WEBVTT - Closure Call: Grandpa's Inheritance 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:03.480 Hey, welcome to the podcast, and gotta say happy June teenth. Yeah, 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:06.600 I hope you take a moment today to educate yourself 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:10.119 on the holiday. Maybe support a great black owned business 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:15.040 in your area, you know, do something good restaurants lately. Yeah, 0:00:15.160 --> 0:00:15.600 I love that. 0:00:15.640 --> 0:00:16.040 I love that. 0:00:16.160 --> 0:00:18.400 So today we've got something a little different for you. 0:00:18.720 --> 0:00:21.520 It's called a closure call. We don't do them that often, 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:25.079 but they're kind of cool. It's when people need closure 0:00:25.120 --> 0:00:27.200 in their life from a past relationship, and that could 0:00:27.200 --> 0:00:30.480 be romantic, it could be a family relationship, a work relationship, 0:00:30.800 --> 0:00:33.559 and we actually get them back in touch with that 0:00:33.600 --> 0:00:36.640 person from their past. So these are these are pretty cool. 0:00:36.680 --> 0:00:38.280 So you're gonna get to hear that. But first we 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:39.720 love to highlight some comments. 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:43.240 Alexis yeah a Beer said, downloading episodes for my flight. 0:00:43.320 --> 0:00:45.280 I can't wait tensten for five hours? 0:00:45.560 --> 0:00:48.440 Whoa wow, oh Beer, But you. 0:00:48.400 --> 0:00:48.839 Do what I do. 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:50.840 Well, you have to like download it on Spotify or whatever, 0:00:50.960 --> 0:00:52.800 so you in case you don't have the internet on that, 0:00:52.800 --> 0:00:53.720 that's right, smart. 0:00:53.800 --> 0:00:55.080 I feel like you're gonna get a headache from that 0:00:55.160 --> 0:00:55.560 much of us. 0:00:57.720 --> 0:00:59.840 All right, we'll take some child at all. All right, here, 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:01.639 your closure call starts now. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:07.600 The truth is everyone has a price. So Brooke, let 0:01:07.600 --> 0:01:09.840 me ask, how much would it take for you to 0:01:09.959 --> 0:01:12.560 leave your husband and your children to start a whole 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:21.760 new life. A billion? I remember a Bogo cubeon to 0:01:21.840 --> 0:01:24.600 the Country Buffet with the nacho cheese fountain. 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.480 Okay, well, yeah, I were thinking about it. 0:01:30.920 --> 0:01:34.080 Well, one of our listeners faced a similar dilemma recently 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:38.160 where he had to choose either a life changing, insane 0:01:38.160 --> 0:01:41.120 amount of money or his family. 0:01:41.680 --> 0:01:42.680 What day. 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:45.760 You would think that'd be a pretty easy decision, but 0:01:45.880 --> 0:01:48.280 it wasn't. You're going to find out what happened in 0:01:48.360 --> 0:01:52.840 a brand new closure call coming up next. Quick history 0:01:52.920 --> 0:01:56.960 lesson this segment started when Brooke suggested we do something 0:01:57.040 --> 0:02:02.600 called foreclosure calls. She wanted us to call low income 0:02:02.720 --> 0:02:05.760 families until them they're getting evictim while she laughed in 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:08.520 the background. It's a terrible. 0:02:08.240 --> 0:02:10.960 Idea till you say something like this, I have to 0:02:11.000 --> 0:02:12.079 do more charity work. 0:02:12.200 --> 0:02:17.600 Yeah, that's kind of what we adjusted this segment to 0:02:17.880 --> 0:02:21.880 closure calls, which is helping people. And I know Brooke 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:25.200 didn't like that idea as much, but management did. So 0:02:26.360 --> 0:02:30.839 your mortgage was to deny. I love that, but we're 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:33.519 trying to help our listeners get some answers and much 0:02:33.600 --> 0:02:35.960 needed closure about an issue or a question that's been 0:02:36.000 --> 0:02:37.280 eating away at them for a while. 0:02:37.520 --> 0:02:38.400 I love this segment. 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:40.440 And today we're talking to a guy named David who 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:43.600 reached out to us about his mom. Oh hopefully he's 0:02:43.600 --> 0:02:46.280 not foreclosing on her, but David, welcome to the show man. 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:48.400 Hey guys, thanks for having me. 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:51.120 Yeah, it always makes me so sad when people have 0:02:51.440 --> 0:02:53.160 terrible relationships with your mom? 0:02:53.720 --> 0:02:56.240 Are you assuming? Yeah, we don't even. 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:58.160 Know anything if he hasn't talked to her. Isn't that 0:02:58.160 --> 0:02:59.920 the whole point of closure call? It's always like so 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:01.960 one that you need closure with you don't know. 0:03:01.919 --> 0:03:04.280 What's ask what's going on with your mom? David? 0:03:04.600 --> 0:03:07.200 Yeah, so I did have a falling out with my 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:08.919 mom like three months ago. 0:03:09.080 --> 0:03:12.720 Is really good that it's in the title of the segment. 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.480 You can say, like, I'm talking to my mom, we 0:03:15.520 --> 0:03:17.760 have an issue with my sister or something. 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:19.880 Why did you and your mom have a falling out? 0:03:20.120 --> 0:03:23.160 So it's all over this inheritance from my grandpa. 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:30.399 Oh yeah, cut the mom out there. Wait, what, that's 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.920 exactly what I would do. I don't know what is 0:03:32.960 --> 0:03:33.400 going on with. 0:03:34.800 --> 0:03:37.840 So my grandpa lives in South America, and honestly, I've 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:39.200 met a couple of times. 0:03:39.280 --> 0:03:42.800 Okay, and this is your mom's dad, right yeah, okay. 0:03:42.520 --> 0:03:44.960 Okay, but he really likes me. You know. Actually, when 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:47.080 I graduated from high school, he sent me a check 0:03:47.120 --> 0:03:48.120 for five thousand dollars. 0:03:48.360 --> 0:03:52.320 Yay, Oh wow, day, I think I got a pizza 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:54.120 party for three I always. 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:55.960 Be a matter of money. But how old I was, 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:58.600 so yeah, I got eighteen bucks. 0:04:00.080 --> 0:04:01.600 Your grandpa is pretty well off. 0:04:01.720 --> 0:04:02.080 Dang. 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:04.920 Yeah, he's not doing bad, or he wasn't doing bad. 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.760 It just felt like me and him connected when we 0:04:07.840 --> 0:04:10.080 did meet. He passed away. 0:04:10.200 --> 0:04:13.360 Wouldn't that make your mom happy though, that he passed away, 0:04:13.840 --> 0:04:15.240 that they had a good relationship. 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:22.719 There's more to the story, Okay, all right, So when 0:04:22.720 --> 0:04:24.960 he passed I got a letter in the mail. It 0:04:25.080 --> 0:04:27.120 was you know, it was actually sent to my mom's house, 0:04:27.160 --> 0:04:30.200 but it was addressed to me, and it was from 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:34.279 my grandpa's lawyer saying that in the will I was mentioned. 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:35.599 Okay, oh. 0:04:37.000 --> 0:04:38.880 Yeah, So Grandpa, what he did in the will is 0:04:38.920 --> 0:04:41.520 he basically gave me two options. You know, I could 0:04:41.560 --> 0:04:45.200 split the inheritance with my mom and my two older sisters, 0:04:45.560 --> 0:04:47.279 or I could keep the whole thing. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:55.160 What a position to put you in choice? Do you 0:04:55.240 --> 0:04:57.240 know how much money they were talking about right from 0:04:57.240 --> 0:04:58.440 the beginning, I. 0:04:58.400 --> 0:05:00.719 Know the amount it was. It was a lot of money. 0:05:00.800 --> 0:05:03.600 Yeah, damn, that is a big decision. Like what where 0:05:03.640 --> 0:05:04.640 was your head at? 0:05:04.880 --> 0:05:07.000 So of course my first thought is like, let me 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:10.279 split it evenly with everybody, you know. But then I 0:05:10.320 --> 0:05:13.080 started to think about it more, like my sisters are 0:05:13.400 --> 0:05:15.520 older than me, like, well older older than me. They're 0:05:15.560 --> 0:05:18.240 already married, one has a kid, the other ones working 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:22.160 with the job she loves. I mean, they're set financially, 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:24.040 their established. 0:05:24.279 --> 0:05:25.640 Yeah, they don't need more money. 0:05:25.839 --> 0:05:29.120 I cannot believe your grandpa left that decision to you. 0:05:29.400 --> 0:05:31.360 I mean, that's just a decision that's going to tear 0:05:31.400 --> 0:05:33.080 people apart no matter what. 0:05:33.080 --> 0:05:34.440 What's your financial situation? 0:05:35.120 --> 0:05:38.120 So, like, I just finished college. I don't have a 0:05:38.200 --> 0:05:40.120 job right now. You know, I still got a bunch 0:05:40.120 --> 0:05:41.360 of student loans coming in. 0:05:41.600 --> 0:05:45.800 Didn't the five thousand dollars cover that? Yeah? 0:05:45.880 --> 0:05:50.720 Yeah maybe in the sixties. Yeah, Okay, so I got 0:05:50.720 --> 0:05:52.599 a lot of student loans, and you know, I also 0:05:52.640 --> 0:05:54.599 have dreams. You know, I wanted to travel the world, 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.520 and I felt like that was my grandpa basically giving 0:05:57.560 --> 0:05:58.799 me that shot a chance. 0:05:59.000 --> 0:06:01.080 He just turned you into a fun kid. You can 0:06:01.120 --> 0:06:01.839 do those things. 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.479 But then you know my mom, she's divorced from my 0:06:04.560 --> 0:06:07.680 dad too, and she does work a couple jobs. But honestly, 0:06:07.720 --> 0:06:09.520 I don't know what she would even use the money for. 0:06:10.240 --> 0:06:14.440 Maybe so that she wouldn't have to work two jobs, yeah, 0:06:15.960 --> 0:06:17.440 very simple, solid reason. 0:06:18.520 --> 0:06:19.960 But you know, my mom is just one of those 0:06:20.040 --> 0:06:22.760 ladies who work just because they enjoy working. 0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:25.520 You know, yeah, I know what you mean, no matter what. 0:06:25.880 --> 0:06:27.800 Who likes working just for work? 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.240 Could you say that? But how do you know that? 0:06:30.440 --> 0:06:33.599 I mean, obviously she couldn't put you through college. She 0:06:33.800 --> 0:06:35.360 probably works because she has to. 0:06:35.560 --> 0:06:37.800 I mean, so big decision here. What did you decide 0:06:37.839 --> 0:06:38.080 to do? 0:06:38.880 --> 0:06:40.720 I decided to keep the full inheritance. 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:46.120 What I was d D that's kind of a rough 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:47.679 move to do to your family. 0:06:48.160 --> 0:06:48.480 Wow. 0:06:48.720 --> 0:06:50.600 My mom kept asking me too, She was like, what 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.600 did the letter say that Grandpa sent you? 0:06:52.440 --> 0:06:53.720 You know she didn't know? 0:06:54.440 --> 0:06:55.640 Yeah, no, I didn't tell her. 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:59.040 Why wouldn't you at least talk to your mom about that? Like, 0:06:59.160 --> 0:06:59.960 talk to someone. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:01.880 Well, like I said, I didn't tell her, but now 0:07:01.920 --> 0:07:03.120 I feel like she does know. 0:07:03.960 --> 0:07:06.479 Why why do you say that, because a couple. 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:08.599 Of days later, I get a text from my mom saying, 0:07:08.839 --> 0:07:10.200 you need to come by the house. You got to 0:07:10.240 --> 0:07:11.800 pick up all your stuff. I put it in the 0:07:11.840 --> 0:07:13.280 boxes out in the garage. 0:07:13.640 --> 0:07:14.840 Oh she kicked you out? 0:07:15.480 --> 0:07:17.880 Yeah, and you know it didn't. Honestly, it made me 0:07:17.920 --> 0:07:20.640 feel bad. I tried to talk to her. I even 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:22.240 went over and knocked on the door, but you know, 0:07:22.320 --> 0:07:23.920 she doesn't answer, she won't come to the door. 0:07:24.000 --> 0:07:26.160 Okay, so this is the falling out with your mom? 0:07:26.560 --> 0:07:28.840 I mean, yeah, yeah, it's been a few months since 0:07:28.840 --> 0:07:29.320 it happened. 0:07:29.360 --> 0:07:31.440 You know, you haven't talked to her at all. 0:07:32.000 --> 0:07:33.840 No, not for the last few months. 0:07:36.600 --> 0:07:39.080 Wait, though, like that's how do you know that she knows? 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:41.320 Like it could be another reason, like how would she 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:43.080 find out about the inheritance. 0:07:43.640 --> 0:07:45.600 I mean, it's the only reason I could think that 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:47.760 she threw all my stuff in the box put in 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:49.800 the garage for no reason, because it. 0:07:49.840 --> 0:07:51.680 Was a normal issue. She would talk to you, right, 0:07:51.720 --> 0:07:53.400 And so this has been a few months, now, what 0:07:53.400 --> 0:07:55.560 what made you reach out to us, like to get 0:07:55.600 --> 0:07:57.640 some closure, honestly. 0:07:57.280 --> 0:07:59.640 Because I've been rethinking it and I'm you know, maybe 0:07:59.640 --> 0:08:02.400 I should had probably split it up. But my mom 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:05.160 is not talking to me, and my two sisters know 0:08:05.240 --> 0:08:08.400 nothing about it. So since I can't reach my mother, 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.160 maybe I can use some help. 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:13.560 I just can't imagine money like this isn't worth money, right, 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:15.800 Like losing your relationship with your mom. 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:20.480 Depends on how much money. Everybody's got a price. 0:08:21.000 --> 0:08:22.400 It could be known on a private island. 0:08:24.440 --> 0:08:27.800 So obviously you know how this works. David. You've already 0:08:27.800 --> 0:08:30.200 been working with our producer to come up with four 0:08:30.320 --> 0:08:33.720 questions that we sent to your mom. I will tell you, David, 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:37.360 she wrote back to us, and hopefully when I read 0:08:37.360 --> 0:08:38.959 it to you coming up here, it's going to give 0:08:38.960 --> 0:08:42.520 you a little bit of closure. My god, but it's 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:50.160 going to cost you some money. Okay, I think legally 0:08:50.200 --> 0:08:51.960 I can. But when we come back, we'll read what 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:55.120 your mom had to say and do your closure call 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:59.240 right after this. Man, this is crazy. We've been talking 0:08:59.280 --> 0:09:02.120 about it off the about what we would do if 0:09:02.160 --> 0:09:04.320 we were in David's shoes, where you have the option 0:09:04.440 --> 0:09:09.320 to take an entire inheritance just for yourself or split 0:09:09.360 --> 0:09:10.839 it amongst your family. 0:09:10.440 --> 0:09:13.520 Members, like it's a sick joke that your grandpa left 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:13.760 you with. 0:09:15.280 --> 0:09:20.640 Honestly, I bet he's laughing. For it's a big moral 0:09:20.679 --> 0:09:24.360 dilemma though, and David chose not to split it with 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:27.640 his mom and his two sisters. He wanted to keep 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:30.200 the whole bag for himself, which it was his decision, 0:09:30.240 --> 0:09:32.840 that was what his grandpa wanted him to make. This 0:09:32.920 --> 0:09:35.040 is what we didn't discuss though in the first part, 0:09:35.160 --> 0:09:39.880 is transparency, Like should he have told his mom his 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:42.200 decision of what was going on, because it sounds like 0:09:42.480 --> 0:09:44.880 he tried to keep it all secret from her and 0:09:44.920 --> 0:09:47.640 then she found out later and then got upset about. 0:09:47.760 --> 0:09:49.959 And that's what I agree with. No matter what you choose, 0:09:49.960 --> 0:09:51.880 it's a hard decision. I would at least set my 0:09:51.920 --> 0:09:55.440 family down and say, look, mom, dad, I don't think 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:57.920 you guys need it as much as I do, or whatever, 0:09:57.960 --> 0:10:01.000 but at least tell everybody a family brook. 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:02.959 Are you telling your family that you're holding onto the 0:10:03.000 --> 0:10:04.559 whole whole inheritance? 0:10:04.640 --> 0:10:07.320 I know I have inherited in my family. To be 0:10:07.360 --> 0:10:09.880 honest with you, I'm just having a really hard time 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.880 having sympathy for you because it's like, these are the 0:10:13.000 --> 0:10:15.520 choices you made. Not only did you cut them out, 0:10:15.600 --> 0:10:18.360 but then you didn't tell them and then you get 0:10:18.480 --> 0:10:20.000 kicked out of your mom's house, Like. 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:22.720 Duh, you can call her a name, David, that's okay. 0:10:23.160 --> 0:10:25.280 And she's just jealous of you that you know you're 0:10:25.400 --> 0:10:26.080 richer than her. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:29.720 You know. I'm just I'm just waiting for these answers. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:33.000 Okay, I am. I'm curious before we get to the answers, 0:10:33.040 --> 0:10:35.000 have you spent any of the money yet, just for fun? 0:10:35.640 --> 0:10:38.160 No? And then none of the money has come through yet. 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:40.760 I don't know if it's tied up in paperwork or something. 0:10:40.880 --> 0:10:44.559 But he was South America, so maybe it's harder to transfer. 0:10:44.640 --> 0:10:46.440 I don't know, it doesn't come through a money order. 0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:50.040 So we're going to read your mom's answers here. How 0:10:50.040 --> 0:10:52.840 you feeling, man, You nervous, excited. 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:56.320 Like I'm probably a little anxious, you know. Like I said, 0:10:56.400 --> 0:10:58.200 I'm I don't want it to be mad at me, 0:10:58.240 --> 0:11:00.760 so I'm trying to figure this out. So I don't know. 0:11:01.040 --> 0:11:03.719 Okay, We've already sent these four questions to your mom. 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:05.880 You worked with our producer on him. The first question 0:11:05.960 --> 0:11:09.120 that we sent her was Mom, why are you so 0:11:09.160 --> 0:11:11.120 mad at me to the point you kicked me out 0:11:11.160 --> 0:11:13.959 of your house? Okay, that's good because we don't know. 0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.480 We don't know if she knew about his decision with 0:11:16.520 --> 0:11:18.760 the inheritance. We just assumed that, And that's what you 0:11:18.760 --> 0:11:20.280 wanted to ask, right, David. 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.600 Yeah, that's number one what I need to know why 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.160 she's mad before we go further. 0:11:25.280 --> 0:11:26.720 Okay, yes, true. 0:11:26.480 --> 0:11:29.000 Because if she doesn't know about it yet, did she explain? 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:33.960 She said, because David, you were given a big decision 0:11:34.040 --> 0:11:38.560 to be selfish or consider anybody other than yourself, and 0:11:38.640 --> 0:11:43.080 you chose yourself. I thought I raised you better. That's 0:11:45.880 --> 0:11:46.880 how does that feel? David? 0:11:48.160 --> 0:11:50.920 I don't know. I don't feel like I need to 0:11:50.920 --> 0:11:52.559 give her any of the money if she's coming at 0:11:52.600 --> 0:11:52.959 me like that. 0:11:53.400 --> 0:11:56.000 Right, Oh, did you not hear what she said? She's 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:59.200 already talking about the money. She's talking about your you 0:11:59.320 --> 0:12:01.439 being selfish, only thinking of yourself. 0:12:02.200 --> 0:12:04.000 No. I feel like if that was the case, that's 0:12:04.000 --> 0:12:06.640 a conversation we could have had in person, and she 0:12:06.679 --> 0:12:09.000 could have told me, hey, you maybe you're being selfish. 0:12:09.040 --> 0:12:12.960 But nah, right now I'm here and she's jealous. Balance. 0:12:13.160 --> 0:12:15.840 Oh man, it was kind of a rude answer back 0:12:15.880 --> 0:12:16.440 from a mom. 0:12:16.640 --> 0:12:19.720 So with you, Brooke did mention earlier. She is being 0:12:19.840 --> 0:12:22.160 very passive aggressive by not saying anything and just. 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:22.800 Kicking you out. 0:12:22.920 --> 0:12:23.240 I know. 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:26.040 I think you're both a little bit could be handling 0:12:26.080 --> 0:12:27.120 it in different ways. 0:12:27.760 --> 0:12:29.680 But that is why we do these calls. I try 0:12:29.720 --> 0:12:32.200 and help get some answers and hopefully get closure. Let's 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.320 go to the second question, which was, I'm assuming you 0:12:35.400 --> 0:12:37.920 know about my decision with Grandpa's inheritance. 0:12:38.040 --> 0:12:39.400 Okay, we already got that answer. 0:12:40.360 --> 0:12:43.720 What would you have done in my shoes? I guarantee 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:46.560 you wouldn't have split the money evenly. O. 0:12:46.600 --> 0:12:47.960 Wow, that's coming in hot. 0:12:48.320 --> 0:12:50.640 Yeah. I mean now that's almost sounding like an accusation. 0:12:50.920 --> 0:12:52.120 Is that how you meant it? David? 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:54.960 You know it feels fine. After that first answer, she 0:12:55.000 --> 0:12:57.800 got up, Yeah. 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:02.200 Well she did answer that to quote, like send a 0:13:02.280 --> 0:13:06.600 quotation and it says, greed is a fat demon with 0:13:06.640 --> 0:13:10.040 a small mouth, and whatever you feed it, it's never enough. 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:11.559 Is that a comment? 0:13:12.000 --> 0:13:14.160 Does she call me? Does she just call me fat? 0:13:14.200 --> 0:13:17.640 I don't even know I've been greed. 0:13:17.840 --> 0:13:19.400 Greed is the fat demon, not you. 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:21.480 I feel like we're getting answers here. But we're not 0:13:21.600 --> 0:13:25.880 making progress. Like on either side. He still seems like. 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:28.400 I think the mom is just disappointed. 0:13:29.120 --> 0:13:31.120 What what's she disappointed about? I mean she has a 0:13:31.160 --> 0:13:32.240 lot more money than I do. 0:13:32.880 --> 0:13:40.320 I mean, your whole life provided for you. 0:13:40.440 --> 0:13:42.480 Still a little tense. Maybe things will get better. 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:44.400 I hope she puts that quote on her wall. 0:13:44.800 --> 0:13:54.319 Okay, next to love fan. Let's hopefully make the mood 0:13:54.320 --> 0:13:57.439 a little better with question three. It says, it's been 0:13:57.559 --> 0:14:00.760 three months and I haven't seen any money from the inheritance. 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:03.640 Are you blocking my inheritance? Or do you know what's 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.720 going on with it? So you you suspect your mom 0:14:06.800 --> 0:14:07.920 is the one that's blocking you. 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:10.200 I mean she's blocked me out of the house. 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:13.240 I thought we were doing this. So try to repair 0:14:13.280 --> 0:14:16.120 your relationship with your mother, David, not to attack her. 0:14:16.160 --> 0:14:17.160 Find out where your money is. 0:14:19.000 --> 0:14:21.600 Her. I'm asking, does she know anything about it? 0:14:21.760 --> 0:14:25.280 Yeah, he's quoting Rihanna, you better have my money. 0:14:25.360 --> 0:14:26.080 What did she say? 0:14:26.200 --> 0:14:29.720 You asked if she's blocking the inheritance, and she wrote 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:33.600 back the same quote as before, this time in all caps. 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:37.320 Greed is a fat demon with a small mouth, and 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:39.720 whatever you feed it, it's never enough. 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:41.120 Wow. 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:43.120 She's doubling to you. 0:14:43.080 --> 0:14:49.360 Guys for the help. Man, all I'm getting is bathroom quotes. You. Oh, 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.360 I think I should charge her for my school loans 0:14:51.400 --> 0:14:51.720 after this. 0:14:52.200 --> 0:14:55.640 Oh, that's a battle. Smooth things over house? 0:14:56.280 --> 0:14:59.200 Responsible for that, you know, I mean, we can't control 0:14:59.200 --> 0:15:01.760 how it sounds like you're turning into the little fat 0:15:01.760 --> 0:15:03.800 demon who's never never. 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:08.400 David answers question for with that quote. I don't know 0:15:08.440 --> 0:15:09.040 what the hell. 0:15:08.920 --> 0:15:12.560 We We made zero progress. We only have one question 0:15:12.640 --> 0:15:15.000 less but keeps getting worse. Maybe we should just get 0:15:15.000 --> 0:15:19.800 through it question four. Know we wrote. I know you're 0:15:19.800 --> 0:15:22.200 not talking to me right now, but I do regret 0:15:22.280 --> 0:15:23.200 how things went down. 0:15:23.320 --> 0:15:26.160 Mom, Okay a little remorse. 0:15:26.240 --> 0:15:28.400 Can I please call you so we can talk this 0:15:28.440 --> 0:15:32.400 thing out. Yes, that's great. That's a good Olive branch. 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:35.560 Yeah, I'm the only good person between us. 0:15:37.080 --> 0:15:39.360 I would have I would have recommended leading with that 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:42.520 question and then maybe taken out the first three. 0:15:42.840 --> 0:15:45.120 Yeah, I'll tell you, David, she didn't write back with 0:15:45.160 --> 0:15:49.480 the same quote. That's the good news. Yes, here's what 0:15:49.560 --> 0:15:52.920 she said, and I'll warn you it's a little bit shocking. 0:15:53.560 --> 0:15:53.840 David. 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:55.440 Are you ready for this? 0:15:57.000 --> 0:15:57.400 Let's go? 0:15:57.920 --> 0:16:02.640 She says, maybe you should call your grandpa instead. 0:16:03.280 --> 0:16:04.120 I thought he died. 0:16:05.760 --> 0:16:09.120 She says, he didn't really die, but he did want 0:16:09.160 --> 0:16:11.040 to test you, to see if you'd make the right 0:16:11.160 --> 0:16:15.280 choice and put your family first. 0:16:18.080 --> 0:16:18.920 Got to be a joke. 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:23.080 No, I'm serious, man, She says, you didn't, and now 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:27.440 we all know the answer. So you've been effectively removed 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:32.400 from Grandpa's will going forward. 0:16:32.720 --> 0:16:35.720 I don't believe that. I think she lost her mind. 0:16:35.800 --> 0:16:38.360 I'm telling you, I'm reading her her answers right here. 0:16:38.400 --> 0:16:41.240 She says, there's no money coming to you. If you're wondering, 0:16:41.480 --> 0:16:47.920 you reap what you sew. I don't know. 0:16:48.120 --> 0:16:50.080 We might have to throw her in a facility. I 0:16:50.080 --> 0:16:50.400 don't know. 0:16:53.200 --> 0:16:56.080 You don't have money to pay for a facility in 0:16:56.240 --> 0:16:56.680 your mind? 0:16:58.800 --> 0:17:01.560 Well, what's that called? When when the police just get her? Then, 0:17:01.560 --> 0:17:03.800 because we have to follow one. 0:17:03.800 --> 0:17:06.600 Really take your advice and call your grandpa and once 0:17:06.600 --> 0:17:09.720 he answers your tire. 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:14.320 I was like, why would a grandpa put that in 0:17:14.400 --> 0:17:17.720 a in a will? That's crazy, pretty it makes sense. 0:17:18.080 --> 0:17:20.080 I don't believe her, and I honestly, I don't think 0:17:20.080 --> 0:17:22.680 you guys should believe her. I think died and she's 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:24.720 just like holding on to my check at the house. 0:17:24.840 --> 0:17:29.520 Oh, make awkward Tuesday phone calls to South America. I 0:17:30.200 --> 0:17:31.160 want to call it Grandpa. 0:17:31.200 --> 0:17:33.359 I don't want to get any deeper involved into this 0:17:33.440 --> 0:17:37.680 family situation. It was messy, This was amazing. I hope 0:17:37.680 --> 0:17:39.600 it got you a little bit of closure there, David, 0:17:39.760 --> 0:17:40.960 don't I don't know. 0:17:40.920 --> 0:17:43.720 If it's I don't know, like I don't believe it. 0:17:43.800 --> 0:17:45.760 Make sure you keep in touch with us and let 0:17:45.800 --> 0:17:49.120 us know what happens with the Yeah, I guess say 0:17:49.280 --> 0:17:54.320 to your grandpa for us. 0:17:54.520 --> 0:17:55.160 Apologies. 0:17:55.320 --> 0:17:59.679 Yeah, that's your closure calls. It's Brooke and Jeffrey in the. 0:17:59.680 --> 0:18:05.640 Morning brooking Jeffrey in the morning. Man, That grandpa is genius. Yeah, honestly, 0:18:06.240 --> 0:18:08.399 I hope you enjoyed that closure call. We are getting 0:18:08.440 --> 0:18:11.720 tons of comments flooded, especially on our YouTube page. 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:14.800 Oh my gosh. Yeah, so many of you guys want 0:18:14.800 --> 0:18:17.760 to follow up, and we are with offer Tuesday another 0:18:17.880 --> 0:18:19.080 call something about it. 0:18:19.400 --> 0:18:21.480 That's a hard part of these follow ups is that 0:18:21.520 --> 0:18:23.919 people contact us for help and then we just have 0:18:24.000 --> 0:18:25.639 to hope that they get back to us. 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:29.960 I know, surprisingly we don't harass them. Yeah, week after 0:18:30.000 --> 0:18:31.600 week after we should know. 0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:35.600 Yeah, absolutely, he's going to be a little busy talking 0:18:35.600 --> 0:18:40.080