1 00:00:03,440 --> 00:00:09,200 Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels, Second Date up Day. Nothing defines love more 2 00:00:09,200 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: than coconut shrimp. Am I right? I mean I love it, 3 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 1: it tastes good. But true love is coconut shrimp. That's 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:19,439 Speaker 1: what I've always said. And Lindsay, who's on the phone 5 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:21,479 Speaker 1: for a second date update today, will probably agree with me, 6 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: because she said she met the guy that she wants 7 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: to call today over a plate of coconut shrimp. I did. Indeed, 8 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: I don't know if I would say love though. I mean, 9 00:00:30,400 --> 00:00:32,120 Speaker 1: I liked the guy, but I don't know if I'm 10 00:00:32,240 --> 00:00:34,640 Speaker 1: not with it. I'm pictured already like a lady in 11 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: the Tramp moment with coconut shrimp. Oh that'd be so cute. 12 00:00:39,159 --> 00:00:41,519 Speaker 1: All right, So you love the coconut shrimp, but you 13 00:00:41,600 --> 00:00:45,160 Speaker 1: liked the guy. What's the guy's name? His name is Kevin? Kevin? 14 00:00:45,200 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 1: All right, and tell us how you met Kevin. So 15 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:50,040 Speaker 1: I was at a party a couple of weeks ago, 16 00:00:50,520 --> 00:00:53,280 Speaker 1: and it was kind of fancy, and it was catered 17 00:00:53,720 --> 00:00:57,400 Speaker 1: and he was working for a catering company delivering the food. 18 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 1: Oh so you were hitting on the waitstaff, you know? Maybe? Okay, 19 00:01:02,600 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 1: I say you should always go for the men with 20 00:01:04,600 --> 00:01:07,679 Speaker 1: the food. I agree. So when he came over with 21 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: his coconut shrimp, I was like, this guy's the guy 22 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: for me. So how'd you get his number? Then? I mean, 23 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:16,960 Speaker 1: did you just ask him right there when he came 24 00:01:17,000 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: up to you in a group of people. No? Well, 25 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 1: I mean we kind of had like a flirtation throughout 26 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:24,640 Speaker 1: the night, you know, like I told him that I 27 00:01:24,720 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 1: love shrimp and coconut shrimp, and so every time he'd 28 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,120 Speaker 1: come out, he would like, come find me first. You know, 29 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:33,559 Speaker 1: keep that shrimp coming, big boy. There's a big tip 30 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,199 Speaker 1: in your future. And I love your lines about the shrimp. 31 00:01:36,240 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: I'm sure he really caught on quickly that you were 32 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:43,039 Speaker 1: hitting on it. Yeah, no, he had no idea, all right. 33 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 1: So who finally asked for whose phone number? Well, like 34 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 1: a little later on in the night, you know, it 35 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 1: started to die down and we had a moment together 36 00:01:50,960 --> 00:01:55,080 Speaker 1: and I asked for his number, but like not in hey, 37 00:01:55,120 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 1: can I have your number? I offered up that I 38 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 1: was having this party the next weekend with a your friends, 39 00:02:00,840 --> 00:02:03,720 Speaker 1: and I thought maybe he could come over and you know, 40 00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: let me get your numbers so I can invite you. 41 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,120 Speaker 1: That sort of thing. That's awesome. Were you really having 42 00:02:08,120 --> 00:02:09,680 Speaker 1: a party or were you just using it as an 43 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:12,440 Speaker 1: excuse and now suddenly you're having to plan a party. 44 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:16,160 Speaker 1: I was actually having a party, okay. And did he 45 00:02:16,280 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: show up to your party? He did, so I invited 46 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,040 Speaker 1: him to come over a little early so that we 47 00:02:22,080 --> 00:02:25,040 Speaker 1: can have some one on one time because I need 48 00:02:25,040 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: to help cooking food. You're basically you're basically using him 49 00:02:30,720 --> 00:02:35,120 Speaker 1: for free labor. No, I mean that's cute, right, Like 50 00:02:35,160 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: cooking was some one people like to cook usually if 51 00:02:38,760 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: it's not their job, you know. Okay, but he's not 52 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 1: a cook, Okay, Yeah, he just holds a plate, so 53 00:02:45,760 --> 00:02:47,080 Speaker 1: that would have been rude. I guess if you're like, 54 00:02:47,120 --> 00:02:49,480 Speaker 1: you can hold all the plates with the ingredients on 55 00:02:49,520 --> 00:02:52,280 Speaker 1: it while I cook the food. No, I didn't do that. 56 00:02:52,960 --> 00:02:55,080 Speaker 1: So he did understand that it was like a date 57 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: type of situation, not you trying to hire him for 58 00:02:57,840 --> 00:03:01,240 Speaker 1: your party, I hope. So, I mean, I guess if 59 00:03:01,240 --> 00:03:03,280 Speaker 1: it didn't come across, and that might be why he's 60 00:03:03,320 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 1: met calling me. So how did the party go? You know, 61 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, because he came over and my friends 62 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:13,519 Speaker 1: really liked him, you know, they said he was a 63 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: little quiet but a nice guy. I don't know if 64 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:19,919 Speaker 1: maybe they scared him off, you know, like all friends 65 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: can get kind of weird. Sometimes they'll be like, you 66 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 1: can't follow you into the bathroom and film you what? 67 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 1: Or you said weird? He said, get weird? What kind 68 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 1: of friends do you have? Dude? Not not that kind 69 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 1: of weird, but my friends there are more a dude 70 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:41,160 Speaker 1: kind of weird, you know, And they'll say things like 71 00:03:41,240 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: the last guy wasn't nice to her, you better be 72 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:46,160 Speaker 1: nice to her, and stuff like that. That is, you know, 73 00:03:46,600 --> 00:03:48,920 Speaker 1: did you tell him beforehand not to do that? Because 74 00:03:48,960 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: that is not cool. I didn't give a warning not 75 00:03:52,000 --> 00:03:54,680 Speaker 1: to do it because I figured they wouldn't think to 76 00:03:54,760 --> 00:03:57,040 Speaker 1: do it. I don't know, except you think they might 77 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,840 Speaker 1: have done it. Yeah, I didn't think they do it, 78 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 1: But now I'm pretty sure that one of them probably 79 00:04:00,560 --> 00:04:02,480 Speaker 1: scared him off like that. Yeah, I mean, I hope 80 00:04:02,520 --> 00:04:04,720 Speaker 1: they didn't do that, and none of them have confessed 81 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 1: that they have, and I've definitely talked to them about 82 00:04:06,880 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 1: the situation. Okay, so how did it end with him? 83 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,080 Speaker 1: Did you get a kiss or a hug or what? Well, 84 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:15,640 Speaker 1: like I offered to get him the cab and he 85 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: was like, oh no, I already called an uber and 86 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,440 Speaker 1: then it got kind of weird and cold and he 87 00:04:20,680 --> 00:04:24,120 Speaker 1: just left. Um, you know, like I thought there would 88 00:04:24,160 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: be maybe a kiss or Haylo's hang out again, but yeah, 89 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: he just kind of took off. And since then I've 90 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 1: tried texting him and he just kind of responds with 91 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 1: one word responses. You know. Okay, well, maybe one of 92 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,320 Speaker 1: your friends did scare him off. We'll find out. We'll 93 00:04:39,320 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call him and get your 94 00:04:40,960 --> 00:04:43,360 Speaker 1: second date update. All right, all right, it sounds good. Okay, 95 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:50,840 Speaker 1: hang on looking jubil in the morning update if you're 96 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:54,479 Speaker 1: just joining us for today's second date update. Lindsay is 97 00:04:54,480 --> 00:04:57,799 Speaker 1: on the phone and she wants to call the quiet 98 00:04:57,880 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 1: cater who stole her hard with a side of rant. 99 00:05:02,120 --> 00:05:04,160 Speaker 1: She met this dude while she was at an event. 100 00:05:04,279 --> 00:05:06,719 Speaker 1: He was a caterer walking around with a plate of 101 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:09,599 Speaker 1: coconut shrimp. They struck up a conversation. She got his 102 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:11,800 Speaker 1: phone number and invited him to a dinner party with 103 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: her friends. Now she thinks that her friends might have 104 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:15,920 Speaker 1: scared him off because she has some of those friends 105 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:18,799 Speaker 1: who are like, you touch my friend, now, you're gonna 106 00:05:18,800 --> 00:05:22,800 Speaker 1: have just battle with me in the alleyway outside after 107 00:05:22,960 --> 00:05:26,360 Speaker 1: she stay away. Those kind of friends, So that's why 108 00:05:26,400 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: she thinks she's not getting a call back. We're about 109 00:05:27,960 --> 00:05:29,920 Speaker 1: to get him on the phone and find out why 110 00:05:30,480 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 1: love is served up cold right now, lindsay, my friends 111 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,840 Speaker 1: definitely don't sound like that. Oh they don't. It's so weird. Yeah, 112 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,960 Speaker 1: they aren't like angry rednecks. Oh okay, I just I 113 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:45,960 Speaker 1: have your friends painted completely wrong. I don't know why. 114 00:05:46,600 --> 00:05:48,480 Speaker 1: I will say it is kind of a ballsy move 115 00:05:48,560 --> 00:05:50,680 Speaker 1: to invite a guy to a party with all your 116 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,720 Speaker 1: friends as a first date. I didn't think of it 117 00:05:53,800 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 1: that way. I thought it was like a low key 118 00:05:56,520 --> 00:05:59,800 Speaker 1: kind of first date. But now, looking back, maybe you're 119 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: because you never know. Your friends could be like, Hey, 120 00:06:03,720 --> 00:06:06,720 Speaker 1: if you touched my friend, I'll go catch you. Did 121 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,720 Speaker 1: that sound more like your friends? No? Damn? All right, 122 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,520 Speaker 1: I'm still trying. I'll know them at some point. You're 123 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:15,559 Speaker 1: ready to give him a call? Yes, I am, Okay, 124 00:06:15,560 --> 00:06:28,000 Speaker 1: here we go. Hello? Hi, can I speak with Kevin? Please? Yeah? 125 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:30,440 Speaker 1: That's me, Hey Kevin, how are you? This is Jewel 126 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 1: from Brook and Jewel in the morning. Um like the 127 00:06:34,320 --> 00:06:38,000 Speaker 1: radio chill, Yeah, exactly like it. It is it as 128 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: a matter of fact. Okay, how are you doing. I'm 129 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 1: doing all right. Well, thank you for listening. I mean 130 00:06:46,560 --> 00:06:49,760 Speaker 1: I don't like listen. I'm sort of just aware that 131 00:06:49,960 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: you're there. That's what I prefer. I prefer people who 132 00:06:52,440 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: just kind of know we exist but don't actually know 133 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 1: the show. So Kevin sing is you don't listen a lot, 134 00:06:59,360 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: or maybe I have never listened before in your life. 135 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:04,520 Speaker 1: Do you know what a second date update is? Um? No, 136 00:07:04,640 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 1: not really? Okay, Well, it's a segment we do on 137 00:07:07,520 --> 00:07:09,000 Speaker 1: our show where if you go out on a date 138 00:07:09,040 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: with somebody and then end up not calling them back afterwards, 139 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:13,320 Speaker 1: they email us to see if we can get you 140 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 1: on the phone and find out what went wrong. So 141 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: somebody emailed us about you. Oh who her name is? Lindsay. 142 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,240 Speaker 1: He served her some coconut shrimp and then just sort 143 00:07:23,280 --> 00:07:27,720 Speaker 1: of disappeared on her. Um. I don't know if i'd 144 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:33,800 Speaker 1: characterize it that way, but yeah, I kind of know her. Okay, 145 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 1: that was kind of a happy laugh. But what's that? 146 00:07:37,400 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: I mean, you sound positive about Lindsay? Oh no, I Um, 147 00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 1: I didn't think that she was that into me, given 148 00:07:45,160 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 1: how we last interacted, what what do you mean. Well, 149 00:07:49,840 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 1: I mean we met at this party that I was 150 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: working right, and we were friendly and chatty, and I thought, 151 00:07:56,280 --> 00:07:58,400 Speaker 1: you know, there's a possibility this something will happen. And 152 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:00,640 Speaker 1: then you know, she invited me to this party at 153 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:03,559 Speaker 1: her house, which I thought was a good sign. And 154 00:08:03,760 --> 00:08:05,920 Speaker 1: she said it was like a not like a full 155 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: dinner party, but there's gonna be some food and friends. 156 00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:12,040 Speaker 1: But it didn't really turn out that way. Really, she 157 00:08:12,160 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 1: told us the opposite. She said that she thought you 158 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: had a good time and was concerned that maybe one 159 00:08:16,960 --> 00:08:19,760 Speaker 1: of her friends like scared you off. Oh no, I 160 00:08:19,760 --> 00:08:22,160 Speaker 1: had no problem with her friends. It was the way 161 00:08:22,440 --> 00:08:25,720 Speaker 1: she ran the thing that sort of ticked me off. 162 00:08:26,080 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: What she do? Yeah, she actually made you mad, well 163 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: a little bit. She asked if I would like go 164 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:32,360 Speaker 1: buy the grocery store and pick up a couple of 165 00:08:32,360 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 1: things on my way over, which you know is fine. 166 00:08:35,040 --> 00:08:37,800 Speaker 1: I suppose it's a potluck kind of thing. Much so I, 167 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: you know, I go to the grocery store. I get 168 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 1: to her house and she and a friend are still 169 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:44,400 Speaker 1: like decorating and putting the place together. And she shows 170 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:46,400 Speaker 1: me to the kitchen and says, all right, you know, 171 00:08:46,600 --> 00:08:50,320 Speaker 1: sort of get started. I'll you know what be in 172 00:08:50,440 --> 00:08:53,200 Speaker 1: and you know, check on you what wait a minute. 173 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,600 Speaker 1: She made it sound like she invited you over early 174 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: so that you guys could have some one on one 175 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,840 Speaker 1: time before the party. Yeah, so that you could do 176 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,320 Speaker 1: her work. Yeah, there was not a whole lot of 177 00:09:02,320 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 1: one on one time aside from her coming in and 178 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,120 Speaker 1: like tasting the things that I was trying and making 179 00:09:07,200 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: suggestions on how to fix it, like a you know 180 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 1: a little more red pepper, a little less salt, things 181 00:09:12,200 --> 00:09:13,960 Speaker 1: like that. So it's one on one time with you 182 00:09:14,040 --> 00:09:16,800 Speaker 1: and a stove making food for her friends for the 183 00:09:16,800 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 1: most part. Yeah, and then she criticized what you were 184 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:23,640 Speaker 1: making a little bit a little bit, So did you 185 00:09:23,679 --> 00:09:25,760 Speaker 1: ask her about that? You go, hey, maybe you want 186 00:09:25,760 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: to join me in here and help me cook. I 187 00:09:28,360 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 1: didn't get that far because then people, you know, like 188 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,000 Speaker 1: the rest of the guests started showing up and they 189 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:36,640 Speaker 1: all brought like treemate stuff. So while I'm the only 190 00:09:36,640 --> 00:09:39,480 Speaker 1: one in the kitchen making the hot stuff, and you know, 191 00:09:39,920 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 1: as soon as it's ready, like you know, I finished 192 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: a plate of tomato capre days or whatever, like, they 193 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,880 Speaker 1: come in and hustle the plate out of the room 194 00:09:46,960 --> 00:09:49,679 Speaker 1: to the party, and I'm less there with empty counters 195 00:09:49,679 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: and more things on the stove. So I feel like 196 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:55,000 Speaker 1: I was I was working the party. I wasn't participating 197 00:09:55,000 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 1: in it. I mean, did at any point did you 198 00:09:56,960 --> 00:09:59,280 Speaker 1: just think like I must have misunderstood what she wanted 199 00:09:59,320 --> 00:10:00,960 Speaker 1: for me, and she actually is going to pay me 200 00:10:01,000 --> 00:10:02,840 Speaker 1: for this. I mean, that's the only thing that I 201 00:10:02,840 --> 00:10:05,400 Speaker 1: could think of, Kevin, that we met at a catering event. 202 00:10:05,480 --> 00:10:07,640 Speaker 1: She must have thought that, you know, that's that's what 203 00:10:07,679 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 1: I do. You know, did she pay you for your services? No? No, 204 00:10:11,360 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 1: that's the thing. Yeah, she didn't even like reimburse me 205 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 1: or anything for the groceries she asked me to pick 206 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,600 Speaker 1: up on the way over. Really she didn't even reimburse you, 207 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: all right, Well, yeah, I went to a party and 208 00:10:19,960 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: worked it ended up losing money on it. Well, I 209 00:10:24,000 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: think we need to be bill collectors here and try 210 00:10:26,280 --> 00:10:28,760 Speaker 1: to get your money at least, Kevin, because she's actually 211 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:30,480 Speaker 1: on the other line listening and wants to talk to you. 212 00:10:30,920 --> 00:10:33,680 Speaker 1: What are you talking about? I mean, Lindsey's listening. Lindsay 213 00:10:33,840 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 1: you there, Yeah, I'm here, Oh, Lindsay you dog. Um, Okay, well, 214 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: what's happening right now? I'm really sorry, Kevin. I did 215 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:47,079 Speaker 1: not mean to give you the impression that I hired 216 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:52,000 Speaker 1: you to cook from my party. Um, it's kind of 217 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,440 Speaker 1: hard for me to draw another conclusion given that what 218 00:10:54,559 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 1: I did that night was cook for your party. Well, 219 00:10:57,720 --> 00:10:59,559 Speaker 1: I think the key there is hired, because that means 220 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 1: she would have paid you for So Okay, here's the thing, 221 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:06,679 Speaker 1: Like I totally I think i'd been off more than 222 00:11:06,720 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: I could chew. And I didn't realize how long the 223 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:11,960 Speaker 1: decorations are going to take me, and so I thought 224 00:11:11,960 --> 00:11:13,600 Speaker 1: that we were going to have one on one time 225 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:18,040 Speaker 1: more so. And I didn't mean to criticize your cooking. 226 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,880 Speaker 1: It was partially joking. I kind of have a sarcastic, 227 00:11:21,920 --> 00:11:24,560 Speaker 1: mean sense of humor sometimes, so sometimes you're mean to 228 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: the help. That's not a very good that's not my guys. Okay, 229 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:33,839 Speaker 1: I'm really trying to I feel really bad about this, Kevin, 230 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:36,000 Speaker 1: because that's not what I intended at all. I really 231 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 1: wanted to spend time with you, and I thought that 232 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,559 Speaker 1: at a certain point that you were sitting in the 233 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: kitchen because you were uncomfortable socializing with my friends. That's 234 00:11:45,120 --> 00:11:47,920 Speaker 1: why I kept coming back into just like run thing 235 00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:49,960 Speaker 1: by you because I was trying to connect with you, 236 00:11:50,080 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: but I thought that you wanted to be in there. 237 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 1: What okay, is that why that one time you came 238 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,480 Speaker 1: in and asked me and Apron said, here, don't get 239 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:03,280 Speaker 1: anything on yourself. That that's that's a did it's connection. 240 00:12:03,840 --> 00:12:06,880 Speaker 1: I just figured that your caterer, you love cooking. I 241 00:12:06,920 --> 00:12:08,720 Speaker 1: didn't want to take you away from something that you 242 00:12:08,920 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 1: loved doing. Yes, that's what I do for work. When 243 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:14,880 Speaker 1: you invited me to a party, I was hoping that 244 00:12:14,920 --> 00:12:17,680 Speaker 1: I would be at a party and not another job 245 00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:22,199 Speaker 1: on my off day. Okay, well, Kevin, it's not completely 246 00:12:22,240 --> 00:12:24,440 Speaker 1: my fault because I didn't think that it would take 247 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 1: you as long as it did to make all those dishes. 248 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:30,920 Speaker 1: Like if if I'd known that, then I probably would 249 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:34,400 Speaker 1: have only had you make one or two. Do you 250 00:12:34,480 --> 00:12:37,240 Speaker 1: hear what you're saying right now? I do. I don't 251 00:12:37,280 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 1: think I'm in the wrong. Okay. So first off, you 252 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 1: plan a dinner party poorly. You don't have all the 253 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:45,960 Speaker 1: ingredients for all the dishes you want, so you have 254 00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:49,439 Speaker 1: me pick them up. Then I cooked them too slowly 255 00:12:49,559 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 1: for your plans and somehow this is my fault. Yeah, 256 00:12:54,800 --> 00:12:58,440 Speaker 1: j That's that's the same recap that I'm hearing. Kevin. Okay, 257 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,760 Speaker 1: no matter what happened, Kevin, and I'm sorry, and I 258 00:13:01,800 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 1: really do like you, and if you will have me, 259 00:13:05,040 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: I would really love if we just did a regular 260 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,439 Speaker 1: one on one date and just forget the whole party. Okay, Kevin, 261 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:12,200 Speaker 1: would you like to go out with Lindsay again on 262 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 1: a second date. We will pay for it. We'll buy 263 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:20,040 Speaker 1: the ingredients, you can make the food. I'm not really 264 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:23,079 Speaker 1: feeling it. You know, it was just a little too weird. 265 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:27,560 Speaker 1: I don't think we know about what's going on. Okay, Kevin, 266 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:32,559 Speaker 1: I totally understand. But if I did have a party again, 267 00:13:33,080 --> 00:13:35,920 Speaker 1: would you be able to come work and I would 268 00:13:35,920 --> 00:13:41,839 Speaker 1: actually hire? Well, you think about that, Kevin. You're willing 269 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 1: to pay in advance. I'm game, all right. I name 270 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:46,920 Speaker 1: a high price, Kevin. If I were you not a 271 00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:49,400 Speaker 1: successful date that you guys got out of it. But Kevin, 272 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:51,960 Speaker 1: at least you got a job opportunity and Lindsay, your 273 00:13:52,000 --> 00:13:55,000 Speaker 1: next dinner party is going to be delicious. Kevin, I'm 274 00:13:55,000 --> 00:13:58,080 Speaker 1: really happy that that's behind us, and I'm looking forward 275 00:13:58,120 --> 00:14:01,720 Speaker 1: to paying you a solid wage. You know what, that's 276 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,559 Speaker 1: better than a date. I think I've always wanted a 277 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:04,839 Speaker 1: woman to say to me that they'd pay me a 278 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 1: sold wage. Text in at seven eight five nine two 279 00:14:10,559 --> 00:14:13,320 Speaker 1: says that girl is terrible. He deserves far better what 280 00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:17,200 Speaker 1: a cheap user a hole brook and jewel In the morning, 281 00:14:17,800 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: lots of people are angry at the woman in today's 282 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 1: second date update. Her name was Lindsay and she met 283 00:14:22,680 --> 00:14:24,960 Speaker 1: a dude named Kevin when she was at an event 284 00:14:25,040 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: that was catered and he came up and served her 285 00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:29,600 Speaker 1: some coconut shrimp. Yes, I've pretty much fallen in love 286 00:14:29,600 --> 00:14:31,400 Speaker 1: with anybody who's ever given me called srimp, So I 287 00:14:31,520 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: understand why she liked the dude. And for their date, 288 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 1: she invited him over since he's obviously in the food industry, 289 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:41,080 Speaker 1: to have dinner with her friends and they could cook 290 00:14:41,120 --> 00:14:43,640 Speaker 1: together and it would be fun. And so we called 291 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:45,080 Speaker 1: him and got him on the phone and found out 292 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:47,640 Speaker 1: the reason that he wasn't calling her back was because 293 00:14:47,640 --> 00:14:50,200 Speaker 1: he did go over there to hang out with her friends, 294 00:14:50,480 --> 00:14:54,040 Speaker 1: but he was in the kitchen the whole time, cooking everything, 295 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: and he thought that she just wanted to use him 296 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: for his cad ring services. She would even come in 297 00:15:01,840 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: every once in a while and check on him and 298 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 1: then like rip on the food, be like, oh this 299 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,640 Speaker 1: needs more salt, this is not very good. Something like that. 300 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,360 Speaker 1: The worst. So he was like, I don't even think 301 00:15:10,360 --> 00:15:12,440 Speaker 1: she liked me. She just wanted to hire me to 302 00:15:12,520 --> 00:15:14,880 Speaker 1: cater the event, and everybody texting in right now at 303 00:15:14,920 --> 00:15:17,120 Speaker 1: seven eight, five nine two thinks this girl is terrible, 304 00:15:17,240 --> 00:15:19,480 Speaker 1: I mean, and thinks that she actually didn't just use him. 305 00:15:19,520 --> 00:15:21,280 Speaker 1: I kind of want to meet a guy and be like, hey, 306 00:15:21,280 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: what you come over on your way? Can you pick 307 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:25,000 Speaker 1: up some nails and some wood, and like, because I 308 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:28,280 Speaker 1: need a dak you know. Yeah, I mean, she's kind 309 00:15:28,320 --> 00:15:30,520 Speaker 1: of smart. Right, you should just go hang out at 310 00:15:30,520 --> 00:15:32,640 Speaker 1: the home depot and start meeting dude, right and be like, hey, 311 00:15:32,680 --> 00:15:34,240 Speaker 1: you're a handy dude. Want to come over. We're having 312 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,600 Speaker 1: like a deck building party. Yeah, oh my gosh, it's 313 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:38,520 Speaker 1: just you and me. But let's I've got my whole 314 00:15:38,560 --> 00:15:41,800 Speaker 1: car full of supplies. Let's go. Why why would you 315 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:45,480 Speaker 1: call me back? So he spent his whole time in 316 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:49,000 Speaker 1: the kitchen cooking food for everybody, and then at the 317 00:15:49,080 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: end of the second date, they decided to not go 318 00:15:51,200 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 1: out again romantically, but maybe but they decided that ab 319 00:16:00,320 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 1: she'd hire him sometime for his catering services. So at 320 00:16:04,320 --> 00:16:05,920 Speaker 1: least they both got money out of it. Kind of 321 00:16:06,040 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: or service all. I guess, yeah, I guess it's a 322 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:10,840 Speaker 1: successful second date update. You know, most of the men 323 00:16:10,880 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 1: with the people just hating each other. At least these 324 00:16:12,480 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 1: two can have like a business situation. You can make 325 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,160 Speaker 1: some money by serving food at her parties. Remember, if 326 00:16:19,200 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 1: you want to do a second date update, all you 327 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 1: have to do is email the show and we will 328 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:24,760 Speaker 1: call the person that came over and cooked food for 329 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 1: your entire friends and then didn't call you back.