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Speaker 2: I think I already know the answers, but I'm going

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Speaker 2: to keep them to myself for just until you answer.

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Speaker 2: But do you, honestly do you guys look at other relationships?

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Speaker 2: Actually I know I know how James would answer to

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Speaker 2: but do you look at other relationships and say I.

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Speaker 1: Want that there are There are a few.

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Speaker 3: I will say marriages I have a heart like newly

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Speaker 3: or married people.

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Speaker 1: I'm either that's not real?

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Speaker 2: Then oh wait what don't you cannot judge someone based

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Speaker 2: on how they just met or how they just got married.

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Speaker 2: I think the only way to judge a relationship is

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Speaker 2: after five years?

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Speaker 1: Oh eat it? Five years?

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Speaker 2: OK? Like yeah, yeah, I'm sure I've been in a

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Speaker 2: wedding before and been like, that's wonderful. Talk to me

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Speaker 2: on Monday, or talk to me after the honeymoon, or

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Speaker 2: talk to me when the utility bill comes in at

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Speaker 2: the condo, you know, six months later, and someone forgot

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Speaker 2: to pay it and there's a late fee and the

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Speaker 2: whole thing's over. Now. I'm not saying people don't love

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Speaker 2: each other. I'm not saying that people don't have amazing

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Speaker 2: relationships and long marriages and long lives together. But I

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Speaker 2: cannot judge someone based on their wedding day or based

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Speaker 2: on within the first six months of meeting each other.

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Speaker 2: Talk to me after five years of a relationship, and

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Speaker 2: I don't think the emotions are the same.

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Speaker 1: You're speaking facts. I don't think we belive might be

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Speaker 1: the same.

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Speaker 3: Idolize anybody's relationship because you really don't know what's going

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Speaker 3: on with That's right, That's what I mean. But there

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Speaker 3: are relationships that you look at and it makes you

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Speaker 3: believe in love. Like, yes, I was shook when Keith

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Speaker 3: Urban did that, you know what I'm saying, Like that

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Speaker 3: really took the wind beneath my wine, know, so, you know,

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Speaker 3: But I look at their relationship like it's a beautiful couple.

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Speaker 3: Our boss, for example, the way he talks to me

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Speaker 3: about his wife. I wish that my husband or I

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Speaker 3: hope that my husband one day will talk about his

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Speaker 3: wife that way.

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Speaker 1: So they're one of mine. Actually, yes, because they have

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Speaker 1: fun love them.

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Speaker 3: So it's like I don't ido lize, you know, shut

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Speaker 3: out to James Marcie Man.

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Speaker 1: I just get so emotional I do that, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, like, you know what I think, you know what

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Speaker 2: I think loves her. Hey, look I just had dinner

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Speaker 2: with them. I agree with you. I think she beats

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Speaker 2: his ass at home. I think she beats his ass.

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Speaker 2: I think she beats the crap out of him. That's

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Speaker 2: what I think. That's what I think.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes. Yeah, maybe he needs it, No does. They're one

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Speaker 1: of the couples that I look.

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Speaker 3: At and I'm like, you guys genuinely like each other,

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Speaker 3: And I think that that's very rare.

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Speaker 2: Real.

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Speaker 1: No, I get that. I get that, Like I would

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Speaker 1: take there, really, but that should be the minimum expectation

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Speaker 1: of a marriage.

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Speaker 3: But it's hard out here for it, you know, it

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Speaker 3: is hard. The way Hovey let Paulina use that credit card.

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Speaker 2: If you mean the way that he takes every morning

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Speaker 2: and says, good morning. Don't use the credit card anymore.

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Speaker 1: She says, it's so nice, like you're never taking.

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Speaker 3: It away, right and after what she put him through,

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Speaker 3: I do believe in love because that man loves her.

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Speaker 1: She clips her toenails in the bed. She loves her.

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Speaker 2: I think there's a difference, though, between loving each other

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Speaker 2: deeply and having a life that I like.

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Speaker 1: Do I want someone to love me that much?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: But you all now.

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Speaker 2: I get fly higher than an eagle. I really could have. Kiki,

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Speaker 2: would just be the wind beneath my waist. You already are,

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Speaker 2: then I.

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Speaker 1: Can go home alone, beautiful. Yeah, okay, there's not one

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Speaker 1: for you. And I'm with you, guys. I'm also with you,

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Speaker 1: Kiki that, uh, you can't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think you can eat even the relationships that

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Speaker 2: you look at. And I'm more suspect of the relationships

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Speaker 2: that you look at from the outside and say, wow,

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Speaker 2: they're perfect, that's perfect. I don't buy it. For example,

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Speaker 2: my parents have both been divorced. My mom wants my dad.

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Speaker 2: This is his third marriage. They've been together for almost

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Speaker 2: forty years, thirty thirty six years. I think, and I'll

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Speaker 2: be honest with you. There are moments when I've been

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Speaker 2: present and I think these two hate each other right now.

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Speaker 1: Like oh yeah, like hate.

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Speaker 2: But I'll tell you something I don't think, And there

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Speaker 2: have been times when I thought maybe it was over. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: they will be together forever until they die. They will,

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Speaker 2: and that to me, it is not an attractive relationship

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Speaker 2: at all times. In fact, I would say half the time,

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know how you do. I don't

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Speaker 2: know how you do him and how he does you.

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Speaker 2: I have no idea. But they love each other deeply.

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Speaker 2: And so I think sometimes the things that people look

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Speaker 2: at and say that's what I want aren't necessarily things

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Speaker 2: that people actually really would need, or the things that

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Speaker 2: are real that keep the thing going forever, because it's

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Speaker 2: not always pretty spoken from the guy who's never been

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Speaker 2: married and only had six month relationships.

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Speaker 1: But that's real though you drop effects.

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Speaker 2: So I think sometimes when you see, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: they're so blissfully happy, oh my god, I think that's

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Speaker 2: that's not that's not the equation for the relationship that

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Speaker 2: I think people really want, that has that solid foundation

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Speaker 2: to where bad things can happen and they're still there.

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Speaker 2: That's the stuff that you see when you first meet

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Speaker 2: someone and you're blissfully in love. That's not when they

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Speaker 2: crapped in a toilet and clogged it and you walk

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Speaker 2: in there and like, what did you do? You know?

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Speaker 2: And I don't know, and then and and then who knows,

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Speaker 2: whatever whatever whatever scenario is so unattractive and you're like,

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Speaker 2: oh my god, really you again with this? Eat some

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Speaker 2: fiber bro like you know something, Lord more Fred Show

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