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Speaker 1: My dad found his biological parents, should he reach out

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Speaker 2: I'd say so curiosity killed the cat that shouldn't brought

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Speaker 1: Ah. This is answered a question should he and aage?

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Speaker 1: Results always be shared, And it comes from eyes on Pies,

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Speaker 1: who says, I'm not sure this is the place to

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Speaker 1: But I just want to get my excitement out somewhere,

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Speaker 1: so I figured that counts as getting off my chest.

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Speaker 1: Shout out to our slash who helped me discover this subreddit.

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Speaker 1: Out to our slash. Hey, guests on our show. Actually, yeah,

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Speaker 1: the heck come over here. Yeah, come on. Anyways, As

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Speaker 1: as you would expect from my title, my dad Male

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Speaker 1: fifty six was adopted at birth. He was raised in

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Speaker 1: grandparents to my sister female nineteen and I male twenty two.

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Speaker 1: All he had from his birth parents was a letter

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Speaker 1: which told him he was born out of love, but

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Speaker 2: This is just making me think of the movie I

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Speaker 1: Guys, if if you get Sophia to cry on the

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Speaker 2: So honestly, if you just bring up the movie Nowhere Special.

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Speaker 1: I might cry, so shoody Dooby do So. When my

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Speaker 1: sister decided to get him a genetic test for Christmas,

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Speaker 1: that is a gift that could be great or terrible.

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Speaker 1: Usually terrible. It was purely with the intention to find

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Speaker 1: out what ethnicity we all are, and the thought of

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Speaker 1: finding his birth parents didn't even cross our minds. Eventually,

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Speaker 1: when we got his results, we were surprised to find

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Speaker 1: the names of two people with perfect genetic matches to

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Speaker 2: They were looking for if well, if they're in the system,

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Speaker 2: maybe they were looking for him.

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Speaker 1: WHOA, that's in astute observation. I make them all the time,

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Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, how are all these people in the database?

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Speaker 2: You have to you have to have done it.

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Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, is like, I don't I don't

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Speaker 2: I think a bunch of people in my family did it.

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Speaker 2: Because we when my great grandmother moved or my grandparents

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Speaker 2: moved from Poland to here, Uh, there wasn't a lot

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Speaker 1: And Sam did a whole project where he like interviewed

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Speaker 1: them and everything. Right, yeah, dude, beautiful.

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Speaker 2: Me and sim I edited. I did all of the

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Speaker 3: I think they got me in when I was in kindergarten.

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Speaker 3: All I remember is it was really cold. I had

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Speaker 3: fingerprints and I was five, and they gave me a

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Speaker 2: Finger I don't think it was like an ancestry test.

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Speaker 3: That was way back there. That was honestly probably one

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Speaker 2: Talk about ancestry dot com. One time when I was five,

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Speaker 2: No, it seems like it's we have Opie's bio grandparents,

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Speaker 1: I don't get it, guys, I've been having the craziest

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Speaker 2: Whoa wait, the bio parents were split up and never

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Speaker 1: Yes, she was like shipped off to Canada like pop

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Speaker 2: Was separated from the baby in Canada then moved back to.

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Speaker 1: Both Jim and Debbie had always wanted to keep my

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Speaker 2: So like, oh my god, it is crazy.

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Speaker 1: It's it's adorable, it's heartbreaking, it's it's insane. It's like wow, yeah.

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Speaker 2: No, the effort that these like parents are putting in

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Speaker 1: Yeah and and forty years yeah wow. When he received

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Speaker 1: Since then, we have had several calls with Jim and

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Speaker 1: At the end of the month, we'll be flying to

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Speaker 1: NA tests are low key like bonus, like a family extension.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he has amazing like parent or so Opie's dad

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Speaker 1: Him double amazing parents. Yeah, it would be kind of

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Speaker 1: this episode. So sponge Jake says, the visual of your

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Speaker 1: Jim brought tears. Congratulations to your dad, your family, and

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Speaker 1: It's it's so great. But we have a question to answer.

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Speaker 1: What should DNA Should DNA results always be shared and listen, Sophie,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, which is a good process, But like if it

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Speaker 1: And well this this is specifically, like do you share

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Speaker 1: Like I think I'm trying to remember of a story.

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Speaker 2: But love win, No, let love die.

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Speaker 1: Wow, guys, raise your glass, raise your to the king.

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Speaker 1: May he live long and prosper. I am watching game anyways.

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Speaker 2: This is one month later update. I want I want

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Speaker 1: Oh what if everything goes terribly No, don't read it.

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Speaker 1: First of all, thank you so much. Everyone who loves

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Speaker 1: That is so true. Yeah, because it's like it almost

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Speaker 2: I sudden ice that's my sudden, we will rule them.

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Speaker 1: All together, join me, yours yours. Throughout the week, we

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Speaker 1: I wonder if they're in.

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Speaker 2: La yeah, or could be in the Bay maybe Sam fran.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to be here.

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's it here, it's here or Seattle. No, that's

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Speaker 2: also true. No, I don't know why I was picturing Seattle.

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Speaker 1: When I hear west coast, Pacific northwest, Yeah, like west

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Speaker 1: west Coast.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like, I don't know. I just like I

448
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Speaker 2: literally was picturing them walking around Seattle.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. I think I was.

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Speaker 2: Did you say Seattle? Why was it?

451
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Speaker 1: I didn't, And I think we had a telekinesis moment. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we did. Actually super slight side tangent me and Sam

453
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Speaker 1: on our very first show, we had a coat for

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Speaker 1: uh like storytelling, reading, et cetera. Did say ever tell

455
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Speaker 1: you about this? We did all kinds of crazy, like

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Speaker 1: all this crazy stuff like vocal warm upsy vocal warm ups.

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Speaker 1: She was like kind of like an acting coat. I

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Speaker 1: think she was normally an acting coach voice coach but

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Speaker 1: it was also and she was like, visualize things in

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Speaker 1: your mind because then the listeners will be able to

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Speaker 1: visualize it with.

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Speaker 2: Now class professionally tree professionals, I do my vocal warm

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Speaker 2: ups before the stream.

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Speaker 1: Sophie is actually professional. Do you actually what?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Really you hear me? I go the the.

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Speaker 5: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I thought you were just like clean your teeth.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm that's a vocal war. I'm got you think

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Speaker 2: that when I go you think that's a cleaning. I don't.

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Speaker 1: I don't ask shakes the dirt and gunkut is good

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Speaker 1: vocal then you yeah, you do that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's good. It's good. It's good for the.

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Speaker 1: Those are contagious. Anyways, enough of Sophia trying to affect

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Speaker 1: me with their yawns. So they have been Oh no, Riley,

477
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Speaker 1: where's your sweet little head? Throughout this week? The week?

478
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Speaker 1: Here we go throughout the week. This is his sweet

479
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Speaker 1: little head what I was looking for? Anyways, stop keep derailing.

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Speaker 1: So throughout the week we explored their city and saw

481
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Speaker 1: so many cool sites and tried so many delicious foods.

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Speaker 1: Mary knows her city so well, and it was great

483
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Speaker 1: to see your favorite spots all around the city. From

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Speaker 1: food cars to guards to museums. We all went to

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Speaker 1: an incredible Japanese American museum and Jim and Mary absolutely

486
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Speaker 1: loved it. They were very keen to learn about the

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Speaker 1: internment during World War Two and said, uh and said

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Speaker 1: they knew a bit about it before, but now it

489
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Speaker 1: feels personal. Oh, that feels personal because because uh Op

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Speaker 1: and his sister Japanese and they're is half Japanese and

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Speaker 1: her mom is Japanese.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of I don't know, that's kind of an interesting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's different.

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Speaker 2: Sure, I didn't care, but wow.

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Speaker 1: Show me the camps. Basically, gotta love old people. We

496
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Speaker 1: went on two walks with Jim. Mary wasn't able to

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Speaker 1: come because she was in a wheelchair. It's so cool

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Speaker 1: to have such an active, outdoorsy grandfather who was able

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Speaker 1: to go on long hikes. He taught us, uh, you

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Speaker 1: do this to me. He taught us some forging tips

501
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Speaker 1: and told us stories from when he used to go

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Speaker 1: camp from years for years on end. Wow. Both he

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Speaker 1: and Mary are very spiritual, so he told us great

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Speaker 1: stories from meditation retreats that they've done. He's even tried psychedelics,

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Speaker 1: so he's definitely the cool Grandpa, cool Grandpa. I won't

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Speaker 1: go into precise details of places we went, but it

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Speaker 1: was great exploring such a cool part of the world

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Speaker 1: with amazing people. Tell me it was La Becau because

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Speaker 1: I want that, because what if they went to a

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Speaker 1: place that we've been to. I'm going to look up

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Speaker 1: where museums with World War II? Yeah, the museums are

512
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Speaker 1: I bet there's some here. We were all very sad

513
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Speaker 1: when the trip was over and we had to leave.

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Speaker 1: I've gained two new grandparents on the West Coast and

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Speaker 1: I couldn't be happier. And they said that they've gained

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Speaker 1: two grandchildren. I'm so glad that they see us as such.

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Speaker 1: Mary told me her greatest regret in life was not

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Speaker 1: being able to have children and grandchildren, but now it does.

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Speaker 1: This has been such a transformative time in our lives,

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Speaker 1: and I think it's incredible just how many people are

521
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Speaker 1: so much happier now because my sister just happened to

522
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Speaker 1: get my dad a DNA test. This is the beginning

523
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Speaker 1: of our relationship with our new grandparents, and I'm so excited.

524
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Speaker 1: Now we have to figure out a way to get

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Speaker 1: to Australia to meet Debbie whenever that happens, maybe I'll

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Speaker 1: make another update. Until then, I hope all of you

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Speaker 1: have a lovely day, and thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: taking the time read.

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Speaker 2: Wow, what a beautiful story.

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Speaker 1: There's one in Fresno, Darlene says, Japanese American National Museum

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Speaker 1: in La.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I found one in La because there was a

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Speaker 2: five star one. But it's in Fresno, and I doubt

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Speaker 2: that they were walking around fresnow.

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Speaker 1: I doubt they were also walking around Fresnow. But shout

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Speaker 1: out to Fresno and shout out to this very very story.

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Speaker 2: My goodness, you have one in you also have one

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Speaker 2: in Seattle. Oh I think, I think l a.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, this.

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Speaker 2: Is beautiful story.

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Speaker 1: This has been an amazing positive story.

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Speaker 2: What was What a nice way to kick off a Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: What a way, guys, this is welcome. This is the

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Speaker 1: Tuesday live stream, the one where you can force us

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Speaker 1: to stay as long as you want.

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Speaker 2: You want, and we start off little story and we're

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Speaker 2: probably gonna end with a really tragic story.

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Speaker 1: That that is how we do it. It's gonna be great.

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Speaker 1: I can't try it what candre caffeine anymore. So this

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Speaker 1: is gonna be it's been a hard few days. Let

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Speaker 1: me tell you something. I prop myself up with paffeinated beverages,

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Speaker 1: which I love it. It's so great, but I don't

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Speaker 1: love it now because I can't do it at all.

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Speaker 1: I've been like it been like four days or so.

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Speaker 2: Caffeine never really works on me, so I don't even

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Speaker 2: I don't even attempt to.

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Speaker 1: That's what haters say. Yeah, you're right, you're just a hater,

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Speaker 1: just a free It's all good, but uh, you know

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Speaker 1: what's uh? You know what I love?

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Speaker 2: What do you love?

561
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 1: Getting into these next stories and reading these don't know's

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Speaker 1: taking away?

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Speaker 2: So okay, gil the bill, thank you for celebrating three

564
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Speaker 2: months of membership. They fingerprint you for being submitted to

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Speaker 2: crisis centers for five to one fifties to mental Healtholdley.

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Speaker 2: If there's something you can tell us.

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Speaker 1: I guess so.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: But they came to my school and did it. What

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Speaker 1: about did you didn't get a passport? No, they can't passport.

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Speaker 3: But they gave me like a picture of my face

572
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Speaker 3: and a finger I d and said give this to

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Speaker 3: your parents, and I said, okay, and have my hair.

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Speaker 1: They took they took a little bit of my hair too.

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Speaker 2: I just remembered that this must have been for like

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Speaker 2: kidnapping protocol or whatever. Yeah, that must have been. Yeah,

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00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:18,920
Speaker 2: did you get your passport for Bali?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 3: I had one for when I was gonna go to Romania,

580
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Speaker 3: but my mom said you wouldn't like the food there,

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Speaker 3: and I didn't go.

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Speaker 1: I was ten. Oh you already had your but then expired.

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Speaker 1: It expired like in twenty twenty three, and then we

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Speaker 1: put riley. Was it second flight ever? And first international flight?

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Speaker 2: Damn?

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00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,720
Speaker 3: I think first international flight? And it was like I

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Speaker 3: think third or first flight.

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Speaker 1: Third or fourth, third or fourth flight for the first

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Speaker 1: time we brought him out here and then first.

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Speaker 3: Oh, second flight bring him out bringing me out here

591
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 3: because I went to Vegas and then to you guys,

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00:29:55,320 --> 00:29:57,960
Speaker 3: here we go, and then I went to Bali.

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Speaker 1: First international flight.

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Speaker 2: Ye, I think I had more international flights growing up

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Speaker 2: than I did.

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Speaker 3: Like, wow, we get it, Okay, it was only I

597
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Speaker 3: just had my first flight.

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Speaker 1: You're going to shove it in my face like that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, like I was only doing I had so

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Speaker 2: many international flights.

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Speaker 1: This is crazy.

602
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 2: I was only going to Australia to a family.

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Speaker 1: It does come on like that.

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Speaker 2: Let us get it.

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Speaker 1: You live in California. I'm in North Carolina, all right.

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Speaker 2: Not what I'm saying. Also saying an interesting fast She's.

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Speaker 1: Louise I grow Sofia, So I'm just kidding, Savannah Rain.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for the ten bocks on the Donalink no list.

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Speaker 1: Thank you guys for making me smile and feel less alone. Savannah,

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Speaker 1: Oh your family, Welcome to the family. Take a seat.

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Speaker 1: There's for you.

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Speaker 3: Uh sleevy toves the slighty slyy to No, slightly.

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Speaker 1: Tob slightly toes. I always mess it up anyway, slightly tobes.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for celebrating three months of membership. I'm so I'm

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Speaker 1: sorry about your brain frog, John. I have a few

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Speaker 1: autoimmune disorders and brain fog is a norm with chronic

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Speaker 1: fatigue and pain. I hope it clears hum soon. Let's

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Speaker 1: put some hearts in the chat for big Toes are

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Speaker 1: our our friend and confidant. Maybe Yeah, Ellie Gray, thanks

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Speaker 1: about five bucks. This is like the movie August Rush.

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Speaker 1: We read that and honestly fire movie. Let's rewatch it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Oh movie night my place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, good movie night.

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Speaker 1: Okay, Uncle Daddy Jesse, thanks for the twenty bucks. Guys,

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Speaker 1: Uncle Daddy has entered the child Uncle Daddy Dance. We

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Speaker 1: have a new thing, Birkleaddy Jesse, I love it and

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00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: then be Hope Arts celebrating four months of membership.

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Speaker 3: Wore three months, three months of membership.

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Speaker 1: I love wholesome adoption stories and this was a perfect one.

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Speaker 1: I met my birth mother this summer and I have

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Speaker 1: a story for you. Guys also like to stream.

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Speaker 2: Please send it in the Hope Arts.

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Speaker 1: Uh, send it to our slash Okay, sorry, time of course.

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Speaker 2: Geez I will, I will, I will find.

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Speaker 1: It and then send it to and then just yeah,

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Speaker 1: send it there.

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Speaker 2: Just send it there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, send it there. We definitely want to read it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And then Bob Smith Yo, guys, Bob Guys, Bob Smith

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Speaker 1: has been sounding off lately, have they?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I remember. Bob Smith's has done has been dropping

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Speaker 1: in some gifted memberships, just like Icon. What's up Icon?

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Speaker 1: New gifted membership King Thanks to five gifted memberships, Bob Smiths,

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Speaker 1: We've we've grown the family by five more. Sophia h

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Speaker 1: r W.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for the five bucks. I'm so glad I

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Speaker 2: got to catch your live on my birthday. Happy birthday.

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Speaker 2: I hope one day I can tell you guys about

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Speaker 2: how I found out I was the other woman.

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Speaker 1: R slash okay, short time yeah r W.

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Speaker 2: I also hope that you tell us yes and then

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Speaker 2: what could screw up? Thank you, Anna Banana. Thank you

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Speaker 2: for celebrating four months of membership. Wow wait, I think

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Speaker 2: that's the most amount of membership you can celebrate.

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Speaker 1: It was launch that long ago or something like, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: I think four months is the top? Was there a

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Speaker 2: comment there?

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Speaker 1: Really?

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Speaker 2: Ah?

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Speaker 1: Hi?

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Speaker 2: Everyone like the stream why Cay and Berlin Nabby. Thank

665
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Speaker 2: you for the five bucks. Being called into work right

666
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,640
Speaker 2: now after a hurricane sucks, but at least my work

667
00:33:33,640 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 2: has power and Wi Fi to watch y'all. Yeah, everyone

668
00:33:36,000 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 2: who's being affected by the hurricane right now, I hope

669
00:33:38,720 --> 00:33:41,360
Speaker 2: that you're all okay, yes, and then everything yeah, and

670
00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:45,240
Speaker 2: you are safe. Christy Lou, thank you for celebrating also

671
00:33:45,320 --> 00:33:49,080
Speaker 2: four months of membership. Y'all get an intern to make

672
00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 2: bullet points about the story track, the main characters and relationship,

673
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,239
Speaker 2: et cetera, to make sure things don't get mixed up.

674
00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:55,640
Speaker 1: We do.

675
00:33:55,680 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 2: We don't need an intern. It's upside down what some

676
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:02,920
Speaker 2: say now, no turn it up, turn it over.

677
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:06,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's that's erasable.

678
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:09,920
Speaker 2: No, don't erase it.

679
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 1: I'm just kidd I could never imagine it's the white board.

680
00:34:14,000 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 1: But yes, we have a whiteboard now, so that way

681
00:34:15,640 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: we can draw that way.

682
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:17,800
Speaker 2: We don't need an intern.

683
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:21,040
Speaker 1: Yes, but weie, we should, we should, we should get

684
00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:25,239
Speaker 1: another our intern. It was so great lived you know, Uh,

685
00:34:25,719 --> 00:34:26,640
Speaker 1: great things come to it.

686
00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:28,720
Speaker 2: He was poached.

687
00:34:28,880 --> 00:34:31,200
Speaker 1: What's what's the saying?

688
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:32,880
Speaker 2: You love them? Let them go?

689
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 1: No, it's like something about things not lasting long. I'm

690
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:39,399
Speaker 1: here for a short fun time, not a long time.

691
00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:41,560
Speaker 2: Stay gold pony.

692
00:34:41,280 --> 00:34:48,279
Speaker 3: Boy, get out of here, Marley, get get out.

693
00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:57,080
Speaker 2: Also, Christie, look you we already read that start. I

694
00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,360
Speaker 2: think you for celebrating three once a membership. So glad

695
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,919
Speaker 2: to be a member. Thank you to the generous people

696
00:35:02,960 --> 00:35:04,680
Speaker 2: who keep gifting me memberships.

697
00:35:04,760 --> 00:35:05,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go.

698
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 2: I love how many people in our in our in

699
00:35:07,719 --> 00:35:09,960
Speaker 2: our members have been gifted.

700
00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:14,399
Speaker 1: It's been great, got continuously continuously. I also I looked

701
00:35:14,440 --> 00:35:18,120
Speaker 1: at the numbers. Uh, okay, not the first time, but

702
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,799
Speaker 1: I don't look at them that often. A ton of

703
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:24,880
Speaker 1: people are converting into members, I have noticed.

704
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've been getting less of the tipping and more

705
00:35:27,280 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 2: of the members, which is what Yeah, not.

706
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:33,000
Speaker 1: Even that too. People are after their gifted membership there,

707
00:35:33,160 --> 00:35:35,240
Speaker 1: they're just becoming longter members.

708
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:36,360
Speaker 2: Oh oh they're continuing.

709
00:35:36,520 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's amazing. The family is growing. The family is growing.

710
00:35:39,840 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 1: But guys, you know, uh Riley highlighted Courtney Brady, I

711
00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: will intern for free if you live in LA you

712
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:55,320
Speaker 1: and know, Yeah, let me know and you apply. Yeah, honestly,

713
00:35:55,360 --> 00:35:57,320
Speaker 1: that is a good place to source. We found Riley.

714
00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:00,600
Speaker 1: Riley was a fan. It's true. That's not all came.

715
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 2: If you are a fan or related to one of.

716
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 1: Us, that the only way you get in. Yeah, I

717
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,520
Speaker 1: found it also, Yes, just fiam Ma dollar bequest. Thanks

718
00:36:13,560 --> 00:36:16,479
Speaker 1: for the six twenty. John, Please promise me you won't

719
00:36:16,480 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: make me rip my head again like yesterday. Uh no, anyways,

720
00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:24,439
Speaker 1: like the stream and all handler and cream, Josephine, keep them.

721
00:36:24,719 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 1: Your boy is suffering. Your boy is suffering, Josephine, He's suffering.

722
00:36:28,719 --> 00:36:31,719
Speaker 1: It's tough out here, but I will truly try my

723
00:36:31,800 --> 00:36:34,440
Speaker 1: diadaly darnedest. That's all I can do.

724
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 2: That's all I can do. Yep, you know what I

725
00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,440
Speaker 2: can do? Read this story?

726
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 1: Heck ya am?

727
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,160
Speaker 2: I the a hole for saying out loud that I'm

728
00:36:43,200 --> 00:36:46,040
Speaker 2: still in love with my cousin during a family reunion.

729
00:36:46,239 --> 00:36:51,680
Speaker 3: Oh dear, hopefully, hopefully you mean like like us love

730
00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 3: your cousin.

731
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:55,600
Speaker 2: I love your cousin, not like cousin. You were mean

732
00:36:55,640 --> 00:37:00,080
Speaker 2: to me, but I still love you. Or maybe or

733
00:37:00,080 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 2: maybe like cousin in the way like in the bear,

734
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 2: or they're not actually cousins and he's like cousin anyway,

735
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:11,680
Speaker 2: I think. And this stands with the question of should

736
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:19,440
Speaker 2: DNA results always be shared? Oh so, Kyla car seventy

737
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:22,960
Speaker 2: nine ninety six says Hi, I know the title is

738
00:37:23,000 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 2: pretty disturbing. It does sound creepy for me once I

739
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:28,359
Speaker 2: reread it, but there's no better way to say it.

740
00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,960
Speaker 2: I'm sure there's a better way to say it. Before

741
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 2: you start judging, I want you all to know that

742
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:35,880
Speaker 2: the context will be very important. You can form your

743
00:37:35,880 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 2: own ideas, but please wait until you read everything to

744
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:42,919
Speaker 2: say something. Me twenty nine male and my fiance who

745
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,960
Speaker 2: i'll name Ali twenty eight female, met when we were

746
00:37:46,000 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 2: both when we were twenty and twenty one at UNI.

747
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 2: We got along immediately since we shared a liking for

748
00:37:52,000 --> 00:37:55,680
Speaker 2: movies and TV shows, we introduced each other to our families.

749
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 2: We had movie nights and a pretty loving and healthy relationship.

750
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,480
Speaker 2: So after years, I finally asked her to marry me

751
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:03,840
Speaker 2: and she said.

752
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:07,760
Speaker 1: Yes, Oh, okay, put an ic in the country.

753
00:38:07,800 --> 00:38:11,120
Speaker 2: Okay. We started planning the wedding and I took her

754
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,920
Speaker 2: to my house for little VK with my family. She

755
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:15,920
Speaker 2: had a pretty good relationship with them, and that was

756
00:38:16,000 --> 00:38:18,719
Speaker 2: awesome since my family is a pretty important aspect of

757
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:21,680
Speaker 2: my life. Maybe too important.

758
00:38:22,000 --> 00:38:27,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Opie really loves their family, like really loves them.

759
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 2: For context, I was given up for adoption when I

760
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,960
Speaker 2: was almost a year old, and I got adopted by

761
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 2: my parents a year later. As far as I knew,

762
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,439
Speaker 2: I was removed from my biofamily because of a drug

763
00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:43,080
Speaker 2: issue concerning my bio mom. Ever since, my family has

764
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 2: been a blessing, even at more. After they took Ali

765
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: as a part of the family. During the preparation of

766
00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 2: her wedding, I started spending more time with her family,

767
00:38:51,400 --> 00:38:54,800
Speaker 2: and I also had a great relationship with them, almost

768
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 2: like we were already.

769
00:38:56,920 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: It's kind of crazy.

770
00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:03,799
Speaker 2: Anyway. For my birthday, her mother gave us one of

771
00:39:03,840 --> 00:39:06,399
Speaker 2: those DNA tests that are supposed to tell you about

772
00:39:06,440 --> 00:39:07,160
Speaker 2: your heritage.

773
00:39:07,160 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: Okay, why don't people give this as a gift.

774
00:39:09,719 --> 00:39:12,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think I've ever. It's kind of a

775
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,759
Speaker 2: weird It is a weird gift. I think it's a

776
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 2: weird gift. I think that I don't know. I feel

777
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:19,480
Speaker 2: like that's something that you get for yourself.

778
00:39:19,560 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 1: No, yeah, it's a fake, a very personal kind of

779
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:26,400
Speaker 1: like like I don't know, maybe some people are not

780
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:30,319
Speaker 1: ready with the adopted parents or like things of that nature, and.

781
00:39:30,280 --> 00:39:34,560
Speaker 2: Don't Yeah, a little bit interesting. There were two tests,

782
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 2: so I insisted Ali to take the other one. She

783
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,719
Speaker 2: did so, and we waited almost a month for the results.

784
00:39:40,960 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 2: We were on We were at dinner with my family

785
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:47,040
Speaker 2: and hers, and the result arrived. Just at that moment.

786
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:49,720
Speaker 2: I thought it would be fun to show the results

787
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: to our family and we could get some laughs and

788
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:55,480
Speaker 2: stories for the rest of the dinner. We prepared everything

789
00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 2: and I called for everyone's attention. Everything was laughs until

790
00:40:00,840 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: we got to the part of the DNA compatibility and

791
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,839
Speaker 2: it shows that we shared a big percentage of our

792
00:40:06,920 --> 00:40:10,040
Speaker 2: DNA total silence, we.

793
00:40:09,960 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 1: Thought, in front of everybody, in front.

794
00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,360
Speaker 2: Of everyone, in front of her girl family, which is

795
00:40:14,600 --> 00:40:20,280
Speaker 2: now apparently also his family. Oh, we thought it was wrong,

796
00:40:20,440 --> 00:40:23,080
Speaker 2: so we took an official DNA test that shows that

797
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:27,160
Speaker 2: me and Ali are actually cousins. This, of course, was

798
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:30,000
Speaker 2: very shocking and led to a lot of discussions between

799
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: our families. During the test, we decided to run I

800
00:40:32,880 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: happened to be. We found out that I happened to

801
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:39,320
Speaker 2: be son of an aunt of hers from her father's side.

802
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:43,719
Speaker 1: Oh so first cousin, first cousin. That's because I was

803
00:40:43,760 --> 00:40:47,640
Speaker 1: gonna I was gonna ask, like, is it like fourth cousins? Like, like,

804
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:50,920
Speaker 1: that's like you should that's not a problem, Riley. We

805
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: know you come from the South. I'm just kidding, but

806
00:40:54,760 --> 00:40:57,920
Speaker 1: like it truly though, like once you get that far out.

807
00:40:57,960 --> 00:41:01,160
Speaker 2: It is like asking her to marry her, It's like okay.

808
00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 1: But yeah, it's kinda Can we can we uh look

809
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:10,680
Speaker 1: up the amount of DNA the percentage shared because siblings

810
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:14,399
Speaker 1: is or fifty right or.

811
00:41:16,120 --> 00:41:16,759
Speaker 2: It's got to be.

812
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:20,920
Speaker 1: There's like a percentage I think it's like twelve and

813
00:41:20,960 --> 00:41:25,080
Speaker 1: a half percent that cousins that first cousins share. I

814
00:41:25,080 --> 00:41:27,680
Speaker 1: don't know something like that. We've we've had to look

815
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 1: this up.

816
00:41:28,080 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 3: Well, like they share if they are first cousins. Then

817
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,200
Speaker 3: they share grandpa, So it's it'll be which one, because

818
00:41:34,200 --> 00:41:36,360
Speaker 3: how many grandparents can you have? You have two parents

819
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 3: and then one, two, three, four, So they're like twenty

820
00:41:38,239 --> 00:41:38,720
Speaker 3: five percent.

821
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,359
Speaker 1: Thank you tradition, which is saying twenty five first siblings,

822
00:41:43,800 --> 00:41:46,360
Speaker 1: but they're they're first cousins. Yeah, someone give me a

823
00:41:46,400 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: stat or we could look up. We can't look it up, yep,

824
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 1: or our other chat. We have two chats. Yeah, say

825
00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:02,640
Speaker 1: what are the what's the percentage of DNA the cousin's share.

826
00:42:03,760 --> 00:42:06,200
Speaker 2: Courtney Brady says, I think siblings are fifty percent.

827
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,960
Speaker 1: That's what I am remembering, and then that first cousins

828
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:16,319
Speaker 1: are twelve and a half. But I digress. He's got

829
00:42:16,320 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: it here, it is, it is, It is all right.

830
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:23,120
Speaker 3: Gang first goes to share twelve point five of their DNA. However,

831
00:42:23,160 --> 00:42:26,399
Speaker 3: it can range between seven point three and thirteen point eight.

832
00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 2: I think that's exactly what you've said.

833
00:42:28,560 --> 00:42:30,960
Speaker 1: That is exactly what I said. I also said that

834
00:42:31,000 --> 00:42:32,480
Speaker 1: siblings are fifty so I'm a genius.

835
00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:39,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, go me. Of course, after the revelation, we canceled

836
00:42:39,520 --> 00:42:40,040
Speaker 2: the wedding.

837
00:42:40,280 --> 00:42:42,920
Speaker 1: Oh oh no, don't do that.

838
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 2: Cancel I would absolutely can. Yeah, yeah it was.

839
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:52,040
Speaker 3: It was ane of your dreams, but he so happened

840
00:42:52,040 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 3: to share one of your grandparents.

841
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: Dude, please put Okay, that's I feel like, whenever we

842
00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,320
Speaker 1: get to the next break, you should do it big.

843
00:42:58,560 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 1: That's that's first cousins canceling the wedding, and we had

844
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 1: to make up for a lot of stuff in our

845
00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 1: romantic life, such is the fact that we already had

846
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: intimate moments and some pregnancy scares.

847
00:43:16,239 --> 00:43:18,799
Speaker 2: Almost a year later, we started seeing each other, but

848
00:43:18,840 --> 00:43:23,239
Speaker 2: we addressed each other as cousins. Why Oh, I don't

849
00:43:23,239 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 2: know if I would address her ever as cousin. I

850
00:43:25,920 --> 00:43:27,879
Speaker 2: don't think I would ever. I don't think I would

851
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:29,160
Speaker 2: ever address her as my cousin.

852
00:43:29,239 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: So they were like they took a year like break then,

853
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,000
Speaker 1: and then they got back together.

854
00:43:33,200 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 2: No, No, that would be crazy if they got back

855
00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 2: together and started referring to each other's cousins. They broke up, Okay,

856
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:42,879
Speaker 2: they broke up seeing each other like as cousins. Yeah,

857
00:43:43,400 --> 00:43:46,719
Speaker 2: which I don't. I don't. I don't think I would

858
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:49,600
Speaker 2: do that. I mean I would break up with him,

859
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:50,799
Speaker 2: but I don't think I would ever refer to that

860
00:43:50,840 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 2: person as my cousin. Yeah, like you're not You're not

861
00:43:54,080 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 2: my cousin's too much, which was pretty much heartbreaking for

862
00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:02,399
Speaker 2: me because she was and she still is, the love

863
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:04,680
Speaker 2: of my life, and I don't think I'll be able

864
00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 2: to move her from such an intimate place of my

865
00:44:07,080 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: heart to just a cousin. This year, around Easter, she

866
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: started dating this guy. He's actually pretty nice and I

867
00:44:14,880 --> 00:44:17,040
Speaker 2: don't resent him for being with her, but it still

868
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 2: hurts me because I feel that she moved on from

869
00:44:19,239 --> 00:44:23,480
Speaker 2: me way faster than I did. I understand we're cousins,

870
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:27,200
Speaker 2: but it still hurts. Yesterday, during a family dinner at

871
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 2: her house, Oh, he's just at.

872
00:44:29,760 --> 00:44:31,920
Speaker 1: All the family dinners now, and now he has to

873
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:33,040
Speaker 1: see Oh.

874
00:44:36,360 --> 00:44:38,280
Speaker 2: I don't know if I would go to these family dinners.

875
00:44:39,800 --> 00:44:42,680
Speaker 2: I was there since I started spending some more time

876
00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:45,959
Speaker 2: with my bio mom, so I really was a cousin now.

877
00:44:46,640 --> 00:44:49,080
Speaker 2: Ali and this guy will name him Harry, were very

878
00:44:49,080 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: close to each other, and I just wanted to throw up.

879
00:44:52,080 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 2: At that moment of the party, Ali and I get

880
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:57,440
Speaker 2: to have some alone time while setting up the children's table,

881
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 2: and I asked her how things were going with Harry.

882
00:45:00,840 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 2: She said it was good and that she was actually

883
00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,560
Speaker 2: hoping for things to get more serious. Don't get me wrong,

884
00:45:05,680 --> 00:45:08,160
Speaker 2: I'm happy that she can find a good man, but

885
00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,520
Speaker 2: deep inside, it pains me that it's not me. I

886
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 2: tried to play my part as her cousin because I

887
00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:16,480
Speaker 2: am so. I gave her a hug and told her

888
00:45:16,480 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 2: that I was happy for her. Then Harry got in

889
00:45:19,480 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 2: and said, wow, that hand's a little low, Bud, I

890
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: might think you know her too well. Such a weird

891
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 2: comment to make. That's such a weird for someone. Well,

892
00:45:33,640 --> 00:45:36,760
Speaker 2: presumably either he knows or he's making a really weird

893
00:45:36,840 --> 00:45:38,880
Speaker 2: comment about like someone's cousin.

894
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, but maybe his hand was really low.

895
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 2: I tried to play cool and just laughed, but I

896
00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:56,120
Speaker 2: noticed that the comment made her feel awkward, so I

897
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:59,440
Speaker 2: tried to brush it off by saying I do know

898
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:05,239
Speaker 2: her too well. We shared a bed once. He was like,

899
00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:07,520
Speaker 2: I noticed she felt a little bit uncomfortable, so I

900
00:46:07,600 --> 00:46:09,200
Speaker 2: decided to make it much worse.

901
00:46:09,440 --> 00:46:15,759
Speaker 1: Oh ah, oh, Pee, that was the wrong thing.

902
00:46:15,960 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 2: Why why why would you say that? Why would either

903
00:46:22,040 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 2: of these people say that I hate them? Yikes? Now,

904
00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 2: thinking back on it, I could have chose a better

905
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,479
Speaker 2: word or a better way to say it. I wasn't

906
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 2: referring to that, but more of all the movie nights

907
00:46:37,239 --> 00:46:37,640
Speaker 2: we had.

908
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: Come on, what do you mean, Oh.

909
00:46:41,040 --> 00:46:44,480
Speaker 3: We shared a bed, Oh the movie nights, all the

910
00:46:44,520 --> 00:46:46,120
Speaker 3: Netflix and chill we had.

911
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,719
Speaker 2: You freaking liar? He's like, I didn't mean that.

912
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but like you watch movies on a couch?

913
00:46:52,640 --> 00:46:53,680
Speaker 1: Come on, but you do.

914
00:46:53,880 --> 00:46:54,279
Speaker 2: Come on?

915
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:58,120
Speaker 3: No one says we shared a bed together and reference

916
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 3: the movie Yeah, you liar, You freaking.

917
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:02,520
Speaker 1: Rumba.

918
00:47:03,520 --> 00:47:06,840
Speaker 2: Ali looked at me stunned, but Harry had a terrified

919
00:47:06,840 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 2: look on his face. I tried to explain because I

920
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:11,600
Speaker 2: assumed that Ali told him about how I was just

921
00:47:11,640 --> 00:47:15,520
Speaker 2: getting into the family, but apparently I was wrong. The

922
00:47:15,600 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 2: discovery led to an argument where he started yelling at

923
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,880
Speaker 2: Ali for not telling him that she was and I

924
00:47:21,000 --> 00:47:24,680
Speaker 2: quote effing her cousin. That made me angry, and I

925
00:47:24,680 --> 00:47:26,719
Speaker 2: couldn't believe he was just ignoring the fact that we

926
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,560
Speaker 2: didn't know before. I started yelling at him that he

927
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:32,040
Speaker 2: was a jerk for judging her and ignoring the context

928
00:47:32,120 --> 00:47:34,759
Speaker 2: behind it, but that only directed his anger at me.

929
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 2: I don't remember the specific words he used because I

930
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 2: was truly mad, but he yelled that I was a

931
00:47:40,360 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 2: freak for showing up when he was there, and that

932
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:45,239
Speaker 2: I was disrespectful and disgusting for trying to get her

933
00:47:45,280 --> 00:47:49,120
Speaker 2: attention back after knowing we were related. I was furious,

934
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,279
Speaker 2: and so I told him that if I was him,

935
00:47:51,440 --> 00:47:54,839
Speaker 2: she wouldn't have to go through this embarrassment because I

936
00:47:54,920 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 2: actually do love her enough to not humiliate her like that.

937
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:08,600
Speaker 2: Stop stop talking, stop talking, proving his point. Stop. The

938
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:11,959
Speaker 2: argument escalated to the point that he left, and now

939
00:48:12,000 --> 00:48:14,439
Speaker 2: Ali was saying that I was a jerk for saying

940
00:48:14,480 --> 00:48:16,760
Speaker 2: what happened between us and that we were just cousins.

941
00:48:19,280 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 2: I tried to apologize, but I ended up saying that

942
00:48:22,160 --> 00:48:24,200
Speaker 2: I couldn't take it that I missed her and then

943
00:48:24,239 --> 00:48:26,840
Speaker 2: I'm still in love with her. Oh, she looked at me.

944
00:48:27,360 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 2: I don't know how to describe her face because it

945
00:48:29,280 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 2: was pretty confusing, but she left and I was kicked out.

946
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,120
Speaker 2: Later on, I started receiving a lot of calls and

947
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:39,560
Speaker 2: messages saying that I was sick for ruining her relationship

948
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 2: like that, and I was disgusting and selfish for doing

949
00:48:42,160 --> 00:48:44,319
Speaker 2: that to her and making her think that she was

950
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 2: still in love with me even when we know we

951
00:48:46,600 --> 00:48:49,479
Speaker 2: are family. I know I did a lot of things

952
00:48:49,520 --> 00:48:51,840
Speaker 2: wrong though, and that I could have handled things better.

953
00:48:52,239 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 2: But I want to know, am I the a hole? Yes?

954
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

955
00:49:01,000 --> 00:49:02,600
Speaker 2: You said all of the wrong things.

956
00:49:03,000 --> 00:49:08,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, Like, and that's not to say that. What's his face?

957
00:49:08,640 --> 00:49:10,200
Speaker 1: The new boyfriend?

958
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:12,720
Speaker 2: Oh hair, Yeah, he definitely, he definitely said weird stuff.

959
00:49:13,000 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 2: And he's an ale too, But like.

960
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 1: OPI's also and like the thing I think is I

961
00:49:18,880 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 1: think Ope is like trying to pass it off as.

962
00:49:23,960 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 2: It was, trying to say, oh, well, that's not what

963
00:49:25,560 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 2: I meant. They just don't understand what I meant.

964
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:30,080
Speaker 1: But he and I'm like, I'm sorry fact that.

965
00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:31,839
Speaker 2: He said, oh I'm still in love with her, it's

966
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 2: clearly what he meant.

967
00:49:33,400 --> 00:49:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, you literally said you're in love with her?

968
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,800
Speaker 2: You get in front of everyone.

969
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:43,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, oh okay. Also, the poll says seventy two twenty eight.

970
00:49:44,280 --> 00:49:46,160
Speaker 2: Percent of you would stay with your first cousin.

971
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: You know what I thought. I thought I was gonna

972
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:48,760
Speaker 1: be a twelve and a half percent.

973
00:49:49,200 --> 00:49:50,280
Speaker 2: Oh, that would been funnier.

974
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 1: But yeah, what do we do? Is that the end

975
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:57,160
Speaker 1: of the story? Oh my goodness, Okay.

976
00:49:57,239 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: And I think that on the opposite end. Sometimes DNA

977
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:04,960
Speaker 2: tests should not be shared, you know, but but yourself.

978
00:50:05,120 --> 00:50:09,440
Speaker 1: If they never shared it, they never would have found out,

979
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,400
Speaker 1: and then they they would have they.

980
00:50:12,280 --> 00:50:14,720
Speaker 2: Would have known. But I'm saying they shouldn't have shared

981
00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,799
Speaker 2: with the family. I guess they accidentally show, but I

982
00:50:19,800 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 2: think what they could have done is been like, oh,

983
00:50:22,200 --> 00:50:25,640
Speaker 2: there was like a mistake in the tests, right, we

984
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:27,799
Speaker 2: got our new tests. Were not cousins.

985
00:50:27,800 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 1: Well that's basically what they said. Initially they were like,

986
00:50:30,440 --> 00:50:32,480
Speaker 1: we thought something was wrong, so we went and got there. Yeah,

987
00:50:32,560 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: but then they.

988
00:50:33,000 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 2: Came back to the family and they're like, we are cousins. Yeah.

989
00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:38,600
Speaker 1: But then if they break up, it's, yeah, it's gonna

990
00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:39,320
Speaker 1: be so obvious.

991
00:50:40,120 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just I would break up and

992
00:50:42,040 --> 00:50:43,280
Speaker 2: not telling anyone.

993
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,640
Speaker 1: But then it's like, actually, I think this is a

994
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,439
Speaker 1: good this is a good debate because it's like, if

995
00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:52,200
Speaker 1: you don't tell anyone, the rumor is going to persist,

996
00:50:52,239 --> 00:50:55,440
Speaker 1: because it's like, you took the test in front of

997
00:50:55,480 --> 00:50:59,600
Speaker 1: everyone and it showed that your cousins so and then

998
00:50:59,680 --> 00:51:01,440
Speaker 1: and then you break up and like, oh why did

999
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:03,759
Speaker 1: you break up? You're like, I just like wasn't working out.

1000
00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:08,640
Speaker 1: People were like I mean, be honestly, if if I

1001
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:10,680
Speaker 1: was on the receiving end of like, oh, yeah, it's just,

1002
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,680
Speaker 1: you know, just it just didn't work out, I'd be like.

1003
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 3: Come on, bro one comment, Oh that is very relevant.

1004
00:51:22,640 --> 00:51:24,760
Speaker 1: Right, it's it comes from OPI.

1005
00:51:25,360 --> 00:51:31,680
Speaker 2: Oh me, you take a little lookie, I don't see it.

1006
00:51:31,680 --> 00:51:33,279
Speaker 1: You will see on the very bottom of the story.

1007
00:51:34,120 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 2: I believe.

1008
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:41,040
Speaker 1: I am also Christy Lou curious. Aside from taboo, impossible illegality,

1009
00:51:41,440 --> 00:51:47,319
Speaker 1: could they technically be together and just adopt kids. I

1010
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 1: mean that would remove the potential issues. Yeah, for a

1011
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:58,320
Speaker 1: child that they would naturally birth. I just don't know.

1012
00:51:57,960 --> 00:51:59,239
Speaker 1: I don't know, I could get over it.

1013
00:52:00,120 --> 00:52:04,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like mentally, you know, yeah, yeah, Hang John,

1014
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:05,920
Speaker 3: You're in a lucky spot, dude.

1015
00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:08,359
Speaker 1: You never have to fear that. That's right. You don't

1016
00:52:08,400 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: have any cousins finding out that his girlfriend is his

1017
00:52:12,200 --> 00:52:12,800
Speaker 1: first cousin.

1018
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:16,480
Speaker 2: Oh you didn't have any, guess.

1019
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 1: I was like, what, Oh that was good, very good.

1020
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:26,600
Speaker 2: Well, well, well let's read these comments, dude're twenty eight

1021
00:52:26,600 --> 00:52:28,760
Speaker 2: to forty one says that's what I figured as well.

1022
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 2: The chances of something like that happening in a big

1023
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 2: city is unlikely, So I think you're right. She might

1024
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:37,040
Speaker 2: have even left. She might even have to leave their

1025
00:52:37,040 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 2: hometown if the ex decided to start the room or mill,

1026
00:52:40,600 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 2: which I've never lived in a small town, but i've

1027
00:52:42,800 --> 00:52:45,719
Speaker 2: heard gets around very quickly. I feel bad for her

1028
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,839
Speaker 2: and hope it doesn't harm her like that, and then kindly. Carr,

1029
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:51,759
Speaker 2: who is OP, says this comment section has been the

1030
00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:54,440
Speaker 2: most useful for me because it made me realize that

1031
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:57,400
Speaker 2: I did drop the comments to annoy him. Being honest,

1032
00:52:57,520 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 2: I didn't think of it like that since it was

1033
00:52:59,239 --> 00:53:01,840
Speaker 2: actually something like an inside joke between me and Ali

1034
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:06,759
Speaker 2: and also our families. That's such a funny inside joke

1035
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:10,040
Speaker 2: to be like, yeah, used the used to f my

1036
00:53:10,160 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 2: cousin ah jokes ah. So I thought it might slip

1037
00:53:18,560 --> 00:53:21,000
Speaker 2: up again because I thought Harry knew. But thinking deep

1038
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:23,960
Speaker 2: down about it, yes, I was jealous and I said

1039
00:53:24,000 --> 00:53:26,239
Speaker 2: it to hurt him, and it was uncalled for. I

1040
00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 2: didn't notice it at first, but I understand it now,

1041
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:32,399
Speaker 2: thank you. Uh. We live on OH and we live

1042
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 2: in a small town. Oh. It's a small city. I

1043
00:53:36,360 --> 00:53:39,200
Speaker 2: guess the city has some places where some families like

1044
00:53:39,280 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 2: mine have farms and stuff, but even if our situation spread,

1045
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:45,320
Speaker 2: it wouldn't reach many people out of his circle.

1046
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, I think I think they made they made

1047
00:53:56,160 --> 00:53:56,560
Speaker 4: the right.

1048
00:53:56,440 --> 00:53:58,279
Speaker 1: Call to break up. Broke up?

1049
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:00,560
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I think she just an a hole for

1050
00:54:00,600 --> 00:54:01,480
Speaker 2: the stuff that he was saying.

1051
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:03,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, he was an ale for the stuff he was saying.

1052
00:54:03,239 --> 00:54:06,320
Speaker 1: But what a tough position to be in. Yeah, to

1053
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,439
Speaker 1: fall in love with someone and then.

1054
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 2: To get married to those it is low key.

1055
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 1: Kind of like the scenario of the spouse passing away,

1056
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,279
Speaker 1: where you're like, yeah, like in the in that it's

1057
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:22,080
Speaker 1: it's not like, oh you you broke up because of

1058
00:54:22,200 --> 00:54:26,040
Speaker 1: because issues within the relationship. It's like a totally unrelated

1059
00:54:26,080 --> 00:54:30,279
Speaker 1: factor where the relationship has to has to end.

1060
00:54:30,600 --> 00:54:36,560
Speaker 3: So should DNA tests always be shared? I think for

1061
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 3: the sake of love, No.

1062
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 2: The case. I think if if there was a world

1063
00:54:42,680 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 2: where they didn't announce the DNA test in front of it. Actually, no,

1064
00:54:46,640 --> 00:54:48,680
Speaker 2: I think the issue here is the fact that they

1065
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:52,040
Speaker 2: did announce the DNA test in front of everyone. I

1066
00:54:52,040 --> 00:54:53,560
Speaker 2: feel like you should take a little look at your

1067
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 2: DNA test before you share it with everyone personally.

1068
00:54:57,680 --> 00:55:02,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, no, is this this is the most cautionary tale

1069
00:55:02,160 --> 00:55:07,880
Speaker 1: of all time to not look at DNA test results

1070
00:55:08,239 --> 00:55:09,560
Speaker 1: with everyone for Yeah.

1071
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:13,600
Speaker 2: Actually, I wonder if they would have stayed together if

1072
00:55:13,640 --> 00:55:16,479
Speaker 2: the family didn't know mm hm.

1073
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:23,919
Speaker 1: Op. Definitely, maybe not, maybe not. It seems like she's

1074
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:25,680
Speaker 1: it seems like she's fully moved on.

1075
00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:28,000
Speaker 2: It seems like he would have stayed with her.

1076
00:55:27,880 --> 00:55:29,319
Speaker 1: If she and it seems like he would have stayed.

1077
00:55:29,360 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: I agree, I agree, I think he would have stayed.

1078
00:55:31,880 --> 00:55:33,240
Speaker 2: But that's the end of that story.

1079
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,720
Speaker 1: Well he's gentlemen, it's not the end of the stream.

1080
00:55:36,880 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 2: No, you thought it was the end of the stream.

1081
00:55:38,680 --> 00:55:44,719
Speaker 1: What idiot speaking of the stream not ending? Uh? We

1082
00:55:44,800 --> 00:55:50,720
Speaker 1: got some donos wacam. Alex Davarro celebates two months of membership.

1083
00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:57,000
Speaker 1: Let's bringing go uh out uh oh did you go?

1084
00:55:57,200 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 1: Did you go? And then another five bucks from out eachigo.

1085
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 1: We're trying our best, laul. I didn't realize how law

1086
00:56:05,520 --> 00:56:07,680
Speaker 1: I didn't realize how these work. Here's another five dollars.

1087
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:10,880
Speaker 1: I also get brain fog after coffee. Maybe it's a

1088
00:56:11,000 --> 00:56:15,320
Speaker 1: nine ninety six kid thing. Oh, let's freaking go. Ninety

1089
00:56:15,400 --> 00:56:19,479
Speaker 1: six is in the chat six Yeah, born in ninety six,

1090
00:56:20,080 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: that's right? Oh oh yeah, I'm old except I'm not really.

1091
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:29,319
Speaker 1: My birthday's coming up. Let's go. That is coming up,

1092
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:29,960
Speaker 1: that's right.

1093
00:56:30,239 --> 00:56:31,040
Speaker 2: Are we doing something?

1094
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Speaker 5: Oh?

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00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:34,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're going a big, big party. Oh I need

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00:56:34,719 --> 00:56:36,600
Speaker 1: to send out the invite because I just did another event.

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00:56:36,719 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 2: Dude, are you think send it out?

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00:56:38,320 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: This is the biggest party of this house.

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00:56:41,320 --> 00:56:42,959
Speaker 2: You have to I read a souse party.

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00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:45,720
Speaker 1: Well, no, it's John's ten years plus his birthday.

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00:56:45,719 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 2: That's true, that's true. Wait what day are you going

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00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:47,759
Speaker 2: to do it?

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00:56:48,200 --> 00:56:52,279
Speaker 1: July twentieth? July twentieth, which is probably right before we

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00:56:52,320 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 1: may or may not leave for something. Maybe not may

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00:56:54,760 --> 00:56:58,479
Speaker 1: or may not. Sarah baut Off, thanks for teliverting five

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00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:01,319
Speaker 1: months of membership. No, so yeah, it's five months.

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00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, you've disproved me.

1108
00:57:02,520 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 1: Ooh I love when people screw you over and they

1109
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:08,279
Speaker 1: ask you a favor. What is that in reference to?

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00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:08,880
Speaker 2: I don't know.

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00:57:09,000 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 1: I don't know either. Who are you? Sarah tell Us,

1112
00:57:12,840 --> 00:57:14,960
Speaker 1: Curry Girl all Flame, thanks of at ten bucks. I

1113
00:57:15,000 --> 00:57:17,240
Speaker 1: have cousins on both sides and it's not as weird

1114
00:57:17,240 --> 00:57:19,320
Speaker 1: as you think. Really easier to get the whole family

1115
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:23,480
Speaker 1: together for events. My parents are technically cousins by marriage,

1116
00:57:23,760 --> 00:57:26,960
Speaker 1: so they're not blood related. But that's fine.

1117
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,280
Speaker 2: Oh gotcha. I think that's so funny. Though it's easier

1118
00:57:30,280 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 2: than you think. You just everyone's already everyone there.

1119
00:57:34,320 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: You know, there's a lot of people that have do that.

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00:57:38,640 --> 00:57:38,800
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:40,760
Speaker 2: I mean there's other cultures where it's more common where

1122
00:57:40,760 --> 00:57:43,320
Speaker 2: you marry your first cousins, indeed, but I think that

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00:57:43,400 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 2: it's it's more taboo in America, like American.

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00:57:46,360 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: Also indeed, also indeed, Matt Hatter Goal, how are you doing, girl?

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00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:58,160
Speaker 1: How you doing? Girl? Thirty gifted memberships ten and then twenty?

1126
00:57:58,480 --> 00:58:01,840
Speaker 1: Whoa temples twenty equals still oh thirty new fans, imagine

1127
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,720
Speaker 1: if we could throw our family by thirty people justous instantaneously. Well,

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00:58:06,760 --> 00:58:09,440
Speaker 1: you know what, Sophia, there's a way that is people

1129
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:13,680
Speaker 1: gifting memberships, No way like Matt Hattergal and Bob Smith

1130
00:58:13,800 --> 00:58:14,720
Speaker 1: and King Frederick.

1131
00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:15,320
Speaker 2: So true.

1132
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:18,680
Speaker 1: Literally champions, my Goodnessians, they are the champions. Shout out

1133
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:22,840
Speaker 1: to you, Matt Hatter Goal and models people. Thanks at

1134
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,880
Speaker 1: the five bucks on the donal link the mom totally

1135
00:58:24,960 --> 00:58:28,880
Speaker 1: new right. DNA tests aren't a common present for someone

1136
00:58:28,880 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 1: who is in part of the family.

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00:58:30,120 --> 00:58:32,040
Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. I don't know if I

1138
00:58:32,040 --> 00:58:35,240
Speaker 2: said that out loud. But I was thinking when when

1139
00:58:35,280 --> 00:58:37,160
Speaker 2: we got to I think you made a comment like

1140
00:58:37,240 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 2: always that's a weirdird gift. But I was thinking before

1141
00:58:39,680 --> 00:58:41,280
Speaker 2: you said that, I was like, did she get it

1142
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 2: to them on purpose? Like she knew about this potential

1143
00:58:46,000 --> 00:58:48,080
Speaker 2: cousin situation and she didn't know how.

1144
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:49,880
Speaker 1: To tell them Honestly.

1145
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 2: Matt Hattergall, thank you for the ten bucks. Sorry, John,

1146
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 2: but us eighty six to ninety three feel older than you, lol.

1147
00:58:58,240 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 1: Got out to old people out. What's the poll? Twenty

1148
00:59:04,200 --> 00:59:05,040
Speaker 1: six percent stay?

1149
00:59:05,480 --> 00:59:09,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, like twenty six percent of people would stay if

1150
00:59:09,080 --> 00:59:11,200
Speaker 3: it was their true love and also their first cousin.

1151
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:14,000
Speaker 1: Wow, it's a tough it's a tough cookie.

1152
00:59:14,720 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 2: Tough cookie.

1153
00:59:15,440 --> 00:59:17,480
Speaker 1: It's a tough cookie. And you know what they say,

1154
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:19,240
Speaker 1: the cookie crumbles.

1155
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:21,440
Speaker 2: That's the way the cookie crumbles.

1156
00:59:21,760 --> 00:59:24,600
Speaker 1: Cookie Crumble has a really good setup this week. I

1157
00:59:24,640 --> 00:59:30,120
Speaker 1: am excited. It sounds like a free sponsor. You said it,

1158
00:59:30,680 --> 00:59:33,520
Speaker 1: you know, I said this the phrase, that's the way

1159
00:59:33,520 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: the cookie crumbles.

1160
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 2: Technically, Riley has not sponsored anything because I think it's

1161
00:59:37,160 --> 00:59:38,240
Speaker 2: you've switched the order.

1162
00:59:39,240 --> 00:59:42,760
Speaker 1: I have not. I'm dyslexic, so that helped me with

1163
00:59:42,800 --> 00:59:43,400
Speaker 1: not sponsored.

1164
00:59:44,640 --> 00:59:49,680
Speaker 2: There you go for the freaking you're in the clear.

1165
00:59:49,920 --> 00:59:54,760
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, and Kristin, thanks for the five bucks.

1166
00:59:55,160 --> 00:59:56,120
Speaker 2: I even got.

1167
00:59:56,720 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 1: I even got more on Mad Hatter Gal eighty two.

1168
01:00:01,120 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: John's a Baby was a b B BO and Angie

1169
01:00:05,240 --> 01:00:07,960
Speaker 1: celebrating three months of membership. Y'all pray for us. It's

1170
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,880
Speaker 1: one hundred and five, one hundred eight degrees. Expect you

1171
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 1: tomorrow no less than one oh one the next five

1172
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 1: days in southern Idaho. I do want to bake an

1173
01:00:16,320 --> 01:00:16,960
Speaker 1: egg on.

1174
01:00:17,280 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's let's see. I want to see how hot

1175
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:20,360
Speaker 2: it is in the valley.

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01:00:21,200 --> 01:00:22,200
Speaker 1: It is toasty?

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01:00:22,280 --> 01:00:23,320
Speaker 2: Does it good toasty?

1178
01:00:23,520 --> 01:00:25,640
Speaker 1: I will remember one time in the valley it was

1179
01:00:25,680 --> 01:00:26,800
Speaker 1: one hundred and fifteen degrees.

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01:00:26,880 --> 01:00:28,680
Speaker 2: It's actually not that bad, I remember. Yeah, I think

1181
01:00:28,720 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 2: the hottest has gone for me in the.

1182
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: Valley was one twenty one twenties.

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01:00:33,600 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 2: It is ninety five in the valley right now, and

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01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 2: then tomorrow it's supposed to be ninety nine. Honestly, not

1185
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 2: not horrendous.

1186
01:00:40,480 --> 01:00:41,200
Speaker 1: That's pretty toasty.

1187
01:00:41,440 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 2: Horrendous is pretty toasty.

1188
01:00:43,000 --> 01:00:44,680
Speaker 1: And we're at a cool seventy Yeah.

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01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:47,280
Speaker 2: No, I went to my parents' house this week and

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01:00:47,560 --> 01:00:49,880
Speaker 2: it was so I think It was in the nineties

1191
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:53,520
Speaker 2: at like eight o'clock or eight thirty or something, and

1192
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 2: I was like, it's so hot. My mom was like,

1193
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:58,360
Speaker 2: now you live in Santa Monica. You just complain about

1194
01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:01,040
Speaker 2: the heat that you knew your whole life. You're not

1195
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:02,120
Speaker 2: used to it anymore.

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01:01:02,360 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't choose it.

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01:01:04,080 --> 01:01:06,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I left it, I left it behind.

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01:01:07,080 --> 01:01:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, I left Florida, but I still got that Florida

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01:01:10,560 --> 01:01:10,800
Speaker 1: and me.

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01:01:10,960 --> 01:01:15,400
Speaker 3: Guys go like the stream right now, guys why we.

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01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:18,600
Speaker 1: Did five hundredantaneously and have fun and do all these things.

1202
01:01:18,840 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 2: But it could be so much fun.

1203
01:01:20,960 --> 01:01:28,080
Speaker 1: But speaking of the stream, not guys. We have more stories.

1204
01:01:28,160 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 1: Who okay, we have more stories.

1205
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:30,880
Speaker 2: Let's get into them.

1206
01:01:31,160 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 1: Let's freaking get into them. Also, Duch, just Cassanda, I

1207
01:01:33,920 --> 01:01:38,360
Speaker 1: apologize for saying everyone's old. It's because they call me old. Yeah,

1208
01:01:38,600 --> 01:01:41,120
Speaker 1: And Matt hatter Gal, thanks for the ten bucks. Also

1209
01:01:41,160 --> 01:01:44,600
Speaker 1: the reason why why for the thirty gifted subs is

1210
01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:46,680
Speaker 1: my tribute for being late to the stream. I had

1211
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:48,640
Speaker 1: family matters to attend to when you guys would live.

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01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: I hope you all can forgive my tardiness. We always

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01:01:51,600 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: Matt hatter Gal, you can literally come in any time

1214
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:58,360
Speaker 1: you want. Yeah, you have like a royal, royal red carpet.

1215
01:01:58,440 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 3: I have seen people be like, sorry late, and I'm like,

1216
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:04,280
Speaker 3: it's okay.

1217
01:02:03,320 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 1: I love it. But that's like how it's.

1218
01:02:06,160 --> 01:02:10,040
Speaker 2: Almost like it's like we're hosting a class, like we're

1219
01:02:10,080 --> 01:02:12,320
Speaker 2: a professor in a class, and they come in they're.

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01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:15,120
Speaker 1: Like, that's true. I was thinking of like like a

1221
01:02:15,160 --> 01:02:19,240
Speaker 1: get together with friends, and it's like, oh, sorry, I'm late, guys.

1222
01:02:19,440 --> 01:02:20,320
Speaker 2: I actually like that one.

1223
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, we are your teachers, your teachers.

1224
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:23,919
Speaker 5: Sit down.

1225
01:02:24,240 --> 01:02:28,320
Speaker 1: AnyWho, let's let's hop into this next story where we.

1226
01:02:28,320 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 2: Are really and well you find that I'll read this.

1227
01:02:31,600 --> 01:02:35,280
Speaker 2: Adeline Gutierrez, thank you for celebrating three months of membership

1228
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 2: ninety one checking in here. You are just a young buck,

1229
01:02:38,640 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 2: my guy. So happy I found you guys on Facebook.

1230
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 2: I love being part of the Okay family. I love

1231
01:02:43,800 --> 01:02:46,280
Speaker 2: you all, and we love you.

1232
01:02:46,520 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 1: We found us on Facebook. Facebook. People make some noise

1233
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: in the chat.

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01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:50,200
Speaker 2: Make some noise.

1235
01:02:52,040 --> 01:02:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, let's do this, buzz and girls, huzzah.

1236
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,120
Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for leaving home after my

1237
01:02:58,120 --> 01:03:03,840
Speaker 1: fiance said I am not his son's real mom. Say

1238
01:03:03,840 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 1: that five times fast and understand it.

1239
01:03:07,240 --> 01:03:10,440
Speaker 2: Maybe we need to pull out the oh the old

1240
01:03:10,480 --> 01:03:11,160
Speaker 2: white board.

1241
01:03:11,400 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 1: Well, let me read a little bit and then we'll

1242
01:03:15,160 --> 01:03:19,240
Speaker 1: do that. So this comes from possible girth. Wait, wait,

1243
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:20,080
Speaker 1: here we go, Here we go.

1244
01:03:20,640 --> 01:03:23,360
Speaker 3: Uh, John, give the white board to Sophia and she

1245
01:03:23,440 --> 01:03:25,400
Speaker 3: will keep track of the names and stuff.

1246
01:03:25,600 --> 01:03:28,400
Speaker 2: That's because it's my it's my finished thoughts.

1247
01:03:28,520 --> 01:03:31,439
Speaker 1: That's true. Finish shoes. Oh, I'm sorry, No, it's okay,

1248
01:03:31,480 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: I'm attacking.

1249
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:34,440
Speaker 2: I didn't really, It's just was like heavier than I expected.

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01:03:35,000 --> 01:03:39,720
Speaker 1: Okay, all right. So, uh, this comes from possible girth

1251
01:03:39,760 --> 01:03:42,880
Speaker 1: three through three six, who says sorry about any mistakes.

1252
01:03:42,920 --> 01:03:45,640
Speaker 1: English is not my first language and I'm emotional. I

1253
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:48,560
Speaker 1: twenty nine female, met my fiance Kevin thirty two males,

1254
01:03:48,600 --> 01:03:53,040
Speaker 1: sixty years ago when Joe was two a baby. I

1255
01:03:53,120 --> 01:03:56,040
Speaker 1: wasn't planning on dating a single parent, as I felt

1256
01:03:56,080 --> 01:03:58,440
Speaker 1: I was too young to be a parent in any capacity.

1257
01:03:59,320 --> 01:04:01,880
Speaker 1: But I fell in love with Kevin, and when I eventually,

1258
01:04:02,280 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: when I eventually got to meet Joe, I fell in

1259
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: love with him too. Oh. Joe's bio mom was not

1260
01:04:09,240 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 1: in the picture from at the time. She wanted absolutely

1261
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:16,520
Speaker 1: nothing to do with Joe. When I met them. She

1262
01:04:16,600 --> 01:04:18,720
Speaker 1: hadn't seen Joe for a year and a half. For

1263
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,320
Speaker 1: the past six years, she hasn't been in touch with

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01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:24,600
Speaker 1: Joe or Kevin at all. I've helped raise Joe all

1265
01:04:24,680 --> 01:04:26,840
Speaker 1: these years. I see him as my own. I love

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01:04:26,920 --> 01:04:29,520
Speaker 1: him as my own. He calls me mom in every

1267
01:04:29,560 --> 01:04:33,000
Speaker 1: way except for biologically. He is my son and I

1268
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:36,040
Speaker 1: am his mom. In February this year, we made it

1269
01:04:36,120 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 1: legally official with adoption. It was honestly the best moment

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01:04:40,240 --> 01:04:40,720
Speaker 1: of my life.

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01:04:40,920 --> 01:04:43,160
Speaker 2: Ah so adorable, that's lovely.

1272
01:04:43,520 --> 01:04:46,560
Speaker 1: Nothing can ever go wrong, and these kinds of stories,

1273
01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:49,920
Speaker 1: I've never heard of anything. Nothing can happen that's bad.

1274
01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:52,040
Speaker 2: Nothing. Nothing.

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01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:58,960
Speaker 1: In the beginning of the summer, Joe's biomom contacted Kevin

1276
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:02,040
Speaker 1: and asked if she he could see Joe. We discussed

1277
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: it and decided we all could give her a chance.

1278
01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:08,120
Speaker 1: Maybe she needed some time to grow up. And uh,

1279
01:05:08,160 --> 01:05:10,000
Speaker 1: this is a great time to pass it over to Sophia.

1280
01:05:10,080 --> 01:05:15,440
Speaker 1: Did we get the diagram?

1281
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 2: We've got op married with Kevin. Oh yeah, and then

1282
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:26,000
Speaker 2: Kevin as Joe with bio mom, and then OPI is

1283
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 2: like a mom, which is why it's a dotted line.

1284
01:05:28,840 --> 01:05:32,200
Speaker 1: Honestly, you that is so good. Oh my god, right,

1285
01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:36,040
Speaker 1: you just crushed that. Thanks guys, literally diagram Master Sophia

1286
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:43,240
Speaker 1: over here, Sleigh, Kevin and Joe met her and said,

1287
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:47,160
Speaker 1: oh did wait wait? Oh here we go. At the

1288
01:05:47,200 --> 01:05:50,200
Speaker 1: beginning of the summer, Joe's biomom contacted Kevin and asked

1289
01:05:50,200 --> 01:05:52,320
Speaker 1: if you could see Joe. We discussed it and decided

1290
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:54,440
Speaker 1: that we could give her a chance. Maybe had maybe

1291
01:05:54,600 --> 01:05:57,920
Speaker 1: she had needed some time to grow up. Kevin, Kevin,

1292
01:05:57,960 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 1: and Joe met her and it was fine, always good.

1293
01:06:00,560 --> 01:06:02,760
Speaker 1: A first I even met her and she was perfectly

1294
01:06:02,840 --> 01:06:08,680
Speaker 1: nice and lovely. But last few weeks something changed. Joe

1295
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,880
Speaker 1: and Kevin has spent u Joe and Kevin have spent

1296
01:06:11,960 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 1: more and more time with her at Kevin's insistence, Oh,

1297
01:06:16,560 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 1: I have not been there. Joe had started acting out

1298
01:06:19,760 --> 01:06:22,480
Speaker 1: more than he ever has before, and I've been suspecting

1299
01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:25,840
Speaker 1: it's because of his bio mom's influence. I feel like

1300
01:06:25,880 --> 01:06:28,680
Speaker 1: this was confirmed on Tuesday when Joe said he didn't

1301
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:31,600
Speaker 1: have to listen to me because I am not his

1302
01:06:31,720 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 1: real law I'm sorry, but that's messed up. The other

1303
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:41,360
Speaker 1: mom is not his real mom. Yeah you don't want

1304
01:06:41,400 --> 01:06:44,080
Speaker 1: your kid, Nope, you don't get to be mom.

1305
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:45,080
Speaker 2: You don't get to be mom.

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01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 1: I raised you. I get to be a mom.

1307
01:06:47,440 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think it is fair for Kevin to want

1308
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:56,040
Speaker 2: his son to have a relationship with the biomom totally. However,

1309
01:06:56,120 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 2: I don't think that he should be undermining the relationship

1310
01:06:58,800 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 2: between OP and.

1311
01:07:00,080 --> 01:07:04,680
Speaker 1: Yea, I am mommy, call me mommy, call me mom.

1312
01:07:04,840 --> 01:07:05,560
Speaker 1: I am mommy.

1313
01:07:05,720 --> 01:07:06,520
Speaker 2: I am mommy.

1314
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:10,080
Speaker 1: Okay, not you mommy.

1315
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:10,880
Speaker 2: I'm mommy.

1316
01:07:11,080 --> 01:07:16,920
Speaker 1: That's right. Get your fact straight, son, What y what

1317
01:07:16,920 --> 01:07:23,960
Speaker 1: do you feel? Talk to me? Oh, this is this

1318
01:07:24,040 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: is pretty rough.

1319
01:07:25,040 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 3: Yes, spiracy theory. I'm gonna put his conspiracy theory on this.

1320
01:07:28,960 --> 01:07:32,640
Speaker 3: In order to be mommy, U someone has to suck your.

1321
01:07:35,440 --> 01:07:39,240
Speaker 2: Just reads tiktoks and then he passes them off as

1322
01:07:39,280 --> 01:07:39,680
Speaker 2: his own.

1323
01:07:40,040 --> 01:07:41,919
Speaker 1: I did not read that. I did not read that.

1324
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,840
Speaker 2: TikTok. Yes, it was a TikTok.

1325
01:07:46,560 --> 01:07:49,000
Speaker 3: Okay, well, if it was, I mean that TikTok are

1326
01:07:49,040 --> 01:07:49,920
Speaker 3: on the same wavelengths.

1327
01:07:51,040 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: It's a Riley original thought.

1328
01:07:54,600 --> 01:07:59,560
Speaker 3: I mean I got inspired from a one about Mother's Day. Yes, okay,

1329
01:07:59,640 --> 01:08:02,040
Speaker 3: all right, well then I stand by that. I stand

1330
01:08:02,080 --> 01:08:04,960
Speaker 3: by that. I'm completely lost, But.

1331
01:08:06,560 --> 01:08:10,480
Speaker 1: Why don't you break it down with the diagram just kidding,

1332
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 1: was kidding anyways, Opie said it hurt a lot when

1333
01:08:16,880 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 1: he said, I'm not his real mom, but he's a child,

1334
01:08:18,960 --> 01:08:21,600
Speaker 1: so I can't be too angry. I talked to my

1335
01:08:21,680 --> 01:08:27,360
Speaker 1: fiance about it later and that I felt like maybe tired,

1336
01:08:27,600 --> 01:08:29,559
Speaker 1: and that they should cut down a little on the

1337
01:08:29,640 --> 01:08:32,320
Speaker 1: time spent with his bio mom and have me be

1338
01:08:32,439 --> 01:08:34,839
Speaker 1: with them in the future. We got into an argument,

1339
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:39,000
Speaker 1: and when I repeated what Joe had said, he responded, well,

1340
01:08:39,120 --> 01:08:41,599
Speaker 1: technically you aren't.

1341
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 2: Why are they doing this now?

1342
01:08:44,840 --> 01:08:47,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, It's like, uh, that's so funny because when I

1343
01:08:47,520 --> 01:08:49,559
Speaker 1: was raising him, Yeah, you never said it. Then?

1344
01:08:49,760 --> 01:08:51,639
Speaker 2: How old do we know how old Joe is now?

1345
01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:53,320
Speaker 1: Oh that's a great or is he too?

1346
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:56,320
Speaker 2: Now? Is he currently too? Cause I have that on

1347
01:08:56,400 --> 01:08:57,439
Speaker 2: that he's currently too.

1348
01:08:57,479 --> 01:08:59,840
Speaker 1: But just for oh, oh, here we go. I met

1349
01:08:59,880 --> 01:09:02,960
Speaker 1: my Yeah, I met my fancy Kevin sixty years ago

1350
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:04,920
Speaker 1: when Joe was too.

1351
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:08,320
Speaker 2: So okay, now he's eight. I mean, oh, you know

1352
01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:08,800
Speaker 2: what I can do.

1353
01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:10,200
Speaker 1: It turns perfectly into an eight.

1354
01:09:11,000 --> 01:09:15,840
Speaker 3: Cross it out, boom wow a a.

1355
01:09:17,520 --> 01:09:20,519
Speaker 1: Joe's eight, the Phoea's finish shots. Ladies and gentlemen.

1356
01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:26,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, if six years with Joe and only now

1357
01:09:26,040 --> 01:09:28,120
Speaker 2: they're saying, oh, you're not the real mom just because

1358
01:09:28,600 --> 01:09:30,200
Speaker 2: they're trying to get the bio mom back in, then

1359
01:09:30,200 --> 01:09:30,920
Speaker 2: that's messed up.

1360
01:09:31,000 --> 01:09:33,040
Speaker 1: No no, no, no, no no no. I hate it.

1361
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:33,600
Speaker 1: I hate it.

1362
01:09:33,920 --> 01:09:36,080
Speaker 2: Just toss her aside when you think that, like, oh,

1363
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:38,280
Speaker 2: the bio mom is ready to be back in Joe's life.

1364
01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:43,439
Speaker 1: I hate it. It makes my blood boil. It felt

1365
01:09:43,439 --> 01:09:46,080
Speaker 1: like a punch. I couldn't believe and still can't believe

1366
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:48,320
Speaker 1: he said that. I was so hurt that I just

1367
01:09:48,439 --> 01:09:50,679
Speaker 1: left to stay at my parents' place and I've been

1368
01:09:50,720 --> 01:09:53,400
Speaker 1: here ever since. I've tried talking to Kevin, and he's

1369
01:09:53,439 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 1: apologized over and over again, but I just can't get

1370
01:09:56,960 --> 01:10:00,000
Speaker 1: over that he sees me like that. I have talked

1371
01:10:00,240 --> 01:10:03,760
Speaker 1: Joe and said that I just need some time away, uh,

1372
01:10:04,040 --> 01:10:06,639
Speaker 1: but that I love him very much. He's so sad

1373
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:08,920
Speaker 1: and there's nothing I want more than to hold him.

1374
01:10:09,280 --> 01:10:12,120
Speaker 1: But every time I think about going home and seeing Kevin,

1375
01:10:12,560 --> 01:10:15,600
Speaker 1: knowing what he said, it makes up.

1376
01:10:17,600 --> 01:10:20,880
Speaker 2: So Joe. Joe feels bad. He maybe he like didn't

1377
01:10:20,920 --> 01:10:23,040
Speaker 2: really mean that, and he was a kid. He's eight

1378
01:10:23,120 --> 01:10:25,280
Speaker 2: years old. Yeah, you three years old? And he's probably

1379
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 2: like hearing this from his bio mom. Yeah, He's like, oh, yeah,

1380
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 2: my mommy, and the bio mom's like, that's not your mom,

1381
01:10:30,280 --> 01:10:30,840
Speaker 2: I'm your mom.

1382
01:10:30,960 --> 01:10:34,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then the dad is interesting, Hey, this is

1383
01:10:34,040 --> 01:10:35,479
Speaker 1: your this is your mom.

1384
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:36,400
Speaker 2: She gave birth to you.

1385
01:10:36,479 --> 01:10:41,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, she's probably so confused on everything. Opie says, am

1386
01:10:41,880 --> 01:10:44,240
Speaker 1: I awful for needing some space. I feel like a

1387
01:10:44,360 --> 01:10:48,000
Speaker 1: terrible mother, but I don't know what to do. We

1388
01:10:48,080 --> 01:10:51,880
Speaker 1: have an update nine months later, but we have to

1389
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:54,760
Speaker 1: stop right here. We have have to stop one.

1390
01:10:55,000 --> 01:10:59,439
Speaker 2: It's incredibly sweet that even though you know she's been

1391
01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:04,479
Speaker 2: hurt by you know, Kevin Ah, and even though she

1392
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 2: wants to take time away, she's like, I feel like

1393
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,280
Speaker 2: a terrible mother, she still sees herself in that role

1394
01:11:09,280 --> 01:11:10,040
Speaker 2: and that's really sweet.

1395
01:11:10,200 --> 01:11:12,360
Speaker 1: Yeah. Uh could you go up? Scroll up to Groovy

1396
01:11:12,400 --> 01:11:18,920
Speaker 1: Hippie Chicks comments up slightly there it is uh, Opie

1397
01:11:19,360 --> 01:11:23,000
Speaker 1: has raised this kid, guaranteed, she had cleaned up his puke,

1398
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 1: she had helped him while he was sick and been

1399
01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 1: there during the good times. She is a mom full stop,

1400
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 1: which is exactly what me and Sophia were saying. Yeah,

1401
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:34,040
Speaker 1: if you raise the child you are the mother, particularly

1402
01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:37,760
Speaker 1: if the other mother was like, Nah, I'm good, I'm

1403
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:43,720
Speaker 1: stepping out. Yeah, I'm stepping out. And what do we have?

1404
01:11:43,800 --> 01:11:47,240
Speaker 2: You can have, you can't have two mothers you you

1405
01:11:47,280 --> 01:11:48,360
Speaker 2: don't have to limit your.

1406
01:11:48,240 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 1: Strength to Let's have a hundred mothers.

1407
01:11:50,640 --> 01:11:51,760
Speaker 2: Let's keep let's keep the.

1408
01:11:51,720 --> 01:11:55,880
Speaker 1: Mom run up the tap. But we again, we have

1409
01:11:55,920 --> 01:11:57,560
Speaker 1: a question to answer, So we answered the question. Is

1410
01:11:57,600 --> 01:11:59,720
Speaker 1: Opie the ahole? No?

1411
01:11:59,720 --> 01:12:05,679
Speaker 2: No, No, Kevin is a Kevin is absolutely the Kevin's baby.

1412
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:06,679
Speaker 1: Mama is the a hole?

1413
01:12:07,640 --> 01:12:15,240
Speaker 2: Joe Jose Jose, Joe's not the a hole. The a

1414
01:12:15,360 --> 01:12:17,240
Speaker 2: hole doesn't fall far from the tree.

1415
01:12:17,720 --> 01:12:21,760
Speaker 1: But we have we should figure out what should OP

1416
01:12:21,920 --> 01:12:25,559
Speaker 1: do now? It seems Kevin's on bio mom's side. Yes,

1417
01:12:26,160 --> 01:12:27,120
Speaker 1: Joe wants her back.

1418
01:12:29,000 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 2: I think op needs to take that some of that time. Uh,

1419
01:12:35,560 --> 01:12:40,519
Speaker 2: and not necessarily like I don't think. I don't think

1420
01:12:40,560 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 2: this is like divorce right now or separate right now. Yeah,

1421
01:12:44,920 --> 01:12:47,000
Speaker 2: but I think I think just taking some time away

1422
01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 2: for Kevin to realize that he messed up and that

1423
01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:53,160
Speaker 2: you should value her more as a mother figure in

1424
01:12:53,560 --> 01:12:54,719
Speaker 2: as a mother in Joe's.

1425
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,160
Speaker 1: Life, which is what she's doing. Yeah, I think I

1426
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,800
Speaker 1: think the only thing she hasn't said yet is like, yo,

1427
01:12:59,800 --> 01:13:04,519
Speaker 1: you're really disrespecting Well maybe she did in so many words,

1428
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 1: but I don't know how clearly she said, like, hey,

1429
01:13:07,800 --> 01:13:11,479
Speaker 1: you're disrespecting me as the mom, as the mother who

1430
01:13:11,600 --> 01:13:15,720
Speaker 1: raised this child. Yeah, and two maybe being like hey,

1431
01:13:15,760 --> 01:13:17,640
Speaker 1: we I think we need some counseling.

1432
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:21,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, to work that out, because you know if yeah.

1433
01:13:21,439 --> 01:13:25,559
Speaker 1: Because you're being a big old dingis a big it's

1434
01:13:25,640 --> 01:13:30,519
Speaker 1: freaking right. How does conspiracy? Thanks for the ten bucks.

1435
01:13:30,520 --> 01:13:33,960
Speaker 1: By the way, bio mom only came back into their

1436
01:13:34,000 --> 01:13:35,440
Speaker 1: lives for money.

1437
01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:37,200
Speaker 2: It's the only thing.

1438
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:38,360
Speaker 1: That makes sense.

1439
01:13:38,760 --> 01:13:40,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, why is she back now that?

1440
01:13:40,640 --> 01:13:43,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, because maybe she's like, you know, I'm done. Let

1441
01:13:43,280 --> 01:13:45,880
Speaker 1: me just like become a stay at home mom, maybe

1442
01:13:45,880 --> 01:13:48,160
Speaker 1: even like stay at home mom, and just like okay,

1443
01:13:48,160 --> 01:13:50,920
Speaker 1: now I can just kick back and just like little Joey.

1444
01:13:51,000 --> 01:13:53,920
Speaker 1: He's smart, he can run around and like watch Minecraft

1445
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:57,960
Speaker 1: and you know, oh Joey take money on YouTube. Maybe

1446
01:13:58,000 --> 01:14:01,760
Speaker 1: he you know, typical kid. Maybe he can do the

1447
01:14:01,800 --> 01:14:04,599
Speaker 1: work on YouTube and become a big Minecraft YouTuber then

1448
01:14:04,680 --> 01:14:10,200
Speaker 1: pay for me also his mother, and then I can

1449
01:14:10,240 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 1: destroy OPI's life. It's like a win win win situation. Yeah,

1450
01:14:14,320 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 1: that's that's what the baby mom is saying.

1451
01:14:16,240 --> 01:14:18,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was really connecting all the dots in.

1452
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:21,840
Speaker 1: That thank you. I was trying, you know. I was

1453
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:25,400
Speaker 1: inspired by your board, which is which is so many

1454
01:14:25,439 --> 01:14:27,040
Speaker 1: dots that are so well connected.

1455
01:14:27,200 --> 01:14:32,680
Speaker 2: I want magnetic red what's it called red?

1456
01:14:32,920 --> 01:14:33,840
Speaker 1: Like magnets?

1457
01:14:34,120 --> 01:14:36,160
Speaker 2: No, like magnetic red erasers?

1458
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:38,200
Speaker 1: Yarn yarn? And why is that?

1459
01:14:38,360 --> 01:14:38,519
Speaker 2: No?

1460
01:14:38,600 --> 01:14:38,680
Speaker 4: Like?

1461
01:14:38,720 --> 01:14:41,000
Speaker 2: So he can do like the and this ghost.

1462
01:14:40,880 --> 01:14:44,519
Speaker 1: Here and ah, like the like the FBI cor cork

1463
01:14:44,520 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 1: board type vibe exactly, I see, And maybe that's up next,

1464
01:14:48,040 --> 01:14:50,519
Speaker 1: but you know what is actually up next? And isn't

1465
01:14:50,520 --> 01:14:56,720
Speaker 1: a lie? The update nine months late. Hello, Hi, it's

1466
01:14:56,760 --> 01:14:58,599
Speaker 1: been a while, but I have been thinking more about

1467
01:14:58,600 --> 01:15:01,080
Speaker 1: the post I made recently. I never really stopped thinking

1468
01:15:01,120 --> 01:15:03,200
Speaker 1: about it, to be honest, but I wanted to focus

1469
01:15:03,240 --> 01:15:06,720
Speaker 1: on real life and not what uh and not what

1470
01:15:06,920 --> 01:15:09,880
Speaker 1: to write strangers online. I really want to thank everyone

1471
01:15:09,920 --> 01:15:13,799
Speaker 1: that commented and shared their opinions even more. Yeah, lanch hmmm.

1472
01:15:14,360 --> 01:15:16,400
Speaker 1: I won't boil you with all the details of the

1473
01:15:16,439 --> 01:15:18,680
Speaker 1: past year and try to keep this short, but I

1474
01:15:18,720 --> 01:15:21,040
Speaker 1: wanted to give an update because so many of you

1475
01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:23,639
Speaker 1: have reached out and asked how I'm doing, which is nice.

1476
01:15:24,080 --> 01:15:25,960
Speaker 1: The night I made the post, I went back home

1477
01:15:26,000 --> 01:15:28,679
Speaker 1: to Kevin and Joe. It was emotional, but I needed

1478
01:15:28,720 --> 01:15:32,400
Speaker 1: to do it Joe. Joe was already asleep, but Kevin

1479
01:15:32,479 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 1: was up. He was so apologetic and cried a lot.

1480
01:15:37,720 --> 01:15:42,520
Speaker 1: That's good. I told him we needed to talk. Addressed Mommy's.

1481
01:15:44,320 --> 01:15:48,560
Speaker 2: To remind that OPI legally adopted Joe.

1482
01:15:49,040 --> 01:15:52,800
Speaker 1: Opie is call me legally mommy. Legally I'm I am

1483
01:15:52,880 --> 01:15:57,040
Speaker 1: legally mommy. Okay, my new handle everywhere, go check it out.

1484
01:15:58,360 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 1: I told him we need to talk, but not that

1485
01:16:01,000 --> 01:16:03,920
Speaker 1: night because we were both exhausted. We were going to

1486
01:16:04,000 --> 01:16:06,400
Speaker 1: have a few normal days for Joe's sake and then

1487
01:16:06,439 --> 01:16:08,640
Speaker 1: send him on a sleepover at his grandparents so we

1488
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 1: could talk. I told him I also needed a mother's

1489
01:16:14,000 --> 01:16:17,439
Speaker 1: son date with Joe. That is cute and Acre That

1490
01:16:17,520 --> 01:16:20,000
Speaker 1: is cute and acrip. The next day, me and Joe

1491
01:16:20,040 --> 01:16:22,320
Speaker 1: went to the zoo together and spent the day having

1492
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:25,120
Speaker 1: a blast. I did explain to him in a kid

1493
01:16:25,120 --> 01:16:28,400
Speaker 1: friendly way that his comment had hurt me a lot.

1494
01:16:28,720 --> 01:16:31,720
Speaker 1: I agree with that. He was very sorry and confirmed

1495
01:16:32,439 --> 01:16:34,800
Speaker 1: what I thought, which was that his bio mom had

1496
01:16:34,840 --> 01:16:36,200
Speaker 1: made comments.

1497
01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:38,280
Speaker 2: Like that or she did.

1498
01:16:39,120 --> 01:16:41,280
Speaker 1: We talked for a long time, you know, for an

1499
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:43,400
Speaker 1: eight year old lull, and I asked him if he

1500
01:16:43,560 --> 01:16:46,040
Speaker 1: wanted to keep seeing his bio mom, and he gave

1501
01:16:46,080 --> 01:16:48,360
Speaker 1: me a shrug and said that she had been fun

1502
01:16:48,360 --> 01:16:50,720
Speaker 1: at first, but he didn't like when she told him

1503
01:16:50,760 --> 01:16:56,160
Speaker 1: off Splash yelled at him, listen, mama bear.

1504
01:17:00,000 --> 01:17:01,599
Speaker 2: I think that this bio mom is like, oh, well,

1505
01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:04,960
Speaker 2: I'm his mom, so I can I can discipline him.

1506
01:17:04,960 --> 01:17:07,479
Speaker 2: But I think that kids don't really understand that.

1507
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:10,840
Speaker 1: You know, to to my baby cub, yeah, like.

1508
01:17:10,840 --> 01:17:12,840
Speaker 2: That's not mine. You weren't there for me. You don't

1509
01:17:12,840 --> 01:17:16,439
Speaker 2: get a like it's like the thing of earning respect. Yes,

1510
01:17:16,520 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 2: like a child doesn't. They're not going to grasp that

1511
01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:22,439
Speaker 2: you're biologically their mom. They're just gonna be like, this

1512
01:17:22,479 --> 01:17:25,600
Speaker 2: person was there for me, and this person could discipline me,

1513
01:17:25,640 --> 01:17:27,680
Speaker 2: but I don't respect your authority.

1514
01:17:27,360 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 1: Which is literally that He's like, oh, she's yelling me

1515
01:17:29,360 --> 01:17:31,439
Speaker 1: at me. I don't really like it, and then goes

1516
01:17:31,479 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 1: back to his yeah to op and he's like, oh, no,

1517
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:39,240
Speaker 1: I I want you, I want you, I want you

1518
01:17:39,280 --> 01:17:46,439
Speaker 1: to serve as my mommy. Yeah done, baby baboo. I

1519
01:17:46,479 --> 01:17:49,200
Speaker 1: didn't love that she was doing that. I wouldn't try

1520
01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:51,160
Speaker 1: to explain the whole conversation here, but I think it

1521
01:17:51,200 --> 01:17:53,160
Speaker 1: was a good one. He's a sweet sense of a

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01:17:53,200 --> 01:17:56,439
Speaker 1: little guy and nothing makes me prouder and being his mom.

1523
01:17:57,439 --> 01:17:59,719
Speaker 1: Me and Kevin did have a quite long and emotional

1524
01:17:59,720 --> 01:18:03,240
Speaker 1: converse station the night Joe went to my parents. Joe's

1525
01:18:03,280 --> 01:18:07,200
Speaker 1: bio mom was and is very manipulative. I'm not equipped

1526
01:18:07,200 --> 01:18:10,840
Speaker 1: to diagnose her, but narcissistic isn't far off. He was

1527
01:18:10,840 --> 01:18:13,680
Speaker 1: not sleep wait, he was not sleeping with her as

1528
01:18:13,720 --> 01:18:17,280
Speaker 1: many of you thought, as in Heaven's Baby Mama. Indeed,

1529
01:18:20,960 --> 01:18:25,840
Speaker 1: Kevin and her, Kevin and her relationship was not good, abusive,

1530
01:18:26,680 --> 01:18:28,600
Speaker 1: I want to say. And the way things ended with

1531
01:18:28,680 --> 01:18:31,840
Speaker 1: her giving up all the custody slash parental rights of Joe.

1532
01:18:36,920 --> 01:18:37,719
Speaker 1: This is difficult.

1533
01:18:37,800 --> 01:18:38,760
Speaker 2: It really hits John.

1534
01:18:38,920 --> 01:18:44,960
Speaker 1: It was really really difficult, guys, really different for Kevin,

1535
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 1: and he struggled a lot as a single father. He

1536
01:18:47,560 --> 01:18:51,240
Speaker 1: admitted he never quite healed properly from her, but didn't

1537
01:18:51,280 --> 01:18:55,080
Speaker 1: really notice until she came back. She manipulated him again,

1538
01:18:55,160 --> 01:18:57,559
Speaker 1: and it brought back so much baggage he thought that

1539
01:18:57,600 --> 01:19:00,280
Speaker 1: he had left behind him. He said, he I knew

1540
01:19:00,280 --> 01:19:02,200
Speaker 1: there was no excuse for what he said, and he

1541
01:19:02,280 --> 01:19:05,160
Speaker 1: wishes he never said it, but everything was too much

1542
01:19:05,240 --> 01:19:08,479
Speaker 1: and confusing, I said, I wasn't really ready to forgive him,

1543
01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:11,280
Speaker 1: but I wanted to work with him. I know this

1544
01:19:11,360 --> 01:19:13,720
Speaker 1: will disappoint some of you who wanted me to leave him,

1545
01:19:14,000 --> 01:19:16,000
Speaker 1: but I cannot give up on this man who has

1546
01:19:16,040 --> 01:19:18,960
Speaker 1: been so wonderful for years over this. I feel like

1547
01:19:19,000 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 1: we just deserved a fighting chance at getting through this together.

1548
01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:25,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, which I think. I don't think leaving his answer here.

1549
01:19:25,640 --> 01:19:28,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, No, I think it's totally fine to come together

1550
01:19:28,520 --> 01:19:30,479
Speaker 1: and like, hey, let's Doe therapy and do all that.

1551
01:19:31,160 --> 01:19:34,800
Speaker 1: The next day, Kevin contacted Joe's bio mom oh good

1552
01:19:34,840 --> 01:19:38,000
Speaker 1: old baby Mama and said that we needed some boundaries

1553
01:19:38,040 --> 01:19:43,519
Speaker 1: with her. He says, yes, boundaries. He said he felt

1554
01:19:43,520 --> 01:19:46,120
Speaker 1: that she had manipulated him and his emotions and he

1555
01:19:46,400 --> 01:19:49,040
Speaker 1: wouldn't allow her in Joe's life with the way that

1556
01:19:49,080 --> 01:19:52,800
Speaker 1: she was acting. He decided he decided that going no

1557
01:19:52,920 --> 01:19:55,439
Speaker 1: contact with her for the time being was the best

1558
01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:57,920
Speaker 1: for us in Joe. We talked to Joe about this

1559
01:19:57,960 --> 01:20:01,400
Speaker 1: at first. The thing is she disappear without an answer

1560
01:20:01,439 --> 01:20:05,720
Speaker 1: to this literally nothing, change your number and everything. I'm

1561
01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:07,679
Speaker 1: not sure what happened, but we do have a plan

1562
01:20:07,720 --> 01:20:10,640
Speaker 1: if she ever decides to come back again. We are

1563
01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:14,599
Speaker 1: a team roven through and it sounds like, honestly, the

1564
01:20:14,600 --> 01:20:17,719
Speaker 1: theory of her coming for money yeah, because at first

1565
01:20:17,800 --> 01:20:19,800
Speaker 1: think about it, she was winning. She was like, I'm

1566
01:20:19,840 --> 01:20:22,360
Speaker 1: getting the kid on my side, I'm getting Kevin on

1567
01:20:22,400 --> 01:20:25,320
Speaker 1: my side. So she was like, oh, I'm now Op.

1568
01:20:26,160 --> 01:20:28,519
Speaker 1: I can get to the place where like I'm the

1569
01:20:28,760 --> 01:20:31,200
Speaker 1: you know whatever, stay at home wife and I'm chilling

1570
01:20:31,280 --> 01:20:33,760
Speaker 1: and good to go. Yeah, but once you realize, like, oh,

1571
01:20:34,000 --> 01:20:35,400
Speaker 1: the threads are unraveling.

1572
01:20:35,479 --> 01:20:39,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, the second they challenged her, she's gone, which is

1573
01:20:39,040 --> 01:20:42,800
Speaker 2: so so heartbreaking for Joe to like get back his

1574
01:20:42,880 --> 01:20:46,360
Speaker 2: bio mom, for both the bio mom and Kevin to

1575
01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 2: kind of push this relationship on him, and then for

1576
01:20:49,560 --> 01:20:50,080
Speaker 2: her to leave.

1577
01:20:50,800 --> 01:20:54,759
Speaker 1: Honestly, thank God for Op, Yeah, because he now has

1578
01:20:55,160 --> 01:20:59,000
Speaker 1: a second loving parent and like, you know, a great home.

1579
01:21:01,240 --> 01:21:05,719
Speaker 1: Come on, come on. We contacted a couple scounselors, Splash

1580
01:21:05,800 --> 01:21:09,400
Speaker 1: family therapist and working with her has been great. We

1581
01:21:09,479 --> 01:21:11,759
Speaker 1: have done it just me and Kevin as well with Joe.

1582
01:21:12,240 --> 01:21:16,200
Speaker 1: Kevin has apologized profusely, more more times than I can count.

1583
01:21:16,800 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: Kevin has also been to individual therapy, which he says

1584
01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:22,040
Speaker 1: has been good for him. It's been a pretty intense

1585
01:21:22,080 --> 01:21:24,200
Speaker 1: couple of months with a lot of personal growth from

1586
01:21:24,200 --> 01:21:27,240
Speaker 1: both of us. I believe we're on the other side now.

1587
01:21:27,560 --> 01:21:32,000
Speaker 1: I've forgiven Kevin and we are moving on together better. Also,

1588
01:21:32,320 --> 01:21:35,040
Speaker 1: the reason I decided to update is I just found

1589
01:21:35,080 --> 01:21:35,960
Speaker 1: out that.

1590
01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:40,439
Speaker 2: I'm pregnant son.

1591
01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:47,160
Speaker 1: I mean, brother, Joe, You're ready to become a dad

1592
01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 1: at the Rye by old age of eight years old.

1593
01:21:49,439 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 1: So I'm at eight years old. That's long enough. That's

1594
01:21:54,439 --> 01:21:58,280
Speaker 1: long enough. I literally have told no one because I

1595
01:21:58,280 --> 01:22:00,920
Speaker 1: want to tell Kevin and Joe first second now in

1596
01:22:00,960 --> 01:22:01,559
Speaker 1: a cute way.

1597
01:22:01,800 --> 01:22:03,120
Speaker 2: But I haven't figured it out yet.

1598
01:22:03,560 --> 01:22:06,639
Speaker 1: You're all good, I think, uh, I'll think of something,

1599
01:22:06,760 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 1: but it is pretty dang good right now. So I

1600
01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:12,719
Speaker 1: hope you'll have I hope you all have a wonderful day.

1601
01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:18,520
Speaker 1: Last night, Lash morning, smiley facere.

1602
01:22:17,320 --> 01:22:19,240
Speaker 2: What a cute little story.

1603
01:22:19,360 --> 01:22:22,080
Speaker 1: Look, and we added to the She added to the chart.

1604
01:22:22,320 --> 01:22:29,320
Speaker 1: Look at look there's a new little baby boundaries. Yeah, dude, Yo,

1605
01:22:29,479 --> 01:22:33,160
Speaker 1: Sophia is the goat of whiteboarding. Dude, Riley crushed it

1606
01:22:33,160 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: with like we need the whiteboard that brought it and

1607
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:37,960
Speaker 1: changed the game. And then Sophia is is like the

1608
01:22:38,000 --> 01:22:39,799
Speaker 1: one that's like taking it home, and I'm.

1609
01:22:39,640 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 2: Gonna I'm gonna come up with like a like a line.

1610
01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:45,160
Speaker 2: Maybe we should get different colors, but like maybe squiggly

1611
01:22:45,200 --> 01:22:50,400
Speaker 2: line is like romance. You know, I'm gonna add a key,

1612
01:22:50,439 --> 01:22:51,200
Speaker 2: but I'm gonna come up.

1613
01:22:51,240 --> 01:22:54,360
Speaker 1: And then what if we could train chat to uh

1614
01:22:54,640 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 1: the AI chat to generate little images of the stories

1615
01:23:01,479 --> 01:23:03,000
Speaker 1: so that way, so that way we have them as

1616
01:23:03,000 --> 01:23:08,479
Speaker 1: we're reading. Even we need spy whoa, we need spread.

1617
01:23:08,479 --> 01:23:11,599
Speaker 1: I thought it was gonna work better, but I didn't. Well,

1618
01:23:11,880 --> 01:23:16,040
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, we have some donors little thread them.

1619
01:23:16,720 --> 01:23:18,679
Speaker 1: Shout out to Emma Harrison, thanks for to five bucks.

1620
01:23:18,680 --> 01:23:23,320
Speaker 1: You're freaking awesome, Haley Spanning. Also, guys, let's sound off

1621
01:23:23,320 --> 01:23:27,280
Speaker 1: for all of our new donators, our new donoers. Y'all

1622
01:23:27,360 --> 01:23:29,960
Speaker 1: been great. Y'all have been awesome. Sophia is sounding off

1623
01:23:30,000 --> 01:23:35,840
Speaker 1: over there, Haley Spanny, thanks for the five bucks. Happy

1624
01:23:35,920 --> 01:23:39,519
Speaker 1: late beatday, Sophia, an early birthday, John Yeah. Also a

1625
01:23:39,640 --> 01:23:44,519
Speaker 1: freaking summer beatday. Gang in the building, wasn't it so sad?

1626
01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:47,120
Speaker 1: How Like in elementary school, they'd be like, oh, hey,

1627
01:23:47,120 --> 01:23:50,240
Speaker 1: it's a little Timmy's birthday. Here's some freaking cookies.

1628
01:23:50,600 --> 01:23:52,280
Speaker 2: It was hard. It was hard.

1629
01:23:53,120 --> 01:23:54,919
Speaker 1: You know the struggle. You know the struggle.

1630
01:23:56,240 --> 01:23:58,120
Speaker 3: But you guys had the littlest birthday parties because you

1631
01:23:58,120 --> 01:24:00,400
Speaker 3: could have them during the day and everyone's like machine

1632
01:24:00,479 --> 01:24:02,639
Speaker 3: to go out of their house and it's like boom

1633
01:24:02,680 --> 01:24:05,160
Speaker 3: at three o'clock on a Tuesday birthday party at John's place.

1634
01:24:05,520 --> 01:24:08,360
Speaker 2: No, I had great birthday parties because I had like

1635
01:24:08,360 --> 01:24:10,519
Speaker 2: a I would have a bunch of birthday parties because

1636
01:24:10,600 --> 01:24:12,040
Speaker 2: I would have one with my family, and then I

1637
01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:17,280
Speaker 2: would insist on having one with my friends. Yeah, and uh,

1638
01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:21,040
Speaker 2: but I but I always longed for for the feeling

1639
01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:23,360
Speaker 2: of bringing in cupcakes to the whole school.

1640
01:24:23,840 --> 01:24:25,920
Speaker 1: It's it's it's you know, the whole class. It's a

1641
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:30,120
Speaker 1: thought that's haunted me to this Day's gonna be honest. Also, Alicia,

1642
01:24:30,400 --> 01:24:33,840
Speaker 1: mine was jolly first Happy birthday to you. Yeah.

1643
01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:36,360
Speaker 3: Also at the at the summer birthday parties, that's where

1644
01:24:36,360 --> 01:24:38,040
Speaker 3: all the drama happened in your friend groups.

1645
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:43,000
Speaker 1: Also, I didn't finish reading Haley's comment I love. I'd

1646
01:24:43,000 --> 01:24:45,200
Speaker 1: love to make y'all something. So what are you guys

1647
01:24:45,200 --> 01:24:48,559
Speaker 1: favorite animal slash hobbies? YouTube? Riley and Sam? Well, now

1648
01:24:48,600 --> 01:24:52,080
Speaker 1: we have I mean, do we do our our classics?

1649
01:24:52,160 --> 01:24:54,240
Speaker 2: See? I don't want to do my classic anymore because

1650
01:24:54,240 --> 01:24:55,080
Speaker 2: I want new things.

1651
01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:56,879
Speaker 1: You do have a lot of worms.

1652
01:24:56,960 --> 01:24:59,360
Speaker 2: I've got a lot of worms and I have one too,

1653
01:24:59,439 --> 01:25:02,439
Speaker 2: can't now and now I want I want more?

1654
01:25:03,680 --> 01:25:04,880
Speaker 1: What else do you want?

1655
01:25:05,520 --> 01:25:05,840
Speaker 2: Question?

1656
01:25:06,080 --> 01:25:09,200
Speaker 1: I will say, uh, I don't have enough orange stuff.

1657
01:25:09,280 --> 01:25:12,000
Speaker 1: So if you could do an orange Riley, do you

1658
01:25:12,000 --> 01:25:17,120
Speaker 1: have one? I like basketball, basketball, D and D D

1659
01:25:17,200 --> 01:25:20,600
Speaker 1: and D so maybe like a little dice a sorceress.

1660
01:25:20,920 --> 01:25:21,439
Speaker 1: Sam like?

1661
01:25:24,880 --> 01:25:26,920
Speaker 2: Also, I like you know, I like owls.

1662
01:25:27,400 --> 01:25:28,080
Speaker 1: Owls are cool.

1663
01:25:28,240 --> 01:25:28,960
Speaker 2: Owls are cool.

1664
01:25:29,000 --> 01:25:30,160
Speaker 1: They're not very in right now.

1665
01:25:30,880 --> 01:25:31,759
Speaker 2: What that's okay?

1666
01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:35,160
Speaker 1: Owls aren't in right now. They're not in the damn

1667
01:25:35,720 --> 01:25:38,040
Speaker 1: Thanks for the ten bucks, T and M dot on

1668
01:25:38,120 --> 01:25:40,880
Speaker 1: the Dona link. Hey do y'all open parcels this stream

1669
01:25:40,920 --> 01:25:45,160
Speaker 1: actually have? Yeah, we haven't gotten any yet. Oh guys,

1670
01:25:45,720 --> 01:25:50,200
Speaker 1: we have We have nothing to open Sondas stuff. Josephine

1671
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:53,040
Speaker 1: Madala Burquez, Thanks for the two fifty eight bio Mom

1672
01:25:53,240 --> 01:25:56,639
Speaker 1: was just the incubator and OPI is the mom. Yeah,

1673
01:25:56,760 --> 01:26:00,960
Speaker 1: bio mom, she was Birther Berther. That should always make

1674
01:26:01,000 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 1: a laugh the warehouse manufacturer. That's hilarious. So Via Collan,

1675
01:26:06,920 --> 01:26:09,080
Speaker 1: thanks for the five books. I'm don't a link. I

1676
01:26:09,080 --> 01:26:12,240
Speaker 1: am getting josh urgery tomorrow. Oh my gosh, fingers crossed.

1677
01:26:12,320 --> 01:26:13,720
Speaker 1: I hope, I hope it goes well. Hearts in the

1678
01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:17,160
Speaker 1: chat for Sovilla, I have an awful, full horror story

1679
01:26:17,200 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 1: on how I nearly died after getting my four wisdom

1680
01:26:20,000 --> 01:26:22,160
Speaker 1: teeth pulled out. My god, oh my god, that I

1681
01:26:22,200 --> 01:26:24,320
Speaker 1: could share. Maybe don't tell me that because I need

1682
01:26:24,320 --> 01:26:25,240
Speaker 1: to get mine pulled out.

1683
01:26:25,240 --> 01:26:28,120
Speaker 2: Oh well, it's it's I think for most people it

1684
01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:30,240
Speaker 2: goes pretty I mean it went pretty well for me,

1685
01:26:30,280 --> 01:26:33,880
Speaker 2: and it didn't. You know, I had some I had

1686
01:26:33,920 --> 01:26:36,439
Speaker 2: a lot of puffiness for a couple of days, but

1687
01:26:36,439 --> 01:26:38,760
Speaker 2: that was it. But I know that's like, yeah, yeah,

1688
01:26:38,800 --> 01:26:39,599
Speaker 2: there are some people.

1689
01:26:39,840 --> 01:26:41,800
Speaker 1: Oh no, I have a bad reaction. There we go.

1690
01:26:42,880 --> 01:26:46,679
Speaker 1: But how I nearly died after getting my four wisdom

1691
01:26:46,680 --> 01:26:49,479
Speaker 1: teeth pulled out that I could maybe share is long.

1692
01:26:49,640 --> 01:26:54,879
Speaker 1: More importantly, can you make the minimum back to one dollar? More?

1693
01:26:55,000 --> 01:26:59,880
Speaker 1: Characters plain why there is a very special thing that

1694
01:27:00,000 --> 01:27:04,240
Speaker 1: it's about to happen. I alluded to it earlier. You

1695
01:27:04,280 --> 01:27:07,559
Speaker 1: guys will see in the coming days, which aligns with

1696
01:27:07,720 --> 01:27:14,440
Speaker 1: the two donation set up. Speaking of which, of donations

1697
01:27:14,479 --> 01:27:18,640
Speaker 1: and setups, and also yet another big hint. Well. First off, Nicoleon,

1698
01:27:18,880 --> 01:27:20,960
Speaker 1: thank you for the five dollars on the donor link.

1699
01:27:21,160 --> 01:27:23,880
Speaker 1: Where can go no words, just don't know. We are

1700
01:27:23,920 --> 01:27:30,559
Speaker 1: here for you. Nicole Christin Filhap Chris tin foil hat

1701
01:27:31,000 --> 01:27:36,680
Speaker 1: twenty gifted memberships. Is this maybe this is our like

1702
01:27:37,160 --> 01:27:41,840
Speaker 1: our big gifted it's our it's our gifted membership payload

1703
01:27:42,040 --> 01:27:50,120
Speaker 1: dropping emote. Yeah, Christian Filt, thank you so much for which,

1704
01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:54,640
Speaker 1: by the way, to our to our big Gifted membership

1705
01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:59,519
Speaker 1: drop bomber droppers, I don't know, payload loaders. I don't

1706
01:27:59,560 --> 01:28:02,280
Speaker 1: know what to call you. A lot a ton of

1707
01:28:02,280 --> 01:28:05,280
Speaker 1: people have been continuing get there like they do it,

1708
01:28:05,320 --> 01:28:07,120
Speaker 1: and then they're like, oh, this is awesome, I want

1709
01:28:07,120 --> 01:28:08,640
Speaker 1: to keep it, and then they continue it. So it's

1710
01:28:08,640 --> 01:28:09,080
Speaker 1: a cool way.

1711
01:28:09,160 --> 01:28:09,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just great.

1712
01:28:09,880 --> 01:28:12,839
Speaker 1: This is a great thing. And then uh, Courtney Brady,

1713
01:28:12,840 --> 01:28:16,120
Speaker 1: thanks for the five bucks. Riley, I didn't see y'all before,

1714
01:28:16,280 --> 01:28:20,160
Speaker 1: but my youngest daughter is also named Riley. I'm glad

1715
01:28:20,200 --> 01:28:20,960
Speaker 1: you spelled it right.

1716
01:28:21,040 --> 01:28:23,880
Speaker 2: That's that's huge, the whole thing about spelling Riley.

1717
01:28:24,240 --> 01:28:27,080
Speaker 1: What's the other way, dude? The other ways is like

1718
01:28:27,479 --> 01:28:29,160
Speaker 1: r H L y E.

1719
01:28:29,360 --> 01:28:31,920
Speaker 3: Or the one is like Raley is like r e

1720
01:28:32,040 --> 01:28:36,200
Speaker 3: I L G H y l O E P whatever.

1721
01:28:36,640 --> 01:28:40,280
Speaker 3: Come on, pill it right, dude. The simple way Raleigh

1722
01:28:40,320 --> 01:28:42,000
Speaker 3: could be kind of a cute girl's name.

1723
01:28:42,200 --> 01:28:47,280
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, yeah, yeah, hater over here, I know that's

1724
01:28:47,280 --> 01:28:51,000
Speaker 1: just how it is. But that's all. Oh my gosh, well,

1725
01:28:51,120 --> 01:28:54,559
Speaker 1: thank you so much. And I have such a great

1726
01:28:54,600 --> 01:28:57,720
Speaker 1: surprise for Sophie and Riley and that I'm abandoning them

1727
01:28:57,760 --> 01:29:00,639
Speaker 1: for a very yeah, very short period. Where are you going?

1728
01:29:01,240 --> 01:29:08,760
Speaker 1: I'm going to be right back the bathroom, basically, yeah, basically, basically.

1729
01:29:08,479 --> 01:29:11,160
Speaker 3: Where are you going? I'm not ready for this. I

1730
01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:13,200
Speaker 3: need more prep time. What's going on?

1731
01:29:13,360 --> 01:29:15,960
Speaker 1: I need to splash my face with some cold water

1732
01:29:16,000 --> 01:29:20,880
Speaker 1: and okay, okay under my eye sockets do it. So

1733
01:29:21,120 --> 01:29:23,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to do that. Maybe you could start the

1734
01:29:23,120 --> 01:29:24,760
Speaker 1: story and then I could come back and give me

1735
01:29:24,760 --> 01:29:27,720
Speaker 1: a deal. Ye seen the big eyes O came I

1736
01:29:27,760 --> 01:29:29,559
Speaker 1: own all.

1737
01:29:29,520 --> 01:29:36,320
Speaker 2: Right, I'm on it. I'm already ready. S one Okay, okay,

1738
01:29:36,560 --> 01:29:41,920
Speaker 2: you ready? Am I the a hole for wanting not ready?

1739
01:29:42,040 --> 01:29:43,559
Speaker 2: Briley freaking wasn't right now?

1740
01:29:43,600 --> 01:29:44,200
Speaker 1: I'm ready?

1741
01:29:44,520 --> 01:29:47,839
Speaker 2: Okay? Am I the a hole for wanting to divorce

1742
01:29:47,920 --> 01:29:50,679
Speaker 2: my husband after he ran away from a dog?

1743
01:29:51,400 --> 01:29:53,040
Speaker 1: Tell me you got the egg without telling me you

1744
01:29:53,120 --> 01:29:53,639
Speaker 1: got the egg?

1745
01:29:53,840 --> 01:29:56,680
Speaker 2: Damn So and this stands to the question of what

1746
01:29:56,680 --> 01:29:59,280
Speaker 2: do you do when you lose respect for your partner

1747
01:29:59,520 --> 01:30:03,720
Speaker 2: out wh so throw ray some advice, says, I'm going

1748
01:30:03,760 --> 01:30:07,200
Speaker 2: to start with this. I'm still a bit traumatized, and

1749
01:30:07,240 --> 01:30:09,360
Speaker 2: I will be finding someone to talk to. And a

1750
01:30:09,400 --> 01:30:11,400
Speaker 2: friend's made this account for me because I'm not a

1751
01:30:11,400 --> 01:30:14,640
Speaker 2: frequent er. Don't know if the pit bull made it.

1752
01:30:14,720 --> 01:30:18,320
Speaker 2: I haven't asked. Oh so there's a pit bull involved

1753
01:30:18,320 --> 01:30:21,839
Speaker 2: in the story. My husband and his niece and nephew

1754
01:30:21,840 --> 01:30:24,799
Speaker 2: and I were in our backyard. I'm going to assume

1755
01:30:24,920 --> 01:30:28,240
Speaker 2: our gate was open. I can't remember it. The pit

1756
01:30:28,280 --> 01:30:31,519
Speaker 2: bull came out of nowhere and latched onto his niece.

1757
01:30:32,040 --> 01:30:36,600
Speaker 2: His niece five female niece screamed. I turned kicked it

1758
01:30:36,640 --> 01:30:38,800
Speaker 2: with all the force I could manage, and I was

1759
01:30:38,920 --> 01:30:41,080
Speaker 2: lucky enough to hit it in the jaws somewhere that

1760
01:30:41,160 --> 01:30:44,280
Speaker 2: made its jaw dislodge. My husband, who had been a

1761
01:30:44,280 --> 01:30:47,559
Speaker 2: few feet away, shouted something along the lines of whose

1762
01:30:47,600 --> 01:30:50,040
Speaker 2: dog is this? I told him to get our bear

1763
01:30:50,120 --> 01:30:52,800
Speaker 2: spray from the house. I was in a panic. I

1764
01:30:52,880 --> 01:30:55,840
Speaker 2: am an animal lover, but it was so insane. The

1765
01:30:55,840 --> 01:30:58,360
Speaker 2: pit bull seemed almost rabbit. I don't think it was

1766
01:30:58,400 --> 01:31:00,559
Speaker 2: in hindsight. It wasn't foaming at the map. It was

1767
01:31:00,640 --> 01:31:06,240
Speaker 2: just crazed. My husband ran, but not towards the house.

1768
01:31:06,800 --> 01:31:10,000
Speaker 2: He literally ran out the fence gate and shut it

1769
01:31:10,080 --> 01:31:14,320
Speaker 2: behind him, not towards his niece or nephew who was

1770
01:31:14,439 --> 01:31:17,880
Speaker 2: also present. Oh, the nephew was also present in an

1771
01:31:17,880 --> 01:31:20,479
Speaker 2: outdoor bassinette that I managed to all but toss onto

1772
01:31:20,520 --> 01:31:22,320
Speaker 2: the pictic table to make sure it was out of

1773
01:31:22,320 --> 01:31:26,400
Speaker 2: the dog's reach. Wait, there was a baby too well,

1774
01:31:26,439 --> 01:31:29,040
Speaker 2: holding his niece on my shoulder. I put her on

1775
01:31:29,080 --> 01:31:31,280
Speaker 2: the barbecue to keep her out of reach, but the

1776
01:31:31,360 --> 01:31:34,599
Speaker 2: dog was literally jumping and snapping, and I was worried

1777
01:31:34,600 --> 01:31:36,760
Speaker 2: that if I tried to carry her I'm short, it

1778
01:31:36,800 --> 01:31:39,519
Speaker 2: would manage to grab her out of my arms. It

1779
01:31:39,640 --> 01:31:41,640
Speaker 2: chased me when I ran for the shove, but then

1780
01:31:41,680 --> 01:31:44,320
Speaker 2: I swung at it, and I swung until it stopped.

1781
01:31:44,320 --> 01:31:46,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't think I will ever forget

1782
01:31:46,960 --> 01:31:49,080
Speaker 2: the sound of the feeling. I was so high stressed

1783
01:31:49,120 --> 01:31:51,360
Speaker 2: I didn't even realize that it had bit me twice.

1784
01:31:51,920 --> 01:31:53,880
Speaker 2: That is so traumatized.

1785
01:31:53,280 --> 01:31:54,240
Speaker 1: That it's crazy.

1786
01:31:54,360 --> 01:31:55,519
Speaker 2: That's really scary.

1787
01:31:56,000 --> 01:31:58,840
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. And the guy he just ran ran away.

1788
01:32:01,200 --> 01:32:02,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

1789
01:32:02,640 --> 01:32:07,120
Speaker 3: Wow, I can't imagine that I didn't know like stuff

1790
01:32:07,160 --> 01:32:09,519
Speaker 3: like in the movies actually happened in real life.

1791
01:32:09,600 --> 01:32:12,479
Speaker 2: Well, I've been in a situation with my mom where

1792
01:32:12,520 --> 01:32:16,280
Speaker 2: our dog was attacked by another dog and we were walking.

1793
01:32:16,280 --> 01:32:18,519
Speaker 2: This is actually when I got like a day after

1794
01:32:18,640 --> 01:32:20,519
Speaker 2: got my wisdom teeth out, So I was still like

1795
01:32:20,560 --> 01:32:22,200
Speaker 2: I had my whole thing, and I was really kind

1796
01:32:22,200 --> 01:32:27,200
Speaker 2: of loopy. And my mom she was trying to protect

1797
01:32:27,200 --> 01:32:28,800
Speaker 2: her dog and so she was get she was getting

1798
01:32:28,840 --> 01:32:31,320
Speaker 2: attacked and it ended up being we all ended up

1799
01:32:31,360 --> 01:32:34,360
Speaker 2: be fine. But like I didn't know what to do.

1800
01:32:34,439 --> 01:32:35,479
Speaker 2: But I didn't run away.

1801
01:32:35,960 --> 01:32:38,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, you don't run away, especially when you got.

1802
01:32:38,920 --> 01:32:43,439
Speaker 2: Like kids, a baby, and you know, and also the

1803
01:32:43,439 --> 01:32:45,479
Speaker 2: fact that these are not even it's not even like

1804
01:32:45,600 --> 01:32:47,800
Speaker 2: her niece and nephew, which I mean still would be

1805
01:32:47,800 --> 01:32:49,479
Speaker 2: bad if you ran away, But this is this is

1806
01:32:49,680 --> 01:32:53,720
Speaker 2: his niece and nephew, which is wild. Yeah, No, this

1807
01:32:53,760 --> 01:32:57,080
Speaker 2: would be yeah. Sarah Francis says, wow, I would lose

1808
01:32:57,120 --> 01:32:57,880
Speaker 2: respect for him too.

1809
01:32:58,360 --> 01:32:59,880
Speaker 1: Put a chat or put a pole in.

1810
01:33:01,240 --> 01:33:05,800
Speaker 2: Yeah. I haven't spoken to him in for a full week,

1811
01:33:06,080 --> 01:33:08,400
Speaker 2: even though we live in the same house. I didn't

1812
01:33:08,400 --> 01:33:10,599
Speaker 2: ask where he went. He only came back a few

1813
01:33:10,600 --> 01:33:12,800
Speaker 2: minutes later to pack us into the car and drive

1814
01:33:12,880 --> 01:33:15,760
Speaker 2: us to the hospital. He's getting angry that I'm giving

1815
01:33:15,840 --> 01:33:18,360
Speaker 2: him the silent treatment, but I feel like it's his

1816
01:33:18,520 --> 01:33:21,280
Speaker 2: fault that I had to possibly end that animal. If

1817
01:33:21,280 --> 01:33:23,519
Speaker 2: he had gotten the bear spray, I literally keep it

1818
01:33:23,560 --> 01:33:25,680
Speaker 2: in my purse for if I am ever attacked by

1819
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,360
Speaker 2: an animal or otherwise. Then I don't think I would

1820
01:33:28,400 --> 01:33:31,599
Speaker 2: have needed to do what I did. It was literally

1821
01:33:31,680 --> 01:33:34,799
Speaker 2: just inside the door. He knows where I keep it. Instead,

1822
01:33:34,880 --> 01:33:37,760
Speaker 2: he literally took off to god knows where me and

1823
01:33:37,840 --> 01:33:41,840
Speaker 2: two children that I'm not even related to could have died.

1824
01:33:42,840 --> 01:33:44,880
Speaker 2: It might not even be relevant, but I don't even

1825
01:33:44,960 --> 01:33:48,120
Speaker 2: like kids. I'm staunchly child free, and he's the one

1826
01:33:48,120 --> 01:33:51,800
Speaker 2: that offered us up to babysit for the weekend. I

1827
01:33:51,800 --> 01:33:54,800
Speaker 2: don't know. Is this grounds for divorce? I'm not even

1828
01:33:54,840 --> 01:33:57,240
Speaker 2: sure I can look at him. Any attraction I had

1829
01:33:57,240 --> 01:33:59,559
Speaker 2: to him is pretty much gone. He tried to touch

1830
01:33:59,560 --> 01:34:02,479
Speaker 2: me yesterday just to move, just to move me so

1831
01:34:02,520 --> 01:34:04,840
Speaker 2: he could pass, and I smacked his hand away without

1832
01:34:04,880 --> 01:34:07,599
Speaker 2: even thinking about it, like he was some stranger at

1833
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:11,080
Speaker 2: a bar, because it was literally jarring. He's just been

1834
01:34:11,120 --> 01:34:14,200
Speaker 2: skulking around, trying to talk to me, then getting frustrated

1835
01:34:14,560 --> 01:34:17,719
Speaker 2: and skulking more. I wasn't expecting him to be macho

1836
01:34:17,800 --> 01:34:21,120
Speaker 2: and fistfight the freaking dog, but at least follow instruction,

1837
01:34:21,439 --> 01:34:23,400
Speaker 2: at least not leave me in a life and death

1838
01:34:23,400 --> 01:34:26,680
Speaker 2: situation with a toddler and an infant. Should I be

1839
01:34:26,720 --> 01:34:28,639
Speaker 2: able to chalk this up in the moment of panic

1840
01:34:28,680 --> 01:34:31,080
Speaker 2: to a moment of panic, I don't even know if

1841
01:34:31,160 --> 01:34:35,040
Speaker 2: I want to hear him out And there is an update?

1842
01:34:35,520 --> 01:34:38,439
Speaker 1: Yup, guys, go vote lurkers. We need you, We need you.

1843
01:34:38,880 --> 01:34:41,760
Speaker 3: Yeah one for divorce, Type one for divorce, type two

1844
01:34:41,920 --> 01:34:43,920
Speaker 3: for not You can also in Facebook.

1845
01:34:44,160 --> 01:34:47,519
Speaker 2: I would divorce. This is yeah, this is wilds wild.

1846
01:34:47,720 --> 01:34:48,439
Speaker 1: You would divorce?

1847
01:34:48,520 --> 01:34:53,320
Speaker 2: I would divorce? Yeah? If that I don't know if

1848
01:34:53,360 --> 01:34:55,840
Speaker 2: that's I think that's If that's your reaction.

1849
01:34:56,360 --> 01:34:57,679
Speaker 1: Your flight or fight reaction.

1850
01:34:57,960 --> 01:35:03,639
Speaker 2: I don't know. I just can't imagine away because I've

1851
01:35:03,680 --> 01:35:07,080
Speaker 2: been in like definitely less extreme scenarios where I've had

1852
01:35:07,120 --> 01:35:09,920
Speaker 2: to like protect a child from something, and I've always

1853
01:35:09,960 --> 01:35:13,080
Speaker 2: done that, like I've always you know, like I remember

1854
01:35:13,439 --> 01:35:16,000
Speaker 2: I was like I think I was sixteen, and I

1855
01:35:16,120 --> 01:35:18,120
Speaker 2: was looking after some family friends kids and we were

1856
01:35:18,120 --> 01:35:20,519
Speaker 2: in the water and the water was like you got

1857
01:35:20,560 --> 01:35:22,600
Speaker 2: super rough yea, And I remember I had to like

1858
01:35:22,640 --> 01:35:24,519
Speaker 2: literally lift them out of the water while I was

1859
01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:27,200
Speaker 2: being battered in the way. It's because I feel like

1860
01:35:27,240 --> 01:35:29,960
Speaker 2: you have I don't know, even if it's not like

1861
01:35:30,320 --> 01:35:32,800
Speaker 2: I don't know, even if it's not directly like I'm

1862
01:35:32,800 --> 01:35:34,800
Speaker 2: gonna help this person, I'm gonna kick the dog, I'm

1863
01:35:34,840 --> 01:35:37,719
Speaker 2: gonna get in the way. It shouldn't be run away

1864
01:35:37,960 --> 01:35:38,360
Speaker 2: mm hmm.

1865
01:35:38,880 --> 01:35:41,200
Speaker 1: And yeah, and it's like, uh, they need to be

1866
01:35:41,240 --> 01:35:41,639
Speaker 1: there to.

1867
01:35:41,600 --> 01:35:45,880
Speaker 2: Protect, especially especially if you've offered up to take care

1868
01:35:45,880 --> 01:35:48,960
Speaker 2: of a child. Yeah, Like it's one thing for it

1869
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:50,920
Speaker 2: to be a random child that you're like, oh my god,

1870
01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:53,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna go help them. It's another thing for you

1871
01:35:54,040 --> 01:35:58,120
Speaker 2: to offer up babysitting and then not do the dog

1872
01:35:58,280 --> 01:36:01,479
Speaker 2: gotta go. Yeah, like like that's why you're being That's

1873
01:36:01,479 --> 01:36:04,120
Speaker 2: why you're a babysitter. You're supposed to be protecting them.

1874
01:36:04,520 --> 01:36:08,600
Speaker 3: Dude, And the chat or the poll is crazy. This

1875
01:36:08,720 --> 01:36:10,600
Speaker 3: is basically unanimous.

1876
01:36:10,960 --> 01:36:15,679
Speaker 2: Jazzy says, But some people are afraid of dogs, are scared,

1877
01:36:15,680 --> 01:36:20,400
Speaker 2: are genuinely scared of dogs? I absolutely absolutely. But who

1878
01:36:20,479 --> 01:36:21,919
Speaker 2: wouldn't be scared in this situation?

1879
01:36:22,160 --> 01:36:23,799
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like everyone?

1880
01:36:23,960 --> 01:36:25,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, who wouldn't be? I don't know.

1881
01:36:25,920 --> 01:36:28,800
Speaker 3: I will say if it was a huge tarantula or

1882
01:36:28,920 --> 01:36:33,759
Speaker 3: like camel spider, I would have a really hard time

1883
01:36:34,160 --> 01:36:37,559
Speaker 3: like being like, hey, I got you.

1884
01:36:38,160 --> 01:36:41,759
Speaker 2: I I just think it's different. I think her point,

1885
01:36:42,200 --> 01:36:45,360
Speaker 2: which I am, I think of a four of he

1886
01:36:45,400 --> 01:36:48,080
Speaker 2: didn't have to jump in harm's way. But the fact

1887
01:36:48,120 --> 01:36:49,840
Speaker 2: that he didn't even try and go get the bear

1888
01:36:49,960 --> 01:36:54,799
Speaker 2: spray or I immediately left the door on them, close

1889
01:36:54,920 --> 01:37:01,000
Speaker 2: the door on them, that is wild. Yeah. Yeah, but

1890
01:37:01,760 --> 01:37:03,759
Speaker 2: let's keep getting into this update.

1891
01:37:04,000 --> 01:37:08,320
Speaker 3: Also, we are at another thirty minutes because of some donations.

1892
01:37:08,720 --> 01:37:10,040
Speaker 1: We'll read after this story.

1893
01:37:10,120 --> 01:37:13,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, this one's almost done. Update. My friend said that

1894
01:37:13,600 --> 01:37:16,679
Speaker 2: people update often, but I don't know how to attach

1895
01:37:16,720 --> 01:37:20,240
Speaker 2: it to the other post. Blah blah blah for everyone

1896
01:37:20,280 --> 01:37:23,000
Speaker 2: worried about my mental health. I did get it in

1897
01:37:23,080 --> 01:37:26,120
Speaker 2: through an app with my work yesterday because I decided

1898
01:37:26,160 --> 01:37:29,360
Speaker 2: I really needed it and labeled it high priority. However,

1899
01:37:29,439 --> 01:37:31,880
Speaker 2: it felt like it was just a parliamentary meeting, and

1900
01:37:31,920 --> 01:37:33,880
Speaker 2: she said she wanted to get me to feeling a

1901
01:37:33,880 --> 01:37:38,160
Speaker 2: bit more comfortable because I was visibly tensing up whenever

1902
01:37:38,200 --> 01:37:40,439
Speaker 2: I started talking about it, and she even noticed it

1903
01:37:40,439 --> 01:37:43,280
Speaker 2: through the video chat last night. Also, I told my

1904
01:37:43,360 --> 01:37:46,920
Speaker 2: husband I needed space. I oh, last night. I told

1905
01:37:46,920 --> 01:37:49,920
Speaker 2: my husband I needed space. I apologize that I don't

1906
01:37:49,960 --> 01:37:52,479
Speaker 2: have any more of an update on our relationship than

1907
01:37:52,479 --> 01:37:54,880
Speaker 2: that I wasn't as nice as I wanted to be.

1908
01:37:55,320 --> 01:37:58,000
Speaker 2: He argued and didn't want to leave. It's my house,

1909
01:37:58,520 --> 01:38:00,000
Speaker 2: but I told him I just didn't want to look

1910
01:38:00,040 --> 01:38:03,040
Speaker 2: at him, that I couldn't look at him. He cried,

1911
01:38:03,160 --> 01:38:05,920
Speaker 2: and I hated that I felt apathetic towards it. I

1912
01:38:05,960 --> 01:38:09,240
Speaker 2: haven't slept well, so I'm not sure. I'm also just

1913
01:38:09,320 --> 01:38:13,920
Speaker 2: overtired and still so shaken. I was also emotionally exhausted

1914
01:38:13,960 --> 01:38:16,200
Speaker 2: after that appointment, so that might have added to it.

1915
01:38:16,880 --> 01:38:19,280
Speaker 2: I got a few questions about his sister and her husband,

1916
01:38:19,280 --> 01:38:22,280
Speaker 2: so I thought i'd answer they aren't speaking to him.

1917
01:38:22,720 --> 01:38:26,400
Speaker 1: Wow, wow day.

1918
01:38:26,920 --> 01:38:29,000
Speaker 2: I don't know when it happened. I was definitely out

1919
01:38:29,000 --> 01:38:30,559
Speaker 2: of it at the hospital while I was getting the

1920
01:38:30,560 --> 01:38:33,439
Speaker 2: stitches and everything. But I do think after I was

1921
01:38:33,479 --> 01:38:36,839
Speaker 2: done blubbering and trying to explain how something so terrible

1922
01:38:36,920 --> 01:38:40,440
Speaker 2: happened to their little girl under our watch, they apparently

1923
01:38:40,479 --> 01:38:43,439
Speaker 2: asked him where he was. I still haven't talked to

1924
01:38:43,479 --> 01:38:46,879
Speaker 2: him about where we went, so I don't know. However,

1925
01:38:47,000 --> 01:38:51,120
Speaker 2: it clearly didn't satisfy them. His niece just got out

1926
01:38:51,120 --> 01:38:53,760
Speaker 2: of the hospital yesterday, so that really triggered everything, and

1927
01:38:53,800 --> 01:38:56,759
Speaker 2: a lot happened. I had sent flowers and a bear

1928
01:38:56,880 --> 01:38:59,240
Speaker 2: and this one toy thing she's been asking about. I

1929
01:38:59,280 --> 01:39:01,360
Speaker 2: didn't go to the Hut hospital though I was scared

1930
01:39:01,439 --> 01:39:04,479
Speaker 2: seeing I was scared that seeing me would make her nervous.

1931
01:39:04,920 --> 01:39:07,000
Speaker 2: But his sister and her husband sent me flowers too,

1932
01:39:07,160 --> 01:39:10,519
Speaker 2: and it made me ball again. I'm just a frickin' mess, honestly.

1933
01:39:11,160 --> 01:39:13,160
Speaker 2: The father sent me a long message that I haven't

1934
01:39:13,200 --> 01:39:15,439
Speaker 2: been able to get through, but it's the sweetest thing

1935
01:39:15,560 --> 01:39:18,200
Speaker 2: anyone has ever sent to me. He also sent me

1936
01:39:18,240 --> 01:39:22,679
Speaker 2: a one K Visa card. Wow my gosh, Wow Wow.

1937
01:39:23,040 --> 01:39:26,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, that's so generous. But also I

1938
01:39:26,400 --> 01:39:29,800
Speaker 2: understand the thing of like you saved my kids. Yeah,

1939
01:39:30,000 --> 01:39:31,759
Speaker 2: like they they might have been killed.

1940
01:39:32,000 --> 01:39:32,200
Speaker 1: Ooh.

1941
01:39:34,400 --> 01:39:36,840
Speaker 2: I literally thought I was reading the amount wrong. There

1942
01:39:36,840 --> 01:39:39,360
Speaker 2: are good people, and I still feel terrible I couldn't

1943
01:39:39,400 --> 01:39:41,880
Speaker 2: have done more for her. Everything is just for playing

1944
01:39:41,920 --> 01:39:45,599
Speaker 2: in my head anyway. I obviously haven't looked into filing yet,

1945
01:39:45,720 --> 01:39:47,880
Speaker 2: but I'm not against the idea of it, and it

1946
01:39:47,920 --> 01:39:50,080
Speaker 2: really did help me feel better about wanting a divorce

1947
01:39:50,120 --> 01:39:53,200
Speaker 2: over this. I know fight or flight can't be helped,

1948
01:39:53,280 --> 01:39:55,479
Speaker 2: but now I think I realized that it's okay not

1949
01:39:55,640 --> 01:39:59,080
Speaker 2: to want to be with someone who would leave you behind. Yeah,

1950
01:39:59,280 --> 01:40:01,080
Speaker 2: I think I can say I'm a fighter and I

1951
01:40:01,120 --> 01:40:04,120
Speaker 2: want a fighter with me. Maybe he'd be better off

1952
01:40:04,120 --> 01:40:07,080
Speaker 2: with a runner instead too. Then at least he wouldn't

1953
01:40:07,080 --> 01:40:08,120
Speaker 2: be leaving someone behind.

1954
01:40:08,200 --> 01:40:08,639
Speaker 1: Dude.

1955
01:40:08,920 --> 01:40:11,240
Speaker 3: If I was him, yeah, I was just kept running.

1956
01:40:11,280 --> 01:40:12,880
Speaker 3: I would have never shown my face again.

1957
01:40:12,960 --> 01:40:14,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can't come back. You can't come back.

1958
01:40:14,760 --> 01:40:19,840
Speaker 3: That is crazy. And uh, the kid's parents are pretty

1959
01:40:19,920 --> 01:40:23,240
Speaker 3: upset with him too. And I saw a comment earlier

1960
01:40:23,240 --> 01:40:26,160
Speaker 3: that was like, wait did he he argued? Wait here

1961
01:40:26,200 --> 01:40:29,760
Speaker 3: does Charlie does wait? He argued, no apology.

1962
01:40:30,320 --> 01:40:33,479
Speaker 2: It seems like he was kind of groveling a little bit.

1963
01:40:33,960 --> 01:40:35,880
Speaker 2: And then when she was well, when she was giving

1964
01:40:35,920 --> 01:40:38,120
Speaker 2: the win, op was giving the silent treatment, he was

1965
01:40:38,160 --> 01:40:40,760
Speaker 2: like annoyed about it. That's what it seems like.

1966
01:40:41,080 --> 01:40:42,280
Speaker 1: Oh my god.

1967
01:40:42,720 --> 01:40:45,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't seem like there's really any accountability going

1968
01:40:45,840 --> 01:40:53,400
Speaker 2: on here. Ooh did you do it? Was? I? I

1969
01:40:53,439 --> 01:40:55,719
Speaker 2: don't know. It feels like I'm done, but I also

1970
01:40:55,880 --> 01:40:57,960
Speaker 2: am just a mess. So right now, I'm just glad

1971
01:40:58,000 --> 01:41:00,559
Speaker 2: I have space. Thank you for everyone one making me

1972
01:41:00,600 --> 01:41:03,040
Speaker 2: feel like I wasn't being ridiculous, though. I think it

1973
01:41:03,120 --> 01:41:05,760
Speaker 2: always feels like it should be multiple issues that tear

1974
01:41:05,760 --> 01:41:09,400
Speaker 2: a marriage apart, unless it's infidelity or something. And it's like,

1975
01:41:09,439 --> 01:41:11,400
Speaker 2: I know he may not have meant to betray me,

1976
01:41:11,560 --> 01:41:15,240
Speaker 2: but he still did whatever is reasoning. Not sure when

1977
01:41:15,240 --> 01:41:17,960
Speaker 2: I'll be speaking to him, but I will try to update.

1978
01:41:18,760 --> 01:41:21,000
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I'm gonna see there's an update.

1979
01:41:21,240 --> 01:41:22,320
Speaker 2: Yeah I did find this.

1980
01:41:22,520 --> 01:41:25,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, ah.

1981
01:41:24,920 --> 01:41:26,759
Speaker 2: Unfortunately, well I found the update today.

1982
01:41:27,040 --> 01:41:32,280
Speaker 3: Oh you found the update today, yeah, Amory did, says,

1983
01:41:32,280 --> 01:41:35,080
Speaker 3: did Opie mentioned how the dog got into their backyard?

1984
01:41:35,360 --> 01:41:38,599
Speaker 2: No, I think we know that the the backyard gate

1985
01:41:38,760 --> 01:41:41,559
Speaker 2: was open, but we don't know where the dog came from,

1986
01:41:42,439 --> 01:41:46,400
Speaker 2: which is which is really I really don't like when

1987
01:41:46,760 --> 01:41:50,519
Speaker 2: dog owners are not you know, training their dogs well,

1988
01:41:50,640 --> 01:41:53,800
Speaker 2: especially pit bulls, because pit bulls get such a bad

1989
01:41:53,960 --> 01:41:56,839
Speaker 2: rap because of their owners. Pipules can be very sweet

1990
01:41:56,840 --> 01:41:59,880
Speaker 2: dogs and they get such bad raps because people are

1991
01:42:00,160 --> 01:42:01,760
Speaker 2: terrible dog owners.

1992
01:42:02,520 --> 01:42:06,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's true. My dog Gracie is part and whiney

1993
01:42:06,600 --> 01:42:07,599
Speaker 1: mur and she's very sweet.

1994
01:42:07,680 --> 01:42:07,880
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1995
01:42:07,920 --> 01:42:11,479
Speaker 2: No, piples can be very very sweet animals. And yeah,

1996
01:42:11,640 --> 01:42:14,320
Speaker 2: it's literally just it's on the owner. If you have

1997
01:42:14,360 --> 01:42:18,360
Speaker 2: a dog that has a strong job and big teeth,

1998
01:42:18,400 --> 01:42:23,800
Speaker 2: you gotta you gotta train it right. And Jess m says,

1999
01:42:23,800 --> 01:42:25,720
Speaker 2: part of why I got I'd get married is to

2000
01:42:25,720 --> 01:42:28,639
Speaker 2: have a husband who'd protect him protect me and I'd

2001
01:42:28,640 --> 01:42:29,200
Speaker 2: protect him.

2002
01:42:29,720 --> 01:42:29,920
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2003
01:42:29,920 --> 01:42:32,320
Speaker 2: I think I think there is for a lot of people,

2004
01:42:32,360 --> 01:42:37,240
Speaker 2: there is that desire for protection on to be kind

2005
01:42:37,280 --> 01:42:40,559
Speaker 2: of a mutual thing and and for her to see

2006
01:42:40,640 --> 01:42:45,000
Speaker 2: firsthand that he would not, you know, go to back

2007
01:42:45,080 --> 01:42:46,360
Speaker 2: for her as she was in danger.

2008
01:42:47,320 --> 01:42:49,360
Speaker 3: Is there like a test we can do to like,

2009
01:42:50,600 --> 01:42:54,880
Speaker 3: I don't know, see if a guy would protect someone

2010
01:42:54,960 --> 01:42:59,559
Speaker 3: or not, Like here we go classic, Hey, I call John, Hey,

2011
01:42:59,600 --> 01:43:02,720
Speaker 3: John to go on a date this Friday. H be

2012
01:43:03,120 --> 01:43:06,760
Speaker 3: a thug and try to rob me and I beat

2013
01:43:06,800 --> 01:43:11,280
Speaker 3: you up kind of thing. But the girl calls like, uh,

2014
01:43:11,320 --> 01:43:13,000
Speaker 3: my girlfriend would call John to be like, hey John,

2015
01:43:13,040 --> 01:43:14,280
Speaker 3: try to beat up my boyfriend.

2016
01:43:14,520 --> 01:43:15,280
Speaker 1: See what he would do.

2017
01:43:16,479 --> 01:43:19,240
Speaker 3: Do you think that people should go through some kind

2018
01:43:19,280 --> 01:43:22,360
Speaker 3: of version of that, either that be a dog, a person,

2019
01:43:23,439 --> 01:43:26,360
Speaker 3: or like we know, like to see, like I want

2020
01:43:26,400 --> 01:43:29,320
Speaker 3: someone that can protect me. I need a test just

2021
01:43:29,360 --> 01:43:32,160
Speaker 3: to make sure so that this doesn't happen.

2022
01:43:32,400 --> 01:43:34,639
Speaker 2: I think, I mean, I think you find that out

2023
01:43:34,680 --> 01:43:36,600
Speaker 2: in simpler means how, I don't know.

2024
01:43:36,640 --> 01:43:39,240
Speaker 3: I think it's like a bug's attacking you and they

2025
01:43:39,240 --> 01:43:40,200
Speaker 3: don't swat it away.

2026
01:43:40,680 --> 01:43:44,439
Speaker 2: Maybe maybe there is that a protector. Maybe it's like

2027
01:43:44,479 --> 01:43:46,479
Speaker 2: someone makes a comment and they stand up for you.

2028
01:43:46,520 --> 01:43:46,960
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2029
01:43:47,160 --> 01:43:48,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, here we go him.

2030
01:43:48,560 --> 01:43:50,760
Speaker 3: Ray Raley was just thinking the same thing, to test

2031
01:43:50,880 --> 01:43:54,080
Speaker 3: if they are a fight or flight kind of partner

2032
01:43:54,240 --> 01:43:56,160
Speaker 3: or freeze if you have a freeze.

2033
01:43:55,840 --> 01:43:57,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, dutchess, because says no testing Riley.

2034
01:43:58,120 --> 01:44:02,920
Speaker 3: That's terrible, But like which one's terrible? A niece getting

2035
01:44:02,960 --> 01:44:04,640
Speaker 3: her or a little test?

2036
01:44:05,080 --> 01:44:06,240
Speaker 1: Which one? You tell me?

2037
01:44:06,479 --> 01:44:09,640
Speaker 2: Fun villainous? Mc says pities are one of the most

2038
01:44:09,680 --> 01:44:12,160
Speaker 2: affectionate dogs in the world. Training is the real problem.

2039
01:44:12,240 --> 01:44:15,719
Speaker 2: People train them to be aggressive. Completely agree, completely agree,

2040
01:44:17,160 --> 01:44:19,000
Speaker 2: But that is the end of that story.

2041
01:44:19,080 --> 01:44:20,800
Speaker 1: He didn't answer my question. What kind of test would

2042
01:44:20,800 --> 01:44:21,040
Speaker 1: you need?

2043
01:44:21,120 --> 01:44:23,599
Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't have an answer, you.

2044
01:44:23,520 --> 01:44:25,000
Speaker 1: Know, have a give me one, give me something.

2045
01:44:25,040 --> 01:44:25,559
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2046
01:44:26,000 --> 01:44:29,320
Speaker 3: Let's say you're out with someone and you need at

2047
01:44:29,439 --> 01:44:30,639
Speaker 3: some sort of test.

2048
01:44:31,280 --> 01:44:33,000
Speaker 1: What would it be? The bug test?

2049
01:44:33,240 --> 01:44:36,360
Speaker 2: Sure? Sure, the bug test. If they don't swat the

2050
01:44:36,360 --> 01:44:37,200
Speaker 2: bug away from me.

2051
01:44:37,400 --> 01:44:38,880
Speaker 1: Then you know that I know it.

2052
01:44:39,360 --> 01:44:39,920
Speaker 2: Not it's over.

2053
01:44:39,920 --> 01:44:41,439
Speaker 1: It's not gonna work out, it's over.

2054
01:44:42,479 --> 01:44:46,599
Speaker 2: See. My mine is I will always take a spider

2055
01:44:46,640 --> 01:44:48,320
Speaker 2: out for anyone.

2056
01:44:49,800 --> 01:44:52,080
Speaker 3: I had a big spider in my room. My thing

2057
01:44:52,120 --> 01:44:54,599
Speaker 3: with bugs is if they're in my area, they're done.

2058
01:44:54,680 --> 01:44:56,280
Speaker 3: But if I'm in their area, they're fine.

2059
01:44:56,880 --> 01:45:01,960
Speaker 2: See, I'm only as long as it's like I don't know.

2060
01:45:02,040 --> 01:45:04,479
Speaker 2: If it's a spider, I will take it outside. If

2061
01:45:04,520 --> 01:45:05,720
Speaker 2: it's an ant, I'll murder it.

2062
01:45:07,000 --> 01:45:07,679
Speaker 1: You hate sants?

2063
01:45:08,439 --> 01:45:10,880
Speaker 2: Three ants in my bathroom this morning? Oh there was

2064
01:45:11,040 --> 01:45:13,280
Speaker 2: there was so many. And I actually it was kind

2065
01:45:13,280 --> 01:45:15,519
Speaker 2: of the perfect place for them to be because I

2066
01:45:15,800 --> 01:45:18,000
Speaker 2: not to sound mean, but I did just drown them

2067
01:45:18,000 --> 01:45:20,120
Speaker 2: with my my with the.

2068
01:45:20,360 --> 01:45:22,320
Speaker 3: I sometimes see ants in my bathroom, but I just

2069
01:45:22,360 --> 01:45:24,759
Speaker 3: kind of a little a vibe like there's though.

2070
01:45:24,600 --> 01:45:27,320
Speaker 2: They were like it was like because so I had

2071
01:45:27,320 --> 01:45:30,559
Speaker 2: this shower scrub that I guess might smell sweet, and

2072
01:45:30,600 --> 01:45:32,320
Speaker 2: so they were. They didn't get in it, but they

2073
01:45:32,320 --> 01:45:39,040
Speaker 2: were crowded around it. Yeah. So I but I let

2074
01:45:39,120 --> 01:45:40,040
Speaker 2: all spiders live.

2075
01:45:40,479 --> 01:45:42,200
Speaker 1: Oh, we got some donuts here, okay.

2076
01:45:42,360 --> 01:45:44,760
Speaker 2: Matt Hattergall, thank you for the ten bucks. Sorry guys

2077
01:45:44,760 --> 01:45:46,840
Speaker 2: for not sending you the goodies I'm making for you all.

2078
01:45:47,120 --> 01:45:50,080
Speaker 2: I've been extremely busy with an upcoming event which I

2079
01:45:50,120 --> 01:45:51,800
Speaker 2: think you all would like to go to. I will

2080
01:45:51,800 --> 01:45:56,000
Speaker 2: be sending it very soon, very exciting. Is this were

2081
01:45:56,040 --> 01:46:00,559
Speaker 2: you the one talking about the masquerade or is that

2082
01:46:00,600 --> 01:46:03,800
Speaker 2: another person? Let me know. I want to know what event.

2083
01:46:04,320 --> 01:46:08,719
Speaker 2: And Frederick Locknick, thank you for the ten gifted Oh

2084
01:46:08,840 --> 01:46:12,360
Speaker 2: memberships you were You were just the giver that keeps

2085
01:46:12,360 --> 01:46:16,680
Speaker 2: on giving. And Groovy Hippie Chick. Groovy Hippie Chick, thank

2086
01:46:16,680 --> 01:46:19,840
Speaker 2: you for the ten gifted memberships as well. We love

2087
01:46:19,880 --> 01:46:22,760
Speaker 2: you all and all of our any members. Seth Rush,

2088
01:46:22,800 --> 01:46:25,800
Speaker 2: thank you for the five bucks. All ail the wimme queen,

2089
01:46:25,920 --> 01:46:26,439
Speaker 2: I love you.

2090
01:46:27,520 --> 01:46:28,880
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, we got some more.

2091
01:46:29,240 --> 01:46:31,599
Speaker 3: Yeah, and those those donors did get us to another

2092
01:46:31,840 --> 01:46:34,120
Speaker 3: thirty minutes and we have some more donos here.

2093
01:46:34,400 --> 01:46:34,960
Speaker 2: Whoo.

2094
01:46:35,200 --> 01:46:35,400
Speaker 5: M J.

2095
01:46:35,680 --> 01:46:38,840
Speaker 2: Row Oh and Frederick Locknick, thank you again for the

2096
01:46:38,920 --> 01:46:43,360
Speaker 2: twenty gifted memberships. Jeez, Louise and MJ. Grow thank you

2097
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:46,559
Speaker 2: for the twenty five buck tip. Hi everyone, John, there's

2098
01:46:46,560 --> 01:46:48,640
Speaker 2: gonna be a little birthday gift for you. Arrive and

2099
01:46:48,720 --> 01:46:50,920
Speaker 2: she oh, well, let him know once he gets back

2100
01:46:50,960 --> 01:46:51,240
Speaker 2: in here.

2101
01:46:51,560 --> 01:46:52,080
Speaker 1: Birthday.

2102
01:46:52,240 --> 01:46:55,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, he texted me, he said, here, I'll searn you.

2103
01:46:55,160 --> 01:46:57,839
Speaker 3: His text he said, be back in five. Sorry'm completely

2104
01:46:57,920 --> 01:47:03,160
Speaker 3: zoning out. L well, poor guy pool Joe. He's just heard.

2105
01:47:03,040 --> 01:47:06,920
Speaker 2: Something I don't know. I thought it was a ring.

2106
01:47:06,960 --> 01:47:08,960
Speaker 2: But we don't have a door balls.

2107
01:47:09,840 --> 01:47:11,040
Speaker 1: M any who?

2108
01:47:11,520 --> 01:47:12,200
Speaker 2: Any who?

2109
01:47:12,360 --> 01:47:14,000
Speaker 1: We have a spin will a will spin.

2110
01:47:14,320 --> 01:47:15,599
Speaker 2: Let's spin that wheel?

2111
01:47:16,040 --> 01:47:16,639
Speaker 1: Any John?

2112
01:47:16,720 --> 01:47:20,280
Speaker 3: Here for it? Let's see, let's see, here we go,

2113
01:47:21,280 --> 01:47:23,679
Speaker 3: here's the here is the will we need to spind

2114
01:47:24,200 --> 01:47:26,720
Speaker 3: Ooh oh, Aussie ausy.

2115
01:47:26,400 --> 01:47:29,800
Speaker 2: Girl in our shop. Thank you for the five gifted memberships.

2116
01:47:29,880 --> 01:47:30,559
Speaker 2: We appreciate you.

2117
01:47:31,000 --> 01:47:33,320
Speaker 3: Oh all right, here we go, here we go, and

2118
01:47:33,479 --> 01:47:39,679
Speaker 3: that will whe and I didn't rig it this time.

2119
01:47:39,840 --> 01:47:40,720
Speaker 1: Any Jeopardy.

2120
01:47:41,160 --> 01:47:44,759
Speaker 3: I guess what, Sophia, Yeah, we actually have jeopardy.

2121
01:47:44,800 --> 01:47:48,519
Speaker 2: Oh my god. Yes, I just found out recently. My

2122
01:47:48,600 --> 01:47:50,560
Speaker 2: friend texted me that I was in kind of a

2123
01:47:50,640 --> 01:47:53,840
Speaker 2: Jeopardy thing with Sam, a big con. Oh yeah, yeah,

2124
01:47:53,920 --> 01:47:55,559
Speaker 2: both Reddy and I were actually where.

2125
01:47:55,400 --> 01:47:56,760
Speaker 1: We were gonna find it.

2126
01:47:57,120 --> 01:47:59,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, the one with Sam and guys. I was looking

2127
01:47:59,520 --> 01:48:01,439
Speaker 2: at Sam. It got a lot of views, and I

2128
01:48:01,520 --> 01:48:03,960
Speaker 2: was it was very strange to like see myself not

2129
01:48:04,200 --> 01:48:08,040
Speaker 2: on an okay storytime thing, and also to be sent it.

2130
01:48:08,240 --> 01:48:12,800
Speaker 2: I was like, whoa, Yeah, I did not do too hot,

2131
01:48:12,840 --> 01:48:18,639
Speaker 2: but it's fine. Yeah, I just can't think that much.

2132
01:48:18,760 --> 01:48:21,160
Speaker 2: I mean, I know I do improv, but in terms

2133
01:48:21,240 --> 01:48:24,759
Speaker 2: of getting asked questions, if they're not in my niche

2134
01:48:25,360 --> 01:48:28,439
Speaker 2: you know, niche wheelhouse, I can't answer them off the top,

2135
01:48:28,640 --> 01:48:31,040
Speaker 2: like I need a second. And when I was when

2136
01:48:31,080 --> 01:48:33,479
Speaker 2: you're up against Sam, it's sounds pretty.

2137
01:48:33,520 --> 01:48:35,360
Speaker 1: He's quick. He's very quick.

2138
01:48:35,479 --> 01:48:37,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, especially with math. I'm not quick with math.

2139
01:48:38,240 --> 01:48:39,120
Speaker 1: Not quick with math.

2140
01:48:39,200 --> 01:48:41,679
Speaker 2: Now I'm not. I don't know if I've never been

2141
01:48:41,800 --> 01:48:43,880
Speaker 2: I don't think I've ever been good at It's funny

2142
01:48:43,880 --> 01:48:46,559
Speaker 2: because when I was younger, I was actually not very

2143
01:48:46,560 --> 01:48:48,840
Speaker 2: good at math, like when we were doing addition and

2144
01:48:48,880 --> 01:48:51,400
Speaker 2: stuff and learning all that. But then the second that

2145
01:48:51,520 --> 01:48:54,439
Speaker 2: we got to more advanced math, I became really good

2146
01:48:54,479 --> 01:48:56,120
Speaker 2: at math. So I think I'm just not good at

2147
01:48:56,360 --> 01:48:59,000
Speaker 2: like doing math in my head.

2148
01:48:59,200 --> 01:49:02,200
Speaker 1: Oh I see, yeah, he did ask some Mine was

2149
01:49:03,120 --> 01:49:03,639
Speaker 1: all right here.

2150
01:49:03,680 --> 01:49:10,800
Speaker 2: Here it is, there we are, that's me and that's

2151
01:49:10,800 --> 01:49:13,960
Speaker 2: my My mom made that whole outfit. Shout out my.

2152
01:49:13,920 --> 01:49:16,439
Speaker 1: Mom, brother versus sister?

2153
01:49:16,680 --> 01:49:19,000
Speaker 5: In what war did the United States fight itself?

2154
01:49:19,840 --> 01:49:20,240
Speaker 2: So far?

2155
01:49:20,640 --> 01:49:21,320
Speaker 1: She got it first.

2156
01:49:23,320 --> 01:49:26,840
Speaker 5: Okay, I got to name a country that borders Spain

2157
01:49:29,120 --> 01:49:32,799
Speaker 5: Italy is not correct anyways. What is the main function

2158
01:49:32,920 --> 01:49:35,560
Speaker 5: of a computer's hard drives?

2159
01:49:36,000 --> 01:49:36,719
Speaker 1: He got it first.

2160
01:49:38,160 --> 01:49:42,160
Speaker 5: What rock band had hits like Bohemian Rhapsody, He got

2161
01:49:42,200 --> 01:49:46,479
Speaker 5: it first. Name an Oregon that starts with the letter H.

2162
01:49:47,280 --> 01:49:48,000
Speaker 1: That was quick.

2163
01:49:49,400 --> 01:49:57,600
Speaker 5: What type of joint is the hip joint?

2164
01:49:58,160 --> 01:50:01,439
Speaker 1: You're gonna skip it, locational ball and socket? All right?

2165
01:50:01,479 --> 01:50:03,439
Speaker 5: What is three times three times three twenty?

2166
01:50:04,360 --> 01:50:05,080
Speaker 1: That was really quick.

2167
01:50:06,080 --> 01:50:11,360
Speaker 5: What is the most populated city in Germany Berlin Nice

2168
01:50:11,560 --> 01:50:13,920
Speaker 5: in the top ten list of countries by population. What

2169
01:50:14,000 --> 01:50:16,680
Speaker 5: country starts with the letter you know?

2170
01:50:17,240 --> 01:50:18,519
Speaker 1: They're gonna hate me when I say the.

2171
01:50:18,479 --> 01:50:22,519
Speaker 2: Answer why I can't.

2172
01:50:23,320 --> 01:50:26,720
Speaker 1: Brothers, sister and what wroar did these? I could have

2173
01:50:26,720 --> 01:50:31,360
Speaker 1: gone the flag of r It doesn't mine was mom

2174
01:50:31,479 --> 01:50:35,200
Speaker 1: was so bad? Russia is white, blue and water college. Yeah,

2175
01:50:35,280 --> 01:50:37,920
Speaker 1: so you take a stop. What you gotta say it quick?

2176
01:50:38,040 --> 01:50:41,719
Speaker 1: Just hurt that question. Who was the first female vice president?

2177
01:50:42,680 --> 01:50:46,640
Speaker 1: Hillary Clinton? Who's the one we have now? Oh? My Harris?

2178
01:50:46,960 --> 01:50:50,200
Speaker 5: Yes, forgot her name? Had her first name? Love that

2179
01:50:50,560 --> 01:50:51,439
Speaker 5: Raisins are made of?

2180
01:50:51,439 --> 01:50:51,920
Speaker 2: What fruit?

2181
01:50:52,080 --> 01:50:52,360
Speaker 1: Grape?

2182
01:50:55,160 --> 01:50:57,160
Speaker 5: What do you call animals without a backbone?

2183
01:50:57,720 --> 01:50:58,200
Speaker 1: A shark?

2184
01:50:58,320 --> 01:51:11,640
Speaker 6: No, no backbone and it's fineless, sinless, fineless, no amphibious, ambidextrius, invertebrate, invertebrate?

2185
01:51:12,200 --> 01:51:14,840
Speaker 5: What insect can carry diseases like malaria and zeka?

2186
01:51:15,160 --> 01:51:15,360
Speaker 2: You know?

2187
01:51:16,320 --> 01:51:19,519
Speaker 3: You know what about the black plague?

2188
01:51:19,680 --> 01:51:24,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, they say the black What is the most popular

2189
01:51:24,200 --> 01:51:28,800
Speaker 5: spectator sport in Russia? Hockey?

2190
01:51:29,479 --> 01:51:33,120
Speaker 1: What great lake shares this name with the US state? Miss?

2191
01:51:33,240 --> 01:51:37,800
Speaker 2: You got it first, brother, dude.

2192
01:51:38,000 --> 01:51:40,439
Speaker 3: The freaking comments of mine were like the guy in

2193
01:51:40,439 --> 01:51:42,960
Speaker 3: the white is so annoying, and then the other ones

2194
01:51:42,960 --> 01:51:46,080
Speaker 3: were like, but the guy in the white has a personality, Like.

2195
01:51:47,760 --> 01:51:49,760
Speaker 1: I loved it I love hate comments. I like, I

2196
01:51:49,800 --> 01:51:50,360
Speaker 1: read all.

2197
01:51:50,200 --> 01:51:52,880
Speaker 3: The comments on YouTube every single day, and the ones

2198
01:51:52,880 --> 01:51:54,559
Speaker 3: that are mean, I kind of laugh because I'm like,

2199
01:51:54,800 --> 01:51:57,759
Speaker 3: you know what, it's it's a beautiful thing because someone

2200
01:51:57,800 --> 01:51:59,479
Speaker 3: had anger in their heart, had hate in their heart,

2201
01:51:59,479 --> 01:52:00,639
Speaker 3: and they let it out, you know what.

2202
01:52:00,680 --> 01:52:02,519
Speaker 2: I I was surprised. I was worried that we would

2203
01:52:02,520 --> 01:52:04,760
Speaker 2: get me in comments on Salmoni's video. But everyone was

2204
01:52:04,800 --> 01:52:05,320
Speaker 2: really nice.

2205
01:52:05,560 --> 01:52:08,599
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, there were these comments were alert.

2206
01:52:08,840 --> 01:52:14,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, justice for us. All the question seem easy,

2207
01:52:14,360 --> 01:52:16,280
Speaker 2: but when you're up there and you're trying to compete

2208
01:52:16,320 --> 01:52:21,160
Speaker 2: with someone else is difficult. It's difficult. John. Wait, we

2209
01:52:21,280 --> 01:52:22,000
Speaker 2: never did Jeopardy.

2210
01:52:22,040 --> 01:52:23,879
Speaker 1: Okay, John, do some jeopardy?

2211
01:52:24,200 --> 01:52:29,880
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, No, Jakes else says poor Riley, you're actually

2212
01:52:29,920 --> 01:52:34,479
Speaker 2: pretty flexible. All well, I I could do. I just

2213
01:52:34,560 --> 01:52:38,160
Speaker 2: was in a skirt and I think that, yeah, do

2214
01:52:38,200 --> 01:52:41,280
Speaker 2: it right now. I was like, Okay, I would actually

2215
01:52:41,320 --> 01:52:44,240
Speaker 2: have to warm up, because I did one time I

2216
01:52:44,280 --> 01:52:46,519
Speaker 2: did the splits in college and I actually pulled my

2217
01:52:46,560 --> 01:52:49,240
Speaker 2: hamstring and I couldn't bend my leg for a year

2218
01:52:49,280 --> 01:52:57,719
Speaker 2: and a half. But I could still do my left splits.

2219
01:52:58,520 --> 01:53:02,240
Speaker 1: My legs are sore because of Riley. Yep, we were

2220
01:53:02,240 --> 01:53:03,880
Speaker 1: working out together. We're working out together.

2221
01:53:05,360 --> 01:53:07,960
Speaker 3: Also, YouTube does have a delay. If you want to

2222
01:53:08,000 --> 01:53:12,240
Speaker 3: answer these questions quicker, go to Twitch or Facebook. If not,

2223
01:53:12,400 --> 01:53:14,320
Speaker 3: we're about to hit Jeopardy.

2224
01:53:14,880 --> 01:53:17,240
Speaker 1: There we go. So I made these common.

2225
01:53:18,040 --> 01:53:20,240
Speaker 3: Uh, there's only three columns because the last time we

2226
01:53:20,240 --> 01:53:21,599
Speaker 3: did five and it took a really long time.

2227
01:53:21,640 --> 01:53:24,160
Speaker 1: So we only have these columns. So here we go.

2228
01:53:25,439 --> 01:53:26,240
Speaker 1: That's there we go.

2229
01:53:27,840 --> 01:53:32,080
Speaker 3: Yep, common, common, common, common, common, These are all common questions.

2230
01:53:33,840 --> 01:53:43,439
Speaker 1: Sure, rock Hager, scissors, favorite, I go first. Let's do

2231
01:53:45,360 --> 01:53:49,240
Speaker 1: common common or common two for two hundred.

2232
01:53:49,120 --> 01:53:52,439
Speaker 3: Common two for two hundred. This country has won the

2233
01:53:52,479 --> 01:53:56,840
Speaker 3: most All right, No, no, go ahead?

2234
01:53:57,080 --> 01:54:02,799
Speaker 1: John? What is Vain? No? Go ahead?

2235
01:54:04,160 --> 01:54:05,160
Speaker 2: What is Argentine?

2236
01:54:05,560 --> 01:54:07,320
Speaker 1: Buzz? What is England?

2237
01:54:07,520 --> 01:54:07,600
Speaker 6: No?

2238
01:54:08,200 --> 01:54:08,599
Speaker 2: Buzz?

2239
01:54:09,360 --> 01:54:11,839
Speaker 1: Yep? Tricia D. What is Brazil?

2240
01:54:14,439 --> 01:54:14,839
Speaker 2: Brazil?

2241
01:54:16,479 --> 01:54:17,160
Speaker 1: That unfair?

2242
01:54:17,240 --> 01:54:22,160
Speaker 3: Chat is like, yeah, you guys have a twenty second

2243
01:54:22,240 --> 01:54:24,200
Speaker 3: Headilla was.

2244
01:54:24,160 --> 01:54:27,400
Speaker 2: Gonna be my my next guest. No, no, I don't.

2245
01:54:28,720 --> 01:54:28,840
Speaker 5: You know.

2246
01:54:29,000 --> 01:54:31,639
Speaker 2: I'm glad that I didn't say anything stupid. I feel

2247
01:54:31,640 --> 01:54:33,240
Speaker 2: like my answers were good.

2248
01:54:34,840 --> 01:54:36,520
Speaker 1: All right, that is up?

2249
01:54:37,960 --> 01:54:40,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, go ahead, common for three hundred.

2250
01:54:41,480 --> 01:54:43,040
Speaker 1: Oh big bucks.

2251
01:54:43,280 --> 01:54:46,720
Speaker 3: He served as the Archbishop of Roan in the nineteen

2252
01:54:46,800 --> 01:54:55,760
Speaker 3: six cracow Art. But go ahead, Archbishop Pizzaz, go ahead.

2253
01:54:56,280 --> 01:54:59,840
Speaker 1: Who is Pope Benedict? No, it would be the archb

2254
01:55:00,280 --> 01:55:01,560
Speaker 1: but I was I don't.

2255
01:55:01,360 --> 01:55:03,800
Speaker 2: Even know how it is Archbishop Peter.

2256
01:55:04,800 --> 01:55:08,800
Speaker 1: No, okay, this is I don't know. John. Paul's the

2257
01:55:09,040 --> 01:55:10,920
Speaker 1: second I forgot what it is?

2258
01:55:10,920 --> 01:55:13,840
Speaker 2: Actually one second, I have no idea.

2259
01:55:15,280 --> 01:55:19,480
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Tricia D. Again, Paul, John, they can't google. Yep,

2260
01:55:19,680 --> 01:55:22,480
Speaker 1: this is literally they can't. They don't have time to google.

2261
01:55:22,920 --> 01:55:25,000
Speaker 1: That is all right now, Tricia? Is that?

2262
01:55:26,720 --> 01:55:26,960
Speaker 6: Wow?

2263
01:55:27,040 --> 01:55:29,800
Speaker 1: Let's see you're like you give me.

2264
01:55:29,720 --> 01:55:30,879
Speaker 2: A because.

2265
01:55:33,120 --> 01:55:34,640
Speaker 1: It was like at one time, yeah, one.

2266
01:55:34,520 --> 01:55:36,040
Speaker 2: Time they archbishop another pope?

2267
01:55:36,160 --> 01:55:40,200
Speaker 1: All right, go ahead, John, h okay, let's go common

2268
01:55:40,280 --> 01:55:42,080
Speaker 1: three for one hundred. Let this is please.

2269
01:55:42,800 --> 01:55:48,080
Speaker 3: This percentage represents two as a portion of forty.

2270
01:55:49,560 --> 01:55:54,480
Speaker 1: Riley, Riley, how about you? You don't Riley? Answer it?

2271
01:55:54,520 --> 01:55:56,520
Speaker 1: This is you. I can't answer because I know it.

2272
01:55:56,400 --> 01:56:00,280
Speaker 2: To as a portion of forty. What is that mean?

2273
01:56:00,960 --> 01:56:02,320
Speaker 2: Buzz buzz? Go ahead?

2274
01:56:02,520 --> 01:56:03,320
Speaker 1: What is twenty?

2275
01:56:05,200 --> 01:56:06,080
Speaker 2: Uh? Buzz?

2276
01:56:06,400 --> 01:56:07,560
Speaker 1: I forget what the wait?

2277
01:56:07,680 --> 01:56:10,480
Speaker 2: Buzz is it? What can I say? What is eight percent?

2278
01:56:11,680 --> 01:56:12,880
Speaker 1: Nope? You all are wrong?

2279
01:56:13,400 --> 01:56:14,720
Speaker 2: Buzzletricia D.

2280
01:56:14,880 --> 01:56:18,000
Speaker 1: Is right. She's googling.

2281
01:56:18,480 --> 01:56:18,920
Speaker 2: Let's go.

2282
01:56:19,800 --> 01:56:23,880
Speaker 1: There's no way the google this, John, there's literally such

2283
01:56:23,880 --> 01:56:24,200
Speaker 1: a way.

2284
01:56:24,360 --> 01:56:24,880
Speaker 2: No.

2285
01:56:25,560 --> 01:56:28,640
Speaker 1: Do you know people's type? How speed? There's so there

2286
01:56:28,760 --> 01:56:30,640
Speaker 1: is no way.

2287
01:56:29,640 --> 01:56:35,080
Speaker 2: They absolutely a zero for zero right now at least

2288
01:56:35,520 --> 01:56:36,680
Speaker 2: common for four hundred.

2289
01:56:38,480 --> 01:56:39,600
Speaker 1: Oh, this is gonna be terrible.

2290
01:56:39,840 --> 01:56:40,120
Speaker 2: Uh.

2291
01:56:40,240 --> 01:56:43,560
Speaker 1: The buzz U firefox?

2292
01:56:45,000 --> 01:56:45,120
Speaker 4: Right?

2293
01:56:45,160 --> 01:56:46,080
Speaker 1: What is firefox?

2294
01:56:46,560 --> 01:56:47,520
Speaker 2: Yeah?

2295
01:56:48,120 --> 01:56:48,400
Speaker 4: Buzz?

2296
01:56:48,440 --> 01:56:50,000
Speaker 2: Before you said what is firefox?

2297
01:56:50,040 --> 01:56:51,000
Speaker 1: No, I didn't hear it.

2298
01:56:51,080 --> 01:56:53,320
Speaker 2: He said it wrong what I said?

2299
01:56:53,400 --> 01:56:53,760
Speaker 1: Buzz?

2300
01:56:54,040 --> 01:56:55,960
Speaker 2: And then you said firefox? And then I said buzz

2301
01:56:56,000 --> 01:57:00,080
Speaker 2: and you said what is? But I stop you?

2302
01:57:00,080 --> 01:57:01,000
Speaker 1: You got no?

2303
01:57:01,560 --> 01:57:01,960
Speaker 2: What is?

2304
01:57:02,200 --> 01:57:06,880
Speaker 1: All right? Go again, John, Sophia, John one, John, go

2305
01:57:07,520 --> 01:57:13,080
Speaker 1: there we go common four hundred maybe the four hundreds

2306
01:57:13,120 --> 01:57:17,600
Speaker 1: of which one sorry comment three four hundred? Sorry? Go ahead?

2307
01:57:17,960 --> 01:57:26,760
Speaker 2: What is red boom? These are easier? Then we wonder

2308
01:57:26,760 --> 01:57:30,360
Speaker 2: for the archbishop to rares. All right, go ahead, Sophia,

2309
01:57:31,400 --> 01:57:35,320
Speaker 2: what common for five hundred two? Or actually? Yeah, common

2310
01:57:35,320 --> 01:57:35,839
Speaker 2: to friends.

2311
01:57:37,080 --> 01:57:40,600
Speaker 3: This famous structure, originally built as the tomb, is one

2312
01:57:40,600 --> 01:57:42,280
Speaker 3: of the seven wonders of the Agent.

2313
01:57:42,320 --> 01:57:43,600
Speaker 1: Go ahead, what is.

2314
01:57:43,520 --> 01:57:47,880
Speaker 2: The hoggiest Sophia, No, that's in that's not that's not right. Buzz?

2315
01:57:49,840 --> 01:57:53,000
Speaker 1: What is King Tut's tomb.

2316
01:57:53,360 --> 01:57:59,640
Speaker 2: Oh buzz. Wait, you guys are all wrong. Yeah, I know,

2317
01:57:59,720 --> 01:58:02,240
Speaker 2: I und Sophia is not entergy.

2318
01:58:06,920 --> 01:58:09,400
Speaker 1: I have no idea neither. Give up you guys, give

2319
01:58:09,480 --> 01:58:11,400
Speaker 1: up anybody else, anyone else.

2320
01:58:11,520 --> 01:58:14,600
Speaker 2: I think I was gonna say that the sphinx, but

2321
01:58:14,640 --> 01:58:16,560
Speaker 2: that's not that's in Egypt.

2322
01:58:17,880 --> 01:58:20,640
Speaker 3: Okay, here it is, guys, Here it is again, anyone

2323
01:58:20,720 --> 01:58:23,440
Speaker 3: in the chat. I guess we'll just give it a chat. Nope,

2324
01:58:23,440 --> 01:58:23,840
Speaker 3: not tell her.

2325
01:58:25,440 --> 01:58:26,000
Speaker 2: No one got it.

2326
01:58:26,040 --> 01:58:30,840
Speaker 1: This one's really hard. What is the yep?

2327
01:58:30,920 --> 01:58:34,040
Speaker 2: Here we go mausoleum ConA. Yeah, it's I knew.

2328
01:58:35,480 --> 01:58:36,720
Speaker 1: Don't you say you knew what it was.

2329
01:58:36,800 --> 01:58:38,839
Speaker 2: I knew it wasn't the sphinx because that's in Egypt.

2330
01:58:39,480 --> 01:58:42,680
Speaker 1: Chat is up right now. We can never do these again.

2331
01:58:44,520 --> 01:58:48,200
Speaker 1: These are hard. The Collins go by hardness, by the way. Okay,

2332
01:58:48,240 --> 01:58:51,200
Speaker 1: well that would have been so helpful to know. I

2333
01:58:51,280 --> 01:58:52,960
Speaker 1: just don't realize that I knew that.

2334
01:58:53,040 --> 01:58:55,440
Speaker 2: But the red was just much easier than.

2335
01:58:55,640 --> 01:58:59,920
Speaker 1: Go ahead, Who's I think it's let's do common for

2336
01:59:00,000 --> 01:59:01,520
Speaker 1: life hundred mm hmm.

2337
01:59:03,280 --> 01:59:07,880
Speaker 3: In eighteen twenty three, he declared the America's off limit

2338
01:59:07,960 --> 01:59:12,040
Speaker 3: for colonial Go ahead, John, who.

2339
01:59:11,960 --> 01:59:18,440
Speaker 1: Is give you bring the question back. Who is but okay,

2340
01:59:18,480 --> 01:59:18,840
Speaker 1: go ahead?

2341
01:59:19,480 --> 01:59:24,280
Speaker 2: Who is King George seventeen seventy? I thought maybe he's

2342
01:59:24,440 --> 01:59:26,240
Speaker 2: closing hours.

2343
01:59:26,480 --> 01:59:29,880
Speaker 1: Buzz? Who is uh? Dang chack?

2344
01:59:29,960 --> 01:59:30,200
Speaker 2: Got it?

2345
01:59:30,320 --> 01:59:34,000
Speaker 1: Who is Jones Monroe?

2346
01:59:34,120 --> 01:59:36,040
Speaker 2: I was thinking King of England, but I didn't remember

2347
01:59:36,040 --> 01:59:38,320
Speaker 2: who was the King of England at that time. So

2348
01:59:39,320 --> 01:59:48,800
Speaker 2: for the killing it man, we're really tired here, John, Uh,

2349
01:59:48,880 --> 01:59:53,200
Speaker 2: that's too Common two for three hundred. Two for three hundred,

2350
01:59:53,920 --> 01:59:56,320
Speaker 2: This epic go ahead, the Odyssey?

2351
01:59:56,680 --> 02:00:02,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was really there. No buzz? What is I

2352
02:00:02,800 --> 02:00:05,520
Speaker 1: get it? You got the go ahead?

2353
02:00:05,640 --> 02:00:09,520
Speaker 2: You deserve deserve thank you still deserve appreciated. Common three

2354
02:00:09,600 --> 02:00:10,280
Speaker 2: for three hundred.

2355
02:00:13,040 --> 02:00:18,080
Speaker 1: Does mac no nutrients? Calories? Go ahead? Peanut butter?

2356
02:00:18,480 --> 02:00:23,200
Speaker 2: No macro nutrient? Buzz? Protein?

2357
02:00:24,320 --> 02:00:24,720
Speaker 1: Protein?

2358
02:00:25,040 --> 02:00:25,800
Speaker 2: What is a protein?

2359
02:00:27,160 --> 02:00:27,360
Speaker 3: Yeah?

2360
02:00:27,880 --> 02:00:28,240
Speaker 2: Ace?

2361
02:00:28,640 --> 02:00:30,360
Speaker 1: What is badi?

2362
02:00:30,800 --> 02:00:30,920
Speaker 2: Dan?

2363
02:00:31,040 --> 02:00:33,880
Speaker 1: You guys are killing it bad? Is a macro nutrient? Ye?

2364
02:00:34,440 --> 02:00:36,040
Speaker 1: It's carbs fat protein?

2365
02:00:36,080 --> 02:00:37,000
Speaker 2: You know what a macro?

2366
02:00:38,200 --> 02:00:39,400
Speaker 1: I've never heard that word before. There.

2367
02:00:39,400 --> 02:00:43,160
Speaker 3: You guys have a theater, John, go ahead?

2368
02:00:43,400 --> 02:00:49,480
Speaker 1: True? Uh, let's do Common two for four hundred. This

2369
02:00:49,640 --> 02:00:51,240
Speaker 1: US President, go ahead?

2370
02:00:51,960 --> 02:00:54,160
Speaker 2: Who is Theodore?

2371
02:00:55,400 --> 02:00:56,120
Speaker 1: Who is JFK?

2372
02:00:57,160 --> 02:01:03,000
Speaker 2: Frank? I'm still given to you because I knew it

2373
02:01:03,040 --> 02:01:03,480
Speaker 2: was the rose.

2374
02:01:04,120 --> 02:01:07,280
Speaker 1: Just this is terrible. This is literally?

2375
02:01:07,320 --> 02:01:08,480
Speaker 2: Did I go ahead John?

2376
02:01:08,520 --> 02:01:10,960
Speaker 1: Since she said it wrong? No?

2377
02:01:11,240 --> 02:01:15,440
Speaker 2: Go ahead, buzz? I mean common the three two hundreds?

2378
02:01:16,000 --> 02:01:18,240
Speaker 1: All right, go ahead?

2379
02:01:18,280 --> 02:01:18,960
Speaker 2: What is steel?

2380
02:01:19,240 --> 02:01:27,280
Speaker 1: Nope? Buzz? What is aluminium? Yeah? I'm an idiot? Go

2381
02:01:27,320 --> 02:01:28,040
Speaker 1: ahead John.

2382
02:01:29,760 --> 02:01:29,960
Speaker 5: For that?

2383
02:01:30,120 --> 02:01:34,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I was that four hundred. Let's do yeah,

2384
02:01:34,760 --> 02:01:40,200
Speaker 1: let's do it Common three for five hundred. I heard

2385
02:01:40,200 --> 02:01:42,080
Speaker 1: Sophia first.

2386
02:01:42,480 --> 02:01:49,160
Speaker 2: What is the fear of fire or maybe fire?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, cool?

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Speaker 1: That one is easy. How is that? Common three? Five hundred?

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Speaker 1: Who invented this? I'm angry?

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02:02:00,400 --> 02:02:04,520
Speaker 2: Go ahead, Oh, let's do Common two hundred.

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02:02:05,560 --> 02:02:12,840
Speaker 1: And episode. What is a Bible epistolary?

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02:02:13,000 --> 02:02:17,000
Speaker 2: Novel is written in the form of these? But I

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02:02:17,040 --> 02:02:17,640
Speaker 2: should know this?

2395
02:02:17,960 --> 02:02:21,560
Speaker 1: Buzz? Or what letters? A staying? You are?

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Speaker 2: Letters? Yeah?

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02:02:24,240 --> 02:02:25,600
Speaker 1: Letters? What?

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02:02:26,120 --> 02:02:28,280
Speaker 2: Yeah? Like an epistol like it's a novel that is

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Speaker 2: written like like with letters. So for example, it was

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Speaker 2: like the first chapter would be like a letter from

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02:02:35,040 --> 02:02:37,200
Speaker 2: this person to this person, and then in response, it's

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02:02:37,240 --> 02:02:42,080
Speaker 2: like that. In fact common to one hundred.

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Speaker 1: Process plants? Go ahead?

2404
02:02:45,520 --> 02:02:48,480
Speaker 2: What is photo? The synthesis?

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02:02:50,320 --> 02:02:59,400
Speaker 1: All right? Last one? This type of what is uh? Uh?

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Speaker 1: DC direct currents, Yes, direct.

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Speaker 2: That you didn't win.

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02:03:06,640 --> 02:03:10,320
Speaker 1: I just also I did not celebrated my own slight

2409
02:03:10,400 --> 02:03:17,200
Speaker 1: knowledge didn't win Jeopardy. You crushed it, though, that was good.

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02:03:17,440 --> 02:03:18,080
Speaker 2: I beat you.

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02:03:18,280 --> 02:03:22,600
Speaker 1: Those questions were horrible. These were terrible, the hardest.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry.

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02:03:23,320 --> 02:03:26,680
Speaker 1: I took time out of the easiest and the easiest one.

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02:03:27,520 --> 02:03:29,000
Speaker 2: And even when I got wait, did.

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Speaker 1: You find all of those by hand? You found all

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Speaker 1: was by hand?

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02:03:33,960 --> 02:03:35,080
Speaker 2: That's why some of them were easier?

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02:03:35,200 --> 02:03:37,760
Speaker 1: What ye I put them in? I thought it was

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Speaker 1: like a like a website, like they just random.

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Speaker 3: Dang dude, Sorry, those were hard, more literary ones.

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Speaker 1: It was a little too hard. I thought you could

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Speaker 1: take it. I don't know how smart do you think

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Speaker 1: we are? Right?

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02:03:53,080 --> 02:03:55,920
Speaker 2: I don't know how much about all right? Yeah you

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02:03:55,960 --> 02:03:57,280
Speaker 2: know what we didn't we did?

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Speaker 1: Okay, you did? You did good.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know a lot of them.

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02:04:02,040 --> 02:04:05,680
Speaker 1: Well, anyway, time to get back to work, all right.

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Speaker 2: Story, that's a mad hatter, gal. They give you the

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Speaker 2: twenty bucks. Twenty bucks. It's called Glendale Tap. It's happening

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02:04:13,040 --> 02:04:15,600
Speaker 2: on the twenty seventh, Food, small business and court and

2432
02:04:15,640 --> 02:04:17,800
Speaker 2: course beer. And yes, it was me that brought up

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Speaker 2: the Masquerade. Sadly, I will not be attending due to

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02:04:20,160 --> 02:04:23,720
Speaker 2: events going on next month. Oh that, but I I'll

2435
02:04:23,800 --> 02:04:25,840
Speaker 2: check out. We'll check out Glendale tap. That sounds fun

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Speaker 2: all about.

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02:04:27,400 --> 02:04:31,160
Speaker 1: The taps around. Also, thank you, Riley. I I did

2438
02:04:31,160 --> 02:04:33,080
Speaker 1: not mean to be mean to you. I thought it

2439
02:04:33,160 --> 02:04:38,280
Speaker 1: was literally a random website. No, no, no, they.

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02:04:38,120 --> 02:04:41,280
Speaker 2: Weren't bad questions. They were just hard. They were quite challenged.

2441
02:04:41,280 --> 02:04:43,120
Speaker 3: I thought you guys could get it, so I was like, oh, yeah,

2442
02:04:43,120 --> 02:04:44,160
Speaker 3: they could take a tough one.

2443
02:04:44,320 --> 02:04:46,600
Speaker 1: That is well, that is a compliment to our intelligence

2444
02:04:46,640 --> 02:04:49,080
Speaker 1: because I was definitely I can.

2445
02:04:49,080 --> 02:04:53,760
Speaker 2: Really only answer questions about literature and sometimes.

2446
02:04:53,360 --> 02:04:56,520
Speaker 1: History and the theater, Shakespeare and Shakespeare.

2447
02:04:56,520 --> 02:04:58,000
Speaker 2: I could answer a lot of things.

2448
02:04:58,000 --> 02:04:59,960
Speaker 1: I can answer questions about music. Can mean you too.

2449
02:05:00,080 --> 02:05:08,880
Speaker 1: I couldn't music anything Kanye wise. Fortunately, Oh my gosh. Anyways, sorry,

2450
02:05:09,240 --> 02:05:18,200
Speaker 1: where we're at again? You already told me I don't two.

2451
02:05:19,200 --> 02:05:22,560
Speaker 1: All right, boys and girls, let's get this party started

2452
02:05:22,720 --> 02:05:27,920
Speaker 1: in here. What's a short one? Am I the a

2453
02:05:28,000 --> 02:05:30,880
Speaker 1: hole for losing respect for my fiance after she panics

2454
02:05:30,960 --> 02:05:31,760
Speaker 1: during a house fire?

2455
02:05:32,760 --> 02:05:39,520
Speaker 2: Calm down, babe, similar situation as our really whoa specific

2456
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Speaker 2: Kirsten Ferguson thank you for the sixty four oh five

2457
02:05:44,360 --> 02:05:47,120
Speaker 2: WHOA love you guys, and we love you.

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02:05:47,160 --> 02:05:49,760
Speaker 1: Love you back, like wow. I love it when people

2459
02:05:49,840 --> 02:05:52,440
Speaker 1: just drop a huge I don't know and they're just like,

2460
02:05:52,520 --> 02:05:54,720
Speaker 1: I love you nothing.

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02:05:55,280 --> 02:05:57,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have no words.

2462
02:05:57,880 --> 02:05:59,960
Speaker 1: I'm always in awe, always in all out.

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Speaker 2: That's another thirty minutes.

2464
02:06:01,960 --> 02:06:05,560
Speaker 1: Let's freaking go all right, And this is the answer.

2465
02:06:06,680 --> 02:06:08,839
Speaker 1: What do you do when you lose respect for your partner?

2466
02:06:09,000 --> 02:06:11,560
Speaker 1: And this comes from tricky interactions? Who says, Hi, everyone,

2467
02:06:11,800 --> 02:06:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm really struggling with something happening recently and need some

2468
02:06:15,280 --> 02:06:17,120
Speaker 1: outside perspective. Well, here we are.

2469
02:06:17,240 --> 02:06:18,880
Speaker 2: Here, we are the outside perspective.

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Speaker 1: A couple of nights ago, a house fire started. A

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Speaker 1: couple of months ago, there was a house fire that

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Speaker 1: started in our kitchen. My fiance, my sister, and I

2473
02:06:27,120 --> 02:06:29,600
Speaker 1: were all home at the time. Smoke alarms woke us

2474
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Speaker 1: all up. When I woke up, I yelled for my

2475
02:06:31,680 --> 02:06:33,720
Speaker 1: fiance and my sister to wake up and told them

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02:06:33,720 --> 02:06:36,120
Speaker 1: we needed to get out. My sister had always been

2477
02:06:36,160 --> 02:06:38,720
Speaker 1: quick to respond in emergencies. She grabbed a wet tile

2478
02:06:38,760 --> 02:06:40,360
Speaker 1: to cover her face and ran to help me. Oh

2479
02:06:40,360 --> 02:06:42,840
Speaker 1: that's a good pro tip, Yeah, Dan, I'm glad I

2480
02:06:42,880 --> 02:06:46,080
Speaker 1: read that we got to the fire extinguisher and started

2481
02:06:46,120 --> 02:06:48,360
Speaker 1: trying to contain the fire as we were trying to

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Speaker 1: figure out how to escape. This is this is kind

2483
02:06:50,920 --> 02:06:51,360
Speaker 1: of crazy.

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02:06:51,440 --> 02:06:53,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, they're ready.

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02:06:53,320 --> 02:06:55,080
Speaker 1: I also have an okay story time after this of

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02:06:55,080 --> 02:06:57,720
Speaker 1: an emergency that me and Riley have been in, and

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02:06:57,840 --> 02:07:01,000
Speaker 1: Riley probably won't remember it, but it'll be a fun surprise,

2488
02:07:01,200 --> 02:07:05,520
Speaker 1: oh for his memory. But my fiance, on the other hand,

2489
02:07:05,560 --> 02:07:09,280
Speaker 1: completely panicked. She started crying and screaming that we were

2490
02:07:09,280 --> 02:07:11,920
Speaker 1: going to die and that we were trapped. I tried

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02:07:11,920 --> 02:07:13,560
Speaker 1: to calm her down and get her to help us,

2492
02:07:13,800 --> 02:07:16,120
Speaker 1: but she was too panicked. But she was just panicking

2493
02:07:16,160 --> 02:07:19,320
Speaker 1: too much and she was not acting rationally. My sister

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02:07:19,360 --> 02:07:22,160
Speaker 1: saw my fiance's panic and she pretty much took charge.

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02:07:22,440 --> 02:07:24,520
Speaker 1: She told me to handle the fire while she got

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Speaker 1: my fiance out of the house. My sister pulled her

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02:07:26,960 --> 02:07:29,120
Speaker 1: out to safety and called nine one one. Once I

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02:07:29,120 --> 02:07:31,480
Speaker 1: got the fire under control enough to safely leave, I

2499
02:07:31,600 --> 02:07:34,600
Speaker 1: joined them outside. But seeing my fiance react that way

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Speaker 1: really disappointed.

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02:07:37,080 --> 02:07:39,080
Speaker 2: Ooh, not disappointment.

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02:07:39,240 --> 02:07:41,520
Speaker 1: I know it was a terrifying situation, but because she

2503
02:07:41,560 --> 02:07:44,200
Speaker 1: couldn't stay calm it just made everything more dangerous for

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02:07:44,280 --> 02:07:47,240
Speaker 1: all of us. It was just a complete opposite to

2505
02:07:47,280 --> 02:07:50,040
Speaker 1: how my sister reacted. She took control of the situation

2506
02:07:50,120 --> 02:07:52,880
Speaker 1: and helped get us all out safely. I feel bad

2507
02:07:52,920 --> 02:07:54,760
Speaker 1: about it, but I just feel like I've lost a

2508
02:07:54,800 --> 02:07:57,520
Speaker 1: lot of respect for my fiance because of how she reacted.

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02:07:57,720 --> 02:08:00,240
Speaker 1: I love my fiance, but her panic just makes me

2510
02:08:00,240 --> 02:08:03,879
Speaker 1: a question how she would handle future emergencies. I've spoken

2511
02:08:03,960 --> 02:08:06,320
Speaker 1: with my sister and she thinks I should break up

2512
02:08:06,360 --> 02:08:10,440
Speaker 1: with my fiance. WHOA, because the way my fiance reacted

2513
02:08:11,040 --> 02:08:15,920
Speaker 1: was unacceptable. What what if we were to have kids

2514
02:08:15,920 --> 02:08:18,080
Speaker 1: in the future and they were in a serious emergency.

2515
02:08:18,320 --> 02:08:20,400
Speaker 1: Would I be able to trust my fiance to handle

2516
02:08:20,440 --> 02:08:24,040
Speaker 1: the situation with calm. We haven't yet set a wedding date.

2517
02:08:24,240 --> 02:08:26,040
Speaker 1: I only proposed to her a couple of months ago,

2518
02:08:26,160 --> 02:08:27,920
Speaker 1: but I just don't know if I want to marry

2519
02:08:27,920 --> 02:08:31,800
Speaker 1: her anymore. We have some relevant comments, but let's take

2520
02:08:32,000 --> 02:08:36,800
Speaker 1: a pit stop. Good Sophia, Yes, let's talk about this. Yeah,

2521
02:08:36,800 --> 02:08:40,840
Speaker 1: we actually had a story very similar before where someone

2522
02:08:40,880 --> 02:08:42,200
Speaker 1: was like, I don't think you heard it, but if

2523
02:08:42,200 --> 02:08:45,160
Speaker 1: someone was on a boat and then they like reacted

2524
02:08:45,880 --> 02:08:50,920
Speaker 1: very terrified. Uh, what are your thoughts on this area here?

2525
02:08:54,000 --> 02:08:55,880
Speaker 2: I don't know either. We read a story right before

2526
02:08:55,880 --> 02:09:01,680
Speaker 2: this that you missed, but where oh PE's partner they

2527
02:09:01,680 --> 02:09:05,800
Speaker 2: were babysitting Op's partner's niece and nephew like toddler and

2528
02:09:05,840 --> 02:09:09,400
Speaker 2: baby nephew, uh, and a pitbull wren to the backyard

2529
02:09:09,440 --> 02:09:13,760
Speaker 2: and started attacking the niece, and Opie ran and to

2530
02:09:14,200 --> 02:09:18,040
Speaker 2: protect them and said to her partner, hey, go inside

2531
02:09:18,040 --> 02:09:19,680
Speaker 2: and grab the bear mace. You know where it did,

2532
02:09:19,760 --> 02:09:21,840
Speaker 2: like he knew where it was, and instead he ran

2533
02:09:21,880 --> 02:09:25,160
Speaker 2: out the gate and shut the door on them. And

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02:09:25,240 --> 02:09:29,760
Speaker 2: I think this is slightly a different situation because there

2535
02:09:29,760 --> 02:09:33,440
Speaker 2: were no kids involved, there was no one to protect necessarily.

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02:09:36,080 --> 02:09:38,400
Speaker 2: I think, I think this is a really scary situation

2537
02:09:38,520 --> 02:09:42,240
Speaker 2: to be in. But I also understand why opis, yeah,

2538
02:09:42,280 --> 02:09:43,160
Speaker 2: I think doesn't want to.

2539
02:09:43,760 --> 02:09:46,480
Speaker 1: I view this as I'll call it a it is

2540
02:09:46,520 --> 02:09:50,040
Speaker 1: what it is type scenario. Some people's anxieties and whatnot

2541
02:09:50,080 --> 02:09:55,760
Speaker 1: are triggered in different ways, and probably this person's, which

2542
02:09:55,880 --> 02:10:01,800
Speaker 1: is super understandable because it's a very intense, uh, anxiety

2543
02:10:01,880 --> 02:10:04,520
Speaker 1: ridden experience of like there being a fire, and some

2544
02:10:04,560 --> 02:10:08,440
Speaker 1: people just have stronger reactions to certain things and in

2545
02:10:08,480 --> 02:10:11,040
Speaker 1: my opinion, it kind of just is what it is.

2546
02:10:11,520 --> 02:10:17,080
Speaker 1: Like everyone has different tendencies and reactions to many different things,

2547
02:10:17,480 --> 02:10:20,680
Speaker 1: So just be uh Op and his sister have a

2548
02:10:20,760 --> 02:10:27,960
Speaker 1: very different temperament for it than his fiance and I look,

2549
02:10:28,280 --> 02:10:32,960
Speaker 1: there is a point to like, like if if let's say,

2550
02:10:33,000 --> 02:10:39,000
Speaker 1: for instance, the situation was they were like they had

2551
02:10:39,080 --> 02:10:41,880
Speaker 1: kids and it was like Op and the kids, and

2552
02:10:41,960 --> 02:10:45,800
Speaker 1: she was like ah and like standing there while the kids.

2553
02:10:46,160 --> 02:10:49,560
Speaker 1: That's where like like true, like even damage of the

2554
02:10:49,560 --> 02:10:52,600
Speaker 1: house he has awful, but at least it's not like

2555
02:10:52,600 --> 02:10:57,560
Speaker 1: like something like someone's life. I think definitely like sit

2556
02:10:57,640 --> 02:10:58,680
Speaker 1: down and maybe I.

2557
02:10:58,680 --> 02:11:00,760
Speaker 2: Don't know this is exactly I don't know this is

2558
02:11:00,800 --> 02:11:06,160
Speaker 2: a breakup immediately No, because like because also like you

2559
02:11:06,160 --> 02:11:08,440
Speaker 2: don't you don't know what her you know, and you

2560
02:11:08,440 --> 02:11:10,600
Speaker 2: don't know why. Yeah, I think find it one why

2561
02:11:10,680 --> 02:11:11,520
Speaker 2: she had that reaction.

2562
02:11:11,720 --> 02:11:15,080
Speaker 1: That's that's good, that's good. Any very empathetic.

2563
02:11:15,200 --> 02:11:18,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, just say hey, like that was a scary situation,

2564
02:11:18,600 --> 02:11:20,440
Speaker 2: but I want to know how we you know, one,

2565
02:11:21,240 --> 02:11:23,400
Speaker 2: what made you freak out in that way or what

2566
02:11:23,440 --> 02:11:25,760
Speaker 2: made you have that reaction in that way? Uh, And

2567
02:11:25,800 --> 02:11:29,840
Speaker 2: then also saying how can we prepare how can we

2568
02:11:29,880 --> 02:11:31,880
Speaker 2: make you feel a little bit more prepared next time

2569
02:11:32,280 --> 02:11:35,720
Speaker 2: that happens. Hopefully it doesn't, Yeah, so that you don't

2570
02:11:35,720 --> 02:11:37,400
Speaker 2: have that reaction, and so that we're able to, you know,

2571
02:11:37,520 --> 02:11:38,760
Speaker 2: get everyone out quickly.

2572
02:11:39,200 --> 02:11:41,200
Speaker 1: And I think it is fair for if if Op

2573
02:11:41,360 --> 02:11:43,640
Speaker 1: is feeling like, hey, I'm worried, you know, potentially for

2574
02:11:43,680 --> 02:11:45,480
Speaker 1: our kids, like that is where we have, I think

2575
02:11:45,520 --> 02:11:48,520
Speaker 1: that's fair for him to express in an even keel

2576
02:11:49,240 --> 02:11:53,680
Speaker 1: kind of way. Yeah, but uh, I don't know that

2577
02:11:53,720 --> 02:11:58,560
Speaker 1: the emergencies thing is hard because, like I just you

2578
02:11:58,680 --> 02:12:02,200
Speaker 1: might not ever find yourself in that scenario. Yeah, it's

2579
02:12:02,240 --> 02:12:05,920
Speaker 1: not like it's not like, uh, you know, communicating when

2580
02:12:05,960 --> 02:12:06,520
Speaker 1: you're angry.

2581
02:12:06,680 --> 02:12:10,400
Speaker 2: No, that's something like a rare scenario. Yeah, that may

2582
02:12:10,440 --> 02:12:11,920
Speaker 2: not pop up again until they have.

2583
02:12:12,120 --> 02:12:17,320
Speaker 1: And it's it's so much more outside of ones. It's

2584
02:12:17,400 --> 02:12:20,880
Speaker 1: kind of it's not like it's completely out of people's control,

2585
02:12:20,920 --> 02:12:23,080
Speaker 1: but it's so much more outside of her control than

2586
02:12:23,160 --> 02:12:27,839
Speaker 1: like how one communicates or one responds to like anger

2587
02:12:28,000 --> 02:12:31,480
Speaker 1: or disagreements or like other things in a relationship. I

2588
02:12:31,520 --> 02:12:32,680
Speaker 1: don't know, this one's a weird one.

2589
02:12:32,800 --> 02:12:35,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's I don't think he's necessarily if

2590
02:12:35,520 --> 02:12:38,200
Speaker 2: he decides after having a conversation. Then he's like, you know,

2591
02:12:38,280 --> 02:12:41,240
Speaker 2: and I I don't think this relationship is gonna work out,

2592
02:12:41,760 --> 02:12:43,760
Speaker 2: And like, I think that's fine, fine, but I think

2593
02:12:43,800 --> 02:12:45,400
Speaker 2: he does need to have a conversation with her.

2594
02:12:45,560 --> 02:12:47,680
Speaker 1: Yes, I agree, I agree, But let's get into some

2595
02:12:47,720 --> 02:12:50,880
Speaker 1: relevant comments and guys sound off in the chat so

2596
02:12:50,960 --> 02:12:54,000
Speaker 1: that way, because I want to read your comments. Jac says,

2597
02:12:54,160 --> 02:12:55,920
Speaker 1: what if she has trauma with fire, she could have

2598
02:12:55,920 --> 02:12:59,080
Speaker 1: been in a serious situation she's been through that made

2599
02:12:59,120 --> 02:13:00,800
Speaker 1: her shut down in the moment. That's exactly what I

2600
02:13:00,840 --> 02:13:05,120
Speaker 1: was saying, is like everyone has different experiences or internal things,

2601
02:13:05,160 --> 02:13:07,800
Speaker 1: whatever it might be that causes one to have a

2602
02:13:07,840 --> 02:13:10,560
Speaker 1: more extreme reaction on one thing than another. I bet

2603
02:13:10,600 --> 02:13:13,680
Speaker 1: I bet Op probably has Like let's say OPI has

2604
02:13:13,680 --> 02:13:15,360
Speaker 1: like a fear of heights or something. Yeah, and if

2605
02:13:15,400 --> 02:13:18,080
Speaker 1: like something happened or was like oh, man, like you know,

2606
02:13:18,160 --> 02:13:21,640
Speaker 1: have I don't know many bad things happen with heights,

2607
02:13:21,760 --> 02:13:24,160
Speaker 1: maybe he would freeze in that scenario. Yeah, you know

2608
02:13:24,200 --> 02:13:27,960
Speaker 1: what I mean, So, but I digress. Frail Simplicity says

2609
02:13:28,040 --> 02:13:30,080
Speaker 1: it's natural to feel shaken up after something like a

2610
02:13:30,080 --> 02:13:32,520
Speaker 1: house fire. Have you talked to your fiance about how

2611
02:13:32,560 --> 02:13:36,800
Speaker 1: you feel and what happened. Communication might help clarify things

2612
02:13:36,840 --> 02:13:41,400
Speaker 1: before making any big decisions. And then Ope responds, Yes,

2613
02:13:41,520 --> 02:13:43,720
Speaker 1: we have talked about it. She's still a bit shaken

2614
02:13:43,800 --> 02:13:45,400
Speaker 1: up about it, and I'm trying to just be there

2615
02:13:45,440 --> 02:13:47,720
Speaker 1: for her and support her. I'm obviously not going to

2616
02:13:47,760 --> 02:13:50,600
Speaker 1: tell her my real feelings about this. That would hurt

2617
02:13:50,600 --> 02:13:55,400
Speaker 1: her even more. Yeah, which I.

2618
02:13:55,360 --> 02:13:57,720
Speaker 2: Think that he needs to tell her some of his

2619
02:13:57,800 --> 02:13:58,160
Speaker 2: real thing.

2620
02:13:58,360 --> 02:14:02,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think not not that like I'm leaving if

2621
02:14:02,160 --> 02:14:06,120
Speaker 1: you can't become a firefighter. She has pyrophobia.

2622
02:14:06,720 --> 02:14:11,120
Speaker 2: Oh back and Justice Forrest. Saul said earlier that it

2623
02:14:11,160 --> 02:14:13,400
Speaker 2: sounds like a double standard between men and women because

2624
02:14:13,400 --> 02:14:15,600
Speaker 2: we had in the last story, we had a man

2625
02:14:15,720 --> 02:14:18,120
Speaker 2: run away. However, again, I do think this is a

2626
02:14:18,120 --> 02:14:22,920
Speaker 2: different situation because in that one, he ran away from

2627
02:14:23,120 --> 02:14:24,920
Speaker 2: his nephew and niece who he was supposed to be

2628
02:14:24,960 --> 02:14:27,920
Speaker 2: babysitting and shut the door on them. So I think

2629
02:14:28,000 --> 02:14:31,040
Speaker 2: I think if in this situation, I think if they

2630
02:14:31,120 --> 02:14:33,720
Speaker 2: had two kids and she ran out the house and

2631
02:14:33,760 --> 02:14:34,720
Speaker 2: then shut the door on.

2632
02:14:34,640 --> 02:14:35,440
Speaker 1: That, that's really bad.

2633
02:14:35,520 --> 02:14:36,839
Speaker 2: That would be the same situation.

2634
02:14:37,080 --> 02:14:40,800
Speaker 1: Also, Yeah, because it's like she was kind of like choking,

2635
02:14:41,240 --> 02:14:45,080
Speaker 1: like standing in fear and not doing anything, yeah, versus

2636
02:14:45,120 --> 02:14:48,560
Speaker 1: like literally doing an action that causes it to be

2637
02:14:48,880 --> 02:14:52,360
Speaker 1: much worse, like like a I would call that probably

2638
02:14:52,440 --> 02:14:55,000
Speaker 1: an intentional action of closing the door. Not like you.

2639
02:14:55,160 --> 02:14:56,680
Speaker 2: I mean, like it's not even just your running away,

2640
02:14:56,720 --> 02:14:58,360
Speaker 2: you're literally like chopping people inside.

2641
02:14:58,520 --> 02:15:01,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, because if you, like, if you were like running

2642
02:15:01,720 --> 02:15:03,600
Speaker 1: like trying to get out or whatever, and you actually

2643
02:15:03,680 --> 02:15:06,000
Speaker 1: knock something over and cause the fire to go bigger,

2644
02:15:06,720 --> 02:15:09,000
Speaker 1: it was an accident in an insane situation.

2645
02:15:09,240 --> 02:15:11,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I personally think this is a different situation

2646
02:15:11,640 --> 02:15:12,360
Speaker 2: to that one.

2647
02:15:12,720 --> 02:15:14,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think I agree, But yeah.

2648
02:15:15,000 --> 02:15:16,960
Speaker 2: I think it's still I think it's still like you

2649
02:15:17,080 --> 02:15:20,000
Speaker 2: need to address it. I think it's still something that

2650
02:15:20,080 --> 02:15:22,120
Speaker 2: needs to be addressed. And I would not fault him

2651
02:15:22,120 --> 02:15:23,280
Speaker 2: if he broke up with her, but I think a

2652
02:15:23,320 --> 02:15:24,440
Speaker 2: conversation needs to happen.

2653
02:15:24,560 --> 02:15:28,880
Speaker 1: Yes, Like again, ultimately, if op does you know that way, like, oh,

2654
02:15:28,920 --> 02:15:32,080
Speaker 1: I want a partner who can like react whatever, more

2655
02:15:32,120 --> 02:15:33,680
Speaker 1: power to you, I guess if you don't want to

2656
02:15:33,680 --> 02:15:37,040
Speaker 1: be in a relationship with someone who can't handle fires,

2657
02:15:37,040 --> 02:15:40,360
Speaker 1: like a fire fire or whatever. But yeah, and we're

2658
02:15:40,360 --> 02:15:44,440
Speaker 1: at ninety seven percent, say nah, three percent, says breakup

2659
02:15:44,800 --> 02:15:50,240
Speaker 1: takes percent says breakup lurkers one or two lurkers. We

2660
02:15:50,360 --> 02:15:53,240
Speaker 1: got some people A Dasha.

2661
02:15:53,040 --> 02:15:55,920
Speaker 2: Stardo says she didn't put anyone in danger with their actions.

2662
02:15:55,960 --> 02:15:57,760
Speaker 2: The husband from the last story locked them in with

2663
02:15:57,800 --> 02:15:58,160
Speaker 2: the dog.

2664
02:15:58,400 --> 02:16:04,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, although the house like and it's still different, but

2665
02:16:06,000 --> 02:16:12,160
Speaker 1: you know, the house burning is a ramification of in

2666
02:16:12,320 --> 02:16:16,600
Speaker 1: action in a way, like because if the house is burning,

2667
02:16:16,960 --> 02:16:20,440
Speaker 1: because Op and his sister were like trying to figure out, like, okay,

2668
02:16:20,440 --> 02:16:22,560
Speaker 1: how can we like get the fire extinguisher and like

2669
02:16:22,600 --> 02:16:24,760
Speaker 1: put out the fire, and I think she was just

2670
02:16:24,840 --> 02:16:27,960
Speaker 1: kind of like kind of froze, kind of stuck in

2671
02:16:28,720 --> 02:16:31,760
Speaker 1: one place. So it's like, you know, that does hurt

2672
02:16:31,800 --> 02:16:33,920
Speaker 1: the house or whatever, which is not that's not nothing,

2673
02:16:34,120 --> 02:16:36,520
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, but it's very different than anyways.

2674
02:16:36,560 --> 02:16:38,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, it just feels different because no

2675
02:16:38,080 --> 02:16:39,240
Speaker 2: one got hurt in this situation.

2676
02:16:39,480 --> 02:16:42,360
Speaker 1: And I very firmly agree with you by the way,

2677
02:16:43,120 --> 02:16:46,200
Speaker 1: I get you say, but yeah, I mean I think

2678
02:16:46,240 --> 02:16:49,160
Speaker 1: that's again I just kind of personally view this as

2679
02:16:49,240 --> 02:16:52,280
Speaker 1: like I don't know if that should really be a

2680
02:16:52,360 --> 02:16:55,480
Speaker 1: make or break in a relationship, because you Yeah, I'm sorry,

2681
02:16:55,480 --> 02:16:59,520
Speaker 1: but chances are you're not gonna be in a scenario

2682
02:17:00,280 --> 02:17:04,440
Speaker 1: like this. Yeah, I don't know that it's I don't

2683
02:17:04,480 --> 02:17:08,360
Speaker 1: know that it's that important. I'm being honest, Like it

2684
02:17:08,440 --> 02:17:11,720
Speaker 1: is important when you need it, but it's just so

2685
02:17:11,800 --> 02:17:14,440
Speaker 1: hard to control for I don't know, I don't know.

2686
02:17:14,720 --> 02:17:17,440
Speaker 1: It's so it's it feels to me so outside of

2687
02:17:17,480 --> 02:17:20,320
Speaker 1: the normal things that one works on a relationship. Ace

2688
02:17:20,400 --> 02:17:22,720
Speaker 1: makes it says it might be worth counseling if he

2689
02:17:22,760 --> 02:17:25,160
Speaker 1: really wants to marry her in the first place.

2690
02:17:25,400 --> 02:17:27,480
Speaker 2: I would say, I would think because the fact that

2691
02:17:27,480 --> 02:17:30,000
Speaker 2: he's having these feelings means that they need to have counseling.

2692
02:17:30,120 --> 02:17:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, yes, the fact that he's having these feelings. And

2693
02:17:32,240 --> 02:17:34,880
Speaker 1: then to your point, like I think he could kind

2694
02:17:34,879 --> 02:17:37,640
Speaker 1: of approach it in an empathetic way of like, hey,

2695
02:17:37,680 --> 02:17:40,879
Speaker 1: do you, like, do you want to maybe like talk

2696
02:17:40,920 --> 02:17:43,640
Speaker 1: with someone about it. Maybe there's like something there that

2697
02:17:43,640 --> 02:17:47,360
Speaker 1: could be unpacked that like could help you in more

2698
02:17:47,400 --> 02:17:49,959
Speaker 1: than just like this one scenario, but like you know,

2699
02:17:50,000 --> 02:17:51,880
Speaker 1: maybe there is like a fear of fire or something

2700
02:17:51,920 --> 02:17:55,039
Speaker 1: like that that could that is productive to talk with

2701
02:17:55,120 --> 02:17:58,160
Speaker 1: someone that will help in multiple areas of your life.

2702
02:17:58,160 --> 02:18:01,240
Speaker 1: And kind of like flip it into a positive Hay, teamwork,

2703
02:18:01,280 --> 02:18:02,080
Speaker 1: Let's do this together.

2704
02:18:02,200 --> 02:18:05,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, happing that plan is really important.

2705
02:18:05,720 --> 02:18:11,160
Speaker 1: That's all I gotta say on that. And the story's over, story, no, no, no.

2706
02:18:11,520 --> 02:18:14,200
Speaker 1: Sixty nine people voted. There we go. That's a good

2707
02:18:14,200 --> 02:18:15,600
Speaker 1: that's a good poll right there.

2708
02:18:17,840 --> 02:18:23,200
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, let's get okay.

2709
02:18:22,840 --> 02:18:27,400
Speaker 1: Okay, Riley and Don and I'm like, okay.

2710
02:18:27,959 --> 02:18:32,000
Speaker 2: Ah, my goodness, all right, let's freaking get into it.

2711
02:18:33,120 --> 02:18:35,080
Speaker 2: Am I the a hole for getting into a fight

2712
02:18:35,120 --> 02:18:38,240
Speaker 2: with my husband over McDonald's give me my big mac.

2713
02:18:38,440 --> 02:18:38,640
Speaker 1: Yeah?

2714
02:18:38,879 --> 02:18:40,960
Speaker 2: And this is once again to answer the question what

2715
02:18:40,959 --> 02:18:43,000
Speaker 2: do you do when you lose respect for your partner?

2716
02:18:43,160 --> 02:18:45,640
Speaker 3: Was it for the Rick mc rib or the sham

2717
02:18:45,760 --> 02:18:49,120
Speaker 3: rock shake? That's the real question.

2718
02:18:50,720 --> 02:18:54,320
Speaker 2: Who's to say so? Street Exchange four four two eight

2719
02:18:54,400 --> 02:18:57,440
Speaker 2: says sorry, this is long for context. I go to

2720
02:18:57,440 --> 02:19:00,480
Speaker 2: school full full time, work almost full time, and do

2721
02:19:00,560 --> 02:19:03,280
Speaker 2: all the house duties. I also cook every night for

2722
02:19:03,360 --> 02:19:05,680
Speaker 2: my husband and I. My husband is a picky eater,

2723
02:19:06,240 --> 02:19:08,360
Speaker 2: so I always ask him what he wants, and I

2724
02:19:08,400 --> 02:19:11,240
Speaker 2: make it for both of us. Very rarely will we

2725
02:19:11,280 --> 02:19:14,320
Speaker 2: eat quick meals like a frozen pizza. I always make

2726
02:19:14,400 --> 02:19:17,199
Speaker 2: him a homemade food during the summer, I was taking

2727
02:19:17,280 --> 02:19:21,120
Speaker 2: nine units while working as an academic mentor, teaching students

2728
02:19:21,360 --> 02:19:23,560
Speaker 2: to prepare them for their next year's courses.

2729
02:19:23,600 --> 02:19:24,039
Speaker 1: It's a lot.

2730
02:19:24,200 --> 02:19:24,760
Speaker 2: That is a lot.

2731
02:19:24,760 --> 02:19:26,599
Speaker 1: I would fail all that Ooh.

2732
02:19:26,920 --> 02:19:30,440
Speaker 2: This obviously requires extensive prep time for lecture planning, and

2733
02:19:30,520 --> 02:19:34,080
Speaker 2: creating homework assignments for each one. I'm taking two six

2734
02:19:34,080 --> 02:19:38,480
Speaker 2: week courses and one twelve week yea yai. Right now

2735
02:19:38,520 --> 02:19:42,600
Speaker 2: I'm an engineering class and as a statistics class, which

2736
02:19:42,640 --> 02:19:45,240
Speaker 2: requires a lot of lecture time and study time. Oh

2737
02:19:45,320 --> 02:19:49,720
Speaker 2: my god, Opia is doing a lot and op is

2738
02:19:49,760 --> 02:19:52,680
Speaker 2: twenty one. A few weeks ago, I was going to

2739
02:19:52,720 --> 02:19:56,120
Speaker 2: get some important paperwork done in La Dual Citizenship related.

2740
02:19:56,600 --> 02:19:59,240
Speaker 2: This appointment in La was early in the morning and

2741
02:19:59,240 --> 02:20:01,760
Speaker 2: I had a flight at a around five am, which

2742
02:20:01,800 --> 02:20:04,040
Speaker 2: requires me to wake up at two am to get

2743
02:20:04,040 --> 02:20:04,360
Speaker 2: it there.

2744
02:20:04,640 --> 02:20:07,080
Speaker 1: I was I thought five am with Sam and I

2745
02:20:07,160 --> 02:20:09,520
Speaker 1: was like, is this you in La Duel City.

2746
02:20:09,600 --> 02:20:15,440
Speaker 2: Yeah. This appointment was scheduled on a Friday. I work

2747
02:20:15,560 --> 02:20:18,199
Speaker 2: nine to six on Thursday. I also have lectures to watch,

2748
02:20:18,520 --> 02:20:21,199
Speaker 2: and since it's a six week course, each session takes

2749
02:20:21,240 --> 02:20:25,160
Speaker 2: about four hours of lecture. This makes me tired of

2750
02:20:25,160 --> 02:20:27,720
Speaker 2: treading right, I have four sessions a week. So I

2751
02:20:27,760 --> 02:20:30,080
Speaker 2: got home at around six thirty the Thursday before my

2752
02:20:30,080 --> 02:20:35,119
Speaker 2: appointment in LA and began watching my lectures and taking notes. Also,

2753
02:20:35,200 --> 02:20:38,600
Speaker 2: I should mention now my husband only works. He works

2754
02:20:38,600 --> 02:20:41,640
Speaker 2: about twenty five to thirty hours a week. That's no

2755
02:20:42,000 --> 02:20:45,640
Speaker 2: pretty little compared to her.

2756
02:20:46,360 --> 02:20:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah.

2757
02:20:46,720 --> 02:20:48,560
Speaker 2: I asked him if he could take us to order,

2758
02:20:49,440 --> 02:20:51,640
Speaker 2: take us out to order? Oh, sorry, to take us

2759
02:20:51,680 --> 02:20:58,800
Speaker 2: to order takeout this night? He replied with why uh?

2760
02:20:58,920 --> 02:21:01,400
Speaker 2: And I explained to him I had about three more

2761
02:21:01,440 --> 02:21:03,760
Speaker 2: hours of lecture to get through and had to wake

2762
02:21:03,840 --> 02:21:06,000
Speaker 2: up at two am, and then I worked an eight

2763
02:21:06,040 --> 02:21:09,879
Speaker 2: hour shift, so I was already exhausted. He seemed to

2764
02:21:09,879 --> 02:21:13,120
Speaker 2: still not understand why I want to get takeout, So

2765
02:21:13,240 --> 02:21:15,520
Speaker 2: I said, can you just take us to get something

2766
02:21:15,600 --> 02:21:19,720
Speaker 2: simple like McDonald's. It's super close. He replied with, well,

2767
02:21:19,760 --> 02:21:23,080
Speaker 2: I want spaghetti. Wouldn't it take the same amount of

2768
02:21:23,160 --> 02:21:30,160
Speaker 2: time getting McDonald's than you cooking spaghetti? I make my

2769
02:21:30,200 --> 02:21:36,240
Speaker 2: spaghetti from scratch man Mathy, this guy, why don't you

2770
02:21:36,280 --> 02:21:37,480
Speaker 2: freaking make the spaghetti?

2771
02:21:37,680 --> 02:21:39,039
Speaker 1: All right? He doesn't know how to.

2772
02:21:39,320 --> 02:21:41,640
Speaker 3: I learned you would do it so much better, baby,

2773
02:21:41,640 --> 02:21:42,920
Speaker 3: I just miss it all up.

2774
02:21:43,240 --> 02:21:50,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I totally ruined it, am I. I make my

2775
02:21:50,400 --> 02:21:53,520
Speaker 2: spaghetti and meat sauce from scratch. I didn't want to

2776
02:21:53,600 --> 02:21:56,160
Speaker 2: argue with him after everything, so I just made it.

2777
02:21:56,560 --> 02:21:58,680
Speaker 2: You didn't even know I was upset until the next day.

2778
02:21:59,240 --> 02:22:01,800
Speaker 2: I explained to him that I never asked for a

2779
02:22:01,800 --> 02:22:04,760
Speaker 2: break or really anything from him in general, so when

2780
02:22:04,800 --> 02:22:07,280
Speaker 2: I asked for a break, I expect to get it.

2781
02:22:07,879 --> 02:22:10,480
Speaker 2: I ended up getting about an hour's sleep that night

2782
02:22:10,520 --> 02:22:14,519
Speaker 2: when more assignments were due the next day. Still oh,

2783
02:22:14,760 --> 02:22:17,440
Speaker 2: fast forward to a few days ago. Also, remember how

2784
02:22:17,480 --> 02:22:19,840
Speaker 2: my husband is a picky eater. I never get to

2785
02:22:19,879 --> 02:22:22,160
Speaker 2: make what I want for dinner because he just complains

2786
02:22:22,200 --> 02:22:24,800
Speaker 2: about it. I found a pasta recipe that looked so

2787
02:22:25,040 --> 02:22:27,800
Speaker 2: good and have been debating on making it, and I

2788
02:22:27,879 --> 02:22:31,240
Speaker 2: finally said I was gonna do it. My husband liked pasta,

2789
02:22:31,320 --> 02:22:33,440
Speaker 2: so I thought it would be perfect. I told her.

2790
02:22:35,600 --> 02:22:37,680
Speaker 2: I told him I was excited to try this and

2791
02:22:37,720 --> 02:22:40,080
Speaker 2: I was going to go shopping for the ingredients. After

2792
02:22:40,120 --> 02:22:43,760
Speaker 2: he left for work. He said, okay. I went shopping

2793
02:22:43,879 --> 02:22:46,960
Speaker 2: and got everything. I also paid for all the groceries,

2794
02:22:48,280 --> 02:22:51,600
Speaker 2: and he texted me a couple hours later saying, are

2795
02:22:51,640 --> 02:22:55,080
Speaker 2: you still making pasta. We should get McDonald's tonight.

2796
02:22:56,840 --> 02:23:03,560
Speaker 1: Sir, make up your mind. Did you want Fasta or

2797
02:23:03,640 --> 02:23:10,320
Speaker 1: do you want McDonald's Please please choose. Yeah, this makes

2798
02:23:10,360 --> 02:23:15,560
Speaker 1: my blood like boy oil. That's literally exactly yeah with her? Now,

2799
02:23:16,760 --> 02:23:19,360
Speaker 1: why be with these stupid people? With why?

2800
02:23:19,560 --> 02:23:22,200
Speaker 2: Why be why stupid? Twenty two year old man?

2801
02:23:22,360 --> 02:23:25,520
Speaker 1: I always twenty two two? That explains a lot.

2802
02:23:26,040 --> 02:23:29,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, she's twenty one and he's twenty two. Okay, they're

2803
02:23:29,720 --> 02:23:33,400
Speaker 2: still get him out of here, get them out. I

2804
02:23:33,560 --> 02:23:39,440
Speaker 2: was like, there's a question mark so nice, and said,

2805
02:23:39,680 --> 02:23:42,480
Speaker 2: do you really not want my cooking so bad that

2806
02:23:42,520 --> 02:23:45,760
Speaker 2: you want McDonald's? And he said, not what I meant?

2807
02:23:46,040 --> 02:23:48,640
Speaker 2: And I said, what do you mean then? And he said,

2808
02:23:49,000 --> 02:23:50,840
Speaker 2: why do you get mad at me for not taking

2809
02:23:50,840 --> 02:23:53,560
Speaker 2: you to McDonald's, then get mad at me for offering

2810
02:23:53,600 --> 02:23:58,160
Speaker 2: to take you to McDonald's. That she is stupid?

2811
02:23:58,320 --> 02:23:58,600
Speaker 4: Man.

2812
02:23:59,800 --> 02:24:02,200
Speaker 2: I explain to him exactly why I was upset and

2813
02:24:02,280 --> 02:24:05,039
Speaker 2: how these situations were different. Last time I asked for

2814
02:24:05,080 --> 02:24:07,320
Speaker 2: a break, and this time I was excited to make

2815
02:24:07,360 --> 02:24:09,920
Speaker 2: one dinner that I wanted and it just so happened.

2816
02:24:09,959 --> 02:24:12,519
Speaker 2: It's the same night he wants to take me to McDonald's.

2817
02:24:13,600 --> 02:24:15,720
Speaker 2: We haven't talked in a few days, and I need

2818
02:24:15,760 --> 02:24:18,840
Speaker 2: some advice or guidance. I especially need a way for

2819
02:24:18,920 --> 02:24:22,400
Speaker 2: him to understand why I'm upset. During this time, we

2820
02:24:22,400 --> 02:24:24,360
Speaker 2: were house and pet sitting for his family, and I

2821
02:24:24,480 --> 02:24:27,320
Speaker 2: just moved everything back home after he told me, if

2822
02:24:27,320 --> 02:24:29,000
Speaker 2: you want to get mad at me for offering to

2823
02:24:29,000 --> 02:24:32,879
Speaker 2: take you to McDonald, go home. There are a lot

2824
02:24:32,879 --> 02:24:35,400
Speaker 2: of other factors that go into it into this, like,

2825
02:24:35,440 --> 02:24:38,160
Speaker 2: for example, he doesn't even help me clean up the

2826
02:24:38,240 --> 02:24:41,320
Speaker 2: kitchen after I cook. I feel like his mom and

2827
02:24:41,360 --> 02:24:46,160
Speaker 2: not his partner or wife. And there is an update

2828
02:24:47,360 --> 02:24:48,400
Speaker 2: just break up.

2829
02:24:48,520 --> 02:24:52,000
Speaker 1: There's some people that are just so dumb, so like

2830
02:24:52,280 --> 02:24:58,840
Speaker 1: jerks and stupid, annoying, annoying, like there's more heinous things

2831
02:24:58,879 --> 02:25:01,320
Speaker 1: to do, but annoyingness of it just.

2832
02:25:03,120 --> 02:25:06,920
Speaker 2: Makes me mad. It makes me real mad er. I

2833
02:25:07,000 --> 02:25:07,640
Speaker 2: don't like him.

2834
02:25:07,879 --> 02:25:09,680
Speaker 1: I don't like him either, but.

2835
02:25:09,680 --> 02:25:12,760
Speaker 2: Let's get into this freaking update where hopefully she divorces him.

2836
02:25:12,800 --> 02:25:13,000
Speaker 1: Oh.

2837
02:25:13,879 --> 02:25:16,039
Speaker 2: I went over last night to get our pet bunnies

2838
02:25:16,040 --> 02:25:18,680
Speaker 2: that we took to his parents' house. He was there

2839
02:25:19,440 --> 02:25:21,920
Speaker 2: as I was packing. All he did was watch and ask,

2840
02:25:22,320 --> 02:25:25,480
Speaker 2: why are you taking the bunnies? And I said that

2841
02:25:25,680 --> 02:25:27,760
Speaker 2: I didn't trust him to take care of them the

2842
02:25:27,800 --> 02:25:31,160
Speaker 2: way I do and happen. He said he has, and

2843
02:25:31,200 --> 02:25:33,960
Speaker 2: I asked if he even changed the litter box, which

2844
02:25:34,000 --> 02:25:38,480
Speaker 2: I do every day, and he was silent. I said exactly,

2845
02:25:38,800 --> 02:25:41,720
Speaker 2: and packed my crap. I let him know as I

2846
02:25:41,800 --> 02:25:44,280
Speaker 2: was leaving, I said, I am not going to talk

2847
02:25:44,280 --> 02:25:47,000
Speaker 2: to you tonight about our situation. I will not be

2848
02:25:47,040 --> 02:25:50,320
Speaker 2: the one to initiate because I only did, because I

2849
02:25:50,360 --> 02:25:52,480
Speaker 2: only did in the past. I want you to come

2850
02:25:52,520 --> 02:25:56,039
Speaker 2: to me, come to our house and want to fix

2851
02:25:56,160 --> 02:25:58,400
Speaker 2: things like I do. Sir, we gotta have to show

2852
02:25:58,480 --> 02:26:01,600
Speaker 2: up and be open for talking. You can come tomorrow night,

2853
02:26:02,200 --> 02:26:05,320
Speaker 2: which is today. I worked again today and at a

2854
02:26:05,320 --> 02:26:08,600
Speaker 2: lot of school work. I wished earlier early to have

2855
02:26:08,640 --> 02:26:11,200
Speaker 2: time to talk to him. He went out with his friends.

2856
02:26:12,840 --> 02:26:15,959
Speaker 2: It's currently nine thirty five pm and I'm still and

2857
02:26:16,040 --> 02:26:18,879
Speaker 2: he's still at his parents' house. I really thought he

2858
02:26:18,879 --> 02:26:20,959
Speaker 2: would care enough about me to just show up. And

2859
02:26:21,000 --> 02:26:22,760
Speaker 2: there is a final update.

2860
02:26:22,879 --> 02:26:24,880
Speaker 1: Bobby takes to the group chat and said he was

2861
02:26:24,920 --> 02:26:28,600
Speaker 1: going to finally break his record of twenty bruskis in

2862
02:26:28,640 --> 02:26:29,800
Speaker 1: the night. I couldn't miss that.

2863
02:26:29,920 --> 02:26:34,560
Speaker 2: Being you understand, we're going to McDonald's after do you

2864
02:26:34,640 --> 02:26:36,480
Speaker 2: want and he I'll pick you up?

2865
02:26:37,040 --> 02:26:38,640
Speaker 1: Is long you stop complaining?

2866
02:26:39,040 --> 02:26:41,360
Speaker 2: Job and bring the bunnies back?

2867
02:26:41,640 --> 02:26:45,280
Speaker 1: Honestly, the gap in maturity.

2868
02:26:44,920 --> 02:26:50,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, yep, standing Yeah, crazy because she's like, I love

2869
02:26:50,840 --> 02:26:52,880
Speaker 3: how she said it, of like, hey, look, I want

2870
02:26:52,920 --> 02:26:55,240
Speaker 3: you to want this, so you can come to me

2871
02:26:55,360 --> 02:26:57,200
Speaker 3: if you really want to fix this and we can

2872
02:26:57,200 --> 02:26:57,800
Speaker 3: work this out.

2873
02:26:57,879 --> 02:26:59,240
Speaker 1: I'm not going to be the one to do all

2874
02:26:59,280 --> 02:27:01,959
Speaker 1: the work try to fix this and just drag you

2875
02:27:02,360 --> 02:27:06,760
Speaker 1: along with you know, are you not doing anything? And

2876
02:27:06,959 --> 02:27:09,480
Speaker 1: see he showed it.

2877
02:27:09,680 --> 02:27:12,960
Speaker 2: Yes he is true. Colors. Well, let's read this final update.

2878
02:27:13,160 --> 02:27:13,560
Speaker 1: Let's go.

2879
02:27:14,400 --> 02:27:17,160
Speaker 2: He broke up with me. He broke up with you.

2880
02:27:18,879 --> 02:27:19,560
Speaker 1: Oh.

2881
02:27:19,920 --> 02:27:23,640
Speaker 2: He told me he never loved me, Oh, that he

2882
02:27:23,680 --> 02:27:26,520
Speaker 2: doesn't admire me, that he is not inspired by me.

2883
02:27:28,040 --> 02:27:30,400
Speaker 2: He said he was never really here for our entire

2884
02:27:30,440 --> 02:27:32,560
Speaker 2: relationship and that he married me because I was a

2885
02:27:32,600 --> 02:27:37,600
Speaker 2: safe option. You suck so much, dude, you suck so much.

2886
02:27:37,720 --> 02:27:37,879
Speaker 4: Oh.

2887
02:27:38,879 --> 02:27:42,039
Speaker 2: I'm absolutely devastated. When he told me he was coming

2888
02:27:42,040 --> 02:27:44,280
Speaker 2: over to talk, I was convinced he wanted to work

2889
02:27:44,320 --> 02:27:46,760
Speaker 2: things out, that he missed me and wanted to come

2890
02:27:46,760 --> 02:27:49,120
Speaker 2: back to me. I even put together a list to

2891
02:27:49,160 --> 02:27:52,000
Speaker 2: divide the labor and all things you guys told me,

2892
02:27:52,400 --> 02:27:54,879
Speaker 2: so I didn't miss an important point. But when he

2893
02:27:54,959 --> 02:27:58,040
Speaker 2: told me all of that, I was absolutely shattered. He

2894
02:27:58,080 --> 02:28:00,600
Speaker 2: was upset too, but I don't I think it's because

2895
02:28:00,600 --> 02:28:04,119
Speaker 2: he's losing me. It's it's because he probably feels guilty.

2896
02:28:04,600 --> 02:28:06,520
Speaker 2: I don't know what to do. I've been trying to

2897
02:28:06,560 --> 02:28:09,280
Speaker 2: focus on my classes, and my friends have been coming

2898
02:28:09,320 --> 02:28:12,480
Speaker 2: over and helping me rearrange my house. He took all

2899
02:28:12,480 --> 02:28:15,400
Speaker 2: of his stuff. The house is so empty now. I

2900
02:28:15,480 --> 02:28:17,960
Speaker 2: expect to see him in his favorite spots, or when

2901
02:28:18,000 --> 02:28:20,200
Speaker 2: I wake up in the morning, I expect to see

2902
02:28:20,240 --> 02:28:23,320
Speaker 2: him next to me. I just feel so foolish letting

2903
02:28:23,400 --> 02:28:26,200
Speaker 2: myself fall for him and commit myself to him when

2904
02:28:26,240 --> 02:28:29,560
Speaker 2: I was obviously just a fantasy. Jim, I can't believe

2905
02:28:29,600 --> 02:28:31,480
Speaker 2: it was all a lie.

2906
02:28:31,560 --> 02:28:37,920
Speaker 1: Oh, then dust the address of your ex and me

2907
02:28:38,000 --> 02:28:39,920
Speaker 1: and Riley will go pay and we're gonna We're.

2908
02:28:39,840 --> 02:28:41,600
Speaker 2: Not gonna egg his house, We're gonna spaghetti.

2909
02:28:41,680 --> 02:28:41,800
Speaker 4: Yet.

2910
02:28:42,240 --> 02:28:48,440
Speaker 3: Oh put mashed potatoes in his potatoes outside of his house,

2911
02:28:48,680 --> 02:28:51,320
Speaker 3: so then it would whenever the Duke comes, it would

2912
02:28:51,320 --> 02:28:53,000
Speaker 3: just have a bunch of potatoes everywhere.

2913
02:28:53,920 --> 02:28:57,840
Speaker 2: It really yeah, it's probably his favorite.

2914
02:28:58,040 --> 02:29:00,320
Speaker 1: So funny thing to get back in the grass. Always

2915
02:29:00,320 --> 02:29:02,000
Speaker 1: docks and me. You got you got bev with me?

2916
02:29:02,080 --> 02:29:03,600
Speaker 2: Dog? Oh, you got be with me.

2917
02:29:03,720 --> 02:29:06,080
Speaker 3: You're always like he always does this. He always does it.

2918
02:29:06,080 --> 02:29:07,160
Speaker 3: He gets it from what you got? What do you

2919
02:29:07,200 --> 02:29:07,600
Speaker 3: want from me?

2920
02:29:07,720 --> 02:29:07,920
Speaker 2: Huh?

2921
02:29:08,000 --> 02:29:09,640
Speaker 1: I come on, come on, come at me.

2922
02:29:09,760 --> 02:29:12,400
Speaker 2: Come on. I've just said you you it's your favorite.

2923
02:29:12,400 --> 02:29:13,520
Speaker 2: It's your favorite comeback.

2924
02:29:13,760 --> 02:29:15,720
Speaker 1: It is true, That's all I said.

2925
02:29:16,200 --> 02:29:19,959
Speaker 2: All Right, I feel like you just talked.

2926
02:29:19,760 --> 02:29:22,560
Speaker 1: Yourself kind of dogs myself. I'm just keeping one on you.

2927
02:29:23,080 --> 02:29:27,600
Speaker 2: Two eyes over ah boy ah boy. Well you know

2928
02:29:27,640 --> 02:29:29,560
Speaker 2: what I think the trash took itself out.

2929
02:29:29,760 --> 02:29:34,760
Speaker 1: That is, that's exactly what happened. And and they are married.

2930
02:29:34,800 --> 02:29:37,640
Speaker 2: They are married. It's okay, weirdo.

2931
02:29:37,360 --> 02:29:43,320
Speaker 1: This this I maybe it is maybe too controversial. Well,

2932
02:29:43,720 --> 02:29:47,440
Speaker 1: but I think this is a good reason why it's

2933
02:29:47,440 --> 02:29:49,760
Speaker 1: good to just give it a few years.

2934
02:29:50,000 --> 02:29:54,400
Speaker 2: I know for me, that's not controversial. I agree. Wow,

2935
02:29:55,000 --> 02:29:58,520
Speaker 2: I think I think getting I think taking a little

2936
02:29:58,520 --> 02:30:02,039
Speaker 2: bit of time to get married is is sometimes the wiser.

2937
02:30:01,959 --> 02:30:06,080
Speaker 1: How much time Beyonce twenty six?

2938
02:30:06,320 --> 02:30:09,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would say after twenty five to twenty six,

2939
02:30:10,400 --> 02:30:17,560
Speaker 2: and also maybe like like a two two year mark. M.

2940
02:30:17,800 --> 02:30:20,560
Speaker 1: That's nice. I like that. Oh does this sound like

2941
02:30:20,640 --> 02:30:22,520
Speaker 1: a Sophia's Golden Rule?

2942
02:30:22,800 --> 02:30:28,680
Speaker 3: Ooh it someone else the Golden Rule, Platinum, platinum, platinum rule.

2943
02:30:28,720 --> 02:30:31,360
Speaker 1: Oh yeah rules. Yeah, so that way they're above.

2944
02:30:31,840 --> 02:30:34,840
Speaker 2: Yeah. I think that. I think ideally, I think you

2945
02:30:34,879 --> 02:30:37,520
Speaker 2: should live with your partner. Obviously people have different like

2946
02:30:37,560 --> 02:30:40,040
Speaker 2: religious things. Yeah, but if that is, you know, if

2947
02:30:40,080 --> 02:30:42,280
Speaker 2: you're okay with it, I think that you should try

2948
02:30:42,280 --> 02:30:43,959
Speaker 2: and live with your partner for at least a year

2949
02:30:44,000 --> 02:30:45,840
Speaker 2: and see how you function as roommates.

2950
02:30:45,959 --> 02:30:48,640
Speaker 1: I also forgetting I am a big proponent of that.

2951
02:30:48,959 --> 02:30:49,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2952
02:30:49,879 --> 02:30:53,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, there you go, There you go.