1 00:00:00,440 --> 00:00:20,200 Speaker 1: Slavriper cold sun persimmons, Japanese knife, pizza, fresh from the box, moon, 2 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: winking at my husband, farm stand at dawn, sheep butter, 3 00:00:29,240 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Viking of him, duck, roasted apples, sliced sun satiated Christmas 4 00:00:41,320 --> 00:00:52,240 Speaker 1: over warming cheese, crackling fire boots, scraping on the porch, 5 00:00:53,080 --> 00:01:02,400 Speaker 1: Pizza for dinner, alpaca blanket, tommium soup, leftovers for days, 6 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:15,640 Speaker 1: masterpiece theater, Marino, wool bond me, son's girlfriend home from college, honey, drippy, 7 00:01:17,200 --> 00:01:29,560 Speaker 1: damp sweater. How fuck it? Okay, okay, who's that knocking 8 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 1: at the door. It's all your friends, you filthy horse. 9 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: Your husband's gone and we've got books and a bottle 10 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 1: of wine to kill. It's books, it's gossip. I'm shook. 11 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:47,080 Speaker 1: It's memoirs, Martini Clebri book Club. Come read it while 12 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:51,280 Speaker 1: it's hot. Celebrity book Club. Tell your secrets. We won't 13 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 1: talk celebrity books. No boys are alloud. Celebrity book stay 14 00:01:58,400 --> 00:02:02,480 Speaker 1: it loud and poud, loving a book club. Buzz man 15 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,080 Speaker 1: I brought the queer voe. Hello, best friend, it's so 16 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 1: good seeing you down under the Brooklyn Bridge where you 17 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:17,359 Speaker 1: can hear the train rattling roll New Yorkers, bagel Man, 18 00:02:17,960 --> 00:02:27,600 Speaker 1: construction workers, tourists, Hallo car, artisigns, constructionists, designers, web programmers, 19 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 1: sales people, and folks who have laptops. Yeah, I live workspaces. 20 00:02:33,000 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 1: It's great to be in New York. I love the city. 21 00:02:34,800 --> 00:02:37,800 Speaker 1: I love working in media. Do I love working media? Sure? 22 00:02:38,400 --> 00:02:42,280 Speaker 1: But is it my passion? No? No, what's your real passion? Food? Food? 23 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:45,000 Speaker 1: It is my passion. And I speaking of We just 24 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:51,679 Speaker 1: had a Thanksgiving. We call person, No, it's it's you 25 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,000 Speaker 1: say that because famously my family was always really trying 26 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 1: to switch Thanksgiving up and like having it on the 27 00:02:57,200 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: fourteenth of November, so Thanksgiving doing a turkey and not 28 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,920 Speaker 1: doing a turkey, And like now I've recently gotten into 29 00:03:05,000 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: like doing Thanksgiving on the day and doing a turkey 30 00:03:09,520 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: and writing our national gay and making fucked up American 31 00:03:16,120 --> 00:03:20,000 Speaker 1: food filled with butter oink oink to get us fatter 32 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 1: so then we can shop tomorrow. Bye bye bye. Anyway, 33 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:27,560 Speaker 1: today's really exciting and I just want to get to it. 34 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 1: We have an amazing guest and we're gonna get so 35 00:03:30,440 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 1: I guess we'll talk about the turkeys. I mean, in 36 00:03:32,360 --> 00:03:35,160 Speaker 1: the vip lounge. We're going to talk about the Alison 37 00:03:35,240 --> 00:03:37,320 Speaker 1: Roman turkeys you made in the vip lounge. We're gonna 38 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,920 Speaker 1: talk about the update of my full TikTok, the Popeyees 39 00:03:40,960 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: turkey I made Popeyes turkey. We're talking about a mom today. 40 00:03:47,720 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 1: We're talking about the book we read today. Is one 41 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: of the most iconic books ever. It is one of 42 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:53,760 Speaker 1: the most iconic people ever. I feel like when we 43 00:03:53,760 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: started this podcast, it was like she was always on 44 00:03:55,760 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: the list. Yes, she is someone who I think I 45 00:04:00,840 --> 00:04:03,560 Speaker 1: literally did discover her on Twitter. Yeah, she has an 46 00:04:03,560 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 1: incredible Twitter presence. She's just like the ultimate poet when 47 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,000 Speaker 1: it comes to food. She was the New York Times 48 00:04:09,080 --> 00:04:13,040 Speaker 1: restaurant critic for many years, the gourmet editor of Gourmet 49 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:16,400 Speaker 1: from about two thousand until it's death in two thousand 50 00:04:16,400 --> 00:04:19,880 Speaker 1: and nine. She's a memoirist. She worked at bakeries in 51 00:04:19,920 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 1: San Francisco and Berkeley in the seven the contemporary of 52 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:25,080 Speaker 1: Alice Water as we all know her. We all over. 53 00:04:25,120 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 1: Of course we talked about Ruth right, I thought it 54 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 1: was Rychael. Maybe we can ask our amazing Yes, but 55 00:04:31,440 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: not only are we doing this incredible food book, but 56 00:04:33,480 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: we have an incredible food list A coup a coup 57 00:04:36,480 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 1: really for us and an entire industry. I don't think 58 00:04:38,800 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: he's ever appeared in a podcast before. He is a 59 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: contributing editor of the magazine. He's I mean, just so 60 00:04:48,839 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 1: huge in the food space, but also like huge to 61 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,280 Speaker 1: me as a friend, as a compatriot. We just had 62 00:04:55,320 --> 00:04:57,240 Speaker 1: a delicious meal via Quota, which we we'll be talking 63 00:04:57,279 --> 00:04:59,920 Speaker 1: about on the west. You know, we might get a 64 00:05:00,040 --> 00:05:02,839 Speaker 1: to it. Right at the top, Ladies and gentlemen, please 65 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 1: welcome a mere Stonic. Hi, guys, thank you for having 66 00:05:08,480 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 1: me on your podcast. We are so thrilled to have 67 00:05:11,480 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: you here. I just want everybody out there to know 68 00:05:13,480 --> 00:05:17,640 Speaker 1: that I'm also a Patrion subscriber and that's how you 69 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,720 Speaker 1: got in here. More than a year. Yeah, yep, and 70 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: I got my After a year. You get your token 71 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:23,600 Speaker 1: and then you get to come on the podcast. So 72 00:05:23,680 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: let that be a lesson to all of you stick 73 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: around store. You know you work at one of the 74 00:05:29,279 --> 00:05:32,719 Speaker 1: most famous food magazines. Oh, because you know you're amazing chef. No, 75 00:05:32,880 --> 00:05:35,480 Speaker 1: it's the token system. They just emailed me and they 76 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: found out I was a subscriber and get it, Like, 77 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:39,599 Speaker 1: what do you do. Is there a book that we 78 00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:41,560 Speaker 1: could kind of because there are some way we can 79 00:05:41,640 --> 00:05:46,000 Speaker 1: make this work. Yes, we sent you a Amtrak coupon. Yeah, 80 00:05:46,160 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 1: and you came right into you used your rebate, and 81 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,560 Speaker 1: yeah you you hopped the chain from Hudson. We are 82 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: so grateful for that. So we just had a lunch together. 83 00:05:57,040 --> 00:06:00,400 Speaker 1: And having lunch in Manhattan. I think, is it's so 84 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: heavy and so present in the Ruth Rachel book. So 85 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 1: she is from uh yeah, she's from the West Village 86 00:06:07,640 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: and also like her era is kind of the golden 87 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: age of magazines. I see this book as a sister 88 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 1: book to the Tina Brown book that we read, because 89 00:06:14,480 --> 00:06:18,799 Speaker 1: they both helmed magazine, undersign, New Houses, Conde Nast, and 90 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: like had any kind of sane budget to like do 91 00:06:21,440 --> 00:06:24,039 Speaker 1: whatever they wanted. But it's it's kind of a jack 92 00:06:24,160 --> 00:06:26,240 Speaker 1: I found it a little bit of a jackeline high. 93 00:06:26,400 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 1: I agree to the Tina Brown where Tina, you know, 94 00:06:30,040 --> 00:06:33,839 Speaker 1: was you know, in so many deals, in so many cars, 95 00:06:33,960 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: like she knew the old like restaurants weren't for eating, 96 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:40,479 Speaker 1: they were from meeting and whereas Ruth actually wanted to eat, 97 00:06:40,720 --> 00:06:42,400 Speaker 1: she actually wanted to eat. But also I feel like 98 00:06:42,440 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: she was kind of on the Titanic as it was sinking. Yeah, 99 00:06:46,080 --> 00:06:49,840 Speaker 1: you know, No, Tina was like building the Titanic in 100 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:52,840 Speaker 1: the eighties, you know, like she was having fun. There 101 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 1: was there was no like the Internet wasn't a Clinton 102 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:58,799 Speaker 1: anyone's eye, Like, there was nothing but clear skies ahead. 103 00:06:58,839 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 1: It was just like, how can you make YO magazine? 104 00:07:00,839 --> 00:07:03,160 Speaker 1: The Begas the best of the brashes? Honey? The line 105 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: of black cars outside the building was only gonna get longer, 106 00:07:05,920 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: never shorter. Yeah, and then Ruth just like saw you know, 107 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:12,960 Speaker 1: roam fall. But I feel like also because she came in, 108 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 1: she was such a bumpkin, Like that was like the 109 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,360 Speaker 1: thing she comes in. She's like in her like Berkeley 110 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 1: knit sweater. She's always being. She defines also like in 111 00:07:22,320 --> 00:07:24,120 Speaker 1: this way we talk about celebrities who are like, I'm 112 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,040 Speaker 1: so the weird girl, when she actually was the weird 113 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,720 Speaker 1: girl and everyone was like so fab and like with 114 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 1: a driver, and she was like, I was just in 115 00:07:31,880 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: this vintage Chloe black blazer going to the event, and 116 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: I realized I was way overdressed in my cheek little 117 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:44,000 Speaker 1: vintage like I'm so weird. And then she was like, oh, 118 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:48,800 Speaker 1: I was in like the grossest little like brocade crocheade, 119 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:53,360 Speaker 1: floral like sweater blazer, so art teacher with my frizzy hair, 120 00:07:53,720 --> 00:07:55,560 Speaker 1: and like everyone's always like giving her the once over 121 00:07:55,560 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 1: with her outfit and they're like, I can't believe you 122 00:07:57,080 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: wore that to be all gunquin. I know, I feel 123 00:07:58,920 --> 00:08:00,560 Speaker 1: like the first half of the books her just being 124 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 1: like and I walked into the room with James Truman 125 00:08:02,680 --> 00:08:04,680 Speaker 1: and he just looked me up and down and shook 126 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: his head in displeasure. Actually, there also so many times 127 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:11,640 Speaker 1: where it's like, Okay, clearly you've now pathologized this as 128 00:08:11,680 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 1: like a virtue of yourself that like you're always poorly 129 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:18,000 Speaker 1: dressed in a room full of totally superficial midtown But 130 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:22,840 Speaker 1: then the clothing allowance kicks in and then it does Okay, 131 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: but this is all just to say, we did eat 132 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: in Manhattan because we wanted to be Ruth. Yes, how 133 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:31,640 Speaker 1: did how did you come into Ruth? What's your relationship 134 00:08:31,680 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: with because you actually recommended this book to me. We 135 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:38,720 Speaker 1: had been dming and Emil and I actually we also DM. 136 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 1: We have a we have we also DM. It's true. 137 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:43,680 Speaker 1: I think actually I may actually have DMed with Lily 138 00:08:43,720 --> 00:08:46,559 Speaker 1: about it years. Okay, but you and I have been 139 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: to more weddings together, that's true. One more. We've been 140 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:55,640 Speaker 1: to one wedding. Well you two crashed, yes, And also 141 00:08:55,720 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: I was not a guest. I was cooking the wedding. 142 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: The reason I wanted to read it was because, I mean, 143 00:09:00,320 --> 00:09:03,719 Speaker 1: Gourmet was my favorite magazine and like for me, you 144 00:09:04,120 --> 00:09:07,040 Speaker 1: will in Maryland, not even like he was like in 145 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 1: college in the early aughts or I guess mid oughts. 146 00:09:11,800 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: All I wanted to do Oberlin College all I wanted 147 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:17,679 Speaker 1: to do and Lena same clown we yes, no, she 148 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:20,120 Speaker 1: was a year above me. Okay, but we overlapped. You know, 149 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,679 Speaker 1: we were friends once absolutely and then as we as 150 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:24,680 Speaker 1: we all were. Yeah. I remember hearing her on Terry 151 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,440 Speaker 1: Gross one time when she got famous, and then I 152 00:09:27,440 --> 00:09:28,719 Speaker 1: texted her and I was like, I can't believe you're 153 00:09:28,720 --> 00:09:31,120 Speaker 1: on Terry Gross. She said, I'm sorry, who is this? 154 00:09:33,640 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: And we haven't spoken sense and now she checks you wait, 155 00:09:37,760 --> 00:09:42,360 Speaker 1: he heard you a sorry lost this number? Who is this? 156 00:09:44,360 --> 00:09:47,160 Speaker 1: That'll be really satisfying. Yeah, it's gonna feel good. And 157 00:09:47,360 --> 00:09:50,040 Speaker 1: everyone else say, you know they're reading the you know, 158 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: fight club or whatever in college you're reading Jack Carouac 159 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:00,760 Speaker 1: or whatever. I remember when I found out the Gourmet 160 00:10:00,800 --> 00:10:04,360 Speaker 1: was folding and I, I mean, you can talk to 161 00:10:04,360 --> 00:10:05,800 Speaker 1: my roommates. At the time, I was living in like 162 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:08,719 Speaker 1: a big, old, falling down house like like Ruth, you know, yeah, 163 00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:13,800 Speaker 1: big communal house, yeah, in Ohio, and was beside myself. 164 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:16,880 Speaker 1: I was just drunk all the time, walking around the house, 165 00:10:17,000 --> 00:10:19,160 Speaker 1: ranting and raving about it. And I was like, where 166 00:10:19,160 --> 00:10:23,520 Speaker 1: am I going to work now? Bon APPETI wow, because 167 00:10:23,559 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 1: you know, to me, bon appetite was like thirty minute meals. 168 00:10:26,559 --> 00:10:30,839 Speaker 1: It was yeah, And Gourmet was for people who really 169 00:10:30,840 --> 00:10:33,720 Speaker 1: cared about food, really cared about really love entertaining. It 170 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 1: was real writing, you know, photography, yeah, and uh and 171 00:10:39,720 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: uh you know, and now here I am. It was. 172 00:10:41,800 --> 00:10:44,240 Speaker 1: It was excellence. It didn't it did not cater to 173 00:10:44,240 --> 00:10:47,200 Speaker 1: the lowest common denominator as all media must do now, 174 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 1: no offense to current bone content that they produced. But 175 00:10:53,640 --> 00:10:55,400 Speaker 1: you know, back in the day, and this was sort 176 00:10:55,440 --> 00:10:58,680 Speaker 1: of size empire, which was like he as Ruth says, 177 00:10:58,720 --> 00:11:00,160 Speaker 1: she was like he had a commitment to excellent and 178 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: he was like gave his editors free reign, and it 179 00:11:02,600 --> 00:11:06,240 Speaker 1: was higher the best writer close travel around the world, 180 00:11:06,679 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 1: like take risks. But so Ruth comes in. They bring 181 00:11:10,880 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 1: her in because gourmet is just I mean, no one's 182 00:11:15,440 --> 00:11:19,559 Speaker 1: buying it. Yeah, I think there's an since the forties 183 00:11:19,640 --> 00:11:22,360 Speaker 1: or something, right, it's so old. Ye. Yes, they realize, 184 00:11:22,440 --> 00:11:24,840 Speaker 1: you know, it's being written for people with servants, and 185 00:11:24,920 --> 00:11:28,239 Speaker 1: no one has servants anymore. Okay, honey, this is the nineties. 186 00:11:28,520 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 1: They brought her on because they were like she saw that. 187 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:33,960 Speaker 1: I mean, she absolutely anticipated all of the trends of 188 00:11:34,040 --> 00:11:36,640 Speaker 1: just like food is going to be become more democratized, 189 00:11:36,640 --> 00:11:39,839 Speaker 1: it's going to become more international, like more like middle 190 00:11:39,840 --> 00:11:42,000 Speaker 1: class Americans are gonna want to cook. They're gonna like 191 00:11:42,360 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: chefs are gonna become celebrities. It's like all of the 192 00:11:44,440 --> 00:11:46,520 Speaker 1: trends that we have now, Like she anticipated, was like, 193 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 1: we need to incorporate these. In May May, I read 194 00:11:49,720 --> 00:11:55,120 Speaker 1: a quote that I gasped, Yes, she's she's working at 195 00:11:55,120 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 1: this point. Um actually for the times, she says, and 196 00:12:02,120 --> 00:12:05,439 Speaker 1: all the naive earnestness of a young writer. I cried, 197 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:11,839 Speaker 1: Thai food is going to be the next big thing. 198 00:12:12,640 --> 00:12:16,040 Speaker 1: But our readers, her voice was cool and distant, have no, 199 00:12:16,080 --> 00:12:18,360 Speaker 1: this is a gourmecer have no interest in the next 200 00:12:18,400 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: big thing. Other publications attempt to be timely. Here at Gourmet, 201 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:24,960 Speaker 1: we like to think of ourselves as timeless. That can't 202 00:12:25,040 --> 00:12:27,800 Speaker 1: be true, I replied, I've learned everything I know about 203 00:12:27,800 --> 00:12:30,320 Speaker 1: the food of other countries in the pages of your magazine. 204 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: Gourmet has taken me to Mexico, China, India. Now you 205 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,800 Speaker 1: need to take your readers to Thailand. She literally when 206 00:12:37,840 --> 00:12:40,199 Speaker 1: she was pitching a story to go to Thailand when 207 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 1: she was like twenty Yeah, And what's insane is She's like, 208 00:12:42,520 --> 00:12:44,920 Speaker 1: ultimately I sold the story elsewhere and I didn't get 209 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,079 Speaker 1: to fly to Thailand. And I'm like, imagine today going 210 00:12:48,200 --> 00:12:50,840 Speaker 1: up to I don't care any magazine, like any grown 211 00:12:50,920 --> 00:12:54,520 Speaker 1: up a tea. Imagine I go over to the Freedom 212 00:12:54,559 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: Tower and I knock on whoever's door and I'm just like, hey, 213 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:01,640 Speaker 1: I want to write a story about Thailand. Will you 214 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,200 Speaker 1: fly me to Bangkok? Now, they'd be like, oh, story 215 00:13:04,200 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 1: about Thailand. That sounds great. So you're already going like 216 00:13:06,600 --> 00:13:09,599 Speaker 1: on vacation, funding your trip and you can write a 217 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 1: blog about it while you can like actually pay us 218 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,520 Speaker 1: to publish it. Yeah, And they're like they're like, oh, 219 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:16,480 Speaker 1: you want to do a story and a soup, We'll 220 00:13:16,480 --> 00:13:18,640 Speaker 1: send you a car to the airport. We'll have a 221 00:13:18,640 --> 00:13:22,560 Speaker 1: clothing allowance, yes, um, but it's just you'll need at 222 00:13:22,600 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 1: least a month in Thailand. But basically also at that time, 223 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,960 Speaker 1: like Gourmet was like, oh, we did a story on Bangkok, 224 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 1: and of course it was about like someone saying like 225 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: royal meal and she was talking about, yes, just just 226 00:13:33,880 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: the street vendors, which now, of course is you know, 227 00:13:36,600 --> 00:13:40,199 Speaker 1: Highland is more than just Bangkok across every single pages 228 00:13:40,360 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: for you know, like Sandy cobble Hill to make her 229 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:48,000 Speaker 1: boyfriend Tom Yum, which is now like happening every second 230 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 1: of the well, I mean now every restaurant in New York. 231 00:13:50,160 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: It's very just like if you don't know the difference 232 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: between Northern Thie and Southern Thie, like you might as 233 00:13:55,040 --> 00:13:57,480 Speaker 1: well close up shop and move to Philadelphia. I was 234 00:13:57,480 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: gonna say Hoboken, but Yeahiladelphia even were Yeah. Okay, So 235 00:14:01,280 --> 00:14:03,400 Speaker 1: Ruth sort of starts out, so she talks a little 236 00:14:03,400 --> 00:14:06,040 Speaker 1: bit about her childhood and this which mother was to 237 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:10,920 Speaker 1: quote my mother mother was bipolar. Yeah. Father was a 238 00:14:11,040 --> 00:14:15,720 Speaker 1: German immigrant, yeah, and her mother was very like always 239 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 1: wanting her father to take buy her furs and take 240 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:22,120 Speaker 1: her to the Ritz. They would do this thing where 241 00:14:22,440 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: they would go to the Rainbow Room and they would 242 00:14:25,000 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 1: have one drink and then leave because they actually couldn't 243 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,560 Speaker 1: afford to have dinner, but she wanted to just be 244 00:14:30,680 --> 00:14:33,280 Speaker 1: in the but they would also try to get she 245 00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:34,600 Speaker 1: really wanted to go to the Four Seas. The mom 246 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: really wanted to go to the Four Seasons. And they 247 00:14:35,920 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: would go to that like kind of like depress a 248 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: little cafeteria like nearby and eat like hot dogs and 249 00:14:40,800 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: then like look in the window of the Four Seasons. 250 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:45,840 Speaker 1: I mean, and she says this quote that so rings true. 251 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 1: I feel like when I go to like fancy cocktail 252 00:14:48,600 --> 00:14:52,040 Speaker 1: place that which she's like, no matter how slow, usip 253 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,640 Speaker 1: a drink only lass. Oh god, that was the most 254 00:14:56,840 --> 00:15:02,920 Speaker 1: that literally broke me. No break, no matter how still 255 00:15:02,960 --> 00:15:05,000 Speaker 1: you said, it's still just to be like I'm getting 256 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 1: my fancy cocktail and it's like, what will you have 257 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,280 Speaker 1: money for? This was no, but it really just it 258 00:15:10,400 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: felt a little bit too close to home. I was 259 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,600 Speaker 1: just like, I mean, literally my birthday, we went to 260 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:18,120 Speaker 1: the Grille, which is the old Four seasons that she 261 00:15:18,160 --> 00:15:20,560 Speaker 1: talks about constantly, And they wouldn't let me in because 262 00:15:20,600 --> 00:15:25,440 Speaker 1: I was in shorts and fourmal shorts from a PC. 263 00:15:26,000 --> 00:15:29,280 Speaker 1: And yet that is amazing that a major food group 264 00:15:29,480 --> 00:15:33,680 Speaker 1: restaurant in twenty twenty two trying to turning people away 265 00:15:33,760 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: in shorts just because I feel like, because I feel 266 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: like there are so many people with so much money 267 00:15:37,880 --> 00:15:40,080 Speaker 1: in New York City, in LA and like other like 268 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:43,720 Speaker 1: big rate you like easy, You're like like right, You're 269 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:45,720 Speaker 1: like that is clearly the richest person in the room, 270 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 1: the person in basketball shorts and flat flaw billionaire. Yes, yes, no, 271 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: you know, like if you're dressed like Adam Sandler, you've 272 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:56,680 Speaker 1: got money. Hunt. We went to our fancy lunch and 273 00:15:56,760 --> 00:16:00,160 Speaker 1: I put on my like literally like eighties teena brown 274 00:16:00,240 --> 00:16:02,400 Speaker 1: drag of like a blue and white striped shirt, and 275 00:16:02,440 --> 00:16:04,160 Speaker 1: it's like, that's how you can tell like ten dollars 276 00:16:04,160 --> 00:16:07,720 Speaker 1: to my bank. Like if I was like billionaire, it'd 277 00:16:07,720 --> 00:16:12,360 Speaker 1: be like tattered sneakers, t shirt and then like weird 278 00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,200 Speaker 1: like Merrells or something like that. And I just it 279 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 1: was it was heartbreaking that she could tell, also at 280 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,280 Speaker 1: that age that her mom was so desperate to be 281 00:16:20,280 --> 00:16:21,880 Speaker 1: a part of this role that she would never be 282 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:24,640 Speaker 1: able to be in. And she could also because she 283 00:16:24,640 --> 00:16:26,600 Speaker 1: also wasn't a part of it on an intellectual level. 284 00:16:26,600 --> 00:16:28,800 Speaker 1: Like the mom didn't work, and she didn't have like 285 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:31,560 Speaker 1: the creative outlet, and she didn't have like she had 286 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:34,320 Speaker 1: some fabulous friends, but she wasn't like at the dinner 287 00:16:34,320 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 1: parties every night. Well she was. She was married once 288 00:16:37,280 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 1: to like a she was married to like a wealthy guy, right, 289 00:16:40,360 --> 00:16:43,280 Speaker 1: and then they got a divorce, and then she married 290 00:16:43,320 --> 00:16:45,520 Speaker 1: Ruth's dad, and then they had like a little bit 291 00:16:45,560 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 1: more of it, Like it was the sort of a 292 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:53,240 Speaker 1: graphic designer of book loved books, Yes, and Ruth is 293 00:16:53,280 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 1: like such a daddy's girl. I mean obviously because the 294 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:58,000 Speaker 1: mom was also very I feel like a little great 295 00:16:58,000 --> 00:17:00,640 Speaker 1: gardens and like wrapped in fur and like in her 296 00:17:00,680 --> 00:17:02,880 Speaker 1: room for a full month. Yeah, it's like she wasn't 297 00:17:02,920 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: at the ritz. The stuff around the mom was so 298 00:17:04,840 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: crazy because you also, like the book opens and before 299 00:17:08,320 --> 00:17:10,919 Speaker 1: you ever hear anything about the mom being like bipolar 300 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: or having like mental health stuff, She's just like, yeah, 301 00:17:13,600 --> 00:17:15,800 Speaker 1: you know, I loved cooking and I would read Gourmet magazine. 302 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:17,119 Speaker 1: I thought it was really cool. And then I got 303 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:19,600 Speaker 1: the Gourmet Cookbook, which is great because sometimes I would 304 00:17:19,640 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 1: just open the fridge and there would be a suckling 305 00:17:20,960 --> 00:17:23,080 Speaker 1: pig in there, and then my mom would be like, 306 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:26,159 Speaker 1: can you cook it? And then I did indeed cook it, 307 00:17:26,200 --> 00:17:28,320 Speaker 1: and then I cooked the suckling pig and she was like, well, 308 00:17:28,359 --> 00:17:30,840 Speaker 1: that that magazine is actually worth its salts, right, And 309 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:33,760 Speaker 1: then like two chapters later she's like, my mom was bipolar, 310 00:17:34,040 --> 00:17:37,440 Speaker 1: and that explained the suckling pig and why there randomly 311 00:17:37,560 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 1: was a full pig, and why they reorganized the house 312 00:17:40,560 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 1: so that there were no bedrooms. Oh that was insane, yeah, 313 00:17:44,440 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 1: because the mom was just like, this is better for 314 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:48,520 Speaker 1: entertaining now, right, yeah, right right, we'll have just and 315 00:17:48,560 --> 00:17:50,679 Speaker 1: she was like, and I could never I would always 316 00:17:50,720 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: fall asleep in the bathroom because my room is where 317 00:17:53,600 --> 00:17:57,399 Speaker 1: they serve dessert. You know, I I empathized with the 318 00:17:57,440 --> 00:17:58,879 Speaker 1: mother in this way because you're just like, you know, 319 00:17:58,920 --> 00:18:00,600 Speaker 1: you want to put your best foot forward, and like 320 00:18:00,640 --> 00:18:03,760 Speaker 1: you have people over and you're so concerned because you're 321 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: seeing people entertaining these grand monthss where they have the 322 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,119 Speaker 1: Classic six, they have the maids room, they have the 323 00:18:10,160 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 1: servants entrance to the kitchen and you're just like, well, 324 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,240 Speaker 1: where am I going to put dessert? Because this was 325 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:16,359 Speaker 1: a dessert room. I think it was. Also it was 326 00:18:16,440 --> 00:18:20,919 Speaker 1: before there was, you know, an idea of luxury that 327 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:25,200 Speaker 1: is very current of like the bone appetite idea of luxury, 328 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,560 Speaker 1: which is you can have like paper plates like on 329 00:18:28,600 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 1: your couch and everybody cram everyone your little yeah, and 330 00:18:32,000 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 1: it's like, oh, we don't have wine glasses. We all 331 00:18:34,240 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: just like grab like old like kim Che mismatched kim 332 00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:43,720 Speaker 1: Che containers as wine glasses. But then it's like this 333 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,480 Speaker 1: journey that goes on. So also, so you know, she's 334 00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,840 Speaker 1: at the New York Times, she gets poached by Si. Yeah, 335 00:18:49,960 --> 00:18:51,680 Speaker 1: Tina's you know, she's at the New You know, she's 336 00:18:51,840 --> 00:18:54,800 Speaker 1: wheeling and dealing. She knows what she's doing, and like 337 00:18:55,240 --> 00:18:57,160 Speaker 1: Ruth is a little bit just like you guys are 338 00:18:57,320 --> 00:19:01,520 Speaker 1: ridiculous with like and they're all like when she's negotiating 339 00:19:01,600 --> 00:19:04,520 Speaker 1: her deal with Gourmet, like so many people are always 340 00:19:04,520 --> 00:19:07,320 Speaker 1: like a phraid they're being like followed by the paparazzi. 341 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:09,440 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they're at the Algonquin and like all the 342 00:19:10,000 --> 00:19:12,719 Speaker 1: Kandi people are being just like they follow us, so 343 00:19:12,760 --> 00:19:15,719 Speaker 1: you like, you you leave first, and then I'll follow 344 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:17,879 Speaker 1: because the press and then they like she like walks out, 345 00:19:18,160 --> 00:19:21,080 Speaker 1: So without revealing too much and mean episode. As someone 346 00:19:21,119 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 1: who works for Kandy, do you find that there remains 347 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:32,680 Speaker 1: an air of suspicion paranoia around concor I was gonna 348 00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:36,280 Speaker 1: say no, I was gonna say no, But I mean, 349 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: if you think about the analog to like paparazzi in 350 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:46,119 Speaker 1: like our modern age just being social media, right, I 351 00:19:46,119 --> 00:19:47,960 Speaker 1: feel like it is true. I feel like there is 352 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: there is a paranoia around. It's just different and it's 353 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:53,640 Speaker 1: just like, oh, actually the entire world is watching. I mean, 354 00:19:53,720 --> 00:19:55,760 Speaker 1: we were on the subway platform earlier and we were 355 00:19:55,800 --> 00:19:58,440 Speaker 1: talking about some gossip and you looked around. I saw 356 00:19:58,480 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 1: you look around. You looked around. Yeah, exactly exactly that 357 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,280 Speaker 1: to me, who could be here? Yeah? Yeah? Yeah? And 358 00:20:04,320 --> 00:20:06,199 Speaker 1: I think, yeah, who could be here? And then it's like, 359 00:20:06,320 --> 00:20:07,960 Speaker 1: you know, a friend will come to me and be like, 360 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:10,639 Speaker 1: oh my god, I saw you know, Carla at the 361 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:13,280 Speaker 1: you know, for a green farmer's market. What was she buying? 362 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm sure she was buying fresh ramps, heirloom tomatos. Well, 363 00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,560 Speaker 1: but I guess it's also like the idea of like 364 00:20:20,640 --> 00:20:24,040 Speaker 1: what you know when at the time, when you know 365 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:27,960 Speaker 1: our more modern era where it's like media makers, editors 366 00:20:27,960 --> 00:20:31,879 Speaker 1: like whatever are are not like in the old Conde 367 00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:34,200 Speaker 1: Nast times, it was like you are like a person 368 00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:36,600 Speaker 1: who's like floating up, does not live in this world. 369 00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: You are floating above everything. And instead now it's like 370 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:44,200 Speaker 1: you are to be the best possible every man. Yeah 371 00:20:44,280 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like Carla at the 372 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,040 Speaker 1: farmer's market. You're like, oh, she actually goes. It's not 373 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,679 Speaker 1: like there's like some she has like a task rabbit 374 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 1: going to like the brand is what you're silling? You're 375 00:20:57,080 --> 00:21:00,280 Speaker 1: on twenty four seven? Like that is that is the 376 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:09,479 Speaker 1: whole fame. I saw Carla's instacart shopper. Someone sees like 377 00:21:09,640 --> 00:21:14,679 Speaker 1: the scream, I mean, that would be a scandal. Talk 378 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: about her notes ap apology another thing. I feel like 379 00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:19,560 Speaker 1: it is so different between her and Tina, where it's 380 00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,920 Speaker 1: like Tina is a teetotaler, if I'm saying that correctly, 381 00:21:23,000 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: she doesn't drink, and in her whole book she's always 382 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:28,120 Speaker 1: like I didn't drink at the parties because I wanted 383 00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:31,280 Speaker 1: to remember everything. And she has these meticulous diaries, and 384 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:34,160 Speaker 1: like Ruth is always like sorry, I'm eating and drinking. 385 00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:35,520 Speaker 1: She was like at this point, I was drunk. It 386 00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:37,720 Speaker 1: was two pm. Like she's at the office, Like Ruth 387 00:21:37,800 --> 00:21:41,320 Speaker 1: is enjoying food and drink and Sigh is also like 388 00:21:41,359 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: an insane control freak. He doesn't like garlic. The wait, 389 00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,480 Speaker 1: the okay, can we talk about how what the frank 390 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:52,000 Speaker 1: Gary Condie Nast cafeteria that was designed? Yeah, and how 391 00:21:52,080 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 1: no is this still true that no garlic is served 392 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: in the Condie Nast cafeteria? Well, you know, so when 393 00:21:59,520 --> 00:22:01,880 Speaker 1: I started working at Conde, it was still at four 394 00:22:01,920 --> 00:22:04,640 Speaker 1: times Square, which is like where pre Freedom Tower, pre 395 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:08,680 Speaker 1: Freedom Tower. Indeed, there was no garlic. That was a 396 00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:12,200 Speaker 1: real but Si was still I mean, I was still 397 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: alive then, I was still alive. He died in like 398 00:22:16,119 --> 00:22:20,080 Speaker 1: twenty sixteen, twenty seventeen, and you still saw him all 399 00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:25,600 Speaker 1: the time. But it was really bleak, like being like 400 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:30,320 Speaker 1: being wheel no, no, like being wheelchaired in head to 401 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:34,560 Speaker 1: the side. You know, the wheelchair is being lifted up 402 00:22:34,560 --> 00:22:38,880 Speaker 1: the stairs by like four sturdy men. His white Victoria 403 00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: is yes. No. At that point, it was kind of 404 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:46,040 Speaker 1: like card Niggain okay okayampa, yes, and Victoria's feeling with 405 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 1: the pugs the only dogs allowed in the World Trade Center. 406 00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:52,919 Speaker 1: It was like I'm sure written into the like whatever 407 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,679 Speaker 1: contract Conde had when they moved into there, but in 408 00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 1: the old in four times Square, in the like original building. 409 00:22:59,080 --> 00:23:02,840 Speaker 1: Um yeah, no garlic. The food in the cafeteria was 410 00:23:03,200 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: her description of the food in the cafeteria was pretty accurate, 411 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,600 Speaker 1: Like you could get a good sandwich made by a 412 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: couple of true sandwich artists, and outside of that it 413 00:23:11,400 --> 00:23:15,320 Speaker 1: was like pretty blea. She describes that true sandwich artists 414 00:23:15,359 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: absolutely disgusting. Yeah, She's like the the noodles were limp 415 00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:21,879 Speaker 1: and overcooked and smothered in sauce. The only one was 416 00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:23,800 Speaker 1: good was the sandwich artist who would put extra meat 417 00:23:23,800 --> 00:23:26,080 Speaker 1: for the interns because they don't think getting paid the 418 00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: right And she brings Doc Willoughby in for like an 419 00:23:29,680 --> 00:23:32,840 Speaker 1: interview from Cook's Illustrated to like be her executive editor 420 00:23:32,880 --> 00:23:35,520 Speaker 1: or deputy editor or something like that, and she like 421 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:37,399 Speaker 1: he really wants to see the cafeteria, and he brings 422 00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:40,119 Speaker 1: her in. She brings him in and he's looking around 423 00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:42,119 Speaker 1: and he's like, can we go somewhere else? And she's like, 424 00:23:42,160 --> 00:23:44,320 Speaker 1: and then I knew I wanted to hire. 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I want 461 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,320 Speaker 1: to talk about when she first starts working at Grommets, 462 00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:18,520 Speaker 1: so she gets poached and she you know, she has 463 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:21,520 Speaker 1: this incredible critics eye, and gourmet is kind of a message. Obviously, 464 00:26:21,520 --> 00:26:24,520 Speaker 1: there's a huge budget, there's this test kitchen. They're doing 465 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: all this food all the time, but things are not 466 00:26:26,840 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: running smoothie. There's a lot of acrimony. And this is 467 00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,639 Speaker 1: kind of the first time that she proves herself to 468 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 1: the staff by being like a fougiis And this scene 469 00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 1: really took her breath ray. So she walks into the 470 00:26:37,160 --> 00:26:39,840 Speaker 1: test kitchen and they're making a cake and there's like 471 00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:42,960 Speaker 1: twelve chefs around, and they're making this chocolate cake like 472 00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:45,960 Speaker 1: potentially for a next recipe for the next issue. And 473 00:26:46,200 --> 00:26:48,600 Speaker 1: now they ask her what she thinks. I could feel 474 00:26:48,600 --> 00:26:50,600 Speaker 1: their eyes upon me as I study the jewel like 475 00:26:50,720 --> 00:26:53,800 Speaker 1: little cake. Considering my options, I could begin by commenting 476 00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,879 Speaker 1: on the prelim topping. Was it too sweet? Too bitter? 477 00:26:56,280 --> 00:26:58,920 Speaker 1: Maybe the pieces should be smaller. The chocolate was another 478 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: obvious target. I could suggest using one of higher quality. 479 00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: Should I speak up for the moscar Poe? Her language 480 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:11,200 Speaker 1: so beautiful? Should I speak up for the mascarpone. Then 481 00:27:11,240 --> 00:27:13,720 Speaker 1: the fork met my mouth and my body was flooded 482 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:16,439 Speaker 1: with sensations. As the dark, dense near bitterness that the 483 00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:20,480 Speaker 1: cake collided with the crackling sweetness of the preline. The 484 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:24,679 Speaker 1: flavors tumbled about a sensory circus that was finally tamed 485 00:27:24,720 --> 00:27:27,199 Speaker 1: by the rich smoothness of the frosting. It was all 486 00:27:27,240 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 1: I could do to keep from reaching for a second bite. 487 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 1: Extremely hard to hide my smile. I knew this cake. 488 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:37,200 Speaker 1: The cook's eyes bored into me. I'm guessing I tried 489 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:41,360 Speaker 1: this und tentative that this cake has an English pedigree. 490 00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:45,800 Speaker 1: And then the girl goes, how did you know? Then 491 00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:48,680 Speaker 1: she goes, unlike Americans, the English don't overdo the sugar 492 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: in their chocolate cakes. And then she goes that praline's 493 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 1: a nice touch, lovely texture, and I wouldn't mess with 494 00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:59,120 Speaker 1: the mascarpone cream cheese. Read so carrot cake, don't you think? Ah? 495 00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:04,880 Speaker 1: I see hearing so I used to. It's the perfect 496 00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,719 Speaker 1: thing to say if you're like, you're your first day 497 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,919 Speaker 1: on the job, just be like, I'm complimenting everyone, but 498 00:28:08,960 --> 00:28:10,840 Speaker 1: I mean a little bit. And yeah, because she also 499 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,040 Speaker 1: comes in and this first it's not even her first day, 500 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,480 Speaker 1: the three months before she starts, and like they're all 501 00:28:15,560 --> 00:28:18,200 Speaker 1: being so devil wars produm like eye rolling at her, 502 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,760 Speaker 1: and she promises to them because she like needs to 503 00:28:21,800 --> 00:28:25,000 Speaker 1: prove herself. Also that like she'll come in every day 504 00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: after she leaves in your time's office. Yeah, look while 505 00:28:29,600 --> 00:28:32,560 Speaker 1: she's still working at the time he gets brought in, 506 00:28:32,600 --> 00:28:35,399 Speaker 1: Like the day that's like say, is like okay, oh 507 00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: the old editors out and this gal's in. And then 508 00:28:39,200 --> 00:28:40,920 Speaker 1: she's like standing in front of everybody and she'd like 509 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,680 Speaker 1: written that speech and she couldn't think of anything. Come 510 00:28:44,760 --> 00:28:47,720 Speaker 1: in and she's got like sixty people staring at her, 511 00:28:47,800 --> 00:28:50,720 Speaker 1: and she's just like, I'm gonna come in every day 512 00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:53,560 Speaker 1: for the next three months until I start and then 513 00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:56,280 Speaker 1: I'll yeah say this one thing about mascarpone. So I 514 00:28:56,400 --> 00:29:01,520 Speaker 1: used to clean the SEVERER test kitchen is my UM 515 00:29:02,280 --> 00:29:07,600 Speaker 1: Food magazine experience. So SEVER is no longer in print. No, 516 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: I think the website their turnover was wild. I could 517 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:14,640 Speaker 1: tell is the maid like it was always just a 518 00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:17,920 Speaker 1: fully new staff like every week I went in there. 519 00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:22,760 Speaker 1: But now I do recognize that one of the test 520 00:29:22,840 --> 00:29:26,960 Speaker 1: kitchen people has like a muncheese YouTube show. Okay, so 521 00:29:27,120 --> 00:29:30,120 Speaker 1: SEVER was a jumping off plane for her, but it 522 00:29:30,200 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 1: was very like always redoing the office, and I would 523 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:37,120 Speaker 1: like grab Sever my way out and like I feel like, 524 00:29:37,120 --> 00:29:39,240 Speaker 1: get did you see the magazine get Thinner and thinner 525 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:44,120 Speaker 1: yea and running away, and I feel like they were 526 00:29:44,160 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 1: trying to actually take over foot. Gourmet used to be 527 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,240 Speaker 1: pre Ruth, where it would be like seven page story 528 00:29:50,440 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: about going to like about like a clem Glass. Yeah. 529 00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,959 Speaker 1: But at a certain point, all the Severse stuff just 530 00:29:57,240 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 1: I mean it was like the SEVER. I feel like 531 00:29:59,240 --> 00:30:01,720 Speaker 1: the way that people talk about Sever at Bony Pete 532 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:04,080 Speaker 1: when I started was like that's what we want. We 533 00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:07,840 Speaker 1: want to be Severt nineties Sever. It was like Gourmet 534 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:09,360 Speaker 1: was too close, and it was like, we want to 535 00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:13,920 Speaker 1: be ninety, to be retro fabulous. Well, yes, and we 536 00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:17,400 Speaker 1: want these kind of like glorious blush stories where you 537 00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: have like a ton of texture and you're really like journalism, yes, 538 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:24,360 Speaker 1: and you're like exploring cuisines and and like you know, 539 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: by the end, I feel like Sever was kind of 540 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:27,880 Speaker 1: like you know, I also there are a lot of 541 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,440 Speaker 1: things that I liked about Sever, but I feel like 542 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 1: it ultimately was like every story was kind of the same, 543 00:30:31,760 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 1: and it was like I haven't been to where I 544 00:30:35,520 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: grew up blank place in blank country in ten years, 545 00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: and this is my first trip back and I to 546 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:46,240 Speaker 1: make blank dish with blank member of my family. And 547 00:30:46,280 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: then they're kind of shooting it themselves and it's like 548 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:50,920 Speaker 1: a little awkward. Well, I was always trying to like 549 00:30:51,280 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: be so um was like in the movie, like they'd 550 00:30:55,480 --> 00:30:57,320 Speaker 1: been making some of them in test kitchen. I'm like 551 00:30:58,000 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: and I'd be like swiffering, like and I'm just being 552 00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 1: so like, hey, you over there to swift for do 553 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:07,800 Speaker 1: you want to try this? And me too? And like 554 00:31:07,880 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: I wanted to be like, oh me, yeah sure, And 555 00:31:10,360 --> 00:31:12,640 Speaker 1: then all of a sudden, like I say something like 556 00:31:12,840 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 1: whatever cream cheese, I'm like, oh good, touch with the 557 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:23,840 Speaker 1: slivered pistachio almonds would be too Jordanian? Is that rosewater edges? 558 00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: And they're like and they like they're like, what if 559 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,280 Speaker 1: you came in tomorrow. It's just a it's just a 560 00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,440 Speaker 1: part time job. Yeah, do you want to do? You 561 00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:36,160 Speaker 1: want to spot here? You're just like cleaning after hours 562 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 1: and there's like one of the test kitchen editors is 563 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: like crying they can't figure out how to make the 564 00:31:40,600 --> 00:31:44,000 Speaker 1: cake better, and You're like, let me try, Yeah, what 565 00:31:44,120 --> 00:31:47,640 Speaker 1: do you know? You're just a mad and you're just 566 00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:52,240 Speaker 1: like my mother worked many many hours cooking soup for 567 00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: the Governor of New York. I learned all her tricks 568 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: of the trade. She used a niece actually in her cheesecake. 569 00:32:00,680 --> 00:32:03,800 Speaker 1: She raised those kids like they were her over. But 570 00:32:03,880 --> 00:32:06,200 Speaker 1: the thing about that cake though, and that anecdote was like, 571 00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,400 Speaker 1: after she had like, you know, done her performance in 572 00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 1: the test kitchen, the food editor was like, how did 573 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: you know that? That's actually incredibly random, like don't give 574 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,640 Speaker 1: me this like English pedigree shit, and she's like, I 575 00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:20,560 Speaker 1: actually literally had that cake last month for the recipe 576 00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: and bake at all the time. So it was just 577 00:32:22,680 --> 00:32:24,480 Speaker 1: like and I'm like it was the kind of thing 578 00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,960 Speaker 1: where I'm like in this book, I'm like, is that 579 00:32:26,000 --> 00:32:29,240 Speaker 1: a true story? Because that sounds crazy? Well, I but 580 00:32:29,360 --> 00:32:31,240 Speaker 1: you know what I loved about it was like she 581 00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:33,160 Speaker 1: was like we had been at this rises found in London, 582 00:32:33,240 --> 00:32:35,960 Speaker 1: so it's like she is still being like globally fabulous. 583 00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,720 Speaker 1: It's like it does make sense she's trying restaurants and 584 00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,880 Speaker 1: every night of the week. Well, and also if you're 585 00:32:40,880 --> 00:32:44,680 Speaker 1: like thinking about like before food was a thing, yes, 586 00:32:44,840 --> 00:32:46,520 Speaker 1: it was like when people are talking about like a 587 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:50,480 Speaker 1: very specific caliber of restaurants that like, there's only a 588 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: certain caliber quote unquote caliber of restaurant that is going 589 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:55,520 Speaker 1: to be in gourmet that she's going to go to. 590 00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:58,680 Speaker 1: She's in London, it's like, actually like far fewer. Well, 591 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:00,360 Speaker 1: but I don't think that it makes her of fraud 592 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,480 Speaker 1: that she remembered that she could taste remember that recipe 593 00:33:03,560 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: from London. I think it just it makes her like 594 00:33:07,520 --> 00:33:10,680 Speaker 1: believably of that world and makes her observant, and like 595 00:33:10,720 --> 00:33:12,960 Speaker 1: that's what an editor needs. So I was just wondering 596 00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:15,000 Speaker 1: if that story was true because it seemed like it 597 00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,600 Speaker 1: just seemed Yeah, it just seems so crazy, but you know, 598 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:20,440 Speaker 1: I believe it. I believe it to because I feel 599 00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 1: like one thing that's weird about memoirs is like sometimes 600 00:33:24,520 --> 00:33:26,240 Speaker 1: there's so all these specifics and you're like, you can't 601 00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,200 Speaker 1: possibly remember that. I don't remember what I said last week? 602 00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,720 Speaker 1: How do you remember what you said fifteen years ago? 603 00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:32,120 Speaker 1: But this book is like there's kind of big spots 604 00:33:32,160 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: of time she kind of skips over. So it's why 605 00:33:33,920 --> 00:33:35,760 Speaker 1: that's why I kind of do believe the story is 606 00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:37,360 Speaker 1: a little bit because it's not being so. And then 607 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:39,280 Speaker 1: the next day and then the next day, like it 608 00:33:39,440 --> 00:33:42,160 Speaker 1: seems like it is only just what she remember. The 609 00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 1: dramatic parts of this book that I'm obsessed with is 610 00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:47,440 Speaker 1: which why I am obsessed withal because she is so 611 00:33:47,560 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 1: dramatic about food. Is the story when so her son 612 00:33:51,960 --> 00:33:55,760 Speaker 1: hates Nick. He hates that she's the critic because you know, 613 00:33:55,880 --> 00:33:58,720 Speaker 1: she goes out to eat every week. She comes back 614 00:33:58,760 --> 00:34:02,640 Speaker 1: from a night out and he's asleep and he's like, Mommy, 615 00:34:02,720 --> 00:34:06,200 Speaker 1: I'm hungry, and she's like she's like the jer baby 616 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:08,000 Speaker 1: said her feature and he's like, yes, but it's not 617 00:34:08,040 --> 00:34:10,719 Speaker 1: as good as you you're cooking. And then she's like, 618 00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,359 Speaker 1: if this reminds me of the scene, and something's got 619 00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:15,520 Speaker 1: to give. One day in Keaton makes blueberry pancakes for 620 00:34:15,600 --> 00:34:18,279 Speaker 1: Jack Nicholson and she goes, do you want me to 621 00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:21,240 Speaker 1: make spicy Chinese noodles? They'll be done in a flash, 622 00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:24,359 Speaker 1: and she's like, Nick paled his feet and she's just 623 00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:28,960 Speaker 1: like ginger glistening garlic in the pan. And it's like this, 624 00:34:29,200 --> 00:34:32,799 Speaker 1: it's so Manhattan, like this ten year old like craving her, 625 00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:38,600 Speaker 1: like gorgeous. She's firing up her momofuku like crazy too, 626 00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: because I was. I got confused because that anecdote came 627 00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:43,200 Speaker 1: kind of like early in the book and then like 628 00:34:43,320 --> 00:34:46,280 Speaker 1: later on she reveals that her kid like didn't eat 629 00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:49,759 Speaker 1: yet anything that wasn't white. I was confused by that too, 630 00:34:49,800 --> 00:34:52,719 Speaker 1: because he had this crazy like sickness for twelve years 631 00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:55,520 Speaker 1: and never ate anything as they were lay noodles. He 632 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,439 Speaker 1: was like, they were like, he has like some kind 633 00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,759 Speaker 1: of autoimmune disease, and so we have to keep him 634 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,640 Speaker 1: on the cocktail of antibiotics or he might die. And 635 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,560 Speaker 1: then he's like making him like chilly girl no, because 636 00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 1: then it's like then they have that story about him, 637 00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 1: like the going to the Japanese restaurant and like each 638 00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,960 Speaker 1: like he literally just eats rice becasse chef who slowly 639 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: introduces him to like increasingly rare fish, one thing at 640 00:35:19,560 --> 00:35:22,399 Speaker 1: a time, and then they're like, let's take him off 641 00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:24,279 Speaker 1: the antibiotics. I think it's time. And I was like, 642 00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: is this like a munch Housen by proxy? Like I mean, 643 00:35:26,880 --> 00:35:29,800 Speaker 1: he's like so like he was so little and sickly 644 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,759 Speaker 1: and he would never eat anything except white food because 645 00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:33,239 Speaker 1: we kept on giving him the drugs because he needed 646 00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:34,640 Speaker 1: the drugs. Other ways he would die, but he was 647 00:35:34,719 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: kind of dying because he was really malnourished, and then 648 00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:38,600 Speaker 1: we took him off the drugs and now he likes 649 00:35:38,640 --> 00:35:40,960 Speaker 1: eating everything in the six feet That was the lesson 650 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,719 Speaker 1: I got from it. It was just very like, he's 651 00:35:42,760 --> 00:35:45,360 Speaker 1: on the pills because he needs to be on the 652 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 1: pills because he can't in anything, but because he's sick, 653 00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:50,879 Speaker 1: but he's sick because he can't eat vegetables because he's 654 00:35:50,880 --> 00:35:52,480 Speaker 1: on the pill. It was just like, there's a circular 655 00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,719 Speaker 1: elegic here. Why don't you just stop the totally Yeah, 656 00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,719 Speaker 1: I'm like not here to question was parenting, but that 657 00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,439 Speaker 1: did seem like a little bit sous a meal. How 658 00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:01,720 Speaker 1: often did you go to eat as as a child. 659 00:36:03,239 --> 00:36:06,000 Speaker 1: Did you have a passion for restaurants as a child? Oh, 660 00:36:06,040 --> 00:36:08,719 Speaker 1: I loved restaurants. Okay, Well, because my parents are very 661 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,560 Speaker 1: like night. My mom's a nurse and a nutritionist. My 662 00:36:11,640 --> 00:36:13,840 Speaker 1: dad's a dentist. But he also he grew up in 663 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: the Soviet Union, so he's like as a booth with 664 00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,440 Speaker 1: yes yes, yes, yes, yes indeed um. But my mom's 665 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:26,680 Speaker 1: a little more Midwestern and is like also like a 666 00:36:26,760 --> 00:36:30,239 Speaker 1: nutritionist too, And it's like it was like very like 667 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:37,000 Speaker 1: no fat sour cream, like none fat, salt vibes, and 668 00:36:37,040 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 1: so like going out to eat was like a week 669 00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,680 Speaker 1: get to have like hit me with the Alfreda because 670 00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:45,560 Speaker 1: the house was always like low cholesterol Sarah Betty like 671 00:36:45,680 --> 00:36:50,480 Speaker 1: cookies or whatever, we like no fat. Yeah, that as 672 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: many snack wets what I want. I remember my babysit 673 00:36:53,200 --> 00:36:56,239 Speaker 1: are eating an entire package of snack Wells and me 674 00:36:56,400 --> 00:36:58,480 Speaker 1: like being chopped and because and she was like, oh 675 00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:01,799 Speaker 1: they're no fat. It is not She's downing sleeve after 676 00:37:02,040 --> 00:37:04,560 Speaker 1: sleeping snack wells and it was like that was the 677 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:06,759 Speaker 1: nineties myth, just like well they have no fat in them, 678 00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:09,800 Speaker 1: so I actually can eat actually like nineties sleeves of 679 00:37:09,920 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 1: snack well cookies. Yeah, that was I remember thinking like 680 00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: that just doesn't add up to me totally. So you 681 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,759 Speaker 1: were going to Chinese, Japanese, Indian where you were like 682 00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:23,919 Speaker 1: sampling the world. Yeah, you know, I feel like as kids, 683 00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,920 Speaker 1: like we went out to eat. I feel like we 684 00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,000 Speaker 1: went out to eat like once a week, and that 685 00:37:28,120 --> 00:37:29,640 Speaker 1: was like the thing. It was like we would go 686 00:37:29,680 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 1: out on Wednesdays, hump Day and a hump day guy. Yeah, 687 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,719 Speaker 1: you know it's like we would you know, I ate 688 00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:38,759 Speaker 1: sushi when I was really young, they were like these things. 689 00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,680 Speaker 1: I was like definitely praised for being an adventurous eater. 690 00:37:41,800 --> 00:37:44,759 Speaker 1: They were like, oh, our son, he's so advent right, 691 00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 1: Like you won't believe, you know. I feel like when 692 00:37:47,360 --> 00:37:49,279 Speaker 1: when my parents met my wife for the first time, 693 00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:50,799 Speaker 1: they're like, you know, he's such he was always such 694 00:37:50,840 --> 00:37:53,960 Speaker 1: an adventurous eater. When he came back from kindergarten with 695 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:58,160 Speaker 1: his little worksheet and said favorite food sushi, second favorite 696 00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:02,200 Speaker 1: food pizza. Can you believe that? Wow? I mean I'm stunned. Yeah, 697 00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:05,959 Speaker 1: kindergartener liking sushi. You know, a little California ran because 698 00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:09,760 Speaker 1: when I would go to the Japanese restaurant Showgun in Newton, Massachusetts, 699 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: I would always have the chicken COTSU as a child 700 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:15,000 Speaker 1: because that was kind of the kids one. There's no 701 00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:17,400 Speaker 1: way I would have been allowed to order the chicken cots. Wow, 702 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:23,480 Speaker 1: Fried Chicken. Oh that was against your nineties. Yeah, no, Fried, 703 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 1: I mean I wish I had been more adventurous. And 704 00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:28,960 Speaker 1: I'm embarrassed to say that I was having the chicken 705 00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:30,960 Speaker 1: cots at that stage. No, I mean I was getting 706 00:38:31,200 --> 00:38:32,640 Speaker 1: you know, I was a first sushi and I was 707 00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:35,560 Speaker 1: getting the tempora okay, oh, because it was a little 708 00:38:35,600 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: bit closer to what you appreciated. It was like more 709 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: like friedom me Stowe. Well, I'm just saying this one. 710 00:38:40,600 --> 00:38:43,799 Speaker 1: This there was a sushi restaurant, Japanese sushi restaurant called 711 00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 1: Kaya and Cambridge and pur Square shout out and they add. 712 00:38:46,400 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: I was like, okay, I'll get this like fried shrimp 713 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,399 Speaker 1: instead of like sushi because I'm afraid of sushi. Yeah, 714 00:38:51,440 --> 00:38:54,160 Speaker 1: but I think also, you guys are from the Boston area, 715 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:58,560 Speaker 1: a little more urbane than the suburb of Baltimore that 716 00:38:58,600 --> 00:39:01,800 Speaker 1: I grew up in, And I feel like, yeah, you know, 717 00:39:01,840 --> 00:39:06,920 Speaker 1: they're both provincial backwaters, Darling where culture goes Steve, are 718 00:39:06,960 --> 00:39:10,680 Speaker 1: you literally trying to like lose our base of massholes? 719 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:13,799 Speaker 1: But maybe where you grew up in Newton was a 720 00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:19,240 Speaker 1: provincial backward But we're full of the cross show, the intellect, 721 00:39:20,360 --> 00:39:26,600 Speaker 1: Lebanese food. Okay, I'm gonna wash your mouth out from 722 00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,200 Speaker 1: Helen Keller Um speaking Mario. Should we get to the 723 00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:36,520 Speaker 1: dinner at um Ballood where she spies Mario, Eric, Robert, 724 00:39:37,080 --> 00:39:39,759 Speaker 1: and Daniel Blood all talking to each other isn't that 725 00:39:39,760 --> 00:39:44,759 Speaker 1: an emp not? I believe it was it because they 726 00:39:44,760 --> 00:39:48,000 Speaker 1: were they were like two big chefs night out dinners. 727 00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,560 Speaker 1: There was one a Ballood sued I think that was 728 00:39:50,560 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 1: the first one, and then there leave it was Barbood. No. 729 00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:55,440 Speaker 1: I think Barbalood is the last because they had like 730 00:39:55,600 --> 00:39:57,520 Speaker 1: the final one that was like the end of the era, 731 00:39:57,600 --> 00:40:01,000 Speaker 1: the recessions happening. We're having fo the last time before 732 00:40:01,360 --> 00:40:05,359 Speaker 1: to jail, Like it's like David Chang and everyone's just 733 00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:10,120 Speaker 1: like crammed into bar Balloon and just like like sucking 734 00:40:10,320 --> 00:40:13,640 Speaker 1: palm down and getting truffles rained on their pussy. And 735 00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:16,120 Speaker 1: it's until three in the morning, and she's like, we 736 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,960 Speaker 1: all knew everything's going under. I feel like she knew 737 00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:22,880 Speaker 1: like Mario was so nasty in this way because she 738 00:40:23,000 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: was like she basically just tells a story about how like, 739 00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:29,360 Speaker 1: you know, someone explains to her that like Mario and 740 00:40:29,480 --> 00:40:32,800 Speaker 1: Ericapera like change, like you know, they're trading soux chefs, 741 00:40:32,800 --> 00:40:35,200 Speaker 1: and they're like that's what they do. They send each other. 742 00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 1: You know, he's sending someone from Bobo to you know, 743 00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,440 Speaker 1: to burn it Dan, and no one is like you know, 744 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,200 Speaker 1: possessive over their young guns. It was like the publisher 745 00:40:44,239 --> 00:40:46,359 Speaker 1: who was like, Wow, this the food world is so 746 00:40:46,600 --> 00:40:50,200 Speaker 1: different from the world. Any other world. Donna, Karen and 747 00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,799 Speaker 1: Ralph Lauren would never be in the same room, which 748 00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:57,160 Speaker 1: I also don't believe, but that somehow she just like 749 00:40:57,200 --> 00:41:01,560 Speaker 1: segues and she's like and this was before the meat movement. No, 750 00:41:01,760 --> 00:41:04,239 Speaker 1: it's the most like twenty nineteen at it of just 751 00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:07,359 Speaker 1: being like and you know, back then, I wish we 752 00:41:07,480 --> 00:41:10,400 Speaker 1: had spoken up in our own ways more, but it 753 00:41:10,440 --> 00:41:12,839 Speaker 1: was a different time and we knew that these men 754 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 1: were sometimes a little handsy, but we didn't think it 755 00:41:16,480 --> 00:41:19,719 Speaker 1: was that bad, and we all were thankful that we 756 00:41:19,719 --> 00:41:23,239 Speaker 1: got the opportunity to work with them. The other although 757 00:41:23,280 --> 00:41:26,839 Speaker 1: I feel like she also wasn't working in kitchens as much, 758 00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:29,160 Speaker 1: so it was like, well, she worked in kitchens early on, 759 00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,960 Speaker 1: and like the Alice Waters Berkeley, San Francisco, which was 760 00:41:32,000 --> 00:41:35,799 Speaker 1: probably a lot less like so many Hansy Battali's. Yeah, 761 00:41:35,840 --> 00:41:37,560 Speaker 1: she was working in a very sounds like a very 762 00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 1: rarefied like she's like, I was just bringing in herbs 763 00:41:40,880 --> 00:41:44,000 Speaker 1: from my garden to like garnish salads with because our 764 00:41:44,160 --> 00:41:48,160 Speaker 1: the communal soup kitchen restaurant that we ran was running 765 00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,879 Speaker 1: out of money. Yeah, and it's like she probably wasn't 766 00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,480 Speaker 1: exposed to that as well, know, to like yelling the 767 00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:57,160 Speaker 1: toxicity of restaurants. Yeah. The other moment, of course, I 768 00:41:57,160 --> 00:42:00,040 Speaker 1: feel like every single book we read um has to 769 00:42:00,080 --> 00:42:08,000 Speaker 1: about eleven. Oh god, Chili, I have a huge note. 770 00:42:08,239 --> 00:42:10,840 Speaker 1: I was reading and you know, I have the leftover 771 00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:14,200 Speaker 1: turkey in my fridge, and I was like, I need 772 00:42:14,239 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 1: to make her night eleven. Did you make it? No? 773 00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,520 Speaker 1: I didn't have the beans, but I did make actually 774 00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,279 Speaker 1: a very ruth meal with my leftover turkey. Is I 775 00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:30,279 Speaker 1: did like a Vietnamese rice noodle turkey, um dush last 776 00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:37,839 Speaker 1: night with fresh herbs, carrots, Popeye's turkey and any local firefighters. Yeah. 777 00:42:37,920 --> 00:42:40,680 Speaker 1: So I actually just started dry. I just got in 778 00:42:40,719 --> 00:42:42,520 Speaker 1: my car and I drove to Staten Island and I 779 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:46,200 Speaker 1: just started knocking on doors, followed the sounds of sirens. 780 00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 1: She was like, so, I love how they escaped to Hudson, 781 00:42:48,880 --> 00:42:51,560 Speaker 1: where you live or whatever, and they go to there. 782 00:42:51,920 --> 00:42:55,000 Speaker 1: But we went to our upstate cottage. Of course. She's like, 783 00:42:55,080 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: we wondered if the bridges would be open, and thank 784 00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,640 Speaker 1: god we could get to our Upstate House and Pecan 785 00:42:59,719 --> 00:43:02,200 Speaker 1: basically the whole the trauma of nine elevens. There's four 786 00:43:02,200 --> 00:43:04,719 Speaker 1: hours of traffic getting out of Manhattan. Yes, yes, yes, 787 00:43:04,960 --> 00:43:07,560 Speaker 1: it's bad traffic. Then she gets to like Spencer Town 788 00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,480 Speaker 1: or whatever, and then she's like, I need to go 789 00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,560 Speaker 1: back and cook. Yes, and then like goes back to 790 00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:17,759 Speaker 1: the world, to the four Times Square and like rallies everybody. 791 00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,480 Speaker 1: It was such a like ready main Netflix documentary moment. 792 00:43:20,480 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 1: It could you just see it, just like, so I 793 00:43:22,000 --> 00:43:28,440 Speaker 1: did what we do? We wait? Yes, the kitchens were closed. 794 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:32,279 Speaker 1: I got there, everyone was there. And then she's like 795 00:43:32,440 --> 00:43:34,040 Speaker 1: but then you know, it's like this whole you know, 796 00:43:34,120 --> 00:43:36,480 Speaker 1: She's like, and then we got in my van, and 797 00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm like your van, Like what, You're the editor in 798 00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:43,280 Speaker 1: chief of gourmet magazine. You're like at a conde publication 799 00:43:43,280 --> 00:43:45,520 Speaker 1: in the aughts and you go upstate all the time 800 00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: and you have one kid and you're driving a van. Well, 801 00:43:47,640 --> 00:43:50,279 Speaker 1: that's the theme of the entire book is like she 802 00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:53,040 Speaker 1: takes the subway, and everyone that the magazine is like, 803 00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,799 Speaker 1: you took the subway describes going on the subway like 804 00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:59,200 Speaker 1: it was ten times No, it was I was like, 805 00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,879 Speaker 1: is this a lou reed song. I was like, you 806 00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:07,600 Speaker 1: must calm down. She's just like jingle jangle, saxophonist, rattle, rattle, 807 00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,560 Speaker 1: and it's like, you actually need to calm down. She's like, 808 00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:13,520 Speaker 1: it's the most magical thing in the entire world. You're 809 00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:21,560 Speaker 1: next to push artist and she's like, oh a car. 810 00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:27,240 Speaker 1: You're sitting there, not meeting anyone, hearing anyone, and everyone's 811 00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,640 Speaker 1: so freaked out that she's on her car. But then 812 00:44:28,640 --> 00:44:30,440 Speaker 1: she's always like, but I did love taking the cars 813 00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,719 Speaker 1: and like, but she did drive the like she like 814 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:36,200 Speaker 1: drives her van with all the food down to like 815 00:44:36,440 --> 00:44:38,480 Speaker 1: she's like, we were stopped at Canal Street and then 816 00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:40,719 Speaker 1: we slept all of her clothes and she still hasn't said, 817 00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,719 Speaker 1: like what they're making. And then she's like and we 818 00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:45,600 Speaker 1: open it up and we had chili, and then it 819 00:44:45,680 --> 00:44:49,239 Speaker 1: was like the recipe because there are recipes and I 820 00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:52,640 Speaker 1: was like, you're turkey chili. You're like, this is what 821 00:44:52,719 --> 00:44:54,839 Speaker 1: you you're in. You're in like a kitchen that has 822 00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:57,160 Speaker 1: like all of these ingredients and you're like, I'm going 823 00:44:57,200 --> 00:45:01,680 Speaker 1: to make kay. When you're stacking food for a lot 824 00:45:01,719 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: of people, it's a good bulk food. I'm familiar with. 825 00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:10,239 Speaker 1: I'm just say she's gonna do mini truffle a little 826 00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:13,600 Speaker 1: more like, oh, she sorry for the satna and firefighters. 827 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:18,080 Speaker 1: Let's give him some beef. Yeah wait, sorry, maybe not turkey, 828 00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,520 Speaker 1: Maybe not turkey. This again is so like early two 829 00:45:21,560 --> 00:45:24,640 Speaker 1: thousands movie. In the minute, I cranked up the music 830 00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:27,320 Speaker 1: and has the kitchen filled with the scent of chili 831 00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: and chocolate. We began to dance defiant in the face 832 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:36,160 Speaker 1: of the disaster, and it's like the movie. It's like 833 00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:40,239 Speaker 1: smoke and she's like turning up just like Fleet when 834 00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:48,000 Speaker 1: Mac and they're stirring like beautiful like Mexican cocola long spoons, 835 00:45:48,200 --> 00:45:53,560 Speaker 1: give each other no more maya lemon. And then it's 836 00:45:53,600 --> 00:45:57,000 Speaker 1: like the silent firefighters just being like thanks, tastes like home. 837 00:45:57,600 --> 00:46:01,040 Speaker 1: It does sound like that sounds like every single like 838 00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:03,560 Speaker 1: do Good or chef in the city was like I 839 00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:05,720 Speaker 1: can make food and sounds like run through was actually 840 00:46:05,760 --> 00:46:08,440 Speaker 1: flooded with like gourmet comfort food and they were like, 841 00:46:08,440 --> 00:46:12,360 Speaker 1: we actually don't need any more. Rocco Dispirito is pushing 842 00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:15,160 Speaker 1: Ruth out of the way, just being so like I 843 00:46:15,440 --> 00:46:20,360 Speaker 1: actually made a lasagna and then is like I made puta. 844 00:46:21,640 --> 00:46:24,040 Speaker 1: They're like, we're actually good. What we need is just 845 00:46:24,080 --> 00:46:28,200 Speaker 1: like maybe more ladders or something. Well. It feels also 846 00:46:28,239 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: like very like COVID, you know, like our like version 847 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,239 Speaker 1: of the thing where it's like everybody like banging, we're 848 00:46:34,360 --> 00:46:40,160 Speaker 1: buying gift cards. Yeah, look at all of the sandwiches 849 00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:43,839 Speaker 1: that we made. Yeah, and we're giving to the doctor. Yes. 850 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,279 Speaker 1: And it's like, are like, we're good, I'm good on 851 00:46:47,320 --> 00:46:50,120 Speaker 1: the sour. Oh. Like it kind of reminded me of 852 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:53,000 Speaker 1: Occupy Wall Street a protest that it was super involved. 853 00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:57,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, And I remember going down there when it 854 00:46:57,239 --> 00:47:00,759 Speaker 1: to feed basically to get food because everyone also had 855 00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,080 Speaker 1: the same idea, and there was literally like all of 856 00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:05,399 Speaker 1: Zuccotti Park from like start to finish was like a 857 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:08,879 Speaker 1: full wedding buffet line of just like food from so 858 00:47:08,920 --> 00:47:11,960 Speaker 1: many different restaurants, and you were like, this is maybe 859 00:47:12,000 --> 00:47:15,520 Speaker 1: more than anyone needs, just like there's there's plenty enough 860 00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:17,719 Speaker 1: for like every protester in their entire family to have 861 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:21,160 Speaker 1: thirds and there's still more just like lemon and regular 862 00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 1: Barsley cold Basta from like whatever, this like Brooklyn restaurant 863 00:47:25,960 --> 00:47:28,600 Speaker 1: that like wants to prove it's like progressive Mona fides. 864 00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:32,839 Speaker 1: Oh damn not fo. I feel like, OK, wait, there's 865 00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,080 Speaker 1: so much we need to talk about. This book is insane. 866 00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:41,040 Speaker 1: Wait the dress, and I was like, I started to 867 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:46,759 Speaker 1: google um Franks. I literally it was chilling distress. You 868 00:47:46,840 --> 00:47:50,000 Speaker 1: must have you must have distress. So basically, she goes 869 00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,520 Speaker 1: to the store in Paris when they're on this insane 870 00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:55,560 Speaker 1: all expenses paid trip to do a full Paris hire staff, 871 00:47:55,560 --> 00:47:58,960 Speaker 1: the entire staff. Hi, your staff goes to Paris. They 872 00:47:59,040 --> 00:48:01,280 Speaker 1: rent a house with a kitchen for all of the 873 00:48:01,320 --> 00:48:05,480 Speaker 1: test kitchen editors to like why exactly, I don't know, 874 00:48:05,560 --> 00:48:09,719 Speaker 1: to like test French recipes. And then the rest of 875 00:48:09,719 --> 00:48:12,879 Speaker 1: the staff is staying in different hotels every single night, 876 00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,200 Speaker 1: retraveling true Kandie Nast style, staying at the city's finest hotels, 877 00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:19,160 Speaker 1: testing the beds, the bathrooms. The service Surtle forces us 878 00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:21,760 Speaker 1: to all be guests from hell, dreaming up wicked tasks 879 00:48:21,800 --> 00:48:24,919 Speaker 1: for the concierges. How quickly can they get a blouse clean, 880 00:48:25,239 --> 00:48:28,799 Speaker 1: arrange a car, send flowers to an alien friend. This 881 00:48:28,840 --> 00:48:31,080 Speaker 1: is what I want our jobs to be. I want 882 00:48:31,120 --> 00:48:35,040 Speaker 1: to be like sent doing wicked tasks insane. And then 883 00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:38,960 Speaker 1: they're renting eight apartments with like massive kitchen separately, and 884 00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,600 Speaker 1: then the whole time I'm going to restaurants and she's like, 885 00:48:41,719 --> 00:48:46,400 Speaker 1: I landed. I never have champagne when I first land, 886 00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:49,759 Speaker 1: but of course I was forced to. And then this 887 00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:53,520 Speaker 1: guy brings out the flat champagne that you have. It's 888 00:48:53,520 --> 00:48:57,160 Speaker 1: like a nineteen seventy one champagne that you have to have, 889 00:48:57,360 --> 00:49:00,880 Speaker 1: this caviar and he's like, hold it, hold it in 890 00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:03,680 Speaker 1: your mouth, hold it in your mouth. Wait, wait for it, 891 00:49:03,719 --> 00:49:07,120 Speaker 1: and it's like the bubbles hit it. Minute two. Are 892 00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:12,759 Speaker 1: you talking about the Sevreens? Yeah? Yes, the ghost. The 893 00:49:12,760 --> 00:49:15,480 Speaker 1: ghost a ghost. So she goes to this vintage store 894 00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:17,719 Speaker 1: and she's trying on this dress and it's like a 895 00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,719 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand francs and it's a nineteen fifty nine 896 00:49:21,760 --> 00:49:24,000 Speaker 1: ive Saint Laurent right E sa la almost designing for 897 00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:26,560 Speaker 1: your yes, but the lady like puts it on her 898 00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:29,799 Speaker 1: and like takes a long time, like lacing, and it's 899 00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,919 Speaker 1: like you must. She's like, you must have this dress. 900 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:35,279 Speaker 1: It's so you, it's so you. And she sees this 901 00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: label on the inside of the dress that says Sevareen 902 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,880 Speaker 1: and she's like, what's Sevaen. She's like, maybe it was 903 00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:42,960 Speaker 1: the woman who owned it before you, but now it 904 00:49:43,160 --> 00:49:46,000 Speaker 1: must be yours, and she does not die the dress. 905 00:49:46,080 --> 00:49:48,080 Speaker 1: She goes through ther she gets a car, she gets 906 00:49:48,080 --> 00:49:49,960 Speaker 1: a guard card, busy scouts from the woman to be 907 00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,839 Speaker 1: here the dress. She goes to the Russian caviar. Later 908 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:56,279 Speaker 1: she's downey alone. Then this ghostly man starts talking to 909 00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 1: her nextor who's like eating a huge thing of caviar 910 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 1: and drinking like a forty year old bottle of champagne 911 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:04,480 Speaker 1: by himself, a bottle of champagne I was like fished 912 00:50:04,480 --> 00:50:07,799 Speaker 1: out from the wreckage of the Titanic. And then they 913 00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:10,400 Speaker 1: start talking and he's like, you reminded me of my wife. 914 00:50:10,640 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 1: What was the thing that he said? It was so good. 915 00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,560 Speaker 1: You eat like her, like you, you have like a 916 00:50:16,719 --> 00:50:18,880 Speaker 1: lust for life, and you're like willing to just like 917 00:50:19,040 --> 00:50:22,000 Speaker 1: you eat like when you're alone, like you crave the 918 00:50:22,040 --> 00:50:24,920 Speaker 1: world and your ravenous and and she goes, oh, what 919 00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: was your wife's name? And he goes severing, I'm sorry, 920 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,600 Speaker 1: I believe her. I believe her. He said, he said, 921 00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:37,640 Speaker 1: my wife ate caviare as you do slowly, avidly. Yeah, 922 00:50:37,920 --> 00:50:41,399 Speaker 1: you put me in mind of her. Ah oh, and 923 00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:43,520 Speaker 1: then it's like there was the whole thing also where 924 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,000 Speaker 1: the woman tried to talk abound where she was like, 925 00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:48,239 Speaker 1: I got two thousand francs taken off the dress for you, 926 00:50:48,560 --> 00:50:53,000 Speaker 1: and it is now only seventy five thousand francs. And 927 00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:55,560 Speaker 1: so then he tells her that his ex wife was seen. 928 00:50:56,440 --> 00:51:00,440 Speaker 1: At least she goes, she reaches into her purse, rips 929 00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:03,719 Speaker 1: up the business card, the rips it up. She goes, 930 00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,680 Speaker 1: the dress had already given me everything I would ever need. 931 00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:12,440 Speaker 1: Chill chills, chills right here, I'm going to rip up 932 00:51:12,440 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 1: a business card tonight. But the thing that was so 933 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:17,600 Speaker 1: crazy is then they go back then that was like 934 00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:20,080 Speaker 1: the really the like full circle thing where it's like 935 00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:22,439 Speaker 1: the last issue of or like one of the last 936 00:51:22,480 --> 00:51:26,000 Speaker 1: issues of Gourmet that she's doing. They're like, there's no money, 937 00:51:26,000 --> 00:51:28,080 Speaker 1: we don't have any money. They're no advertisers anymore. And 938 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:30,000 Speaker 1: she's like, we'll do a Paris issue again, but it's 939 00:51:30,000 --> 00:51:32,319 Speaker 1: just me and the travel guy. Yeah, we're gonna stay 940 00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,319 Speaker 1: in a horrible hotels and they like go to one 941 00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:37,640 Speaker 1: nice restaurant and she's sitting across the from the gun. 942 00:51:37,760 --> 00:51:44,000 Speaker 1: The guy, the ghost guy is there again. He's like, okay, 943 00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:45,839 Speaker 1: that but that also trip is so beautiful. I mean, 944 00:51:45,840 --> 00:51:48,200 Speaker 1: that's a lovely narrative device in the book. How she 945 00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 1: has this like Pauper's trip to Paris, yes after the Wicked, 946 00:51:52,280 --> 00:51:54,920 Speaker 1: the Wicked trip, the Popper's trip to Paris that echoes 947 00:51:55,000 --> 00:51:57,319 Speaker 1: her trip to Paris when she was a kid, when 948 00:51:57,360 --> 00:51:59,680 Speaker 1: she was like twenty, and she was like and I 949 00:51:59,760 --> 00:52:03,680 Speaker 1: was just drums from the boulangerie, and well and she 950 00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:06,640 Speaker 1: asked this realization. She goes, I realized that money becomes 951 00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:10,080 Speaker 1: a barrier insulating you from ordinary life because she has 952 00:52:10,120 --> 00:52:13,120 Speaker 1: all these wonderful experiences where people are like showering her 953 00:52:13,160 --> 00:52:15,840 Speaker 1: with like fun food and bringing her into like restaurants 954 00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,719 Speaker 1: and bars. And when you're like acting rich, no one 955 00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:21,200 Speaker 1: wants to give you anything. They're just like, oh, she's good, 956 00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,319 Speaker 1: she's prissy and stuck up. We're not gonna do with her. 957 00:52:23,360 --> 00:52:26,200 Speaker 1: And then when you have no money, just that baguette 958 00:52:26,320 --> 00:52:32,920 Speaker 1: and she's doors open, doors open, absolute momacup. It was 959 00:52:32,960 --> 00:52:34,680 Speaker 1: like people were just like, you must dine with us, 960 00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:36,600 Speaker 1: and they all had this like they wanted to like 961 00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,040 Speaker 1: show off their country to her and be like okay, 962 00:52:38,040 --> 00:52:39,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna give you the best thing because I can 963 00:52:39,280 --> 00:52:41,680 Speaker 1: tell that your many pin Shane. Yeah, well that was 964 00:52:41,680 --> 00:52:44,279 Speaker 1: also I feel like that felt really like it was 965 00:52:44,480 --> 00:52:47,640 Speaker 1: interesting thinking about that experience she had in Paris and 966 00:52:47,680 --> 00:52:49,719 Speaker 1: restaurants where she's you know, they're kind of like cause 967 00:52:49,760 --> 00:52:53,239 Speaker 1: playing as paupers and getting like fed for free by 968 00:52:53,280 --> 00:52:54,920 Speaker 1: all of these people who are taking sympathy on her. 969 00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:58,000 Speaker 1: When I feel like it's very like now it's like 970 00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:01,319 Speaker 1: who does the restaurant send the fancy stuff too? It's 971 00:53:01,320 --> 00:53:03,279 Speaker 1: like if they send it to Alice in Romans, they 972 00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:05,960 Speaker 1: send it to the people who can afford it already. Yeah, 973 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:08,200 Speaker 1: whereas they said the people they want to impress. When 974 00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,239 Speaker 1: my wife was working in Japanese, she said that that 975 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,239 Speaker 1: was like often a thing where they would be like, no, 976 00:53:12,520 --> 00:53:16,040 Speaker 1: you don't send free stuff to the like fancy food writer. 977 00:53:16,360 --> 00:53:19,800 Speaker 1: You send it to the couple who's clearly they're twenty 978 00:53:19,840 --> 00:53:23,120 Speaker 1: one and they've saved up all year to go on 979 00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,080 Speaker 1: this date. And those are the people that you send 980 00:53:25,080 --> 00:53:27,520 Speaker 1: the champagne. That's that is the Danny Meyer vision of 981 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:29,759 Speaker 1: hospitality that I will say is still alive and well, 982 00:53:29,800 --> 00:53:31,719 Speaker 1: as if discussed in this pot, if you depending on 983 00:53:31,760 --> 00:53:34,279 Speaker 1: the restaurant you go to. Atian Square, like I had 984 00:53:34,280 --> 00:53:36,600 Speaker 1: that wonderful experience on my birthday, but they'd be overhearing 985 00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:39,279 Speaker 1: the overhearing. They overheard me saying to Lily, Ah, it's 986 00:53:39,360 --> 00:53:41,239 Speaker 1: my birthday, and they brought me a free glass of 987 00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:44,279 Speaker 1: wine just because they happened to hear that, Like that 988 00:53:44,560 --> 00:53:47,200 Speaker 1: is what especially, I was dying alone. I'm obviously not 989 00:53:47,400 --> 00:53:50,200 Speaker 1: some d I my last thing. I just wanted to 990 00:53:50,320 --> 00:53:53,200 Speaker 1: remove the segments the very end when Gourmet closes, she's 991 00:53:53,239 --> 00:53:56,560 Speaker 1: at JFK, like flying and she goes to get like 992 00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:00,279 Speaker 1: some rap at like whatever, some restaurant and like the sure, 993 00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:03,719 Speaker 1: it's like have it for free. I loved Gourmet. I'm 994 00:54:03,719 --> 00:54:06,680 Speaker 1: really gonna I'm really gonna miss it. And I feel 995 00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:10,319 Speaker 1: like it was very you like crying over the magazine. Yes, yes, yes, 996 00:54:10,440 --> 00:54:12,200 Speaker 1: like yeah, I'll give it. I'll give you a free 997 00:54:12,239 --> 00:54:15,759 Speaker 1: Prett sandwich. But I'm just like the way the like 998 00:54:16,160 --> 00:54:21,680 Speaker 1: sheer at Prett is not reading or caring about Gourmet. Well, 999 00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:23,960 Speaker 1: you know what, you don't know. I bet right now 1000 00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:29,880 Speaker 1: there's a cashier at Pratt Okay pouring over you know, 1001 00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:32,840 Speaker 1: eater and they're giving someone a free sandwich, you know 1002 00:54:32,880 --> 00:54:34,600 Speaker 1: I did. There was a cashier at the Prett near 1003 00:54:34,640 --> 00:54:36,560 Speaker 1: one World Trade Center who would give me free coffee 1004 00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,080 Speaker 1: all the time, and I had to stop going because 1005 00:54:38,080 --> 00:54:40,040 Speaker 1: it was a little because you were a bone app 1006 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,759 Speaker 1: editor or yeah, yeah, yeah it was. They were. It 1007 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:44,840 Speaker 1: was like a flirty they were. It was like sometimes 1008 00:54:44,840 --> 00:54:46,839 Speaker 1: my coffee would be free, and then it would be like, oh, 1009 00:54:46,880 --> 00:54:48,759 Speaker 1: here's like two cookies for free, and then it would 1010 00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:50,560 Speaker 1: be like, you're a sandwich is free. And when I 1011 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:56,560 Speaker 1: was like, I can't a man in sexual felt, there 1012 00:54:56,760 --> 00:55:02,840 Speaker 1: was yes, yes, yes, so you're homophobic and I and 1013 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,040 Speaker 1: your first homophobic. Yes, that's not true. That's not true. 1014 00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:17,840 Speaker 1: You're not. Before this week on the vip Lounge, a 1015 00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:21,279 Speaker 1: meal Stoic is coming back in the whisper room with 1016 00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:28,200 Speaker 1: us to talk food restaurants, thanksgiving them proposals. Oh you 1017 00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:33,600 Speaker 1: proposed to Chelsea Market. I know that's that's says sorry. Also, 1018 00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:36,480 Speaker 1: after our whole conversation on the way here, we were like, yeah, 1019 00:55:36,520 --> 00:55:41,799 Speaker 1: you know it's so corny, like okay, okay, okay, okay. 1020 00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:44,759 Speaker 1: In defensive to Patreon, dot com s CBC the Pod 1021 00:55:44,880 --> 00:55:48,600 Speaker 1: to subscribe and hear our whole scintillating conversation. You don't 1022 00:55:48,600 --> 00:55:58,040 Speaker 1: want to miss it. M delicious cold segments, solicious cold 1023 00:55:58,719 --> 00:56:02,799 Speaker 1: steamed sitse What does she wear, what does she eat? 1024 00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:08,040 Speaker 1: How does she live? What does she eat? I mean everything, um, 1025 00:56:08,239 --> 00:56:14,399 Speaker 1: dumplings aspect pizza, bread, butter. I could do this all day. 1026 00:56:14,520 --> 00:56:17,239 Speaker 1: She definitely made a big thing of being like, you know, 1027 00:56:17,239 --> 00:56:19,920 Speaker 1: when she's like out at the Hot Pot restaurant in 1028 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,440 Speaker 1: la when she's trying to court Lorio Choa To and 1029 00:56:22,840 --> 00:56:25,120 Speaker 1: Jonathan Gold to come work at Gourmet, and she's like, 1030 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:28,759 Speaker 1: the owners knew Jonathan, and they brought out the big 1031 00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:32,080 Speaker 1: hot pot of like vegetables and organ meats and all 1032 00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:33,759 Speaker 1: the other guests. We're just eating the vegetables, and Lori 1033 00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:36,160 Speaker 1: and I we always had a taste for the intestines 1034 00:56:36,239 --> 00:56:40,239 Speaker 1: and the concealed pigs blood brain. They're doing amazing things 1035 00:56:40,239 --> 00:56:44,360 Speaker 1: with awful She has original like white girl at the 1036 00:56:44,480 --> 00:56:48,200 Speaker 1: Chinese restaurant who's like, I will get the blood soup. Yeah, 1037 00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:52,200 Speaker 1: can I have the authentic first Yeah? Um A story, 1038 00:56:52,360 --> 00:56:54,360 Speaker 1: I just I'm sure we've total it. Told it on 1039 00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,920 Speaker 1: the podcast. When we were at in Brooklyn Chinatown and 1040 00:56:57,080 --> 00:57:04,759 Speaker 1: Stephen ordered a cold raw bits blood noodle soup. Yeah. 1041 00:57:05,160 --> 00:57:07,320 Speaker 1: She was like catch on, being like are you sure 1042 00:57:07,440 --> 00:57:09,400 Speaker 1: like you don't want this? And you were like I 1043 00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,520 Speaker 1: wanted and it was just like a bowl of blood 1044 00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:17,120 Speaker 1: tude was growth and creepy and we were like, it's 1045 00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:19,880 Speaker 1: a little slimy. Yes, Ruth is you know, of course 1046 00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,840 Speaker 1: having a Macca san But she thrives on. I will 1047 00:57:22,840 --> 00:57:25,480 Speaker 1: say she also does like fancy restaurants because like the 1048 00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:26,880 Speaker 1: whole person of the book, she was like, oh, like 1049 00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,640 Speaker 1: Ericar parents doing amazing things with flog raw right now, 1050 00:57:29,760 --> 00:57:32,720 Speaker 1: it's a cloud and it's like her normal business lunch 1051 00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:36,480 Speaker 1: is flag raw and wine. Yes, like so decorative A lot, yeah, 1052 00:57:36,520 --> 00:57:38,120 Speaker 1: a lot of the restaurants that she's talking about. I mean, 1053 00:57:38,120 --> 00:57:40,640 Speaker 1: it just it's interesting because it's all it is. These 1054 00:57:40,640 --> 00:57:43,920 Speaker 1: are the restaurants that were cool in like two thousand 1055 00:57:43,960 --> 00:57:47,080 Speaker 1: and five, yes, and the very like the restaurants that 1056 00:57:47,160 --> 00:57:49,720 Speaker 1: like two thousand and eight just eradicated. It was like 1057 00:57:49,760 --> 00:57:56,320 Speaker 1: the white table cloth, like very platy, very fancy, very 1058 00:57:56,440 --> 00:58:00,800 Speaker 1: like big plate, small meal, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, 1059 00:58:00,920 --> 00:58:03,760 Speaker 1: Um how does she live? I mean it's big table 1060 00:58:03,840 --> 00:58:07,360 Speaker 1: in the dining room where they got the farm. And 1061 00:58:07,840 --> 00:58:09,760 Speaker 1: I do feel like she was the first person to 1062 00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,720 Speaker 1: have a water filler, that thing that everyone has to 1063 00:58:12,760 --> 00:58:16,360 Speaker 1: have in the kitchen. Burkey. I don't know you guys 1064 00:58:16,920 --> 00:58:19,280 Speaker 1: calling it a burke. That's what it's called. That's what 1065 00:58:19,320 --> 00:58:23,800 Speaker 1: it's called. We're upstair girls. Well, I got called at 1066 00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,440 Speaker 1: times from the sculpture I got my burkie. It was 1067 00:58:27,000 --> 00:58:29,320 Speaker 1: I found it free on the street. Hudson. No, no, no, 1068 00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:30,919 Speaker 1: we're not talking abot the same thing. I'm talking about 1069 00:58:30,960 --> 00:58:33,440 Speaker 1: that thing that's like above the stove that fills a 1070 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:37,880 Speaker 1: pot with water. Oh like a yes, yes, that's only 1071 00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,000 Speaker 1: in the water on top of the range. You're talking 1072 00:58:41,040 --> 00:58:44,240 Speaker 1: about oversta arm, Yes, a pasta arm. That's like pasta 1073 00:58:44,320 --> 00:58:46,120 Speaker 1: arm that past water. I've heard it called a pot 1074 00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:49,440 Speaker 1: filler on like Netflix. I don't know which of these 1075 00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:52,600 Speaker 1: sounds worse. Both are bad names. Yes, and I only 1076 00:58:52,640 --> 00:58:54,720 Speaker 1: I discovered that from you guys are talking about that 1077 00:58:54,800 --> 00:58:59,080 Speaker 1: dime ceramic water. Yes, that's a tank and it's like 1078 00:58:59,120 --> 00:59:01,440 Speaker 1: such a tank in you you have oka listen. I 1079 00:59:01,480 --> 00:59:03,040 Speaker 1: don't live in New York. The water taste bad where 1080 00:59:03,080 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: I am low medium bed. I feel I feel like 1081 00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,640 Speaker 1: it's a four poster and it's somewhat high, and it's 1082 00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:13,080 Speaker 1: like Amish wood or whatever, and it's like kind of minimal, 1083 00:59:13,120 --> 00:59:15,320 Speaker 1: but it's like still kind of high, and I mean 1084 00:59:15,360 --> 00:59:19,480 Speaker 1: obviously piled books for her and her husband on either side, 1085 00:59:19,520 --> 00:59:24,160 Speaker 1: with sauces everywhere. I like, they're also still that classic 1086 00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:28,280 Speaker 1: Bows five disc changer in the kitchen. Yes. Do you 1087 00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:32,160 Speaker 1: don't think there's a chance that it's bed on the floor. Oh? Yes, 1088 00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:35,440 Speaker 1: I could see, because there's been so like Japanese EAMs 1089 00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:37,440 Speaker 1: about it. I think it could be like that kind 1090 00:59:37,520 --> 00:59:42,200 Speaker 1: of like, yeah, there's like a big bed on the floor. 1091 00:59:42,240 --> 00:59:45,520 Speaker 1: There are some like nightstands that are like made for 1092 00:59:45,600 --> 00:59:48,160 Speaker 1: a floor bed and are very nice and like designer, 1093 00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:51,440 Speaker 1: but then they're just tons of books stacked up. Ultimately, No, 1094 00:59:51,840 --> 00:59:53,880 Speaker 1: you don't think so. I don't think she's getting down 1095 00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:56,840 Speaker 1: on the floor. I think her bones are creaking. Well, yeah, 1096 00:59:56,880 --> 00:59:58,640 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess that's the thing. She started being 1097 00:59:58,680 --> 01:00:03,000 Speaker 1: the editor in chief fifty she's in her seventies now. 1098 01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,720 Speaker 1: It is also in How Does She Live? She also 1099 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:10,160 Speaker 1: had an assistant who she Robin, who she met. She's 1100 01:00:10,240 --> 01:00:11,720 Speaker 1: kind of like at the end, she's like, wait, and 1101 01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:14,200 Speaker 1: then I realized I hadn't done anything for myself intent 1102 01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:17,040 Speaker 1: when when Robin we talked about how everyone like the 1103 01:00:17,080 --> 01:00:19,040 Speaker 1: where are they now? And she's like, Robin went on 1104 01:00:19,080 --> 01:00:22,160 Speaker 1: to become a reservationist at a hot restaurant. Do you 1105 01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:26,240 Speaker 1: know what I realized? I sat in Robin's chair, her 1106 01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:30,560 Speaker 1: literal chair. No, yes, Ruth's office became the editor in 1107 01:00:30,640 --> 01:00:33,880 Speaker 1: chief of Bonapati's office, and the cubicle where Robin's hat 1108 01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:40,080 Speaker 1: became O Robin. It was literally they just scraped the 1109 01:00:40,120 --> 01:00:42,480 Speaker 1: word gourmet off of all the signs and put Bonapet 1110 01:00:42,600 --> 01:00:44,160 Speaker 1: on top of it. Wait in her office with the 1111 01:00:44,800 --> 01:00:47,360 Speaker 1: very colorful scheme that she picked out that everyone was 1112 01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:50,080 Speaker 1: shocked by because oh when she was like I want 1113 01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:52,000 Speaker 1: a table in here, and they're like, you don't want 1114 01:00:52,000 --> 01:00:55,640 Speaker 1: a table? Wait? So was it as wild as she describes? 1115 01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:58,600 Speaker 1: There was a redecorating budget, so I don't I don't 1116 01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,920 Speaker 1: think I saw. I didn't see the so Adam had 1117 01:01:01,000 --> 01:01:05,400 Speaker 1: redecorated it to be more masculine. Yes, dark leather chairs, 1118 01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:10,240 Speaker 1: no dark leather. But there was like a big, big 1119 01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,280 Speaker 1: kind of like what do you call that, like like 1120 01:01:12,280 --> 01:01:17,920 Speaker 1: one of those big wooden like things. It's yeah, like 1121 01:01:17,920 --> 01:01:21,480 Speaker 1: a credenza with like lots of like very shallow drawers. Okay, 1122 01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:24,120 Speaker 1: you would might put like prints in, but very vintage. 1123 01:01:24,400 --> 01:01:27,480 Speaker 1: I know, yes, yes, yes that like that artist who 1124 01:01:27,520 --> 01:01:29,320 Speaker 1: has a loft in Soho that they've had since the 1125 01:01:29,360 --> 01:01:32,000 Speaker 1: sixties would have in their loft to be like, this 1126 01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:34,440 Speaker 1: is a drawing I did, yes, in seventy two, but 1127 01:01:34,480 --> 01:01:37,840 Speaker 1: it's empty and I'm getting ready for my moment. What 1128 01:01:37,920 --> 01:01:39,920 Speaker 1: does she wear? I mean it's just like so like 1129 01:01:40,320 --> 01:01:45,080 Speaker 1: Japanese linen, black smock blazer. I guess, like, do you 1130 01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:47,680 Speaker 1: think she's Eileen Fisher or she way funkier or is 1131 01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:50,520 Speaker 1: she a mix of Eilean Fisher and funky mix? She 1132 01:01:50,640 --> 01:01:53,680 Speaker 1: has like she has the just the classic Eileen Fisher 1133 01:01:53,680 --> 01:01:56,600 Speaker 1: pieces that she knows that work, and then she has 1134 01:01:56,640 --> 01:02:00,240 Speaker 1: the vintage pieces that is she going down what's it 1135 01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:03,960 Speaker 1: called Warren Street and window shopping and getting a lamp 1136 01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:07,080 Speaker 1: and like a random blanket. I know she's all over 1137 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:10,760 Speaker 1: flea market. I feel she knows warrenst is so overpriced, right, Yeah, 1138 01:02:10,800 --> 01:02:15,160 Speaker 1: I don't think that she's going to lessons of her 1139 01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:18,000 Speaker 1: second Paris trip. She's not overspending. She's not buying like 1140 01:02:18,080 --> 01:02:21,880 Speaker 1: a six thousand dollars credenza. I think she's like going 1141 01:02:21,920 --> 01:02:25,680 Speaker 1: to a different flea market in Columbia County, right. I 1142 01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,880 Speaker 1: think she's like maybe getting a little like chotchkeese, you know, like, Oh, 1143 01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:30,680 Speaker 1: I found this cute. I went to a yard sale 1144 01:02:30,720 --> 01:02:34,840 Speaker 1: and I got this cute little like mini beer Stein. Yeah, Like, 1145 01:02:35,000 --> 01:02:38,080 Speaker 1: isn't that fun? I'll get it for a nick. Who 1146 01:02:38,120 --> 01:02:41,400 Speaker 1: are you in the bus? So you're Robin? Robin? Literally 1147 01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:49,400 Speaker 1: a Robin yep um? I feel like you are am 1148 01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:56,600 Speaker 1: I are you Gina? Oh? A same sales beating where 1149 01:02:56,640 --> 01:03:02,560 Speaker 1: she's she's dressing up like a geisha to like because yeah, 1150 01:03:02,720 --> 01:03:04,720 Speaker 1: where she had a theme and she was like one 1151 01:03:04,840 --> 01:03:08,080 Speaker 1: night she judged motorcycles down Fifth Avenue to like present 1152 01:03:08,120 --> 01:03:12,240 Speaker 1: one hundred Harley's present like sales figures to advertisers. I'm like, 1153 01:03:12,360 --> 01:03:16,000 Speaker 1: that's the craziest thing I've ever heard. She used every 1154 01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:20,560 Speaker 1: expense she could. She spared nothing like I'm coming out 1155 01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:24,320 Speaker 1: and like the pumpky makeup to like tell her advertisers 1156 01:03:24,320 --> 01:03:28,720 Speaker 1: what her circulation figures are. I could see it, um, 1157 01:03:28,800 --> 01:03:32,560 Speaker 1: but now you're so bust, so you are Ruth. You 1158 01:03:32,560 --> 01:03:36,080 Speaker 1: could be Gina, but could you also be Larry? Oh? 1159 01:03:36,120 --> 01:03:38,680 Speaker 1: I do. Yeah, I'm I'm I'm a little You're like, 1160 01:03:38,680 --> 01:03:41,080 Speaker 1: I'm excited to build this from the ground up. I'm 1161 01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:45,200 Speaker 1: I'm excited to like fire people, but also like get 1162 01:03:45,240 --> 01:03:48,760 Speaker 1: the ball moving and like crack some heads together. Yes, 1163 01:03:48,840 --> 01:03:52,760 Speaker 1: the disciplinarian, you know, I do like to crack the whip, 1164 01:03:52,960 --> 01:03:57,280 Speaker 1: so to speak. I feel like I'm Jonathan Gold. I 1165 01:03:57,320 --> 01:04:00,000 Speaker 1: guess like you could be Jonathan Gold. You could all 1166 01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:08,360 Speaker 1: be Gina Marie the Benson, the black haired Yeah. Wait, 1167 01:04:08,440 --> 01:04:10,760 Speaker 1: she was really fair and she was the pr rep 1168 01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:13,440 Speaker 1: for CONDI No, no, no no, this is this is the 1169 01:04:13,680 --> 01:04:18,280 Speaker 1: test kitchen person who was like had to make the 1170 01:04:18,360 --> 01:04:21,320 Speaker 1: chili sloppy Joe's over and over and over and over. 1171 01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,080 Speaker 1: She ended up doing the gallion Cheddar rolls for the 1172 01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:28,080 Speaker 1: sloppy Joes. And it was like Gina Marie, Gina Marie's 1173 01:04:28,080 --> 01:04:31,360 Speaker 1: Scallion Cheddar royal is you because you're just like every 1174 01:04:31,400 --> 01:04:33,520 Speaker 1: single night you're like, yeah, I mean my wife made 1175 01:04:33,600 --> 01:04:38,920 Speaker 1: another RIGATONI yeah, I'm like we're trying again to get it. 1176 01:04:39,640 --> 01:04:42,720 Speaker 1: And her whole family has like a Sunday lunch and 1177 01:04:42,960 --> 01:04:45,480 Speaker 1: she's like there was a thing about Gina Marie is 1178 01:04:45,480 --> 01:04:48,320 Speaker 1: Her entire family sat down to like a twelve person 1179 01:04:48,720 --> 01:04:52,320 Speaker 1: Like everyday, I've been hosting like a twelve person family 1180 01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:56,400 Speaker 1: lunch for the past seven days. Done, Jinna Marie. I 1181 01:04:56,480 --> 01:04:58,840 Speaker 1: give this book five out of five. Clothes of GARDI 1182 01:04:59,160 --> 01:05:05,080 Speaker 1: I give this book five nineteen seventy one bottles of 1183 01:05:05,200 --> 01:05:09,400 Speaker 1: dom Perignon out of five. It's stunning and I highly 1184 01:05:09,440 --> 01:05:12,600 Speaker 1: recommend any of her this book. I think you read 1185 01:05:12,640 --> 01:05:15,160 Speaker 1: this and read TEENA Brown's Manyfair Diaries like one after 1186 01:05:15,200 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 1: the other, because it's just a fascinating documentation of a 1187 01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 1: world that no longer exists. I'm going to give it 1188 01:05:22,400 --> 01:05:27,640 Speaker 1: four couture dresses with sabine stitched into the lapel out 1189 01:05:27,680 --> 01:05:31,400 Speaker 1: of five. I feel like she gave a lot of 1190 01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:34,360 Speaker 1: the anecdotes of the boring parts of being a gourmet editor, 1191 01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:36,680 Speaker 1: and not as many of the beerly exciting. It was 1192 01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:38,480 Speaker 1: like a lot of like ad meetings, and it was 1193 01:05:38,520 --> 01:05:41,840 Speaker 1: like and the numbers were still going down and less 1194 01:05:41,880 --> 01:05:44,920 Speaker 1: like and I like the trips. But you know, as 1195 01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:47,880 Speaker 1: she says, I mean she you know, she foretells this 1196 01:05:48,000 --> 01:05:50,360 Speaker 1: in the beginning. She's like, it became all about ad 1197 01:05:50,400 --> 01:05:53,520 Speaker 1: meetings and that was her undoing because she also became 1198 01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:56,080 Speaker 1: too focused on that kind of youth. Yeah, she became 1199 01:05:56,120 --> 01:05:58,120 Speaker 1: brand Ruth and when she was just like I'm going 1200 01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:00,240 Speaker 1: to a thousand like women on the World conference, says, 1201 01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:02,760 Speaker 1: and I'm winning so many random mass awards for like Also, 1202 01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:05,840 Speaker 1: I mean, I guess this is over, but like this 1203 01:06:06,120 --> 01:06:10,440 Speaker 1: over over. Um, we have you have the VIP lounge. 1204 01:06:10,440 --> 01:06:14,400 Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna keep talking, Emil, you can't leave, 1205 01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:17,560 Speaker 1: you can't leave. We're locking the doors. Um for the 1206 01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:21,640 Speaker 1: rest of you. Literally best, um, go have a meal, 1207 01:06:22,160 --> 01:06:24,680 Speaker 1: Go have lunch in Manhattan in the middle of in 1208 01:06:24,680 --> 01:06:26,560 Speaker 1: the middle of the day. And then also maybe bring 1209 01:06:26,560 --> 01:06:29,800 Speaker 1: this book for amazing dining alone. Armor. Actually, don't bring 1210 01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:31,840 Speaker 1: this book to lunch. That's a little too band teacher. Yeah, 1211 01:06:31,880 --> 01:06:36,040 Speaker 1: that's a little bring Gina Brown to lunch this at home. 1212 01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,280 Speaker 1: Although I will say, remember when I brought setting the 1213 01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:40,760 Speaker 1: table to the deny My restaurant, I also got free wine. 1214 01:06:40,800 --> 01:06:43,440 Speaker 1: I think because of that. Oh yeah, I guess basically, 1215 01:06:43,440 --> 01:06:46,320 Speaker 1: just go to a deny My restaurant because and we 1216 01:06:46,360 --> 01:06:50,080 Speaker 1: still have yet to go to his daughter's Gelatta Ria. 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