Speaker 1: Hey, it's time for your brand new Second Date podcast.
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Speaker 1: before we get to this brand new Second Date, let's
Speaker 1: highlight some of our favorite comments of the week.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Zardrick commented and said, I found you guys on
Speaker 4: TikTok and I listen every day at work. Now makes
Speaker 4: it go by faster and I giggle to myself in
Speaker 4: my cubicle.
Speaker 5: My coworkers probably think I'm a mania.
Speaker 6: I love it, and yes they think that.
Speaker 2: No good point, Jose. All right, let's get this show started.
Speaker 6: Second Date up Date in the entertainment industry. It's all
Speaker 6: about good branding, Oh yeah, for sure.
Speaker 7: And that's why today we're turning our second date update
Speaker 7: into a second date yupdate, trying to get a guy
Speaker 7: to say yep to a second meeting.
Speaker 2: What branding is that, It's.
Speaker 6: Called good branding.
Speaker 7: And I've already got our digital team recutting all of
Speaker 7: the station promos. And by digital team, I mean the
Speaker 7: one guy who still works here.
Speaker 6: So thanks, Seth.
Speaker 7: But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful yupper of
Speaker 7: the day, goes on Jessica. Welcome to the show. I
Speaker 7: apologize for all the negativity in the room.
Speaker 2: Not against you, just against Jeffrey.
Speaker 3: Just so you know, Hi, guys, thanks for having me.
Speaker 6: Can we call her?
Speaker 2: Yes, Jeffrey, I kind of make that back.
Speaker 7: Absolutely can, If that's okay with you, Yessica for your updated.
Speaker 6: Stuff.
Speaker 2: Have you hung up yet?
Speaker 3: I'm sorry?
Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, gotcha, I'm sorry to Let's go.
Speaker 7: Let's start with an easy question. Who's the guy that
Speaker 7: you want us to call today?
Speaker 3: So his name is Patrick. Okay, we met on a
Speaker 3: dating app. I've never been on a dating app before,
Speaker 3: so this is my first time.
Speaker 2: That's your very first date from a dating app.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so
Speaker 3: many like messages from people and it's like hun goods.
Speaker 2: Wow. Was that overwhelming?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like weep
Speaker 3: through all of that, and so when I saw this
Speaker 3: guy Patrick message to me, it was like super normal.
Speaker 3: He asked me, just was like, hey, how are you?
Speaker 3: Wasn't anything about like a physical appearance, so it wasn't creepy.
Speaker 2: It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it does say like new to the app.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so the algorithm really does that.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, okay, so you were attracted to his normalness.
Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. And we went to this restaurant that was
Speaker 3: really nice.
Speaker 1: What were you feeling going into this because you ever
Speaker 1: even been on a blind date before. I mean, I mean,
Speaker 1: I know you can see people's pictures and shouting them,
Speaker 1: but you don't really know what to expect, right, Yeah.
Speaker 3: I was absolutely nervous because I normally want to do
Speaker 3: things with my dog happy happy ta f f y.
Speaker 7: Which makes jose happy just thinking about Okay, sorry, how
Speaker 7: did we get onto her dog?
Speaker 1: She normally goes places with her dog and I'm guessing
Speaker 1: you didn't bring your dog to the restaurant, So.
Speaker 3: I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at the
Speaker 3: restaurant in the woods and patio seating.
Speaker 7: Oh, I thought you were going to put your dog
Speaker 7: inside of like a sweater and like do the thing
Speaker 7: where people stack on top of each other, and then
Speaker 7: your dog could sit in the restaurant like eating.
Speaker 6: Parts of her steak through the buttons. Yeah, and that
Speaker 6: would have been cute. But I guess a little distracting
Speaker 6: for the date.
Speaker 2: Was that hard for you not to bring your dog?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 3: I mean I love my dog, so I was thinking
Speaker 3: about her a lot and so on the date. It
Speaker 3: was so fun, but I kept like kind of thinking
Speaker 3: about home. So I was like getting distracted during the conversation.
Speaker 3: For example, I love to read and my favorite series
Speaker 3: is Harry Potter, and he and I was like, I'm
Speaker 3: reading the series again, so we were talking about it.
Speaker 3: It was just so nice, but I kept thinking about Tappy.
Speaker 1: Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about
Speaker 1: your dog?
Speaker 3: I mean, I think a little bit, because he had
Speaker 3: to repeat the question a few times that he.
Speaker 2: Had, so that's interesting.
Speaker 1: I wonder if he thought you were distracted or just
Speaker 1: like airheady me.
Speaker 2: I don't know. I redes that insult. You just hadn't
Speaker 2: mean to insult you.
Speaker 3: I don't think it was airheady. I think I was
Speaker 3: just like kind of like floating. I was just a
Speaker 3: little distracted.
Speaker 6: I wouldn't balloon minded.
Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, this second date yupdate is definitely turning kind
Speaker 7: of dark.
Speaker 6: Let's bring the yuppie mood back in.
Speaker 5: Okay.
Speaker 6: I did, and I apologize. See look at this, this
Speaker 6: is what I'm talking about positive energy.
Speaker 1: And you're just asking if he thought that maybe she
Speaker 1: was a little spacey and not really because he didn't
Speaker 1: realize she was thinking about her dog.
Speaker 5: Did you talk about your dog a lot?
Speaker 3: Like?
Speaker 8: Oh yeah, did you.
Speaker 6: Bring it up at all?
Speaker 3: I mean I talked about Hafy a little bit, but
Speaker 3: I tried not to make it a whole conversation.
Speaker 7: Okay, So, just to recap, you're on your first time
Speaker 7: on a date through a dating app. You're feeling a
Speaker 7: little bit nervous, you keep thinking about your dog, talking
Speaker 7: about Harry Potter a lot, missing some of his questions.
Speaker 7: So far, it's going okay, how does the date end?
Speaker 3: So at the end of the date. I once to
Speaker 3: use the restroom and he was like getting the check,
Speaker 3: and when I came back from the restroom, he was gone,
Speaker 3: and we left me in oh saying sorry, No, that
Speaker 3: is a terrible first the whole day.
Speaker 6: Let's give him a little bit of credit. Was there
Speaker 6: at least a sad face at the end of sorry?
Speaker 6: Make it kind of cute? There wasn't hard. I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Why would you want to get a hold of this
Speaker 1: guy again? He ditched you at the end of the day.
Speaker 8: Honestly, now you want to know why he ditched me
Speaker 8: because everything seemed to be going great, And honestly, Lexus,
Speaker 8: I really want your feedback on.
Speaker 3: This because I feel like you know men, and you know,
Speaker 3: like I feel like you can really help.
Speaker 6: You think she knows men men? Okay, yeah she does? Yeah, yeah, Lexus,
Speaker 6: what do you have to say about that?
Speaker 5: Experts today.
Speaker 2: Boundary?
Speaker 3: So what do you think of Lexis?
Speaker 8: Why do you think she left me?
Speaker 6: Yeah?
Speaker 4: Share your wisdom, you know, I need a few minutes
Speaker 4: to think about it.
Speaker 5: I got to do some study.
Speaker 2: She's the one that all of her friends go to
Speaker 2: for advice. Obviously.
Speaker 7: Yeah, they're still waiting on that advice.
Speaker 5: Some of them, but TikTok answers.
Speaker 7: We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you
Speaker 7: when we come back, call Patrick and try to get
Speaker 7: you your second date, yup date and have him say
Speaker 7: yup to another meet up Yessica, it's happening.
Speaker 6: Right after this second date update.
Speaker 7: If you're just joining us, We've been talking to a
Speaker 7: young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped
Speaker 7: her toe into the pool of dating apps, got hundreds
Speaker 7: of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one
Speaker 7: who seems to be the most normal god.
Speaker 2: And if this is the most normal, then she's doomed.
Speaker 6: Ye world.
Speaker 5: That was such a terrible.
Speaker 2: End to a date.
Speaker 7: His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end
Speaker 7: because she got ditched by him at the restaurant.
Speaker 9: He actually ditched came back to the table from a
Speaker 9: to a note.
Speaker 7: It's so rude, so rude, absolutely, but broo, can we
Speaker 7: at least say it's impressive that he knows how to
Speaker 7: write something by hand?
Speaker 6: Can we give him.
Speaker 2: That it wasn't a full sentence?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 2: Did it have any punctuations?
Speaker 6: That's why he only wrote one word because doesn't know
Speaker 6: how to write.
Speaker 7: A sentence that's possible. There's a few questions. Was there
Speaker 7: any punctuation on it?
Speaker 2: No, man, an exclamation mark would have made it feel worse.
Speaker 7: But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and
Speaker 7: she's looking towards a gen Z hero for answers here.
Speaker 7: I think it's safe to say she wants you very,
Speaker 7: very involved in this call, Alexis.
Speaker 10: As do we're talking about you're the gen Z here.
Speaker 10: We're talking about any more thoughts now that you've had
Speaker 10: time to TikTok about why this guy ditched on Jessica, you.
Speaker 2: Really got nothing.
Speaker 6: Let's play more music.
Speaker 5: It could be anything. It could be her zoning out.
Speaker 5: It could be she likes Harry Potter.
Speaker 4: Okay, the odds of the dating world, your first date
Speaker 4: probably isn't gonna be good.
Speaker 2: On a dating app.
Speaker 6: Okay.
Speaker 3: I just appreciate Alexis being open to helping me.
Speaker 5: I don't know that I have a choice, but yes
Speaker 5: I have.
Speaker 7: Alexis is going to take a very active role in
Speaker 7: getting answers out of this guy. Let's call him and
Speaker 7: hopefully he picks up. But here we go, Hello, Hey,
Speaker 7: is this Patrick?
Speaker 6: Missus?
Speaker 9: Patrick?
Speaker 6: A man.
Speaker 7: Thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're called
Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 6: What's up man, Good morning?
Speaker 9: Uh, Okay, alexis we have we have a bunch of
Speaker 9: questions that we would like to ask you about a
Speaker 9: woman that you went out with recently.
Speaker 6: Her name is Jessica.
Speaker 11: What.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's part of a segment that we do called
Speaker 7: a second Date Update. So alexis taken from.
Speaker 4: Here now with somebody and you're super rude at the end.
Speaker 4: Actually you need to explain yourself.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're trying to get him to open up.
Speaker 5: I would love to hear.
Speaker 10: You.
Speaker 4: I'm sure you have a great reason that I will
Speaker 4: totally side with you.
Speaker 2: Okay, did you hear that? Patrick?
Speaker 5: Do you know what she's talking about?
Speaker 9: I'm I'm like totally confused. What are you talking about?
Speaker 11: Okay, maybe I'll explain and then I'll talk about So
Speaker 11: this girl, Jessica emailed us because she told us about
Speaker 11: your date at the restaurant and she is very confused
Speaker 11: why you ditched her halfway through with no explanation, just
Speaker 11: left about that said sorry it was the end, but yeah.
Speaker 9: Yeah, it was at the end of the night. And
Speaker 9: there was no, hope, So I just left to know.
Speaker 2: I got to say, though, man, that's pretty rude.
Speaker 9: Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her
Speaker 9: phone the entire time, and then just a year into
Speaker 9: the bathroom and.
Speaker 2: Then what disappeared to the bathroom.
Speaker 9: Yeah, she disappeared to the bathroom for like thirty minutes.
Speaker 5: Whoat.
Speaker 6: Oh wow, that's a long time.
Speaker 9: I'm exaggerating a little bit. I mean it was like
Speaker 9: ten minutes, but it felt like thirty.
Speaker 2: Okay, now I'm starting to think it was two minutes.
Speaker 5: Yeah, a long time.
Speaker 2: But there's a line like you don't know, yeah.
Speaker 8: No, No.
Speaker 9: She was like she is obsessed with her dog, and
Speaker 9: it was like she would rather have been with her dog,
Speaker 9: and so I was like, you know what, I'm just
Speaker 9: gonna leave so she can hang out with her dog.
Speaker 5: I mean, wouldn't most people rather be with their own
Speaker 5: pet in the first day.
Speaker 6: I mean, but her dog's not even there.
Speaker 9: So like the whole night, she's like on her phone
Speaker 9: and she was trying to like put it to the
Speaker 9: side so I wouldn't notice. But she did it so
Speaker 9: much within like the first five minutes of us meeting
Speaker 9: that I asked her if she was all right. Oh,
Speaker 9: and she was like, Okay, here's the deal. I have
Speaker 9: a dog cracker app and this is the first time
Speaker 9: I've been away from taffy or whatever dogs made.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Doesn't that make you feel better though, because in that moment,
Speaker 1: now she's being open with you, and she's feeling like
Speaker 1: it's almost like an apology, like I am so sorry
Speaker 1: that I was on my phone.
Speaker 9: It's kind of cute. But she had it set for
Speaker 9: this like bark alert, so when it would bark, her
Speaker 9: phone would buzz. That's an Yeah. I was like, okay, well,
Speaker 9: maybe you should turn that off during the dinner, And
Speaker 9: like a few minutes later, she like pulls out her
Speaker 9: phone and she's like, oh my god, look happy sniffing
Speaker 9: the room, bud. That means she's anxious. It means just
Speaker 9: what anxious anxious?
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, oh, my friends had pet cameras
Speaker 4: had to delete it because of it.
Speaker 5: It's so sad all the time. Yeah.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and you would always distract them so they got
Speaker 4: rid of their ass.
Speaker 1: Obviously your day is just having separation enxiety herself, you know,
Speaker 1: and the dog seems.
Speaker 6: Like it's fine.
Speaker 9: Well exactly, And then she goes to the bathroom, and
Speaker 9: she was gone for such a long time that I
Speaker 9: actually thought she ditched me.
Speaker 1: Oh, had to go check on her dog or something.
Speaker 9: Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl
Speaker 9: came out and I was like, Hey, have you seen
Speaker 9: this woman in the bathroom. She's about this high, has
Speaker 9: this color hair, and she was like, oh, yeah, she's
Speaker 9: in there facetiming her dog.
Speaker 6: Okay, oh, I get that, baby.
Speaker 4: She had a dog the car you can talk to
Speaker 4: there we go, So you.
Speaker 2: Your little dog.
Speaker 7: Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That
Speaker 7: gives us a little bit more of a scope about
Speaker 7: what was going on, at least from your side of it.
Speaker 6: And now you probably need to hear.
Speaker 7: Jessica's side of it because she is on the other
Speaker 7: line listening right now.
Speaker 6: And what does she want to do, Alexis I actually
Speaker 6: know what.
Speaker 5: She wants anymore? Get answers?
Speaker 2: They usually want to want to talk to each other.
Speaker 5: Yes, I'll start there.
Speaker 6: It's Jessica on the other line.
Speaker 3: If she's there, Jessica, Hey, Patrick, Hey, what's up. Oh?
Speaker 3: I know it was just kind of weird, but like
Speaker 3: I know, all that stuff did happen. But yes, is
Speaker 3: that really a reason to like get you?
Speaker 8: Yeah?
Speaker 9: I mean I didn't know how long you were going
Speaker 9: to be in the bathroom facetiming with Taffy, and I
Speaker 9: was just like it was just frustrating. Like I get
Speaker 9: it's hard to leave a pet at home, but like,
Speaker 9: come on, it's not like the dog's in danger.
Speaker 3: Well you could have like messaged me after.
Speaker 9: Okay, that's fair. I could have messaged you after. But
Speaker 9: I was just like, I don't know, I was just
Speaker 9: so turned off. I kind of just was like, forget
Speaker 9: about it.
Speaker 2: It hurts.
Speaker 7: I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a
Speaker 7: date and the girl is not paying attention to me
Speaker 7: the entire time, I'm going to start to feel like
Speaker 7: she doesn't really like me.
Speaker 1: It wasn't the entire time, he said, there was twenty
Speaker 1: minutes in between.
Speaker 2: The phone and then her explaining, and then she.
Speaker 1: Would like at least she tried to take the FaceTime
Speaker 1: call away from the table.
Speaker 2: I don't know, like, why didn't he bring it up.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you say, hey, you're kind of hurting my
Speaker 1: let's go back to your house and hang out your dog.
Speaker 9: I just don't understand why we can't just decide to
Speaker 9: go on a date and be with the other person
Speaker 9: instead of being on our phones and.
Speaker 7: Child Well, yeah, sorry, you should ignore your children if
Speaker 7: they're trying to interrupt you in the middle of a
Speaker 7: hot date.
Speaker 6: That's really rue.
Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, I don't answer, they're car Maybe if she
Speaker 1: gets a second child then she'll care less. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: just think maybe next time, if you're that worried about it, Jessica,
Speaker 1: you can just find a dog sitter.
Speaker 2: But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the
Speaker 2: end of the night. I'm with you on that one.
Speaker 3: I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really
Speaker 3: like to hear what alexis.
Speaker 4: I think it did not warrant him to leave you
Speaker 4: a note like that at the end of the day.
Speaker 6: Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis,
Speaker 6: You're welcome. Okay, So so wait, are we not going
Speaker 6: to tell her but in the future, maybe pay more attention.
Speaker 5: I think she should bring the dog to a dog
Speaker 5: friendly place.
Speaker 6: That could be a good day. I mean, that's all
Speaker 6: always an option.
Speaker 7: And look, Patrick, if you're willing to give her another chance,
Speaker 7: we would pay for it.
Speaker 1: I mean, it would be good to try her out
Speaker 1: with the dog to see if she's as distracted if
Speaker 1: the dog's with her.
Speaker 7: Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why
Speaker 7: you should say yes right now.
Speaker 5: Because Tavy's obviously cute.
Speaker 6: That's obvious.
Speaker 5: You owe her.
Speaker 6: Did you say one? And then b what's your second?
Speaker 5: Watch out doing this right now?
Speaker 6: I mean you can't say no that that logic.
Speaker 9: I am, I'm out. I'm out.
Speaker 8: I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I just.
Speaker 9: Jessica is too high strung for me. I just it's
Speaker 9: not going to work.
Speaker 10: Oh man, oh my god, Patrick, thanks so much like
Speaker 10: for telling me the truth.
Speaker 3: Now I know why. I mean, I can just get
Speaker 3: back to the hundreds of other messages I got.
Speaker 9: You got hundreds, Okay, I don't think it's that much.
Speaker 6: Hey, if there's plenty of fish, it's definitely that much.
Speaker 1: She was in the back him for thirty minutes and
Speaker 1: it turned out to be ten. So I don't think
Speaker 1: we're judging your numbers.
Speaker 9: That's actually fair.
Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning, I.
Speaker 6: Can't believe we didn't get a yes for that.
Speaker 7: I thought for sure they'd be able to figure out
Speaker 7: a compromise between the two.
Speaker 2: I almost didn't think it was that big of a deal.
Speaker 1: Like, no, I mean, I agree with him that people
Speaker 1: should be able to just be on a date, for sure,
Speaker 1: but like there was no middle ground for either of them, right.
Speaker 7: I mean, she was a little bit stressed out being
Speaker 7: away from her cat for the first time.
Speaker 6: That's sorry, dog for the first time.
Speaker 7: That's totally understandable, And it's also understandable that he wants
Speaker 7: to have a girl pay attention to day. But you know,
Speaker 7: in strange, confusing times like this, I'm just so thankful
Speaker 7: that we have Alexis to help us make.
Speaker 6: Sense of everything.
Speaker 5: What would you guys do without me?
Speaker 6: And that I know Alexis share your wisdom. Please? Why
Speaker 6: is the dating world like this right now?
Speaker 4: Because people are people and that's how deep.
Speaker 2: You're just peopled so hard.
Speaker 6: I feel so much better now, Thank you, Alexi.
Speaker 9: Instead of emailing us African and Jeffery, just email Alexis
Speaker 9: your second date updates from now on.
Speaker 5: I don't email.
Speaker 6: Whatever you gotta do, Gross.
Speaker 7: Just reach out to the show in whatever way, and
Speaker 7: Alexis can save you.
Speaker 3: In your DAT.
Speaker 1: You don't have a success yet, but she will it's
Speaker 1: gonna happen.
Speaker 6: That's right, they didn't say no.
Speaker 7: Manifest that positivity and go check out all of our
Speaker 7: podcasts wherever you get yours, Abroke and Jeffrey