WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Mr. Rapper

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<v Speaker 1>second day. The guy on the phone for a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update today has a lot in common with me.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh he's a rapper. Oh okay, yeah, I spit a

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<v Speaker 1>rind from time to time. See I just did right there.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't even know it up. Sean is his name.

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<v Speaker 1>Sean's on the phone right now. He wants to do

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<v Speaker 1>a second date update with a girl named Kelsey. Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>how you doing? I'm all right, So you're a rapper

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<v Speaker 1>and you met this girl at one of your shows. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>she was there to see the show, and I saw

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<v Speaker 1>her in the audience, and then I asked one of

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<v Speaker 1>my guys, who was on stage, the hype man city

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<v Speaker 1>Bringer backstage. Oh there you go? Really all right? So

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<v Speaker 1>you just liked her because she was super hot? Then,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, based off about her appearance? Yes, yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>not looking out in the crowd going like, I bet

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<v Speaker 1>she has a great personality and in her backstage right now,

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<v Speaker 1>because I bet you she can make me laugh back there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that would be so amazing if that was true. Though,

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<v Speaker 1>So you had her brought backstage. What was your first

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<v Speaker 1>impression when you started talking to her. She seemed like

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<v Speaker 1>a real person, like she didn't deal with the fake

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<v Speaker 1>and I like that when people can get straight to

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<v Speaker 1>the point and be blunt. And did you guys actually

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<v Speaker 1>go out on a date or are you considering hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out backstage your first date? Well, when we went to

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<v Speaker 1>the bar after the show. Okay, okay, so you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>met up with her for dinner or anything. You just

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<v Speaker 1>hung out with her that night. I'm trying to now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry if a rapper is like, hey, come backstage,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking that I'm going to start making out with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy. Did you guys make out? I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>while we were conversing, but I didn't. I didn't. You didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>What was the conversation like when you guys were at

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<v Speaker 1>the bar, did everything seem cool? Yeah, it seemed cool.

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<v Speaker 1>We talked about her life and just like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>the normal conversation, and you were I mean, she's for

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<v Speaker 1>sure single because you just pick a random girl out

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<v Speaker 1>of the crowd. Well, yeah, she says she was single,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was really filling her vibe. There was good

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<v Speaker 1>vibrations coming from her and I was giving them back,

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<v Speaker 1>and we seemed like we were really hitting it off. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what I was going to ask you, because I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I do stand up comedy, and sometimes you meet somebody

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<v Speaker 1>after show and like if you hang out and have

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<v Speaker 1>drinks and they go away. Usually I'm like, hey, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't meet people at shows where I Actually I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>I have to contact her again. So what about her

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<v Speaker 1>makes you want to track her down? Well, honestly, it

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<v Speaker 1>was her look and she was definitely smart. She had

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<v Speaker 1>a thing about her. She wasn't like a typical girl

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<v Speaker 1>that I would meet after a show. In your email,

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<v Speaker 1>you said that there's a reason you think she's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. What's the reasoning? Well, the night that

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<v Speaker 1>we hung out. Later that night, I text her kind

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<v Speaker 1>of late, so maybe there was a misunderstanding and she

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<v Speaker 1>thought it was for a booty call or something. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not sure. What did you text her? Would you say

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<v Speaker 1>are you up? If you get a text after ten

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock at night that says are you up, that usually

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<v Speaker 1>means hey, can I come over? And we do it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I had just left from over there like a

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<v Speaker 1>few hours ago, but I was having trouble sleeping, so

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<v Speaker 1>I was wondering if she wanted to talk. I really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to talk sort of. Yeah, he just admit to

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<v Speaker 1>what the text message was and all. Honestly, if she

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<v Speaker 1>would have told me I could come over, I would

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<v Speaker 1>have been there in a heartbeat. But yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to talk like. I enjoyed her

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<v Speaker 1>company and I liked how she conversed. So you're you're

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<v Speaker 1>actually looking for I mean, you could see a relationship

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<v Speaker 1>with this girl. It's a possibility because I mean again,

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<v Speaker 1>we only hung out once, but I'd like to get

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<v Speaker 1>to know her better. So the reason you think she's

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<v Speaker 1>not calling you back is because you think she thinks

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<v Speaker 1>you were trying to do a booty call. I hope

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<v Speaker 1>that's not it, but yes, that's exactly what I would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought. Have you tried to send her any texts

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<v Speaker 1>other than that one? Unfortunately? Yes? Okay? And what did

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<v Speaker 1>those say? And how many? Maybe like three year for

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<v Speaker 1>she does a response? So are you only texting her

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<v Speaker 1>late at night after your shows? Sometimes before I went

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<v Speaker 1>on stage. There was one text said, Hey, I'm about

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<v Speaker 1>to go on all right. Respond to that like, good job.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, well we're gonna play a song, come back,

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<v Speaker 1>call her and get your second date update. All right, thanks,

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<v Speaker 1>I really appreciate it. Brooking jubil in the morning. Sep

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<v Speaker 1>uh yeah, gosh, time for your second date update. Sean

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<v Speaker 1>went out for a girl named Kelsey. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what rhymes with Kelsey at all. Chelsea Chelsea could so

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<v Speaker 1>Kelsey is not Chelsea and they went out. You see

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean I was talking about earlier, how I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a rapper too. Yeah, oh man, bars for days. It's

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<v Speaker 1>time for your second ad update. If you don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>why I was doing that, Sean is on the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>and Sean is a rapper. He actually met the girl

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<v Speaker 1>that he wants us to call today at one of

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<v Speaker 1>his shows. He was on stage performing Sar liked her,

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<v Speaker 1>said one of his guys to go grab her and

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<v Speaker 1>bring her backstage. They talked for a while, even had

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<v Speaker 1>drinks at the bar. But now she's not texting or

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<v Speaker 1>calling him back. He's texted her a few times. He

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<v Speaker 1>thinks the reason that she's not getting back is because

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<v Speaker 1>later that night, after he dropped her off. He sent

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<v Speaker 1>her a text saying are you up, which is international

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<v Speaker 1>code for hey, I want a booty call, and so

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<v Speaker 1>he's thinking that maybe she thinks that's all he's about. Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>are you about ready to give her a call? Yes? Please?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have like something prepared that's sweet to say

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<v Speaker 1>to her to prove that you're really interested? No, but

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<v Speaker 1>I can, okay think about something. You might want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about it while we're talking to her. I'm in

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<v Speaker 1>a dollar phone of her right now. I'll get her

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and see why she's not calling you back. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? Yeah, here we go. Hello, Hi, can I

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<v Speaker 1>speak to Kelsey? Please? Hey Kelsey? How are you? This

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<v Speaker 1>is Jewel from brook and Jewel in the morning. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you not too bad? I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>to be speaking with you. Thanks. What can I do

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Well, you can start by telling me why

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<v Speaker 1>you're not calling my boy Sean back. Sean. Yep, you know, Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>I just got a little awkward. I'm calling you because Sean,

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that you hung out with a little while ago,

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<v Speaker 1>emailed us for a second date. Updated. Yes he did.

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<v Speaker 1>He told us about how he met you at one

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<v Speaker 1>of his shows, and you guys talked for a while,

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<v Speaker 1>but you haven't been texting him or calling him back.

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<v Speaker 1>And he really was hoping to see if you guys

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<v Speaker 1>to go out again, so he emailed us to give

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<v Speaker 1>you a call. Okay, this is so awkward. Look, I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't mean to seem to lead this guy on, but

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we only met each other once. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know why he's like putting this on the radio and

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<v Speaker 1>everything because he wants to see you again. Is there

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<v Speaker 1>a particular reason why you're not answering any of Sean's

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<v Speaker 1>text messages. He's a really nice guy, but I just

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<v Speaker 1>don't think I'm really interested in seeing him again. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>can you tell us why though? Because he sent us

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<v Speaker 1>an email he really wants to know. Do I really

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<v Speaker 1>need to tell him? I mean, if it doesn't happen,

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<v Speaker 1>it doesn't happen, I can't just believe it it's had.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I guess it's up to you. You don't

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<v Speaker 1>have to tell him, or you don't have to tell us,

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<v Speaker 1>But he's curious you would like to know. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>if he's doing something wrong, maybe he could fix it

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<v Speaker 1>for future girls that he wants to take out. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he's not doing anything wrong. It just didn't work out,

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<v Speaker 1>so we didn't do anything wrong, So why not see

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<v Speaker 1>him again? Actually, I don't want to see him again

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<v Speaker 1>because I'm seeing somebody else right now, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's kind of going well and I want to keep

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<v Speaker 1>it that way. Well, so you have you have a

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend or you're dating somebody. No, I was single when

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<v Speaker 1>I met him. I just met another guy at the

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<v Speaker 1>concert and that's been going really well for me and I.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, Okay, so you met some other dude at

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<v Speaker 1>the concert. Well, actually, before I met Sean, I had

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<v Speaker 1>drinks with somebody else and this guy and I hit

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<v Speaker 1>it off a lot better than Sean and I did.

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<v Speaker 1>So who is this dude? Who is this dude that's

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<v Speaker 1>moving in on Sean's territory? Why I am not territory,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, And I'm just I'm just joking, Kelsey sulkily.

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<v Speaker 1>The guy's name was Royce and he was really cool. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we really, really really, Sean's only for Sean. Hold On,

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<v Speaker 1>I haven't told her that you're on the other line yet, Kelsey.

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<v Speaker 1>That's Sean. He was actually listening to the conversation. Why

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<v Speaker 1>what like, roy he's a sleeve man. You're not talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me because of voice? Wow, what's going on? Okay? Yeah, Kelsey,

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<v Speaker 1>that's how these things work. We kind of find out

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that you're not calling somebody back, and they

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<v Speaker 1>listen on the other line. Who is Royce? Voice? Is

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<v Speaker 1>the hype guy who went to grab her for me? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you serious? And he had drinks with her first.

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<v Speaker 1>Clearly this is ridiculous. So so your boy who you're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>go grab that girl? He did grab her. I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I can't believe this happened. Kelsey really well? Yeah, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry I didn't hurt your feelings, but you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we got along really well. You do realize this is

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<v Speaker 1>my hype man, right, Okay, I don't see why that

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<v Speaker 1>would affect how I feel about him. I mean, we've

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<v Speaker 1>been getting along really well. He's a really cool guy. Sean.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you actually talked to Royce about Kelsey not calling

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<v Speaker 1>you back and everything too? Yeah, we actually talked a

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<v Speaker 1>few times about it, and he played dumb on the

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<v Speaker 1>whole idea. He was like, I don't know what's doing.

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<v Speaker 1>So one of the dudes in your own group moved

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<v Speaker 1>in on Kelsey, I really feel like this is bulls

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<v Speaker 1>and I don't understand why Royce would do this and

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<v Speaker 1>be lying to me, and too, why Kelsey would choose

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<v Speaker 1>this guy over me. I mean, he was a great guy,

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<v Speaker 1>That's all there is to it. I really enjoyed spending

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<v Speaker 1>time with them. I have the right to choose who

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<v Speaker 1>I want to hang out with, Kelsey. Can Royce do this?

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<v Speaker 1>Mister productive aka counter productive? Stay doing nothing? But how

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<v Speaker 1>do you trust him? I tell you I'm changing the

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<v Speaker 1>substance he and bodily functions from making you love him

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<v Speaker 1>aka verbal mental sugget basically is intol druggeon. Now come here,

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<v Speaker 1>let me get you more comfortable. I flipp you out

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<v Speaker 1>of something. I commenced to love him. My Cobby is

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<v Speaker 1>playing verbal valley from the list of things. Probably it

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<v Speaker 1>was pretty good, Kelsey. You're sure you don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>think about it? Will you go out on a second

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<v Speaker 1>day with Sean? We will pay for it. I think

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<v Speaker 1>you should because that was pretty good. He's like a

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<v Speaker 1>good rapper and he's really sweet. Yeah see, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>like you. That's the thing. When you ropic, you definitely

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<v Speaker 1>know me. You definitely know me. Trying another girl out

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<v Speaker 1>the concerts, like, really, alright? Sorry Sean, you think it

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<v Speaker 1>was the lyrics? No, I don't think it was the lyrics.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you gonna do now though that you're I

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<v Speaker 1>mean you have to go back to your buddy Royce. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>don't get me wrong. I'm still gonna beat his ass.

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<v Speaker 1>How many people are there in your group, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>four of us? All right, it's about to be three broken.

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<v Speaker 1>You will in the morning.