Speaker 1: That's okay, because no one here is.
Speaker 2: Hello, and welcome back to teen Beat with Danielle Fischele,
Speaker 2: a show where I, Danielle Fischele, invite interesting people to
Speaker 2: finally return a favor and share their awkward teenage stories
Speaker 2: with me, a former child actor who already lived out
Speaker 2: her own moments of puberty in front of millions of
Speaker 2: TV viewers. And so I look at it like this.
Speaker 2: I gave you my childhood. It's time we hear yours.
Speaker 2: And this week I'm chatting to a reality television phenomenon,
Speaker 2: an actress, a singer, a podcaster and author, a mother,
Speaker 2: and a former bar hostess who somehow flipped her struggling
Speaker 2: Hollywood dreams into an empire bigger than she ever could
Speaker 2: have imagined. Her time on vander Pump Rules threw her
Speaker 2: into the spotlight, but it's her dedication to turn lemons
Speaker 2: into lemonade that made her a long term fan favorite
Speaker 2: and the star of another show, Bravo's The Valley, which
Speaker 2: she currently calls home alongside best friend and crucial piece
Speaker 2: of the Scanned of All Puzzle, Tom Schwartz. She's as
Speaker 2: open on social media as a Chinese restaurant on Christmas,
Speaker 2: candid about her sobriety, cosmetic upgrades, and the beauty empire
Speaker 2: she's built, evolving from famous party girl into unscripted TV's
Speaker 2: cool older sister. But if you ask me, underneath the hip,
Speaker 2: beautiful exterior must live an awkward teenager just waiting to
Speaker 2: overshare with me. So this week on Teenbeat, I am
Speaker 2: thrilled to sit down with La La Kent.
Speaker 3: Wow, that was like the most spectacular intro I think
Speaker 3: I've ever had had in my life.
Speaker 4: I love it. Thank you, I'm happy to be here. Yes,
Speaker 4: I'm so happy to have you.
Speaker 2: I have to ask, as someone very fresh off the
Speaker 2: Dancing with the Stars Live tour, I have to ask,
Speaker 2: how did you grow up in Utah and avoid ballroom dancing?
Speaker 4: You know that never?
Speaker 3: That is so funny you asked that because that was
Speaker 3: actually like a main credit in junior high and my
Speaker 3: dearest friend, after we graduated, and you know, we were
Speaker 3: done with our school years, she actually went back to
Speaker 3: teach ballroom.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I just could never get into it. I
Speaker 4: don't know if I'm I'm just I like to.
Speaker 3: Think that I can move, and I like to think
Speaker 3: that I'm athletic until I try and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 3: I am so awkward.
Speaker 2: In my mind's eye, Utah is just filled with ballroom
Speaker 2: dancers everywhere. I mean it just seems like that's a
Speaker 2: breeding ground for ballroom dancers.
Speaker 4: So totally true. Yeah, it's pretty.
Speaker 2: I mean I know that it's supposed to be because
Speaker 2: I think BYU added it as a major and then
Speaker 2: basically it just kind of it took off.
Speaker 4: Yes, I like to be the rebel. Yeah.
Speaker 3: Now, like when everyone's raving about a TV show, I
Speaker 3: wait until no one raves about it and then watch it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what, I'm not that much different than you.
Speaker 2: I also am that way. If everyone's making a big
Speaker 2: fuss about something, I'm like, Okay, everyone's settled down. I'm
Speaker 2: not trying to go against the grain. Like I'm like, look,
Speaker 2: I'm willing.
Speaker 4: To watch it. I just don't want to watch it
Speaker 4: while it's all the rage, exactly.
Speaker 3: I wait for things to kind of calm down. So
Speaker 3: now that I'm out of Utah, maybe I'll get into
Speaker 3: ballroom dancing.
Speaker 2: Well, would you ever do Dancing with the Stars?
Speaker 3: I have always said that that would be the one
Speaker 3: show that I would that I would say no to
Speaker 3: and here's why listen to me dancing with the Stars
Speaker 3: because I'm so intimidated by it.
Speaker 4: Really, Yes, it would take.
Speaker 3: Me out of my comfort zone in such a way
Speaker 3: that I think I'd have.
Speaker 4: A panic attack.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but this new mindset that I have taken on
Speaker 3: where it's like I want to be uncomfortable now, I
Speaker 3: want to say, if that opportunity presented itself, right, I
Speaker 3: think I would be all in for the mere fact
Speaker 3: that I want to feel uncomfortable so badly.
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll definitely feel uncomfortable. Yeah, it's in a I mean,
Speaker 2: I loved every single second of it, but there's no
Speaker 2: doubt that it is you know, it's it can be uncomfortable.
Speaker 4: And you are working your butt off.
Speaker 2: And if you're like me and have I had never
Speaker 2: even taken a dance class before doing Dancing with the Stars,
Speaker 2: so like I was starting from zero zero, and so yeah,
Speaker 2: you're out of your comfort zone. And then you know,
Speaker 2: I am I'm a perfectionist. And so for me having
Speaker 2: the cameras on all the time and being miked all
Speaker 2: the time, which you are probably used to, I am not.
Speaker 2: I felt like, okay, you know what, I could really
Speaker 2: actually learn this dance if we got the cameras out
Speaker 2: of here and we got.
Speaker 4: This mic off of me. But like, it just feels
Speaker 4: so weird to know you are being.
Speaker 2: Watched while you're learning something that's very vulnerable.
Speaker 3: You know what, though, I even though I am used
Speaker 3: to being miked and just like living and existing, it's
Speaker 3: similar to like if you were to mic me and
Speaker 3: put a camera on if I were going on a date. Yeah,
Speaker 3: I can't do this, even though I think I know
Speaker 3: how if you're watching and listening to everything.
Speaker 4: It would be the same with with dancing.
Speaker 3: And I remember seeing you at the iHeart party and
Speaker 3: this was probably in October, and you said it was
Speaker 3: the most difficult thing you've ever done, but you were
Speaker 3: having the time of your life.
Speaker 4: You had pulled a hamstring or something. You're exactly right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I remember I had just come off of a
Speaker 2: massive injury, and I was like, don't want to ever
Speaker 2: stop going to do it every day for the rest
Speaker 2: of my life.
Speaker 4: Yes, you were having the best time.
Speaker 3: And you know what, I think if I allowed myself
Speaker 3: to say you're gonna be uncomfortable, but you're going to
Speaker 3: do it, I would feel so accomplished.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, you definitely would.
Speaker 2: Well, I really do think you would be quite an
Speaker 2: asset on the show, and I think, knowing how incredible
Speaker 2: the show was for me, I would love for you
Speaker 2: to have that experience as well. So I'm fingers crossed
Speaker 2: that we are manifesting that for you.
Speaker 3: I love manifesting, and in this time of incredible eclipse.
Speaker 2: You know we're in an eclipse, and so now is
Speaker 2: the time to bring forth all of the things from
Speaker 2: our future selves, so he knows what were manifesting for you.
Speaker 4: I love it.
Speaker 2: I know your dad had been a part of the
Speaker 2: Mormon Church, but he left before you were born. What
Speaker 2: was it like growing up surrounded by the LDS community
Speaker 2: but not actually being a part of it.
Speaker 4: Was it harder for you to make friends? Do you
Speaker 4: think it was strange?
Speaker 3: And it was difficult because even though my dad left
Speaker 3: the Mormon Church when he was twenty two, which was
Speaker 3: well before I came into the world, there were so
Speaker 3: many things that you could tell, to be very respectful,
Speaker 3: that he clearly had been told his entire life that
Speaker 3: were not good and that's evil and don't do that.
Speaker 3: Where it was almost like I had to coach my
Speaker 3: dad through those moments of like it's all good man, like,
Speaker 3: let it go.
Speaker 4: This is not all.
Speaker 3: This is not determining whether you go to the highest
Speaker 3: Kingdom of Heaven or not. But I kind of gravitated
Speaker 3: towards people who also didn't have Mormon families. And you know,
Speaker 3: my mom was raised very Christian and my dad was
Speaker 3: raised very Mormon, and I think they came together and thought,
Speaker 3: let's just raise our kids with spirituality. That was very
Speaker 3: heavy in my household. Is we said our prayers every
Speaker 3: single night. When things got tough, we turned to God.
Speaker 3: But it wasn't in a way that is organized religion,
Speaker 3: if that makes any sense. Yes, And you know my
Speaker 3: mom didn't. My mom didn't try to keep us away
Speaker 3: from the Mormon church. If I had a group of
Speaker 3: friends in elementary school and they went to Young Women's
Speaker 3: and they invited me, my mom would say, go like
Speaker 3: have fun. I didn't even realize that it was like
Speaker 3: a Mormon thing. It wasn't until my grandmother took my
Speaker 3: little brother to church one Sunday and he came home
Speaker 3: with a matching game which was basically the sequence of
Speaker 3: events that happens right, which was like go on a mission, temple, marriage,
Speaker 3: and that's when my mom said, we will no longer
Speaker 3: be sending these kids to anything that has to do
Speaker 3: with this church.
Speaker 4: Okay. Yeah.
Speaker 2: My parents were kind of similar. Both my parents were
Speaker 2: raised pretty strict Catholic okay, and so they had been
Speaker 2: kind of indoctrinated into this idea that to be a
Speaker 2: spiritual or a god believing in family, you also had
Speaker 2: to be a part of the Catholic Church.
Speaker 4: And that meant, you know, school I went to.
Speaker 2: I can't even remember the name of it now, but
Speaker 2: I went to that school where every Wednesday we had
Speaker 2: to learn about Catholicism.
Speaker 4: Catechism.
Speaker 2: We went to that every Wednesday, and we went to
Speaker 2: church every Sunday, and my brother and I complained about
Speaker 2: it every single week, and my parents, to their credit,
Speaker 2: realized they also really did not want to be doing this.
Speaker 2: They were only doing it out of guilt and the
Speaker 2: way they had been raised, and so they realized, like,
Speaker 2: I don't think the organized religion part of this is
Speaker 2: what we're believing in. I think it's just a belief
Speaker 2: in God. And so my parents, we similarly no longer
Speaker 2: went to the Catholic Church. And for us, it was
Speaker 2: a moment when my grandfather realized there.
Speaker 4: Was like some issue with us.
Speaker 2: He was paying for school, and something happened where he
Speaker 2: realized all they care about is money. The Catholic Church
Speaker 2: is a money making enterprise.
Speaker 4: And that was it. He was done. He was done
Speaker 4: with the Catholic Church after that.
Speaker 3: So once you see things for what they are, it
Speaker 3: is very hard to unsee.
Speaker 2: Yes, that is true. Mormons are very visible in pop
Speaker 2: culture right now. Did you ever expect so much of
Speaker 2: Utah to also end up in Hollywood?
Speaker 4: Not at all.
Speaker 3: I remember being at the very first Bravo con in
Speaker 3: New York and then I remember seeing Andy in the
Speaker 3: green room and he was like, you're gonna die. Guess
Speaker 3: who were announcing today as the new city Salt Lake.
Speaker 3: And I was thrilled about it because when if I
Speaker 3: already knew what Housewives was like, and I'm like, yeah,
Speaker 3: now you're going to add.
Speaker 4: That crazy religion to the mix. Oh, this is gonna
Speaker 4: be good.
Speaker 3: And then once the Mormon Wives show came out, it
Speaker 3: was like everyone's talking about the skincare and the hair
Speaker 3: routine and the uh the bleaching for the teeth and
Speaker 3: a swig with the you know coffee mate in it
Speaker 3: I never expected that, and it's crazy to look look
Speaker 3: at it because it's something that I recognize but I'm
Speaker 3: not close to, if that makes sense. It feels very
Speaker 3: very familiar and very triggering because although in my day
Speaker 3: to day with my friend group, none.
Speaker 4: Of us were raised LDS, but.
Speaker 3: When I went to my grandma's house on my dad's side,
Speaker 3: it was very very clear that we were the black
Speaker 3: sheep of the family, you know. And I noticed that
Speaker 3: as I got older, and I remember bringing my boyfriend
Speaker 3: to family dinner and he and I had to leave
Speaker 3: because I had theater practice, like I needed to go
Speaker 3: and to my high school and rehearse something. And my
Speaker 3: grandma was so concerned that I was going to be
Speaker 3: gay because I was in the arts, and it was like,
Speaker 3: isn't that.
Speaker 4: The strangest thing you've ever heard?
Speaker 3: And as I got as I left with my like six'
Speaker 3: four hunk of a, boyfriend by the, Way i'm, like
Speaker 3: what you should be worried about is.
Speaker 4: If i'm going to go with, him because you'd.
Speaker 2: Be worried about that he's taking me to my high
Speaker 2: school rehearsal And i'm going to be alone with him
Speaker 2: in a car.
Speaker 4: That's what we should really be focused.
Speaker 3: On but it's like these little things THAT i THAT
Speaker 3: i do, remember and WHEN i, watch whether It's housewives
Speaker 3: Of Salt lake Or Mormon, Wives i'm, Like, OH i
Speaker 3: remember my, family my dad's. FAMILY i don't have any
Speaker 3: communication with any of them any. LONGER i remember those little. Things,
Speaker 3: yeah that stick with, You And i'm, LIKE i can't
Speaker 3: imagine having that every single, day to where you actually
Speaker 3: believe that certain things are. Wrong.
Speaker 4: Yeah AND i.
Speaker 3: Felt so badly for my dad as, well BECAUSE i
Speaker 3: think he really loved the, arts AND i don't think
Speaker 3: that he was ever able to participate in them because
Speaker 3: of what his parents.
Speaker 4: Thought that, Meant, OH i have never shared that. Before isn't?
Speaker 4: That isn't that a heartbreaking?
Speaker 2: Thing when you get old enough and wise enough to
Speaker 2: really think about your parents' journey as human beings and
Speaker 2: not related to what they who they are to, You
Speaker 2: but just like your dad as a young, man recognizing
Speaker 2: that he loved something that he probably never fully got to.
Speaker 4: Embrace, yeah like, THAT i. SEE i struggle a lot with.
Speaker 3: That now that he's, GONE i look back on a
Speaker 3: lot of, things AND i JUST i think his upbringing
Speaker 3: was really HARD i think he always felt different and
Speaker 3: felt that he just didn't The Mormon church did not
Speaker 3: resonate with, him and that is a struggle for, me
Speaker 3: AND i think that's WHY i babied my dad so,
Speaker 3: much like letting him, know like you're good, enough you,
Speaker 3: know need to beat yourself up over things like, this
Speaker 3: all is, Good you're.
Speaker 2: Human it sounds like you were able to do that
Speaker 2: from a really young. Age do you feel like you've
Speaker 2: always been a little bit of a therapist in your
Speaker 2: family and your friend's.
Speaker 4: Life.
Speaker 3: YEAH i remember at a very young age when my
Speaker 3: mom had lost her, dad laying in bed with her
Speaker 3: and she was obviously beside, herself and, GOSH i was so.
Speaker 3: YOUNG i was still in elementary, school AND i don't
Speaker 3: know exactly WHAT i, said but my mom brings it
Speaker 3: up often where she's, like you got me through that.
Speaker 3: Moment AND i, remember even with my, dad you, know
Speaker 3: talking him through. THINGS i just was very in tune
Speaker 3: with my emotions and seeing, things and you know, what
Speaker 3: it's a blessing and a. Curse looking, back it's, like, oh,
Speaker 3: wow how amazing as a child THAT i could do.
Speaker 3: That but as a, child taking that on felt like
Speaker 3: a huge. BURDEN i felt LIKE i was never able
Speaker 3: to be a, kid.
Speaker 4: And not because of my. Parents my, parents they were
Speaker 4: begging me to be a.
Speaker 3: Kid, yeah but my mind just was always wanting to be.
Speaker 2: Older that resonates with me so. FULLY i can't even
Speaker 2: tell YOU i was exactly the same. WAY i never
Speaker 2: wanted to be in my present age or my present.
Speaker 2: STATE i was always anticipating the needs of. OTHERS i
Speaker 2: was always forward thinking and just couldn't wait to be an.
Speaker 2: Adult and not because of all the fun things you
Speaker 2: think of about being an. Adult even the mundane just
Speaker 2: sounded wonderful to, me AND i you, know sure, enough
Speaker 2: it's pretty freaking awesome to be an. ADULT i do love,
Speaker 2: it even though it's, hard and there's a lot of
Speaker 2: THINGS i think about HOW i felt as a kid
Speaker 2: and felt kind OF i don't, KNOW i just it
Speaker 2: never felt LIKE i was supposed to be. YOUNG i
Speaker 2: was always an old woman in a young person's.
Speaker 4: Body oh my, GOSH i so relate to.
Speaker 3: That. Yeah and by the, way Now i'm thirty five
Speaker 3: AND i feel Like i'm eighty. Five i'm, like oh.
Speaker 4: My, gosh it's seven. O'clock i've got to get to.
Speaker 4: Bed thank you me.
Speaker 2: Too If i'm up and it's past, Nine i'm, like,
Speaker 2: guys mama's got to. SLEEP i don't know what you
Speaker 2: think in this is here that you had a six
Speaker 2: or four super hot boyfriend in high?
Speaker 4: School when did You.
Speaker 2: When did you just, love like realize that you just loved?
Speaker 2: Boys and when did boys start reciprocating that feeling back to?
Speaker 3: You? OH i remember my first boyfriend in the third, Grade.
Speaker 3: TAYLOR i carried his uh school picture and we were long,
Speaker 3: distance which meant he went to a different elementary school than.
Speaker 4: Me oh, man, yeah that's.
Speaker 3: Tough and then he got it he had a crush
Speaker 3: on a different girl at his own. School SO i
Speaker 3: called him and, said you go through girls like you
Speaker 3: go through.
Speaker 4: UNDERWEAR i will never forget. It what in third? Grade
Speaker 4: a third? Grade where did you get this? LINE i
Speaker 4: think my mom.
Speaker 3: My?
Speaker 4: Mom do you think she said it to you about? Him, like,
Speaker 4: oh he goes through girls like.
Speaker 3: Underwears Because i've always had a very close relationship with
Speaker 3: my mom at the very young, AGE i just shared
Speaker 3: everything with her same so you get.
Speaker 4: It it's like that's a safe.
Speaker 3: Space this woman like clothed, me fed, ME i, like
Speaker 3: she's my. Everything, yeah BUT i THINK i GOT i
Speaker 3: THINK i got very boy crazy in the seventh grade
Speaker 3: where it was like my braces came.
Speaker 4: Off oh, yeah he had a glow.
Speaker 3: Up, YES i had a locker WHERE i could keep
Speaker 3: pictures and a mirror and put my lip gloss, on
Speaker 3: AND i just it was like grown.
Speaker 4: Men you, know way different than elementary.
Speaker 3: School and then in high school is WHEN i AND
Speaker 3: i talk about this all the. Time my most productive
Speaker 3: and healthy relationship thus far is my high school sweetheart
Speaker 3: THAT i met at, seventeen which was the sixth four.
Speaker 4: Man. Okay we were together UNTIL i was.
Speaker 3: TWENTY i ended up moving out TO la to give
Speaker 3: it a, shot and he stayed back In, utah and
Speaker 3: things JUST i think had run their. COURSE i have
Speaker 3: nothing but amazing memories of, him and he's the PERSON
Speaker 3: i lost my virginity, Too so That i'm so grateful
Speaker 3: for because as you, know like the first time having,
Speaker 3: sex that is kind of what tees you, up or
Speaker 3: your relationship with sex going, forward, right.
Speaker 2: Yes, yes and there is a before and and after
Speaker 2: in your life.
Speaker 3: Exactly SO i was So i'm so grateful that my
Speaker 3: first time being intimate with somebody was just.
Speaker 4: That it was, intimacy it was.
Speaker 3: Partnership and but after, him, MAN i WAS i was
Speaker 3: ready to the. Races oh, YEAH.
Speaker 2: I, mean at least if you're going to say after
Speaker 2: that you were ready to, go you were seventeen to.
Speaker 4: Twenty you're in your, twenties which is college, age is.
Speaker 2: The perfect time to really that's where you Have that's
Speaker 2: where you, know the biggest opportunity for self discovery comes.
Speaker 2: About it's for a lot of people the first time
Speaker 2: you're out from under your parents' root totally and you're
Speaker 2: making your own decisions about who you're going to hang
Speaker 2: out with and when you're going to come, home and
Speaker 2: who you're going to go on a date with and
Speaker 2: when when and those dates take. Place so, yeah all of,
Speaker 2: that all of that makes. SENSE i was also boy.
Speaker 2: Crazy starting in elementary. SCHOOL i had my first boyfriend
Speaker 2: THAT i remember was not long, distance and he if
Speaker 2: he did end up having a crush on someone, else
Speaker 2: it would have been on a boy because he is.
Speaker 2: Gay and it was pretty obvious he was gay then
Speaker 2: to everyone except. Me but you, know that did pretty
Speaker 2: much just set me up for moving. FORWARD i have
Speaker 2: always loved gay.
Speaker 4: Men oh don't you and me? Both, yeah love love
Speaker 4: a good gay. GUY i just think they're.
Speaker 2: Wonderful there are perfect, people mast people to be, same,
Speaker 2: same great people to be in relationships.
Speaker 4: With, honestly.
Speaker 2: My husband AND i Watched, Love loathing and Vander pump
Speaker 2: the documentary The Randall. Scandal we watched it and our
Speaker 2: main takeaway from it was how do men like him
Speaker 2: still find beautiful women who will date? Them he is
Speaker 2: with someone right? Now how do men so easily fail?
Speaker 3: UPWARDS i think for, him he has really conquered an
Speaker 3: art and that is going for, girls not women who
Speaker 3: are easily, impressionable don't have much life. Experience you say
Speaker 3: the word chanel and you've got. Them you say the
Speaker 3: word movie producer and you've got. Them you don't do much,
Speaker 3: Research you just see the shiny. Object AND i think
Speaker 3: he knows exactly who to prey, on. Right AND i
Speaker 3: think he thought when he met, Me i'm a girl
Speaker 3: from utah m. HMM i don't think he ever anticipated
Speaker 3: the strength THAT i, Have. RIGHT i THINK i really
Speaker 3: shook this man to his. Core, yeah which makes me very.
Speaker 4: Proud.
Speaker 2: Good, yeah you, should you should feel you should feel
Speaker 2: good about so thanks To Vanderpump rules and The, valley
Speaker 2: you are surrounded with drama and gossip in high. School
Speaker 2: did you were you a part of any scandals or
Speaker 2: love triangles or was that just something you ran into
Speaker 2: later in your?
Speaker 3: Life you, KNOW i think the typical like scandals That
Speaker 3: especially growing up In, utah everybody knows, everybody AND i
Speaker 3: thought moving TO la it would be.
Speaker 4: Different it's actually it actually feels, smaller.
Speaker 2: SMALLER i know everyone knows. Everyone that's freaking.
Speaker 3: Smaller social media was. NOT i wasn't on social. MEDIA
Speaker 3: i don't know when you got. IT i remember getting
Speaker 3: my FIRST i had Downloaded instagram a few times and
Speaker 3: then thought this is so, Dumb i'm deleting. It it
Speaker 3: wasn't UNTIL i got TO la and started wanting to
Speaker 3: be in the industry again and getting the bug WHERE
Speaker 3: i was, like, OH i guess social media is kind
Speaker 3: of needed.
Speaker 4: Now, yeah oh, yeah for. SURE i wasn't in the
Speaker 4: know about a lot of things WHEN i lived In.
Speaker 4: Utah yeah that makes.
Speaker 2: SENSE i, mean you're a good ten years younger than,
Speaker 2: me SO i Mean i've really social media since My space.
Speaker 3: Girl you have got aged one day since boy Meets World, oh.
Speaker 2: Well thank you very, much but tell that to my. Knees,
Speaker 2: YEAH i, yeah SO i. HAVE i mean, TRULY i.
Speaker 2: REMEMBER i Remember, MySpace but as far as like actually
Speaker 2: using social media for work, purposes it did not start
Speaker 2: for me Until Girl Meets.
Speaker 4: World so we're talking like twenty.
Speaker 2: Fourteen so, like you, know just twelve years ago of being, like,
Speaker 2: OKAY i guess this is Where i'm supposed to promote
Speaker 2: things that come out and talk about things and like
Speaker 2: let people know, here and then you, know even still,
Speaker 2: now like WHEN i Did dancing with The, STARS i
Speaker 2: hired a social media team BECAUSE i knew how important that,
Speaker 2: was and then the minute it was, OVER i was, like,
Speaker 2: WELL i don't really what WILL i make content about,
Speaker 2: now and SO i let them go and NOW i
Speaker 2: just never.
Speaker 3: Post so social media is my worst.
Speaker 4: Enemy mine, too mine. Too do you have a social media?
Speaker 3: TEAM i just recently brought one, on maybe a couple months. Ago,
Speaker 3: OKAY i have imposter. Syndrome and all of the things
Speaker 3: that they want me to do that get millions of,
Speaker 3: VIEWS i look at And i'm, like oh.
Speaker 4: My, gosh that's so.
Speaker 3: Embarrassed people are loving the, content but it just it's
Speaker 3: out of my comfort.
Speaker 2: Zone, YEAH i saw one of yours that made me
Speaker 2: laugh so, much where you were doing all of THE
Speaker 2: ai is going to take your. Job oh it was so.
Speaker 2: Funny so whoever you're using it's, working you look. Great,
Speaker 2: well thank, you so keep it, up and maybe if
Speaker 2: you like, them share their information with.
Speaker 3: Me by the, way he is absolutely. Fantastic you would love,
Speaker 3: him AND i LOVE i do love the. Content it
Speaker 3: just feel so exposed on social.
Speaker 2: MEDIA i Know i'm the same way even WHEN i
Speaker 2: get AN ad for something THAT i, love Because i'm
Speaker 2: very choosy about the THINGS i do ads. For i'm
Speaker 2: not the type OF i just have never been able
Speaker 2: to be the type of person to be, like, oh
Speaker 2: you're willing to pay me whatever that, Is i'll take
Speaker 2: it And i'll promote whatever your thing. IS i Really i'm,
Speaker 2: like well what is?
Speaker 4: It IF i.
Speaker 2: Don't If i'm not familiar with it, already please send
Speaker 2: it to, me let me use it.
Speaker 4: For a, while let me tell. You and even When.
Speaker 2: I'm, LIKE i love this, Thing like WHEN i Had,
Speaker 2: ADLER i loved the.
Speaker 4: Docatt the docatat was the.
Speaker 2: DOCATAT i loved my, docatat AND i got paid to
Speaker 2: do an ad for docatat On. Instagram they were totally
Speaker 2: fine with the fact THAT i don't show my kids'.
Speaker 2: Faces everything about it was a perfect. Partnership and yet
Speaker 2: Anytime i've ever had to go post an, AD i
Speaker 2: immediately feel. Cringe i'm just, LIKE i can't BELIEVE i
Speaker 2: have to do. This people are going to think, This
Speaker 2: and YET i love love the Thing i'm advertising.
Speaker 4: Totally you are so, Seen you're so. Seen what is? That?
Speaker 4: WHY i don't. KNOW i just feel SO i don't
Speaker 4: know what that.
Speaker 3: Is it's just an internal battle that you have to get,
Speaker 3: over and it's. You there's nothing you can do to
Speaker 3: work on it except for you're doing it and it's out, there.
Speaker 4: And get over.
Speaker 2: It AND i do love these. THINGS i stand by
Speaker 2: every single thing LIQUID. IV i freaking love. IT i
Speaker 2: take it every day My samsung. Phone i've been A
Speaker 2: samsung user for twelve. Years, LIKE i don't do ads for.
Speaker 4: Things UNLESS i love. Them so why DO i feel
Speaker 4: bad telling people WHEN i love?
Speaker 3: SOMETHING i know it's probably because at the, end you
Speaker 3: have to like direct people to a.
Speaker 4: Link and THEN i asked, Me i'm, like NOW i
Speaker 4: feel like and you know the comment section can get to.
Speaker 2: You, yeah it's, true it's. TRUE i think also it
Speaker 2: comes back to my. Somewhere for, me it's asking anybody
Speaker 2: for anything ever makes me feel, worthless and that's. It
Speaker 2: that's not a good way to feel. Like we need,
Speaker 2: community we need. Help it takes a village all the
Speaker 2: THINGS i know and would say to other, People but
Speaker 2: when it comes to, MYSELF i Think i'm supposed to
Speaker 2: be fully autonomous and a one woman. Show and IF
Speaker 2: i don't do every single thing, myself Then i'm somehow
Speaker 2: failing Or i'm draining resources that other people could be
Speaker 2: spending doing something. Else and so even Though i'm just
Speaker 2: telling YOU i like this, brand this brand has made
Speaker 2: my life, better it feels Like i'm asking people for,
Speaker 2: something AND i think it goes back to.
Speaker 4: That that would make total. Sense, yeah thank you for
Speaker 4: working that out with. Me you're.
Speaker 3: Welcome i'm always here to listen to. YOU i feel
Speaker 3: that way with. MEN i don't need you to buy me,
Speaker 3: anything don't take me to, dinner you don't need to
Speaker 3: call my uber BECAUSE i don't want to owe you,
Speaker 3: anything right, Right, Yeah so it sounds like we both
Speaker 3: have our.
Speaker 2: Issues we both have some, issues but you, know maybe
Speaker 2: if we just talk more to we need to make
Speaker 2: this a, regular a weekly.
Speaker 4: THING i love.
Speaker 2: It so now you are hosting an unlikely affair Alongside Amber,
Speaker 2: childers someone who was wildly entangled in your past. Relationship
Speaker 2: have you always been able to mend fences with?
Speaker 4: People do you easily? FORGIVE i don't hold a.
Speaker 3: GRUDGE i think if a productive conversation has HAD i
Speaker 3: can move on pretty. QUICKLY i don't have any problem
Speaker 3: taking accountability for my. PART i know it sounds so
Speaker 3: cheesy because people say it all the.
Speaker 4: TIME i KNOW i am not. PERFECT i am a
Speaker 4: lot to. HANDLE i can be a loose, cannon Which
Speaker 4: i'm working.
Speaker 3: On BUT i never understood that Saying i'll forgive But
Speaker 3: i'll never. Forget i'm, like, well that's what's the point
Speaker 3: of forgiving, then if you're just gonna remember the whole?
Speaker 4: Time SO i, FORGIVE i, FORGET i move. ON i love,
Speaker 4: that AND i think, Again i'm very, similar very. SIMILAR
Speaker 4: i love, THAT i really.
Speaker 2: DO i think the record keeping in, relationship by the,
Speaker 2: WAY i think you can totally forgive and forget as
Speaker 2: long as what you're saying is What i've learned about
Speaker 2: you has shown me THAT i truly do not want
Speaker 2: you in my life in any.
Speaker 4: CAPACITY i forgive.
Speaker 2: You i'm no longer going to carry negative energy about
Speaker 2: you or the, situation BUT i really want you to
Speaker 2: stay far the hell away from, me and we're not
Speaker 2: going to be in each other's. Lives but if you're
Speaker 2: going to forgive and then still operate in each other's,
Speaker 2: spheres you kind of do need to forget because otherwise
Speaker 2: side eyeing the whole, time and that's Not that's not real,
Speaker 2: forgiveness is?
Speaker 4: It not at? All not in any. Capacity And i'm
Speaker 4: the same.
Speaker 3: Way if behaviors have shown me something Where i'm, like,
Speaker 3: okay this, Experience i'd be a dumb ass to like
Speaker 3: keep you around and pretend we're all. Good like you,
Speaker 3: said you're a. Liability the stakes are very high for.
Speaker 3: Me you stay over there And i'll stay over, here
Speaker 3: just pretend like we don't know each other.
Speaker 2: EXACTLY i have quite a few of those in my,
Speaker 2: life and those. People there have been a couple of
Speaker 2: times those people have reached out and tried, to, uh you, know,
Speaker 2: Hi i'd like to talk to you about what happened
Speaker 2: twenty years. Ago and, no we're. GOOD i have worked
Speaker 2: very hard to forget you. EXIST i don't need. YOU
Speaker 2: i don't need you back.
Speaker 3: Here and you will know what PEOPLE i, know there's
Speaker 3: people out there that feel that way about me right
Speaker 3: WHERE i may have been a toxic presence in their.
Speaker 4: Life uh.
Speaker 3: Huh and you know, WHAT i apologize AND i wish
Speaker 3: you all the. Best you, know like there's some people
Speaker 3: who just aren't meant to be.
Speaker 4: Friends, yeah you're. Right and there are.
Speaker 3: Moments too Where i've looked at things that have gone
Speaker 3: south And i'm, like you know, What i'm not a bad.
Speaker 4: Person you're not a bad. Person we're not meant to
Speaker 4: be always. Good.
Speaker 2: Absolutely that isn't that the point of? Relationships figuring that?
Speaker 2: Out who do we, keep who do we not?
Speaker 4: Keep who's for? Us who listen for?
Speaker 2: Us it's the whole, Point so, whole nothing, wrong nothing
Speaker 2: wrong with getting to the bottom of it and being, like,
Speaker 2: hey we're not a.
Speaker 4: Match, yeah peace, out have a right. Way no time, Wasted,
Speaker 4: yeah no time wasted at.
Speaker 2: All another thing we have in common is our obsession
Speaker 2: with new beauty. TREATMENTS i am very envious of, you,
Speaker 2: though because you go out there and try everything and
Speaker 2: then report. Back can we talk about BECAUSE i Am
Speaker 2: i've never had a laser.
Speaker 4: Treatment i'm, like AND i need TO i.
Speaker 3: Will you cannot tell people. This people are gonna hate. You,
Speaker 3: no it's just a ring.
Speaker 2: Light it's just it's JUST i just have good lighting in.
Speaker 2: Here that's that's all it. Is but, LISTEN I i
Speaker 2: would love to talk about some of your recent endeavors
Speaker 2: and what your experiences are with.
Speaker 4: Them, uh can we talk About? Morpheus?
Speaker 3: Morpheus, Okay i've Done morpheus one time and you have
Speaker 3: to know. This it was after my last boob, job
Speaker 3: SO i was fully Under they did my boobs and
Speaker 3: they did my.
Speaker 4: Chest you have to have a few. TREATMENTS i am
Speaker 4: a a c, right, Okay and it was very painful,
Speaker 4: recovery SO i didn't feel. It my mom's.
Speaker 3: Done it was like that was brutal and she has
Speaker 3: a very high pain. Tolerance that bitch like past kidney. Stones, like,
Speaker 3: yeah nobody's, business, Right SO i didn't fulfill the rest
Speaker 3: of the. Treatments if you're a gangster and can handle,
Speaker 3: Pain morpheus is, incredible especially for like tightening and plumping the.
Speaker 4: SKIN i would do. IT i wouldn't do it Because
Speaker 4: I'm i'm not, you but you but you right? Right?
Speaker 2: YEAH I i was told BECAUSE i had a consultation
Speaker 2: with a plastic surgeon a couple of years ago about
Speaker 2: having a potential mommy makeover WHEN.
Speaker 4: I KNEW i was done having.
Speaker 2: Kids, Uh AND i was, like you, know Maybe i'll
Speaker 2: have a little tummy, tuck Maybe.
Speaker 4: I'll get a little breast.
Speaker 2: Lift and in that, consultation the DOCTOR i was meeting
Speaker 2: with actually told me that FIRST i should do a
Speaker 2: boob job because he didn't want to do. Them at
Speaker 2: the same. Time he was, like don't the mommy makeover.
Speaker 2: Thing they're better done differences. Separately it's. Scary, Yeah and
Speaker 2: so he had recommended that we Try morpheus before or
Speaker 2: the tummy. Tuck so he, said while you're under for
Speaker 2: the boob, JOB i can Do morpheus on your stomach
Speaker 2: to see if it helps tighten any of the loose skin.
Speaker 2: There and he, said AND i would want to do
Speaker 2: it while you were under because the deeper you're able to,
Speaker 2: go the better the results. Are but it's so painful you,
Speaker 2: Can't like, YOU i wouldn't be able to go that
Speaker 2: deep if you were just under, local like local, antista
Speaker 2: and so he did say, that and THEN i.
Speaker 4: Thought but then what do you do for the follow up?
Speaker 2: Treatments you're not going to be put under every time For,
Speaker 2: morpheus so that just doesn't seem.
Speaker 3: Well if he's going super, deep, though maybe you don't
Speaker 3: need as many. TREATMENTS i if you end up doing,
Speaker 3: THAT i would really like to know how you feel about,
Speaker 3: it because how many kids do you? Have? Too SO
Speaker 3: i don't know if this happened with you my AND
Speaker 3: i hate this, term But i'm gonna say.
Speaker 4: It are you gonna, say snap?
Speaker 3: Back?
Speaker 4: YES i hate? It was it better after the first.
Speaker 2: And mine gone by the?
Speaker 4: Second?
Speaker 3: Yeah oh the Second i'm in playing. POSITION i look
Speaker 3: at my. Stomach i'm, like, oh who's ninety year old?
Speaker 4: Stomach is this exactly the?
Speaker 2: Same AND i actually just assumed it was BECAUSE i
Speaker 2: was much older as a. Mom my FIRST i had
Speaker 2: at thirty, eight which is not, young and my SECOND
Speaker 2: i had at, Forty SO i, Thought, okay it's Because
Speaker 2: i'm forty having a. Kid but my after my FIRST
Speaker 2: i got my pre pregnancy body back within the.
Speaker 4: Year like it never even, happens like it never has
Speaker 4: normal second everything's loosey, goosey lucy.
Speaker 3: Goosey i'm so insecure about, it, yep because it's WHEN
Speaker 3: i move a certain, way LIKE i can't be on
Speaker 3: top of a.
Speaker 4: Man are you? Crazy oh, yeah forget. It so that works.
Speaker 3: Because here's the thing with the tummy, tuck you rust a,
Speaker 3: risk a funky belly, BUTTON.
Speaker 2: I, know and the belly button that looks like everyone
Speaker 2: else's belly button and a scar hip to.
Speaker 3: Hip, yeah do the, morpheus you know. WHAT i have
Speaker 3: a pre op call for My i'm getting my boobs.
Speaker 3: Redone it's like reconstructive. Surgery Maybe i'll ask them if
Speaker 3: they can smack my stomach with That. Morpheus Maybe i'll
Speaker 3: be reporting back to you because my boob job Is march.
Speaker 2: Sixteenth, wow, okay and that was this your third it's a.
Speaker 4: Revision it's, okay tell me Because I'VE i.
Speaker 2: Don't i'm only thinking about. It do you do you looking?
Speaker 2: Back do you wish you had ever had your boobs?
Speaker 2: Done could you imagine a? Time could you imagine a
Speaker 2: world where you're, like, YEAH i would absolutely do this
Speaker 2: one hundred times over to have these.
Speaker 4: Results what's your opinion on the boob JOB i love
Speaker 4: the boob. Job, OKAY i love the boob.
Speaker 3: JOB i WISH i wouldn't have gotten them done at
Speaker 3: the age of. TWENTY i felt like that was completely
Speaker 3: unnecessary and silly and. Stupid But i'm all about the boob.
Speaker 3: Job and they've come so far with the technology as
Speaker 3: far as like making the. Implant, YEAH i say life
Speaker 3: is short at the boob, job life a short at the.
Speaker 4: Lips but you don't need the, Lips, no these are,
Speaker 4: mine BUT i.
Speaker 2: DO i am a definitely at a place post, cancer
Speaker 2: post two.
Speaker 4: Children how DID i not know?
Speaker 2: That, yes cancer twenty twenty, four just fresh out breast,
Speaker 2: cancer breast. Cancer SO i have a two pretty large
Speaker 2: scars on my right breast WHERE i had two lumpectomies
Speaker 2: and a lymph node. Removed and the lymph node had
Speaker 2: no cancer in, it but it's you, know you have
Speaker 2: to have it removed in order to make sure the
Speaker 2: cancer hasn't. Spread and then with weight loss and with
Speaker 2: two children who, breastfed, YEAH i don't recognize what's going
Speaker 2: on anymore from you, know chest to below my belly.
Speaker 4: Button no, clue no clue whose body this.
Speaker 2: Is and So i've recently started, THINKING i THINK i
Speaker 2: would feel significantly better about myself IF i had some
Speaker 2: sort of breast lift and or got rid of this extra.
Speaker 2: Skin and YET i struggle very much with the idea
Speaker 2: that that is.
Speaker 4: Also a little bit.
Speaker 2: Insane my husband is not looking at me saying to,
Speaker 2: me you hideous, beast, RIGHT i am only saying not to,
Speaker 2: Myself and, like that's probably coming from a really, unhealthy
Speaker 2: not evolved part of my brain and my personality THAT
Speaker 2: i would probably be better working on in. Therapy and,
Speaker 2: also like, it how often is anyone going to see?
Speaker 2: That LIKE i do, think, well it would be cute
Speaker 2: IF i could like wear a cute little crop top
Speaker 2: every now and, then BUT i would never right. NOW
Speaker 2: i wouldn't be caught dead in a crop top with
Speaker 2: my loose stomach or.
Speaker 4: In a two.
Speaker 2: Piece and Yet i'm taking my kids on a wonderful
Speaker 2: vacation for spring, break AND i, think look at all
Speaker 2: these cute two. Pieces they're cute on other, people but
Speaker 2: they wouldn't be cute on. ME I so THEN i
Speaker 2: struggle Because i'm, like maybe this is more of a
Speaker 2: therapy thing than a surgery. Thing BUT i do KNOW
Speaker 2: i would feel better IF i had the. Surgery all,
Speaker 2: right you're not gonna like WHAT i have to. Say number,
Speaker 2: One i'm so grateful you're.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, yes, yes me, too thank.
Speaker 3: You the second THING i remember going, In so what's
Speaker 3: happened on my right side IS i have AND i
Speaker 3: always botch it capsular.
Speaker 2: Contracture, yes, okay so when there's certain positions you make
Speaker 2: and it looks you can like a muscle is moving
Speaker 2: in your yes.
Speaker 3: Implant but now it's beyond. That and it didn't happen
Speaker 3: the first two boob. Jobs it happened the, third or
Speaker 3: it happened after my second baby because and they're thinking
Speaker 3: it has to do with mess mass titis where the
Speaker 3: clog milk duct that obviously caused some sort of germ and.
Speaker 4: Reaction it's concaved on the.
Speaker 3: SIDE i go in for my annual booby screening and
Speaker 3: she tells me what it.
Speaker 4: Is that's WHERE i first learned what it. Is and.
Speaker 3: She, SAID i have a great doctor for. You don't
Speaker 3: go until you're done having. Kids AND i, said, YEAH
Speaker 3: i MEAN i don't need to go anytime. Soon who
Speaker 3: AM i trying to? Impress and she, goes you do
Speaker 3: it for yourself you don't do it for anybody. Else
Speaker 3: so as much AS i think that we can work
Speaker 3: on with, therapy if you feel that you would feel
Speaker 3: better with a little, niptuck you should do.
Speaker 4: That, yeah, yeah BECAUSE i know you have to see
Speaker 4: yourself naked every. Day go you, know like You if.
Speaker 3: Your man thinks you're, beautiful that's, great but you have
Speaker 3: to feel. Beautiful we can be told all day long
Speaker 3: that we are bounced back is amazing and you're, gorgeous
Speaker 3: we have to feel that. Way and if that comes
Speaker 3: with me getting a little procedure, done But i'm gonna
Speaker 3: freaking do.
Speaker 2: It right, Right, no you're, Right you're, Right AND i
Speaker 2: go back and forth BECAUSE i also, think wouldn't it
Speaker 2: be great if WHAT i really felt, was, yeah there's
Speaker 2: a little bit of loose, skin BUT i made two,
Speaker 2: babies and who. Cares BUT i don't actually feel that.
Speaker 2: Way WHAT i feel like IS i made two. BABIES
Speaker 2: i love my two. Babies i'm so grateful for my
Speaker 2: body THAT i was able to make those two. Babies
Speaker 2: and NOW i would like to recognize the body that
Speaker 2: made those two, babies AND i don't recognizally fair and, yeah,
Speaker 2: okay so thank YOU i think, again when you get
Speaker 2: that done and you come to me and you're, Like
Speaker 2: i'm thinking about getting this done in, this then we
Speaker 2: go see the.
Speaker 3: Therapist now there's bigger, issues but right, NOW i think
Speaker 3: what you're saying is totally.
Speaker 2: Fine, okay all, right thank, you you're. Right but you know,
Speaker 2: what and knowing, me probably won't be too. Long i'll be,
Speaker 2: like all, right these nasal label, folds what do we do?
Speaker 4: Get how do we get rid of? These then we
Speaker 4: gotta call the. Therapist, Okay, yes another thing we have in.
Speaker 4: Common this is just.
Speaker 2: Me this interview is me just telling you all the
Speaker 2: things That i've discovered we have in.
Speaker 4: COMMON i love. It we are both sneaker. Heads OH
Speaker 4: i love a sneaker.
Speaker 2: Babe oh me, too Sneaker, Okay so it used to
Speaker 2: Be jordan ones, though.
Speaker 4: That was always that's my, favorite number one favorite.
Speaker 2: SILHOUETTE i think they look great on, men they look
Speaker 2: great on. Women they make so many different great color,
Speaker 2: ways they look good under every type of, gene they
Speaker 2: look great with, skirts they look they look great with.
Speaker 2: Everything But i've also recently become obsessed with The jordan.
Speaker 2: Four it's another one of my absolute favorite, silhouettes AND
Speaker 2: i love some of the colourways they've. DONE i have the,
Speaker 2: ORCHIDS i have the, bricks AND i love. Them so
Speaker 2: have you always been into, shoes specifically sneakers or is
Speaker 2: that something that you've evolved.
Speaker 4: INTO i THINK i evolved into.
Speaker 3: IT i was a big heel girl for a very long,
Speaker 3: time and then after my, BABIES i was, like what
Speaker 3: AM i? DOING i want to be, COMFORTABLE i want
Speaker 3: to feel. Cozy, YES i just want my closet full
Speaker 3: of different sneakers, because like you, SAID i could wear
Speaker 3: it with a, dress a, skirt, sweatpants.
Speaker 4: JEANS i love them.
Speaker 2: Same that's exactly my. JOURNEY i was a heel almost.
Speaker 2: EXCLUSIVE i mean even during the day to run, ERRANDS
Speaker 2: i had a heel On. Wow is THAT i don't.
Speaker 2: Know it's called being in your, TWENTIES i. Guess and
Speaker 2: then in my late third after having, KIDS.
Speaker 4: I was, like what are we?
Speaker 2: Doing AND i always had LIKE i had some converse
Speaker 2: and in high SCHOOL i Had, converse and you, Know
Speaker 2: i've just in general loved, shoes but, boy it BEFORE
Speaker 2: i like became just, SNEAKERS i was all about the.
Speaker 2: Heels you and me Both, yeah, WOW i really do.
Speaker 4: Love this new.
Speaker 2: Phase and the thing THAT i love is that all
Speaker 2: of the FEELINGS i got, about like self expression from
Speaker 2: heels because of the different, colors and oh this one's
Speaker 2: patent and this one has a te strap and all of,
Speaker 2: THOSE i get all those same things with. Sneakers oh,
Speaker 2: Yeah i'm, like what it WAS i ever? MISSING i don't.
Speaker 2: Know it's just they're they're. Perfect you have two beautiful.
Speaker 2: Children you have two. Girls, oh you have two.
Speaker 4: GIRLS i have two.
Speaker 3: GIRLS i thought you had a son and a. DAUGHTER
Speaker 3: i have to have kind of boy names. THOUGH i Have,
Speaker 3: ocean who's my five year. Old she'll be five next,
Speaker 3: month And osa is a year and a.
Speaker 4: Half both. Girls, okay both. Girls what are they?
Speaker 2: Into what are their current interests at five and one
Speaker 2: and a?
Speaker 4: Half, Oh ocean is just the girliest of.
Speaker 3: GIRLS i had to wipe her face clean because she
Speaker 3: put on, makeup AND i, said you cannot wear makeup to?
Speaker 4: School?
Speaker 3: Why, mom you're four and she Is i'm going to
Speaker 3: be five next. MONTH i was, like still too, young
Speaker 3: you're not wearing makeup to? School changes a million times a,
Speaker 3: day goes through my, closet says will you save this
Speaker 3: for me for WHEN i get, OLDER i really want.
Speaker 3: This And sosa is just kind of mimicking right. Now
Speaker 3: so if she Sees ocean playing dress, up she wants
Speaker 3: to play dress. Up if she Sees mommy putting on,
Speaker 3: makeup she wants to put on the. Makeup so it'll
Speaker 3: be they're so, different, THOUGH i can already tell that
Speaker 3: they're going to be very. Different ocean's very, independent not
Speaker 3: much phases. Her sosa gets her feelings hurt if you
Speaker 3: look at her. Wrong, yes it's. Intense you think you've
Speaker 3: conquered the art of, motherhood Like i'm crushing, this and
Speaker 3: then the second one comes and you, go this is
Speaker 3: going to take a new set of.
Speaker 4: Skills, yes, yes and was very good about. That growing.
Speaker 2: Up my brother AND i are very different and she
Speaker 2: had to mother us very, differently and so she always said.
Speaker 2: That so thankfully for, me it wasn't totally shocking because
Speaker 2: she had, said, like whatever your first one, is don't
Speaker 2: think that's gonna be the only type you're gonna. Have
Speaker 2: your second's gonna throw you for a. Loop and sure,
Speaker 2: enough my boys are exactly the. Same they're very. Different
Speaker 2: adler is a Totally adler is a jock and into
Speaker 2: all things athletic and, sports and he wants to play with.
Speaker 4: Us or with a. Friend he's incredibly.
Speaker 2: Social and Then keaton is, Like i'm, Good i'm good
Speaker 2: on my, Own i'm good to play by.
Speaker 4: Myself notching the younger.
Speaker 2: One keaton's the younger, One, okay, yeah and so, yeah
Speaker 2: just totally. DIFFERENT i have to parent them, differently and
Speaker 2: it's it is pretty, WILD i, know Because.
Speaker 3: I'm, like you can't, well for, you that came from
Speaker 3: the same.
Speaker 4: Person for.
Speaker 3: Me Anytime ocean does SOMETHING i don't, Like i'm, like
Speaker 3: you got that from your.
Speaker 4: DAD i still do that and we're we're. Married but
Speaker 4: if there's SOMETHING i don't, like it's not for.
Speaker 3: Me, no all the perfect things come from, me. OBVIOUSLY
Speaker 3: i want to ask.
Speaker 2: You you are On bravo's hit Show The. VALLEY i
Speaker 2: have been A valley girl since middle. School could you
Speaker 2: give me some of your hidden?
Speaker 4: Gems you found in the eight one Eight?
Speaker 3: OH i don't know if this is a hidden, gem
Speaker 3: But i'm absolutely obsessed with. It it's Little isakayah right
Speaker 3: On sepulvida and it's like you would think that this
Speaker 3: strip center is like there's nothing, there, yeah, right but
Speaker 3: that it is a hidden gem because every TIME i
Speaker 3: talk to anyone about, it, like, yeah there's a specific, niche,
Speaker 3: right there's a specific group who knows about it and
Speaker 3: they lunch there on their. Break any of my, friends,
Speaker 3: though they're, LIKE i drove past and it was LIKE
Speaker 3: i want to go.
Speaker 4: In i'm, like you gotta go, through you gotta. Go,
Speaker 4: yeah do you know that you know?
Speaker 3: It?
Speaker 4: OBVIOUSLY i MEAN i know of, it BUT i don't.
Speaker 4: THINK i don't even know If i've ever been. There oh,
Speaker 4: girl you gotta.
Speaker 3: Go, okay, YES i THINK i will come back At, North,
Speaker 3: South east And west.
Speaker 2: Is It it's not where the movie theater, is right
Speaker 2: where The Arc light used to.
Speaker 4: Be it's not in that.
Speaker 3: Center, No SO i think It's South, okay south Of
Speaker 3: does that make?
Speaker 4: Sense South adventure or does it?
Speaker 3: Venture south would be, yeah you could be pH, yes,
Speaker 3: Correct so It's South aventure right. On So Pulvida, okay
Speaker 3: and you've literally drive by and you're, like what in the,
Speaker 3: world there's no way any of those restaurants are. Open
Speaker 3: they're all open and they're all. Popping, okay good to.
Speaker 4: KNOW i like. That now we're going to blow up.
Speaker 4: Sushi it's it's. Sushi, yes, okay, Fabulous okay.
Speaker 2: GREAT i know you have been open about relationships in the,
Speaker 2: past but you have kept some of your more recent moves.
Speaker 2: Quiet are we looking at twenty twenty six as a
Speaker 2: year of a possible public romance for?
Speaker 4: YOU i Think i'm going to find my person this?
Speaker 4: Year you, DO i? DO i feel? Well why you
Speaker 4: just feel? IT i just feel.
Speaker 3: IT i feel Like I'VE i talked to the universe
Speaker 3: On New Year's day AND i sat outside of my
Speaker 3: house In Palm springs AND i just, said, LIKE i
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