1 00:00:02,440 --> 00:00:05,600 Speaker 1: I've never been left waiting by the phone. 2 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:08,719 Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Evan, good morning, welcome to the show. 3 00:00:08,760 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 3: How are you? I'm doing all right? 4 00:00:12,520 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 2: Okay, all right? So no, that's that's honest. That's honest. 5 00:00:16,520 --> 00:00:18,239 Speaker 2: That's I mean again, when the people are like I'm great, 6 00:00:18,320 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 2: you know, it's like anything I just had ghosted, like 7 00:00:20,120 --> 00:00:20,799 Speaker 2: howre you so great? 8 00:00:20,800 --> 00:00:22,080 Speaker 3: But this guy is just distraught. 9 00:00:22,520 --> 00:00:25,000 Speaker 2: I'm distraught Evan as well because the last one that 10 00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 2: we did, the last time we visited waiting by the phone, 11 00:00:27,960 --> 00:00:30,560 Speaker 2: it was a woman who performed CPR on a rat, 12 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 2: which I never really thought i'd see the day. 13 00:00:33,159 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 3: So what do you have for me today? 14 00:00:36,000 --> 00:00:36,200 Speaker 2: Man? 15 00:00:36,320 --> 00:00:37,479 Speaker 3: Like, what do you do? 16 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:37,880 Speaker 2: Yeah? 17 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:38,440 Speaker 3: Yeah? 18 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:38,639 Speaker 2: What? 19 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:38,960 Speaker 3: Yeah? 20 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 2: Right? 21 00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 3: What on earth could you have done? 22 00:00:41,840 --> 00:00:44,239 Speaker 2: And we've done this for long, over a decade, and 23 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:48,200 Speaker 2: we've heard some things about, you know, people doing favors 24 00:00:48,240 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: to get babysitters and target drug parking lot deals and 25 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:55,200 Speaker 2: and you know, people lying about being famous, and I 26 00:00:55,240 --> 00:00:58,000 Speaker 2: mean all kinds of stuff. But Evan, I don't know 27 00:00:58,440 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 2: what happened with this woman. Jen tell us kind of 28 00:01:00,680 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 2: the backstory. 29 00:01:02,440 --> 00:01:04,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean yeah, I definitely don't have any roadent 30 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:06,360 Speaker 1: mouth the mouth or anything like that. 31 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:09,040 Speaker 3: But okay, we're off to a great start. Yeah yeah, yeah, 32 00:01:09,080 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 3: so at least got that. I. 33 00:01:11,920 --> 00:01:15,160 Speaker 1: Uh so, I met Jen on the apps, and uh, 34 00:01:15,400 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 1: I invited her to grow grab some drinks, and I 35 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,679 Speaker 1: thought we hit it off. We're talking flirting a little bit, 36 00:01:22,800 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: you know, the. 37 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,440 Speaker 2: Rapport is there, like it's it's good, and I thought 38 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:28,160 Speaker 2: we had a good time. 39 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:29,000 Speaker 3: Thought we had fun. 40 00:01:29,760 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: I tried reaching out to her and she was just 41 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 1: cold and then eventually go city. So I just want 42 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:41,520 Speaker 1: to know what's up, like, what's what's going on? I 43 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:43,720 Speaker 1: hope it's not too boring, but you know, it's just 44 00:01:43,840 --> 00:01:45,600 Speaker 1: kind of no boys. 45 00:01:45,240 --> 00:01:48,280 Speaker 2: Okay, bing's okay, if we walked past all the rats 46 00:01:48,280 --> 00:01:49,640 Speaker 2: on the streets, we're off to a good start here. 47 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: So let's uh, let's I'm gonna play a song and 48 00:01:52,760 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 2: come back in a couple of minutes. 49 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:54,200 Speaker 3: We'll call Jen. 50 00:01:54,240 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone, and we're gonna see if 51 00:01:55,760 --> 00:01:57,800 Speaker 2: we can reach here and and ask some questions for you. 52 00:01:57,840 --> 00:01:59,280 Speaker 2: And at some point you're welcome to jumping on the 53 00:01:59,280 --> 00:02:01,120 Speaker 2: call after we get you some info. And the hope 54 00:02:01,160 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 2: here is that we can straighten this out and set 55 00:02:03,640 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 2: you guys up on another day, which we have done 56 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,680 Speaker 2: not very many times, but we have, we have managed 57 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 2: to do it. We'd love to do it for you today, 58 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:12,840 Speaker 2: and you know, hopefully things work out. So can you 59 00:02:12,880 --> 00:02:15,320 Speaker 2: hang on for a second. Yeah, of course, Let's see 60 00:02:15,320 --> 00:02:18,320 Speaker 2: what's going on. Bonus brand new waiting metaphone next after 61 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:20,760 Speaker 2: Shaboozie back in two minutes on the Fred Show. 62 00:02:23,440 --> 00:02:24,000 Speaker 3: Saboozie. 63 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 2: It's the French show on the radio and the iHeart 64 00:02:25,680 --> 00:02:29,800 Speaker 2: app Andy time search for a Fred show on demand? Hey, Eaven, Yeah, 65 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 2: let's call Jen. You guys met and went out. You 66 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: thought you had a great date, except you have not 67 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: heard from Jen since then. I guess you did a 68 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,080 Speaker 2: little bit you said, but then it faded away, so 69 00:02:39,120 --> 00:02:41,639 Speaker 2: she kind of breadcrumbed you and then faded away. And 70 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:45,040 Speaker 2: now you you don't know what's going on. You haven't 71 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:46,520 Speaker 2: heard from her at all. You want to know why? 72 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:49,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, I mean, it'd be awesome if we 73 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:52,160 Speaker 1: could go out again. But more than anything, I mean, 74 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: I just really want to know what's up. 75 00:02:53,600 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that happened. 76 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,200 Speaker 2: That makes sense. Well, let's call her right now. Good luck, 77 00:02:56,240 --> 00:03:04,560 Speaker 2: Evan awesome, Thanks, guys. Hello, Hi is this Jen? 78 00:03:05,720 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 4: Hi? 79 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:06,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, he's this. 80 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:08,480 Speaker 3: Hey, Gian, good morning. My name is Fred. 81 00:03:08,520 --> 00:03:11,119 Speaker 2: I'm going from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, 82 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:12,320 Speaker 2: and I have to tell you that we are on 83 00:03:12,360 --> 00:03:14,760 Speaker 2: the radio right now and I would need your permission 84 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,920 Speaker 2: to continue with the call. Can which out for just 85 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 2: a minute. You can hang up anytime? 86 00:03:20,400 --> 00:03:23,480 Speaker 3: Oh okay, yeah, okay, Well, thank you very much. 87 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:25,839 Speaker 2: We're calling on behalf of a guy named Evan who 88 00:03:26,040 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: reached out to us and told us that he had 89 00:03:27,639 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 2: met you on one of the abs and that he 90 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 2: thought you had a good date going for drinks and 91 00:03:32,800 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 2: stuff and he thought things were maybe going to go someplace, 92 00:03:35,840 --> 00:03:38,000 Speaker 2: but says, you've kind of faded away and now you're 93 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 2: mia and he doesn't know what's going on. He feels 94 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 2: like he's being ghosted. What's going on? 95 00:03:43,160 --> 00:03:43,360 Speaker 5: Jen? 96 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:44,640 Speaker 6: Oh? 97 00:03:44,720 --> 00:03:49,440 Speaker 7: Yeah? So yeah, And then I went out and he 98 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 7: was great actually, and I liked him. I actually like 99 00:03:54,080 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 7: him now. 100 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:58,600 Speaker 5: Even still, but I just really can't get over this 101 00:03:58,720 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 5: one thing. 102 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: What is the one thing? 103 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,880 Speaker 5: Well, I'm not sure if he told you, guys, but 104 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 5: so after our date, we went back to his place 105 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:13,400 Speaker 5: to hang out, and when we got there, I saw 106 00:04:13,440 --> 00:04:17,039 Speaker 5: that he had a dog. It was actually a huge dog, 107 00:04:17,160 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 5: a Rotwiler a huge rotwiler. Okay, and yeah, unfortunately, when 108 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:25,359 Speaker 5: I was little, I got attacked by a dog and 109 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 5: ever since, I have been absolutely just terrified of dogs, 110 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,440 Speaker 5: like all dogs. I cannot be around them. I don't 111 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:35,320 Speaker 5: want to be around them, and so this is just 112 00:04:35,480 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 5: non negotiable for me. And you know, during the date 113 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 5: when we were at his place, I tried to hide 114 00:04:42,720 --> 00:04:44,600 Speaker 5: it and be cool and. 115 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 7: Everything, but I was really like just absolutely terrified the 116 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:49,479 Speaker 7: whole time. 117 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:53,680 Speaker 5: I was really terrified. And yeah, yeah, throughout. 118 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,680 Speaker 4: The night, the dog was like jumping on me and 119 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:00,440 Speaker 4: barking and at one point even nipped that me when 120 00:05:00,480 --> 00:05:04,599 Speaker 4: I tried to walk to the bathroom, and it was yeah, 121 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,720 Speaker 4: it was really really bad, really scary. 122 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 5: For me, and yeah, I just wouldn't be able to 123 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 5: do it again. 124 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 7: I mean I didn't want. 125 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:15,360 Speaker 5: To make a big scene about it, but I really. 126 00:05:15,160 --> 00:05:18,680 Speaker 7: Can absolutely never date someone who has a dog. And 127 00:05:19,240 --> 00:05:23,320 Speaker 7: I really can't ask someone to change their life like that, 128 00:05:23,400 --> 00:05:24,560 Speaker 7: you know, give up their pets. 129 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, right, like on a first date, you can't be like, hey, 130 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,479 Speaker 2: that dog's you gotta go. 131 00:05:29,560 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 6: I mean that's not happening obviously exactly. And I'm sorry 132 00:05:32,640 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 6: that you had that experience didn't do that. But let 133 00:05:35,120 --> 00:05:37,520 Speaker 6: me bring Evan in because I've had to mention that 134 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:40,520 Speaker 6: Evan is here. And I feel bad about this, Evan 135 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:42,560 Speaker 6: because now you're hearing that your dog scared her and 136 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 6: you had no way of knowing that. But Jen, why 137 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 6: not just say to him? Why not just tell him this? 138 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:49,440 Speaker 6: Like you're not asking him to get rid of the dog. 139 00:05:50,040 --> 00:05:51,480 Speaker 6: You simply would just communicate with. 140 00:05:51,480 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 2: Him like, hey, look, this isn't going to work out 141 00:05:53,560 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 2: because I'm definitely afraid of big dogs and and I 142 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:57,160 Speaker 2: don't think that's going to change. 143 00:05:57,360 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, I just felt bad about saying something like that. 144 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:03,839 Speaker 3: So but you don't feel bad. I don't mean to 145 00:06:03,839 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 3: say you. 146 00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 7: But that fizzled out. I just I thought it would 147 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:08,640 Speaker 7: be better if things fizzled out. 148 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,599 Speaker 2: Wait, you don't feel bad about ghosting him though? And Evan, 149 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 2: I mean, do you want to say anything about this? 150 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 2: I mean, hey, what's up? Jen? I? Well, look, I. 151 00:06:22,200 --> 00:06:24,839 Speaker 1: Had no idea, and I look, I would have I 152 00:06:24,839 --> 00:06:26,640 Speaker 1: would have I can put him away, and I would 153 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 1: put him I wouldn't put him away if I knew 154 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: if you would have just told me, yeah, but you're 155 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:31,080 Speaker 1: not gonna be. 156 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: Put him away forever, Like I. 157 00:06:32,760 --> 00:06:36,240 Speaker 2: Mean, you obviously love your I hope you love your dog. 158 00:06:36,320 --> 00:06:39,680 Speaker 3: And your dog's not going anywhere. No, my dog's not 159 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 3: going anywhere. I love him. 160 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:42,680 Speaker 1: But like at the same time too, like you know, 161 00:06:42,760 --> 00:06:45,240 Speaker 1: like I would assume over time you could get to 162 00:06:45,279 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 1: know he. 163 00:06:46,360 --> 00:06:47,520 Speaker 3: He's a sweet dog. 164 00:06:47,680 --> 00:06:49,280 Speaker 1: I mean, if you if you get to know him, 165 00:06:49,320 --> 00:06:51,960 Speaker 1: I mean, even if you don't know me. He's never 166 00:06:52,320 --> 00:06:54,359 Speaker 1: faked anyone or anything like that. And I would just 167 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: assume over time you know. 168 00:06:55,880 --> 00:06:58,919 Speaker 3: Well, and I know, h none of us are professionals. 169 00:06:59,000 --> 00:07:00,279 Speaker 3: I know that he's not. I'm not. 170 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 2: But like, would you can if you liked him, would 171 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:06,599 Speaker 2: you consider maybe like easing into it, like you know, 172 00:07:06,640 --> 00:07:09,080 Speaker 2: maybe go to a park and hang out with him, 173 00:07:09,120 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 2: and hang out with the dog and see if you know, 174 00:07:11,120 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 2: in a more open space you feel comfortable and maybe 175 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:15,720 Speaker 2: the dog becomes comfortable with you and it could help 176 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:17,840 Speaker 2: you with your fear. I hate to see this if 177 00:07:17,880 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 2: you like him, I hate to see this go poorly 178 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 2: because of it. 179 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 7: No, I unfortunately, I really can't do that because, like 180 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 7: I said, I'm just absolutely terrified of dogs, have been 181 00:07:29,520 --> 00:07:31,720 Speaker 7: for pretty much my whole life, ever since I was 182 00:07:31,800 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 7: little and was it. 183 00:07:32,520 --> 00:07:36,200 Speaker 5: Talked by one like it. So just there's just no 184 00:07:36,320 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 5: way this is going to work. 185 00:07:37,480 --> 00:07:41,440 Speaker 7: And even it's like on the dates, Evan, if you 186 00:07:41,640 --> 00:07:43,880 Speaker 7: if you put him away, like it would not have 187 00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 7: made a difference. I mean just knowing that the dog 188 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 7: was in the house would have made me like really 189 00:07:49,480 --> 00:07:53,720 Speaker 7: scared and really nervous. Anyway, So all right, wellyeah, unfortunately, 190 00:07:53,800 --> 00:07:55,920 Speaker 7: there's just absolutely no way that this can work. 191 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 2: That's too bad. I'm sure this is true. Like I 192 00:07:58,720 --> 00:08:01,040 Speaker 2: couldn't date a woman who had a cat. I like cats, 193 00:08:01,040 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 2: I'm allergic to them. Like, and there's no you can barely. 194 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,840 Speaker 2: You can't like permanently decat a house, like you know, 195 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:09,120 Speaker 2: get all the hair and everything else. 196 00:08:09,120 --> 00:08:10,240 Speaker 3: You can't. It can't be done. 197 00:08:10,280 --> 00:08:11,800 Speaker 2: And I love them, but like, I don't know that 198 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 2: I could live with someone or stay in their house 199 00:08:15,040 --> 00:08:15,480 Speaker 2: all the time. 200 00:08:15,520 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 3: So I understand what you're saying. 201 00:08:16,600 --> 00:08:16,840 Speaker 6: For you. 202 00:08:16,920 --> 00:08:18,480 Speaker 2: For me, it's like a health thing. For you, it's 203 00:08:18,520 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 2: a you know, it's fear and hey have it. I'm sorry, man, 204 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 2: it's not going to work out. 205 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, you want something to listen, I guess, yeah, I guess. 206 00:08:26,600 --> 00:08:29,240 Speaker 2: So I love rock Will's You got a good you 207 00:08:29,280 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 2: got a cool ass dog, So you know what, it's 208 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 2: all good. And Jen, I'm sorry talking to work for you, 209 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 2: and I'm sorry like your trauma, but I wish you 210 00:08:35,440 --> 00:08:35,920 Speaker 2: the best of much. 211 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,040 Speaker 3: Thank you for your time, Oh thank you. 212 00:08:38,400 --> 00:08:41,240 Speaker 2: The Entertainer Report with Caleb's up next. In two minutes, 213 00:08:41,360 --> 00:08:44,320 Speaker 2: we'll do trending stories, headlines you start to Tuesday, and 214 00:08:44,480 --> 00:08:46,360 Speaker 2: the superhero fun fact all next. 215 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 3: Spreadshee