1 00:00:10,440 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 1: Hey, everybody, welcome to a bonus episode of I Saw 2 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:16,279 Speaker 1: What You Did. 3 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:18,279 Speaker 2: My name is Millie to Jericho. 4 00:00:18,680 --> 00:00:20,360 Speaker 3: I'm Danielle Henderson. 5 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: And this is gonna be a real fun episode because 6 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:30,240 Speaker 1: I'm getting over a stomach flu or food poisoning or. 7 00:00:30,040 --> 00:00:31,240 Speaker 2: Whatever it is that I have. 8 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,640 Speaker 3: Millie is drained of energy, and we are going to 9 00:00:35,720 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: answer some of your questions. What better time to read 10 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,200 Speaker 3: some of your emails to you than when we've both 11 00:00:42,280 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 3: been kind of low and ill. I'm not sick, but 12 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:49,440 Speaker 3: I've been like very end of season low energy, like 13 00:00:49,560 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 3: end of the winter low energy. 14 00:00:51,000 --> 00:00:54,320 Speaker 1: I also, and listen, this is just me looking at 15 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 1: your instagram as I do. I've noticed that the house 16 00:00:58,240 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: stuff has been there's been an uptick in the work. 17 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 1: Have you been working a lot more on your house? 18 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 3: Oh yeah. I kind of had to lay it down 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 3: and say like not so much, like you guys are 20 00:01:10,720 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 3: going to get Hi out of fucking house. But I 21 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 3: was kind of like, y'all need to get in my 22 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 3: fucking house. I was like, you need to finish this up. Like, 23 00:01:18,120 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: my grandma's got to move in. She has a set 24 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:22,560 Speaker 3: date to move in because her lease is up in 25 00:01:22,600 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 3: a you know, a couple of months or whatever. And yeah, 26 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 3: there's been an uptick also just because it's just the 27 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:31,720 Speaker 3: main contractor has been around more like it's you kind 28 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:33,640 Speaker 3: of you know, let his son do a lot of 29 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:37,080 Speaker 3: the work, and now with him being on the scene, 30 00:01:37,200 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 3: things have just been going quicker because he's there to 31 00:01:39,120 --> 00:01:42,160 Speaker 3: make decisions like right away. So I have an entire 32 00:01:42,240 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 3: room finished. My laundry room, half bath is done. I 33 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,279 Speaker 3: have been able to both pee and wash my hands 34 00:01:49,320 --> 00:01:51,960 Speaker 3: down downstairs for the first time in nine months, and 35 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 3: it was so fun to have him running water down there. 36 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:58,200 Speaker 3: I think part of the reason my pipes burst last 37 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 3: month is because I have not been you water down there, 38 00:02:01,640 --> 00:02:05,279 Speaker 3: like I have had no water running down there. But yeah, 39 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:10,320 Speaker 3: everything's cruising. A little bit pissed because I have to 40 00:02:10,480 --> 00:02:13,600 Speaker 3: pay for them. They put my island in wrong, and 41 00:02:13,680 --> 00:02:15,000 Speaker 3: I have to pay for them to put it in 42 00:02:15,040 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 3: where I originally asked them to put it in. So 43 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 3: that's infuriating. Oh god, I bet, because I'm like, hey, 44 00:02:21,040 --> 00:02:23,880 Speaker 3: you see how it was like this on the drawing 45 00:02:24,400 --> 00:02:27,240 Speaker 3: and it's been like that since July. That's what I wanted, 46 00:02:27,680 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 3: and they put it in while I was in London, 47 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:32,760 Speaker 3: So I came back and I'm like, oh, this is wrong. 48 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:35,840 Speaker 3: And then I spent I don't know, maybe three weeks 49 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 3: four weeks with them telling me why they couldn't change 50 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:40,079 Speaker 3: it and how much of a pain in the ass 51 00:02:40,120 --> 00:02:43,399 Speaker 3: it would be the change, And finally, after two very 52 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 3: intense therapy sessions, I was able to figure out the 53 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,800 Speaker 3: right thing to say for them to just move it, 54 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:51,120 Speaker 3: because I'm like, basically, the way they installed it, I 55 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 3: have less space to cook in now than I did 56 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 3: when I lived in a studio apartment. Holy shit, they 57 00:02:56,680 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 3: put it like three feet away from the fucking stove, 58 00:02:59,440 --> 00:03:00,120 Speaker 3: so you're based. 59 00:03:00,320 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: Couldn't stand in front of your oven while the door 60 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:05,399 Speaker 1: was open, right. 61 00:03:05,600 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 3: Right, And that was one of the things I had 62 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 3: to point out to get them to finally fucking move. 63 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 3: It was like, Hey, you see this, how I can't 64 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 3: stand in front of my oven and. 65 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 2: Open the door? Yeah? 66 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:18,840 Speaker 1: What were they like seriously going, oh, but people always 67 00:03:18,960 --> 00:03:20,720 Speaker 1: open their ovens. 68 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:20,960 Speaker 2: To the side. 69 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:23,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, they were seriously like, no, people love having this 70 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:25,640 Speaker 3: close to the oven, so they don't have to They 71 00:03:25,639 --> 00:03:28,320 Speaker 3: can just turn around and like, you know, put. 72 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,359 Speaker 2: Their fucking knees or something. 73 00:03:30,480 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 3: Yeah. I'm like, oh, I turn around to drop their 74 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 3: whole fucking turkey on Thanksgiving thing because they're picking it 75 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 3: up from the side or whatever the hell I was 76 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:40,560 Speaker 3: living and you know, you know, and I have posted 77 00:03:40,560 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 3: it on Instagram. I'm never doing this kind of renovation again. 78 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 3: So I sprang for my dream oven, like my dream range. Yeah, 79 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:50,880 Speaker 3: and the fact that I wouldn't be able to fully 80 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:53,400 Speaker 3: cook on it was driving me up a fucking wall. 81 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:56,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, there's no fucking way you're gonna get this like 82 00:03:57,560 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 1: bomb ass fucking restaurant oven and only be able to 83 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:03,920 Speaker 1: open it from the side that is. 84 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 2: Socially from the sun. 85 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:07,520 Speaker 3: And also like when I'm cooking, if I step back, 86 00:04:07,880 --> 00:04:10,040 Speaker 3: my ass would just be in the island, like if 87 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,400 Speaker 3: I stepped back at all. And I like, this is 88 00:04:12,400 --> 00:04:13,960 Speaker 3: what I had to do, Like, this is what I 89 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:16,719 Speaker 3: have to do people to get men to listen to 90 00:04:16,760 --> 00:04:18,719 Speaker 3: me on a daily basis. This has been my life 91 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:20,960 Speaker 3: for the last nine months. I had to stand in 92 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:23,120 Speaker 3: front of it and open the door and watch it 93 00:04:23,200 --> 00:04:26,560 Speaker 3: hit my thighs. I had to say to them specifically, 94 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 3: I'm a big bitch, and they looked at me and 95 00:04:29,440 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 3: I'm like, I'm not like a five foot tall one 96 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 3: hundred pound housewife. I'm a big bitch. I need space. 97 00:04:36,240 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 3: And then I had to go around to the back 98 00:04:38,160 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 3: of the island and say, if you move it back here, 99 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 3: which is literally three to four feet away from where 100 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:49,120 Speaker 3: it currently is, yeah, my actual kitchen will look much 101 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:52,880 Speaker 3: bigger because the kitchen is huge. So like, how about 102 00:04:52,920 --> 00:04:55,680 Speaker 3: we utilize some of this space over here? And I'm 103 00:04:55,720 --> 00:04:57,640 Speaker 3: just so sick of like the well, it's going to 104 00:04:57,680 --> 00:04:59,239 Speaker 3: be a problem. Well it's going to be a problem 105 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 3: for me and I have to fuck can live here. 106 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, and you're paying for it. 107 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 1: That's most important thing to remember for these fuckers, Like 108 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 1: you're paying for it, you should get what you want, 109 00:05:07,560 --> 00:05:07,920 Speaker 1: live it. 110 00:05:08,200 --> 00:05:09,800 Speaker 3: And they try to yell at me all the time, 111 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 3: like he's like, well we went over this, we talked 112 00:05:11,760 --> 00:05:15,040 Speaker 3: about it. I'm like, no, one, we didn't. Because your 113 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 3: son has been working here and he smokes pot in 114 00:05:17,040 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 3: the driveway every morning before he comes in, so the 115 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 3: hell knows what he's thinking all day, right, But we 116 00:05:21,600 --> 00:05:23,719 Speaker 3: didn't talk about it. You just sent me a picture 117 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:25,359 Speaker 3: and said it was done when I was out of 118 00:05:25,400 --> 00:05:27,440 Speaker 3: the country. Because if we had talked about it, I 119 00:05:27,480 --> 00:05:29,280 Speaker 3: would have said, don't do it. 120 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,080 Speaker 2: Plus there's a drawing. 121 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:36,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like it's not like we made this shit 122 00:05:36,680 --> 00:05:37,279 Speaker 1: out of fin air. 123 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:39,160 Speaker 2: There's a drawing of it. 124 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:42,520 Speaker 1: It's existing in fucking tangible paper form. 125 00:05:42,800 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 3: So this and this is part of the thing I 126 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:47,440 Speaker 3: had to go through in therapy was like my therapist 127 00:05:47,560 --> 00:05:49,520 Speaker 3: had to teach me how to say this, which is 128 00:05:49,560 --> 00:05:52,839 Speaker 3: so embarrassing, but it is true because I get railroaded 129 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 3: by these fucking guys all the time. And she said, 130 00:05:57,480 --> 00:06:00,760 Speaker 3: just say to them, that's a really nice idea for 131 00:06:00,920 --> 00:06:05,480 Speaker 3: your house. Here's what I want in my house. Yeah, 132 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 3: So that's what I've had to start saying when they're like, oh, 133 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 3: everyone loves cooking like a foot away from their fucking stove, 134 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:12,599 Speaker 3: and I'm like, that's a great idea for your house. 135 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,560 Speaker 3: Here's what I want in my house exactly. So it's 136 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 3: getting fixed. I have to pay for it, and I'm furious, 137 00:06:18,480 --> 00:06:20,039 Speaker 3: but it's gonna be done. And that was when I 138 00:06:20,120 --> 00:06:21,760 Speaker 3: really started that like y'all need to get the fuck 139 00:06:21,800 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 3: in my house talks because I'm like I can't with this, Like, oh, 140 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:28,719 Speaker 3: you think you're mad, imagine being me. I haven't had 141 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 3: a kitchen for nine months and now you have to 142 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,159 Speaker 3: take another two weeks to fix this. 143 00:06:32,600 --> 00:06:35,719 Speaker 2: Well, look, I'm gonna float an idea buy you right now. 144 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 1: Just take it as information. We don't even make a 145 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: decision about it. But if it ever gets to this 146 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: point where you cannot afford all of these fucking fuck 147 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: ups that these people are making, I will sell pictures. 148 00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: Of my feet on the Internet. 149 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:56,479 Speaker 3: I'm saying. I mean, if there's there are levels of friendship, 150 00:06:56,520 --> 00:07:00,839 Speaker 3: and I feel like you've just opened up a top tier. 151 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 3: Cannot thank you enough. Absolutely hope you don't have to 152 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 3: do that, But the fact that you would true friendship, 153 00:07:09,400 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, homie. I should make them sell 154 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 3: pictures of their fucking feet. 155 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:15,360 Speaker 1: Oh my god, are you kidding me? I mean, I'm 156 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: not into feet. I'm throwing this shit out there right now. 157 00:07:18,400 --> 00:07:22,080 Speaker 1: But there's so many people who are a kind of 158 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:25,720 Speaker 1: like it's not disturbing. I'm not trying to kink shame, 159 00:07:26,040 --> 00:07:28,280 Speaker 1: but more people are than I thought. 160 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:30,040 Speaker 2: I guess what the surprise is. 161 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 1: And I gotta tell you, like, and this is based 162 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:35,640 Speaker 1: on a lot, like a lot of different pieces of information. 163 00:07:35,720 --> 00:07:38,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I did not get this idea purely from 164 00:07:38,200 --> 00:07:41,040 Speaker 1: thin air. I watched the last season of vander Pump rules. 165 00:07:41,400 --> 00:07:45,640 Speaker 1: They sold feet pictures in order to afford someone's nos job, 166 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,679 Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, that's a viable way to make money. Crazy, 167 00:07:48,760 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: And then I was like, well, what kind of feed pictures? 168 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,000 Speaker 1: And it's literally like you don't even have to clean them. 169 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:58,480 Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying, like construction worker feet, I'm 170 00:07:58,520 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: sure is a fucking huge market for that. 171 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 3: There's a market for it. Showed me like a toenail 172 00:08:03,720 --> 00:08:06,640 Speaker 3: popping off, and like a I'm sure there's a market 173 00:08:06,640 --> 00:08:08,760 Speaker 3: for it. And there's also you were of the ninety 174 00:08:08,840 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: Day Fiance universe. Someone was also selling her farts in 175 00:08:13,040 --> 00:08:16,280 Speaker 3: a jar until she got so much gas that she 176 00:08:16,320 --> 00:08:17,760 Speaker 3: thought she was having a heart attack. 177 00:08:21,040 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 2: Here here's what I think about a fucking fart in 178 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 2: a jar. 179 00:08:24,120 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 1: It's a one time only thing. It's like a popper. 180 00:08:27,360 --> 00:08:29,120 Speaker 1: It's like you just open the jar and there goes 181 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: the fart in there. It is you spent like what 182 00:08:31,080 --> 00:08:34,679 Speaker 1: seventy five dollars? How are you gonna savor it? It's 183 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:38,480 Speaker 1: just literally like a but that's open jars it. 184 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 3: That is the genius of that move is that she's like, 185 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:43,520 Speaker 3: you won't have to buy this again. If you enjoyed 186 00:08:43,520 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 3: this experience, give me another seventy five dollars. 187 00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:48,320 Speaker 2: And honestly, there. 188 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: Was a moment where I thought I farught so much 189 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,840 Speaker 1: maybe I would have a heart attack. But now that 190 00:08:52,920 --> 00:08:56,840 Speaker 1: somebody's actually claiming to have maybe done that, I'm like, 191 00:08:56,920 --> 00:08:57,600 Speaker 1: holy shit. 192 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 3: That story went came and went wa too soon in 193 00:09:00,679 --> 00:09:04,200 Speaker 3: the news cycle. I could have feasted on that story 194 00:09:04,240 --> 00:09:07,800 Speaker 3: and laughed my ass off for weeks. It just came 195 00:09:07,880 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 3: and went way too fast. I don't think enough people 196 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:13,439 Speaker 3: caught it. I don't think enough people cared about it. 197 00:09:14,280 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 3: And I would just like to point out that it's 198 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:18,319 Speaker 3: out there. If you haven't heard this story, just go 199 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,520 Speaker 3: look up ninety day fiance fart in a jar. 200 00:09:20,800 --> 00:09:21,079 Speaker 2: Listen. 201 00:09:21,160 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 1: I would sell farts in a jar for you. Definitely 202 00:09:24,120 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 1: would self feet picks for you. I would do a 203 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:29,319 Speaker 1: lot of things, you know, because you're right, it's your kitchen, 204 00:09:29,360 --> 00:09:31,679 Speaker 1: it's your house. You should get what you want. I mean, 205 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:34,559 Speaker 1: your first time home buyer. You should be very proud 206 00:09:34,600 --> 00:09:38,479 Speaker 1: of that. And fuck anybody who's gonna make that complicated 207 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 1: for you. 208 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:42,079 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, truly, I appreciate it because I 209 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:45,280 Speaker 3: feel like a fucking monster anytime I'm like, this is wrong. 210 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:49,000 Speaker 3: Like that is something I'm learning about myself, is that 211 00:09:49,080 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 3: I will go out of my way to make things 212 00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 3: easier for other people. So when they fuck me in 213 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 3: some way, I'm just like, oh well, And I've been 214 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 3: really working on it, like really working on being comfortable 215 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 3: saying no, this is wrong, this is what I want. 216 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:08,400 Speaker 3: Because I'm also very easily intimidated by men, I think, 217 00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:11,760 Speaker 3: and I don't. I never wanted to believe that about myself, 218 00:10:11,760 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 3: but in this experience, I think it's very true. Like 219 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,840 Speaker 3: I have so many dudes in my world now who 220 00:10:17,840 --> 00:10:20,760 Speaker 3: I'm constantly just like worn down by, Like they just 221 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:22,560 Speaker 3: wear me out, and I think that's what they want. 222 00:10:22,600 --> 00:10:25,079 Speaker 3: They just want me to be worn out and shut up. 223 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:27,680 Speaker 3: And I've had to really stand up for myself because 224 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 3: it's intimidating and it sucks. 225 00:10:29,760 --> 00:10:31,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know what it's been happening for. First of all, 226 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:34,680 Speaker 1: I can't even believe that you said nine months. I'm like, God, 227 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: nine months? Is that how long you've been doing this? 228 00:10:37,800 --> 00:10:38,760 Speaker 1: That's when we moved. 229 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:41,600 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I moved last June. I have not had 230 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:45,080 Speaker 3: a working kitchen since I moved in, and I started 231 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,880 Speaker 3: this process of renovating six months ago. 232 00:10:48,000 --> 00:10:52,079 Speaker 2: Damn crazy. So it's been it has been a long time, and. 233 00:10:52,040 --> 00:10:54,280 Speaker 1: I'm just I'm hoping that little by little it's gonna 234 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:57,360 Speaker 1: get done, and you know, hopefully after this, you will 235 00:10:57,360 --> 00:10:59,439 Speaker 1: not fucking ever have to talk to these guys. Don't 236 00:10:59,440 --> 00:11:02,800 Speaker 1: send them Chris cards. They're not getting Do they get bonuses? 237 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,320 Speaker 2: Are they like? Do you get bonuses? Okay? 238 00:11:05,880 --> 00:11:05,920 Speaker 1: No? 239 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 3: For me. There's also and I I don't I don't 240 00:11:08,880 --> 00:11:10,800 Speaker 3: even know legally if I can talk about it. But 241 00:11:11,320 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 3: a hissy fit was thrown not by me, but by 242 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:17,080 Speaker 3: one of the men who quit, and that like absolutely 243 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 3: quit working with his partner, and then two weeks later 244 00:11:21,400 --> 00:11:23,000 Speaker 3: just showed up again like nothing happened. 245 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:23,959 Speaker 2: Oh God. 246 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:26,040 Speaker 3: I just want people to keep that in mind when 247 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 3: they say women are too emotional to do any job. 248 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:32,680 Speaker 3: This motherfucker threw a goddamn hissy fit. An adult man 249 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:36,040 Speaker 3: threw a hissy fit, quit and then just showed up 250 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 3: two weeks later like nothing happened. And I was like, Hey, 251 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:39,440 Speaker 3: what the hell's going on? 252 00:11:39,600 --> 00:11:42,040 Speaker 2: What are you doing? Damn? 253 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:44,560 Speaker 3: And then they tried to gaslight me because I was like, hey, 254 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,080 Speaker 3: I thought he quit, and this partner was like no 255 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:47,520 Speaker 3: he didn't. 256 00:11:47,760 --> 00:11:48,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. 257 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:52,720 Speaker 3: Time to get out of my house. 258 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:55,080 Speaker 2: They will pay, but it's gonna be okay. 259 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,160 Speaker 3: And again, I know these are all very upper up 260 00:11:57,280 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 3: uppity problems, Dad, but but they are real and they 261 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 3: are daily and it is wearing me the fuck out. 262 00:12:04,679 --> 00:12:07,520 Speaker 3: And I've just reached the end of winter. Like you 263 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 3: know those cartoons where like the cartoon wolf would just 264 00:12:10,800 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 3: be like running and then just slide and skid on 265 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 3: his face and just like slowly cross Like that's me. 266 00:12:17,240 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 3: I'm just like jaw open, body fully melted, just slide 267 00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 3: and across, lost all momentum at normal life. 268 00:12:27,120 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 1: Again, listen, you're gonna get it. I promise you. It 269 00:12:30,240 --> 00:12:34,320 Speaker 1: will be over soon. I will eat solid food again. 270 00:12:34,520 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 2: It's all gonna be great. It's gonna be great. We 271 00:12:37,520 --> 00:12:39,160 Speaker 2: have a lot of things to look forward to. 272 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 3: Solid food and about being Gasolin in your own home. 273 00:12:45,760 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 3: The small these people, small things. You know, what I'm 274 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 3: really looking forward to and what makes me happy every 275 00:12:50,559 --> 00:12:52,760 Speaker 3: time we do it, and which gives me the energy 276 00:12:52,800 --> 00:12:55,560 Speaker 3: I need to go on is our mail bag? 277 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 2: Same? Why do you think I'm right? I'm here? 278 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:00,200 Speaker 1: If I was like if I didn't give a shit 279 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:01,679 Speaker 1: about the mailbag, I'd be like, fuck this. 280 00:13:03,040 --> 00:13:05,120 Speaker 2: I don't I'm not dying for a podcast. 281 00:13:05,240 --> 00:13:08,640 Speaker 1: Okay, but I love our mailbags and this is why 282 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: I like the bonus episodes, because it's like we're just 283 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,559 Speaker 1: fucking hanging out, right, He's my favorite thing. 284 00:13:13,720 --> 00:13:16,200 Speaker 2: Well, can I read one? Can I read the first one? 285 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:16,840 Speaker 3: By all means? 286 00:13:16,960 --> 00:13:17,280 Speaker 1: Okay? 287 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:22,360 Speaker 2: The name of this short but very sweet email is 288 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 2: called Horror Rex needed and I was written by Angela. 289 00:13:26,679 --> 00:13:28,920 Speaker 2: So here we go, Hi, ladies. 290 00:13:29,640 --> 00:13:34,680 Speaker 1: I love horror films, but my boyfriend hates them. I've 291 00:13:34,679 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 1: tried getting him into them, and I may have finally 292 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: found a niche that he enjoys. I made him watch 293 00:13:40,800 --> 00:13:43,840 Speaker 1: The Fly, one of my favorite movies as a child, 294 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:48,080 Speaker 1: and The Thing nineteen eighty two, and. 295 00:13:48,000 --> 00:13:50,760 Speaker 2: He really liked them both. So I'm wondering if you 296 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:54,920 Speaker 2: have any recommendations of like sci fi, gross out horror. 297 00:13:55,120 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 3: Thanks Angela, solid I I love I love this. I 298 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 3: love the brevity of it. It's very clear, very concise. 299 00:14:03,240 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 3: I have two questions. One, why are you forcing him 300 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,760 Speaker 3: to watch movies that you want to watch? Come on, 301 00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 3: just just real quick, like it's I think it's because 302 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,160 Speaker 3: you love them and you want him to be like 303 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 3: on that journey with you and maybe that's like a 304 00:14:17,200 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 3: shared time that you have and you know, but if 305 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,840 Speaker 3: he I'm just wondering, like why he doesn't like them? 306 00:14:22,920 --> 00:14:25,400 Speaker 3: Is it like he was already traumatized by horror movies? 307 00:14:25,880 --> 00:14:28,840 Speaker 3: You know? Did he have a traumatic event happened in 308 00:14:28,880 --> 00:14:31,520 Speaker 3: his life? Like, what what's going on with them that 309 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 3: he doesn't want to watch them? Maybe dig into that first, however, 310 00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:38,840 Speaker 3: And my second question is, have you tried older horror films, 311 00:14:39,080 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 3: like the ones that are not like so visceral. So 312 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 3: I'm thinking, like, the first thing that came to mind 313 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:45,960 Speaker 3: when I read this was swamp Thing. 314 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 2: Yes, you say swamping a lot. 315 00:14:48,560 --> 00:14:51,880 Speaker 3: I love Swamping the cat out of the Bag. I 316 00:14:51,920 --> 00:14:59,880 Speaker 3: fucking love that movie. I love Swamp Things so much. 317 00:15:00,760 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it. Okay, go back for a second. 318 00:15:03,920 --> 00:15:05,120 Speaker 1: I think I missed something. 319 00:15:05,520 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 2: So you said, have you tried old horror? 320 00:15:08,560 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 3: Yeah? And I'm thinking older horror just because Angela is 321 00:15:11,760 --> 00:15:16,080 Speaker 3: asking for sci fi gross out horror, which to me 322 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:18,280 Speaker 3: means the sci fi of it, to me means like 323 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 3: not the modern visceral gore horror. Like I think maybe 324 00:15:24,520 --> 00:15:25,480 Speaker 3: that's what he doesn't like. 325 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:29,080 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, because yeah, I guess maybe I am confused 326 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: by this email because I'm sitting here thinking, Okay, he 327 00:15:32,640 --> 00:15:35,560 Speaker 1: likes the thing and he likes the. 328 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:38,720 Speaker 3: Fly and they're gross, so they're gross. 329 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: Listen, we did that episode on the Fly. You know 330 00:15:41,400 --> 00:15:42,760 Speaker 2: how gross it can be. 331 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:46,560 Speaker 1: So I guess I'm sort of thinking, like, Okay, well, 332 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,200 Speaker 1: if he likes that. 333 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: Then what what's his problem with horror? I'm sitting here going, oh, 334 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 2: he hates horror, but he likes the grossest worst of it. 335 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:02,520 Speaker 3: Like that's yes, That's what I'm trying to figure out, 336 00:16:02,520 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 3: Like why doesn't he like horror? And what kind doesn't 337 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:08,640 Speaker 3: he like? Like, let's drill down and ask him more, 338 00:16:08,840 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 3: like maybe Angela needs to ask more like why don't 339 00:16:11,960 --> 00:16:14,440 Speaker 3: you like this specific movie that I'm trying to get 340 00:16:14,440 --> 00:16:14,960 Speaker 3: you to watch? 341 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:18,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, well, you know, and to be honest with you, 342 00:16:18,200 --> 00:16:23,400 Speaker 1: I gotta say, I'm I'm surprised that a boyfriend doesn't 343 00:16:23,480 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 1: like horror. 344 00:16:24,160 --> 00:16:27,240 Speaker 2: Like I wish I knew guys that didn't like horror. 345 00:16:27,240 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 1: That would make my life one hundred percent fucking easier 346 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,360 Speaker 1: because it's like all the guys that I work with 347 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:35,760 Speaker 1: love it to the point of exhaustion. 348 00:16:36,000 --> 00:16:38,040 Speaker 3: So many times do I have to tell you to 349 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 3: stop hanging out with Rob Zombie. I just w'en hanging 350 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:44,520 Speaker 3: out with that dude. 351 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:49,720 Speaker 1: Listen, we can't help, but hang I just I just 352 00:16:49,760 --> 00:16:50,640 Speaker 1: love him too much. 353 00:16:51,120 --> 00:16:53,440 Speaker 2: He's so cool. But I have actually never. 354 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:55,920 Speaker 1: Never hung out with Robs on me. That's what makes 355 00:16:55,960 --> 00:16:57,760 Speaker 1: it wasn't that wasn't a work thing. 356 00:16:57,960 --> 00:16:58,640 Speaker 2: So there you go. 357 00:16:59,440 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 3: Well, because I'm also thinking of movies like Seconds, which 358 00:17:02,360 --> 00:17:04,560 Speaker 3: I don't know if that qualifies as sci fi gross 359 00:17:04,560 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 3: out horror. Yeah, but we covered that in the show, 360 00:17:07,119 --> 00:17:09,080 Speaker 3: and that Timmy feels like something he might like. 361 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 2: I mean, listen, you know me, I love that fucking movie. 362 00:17:12,440 --> 00:17:14,119 Speaker 2: So I'm I like that idea. 363 00:17:14,760 --> 00:17:17,479 Speaker 1: Part of me is thinking, Okay, part of me is like, 364 00:17:17,480 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 1: what if we stayed in the eighties. Okay, has he 365 00:17:21,320 --> 00:17:25,600 Speaker 1: seen Alien? I mean that's a big fucking movie. Science 366 00:17:25,640 --> 00:17:31,800 Speaker 1: fiction gets a little gnarly, as you know, exactly another 367 00:17:31,880 --> 00:17:36,520 Speaker 1: thing I would recommend for me for my money. I 368 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:40,119 Speaker 1: feel like in this realm, you get like one guy 369 00:17:40,280 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: who does it really well, and he did it really often, 370 00:17:43,320 --> 00:17:44,320 Speaker 1: David Cronenberg. 371 00:17:45,280 --> 00:17:46,440 Speaker 2: Go go get. 372 00:17:46,520 --> 00:17:51,439 Speaker 1: Get scanners, Get video drome, video drome. Yeah, any of 373 00:17:51,440 --> 00:17:53,880 Speaker 1: that kind of stuff. See what he thinks about that, 374 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:55,840 Speaker 1: and then if you want to go like a little 375 00:17:55,840 --> 00:18:00,200 Speaker 1: bit deeper, I don't know, Like the Reanimator. 376 00:18:00,359 --> 00:18:01,200 Speaker 2: That's a good one. 377 00:18:01,280 --> 00:18:04,920 Speaker 1: That's a love Craft Stuart Gordon nineteen eighty five movie. 378 00:18:05,480 --> 00:18:06,520 Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. 379 00:18:06,640 --> 00:18:09,159 Speaker 1: Just to stay close to the things that you know 380 00:18:09,960 --> 00:18:15,040 Speaker 1: that he likes. Right, But it is curious that he 381 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:19,400 Speaker 1: hates horror, but somehow really liked the Fly and the Thing, so. 382 00:18:19,760 --> 00:18:21,800 Speaker 3: He likes gross out. I think I think the distinction 383 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,639 Speaker 3: is he likes gross out horror, but he doesn't like 384 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:28,000 Speaker 3: body parts coming off and like you know, chainsaws coming 385 00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,560 Speaker 3: out and heads being ripped apart. But I don't know 386 00:18:30,600 --> 00:18:32,080 Speaker 3: the fly. Like I said, the fly and the thing 387 00:18:32,119 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 3: are both gross in their own category. 388 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:39,280 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think the fly beats permitt It 389 00:18:39,320 --> 00:18:43,880 Speaker 1: has more grossness than the thing. Yeah, maybe the thing 390 00:18:43,960 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: is is more of a thriller, but you know it, 391 00:18:47,000 --> 00:18:50,399 Speaker 1: when it comes down to it, like, yeah, I feel 392 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: like Alien Reanimator more Cronenberg nice, And you know that's 393 00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:57,920 Speaker 1: the way you do. 394 00:18:58,200 --> 00:19:00,400 Speaker 2: I guess that fight. 395 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, give him a shot and Angela, let us 396 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,400 Speaker 3: know if any of those hit and if they don't hit. 397 00:19:05,600 --> 00:19:08,399 Speaker 3: Give us more info on your boyfriend and we'll try again. 398 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: This is a fascinating that's a fascinating thought experiment. 399 00:19:14,240 --> 00:19:16,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, I just want to I just want a full 400 00:19:16,119 --> 00:19:20,119 Speaker 3: psychological profile on someone. Someone send us a full psychological 401 00:19:20,480 --> 00:19:24,199 Speaker 3: profile of a loved one, a partner, a teacher. I 402 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:25,200 Speaker 3: just think they're fun to read. 403 00:19:25,520 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: Yes, we want full psychological profiles and everybody so. 404 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:33,879 Speaker 3: Well this email the title is thank you from a 405 00:19:33,920 --> 00:19:38,439 Speaker 3: recent divorce. Ladies, please let me gush gratitude at you 406 00:19:38,520 --> 00:19:41,320 Speaker 3: for a hot second. Over the course of the last year, 407 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:43,840 Speaker 3: I have listened to your show every week and watched 408 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:47,800 Speaker 3: damn near every movie you covered. Twenty twenty one was 409 00:19:47,800 --> 00:19:52,480 Speaker 3: my actual dumpster fire in an infomercial style nutshell. Ask 410 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:54,760 Speaker 3: me how I lost two hundred and fifty pounds in 411 00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 3: the form of a lying, cheating, gaslighting husband as a 412 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,359 Speaker 3: newly single, thirty one year old woman. And it has 413 00:20:00,400 --> 00:20:03,560 Speaker 3: been so empowering to hear you talk about your rich 414 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 3: individual lives and interests, as well as your sealing, shattering 415 00:20:07,359 --> 00:20:10,800 Speaker 3: ideals and opinions. I saw what you did has become 416 00:20:10,960 --> 00:20:14,240 Speaker 3: a weekly introspection which reminds me to broaden my worldview 417 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,320 Speaker 3: and take note from the Boss bitches. I am blessed 418 00:20:17,359 --> 00:20:20,320 Speaker 3: to call friends and family and you brought me back 419 00:20:20,359 --> 00:20:24,119 Speaker 3: to my true love movies. If you're ever in Kansas City, 420 00:20:24,320 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 3: movie tickets are on me. Thank you for being your 421 00:20:26,960 --> 00:20:32,920 Speaker 3: authentic selves and keep kicking ass all over the place. Katie. Wow, Katie, 422 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,520 Speaker 3: thank you. First of all, thank you for making us 423 00:20:35,520 --> 00:20:39,160 Speaker 3: part of your life and your year. And I'm so 424 00:20:39,200 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 3: sorry that twenty twenty one was a dumpster fire for 425 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:45,080 Speaker 3: you been there and it's hard to come out of 426 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:47,840 Speaker 3: and especially in the conditions we're all currently living in. 427 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:52,399 Speaker 3: But the fact that you have re embraced movies just 428 00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,239 Speaker 3: makes my heart sing, Like I love that that's been 429 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:59,760 Speaker 3: part of your care for yourself and reminding yourself of 430 00:20:59,760 --> 00:21:02,040 Speaker 3: who you are and what you love, because that, to 431 00:21:02,080 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 3: me is like the most important thing to do or 432 00:21:04,880 --> 00:21:06,760 Speaker 3: thing to remember when you are coming out of a 433 00:21:06,800 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 3: really hard situation, is like you have to remember who 434 00:21:09,080 --> 00:21:11,720 Speaker 3: you are, and that's hard. It takes a long time sometimes. 435 00:21:11,720 --> 00:21:15,080 Speaker 3: So I'm just thrilled that you that were part of 436 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:16,360 Speaker 3: that in even a small way. 437 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:17,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, me too. 438 00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:19,520 Speaker 1: Thanks for writing. First of all, I think it's like 439 00:21:19,600 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 1: super nice of you to say all of that stuff. 440 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:23,520 Speaker 2: I mean, I've never been. 441 00:21:23,400 --> 00:21:27,760 Speaker 1: Divorced, but I have gone through a lot of hard 442 00:21:27,760 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: stuff in my life too, and I feel like movies, 443 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,240 Speaker 1: it's like sometimes we forget that. I think movies help 444 00:21:35,160 --> 00:21:39,440 Speaker 1: a lot with with like bad times and with bad 445 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,000 Speaker 1: periods of our lives. 446 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:41,720 Speaker 3: You know. 447 00:21:41,840 --> 00:21:44,080 Speaker 1: Part of I think why I got into movies really 448 00:21:44,280 --> 00:21:47,679 Speaker 1: was because I hated fucking high school and shit, like 449 00:21:47,720 --> 00:21:49,760 Speaker 1: you know, so the thing of like, oh what do 450 00:21:49,800 --> 00:21:54,159 Speaker 1: you do to distract from things that are happening that 451 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 1: you're you have no control over, stuff that you're not 452 00:21:57,359 --> 00:21:59,679 Speaker 1: you know, happy with, And I feel like it is 453 00:21:59,720 --> 00:22:02,320 Speaker 1: a gape and it is like a way to sort 454 00:22:02,320 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 1: of like come out of whatever you know, painfulness is 455 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,080 Speaker 1: in your life. So I'm just glad that movies did 456 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,920 Speaker 1: that for you for this, and you know, I'm glad 457 00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,399 Speaker 1: that you listen to the podcast, and like, honestly, like, 458 00:22:15,119 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 1: if you've watched damn near every movie that we've covered, 459 00:22:19,480 --> 00:22:20,520 Speaker 1: I just have to tip my. 460 00:22:20,480 --> 00:22:22,080 Speaker 3: Hat to you. 461 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: Since we fucking like, we sometimes get emails where people 462 00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,320 Speaker 1: are like, we don't watch the movies ever, So I'm like, 463 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:31,639 Speaker 1: oh my god, somebody's watched almost all the movies. 464 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:34,200 Speaker 3: Like we will take you out for movies when we're 465 00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:39,359 Speaker 3: in Kansas City. Don't worry. The movie tickets are also 466 00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:43,880 Speaker 3: Kansas City, Kansas or Kansas City, Missouri. Either one. We'll we'll, 467 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:45,480 Speaker 3: we'll swing through. We just need to. 468 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:47,359 Speaker 2: We'll go to both. No big deal. 469 00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,240 Speaker 3: Thank you so much, Katie. That was really great. 470 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:52,400 Speaker 2: Okay, so here's the next email. 471 00:22:54,480 --> 00:22:56,480 Speaker 1: I'm already laugh at because I know what it's gonna be. 472 00:22:56,880 --> 00:23:01,520 Speaker 1: It's called Gurney Alternative. Episode is Noah hex. 473 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,520 Speaker 2: Oh the Gurdy Alternative. 474 00:23:04,600 --> 00:23:08,440 Speaker 1: Here we go, Danielle, Millie and Crewe. Thanks for what 475 00:23:08,480 --> 00:23:11,040 Speaker 1: you do. I'm an avid listener and love to laugh 476 00:23:11,080 --> 00:23:11,520 Speaker 1: with y'all. 477 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:12,840 Speaker 2: As a woman. 478 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:16,960 Speaker 1: Raised in rural southeast Alabama and a person who lived 479 00:23:16,960 --> 00:23:19,600 Speaker 1: in New Orleans for fifteen years and recently moved back 480 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: to the family peanut farm, I also feel connected to 481 00:23:23,680 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 1: both of your backgrounds. I'm so happy your voices are 482 00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:30,200 Speaker 1: on a podcast. And don't worry, I watched the movies. 483 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:32,280 Speaker 2: Why that's Incrennibal. 484 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,080 Speaker 3: Let's get this writer and Katie together and throw a 485 00:23:35,080 --> 00:23:35,800 Speaker 3: little party. 486 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:39,000 Speaker 2: I love it. Two in a row, all right. 487 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: Now to the matter at hand, Gurdy Alternatives. This is 488 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: in no way a challenge to Danielle's proposal that we 489 00:23:50,080 --> 00:23:53,960 Speaker 1: get souped up hospital beds for post. 490 00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 2: Car driving transportation. But I want to submit this idea 491 00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,640 Speaker 2: in the video. 492 00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:06,359 Speaker 1: Below recliners on electric wheelchair basis. These guys are in 493 00:24:06,520 --> 00:24:11,480 Speaker 1: Marti Gras parades, but the concept is pretty universal. Comfey clothes, 494 00:24:11,920 --> 00:24:15,440 Speaker 1: feed up side table, beverage of choice. 495 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:17,280 Speaker 2: Hope this brings you joy. 496 00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:21,200 Speaker 1: And the video she said was the lazy boys in 497 00:24:21,280 --> 00:24:25,680 Speaker 1: a Marti Gras parade. Great video, by the way, and 498 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: she writes to have a great week brook Ethridge. 499 00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:31,719 Speaker 3: My god, beautiful. Look. I am not opposed to a 500 00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 3: portable recliner, a moving vehicle recliner at all. I think 501 00:24:38,119 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 3: that is a great We already have a gurny alternative. 502 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,520 Speaker 3: I think that's a great alternative to the gurny alternative. 503 00:24:46,720 --> 00:24:49,280 Speaker 3: You know, some people might not be able to sit 504 00:24:49,359 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 3: up straight at that age, though, is what I'm thinking? 505 00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 2: True? True? I mean, I don't know. 506 00:24:54,760 --> 00:24:58,920 Speaker 1: It's kind of the thing where a recliner okay, okay, 507 00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:01,280 Speaker 1: with a gurney. Because I did think long and hard 508 00:25:01,320 --> 00:25:06,200 Speaker 1: about this, a gurney is triggering for me personally. 509 00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:12,360 Speaker 2: I was like, uh, I've been on one and it sucks, but. 510 00:25:13,840 --> 00:25:18,280 Speaker 1: If it was tricked out with like some fucking cool customs, 511 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:20,480 Speaker 1: it might be a little different. 512 00:25:21,520 --> 00:25:23,320 Speaker 3: Gurney seemed like they'd be easier to clean. 513 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:28,359 Speaker 1: I mean true, I've seen I've seen them when I 514 00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,760 Speaker 1: was in the hospital. They like would remove me from 515 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:34,200 Speaker 1: it and then uh, they like took the sheets off 516 00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: and it was literally just a no fuss, no must scenario. 517 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, they got that shit down to a science. 518 00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:42,320 Speaker 3: Just imagine running over a roadkill skunk in a recliner. 519 00:25:42,600 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 3: You're never in that recliner again. You can't get that 520 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:45,679 Speaker 3: smell out. 521 00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,320 Speaker 1: Well, right because see, gurneys are typically made of like 522 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:52,440 Speaker 1: a hard plastic, whereas the recliner has a lot more fabric, 523 00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:54,440 Speaker 1: a lot more inlaid fabric. 524 00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,159 Speaker 2: So yeah, you're right, I. 525 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 1: Did, because see, and the other thing too is like lift. Okay, 526 00:26:02,520 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 1: that's that's another issue. If you want to do the hydraulics, yes, okay, 527 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:11,359 Speaker 1: hydraulics on a recliner, I don't know. 528 00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:13,280 Speaker 2: Does that seem dangerous to you? 529 00:26:13,720 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 3: Very dangerous to me because on a hydraulics on a gurney, 530 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,360 Speaker 3: you're just going up and down. Hydraulics on a recliner, 531 00:26:22,920 --> 00:26:25,040 Speaker 3: they could kick your feet out. You could be popping 532 00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 3: up in the air, Like what if you're laying down 533 00:26:26,800 --> 00:26:29,000 Speaker 3: recliner style and then all of a sudden you're butt's 534 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,960 Speaker 3: eight inches out of the seat because this thing's bounce 535 00:26:32,040 --> 00:26:33,320 Speaker 3: in hydraulic style. 536 00:26:33,640 --> 00:26:36,199 Speaker 2: Right, it feels like sort of service area wise. 537 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,480 Speaker 1: First of all, gurnie is meant to go up and 538 00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,680 Speaker 1: down a lot more than a recliner, is right, because 539 00:26:41,680 --> 00:26:44,439 Speaker 1: you get a lot of lyft, you know, with a gurney. 540 00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 1: But then also service area wise, you're like fucking raising 541 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:48,080 Speaker 1: it up. 542 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:50,360 Speaker 2: You can do a back end, do a front end. 543 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:52,360 Speaker 2: You know, it's like you could get really fancy. 544 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:55,200 Speaker 1: A recliner feels like kind of a one and done thing, 545 00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:58,280 Speaker 1: but it actually doesn't go as high probably as. 546 00:26:58,119 --> 00:26:58,879 Speaker 2: A gurney would. 547 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 3: So there's that. I will say, the Laysz boys in 548 00:27:01,160 --> 00:27:03,040 Speaker 3: this video and the Marti Gras parade look like they're 549 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,879 Speaker 3: having a great time. This is a great idea for 550 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:08,560 Speaker 3: an alternative, and to each his own. It depends on 551 00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 3: where you are at that stage of your life when 552 00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,600 Speaker 3: it comes time for you your postcard driving transportation and 553 00:27:14,960 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 3: you know, maybe maybe maybe that's the new gang war 554 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,360 Speaker 3: is moving recliners versus tricked out Gurney's. 555 00:27:21,520 --> 00:27:23,800 Speaker 2: Maybe it is, But I also have to say too, 556 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,840 Speaker 2: I love Marty Gras simply for this. 557 00:27:26,800 --> 00:27:31,840 Speaker 1: Kind of shit, Like this kind of like classic hyper 558 00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:36,159 Speaker 1: fucking creative shit for people who just want to party. Completely, 559 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:40,240 Speaker 1: it's like the greatest It's it's like the greatest moment 560 00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:43,840 Speaker 1: to get really creative all in service to like drinking 561 00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:45,320 Speaker 1: and having a good time. 562 00:27:45,560 --> 00:27:47,600 Speaker 3: I've never been to one in New Orleans, and I 563 00:27:47,640 --> 00:27:49,480 Speaker 3: would love to go, but I also think it would 564 00:27:49,560 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 3: kill me if I went. It is truly one of 565 00:27:52,240 --> 00:27:54,200 Speaker 3: those events that I'm like, I cannot go because I 566 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:55,960 Speaker 3: would be hospitalized. I'm sure of it. 567 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:57,000 Speaker 2: Oh it's yeah. 568 00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:01,920 Speaker 1: I mean it's like I've never been to the actual 569 00:28:02,920 --> 00:28:06,720 Speaker 1: like the fucking actual week that it was happening, But 570 00:28:06,800 --> 00:28:10,640 Speaker 1: I was there like one year right before, like when 571 00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,919 Speaker 1: they were kind of preparing for it, and like people 572 00:28:13,000 --> 00:28:16,600 Speaker 1: have to fucking like I mean, they are like truly 573 00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:19,040 Speaker 1: preparing for like this all. 574 00:28:18,840 --> 00:28:20,200 Speaker 2: Out assault of party. 575 00:28:20,200 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, like people like I can't fucking do anything 576 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,520 Speaker 1: this week, Marty grass Next week, I can't do shit. 577 00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:29,080 Speaker 1: Like we're keeping it tight and right right now because 578 00:28:29,160 --> 00:28:31,800 Speaker 1: next week is gonna be a fucking disaster, and I'm like. 579 00:28:31,840 --> 00:28:34,600 Speaker 3: Wow, my friend Becka lives in New Orleans. And I'm 580 00:28:35,000 --> 00:28:37,520 Speaker 3: not exaggerating when I say exaggerating when I say that 581 00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 3: they prepare for Marty grad the way they prepare for hurricanes. Yes, 582 00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:46,960 Speaker 3: like the house, the windows, the like they prepare for 583 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:50,400 Speaker 3: a party, the way they prepare for a hurricane. And 584 00:28:50,440 --> 00:28:53,320 Speaker 3: that is just uh. I love that city and I 585 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:56,960 Speaker 3: love that. I love that that energy. And Brooke, thank 586 00:28:57,000 --> 00:28:58,800 Speaker 3: you so much for writing in good look on your 587 00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,800 Speaker 3: family's peanut farm. I want to hear more about that. 588 00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:05,840 Speaker 3: That's awesome, ells more about the peanuts now. This next email, 589 00:29:06,280 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 3: the subject is simply thank you. Hello, Milli and Danielle. 590 00:29:10,360 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 3: I hope you get to read this well. We definitely did, 591 00:29:14,280 --> 00:29:16,640 Speaker 3: and we are just wanted to let you ladies know 592 00:29:16,680 --> 00:29:20,120 Speaker 3: how much I've been enjoying your podcast as a fellow 593 00:29:20,200 --> 00:29:22,520 Speaker 3: single woman of color of a certain age. It is 594 00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 3: so refreshing to listen to you talk about film from 595 00:29:25,360 --> 00:29:28,720 Speaker 3: a perspective that I can relate to, i e. Not 596 00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:31,760 Speaker 3: straight white male. I love how you both see movies 597 00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 3: with such clear eyed, real world vision and not movie 598 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 3: eyes like people often do. There have been so many 599 00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:40,520 Speaker 3: moments where I almost jumped out of my seat in agreement. 600 00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 3: Jack in the Shining Hello. If I were wittier and 601 00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:49,200 Speaker 3: more knowledgeable, I think I could fit right in. As 602 00:29:49,240 --> 00:29:52,640 Speaker 3: an added bonus, I can actually understand your cultural references 603 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:56,720 Speaker 3: because they're not all posts twenty ten in origin, and 604 00:29:56,760 --> 00:30:00,080 Speaker 3: I've come to enjoy your life update preambles just as 605 00:30:00,120 --> 00:30:02,600 Speaker 3: much as your reviews. I'd like to suggest a little 606 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:06,040 Speaker 3: film that sadly came and went without much fanfare, entitled 607 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:10,000 Speaker 3: Miss Juneteenth. If you haven't seen it, please do. It's 608 00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:12,280 Speaker 3: a more recent one, but I would be over the 609 00:30:12,320 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 3: moon if you could fit it into the pod. Somehow. 610 00:30:14,840 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 3: More people need to know about this film. Beautiful story, 611 00:30:18,080 --> 00:30:21,800 Speaker 3: beautifully acted and directed, and Millie's pest control guy has 612 00:30:21,840 --> 00:30:25,280 Speaker 3: a pretty substantial role, and it's a boot. Thank you 613 00:30:25,400 --> 00:30:27,960 Speaker 3: for sharing your thoughts and your lives with the world. 614 00:30:28,720 --> 00:30:32,200 Speaker 3: All the best, SK. This is such a sweet email. SK. 615 00:30:32,360 --> 00:30:35,440 Speaker 3: Thank you so much for writing to us, and we 616 00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,240 Speaker 3: are glad that you can relate to us, that you 617 00:30:37,280 --> 00:30:39,760 Speaker 3: get it, that you like it. I think you don't 618 00:30:39,760 --> 00:30:41,960 Speaker 3: have to be any more wittier or knowledgeable than you 619 00:30:41,960 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 3: already are to fit in with us. You already do. 620 00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean honestly, like, this is such a sweet email. 621 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:51,440 Speaker 1: I have not heard of Miss Juneteenth, but I'm definitely 622 00:30:51,560 --> 00:30:54,360 Speaker 1: checking it out. Yeah, me too, now that I know 623 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:58,240 Speaker 1: that the pest control guys in it that mine, especially 624 00:30:58,360 --> 00:30:59,840 Speaker 1: Will who did you say. 625 00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:02,440 Speaker 3: You're control guy looked like? Because there were a couple. 626 00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:06,440 Speaker 1: Uh well, okay, there were two. I actually talked about 627 00:31:06,680 --> 00:31:09,080 Speaker 1: the first guy that came in. That was the Indian 628 00:31:10,040 --> 00:31:10,880 Speaker 1: George Clooney. 629 00:31:11,000 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 2: Yes, okay, the guy, the guy that's come back. 630 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: He's my actual technician, is the He looks exactly like 631 00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:20,280 Speaker 1: Nathan from Insecure. 632 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,280 Speaker 3: That's the Yes, that's it. 633 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:27,120 Speaker 2: I have to look this guy's name up. I can't 634 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:28,960 Speaker 2: just keep calling him this. 635 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,240 Speaker 3: This is so well there now that he's been in 636 00:31:31,360 --> 00:31:34,840 Speaker 3: Miss Juneteenth and other projects, Insecure is over. 637 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 2: Kendrick Sampson is his name, and he's from Texas. He's 638 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,720 Speaker 2: thirty four years old, and he's in a movie called 639 00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:46,040 Speaker 2: Miss Junteine that I will be watching immediately. 640 00:31:46,200 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 3: And he takes care of your pists in his part 641 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:54,560 Speaker 3: time free time. He comes to your house. Do you 642 00:31:54,560 --> 00:31:57,040 Speaker 3: want to tell people what you thought was happening in 643 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:57,480 Speaker 3: your attic? 644 00:31:57,560 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 2: The others? 645 00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:03,600 Speaker 3: Oh, my god, the fact because both need past control 646 00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:06,960 Speaker 3: people for real, for real. 647 00:32:07,200 --> 00:32:12,560 Speaker 1: So we were recording an episode of this podcast, and 648 00:32:13,160 --> 00:32:14,960 Speaker 1: you know, like, my dog is in here right now, 649 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:18,680 Speaker 1: she's not. She doesn't normally bark, but then she started barking, 650 00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: and I was like, what the fuck? 651 00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:22,320 Speaker 2: And so I take my headphones off and stop. 652 00:32:22,360 --> 00:32:25,720 Speaker 1: Everyone stops recording, you know, stop, we stop recording, and 653 00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, what the hell is going on? 654 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:30,880 Speaker 2: She just kept barking, and then I came back to 655 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:31,960 Speaker 2: I came back to the. 656 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:34,320 Speaker 1: Desk, I think, and then I was like, she started 657 00:32:34,320 --> 00:32:36,680 Speaker 1: barking in and I'm like, uh, oh, what's going on? 658 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:38,040 Speaker 2: And then I heard it. 659 00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:42,920 Speaker 1: It was basically like either something in the attic or 660 00:32:42,960 --> 00:32:47,640 Speaker 1: on the roof, but I heard it galloping across the 661 00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:51,800 Speaker 1: fucking ceiling. And I have like one of those attic 662 00:32:51,920 --> 00:32:54,320 Speaker 1: doors that you pull down from the ceiling, you know, 663 00:32:54,400 --> 00:32:58,360 Speaker 1: and the little ladder pops out. I saw that shit shake. 664 00:32:59,640 --> 00:33:03,960 Speaker 1: It was m nice Shamalan movie where I was like, uh, 665 00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:05,680 Speaker 1: what the fuck is going on? 666 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,200 Speaker 3: That's the part that took me out. When you're like 667 00:33:09,680 --> 00:33:13,400 Speaker 3: I'm washing this door, move right now, yes like this 668 00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:17,960 Speaker 3: with us in moments, I mean, I was like. 669 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 2: Is in a person. 670 00:33:19,200 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 1: It sounded like a fucking person because that's how heavy 671 00:33:23,520 --> 00:33:25,600 Speaker 1: the steps were. But then you were kind enough to 672 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:28,600 Speaker 1: remind me, Oh, any animal sounds like a person when 673 00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:29,200 Speaker 1: they're up there. 674 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:32,320 Speaker 3: Absolutely, because it's crazy co chamber up there, so everything 675 00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:35,560 Speaker 3: sounds heavier. I heard something in my attic that sounded 676 00:33:35,600 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 3: like a human being, and then I saw it exit 677 00:33:38,920 --> 00:33:42,080 Speaker 3: on the roof that goes to the silo, and it 678 00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:45,000 Speaker 3: was a squirrel about the size of a Seltzer bottle, 679 00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:51,040 Speaker 3: and it sounded like fucking bigfoot. Stop it around up there, 680 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:53,760 Speaker 3: Like do you remember that kids in the Hall sketch 681 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 3: mister heavy Foot? 682 00:33:55,360 --> 00:33:57,880 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, it was like mister heavyfoot. 683 00:33:57,400 --> 00:34:00,000 Speaker 3: Was up there, and I'm like, the little fucking squirrel 684 00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,480 Speaker 3: was causing all that noise. So my girl, chill, it's 685 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:04,560 Speaker 3: gonna be fine. I swear it's not someone trying to 686 00:34:04,560 --> 00:34:07,720 Speaker 3: break into your house. It is just an annoying raccoon 687 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,240 Speaker 3: or a squirrel that sounds like a romper stopper. 688 00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:16,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I listen knock on wood. But it hasn't 689 00:34:16,920 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 2: happened again. 690 00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:21,040 Speaker 1: Since we what was when we record, like last week 691 00:34:21,120 --> 00:34:26,000 Speaker 1: or the week before, it hasn't happened since and I 692 00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:28,279 Speaker 1: walked around the perimeter of the house to make sure 693 00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 1: there wasn't a giant hole in my roof or some shit, 694 00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:34,120 Speaker 1: and didn't see anything. So part of me was like, 695 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:38,840 Speaker 1: should I call the man who looks like Kendrick Sampson 696 00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 1: to come in and inspect things? And I was like, 697 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:47,319 Speaker 1: if if I hear another noise, I swear to God, 698 00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:49,839 Speaker 1: I'm calling him immediately. But at at the same time, 699 00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,880 Speaker 1: I was like, you know, listen, maybe it was just 700 00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:52,839 Speaker 1: like a one and done deal. 701 00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,560 Speaker 2: I don't know, you know, I mean, I want to 702 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:57,799 Speaker 2: call him. Let's get serious. I wanted to come over. 703 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:02,799 Speaker 3: There's no better way to get you into my home 704 00:35:04,320 --> 00:35:07,399 Speaker 3: than to have a real life pest control issue. That's 705 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,800 Speaker 3: not even pornographic at that point. That's just a fact. 706 00:35:10,040 --> 00:35:12,480 Speaker 2: I know, I know, but it's it's true. 707 00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:14,840 Speaker 1: I mean, but I just want to be absolutely certain 708 00:35:14,880 --> 00:35:19,200 Speaker 1: that there's some romper stomper up there before I. 709 00:35:18,160 --> 00:35:20,640 Speaker 2: Call us ask because honestly, like, I don't want it. 710 00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:22,160 Speaker 1: I don't want I was like, I don't know what 711 00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:28,040 Speaker 1: that was, like, maybe it was someone passing through, that's all. 712 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,200 Speaker 3: It can't somebody like doing parkour, like that's just how 713 00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:32,000 Speaker 3: they get around. 714 00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,240 Speaker 2: I mean, let's just hope. Let's just hope. 715 00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:42,120 Speaker 1: But anyway, that so, having said all that, I love 716 00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:46,879 Speaker 1: getting film recommendations for stuff. I feel like we can't 717 00:35:46,880 --> 00:35:50,719 Speaker 1: watch everything, you know, like it's hard to watch so 718 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,680 Speaker 1: many movies for the podcast and then just for our 719 00:35:52,680 --> 00:35:53,320 Speaker 1: normal lives. 720 00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:55,400 Speaker 2: Stuff slips to the cracks. 721 00:35:55,600 --> 00:35:58,279 Speaker 1: And if you and if any of you have a 722 00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,359 Speaker 1: movie that you feel really passionate about, really love, send 723 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:01,919 Speaker 1: it our way. 724 00:36:02,160 --> 00:36:03,880 Speaker 2: I would love. I love getting movie. 725 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:07,239 Speaker 3: Recommendations, so me too, and Miss Juneteenth is now top 726 00:36:07,239 --> 00:36:07,800 Speaker 3: of my list. 727 00:36:08,160 --> 00:36:11,680 Speaker 2: Yes, yes, all right, so let's move on to this email. 728 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 3: It's called got Me. 729 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:17,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, this one's a good one. It's called You Are 730 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:20,560 Speaker 1: Simply a Gift. Millie and Danielle, thank you so much 731 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:24,160 Speaker 1: for this podcast. I love your friendship and listening to 732 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:29,520 Speaker 1: YouTube chat about Chauncey grocery delivery and bad edible experiences 733 00:36:29,560 --> 00:36:32,799 Speaker 1: could be a podcast itself, but it's so much more 734 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:35,600 Speaker 1: than that. I started listening because my dad was so 735 00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,600 Speaker 1: into film. He went to NYU for an MFA and 736 00:36:38,719 --> 00:36:42,960 Speaker 1: creative writing so he could pursue screenwriting after retiring from 737 00:36:42,960 --> 00:36:46,040 Speaker 1: a career as a surgeon. Unfortunately, he's had a lot 738 00:36:46,040 --> 00:36:48,520 Speaker 1: of health problems in the past few years, so when 739 00:36:48,560 --> 00:36:51,560 Speaker 1: I visit, we don't do a whole lot, but we 740 00:36:51,719 --> 00:36:54,919 Speaker 1: always enjoyed watching movies together. When I went to see 741 00:36:54,960 --> 00:36:57,240 Speaker 1: him in the fall, I listened to your episode about 742 00:36:57,239 --> 00:36:59,520 Speaker 1: stand By Me and Deliverance on the way there, and 743 00:36:59,560 --> 00:37:02,239 Speaker 1: then watch both movies for the first time with him 744 00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:05,680 Speaker 1: that weekend. We left so much during a scene and 745 00:37:05,719 --> 00:37:10,840 Speaker 1: stand By Me and had I'm Sorry. We laughed so 746 00:37:11,000 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 1: much during the fire scene and stand By Me and 747 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:17,960 Speaker 1: had lots to talk about the rest of the weekend. 748 00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:20,920 Speaker 1: So thank you for giving us a powerful double feature. 749 00:37:21,719 --> 00:37:26,560 Speaker 1: My dad passed away unexpectedly. My dad passed away unexpectedly 750 00:37:26,640 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: in December, which was devastating, especially since we were in 751 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,279 Speaker 1: the process of moving him closer to me. He was 752 00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:37,120 Speaker 1: always recommending books and movies, so I've been reading and 753 00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:40,560 Speaker 1: watching his rex these past few months. I'm currently reading 754 00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:43,799 Speaker 1: Devil in a Blue Dress, something he'd recommended long ago, 755 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:46,680 Speaker 1: and keep thinking I want to talk to him about it. 756 00:37:47,040 --> 00:37:48,960 Speaker 1: So I couldn't believe it when I heard you start 757 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:51,279 Speaker 1: talking about the movie this week. It felt like he 758 00:37:51,400 --> 00:37:54,560 Speaker 1: was there. Thank you for keeping me connected to my 759 00:37:54,719 --> 00:37:59,240 Speaker 1: dad both when he was here and now with gratitude. 760 00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:05,720 Speaker 3: Dana, Dana, this one got me so so hard. Yeah, 761 00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:10,680 Speaker 3: I really I'm very touched that you could share any 762 00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,200 Speaker 3: part of what we do with with your dad. But 763 00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,840 Speaker 3: what really gets me is I just love that you 764 00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:21,239 Speaker 3: had this language of film with him, and because he 765 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,680 Speaker 3: was so into creative writing and screenwriting, even though he 766 00:38:24,800 --> 00:38:27,000 Speaker 3: was a surgeon, like that is, he just sounded like 767 00:38:27,040 --> 00:38:31,359 Speaker 3: the coolest dude and just a very I just love 768 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:35,320 Speaker 3: that you were able to laugh and bring movies into 769 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,680 Speaker 3: that time of life when it can be really powerfully sad, 770 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,120 Speaker 3: but you were able to find a way to again 771 00:38:42,200 --> 00:38:46,440 Speaker 3: like kind of continue that language with him. And you're right, 772 00:38:46,520 --> 00:38:48,919 Speaker 3: like movies is a way that we communicate with each other, 773 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,520 Speaker 3: and it's a language that we have. And I just 774 00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 3: am so sorry that he passed away. I know that 775 00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:57,760 Speaker 3: it's especially because you were trying to move him closer 776 00:38:57,800 --> 00:38:59,920 Speaker 3: to you, Like I'm kind of under the gun. But 777 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:03,399 Speaker 3: my grandma in the same way right now. And let 778 00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,279 Speaker 3: me tell you, this bitch keeps insisting that she's going 779 00:39:05,360 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 3: to die before I get her in here, and I'm like, 780 00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:11,200 Speaker 3: can you please calm down and just let me do this? 781 00:39:12,400 --> 00:39:15,560 Speaker 3: But it's very hard. It's been a hard couple of 782 00:39:15,600 --> 00:39:17,759 Speaker 3: years no matter what, and to go through that and 783 00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,960 Speaker 3: have your parents pass away is just miserable. So my 784 00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:24,439 Speaker 3: heart just goes out to you and I just really again, 785 00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:27,040 Speaker 3: I am very touched that we could be even a 786 00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:30,400 Speaker 3: part of you sharing those last moments with your dad. 787 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:33,200 Speaker 2: Yes, me too. Thanks so much Dana for sending that. 788 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,560 Speaker 2: It was such a beautiful email. 789 00:39:35,160 --> 00:39:38,920 Speaker 3: Beautiful. Now this one, this is our last one. We're 790 00:39:38,960 --> 00:39:41,000 Speaker 3: going to wrap it up with one that I've been 791 00:39:41,280 --> 00:39:45,680 Speaker 3: dying to read. So this subject matter for this one 792 00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:51,279 Speaker 3: is parental restrictions on movies. Hi, everyone, I've heard the 793 00:39:51,320 --> 00:39:54,960 Speaker 3: call from movie related questions and questionable parenting decisions and 794 00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:58,480 Speaker 3: saw my call to action. Growing up, my parents had 795 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,480 Speaker 3: very odd restrictions on my brother and I could or 796 00:40:01,560 --> 00:40:05,760 Speaker 3: could not watch, Although divorced and did not discuss anything 797 00:40:05,800 --> 00:40:09,480 Speaker 3: with each other. Ever, they somehow had the same conclusions 798 00:40:09,520 --> 00:40:13,560 Speaker 3: on most movies. Sex in any form was absolutely out 799 00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:16,560 Speaker 3: of the question. If this movie even hinted at sex, 800 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,720 Speaker 3: it was out. However, if Arnold Schwarzenegger was in it, 801 00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:24,040 Speaker 3: it was an automatic go. This is how I, as 802 00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:27,040 Speaker 3: a fifteen year old, was allowed to rent end of 803 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:30,759 Speaker 3: Days over Detroit, Rock City, Hell, my dad and I 804 00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 3: watching T two and Total Recall are some of my 805 00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:38,360 Speaker 3: earliest movie memories. My question is, did your parents slash 806 00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:41,960 Speaker 3: Guardians put any restrictions on what you could or could 807 00:40:41,960 --> 00:40:47,120 Speaker 3: not watch? Based on absolute nonsense love the show and 808 00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,600 Speaker 3: all the movies you bring attention to. I'm in a 809 00:40:49,640 --> 00:40:52,520 Speaker 3: movie club myself and I try to sneak in suggestions 810 00:40:52,520 --> 00:40:56,080 Speaker 3: from this pod so far. In the Mouth of Madness 811 00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:59,799 Speaker 3: is my lone successful crossover. First of all, if you 812 00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:02,960 Speaker 3: introduced in the Mouth of Madness, if that was the 813 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,920 Speaker 3: movie that you got through in your movie club, I 814 00:41:05,960 --> 00:41:07,600 Speaker 3: have got to know if you're still allowed in that 815 00:41:07,680 --> 00:41:11,080 Speaker 3: movie club and what that reaction was, because you just 816 00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,600 Speaker 3: came out the gate with a banger. So I just 817 00:41:14,680 --> 00:41:16,160 Speaker 3: really want to know how that went. 818 00:41:17,080 --> 00:41:20,760 Speaker 2: You really set a tone a tone. 819 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:25,120 Speaker 3: But thank you so much. I can answer this question 820 00:41:25,280 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 3: very easily, and the answer is no, there were no 821 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:33,279 Speaker 3: restrictions on anything what I could watch because I was 822 00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:36,560 Speaker 3: at the mercy of my grandparents and the way they 823 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:39,440 Speaker 3: felt was, well, if I'm gonna watch it, you're gonna 824 00:41:39,440 --> 00:41:42,160 Speaker 3: watch it. And they were not slowing down or missing 825 00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:45,600 Speaker 3: a movie for me at any point in my life. 826 00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:49,040 Speaker 3: So does no. Yeah, everything all systems go on, every 827 00:41:49,040 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 3: movie all the time. 828 00:41:50,600 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 1: Well, I have to absolutely agree with you there. I 829 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:58,719 Speaker 1: had absolutely no restrictions because my parents literally did not. 830 00:41:58,840 --> 00:42:00,640 Speaker 2: Know what I was doing right much ever. 831 00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,640 Speaker 1: But both of my parents worked right, and they're like, 832 00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:09,839 Speaker 1: don't like the television was like the babysitter, So they 833 00:42:09,840 --> 00:42:11,399 Speaker 1: were like, well, I don't know, as long as she's 834 00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,600 Speaker 1: not out killing people, I guess, let her watch whatever 835 00:42:13,640 --> 00:42:20,200 Speaker 1: she wants. I watched shockingly, shockingly as a child, I 836 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,759 Speaker 1: watched the craziest shit and a lot of it was 837 00:42:22,840 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 1: just because we were all unsupervised. Yeah, like all the 838 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,120 Speaker 1: kids like I saw. I remember going to my neighbor's 839 00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:31,760 Speaker 1: house when I was like eight or nine years old 840 00:42:32,320 --> 00:42:34,719 Speaker 1: and her So I lived, like you know, when I 841 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 1: lived out in South Carolina, Like the community that we 842 00:42:37,640 --> 00:42:40,160 Speaker 1: lived in was kind of this like I don't know, 843 00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,800 Speaker 1: it was in a rural more rural kind of environment, 844 00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:45,520 Speaker 1: but it was a lot of like military families, so 845 00:42:46,320 --> 00:42:48,360 Speaker 1: you know, it's like it would be typical for people's 846 00:42:48,440 --> 00:42:50,560 Speaker 1: dads to be like in the navy and be out 847 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,040 Speaker 1: at sea for like fucking six months at a time. 848 00:42:53,120 --> 00:42:56,640 Speaker 1: So like no fucking dad's around. Moms are working, so 849 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,920 Speaker 1: you know, there's no fucking parents around. 850 00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:04,360 Speaker 2: So we were like, okay, the neighbor's kids. 851 00:43:04,400 --> 00:43:06,520 Speaker 1: There was like these two kids that I was good 852 00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,640 Speaker 1: friends with, a brother and a sister, and the dad 853 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:16,759 Speaker 1: was this one of these guys that videotaped everything and 854 00:43:16,920 --> 00:43:19,960 Speaker 1: had like a basement that had that fucking wall to 855 00:43:20,040 --> 00:43:22,880 Speaker 1: ceiling shelves of like videotapes and everything was taped on 856 00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,680 Speaker 1: like the slowest speed so you could fit like three 857 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:30,239 Speaker 1: movies on there. And we pulled out We've pulled out 858 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:33,400 Speaker 1: this movie that we literally thought was a child's film. 859 00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:38,759 Speaker 2: It was called a Clockwork Orange and we were like, 860 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:41,200 Speaker 2: what do you think it was a child's film? 861 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:46,000 Speaker 1: Well, because it was handwritten a fucking on a label 862 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,360 Speaker 1: on a stupid tape, and we were like, oh, this 863 00:43:48,400 --> 00:43:52,160 Speaker 1: seems cool, Like what if this is like an Alison 864 00:43:52,239 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 1: Wonderland thing or something, So we like, watch this fucking 865 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,400 Speaker 1: fucked up movie destroyed me. 866 00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:05,239 Speaker 2: My brain to this day, to this day, destroyed me. 867 00:44:05,360 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 2: And like I and when I was in school, I 868 00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:09,600 Speaker 2: used to talk about the movie. 869 00:44:09,600 --> 00:44:11,880 Speaker 1: I called it Strawberry Alarm clock because I didn't know 870 00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:14,399 Speaker 1: what the fucking movie was. I feel like I told 871 00:44:14,440 --> 00:44:17,160 Speaker 1: this story on another episode, but anyway, I swear to god, 872 00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:21,839 Speaker 1: it was literally like no restrictions because there's no one 873 00:44:21,920 --> 00:44:24,960 Speaker 1: around and we had like kind of free reign to 874 00:44:25,040 --> 00:44:26,399 Speaker 1: do anything, you know what I mean. 875 00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:29,279 Speaker 3: I absolutely love that story. I don't care how any 876 00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 3: time you tell it, I want to hear it every time. 877 00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:35,879 Speaker 3: It makes me laugh so hard, and it's true. It's 878 00:44:35,920 --> 00:44:38,359 Speaker 3: like I I The part of this email that made 879 00:44:38,400 --> 00:44:40,200 Speaker 3: me laugh so hard was like even though the parents 880 00:44:40,200 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 3: were divorced and they never talked about anything, they still 881 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,920 Speaker 3: had rules. And I'm like, oh, like then they just 882 00:44:45,960 --> 00:44:49,560 Speaker 3: had rules like as people and not necessarily just as parents. 883 00:44:49,960 --> 00:44:52,960 Speaker 3: I feel like I was raised by lawless people, Like 884 00:44:53,000 --> 00:44:54,120 Speaker 3: there were no rules. 885 00:44:54,239 --> 00:44:57,399 Speaker 1: I guess the only rule was to not watch out 886 00:44:57,440 --> 00:44:58,320 Speaker 1: and out porn. 887 00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,959 Speaker 2: I guess that was the only rule. 888 00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,960 Speaker 3: But that was the rule that we impose on ourselves, right, Yeah, Actually, 889 00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:07,560 Speaker 3: like they never told us not to watch porn. They 890 00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:10,440 Speaker 3: were just like, we hope they don't watch porn, and 891 00:45:10,480 --> 00:45:12,640 Speaker 3: then we as children had to decide it was a 892 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:13,439 Speaker 3: bridge too far. 893 00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:18,279 Speaker 1: So you're saying like, if you decided to put in 894 00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:20,480 Speaker 1: she got way moass for. 895 00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:27,799 Speaker 2: Or whatever. Well, I guess you can't watch this. 896 00:45:28,480 --> 00:45:31,040 Speaker 3: There'd be no one around to stop me. I'm gonna 897 00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:34,359 Speaker 3: put it in and decide on my own. Man, this 898 00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:38,960 Speaker 3: isn't for me. There was no it was lawless territory. 899 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:42,239 Speaker 3: So I feel like this, this, this listener, this person 900 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:47,120 Speaker 3: who wrote in at least had parents that individually had 901 00:45:47,120 --> 00:45:50,319 Speaker 3: some sense of duty to try to monitor this shit, 902 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:52,600 Speaker 3: even if they didn't talk about it with each other. 903 00:45:53,200 --> 00:45:55,879 Speaker 3: Because we didn't even have that, we could have been 904 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,000 Speaker 3: watching anything because there was nobody around to stop us. 905 00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:04,799 Speaker 3: So that I remember vividly coming home after school and 906 00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:08,399 Speaker 3: taping things off of HBO before my grandma got home 907 00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:08,880 Speaker 3: from work. 908 00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:11,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, she didn't know what kind. 909 00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,560 Speaker 3: Of tapes I had upstairs. I couldn't been watching anything. 910 00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,600 Speaker 3: I would tape it and then take the tape with 911 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:19,359 Speaker 3: me up to my room, so she would have no 912 00:46:19,480 --> 00:46:21,839 Speaker 3: clue what was on there. As long as I put 913 00:46:21,880 --> 00:46:25,440 Speaker 3: her the tape that she used to tape her stories 914 00:46:25,480 --> 00:46:27,760 Speaker 3: back in the BCR, it was cool. 915 00:46:27,880 --> 00:46:30,799 Speaker 1: Plus, I have to tell you T two is a 916 00:46:30,840 --> 00:46:33,400 Speaker 1: sexy movie for Arnolds, to be honest. 917 00:46:33,560 --> 00:46:36,000 Speaker 2: First of all, he shows up naked at a truck stop. 918 00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 1: Didn't we talk about this I'm like, his musclely body 919 00:46:41,360 --> 00:46:46,520 Speaker 1: is like rising from the steam of an eighteen wheeler truck. 920 00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:48,320 Speaker 2: That's that's sexy. 921 00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:50,560 Speaker 1: So I don't know why they were trying to act 922 00:46:50,600 --> 00:46:54,680 Speaker 1: like that shit wasn't sexy because it was so I. 923 00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,080 Speaker 2: This is It's so curious to me too, because I 924 00:46:57,120 --> 00:47:01,239 Speaker 2: feel like, Okay, we did not have any rules, right. 925 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,040 Speaker 1: However, I did know people that did have rules, and 926 00:47:05,320 --> 00:47:10,200 Speaker 1: they had like one of my friends that mom was 927 00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:15,080 Speaker 1: like super hardcore, strict, super hardcore Christian Southern Baptist person. 928 00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,920 Speaker 1: They weren't allowed to watch fucking anything. I mean the 929 00:47:18,960 --> 00:47:20,840 Speaker 1: only thing they were allowed to watch was like family 930 00:47:20,920 --> 00:47:21,920 Speaker 1: matters and stuff. 931 00:47:21,920 --> 00:47:22,800 Speaker 2: I mean it was like they. 932 00:47:22,640 --> 00:47:26,040 Speaker 1: Weren't allowed to watch like PG thirteen movies because they 933 00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:29,520 Speaker 1: were like twelve. I mean, it's crazy, and I feel 934 00:47:29,520 --> 00:47:33,080 Speaker 1: like they're twisted individuals, Like I feel like they're twisted. 935 00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:36,280 Speaker 2: They're they're the horror movie people. They are the horror 936 00:47:36,360 --> 00:47:37,200 Speaker 2: movie people. 937 00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:40,960 Speaker 1: That love watching Cannibal Holocaust on Valentine's Day. 938 00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,000 Speaker 3: Because they went to bars, they couldn't watch anything, so 939 00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:47,040 Speaker 3: then they watched everything and now they're over the edge. 940 00:47:47,239 --> 00:47:49,840 Speaker 3: I had a friend like that, and what's wild to me? 941 00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:53,520 Speaker 3: About that is most kids, when they're restricted by their 942 00:47:53,560 --> 00:47:56,680 Speaker 3: parents from watching movies, if they are away from the parent, 943 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,400 Speaker 3: that rule goes out the window. But I had a 944 00:47:59,440 --> 00:48:02,120 Speaker 3: friend who would constantly be like, well, I can't watch 945 00:48:02,160 --> 00:48:04,319 Speaker 3: that because it's rated R. And I was like, well, 946 00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:07,120 Speaker 3: who's gonna know, Like we're at Allison's house, your parents 947 00:48:07,160 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 3: aren't here, let's just watch it. And then we ended 948 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:13,279 Speaker 3: up having to watch like Bye Bye Birdie insteady And 949 00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:15,239 Speaker 3: I'm like, I want to watch Young Guns too. I 950 00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:17,800 Speaker 3: don't want to watch Bye Bye Bertie. 951 00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,759 Speaker 1: Well, get give me out of this, like weird like 952 00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,480 Speaker 1: old people movie. 953 00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,040 Speaker 2: I want to watch Young Guns too. 954 00:48:25,280 --> 00:48:27,799 Speaker 3: Right, I'm like what is this? What is this? I 955 00:48:27,920 --> 00:48:30,799 Speaker 3: was livid, and I'm like, why are you restricting yourself 956 00:48:30,880 --> 00:48:33,439 Speaker 3: If your parents aren't here, the restriction should go out 957 00:48:33,480 --> 00:48:36,600 Speaker 3: the window. Or like like a parent always wanted to know, 958 00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,080 Speaker 3: like well, what movie are you gonna go see when 959 00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:40,279 Speaker 3: we drop you up at the movie theaters? And I'm like, 960 00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:45,719 Speaker 3: just lie, just tell them anything other than like, don't 961 00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:48,040 Speaker 3: tell them we're going to see a live where like 962 00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:52,640 Speaker 3: we're watching a fucking a soccer team crashing the andies 963 00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:53,480 Speaker 3: and eat each other. 964 00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:55,200 Speaker 2: Don't tell them, we're going to see that. 965 00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:57,239 Speaker 3: Tell him we're going to see like Whindy the Poo 966 00:48:57,360 --> 00:48:58,600 Speaker 3: or whatever the fuck is out. 967 00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:03,000 Speaker 1: Just lie, Yeah, we won't be watching the Adventures of 968 00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:03,840 Speaker 1: My Own and otis. 969 00:49:03,840 --> 00:49:11,799 Speaker 2: We're going to watch Body of Evidence or whatever. Also, 970 00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 2: I love how too, you just entered this. 971 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:20,040 Speaker 1: You just entered the thought experiment of I could maybe 972 00:49:20,080 --> 00:49:22,720 Speaker 1: you have watched porn at my grandmother's house. 973 00:49:23,000 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, I just didn't. I had not put it in 974 00:49:26,000 --> 00:49:27,719 Speaker 2: front of her so that she could say no. 975 00:49:27,960 --> 00:49:30,719 Speaker 1: Exactly Like how the only reason why you didn't watch 976 00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:32,920 Speaker 1: porn is because you just never thought to watch it 977 00:49:32,960 --> 00:49:34,320 Speaker 1: in front of her so she could say. 978 00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:37,040 Speaker 3: No, exactly. It just exactly right, Like I just never 979 00:49:38,000 --> 00:49:41,080 Speaker 3: I never entertained the thought, so she didn't have to yes. 980 00:49:41,800 --> 00:49:44,279 Speaker 3: Although I will say my brother and I used to 981 00:49:44,320 --> 00:49:47,680 Speaker 3: make fun of my grandmother constantly because you know, I 982 00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,040 Speaker 3: remember when they used to offer like free weekends of 983 00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:53,160 Speaker 3: like all the cable channels or whatever. So every once 984 00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,839 Speaker 3: in a while they would offer cinemax for free, and 985 00:49:55,920 --> 00:49:58,680 Speaker 3: she would watch a movie, and she constantly fell asleep 986 00:49:58,719 --> 00:50:01,600 Speaker 3: on the couch, like laid out dead asleep snoring on 987 00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:05,040 Speaker 3: the couch. I cannot tell you how many times as 988 00:50:05,040 --> 00:50:08,600 Speaker 3: a child, I came downstairs and it was like Cinemax 989 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:11,960 Speaker 3: after dark. My Grandma's laid out on the couch falling asleep, 990 00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,719 Speaker 3: and there's people fucking on TV. And I'm just like, 991 00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,160 Speaker 3: what the hell. So we constantly made fun of her 992 00:50:17,200 --> 00:50:19,080 Speaker 3: for like, you watch porn, but we go to bed 993 00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:20,360 Speaker 3: and she's like, I don't. 994 00:50:20,800 --> 00:50:22,560 Speaker 2: It was a free week. I was asleep. 995 00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,040 Speaker 1: It just comes all automatically after a certain time. 996 00:50:28,600 --> 00:50:30,399 Speaker 2: I didn't change the channel to this. 997 00:50:31,200 --> 00:50:35,680 Speaker 3: I fell asleep hatching Philadelphia. 998 00:50:35,760 --> 00:50:37,200 Speaker 2: I didn't watch this shit. 999 00:50:38,200 --> 00:50:41,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, she was always so mad because we'd be like, 1000 00:50:41,360 --> 00:50:43,200 Speaker 3: came downstairs last night to get some nice t you 1001 00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,360 Speaker 3: were watching poor shit. 1002 00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:50,000 Speaker 1: Well it's speaking of porn. So she got way MO 1003 00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:56,200 Speaker 1: asked for something. Is is a porn film that I 1004 00:50:56,320 --> 00:51:00,680 Speaker 1: remember from our friend Chile was Sharp? Yes, who is 1005 00:51:00,760 --> 00:51:03,720 Speaker 1: a stand up comic in New York. She's originally from Atlanta. 1006 00:51:03,960 --> 00:51:08,160 Speaker 1: She actually has this one woman show called Don't Reach. 1007 00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:09,520 Speaker 2: In the Bag. You should. 1008 00:51:09,760 --> 00:51:11,680 Speaker 1: You should see it. If you can see it. I 1009 00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:13,840 Speaker 1: think she's done it in New York and maybe Atlanta. 1010 00:51:13,920 --> 00:51:17,840 Speaker 1: But if she takes it across the nation, which she should, 1011 00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,680 Speaker 1: you should go because it's all about her days of 1012 00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:27,360 Speaker 1: working at Atlanta's number one most famous porn video store 1013 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:31,319 Speaker 1: Southern Nights. And when I used to go visit her 1014 00:51:31,400 --> 00:51:36,800 Speaker 1: at work, I remember there was one one time where 1015 00:51:37,000 --> 00:51:39,319 Speaker 1: there was a tape on the counter that was she 1016 00:51:39,440 --> 00:51:43,239 Speaker 1: got Way Mo Ass for and I was like, what 1017 00:51:43,320 --> 00:51:43,840 Speaker 1: the fuck? 1018 00:51:44,280 --> 00:51:46,680 Speaker 2: I was like, there was three other volumes of this 1019 00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:49,440 Speaker 2: like it was you know, but as. 1020 00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,960 Speaker 1: That is the way for the for those films, they 1021 00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,840 Speaker 1: make lots of sequels. There's a whole cinematic universe. Does 1022 00:51:54,920 --> 00:51:56,160 Speaker 1: she Got Way Mo Ass? 1023 00:51:56,160 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 2: But anyway, that's that's why I pulled that out of 1024 00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:02,000 Speaker 2: when I reference. 1025 00:52:01,640 --> 00:52:06,279 Speaker 3: That she got wavos, cinematic universe is intense and I 1026 00:52:06,360 --> 00:52:09,279 Speaker 3: love it. I'm so clutchually was doing this show because 1027 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:12,720 Speaker 3: whenever she would talk about her years years of working 1028 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:15,960 Speaker 3: at this store, like you have to have material about this, 1029 00:52:16,719 --> 00:52:18,839 Speaker 3: and she would just tell the funniest stories, just one 1030 00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:21,960 Speaker 3: off story. So I'm so glad that she has decided 1031 00:52:22,000 --> 00:52:25,440 Speaker 3: to correlate them into a stand up show. And she's 1032 00:52:25,480 --> 00:52:28,480 Speaker 3: so funny anyway that I just can't even imagine how 1033 00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,080 Speaker 3: great this show must be. 1034 00:52:30,719 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean honestly, like I don't know, and now 1035 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:36,880 Speaker 1: that I think about it, I'm like, Okay, I definitely 1036 00:52:36,960 --> 00:52:38,840 Speaker 1: I don't think I would have wanted to watch porn 1037 00:52:38,880 --> 00:52:42,800 Speaker 1: with my parents. Obviously. I revealed in the last Bonus 1038 00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:46,520 Speaker 1: episode that I found one of my dad's tapes and 1039 00:52:46,560 --> 00:52:50,840 Speaker 1: that was awkward enough just watching it alone for five seconds. 1040 00:52:51,280 --> 00:52:53,480 Speaker 1: So I'm like, oh, I'm glad that I don't. I 1041 00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:55,799 Speaker 1: wouldn't go there and just be like, so, what. 1042 00:52:55,719 --> 00:52:59,719 Speaker 2: Do you think of this? Still restrictive or not? Like 1043 00:52:59,800 --> 00:53:00,879 Speaker 2: how far are we going? 1044 00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:06,440 Speaker 1: But count Yeah, but no, I'm actually kind of glad 1045 00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:10,239 Speaker 1: that my parents did not like movies at all, Like 1046 00:53:10,320 --> 00:53:12,759 Speaker 1: they just did not. It did not register for them 1047 00:53:12,800 --> 00:53:17,120 Speaker 1: that they were a medium to influence their children, and 1048 00:53:17,239 --> 00:53:22,840 Speaker 1: I think that it made me just insanely curious and crazy. 1049 00:53:22,360 --> 00:53:26,239 Speaker 3: For them and free. You were so free. Yes, I'm 1050 00:53:26,280 --> 00:53:30,359 Speaker 3: also I'm glad for in most of my life growing up, 1051 00:53:30,360 --> 00:53:32,720 Speaker 3: I wasn't. But now as an adult, I'm very happy 1052 00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:35,239 Speaker 3: that I was raised by elderly people because there's no 1053 00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:37,480 Speaker 3: way there was ever even going to be porn in 1054 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:39,400 Speaker 3: the house. They were too cheap to buy it and 1055 00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:44,120 Speaker 3: they were too old to use it. Yes, beautiful, but 1056 00:53:44,239 --> 00:53:47,120 Speaker 3: a great question. Yeah, I'm so sorry that there were 1057 00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:49,360 Speaker 3: no restrictions, but I'm still tripping on this in the 1058 00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:52,040 Speaker 3: mouth of madness suggestion like you are just a g 1059 00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:53,040 Speaker 3: for that one. 1060 00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:57,279 Speaker 1: Definitely, definitely, But I thank you everybody for writing in. 1061 00:53:57,719 --> 00:53:59,960 Speaker 2: We love all the questions, the comments. 1062 00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:04,680 Speaker 1: We love the stories of the weird parenting like we 1063 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:07,600 Speaker 1: just like love it all. And if you want to 1064 00:54:07,640 --> 00:54:11,359 Speaker 1: send us an email for us to read, please do so. 1065 00:54:11,800 --> 00:54:13,640 Speaker 1: We're at I Saw what you did pod at gmail 1066 00:54:13,640 --> 00:54:14,680 Speaker 1: dot com. 1067 00:54:14,400 --> 00:54:16,160 Speaker 3: And you can find us on our social media. 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Take that Catoride bottle 1080 00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:41,479 Speaker 3: with you. 1081 00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,640 Speaker 1: Just go back to bed, and you can go back 1082 00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,239 Speaker 1: to punching men in the face, slapping walls. 1083 00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:48,400 Speaker 2: I love more than life itself. 1084 00:54:49,880 --> 00:54:53,000 Speaker 3: I'm slapping walls in here all day. I can't patch 1085 00:54:53,080 --> 00:54:55,880 Speaker 3: a wall, because these motherfuckers will have to fix it. 1086 00:54:56,239 --> 00:54:59,760 Speaker 2: That's why I started slapping them, slapping the wall, slapping 1087 00:54:59,800 --> 00:54:59,920 Speaker 2: the w. 1088 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:02,480 Speaker 1: Oh. 1089 00:55:02,560 --> 00:55:04,480 Speaker 3: I love you so much, and I love movies so much, 1090 00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,360 Speaker 3: and I love our listeners so much and this is 1091 00:55:06,440 --> 00:55:07,239 Speaker 3: just so fun. 1092 00:55:07,280 --> 00:55:16,279 Speaker 1: Thank you, love you too, Thanks everybody, good bye bye. 1093 00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:20,239 Speaker 3: This has been an exactly right production. Our producer is 1094 00:55:20,280 --> 00:55:23,560 Speaker 3: Alexis sam Rosi. Our engineer is Ryo Baum. Our theme 1095 00:55:23,600 --> 00:55:26,560 Speaker 3: song is by Tom bry Fogel. 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