WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Yup Date for Jessica 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.720 Hey, it's time for your brand new Second Date podcast. 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:05.600 It's Burke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and just a reminder, 0:00:06.200 --> 0:00:08.240 you got two days left to get your merch for 0:00:08.280 --> 0:00:11.119 a cause orders in and get that second Date swag 0:00:12.119 --> 0:00:13.800 pro seas go to Convoy of Hope. 0:00:13.840 --> 0:00:16.400 And I gotta say the design is so cool. 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Now makes 0:00:46.200 --> 0:00:48.240 it go by faster and I giggle to myself in 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:48.919 my cubicle. 0:00:48.960 --> 0:00:50.520 My coworkers probably think I'm a mania. 0:00:51.840 --> 0:00:54.440 I love it, and yes they think that. 0:00:54.640 --> 0:00:57.640 No good point, Jose. All right, let's get this show started. 0:00:58.640 --> 0:01:03.200 Second Date up Date in the entertainment industry. It's all 0:01:03.240 --> 0:01:05.720 about good branding, Oh yeah, for sure. 0:01:05.800 --> 0:01:08.360 And that's why today we're turning our second date update 0:01:08.640 --> 0:01:12.560 into a second date yupdate, trying to get a guy 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:15.199 to say yep to a second meeting. 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:17.440 What branding is that, It's. 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:18.000 Called good branding. 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.399 And I've already got our digital team recutting all of 0:01:20.440 --> 0:01:23.800 the station promos. And by digital team, I mean the 0:01:23.800 --> 0:01:25.360 one guy who still works here. 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:26.119 So thanks, Seth. 0:01:26.600 --> 0:01:29.920 But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful yupper of 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:34.800 the day, goes on Jessica. Welcome to the show. I 0:01:34.840 --> 0:01:36.720 apologize for all the negativity in the room. 0:01:37.000 --> 0:01:38.920 Not against you, just against Jeffrey. 0:01:39.000 --> 0:01:42.640 Just so you know, Hi, guys, thanks for having me. 0:01:44.560 --> 0:01:45.399 Can we call her? 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:47.840 Yes, Jeffrey, I kind of make that back. 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:58.280 Absolutely can, If that's okay with you, Yessica for your updated. 0:01:57.760 --> 0:01:58.040 Stuff. 0:01:58.240 --> 0:01:59.200 Have you hung up yet? 0:01:59.840 --> 0:02:00.480 I'm sorry? 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:03.440 Okay, Okay, gotcha, I'm sorry to Let's go. 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:06.400 Let's start with an easy question. Who's the guy that 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:07.600 you want us to call today? 0:02:08.080 --> 0:02:11.760 So his name is Patrick. Okay, we met on a 0:02:11.840 --> 0:02:14.040 dating app. I've never been on a dating app before, 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:15.359 so this is my first time. 0:02:15.720 --> 0:02:17.720 That's your very first date from a dating app. 0:02:18.360 --> 0:02:20.240 Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:24.679 many like messages from people and it's like hun goods. 0:02:24.840 --> 0:02:26.519 Wow. Was that overwhelming? 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:27.440 Yeah? 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:31.240 Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like weep 0:02:31.280 --> 0:02:33.480 through all of that, and so when I saw this 0:02:33.520 --> 0:02:36.320 guy Patrick message to me, it was like super normal. 0:02:36.919 --> 0:02:39.040 He asked me, just was like, hey, how are you? 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:42.200 Wasn't anything about like a physical appearance, so it wasn't creepy. 0:02:42.560 --> 0:02:44.440 It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat. 0:02:44.720 --> 0:02:46.679 Yeah, it does say like new to the app. 0:02:47.639 --> 0:02:50.880 Yeah, so the algorithm really does that. 0:02:51.080 --> 0:02:57.519 Yeah yeah, okay, so you were attracted to his normalness. 0:02:57.320 --> 0:03:00.760 Yeah, definitely. And we went to this restaurant that was 0:03:00.840 --> 0:03:01.440 really nice. 0:03:01.520 --> 0:03:03.600 What were you feeling going into this because you ever 0:03:03.639 --> 0:03:06.079 even been on a blind date before. I mean, I mean, 0:03:06.080 --> 0:03:08.880 I know you can see people's pictures and shouting them, 0:03:08.919 --> 0:03:12.040 but you don't really know what to expect, right, Yeah. 0:03:12.040 --> 0:03:15.000 I was absolutely nervous because I normally want to do 0:03:15.120 --> 0:03:25.639 things with my dog happy happy ta f f y. 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:28.240 Which makes jose happy just thinking about Okay, sorry, how 0:03:28.240 --> 0:03:29.240 did we get onto her dog? 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:32.040 She normally goes places with her dog and I'm guessing 0:03:32.080 --> 0:03:34.200 you didn't bring your dog to the restaurant, So. 0:03:34.440 --> 0:03:36.560 I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at the 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.480 restaurant in the woods and patio seating. 0:03:39.440 --> 0:03:42.360 Oh, I thought you were going to put your dog 0:03:42.440 --> 0:03:44.280 inside of like a sweater and like do the thing 0:03:44.320 --> 0:03:46.280 where people stack on top of each other, and then 0:03:46.320 --> 0:03:48.720 your dog could sit in the restaurant like eating. 0:03:48.480 --> 0:03:50.600 Parts of her steak through the buttons. Yeah, and that 0:03:50.640 --> 0:03:52.720 would have been cute. But I guess a little distracting 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:53.200 for the date. 0:03:53.520 --> 0:03:55.240 Was that hard for you not to bring your dog? 0:03:56.200 --> 0:03:56.440 Yeah? 0:03:56.600 --> 0:03:58.280 I mean I love my dog, so I was thinking 0:03:58.320 --> 0:04:02.240 about her a lot and so on the date. It 0:04:02.360 --> 0:04:04.560 was so fun, but I kept like kind of thinking 0:04:04.560 --> 0:04:08.600 about home. So I was like getting distracted during the conversation. 0:04:09.800 --> 0:04:12.840 For example, I love to read and my favorite series 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:16.560 is Harry Potter, and he and I was like, I'm 0:04:16.600 --> 0:04:19.120 reading the series again, so we were talking about it. 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:22.200 It was just so nice, but I kept thinking about Tappy. 0:04:24.320 --> 0:04:27.600 Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about 0:04:27.600 --> 0:04:27.960 your dog? 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:31.120 I mean, I think a little bit, because he had 0:04:31.160 --> 0:04:33.240 to repeat the question a few times that he. 0:04:33.279 --> 0:04:36.920 Had, so that's interesting. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:38.560 I wonder if he thought you were distracted or just 0:04:38.600 --> 0:04:42.440 like airheady me. 0:04:45.320 --> 0:04:47.760 I don't know. I redes that insult. You just hadn't 0:04:47.760 --> 0:04:49.520 mean to insult you. 0:04:51.120 --> 0:04:53.159 I don't think it was airheady. I think I was 0:04:53.240 --> 0:04:55.560 just like kind of like floating. I was just a 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:56.560 little distracted. 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:01.080 I wouldn't balloon minded. 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:04.680 Yeah, okay, this second date yupdate is definitely turning kind 0:05:04.680 --> 0:05:06.440 of dark. 0:05:07.160 --> 0:05:08.839 Let's bring the yuppie mood back in. 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:11.159 Okay. 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:14.680 I did, and I apologize. See look at this, this 0:05:14.839 --> 0:05:17.839 is what I'm talking about positive energy. 0:05:17.839 --> 0:05:20.200 And you're just asking if he thought that maybe she 0:05:20.360 --> 0:05:22.960 was a little spacey and not really because he didn't 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:24.760 realize she was thinking about her dog. 0:05:24.920 --> 0:05:26.200 Did you talk about your dog a lot? 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:26.479 Like? 0:05:27.080 --> 0:05:27.920 Oh yeah, did you. 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:28.520 Bring it up at all? 0:05:28.720 --> 0:05:31.599 I mean I talked about Hafy a little bit, but 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:33.640 I tried not to make it a whole conversation. 0:05:34.440 --> 0:05:37.359 Okay, So, just to recap, you're on your first time 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.240 on a date through a dating app. You're feeling a 0:05:39.279 --> 0:05:42.760 little bit nervous, you keep thinking about your dog, talking 0:05:42.760 --> 0:05:45.320 about Harry Potter a lot, missing some of his questions. 0:05:45.800 --> 0:05:49.360 So far, it's going okay, how does the date end? 0:05:50.279 --> 0:05:52.360 So at the end of the date. I once to 0:05:52.440 --> 0:05:55.000 use the restroom and he was like getting the check, 0:05:55.839 --> 0:05:58.000 and when I came back from the restroom, he was gone, 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:04.040 and we left me in oh saying sorry, No, that 0:06:04.120 --> 0:06:07.479 is a terrible first the whole day. 0:06:08.480 --> 0:06:10.160 Let's give him a little bit of credit. Was there 0:06:10.160 --> 0:06:12.800 at least a sad face at the end of sorry? 0:06:14.200 --> 0:06:19.159 Make it kind of cute? There wasn't hard. I'm sorry. 0:06:19.240 --> 0:06:20.640 Why would you want to get a hold of this 0:06:20.680 --> 0:06:22.520 guy again? He ditched you at the end of the day. 0:06:22.720 --> 0:06:26.080 Honestly, now you want to know why he ditched me 0:06:26.279 --> 0:06:31.279 because everything seemed to be going great, And honestly, Lexus, 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:33.120 I really want your feedback on. 0:06:33.120 --> 0:06:36.720 This because I feel like you know men, and you know, 0:06:37.000 --> 0:06:38.440 like I feel like you can really help. 0:06:38.560 --> 0:06:43.600 You think she knows men men? Okay, yeah she does? Yeah, yeah, Lexus, 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:44.719 what do you have to say about that? 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:47.279 Experts today. 0:06:49.120 --> 0:06:50.160 Boundary? 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:51.360 So what do you think of Lexis? 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:52.440 Why do you think she left me? 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:53.600 Yeah? 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:56.799 Share your wisdom, you know, I need a few minutes 0:06:56.839 --> 0:06:58.400 to think about it. 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:01.640 I got to do some study. 0:07:01.880 --> 0:07:03.479 She's the one that all of her friends go to 0:07:03.560 --> 0:07:04.600 for advice. Obviously. 0:07:04.680 --> 0:07:08.400 Yeah, they're still waiting on that advice. 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:11.440 Some of them, but TikTok answers. 0:07:12.520 --> 0:07:14.880 We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you 0:07:14.920 --> 0:07:17.200 when we come back, call Patrick and try to get 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:20.480 you your second date, yup date and have him say 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:24.120 yup to another meet up Yessica, it's happening. 0:07:23.800 --> 0:07:27.040 Right after this second date update. 0:07:28.120 --> 0:07:30.120 If you're just joining us, We've been talking to a 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:33.640 young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped 0:07:33.680 --> 0:07:37.320 her toe into the pool of dating apps, got hundreds 0:07:37.320 --> 0:07:41.480 of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one 0:07:41.720 --> 0:07:43.920 who seems to be the most normal god. 0:07:44.000 --> 0:07:46.320 And if this is the most normal, then she's doomed. 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:47.760 Ye world. 0:07:48.280 --> 0:07:49.640 That was such a terrible. 0:07:49.360 --> 0:07:50.000 End to a date. 0:07:50.240 --> 0:07:52.680 His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end 0:07:52.760 --> 0:07:55.680 because she got ditched by him at the restaurant. 0:07:55.920 --> 0:07:58.920 He actually ditched came back to the table from a 0:07:59.240 --> 0:08:00.000 to a note. 0:08:00.280 --> 0:08:04.400 It's so rude, so rude, absolutely, but broo, can we 0:08:04.440 --> 0:08:07.400 at least say it's impressive that he knows how to 0:08:07.520 --> 0:08:08.760 write something by hand? 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:09.800 Can we give him. 0:08:09.680 --> 0:08:11.480 That it wasn't a full sentence? 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:12.120 Okay? 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:13.840 Did it have any punctuations? 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.080 That's why he only wrote one word because doesn't know 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:16.880 how to write. 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:19.240 A sentence that's possible. There's a few questions. Was there 0:08:19.280 --> 0:08:20.560 any punctuation on it? 0:08:21.120 --> 0:08:26.280 No, man, an exclamation mark would have made it feel worse. 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:32.000 But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and 0:08:32.040 --> 0:08:36.199 she's looking towards a gen Z hero for answers here. 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:39.320 I think it's safe to say she wants you very, 0:08:39.679 --> 0:08:42.360 very involved in this call, Alexis. 0:08:41.880 --> 0:08:45.240 As do we're talking about you're the gen Z here. 0:08:46.360 --> 0:08:49.679 We're talking about any more thoughts now that you've had 0:08:49.720 --> 0:08:57.160 time to TikTok about why this guy ditched on Jessica, you. 0:08:57.160 --> 0:08:57.880 Really got nothing. 0:08:58.160 --> 0:08:59.160 Let's play more music. 0:08:59.679 --> 0:09:01.240 It could be anything. It could be her zoning out. 0:09:01.280 --> 0:09:02.640 It could be she likes Harry Potter. 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:05.880 Okay, the odds of the dating world, your first date 0:09:05.920 --> 0:09:06.960 probably isn't gonna be good. 0:09:06.840 --> 0:09:07.440 On a dating app. 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:07.880 Okay. 0:09:09.240 --> 0:09:11.640 I just appreciate Alexis being open to helping me. 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:16.360 I don't know that I have a choice, but yes 0:09:14.200 --> 0:09:14.400 I have. 0:09:16.720 --> 0:09:18.960 Alexis is going to take a very active role in 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:22.400 getting answers out of this guy. Let's call him and 0:09:22.720 --> 0:09:33.240 hopefully he picks up. But here we go, Hello, Hey, 0:09:33.280 --> 0:09:33.880 is this Patrick? 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:35.400 Missus? 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:35.800 Patrick? 0:09:36.600 --> 0:09:36.920 A man. 0:09:37.760 --> 0:09:39.640 Thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're called 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:40.760 Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:42.480 What's up man, Good morning? 0:09:44.280 --> 0:09:49.440 Uh, Okay, alexis we have we have a bunch of 0:09:49.520 --> 0:09:51.800 questions that we would like to ask you about a 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:53.400 woman that you went out with recently. 0:09:53.440 --> 0:09:54.400 Her name is Jessica. 0:09:55.559 --> 0:09:55.640 What. 0:09:56.520 --> 0:09:58.760 Yeah, it's part of a segment that we do called 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.520 a second Date Update. So alexis taken from. 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:05.839 Here now with somebody and you're super rude at the end. 0:10:06.240 --> 0:10:08.320 Actually you need to explain yourself. 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:09.760 Okay, we're trying to get him to open up. 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:11.240 I would love to hear. 0:10:14.720 --> 0:10:14.760 You. 0:10:14.960 --> 0:10:16.839 I'm sure you have a great reason that I will 0:10:16.880 --> 0:10:17.839 totally side with you. 0:10:18.160 --> 0:10:20.560 Okay, did you hear that? Patrick? 0:10:20.600 --> 0:10:21.760 Do you know what she's talking about? 0:10:22.320 --> 0:10:26.839 I'm I'm like totally confused. What are you talking about? 0:10:27.080 --> 0:10:31.880 Okay, maybe I'll explain and then I'll talk about So 0:10:32.280 --> 0:10:35.679 this girl, Jessica emailed us because she told us about 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:39.120 your date at the restaurant and she is very confused 0:10:39.200 --> 0:10:42.599 why you ditched her halfway through with no explanation, just 0:10:42.679 --> 0:10:45.640 left about that said sorry it was the end, but yeah. 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:47.080 Yeah, it was at the end of the night. And 0:10:47.120 --> 0:10:49.120 there was no, hope, So I just left to know. 0:10:50.440 --> 0:10:53.160 I got to say, though, man, that's pretty rude. 0:10:53.280 --> 0:10:56.240 Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her 0:10:56.280 --> 0:10:59.160 phone the entire time, and then just a year into 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:00.439 the bathroom and. 0:11:00.400 --> 0:11:02.280 Then what disappeared to the bathroom. 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:05.880 Yeah, she disappeared to the bathroom for like thirty minutes. 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:06.880 Whoat. 0:11:07.120 --> 0:11:09.080 Oh wow, that's a long time. 0:11:09.200 --> 0:11:11.000 I'm exaggerating a little bit. I mean it was like 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:12.600 ten minutes, but it felt like thirty. 0:11:12.640 --> 0:11:14.480 Okay, now I'm starting to think it was two minutes. 0:11:14.559 --> 0:11:17.800 Yeah, a long time. 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.200 But there's a line like you don't know, yeah. 0:11:20.880 --> 0:11:21.520 No, No. 0:11:21.800 --> 0:11:25.280 She was like she is obsessed with her dog, and 0:11:25.360 --> 0:11:28.040 it was like she would rather have been with her dog, 0:11:28.160 --> 0:11:29.720 and so I was like, you know what, I'm just 0:11:29.720 --> 0:11:31.680 gonna leave so she can hang out with her dog. 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:34.079 I mean, wouldn't most people rather be with their own 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:34.880 pet in the first day. 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.679 I mean, but her dog's not even there. 0:11:38.000 --> 0:11:41.680 So like the whole night, she's like on her phone 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.280 and she was trying to like put it to the 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:46.960 side so I wouldn't notice. But she did it so 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:49.439 much within like the first five minutes of us meeting 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.760 that I asked her if she was all right. Oh, 0:11:52.200 --> 0:11:55.160 and she was like, Okay, here's the deal. I have 0:11:55.240 --> 0:11:57.760 a dog cracker app and this is the first time 0:11:57.800 --> 0:12:01.240 I've been away from taffy or whatever dogs made. 0:12:01.400 --> 0:12:02.360 Yeah. 0:12:02.559 --> 0:12:04.920 Doesn't that make you feel better though, because in that moment, 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:07.560 now she's being open with you, and she's feeling like 0:12:07.720 --> 0:12:10.160 it's almost like an apology, like I am so sorry 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:11.480 that I was on my phone. 0:12:11.559 --> 0:12:13.760 It's kind of cute. But she had it set for 0:12:13.840 --> 0:12:16.920 this like bark alert, so when it would bark, her 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:21.560 phone would buzz. That's an Yeah. I was like, okay, well, 0:12:21.600 --> 0:12:24.160 maybe you should turn that off during the dinner, And 0:12:24.280 --> 0:12:27.080 like a few minutes later, she like pulls out her 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:29.679 phone and she's like, oh my god, look happy sniffing 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:32.520 the room, bud. That means she's anxious. It means just 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.880 what anxious anxious? 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:37.560 I was like, okay, oh, my friends had pet cameras 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:38.679 had to delete it because of it. 0:12:38.640 --> 0:12:42.480 It's so sad all the time. Yeah. 0:12:42.559 --> 0:12:44.920 Yeah, and you would always distract them so they got 0:12:45.000 --> 0:12:45.559 rid of their ass. 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:49.440 Obviously your day is just having separation enxiety herself, you know, 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:51.160 and the dog seems. 0:12:50.840 --> 0:12:51.560 Like it's fine. 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:54.560 Well exactly, And then she goes to the bathroom, and 0:12:54.600 --> 0:12:56.440 she was gone for such a long time that I 0:12:56.520 --> 0:12:57.720 actually thought she ditched me. 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:01.120 Oh, had to go check on her dog or something. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.920 Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl 0:13:04.000 --> 0:13:06.440 came out and I was like, Hey, have you seen 0:13:06.480 --> 0:13:08.880 this woman in the bathroom. She's about this high, has 0:13:08.880 --> 0:13:12.640 this color hair, and she was like, oh, yeah, she's 0:13:12.679 --> 0:13:14.319 in there facetiming her dog. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:20.880 Okay, oh, I get that, baby. 0:13:20.920 --> 0:13:22.960 She had a dog the car you can talk to 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:25.520 there we go, So you. 0:13:25.520 --> 0:13:26.080 Your little dog. 0:13:27.760 --> 0:13:30.680 Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:32.720 gives us a little bit more of a scope about 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:35.000 what was going on, at least from your side of it. 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:37.480 And now you probably need to hear. 0:13:37.720 --> 0:13:40.000 Jessica's side of it because she is on the other 0:13:40.160 --> 0:13:42.079 line listening right now. 0:13:42.120 --> 0:13:44.400 And what does she want to do, Alexis I actually 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:44.719 know what. 0:13:44.720 --> 0:13:47.120 She wants anymore? Get answers? 0:13:47.120 --> 0:13:49.079 They usually want to want to talk to each other. 0:13:49.280 --> 0:13:50.559 Yes, I'll start there. 0:13:50.600 --> 0:13:51.640 It's Jessica on the other line. 0:13:51.640 --> 0:13:59.840 If she's there, Jessica, Hey, Patrick, Hey, what's up. Oh? 0:14:00.120 --> 0:14:01.760 I know it was just kind of weird, but like 0:14:02.640 --> 0:14:06.360 I know, all that stuff did happen. But yes, is 0:14:06.400 --> 0:14:09.239 that really a reason to like get you? 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:09.600 Yeah? 0:14:09.679 --> 0:14:11.120 I mean I didn't know how long you were going 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:14.120 to be in the bathroom facetiming with Taffy, and I 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:17.319 was just like it was just frustrating. Like I get 0:14:17.360 --> 0:14:19.720 it's hard to leave a pet at home, but like, 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.200 come on, it's not like the dog's in danger. 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.320 Well you could have like messaged me after. 0:14:27.680 --> 0:14:31.040 Okay, that's fair. I could have messaged you after. But 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:33.160 I was just like, I don't know, I was just 0:14:33.200 --> 0:14:35.720 so turned off. I kind of just was like, forget 0:14:35.760 --> 0:14:36.160 about it. 0:14:37.680 --> 0:14:38.160 It hurts. 0:14:39.080 --> 0:14:40.880 I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a 0:14:40.960 --> 0:14:42.960 date and the girl is not paying attention to me 0:14:43.200 --> 0:14:45.760 the entire time, I'm going to start to feel like 0:14:45.960 --> 0:14:47.000 she doesn't really like me. 0:14:47.240 --> 0:14:49.440 It wasn't the entire time, he said, there was twenty 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:50.760 minutes in between. 0:14:50.440 --> 0:14:52.680 The phone and then her explaining, and then she. 0:14:52.680 --> 0:14:54.720 Would like at least she tried to take the FaceTime 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:56.080 call away from the table. 0:14:56.200 --> 0:14:57.960 I don't know, like, why didn't he bring it up. 0:14:57.960 --> 0:14:59.880 Why didn't you say, hey, you're kind of hurting my 0:15:00.400 --> 0:15:02.000 let's go back to your house and hang out your dog. 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:08.000 I just don't understand why we can't just decide to 0:15:08.120 --> 0:15:10.200 go on a date and be with the other person 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:12.880 instead of being on our phones and. 0:15:14.560 --> 0:15:18.440 Child Well, yeah, sorry, you should ignore your children if 0:15:18.480 --> 0:15:20.320 they're trying to interrupt you in the middle of a 0:15:20.360 --> 0:15:20.840 hot date. 0:15:20.880 --> 0:15:21.760 That's really rue. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:24.760 Oh absolutely, I don't answer, they're car Maybe if she 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:27.560 gets a second child then she'll care less. Yeah, I 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:29.920 just think maybe next time, if you're that worried about it, Jessica, 0:15:30.000 --> 0:15:31.160 you can just find a dog sitter. 0:15:31.240 --> 0:15:33.560 But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the 0:15:33.600 --> 0:15:35.320 end of the night. I'm with you on that one. 0:15:35.440 --> 0:15:38.160 I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really 0:15:38.240 --> 0:15:39.920 like to hear what alexis. 0:15:40.000 --> 0:15:42.120 I think it did not warrant him to leave you 0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.760 a note like that at the end of the day. 0:15:45.600 --> 0:15:49.640 Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis, 0:15:49.720 --> 0:15:52.560 You're welcome. Okay, So so wait, are we not going 0:15:52.640 --> 0:15:54.920 to tell her but in the future, maybe pay more attention. 0:15:55.040 --> 0:15:56.560 I think she should bring the dog to a dog 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:57.080 friendly place. 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.960 That could be a good day. I mean, that's all 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:00.760 always an option. 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.760 And look, Patrick, if you're willing to give her another chance, 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:04.840 we would pay for it. 0:16:05.040 --> 0:16:06.720 I mean, it would be good to try her out 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:08.920 with the dog to see if she's as distracted if 0:16:08.920 --> 0:16:09.680 the dog's with her. 0:16:09.760 --> 0:16:12.680 Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why 0:16:12.680 --> 0:16:14.120 you should say yes right now. 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:16.920 Because Tavy's obviously cute. 0:16:17.800 --> 0:16:18.560 That's obvious. 0:16:19.400 --> 0:16:20.040 You owe her. 0:16:20.360 --> 0:16:22.600 Did you say one? And then b what's your second? 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:24.040 Watch out doing this right now? 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:28.520 I mean you can't say no that that logic. 0:16:30.360 --> 0:16:32.080 I am, I'm out. I'm out. 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:32.680 I'm sorry. 0:16:32.760 --> 0:16:33.120 I just. 0:16:34.720 --> 0:16:37.280 Jessica is too high strung for me. I just it's 0:16:37.320 --> 0:16:37.920 not going to work. 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:43.120 Oh man, oh my god, Patrick, thanks so much like 0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:44.360 for telling me the truth. 0:16:44.440 --> 0:16:46.480 Now I know why. I mean, I can just get 0:16:46.520 --> 0:16:48.760 back to the hundreds of other messages I got. 0:16:52.400 --> 0:16:54.720 You got hundreds, Okay, I don't think it's that much. 0:16:56.520 --> 0:16:58.840 Hey, if there's plenty of fish, it's definitely that much. 0:16:59.160 --> 0:17:01.080 She was in the back him for thirty minutes and 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:02.360 it turned out to be ten. So I don't think 0:17:02.360 --> 0:17:03.240 we're judging your numbers. 0:17:04.920 --> 0:17:05.720 That's actually fair. 0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.480 Freaking Jeffrey in the morning, I. 0:17:09.440 --> 0:17:11.960 Can't believe we didn't get a yes for that. 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:14.120 I thought for sure they'd be able to figure out 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:15.359 a compromise between the two. 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:17.200