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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous Lala Kent. We're back with the Give Them

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Speaker 1: Lalla Podcast bonus episode. I have Teresa Judaice and we

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Speaker 1: are going to deep dive into the questions that I

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Speaker 1: asked you guys on Give Them La La pod on

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Speaker 1: ig Hi babe.

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Speaker 2: Hi honey, welcome back, Thank you.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 1: The first question, where do you stand with Tiffany? After

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Speaker 1: House of Villains?

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Speaker 3: We made up.

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Speaker 2: She said sorry to me, she said sorry on the show,

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Speaker 2: and then you know, we were fine.

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Speaker 3: I mean I still was like a little.

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Speaker 2: Like, you know, I was like, my poor honey always

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Speaker 2: has to get like blamed, you know, yeah, because you

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Speaker 2: know what, you know what Louis told me. He's like, babe,

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Speaker 2: I'm getting DMS. They're like, I can't believe you cheated

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Speaker 2: on Teresa.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, are you freaking kidding me?

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Speaker 2: Like, poor guy. It's like, let me just put it

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Speaker 2: out there. If he was cheating on me, he would

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Speaker 2: not be here. He's not you know, yeah.

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Speaker 1: No I don't see I don't see that happening.

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Speaker 3: No, it's sad.

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Speaker 2: But just because she said it, now, my poor husband's

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Speaker 2: getting DMS that he cheated on me, and it's like,

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Speaker 2: you know, what.

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Speaker 1: That's the worst thing is there's so many times where

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Speaker 1: it's like, okay, even if someone says it, let's just

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Speaker 1: say it's something huge, right, and it's like, okay, well hello,

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Speaker 1: defamation of character. It's like it doesn't matter once it's

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Speaker 1: out there.

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Speaker 2: Wait, exactly, it's out there exactly. So that's what I

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Speaker 2: said to her, Like, you shouldn't have said that, but whatever.

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Speaker 3: I guess she wanted.

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Speaker 2: You know, she wanted to try to get a moment

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Speaker 2: with Teresa Judice, like everyone tries to do that.

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Speaker 3: And I wasn't going to give it to her.

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Speaker 1: You make everybody relevant, You weren't going to give it

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Speaker 1: to her. What was the truth behind the flowers that

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Speaker 1: were suent?

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Speaker 2: Oh, he just said he missed me, like la la,

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Speaker 2: he missed me like we were I mean that was

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Speaker 2: like last year, so we were only married over a year.

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Speaker 2: And like he loves like we love being with each other,

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Speaker 2: and so he sent me he's your best friend.

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Speaker 3: He really is.

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Speaker 2: No, like we I actually love being with my husband,

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Speaker 2: like we yeah, we have the best time. And I

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Speaker 2: have a tattoo, so rare for people, Well you have

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Speaker 2: a tattoo of tattoo on the side that says Sampan

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Speaker 2: and Zami. That means always together. It's on my parents mausoleum.

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Speaker 2: That means because my parents were always together, Sampanan Zami.

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Speaker 2: And then right underneath it, I have three three three.

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Speaker 2: When my dad was passing, I went to talk to

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Speaker 2: a medium and my mom was giving me signs of threes.

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Speaker 2: So I knew my dad was going to pass away

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Speaker 2: with a three in it, and he did. He passed

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Speaker 2: away April third. My mom passed away March third. I

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Speaker 2: met Louis three months after my dad passed. My dad

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Speaker 2: was with me three years after my mom passed. My

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Speaker 2: parents got married in three months. Everything is threes. That's

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Speaker 2: your number.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So I have a.

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Speaker 2: Tattoo three three three, And then Louis sent me three

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Speaker 2: hundred and thirty three roses and he said, hey, missed me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's damn two.

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Speaker 2: People had to carry two like Safari and I think

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Speaker 2: Jesse had to carry it inside.

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Speaker 3: It was always huge.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not going to accept any man

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Speaker 1: who doesn't send me that number of persons.

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Speaker 2: That right when, like I didn't know it was going

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Speaker 2: to make some people in the house mad or like you.

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Speaker 1: Know, yeah, you found you found. You're in your love bubble.

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Speaker 1: People try to burst it, so I won't try to

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Speaker 1: burst it. I'm very happy for you you.

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Speaker 2: So that's why he just sent me flash because he

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Speaker 2: missed me. And he also got me a Chanel bag

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Speaker 2: and sent that also, But I don't that was another time.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if they're going to show that on there.

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Speaker 2: And I didn't even show Tiffany.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, wonder these holes are even.

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Speaker 2: I didn't even show Tiffany that because I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna show it to her because like

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Speaker 3: But I just showed Larsa.

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Speaker 1: You know, Larsa will appreciate it. Do you have any

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Speaker 1: advice for being a girl mom? This woman's struggling being

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Speaker 3: You know what.

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Speaker 2: I know, it's hard, Like I only know, like to me,

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Speaker 2: that's all I know, because I'm a girl mom, and

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Speaker 2: to me, I feel like I know, everyone always tells

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Speaker 2: me like being a boy mom is so much easier.

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Speaker 2: I know because the girls, you know the time of

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Speaker 2: the month, you know, and they get bitchy and moody

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Speaker 2: and I don't know. I always deal with a smile

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Speaker 2: and like I don't know, like it's like when you're

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Speaker 2: don't be bitchy to your daughters or if they are,

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Speaker 2: just try to ask them, like what's wrong or something,

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Speaker 2: because you know what, nowadays, high school and even middle school,

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Speaker 2: say the nastiest thing just because you know, if you're

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Speaker 2: if you're too pretty, or maybe if you're not. And

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Speaker 2: it's like it's like so sad to me that I

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Speaker 2: see what goes on in high school, you know, high school,

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Speaker 2: like what our kids are going thro, so like try

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Speaker 1: You know, I agree, creating the safe space. My my

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Speaker 1: biggest thing is you know, with with my girls, the

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Speaker 1: world is going to toughen them up. I don't need

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Speaker 1: that for me and creating that safe and I will say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: and it is very unfortunate. Then the social media aspect

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Speaker 3: I don't know that.

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Speaker 2: You have to give her time out. Give her time

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Speaker 1: Maybe Teresa, you would die a mouse. I tell her,

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Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, kid, I will check you the next

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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, I'm gonna bat it with myself.

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Speaker 1: I cannot do that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, Milanya was she was my my third one,

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Speaker 2: she would run away from me in stores and stuff.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, like that.

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Speaker 2: It's like you do they always say, you have one,

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Speaker 3: One that like one's gonna listen to the other ones not.

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Speaker 2: You just gotta have a lot of patience, unfortunately, a

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Speaker 2: lot of patience Milania.

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Speaker 1: Milania has such a soft spot. What a vibe, calling

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Speaker 2: I know, Oh my god, Lala, do you remember all

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Speaker 2: that I couldn't even when I was filming, and the

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Speaker 2: things that used to come out of her mouth. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, like yeah.

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Speaker 1: But by the way, ten out of ten excellent parenting,

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Speaker 1: excellent entertainment. I mean, she's got a mind, she's had it,

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Speaker 1: and I'm sure she's still this way, a mind of

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Speaker 1: It's what we try to instill in our girls, and

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Speaker 1: Milania is just freaking born with it. It's like, what

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Speaker 1: more could you ask for. I may not like that

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Speaker 1: she's saying these things, but in the real world this

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Speaker 2: No, that's definitely Milania. She's doing that stand out. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: it's crazy. The current Gia are more like, and Gabrielle

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Speaker 1: Yes, I love that though an equal balance. Someone wants

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Speaker 1: to know, can you please clear up how you say

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Speaker 1: your last name? Is it Judae or Judic?

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Speaker 3: I mean both?

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Speaker 2: Judj is more Italian Judice Okay, American way, it's just easy,

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Speaker 2: do you care? I do care either, or we say Judaice.

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Speaker 2: That's what Joe used to always say, and that's what

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Speaker 2: I said too. That's it's his last name.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, so legally, have you taken on Louise's name?

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Speaker 2: No, Gluisa, babe, keep your name. He's like, everybody knows

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Speaker 2: just Teresa Judae.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's probably easier to have the same last

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Speaker 2: I mean he's like, you know, I thought that was

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Speaker 2: sweet of him too to say that. So I was like, okay,

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Speaker 2: you know, I was fine with that, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because some men are funny about it and I'm like,

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Speaker 1: it's just a fucking.

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Speaker 3: A yeah no, yeah, And he was like he's not

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Speaker 2: He's like, maybe you're everybody knows just Teresa Judie and

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Speaker 2: just stay like that. And I'm like, Okay, a confident man.

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Speaker 1: Yeah no, I mean I love a confident man. Yeah

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Speaker 1: I'm not. I don't ever want Well, I've already changed money.

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Speaker 1: I really can't go through it again. Biggest reason for

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Speaker 1: thankfulness and then your biggest regret, like when you look

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Speaker 1: I'm the most thankful for this thing? And then do

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Speaker 1: you have any regrets in your seventeen years of being

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Speaker 2: All right, I'm I'm really grateful for my beautiful four daughters.

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Speaker 2: Like I'm so proud of them. They make me proud

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Speaker 2: every day. And I always tell him, just please always

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Speaker 2: love each other, you know. All I'm alive. You guys

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Speaker 2: better always love each other and like and you know,

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Speaker 2: and I see, like I'm just very proud of them.

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Speaker 2: So my four daughters. And what I regret in life

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Speaker 2: I wish I would have never signed that paper that

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Speaker 2: Joe told me to sign.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, how has that? Like, I'm sure now you've

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Speaker 1: got to stack of lawyers, Like I'm sure they're combing

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Speaker 1: through every single document that comes across your desk.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I have that Jim Leonard that you

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Speaker 2: know that he was on the show, like he's he's

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Speaker 2: always has my back, and then everyone sees that he

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Speaker 2: I didn't see him that much, and I used to

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Speaker 2: But I had to go through that in order, yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's like, so crazy, you're such a lover and juicy Joe.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what nobody ever said it that way.

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Speaker 2: You're right, because then that's what Louis does to me,

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Speaker 2: I was fighting with that. I was like, there's no

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Speaker 2: if you guys call each other names, meaning like you

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Speaker 2: He's never said that word, like see you next to

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Speaker 2: He's never said that word. So I was like, there's

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Speaker 2: would you say that?

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Speaker 3: You know? But whatever do.

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Speaker 1: You do you think that he was unfaithful to you?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 2: Well, I did find a phone that he was calling

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Speaker 2: while I think something was going on, and like I wasn't.

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Speaker 2: If I was banging the guy, I would say, I'm

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Speaker 3: Yes I am. He's cheating on you. I'm banging.

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Speaker 2: But like, there was these two girls that I thought

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Speaker 1: Okay, but you're intimidating these women probably have seen.

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Speaker 3: Doing it.

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Speaker 2: I would say, yes, bitch, I'm doing it. Yes, I'm

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Speaker 1: Because you're coming from a place of being Teresa Judas,

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't have did anything to them. I just wanted

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Speaker 2: you know, and they both denied it. So it's like

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Speaker 2: when you have kids, unless you have the proof, it's like,

437
00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,120
Speaker 2: what was I going to tell my kids? Like, oh,

438
00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:06,880
Speaker 2: I thought something was happening, but it wasn't. So it's

439
00:19:06,920 --> 00:19:09,600
Speaker 2: like I wanted I needed proof, you know, in order

440
00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:11,080
Speaker 2: to walk away, and I didn't have it.

441
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Speaker 3: You know.

442
00:19:11,920 --> 00:19:15,080
Speaker 1: It's it always comes back to the proof. Yeah, they

443
00:19:15,080 --> 00:19:16,919
Speaker 1: need evidence, well because then because then.

444
00:19:16,840 --> 00:19:19,520
Speaker 2: It's easier to walk away when you don't have the

445
00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:22,320
Speaker 2: proof and someone else is telling you or you or

446
00:19:22,359 --> 00:19:25,239
Speaker 2: you think it's true, and then you find and then

447
00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:27,400
Speaker 2: you ask and then they say no, it's not true.

448
00:19:27,480 --> 00:19:29,680
Speaker 3: Then it's like how do you go by that?

449
00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:31,600
Speaker 2: You know, It's like then your kids are going to

450
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 2: question you, So what happened, mammy? Why'd you guys get divorced?

451
00:19:34,600 --> 00:19:36,920
Speaker 2: It's like you got to I don't know. I always

452
00:19:36,960 --> 00:19:39,200
Speaker 2: thought about that. It's like I always wanted to have

453
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Speaker 2: the proof in order, you know, if I was going

454
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Speaker 2: to walk away otherwise then your kids could blame you.

455
00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:46,439
Speaker 2: Oh you broke up, you know, it's all your fault, mommy,

456
00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:47,359
Speaker 2: or you know, I don't know.

457
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Speaker 3: I always thought about that too, you know.

458
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Speaker 1: That's what I would say. They'd say, do you have proof?

459
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Speaker 1: I would have said, only my gut, I know, no,

460
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,280
Speaker 1: But did your gut tell you that something was off

461
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Speaker 1: with him? Yeah?

462
00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:03,400
Speaker 2: I did feel something. I did, like idea, like that's

463
00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 2: why I questioned those two girls, you know, and like

464
00:20:06,640 --> 00:20:09,359
Speaker 2: I felt something, but they denied it and there was

465
00:20:09,400 --> 00:20:10,959
Speaker 2: nothing I could do about it, you know. And then

466
00:20:11,000 --> 00:20:13,320
Speaker 2: I was just and I had little kids at the time.

467
00:20:13,880 --> 00:20:16,760
Speaker 2: So it's like, you know, I mean, I guess if

468
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Speaker 2: I mean whatever. Listen, you can't go back in time,

469
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Speaker 2: you know, no.

470
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Speaker 1: You can't. And by the way, Teresa, one wrong, not wrong,

471
00:20:25,040 --> 00:20:28,359
Speaker 1: one different move a part of your entire story, one

472
00:20:28,640 --> 00:20:32,880
Speaker 1: wrong move or different, we'll say different, your whole life

473
00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 1: would be different. You would never be with Louis. You

474
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:39,919
Speaker 1: wouldn't experience the things you're experiencing, like and I truly

475
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Speaker 1: believe that. And when you walk through life and it

476
00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:44,720
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense, and I questioned. I was questioning God

477
00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,520
Speaker 1: last week, being like, dude, you ain't real all right,

478
00:20:48,680 --> 00:20:50,880
Speaker 1: Like you're pissing me off? What the fuck is this?

479
00:20:51,760 --> 00:20:54,000
Speaker 1: And then I lay in my bed and I'm like, God,

480
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Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

481
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been going I went back for questioning. I

482
00:20:58,040 --> 00:21:00,240
Speaker 2: went back to church. So go back to church, try

483
00:21:00,320 --> 00:21:02,440
Speaker 2: to you know. I think I think he does help,

484
00:21:02,520 --> 00:21:04,840
Speaker 2: you know, because I was mad. I was mad for

485
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,040
Speaker 2: a while too, so and now I made up with him.

486
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Speaker 1: But like you're saying, walking around the track asking him

487
00:21:09,800 --> 00:21:11,560
Speaker 1: like what is this? What are you trying to teach me?

488
00:21:11,600 --> 00:21:14,639
Speaker 1: And it's like you said, there will always come a

489
00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,240
Speaker 1: time that it does make sense.

490
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Speaker 3: Yeah it does.

491
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:21,040
Speaker 2: I mean that's the only thing I only one thing

492
00:21:21,080 --> 00:21:22,679
Speaker 2: I regret, which I tell my kids too.

493
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:24,680
Speaker 3: It's like I feel like the scar.

494
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 2: Remember that letter, Scarlet, the scarlet letter, the scarlet. People

495
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,280
Speaker 2: judge me just because I went to jail, and it's

496
00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:33,760
Speaker 2: just like you don't know, they don't know the truth,

497
00:21:33,800 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 2: like I didn't I know if I know, I didn't

498
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 2: commit a crime, you know, and it's sad that there

499
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:44,320
Speaker 2: wasn't behind what you yeah, right, but it's sad because

500
00:21:44,359 --> 00:21:46,359
Speaker 2: like all my business deals want to ship. At the

501
00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:48,919
Speaker 2: time when that happened, it was like I had I

502
00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:52,679
Speaker 2: was booming, I was on fire, and then all that happened,

503
00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,320
Speaker 2: it was like, you know, but then thank god, I

504
00:21:55,359 --> 00:21:57,679
Speaker 2: came back again. But it was just hard, you know,

505
00:21:57,760 --> 00:21:59,880
Speaker 2: and then even I felt bad that my kids had

506
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Speaker 2: to go through that.

507
00:22:01,000 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 3: You know, that's you know, like them being.

508
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,760
Speaker 2: Judged by other you know, kids at school and then

509
00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:09,800
Speaker 2: their parents talking like that's sad to me. I wish

510
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 2: my kids didn't have to go through that because that

511
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:13,520
Speaker 2: was really hard. And that's why my kids are so

512
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:15,960
Speaker 2: strong the way they are, because they know who their

513
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,560
Speaker 2: mommy is, you know, and they.

514
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Speaker 1: Of course, and that's the rest of the world who's

515
00:22:20,760 --> 00:22:24,000
Speaker 1: judging you. There are times where I'm like, are you

516
00:22:24,119 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: saying unkind things because you believe them, or are you

517
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,520
Speaker 1: you're you just know that this will hurt my feelings.

518
00:22:30,840 --> 00:22:35,480
Speaker 1: Like I don't think Teresa, when people start calling you criminal,

519
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: I don't think that they believe you're a criminal. I

520
00:22:38,560 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: think people know the truth, right, I think they're just

521
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:44,439
Speaker 1: trying to hurt you because it's really hard people find it.

522
00:22:44,480 --> 00:22:46,520
Speaker 1: We talked about this on the podcast a few weeks ago,

523
00:22:47,080 --> 00:22:52,040
Speaker 1: that your success they take as a personal insult. Yeah,

524
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: when it's not. So it's the only thing they can

525
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:57,600
Speaker 1: put out there that makes them feel better about where

526
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Speaker 1: you are in life.

527
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Speaker 3: Right, No, you're right, You're right. So that's why.

528
00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 2: I mean, that's why I like laugh at that when

529
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,879
Speaker 2: they went you know, when people used to call me

530
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,280
Speaker 2: your criminal or anything or click click, I like what,

531
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 2: I'm like, what I never even knew what click click was.

532
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,919
Speaker 3: I was like, you know I that Yeah, I was like, okay,

533
00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 3: like you know, it's just funny to me.

534
00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:19,600
Speaker 2: But it's just that I you know, when as a mom,

535
00:23:19,680 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 2: like you don't want your kids to ever hurt, and

536
00:23:22,359 --> 00:23:24,360
Speaker 2: I fall like for my kids, I don't care. I'll

537
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 2: take all the bullets you want to throw at me,

538
00:23:26,200 --> 00:23:29,040
Speaker 2: you know, but you know, my kids, like it was hard.

539
00:23:29,119 --> 00:23:30,480
Speaker 2: You know, it was hard for them to go through

540
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 2: what they had to go through, you know, So.

541
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Speaker 1: I just I I adore you as a mama, Like

542
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 1: you you really are It's been such an amazing thing

543
00:23:38,800 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: to watch your kids from, you know, the time they

544
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Speaker 1: were young children, and just the way that you getting

545
00:23:46,359 --> 00:23:49,720
Speaker 1: forward girls ready and deck to the nines, by the way,

546
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,040
Speaker 1: on top of yourself. I used to always worry.

547
00:23:52,880 --> 00:23:55,840
Speaker 2: About they were to perfection, and then with me, I

548
00:23:55,840 --> 00:23:57,920
Speaker 2: would rush myself, but I always make.

549
00:23:57,840 --> 00:23:59,720
Speaker 1: Sure that you also looked perfect.

550
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:02,439
Speaker 2: Tried, I tried, but I always made sure they looked great.

551
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:04,600
Speaker 2: And then I would get and then I would rush myself.

552
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,240
Speaker 2: And yeah, because I would do everything. Joe would not

553
00:24:07,359 --> 00:24:10,840
Speaker 2: help me with nothing. It was always may I used

554
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:11,560
Speaker 2: to do everything.

555
00:24:12,680 --> 00:24:15,400
Speaker 1: He would just yell shirtless at the top of the stairs. Milania,

556
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:18,320
Speaker 1: you get your you get you, asking you in your room,

557
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:22,119
Speaker 1: put your bowling like it was great in television. I

558
00:24:22,200 --> 00:24:25,680
Speaker 1: want to know before we sign off, what are your girls?

559
00:24:25,760 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: What's the your girls? So they have a favorite meal

560
00:24:29,040 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 1: that you that you made, they like, I got a

561
00:24:31,920 --> 00:24:33,240
Speaker 1: lot of questions about your.

562
00:24:33,160 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, they have four cookbooks.

563
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:39,080
Speaker 2: And then Milania love steak bitsa yalla, and it's it's

564
00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 2: like a steak and like in the in with plump

565
00:24:41,440 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: tomatoes like and I yeah, and then I make it

566
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 2: over white rice and then They also love Taia Deli

567
00:24:49,480 --> 00:24:52,679
Speaker 2: like the spinach and the white I make it with

568
00:24:53,200 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 2: in ham. I discep the ham and then peas with

569
00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:01,359
Speaker 2: Peccorino romano cheese and it's delicious.

570
00:25:01,200 --> 00:25:02,720
Speaker 3: It's in my cook water. Yeah.

571
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:06,680
Speaker 2: And Skinny Italian ordering your coat, Skinny Italian and fabulous

572
00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:07,439
Speaker 2: Skinny Italian.

573
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: That's the It's fabulicious the first one.

574
00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 2: Oh, Skinny Italian's the first one.

575
00:25:11,720 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: Did both of those. How how many books have you

576
00:25:14,280 --> 00:25:15,880
Speaker 1: had on the New York Times Bestseller?

577
00:25:15,960 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: I have three cookbooks and one memoir, so I'm a

578
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,760
Speaker 2: four times New York Times bestselling author. Congratulations.

579
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 1: What does that feel like, because I know what it

580
00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 1: feels like to have someone call you and tell you

581
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 1: that you're not Yeah.

582
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:29,040
Speaker 3: Very proud. I'm very proud of that. Yeah.

583
00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:31,720
Speaker 2: So that was like, that's like a really big accomplishment,

584
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:34,600
Speaker 2: like having six books four times on the New York

585
00:25:34,640 --> 00:25:38,120
Speaker 2: Times Bestseller. I love doing my Super Bowl commercial. When

586
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 2: I did that with Dak Prescott. That was so much fun.

587
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 2: That was amazing.

588
00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:43,400
Speaker 3: That was fun. Yeah.

589
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:47,120
Speaker 1: And your body is sick tree. I know we're it's

590
00:25:47,160 --> 00:25:50,480
Speaker 1: a comment, no, but I mean it's it's high. Your

591
00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:53,040
Speaker 1: body is high. Level, like, whatever you're doing in the

592
00:25:53,080 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 1: gym is what I need to take on. And again,

593
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Speaker 1: I know we're not supposed to comment on people's bodies

594
00:25:58,040 --> 00:26:00,399
Speaker 1: in this day and age, but I'm I'm going to

595
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:03,280
Speaker 1: because you're asked in those fucking football pants.

596
00:26:03,320 --> 00:26:06,040
Speaker 2: I was like, are you thank you joking me? I

597
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:09,639
Speaker 2: work out a trainer and then I do pilates. Plates

598
00:26:09,720 --> 00:26:12,320
Speaker 2: is great. Yeah, but your body is amazing too. You

599
00:26:12,320 --> 00:26:14,480
Speaker 2: have a sick body, you're beautiful.

600
00:26:14,520 --> 00:26:17,440
Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate that, and I'm gonna let you say

601
00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: that to me because I don't have a man to

602
00:26:19,359 --> 00:26:21,240
Speaker 1: tell me how sick my body is, so I will

603
00:26:21,240 --> 00:26:21,840
Speaker 1: take it from you.

604
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,560
Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure you need to just go out there.

605
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:27,480
Speaker 3: Well we're talking. You can't. You got to get out there,

606
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:28,440
Speaker 3: you can't.

607
00:26:28,840 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: I talked to Teresa on the phone the other day

608
00:26:30,840 --> 00:26:33,359
Speaker 1: and I was asking her about Safari because I'm like,

609
00:26:33,359 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: I gotta get him on the pod, and she was like,

610
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: you like him. I was like, no, no, no, I'm looking

611
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,600
Speaker 1: for men who don't want to swing their dick all

612
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: over town. So yes, I do want you to hit

613
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,439
Speaker 1: him up, though, because I'm dying to put him on

614
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,680
Speaker 1: this podcast and ask him all the questions in the world.

615
00:26:48,960 --> 00:26:54,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, he will definitely do it. Yeah, he's awesome, well, amazing, guys.

616
00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 3: Up, I will, I will.

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Speaker 1: Link it up. You know, I'm just looking for a

618
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: quick chat on the plot. Beautiful and you know, if

619
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: I'm feeling morny that day, we'll just see where the podcast.

620
00:27:05,200 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ.

621
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Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm the Queen of being inappropriate in front of people. Teresa,

622
00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 1: thank you for doing my bonus episode. I really appreciate you.

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Speaker 1: You're welcome, and you, guys, thank you for listening to

624
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,800
Speaker 1: another bonus episode of the Give Them.

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00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:20,800
Speaker 2: La La podcast.

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Speaker 1: Enjoy The YouTube video is up now. Enjoy that and

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Speaker 1: I will catch you on Wednesday for the regular old episode.

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Speaker 3: Bye bye,