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Speaker 1: All right, So Ruby is planning her wedding. It sounds

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Speaker 1: like a lot faster than Tany's planning hers.

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Speaker 2: No, excuse me, a date for your No, but we

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Speaker 2: potentially have a venue. I know, we like stumbled upon it.

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Speaker 2: It was so crazy, and there's all these leaves that

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Speaker 2: looked like butterflies everywhere, and I was like, this feels significant.

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Speaker 3: Floor farm. No, but around that around there or farms?

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Speaker 3: Is that it was called? Yeah, I think it's called

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Speaker 3: floor farms.

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Speaker 1: But no, that's my niece's name. So I remember that

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Speaker 1: place always. Oh that's cute, Flora farms.

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Speaker 3: It's in Cabo. Yeah, it is your wedding in Mexico.

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Speaker 3: Not so large. That's a large land mass.

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Speaker 2: It is it is is. I don't want to jinx anything.

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Speaker 2: I don't because like we don't we don't know for sure,

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Speaker 2: but we're pretty it's we're feeling pretty excited.

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Speaker 1: Is this twenty six or twenty five? Twenty five, twenty five? Well,

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Speaker 1: Ruby's moving faster, Ruby's putting hers together right now. I

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Speaker 1: don't know what is the what are the rules on

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Speaker 1: the sequencing of this stuff?

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Speaker 2: Stuff before that Ruby's talking about we've talked about.

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Speaker 3: All right, So what is the issue with your wedding planning?

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Speaker 4: Ruby, Uh, we're just kind of on the fence about

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Speaker 4: whether or not we should have kids, or whether or

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Speaker 4: not the wedding should be no kids.

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Speaker 1: Well, I think it's what I don't. Let me back

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Speaker 1: up a step. What does normally happened? I think that

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Speaker 1: our kids standard.

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Speaker 3: It depends.

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Speaker 4: I've been weddings with kids. I've been two weddings without kids.

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Speaker 1: I've never seen anybody say don't bring kids.

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Speaker 3: Some of them some of the invites say that they do. Again,

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Speaker 3: I haven't been in many weddings in a long time,

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Speaker 3: like adults. And so what's the downside to kids coming?

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, take a look at the price tag

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Speaker 2: of a wedding and you'll see the downside of you

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Speaker 2: inviting kids to a wedding.

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Speaker 3: Well, then cut them out. Yeah, I think that's one

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Speaker 3: of them.

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Speaker 4: The other is like having, you know, kids crying while

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Speaker 4: you're you know, saying your vows to each other, or

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Speaker 4: your first dance together. There's like kids dancing under your dress,

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Speaker 4: like those sort of things.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you should call it off. This is

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Speaker 1: a lot of drama. Yeah, you put it like that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe what about the kid that the ring bear. Well, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: so one kid gets to come, that lucky kid.

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Speaker 4: I know some people will do only like their siblings

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Speaker 4: kids can come, that sort of thing. So we're just

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Speaker 4: on the fence. Do we allow kids do we not?

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Speaker 4: Or And also what's the age cut off? Like fifteen

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Speaker 4: and up or thirteen and up?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I do think if you're trying to limit the budget

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Speaker 1: and the people, you should probably have some sort of

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Speaker 1: framework of limitation where it's not just everybody's kids are

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Speaker 1: runninground like a like a a free for all.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but also, kids don't want to go to weddings,

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Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like I mean it depends

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Speaker 2: on their age obviously. And I think a lot of

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Speaker 2: people because we kind of Rob and I did this

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Speaker 2: and we talk to our friends that have kids, and

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Speaker 2: a lot of them want to come to a wedding

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Speaker 2: without their kids, you know, like they want to enjoy

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Speaker 2: and yeah, don't think it's gonna be we vote no kids.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, easy, let us know what you guys decide will do.

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Speaker 3: Flora's standing by if it's with kids. Okay, Well, first

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Speaker 3: of all, you can't just bring kids. And I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: bring my niece. If she says kids are large kids

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Speaker 3: your children. No, it's if kids are invited, then I

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Speaker 3: will invite a kid around.

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Speaker 1: I don't just come with a kid, Okay, kid, any

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Speaker 1: kids want to come with me.

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Speaker 3: To a wedding. No, it's not like that, got it? Well,

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Speaker 3: she is family, it's not it's like a random kid.

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Speaker 3: I know, but your kid.

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Speaker 1: I don't have a kid, so would be in the

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Speaker 1: role of that. Tanya is in the kid or not kid?

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Speaker 3: Is she with yours? I don't know which way is up?

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Speaker 1: All right, hold on, everybody, some Disneyland tickets to give

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Speaker 1: away in one minute.