is from Carly, not
Speaker 2: our Carly. Carly, Hi, ladies, please help. I've been a
Speaker 2: part of the Shady Bunch reasonably shadester since episode one
Speaker 2: and wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, we do.
Speaker 2: I recently took a Monday off. Instead of listening to
Speaker 2: the podcast to make an hour past, I decided to
Speaker 2: watch the YouTube video. Okay, so everybody need to be
Speaker 2: watching on YouTube Okay. Biggest mistake ever. I didn't realize
Speaker 2: how much I'd miss seeing Robin's face you guys, chemistry,
Speaker 2: and that I'd enjoy watching versus listening. Should I keep
Speaker 2: listening or start watching? And Gazelle you can't say both
Speaker 2: with love, Carly, Okay, So question I can say. I mean,
Speaker 2: it's obvious, like, if you watch it, there's so much
Speaker 2: more that you can that makes more sense. Right, you
Speaker 2: can see our facial expressions, you can see our dynamic
Speaker 2: blah blah blahlah right, soaring.
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I think if you have time, yes, watch it,
Speaker 1: watch it. Okay, yeah, yeah I agree.
Speaker 2: But if not, if you just like if you're moving around,
Speaker 2: if you're in the office or whatever, you can only
Speaker 2: like just listen, then then obviously just listen. But yeah,
Speaker 2: but I think watching it should be your first choice. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: I agree. Okay, we figured it out, Carly or Carly both?
Speaker 2: What you said, I shouldn't say both, right, dude.
Speaker 1: Like listen to it in the car and then watch
Speaker 1: it while you're, like, you know, around the house.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, I love that. Yeah all that.
Speaker 1: Okay, get the double double double. All right, this is
Speaker 1: a good question, she said, Please don't use my name. Okay, So,
Speaker 1: hi ladies. I am in my mid forties and have
Speaker 1: no children. I am very sixful. I love to travel shop,
Speaker 1: she said, think lux bags and jewelry and eat good food.
Speaker 2: Me too.
Speaker 1: The problem is I don't have any friends who can
Speaker 1: afford to do with a lot of a lot of
Speaker 1: the things I like to do. Where can I meet
Speaker 1: other successful women to hang out with? It's so difficult
Speaker 1: making friends when you don't have kids. Love the show,
Speaker 1: Thank you.
Speaker 2: That's a great question.
Speaker 1: So I would say, you know, it's hard because I
Speaker 1: have kids, and so a lot of my life is
Speaker 1: centered around the kids. And a lot of the women
Speaker 1: I meet, you know kids or friend you know they're
Speaker 1: their kids are friends with my kids and the basketball gyms. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but I would think try a traveling club like there
Speaker 1: are Yeah, so there I've heard of like a lot
Speaker 1: of different travel agents or travel clubs for you know,
Speaker 1: women who like to travel, and you can probably pick
Speaker 1: the level of the trip so that you know, like, Okay,
Speaker 1: if I'm going on this lux trip, then you're going
Speaker 1: to be around women that can probably afford the lifestyle.
Speaker 2: That you live. Yes, I like that. I didn't even
Speaker 2: think about that. Yeah, or even try like.
Speaker 1: A retreat like a you know, yoga retreat type of situation,
Speaker 1: like at a high end place. But then I guess
Speaker 1: if you do like the travel club or if you
Speaker 1: do something like those people aren't local, so you really
Speaker 1: just have to kind of travel to be around them.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta get to know them. Yeah. Yeah, they're
Speaker 2: not like your girlfriends that you've been knowing forever. Yeah.
Speaker 2: There's also like you know, if you're part of a gym,
Speaker 2: like because my one of my fitness instructors, he does this,
Speaker 2: I think like every six months, like he'll he'll put
Speaker 2: together a trip and it's like a workout slash just
Speaker 2: like a venture trip. So like the last time they
Speaker 2: did it, they went to Nicaragua, They're going to Bali.
Speaker 2: Like they're very high end trips. So yeah, I think
Speaker 2: if you really put your mind to it, you can
Speaker 2: figure it out in your environment alrighty.
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, Like if you look up so you like
Speaker 1: luxury stuff so and high end stuff, so go to
Speaker 1: high end gym, high end lounges or high end hotels,
Speaker 1: you know, and then just find the people that kind
Speaker 1: of congregate there.
Speaker 2: But it is difficult to find like rich people that
Speaker 2: know how to rich write right, and who are who
Speaker 2: you want to be around because you know who and
Speaker 2: who don't have kids and who don't have kids. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's I think that's the part that's Yeah, that's the
Speaker 2: part that kind of makes it difficult because it's ship.
Speaker 2: They can have kids, but they also want to well well.
Speaker 1: Well, okay, don't have kids that they have that kind
Speaker 1: of like take up their It depends on how old
Speaker 1: their kids are, right, Okay, So if they have kids
Speaker 1: that are older, out of the house, grown, blah blah blah,
Speaker 1: then cool. You know what's her name, but she's well,
Speaker 1: she didn't want me to say her.
Speaker 2: Oh that's right. Okay, whatever your name is, count me in.
Speaker 2: I'm coming, yeah, because I got some I got a
Speaker 2: little cash in my pocket, and my kids, you know,
Speaker 2: I can leave them they're done. So yeah, okay, so
Speaker 2: you just found a friend, just so yay, nice, Okay.
Speaker 2: So hey, hey ladies, this is from Tiffany. I've been
Speaker 2: Day one fans. Day one is in Bold. I've been
Speaker 2: a Day one. Hey. Thanks. I've watched every single episode
Speaker 2: of The Housewives potomach and listened to every episode of
Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady, and some of them twice.
Speaker 1: Whooa.
Speaker 2: I love that.
Speaker 1: Yes, you need to listen to them twice and watch
Speaker 1: you otherwise otherwise you ain't really a fan, right.
Speaker 2: You both? Sincerely brighten up my mondays I just have
Speaker 2: to write in and say thank you, especially to Robin.
Speaker 2: I took your advice and actually filled out one of
Speaker 2: those random settlement forms come in the mail and guess what.
Speaker 2: Drum roll please, I got a check WHOA for twenty
Speaker 2: one dollars woo and sixty five cents. Oh, thank you, Robin, Yes,
Speaker 2: love you ball. Here's to lunch on me. And that
Speaker 2: was from Tiffany. Okay, so twenty one dollars. I wonder
Speaker 2: how long it took her to fill out those forms.
Speaker 2: Five minutes. I doubt it if that could have taken
Speaker 2: her longer. No, okay, so I was worth it. I
Speaker 2: guess it is. Yeah, okay, that's that's lunch. That's like, listen,
Speaker 2: I'm about to get something from equinox. So I'm good.
Speaker 2: I was about to shoot me.
Speaker 1: At check, run me my money, all right. This one
Speaker 1: is from John Reed. He says happy June teenth and
Speaker 1: Pride month. Yes, happy Pride, yes.
Speaker 2: Yes, especially Juneteenth. Yes, yeah, we don't get our love.
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: Okay, because they're trying to like, did Trump take that
Speaker 1: holiday away?
Speaker 2: Is that no longer a federal holiday? Veterans Day, Memorial Day? Juneteenth?
Speaker 2: All of them throw them in the change can.
Speaker 1: He said that to Veterans Day Memorial's Day too, Okay,
Speaker 1: I might be making that up, Okay, but I think he.
Speaker 2: Did say Veterans Day, he said he. I think he
Speaker 2: want to call it Trump Day something something crazy. Oh God,
Speaker 2: ok I can't wait for this to be over.
Speaker 1: It is entertaining, though it's I'm not entertained, no longer
Speaker 1: entertained by this foolishness because it's just like you think
Speaker 1: this so the people of this country and this country
Speaker 1: is a joke to him. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and
Speaker 1: leave Gaven alone. Just leave Gavon alone. Oh oh my gosh. Yeah.
Speaker 2: Anyway, moving on, So.
Speaker 1: John says, I was just curious, speaking of Pride Month,
Speaker 1: who do you consider your gay icons?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 1: Mine would be Mariah Carey whate that?
Speaker 2: And I don't understand it. What do you mean gay right? Okay?
Speaker 2: Or she's like but she's like a champion for gay rights?
Speaker 2: So is that or is that like? Okay? So I
Speaker 2: guess he means like who the gays love? He needs
Speaker 2: to specify, because that's how's Mariah Carriyer gay a gay icon?
Speaker 1: Right?
Speaker 2: Because I'm thinking, make any sense? I need some specification.
Speaker 1: She said, I've seen her live with My god Mom
Speaker 1: and it was fabulous. She's rumored to show up late.
Speaker 2: But she was right on time. We just trashed Mariah
Speaker 2: five minutes ago in the same episode. Clearly trash Mariah.
Speaker 2: What's the same? He's not gonna be our friends anymore.
Speaker 2: This is John read John, we love you.
Speaker 1: So I guess John is saying, like, uh, they don't
Speaker 1: have to be gay, but they are like an artist
Speaker 1: or a person that the gay community loves, like Share, yes,
Speaker 1: like a share or Madonna okay or yeah, or Mariah Carey.
Speaker 2: Or I want the person to be gay. Yeah. It's
Speaker 2: kind of like drag queens. Like there's drag queen queen
Speaker 2: icons by the way, yes, what is it? World Pride happens,
Speaker 2: and there there's the guy that owns tally Ho. Shout
Speaker 2: out to tally Ho. If anybody who watched photomach Nos,
Speaker 2: that's Karen's diner that she loves and I love it too.
Speaker 2: I go there with my children all the time.
Speaker 1: They have wonderful donuts by the way, Okay, their chocolate
Speaker 1: donut is to die for.
Speaker 2: Okay. So he ran in about the drag queen. Oh gay,
Speaker 2: I mean during World Pride. Oh nice, okay, and he
Speaker 2: said something to the effect of, oh my gosh, yeah,
Speaker 2: I love like the Rospal's Potomac and Robin. You were
Speaker 2: fribbing he was, And Bob the Drag Queen said, he
Speaker 2: you know what the real housepis Potomac was It acted
Speaker 2: like he ain't know who Robin was. Bob, have you
Speaker 2: lost your mind? You did a goddamn show with Robin Dixon.
Speaker 2: It was called Traders. Oh my god, and Bob, I'm
Speaker 2: like one of your things? But should I be? And
Speaker 2: so the guy that said that to him and looked
Speaker 2: at him like you know what I'm talking about? Like,
Speaker 2: what are you doing? Maybe you had had one too
Speaker 2: many to drink that day, Bob, I don't think he was.
Speaker 2: He was in his glory mode. But even in your
Speaker 2: glory and in your mom you're gonna deny Robin Dixon
Speaker 2: and Potomac. What are you doing? I don't. I don't
Speaker 2: think he watched Potomac. That's fine, but still like you
Speaker 2: should kind of know of it now.
Speaker 1: Hello, Bob the drag Queen. Okay, Oh so he was
Speaker 1: my gay icon. I take it back, Yeah, take it back,
Speaker 1: I take it. I like Chandela Chandela.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, we love her. Yeah, she's she's very good, yes,
Speaker 2: very very good. Yeah, on top of her game. Okay,
Speaker 2: we got we got top of one more, all right,
Speaker 2: one more. Okay, this is from yat Nira.
Speaker 1: Okay, she said, Hey, gurlies, I love, love, love watching
Speaker 1: reasonably shady. Y'all are so funny and I love y'all's banter.
Speaker 1: So I'm watching Love Hotel right now, and I see
Speaker 1: myself in you so much and me. Yes, yes, you
Speaker 1: know what you want and don't lower your expectations at
Speaker 1: all and talk to the.
Speaker 2: Men as genuinely, genuinely you. Yep.
Speaker 1: I love how you talk back instead of just agreeing
Speaker 1: with everything they say. I hate when girls just agree
Speaker 1: with men just because, just because.
Speaker 2: Also, Earl is crazy for gas lighting Shannon. Earl over
Speaker 2: here is saying shame. You were supposed to know the
Speaker 2: trajectory of a hurricane and it it because of that.
Speaker 2: You should have been with me, You should have supported me.
Speaker 2: You gotta watch that episode. Oh my god, hilarious. Okay,
Speaker 2: oh my god, that's hilarious. Okay. Anyways, I love when
Speaker 2: y'all use new slang. It's so funny.
Speaker 1: I'm an incoming sophomore in college right now, so I'm
Speaker 1: pretty familiar with slang, and I wanted to teach.
Speaker 2: Y'all some new words. Yes, give it to us, girl,
Speaker 2: give it to him. Yes, okay, some new words so
Speaker 2: I can tell grace. Right.
Speaker 1: The first one is negative aur, so a aura? Are
Speaker 1: My kids were like making fun of me for how
Speaker 1: I say it?
Speaker 2: Aura? Aura? Aura? Yeah, okay aura.
Speaker 1: The first one is negative aura or plus one thousand aura.
Speaker 1: Let's say someone trips, that's negative aura. If someone scores
Speaker 1: a half court shot backwards, that's plus one thousand ora.
Speaker 2: Yes, aura. Yes.
Speaker 1: The next word is huzz. I've never heard this one.
Speaker 1: Huzz is basically the person you're trying to impress, like
Speaker 1: a crush.
Speaker 2: Oh like your husband? Oh I guess so yeah. You
Speaker 2: can also use fine ship, fine ship. That's like oh yeah, no, no,
Speaker 2: like I've heard you know this. Oh well, they that's
Speaker 2: my fine ship. Well they had to not say ship,
Speaker 2: but yeah.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's like your girlfriend a boyfriend. Who isn't your
Speaker 1: girlfriend a boyfriend yet?
Speaker 2: Yeah? But they you know, they want to acknowledge that
Speaker 2: that's some fine ship, right, yeah, okay, okay, So if
Speaker 2: they don't say ship to you. What are they say?
Speaker 2: They they were telling me a story and they said fine,
Speaker 2: and then they spelled it out. Okay, yeah, okay.
Speaker 1: The last word is nonchalant, probably the most popular word
Speaker 1: right now. It means calm, referring to a person or
Speaker 1: doing something without difficulty, like Robin is pretty nonchalant in
Speaker 1: my opinion, Love y'all and Love Y'all's podcast.
Speaker 2: Okay, So slang, that's that's not slang, that's that's ye.
Speaker 2: But I guess they're words. I guess they're using it
Speaker 2: more often now. Okay. So Grace the other day was like, man,
Speaker 2: you need to say who is you?
Speaker 1: What? No?
Speaker 2: Who is you? Like if somebody's talking and you don't
Speaker 2: want to listen to what they have to say, you
Speaker 2: just look at him and say who is you? Who
Speaker 2: is you?
Speaker 1: Who is you?
Speaker 2: And I was like, did she learn that down in
Speaker 2: the South? I'm sure? And Grace watched Batty Batties Shot
Speaker 2: a Clock all the time. She'd be watching Africa Batties, Batties,
Speaker 2: Batties going Wild. She loved it. Oh lord there. I
Speaker 2: don't know where she got the subscription prescription whatever for
Speaker 2: the Zoos channel. I don't know where she got the
Speaker 2: money for that, but she I think she's hacking somebody's anyway.
Speaker 2: She said, if I don't want to hear somebody talking,
Speaker 2: I need to look at him and say who is you?
Speaker 2: Who is you? And I need to say it like that.
Speaker 2: She made me practice in the mirror. Who is you?
Speaker 2: All right? Sorry? So are you going to use that
Speaker 2: on someone? Oh? Maybe? All right, all right, let's use it. Okay.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can deliver it well, but okay,
Speaker 1: So a question that now we're referring to the fine shit, Like,
Speaker 1: so your girls don't curse around you?
Speaker 2: Right? They ask for permission? Oh they do, yeah, and
Speaker 2: then they say the word yes. If they asked me
Speaker 2: for permission and I say okay, they said they will say.
Speaker 1: The word okay, yeah okay. So like apparently a lot
Speaker 1: of these parents are like letting their kids like kids
Speaker 1: just curse all the time. Yeah, Like I always hear it.
Speaker 1: Some of my my kids are on they have a
Speaker 1: bunch of friends on a group chat. They always like
Speaker 1: on FaceTime. It might be like fifteen kids at one time.
Speaker 2: And those kids just are like cursing up a store, yeah,
Speaker 2: talking crazy, yeah, and.
Speaker 1: I'm like, and so I'm like, Corey and Carter, I
Speaker 1: know y'all don't talk like that, like you know, and
Speaker 1: so did they say no or yes? They say no,
Speaker 1: and like Carter will tell, He'll he'll tell if you know,
Speaker 1: if he had to, But the friends say they don't
Speaker 1: talk like that either. We ask the friends like they
Speaker 1: talk like this to y'all. They like, so, no, they
Speaker 1: know better, they know better, they know better. But I'm like,
Speaker 1: and even the other day, we were at Corey's basketball
Speaker 1: practice and Wyam was talking to one of the players.
Speaker 1: He's like a soop a rising soft more right, and
Speaker 1: he was asking about like this team that he had
Speaker 1: played on before, and he's like, yeah, their dog shit.
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh what the hell. Mom was
Speaker 2: like what right. I'm like, my kids, Oh my god,
Speaker 2: there's no kids that will ever cuss in front of me.
Speaker 2: And it's so funny because there's there have been times
Speaker 2: where like one of their girlfriends will call and they're
Speaker 2: upset about something and they're just going on a rant
Speaker 2: and then like, my kids will be like, well, I'm
Speaker 2: sitting here with my mom right. They're mortified. They're like, oh,
Speaker 2: so yeah, they're not they're not doing that around the parents,
Speaker 2: So I appreciate that that's a respect there, right exactly, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm like, no, like y'all, y'all, you
Speaker 1: can't curse around me, and you can't curse outside of us,
Speaker 1: Like you can't curse with your friends, like because they're
Speaker 1: not gonna make that happen.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, yeah, because you gotta. I always tell
Speaker 2: my kids, like, well, what you're gonna say in the
Speaker 2: interview when you're trying to get a job ship damn
Speaker 2: all right, that is our episode, Joae. We love y'all
Speaker 2: so much shit. Damn Yeah, did I never forget to
Speaker 2: live your life? E The Reasonable or Shady or Boo
Speaker 2: motherus Damn by Reasonably Shady is a production of the
Speaker 2: Black Effect podcast Network.
Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,
Speaker 1: or wherever you listen to your favorite
Speaker 2: Shows, and you can connect with us on social media
Speaker 2: at Robin Dixon, ten, Giselle Bryant, and Reasonably Shady