WEBVTT - | Ep 186 | Who Is You?!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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<v Speaker 2>So what's up. I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being

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<v Speaker 2>And while we're here, oh well go ahead. We're on YouTube. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>downloads straw and count and go Dune. Okay, anyway, enough

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<v Speaker 2>of all that. Okay, I have a shady moment. What

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<v Speaker 2>is it? So do you ever watch the View? And

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<v Speaker 2>it's towards the end of the show they're like, view

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<v Speaker 2>your deal, yes okay, and they always have things that

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<v Speaker 2>you need or know you needed, right, and it's at

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<v Speaker 2>a discount yes, okay. So they had this.

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<v Speaker 1>Pillow okay that I purchased, Okay, the one like so

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<v Speaker 1>your face doesn't touch anything?

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<v Speaker 2>No, it has a curve in it. Okay, right, so

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<v Speaker 2>what do you mean your face doesn't touch anything? It's

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<v Speaker 2>like so you're.

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<v Speaker 1>So you know, like they say, like when you sleep,

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<v Speaker 1>if you sleep with your face like on your pillow,

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<v Speaker 1>like you're you're gonna make yourself more wrinkle.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna like mess your face up. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>So like the pillow is it kind of like elevates

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<v Speaker 1>your head so that you don't touch Oh really, Oh

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<v Speaker 1>I might need to get that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, this this is not the one I bought it, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>The one I bought is I think the draw was

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<v Speaker 2>whatever it's made out of maybe it's like a foam material, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>and it has it's like kind of moon shaped a

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<v Speaker 2>little bit. Yeah, what was the purpose, like, what was

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<v Speaker 2>the reason for it or the benefit or the why listen,

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<v Speaker 2>why did you my neck hurt? Okay, So I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know why it was. It had been working fine, but

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<v Speaker 2>now my neck hurts. So this pillow was a problem.

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<v Speaker 2>Why did you buy it? Oh? I bought it because

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<v Speaker 2>I just needed I just feel because they were set.

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<v Speaker 2>They sold me. They said, you know, every now and again,

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<v Speaker 2>you got to change your pillow. So I'm like, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>let me change my pillow. And I did, And now

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<v Speaker 2>I got to.

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<v Speaker 1>Clok one of those phone. It's like memory phone, I think.

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<v Speaker 1>So those are that's too Yeah, those hurt.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't like those. But it's not a hard memory phone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like a soft memory phone. But the pillow is

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<v Speaker 2>a problem. I gotta cook in my neck and the

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<v Speaker 2>pillow is shady. So if I knew the brand, I

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<v Speaker 2>would tell you, But I can't remember the brand.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you got it a discount at least off at least.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm not mad at it. But like waking up

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<v Speaker 2>in your neck hurts. Oh, yeah is the worst. Oh

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<v Speaker 2>that is the worst. Yeah, that's been happening too too

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<v Speaker 2>many days. So this pillow got to go, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>the pillow gotta go. Yeah, no more pillow pillow out

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<v Speaker 2>of here. Although there are.

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<v Speaker 1>Good things that you can buy from those those little

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<v Speaker 1>deal Oh, I get stuff from them all the time.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. The GMA has good ones. Oh I've never seen them.

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<v Speaker 2>Day show has good ones. Okay, Yeah, I'm here for the.

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<v Speaker 1>Even if you miss it on the shows, Like you

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<v Speaker 1>could just go on like the website, yes and go

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<v Speaker 1>to it. Yeah, like what you can totally discount.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. No, I've bought plenty thing, but the pillow. It's

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<v Speaker 2>the problem. I used to be a big home Shopping

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<v Speaker 2>network shopper. I could see that. I can totally see that.

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<v Speaker 2>And then you get the ship and you're like, why

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<v Speaker 2>did I get this? Yeah? Why did you ever buy

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<v Speaker 2>jewelry on there? No? I feel like they always make

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<v Speaker 2>the jewel Now I've never bought I've never bought anything

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<v Speaker 2>from this, but anytime I've seen, like you know, scrolled

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<v Speaker 2>and I've gone to that channel, all the jewelry looks spectacular,

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<v Speaker 2>Like they put so many lights on that stuff. The

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<v Speaker 2>jewelry is bling, trust and believe you got that thing

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<v Speaker 2>in your house. It ain't blink nor blinging. Okay, it's

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<v Speaker 2>just one blank. It's blink not bling bling. Because who

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<v Speaker 2>used to be on there lot?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh Mariah Carey. Yeah, I wonder if she's still on there.

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<v Speaker 1>She had like her whole like butterfly jewelry line.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I can imagine that. Yeah. Yeah, speaking of Mariah Carey, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>she has a new song, a new song. Have you

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<v Speaker 2>heard it? A little bit of it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I like her a snippet and I turned Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It don't sound like her, you don't think so.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Mariah is catfishing us. She's catfishing in her voice,

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<v Speaker 2>Like Mariah, that doesn't sound like you. Really, it's like

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<v Speaker 2>give me my ball and it's more like a rap.

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<v Speaker 2>Say oh and you just Mariah, just girl sing, exercise

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<v Speaker 2>the vocals because you have them.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like, well, okay, and we're gonna get trash

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<v Speaker 2>because the Mariah Carey fans are ruthless. We're about to

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<v Speaker 2>get trashed, yeah, because they're because like Beyonce fans are

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<v Speaker 2>sick of you, so they don't even trash us anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>But like Mariah fans are gonna come strong. I just

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<v Speaker 1>feel like Mariah, like, we don't need new music from Mariah.

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<v Speaker 2>No, we don't. We have enough. Yes, she has like.

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<v Speaker 1>Great hits, great classics, and if she was to try

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<v Speaker 1>to make new music, she would try to make it

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<v Speaker 1>to like modern like she would and that's just like

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<v Speaker 1>what she shouldn't do. Although I like her little dum

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<v Speaker 1>who was it the Emancipation of Me Me?

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<v Speaker 2>That album?

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<v Speaker 1>That?

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<v Speaker 2>Actually? Do you? I think you're the only one. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't What was on that? What like you gotta shake

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<v Speaker 2>it up?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah that was I think that's

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<v Speaker 2>the right album? Like that album was?

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<v Speaker 1>It was?

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<v Speaker 2>She had a bunch of hits on that album. I

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<v Speaker 2>think she was trying to collect some checks before November

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<v Speaker 2>because you know, come November, it's her season. Okay, she's

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<v Speaker 2>just trying to collect couple of jets.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I don't know, But we don't need new music

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<v Speaker 1>from Mariah. We just need Mariah to sing her classics, hits,

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<v Speaker 1>her ever and ever and ever. Yeah, and we don't

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<v Speaker 1>need anything new. And we love you Mariah. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>moving on, what were we talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh? Your shady moment. Shady moment.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so this morning, I'm in the bed, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and finally, like, the kids are out of school, so

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<v Speaker 1>I get to sleep in a little bit longer.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have to get them to school. And I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>is that why you were late starting the podcast, Robin?

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<v Speaker 2>Because you were late? That could have been my shady moment.

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<v Speaker 1>No, that's not why I was late. I was late

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<v Speaker 1>because one in the shower and I needed to get

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<v Speaker 1>in the show.

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, no, I wan let me in the house. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I know he and he was down here in the office.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, but but but I when he was in

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<v Speaker 1>the shower, I needed to be in the shower, so

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<v Speaker 1>I needed to wait for him to get out of

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<v Speaker 1>the shower.

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<v Speaker 2>Got it, you know, I don't y'all just going there together.

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<v Speaker 2>He was talking on the phone in the shower, and like,

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<v Speaker 2>why why, how how can he talk on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>in the shower? He like, brings his phone in the shower.

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<v Speaker 2>I understand that, but won't he get want to mess.

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<v Speaker 1>Up your phone because it puts it on a he

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<v Speaker 1>gets it out of the way, Okay, but still it's

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<v Speaker 1>just he was just doing too much and so he

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<v Speaker 1>just like messed me up.

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<v Speaker 2>So AnyWho, okay, you're forgiving anywhere. I'm in the bed

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<v Speaker 2>and all of a sudden, i just hear all this

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<v Speaker 2>yelling like and I'm like, you know, I'm like, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my god, what is happening? What is going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm like listening and I just hear like and

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<v Speaker 2>then you can hear him say word.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like Michael Jordan, Kevin Duran, Carmelo, what's happening. He's

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone debating basketball with his friend and he's

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<v Speaker 1>downstairs in the kitchen. I'm upstairs in my bedroom and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like thinking that he is there. There's like a problem.

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<v Speaker 1>They're like, we're like, rufe, is someone broke into the house.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone like he just got some really bad news. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but I'm like, dude, you cannot be debating

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<v Speaker 1>basketball yelling right at the top of your lungs on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone with your friend at seven in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna say, what time was?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 2>Seven?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Come on? Come on, one knows your sleep? What do

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<v Speaker 2>you I'm sleep, Cory sleep hard sleep? What is one

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<v Speaker 2>doing up? Why doesn't he sleep? Oh my god?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I'm like, this is crazy. And you know his

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<v Speaker 1>voice carries, so he didn't even know he's that loud.

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<v Speaker 1>And then it'll have the AirPod in so he's even louder.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just like, this is nuts, nuts, I'm thinking

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<v Speaker 1>something serious is happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay. So I wanted to read a post that

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<v Speaker 2>I saw that I appreciate, and it's with our beloved

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<v Speaker 2>Real Housewives of Miami, Marisol and Alexia. And I think

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<v Speaker 2>she's giving Alexia. Marissol's giving Alexia some advice what she

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<v Speaker 2>does all the time. And she says, sometimes what's right

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<v Speaker 2>for the whole ain't right for the soul. Okay, that

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<v Speaker 2>is worse to live by. So what's but what is okay?

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<v Speaker 2>What's right for the whole? Yeah? Meaning what like vagina?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that like the h O L E? Not the

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<v Speaker 2>w h O L E? Yes? Oh yes, yeah, what's

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<v Speaker 2>right for the yeah? H it right for the soul?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's funny that yes, yes, that is very true,

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<v Speaker 2>very true. This is words to live on? Did he somebody? Yeah? So, ladies,

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<v Speaker 2>just you know, take that to heart. So what is

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<v Speaker 2>the what?

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<v Speaker 1>So Alexia has divorced her husband, but they got back

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<v Speaker 1>to get back together, Like, what's I don't know where

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<v Speaker 1>the status is right now.

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<v Speaker 2>And you know that what she's referring to is I

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<v Speaker 2>do believe this is what she's referring to. I think

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<v Speaker 2>they're getting raised to air or they are they airing now?

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<v Speaker 2>I think they must have aired I saw, Yeah, So

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<v Speaker 2>I think we'll find out more as a season. Okay airs, okay, Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>Another thing I wanted to share with you. Interesting this

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<v Speaker 2>lady says, can black people weigh in on this? Is

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<v Speaker 2>that true? Do y'all rent out the pot? And is

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<v Speaker 2>it because you think there's dust in the pot or

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<v Speaker 2>the pot is dirty or you think that the first

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<v Speaker 2>water that's coming out and touching the pot the water? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>it's okay. So so this is actually when I first

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<v Speaker 2>saw this, Yeah, because this is a white lady talking

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<v Speaker 2>and she's asking for black people to weigh in. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I was like the things that white people think, you

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<v Speaker 2>know what I mean? Like I would have never thought that,

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<v Speaker 2>would have never been a question in my mind as

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<v Speaker 2>to why, because because a lot of times black people

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<v Speaker 2>we do stuff and we think everybody do it right. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, lady, it's both okay, but I don't really

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<v Speaker 2>do that. I mean it depends the pot.

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<v Speaker 1>So so if I have a pot that's been in

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<v Speaker 1>the cabinet, yes, you like before you so like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>say you're about to boil the egg. Yeah, you'll like

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<v Speaker 1>put some water in it and then put some more

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<v Speaker 1>water in it, and then put it on the stove

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<v Speaker 1>and then put your egg in.

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<v Speaker 2>And all that. I get, you know, I feel like

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<v Speaker 2>it's subconscious exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. Yeah, I mean I'm like, I don't know that

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<v Speaker 1>I deliberately do that, but I but now that I'm

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<v Speaker 1>like going through what the motions in my mind are like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what we do, rented.

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<v Speaker 2>And just yeah, and we do that and we don't

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<v Speaker 2>even think about it.

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<v Speaker 1>But apparently white people don't do that, right, But how

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<v Speaker 1>does she like, why does this white lady know that

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<v Speaker 1>this is a black thing.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe maybe she got a black boyfriend. I don't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe he's like, you're not gonna rint the bottle. I'm

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<v Speaker 2>not eating that. I'm not eating that that that water

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<v Speaker 2>got dust in it. Now mind you, the dust would

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<v Speaker 2>have like evaporated in the cooking or whatever. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>like this is what we do. Yeah, So I appreciate

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<v Speaker 2>her asking.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, it is funny though, to see things that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I don't want to like not stereotype anyone,

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<v Speaker 1>but ye see things that like black people do that

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<v Speaker 1>white people don't, or that white people do and that

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<v Speaker 1>black people don't like.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we should come up with a list, and we

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<v Speaker 2>need to go down the list because maybe white people

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<v Speaker 2>don't ever think that there could be your could be

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<v Speaker 2>a little dusty, right, yes, or that my position or

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<v Speaker 2>my issue at home now is like my kids don't

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<v Speaker 2>wash these dishes properly, so I got to re wash

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<v Speaker 2>it anyway. Yes, yes, so true. What is up with that?

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<v Speaker 2>They don't care? They're going through the motions, That's what's

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<v Speaker 2>up with that. They don't care. No, they don't. So

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna wash it and put some water in it

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<v Speaker 2>and pull it out and put some more water. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna do it, all of it. Oh Okay. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to give a shout out to American Airlines has

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<v Speaker 2>partnered with celebrity designer Brandon Blackwood. Do you have any

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<v Speaker 2>brando in Blackwood? I do not, but but you know

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<v Speaker 2>who I'm talking about. Yeah, okay, so really nice bag.

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<v Speaker 2>He makes really nice bags. I have several of his

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<v Speaker 2>of his bags. He reminds me because he was coming

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<v Speaker 2>up behind Telfar, and you know, Telfar has completely exploded

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<v Speaker 2>and he is I think he has stories now like

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<v Speaker 2>bo and Mortar. Yeah, shout out to tel Far. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm really happy for Brandon Black, so partner with him

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<v Speaker 2>to do what. Oh I'm sorry for exclusive amenity kits.

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<v Speaker 2>So you know, if you travel, like especially if you're

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<v Speaker 2>doing like international travel, in your in first class, they'll

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<v Speaker 2>give you like a little kit or whatever and there

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<v Speaker 2>and it's like little it's cute, like this one is

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<v Speaker 2>super cute. It's like little pouch and yeah, very cute.

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<v Speaker 2>I would I would keep that, Yes, no, totally and

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<v Speaker 2>this and I've been on planes and sometimes the pouch

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<v Speaker 2>is like Dior or or maz but yeah, it's this

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<v Speaker 2>is really nice. And I think that that more black

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<v Speaker 2>designers need to get the love. Yeah, so I'm happy

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<v Speaker 2>he's getting some love. Okay, So this is this is

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<v Speaker 2>for me, Robin, but through you, but for me. Okay, Okay, Equinox,

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<v Speaker 2>which is my gym, this wise for me. We'll pay

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<v Speaker 2>gym members six hundred thousand dollars for cancelation woes thanks

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<v Speaker 2>to the New York US I think she states to

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<v Speaker 2>turn yourself. Oh, this is a settlement. It's a settlement.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so I don't so. I saw it's a settlement

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<v Speaker 2>in Equinox is playing out six hundred, six hundred thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>They didn't tell me where to put my link. Now,

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<v Speaker 2>now you want to sign up for the class that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to Equinox like twenty years. Okay, I want

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<v Speaker 1>my five out. I don't think you're so this is

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<v Speaker 1>over cancelation woes. Yeah, this is for people who cancel.

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<v Speaker 2>We got to cancel to come back. Ye shit, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. Oh see now when you when you say,

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<v Speaker 2>oh that's my gym. Yeah, let me get my fifty die.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me get a little, my little five dollars because

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<v Speaker 2>we know Robin. If there is a class action, Robin

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<v Speaker 2>gonna get how money she's gonna get her One day,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm going to hit the jackpot. What is the jackpots?

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<v Speaker 2>They need? Seventy five dollars, two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 1>One day I'm going to get a check in the

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<v Speaker 1>mail or deposit to my account randomly, and it's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be for like two thousand dollars.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I don't believe this, but let me know what happened.

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<v Speaker 2>Then this is this a little post. It says, where

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<v Speaker 2>are the world's most beautiful women? Oh? Okay, so it

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<v Speaker 2>started with number one? Where do you think number one

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<v Speaker 2>the most beautiful women? You've traveled? Some beautiful women? I

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<v Speaker 2>mean it's not from traveling, but I think I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>say India. Yes, beautiful women in India. Yeah, they're not

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<v Speaker 2>on the list. Okay. So number one they're saying it's Columbia. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm for that. Okay, Okay. Three is Greece, the Czech Republic.

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<v Speaker 2>Iceland is in here. It was very confusing to me.

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<v Speaker 2>Poland is number two. I can close my eyes and

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<v Speaker 2>think of Polish people. You know, I don't think of

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<v Speaker 2>anything beautiful. They're no shade to Poland. But Poland, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I have to google Polish women. Okay. Number eight is

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<v Speaker 2>the United States. Number number one should be the United States,

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<v Speaker 2>Zellen Robin, the United States.

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<v Speaker 1>But were we not doing It's having Poland be over? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I just googled, and you can feel free to do

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<v Speaker 1>it yourself. To beautiful Polish women. Okay, and no listen

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<v Speaker 1>if anyone listening is from Poland or they're Polish.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize. We apologize, and if the insult, yes, y'uld

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<v Speaker 2>not deserve that number two lit. Yes, no you don't No,

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<v Speaker 2>no you really I mean I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, you don't deserve who voted who voted because

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<v Speaker 1>this saying it, and there's no way with me and

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<v Speaker 1>Robin living in the United States, there's no way.

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<v Speaker 2>That number one or two. Okay, I'm just saying, oh

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<v Speaker 2>my gosh, that's funny. Yeah, but Poland, Poland, through me,

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<v Speaker 2>we rebuked that pole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and the Czech Republic Iceland the hell lives in listen,

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<v Speaker 1>Iceland is number seven?

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<v Speaker 2>They have Are you kidding? They have?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Their their skin tone is like it's transparent. It's okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So we talked about this. I'm bringing this back, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>go ahead, Oh no, no, god, okay. So I'm bringing

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<v Speaker 2>this back because we talked about this like years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm saying years. Have we been in this podcast for years?

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<v Speaker 2>Four years? What? So year two of Reasonably Shady Somewhere

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<v Speaker 2>in there, we talked about the fact that seven Up

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<v Speaker 2>had a flavor called Shirley Temple because you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>love Shirley Temple's right It wasn't even that long ago.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about this so and I tasted it and

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<v Speaker 1>it's tasted like it wasn't good. It tasted like, let's

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<v Speaker 1>see bad cough medicine. Oh yeah, it was that taste

0:18:11.240 --> 0:18:12.439
<v Speaker 1>you know that tastes medicine.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, So they're bringing it back, they say by

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<v Speaker 2>popular demand.

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<v Speaker 1>No, all the comments are like, y'all lying at ain't

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<v Speaker 1>nobody said bring it back? Nobody requests, no one no

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<v Speaker 1>requested this, and y'all bringing this ship back?

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<v Speaker 2>So fun? You know what I'm here to tell y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>Don't get Shirley Temple seven up.

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<v Speaker 1>No, okay, don't get that, but yeah I did try.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like Canada dry ginger ale they have. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not something sweet cellular. Okay, it was so good.

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<v Speaker 2>I was Shirley Temple is Yeah, I don't know if

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<v Speaker 2>they call it Shirley Temple. Let me see.

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<v Speaker 1>It was really good and it was kind of a

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't know. It was like I purchased the sugar

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<v Speaker 1>free one.

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<v Speaker 2>And it was good. It didn't have like that fake

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<v Speaker 2>sugar taste. I was really shocked. Was it Shirley Temple?

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<v Speaker 2>That one was good? But yeah, what's yeah, I think

0:19:08.760 --> 0:19:14.920
<v Speaker 2>it's Shirley Typo flavor. Mmmm, Canada Dry. So Canada Dry

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<v Speaker 2>is ginger ale. So yeah, I could see that because

0:19:17.680 --> 0:19:21.399
<v Speaker 2>that's that they already have like that gingery taste, and

0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.040
<v Speaker 2>they could just throw some sugar at it and it'll

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<v Speaker 2>probably be good. Yeah, it was good. I don't remember

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<v Speaker 2>like the exact name, but it was good. If you

0:19:26.520 --> 0:19:29.360
<v Speaker 2>see it, get it all right. So we got oh,

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<v Speaker 2>we know her. So we have a little letter from

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<v Speaker 2>Amy Cohen. Don't we know Amy? Yes, she's a tried

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<v Speaker 2>and true Yes. So she's saying, high late, we love Amy.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she writes into us all the time. She says,

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<v Speaker 2>high ladies, it's your bff, Amy from Annapolis. Oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we know Amy from Annapolis. She said I got engaged

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<v Speaker 2>last week. She said, I'm married. I'm marrying my best friend.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have any dudes or don't? I should keep

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<v Speaker 2>in mind while planning our wedding. She sent up in

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<v Speaker 2>the picture, I know Robin has had more a more

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<v Speaker 2>recent experience in Giselle. No shade intended shade love you lots, Amy,

0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:14.200
<v Speaker 2>So Amy, Oh wait a minute, so she sent a

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<v Speaker 2>picture of Oh, it's a puzzle of how he proposed, Yes,

0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:21.359
<v Speaker 2>that's cute. So it looked like a box and I

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<v Speaker 2>think when she opened the box she had to put

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<v Speaker 2>the puzzle pieces together, and she did and says, well,

0:20:24.800 --> 0:20:27.160
<v Speaker 2>you marry me with a heart. Very cute, very cute.

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<v Speaker 2>That was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Amy, Yes, exciting. So there is a oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know this guy? Oh yeah you do, you know,

0:20:33.520 --> 0:20:36.920
<v Speaker 1>saying Jay, you know there's.

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<v Speaker 2>A we'll talk about it later anyway. Congratulations Amy. I

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<v Speaker 2>think that this is amazing. And do's and don'ts and

0:20:43.320 --> 0:20:45.680
<v Speaker 2>dos and dontes for marriage? Are there engaged wedding for

0:20:45.760 --> 0:20:47.480
<v Speaker 2>the wedding for the wedding? Okay? Yeah, what do you

0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:50.879
<v Speaker 2>what are your dos and donts? Okay? I want to

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<v Speaker 2>try your best not to let it stress you out, okay.

0:20:53.720 --> 0:20:59.359
<v Speaker 1>Because yeah, like your guests don't know that like something

0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:03.359
<v Speaker 1>didn't happen right or that it went wrong, So don't

0:21:03.440 --> 0:21:08.040
<v Speaker 1>stress about it being like absolutely perfect. But in planning it,

0:21:08.520 --> 0:21:11.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, it's hard because everyone wants something different. You know,

0:21:11.520 --> 0:21:14.520
<v Speaker 1>some people they want, I don't know what size wedding

0:21:14.520 --> 0:21:17.280
<v Speaker 1>you're looking for. Some people want the huge wedding with

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<v Speaker 1>you know, hundreds of people, and that's a fun, great experience.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, don't feel.

0:21:22.160 --> 0:21:25.760
<v Speaker 1>Pressured to do that if that's not what's like in

0:21:25.880 --> 0:21:28.680
<v Speaker 1>your heart or in your budget. Yeah, totally, because you

0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:29.760
<v Speaker 1>want to enjoy your day.

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<v Speaker 2>So when you envision what you.

0:21:33.480 --> 0:21:35.480
<v Speaker 1>What would make you happy, how you would enjoy your day,

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<v Speaker 1>just stick to that, Like, don't worry about people pleasing Yeah,

0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:42.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, because don't allow.

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<v Speaker 2>Your fiance to have any say, right, Yeah, because he's

0:21:45.600 --> 0:21:47.680
<v Speaker 2>gonna give on your nerves. Yes, and he doesn't know

0:21:47.680 --> 0:21:50.120
<v Speaker 2>what the hell he's talking about, and it ain't about him, right,

0:21:50.240 --> 0:21:51.840
<v Speaker 2>All I gotta do is put on some clothes and

0:21:51.880 --> 0:21:55.040
<v Speaker 2>show up, get a haircut. That's it. It's so funny.

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<v Speaker 1>When I was planning our weddings, both of them, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I was always surprised that want actually had like an opinion.

0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:04.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, wait, huh, you actually you want to know

0:22:04.400 --> 0:22:05.440
<v Speaker 2>about this? Like you care?

0:22:05.920 --> 0:22:08.399
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I would be so surprised, like no, what,

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<v Speaker 1>And then sometimes I'm like, but I will say sometimes

0:22:13.119 --> 0:22:16.400
<v Speaker 1>he actually did have a good opinion or a good perspective,

0:22:16.440 --> 0:22:20.840
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, Okay, so don't listen listen to Jazelle,

0:22:21.240 --> 0:22:25.800
<v Speaker 1>save yourself some stress. If your fiance wants to be involved.

0:22:27.000 --> 0:22:29.080
<v Speaker 1>You know, that's a that's something you can bond over,

0:22:29.560 --> 0:22:33.920
<v Speaker 1>that's something that you all can have fun doing. So

0:22:34.119 --> 0:22:35.679
<v Speaker 1>don't completely shut him out.

0:22:36.040 --> 0:22:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Don't make him feel like it's not about him, because

0:22:39.119 --> 0:22:42.000
<v Speaker 2>it's about both of y'all. Don't let his family talk.

0:22:45.960 --> 0:22:49.480
<v Speaker 2>Don't let his mama take over. Okay, Oh my god,

0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:50.480
<v Speaker 2>there's so many notes.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, so you're getting all the shady answers from Gazelle

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm trying to give you the real one.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, don't dual plan whether it's like a day away, like,

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<v Speaker 2>do plan to do something right after? Yeah? Yeah, just

0:23:05.760 --> 0:23:07.920
<v Speaker 2>the two of you. Yes, even if it's like it

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<v Speaker 2>didn't have to cost anything, Like even if it's just

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<v Speaker 2>you know, y'all go down the street to a local something,

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<v Speaker 2>just do that, right, Yeah, because y'all, y'all need to

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<v Speaker 2>debrief and y'all need to have your moment and you

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<v Speaker 2>need to, like, you know, just start your marriage off together. Yes, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I agree. Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>One thing, so at your wedding, make sure I mean this,

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<v Speaker 1>if this is important to you, this was very important

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<v Speaker 1>to me. Make sure you actually take the time to

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<v Speaker 1>sit and eat your food.

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<v Speaker 2>Because you paid for it. That's true. You know that

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<v Speaker 2>is true.

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<v Speaker 1>And a lot of times at weddings the bride and

0:23:42.800 --> 0:23:44.879
<v Speaker 1>the bride and groom gets all caught up with like

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<v Speaker 1>saying hi to people or being being interrupted taking pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>are just always doing something like for me, I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I am eating my food. We know, I sat at

0:23:56.359 --> 0:23:59.879
<v Speaker 1>the table. Was one there he started he walked around.

0:23:59.680 --> 0:24:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, and Rob was like, I'm gonna get my all

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<v Speaker 2>my food.

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<v Speaker 1>So just make sure you eat your food, drink drink

0:24:05.760 --> 0:24:07.720
<v Speaker 1>your drinks, eat your cake, all of that, like the

0:24:07.800 --> 0:24:13.240
<v Speaker 1>stuff that you spent time debating on, deliberating on, like,

0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:13.879
<v Speaker 1>enjoy it.

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<v Speaker 2>True, don't I had another don't shoot? What was my

0:24:20.480 --> 0:24:26.480
<v Speaker 2>don't okay you said eat the food. I can't remember,

0:24:26.640 --> 0:24:30.480
<v Speaker 2>but enjoy it like it Hopefully it will only happen

0:24:30.560 --> 0:24:34.239
<v Speaker 2>one time. And you know, make sure that you pay

0:24:34.240 --> 0:24:39.120
<v Speaker 2>attention to yourself, don't get stressed out, have your music, yes,

0:24:39.520 --> 0:24:42.520
<v Speaker 2>and just you know, live your life accordingly. Yes, and

0:24:42.560 --> 0:24:44.520
<v Speaker 2>don't listen to anybody like do what you want. Oh,

0:24:44.720 --> 0:24:47.480
<v Speaker 2>don't be telling all your girlfriends like like have them

0:24:47.520 --> 0:24:49.760
<v Speaker 2>weighing in, like what do you think about this? What

0:24:49.840 --> 0:24:52.239
<v Speaker 2>do you think about that? Like weigh in? Like how

0:24:52.320 --> 0:24:55.320
<v Speaker 2>much they weigh Oh, no, weigh in on your decision

0:24:55.359 --> 0:24:58.960
<v Speaker 2>making process. Yes, like no, you this is this is

0:24:59.040 --> 0:25:03.360
<v Speaker 2>about you and what you want, so like their opinions

0:25:03.440 --> 0:25:04.600
<v Speaker 2>really don't matter. Yeah.

0:25:04.720 --> 0:25:07.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And you're going to find that there are so

0:25:07.560 --> 0:25:10.080
<v Speaker 1>many options out there, one hundred million are You're gonna

0:25:10.080 --> 0:25:11.119
<v Speaker 1>be confused and.

0:25:11.160 --> 0:25:11.880
<v Speaker 2>You might change.

0:25:11.920 --> 0:25:14.199
<v Speaker 1>You might go back and forth. You might first say, oh,

0:25:14.240 --> 0:25:16.679
<v Speaker 1>I want a country wedding, and the next you want

0:25:16.720 --> 0:25:19.320
<v Speaker 1>a modern wedding, and the next you want I don't

0:25:19.359 --> 0:25:22.399
<v Speaker 1>know or whatever. You want a purple theme, then you

0:25:22.440 --> 0:25:24.600
<v Speaker 1>want a green theme. Like you're gonna be all over

0:25:24.680 --> 0:25:30.399
<v Speaker 1>the place. So yeah, try to just really like like

0:25:30.720 --> 0:25:32.760
<v Speaker 1>have a vision in your head and stick to it.

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:36.600
<v Speaker 2>Stick to it. Don't do this without a prenup because

0:25:36.600 --> 0:25:38.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't care. If you have three dollars and he

0:25:38.080 --> 0:25:40.760
<v Speaker 2>has fourteen cents, you're gonna get that prenup and you're

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:42.440
<v Speaker 2>gonna have him sign it. Because what George is yours,

0:25:42.520 --> 0:25:45.040
<v Speaker 2>what's his is his? Or what's yourge is yours? And

0:25:45.119 --> 0:25:47.200
<v Speaker 2>what's his is yours? Figure it out. Just get a

0:25:47.280 --> 0:25:54.280
<v Speaker 2>clean up. Okay, yes, anyway, So enjoy it and you

0:25:54.400 --> 0:25:56.760
<v Speaker 2>deserve it all all the things and I kind of

0:25:56.800 --> 0:25:59.720
<v Speaker 2>want to say no, I do yeah, I do want

0:25:59.720 --> 0:26:02.080
<v Speaker 2>to say, do do it? Do get married? Okay you

0:26:02.160 --> 0:26:03.840
<v Speaker 2>got one? Yeah? All right?

0:26:03.880 --> 0:26:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Ready, so this is funny, all right? So this is

0:26:08.119 --> 0:26:11.440
<v Speaker 1>from Jenny. Hey, Jenny, Jenny Linel. She said, high ladies,

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<v Speaker 1>before I ask my shady question, I do want to

0:26:13.400 --> 0:26:14.840
<v Speaker 1>take a moment and tell you guys that I have

0:26:14.960 --> 0:26:16.159
<v Speaker 1>been loving the podcast.

0:26:16.560 --> 0:26:19.560
<v Speaker 2>I crack up every morning driving to work. Thank you, Jenny.

0:26:19.720 --> 0:26:22.800
<v Speaker 1>You guys are hilarious. I live for the pod. Also, Gizelle,

0:26:22.840 --> 0:26:24.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm loving the Love Hotel.

0:26:24.480 --> 0:26:24.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh great.

0:26:25.080 --> 0:26:27.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know why Shannon was crying so much over

0:26:27.320 --> 0:26:31.040
<v Speaker 1>Earle and Giselle go after while at Ashley clearly is

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:34.480
<v Speaker 1>playing and yes, girl, get Phil. He has some coins

0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:39.080
<v Speaker 1>in the bank, mister double r. So then she says, okay,

0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.160
<v Speaker 1>let me get to the serious part of this message.

0:26:42.000 --> 0:26:45.280
<v Speaker 1>Since the Christlies have been released from jail and we

0:26:45.520 --> 0:26:51.080
<v Speaker 1>know that they did it, should we or should I say,

0:26:51.200 --> 0:26:54.320
<v Speaker 1>I write a letter to Donnie asking him to release

0:26:54.400 --> 0:26:57.720
<v Speaker 1>Karen because we know she needs her weight glue. The

0:26:57.840 --> 0:27:00.840
<v Speaker 1>botox might have shifted by now and she needs to

0:27:00.880 --> 0:27:04.760
<v Speaker 1>come to glow thirty. No, but in all seriousness, I

0:27:04.840 --> 0:27:06.120
<v Speaker 1>think it's time she's out of there.

0:27:06.320 --> 0:27:07.119
<v Speaker 2>Is this too shady?

0:27:07.600 --> 0:27:07.639
<v Speaker 1>No?

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:12.120
<v Speaker 2>A concerned fan of rhops. I'm actually feel I feel

0:27:12.119 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 2>the same way. I mean, like, Karen's been in jail

0:27:13.840 --> 0:27:16.200
<v Speaker 2>long enough, like she learned her lesson? Get her out

0:27:16.200 --> 0:27:17.399
<v Speaker 2>of there? Does she learn it?

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:17.800
<v Speaker 1>You think? So?

0:27:18.480 --> 0:27:20.359
<v Speaker 2>She's been in there for like, how long has she

0:27:20.440 --> 0:27:21.800
<v Speaker 2>been in there for? Now? Was it like the end

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:23.920
<v Speaker 2>of February that she went in? Okay, it's just like

0:27:24.000 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 2>three months, right, that's all for four months? Three and

0:27:27.040 --> 0:27:30.159
<v Speaker 2>a half months, A long time. I just feel like

0:27:30.720 --> 0:27:32.320
<v Speaker 2>I thought about it the other day. I'm like, get

0:27:32.400 --> 0:27:34.440
<v Speaker 2>Caring out of jail, Like she didn't learn whatever lesson

0:27:34.440 --> 0:27:36.440
<v Speaker 2>we're supposed to learn here. She't gonna do it again.

0:27:36.560 --> 0:27:41.200
<v Speaker 2>Get out of jail, please, so I know, yes, so, yes,

0:27:41.320 --> 0:27:43.880
<v Speaker 2>I'm with whoever this is, what's your name? I'm with Jenny, Jenny,

0:27:43.880 --> 0:27:45.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm with you. Get Caring out of jail. And yes,

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:48.640
<v Speaker 2>the botox has shifted in her as well. The hair

0:27:48.760 --> 0:27:51.360
<v Speaker 2>needs a cooth. That's just that'll be a sight to see. Yeah,

0:27:51.400 --> 0:27:53.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to see it. Get Stephen and all

0:27:53.240 --> 0:27:55.800
<v Speaker 2>of the people together with her first, and then I'm

0:27:55.800 --> 0:27:57.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna come over there and give care some love because

0:27:57.680 --> 0:28:00.200
<v Speaker 2>like whoa baby be?

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:06.359
<v Speaker 1>Okay, but by the way, the president cannot get Karen

0:28:06.359 --> 0:28:06.840
<v Speaker 1>out of jail.

0:28:06.920 --> 0:28:09.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh why not? Because it's all state? Yeah, okay, And

0:28:10.280 --> 0:28:12.440
<v Speaker 2>did you see Katie was asking? Was like, oh my gosh,

0:28:12.480 --> 0:28:12.840
<v Speaker 2>I should.

0:28:12.920 --> 0:28:13.080
<v Speaker 1>Yes.

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<v Speaker 2>First of all, Katie Ross, you don't know Donald Trump

0:28:17.200 --> 0:28:19.440
<v Speaker 2>or anyone that knows him, right, Well, maybe you do.

0:28:19.600 --> 0:28:24.840
<v Speaker 2>I don't know. She might who knows, Katie? Katie be

0:28:24.920 --> 0:28:28.320
<v Speaker 2>doing the most out here. Okay, loves her attention, she does.

0:28:29.400 --> 0:28:31.240
<v Speaker 2>So Katie clipped this that we just talked about you

0:28:31.400 --> 0:28:33.680
<v Speaker 2>and put it on your put it on your Instagram. Honey,

0:28:34.160 --> 0:28:38.680
<v Speaker 2>you're welcome. Okay. So this is from Alberta and she says,

0:28:38.760 --> 0:28:42.320
<v Speaker 2>my husband has told me that he doesn't believe in

0:28:42.520 --> 0:28:46.480
<v Speaker 2>happy wife, happy life. After all our time together, he

0:28:46.640 --> 0:28:52.000
<v Speaker 2>says this, And now what do I do, Alberta? I

0:28:52.080 --> 0:28:55.120
<v Speaker 2>need more information. I know I'm just not enough. I

0:28:55.280 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 2>need more information, right, because like, is he what else

0:29:00.400 --> 0:29:02.920
<v Speaker 2>is going on here? Yes? Is was he showing you

0:29:03.440 --> 0:29:06.760
<v Speaker 2>that he doesn't believe in this? Is he just saying it?

0:29:07.560 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 2>I need more information? Yes? Are you not being treated well? Alberta?

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:14.480
<v Speaker 2>Send us more information? In the streets. Is he in

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:16.800
<v Speaker 2>these mean streets? Okay?

0:29:17.040 --> 0:29:19.240
<v Speaker 1>But let's set us up all right. So he doesn't

0:29:19.240 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 1>believe in happy wife, happy life. Yeah, so that means

0:29:22.200 --> 0:29:25.880
<v Speaker 1>he doesn't care in making you happy, or he doesn't.

0:29:25.640 --> 0:29:28.760
<v Speaker 2>Believe that if he makes her happy, it's going to

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:33.000
<v Speaker 2>make his life better, right right? So all of it,

0:29:33.120 --> 0:29:34.880
<v Speaker 2>all of it. I need more information, Like what is

0:29:35.040 --> 0:29:38.480
<v Speaker 2>this man doing? We need more? Yeah, okay, we need more. Okay.

0:29:40.120 --> 0:29:44.000
<v Speaker 1>So this is from Katie from Canada. She said, good morning,

0:29:44.120 --> 0:29:49.240
<v Speaker 1>my friends. I haven't even finished today's episode in Sensitive Biscuits,

0:29:49.840 --> 0:29:50.480
<v Speaker 1>but you had me.

0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:53.000
<v Speaker 2>In tears over here and not in a good way,

0:29:53.560 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 2>and I need it to let you know.

0:29:55.520 --> 0:29:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Obviously, the question about if you had to lose your

0:29:58.280 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 1>memories from the past or the future is just meant

0:30:01.560 --> 0:30:05.680
<v Speaker 1>to be thought provoking and couldn't happen. But once I

0:30:05.760 --> 0:30:08.280
<v Speaker 1>started thinking about it, I had genuine anxiety.

0:30:08.480 --> 0:30:10.000
<v Speaker 2>Oh do you remember that topic?

0:30:10.720 --> 0:30:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Derek Dash said in a question He was like, would

0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you rather pretty much only have your memories from the

0:30:16.720 --> 0:30:18.600
<v Speaker 1>past or only have your memories from the future?

0:30:19.080 --> 0:30:20.920
<v Speaker 2>Do you remember that? Okay? I remember that? And what

0:30:21.000 --> 0:30:23.440
<v Speaker 2>did we say? We said? You said like future? Like

0:30:23.520 --> 0:30:24.080
<v Speaker 2>really quickly.

0:30:24.920 --> 0:30:27.640
<v Speaker 1>So, she says, my mother passed away from Alzheimer's in

0:30:27.680 --> 0:30:29.120
<v Speaker 1>December twenty eighteen.

0:30:29.280 --> 0:30:30.120
<v Speaker 2>I was forty three.

0:30:30.520 --> 0:30:33.040
<v Speaker 1>I would give anything not to lose my memories of

0:30:33.160 --> 0:30:36.040
<v Speaker 1>her and the amazing woman that she was. On the

0:30:36.200 --> 0:30:40.200
<v Speaker 1>flip side, I have six children aged fourteen to twenty seven.

0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.760
<v Speaker 1>I need to see their futures, their weddings, their babies, etc.

0:30:44.480 --> 0:30:46.480
<v Speaker 1>This morning, just the act of thinking of which to

0:30:46.560 --> 0:30:49.560
<v Speaker 1>lose nearly did me in. I was surprised that Sheaselle

0:30:49.560 --> 0:30:51.640
<v Speaker 1>said the future so quickly. What about her memories of

0:30:51.680 --> 0:30:56.400
<v Speaker 1>her father? Oh, I'm getting anxiety just writing this. Also,

0:30:56.560 --> 0:30:58.880
<v Speaker 1>that is a shit song. It is thank you, thank

0:30:58.920 --> 0:31:02.440
<v Speaker 1>you anyway, just my perspective, so you can share in

0:31:02.560 --> 0:31:03.520
<v Speaker 1>my anxiety.

0:31:03.920 --> 0:31:05.440
<v Speaker 2>Lol. Lots of love.

0:31:05.600 --> 0:31:09.080
<v Speaker 1>So yeah, dang, we didn't like think that deep about it.

0:31:09.200 --> 0:31:11.320
<v Speaker 2>I didn't. Yeah, we just kind of like said, we

0:31:11.400 --> 0:31:12.160
<v Speaker 2>said we moved.

0:31:12.000 --> 0:31:16.320
<v Speaker 1>On, right, But she is right, Yes, a very tough question,

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:20.360
<v Speaker 1>and right, like do you don't if we If you

0:31:20.440 --> 0:31:22.479
<v Speaker 1>lose memories of your past, you lose memories of all

0:31:22.480 --> 0:31:25.880
<v Speaker 1>the people that came before you. Or if you lose

0:31:25.960 --> 0:31:27.600
<v Speaker 1>memories of the future, then you don't know what, Like

0:31:27.760 --> 0:31:29.200
<v Speaker 1>you don't see what your kids are up to.

0:31:29.400 --> 0:31:31.080
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and how do you like that question?

0:31:31.240 --> 0:31:31.440
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:31:31.520 --> 0:31:36.400
<v Speaker 2>You ask. You can't make new memories, right, so we're

0:31:36.520 --> 0:31:39.520
<v Speaker 2>just gonna act like that never happened. I know, I think.

0:31:39.560 --> 0:31:41.920
<v Speaker 2>I mean, if like, if I had to pick one,

0:31:42.000 --> 0:31:48.840
<v Speaker 2>I think it would still be I think. Yeah, I

0:31:48.880 --> 0:31:51.720
<v Speaker 2>think the future. I just think when you're like, because

0:31:51.720 --> 0:31:55.040
<v Speaker 2>how depressing would your future be if you didn't have

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:58.880
<v Speaker 2>the ability to remember it. That's that's depressing. So yeah,

0:31:58.880 --> 0:32:01.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm going with the future. But that is very sad,

0:32:01.160 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 2>sad question. Yeah, thank you. This is from Carly, not

0:32:11.680 --> 0:32:17.120
<v Speaker 2>our Carly. Carly, Hi, ladies, please help. I've been a

0:32:17.200 --> 0:32:20.640
<v Speaker 2>part of the Shady Bunch reasonably shadester since episode one

0:32:20.760 --> 0:32:24.400
<v Speaker 2>and wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, we do.

0:32:25.400 --> 0:32:28.000
<v Speaker 2>I recently took a Monday off. Instead of listening to

0:32:28.080 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 2>the podcast to make an hour past, I decided to

0:32:30.960 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 2>watch the YouTube video. Okay, so everybody need to be

0:32:34.960 --> 0:32:40.080
<v Speaker 2>watching on YouTube Okay. Biggest mistake ever. I didn't realize

0:32:40.160 --> 0:32:44.040
<v Speaker 2>how much I'd miss seeing Robin's face you guys, chemistry,

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:49.800
<v Speaker 2>and that I'd enjoy watching versus listening. Should I keep

0:32:49.840 --> 0:32:52.800
<v Speaker 2>listening or start watching? And Gazelle you can't say both

0:32:57.360 --> 0:33:01.600
<v Speaker 2>with love, Carly, Okay, So question I can say. I mean,

0:33:01.640 --> 0:33:04.360
<v Speaker 2>it's obvious, like, if you watch it, there's so much

0:33:04.480 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 2>more that you can that makes more sense. Right, you

0:33:07.560 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 2>can see our facial expressions, you can see our dynamic

0:33:10.240 --> 0:33:11.960
<v Speaker 2>blah blah blahlah right, soaring.

0:33:12.480 --> 0:33:15.680
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, So I think if you have time, yes, watch it,

0:33:15.880 --> 0:33:18.800
<v Speaker 1>watch it. Okay, yeah, yeah I agree.

0:33:19.360 --> 0:33:21.720
<v Speaker 2>But if not, if you just like if you're moving around,

0:33:21.720 --> 0:33:23.680
<v Speaker 2>if you're in the office or whatever, you can only

0:33:23.800 --> 0:33:27.120
<v Speaker 2>like just listen, then then obviously just listen. But yeah,

0:33:27.280 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 2>but I think watching it should be your first choice. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:33:30.400 --> 0:33:35.160
<v Speaker 2>I agree. Okay, we figured it out, Carly or Carly both?

0:33:36.240 --> 0:33:41.000
<v Speaker 2>What you said, I shouldn't say both, right, dude.

0:33:41.360 --> 0:33:43.640
<v Speaker 1>Like listen to it in the car and then watch

0:33:43.720 --> 0:33:45.680
<v Speaker 1>it while you're, like, you know, around the house.

0:33:45.800 --> 0:33:47.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, yeah, I love that. Yeah all that.

0:33:48.040 --> 0:33:51.640
<v Speaker 1>Okay, get the double double double. All right, this is

0:33:51.680 --> 0:33:55.000
<v Speaker 1>a good question, she said, Please don't use my name. Okay, So,

0:33:55.120 --> 0:33:57.920
<v Speaker 1>hi ladies. I am in my mid forties and have

0:33:58.120 --> 0:34:02.680
<v Speaker 1>no children. I am very sixful. I love to travel shop,

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:05.960
<v Speaker 1>she said, think lux bags and jewelry and eat good food.

0:34:06.400 --> 0:34:06.720
<v Speaker 2>Me too.

0:34:07.120 --> 0:34:09.400
<v Speaker 1>The problem is I don't have any friends who can

0:34:09.440 --> 0:34:11.160
<v Speaker 1>afford to do with a lot of a lot of

0:34:11.280 --> 0:34:14.680
<v Speaker 1>the things I like to do. Where can I meet

0:34:14.760 --> 0:34:18.160
<v Speaker 1>other successful women to hang out with? It's so difficult

0:34:18.200 --> 0:34:21.040
<v Speaker 1>making friends when you don't have kids. Love the show,

0:34:21.160 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 1>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a great question.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would say, you know, it's hard because I

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<v Speaker 1>have kids, and so a lot of my life is

0:34:30.640 --> 0:34:33.200
<v Speaker 1>centered around the kids. And a lot of the women

0:34:33.280 --> 0:34:36.359
<v Speaker 1>I meet, you know kids or friend you know they're

0:34:36.400 --> 0:34:39.600
<v Speaker 1>their kids are friends with my kids and the basketball gyms. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would think try a traveling club like there

0:34:43.440 --> 0:34:46.239
<v Speaker 1>are Yeah, so there I've heard of like a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of different travel agents or travel clubs for you know,

0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.640
<v Speaker 1>women who like to travel, and you can probably pick

0:34:53.760 --> 0:34:56.359
<v Speaker 1>the level of the trip so that you know, like, Okay,

0:34:56.400 --> 0:34:59.480
<v Speaker 1>if I'm going on this lux trip, then you're going

0:34:59.560 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 1>to be around women that can probably afford the lifestyle.

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<v Speaker 2>That you live. Yes, I like that. I didn't even

0:35:04.200 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 2>think about that. Yeah, or even try like.

0:35:05.880 --> 0:35:09.640
<v Speaker 1>A retreat like a you know, yoga retreat type of situation,

0:35:09.880 --> 0:35:12.960
<v Speaker 1>like at a high end place. But then I guess

0:35:13.040 --> 0:35:14.640
<v Speaker 1>if you do like the travel club or if you

0:35:14.719 --> 0:35:17.239
<v Speaker 1>do something like those people aren't local, so you really

0:35:17.360 --> 0:35:20.120
<v Speaker 1>just have to kind of travel to be around them.

0:35:20.200 --> 0:35:23.239
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you gotta get to know them. Yeah. Yeah, they're

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:25.640
<v Speaker 2>not like your girlfriends that you've been knowing forever. Yeah.

0:35:25.760 --> 0:35:27.759
<v Speaker 2>There's also like you know, if you're part of a gym,

0:35:28.080 --> 0:35:31.880
<v Speaker 2>like because my one of my fitness instructors, he does this,

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<v Speaker 2>I think like every six months, like he'll he'll put

0:35:35.200 --> 0:35:37.920
<v Speaker 2>together a trip and it's like a workout slash just

0:35:38.000 --> 0:35:40.160
<v Speaker 2>like a venture trip. So like the last time they

0:35:40.200 --> 0:35:42.200
<v Speaker 2>did it, they went to Nicaragua, They're going to Bali.

0:35:42.480 --> 0:35:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Like they're very high end trips. So yeah, I think

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<v Speaker 2>if you really put your mind to it, you can

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<v Speaker 2>figure it out in your environment alrighty.

0:35:52.480 --> 0:35:54.840
<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, Like if you look up so you like

0:35:55.000 --> 0:35:58.160
<v Speaker 1>luxury stuff so and high end stuff, so go to

0:35:59.080 --> 0:36:03.600
<v Speaker 1>high end gym, high end lounges or high end hotels,

0:36:04.880 --> 0:36:07.839
<v Speaker 1>you know, and then just find the people that kind

0:36:07.880 --> 0:36:08.879
<v Speaker 1>of congregate there.

0:36:09.239 --> 0:36:13.000
<v Speaker 2>But it is difficult to find like rich people that

0:36:13.120 --> 0:36:16.799
<v Speaker 2>know how to rich write right, and who are who

0:36:16.880 --> 0:36:19.960
<v Speaker 2>you want to be around because you know who and

0:36:20.040 --> 0:36:22.239
<v Speaker 2>who don't have kids and who don't have kids. Yeah,

0:36:22.520 --> 0:36:25.680
<v Speaker 2>that's I think that's the part that's Yeah, that's the

0:36:25.760 --> 0:36:28.960
<v Speaker 2>part that kind of makes it difficult because it's ship.

0:36:29.040 --> 0:36:31.759
<v Speaker 2>They can have kids, but they also want to well well.

0:36:31.640 --> 0:36:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Well, okay, don't have kids that they have that kind

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:37.160
<v Speaker 1>of like take up their It depends on how old

0:36:37.160 --> 0:36:39.000
<v Speaker 1>their kids are, right, Okay, So if they have kids

0:36:39.040 --> 0:36:41.200
<v Speaker 1>that are older, out of the house, grown, blah blah blah,

0:36:41.239 --> 0:36:43.799
<v Speaker 1>then cool. You know what's her name, but she's well,

0:36:43.880 --> 0:36:44.839
<v Speaker 1>she didn't want me to say her.

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:47.840
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's right. Okay, whatever your name is, count me in.

0:36:48.040 --> 0:36:50.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm coming, yeah, because I got some I got a

0:36:50.200 --> 0:36:52.239
<v Speaker 2>little cash in my pocket, and my kids, you know,

0:36:52.520 --> 0:36:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I can leave them they're done. So yeah, okay, so

0:36:55.600 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 2>you just found a friend, just so yay, nice, Okay.

0:36:59.640 --> 0:37:02.920
<v Speaker 2>So hey, hey ladies, this is from Tiffany. I've been

0:37:03.080 --> 0:37:06.799
<v Speaker 2>Day one fans. Day one is in Bold. I've been

0:37:06.920 --> 0:37:11.520
<v Speaker 2>a Day one. Hey. Thanks. I've watched every single episode

0:37:11.520 --> 0:37:14.200
<v Speaker 2>of The Housewives potomach and listened to every episode of

0:37:14.360 --> 0:37:16.280
<v Speaker 2>Reasonably Shady, and some of them twice.

0:37:16.480 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 1>Whooa.

0:37:17.440 --> 0:37:17.920
<v Speaker 2>I love that.

0:37:18.280 --> 0:37:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Yes, you need to listen to them twice and watch

0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:24.000
<v Speaker 1>you otherwise otherwise you ain't really a fan, right.

0:37:25.440 --> 0:37:30.239
<v Speaker 2>You both? Sincerely brighten up my mondays I just have

0:37:30.400 --> 0:37:32.960
<v Speaker 2>to write in and say thank you, especially to Robin.

0:37:33.480 --> 0:37:36.400
<v Speaker 2>I took your advice and actually filled out one of

0:37:36.480 --> 0:37:41.360
<v Speaker 2>those random settlement forms come in the mail and guess what.

0:37:41.920 --> 0:37:48.520
<v Speaker 2>Drum roll please, I got a check WHOA for twenty

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:53.040
<v Speaker 2>one dollars woo and sixty five cents. Oh, thank you, Robin, Yes,

0:37:53.480 --> 0:37:57.840
<v Speaker 2>love you ball. Here's to lunch on me. And that

0:37:57.960 --> 0:38:01.719
<v Speaker 2>was from Tiffany. Okay, so twenty one dollars. I wonder

0:38:01.760 --> 0:38:03.640
<v Speaker 2>how long it took her to fill out those forms.

0:38:04.520 --> 0:38:07.000
<v Speaker 2>Five minutes. I doubt it if that could have taken

0:38:07.040 --> 0:38:09.000
<v Speaker 2>her longer. No, okay, so I was worth it. I

0:38:09.080 --> 0:38:13.040
<v Speaker 2>guess it is. Yeah, okay, that's that's lunch. That's like, listen,

0:38:13.080 --> 0:38:14.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm about to get something from equinox. So I'm good.

0:38:16.000 --> 0:38:16.880
<v Speaker 2>I was about to shoot me.

0:38:16.880 --> 0:38:22.120
<v Speaker 1>At check, run me my money, all right. This one

0:38:22.280 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 1>is from John Reed. He says happy June teenth and

0:38:25.600 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 1>Pride month. Yes, happy Pride, yes.

0:38:28.480 --> 0:38:31.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes, especially Juneteenth. Yes, yeah, we don't get our love.

0:38:32.320 --> 0:38:32.560
<v Speaker 2>I know.

0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:36.440
<v Speaker 1>Okay, because they're trying to like, did Trump take that

0:38:36.520 --> 0:38:37.120
<v Speaker 1>holiday away?

0:38:37.200 --> 0:38:42.160
<v Speaker 2>Is that no longer a federal holiday? Veterans Day, Memorial Day? Juneteenth?

0:38:42.320 --> 0:38:44.320
<v Speaker 2>All of them throw them in the change can.

0:38:44.760 --> 0:38:47.239
<v Speaker 1>He said that to Veterans Day Memorial's Day too, Okay,

0:38:47.280 --> 0:38:49.040
<v Speaker 1>I might be making that up, Okay, but I think he.

0:38:49.080 --> 0:38:50.960
<v Speaker 2>Did say Veterans Day, he said he. I think he

0:38:51.040 --> 0:38:53.239
<v Speaker 2>want to call it Trump Day something something crazy. Oh God,

0:38:53.800 --> 0:38:56.080
<v Speaker 2>ok I can't wait for this to be over.

0:38:57.280 --> 0:39:00.480
<v Speaker 1>It is entertaining, though it's I'm not entertained, no longer

0:39:00.560 --> 0:39:03.239
<v Speaker 1>entertained by this foolishness because it's just like you think

0:39:03.320 --> 0:39:06.360
<v Speaker 1>this so the people of this country and this country

0:39:06.440 --> 0:39:08.400
<v Speaker 1>is a joke to him. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and

0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:12.920
<v Speaker 1>leave Gaven alone. Just leave Gavon alone. Oh oh my gosh. Yeah.

0:39:13.160 --> 0:39:14.400
<v Speaker 2>Anyway, moving on, So.

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<v Speaker 1>John says, I was just curious, speaking of Pride Month,

0:39:17.400 --> 0:39:20.160
<v Speaker 1>who do you consider your gay icons?

0:39:20.400 --> 0:39:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh?

0:39:21.080 --> 0:39:23.520
<v Speaker 1>Mine would be Mariah Carey whate that?

0:39:23.640 --> 0:39:27.720
<v Speaker 2>And I don't understand it. What do you mean gay right? Okay?

0:39:28.400 --> 0:39:31.000
<v Speaker 2>Or she's like but she's like a champion for gay rights?

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:34.160
<v Speaker 2>So is that or is that like? Okay? So I

0:39:34.200 --> 0:39:38.799
<v Speaker 2>guess he means like who the gays love? He needs

0:39:38.840 --> 0:39:43.120
<v Speaker 2>to specify, because that's how's Mariah Carriyer gay a gay icon?

0:39:43.760 --> 0:39:43.840
<v Speaker 1>Right?

0:39:43.880 --> 0:39:46.799
<v Speaker 2>Because I'm thinking, make any sense? I need some specification.

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:48.799
<v Speaker 1>She said, I've seen her live with My god Mom

0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:51.359
<v Speaker 1>and it was fabulous. She's rumored to show up late.

0:39:51.320 --> 0:39:54.760
<v Speaker 2>But she was right on time. We just trashed Mariah

0:39:54.840 --> 0:40:01.880
<v Speaker 2>five minutes ago in the same episode. Clearly trash Mariah.

0:40:02.760 --> 0:40:04.880
<v Speaker 2>What's the same? He's not gonna be our friends anymore.

0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:06.560
<v Speaker 2>This is John read John, we love you.

0:40:06.800 --> 0:40:10.359
<v Speaker 1>So I guess John is saying, like, uh, they don't

0:40:10.400 --> 0:40:14.280
<v Speaker 1>have to be gay, but they are like an artist

0:40:14.400 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 1>or a person that the gay community loves, like Share, yes,

0:40:18.080 --> 0:40:24.520
<v Speaker 1>like a share or Madonna okay or yeah, or Mariah Carey.

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:28.920
<v Speaker 2>Or I want the person to be gay. Yeah. It's

0:40:29.239 --> 0:40:31.480
<v Speaker 2>kind of like drag queens. Like there's drag queen queen

0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:37.080
<v Speaker 2>icons by the way, yes, what is it? World Pride happens,

0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:39.839
<v Speaker 2>and there there's the guy that owns tally Ho. Shout

0:40:39.880 --> 0:40:42.080
<v Speaker 2>out to tally Ho. If anybody who watched photomach Nos,

0:40:42.120 --> 0:40:44.160
<v Speaker 2>that's Karen's diner that she loves and I love it too.

0:40:44.200 --> 0:40:45.960
<v Speaker 2>I go there with my children all the time.

0:40:47.000 --> 0:40:50.360
<v Speaker 1>They have wonderful donuts by the way, Okay, their chocolate

0:40:50.360 --> 0:40:51.160
<v Speaker 1>donut is to die for.

0:40:51.560 --> 0:40:56.680
<v Speaker 2>Okay. So he ran in about the drag queen. Oh gay,

0:40:56.960 --> 0:41:00.600
<v Speaker 2>I mean during World Pride. Oh nice, okay, and he

0:41:00.880 --> 0:41:04.200
<v Speaker 2>said something to the effect of, oh my gosh, yeah,

0:41:04.200 --> 0:41:06.440
<v Speaker 2>I love like the Rospal's Potomac and Robin. You were

0:41:06.480 --> 0:41:09.880
<v Speaker 2>fribbing he was, And Bob the Drag Queen said, he

0:41:10.000 --> 0:41:13.680
<v Speaker 2>you know what the real housepis Potomac was It acted

0:41:13.760 --> 0:41:17.080
<v Speaker 2>like he ain't know who Robin was. Bob, have you

0:41:17.200 --> 0:41:20.880
<v Speaker 2>lost your mind? You did a goddamn show with Robin Dixon.

0:41:21.000 --> 0:41:23.640
<v Speaker 2>It was called Traders. Oh my god, and Bob, I'm

0:41:23.719 --> 0:41:27.480
<v Speaker 2>like one of your things? But should I be? And

0:41:27.600 --> 0:41:29.080
<v Speaker 2>so the guy that said that to him and looked

0:41:29.120 --> 0:41:31.920
<v Speaker 2>at him like you know what I'm talking about? Like,

0:41:32.160 --> 0:41:35.880
<v Speaker 2>what are you doing? Maybe you had had one too

0:41:35.960 --> 0:41:38.160
<v Speaker 2>many to drink that day, Bob, I don't think he was.

0:41:39.680 --> 0:41:42.000
<v Speaker 2>He was in his glory mode. But even in your

0:41:42.040 --> 0:41:45.320
<v Speaker 2>glory and in your mom you're gonna deny Robin Dixon

0:41:46.000 --> 0:41:49.279
<v Speaker 2>and Potomac. What are you doing? I don't. I don't

0:41:49.360 --> 0:41:52.080
<v Speaker 2>think he watched Potomac. That's fine, but still like you

0:41:52.200 --> 0:41:53.600
<v Speaker 2>should kind of know of it now.

0:41:54.200 --> 0:42:00.480
<v Speaker 1>Hello, Bob the drag Queen. Okay, Oh so he was

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:03.520
<v Speaker 1>my gay icon. I take it back, Yeah, take it back,

0:42:03.760 --> 0:42:07.800
<v Speaker 1>I take it. I like Chandela Chandela.

0:42:07.960 --> 0:42:11.000
<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, we love her. Yeah, she's she's very good, yes,

0:42:11.280 --> 0:42:13.919
<v Speaker 2>very very good. Yeah, on top of her game. Okay,

0:42:13.920 --> 0:42:16.040
<v Speaker 2>we got we got top of one more, all right,

0:42:16.120 --> 0:42:20.160
<v Speaker 2>one more. Okay, this is from yat Nira.

0:42:20.640 --> 0:42:24.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, she said, Hey, gurlies, I love, love, love watching

0:42:24.239 --> 0:42:28.040
<v Speaker 1>reasonably shady. Y'all are so funny and I love y'all's banter.

0:42:28.680 --> 0:42:32.160
<v Speaker 1>So I'm watching Love Hotel right now, and I see

0:42:32.239 --> 0:42:35.800
<v Speaker 1>myself in you so much and me. Yes, yes, you

0:42:36.000 --> 0:42:39.120
<v Speaker 1>know what you want and don't lower your expectations at

0:42:39.160 --> 0:42:40.360
<v Speaker 1>all and talk to the.

0:42:40.400 --> 0:42:44.160
<v Speaker 2>Men as genuinely, genuinely you. Yep.

0:42:44.400 --> 0:42:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I love how you talk back instead of just agreeing

0:42:47.840 --> 0:42:50.400
<v Speaker 1>with everything they say. I hate when girls just agree

0:42:50.400 --> 0:42:52.120
<v Speaker 1>with men just because, just because.

0:42:52.280 --> 0:42:59.160
<v Speaker 2>Also, Earl is crazy for gas lighting Shannon. Earl over

0:42:59.200 --> 0:43:00.960
<v Speaker 2>here is saying shame. You were supposed to know the

0:43:01.000 --> 0:43:04.880
<v Speaker 2>trajectory of a hurricane and it it because of that.

0:43:05.360 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 2>You should have been with me, You should have supported me.

0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:09.920
<v Speaker 2>You gotta watch that episode. Oh my god, hilarious. Okay,

0:43:10.280 --> 0:43:14.279
<v Speaker 2>oh my god, that's hilarious. Okay. Anyways, I love when

0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:16.600
<v Speaker 2>y'all use new slang. It's so funny.

0:43:17.320 --> 0:43:20.319
<v Speaker 1>I'm an incoming sophomore in college right now, so I'm

0:43:20.360 --> 0:43:22.719
<v Speaker 1>pretty familiar with slang, and I wanted to teach.

0:43:22.520 --> 0:43:24.560
<v Speaker 2>Y'all some new words. Yes, give it to us, girl,

0:43:24.640 --> 0:43:26.520
<v Speaker 2>give it to him. Yes, okay, some new words so

0:43:26.520 --> 0:43:27.759
<v Speaker 2>I can tell grace. Right.

0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:33.239
<v Speaker 1>The first one is negative aur, so a aura? Are

0:43:34.480 --> 0:43:36.000
<v Speaker 1>My kids were like making fun of me for how

0:43:36.040 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>I say it?

0:43:36.600 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Aura? Aura? Aura? Yeah, okay aura.

0:43:39.440 --> 0:43:43.240
<v Speaker 1>The first one is negative aura or plus one thousand aura.

0:43:43.880 --> 0:43:48.600
<v Speaker 1>Let's say someone trips, that's negative aura. If someone scores

0:43:48.640 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 1>a half court shot backwards, that's plus one thousand ora.

0:43:51.760 --> 0:43:54.799
<v Speaker 2>Yes, aura. Yes.

0:43:55.960 --> 0:43:59.040
<v Speaker 1>The next word is huzz. I've never heard this one.

0:43:59.480 --> 0:44:02.520
<v Speaker 1>Huzz is basically the person you're trying to impress, like

0:44:02.600 --> 0:44:03.440
<v Speaker 1>a crush.

0:44:03.400 --> 0:44:08.960
<v Speaker 2>Oh like your husband? Oh I guess so yeah. You

0:44:09.000 --> 0:44:12.880
<v Speaker 2>can also use fine ship, fine ship. That's like oh yeah, no, no,

0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:16.279
<v Speaker 2>like I've heard you know this. Oh well, they that's

0:44:16.360 --> 0:44:19.000
<v Speaker 2>my fine ship. Well they had to not say ship,

0:44:19.080 --> 0:44:19.600
<v Speaker 2>but yeah.

0:44:19.400 --> 0:44:22.960
<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's like your girlfriend a boyfriend. Who isn't your

0:44:23.000 --> 0:44:24.120
<v Speaker 1>girlfriend a boyfriend yet?

0:44:24.280 --> 0:44:26.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? But they you know, they want to acknowledge that

0:44:26.360 --> 0:44:29.279
<v Speaker 2>that's some fine ship, right, yeah, okay, okay, So if

0:44:29.280 --> 0:44:31.000
<v Speaker 2>they don't say ship to you. What are they say?

0:44:31.560 --> 0:44:35.640
<v Speaker 2>They they were telling me a story and they said fine,

0:44:35.680 --> 0:44:37.879
<v Speaker 2>and then they spelled it out. Okay, yeah, okay.

0:44:38.239 --> 0:44:42.080
<v Speaker 1>The last word is nonchalant, probably the most popular word

0:44:42.200 --> 0:44:44.800
<v Speaker 1>right now. It means calm, referring to a person or

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:48.040
<v Speaker 1>doing something without difficulty, like Robin is pretty nonchalant in

0:44:48.120 --> 0:44:50.440
<v Speaker 1>my opinion, Love y'all and Love Y'all's podcast.

0:44:50.800 --> 0:44:53.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So slang, that's that's not slang, that's that's ye.

0:44:53.840 --> 0:44:55.640
<v Speaker 2>But I guess they're words. I guess they're using it

0:44:55.800 --> 0:44:59.480
<v Speaker 2>more often now. Okay. So Grace the other day was like, man,

0:44:59.640 --> 0:45:01.160
<v Speaker 2>you need to say who is you?

0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:03.560
<v Speaker 1>What? No?

0:45:03.840 --> 0:45:06.719
<v Speaker 2>Who is you? Like if somebody's talking and you don't

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:08.160
<v Speaker 2>want to listen to what they have to say, you

0:45:08.280 --> 0:45:10.000
<v Speaker 2>just look at him and say who is you? Who

0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:10.320
<v Speaker 2>is you?

0:45:10.520 --> 0:45:11.080
<v Speaker 1>Who is you?

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:15.000
<v Speaker 2>And I was like, did she learn that down in

0:45:15.040 --> 0:45:18.520
<v Speaker 2>the South? I'm sure? And Grace watched Batty Batties Shot

0:45:18.560 --> 0:45:21.080
<v Speaker 2>a Clock all the time. She'd be watching Africa Batties, Batties,

0:45:21.840 --> 0:45:25.279
<v Speaker 2>Batties going Wild. She loved it. Oh lord there. I

0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:28.520
<v Speaker 2>don't know where she got the subscription prescription whatever for

0:45:28.520 --> 0:45:30.160
<v Speaker 2>the Zoos channel. I don't know where she got the

0:45:30.200 --> 0:45:33.560
<v Speaker 2>money for that, but she I think she's hacking somebody's anyway.

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:36.040
<v Speaker 2>She said, if I don't want to hear somebody talking,

0:45:36.120 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 2>I need to look at him and say who is you?

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:40.000
<v Speaker 2>Who is you? And I need to say it like that.

0:45:40.120 --> 0:45:42.200
<v Speaker 2>She made me practice in the mirror. Who is you?

0:45:44.440 --> 0:45:46.320
<v Speaker 2>All right? Sorry? So are you going to use that

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<v Speaker 2>on someone? Oh? Maybe? All right, all right, let's use it. Okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I can deliver it well, but okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So a question that now we're referring to the fine shit, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>so your girls don't curse around you?

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<v Speaker 2>Right? They ask for permission? Oh they do, yeah, and

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<v Speaker 2>then they say the word yes. If they asked me

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<v Speaker 2>for permission and I say okay, they said they will say.

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<v Speaker 1>The word okay, yeah okay. So like apparently a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of these parents are like letting their kids like kids

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<v Speaker 1>just curse all the time. Yeah, Like I always hear it.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of my my kids are on they have a

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<v Speaker 1>bunch of friends on a group chat. They always like

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<v Speaker 1>on FaceTime. It might be like fifteen kids at one time.

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<v Speaker 2>And those kids just are like cursing up a store, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>talking crazy, yeah, and.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, and so I'm like, Corey and Carter, I

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<v Speaker 1>know y'all don't talk like that, like you know, and

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<v Speaker 1>so did they say no or yes? They say no,

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<v Speaker 1>and like Carter will tell, He'll he'll tell if you know,

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<v Speaker 1>if he had to, But the friends say they don't

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<v Speaker 1>talk like that either. We ask the friends like they

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<v Speaker 1>talk like this to y'all. They like, so, no, they

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<v Speaker 1>know better, they know better, they know better. But I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>and even the other day, we were at Corey's basketball

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<v Speaker 1>practice and Wyam was talking to one of the players.

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<v Speaker 1>He's like a soop a rising soft more right, and

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<v Speaker 1>he was asking about like this team that he had

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<v Speaker 1>played on before, and he's like, yeah, their dog shit.

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<v Speaker 2>And I was like, oh what the hell. Mom was

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<v Speaker 2>like what right. I'm like, my kids, Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 2>there's no kids that will ever cuss in front of me.

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<v Speaker 2>And it's so funny because there's there have been times

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<v Speaker 2>where like one of their girlfriends will call and they're

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<v Speaker 2>upset about something and they're just going on a rant

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<v Speaker 2>and then like, my kids will be like, well, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>sitting here with my mom right. They're mortified. They're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>so yeah, they're not they're not doing that around the parents,

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<v Speaker 2>So I appreciate that that's a respect there, right exactly, Yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, I'm like, no, like y'all, y'all, you

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<v Speaker 1>can't curse around me, and you can't curse outside of us,

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<v Speaker 1>Like you can't curse with your friends, like because they're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna make that happen.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, yeah, because you gotta. I always tell

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<v Speaker 2>my kids, like, well, what you're gonna say in the

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<v Speaker 2>interview when you're trying to get a job ship damn

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