WEBVTT - Sistine and Sophia Stallone 0:00:08.080 --> 0:00:12.600 What's up, Gorge. It is La La Kent with Rand. 0:00:16.680 --> 0:00:22.000 I'm laughing because we have two amazing guests today. We 0:00:22.200 --> 0:00:27.280 have Sistine and Sophia st Alone. 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:31.000 And high Energy podcast today. That's what I'm talking about. 0:00:31.080 --> 0:00:33.400 Oh yeah, but Randa and I have to share a 0:00:33.440 --> 0:00:36.920 mic because we're just so lazy that we have yet 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:38.160 to order a fourth mic. 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:39.319 You guys, well, I don't know. 0:00:39.240 --> 0:00:42.120 How I'm gonna not laugh. Yeah, you guys pushing mics 0:00:42.120 --> 0:00:43.960 every two seconds. It's gonna be amazing. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:45.199 No, it'll be intense. 0:00:45.520 --> 0:00:48.199 Okay, first of all, I have to say we're a 0:00:48.240 --> 0:00:48.760 little lazy. 0:00:48.800 --> 0:00:50.320 We have to order the mic today. That's kind of 0:00:50.360 --> 0:00:53.320 ridiculous that we have throats. But I just want to 0:00:53.320 --> 0:00:55.200 say that I'm totally stoked. We have a lot to 0:00:55.200 --> 0:00:58.920 talk about. You guys are crushing or people don't know, 0:00:59.440 --> 0:01:01.760 but you guys have a new podcast, which is so 0:01:01.840 --> 0:01:04.200 cool because we just started ours a year ago. So 0:01:04.280 --> 0:01:06.640 I'd love to just start with like hearing about how 0:01:06.680 --> 0:01:07.480 that came through. 0:01:07.560 --> 0:01:09.440 Why did you guys come up with this idea? Did 0:01:09.480 --> 0:01:12.000 somebody bring it to you? Like just the whole thing. 0:01:12.120 --> 0:01:13.840 So I kind of was the one that pioneered the 0:01:13.880 --> 0:01:14.480 whole idea. 0:01:14.600 --> 0:01:17.240 We were really into talking to each other and we 0:01:17.280 --> 0:01:18.600 had a lot of the ideas, but I wanted to 0:01:18.640 --> 0:01:20.640 do something a bit different, which was more of like 0:01:20.680 --> 0:01:23.160 an OPRAH for young adults, and so mine was a 0:01:23.160 --> 0:01:25.240 bit more serious, and I tried to pitch it to 0:01:25.280 --> 0:01:28.480 a ton of companies and it wasn't working, and Sustine 0:01:28.560 --> 0:01:29.679 was just nagging me, like. 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:31.040 Get me on the show, get me on the show. 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:34.280 A lot to say, and so I thought, let me 0:01:34.400 --> 0:01:36.920 just contribute it, so, you know, wanted to do her 0:01:36.959 --> 0:01:42.440 own thing, have it just be her project, and lots 0:01:42.440 --> 0:01:46.160 of nagging later, so at every single company was like, 0:01:46.200 --> 0:01:47.240 we're not working with you. 0:01:47.280 --> 0:01:51.960 I'm like, all right, I find that so hard to believe. 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:53.200 What would they say? 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:56.120 They liked the idea, but they thought it wasn't going 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:59.080 to be appealing to millennials or gen Z, which now 0:01:59.120 --> 0:01:59.800 I understand. 0:01:59.800 --> 0:02:00.640 I totally agree. 0:02:00.640 --> 0:02:02.600 I think everything out there now is you have to 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:05.120 have a shock factor, you have to be a bigger personnel. 0:02:05.160 --> 0:02:07.640 I don't think there's a lot of platforms that do 0:02:07.720 --> 0:02:10.760 more of the serious type concepts unless you're in your. 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:13.959 Forties or like, yeah, people want you to be kind 0:02:13.960 --> 0:02:15.720 of slutty exactly. 0:02:15.840 --> 0:02:20.880 Remember, exactly exactly, so we are Soyba tried to sell 0:02:20.919 --> 0:02:24.280 it as let's get medical professionals on, let's get authors on. 0:02:24.600 --> 0:02:27.480 She wanted to make it really informative personality, and I said, no, 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:32.480 one wants to hear that. So I said, okay, power numbers, Sustine, 0:02:32.480 --> 0:02:32.760 come on. 0:02:32.880 --> 0:02:35.320 And so we went to probably. 0:02:35.040 --> 0:02:38.680 The first podcast studio that would take us, and they 0:02:38.680 --> 0:02:40.560 were like, let's do it, and Custine and I just 0:02:40.600 --> 0:02:42.040 had this natural banner and it's. 0:02:41.880 --> 0:02:45.239 Perfect because we're pull her office. And the show's called Unwaxed, 0:02:45.440 --> 0:02:47.200 so I love the name. 0:02:47.360 --> 0:02:51.280 It's pretty much actually, we didn't think of it, which 0:02:51.320 --> 0:02:53.359 is and I think it's kind of weird to say, 0:02:53.360 --> 0:02:54.040 who thought of it? 0:02:54.120 --> 0:02:55.040 Who did think of it? 0:02:55.160 --> 0:02:59.919 Sylvester, Yeah, so not as creepysy. 0:03:00.200 --> 0:03:04.119 Well, he told us to not tell people, Oh my god. 0:03:04.280 --> 0:03:06.400 By the way, by the way, people don't realize. I mean, 0:03:06.440 --> 0:03:07.760 I know because I've done a lot of movies with 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:11.400 your dad. He Besides, he's a creative genius obviously, but 0:03:11.560 --> 0:03:15.160 he's really smart with things that you would be like 0:03:15.200 --> 0:03:17.079 would I go to him last for that? Like I 0:03:17.080 --> 0:03:18.840 would ever think, like, let's go to sly and ask 0:03:18.919 --> 0:03:20.000 him for a podcast name. 0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.200 But he does come up with a lot of really 0:03:22.280 --> 0:03:23.320 really smart shit. 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:27.160 Well, if you look at his characters, they're the most interesting, weird, 0:03:27.280 --> 0:03:32.600 Like he'll name someone Christmas and Barnie Ross like yeah, random, 0:03:32.639 --> 0:03:33.320 just so random. 0:03:33.400 --> 0:03:36.040 Yeah, but he really came through with that one. 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:37.440 Yeah, okay, So now just take us this. 0:03:37.600 --> 0:03:38.880 So you come up with the idea, you come up 0:03:38.880 --> 0:03:41.040 with the name, and then you go to a podcast studio, 0:03:41.160 --> 0:03:43.240 and how does the process start and what is it 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:44.360 like when you're doing it? 0:03:44.640 --> 0:03:46.000 Do you enjoy it? 0:03:46.040 --> 0:03:47.680 Is there a lot of growing pains like we had 0:03:47.720 --> 0:03:50.040 because Lala and I were like, we didn't know what 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:52.000 fuck we were doing when we started, so it took it. 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:54.240 Like I talked way too much. They told me to 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:55.200 shut up things like that. 0:03:55.560 --> 0:03:58.120 So tell us it was definitely a work in progress. 0:03:58.200 --> 0:04:01.160 I feel like first one was hey, actually we did 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:04.360 practice runs before we did our official first episode, and 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:05.720 we were so bad. 0:04:05.920 --> 0:04:06.600 We looked at each. 0:04:06.480 --> 0:04:09.440 Other like are we are we fucking crazy? Like why 0:04:09.480 --> 0:04:11.240 are we doing this? This is like the worst idea. 0:04:11.320 --> 0:04:14.040 For maybe three to four months, we would get our 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:18.479 phone record ourselves just practicing, and every three minutes we 0:04:18.480 --> 0:04:21.000 would pause it while the other person was talking and 0:04:21.040 --> 0:04:24.760 critique them. So then we ended up taking four hours 0:04:24.760 --> 0:04:26.640 to shoot one and then we just would leave because 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.080 we're fighting. Yeah, but it's kind of crazy. I feel 0:04:29.120 --> 0:04:31.520 like the transition from how we were then to now. 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:34.120 We used to have at least three pages of Google 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:36.800 Docs before, like while we're shooting, so we would know 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:39.279 the topics, the transitions, who to bring up, and it 0:04:39.360 --> 0:04:42.120 was so detailed, and if we didn't have something, we 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:43.640 thought that it was going to implode. 0:04:43.680 --> 0:04:44.880 And so now today I think. 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:47.520 It's more we'll have like a topic and we'll write 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:49.000 it down and we just riff off. 0:04:48.880 --> 0:04:50.520 Each other, right, like, just let it flow. 0:04:50.800 --> 0:04:56.599 Yeah, I find like I'm a virgo, so I also yeah, yeah, Google, 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:57.200 I'm like, I. 0:04:57.160 --> 0:04:58.320 Know where your head's at. I know. 0:04:58.760 --> 0:05:00.760 But then I feel like I got kind of when 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:04.760 I have something that's that detailed, it almost fucks my 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:05.800 mind up a little bit. 0:05:05.920 --> 0:05:06.280 Yeah. 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:09.120 Yeah, Following the script is hard, especially when you want 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:11.120 to be creative and funny and hit certain notes and 0:05:11.160 --> 0:05:12.839 your brain is just all over the place. 0:05:12.760 --> 0:05:14.520 Right, And then I sit there and I'm like, I 0:05:14.560 --> 0:05:17.120 didn't talk about that one thing though, and. 0:05:17.000 --> 0:05:19.480 It just becomes like too much for me to hit 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.760 it or I went off track? Was that like weird? 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:24.480 And is that like not making sense for the show anymore? 0:05:24.480 --> 0:05:25.840 And I mean we have to cut that whole thing out. 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.880 Seem's like, no, that's your authenticity, like you're being honest 0:05:28.880 --> 0:05:31.320 about I think that was the hardest part for us, 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:35.279 was trying to sort of create an image for ourselves 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.000 that we want out there, because no one really knows 0:05:37.000 --> 0:05:37.400 who we are. 0:05:37.520 --> 0:05:38.680 No one knows our personality. 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:41.480 So in the beginning, we really tried to come off 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:45.360 as cookie cutter, perfect twenty four and twenty three year 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:48.400 olds and that's and as the show has grown, we're 0:05:48.400 --> 0:05:50.440 almost not a fiftieth episode and you can just see 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:53.320 that it's just authentic and people are like, you know, 0:05:53.440 --> 0:05:58.320 you're really honest on the show. They're like, yeah, you 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:00.200 remind us of this other girl that's on our show. 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:02.720 But you guys are just raw. And I'm like, oh god, 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:06.120 we don't care, like we just spill it all. But 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.240 I think that that's what makes an epic podcast. 0:06:08.320 --> 0:06:10.640 No one wants to hear some well, I'm sure there 0:06:10.680 --> 0:06:13.599 are people, but that's not who we are obviously targeting. 0:06:13.640 --> 0:06:17.000 We want the people that are like, I want to 0:06:17.040 --> 0:06:19.600 talk about bleaching assholes. 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:24.880 Or like whatever it may be. Mention it all, mention 0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:26.680 it all. I think people like that. 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:29.200 I agree because one of the things that we were 0:06:29.240 --> 0:06:31.400 so obsessed with too is that like we'd be like, 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:33.120 who's the guest this week? Remember, we would do that, 0:06:33.200 --> 0:06:35.720 like every we'd obsess, like the next three weeks out 0:06:35.720 --> 0:06:38.039 who our guests would be. And then we started getting 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:42.880 feedback and from fans and from the network that there 0:06:42.920 --> 0:06:45.240 are podcasts and they're like, you guys, we like you, 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:48.640 Like it doesn't always have to be the biggest star 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:50.800 in the world, because we're like, we need the loan, 0:06:50.920 --> 0:06:52.880 we need Quava, we need this guy we need And 0:06:53.160 --> 0:06:55.080 all of a sudden we realize, like, wow, they really 0:06:55.120 --> 0:06:56.800 like laugh at us and with us, and. 0:06:56.760 --> 0:06:59.479 It's okay and so true from I mean, I've listened 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:02.400 to a bunch of Your Guys's episodes and I found 0:07:02.440 --> 0:07:04.960 that the ones that were my favorite were with just 0:07:05.080 --> 0:07:07.360 you guys, or having the mom talk or the dad talk. 0:07:07.400 --> 0:07:08.360 It wasn't the big guest. 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:10.760 That you guys had your banter before the guest came 0:07:10.800 --> 0:07:12.000 on was the best part of it. 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:15.080 Was so nice it's true. Tell me this. 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:18.560 Do your do your parents listen to your podcast each week? 0:07:19.040 --> 0:07:21.720 Jen used to mom used to listen to it every week. 0:07:21.760 --> 0:07:25.600 She's hinting on lazy. Sly refuses what I told him, 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.360 we do not want you to listen. My dad started strong. 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.520 He listened to the first episode and he goes, this 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:33.600 is great. The second episode was advice from a fuck boy. 0:07:33.800 --> 0:07:37.520 Oh and after I heard that one, he goes, I 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:38.160 think I'm good. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:40.600 Right, He was like, I just want to think of 0:07:40.640 --> 0:07:44.120 you guys as like three year old little girls that yeah, yeah, totally. 0:07:44.400 --> 0:07:45.160 Let me tell you something. 0:07:45.400 --> 0:07:48.800 If I was your father and I heard that episode, 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:50.360 it would be the last one I'd ever listened to, 0:07:50.480 --> 0:07:53.200 So I can understand. So by the way I think that, 0:07:53.640 --> 0:07:55.720 I mean, and I'm speaking for Sly, but I think 0:07:55.760 --> 0:07:58.640 that part of being the successful father that he is 0:07:58.640 --> 0:08:01.200 is letting you guys go into the world and having 0:08:01.280 --> 0:08:03.400 your voice. And and by the way, I don't think 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:06.840 people really know because like you said, the Stalone Girls 0:08:07.000 --> 0:08:10.320 or whatever, the Stalone Sisters, but like now you have 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:13.160 your voice and it's like kind of really shining, and 0:08:13.200 --> 0:08:15.040 I think that's really really special, and I think that's 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:16.400 a success. 0:08:16.000 --> 0:08:18.320 Of a father. You know, let me panning it down, 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:19.200 and that's cool. 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.480 Totally, and I feel like we have I think he 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:24.000 also loves the fact that if you guys know him personally, 0:08:24.000 --> 0:08:26.760 so you know that he's a very open book about things. 0:08:26.760 --> 0:08:27.960 He does not have a filter. 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:30.240 I feel like anyone that knows him personally is like, 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:31.640 this guy's not as. 0:08:31.520 --> 0:08:33.400 Cookie cutters, still laying me it's a filter. 0:08:33.559 --> 0:08:35.560 Yeah. So it's funny because I feel like people are 0:08:35.559 --> 0:08:37.920 getting like a sneak peek of what he really is 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:39.600 like because we're the same way, Like we. 0:08:39.520 --> 0:08:40.800 Don't really hold back on anything. 0:08:40.840 --> 0:08:42.480 It's like if we talk about sex, we talk about sex, 0:08:42.480 --> 0:08:44.520 we talk about mental health, we'll talking about mental health. 0:08:44.840 --> 0:08:45.559 Why hold back? 0:08:45.559 --> 0:08:47.960 And I feel like people have been getting they got 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.199 over the shock. Now now they're like, okay, what's next, 0:08:50.240 --> 0:08:51.280 Like what's more for the show? 0:08:51.559 --> 0:08:55.160 Right? Well, I was, you know, lucky enough to come 0:08:55.200 --> 0:08:58.320 and have dinner at your guys's home with your other 0:08:58.840 --> 0:09:03.960 little sister, Scarlet, and then your mom, and obviously your 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:04.960 dad was there, and. 0:09:04.920 --> 0:09:07.760 I will his name is Sly. 0:09:08.920 --> 0:09:12.839 I'm just gonna say your dad. It's funny because I 0:09:12.840 --> 0:09:16.920 don't even say my dad. I call him Sli. Your 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:18.040 dad's Sly. That's dope. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:21.800 And just to see your guys back and forth with 0:09:21.920 --> 0:09:24.560 him is amazing. I mean, I feel like people like 0:09:24.679 --> 0:09:27.520 Sly and Rand just get cursed with all girls. 0:09:28.080 --> 0:09:29.800 Yes, don't you think? Yes? 0:09:30.160 --> 0:09:33.160 Because I feel like because they have so much energy, 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:37.960 they need the girl energy to bring them down at them. Yes, 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:40.440 because I know that he does not get away with 0:09:40.600 --> 0:09:42.440 ship shows. 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:44.040 But he wanted only girls. 0:09:44.120 --> 0:09:46.080 He did only want Now he regrets it. Girls are 0:09:46.080 --> 0:09:47.920 a little bit expensive. But I tell him, I. 0:09:47.920 --> 0:09:50.800 Go, Dad, girls are forever. When men find their woman, 0:09:51.200 --> 0:09:53.079 they leave. They don't need you. No, they don't need 0:09:53.120 --> 0:09:54.600 you girls or forever we're. 0:09:55.960 --> 0:09:56.000 That. 0:09:56.360 --> 0:09:58.280 That is so true. What a great thing. 0:09:58.400 --> 0:10:00.439 Because you know what I told Lala when when we 0:10:00.440 --> 0:10:04.360 were trying to have Ocean, which took about four weeks, 0:10:04.360 --> 0:10:07.360 but but literally, but when we were trying to have 0:10:07.400 --> 0:10:10.080 a baby, She's like, you know, she was dead set 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:13.880 in her mind at that time. Obviously now she's in paradise, 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:15.960 but but she was like, I got to give you 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:17.640 a boy. And I was like, no, you don't understand something. 0:10:18.200 --> 0:10:21.880 I'm good, I'm old, and I like to cuddle. I 0:10:22.000 --> 0:10:24.360 like to get you know, go to manicures and pedicures. 0:10:24.480 --> 0:10:27.240 I'm like, good shopping. I'm not going to be a 0:10:27.280 --> 0:10:31.320 great boy. Dad like I'm too slow and too old, 0:10:31.679 --> 0:10:33.080 and and then and then I told her, and the 0:10:33.080 --> 0:10:35.240 other thing is, you're too o CD and if we 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:38.120 have a boy jumping off the furniture into the wall, 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:39.520 you're going to go crazy. 0:10:39.600 --> 0:10:39.800 Yeah. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:42.360 So anyway, so I didn't really feel like I needed 0:10:42.360 --> 0:10:43.319 to give you a boy. 0:10:43.520 --> 0:10:44.640 I just wanted a boy. 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:46.200 Oh I thought you were being selfless. 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:51.200 But okay, okay, anyway, so next time, just agree and pretend, Okay, 0:10:51.840 --> 0:10:52.240 I want. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:55.880 A boy right now. So I mean, slow down. I 0:10:55.920 --> 0:10:57.360 don't know, I do want to boy. I don't know 0:10:57.360 --> 0:10:59.800 if it's because I'm so surrounded by girls. Twenty four seven. 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:02.439 Wanted to throw something in the mix because we're so 0:11:02.760 --> 0:11:04.840 I feel like we're all because my mom's whole side, 0:11:04.880 --> 0:11:07.400 they've only had one of one gender. My mom's sisters 0:11:07.400 --> 0:11:10.599 had four boys. My mom's others said three girls. 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:15.119 Three girls. There hasn't been like a mix, even female dogs. 0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:19.000 But go go back to choice, my choice. 0:11:19.120 --> 0:11:21.440 But going back to the dinner when you guys came over, 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.960 that was one of the most chaotic dinner conversations in 0:11:25.000 --> 0:11:27.800 the best way possible. And my mom comes up to 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.120 us after you guys had left and goes, do you 0:11:30.160 --> 0:11:31.360 think we scared them off? 0:11:31.640 --> 0:11:34.480 Like, I don't think they're gonna not at all. You 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:35.880 like had me hooked after that? 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:36.160 Oh. 0:11:36.520 --> 0:11:39.080 I was like I was already super down and we 0:11:39.160 --> 0:11:41.280 had just found out that I was pregnant with others. 0:11:41.360 --> 0:11:44.000 Yeah, right right, that's right. I think you guys are 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:47.240 like the first people I saw after Oh my god, 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:48.440 how crazy? 0:11:48.559 --> 0:11:48.840 Is that? 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:49.840 So cool? 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:50.360 That was? 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:52.320 That was a week after we got back from North Carolina. 0:11:52.320 --> 0:11:54.000 It was like we were like two weeks maybe in 0:11:54.120 --> 0:11:58.880 and that I mean very quick, Yeah, yeah, wow, uh 0:11:58.960 --> 0:12:00.480 what I like to call givoting. 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:04.080 No, you weren't. You weren't scaring anybody. We were coming 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:07.560 back for more, like we were live anytime. Flies calling 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:09.400 and I was like, what are you doing tomorrow night? 0:12:09.400 --> 0:12:11.040 And I was like, are we going on a date? Slide? 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:12.520 And he's like, no, you want to go in for dinner. 0:12:12.520 --> 0:12:14.000 I was like, well, I'm still out of town. You know, 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:15.319 he's always he's great. 0:12:15.600 --> 0:12:18.480 But so so here's the question I get from a 0:12:18.480 --> 0:12:19.920 lot of my friends. Neither one of you know this 0:12:20.040 --> 0:12:23.120 but because I shield you from I feel like, you know, 0:12:23.440 --> 0:12:25.600 parental shield, like I have to do it for slide. 0:12:27.000 --> 0:12:29.440 People see you on Instagram. You guys have these big 0:12:29.440 --> 0:12:31.960 Instagram followings. You have these big social media followings. Obviously 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:34.240 people know who you are. I get a question and 0:12:34.240 --> 0:12:38.679 the question is are you two single? We have I 0:12:38.720 --> 0:12:40.960 want the answer officially on this podcast. 0:12:41.760 --> 0:12:44.600 Said that such a hilarious question. Yes we are so, 0:12:44.720 --> 0:12:47.760 and actually we're about to talk about why we're single. 0:12:47.800 --> 0:12:49.920 Why do you think it's our fault that we're seeing 0:12:49.960 --> 0:12:53.160 a way on our podcast today record. We've spent about 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:56.560 twenty episodes on our podcast discussing why it's everyone else 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:57.000 that's the. 0:12:56.960 --> 0:13:00.480 Problem and why we're single. And Sophia, I'm not kidding you. 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:02.160 This morning I walk in a room, she goes, Systeine, 0:13:02.200 --> 0:13:05.920 I think it's us said the problem, and I was like, 0:13:05.960 --> 0:13:09.839 we should talk about why we find every single problem 0:13:09.920 --> 0:13:12.559 and the guys we're dating and find the most ridiculous 0:13:12.559 --> 0:13:14.199 one and why we broke up with them, and talk 0:13:14.240 --> 0:13:16.720 about the podcast like our defense mechanisms and you. 0:13:16.760 --> 0:13:18.640 Can you give us an example of a guy that 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:20.800 you each were dating and what you made up in 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:22.320 your head that was horribly wrong. 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:24.360 You don't have to pay the name, of course. 0:13:25.400 --> 0:13:28.120 Oh my god, Oh I know I've done a guy 0:13:28.160 --> 0:13:31.360 because he gave me too much attention. Yeah, it's just 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:34.000 so stupid because the opposite, I get way pissier. 0:13:34.760 --> 0:13:37.080 I'm like, oh, he's just too much, Like what else 0:13:37.120 --> 0:13:37.600 do I want? 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:42.400 I stopped seeing a guy because on the second date 0:13:42.480 --> 0:13:46.040 he gave me a pet name, called me his little pickle. Okay, 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:49.600 i'd break up, but he was the nicest guy ago, 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:53.679 but no, no, no, but I can't be a little yeah. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:56.480 Oh god no, it's like we even say, like Colone 0:13:56.640 --> 0:13:59.200 changes if it's like too many different sons. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:02.400 Okay, you allright, So let me ask it. 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:05.000 So both you were single now during the pandemic, which 0:14:05.080 --> 0:14:08.200 I had spoken to you guys, it was obviously for 0:14:08.240 --> 0:14:10.240 somebody singles super hard to date because you guys were 0:14:10.280 --> 0:14:12.480 locked down. How did you deal with that or was 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:13.600 it just online? 0:14:13.640 --> 0:14:14.360 Like what happened? 0:14:14.360 --> 0:14:16.520 Okay? The weirdest thing. I don't know why. I think 0:14:16.559 --> 0:14:19.120 I've thrived during quarantine one that I've ever done in 0:14:19.160 --> 0:14:21.840 my entire life. So serial dating. 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:26.240 Would get six dates really days? Yeah, well I did 0:14:26.280 --> 0:14:28.200 it for the podcast. I was kind of trying to test. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:29.120 Them like zoom dates. 0:14:29.360 --> 0:14:31.920 Yeah, zoom dates a lot of them, and they were 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:36.400 just wow a zoom dat there's so high. 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:39.120 By the way, it's really specific. We had to get 0:14:39.160 --> 0:14:42.840 the lighting right. We put candles in the back. Very moody. 0:14:43.800 --> 0:14:46.680 That's really very very moody. So he was in the background, 0:14:46.720 --> 0:14:48.080 was like, well, what we've moved on. 0:14:48.240 --> 0:14:51.120 What we thought was just a genius idea now looking back, 0:14:51.200 --> 0:14:53.320 was actually so stupid of us to do. We decided 0:14:53.320 --> 0:14:57.160 to join a dating app, during which one during the pandemic, 0:14:57.240 --> 0:14:59.920 we joined Riyah and pinge. 0:14:59.560 --> 0:15:05.440 Okay, and I thought, how how is that or what 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:07.160 is it? Like, well, we're not on it anymore, but 0:15:07.160 --> 0:15:07.920 it's just horrible. 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:12.120 I'll tell you why Riah doesn't work for us, because 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:14.880 it's a bunch of people that think that they are 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:18.200 just the cats meow. And for example, this one guy 0:15:18.280 --> 0:15:21.280 had message Sophia and asked her out and said, how 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.120 do you feel if we go get a hamburger and 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:25.920 go to the beach. Sophia says, that's not my vibe 0:15:26.040 --> 0:15:27.800 at all, right, not your vibe? 0:15:27.800 --> 0:15:30.360 What's your vibe? She's lying? I just the guy was 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:31.600 too short and that's just. 0:15:34.480 --> 0:15:36.080 What's the height requirement? 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:38.680 We have to know at least like six feet. Holy 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:44.000 please to say I agree, but you're not six Lawa. 0:15:44.560 --> 0:15:46.600 I am six feet minus two inches. 0:15:48.800 --> 0:15:49.320 That I could take. 0:15:49.360 --> 0:15:51.000 I just need to at least when I wear my 0:15:51.120 --> 0:15:53.880 four in sheets, at least be we're not offended. 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:57.600 Next you, Sorry, it's the I agree. 0:15:57.600 --> 0:15:59.640 I agree with Lawa. Six. If that's what you need, 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:00.760 you should get six feet. 0:16:00.920 --> 0:16:03.000 See, I feel like I mean picky. No, you're not 0:16:03.040 --> 0:16:05.160 a problem. It's like, it's okay, old, are you again? 0:16:05.280 --> 0:16:07.760 I'm gonna be twenty five next month? Okay, fuck off. 0:16:07.880 --> 0:16:10.640 You can take as much time as you need find 0:16:12.360 --> 0:16:13.000 six feet. 0:16:13.560 --> 0:16:16.120 You can say what you want him to do, what 0:16:16.160 --> 0:16:19.440 you want him to look like, no attention, too much attention. 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.280 You can break up with him. You're twenty five. 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:23.680 We just sort of will be saying yes to anyone 0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:24.640 that asks us out though. 0:16:24.640 --> 0:16:27.280 That's the problem. We're not picky enough. We literally just say. 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:29.560 And then the problem is we do the most. 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:31.840 On the first few dates, we try to entertain do 0:16:31.880 --> 0:16:35.360 a little dad yeah, be smart, be funny, good conversationalists, 0:16:35.400 --> 0:16:37.640 and then by date three we go, oh my god, 0:16:37.800 --> 0:16:40.560 they have the personality of a doorknob and you don't 0:16:40.600 --> 0:16:42.080 know who they are. Who did you just date for 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:43.240 the past five weeks? 0:16:43.360 --> 0:16:44.200 Let me ask you a question. 0:16:44.360 --> 0:16:47.600 Okay, because I'm older, so I'm a little different generation 0:16:47.680 --> 0:16:51.880 gap here. If they have a great personality and they're 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:55.240 five eight, do you overlook the hype? 0:16:55.280 --> 0:16:56.040