WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Abandon Shrimp 0:00:03.440 --> 0:00:09.200 Rooking Jewels, Second Date up Day. Nothing defines love more 0:00:09.200 --> 0:00:13.360 than coconut shrimp. Am I right? I mean I love it, 0:00:13.360 --> 0:00:17.000 it tastes good. But true love is coconut shrimp. That's 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:19.439 what I've always said. And Lindsay, who's on the phone 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:21.479 for a second date update today, will probably agree with me, 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:23.640 because she said she met the guy that she wants 0:00:23.640 --> 0:00:27.800 to call today over a plate of coconut shrimp. I did. Indeed, 0:00:27.960 --> 0:00:30.360 I don't know if I would say love though. I mean, 0:00:30.400 --> 0:00:32.120 I liked the guy, but I don't know if I'm 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:34.640 not with it. I'm pictured already like a lady in 0:00:34.680 --> 0:00:38.040 the Tramp moment with coconut shrimp. Oh that'd be so cute. 0:00:39.159 --> 0:00:41.519 All right, So you love the coconut shrimp, but you 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:45.160 liked the guy. What's the guy's name? His name is Kevin? Kevin? 0:00:45.200 --> 0:00:47.519 All right, and tell us how you met Kevin. So 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:50.040 I was at a party a couple of weeks ago, 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:53.280 and it was kind of fancy, and it was catered 0:00:53.720 --> 0:00:57.400 and he was working for a catering company delivering the food. 0:00:57.600 --> 0:01:02.480 Oh so you were hitting on the waitstaff, you know? Maybe? Okay, 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:04.560 I say you should always go for the men with 0:01:04.600 --> 0:01:07.679 the food. I agree. So when he came over with 0:01:07.720 --> 0:01:10.840 his coconut shrimp, I was like, this guy's the guy 0:01:10.920 --> 0:01:15.479 for me. So how'd you get his number? Then? I mean, 0:01:15.520 --> 0:01:16.960 did you just ask him right there when he came 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:18.760 up to you in a group of people. No? Well, 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:21.280 I mean we kind of had like a flirtation throughout 0:01:21.360 --> 0:01:24.640 the night, you know, like I told him that I 0:01:24.720 --> 0:01:27.800 love shrimp and coconut shrimp, and so every time he'd 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:30.120 come out, he would like, come find me first. You know, 0:01:31.000 --> 0:01:33.559 keep that shrimp coming, big boy. There's a big tip 0:01:33.600 --> 0:01:36.199 in your future. And I love your lines about the shrimp. 0:01:36.240 --> 0:01:38.040 I'm sure he really caught on quickly that you were 0:01:38.080 --> 0:01:43.039 hitting on it. Yeah, no, he had no idea, all right. 0:01:43.040 --> 0:01:45.319 So who finally asked for whose phone number? Well, like 0:01:45.360 --> 0:01:47.120 a little later on in the night, you know, it 0:01:47.240 --> 0:01:50.880 started to die down and we had a moment together 0:01:50.960 --> 0:01:55.080 and I asked for his number, but like not in hey, 0:01:55.120 --> 0:01:57.640 can I have your number? I offered up that I 0:01:57.680 --> 0:02:00.520 was having this party the next weekend with a your friends, 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:03.720 and I thought maybe he could come over and you know, 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:05.720 let me get your numbers so I can invite you. 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.120 That sort of thing. That's awesome. Were you really having 0:02:08.120 --> 0:02:09.680 a party or were you just using it as an 0:02:09.720 --> 0:02:12.440 excuse and now suddenly you're having to plan a party. 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:16.160 I was actually having a party, okay. And did he 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:20.320 show up to your party? He did, so I invited 0:02:20.400 --> 0:02:22.040 him to come over a little early so that we 0:02:22.080 --> 0:02:25.040 can have some one on one time because I need 0:02:25.040 --> 0:02:30.680 to help cooking food. You're basically you're basically using him 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:35.120 for free labor. No, I mean that's cute, right, Like 0:02:35.160 --> 0:02:38.720 cooking was some one people like to cook usually if 0:02:38.760 --> 0:02:42.240 it's not their job, you know. Okay, but he's not 0:02:42.320 --> 0:02:45.679 a cook, Okay, Yeah, he just holds a plate, so 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.080 that would have been rude. I guess if you're like, 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.480 you can hold all the plates with the ingredients on 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:52.280 it while I cook the food. No, I didn't do that. 0:02:52.960 --> 0:02:55.080 So he did understand that it was like a date 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:57.800 type of situation, not you trying to hire him for 0:02:57.840 --> 0:03:01.240 your party, I hope. So, I mean, I guess if 0:03:01.240 --> 0:03:03.280 it didn't come across, and that might be why he's 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:08.200 met calling me. So how did the party go? You know, 0:03:08.720 --> 0:03:11.800 I don't know, because he came over and my friends 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:13.519 really liked him, you know, they said he was a 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:16.919 little quiet but a nice guy. I don't know if 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:19.919 maybe they scared him off, you know, like all friends 0:03:19.960 --> 0:03:22.160 can get kind of weird. Sometimes they'll be like, you 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.400 can't follow you into the bathroom and film you what? 0:03:26.760 --> 0:03:29.320 Or you said weird? He said, get weird? What kind 0:03:29.320 --> 0:03:34.320 of friends do you have? Dude? Not not that kind 0:03:34.320 --> 0:03:38.000 of weird, but my friends there are more a dude 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:41.160 kind of weird, you know, And they'll say things like 0:03:41.240 --> 0:03:43.920 the last guy wasn't nice to her, you better be 0:03:44.000 --> 0:03:46.160 nice to her, and stuff like that. That is, you know, 0:03:46.600 --> 0:03:48.920 did you tell him beforehand not to do that? Because 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:51.800 that is not cool. I didn't give a warning not 0:03:52.000 --> 0:03:54.680 to do it because I figured they wouldn't think to 0:03:54.760 --> 0:03:57.040 do it. I don't know, except you think they might 0:03:57.040 --> 0:03:58.840 have done it. Yeah, I didn't think they do it, 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:00.560 But now I'm pretty sure that one of them probably 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:02.480 scared him off like that. Yeah, I mean, I hope 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.720 they didn't do that, and none of them have confessed 0:04:04.720 --> 0:04:06.800 that they have, and I've definitely talked to them about 0:04:06.880 --> 0:04:09.520 the situation. Okay, so how did it end with him? 0:04:09.520 --> 0:04:12.080 Did you get a kiss or a hug or what? Well, 0:04:12.080 --> 0:04:15.640 like I offered to get him the cab and he 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:17.960 was like, oh no, I already called an uber and 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:20.440 then it got kind of weird and cold and he 0:04:20.680 --> 0:04:24.120 just left. Um, you know, like I thought there would 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:28.600 be maybe a kiss or Haylo's hang out again, but yeah, 0:04:28.680 --> 0:04:30.960 he just kind of took off. And since then I've 0:04:30.960 --> 0:04:34.359 tried texting him and he just kind of responds with 0:04:34.440 --> 0:04:37.720 one word responses. You know. Okay, well, maybe one of 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:39.320 your friends did scare him off. We'll find out. We'll 0:04:39.320 --> 0:04:40.960 play a song, come back, call him and get your 0:04:40.960 --> 0:04:43.360 second date update. All right, all right, it sounds good. Okay, 0:04:43.400 --> 0:04:50.840 hang on looking jubil in the morning update if you're 0:04:50.880 --> 0:04:54.479 just joining us for today's second date update. Lindsay is 0:04:54.480 --> 0:04:57.799 on the phone and she wants to call the quiet 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:01.520 cater who stole her hard with a side of rant. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.160 She met this dude while she was at an event. 0:05:04.279 --> 0:05:06.719 He was a caterer walking around with a plate of 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:09.599 coconut shrimp. They struck up a conversation. She got his 0:05:09.640 --> 0:05:11.800 phone number and invited him to a dinner party with 0:05:11.800 --> 0:05:14.160 her friends. Now she thinks that her friends might have 0:05:14.200 --> 0:05:15.920 scared him off because she has some of those friends 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.799 who are like, you touch my friend, now, you're gonna 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:22.800 have just battle with me in the alleyway outside after 0:05:22.960 --> 0:05:26.360 she stay away. Those kind of friends, So that's why 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:27.960 she thinks she's not getting a call back. We're about 0:05:27.960 --> 0:05:29.920 to get him on the phone and find out why 0:05:30.480 --> 0:05:34.520 love is served up cold right now, lindsay, my friends 0:05:34.560 --> 0:05:38.840 definitely don't sound like that. Oh they don't. It's so weird. Yeah, 0:05:38.839 --> 0:05:42.960 they aren't like angry rednecks. Oh okay, I just I 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:45.960 have your friends painted completely wrong. I don't know why. 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:48.480 I will say it is kind of a ballsy move 0:05:48.560 --> 0:05:50.680 to invite a guy to a party with all your 0:05:50.760 --> 0:05:53.720 friends as a first date. I didn't think of it 0:05:53.800 --> 0:05:56.320 that way. I thought it was like a low key 0:05:56.520 --> 0:05:59.800 kind of first date. But now, looking back, maybe you're 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:02.880 because you never know. Your friends could be like, Hey, 0:06:03.720 --> 0:06:06.720 if you touched my friend, I'll go catch you. Did 0:06:06.720 --> 0:06:09.720 that sound more like your friends? No? Damn? All right, 0:06:09.760 --> 0:06:12.520 I'm still trying. I'll know them at some point. You're 0:06:12.560 --> 0:06:15.559 ready to give him a call? Yes, I am, Okay, 0:06:15.560 --> 0:06:28.000 here we go. Hello? Hi, can I speak with Kevin? Please? Yeah? 0:06:28.040 --> 0:06:30.440 That's me, Hey Kevin, how are you? This is Jewel 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.840 from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um like the 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:38.000 radio chill, Yeah, exactly like it. It is it as 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:42.680 a matter of fact. Okay, how are you doing. I'm 0:06:43.000 --> 0:06:46.520 doing all right. Well, thank you for listening. I mean 0:06:46.560 --> 0:06:49.760 I don't like listen. I'm sort of just aware that 0:06:49.960 --> 0:06:52.320 you're there. That's what I prefer. I prefer people who 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:54.760 just kind of know we exist but don't actually know 0:06:54.839 --> 0:06:59.120 the show. So Kevin sing is you don't listen a lot, 0:06:59.360 --> 0:07:01.000 or maybe I have never listened before in your life. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:04.520 Do you know what a second date update is? Um? No, 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:07.520 not really? Okay, Well, it's a segment we do on 0:07:07.520 --> 0:07:09.000 our show where if you go out on a date 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:11.480 with somebody and then end up not calling them back afterwards, 0:07:11.800 --> 0:07:13.320 they email us to see if we can get you 0:07:13.400 --> 0:07:15.080 on the phone and find out what went wrong. So 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:20.800 somebody emailed us about you. Oh who her name is? Lindsay. 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:23.240 He served her some coconut shrimp and then just sort 0:07:23.280 --> 0:07:27.720 of disappeared on her. Um. I don't know if i'd 0:07:27.800 --> 0:07:33.800 characterize it that way, but yeah, I kind of know her. Okay, 0:07:33.880 --> 0:07:36.960 that was kind of a happy laugh. But what's that? 0:07:37.400 --> 0:07:42.000 I mean, you sound positive about Lindsay? Oh no, I Um, 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.800 I didn't think that she was that into me, given 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:49.440 how we last interacted, what what do you mean. Well, 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:53.200 I mean we met at this party that I was 0:07:53.240 --> 0:07:56.280 working right, and we were friendly and chatty, and I thought, 0:07:56.280 --> 0:07:58.400 you know, there's a possibility this something will happen. And 0:07:58.400 --> 0:08:00.640 then you know, she invited me to this party at 0:08:00.680 --> 0:08:03.559 her house, which I thought was a good sign. And 0:08:03.760 --> 0:08:05.920 she said it was like a not like a full 0:08:05.960 --> 0:08:08.160 dinner party, but there's gonna be some food and friends. 0:08:08.240 --> 0:08:12.040 But it didn't really turn out that way. Really, she 0:08:12.160 --> 0:08:14.480 told us the opposite. She said that she thought you 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:16.960 had a good time and was concerned that maybe one 0:08:16.960 --> 0:08:19.760 of her friends like scared you off. Oh no, I 0:08:19.760 --> 0:08:22.160 had no problem with her friends. It was the way 0:08:22.440 --> 0:08:25.720 she ran the thing that sort of ticked me off. 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:28.600 What she do? Yeah, she actually made you mad, well 0:08:28.640 --> 0:08:30.480 a little bit. She asked if I would like go 0:08:30.560 --> 0:08:32.360 buy the grocery store and pick up a couple of 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:35.000 things on my way over, which you know is fine. 0:08:35.040 --> 0:08:37.800 I suppose it's a potluck kind of thing. Much so I, 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:39.240 you know, I go to the grocery store. I get 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.320 to her house and she and a friend are still 0:08:41.320 --> 0:08:44.400 like decorating and putting the place together. And she shows 0:08:44.400 --> 0:08:46.400 me to the kitchen and says, all right, you know, 0:08:46.600 --> 0:08:50.320 sort of get started. I'll you know what be in 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:53.200 and you know, check on you what wait a minute. 0:08:53.320 --> 0:08:55.600 She made it sound like she invited you over early 0:08:55.679 --> 0:08:57.360 so that you guys could have some one on one 0:08:57.360 --> 0:08:59.840 time before the party. Yeah, so that you could do 0:08:59.840 --> 0:09:02.320 her work. Yeah, there was not a whole lot of 0:09:02.320 --> 0:09:04.320 one on one time aside from her coming in and 0:09:04.360 --> 0:09:07.120 like tasting the things that I was trying and making 0:09:07.200 --> 0:09:09.400 suggestions on how to fix it, like a you know 0:09:09.720 --> 0:09:12.160 a little more red pepper, a little less salt, things 0:09:12.200 --> 0:09:13.960 like that. So it's one on one time with you 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:16.800 and a stove making food for her friends for the 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:19.559 most part. Yeah, and then she criticized what you were 0:09:19.640 --> 0:09:23.640 making a little bit a little bit, So did you 0:09:23.679 --> 0:09:25.760 ask her about that? You go, hey, maybe you want 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:28.160 to join me in here and help me cook. I 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:30.520 didn't get that far because then people, you know, like 0:09:30.559 --> 0:09:33.000 the rest of the guests started showing up and they 0:09:33.040 --> 0:09:36.640 all brought like treemate stuff. So while I'm the only 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:39.480 one in the kitchen making the hot stuff, and you know, 0:09:39.920 --> 0:09:42.440 as soon as it's ready, like you know, I finished 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:45.120 a plate of tomato capre days or whatever, like, they 0:09:45.160 --> 0:09:46.880 come in and hustle the plate out of the room 0:09:46.960 --> 0:09:49.679 to the party, and I'm less there with empty counters 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:51.920 and more things on the stove. So I feel like 0:09:52.040 --> 0:09:55.000 I was I was working the party. I wasn't participating 0:09:55.000 --> 0:09:56.920 in it. I mean, did at any point did you 0:09:56.960 --> 0:09:59.280 just think like I must have misunderstood what she wanted 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:00.960 for me, and she actually is going to pay me 0:10:01.000 --> 0:10:02.840 for this. I mean, that's the only thing that I 0:10:02.840 --> 0:10:05.400 could think of, Kevin, that we met at a catering event. 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:07.640 She must have thought that, you know, that's that's what 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:11.320 I do. You know, did she pay you for your services? No? No, 0:10:11.360 --> 0:10:14.040 that's the thing. Yeah, she didn't even like reimburse me 0:10:14.080 --> 0:10:15.679 or anything for the groceries she asked me to pick 0:10:15.760 --> 0:10:17.600 up on the way over. Really she didn't even reimburse you, 0:10:17.640 --> 0:10:19.800 all right, Well, yeah, I went to a party and 0:10:19.960 --> 0:10:23.960 worked it ended up losing money on it. Well, I 0:10:24.000 --> 0:10:26.240 think we need to be bill collectors here and try 0:10:26.280 --> 0:10:28.760 to get your money at least, Kevin, because she's actually 0:10:28.760 --> 0:10:30.480 on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. 0:10:30.920 --> 0:10:33.680 What are you talking about? I mean, Lindsey's listening. Lindsay 0:10:33.840 --> 0:10:40.600 you there, Yeah, I'm here, Oh, Lindsay you dog. Um, Okay, well, 0:10:40.679 --> 0:10:44.640 what's happening right now? I'm really sorry, Kevin. I did 0:10:44.760 --> 0:10:47.079 not mean to give you the impression that I hired 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:52.000 you to cook from my party. Um, it's kind of 0:10:52.000 --> 0:10:54.440 hard for me to draw another conclusion given that what 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:57.719 I did that night was cook for your party. Well, 0:10:57.720 --> 0:10:59.559 I think the key there is hired, because that means 0:10:59.600 --> 0:11:02.960 she would have paid you for So Okay, here's the thing, 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:06.679 Like I totally I think i'd been off more than 0:11:06.720 --> 0:11:09.760 I could chew. And I didn't realize how long the 0:11:09.800 --> 0:11:11.960 decorations are going to take me, and so I thought 0:11:11.960 --> 0:11:13.600 that we were going to have one on one time 0:11:14.040 --> 0:11:18.040 more so. And I didn't mean to criticize your cooking. 0:11:18.400 --> 0:11:21.880 It was partially joking. I kind of have a sarcastic, 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:24.560 mean sense of humor sometimes, so sometimes you're mean to 0:11:24.600 --> 0:11:30.320 the help. That's not a very good that's not my guys. Okay, 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.839 I'm really trying to I feel really bad about this, Kevin, 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.000 because that's not what I intended at all. I really 0:11:36.000 --> 0:11:38.520 wanted to spend time with you, and I thought that 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:40.559 at a certain point that you were sitting in the 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:45.120 kitchen because you were uncomfortable socializing with my friends. That's 0:11:45.120 --> 0:11:47.920 why I kept coming back into just like run thing 0:11:48.040 --> 0:11:49.960 by you because I was trying to connect with you, 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:52.800 but I thought that you wanted to be in there. 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.360 What okay, is that why that one time you came 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.480 in and asked me and Apron said, here, don't get 0:11:58.520 --> 0:12:03.280 anything on yourself. That that's that's a did it's connection. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:06.880 I just figured that your caterer, you love cooking. I 0:12:06.920 --> 0:12:08.720 didn't want to take you away from something that you 0:12:08.920 --> 0:12:12.920 loved doing. Yes, that's what I do for work. When 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:14.880 you invited me to a party, I was hoping that 0:12:14.920 --> 0:12:17.680 I would be at a party and not another job 0:12:17.720 --> 0:12:22.199 on my off day. Okay, well, Kevin, it's not completely 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:24.440 my fault because I didn't think that it would take 0:12:24.520 --> 0:12:26.960 you as long as it did to make all those dishes. 0:12:27.040 --> 0:12:30.920 Like if if I'd known that, then I probably would 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:34.400 have only had you make one or two. Do you 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:37.240 hear what you're saying right now? I do. I don't 0:12:37.280 --> 0:12:40.800 think I'm in the wrong. Okay. So first off, you 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.960 plan a dinner party poorly. You don't have all the 0:12:44.120 --> 0:12:45.960 ingredients for all the dishes you want, so you have 0:12:46.160 --> 0:12:49.439 me pick them up. Then I cooked them too slowly 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:53.920 for your plans and somehow this is my fault. Yeah, 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:58.440 j That's that's the same recap that I'm hearing. Kevin. Okay, 0:12:58.520 --> 0:13:01.760 no matter what happened, Kevin, and I'm sorry, and I 0:13:01.800 --> 0:13:04.880 really do like you, and if you will have me, 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:07.160 I would really love if we just did a regular 0:13:07.200 --> 0:13:10.439 one on one date and just forget the whole party. Okay, Kevin, 0:13:10.480 --> 0:13:12.200 would you like to go out with Lindsay again on 0:13:12.200 --> 0:13:14.480 a second date. We will pay for it. We'll buy 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:20.040 the ingredients, you can make the food. I'm not really 0:13:20.080 --> 0:13:23.079 feeling it. You know, it was just a little too weird. 0:13:23.200 --> 0:13:27.560 I don't think we know about what's going on. Okay, Kevin, 0:13:27.640 --> 0:13:32.559 I totally understand. But if I did have a party again, 0:13:33.080 --> 0:13:35.920 would you be able to come work and I would 0:13:35.920 --> 0:13:41.839 actually hire? Well, you think about that, Kevin. You're willing 0:13:41.840 --> 0:13:44.920 to pay in advance. I'm game, all right. I name 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:46.920 a high price, Kevin. If I were you not a 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:49.400 successful date that you guys got out of it. But Kevin, 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:51.960 at least you got a job opportunity and Lindsay, your 0:13:52.000 --> 0:13:55.000 next dinner party is going to be delicious. Kevin, I'm 0:13:55.000 --> 0:13:58.080 really happy that that's behind us, and I'm looking forward 0:13:58.120 --> 0:14:01.720 to paying you a solid wage. You know what, that's 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:03.559 better than a date. I think I've always wanted a 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:04.839 woman to say to me that they'd pay me a 0:14:04.920 --> 0:14:10.480 sold wage. Text in at seven eight five nine two 0:14:10.559 --> 0:14:13.320 says that girl is terrible. He deserves far better what 0:14:13.440 --> 0:14:17.200 a cheap user a hole brook and jewel In the morning, 0:14:17.800 --> 0:14:19.880 lots of people are angry at the woman in today's 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.680 second date update. Her name was Lindsay and she met 0:14:22.680 --> 0:14:24.960 a dude named Kevin when she was at an event 0:14:25.040 --> 0:14:26.960 that was catered and he came up and served her 0:14:27.000 --> 0:14:29.600 some coconut shrimp. Yes, I've pretty much fallen in love 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:31.400 with anybody who's ever given me called srimp, So I 0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:35.480 understand why she liked the dude. And for their date, 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:38.200 she invited him over since he's obviously in the food industry, 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:41.080 to have dinner with her friends and they could cook 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:43.640 together and it would be fun. And so we called 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.080 him and got him on the phone and found out 0:14:45.080 --> 0:14:47.640 the reason that he wasn't calling her back was because 0:14:47.640 --> 0:14:50.200 he did go over there to hang out with her friends, 0:14:50.480 --> 0:14:54.040 but he was in the kitchen the whole time, cooking everything, 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:59.160 and he thought that she just wanted to use him 0:14:59.320 --> 0:15:01.800 for his cad ring services. She would even come in 0:15:01.840 --> 0:15:03.280 every once in a while and check on him and 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:05.360 then like rip on the food, be like, oh this 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.640 needs more salt, this is not very good. Something like that. 0:15:07.760 --> 0:15:10.360 The worst. So he was like, I don't even think 0:15:10.360 --> 0:15:12.440 she liked me. She just wanted to hire me to 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:14.880 cater the event, and everybody texting in right now at 0:15:14.920 --> 0:15:17.120 seven eight, five nine two thinks this girl is terrible, 0:15:17.240 --> 0:15:19.480 I mean, and thinks that she actually didn't just use him. 0:15:19.520 --> 0:15:21.280 I kind of want to meet a guy and be like, hey, 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.160 what you come over on your way? Can you pick 0:15:23.240 --> 0:15:25.000 up some nails and some wood, and like, because I 0:15:25.040 --> 0:15:28.280 need a dak you know. Yeah, I mean, she's kind 0:15:28.320 --> 0:15:30.520 of smart. Right, you should just go hang out at 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:32.640 the home depot and start meeting dude, right and be like, hey, 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:34.240 you're a handy dude. Want to come over. We're having 0:15:34.280 --> 0:15:36.600 like a deck building party. Yeah, oh my gosh, it's 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:38.520 just you and me. But let's I've got my whole 0:15:38.560 --> 0:15:41.800 car full of supplies. Let's go. Why why would you 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:45.480 call me back? So he spent his whole time in 0:15:45.520 --> 0:15:49.000 the kitchen cooking food for everybody, and then at the 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.160 end of the second date, they decided to not go 0:15:51.200 --> 0:16:00.200 out again romantically, but maybe but they decided that ab 0:16:00.320 --> 0:16:04.280 she'd hire him sometime for his catering services. So at 0:16:04.320 --> 0:16:05.920 least they both got money out of it. Kind of 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.160 or service all. I guess, yeah, I guess it's a 0:16:08.200 --> 0:16:10.840 successful second date update. You know, most of the men 0:16:10.880 --> 0:16:12.480 with the people just hating each other. At least these 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:15.680 two can have like a business situation. You can make 0:16:15.720 --> 0:16:19.160 some money by serving food at her parties. Remember, if 0:16:19.200 --> 0:16:20.640 you want to do a second date update, all you 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.680 have to do is email the show and we will 0:16:22.720 --> 0:16:24.760 call the person that came over and cooked food for 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:26.880 your entire friends and then didn't call you back.