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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Jaselle Bryant.

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Speaker 2: So what's up. I'm Robin Dixon. Thank you for being

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Speaker 2: here with us once once again, we end wilding and

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Speaker 2: downloads straw and count and go Dune. Okay, anyway, enough

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Speaker 2: of all that. Okay, I have a shady moment. What

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Speaker 2: is it? So do you ever watch the View? And

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Speaker 2: it's towards the end of the show they're like, view

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Speaker 2: your deal, yes okay, and they always have things that

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Speaker 2: you need or know you needed, right, and it's at

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Speaker 2: a discount yes, okay. So they had this.

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Speaker 1: Pillow okay that I purchased, Okay, the one like so

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Speaker 1: your face doesn't touch anything?

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Speaker 2: No, it has a curve in it. Okay, right, so

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Speaker 2: what do you mean your face doesn't touch anything? It's

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Speaker 2: like so you're.

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Speaker 1: So you know, like they say, like when you sleep,

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Speaker 1: if you sleep with your face like on your pillow,

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Speaker 1: like you're you're gonna make yourself more wrinkle.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna like mess your face up. Okay.

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Speaker 1: So like the pillow is it kind of like elevates

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Speaker 1: your head so that you don't touch Oh really, Oh

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Speaker 1: I might need to get that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, this this is not the one I bought it, Okay.

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Speaker 2: The one I bought is I think the draw was

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Speaker 2: whatever it's made out of maybe it's like a foam material, okay,

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Speaker 2: and it has it's like kind of moon shaped a

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Speaker 2: little bit. Yeah, what was the purpose, like, what was

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Speaker 2: the reason for it or the benefit or the why listen,

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Speaker 2: why did you my neck hurt? Okay, So I don't

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Speaker 2: know why it was. It had been working fine, but

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Speaker 2: now my neck hurts. So this pillow was a problem.

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Speaker 2: Why did you buy it? Oh? I bought it because

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Speaker 2: I just needed I just feel because they were set.

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Speaker 2: They sold me. They said, you know, every now and again,

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Speaker 2: you got to change your pillow. So I'm like, okay,

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Speaker 2: let me change my pillow. And I did, And now

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Speaker 2: I got to.

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Speaker 1: Clok one of those phone. It's like memory phone, I think.

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Speaker 1: So those are that's too Yeah, those hurt.

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Speaker 2: I don't like those. But it's not a hard memory phone.

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Speaker 2: It's like a soft memory phone. But the pillow is

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Speaker 2: a problem. I gotta cook in my neck and the

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Speaker 2: pillow is shady. So if I knew the brand, I

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Speaker 2: would tell you, But I can't remember the brand.

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Speaker 1: Okay, you got it a discount at least off at least.

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Speaker 2: So I'm not mad at it. But like waking up

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Speaker 2: in your neck hurts. Oh, yeah is the worst. Oh

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Speaker 2: that is the worst. Yeah, that's been happening too too

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Speaker 2: many days. So this pillow got to go, all right,

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Speaker 2: the pillow gotta go. Yeah, no more pillow pillow out

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Speaker 2: of here. Although there are.

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Speaker 1: Good things that you can buy from those those little

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Speaker 1: deal Oh, I get stuff from them all the time.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. The GMA has good ones. Oh I've never seen them.

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Speaker 2: Day show has good ones. Okay, Yeah, I'm here for the.

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Speaker 1: Even if you miss it on the shows, Like you

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Speaker 1: could just go on like the website, yes and go

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Speaker 1: to it. Yeah, like what you can totally discount.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I've bought plenty thing, but the pillow. It's

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Speaker 2: the problem. I used to be a big home Shopping

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Speaker 2: And then you get the ship and you're like, why

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Speaker 2: jewelry on there? No? I feel like they always make

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Speaker 2: the jewel Now I've never bought I've never bought anything

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Speaker 2: and I've gone to that channel, all the jewelry looks spectacular,

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Speaker 2: Like they put so many lights on that stuff. The

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Speaker 2: just one blank. It's blink not bling bling. Because who

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Speaker 2: used to be on there lot?

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Speaker 1: Oh Mariah Carey. Yeah, I wonder if she's still on there.

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Speaker 1: She had like her whole like butterfly jewelry line.

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Speaker 2: Oh I can imagine that. Yeah. Yeah, speaking of Mariah Carey, Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she has a new song, a new song. Have you

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Speaker 2: heard it? A little bit of it? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I like her a snippet and I turned Yeah, I

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Speaker 2: I think Mariah is catfishing us. She's catfishing in her voice,

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Speaker 2: Like Mariah, that doesn't sound like you. Really, it's like

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Speaker 2: Say oh and you just Mariah, just girl sing, exercise

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Speaker 2: the vocals because you have them.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, well, okay, and we're gonna get trash

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Speaker 2: because the Mariah Carey fans are ruthless. We're about to

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Speaker 2: get trashed, yeah, because they're because like Beyonce fans are

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Speaker 2: sick of you, so they don't even trash us anymore.

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Speaker 1: But like Mariah fans are gonna come strong. I just

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Speaker 1: feel like Mariah, like, we don't need new music from Mariah.

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Speaker 2: No, we don't. We have enough. Yes, she has like.

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Speaker 1: Great hits, great classics, and if she was to try

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Speaker 1: to like modern like she would and that's just like

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Speaker 1: what she shouldn't do. Although I like her little dum

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Speaker 1: who was it the Emancipation of Me Me?

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Speaker 2: That album?

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Speaker 2: Actually? Do you? I think you're the only one. I

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Speaker 2: don't What was on that? What like you gotta shake

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay, yeah that was I think that's

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Speaker 2: the right album? Like that album was?

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Speaker 1: It was?

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Speaker 2: She had a bunch of hits on that album. I

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Speaker 2: think she was trying to collect some checks before November

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Speaker 2: because you know, come November, it's her season. Okay, she's

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Speaker 2: just trying to collect couple of jets.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, But we don't need new music

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Speaker 1: from Mariah. We just need Mariah to sing her classics, hits,

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Speaker 1: need anything new. And we love you Mariah. Yeah yeah, yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: moving on, what were we talking about?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Your shady moment. Shady moment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so this morning, I'm in the bed, you know,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to get them to school. And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: is that why you were late starting the podcast, Robin?

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Speaker 2: Because you were late? That could have been my shady moment.

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Speaker 1: No, that's not why I was late. I was late

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Speaker 1: because one in the shower and I needed to get

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I wan let me in the house. No,

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Speaker 2: I know he and he was down here in the office.

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Speaker 1: I know, but but but I when he was in

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Speaker 2: Got it, you know, I don't y'all just going there together.

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Speaker 2: He was talking on the phone in the shower, and like,

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Speaker 2: why why, how how can he talk on the phone

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Speaker 2: in the shower? He like, brings his phone in the shower.

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Speaker 2: I understand that, but won't he get want to mess.

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Speaker 1: Up your phone because it puts it on a he

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Speaker 1: gets it out of the way, Okay, but still it's

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Speaker 1: just he was just doing too much and so he

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Speaker 1: just like messed me up.

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Speaker 2: So AnyWho, okay, you're forgiving anywhere. I'm in the bed

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Speaker 2: and all of a sudden, i just hear all this

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Speaker 2: yelling like and I'm like, you know, I'm like, oh

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Speaker 2: my god, what is happening? What is going on?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: And I'm like listening and I just hear like and

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Speaker 2: then you can hear him say word.

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Speaker 1: It's like Michael Jordan, Kevin Duran, Carmelo, what's happening. He's

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Speaker 1: on the phone debating basketball with his friend and he's

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Speaker 1: I'm like thinking that he is there. There's like a problem.

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Speaker 1: They're like, we're like, rufe, is someone broke into the house.

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Speaker 1: Someone like he just got some really bad news. I

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Speaker 1: don't know, but I'm like, dude, you cannot be debating

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Speaker 1: the phone with your friend at seven in the morning.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, what time was?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Seven?

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Speaker 2: Come on? Come on, one knows your sleep? What do

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Speaker 2: you I'm sleep, Cory sleep hard sleep? What is one

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Speaker 2: doing up? Why doesn't he sleep? Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: Yes, I'm like, this is crazy. And you know his

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Speaker 1: voice carries, so he didn't even know he's that loud.

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Speaker 1: And then it'll have the AirPod in so he's even louder.

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Speaker 1: I was just like, this is nuts, nuts, I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: something serious is happening.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay. So I wanted to read a post that

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Speaker 2: I saw that I appreciate, and it's with our beloved

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Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Miami, Marisol and Alexia. And I think

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Speaker 2: she's giving Alexia. Marissol's giving Alexia some advice what she

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Speaker 2: does all the time. And she says, sometimes what's right

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Speaker 2: for the whole ain't right for the soul. Okay, that

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Speaker 2: is worse to live by. So what's but what is okay?

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Speaker 2: What's right for the whole? Yeah? Meaning what like vagina?

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Speaker 2: Is that like the h O L E? Not the

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Speaker 2: w h O L E? Yes? Oh yes, yeah, what's

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Speaker 2: right for the yeah? H it right for the soul?

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Speaker 2: Oh that's funny that yes, yes, that is very true,

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Speaker 2: very true. This is words to live on? Did he somebody? Yeah? So, ladies,

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Speaker 2: just you know, take that to heart. So what is

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Speaker 2: the what?

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Speaker 1: So Alexia has divorced her husband, but they got back

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Speaker 1: to get back together, Like, what's I don't know where

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Speaker 1: the status is right now.

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Speaker 2: And you know that what she's referring to is I

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Speaker 2: do believe this is what she's referring to. I think

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Speaker 2: they're getting raised to air or they are they airing now?

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Speaker 2: I think they must have aired I saw, Yeah, So

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Speaker 2: I think we'll find out more as a season. Okay airs, okay, Okay.

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Speaker 2: Another thing I wanted to share with you. Interesting this

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Speaker 2: lady says, can black people weigh in on this? Is

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Speaker 2: that true? Do y'all rent out the pot? And is

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Speaker 2: for me, Robin, but through you, but for me. Okay, Okay, Equinox,

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Speaker 2: we know Robin. If there is a class action, Robin

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Speaker 2: They need? Seventy five dollars, two thousand dollars.

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Speaker 2: Then this is this a little post. It says, where

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Speaker 1: No, no, you don't deserve who voted who voted because

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Speaker 2: Their their skin tone is like it's transparent. It's okay.

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Speaker 1: No, all the comments are like, y'all lying at ain't

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Speaker 2: we know Amy from Annapolis. She said I got engaged

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Speaker 1: Congratulations Amy, Yes, exciting. So there is a oh no,

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Speaker 1: Because yeah, like your guests don't know that like something

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Speaker 1: Pressured to do that if that's not what's like in

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Speaker 2: So when you envision what you.

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Speaker 2: gonna give on your nerves. Yes, and he doesn't know

429
00:21:47,680 --> 00:21:50,120
Speaker 2: what the hell he's talking about, and it ain't about him, right,

430
00:21:50,240 --> 00:21:51,840
Speaker 2: All I gotta do is put on some clothes and

431
00:21:51,880 --> 00:21:55,040
Speaker 2: show up, get a haircut. That's it. It's so funny.

432
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:57,639
Speaker 1: When I was planning our weddings, both of them, like,

433
00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:01,000
Speaker 1: I was always surprised that want actually had like an opinion.

434
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 2: I'm like, wait, huh, you actually you want to know

435
00:22:04,400 --> 00:22:05,440
Speaker 2: about this? Like you care?

436
00:22:05,920 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 1: I was like, I would be so surprised, like no, what,

437
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:13,080
Speaker 1: And then sometimes I'm like, but I will say sometimes

438
00:22:13,119 --> 00:22:16,400
Speaker 1: he actually did have a good opinion or a good perspective,

439
00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:20,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, Okay, so don't listen listen to Jazelle,

440
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 1: save yourself some stress. If your fiance wants to be involved.

441
00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,080
Speaker 1: You know, that's a that's something you can bond over,

442
00:22:29,560 --> 00:22:33,920
Speaker 1: that's something that you all can have fun doing. So

443
00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:35,679
Speaker 1: don't completely shut him out.

444
00:22:36,040 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 2: Don't make him feel like it's not about him, because

445
00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:42,000
Speaker 2: it's about both of y'all. Don't let his family talk.

446
00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,480
Speaker 2: Don't let his mama take over. Okay, Oh my god,

447
00:22:49,520 --> 00:22:50,480
Speaker 2: there's so many notes.

448
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:53,520
Speaker 1: Right, so you're getting all the shady answers from Gazelle

449
00:22:53,920 --> 00:22:55,359
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to give you the real one.

450
00:22:56,400 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, don't dual plan whether it's like a day away, like,

451
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:05,639
Speaker 2: do plan to do something right after? Yeah? Yeah, just

452
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 2: the two of you. Yes, even if it's like it

453
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 2: didn't have to cost anything, Like even if it's just

454
00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:13,359
Speaker 2: you know, y'all go down the street to a local something,

455
00:23:13,680 --> 00:23:16,280
Speaker 2: just do that, right, Yeah, because y'all, y'all need to

456
00:23:16,320 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: debrief and y'all need to have your moment and you

457
00:23:18,200 --> 00:23:23,840
Speaker 2: need to, like, you know, just start your marriage off together. Yes, yeah,

458
00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:24,760
Speaker 2: I agree. Oh.

459
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:28,960
Speaker 1: One thing, so at your wedding, make sure I mean this,

460
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,320
Speaker 1: if this is important to you, this was very important

461
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,520
Speaker 1: to me. Make sure you actually take the time to

462
00:23:33,560 --> 00:23:34,800
Speaker 1: sit and eat your food.

463
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 2: Because you paid for it. That's true. You know that

464
00:23:39,200 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 2: is true.

465
00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:42,520
Speaker 1: And a lot of times at weddings the bride and

466
00:23:42,800 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: the bride and groom gets all caught up with like

467
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: saying hi to people or being being interrupted taking pictures,

468
00:23:48,880 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: are just always doing something like for me, I was like,

469
00:23:52,080 --> 00:23:56,320
Speaker 1: I am eating my food. We know, I sat at

470
00:23:56,359 --> 00:23:59,879
Speaker 1: the table. Was one there he started he walked around.

471
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 2: Okay, and Rob was like, I'm gonna get my all

472
00:24:02,400 --> 00:24:02,800
Speaker 2: my food.

473
00:24:03,040 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 1: So just make sure you eat your food, drink drink

474
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: your drinks, eat your cake, all of that, like the

475
00:24:07,800 --> 00:24:13,240
Speaker 1: stuff that you spent time debating on, deliberating on, like,

476
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 1: enjoy it.

477
00:24:14,000 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 2: True, don't I had another don't shoot? What was my

478
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:26,480
Speaker 2: don't okay you said eat the food. I can't remember,

479
00:24:26,640 --> 00:24:30,480
Speaker 2: but enjoy it like it Hopefully it will only happen

480
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:34,239
Speaker 2: one time. And you know, make sure that you pay

481
00:24:34,240 --> 00:24:39,120
Speaker 2: attention to yourself, don't get stressed out, have your music, yes,

482
00:24:39,520 --> 00:24:42,520
Speaker 2: and just you know, live your life accordingly. Yes, and

483
00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 2: don't listen to anybody like do what you want. Oh,

484
00:24:44,720 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 2: don't be telling all your girlfriends like like have them

485
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 2: weighing in, like what do you think about this? What

486
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,239
Speaker 2: do you think about that? Like weigh in? Like how

487
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,320
Speaker 2: much they weigh Oh, no, weigh in on your decision

488
00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:58,960
Speaker 2: making process. Yes, like no, you this is this is

489
00:24:59,040 --> 00:25:03,360
Speaker 2: about you and what you want, so like their opinions

490
00:25:03,440 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 2: really don't matter. Yeah.

491
00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, And you're going to find that there are so

492
00:25:07,560 --> 00:25:10,080
Speaker 1: many options out there, one hundred million are You're gonna

493
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:11,119
Speaker 1: be confused and.

494
00:25:11,160 --> 00:25:11,880
Speaker 2: You might change.

495
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:14,199
Speaker 1: You might go back and forth. You might first say, oh,

496
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,679
Speaker 1: I want a country wedding, and the next you want

497
00:25:16,720 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: a modern wedding, and the next you want I don't

498
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:22,399
Speaker 1: know or whatever. You want a purple theme, then you

499
00:25:22,440 --> 00:25:24,600
Speaker 1: want a green theme. Like you're gonna be all over

500
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 1: the place. So yeah, try to just really like like

501
00:25:30,720 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 1: have a vision in your head and stick to it.

502
00:25:32,840 --> 00:25:36,600
Speaker 2: Stick to it. Don't do this without a prenup because

503
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,000
Speaker 2: I don't care. If you have three dollars and he

504
00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:40,760
Speaker 2: has fourteen cents, you're gonna get that prenup and you're

505
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:42,440
Speaker 2: gonna have him sign it. Because what George is yours,

506
00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 2: what's his is his? Or what's yourge is yours? And

507
00:25:45,119 --> 00:25:47,200
Speaker 2: what's his is yours? Figure it out. Just get a

508
00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:54,280
Speaker 2: clean up. Okay, yes, anyway, So enjoy it and you

509
00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:56,760
Speaker 2: deserve it all all the things and I kind of

510
00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 2: want to say no, I do yeah, I do want

511
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 2: to say, do do it? Do get married? Okay you

512
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 2: got one? Yeah? All right?

513
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:07,840
Speaker 1: Ready, so this is funny, all right? So this is

514
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:11,440
Speaker 1: from Jenny. Hey, Jenny, Jenny Linel. She said, high ladies,

515
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: before I ask my shady question, I do want to

516
00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,840
Speaker 1: take a moment and tell you guys that I have

517
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: been loving the podcast.

518
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 2: I crack up every morning driving to work. Thank you, Jenny.

519
00:26:19,720 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 1: You guys are hilarious. I live for the pod. Also, Gizelle,

520
00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,240
Speaker 1: I'm loving the Love Hotel.

521
00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:24,960
Speaker 2: Oh great.

522
00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,200
Speaker 1: I don't know why Shannon was crying so much over

523
00:26:27,320 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: Earle and Giselle go after while at Ashley clearly is

524
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: playing and yes, girl, get Phil. He has some coins

525
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 1: in the bank, mister double r. So then she says, okay,

526
00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,160
Speaker 1: let me get to the serious part of this message.

527
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:45,280
Speaker 1: Since the Christlies have been released from jail and we

528
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:51,080
Speaker 1: know that they did it, should we or should I say,

529
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:54,320
Speaker 1: I write a letter to Donnie asking him to release

530
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: Karen because we know she needs her weight glue. The

531
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,840
Speaker 1: botox might have shifted by now and she needs to

532
00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 1: come to glow thirty. No, but in all seriousness, I

533
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:06,120
Speaker 1: think it's time she's out of there.

534
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:07,119
Speaker 2: Is this too shady?

535
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 1: No?

536
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:12,120
Speaker 2: A concerned fan of rhops. I'm actually feel I feel

537
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 2: the same way. I mean, like, Karen's been in jail

538
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: long enough, like she learned her lesson? Get her out

539
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:17,399
Speaker 2: of there? Does she learn it?

540
00:27:17,480 --> 00:27:17,800
Speaker 1: You think? So?

541
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:20,359
Speaker 2: She's been in there for like, how long has she

542
00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: been in there for? Now? Was it like the end

543
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:23,920
Speaker 2: of February that she went in? Okay, it's just like

544
00:27:24,000 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 2: three months, right, that's all for four months? Three and

545
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:30,159
Speaker 2: a half months, A long time. I just feel like

546
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:32,320
Speaker 2: I thought about it the other day. I'm like, get

547
00:27:32,400 --> 00:27:34,440
Speaker 2: Caring out of jail, Like she didn't learn whatever lesson

548
00:27:34,440 --> 00:27:36,440
Speaker 2: we're supposed to learn here. She't gonna do it again.

549
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:41,200
Speaker 2: Get out of jail, please, so I know, yes, so, yes,

550
00:27:41,320 --> 00:27:43,880
Speaker 2: I'm with whoever this is, what's your name? I'm with Jenny, Jenny,

551
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,320
Speaker 2: I'm with you. Get Caring out of jail. And yes,

552
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,640
Speaker 2: the botox has shifted in her as well. The hair

553
00:27:48,760 --> 00:27:51,360
Speaker 2: needs a cooth. That's just that'll be a sight to see. Yeah,

554
00:27:51,400 --> 00:27:53,239
Speaker 2: I don't want to see it. Get Stephen and all

555
00:27:53,240 --> 00:27:55,800
Speaker 2: of the people together with her first, and then I'm

556
00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,560
Speaker 2: gonna come over there and give care some love because

557
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 2: like whoa baby be?

558
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 1: Okay, but by the way, the president cannot get Karen

559
00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:06,840
Speaker 1: out of jail.

560
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:09,920
Speaker 2: Oh why not? Because it's all state? Yeah, okay, And

561
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,440
Speaker 2: did you see Katie was asking? Was like, oh my gosh,

562
00:28:12,480 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 2: I should.

563
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: Yes.

564
00:28:13,880 --> 00:28:16,960
Speaker 2: First of all, Katie Ross, you don't know Donald Trump

565
00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 2: or anyone that knows him, right, Well, maybe you do.

566
00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 2: I don't know. She might who knows, Katie? Katie be

567
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 2: doing the most out here. Okay, loves her attention, she does.

568
00:28:29,400 --> 00:28:31,240
Speaker 2: So Katie clipped this that we just talked about you

569
00:28:31,400 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 2: and put it on your put it on your Instagram. Honey,

570
00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 2: you're welcome. Okay. So this is from Alberta and she says,

571
00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 2: my husband has told me that he doesn't believe in

572
00:28:42,520 --> 00:28:46,480
Speaker 2: happy wife, happy life. After all our time together, he

573
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 2: says this, And now what do I do, Alberta? I

574
00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 2: need more information. I know I'm just not enough. I

575
00:28:55,280 --> 00:29:00,280
Speaker 2: need more information, right, because like, is he what else

576
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 2: is going on here? Yes? Is was he showing you

577
00:29:03,440 --> 00:29:06,760
Speaker 2: that he doesn't believe in this? Is he just saying it?

578
00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:11,400
Speaker 2: I need more information? Yes? Are you not being treated well? Alberta?

579
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 2: Send us more information? In the streets. Is he in

580
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 2: these mean streets? Okay?

581
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 1: But let's set us up all right. So he doesn't

582
00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,160
Speaker 1: believe in happy wife, happy life. Yeah, so that means

583
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:25,880
Speaker 1: he doesn't care in making you happy, or he doesn't.

584
00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 2: Believe that if he makes her happy, it's going to

585
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 2: make his life better, right right? So all of it,

586
00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 2: all of it. I need more information, Like what is

587
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:38,480
Speaker 2: this man doing? We need more? Yeah, okay, we need more. Okay.

588
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:44,000
Speaker 1: So this is from Katie from Canada. She said, good morning,

589
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: my friends. I haven't even finished today's episode in Sensitive Biscuits,

590
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:50,480
Speaker 1: but you had me.

591
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 2: In tears over here and not in a good way,

592
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:54,680
Speaker 2: and I need it to let you know.

593
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: Obviously, the question about if you had to lose your

594
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 1: memories from the past or the future is just meant

595
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:05,680
Speaker 1: to be thought provoking and couldn't happen. But once I

596
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:08,280
Speaker 1: started thinking about it, I had genuine anxiety.

597
00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:10,000
Speaker 2: Oh do you remember that topic?

598
00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 1: Derek Dash said in a question He was like, would

599
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:16,680
Speaker 1: you rather pretty much only have your memories from the

600
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:18,600
Speaker 1: past or only have your memories from the future?

601
00:30:19,080 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 2: Do you remember that? Okay? I remember that? And what

602
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:23,440
Speaker 2: did we say? We said? You said like future? Like

603
00:30:23,520 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 2: really quickly.

604
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 1: So, she says, my mother passed away from Alzheimer's in

605
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 1: December twenty eighteen.

606
00:30:29,280 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 2: I was forty three.

607
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,040
Speaker 1: I would give anything not to lose my memories of

608
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 1: her and the amazing woman that she was. On the

609
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: flip side, I have six children aged fourteen to twenty seven.

610
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: I need to see their futures, their weddings, their babies, etc.

611
00:30:44,480 --> 00:30:46,480
Speaker 1: This morning, just the act of thinking of which to

612
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,560
Speaker 1: lose nearly did me in. I was surprised that Sheaselle

613
00:30:49,560 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: said the future so quickly. What about her memories of

614
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 1: her father? Oh, I'm getting anxiety just writing this. Also,

615
00:30:56,560 --> 00:30:58,880
Speaker 1: that is a shit song. It is thank you, thank

616
00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 1: you anyway, just my perspective, so you can share in

617
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:03,520
Speaker 1: my anxiety.

618
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 2: Lol. Lots of love.

619
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: So yeah, dang, we didn't like think that deep about it.

620
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: I didn't. Yeah, we just kind of like said, we

621
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:12,160
Speaker 2: said we moved.

622
00:31:12,000 --> 00:31:16,320
Speaker 1: On, right, But she is right, Yes, a very tough question,

623
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: and right, like do you don't if we If you

624
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:22,479
Speaker 1: lose memories of your past, you lose memories of all

625
00:31:22,480 --> 00:31:25,880
Speaker 1: the people that came before you. Or if you lose

626
00:31:25,960 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 1: memories of the future, then you don't know what, Like

627
00:31:27,760 --> 00:31:29,200
Speaker 1: you don't see what your kids are up to.

628
00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, and how do you like that question?

629
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:31,440
Speaker 1: Yeah?

630
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:36,400
Speaker 2: You ask. You can't make new memories, right, so we're

631
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:39,520
Speaker 2: just gonna act like that never happened. I know, I think.

632
00:31:39,560 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 2: I mean, if like, if I had to pick one,

633
00:31:42,000 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 2: I think it would still be I think. Yeah, I

634
00:31:48,880 --> 00:31:51,720
Speaker 2: think the future. I just think when you're like, because

635
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:55,040
Speaker 2: how depressing would your future be if you didn't have

636
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,880
Speaker 2: the ability to remember it. That's that's depressing. So yeah,

637
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:01,000
Speaker 2: I'm going with the future. But that is very sad,

638
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:11,560
Speaker 2: sad question. Yeah, thank you. This is from Carly, not

639
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:17,120
Speaker 2: our Carly. Carly, Hi, ladies, please help. I've been a

640
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 2: part of the Shady Bunch reasonably shadester since episode one

641
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:24,400
Speaker 2: and wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, we do.

642
00:32:25,400 --> 00:32:28,000
Speaker 2: I recently took a Monday off. Instead of listening to

643
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:30,880
Speaker 2: the podcast to make an hour past, I decided to

644
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 2: watch the YouTube video. Okay, so everybody need to be

645
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:40,080
Speaker 2: watching on YouTube Okay. Biggest mistake ever. I didn't realize

646
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,040
Speaker 2: how much I'd miss seeing Robin's face you guys, chemistry,

647
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:49,800
Speaker 2: and that I'd enjoy watching versus listening. Should I keep

648
00:32:49,840 --> 00:32:52,800
Speaker 2: listening or start watching? And Gazelle you can't say both

649
00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:01,600
Speaker 2: with love, Carly, Okay, So question I can say. I mean,

650
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:04,360
Speaker 2: it's obvious, like, if you watch it, there's so much

651
00:33:04,480 --> 00:33:07,480
Speaker 2: more that you can that makes more sense. Right, you

652
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 2: can see our facial expressions, you can see our dynamic

653
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:11,960
Speaker 2: blah blah blahlah right, soaring.

654
00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:15,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So I think if you have time, yes, watch it,

655
00:33:15,880 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: watch it. Okay, yeah, yeah I agree.

656
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 2: But if not, if you just like if you're moving around,

657
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:23,680
Speaker 2: if you're in the office or whatever, you can only

658
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:27,120
Speaker 2: like just listen, then then obviously just listen. But yeah,

659
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,360
Speaker 2: but I think watching it should be your first choice. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

660
00:33:30,400 --> 00:33:35,160
Speaker 2: I agree. Okay, we figured it out, Carly or Carly both?

661
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 2: What you said, I shouldn't say both, right, dude.

662
00:33:41,360 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: Like listen to it in the car and then watch

663
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 1: it while you're, like, you know, around the house.

664
00:33:45,800 --> 00:33:47,840
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, yeah, I love that. Yeah all that.

665
00:33:48,040 --> 00:33:51,640
Speaker 1: Okay, get the double double double. All right, this is

666
00:33:51,680 --> 00:33:55,000
Speaker 1: a good question, she said, Please don't use my name. Okay, So,

667
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:57,920
Speaker 1: hi ladies. I am in my mid forties and have

668
00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:02,680
Speaker 1: no children. I am very sixful. I love to travel shop,

669
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 1: she said, think lux bags and jewelry and eat good food.

670
00:34:06,400 --> 00:34:06,720
Speaker 2: Me too.

671
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:09,400
Speaker 1: The problem is I don't have any friends who can

672
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 1: afford to do with a lot of a lot of

673
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:14,680
Speaker 1: the things I like to do. Where can I meet

674
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:18,160
Speaker 1: other successful women to hang out with? It's so difficult

675
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: making friends when you don't have kids. Love the show,

676
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 1: Thank you.

677
00:34:21,920 --> 00:34:22,680
Speaker 2: That's a great question.

678
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:27,600
Speaker 1: So I would say, you know, it's hard because I

679
00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,560
Speaker 1: have kids, and so a lot of my life is

680
00:34:30,640 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: centered around the kids. And a lot of the women

681
00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 1: I meet, you know kids or friend you know they're

682
00:34:36,400 --> 00:34:39,600
Speaker 1: their kids are friends with my kids and the basketball gyms. Yeah,

683
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:43,319
Speaker 1: but I would think try a traveling club like there

684
00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:46,239
Speaker 1: are Yeah, so there I've heard of like a lot

685
00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:49,800
Speaker 1: of different travel agents or travel clubs for you know,

686
00:34:50,440 --> 00:34:53,640
Speaker 1: women who like to travel, and you can probably pick

687
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,359
Speaker 1: the level of the trip so that you know, like, Okay,

688
00:34:56,400 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: if I'm going on this lux trip, then you're going

689
00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 1: to be around women that can probably afford the lifestyle.

690
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:04,200
Speaker 2: That you live. Yes, I like that. I didn't even

691
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 2: think about that. Yeah, or even try like.

692
00:35:05,880 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: A retreat like a you know, yoga retreat type of situation,

693
00:35:09,880 --> 00:35:12,960
Speaker 1: like at a high end place. But then I guess

694
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 1: if you do like the travel club or if you

695
00:35:14,719 --> 00:35:17,239
Speaker 1: do something like those people aren't local, so you really

696
00:35:17,360 --> 00:35:20,120
Speaker 1: just have to kind of travel to be around them.

697
00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you gotta get to know them. Yeah. Yeah, they're

698
00:35:23,280 --> 00:35:25,640
Speaker 2: not like your girlfriends that you've been knowing forever. Yeah.

699
00:35:25,760 --> 00:35:27,759
Speaker 2: There's also like you know, if you're part of a gym,

700
00:35:28,080 --> 00:35:31,880
Speaker 2: like because my one of my fitness instructors, he does this,

701
00:35:32,640 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: I think like every six months, like he'll he'll put

702
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,920
Speaker 2: together a trip and it's like a workout slash just

703
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:40,160
Speaker 2: like a venture trip. So like the last time they

704
00:35:40,200 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: did it, they went to Nicaragua, They're going to Bali.

705
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:46,600
Speaker 2: Like they're very high end trips. So yeah, I think

706
00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:48,839
Speaker 2: if you really put your mind to it, you can

707
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 2: figure it out in your environment alrighty.

708
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,840
Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, Like if you look up so you like

709
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: luxury stuff so and high end stuff, so go to

710
00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:03,600
Speaker 1: high end gym, high end lounges or high end hotels,

711
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,839
Speaker 1: you know, and then just find the people that kind

712
00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:08,879
Speaker 1: of congregate there.

713
00:36:09,239 --> 00:36:13,000
Speaker 2: But it is difficult to find like rich people that

714
00:36:13,120 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 2: know how to rich write right, and who are who

715
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 2: you want to be around because you know who and

716
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:22,239
Speaker 2: who don't have kids and who don't have kids. Yeah,

717
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 2: that's I think that's the part that's Yeah, that's the

718
00:36:25,760 --> 00:36:28,960
Speaker 2: part that kind of makes it difficult because it's ship.

719
00:36:29,040 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 2: They can have kids, but they also want to well well.

720
00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 1: Well, okay, don't have kids that they have that kind

721
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:37,160
Speaker 1: of like take up their It depends on how old

722
00:36:37,160 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: their kids are, right, Okay, So if they have kids

723
00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:41,200
Speaker 1: that are older, out of the house, grown, blah blah blah,

724
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,799
Speaker 1: then cool. You know what's her name, but she's well,

725
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:44,839
Speaker 1: she didn't want me to say her.

726
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,840
Speaker 2: Oh that's right. Okay, whatever your name is, count me in.

727
00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:50,200
Speaker 2: I'm coming, yeah, because I got some I got a

728
00:36:50,200 --> 00:36:52,239
Speaker 2: little cash in my pocket, and my kids, you know,

729
00:36:52,520 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 2: I can leave them they're done. So yeah, okay, so

730
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: you just found a friend, just so yay, nice, Okay.

731
00:36:59,640 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 2: So hey, hey ladies, this is from Tiffany. I've been

732
00:37:03,080 --> 00:37:06,799
Speaker 2: Day one fans. Day one is in Bold. I've been

733
00:37:06,920 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 2: a Day one. Hey. Thanks. I've watched every single episode

734
00:37:11,520 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 2: of The Housewives potomach and listened to every episode of

735
00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:16,280
Speaker 2: Reasonably Shady, and some of them twice.

736
00:37:16,480 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 1: Whooa.

737
00:37:17,440 --> 00:37:17,920
Speaker 2: I love that.

738
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,960
Speaker 1: Yes, you need to listen to them twice and watch

739
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,000
Speaker 1: you otherwise otherwise you ain't really a fan, right.

740
00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,239
Speaker 2: You both? Sincerely brighten up my mondays I just have

741
00:37:30,400 --> 00:37:32,960
Speaker 2: to write in and say thank you, especially to Robin.

742
00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 2: I took your advice and actually filled out one of

743
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:41,360
Speaker 2: those random settlement forms come in the mail and guess what.

744
00:37:41,920 --> 00:37:48,520
Speaker 2: Drum roll please, I got a check WHOA for twenty

745
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:53,040
Speaker 2: one dollars woo and sixty five cents. Oh, thank you, Robin, Yes,

746
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:57,840
Speaker 2: love you ball. Here's to lunch on me. And that

747
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,719
Speaker 2: was from Tiffany. Okay, so twenty one dollars. I wonder

748
00:38:01,760 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 2: how long it took her to fill out those forms.

749
00:38:04,520 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 2: Five minutes. I doubt it if that could have taken

750
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,000
Speaker 2: her longer. No, okay, so I was worth it. I

751
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:13,040
Speaker 2: guess it is. Yeah, okay, that's that's lunch. That's like, listen,

752
00:38:13,080 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 2: I'm about to get something from equinox. So I'm good.

753
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:16,880
Speaker 2: I was about to shoot me.

754
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 1: At check, run me my money, all right. This one

755
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: is from John Reed. He says happy June teenth and

756
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 1: Pride month. Yes, happy Pride, yes.

757
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,600
Speaker 2: Yes, especially Juneteenth. Yes, yeah, we don't get our love.

758
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:32,560
Speaker 2: I know.

759
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,440
Speaker 1: Okay, because they're trying to like, did Trump take that

760
00:38:36,520 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 1: holiday away?

761
00:38:37,200 --> 00:38:42,160
Speaker 2: Is that no longer a federal holiday? Veterans Day, Memorial Day? Juneteenth?

762
00:38:42,320 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 2: All of them throw them in the change can.

763
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:47,239
Speaker 1: He said that to Veterans Day Memorial's Day too, Okay,

764
00:38:47,280 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: I might be making that up, Okay, but I think he.

765
00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 2: Did say Veterans Day, he said he. I think he

766
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 2: want to call it Trump Day something something crazy. Oh God,

767
00:38:53,800 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 2: ok I can't wait for this to be over.

768
00:38:57,280 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: It is entertaining, though it's I'm not entertained, no longer

769
00:39:00,560 --> 00:39:03,239
Speaker 1: entertained by this foolishness because it's just like you think

770
00:39:03,320 --> 00:39:06,360
Speaker 1: this so the people of this country and this country

771
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:08,400
Speaker 1: is a joke to him. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, and

772
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:12,920
Speaker 1: leave Gaven alone. Just leave Gavon alone. Oh oh my gosh. Yeah.

773
00:39:13,160 --> 00:39:14,400
Speaker 2: Anyway, moving on, So.

774
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: John says, I was just curious, speaking of Pride Month,

775
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: who do you consider your gay icons?

776
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:20,600
Speaker 2: Oh?

777
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 1: Mine would be Mariah Carey whate that?

778
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:27,720
Speaker 2: And I don't understand it. What do you mean gay right? Okay?

779
00:39:28,400 --> 00:39:31,000
Speaker 2: Or she's like but she's like a champion for gay rights?

780
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:34,160
Speaker 2: So is that or is that like? Okay? So I

781
00:39:34,200 --> 00:39:38,799
Speaker 2: guess he means like who the gays love? He needs

782
00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:43,120
Speaker 2: to specify, because that's how's Mariah Carriyer gay a gay icon?

783
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 1: Right?

784
00:39:43,880 --> 00:39:46,799
Speaker 2: Because I'm thinking, make any sense? I need some specification.

785
00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:48,799
Speaker 1: She said, I've seen her live with My god Mom

786
00:39:48,840 --> 00:39:51,359
Speaker 1: and it was fabulous. She's rumored to show up late.

787
00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,760
Speaker 2: But she was right on time. We just trashed Mariah

788
00:39:54,840 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 2: five minutes ago in the same episode. Clearly trash Mariah.

789
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,880
Speaker 2: What's the same? He's not gonna be our friends anymore.

790
00:40:04,960 --> 00:40:06,560
Speaker 2: This is John read John, we love you.

791
00:40:06,800 --> 00:40:10,359
Speaker 1: So I guess John is saying, like, uh, they don't

792
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:14,280
Speaker 1: have to be gay, but they are like an artist

793
00:40:14,400 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: or a person that the gay community loves, like Share, yes,

794
00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:24,520
Speaker 1: like a share or Madonna okay or yeah, or Mariah Carey.

795
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 2: Or I want the person to be gay. Yeah. It's

796
00:40:29,239 --> 00:40:31,480
Speaker 2: kind of like drag queens. Like there's drag queen queen

797
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: icons by the way, yes, what is it? World Pride happens,

798
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:39,839
Speaker 2: and there there's the guy that owns tally Ho. Shout

799
00:40:39,880 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: out to tally Ho. If anybody who watched photomach Nos,

800
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,160
Speaker 2: that's Karen's diner that she loves and I love it too.

801
00:40:44,200 --> 00:40:45,960
Speaker 2: I go there with my children all the time.

802
00:40:47,000 --> 00:40:50,360
Speaker 1: They have wonderful donuts by the way, Okay, their chocolate

803
00:40:50,360 --> 00:40:51,160
Speaker 1: donut is to die for.

804
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 2: Okay. So he ran in about the drag queen. Oh gay,

805
00:40:56,960 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 2: I mean during World Pride. Oh nice, okay, and he

806
00:41:00,880 --> 00:41:04,200
Speaker 2: said something to the effect of, oh my gosh, yeah,

807
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:06,440
Speaker 2: I love like the Rospal's Potomac and Robin. You were

808
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:09,880
Speaker 2: fribbing he was, And Bob the Drag Queen said, he

809
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 2: you know what the real housepis Potomac was It acted

810
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,080
Speaker 2: like he ain't know who Robin was. Bob, have you

811
00:41:17,200 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 2: lost your mind? You did a goddamn show with Robin Dixon.

812
00:41:21,000 --> 00:41:23,640
Speaker 2: It was called Traders. Oh my god, and Bob, I'm

813
00:41:23,719 --> 00:41:27,480
Speaker 2: like one of your things? But should I be? And

814
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:29,080
Speaker 2: so the guy that said that to him and looked

815
00:41:29,120 --> 00:41:31,920
Speaker 2: at him like you know what I'm talking about? Like,

816
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 2: what are you doing? Maybe you had had one too

817
00:41:35,960 --> 00:41:38,160
Speaker 2: many to drink that day, Bob, I don't think he was.

818
00:41:39,680 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 2: He was in his glory mode. But even in your

819
00:41:42,040 --> 00:41:45,320
Speaker 2: glory and in your mom you're gonna deny Robin Dixon

820
00:41:46,000 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 2: and Potomac. What are you doing? I don't. I don't

821
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: think he watched Potomac. That's fine, but still like you

822
00:41:52,200 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 2: should kind of know of it now.

823
00:41:54,200 --> 00:42:00,480
Speaker 1: Hello, Bob the drag Queen. Okay, Oh so he was

824
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,520
Speaker 1: my gay icon. I take it back, Yeah, take it back,

825
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:07,800
Speaker 1: I take it. I like Chandela Chandela.

826
00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:11,000
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, we love her. Yeah, she's she's very good, yes,

827
00:42:11,280 --> 00:42:13,919
Speaker 2: very very good. Yeah, on top of her game. Okay,

828
00:42:13,920 --> 00:42:16,040
Speaker 2: we got we got top of one more, all right,

829
00:42:16,120 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 2: one more. Okay, this is from yat Nira.

830
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 1: Okay, she said, Hey, gurlies, I love, love, love watching

831
00:42:24,239 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 1: reasonably shady. Y'all are so funny and I love y'all's banter.

832
00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: So I'm watching Love Hotel right now, and I see

833
00:42:32,239 --> 00:42:35,800
Speaker 1: myself in you so much and me. Yes, yes, you

834
00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 1: know what you want and don't lower your expectations at

835
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,360
Speaker 1: all and talk to the.

836
00:42:40,400 --> 00:42:44,160
Speaker 2: Men as genuinely, genuinely you. Yep.

837
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:47,760
Speaker 1: I love how you talk back instead of just agreeing

838
00:42:47,840 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 1: with everything they say. I hate when girls just agree

839
00:42:50,400 --> 00:42:52,120
Speaker 1: with men just because, just because.

840
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:59,160
Speaker 2: Also, Earl is crazy for gas lighting Shannon. Earl over

841
00:42:59,200 --> 00:43:00,960
Speaker 2: here is saying shame. You were supposed to know the

842
00:43:01,000 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 2: trajectory of a hurricane and it it because of that.

843
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 2: You should have been with me, You should have supported me.

844
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:09,920
Speaker 2: You gotta watch that episode. Oh my god, hilarious. Okay,

845
00:43:10,280 --> 00:43:14,279
Speaker 2: oh my god, that's hilarious. Okay. Anyways, I love when

846
00:43:14,360 --> 00:43:16,600
Speaker 2: y'all use new slang. It's so funny.

847
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,319
Speaker 1: I'm an incoming sophomore in college right now, so I'm

848
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: pretty familiar with slang, and I wanted to teach.

849
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 2: Y'all some new words. Yes, give it to us, girl,

850
00:43:24,640 --> 00:43:26,520
Speaker 2: give it to him. Yes, okay, some new words so

851
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:27,759
Speaker 2: I can tell grace. Right.

852
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 1: The first one is negative aur, so a aura? Are

853
00:43:34,480 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: My kids were like making fun of me for how

854
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: I say it?

855
00:43:36,600 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: Aura? Aura? Aura? Yeah, okay aura.

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Speaker 1: The first one is negative aura or plus one thousand aura.

857
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Speaker 1: Let's say someone trips, that's negative aura. If someone scores

858
00:43:48,640 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 1: a half court shot backwards, that's plus one thousand ora.

859
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:54,799
Speaker 2: Yes, aura. Yes.

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00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 1: The next word is huzz. I've never heard this one.

861
00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,520
Speaker 1: Huzz is basically the person you're trying to impress, like

862
00:44:02,600 --> 00:44:03,440
Speaker 1: a crush.

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00:44:03,400 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: Oh like your husband? Oh I guess so yeah. You

864
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Speaker 2: can also use fine ship, fine ship. That's like oh yeah, no, no,

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00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:16,279
Speaker 2: like I've heard you know this. Oh well, they that's

866
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 2: my fine ship. Well they had to not say ship,

867
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:19,600
Speaker 2: but yeah.

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00:44:19,400 --> 00:44:22,960
Speaker 1: Okay, that's like your girlfriend a boyfriend. Who isn't your

869
00:44:23,000 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 1: girlfriend a boyfriend yet?

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00:44:24,280 --> 00:44:26,320
Speaker 2: Yeah? But they you know, they want to acknowledge that

871
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 2: that's some fine ship, right, yeah, okay, okay, So if

872
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 2: they don't say ship to you. What are they say?

873
00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:35,640
Speaker 2: They they were telling me a story and they said fine,

874
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:37,879
Speaker 2: and then they spelled it out. Okay, yeah, okay.

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00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:42,080
Speaker 1: The last word is nonchalant, probably the most popular word

876
00:44:42,200 --> 00:44:44,800
Speaker 1: right now. It means calm, referring to a person or

877
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: doing something without difficulty, like Robin is pretty nonchalant in

878
00:44:48,120 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: my opinion, Love y'all and Love Y'all's podcast.

879
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So slang, that's that's not slang, that's that's ye.

880
00:44:53,840 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 2: But I guess they're words. I guess they're using it

881
00:44:55,800 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 2: more often now. Okay. So Grace the other day was like, man,

882
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:01,160
Speaker 2: you need to say who is you?

883
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:03,560
Speaker 1: What? No?

884
00:45:03,840 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 2: Who is you? Like if somebody's talking and you don't

885
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 2: want to listen to what they have to say, you

886
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 2: just look at him and say who is you? Who

887
00:45:10,120 --> 00:45:10,320
Speaker 2: is you?

888
00:45:10,520 --> 00:45:11,080
Speaker 1: Who is you?

889
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 2: And I was like, did she learn that down in

890
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:18,520
Speaker 2: the South? I'm sure? And Grace watched Batty Batties Shot

891
00:45:18,560 --> 00:45:21,080
Speaker 2: a Clock all the time. She'd be watching Africa Batties, Batties,

892
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 2: Batties going Wild. She loved it. Oh lord there. I

893
00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:28,520
Speaker 2: don't know where she got the subscription prescription whatever for

894
00:45:28,520 --> 00:45:30,160
Speaker 2: the Zoos channel. I don't know where she got the

895
00:45:30,200 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 2: money for that, but she I think she's hacking somebody's anyway.

896
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 2: She said, if I don't want to hear somebody talking,

897
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 2: I need to look at him and say who is you?

898
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:40,000
Speaker 2: Who is you? And I need to say it like that.

899
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 2: She made me practice in the mirror. Who is you?

900
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,320
Speaker 2: All right? Sorry? So are you going to use that

901
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:49,919
Speaker 2: on someone? Oh? Maybe? All right, all right, let's use it. Okay.

902
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,880
Speaker 1: I don't know if I can deliver it well, but okay,

903
00:45:52,280 --> 00:45:56,400
Speaker 1: So a question that now we're referring to the fine shit, Like,

904
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,120
Speaker 1: so your girls don't curse around you?

905
00:45:58,360 --> 00:46:01,200
Speaker 2: Right? They ask for permission? Oh they do, yeah, and

906
00:46:01,280 --> 00:46:03,480
Speaker 2: then they say the word yes. If they asked me

907
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: for permission and I say okay, they said they will say.

908
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: The word okay, yeah okay. So like apparently a lot

909
00:46:08,640 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: of these parents are like letting their kids like kids

910
00:46:10,840 --> 00:46:14,000
Speaker 1: just curse all the time. Yeah, Like I always hear it.

911
00:46:14,040 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 1: Some of my my kids are on they have a

912
00:46:17,120 --> 00:46:19,520
Speaker 1: bunch of friends on a group chat. They always like

913
00:46:19,640 --> 00:46:23,200
Speaker 1: on FaceTime. It might be like fifteen kids at one time.

914
00:46:23,640 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 2: And those kids just are like cursing up a store, yeah,

915
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:27,759
Speaker 2: talking crazy, yeah, and.

916
00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, and so I'm like, Corey and Carter, I

917
00:46:30,400 --> 00:46:33,279
Speaker 1: know y'all don't talk like that, like you know, and

918
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 1: so did they say no or yes? They say no,

919
00:46:35,480 --> 00:46:39,160
Speaker 1: and like Carter will tell, He'll he'll tell if you know,

920
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: if he had to, But the friends say they don't

921
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,279
Speaker 1: talk like that either. We ask the friends like they

922
00:46:44,320 --> 00:46:46,400
Speaker 1: talk like this to y'all. They like, so, no, they

923
00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: know better, they know better, they know better. But I'm like,

924
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,880
Speaker 1: and even the other day, we were at Corey's basketball

925
00:46:52,960 --> 00:46:56,960
Speaker 1: practice and Wyam was talking to one of the players.

926
00:46:57,000 --> 00:47:01,719
Speaker 1: He's like a soop a rising soft more right, and

927
00:47:01,840 --> 00:47:03,799
Speaker 1: he was asking about like this team that he had

928
00:47:03,800 --> 00:47:06,360
Speaker 1: played on before, and he's like, yeah, their dog shit.

929
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, oh what the hell. Mom was

930
00:47:09,640 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 2: like what right. I'm like, my kids, Oh my god,

931
00:47:14,160 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 2: there's no kids that will ever cuss in front of me.

932
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:19,640
Speaker 2: And it's so funny because there's there have been times

933
00:47:19,680 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 2: where like one of their girlfriends will call and they're

934
00:47:22,960 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 2: upset about something and they're just going on a rant

935
00:47:25,200 --> 00:47:27,319
Speaker 2: and then like, my kids will be like, well, I'm

936
00:47:27,360 --> 00:47:32,080
Speaker 2: sitting here with my mom right. They're mortified. They're like, oh,

937
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:34,680
Speaker 2: so yeah, they're not they're not doing that around the parents,

938
00:47:35,200 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 2: So I appreciate that that's a respect there, right exactly, Yeah, exactly.

939
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 1: But I'm like, I'm like, no, like y'all, y'all, you

940
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 1: can't curse around me, and you can't curse outside of us,

941
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:48,719
Speaker 1: Like you can't curse with your friends, like because they're

942
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:49,640
Speaker 1: not gonna make that happen.

943
00:47:49,760 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, yeah, because you gotta. I always tell

944
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:53,279
Speaker 2: my kids, like, well, what you're gonna say in the

945
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,600
Speaker 2: interview when you're trying to get a job ship damn

946
00:48:00,160 --> 00:48:02,759
Speaker 2: all right, that is our episode, Joae. We love y'all

947
00:48:02,840 --> 00:48:08,040
Speaker 2: so much shit. Damn Yeah, did I never forget to

948
00:48:08,080 --> 00:48:10,919
Speaker 2: live your life? E The Reasonable or Shady or Boo

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Speaker 2: motherus Damn by Reasonably Shady is a production of the

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Speaker 2: Black Effect podcast Network.

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00:48:29,520 --> 00:48:31,120
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