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Speaker 1: Hey, it's time for your brand new Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 1: It's Burke and Jeffrey in the Morning, and just a reminder,

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Speaker 2: And I gotta say the design is so cool. It's

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Speaker 2: I'm just kind of friends with.

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Speaker 3: It's cool.

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Speaker 2: Holding up.

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Speaker 1: Well, I'm just saying shout out to Marcus because you

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Speaker 1: did an incredible job on it, and please get your

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Speaker 1: orders in. The link is in the show notes. But

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Speaker 1: before we get to this brand new Second Date, let's

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Speaker 1: highlight some of our favorite comments of the week.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Zardrick commented and said, I found you guys on

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Speaker 4: TikTok and I listen every day at work. Now makes

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Speaker 4: it go by faster and I giggle to myself in

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Speaker 4: my cubicle.

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Speaker 5: My coworkers probably think I'm a mania.

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Speaker 6: I love it, and yes they think that.

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Speaker 2: No good point, Jose. All right, let's get this show started.

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Speaker 6: Second Date up Date in the entertainment industry. It's all

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Speaker 6: about good branding, Oh yeah, for sure.

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Speaker 7: And that's why today we're turning our second date update

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Speaker 7: into a second date yupdate, trying to get a guy

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Speaker 7: to say yep to a second meeting.

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Speaker 2: What branding is that, It's.

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Speaker 6: Called good branding.

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Speaker 7: And I've already got our digital team recutting all of

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Speaker 7: the station promos. And by digital team, I mean the

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Speaker 7: one guy who still works here.

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Speaker 6: So thanks, Seth.

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Speaker 7: But in the meantime, let's meet our hopeful yupper of

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Speaker 7: the day, goes on Jessica. Welcome to the show. I

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Speaker 7: apologize for all the negativity in the room.

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Speaker 2: Not against you, just against Jeffrey.

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Speaker 3: Just so you know, Hi, guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 6: Can we call her?

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Speaker 2: Yes, Jeffrey, I kind of make that back.

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Speaker 7: Absolutely can, If that's okay with you, Yessica for your updated.

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Speaker 6: Stuff.

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Speaker 2: Have you hung up yet?

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry?

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Speaker 6: Okay, Okay, gotcha, I'm sorry to Let's go.

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Speaker 7: Let's start with an easy question. Who's the guy that

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Speaker 7: you want us to call today?

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Speaker 3: So his name is Patrick. Okay, we met on a

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Speaker 3: dating app. I've never been on a dating app before,

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Speaker 3: so this is my first time.

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Speaker 2: That's your very first date from a dating app.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and it was crazy because I was getting so

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Speaker 3: many like messages from people and it's like hun goods.

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Speaker 2: Wow. Was that overwhelming?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely, I mean I definitely was trying to like weep

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Speaker 3: through all of that, and so when I saw this

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Speaker 3: He asked me, just was like, hey, how are you?

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Speaker 3: Wasn't anything about like a physical appearance, so it wasn't creepy.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't like the others that are like fresh meat.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it does say like new to the app.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so the algorithm really does that.

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Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, okay, so you were attracted to his normalness.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, definitely. And we went to this restaurant that was

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Speaker 1: What were you feeling going into this because you ever

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Speaker 1: even been on a blind date before. I mean, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I know you can see people's pictures and shouting them,

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Speaker 1: but you don't really know what to expect, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I was absolutely nervous because I normally want to do

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Speaker 3: things with my dog happy happy ta f f y.

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Speaker 7: Which makes jose happy just thinking about Okay, sorry, how

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Speaker 7: did we get onto her dog?

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Speaker 1: She normally goes places with her dog and I'm guessing

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Speaker 3: I didn't because they didn't allow like dogs at the

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Speaker 7: Oh, I thought you were going to put your dog

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Speaker 6: Parts of her steak through the buttons. Yeah, and that

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Speaker 2: Was that hard for you not to bring your dog?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I mean I love my dog, so I was thinking

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Speaker 3: For example, I love to read and my favorite series

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Speaker 3: It was just so nice, but I kept thinking about Tappy.

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Speaker 1: Did he notice that you were distracted and thinking about

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Speaker 3: I mean, I think a little bit, because he had

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Speaker 2: Had, so that's interesting.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if he thought you were distracted or just

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Speaker 1: like airheady me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I redes that insult. You just hadn't

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Speaker 3: I don't think it was airheady. I think I was

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Speaker 3: just like kind of like floating. I was just a

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Speaker 6: I wouldn't balloon minded.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, okay, this second date yupdate is definitely turning kind

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Speaker 6: Let's bring the yuppie mood back in.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 6: I did, and I apologize. See look at this, this

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Speaker 1: And you're just asking if he thought that maybe she

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Speaker 5: Did you talk about your dog a lot?

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Speaker 3: Like?

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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, did you.

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Speaker 6: Bring it up at all?

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Speaker 3: I mean I talked about Hafy a little bit, but

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Speaker 3: I tried not to make it a whole conversation.

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Speaker 7: Okay, So, just to recap, you're on your first time

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Speaker 7: So far, it's going okay, how does the date end?

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Speaker 3: So at the end of the date. I once to

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Speaker 3: and we left me in oh saying sorry, No, that

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Speaker 6: Let's give him a little bit of credit. Was there

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Speaker 6: at least a sad face at the end of sorry?

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Speaker 6: Make it kind of cute? There wasn't hard. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: Why would you want to get a hold of this

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Speaker 1: guy again? He ditched you at the end of the day.

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Speaker 8: Honestly, now you want to know why he ditched me

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Speaker 8: because everything seemed to be going great, And honestly, Lexus,

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Speaker 8: I really want your feedback on.

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Speaker 3: This because I feel like you know men, and you know,

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Speaker 6: You think she knows men men? Okay, yeah she does? Yeah, yeah, Lexus,

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Speaker 6: what do you have to say about that?

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Speaker 5: Experts today.

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Speaker 2: Boundary?

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Speaker 3: So what do you think of Lexis?

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Speaker 8: Why do you think she left me?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Share your wisdom, you know, I need a few minutes

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Speaker 5: I got to do some study.

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Speaker 2: She's the one that all of her friends go to

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Speaker 7: Yeah, they're still waiting on that advice.

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Speaker 5: Some of them, but TikTok answers.

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Speaker 7: We're gonna hopefully get all of the answers for you

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Speaker 7: when we come back, call Patrick and try to get

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Speaker 7: you your second date, yup date and have him say

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Speaker 7: yup to another meet up Yessica, it's happening.

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Speaker 6: Right after this second date update.

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Speaker 7: If you're just joining us, We've been talking to a

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Speaker 7: young woman by the name of Jessica who recently dipped

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Speaker 7: her toe into the pool of dating apps, got hundreds

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Speaker 7: of messages from eager male suitors, and she chose one

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Speaker 7: who seems to be the most normal god.

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Speaker 2: And if this is the most normal, then she's doomed.

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Speaker 6: Ye world.

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Speaker 5: That was such a terrible.

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Speaker 2: End to a date.

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Speaker 7: His name is Patrick, and it was a terrible end

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Speaker 7: because she got ditched by him at the restaurant.

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Speaker 9: He actually ditched came back to the table from a

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Speaker 7: It's so rude, so rude, absolutely, but broo, can we

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Speaker 6: Can we give him.

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Speaker 2: That it wasn't a full sentence?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Did it have any punctuations?

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Speaker 6: That's why he only wrote one word because doesn't know

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Speaker 7: A sentence that's possible. There's a few questions. Was there

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Speaker 2: No, man, an exclamation mark would have made it feel worse.

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Speaker 7: But the good news is Jessica is gen Z and

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Speaker 7: she's looking towards a gen Z hero for answers here.

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Speaker 7: I think it's safe to say she wants you very,

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Speaker 7: very involved in this call, Alexis.

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Speaker 10: As do we're talking about you're the gen Z here.

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Speaker 10: We're talking about any more thoughts now that you've had

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Speaker 10: time to TikTok about why this guy ditched on Jessica, you.

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Speaker 2: Really got nothing.

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Speaker 6: Let's play more music.

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Speaker 5: It could be anything. It could be her zoning out.

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Speaker 5: It could be she likes Harry Potter.

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Speaker 4: Okay, the odds of the dating world, your first date

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Speaker 4: probably isn't gonna be good.

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Speaker 2: On a dating app.

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Speaker 6: Okay.

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Speaker 3: I just appreciate Alexis being open to helping me.

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Speaker 5: I don't know that I have a choice, but yes

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Speaker 5: I have.

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Speaker 7: Alexis is going to take a very active role in

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Speaker 7: getting answers out of this guy. Let's call him and

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Speaker 7: hopefully he picks up. But here we go, Hello, Hey,

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Speaker 7: is this Patrick?

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Speaker 6: Missus?

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Speaker 9: Patrick?

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Speaker 6: A man.

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Speaker 7: Thanks for picking up. We're a radio show. We're called

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Speaker 7: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 6: What's up man, Good morning?

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Speaker 9: Uh, Okay, alexis we have we have a bunch of

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Speaker 9: questions that we would like to ask you about a

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Speaker 9: woman that you went out with recently.

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Speaker 6: Her name is Jessica.

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Speaker 11: What.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, it's part of a segment that we do called

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Speaker 7: a second Date Update. So alexis taken from.

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Speaker 4: Here now with somebody and you're super rude at the end.

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Speaker 4: Actually you need to explain yourself.

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Speaker 2: Okay, we're trying to get him to open up.

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Speaker 5: I would love to hear.

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Speaker 2: Okay, did you hear that? Patrick?

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Speaker 9: Well, she was being extremely rude. She was on her

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Speaker 5: Whoat.

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Speaker 5: I mean, wouldn't most people rather be with their own

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Speaker 4: I was like, okay, oh, my friends had pet cameras

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Speaker 5: It's so sad all the time. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you would always distract them so they got

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Speaker 9: Well exactly, And then she goes to the bathroom, and

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Speaker 1: Oh, had to go check on her dog or something.

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Speaker 9: Well, I went back to the bathroom and this girl

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Speaker 4: She had a dog the car you can talk to

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Speaker 2: Your little dog.

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Speaker 7: Thank you for explaining what happened from your perspective. That

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Speaker 6: And now you probably need to hear.

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Speaker 6: And what does she want to do, Alexis I actually

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Speaker 5: She wants anymore? Get answers?

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Speaker 2: They usually want to want to talk to each other.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'll start there.

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Speaker 6: It's Jessica on the other line.

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Speaker 3: If she's there, Jessica, Hey, Patrick, Hey, what's up. Oh?

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Speaker 3: I know it was just kind of weird, but like

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 9: I mean I didn't know how long you were going

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Speaker 9: come on, it's not like the dog's in danger.

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Speaker 3: Well you could have like messaged me after.

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Speaker 9: Okay, that's fair. I could have messaged you after. But

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Speaker 2: It hurts.

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Speaker 7: I mean, if I'm a guy and I'm on a

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Speaker 1: It wasn't the entire time, he said, there was twenty

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Speaker 2: The phone and then her explaining, and then she.

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Speaker 1: Would like at least she tried to take the FaceTime

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Speaker 2: I don't know, like, why didn't he bring it up.

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you say, hey, you're kind of hurting my

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Speaker 9: I just don't understand why we can't just decide to

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Speaker 7: Child Well, yeah, sorry, you should ignore your children if

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Speaker 6: That's really rue.

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Speaker 1: Oh absolutely, I don't answer, they're car Maybe if she

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Speaker 2: But it still doesn't warrant him ditching you at the

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Speaker 3: I appreciate your opinion on that, Brook, but I really

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Speaker 4: I think it did not warrant him to leave you

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Speaker 6: Finally, a thought that makes sense on this show. Thank you, Alexis,

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Speaker 6: You're welcome. Okay, So so wait, are we not going

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Speaker 5: I think she should bring the dog to a dog

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Speaker 6: That could be a good day. I mean, that's all

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Speaker 7: And look, Patrick, if you're willing to give her another chance,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it would be good to try her out

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Speaker 7: Yes, Alexis is going to tell you two reasons why

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Speaker 5: Because Tavy's obviously cute.

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Speaker 6: That's obvious.

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Speaker 5: You owe her.

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Speaker 6: Did you say one? And then b what's your second?

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Speaker 5: Watch out doing this right now?

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Speaker 6: I mean you can't say no that that logic.

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Speaker 9: I am, I'm out. I'm out.

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Speaker 8: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: I just.

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Speaker 9: Jessica is too high strung for me. I just it's

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Speaker 10: Oh man, oh my god, Patrick, thanks so much like

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Speaker 3: Now I know why. I mean, I can just get

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Speaker 9: You got hundreds, Okay, I don't think it's that much.

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Speaker 6: Hey, if there's plenty of fish, it's definitely that much.

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Speaker 1: She was in the back him for thirty minutes and

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Speaker 9: That's actually fair.

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Speaker 2: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning, I.

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Speaker 6: Can't believe we didn't get a yes for that.

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Speaker 7: I thought for sure they'd be able to figure out

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Speaker 2: I almost didn't think it was that big of a deal.

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Speaker 7: I mean, she was a little bit stressed out being

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Speaker 6: That's sorry, dog for the first time.

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Speaker 7: That's totally understandable, And it's also understandable that he wants

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Speaker 7: in strange, confusing times like this, I'm just so thankful

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Speaker 6: Sense of everything.

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Speaker 5: What would you guys do without me?

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Speaker 6: And that I know Alexis share your wisdom. Please? Why

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Speaker 4: Because people are people and that's how deep.

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Speaker 2: You're just peopled so hard.

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Speaker 6: I feel so much better now, Thank you, Alexi.

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Speaker 9: Instead of emailing us African and Jeffery, just email Alexis

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Speaker 5: I don't email.

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Speaker 6: Whatever you gotta do, Gross.

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Speaker 7: Just reach out to the show in whatever way, and

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Speaker 7: Alexis can save you.

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Speaker 3: In your DAT.

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Speaker 1: You don't have a success yet, but she will it's

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Speaker 1: gonna happen.

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Speaker 6: That's right, they didn't say no.

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Speaker 7: Manifest that positivity and go check out all of our

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Speaker 7: podcasts wherever you get yours, Abroke and Jeffrey