Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels, Second Date up Day. Nothing defines love more
Speaker 1: than coconut shrimp. Am I right? I mean I love it,
Speaker 1: it tastes good. But true love is coconut shrimp. That's
Speaker 1: what I've always said. And Lindsay, who's on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update today, will probably agree with me,
Speaker 1: because she said she met the guy that she wants
Speaker 1: to call today over a plate of coconut shrimp. I did. Indeed,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say love though. I mean,
Speaker 1: I liked the guy, but I don't know if I'm
Speaker 1: not with it. I'm pictured already like a lady in
Speaker 1: the Tramp moment with coconut shrimp. Oh that'd be so cute.
Speaker 1: All right, So you love the coconut shrimp, but you
Speaker 1: liked the guy. What's the guy's name? His name is Kevin? Kevin?
Speaker 1: All right, and tell us how you met Kevin. So
Speaker 1: I was at a party a couple of weeks ago,
Speaker 1: and it was kind of fancy, and it was catered
Speaker 1: and he was working for a catering company delivering the food.
Speaker 1: Oh so you were hitting on the waitstaff, you know? Maybe? Okay,
Speaker 1: I say you should always go for the men with
Speaker 1: the food. I agree. So when he came over with
Speaker 1: his coconut shrimp, I was like, this guy's the guy
Speaker 1: for me. So how'd you get his number? Then? I mean,
Speaker 1: did you just ask him right there when he came
Speaker 1: up to you in a group of people. No? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean we kind of had like a flirtation throughout
Speaker 1: the night, you know, like I told him that I
Speaker 1: love shrimp and coconut shrimp, and so every time he'd
Speaker 1: come out, he would like, come find me first. You know,
Speaker 1: keep that shrimp coming, big boy. There's a big tip
Speaker 1: in your future. And I love your lines about the shrimp.
Speaker 1: I'm sure he really caught on quickly that you were
Speaker 1: hitting on it. Yeah, no, he had no idea, all right.
Speaker 1: So who finally asked for whose phone number? Well, like
Speaker 1: a little later on in the night, you know, it
Speaker 1: started to die down and we had a moment together
Speaker 1: and I asked for his number, but like not in hey,
Speaker 1: can I have your number? I offered up that I
Speaker 1: was having this party the next weekend with a your friends,
Speaker 1: and I thought maybe he could come over and you know,
Speaker 1: let me get your numbers so I can invite you.
Speaker 1: That sort of thing. That's awesome. Were you really having
Speaker 1: a party or were you just using it as an
Speaker 1: excuse and now suddenly you're having to plan a party.
Speaker 1: I was actually having a party, okay. And did he
Speaker 1: show up to your party? He did, so I invited
Speaker 1: him to come over a little early so that we
Speaker 1: can have some one on one time because I need
Speaker 1: to help cooking food. You're basically you're basically using him
Speaker 1: for free labor. No, I mean that's cute, right, Like
Speaker 1: cooking was some one people like to cook usually if
Speaker 1: it's not their job, you know. Okay, but he's not
Speaker 1: a cook, Okay, Yeah, he just holds a plate, so
Speaker 1: that would have been rude. I guess if you're like,
Speaker 1: you can hold all the plates with the ingredients on
Speaker 1: it while I cook the food. No, I didn't do that.
Speaker 1: So he did understand that it was like a date
Speaker 1: type of situation, not you trying to hire him for
Speaker 1: your party, I hope. So, I mean, I guess if
Speaker 1: it didn't come across, and that might be why he's
Speaker 1: met calling me. So how did the party go? You know,
Speaker 1: I don't know, because he came over and my friends
Speaker 1: really liked him, you know, they said he was a
Speaker 1: little quiet but a nice guy. I don't know if
Speaker 1: maybe they scared him off, you know, like all friends
Speaker 1: can get kind of weird. Sometimes they'll be like, you
Speaker 1: can't follow you into the bathroom and film you what?
Speaker 1: Or you said weird? He said, get weird? What kind
Speaker 1: of friends do you have? Dude? Not not that kind
Speaker 1: of weird, but my friends there are more a dude
Speaker 1: kind of weird, you know, And they'll say things like
Speaker 1: the last guy wasn't nice to her, you better be
Speaker 1: nice to her, and stuff like that. That is, you know,
Speaker 1: did you tell him beforehand not to do that? Because
Speaker 1: that is not cool. I didn't give a warning not
Speaker 1: to do it because I figured they wouldn't think to
Speaker 1: do it. I don't know, except you think they might
Speaker 1: have done it. Yeah, I didn't think they do it,
Speaker 1: But now I'm pretty sure that one of them probably
Speaker 1: scared him off like that. Yeah, I mean, I hope
Speaker 1: they didn't do that, and none of them have confessed
Speaker 1: that they have, and I've definitely talked to them about
Speaker 1: the situation. Okay, so how did it end with him?
Speaker 1: Did you get a kiss or a hug or what? Well,
Speaker 1: like I offered to get him the cab and he
Speaker 1: was like, oh no, I already called an uber and
Speaker 1: then it got kind of weird and cold and he
Speaker 1: just left. Um, you know, like I thought there would
Speaker 1: be maybe a kiss or Haylo's hang out again, but yeah,
Speaker 1: he just kind of took off. And since then I've
Speaker 1: tried texting him and he just kind of responds with
Speaker 1: one word responses. You know. Okay, well, maybe one of
Speaker 1: your friends did scare him off. We'll find out. We'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call him and get your
Speaker 1: second date update. All right, all right, it sounds good. Okay,
Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning update if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us for today's second date update. Lindsay is
Speaker 1: on the phone and she wants to call the quiet
Speaker 1: cater who stole her hard with a side of rant.
Speaker 1: She met this dude while she was at an event.
Speaker 1: He was a caterer walking around with a plate of
Speaker 1: coconut shrimp. They struck up a conversation. She got his
Speaker 1: phone number and invited him to a dinner party with
Speaker 1: her friends. Now she thinks that her friends might have
Speaker 1: scared him off because she has some of those friends
Speaker 1: who are like, you touch my friend, now, you're gonna
Speaker 1: have just battle with me in the alleyway outside after
Speaker 1: she stay away. Those kind of friends, So that's why
Speaker 1: she thinks she's not getting a call back. We're about
Speaker 1: to get him on the phone and find out why
Speaker 1: love is served up cold right now, lindsay, my friends
Speaker 1: definitely don't sound like that. Oh they don't. It's so weird. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they aren't like angry rednecks. Oh okay, I just I
Speaker 1: have your friends painted completely wrong. I don't know why.
Speaker 1: I will say it is kind of a ballsy move
Speaker 1: to invite a guy to a party with all your
Speaker 1: friends as a first date. I didn't think of it
Speaker 1: that way. I thought it was like a low key
Speaker 1: kind of first date. But now, looking back, maybe you're
Speaker 1: because you never know. Your friends could be like, Hey,
Speaker 1: if you touched my friend, I'll go catch you. Did
Speaker 1: that sound more like your friends? No? Damn? All right,
Speaker 1: I'm still trying. I'll know them at some point. You're
Speaker 1: ready to give him a call? Yes, I am, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hello? Hi, can I speak with Kevin? Please? Yeah?
Speaker 1: That's me, Hey Kevin, how are you? This is Jewel
Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um like the
Speaker 1: radio chill, Yeah, exactly like it. It is it as
Speaker 1: a matter of fact. Okay, how are you doing. I'm
Speaker 1: doing all right. Well, thank you for listening. I mean
Speaker 1: I don't like listen. I'm sort of just aware that
Speaker 1: you're there. That's what I prefer. I prefer people who
Speaker 1: just kind of know we exist but don't actually know
Speaker 1: the show. So Kevin sing is you don't listen a lot,
Speaker 1: or maybe I have never listened before in your life.
Speaker 1: Do you know what a second date update is? Um? No,
Speaker 1: not really? Okay, Well, it's a segment we do on
Speaker 1: our show where if you go out on a date
Speaker 1: with somebody and then end up not calling them back afterwards,
Speaker 1: they email us to see if we can get you
Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what went wrong. So
Speaker 1: somebody emailed us about you. Oh who her name is? Lindsay.
Speaker 1: He served her some coconut shrimp and then just sort
Speaker 1: of disappeared on her. Um. I don't know if i'd
Speaker 1: characterize it that way, but yeah, I kind of know her. Okay,
Speaker 1: that was kind of a happy laugh. But what's that?
Speaker 1: I mean, you sound positive about Lindsay? Oh no, I Um,
Speaker 1: I didn't think that she was that into me, given
Speaker 1: how we last interacted, what what do you mean. Well,
Speaker 1: I mean we met at this party that I was
Speaker 1: working right, and we were friendly and chatty, and I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, there's a possibility this something will happen. And
Speaker 1: then you know, she invited me to this party at
Speaker 1: her house, which I thought was a good sign. And
Speaker 1: she said it was like a not like a full
Speaker 1: dinner party, but there's gonna be some food and friends.
Speaker 1: But it didn't really turn out that way. Really, she
Speaker 1: told us the opposite. She said that she thought you
Speaker 1: had a good time and was concerned that maybe one
Speaker 1: of her friends like scared you off. Oh no, I
Speaker 1: had no problem with her friends. It was the way
Speaker 1: she ran the thing that sort of ticked me off.
Speaker 1: What she do? Yeah, she actually made you mad, well
Speaker 1: a little bit. She asked if I would like go
Speaker 1: buy the grocery store and pick up a couple of
Speaker 1: things on my way over, which you know is fine.
Speaker 1: I suppose it's a potluck kind of thing. Much so I,
Speaker 1: you know, I go to the grocery store. I get
Speaker 1: to her house and she and a friend are still
Speaker 1: like decorating and putting the place together. And she shows
Speaker 1: me to the kitchen and says, all right, you know,
Speaker 1: sort of get started. I'll you know what be in
Speaker 1: and you know, check on you what wait a minute.
Speaker 1: She made it sound like she invited you over early
Speaker 1: so that you guys could have some one on one
Speaker 1: time before the party. Yeah, so that you could do
Speaker 1: her work. Yeah, there was not a whole lot of
Speaker 1: one on one time aside from her coming in and
Speaker 1: like tasting the things that I was trying and making
Speaker 1: suggestions on how to fix it, like a you know
Speaker 1: a little more red pepper, a little less salt, things
Speaker 1: like that. So it's one on one time with you
Speaker 1: and a stove making food for her friends for the
Speaker 1: most part. Yeah, and then she criticized what you were
Speaker 1: making a little bit a little bit, So did you
Speaker 1: ask her about that? You go, hey, maybe you want
Speaker 1: to join me in here and help me cook. I
Speaker 1: didn't get that far because then people, you know, like
Speaker 1: the rest of the guests started showing up and they
Speaker 1: all brought like treemate stuff. So while I'm the only
Speaker 1: one in the kitchen making the hot stuff, and you know,
Speaker 1: as soon as it's ready, like you know, I finished
Speaker 1: a plate of tomato capre days or whatever, like, they
Speaker 1: come in and hustle the plate out of the room
Speaker 1: to the party, and I'm less there with empty counters
Speaker 1: and more things on the stove. So I feel like
Speaker 1: I was I was working the party. I wasn't participating
Speaker 1: in it. I mean, did at any point did you
Speaker 1: just think like I must have misunderstood what she wanted
Speaker 1: for me, and she actually is going to pay me
Speaker 1: for this. I mean, that's the only thing that I
Speaker 1: could think of, Kevin, that we met at a catering event.
Speaker 1: She must have thought that, you know, that's that's what
Speaker 1: I do. You know, did she pay you for your services? No? No,
Speaker 1: that's the thing. Yeah, she didn't even like reimburse me
Speaker 1: or anything for the groceries she asked me to pick
Speaker 1: up on the way over. Really she didn't even reimburse you,
Speaker 1: all right, Well, yeah, I went to a party and
Speaker 1: worked it ended up losing money on it. Well, I
Speaker 1: think we need to be bill collectors here and try
Speaker 1: to get your money at least, Kevin, because she's actually
Speaker 1: on the other line listening and wants to talk to you.
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? I mean, Lindsey's listening. Lindsay
Speaker 1: you there, Yeah, I'm here, Oh, Lindsay you dog. Um, Okay, well,
Speaker 1: what's happening right now? I'm really sorry, Kevin. I did
Speaker 1: not mean to give you the impression that I hired
Speaker 1: you to cook from my party. Um, it's kind of
Speaker 1: hard for me to draw another conclusion given that what
Speaker 1: I did that night was cook for your party. Well,
Speaker 1: I think the key there is hired, because that means
Speaker 1: she would have paid you for So Okay, here's the thing,
Speaker 1: Like I totally I think i'd been off more than
Speaker 1: I could chew. And I didn't realize how long the
Speaker 1: decorations are going to take me, and so I thought
Speaker 1: that we were going to have one on one time
Speaker 1: more so. And I didn't mean to criticize your cooking.
Speaker 1: It was partially joking. I kind of have a sarcastic,
Speaker 1: mean sense of humor sometimes, so sometimes you're mean to
Speaker 1: the help. That's not a very good that's not my guys. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm really trying to I feel really bad about this, Kevin,
Speaker 1: because that's not what I intended at all. I really
Speaker 1: wanted to spend time with you, and I thought that
Speaker 1: at a certain point that you were sitting in the
Speaker 1: kitchen because you were uncomfortable socializing with my friends. That's
Speaker 1: why I kept coming back into just like run thing
Speaker 1: by you because I was trying to connect with you,
Speaker 1: but I thought that you wanted to be in there.
Speaker 1: What okay, is that why that one time you came
Speaker 1: in and asked me and Apron said, here, don't get
Speaker 1: anything on yourself. That that's that's a did it's connection.
Speaker 1: I just figured that your caterer, you love cooking. I
Speaker 1: didn't want to take you away from something that you
Speaker 1: loved doing. Yes, that's what I do for work. When
Speaker 1: you invited me to a party, I was hoping that
Speaker 1: I would be at a party and not another job
Speaker 1: on my off day. Okay, well, Kevin, it's not completely
Speaker 1: my fault because I didn't think that it would take
Speaker 1: you as long as it did to make all those dishes.
Speaker 1: Like if if I'd known that, then I probably would
Speaker 1: have only had you make one or two. Do you
Speaker 1: hear what you're saying right now? I do. I don't
Speaker 1: think I'm in the wrong. Okay. So first off, you
Speaker 1: plan a dinner party poorly. You don't have all the
Speaker 1: ingredients for all the dishes you want, so you have
Speaker 1: me pick them up. Then I cooked them too slowly
Speaker 1: for your plans and somehow this is my fault. Yeah,
Speaker 1: j That's that's the same recap that I'm hearing. Kevin. Okay,
Speaker 1: no matter what happened, Kevin, and I'm sorry, and I
Speaker 1: really do like you, and if you will have me,
Speaker 1: I would really love if we just did a regular
Speaker 1: one on one date and just forget the whole party. Okay, Kevin,
Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Lindsay again on
Speaker 1: a second date. We will pay for it. We'll buy
Speaker 1: the ingredients, you can make the food. I'm not really
Speaker 1: feeling it. You know, it was just a little too weird.
Speaker 1: I don't think we know about what's going on. Okay, Kevin,
Speaker 1: I totally understand. But if I did have a party again,
Speaker 1: would you be able to come work and I would
Speaker 1: actually hire? Well, you think about that, Kevin. You're willing
Speaker 1: to pay in advance. I'm game, all right. I name
Speaker 1: a high price, Kevin. If I were you not a
Speaker 1: successful date that you guys got out of it. But Kevin,
Speaker 1: at least you got a job opportunity and Lindsay, your
Speaker 1: next dinner party is going to be delicious. Kevin, I'm
Speaker 1: really happy that that's behind us, and I'm looking forward
Speaker 1: to paying you a solid wage. You know what, that's
Speaker 1: better than a date. I think I've always wanted a
Speaker 1: woman to say to me that they'd pay me a
Speaker 1: sold wage. Text in at seven eight five nine two
Speaker 1: says that girl is terrible. He deserves far better what
Speaker 1: a cheap user a hole brook and jewel In the morning,
Speaker 1: lots of people are angry at the woman in today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Her name was Lindsay and she met
Speaker 1: a dude named Kevin when she was at an event
Speaker 1: that was catered and he came up and served her
Speaker 1: some coconut shrimp. Yes, I've pretty much fallen in love
Speaker 1: with anybody who's ever given me called srimp, So I
Speaker 1: understand why she liked the dude. And for their date,
Speaker 1: she invited him over since he's obviously in the food industry,
Speaker 1: to have dinner with her friends and they could cook
Speaker 1: together and it would be fun. And so we called
Speaker 1: him and got him on the phone and found out
Speaker 1: the reason that he wasn't calling her back was because
Speaker 1: he did go over there to hang out with her friends,
Speaker 1: but he was in the kitchen the whole time, cooking everything,
Speaker 1: and he thought that she just wanted to use him
Speaker 1: for his cad ring services. She would even come in
Speaker 1: every once in a while and check on him and
Speaker 1: then like rip on the food, be like, oh this
Speaker 1: needs more salt, this is not very good. Something like that.
Speaker 1: The worst. So he was like, I don't even think
Speaker 1: she liked me. She just wanted to hire me to
Speaker 1: cater the event, and everybody texting in right now at
Speaker 1: seven eight, five nine two thinks this girl is terrible,
Speaker 1: I mean, and thinks that she actually didn't just use him.
Speaker 1: I kind of want to meet a guy and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: what you come over on your way? Can you pick
Speaker 1: up some nails and some wood, and like, because I
Speaker 1: need a dak you know. Yeah, I mean, she's kind
Speaker 1: of smart. Right, you should just go hang out at
Speaker 1: the home depot and start meeting dude, right and be like, hey,
Speaker 1: you're a handy dude. Want to come over. We're having
Speaker 1: like a deck building party. Yeah, oh my gosh, it's
Speaker 1: just you and me. But let's I've got my whole
Speaker 1: car full of supplies. Let's go. Why why would you
Speaker 1: call me back? So he spent his whole time in
Speaker 1: the kitchen cooking food for everybody, and then at the
Speaker 1: end of the second date, they decided to not go
Speaker 1: out again romantically, but maybe but they decided that ab
Speaker 1: she'd hire him sometime for his catering services. So at
Speaker 1: least they both got money out of it. Kind of
Speaker 1: or service all. I guess, yeah, I guess it's a
Speaker 1: successful second date update. You know, most of the men
Speaker 1: with the people just hating each other. At least these
Speaker 1: two can have like a business situation. You can make
Speaker 1: some money by serving food at her parties. Remember, if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second date update, all you
Speaker 1: have to do is email the show and we will
Speaker 1: call the person that came over and cooked food for
Speaker 1: your entire friends and then didn't call you back.