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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject. I've never been under this much pressure,

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley. I had a living girlfriend for three

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Speaker 1: years and I came home one day and she had

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Speaker 1: moved out. She told me that she needed space and

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Speaker 1: she felt like she was wasting her time with me.

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Speaker 1: I went and talked to her parents and they said

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Speaker 1: that I need to marry her or let her go.

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Speaker 1: I've never in my life been under pressure like this.

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Speaker 1: She's almost thirty and she still tells her parents everything.

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Speaker 1: I started telling my sister and her husband what was

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Speaker 1: going on with my girlfriend. My sister said I need

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Speaker 1: to let my girlfriend go because she is childish and

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Speaker 1: should have talked to me before she left. But her

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Speaker 1: husband said that my girlfriend loves me and she's trying

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Speaker 1: to get my attention. She was staying at her friend's

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Speaker 1: house and said she needed to clear her head. Two

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Speaker 1: weeks ago, she had a vase full of roses in

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Speaker 1: her car when we went to When we met to talk,

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Speaker 1: she said she bought the flowers for herself. She also

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Speaker 1: has dyed her hair and started back wearing her extension

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Speaker 1: her hair extensions. She stopped doing her hair for me

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Speaker 1: over a year ago. Last week, she came by my

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Speaker 1: house to get her TV from the living room. She

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Speaker 1: was driving a Burgundy SUV with a Sigma tag on

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Speaker 1: the front. I saw her in the camera and I

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Speaker 1: called her to ask whose car she was driving. She

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Speaker 1: told me it's her friend's car who's helping her to

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Speaker 1: get settled at her new place. I didn't even know

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Speaker 1: she'd moved into her own place. In my mind, we

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Speaker 1: were still a couple and working on our relationship. My

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Speaker 1: sister said, my girlfriend is playing me for a fool,

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Speaker 1: and I need to turn the table and start acting

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Speaker 1: like I don't care. I'm scared to do that. My

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Speaker 1: sister's husband said, I'm the one playing games and I

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Speaker 1: lost my girl because I won't commit. Is she waiting

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Speaker 1: for me to marry her, or has she left me?

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Speaker 1: What do I do? Well, she's living her best life

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Speaker 1: right now, that's for sure. And after three years of nothing,

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Speaker 1: what do you expect? I mean, if she'll listen, you

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Speaker 1: can try to catch up with her and try to

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Speaker 1: talk to her. You certainly have nothing to lose now.

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Speaker 1: But please understand, no woman wants to No woman, I

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Speaker 1: should say, wants to be in a going absolutely nowhere relationship.

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Speaker 1: That was your mistake doing nothing to move the relationship forward.

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Speaker 1: I mean, like she said, she needed to clear her head.

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Speaker 1: She's got to start thinking of herself now. She's got

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Speaker 1: her biological clock to consider. She's probably wanting a family

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Speaker 1: and children by now. And she's given you three years

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Speaker 1: and no ring, no nothing. Your brother in law, I think, Nail,

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Speaker 1: did she left because you won't commit? Excuse me, it's

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Speaker 1: too bad you didn't appreciate her in the three years

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Speaker 1: that you had her. You had her right there, because

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Speaker 1: sooner or later, women do realize that they're giving way

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Speaker 1: more than they're getting, and they stop allowing men to

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Speaker 1: use them and take them for granted. I mean, they

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Speaker 1: rediscover who they were before you and focus in on

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Speaker 1: what they really want. You had a great run with

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Speaker 1: her for those three years. Now she's had it with

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Speaker 1: you and your time is up. What do you do

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Speaker 1: you ask? If this is not about ego for you,

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Speaker 1: and this is truly the woman you want to be

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Speaker 1: of your life with. Now, I suggest you go to her,

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Speaker 1: try to get her back. Like I said earlier, ask

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Speaker 1: her out for dinner or something so you guys can talk.

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Speaker 1: If she says no, this ship has sailed. If she

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Speaker 1: says yes, then maybe you have a chance. But if

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Speaker 1: you're not serious about committing this time, let her go

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Speaker 1: and don't waste another second of her time.

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Speaker 2: Steve, this letter is so, so so simple to me.

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Speaker 3: You're torn between trying to figure out the advice you're

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Speaker 3: receiving from your sister and her husband.

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Speaker 2: That's the advice. You're torn behind it. But see, you

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Speaker 2: can stop all that.

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Speaker 3: I'm so shocked with me me, and always be surprised.

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Speaker 3: I've never been under this much pressure, Bruh. What this

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Speaker 3: letter ain't even about you being underpressure. There's nothing in

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Speaker 3: this letter that has you underpressure. You've never been this confused,

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Speaker 3: but you ain't under no pressure. You got living in

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Speaker 3: girlfriend for three years. You came home one day she

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Speaker 3: moved out. Just one day she moved out. You came

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Speaker 3: home and all of a sudden, she gone, well you

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Speaker 3: ain't see none of us coming, No, no, you. Everything

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Speaker 3: was peachy keen. And you came home and one day she.

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Speaker 2: Had moved out. I doubt that, brother.

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Speaker 3: She told me she needed space, and she felt like

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Speaker 3: she was wasting her time with me. Well, she need

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Speaker 3: her space. That means y'all not growing, and you she

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Speaker 3: will feel like she wasting her time with me, which

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Speaker 3: means you're not only growing, you ain't going nowhere. So

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Speaker 3: now this is all for nothing according to her. Then

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Speaker 3: you went and talked to her parents and they said

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Speaker 3: you need to marry her or let her go. Dog,

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Speaker 3: you've been living with this woman three years, sin, that's

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Speaker 3: what the ladies and ladies and young people just whoever,

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Speaker 3: if you've lived with a person three years, what is

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Speaker 3: the decision you're trying to make now?

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Speaker 2: You didn't live with somebody three years? Ladies, let me.

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Speaker 3: Tell you something right now about me. And if we

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Speaker 3: move you in, we already know if we want to

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Speaker 3: marry you or not. If we move you in, we

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Speaker 3: already know if we want to marry you or not. Now,

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Speaker 3: if he ain't asked you to marry him when he

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Speaker 3: asked you to move in, then he just wants you

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Speaker 3: to move in. Sometimes you want the cow without buying

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Speaker 3: the milk, or you want the milk without buying the cow.

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Speaker 2: However you want to look at it. It happens all

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Speaker 2: the time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know why y'all seem to think that moving

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Speaker 3: that work out for y'all, because now you're sitting there

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Speaker 3: because you're doing all your wifely duties and he getting

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Speaker 3: all the benefits of a wife. But he ain't got

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Speaker 3: to pay the costs. He ain't got to buy you

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Speaker 3: no ring, He got to make no commitment.

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Speaker 2: Man.

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Speaker 1: We'll have part two of your response coming up to

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Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject is I've never been under

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: I've never been under this much pressure.

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Speaker 2: Boy.

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Speaker 3: You ain't even under pressure. You just confused right now.

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Speaker 3: You're playing dumb. But I can't let you slide. You've

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Speaker 3: been a living girl fear for three years. You came

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Speaker 3: home one day, she moved out, just like that, and

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Speaker 3: then she told you she needed some space and felt

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Speaker 3: like she was wasting her time with me. Now you

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Speaker 3: ain't talk to her. You went over her parents' house.

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Speaker 3: He said you need to marry her or let her go,

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Speaker 3: because they sit over there looking at Joe. What y'all

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Speaker 3: playing house for? It's been three years? What are you

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Speaker 3: waiting on? She's almost thirty and she still tells her

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Speaker 3: parents everything. Didn't you go over there to hear what

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Speaker 3: the parents had to say? She telling her parents everything

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Speaker 3: because you ain't talking to her. Had you been talking

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Speaker 3: to her, you would have known any day now she

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Speaker 3: about to move out. See, but you're too busy playing.

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Speaker 3: I'm dumb and I'm under pressure. Now, I guess you

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Speaker 3: think it's pressure because the parents say you need to

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Speaker 3: marry her or let her go. Because if you're in

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Speaker 3: love with the woman, what you're waiting on? What you're

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Speaker 3: trying to get together? Because like I said, ladies, stop

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Speaker 3: thinking that moving in with a man is a prelude

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Speaker 3: to marriage, because it's not. It doesn't promise you anything

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Speaker 3: because he's getting what he will. He gets a chick

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Speaker 3: of his dreams, and but you don't get the day

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Speaker 3: of your dreams. Your day of your dre is a wedding.

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Speaker 3: His dream is a chick. He get the chick without

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Speaker 3: the wedding. Bingo. How many times have men came in

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Speaker 3: here and got the milk without buying the cow, But

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Speaker 3: you're passing our.

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Speaker 2: Milk every day. She done got tired of you went

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Speaker 2: over that.

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Speaker 3: Then after you talk to your parents, you went and

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Speaker 3: told your sister. Now your sister said you need to

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Speaker 3: let the girlfriend go because she's childish and she should

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Speaker 3: have talked to you before she left. Your sister is

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Speaker 3: one hundred percent correct. She is one hundred percent correct.

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Speaker 3: But then guess what, but her husband said that my

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Speaker 3: girlfriend loves me and she's trying to get my attention.

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Speaker 3: She was staying at her friend's house and said she

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Speaker 3: needed to clear her head. Two weeks ago, she had

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Speaker 3: a vase full of roses in her car. When we

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Speaker 3: really in a vase, in a vase, then in the

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Speaker 3: back seat. You know why they was in the back

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Speaker 3: seat because they was on her desk at work. You

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Speaker 3: know what, She taking them flowers to home. Women women

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Speaker 3: don't do flowers like that. They do it different. They

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Speaker 3: come to their house. They don't They don't go up

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Speaker 3: it delivered to the house. They got over each now

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Speaker 3: and then here we go. She's also dyed her hair

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Speaker 3: and started back to wearing hair extensions. She stopped doing

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Speaker 3: her hair for me over a year ago. Well, this

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Speaker 3: ain't about you no more.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 3: Last week she came by the house to get her

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Speaker 3: TV from the living room. She was driving the burgundy

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Speaker 3: SUV with a Sigma tag on the front.

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Speaker 2: You didn't let a Sigma take your girl?

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Speaker 3: Be boy, I'm not fitting left you already know everybody

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Speaker 2: That's that's a little D nine shade. You let a

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Speaker 2: Sigma come up in and take your girl? Boy?

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Speaker 3: What that's all I got to get. Shout out the

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Speaker 3: blue fire, Shout out the blue fire. I've been with

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Speaker 3: say you better watch some sigmas. Man who that get

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Speaker 3: your girl never had a diamond on the front of

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Speaker 3: his car. We'd all understood that he shimmy this way

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Speaker 3: on up into your little girl's life, had little cane

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Speaker 3: toil and everything, and got your attendance. She gone anyway,

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Speaker 3: Shout out the blue fire. Some great signals out there, man,

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Speaker 3: Jedthnny Brown, Emmy Smith, all four of you, so anyway.

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Speaker 1: Lots of shade, lots of it.

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Speaker 3: She was driving a Burgundy SUV with a Sigma til

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Speaker 3: he ain't even get a blue one.

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Speaker 2: I'd be pu countients of this right here.

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Speaker 3: She'd have got a blue suv, but no, he gonna

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Speaker 3: get burgled with them that's what I'm anyway, she told

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Speaker 3: and he's helping her get the settled into his new place.

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Speaker 2: She didn't lie. I didn't even know she moved into

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Speaker 2: her own place. In my mind.

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Speaker 3: We steal a couple, that's in your mind, and we've

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Speaker 3: been working on our relationship. My sister said, my girlfriend

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Speaker 3: turn the tables and start acting like I don't care.

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Speaker 3: I'm scared to do that, and you should be scared.

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Speaker 3: You got sigmas taking your woman's You need to be

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Speaker 3: scared of a lot of things. My sister, her husband said,

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Speaker 3: I'm the one playing games and I lost my girl

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Speaker 3: because I won't commit.

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Speaker 2: Is she waiting for me to marry her? Or has

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Speaker 2: she left me? What did I do? And she gone dog?

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Speaker 2: She came over to the house, got TV off the wall.

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Speaker 3: When women come over and take TVs off walls, they

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Speaker 3: gone over. When women settling in to the new place,

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Speaker 3: they gone. When the woman who stopped wearing extensions for

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Speaker 3: dye her hair.

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Speaker 2: She gone.

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Speaker 3: When a woman get her own place, she gone. When

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Speaker 3: a friend help her move, she gone. Now, let me

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Speaker 3: tell you something right quick. It's too late. You are

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Speaker 3: too late, and both your sister and her husband is right.

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Speaker 3: Your sister moved out. She should have talked to you,

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Speaker 3: from a reaction because you ain't doing nothing, wasting her time.

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Speaker 3: One is the result of the other. She gone because

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Speaker 3: you didn't do your job. Jody got your gallon gone,

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Speaker 3: and Jody is a Sigma God.

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